WEBVTT - Fear Is Not Your Friend

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect

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<v Speaker 1>Podcast Network and I heart radio. Hi, and welcome to

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<v Speaker 1>another episode of Reasonably Shaky. I am Gazelle Bryant, and

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna do that one more time because Robin's meant

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<v Speaker 1>fell out of her mouth. Okay, Hi, well, hello, welcome

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<v Speaker 1>to another episode of a reasonably Shaky. I am Gazelle Bryant.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up? What's up? And this is Robin Dixon. Thank

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<v Speaker 1>you once again for being here with us. Yes, we've

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<v Speaker 1>been rocking and rolling reasonably Shady straight we sure haven

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<v Speaker 1>This has been so fun because everyone is giving us

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<v Speaker 1>so much great feedback, which is just giving us so

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<v Speaker 1>much more motivation to keep it going. Yes, yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and and I'm loving the feedback, So keep it going people,

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<v Speaker 1>all right. So first and foremost, you know, we always

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<v Speaker 1>give our Reasonably Shady moment of the week. Robin, I

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<v Speaker 1>had a big one. What is it? Can't wait? What happened? Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>So to know me is to know that I hate

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<v Speaker 1>the dentist. Like hate the dentist. I know your father

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<v Speaker 1>was a dentist, and um, you know, so you were

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<v Speaker 1>around drilling. I guess you were around water pick teeth,

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<v Speaker 1>pick all that, all that stuff. Okay, So the drill

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<v Speaker 1>and just the thought of going to the dentist sends

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<v Speaker 1>me into major anxiety. I dream about it the night before.

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<v Speaker 1>I have nightmares about it the night before, and I

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<v Speaker 1>wake up like, oh my god, I don't want to go.

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<v Speaker 1>So by time I get there, my dentist, Marcus Tappened.

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<v Speaker 1>He's been with me for years. Yes, so he knows

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<v Speaker 1>my crazy, like he knows that Giselle cannot stay in

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<v Speaker 1>the sight of him. But I love him now. But

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<v Speaker 1>he probably, like most of his patients are probably like that. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So he I had to get a filling redone because

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<v Speaker 1>it was old, and he was like, I'm just gonna

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<v Speaker 1>give you gas him filling you needed gas for a filling?

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<v Speaker 1>What does that mean? Robbing? The robbing. As soon as

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<v Speaker 1>he turns on the drills at that moment, he said,

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<v Speaker 1>he said, I'm not dealing with you today. Yeah. So

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<v Speaker 1>he's like this out from the from the jump, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>giving you the gas. Okay. So gas is amazing. I

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<v Speaker 1>just want everyone to know it's amazing. So he gave

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<v Speaker 1>it to me and then like, you can kind of

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<v Speaker 1>control it. You can tell him if you want more,

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<v Speaker 1>or you can kind of say okay, I have enough,

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<v Speaker 1>they kind of cut off. So I was like, hi

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<v Speaker 1>as a kite, this this was like amazing, and you

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<v Speaker 1>felt really good. I felt like good about myself. I

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<v Speaker 1>felt like I could fly. I felt like I was

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<v Speaker 1>just like hovering over the entire earth. And it was

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<v Speaker 1>just it was how much did you ask him? For? Goodness?

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<v Speaker 1>They don't give you those pieces of information. They just

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<v Speaker 1>like put it on your nose and you keep it moving,

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<v Speaker 1>all right. So this is actually the shady moment is

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't want to go to a dentist, and I

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<v Speaker 1>hate him, Marcus Tapping, but I love you. The reasonable

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<v Speaker 1>moment is I love the gas. So if you ever go,

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<v Speaker 1>get the gas, even when you don't need it, even

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<v Speaker 1>when you don't need to, just get this, ask for

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<v Speaker 1>a gas. So my father, yes, was a dentist. And

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<v Speaker 1>because he was a dentist, and he would have so

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<v Speaker 1>many patients like you that were so scared. Anytime, like

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<v Speaker 1>when I went to get my wisdom teeth done, he

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<v Speaker 1>was like, you better not winch you better not wine,

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<v Speaker 1>you better not cry, because now he's punking you into submission.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, he was like, because you are patients.

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<v Speaker 1>When they're you know, screaming and stuff, they make our

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<v Speaker 1>jobs so much harder, so you better go in there

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<v Speaker 1>and go I don't want to hear you crap. I'm like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so yeah, I literally went and got you know, wisdom tea.

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<v Speaker 1>When people get their wisdom teeth out, they usually go

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<v Speaker 1>to sleep. Yes, yes, but my father didn't. He doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>really like, you know, you're going under for no reason.

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<v Speaker 1>So he's like, you're not going under, and you better

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<v Speaker 1>not crap. Better not. I don't want you. Better not

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<v Speaker 1>come lane, because thank god my father wasn't a dentist.

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<v Speaker 1>Say so, when I go to the dentist, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>I tough it out. I'm a soldier. You're a soldier. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a I'm a big punk, but I'm high. I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's good. So mine shady moment. Okay, nothing reasonable

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<v Speaker 1>about this goes to CVS. What happened at CBS. They

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<v Speaker 1>need to get their inventory management system corrected or just

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<v Speaker 1>throw it in the trash. Because so Carter got a

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<v Speaker 1>whole bunch of mosquito bites and there was this after

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<v Speaker 1>bite product that I wanted to get for him that

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<v Speaker 1>worked for me that a friend had had a bunch

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<v Speaker 1>of oscuter bites. You rub it on your mosquito bite

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<v Speaker 1>and you can't feel anymore. So I was like, oh

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<v Speaker 1>my gosh, like, let me go get him this after

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<v Speaker 1>bite product. So I went to CVS. I typed in

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<v Speaker 1>after bite. They had the product. I put in my

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<v Speaker 1>zip code to see who what stores had it. So

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<v Speaker 1>it was like, okay, this store has it. The store

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<v Speaker 1>this okay. I went to three stores that had it

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<v Speaker 1>on the website where it was in stock, and the

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<v Speaker 1>three stores none of them had it, and even to

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<v Speaker 1>the point where the third store I went to, So

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<v Speaker 1>the second store sent me to the third store because

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<v Speaker 1>they're like, oh yeah, they put into the oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>they have three. I'm like, okay, I go to the

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<v Speaker 1>third store. They do not have this product. So I

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<v Speaker 1>literally spent over an hour and a half driving around

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<v Speaker 1>that's insane, to three different CVS is for a product

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<v Speaker 1>that's on their website that says it's in stock in

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<v Speaker 1>those stores. And yeah, CVS do better, do better, And

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<v Speaker 1>y'all's inventory system is trash. But right, just start away, like,

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<v Speaker 1>don't even like because I think the problem is, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>people steal. Who's stealing? I'm the sea bite product. But

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<v Speaker 1>what is stealing have to do with it? Because then

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<v Speaker 1>their inventory system is not updated? Oh what I mean

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<v Speaker 1>in the sty But it's like, yeah, just don't even

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<v Speaker 1>just say you don't have it. Just don't even provide

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<v Speaker 1>an inventory system. There's that, and shorten the damn receipts.

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<v Speaker 1>Why is the receipts so long? I just don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to stay it. Just keep hunting, printing, and keep printing.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't use your cups. I don't use my cupons there?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, I don't. I don't. I don't use my cupons.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe I need to so I can save two Okay, alright,

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<v Speaker 1>But speaking of speaking of kind of like money, right,

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<v Speaker 1>So I went out with my girlfriend the other day

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<v Speaker 1>and we went to a place where you go up

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<v Speaker 1>to the counter and you order your food and then

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<v Speaker 1>then you get a little um number and you put

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<v Speaker 1>at your table and they bring new your food. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so she said, because I've been having trouble because I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like after the during the pandemic, the whole tipping

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<v Speaker 1>system got out of control. So she says, she's I

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<v Speaker 1>need rousing regulations. So if it's a place like this,

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<v Speaker 1>like you you walk up, you order your food, you

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<v Speaker 1>sit down. There's not a lot of services. She gives

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<v Speaker 1>ten percent. There's a white lady. So she put that

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<v Speaker 1>in perspective. Okay, look a little cheesy sometimes, as I

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<v Speaker 1>would say so, but she said, you know, if I

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<v Speaker 1>go to a restaurant and I get full service and

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<v Speaker 1>I give okay, but she said, you know, if I

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<v Speaker 1>just go buy something, I'm not tipping. I'm like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't have to tip if you're just going to buy,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, some toothpaste. Okay, Now I do feel like

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<v Speaker 1>everybody's asking for a tip? Is it just me? No? Right?

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<v Speaker 1>So it's like when So when it's a store like okay,

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<v Speaker 1>a sandwich place, right, And now they have those um

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<v Speaker 1>registers or point of sale systems that like you swipe

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<v Speaker 1>your car and they turn the screen to you and

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<v Speaker 1>it's like and it shows the cap the tip, like

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<v Speaker 1>do you want to tip? And it's like you feel like, wait,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm supposed to tip hair. This is like Starbucks or something,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean, Like you did nothing but

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<v Speaker 1>give me my sandwich, right, right, So it is like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>when should you When should you tip and when should

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<v Speaker 1>you not? Right? And like when is it okay to

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<v Speaker 1>not tip? Or okay? So right, like if it's just

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<v Speaker 1>a carry out place, right, like you have to I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like service me and I will tip you well, right,

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<v Speaker 1>but if there's no service involved, why am I tipping you? Right?

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<v Speaker 1>But even okay, so we don't tip it me Donalds

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<v Speaker 1>or Chick fil a? Right, why do we tip? Why

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<v Speaker 1>are we tipping at a sandwich spot? I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>but guess what the whole I need some rules and

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<v Speaker 1>regulations with this damn tipping because the tipping situation has

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<v Speaker 1>tipped over right, No, it's too much, It's it's like

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<v Speaker 1>it's all I mean, I I do try to if

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<v Speaker 1>if I see that little screen and it's like do

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<v Speaker 1>you want to tip? You know, and I'll be like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll probably give ten percent to the ten you give

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<v Speaker 1>the lowest, okay, or you can cust if they're not

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<v Speaker 1>like if it's carry out, or if they're not um,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, if they're not really like serving servicing me. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>if I'm like sitting down and they're waiting on me,

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<v Speaker 1>then I'll give or do you give eighteen? It's easier

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<v Speaker 1>to calculate. Yeah, I'm a twenty girl. I'm a twenty girl. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>speaking of things that I'm like disgusted with the disappoint Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>baby hair, I can't. I can't take it anymore because

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<v Speaker 1>you don't have it. I don't have any building hair, right,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't. I don't like I'm of the generation where

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<v Speaker 1>we like cut our baby hair off, right, so I

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<v Speaker 1>don't have any. But it's not even, it's not even.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't care if I don't have baby hair. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sick of looking at baby hair that's twirled around your

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<v Speaker 1>forehead and it's confused, right, people, It's like you can

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<v Speaker 1>just like you can put a weave in your hair,

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<v Speaker 1>now you can put baby hair on your head. And

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<v Speaker 1>why would you want that? Right? I don't know. It

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<v Speaker 1>looks silly to me. It looks it's distracting. It's distracting.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm confused. I don't know what's happening. I want to

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<v Speaker 1>know who is actually um who actually started this? Like

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<v Speaker 1>we made this? Okay? Like are we that board? Are

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<v Speaker 1>we that board with like just looking like a you know,

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<v Speaker 1>having a regular hairstyle. Let me put some baby here,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, right? Is it? I mean, they'll go like

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<v Speaker 1>all your forehead and like twirl it around around. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>don't laugh at me when one day I show up

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<v Speaker 1>with some baby here, I'm gonna talk about you real badna.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna talk about now. Don't get me wrong. It's

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<v Speaker 1>just clearly for the young people and young people rock

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<v Speaker 1>out because you all are very creative and y'all do

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<v Speaker 1>all kinds of nonsense that I would never do. But

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<v Speaker 1>at some point, a I mean, I just see what

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<v Speaker 1>recently the other day at the basketball game? What was

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<v Speaker 1>what's the what's the name Keisha? Yes, yes, yes, she

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<v Speaker 1>had she had a whole situation. She had a what

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<v Speaker 1>do you call it? A crooked road on her forehead.

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<v Speaker 1>It was Now do you think so? Was that actual

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<v Speaker 1>that was like drawn on? It? Was that her actual hair?

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<v Speaker 1>It was? It was it was baby hair tattoos, baby

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<v Speaker 1>hair tattoos. So I feel like, okay, or is it

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<v Speaker 1>we've tattoo? I feel like I saw this products like

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<v Speaker 1>on Instagram and I thought it was a joke. Kesha

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<v Speaker 1>didn't think it was a joke. She said, I'm I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a stick that thing on my forehead go out in public.

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<v Speaker 1>It's it's kind of like, I just want people to

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<v Speaker 1>look at me like it's not like like I think

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<v Speaker 1>this is Cardi BEA's fault, didn't she is? She's a

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<v Speaker 1>queen of baby Hare nonsense. I don't know. Okay, it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's sweetie, it's all. It's all of these young teams

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<v Speaker 1>that's over our head. Yeah, this is I'm too old

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<v Speaker 1>for this, but you know some I'm sick of it.

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<v Speaker 1>So can we just put our hair back? Please? Can

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<v Speaker 1>we just? I'm just I want to say your hair

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<v Speaker 1>to see everyone's nice, pretty face, Yes, show me your face.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't show me twirls on your forehead. I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to see twirls now. Oh my gosh. All right, speaking

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<v Speaker 1>of people being upset in these streets, by the way,

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<v Speaker 1>what we're doing right now? I was talking about these streets. Okay. So,

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<v Speaker 1>and this is my guy, you know, Deon Sandwich is

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<v Speaker 1>my guy. Oh, he's your guy. I mean he's my

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<v Speaker 1>I mean he's my owlash. Not no, he's something like

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<v Speaker 1>guy like that meaning I know Dion right, Okay, Yes, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>he's your homie. He's my homie. He's my homie. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>So I know he's extra, but he's normally like on

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<v Speaker 1>the right side of right, right, Okay, So we all

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<v Speaker 1>know he's like now a head coach of Jacksonville's Jacksonville State,

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<v Speaker 1>Jacksonville State, which is awesome because it's like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a black college and he has decided that that's

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<v Speaker 1>what he wants to do with his time in his life,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, he's a Hall of Famer. Has he

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<v Speaker 1>been in the Hall of Fame, he's probably if he's not,

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<v Speaker 1>he's going to be. Okay, anyways, it's inevitable. So we

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<v Speaker 1>love Dion's he's he's coaching up black college. And he

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<v Speaker 1>was pressed time and the white man said, hey, Dion

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<v Speaker 1>started asking a question. Dion said, I don't think you

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<v Speaker 1>should refer to me that way because I'm a coach

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<v Speaker 1>and if it was somebody else, she was saying coach,

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<v Speaker 1>and the guy said, okay, deon Dion. Dion said, f

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<v Speaker 1>you ain't where you came from. Well, he didn't say that,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying that, and he like moved on to the

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<v Speaker 1>next like as he should. Then he leave. Then he

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<v Speaker 1>could leave. He I think he went to the next

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<v Speaker 1>press person. I think I think or he just hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I was just wondering if you could. Oh, let's back

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<v Speaker 1>up a little bit. You don't go Nick saving Nick,

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<v Speaker 1>don't call be Dion. Okay, you don't know, you don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't. That's a lot you called Nick Nick. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>you get custed out on the spot. So don't do

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<v Speaker 1>that to me. Treat me like ck um um. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not mad at him for that, not because no one

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<v Speaker 1>would call you know um Okay, So like, let's see

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<v Speaker 1>who are these great football Urban Meyer. They're not gonna

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<v Speaker 1>say hey Urban, say coach or coach Meyer or you know,

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<v Speaker 1>Mike said coach k coach. Yeah. But you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like, Okay, at Maryland, I feel like a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of people did call Gary Williams Gary. But but

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<v Speaker 1>if you ask for that respect, then it should be given.

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<v Speaker 1>That's true, And especially when is no slouch and he's

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<v Speaker 1>doing great things right now, it's like, just call me coach.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I am. I've earned it, right And I

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<v Speaker 1>think for for professional athletes who are now coaches and

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<v Speaker 1>you don't want it's one of them. Part of the

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<v Speaker 1>um one of the part of some of the hurdles

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<v Speaker 1>they face is actually being taken seriously as a coach

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<v Speaker 1>because people want to look at them like, oh, you're

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<v Speaker 1>just an athlete. You just think that you can be

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<v Speaker 1>a coach president athletes, and so like they have to

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<v Speaker 1>prove themselves. So it's like, no, you need to give

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<v Speaker 1>me there with the same respect. Just because you knew

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<v Speaker 1>me as a player, that doesn't mean that you can't

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<v Speaker 1>give me the respect as a coach. So so does

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<v Speaker 1>everyone call Wine coach? Um? You know, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you role play and become a cheerleader and then

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<v Speaker 1>you call him coach and then things happen in the bedroom.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just asking the people want to know all the time,

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<v Speaker 1>all the time, Yes, Robin and Wan coaching cheerleader. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm the coach and he's the cheering No. No, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>envisioning him with the skirt onder the strong one that

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<v Speaker 1>puts him up in the air. I freaking love this. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>the visual um, But but again, Dione, we love you.

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<v Speaker 1>You're doing great things and keep doing what you're doing.

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<v Speaker 1>Coach prime. But you know what with one, he makes

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<v Speaker 1>sure like all the time to not even just for himself.

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<v Speaker 1>He refers to all of his coaches as coach all

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<v Speaker 1>the time, so they all have that at least amongst

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<v Speaker 1>his coaching staff. They have that mutual respect, so you

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<v Speaker 1>know everything. They're on the phone all the time and

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<v Speaker 1>it's always like coach, coach, coachy. So I just think,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, if it's if it's something that you ingrain

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<v Speaker 1>in the people around you, then then everyone else around

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<v Speaker 1>you just has has no choice but to fall in

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<v Speaker 1>live Now, I like that now Lebron is breaking was

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<v Speaker 1>it not breaking news? He's breaking bank accounts these days

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<v Speaker 1>the stratosphere. I mean, so he's the first to do

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<v Speaker 1>what now, be a billionaire athlete while he's still playing.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's okay, because so who would be close to him? Jordan,

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<v Speaker 1>Michael Jordan's right, but Michael probably wouldn't didn't even reach

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<v Speaker 1>that status until years later because of Jordan brand with Nike,

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<v Speaker 1>with Nike, and I mean, the the salaries in the

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<v Speaker 1>NBA are just like off the charts now starting a

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<v Speaker 1>good way, in a bad way, in an awesome way. Okay, good,

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<v Speaker 1>good good. So he's what's do we know what? Like

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<v Speaker 1>around about what he's making for the in the league

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<v Speaker 1>from the league like forty million this year, just like

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<v Speaker 1>for one year. Like they're like he might get like

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<v Speaker 1>one year forty million lies you tell I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>that sounds like I'm making that up, but I really

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<v Speaker 1>think that's like, Okay, so where is he getting his

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<v Speaker 1>money from. He's getting his money from what so Nike?

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<v Speaker 1>So when he first entered the league, he has like

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<v Speaker 1>he's had you know, he probably has over like thirteen

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<v Speaker 1>Lebron shoes through Nikes, getting a ton of money from Nike. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>and he has like multiple businesses, like he's got a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of He's gotten into film and TV production, um

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<v Speaker 1>that he's gotten to he has like a sports agency,

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<v Speaker 1>right right, Okay, just a yeah. So what I love

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<v Speaker 1>about it is it is a motivation for these young Okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I was right. For his most recent season, he earned

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<v Speaker 1>thirty nine million dollars. So, Lebron, we just googled you

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<v Speaker 1>and google what your salary is from the league and

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<v Speaker 1>it's listed, Like, how do you feel about that? That's

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<v Speaker 1>gotta like be weird? Here? Care? Yeah, he's ok he's

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<v Speaker 1>what doesn't care? I mean all those salaries are pretty

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<v Speaker 1>much the pretty much. I don't know how. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know where people can get information, but you, Lebron, We're

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<v Speaker 1>not going to hear about Lebron going broke, no better,

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<v Speaker 1>We're not going to hear about that. And and what

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<v Speaker 1>I what I do love is again he's a role

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<v Speaker 1>model for these young kids coming in the league and

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<v Speaker 1>and we've all unfortunately heard seeing the horror stories of

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<v Speaker 1>them blowing their money. Um so for them to be

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<v Speaker 1>able to see an existing player parlay the money into

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<v Speaker 1>you know, a million different things and streams, it's just mean.

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<v Speaker 1>And he created jobs for his homeboys, like his boys

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<v Speaker 1>that were like always around you know when he was

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<v Speaker 1>coming up and in high school, like he they're rich

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<v Speaker 1>because of Lebron, like you know, not just because he's

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<v Speaker 1>like he does. He's not handing money out. He's creating

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<v Speaker 1>jobs for them, which is like awesome, but it's and

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<v Speaker 1>it's so cool to see like someone like Lebron who

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<v Speaker 1>you know, let he could live off of his NBA salary.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, he could feed a whole village off his

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<v Speaker 1>NBA salary for years and years and years, but he

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<v Speaker 1>didn't limit himself just to that. Yes, yes, no, I

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<v Speaker 1>love that. But speaking who doesn't have um some income

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<v Speaker 1>on a monthly basis is doctor Dre who was just

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<v Speaker 1>told by the judge you've got to give her as

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<v Speaker 1>in your ex wife three h k a month, three hundred,

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<v Speaker 1>but I need to finish reading the article, he said

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<v Speaker 1>he was he actually felt good about that. So clearly

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<v Speaker 1>felt good about three k a month a month. Clearly

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<v Speaker 1>he's got plenty of money coming in for the judge

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<v Speaker 1>to determine that he needs to give her that much.

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<v Speaker 1>So that equals out to like three point six million

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<v Speaker 1>a year. Yes, Robin can do math very quickly. If

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<v Speaker 1>you don't know, he makes thirty five million a year. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so she's getting ten percent of his of his yearly

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<v Speaker 1>income and he's making Okay, he's making thirty five million

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<v Speaker 1>a year from beats from his music, from a bunch

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<v Speaker 1>of stuff, a bunch of stuff. Yeah, I guess, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it's crazy. It's like people like that. He's

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<v Speaker 1>just like moving in silence, like but yeah, no, he's no.

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<v Speaker 1>We know Dred dr J is getting it and we

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<v Speaker 1>know that. In my mind, I feel like, why don't

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<v Speaker 1>you just write her a big check and be done

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<v Speaker 1>with it because that money can accrue interest in his accounts.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I don't know, Okay. So when I

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<v Speaker 1>was going through a divorce, there was my my lawyer

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<v Speaker 1>was telling me that, um, there's a law or or

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<v Speaker 1>a mandate or something that states that you have to

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<v Speaker 1>pay you if this is alimon, you have to pay

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<v Speaker 1>the person in a check or um some sort of

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<v Speaker 1>like a check or bank wire or something. It's listed.

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<v Speaker 1>Because there was a man that we used to pay

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<v Speaker 1>his wife in um pennies and literally he would drop

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<v Speaker 1>pennies of however much he owed her at her front

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<v Speaker 1>door month. Oh my god, So that is petty. That

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<v Speaker 1>that's called of petty, that is penny petty. And so

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<v Speaker 1>you know, they informed me that if I ever got alimony,

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<v Speaker 1>it would not be in pennies. Yes, it would be

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<v Speaker 1>in a form of a chick. Okay, it's hilarious. But

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<v Speaker 1>I'm three hundred thousand a month though, Yeah, but what if? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so that's state by state. The penny rule is state

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<v Speaker 1>by state. So what if in l A it's not

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<v Speaker 1>a mandate and he can give her three hundred thousand

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<v Speaker 1>dollars and pennies? Would that be not crazy? Yeah? That

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<v Speaker 1>would be ridiculous. Talk about may that would be like

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<v Speaker 1>you have to back up a truck for that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's crazy, that's crazy. Anyway, I'm just happy she's getting

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<v Speaker 1>whatever she feels like she deserves, and you know, let

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<v Speaker 1>them part in peace. And I'm sure she deserves it.

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<v Speaker 1>Haven't they been together like she She's been with them

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<v Speaker 1>for twenty some years, So she deserves it, That's what

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<v Speaker 1>I say. Yeah, if he's making thirty five million, and

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<v Speaker 1>if and if she was used to a lifestyle like

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<v Speaker 1>she deserves it. Yeah, temper cent. She deserves more than that.

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<v Speaker 1>But like she's getting tide right, So imagine, Okay, if

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<v Speaker 1>he makes thirty five million a year and the judges like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you're paying her ten per cent. That's better than him

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<v Speaker 1>paying her half. True, I'm not mad at so he

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<v Speaker 1>came up. Now listen, we are for those of you

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<v Speaker 1>all who doomed to know. Reasonably Shady is on the

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<v Speaker 1>black Effect platform, and the person that is all running

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<v Speaker 1>that platform is Charlemagne, the god who we absolutely loves.

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<v Speaker 1>And so he just landed a new late night talk

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<v Speaker 1>show on Comedy Central. I absolutely love it, Um, Charlemagne.

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<v Speaker 1>If you don't know this, I'm funny. The sound of

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<v Speaker 1>the round of applause sound effect. Hey, so Charlotte may

0:21:52.200 --> 0:21:54.840
<v Speaker 1>you're funny. Yeah, Reasonly Shady wants to be at some

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<v Speaker 1>point on this what is it about? Like, okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>it's on Comedy Central, Yes, So is it to be

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<v Speaker 1>centered around comedy? Well, yeah, no, I thought that was

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<v Speaker 1>a given. I don't know. Okay, but I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what's gonna happen. But it's it's inc

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<v Speaker 1>it's done. The deal is done. So we are very

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<v Speaker 1>excited about a really busy man. He's gonna be very

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<v Speaker 1>busy and ain't nothing. I love seeing our people come up.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you remember when Chloe kardashian't have to talk show? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I do. That didn't last very long. It didn't. It

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<v Speaker 1>was it was I didn't I didn't feel like it

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<v Speaker 1>was given the right platform. I think she's up big

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<v Speaker 1>enough personality that she could handle it, but I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>think the platform is right. I heard that she said

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<v Speaker 1>it was like a lot more work than she thought

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<v Speaker 1>it was going to be, and she just so she

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<v Speaker 1>just didn't want to work that her. Charlemagne, we don't

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<v Speaker 1>want you to give up on your talk show until

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<v Speaker 1>Robin and Iran the end. All right, we're moving on. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So a couple other things I would like to talk

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<v Speaker 1>about because it's happening in these streets. Is you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we have gone through a lot in the past year

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<v Speaker 1>and a half with this COVID situation, and that Dr

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<v Speaker 1>Fouch he is like he's probably tired. He didn't have

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<v Speaker 1>enough and he was like testifying in front of Congress.

0:23:09.680 --> 0:23:12.119
<v Speaker 1>So he was being asked crazy, asked questions by that

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<v Speaker 1>Paul ran Rampaul. I can't get his I think it's

0:23:17.080 --> 0:23:20.200
<v Speaker 1>rand Paul and foul. She like started moving his neck

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<v Speaker 1>like a like a black woman. He started moving his

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<v Speaker 1>neck to the side. He said, let me tell you something.

0:23:24.560 --> 0:23:26.560
<v Speaker 1>So when he started moving his neck, I said, oh, ship,

0:23:26.680 --> 0:23:28.720
<v Speaker 1>how don't you got some black in him? I said,

0:23:28.760 --> 0:23:31.439
<v Speaker 1>oh my god. So then he started moving his neck

0:23:31.480 --> 0:23:33.879
<v Speaker 1>and he was lying. What you won't do it is

0:23:33.920 --> 0:23:36.119
<v Speaker 1>say I'm lying, and you ain't even going to imply.

0:23:36.240 --> 0:23:38.680
<v Speaker 1>And the person that's lying right now is you. Did

0:23:38.680 --> 0:23:41.080
<v Speaker 1>he say that? Is that word for word? It's pretty

0:23:41.119 --> 0:23:44.680
<v Speaker 1>much verbatim. It is pretty much because he's oh, he

0:23:44.720 --> 0:23:48.800
<v Speaker 1>came for him the senator pool. You do not know

0:23:48.880 --> 0:23:51.600
<v Speaker 1>what you are talking about, quite frankly, and I want

0:23:51.600 --> 0:23:55.320
<v Speaker 1>to say that officially, you do not know what you

0:23:55.400 --> 0:23:59.760
<v Speaker 1>are talking about, and you are employing that what we

0:24:00.040 --> 0:24:04.920
<v Speaker 1>did was responsible for the deaths of individual I totally resented.

0:24:05.359 --> 0:24:08.960
<v Speaker 1>And if anybody is lying here, Senator, it is you.

0:24:10.800 --> 0:24:13.720
<v Speaker 1>So ryand Paul and Paul Ran whatever his name is.

0:24:13.880 --> 0:24:17.560
<v Speaker 1>He started like I'm in and he started like stuttering

0:24:17.640 --> 0:24:21.119
<v Speaker 1>like yeah, and I was like, Foulchi get his ass,

0:24:21.640 --> 0:24:24.639
<v Speaker 1>get him, get in all of them. Anyone that is

0:24:24.680 --> 0:24:26.920
<v Speaker 1>trying to give foul. She pushed back on his job

0:24:27.080 --> 0:24:30.080
<v Speaker 1>is listening, moron, You're an anyot. This man has been

0:24:30.080 --> 0:24:33.720
<v Speaker 1>doing this for like forty years, moron, And like, hello,

0:24:33.960 --> 0:24:36.439
<v Speaker 1>we're trying to get through this pandemic. We're not trying

0:24:36.520 --> 0:24:39.480
<v Speaker 1>to have a repeat now. We're not now, not at all.

0:24:39.640 --> 0:24:42.479
<v Speaker 1>I don't even want to get into like the wise, Like,

0:24:42.520 --> 0:24:45.439
<v Speaker 1>but what is the issue right now? Why does it

0:24:45.480 --> 0:24:49.280
<v Speaker 1>feel like a certain part of the um world is

0:24:49.280 --> 0:24:51.080
<v Speaker 1>trying or not world, but certain part of the country

0:24:51.200 --> 0:24:54.200
<v Speaker 1>is trying to tell people not to get the vaccine.

0:24:54.200 --> 0:24:56.200
<v Speaker 1>I don't know what's wrong with these people, because again,

0:24:56.280 --> 0:24:58.840
<v Speaker 1>we can all get vaccines, So like, I don't what

0:24:59.000 --> 0:25:01.320
<v Speaker 1>is behind that. I don't know understand the goal because

0:25:01.359 --> 0:25:04.080
<v Speaker 1>it's like, okay, don't you know, like if you're encouraging

0:25:04.119 --> 0:25:06.640
<v Speaker 1>your people not to get the vaccine, then they might

0:25:06.720 --> 0:25:10.840
<v Speaker 1>get sick, and then your people will will might not

0:25:10.880 --> 0:25:13.159
<v Speaker 1>be here, so like you're not helping your case. I

0:25:13.200 --> 0:25:16.240
<v Speaker 1>don't understand. I don't don't understand. And there's new variants,

0:25:16.240 --> 0:25:17.840
<v Speaker 1>and I think that's also what they were talking about.

0:25:17.840 --> 0:25:20.480
<v Speaker 1>There's new variants out there. And Fauci is like even

0:25:20.520 --> 0:25:25.040
<v Speaker 1>more pressed about everybody getting vaccinated. And he again he

0:25:25.160 --> 0:25:27.640
<v Speaker 1>is a black woman inside of him, because he started

0:25:27.680 --> 0:25:29.720
<v Speaker 1>moving his head to the left and to the right,

0:25:30.280 --> 0:25:32.600
<v Speaker 1>and he said, what you won't do. It's called me

0:25:32.640 --> 0:25:38.040
<v Speaker 1>a liar. And I said, okay, I need to look Okay,

0:25:38.160 --> 0:25:40.280
<v Speaker 1>So so Robin, I know we want to talk about

0:25:40.320 --> 0:25:42.160
<v Speaker 1>Erica Jane a little bit. By the way, Erica Jane

0:25:42.240 --> 0:25:45.520
<v Speaker 1>is on the Real Housewives of Beverly Hills. We absolutely

0:25:45.560 --> 0:25:48.119
<v Speaker 1>love her. It's been a lot that has happened on

0:25:48.160 --> 0:25:50.520
<v Speaker 1>that show, and I'm not up to date, but I

0:25:50.560 --> 0:25:57.720
<v Speaker 1>know you're up to date. Yes, Okay, So the latest episode, um, gosh, okay,

0:25:57.720 --> 0:26:02.960
<v Speaker 1>they were like, oh wait, like, how mansion somewhere somewhere

0:26:03.280 --> 0:26:07.080
<v Speaker 1>one of Kyle's mansions. Okay, um, and Eric comes late.

0:26:07.119 --> 0:26:10.040
<v Speaker 1>I guess they had some sort of court deposition and

0:26:10.600 --> 0:26:15.359
<v Speaker 1>Erica starts like sharing more about what's going on, and

0:26:16.080 --> 0:26:18.240
<v Speaker 1>she's pretty much I mean, she comes in, she's like

0:26:18.280 --> 0:26:20.679
<v Speaker 1>you can see that she's just defeated, like this whole

0:26:20.760 --> 0:26:25.080
<v Speaker 1>situation with her husband, um, you know, being sued for

0:26:25.280 --> 0:26:28.040
<v Speaker 1>millions of dollars and pretty much running a Ponzi scheme

0:26:28.119 --> 0:26:32.360
<v Speaker 1>and not paying his his clients the money that they're owed. Um,

0:26:32.440 --> 0:26:35.480
<v Speaker 1>and now it's like carrying over into her life. It's

0:26:35.520 --> 0:26:39.439
<v Speaker 1>like totally defeating her. From what I've read kind of

0:26:39.440 --> 0:26:41.919
<v Speaker 1>on social media, like people kind of still think that

0:26:42.000 --> 0:26:45.640
<v Speaker 1>she's lying, that she knew that he was stealing from

0:26:45.680 --> 0:26:48.240
<v Speaker 1>his clients and she's just not saying it is that

0:26:48.320 --> 0:26:50.040
<v Speaker 1>was that was that was thin. So I think there's

0:26:50.080 --> 0:26:52.480
<v Speaker 1>like a couple of different things that they think she's

0:26:52.520 --> 0:26:54.439
<v Speaker 1>lying about. Some people think that she just knew the

0:26:54.440 --> 0:26:57.679
<v Speaker 1>whole time all along, and which I don't believe, like

0:26:57.720 --> 0:26:59.960
<v Speaker 1>because like I believe that because she she's pretty m

0:27:00.040 --> 0:27:03.080
<v Speaker 1>is paying the picture like I was just the wife

0:27:03.160 --> 0:27:05.440
<v Speaker 1>and he was the powerful husband, like you know, he

0:27:05.920 --> 0:27:09.119
<v Speaker 1>didn't allow me into like anything, you know, they went

0:27:09.200 --> 0:27:11.520
<v Speaker 1>on business and I believe that, um, and he's you know,

0:27:11.600 --> 0:27:14.439
<v Speaker 1>very controlling, and she almost makes it seem like she

0:27:14.600 --> 0:27:18.200
<v Speaker 1>literally like had outside of the money that he would

0:27:18.200 --> 0:27:20.320
<v Speaker 1>give her. Like she has no money for her of

0:27:20.359 --> 0:27:21.960
<v Speaker 1>her own, you know what I mean? Like she has

0:27:22.040 --> 0:27:28.119
<v Speaker 1>no she had no say no, like no insight onlieve

0:27:28.200 --> 0:27:31.399
<v Speaker 1>that that which is like so like you know it's crazy,

0:27:31.440 --> 0:27:34.080
<v Speaker 1>like because no matter how rich your husband is, please

0:27:34.200 --> 0:27:37.200
<v Speaker 1>just control what's going right, Be aware of the money,

0:27:37.200 --> 0:27:38.919
<v Speaker 1>Be aware of the bank account. Make sure you have

0:27:39.040 --> 0:27:41.960
<v Speaker 1>your own stash. Now I didn't set it to everybody,

0:27:42.119 --> 0:27:44.639
<v Speaker 1>right exactly have you? I mean you're gonna have a

0:27:44.720 --> 0:27:47.840
<v Speaker 1>joint account and then you have your own account right right.

0:27:47.880 --> 0:27:50.919
<v Speaker 1>You don't need to know about it. Absolutely, just stack

0:27:51.000 --> 0:27:53.080
<v Speaker 1>your money. Absolutely. And my grandmother used to tell me

0:27:53.119 --> 0:27:57.600
<v Speaker 1>that not your grandmother, grandmother, my grand like your grandmother's name.

0:27:58.640 --> 0:28:01.600
<v Speaker 1>Juliette was dropping something not what I was like ten,

0:28:01.680 --> 0:28:05.439
<v Speaker 1>and I'm like what did she say? Have your own money, baby,

0:28:05.800 --> 0:28:08.760
<v Speaker 1>make sure that you have your own money. She would

0:28:08.760 --> 0:28:10.399
<v Speaker 1>tell me. I would be like ten, and I'm like,

0:28:10.480 --> 0:28:14.159
<v Speaker 1>I think you only I was dropping some purls to

0:28:14.359 --> 0:28:18.080
<v Speaker 1>miss her. Um so anyway, so like people think she's lying,

0:28:18.320 --> 0:28:20.960
<v Speaker 1>Like so she's like sharing all this information and she

0:28:21.040 --> 0:28:25.080
<v Speaker 1>said Tom got in a car accident. He was unconscious

0:28:25.119 --> 0:28:27.000
<v Speaker 1>for twelve hours and she found one the side of

0:28:27.000 --> 0:28:29.719
<v Speaker 1>the road and then she said he was that This

0:28:29.760 --> 0:28:31.520
<v Speaker 1>word got a little weird because I feel like she

0:28:31.600 --> 0:28:34.480
<v Speaker 1>was saying, like he was in this car accident, he

0:28:34.520 --> 0:28:39.560
<v Speaker 1>was unconscious, which led to his like neuro degenerative problems.

0:28:40.080 --> 0:28:43.800
<v Speaker 1>Is that what I'm inter He supposedly has um dementia, right,

0:28:43.880 --> 0:28:46.720
<v Speaker 1>so now that so so I feel like she was implying, like, Okay,

0:28:46.720 --> 0:28:48.760
<v Speaker 1>this car accident has led to like, you know, his

0:28:48.960 --> 0:28:50.880
<v Speaker 1>neuro problems. And oh, one of the things that I

0:28:50.920 --> 0:28:52.959
<v Speaker 1>thought sounded kind of fits she was like, she was like,

0:28:53.520 --> 0:28:57.000
<v Speaker 1>you know, I left because this was a couple episodes.

0:28:57.040 --> 0:28:59.680
<v Speaker 1>I left because he just wouldn't get help. You could

0:28:59.680 --> 0:29:01.840
<v Speaker 1>tell his hearing was, you know, going bad, and the

0:29:01.920 --> 0:29:03.640
<v Speaker 1>sight was going bad, and I would tell him get help,

0:29:03.640 --> 0:29:06.640
<v Speaker 1>and he would just you know, push back and reject me.

0:29:06.680 --> 0:29:09.240
<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, that's not that's get a divorce. Yeah,

0:29:09.240 --> 0:29:11.600
<v Speaker 1>that's not when you leave. That's when I helped him out, right,

0:29:11.680 --> 0:29:14.000
<v Speaker 1>That's when you realize he's a little getting a little

0:29:14.000 --> 0:29:17.440
<v Speaker 1>bit older. So I think people, I think people don't

0:29:17.440 --> 0:29:20.680
<v Speaker 1>really believe the reason for the divorce, like for her leaving,

0:29:21.080 --> 0:29:24.600
<v Speaker 1>like I think people think she's divorcing him because she

0:29:24.640 --> 0:29:28.920
<v Speaker 1>wants to separate herself financially from all this legal mess

0:29:29.960 --> 0:29:32.080
<v Speaker 1>you know that's going down with him, and that's what

0:29:32.120 --> 0:29:35.600
<v Speaker 1>she should say, right. I feel like I would be like, look,

0:29:35.720 --> 0:29:38.800
<v Speaker 1>I heard something don't sound right and he's not being open,

0:29:38.880 --> 0:29:40.800
<v Speaker 1>and I'm out. I don't want to be implicated in

0:29:40.800 --> 0:29:44.520
<v Speaker 1>any of this. But now it's like, so, I think

0:29:44.560 --> 0:29:47.400
<v Speaker 1>that's where people are conflicted, because I do feel that

0:29:47.440 --> 0:29:50.520
<v Speaker 1>she's struggling, and I don't believe she knew what he

0:29:50.600 --> 0:29:53.960
<v Speaker 1>was doing, but I do think that when she got

0:29:53.960 --> 0:29:55.680
<v Speaker 1>wind of it, when she got wind of like all

0:29:55.680 --> 0:29:58.760
<v Speaker 1>the legal problems he was having this financial troubles, that's

0:29:58.800 --> 0:30:01.160
<v Speaker 1>when she was like, I got I have to separate myself.

0:30:03.000 --> 0:30:05.480
<v Speaker 1>So it's it's you gotta watch an episode. Imagine to

0:30:05.520 --> 0:30:08.400
<v Speaker 1>be in that kind of position in which you really

0:30:08.440 --> 0:30:13.560
<v Speaker 1>didn't have any financial hold on the marriage, right your

0:30:13.640 --> 0:30:16.840
<v Speaker 1>husband is making all kinds of katrians of dollars and

0:30:16.880 --> 0:30:23.320
<v Speaker 1>then you realize he's stealing it from people. That sucks. Yeah,

0:30:23.360 --> 0:30:25.360
<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't want to be in that position. Yeah, And

0:30:25.400 --> 0:30:27.240
<v Speaker 1>so I mean, and she's just like, you know, you

0:30:27.240 --> 0:30:31.440
<v Speaker 1>can see who your friends are when you broke. Yes, Yes,

0:30:31.960 --> 0:30:33.920
<v Speaker 1>yeah I was. I was broken eighty two and I

0:30:33.960 --> 0:30:40.040
<v Speaker 1>had no friends. No, I'm kidding. Okay, So we're gonna

0:30:40.040 --> 0:30:44.080
<v Speaker 1>pray for Erica. Yes, And I do feel like, um,

0:30:44.120 --> 0:30:46.200
<v Speaker 1>social media is being a little shady, So social media

0:30:46.280 --> 0:30:49.200
<v Speaker 1>give her a break. Just give her it is. I

0:30:49.240 --> 0:30:52.360
<v Speaker 1>think people because she's so like like ice cold, kind

0:30:52.400 --> 0:30:54.840
<v Speaker 1>of like she's not she's not very emotional. I think

0:30:54.840 --> 0:30:58.760
<v Speaker 1>people just want to see her like really, they want

0:30:58.760 --> 0:31:02.440
<v Speaker 1>to feel that she's really league genuine, genuine. But I

0:31:02.480 --> 0:31:04.960
<v Speaker 1>just think that's just her, you know what I mean,

0:31:05.000 --> 0:31:07.680
<v Speaker 1>Like she's not going to be like but she's gonna

0:31:07.760 --> 0:31:09.760
<v Speaker 1>like you know, I mean, she has some tears coming

0:31:09.800 --> 0:31:12.640
<v Speaker 1>down and the mass gara running down her face, but

0:31:12.800 --> 0:31:16.720
<v Speaker 1>she's still Her delivery is very it's very like stoic,

0:31:17.720 --> 0:31:19.480
<v Speaker 1>you know. And I think people want to see her

0:31:19.560 --> 0:31:22.920
<v Speaker 1>just like have a fit and fall out and just

0:31:23.160 --> 0:31:31.720
<v Speaker 1>you know, curl up into a ball and cry. Lord okay,

0:31:31.800 --> 0:31:33.040
<v Speaker 1>let me let me. Let me tell you what I

0:31:33.040 --> 0:31:36.000
<v Speaker 1>was watching the other day because it struck me. I

0:31:36.080 --> 0:31:40.280
<v Speaker 1>was watching Naomi Osako's Netflix documentary. It's like a three

0:31:40.360 --> 0:31:44.320
<v Speaker 1>or four parter. I didn't see it. She is it

0:31:44.440 --> 0:31:46.840
<v Speaker 1>just came out, just came out, and she I wanted

0:31:46.880 --> 0:31:49.680
<v Speaker 1>to get to know all about her because she's intriguing

0:31:49.720 --> 0:31:52.720
<v Speaker 1>to me. And now we're coming to the title of

0:31:52.800 --> 0:31:55.720
<v Speaker 1>this episode, which is called Fear is Not Your Friend.

0:31:56.520 --> 0:31:59.400
<v Speaker 1>Fear It's not your friend. No it's not. It's paralyzing,

0:31:59.520 --> 0:32:03.160
<v Speaker 1>Yes it is. Okay. So in two thousand eighteen, and

0:32:03.200 --> 0:32:05.160
<v Speaker 1>I think I got my my years straight, I'm not

0:32:05.160 --> 0:32:09.960
<v Speaker 1>really good with um dates. She was winning everything, okay, Okay,

0:32:10.200 --> 0:32:12.000
<v Speaker 1>she was beating the ship out of Coco, like she

0:32:12.120 --> 0:32:15.520
<v Speaker 1>brought Coco to tears. Um. That was the time I

0:32:15.520 --> 0:32:18.360
<v Speaker 1>think you remember that she allowed Coco she wanted to

0:32:18.360 --> 0:32:20.960
<v Speaker 1>do the interview afterwards with her. It was very moving,

0:32:21.320 --> 0:32:24.880
<v Speaker 1>so they did. They did the post um match interview together,

0:32:25.200 --> 0:32:27.920
<v Speaker 1>which normally you don't do. She was on top of

0:32:27.920 --> 0:32:30.240
<v Speaker 1>her game. She won the Grand Slam. She was amazing. Okay.

0:32:31.640 --> 0:32:37.120
<v Speaker 1>Then she said that that the fact that she was

0:32:37.160 --> 0:32:42.360
<v Speaker 1>trying to get there was her motivation. So after she

0:32:42.480 --> 0:32:46.280
<v Speaker 1>became number one in the world, there was no more

0:32:46.320 --> 0:32:50.760
<v Speaker 1>motivation for her. So that messed with her head. Okay,

0:32:50.800 --> 0:32:54.240
<v Speaker 1>so we can all kind of understand that, right, And

0:32:54.280 --> 0:32:56.520
<v Speaker 1>then the whole Black Lives matter. Things started happening and

0:32:56.560 --> 0:32:59.240
<v Speaker 1>the world started changing, and you know, we had George

0:32:59.240 --> 0:33:02.280
<v Speaker 1>Floyd and Brian the Tailor, and you know, we had

0:33:02.320 --> 0:33:04.280
<v Speaker 1>Trayvon Martin and all these things. And she was like

0:33:04.400 --> 0:33:08.200
<v Speaker 1>so conflicted about what's going on in this world and

0:33:08.320 --> 0:33:11.640
<v Speaker 1>was scared fear to talk about it. She was scared

0:33:11.680 --> 0:33:13.920
<v Speaker 1>to give her opinion about how she felt about what's

0:33:13.960 --> 0:33:18.080
<v Speaker 1>going on in this world. And that paralyzed her tennis

0:33:18.080 --> 0:33:22.200
<v Speaker 1>game because she didn't feel like she was being herself

0:33:22.440 --> 0:33:25.959
<v Speaker 1>and she wasn't really standing on her own convictions. So

0:33:26.000 --> 0:33:28.640
<v Speaker 1>she was getting into matches and losing, like they were

0:33:28.680 --> 0:33:31.440
<v Speaker 1>like wiping the floor with her. And I was like, girl,

0:33:31.480 --> 0:33:34.560
<v Speaker 1>get it together. I'm on episode three and I'm talking

0:33:34.560 --> 0:33:38.520
<v Speaker 1>to her. I'm like so like, so I think two

0:33:38.520 --> 0:33:41.720
<v Speaker 1>thousand nineteen, two thousand and twenty, No, it had to

0:33:41.760 --> 0:33:45.160
<v Speaker 1>be two thousand nineteen. She was losing, Okay, So she

0:33:45.320 --> 0:33:48.080
<v Speaker 1>wiped the floor with Coco and eighteen and Coco beat

0:33:48.120 --> 0:33:52.600
<v Speaker 1>her in nineteen. Okay, Okay. So then she realized, you

0:33:52.640 --> 0:33:57.560
<v Speaker 1>know what, I can't be scared to speak up. I

0:33:57.560 --> 0:33:59.600
<v Speaker 1>can't be scared to really talk about because you have

0:33:59.680 --> 0:34:02.600
<v Speaker 1>to keep them on. Her mother is Japanese. Her father

0:34:02.840 --> 0:34:07.800
<v Speaker 1>is Haitian, so this whole Black Lives matter really affects

0:34:07.800 --> 0:34:10.560
<v Speaker 1>her and when she can really identify with it, so

0:34:10.600 --> 0:34:12.120
<v Speaker 1>she's like, look at here, we're going to the to

0:34:12.160 --> 0:34:14.640
<v Speaker 1>the Friend of the US Open. I'm gonna wear the mask.

0:34:14.880 --> 0:34:16.200
<v Speaker 1>You know what the people's names on it? Do you

0:34:16.239 --> 0:34:19.200
<v Speaker 1>all remember that? So she had seven of them laid

0:34:19.200 --> 0:34:21.959
<v Speaker 1>out on her bed because it was like seven people

0:34:22.000 --> 0:34:23.680
<v Speaker 1>she really wanted to bring light to. So it was

0:34:23.719 --> 0:34:27.160
<v Speaker 1>like George Floord, Brianna, Traylon Martin for others, I can't

0:34:27.200 --> 0:34:31.800
<v Speaker 1>remember um. And so the commentators and the dumbass pressed

0:34:31.840 --> 0:34:34.919
<v Speaker 1>people were all like, sell, how many mans she got?

0:34:35.280 --> 0:34:37.280
<v Speaker 1>She was like, I have seven because there's seven rounds,

0:34:38.719 --> 0:34:40.120
<v Speaker 1>and she was like, I want to be able to

0:34:40.120 --> 0:34:42.359
<v Speaker 1>wear all my all my masks. I mean, she has

0:34:42.400 --> 0:34:44.759
<v Speaker 1>to win every round. So that was her motivation, and

0:34:44.800 --> 0:34:47.720
<v Speaker 1>she was finally like, I'm stepping out of my fear

0:34:47.760 --> 0:34:52.359
<v Speaker 1>game and I am comfortable with how I feel about

0:34:52.400 --> 0:34:54.640
<v Speaker 1>what's going on in the world, and this is I'm

0:34:54.719 --> 0:34:57.080
<v Speaker 1>using my platform to speak on it. And she was

0:34:57.160 --> 0:35:00.719
<v Speaker 1>killing everybody. She was demolishing people to right and I

0:35:00.760 --> 0:35:02.960
<v Speaker 1>was like, go now you want me go go now yo,

0:35:03.080 --> 0:35:08.319
<v Speaker 1>my god. So then, um, long story short, she won

0:35:09.200 --> 0:35:13.120
<v Speaker 1>and it was all in that fear was paralyzing her.

0:35:13.320 --> 0:35:16.080
<v Speaker 1>So let's be clear, fear is not your friend. So

0:35:16.120 --> 0:35:20.840
<v Speaker 1>then it made me think of my daughter, Grace. I

0:35:20.920 --> 0:35:24.520
<v Speaker 1>want you all to know. Grace is now employed. She's

0:35:24.560 --> 0:35:29.480
<v Speaker 1>in the streets with a job. Yes, what kind of job?

0:35:29.680 --> 0:35:33.040
<v Speaker 1>What is she doing? She works at the smoothie place

0:35:33.120 --> 0:35:36.960
<v Speaker 1>down the street. Okay, okay, she works at the yogurt nonsense, okay,

0:35:37.000 --> 0:35:39.440
<v Speaker 1>all right, but she's very excited about her job. Okay, okay,

0:35:39.920 --> 0:35:41.520
<v Speaker 1>So let me tell you how she got her job.

0:35:41.560 --> 0:35:42.920
<v Speaker 1>So she walked in there one day. We go there

0:35:42.920 --> 0:35:44.880
<v Speaker 1>all the time, and she was like, she talked to

0:35:45.040 --> 0:35:47.760
<v Speaker 1>someone and she was like, oh, this place is so cool.

0:35:48.120 --> 0:35:50.960
<v Speaker 1>I wonder if I could work here something. And the

0:35:51.040 --> 0:35:53.279
<v Speaker 1>lady happened to be the manager. The manager gave her

0:35:53.320 --> 0:35:55.560
<v Speaker 1>her card and was like, you know, give me a call.

0:35:55.719 --> 0:35:58.480
<v Speaker 1>So Grace texted her or something, and then the lady said,

0:35:58.520 --> 0:36:00.960
<v Speaker 1>you have an interview. So Grace was like, man, I

0:36:01.000 --> 0:36:03.800
<v Speaker 1>got an interview. I said, okay, let's go. So we

0:36:03.880 --> 0:36:05.440
<v Speaker 1>go to the place for the interview, and that thing

0:36:05.480 --> 0:36:07.960
<v Speaker 1>didn't want to get out of the car. She was like,

0:36:11.160 --> 0:36:13.040
<v Speaker 1>she was shaking her head, like I can't do this.

0:36:13.640 --> 0:36:18.000
<v Speaker 1>I was like, Grace, you're going there and you're gonna

0:36:18.040 --> 0:36:19.879
<v Speaker 1>talk to the lady and you're gonna tell her that

0:36:19.960 --> 0:36:22.920
<v Speaker 1>you're wonderful. Okay, So she was I said okay. So

0:36:22.920 --> 0:36:25.120
<v Speaker 1>we went over like some quick stage questions that I

0:36:25.120 --> 0:36:27.719
<v Speaker 1>have gone through when I was interviewing a hundred years ago,

0:36:28.239 --> 0:36:30.640
<v Speaker 1>and I was like, this is what your answers are, right,

0:36:30.640 --> 0:36:33.480
<v Speaker 1>So we rolled played and I was like go and

0:36:33.560 --> 0:36:38.120
<v Speaker 1>she was like and I'm I'm having a hard time

0:36:38.160 --> 0:36:41.480
<v Speaker 1>believing that one of your children. Yes, she was nervous

0:36:41.520 --> 0:36:44.400
<v Speaker 1>and scared. She was she that fear was like taking

0:36:44.400 --> 0:36:47.080
<v Speaker 1>her over. Wow. So then I said, get out my

0:36:47.160 --> 0:36:50.719
<v Speaker 1>damn car, right, just get out. So she got out

0:36:50.760 --> 0:36:53.000
<v Speaker 1>the car, her sisters run the back. Her sisters got

0:36:53.000 --> 0:36:54.960
<v Speaker 1>out and was like hugging her like she was going

0:36:55.000 --> 0:36:58.600
<v Speaker 1>off to war. I was like, this is just dramatic

0:36:58.719 --> 0:37:01.600
<v Speaker 1>and stupid. So she goes in there and like ten

0:37:01.640 --> 0:37:03.879
<v Speaker 1>minutes later she's texting me talking about she got the job.

0:37:05.960 --> 0:37:08.360
<v Speaker 1>This is this. We were a fear factor over the

0:37:08.480 --> 0:37:13.280
<v Speaker 1>yogurt spot up the street. But my point is so

0:37:13.360 --> 0:37:16.239
<v Speaker 1>much paralyzed as people, and they don't want to move

0:37:16.280 --> 0:37:18.040
<v Speaker 1>forward all based off of fear and it's all in

0:37:18.080 --> 0:37:22.799
<v Speaker 1>your head. Absolutely, yeah, absolutely, I mean what okay, so

0:37:22.800 --> 0:37:25.359
<v Speaker 1>so great and I'm like, so surprised that Grace, Yeah,

0:37:25.680 --> 0:37:27.719
<v Speaker 1>any type of fear. She's probably mad that I'm telling

0:37:27.719 --> 0:37:29.799
<v Speaker 1>the story because you know, to know my child great.

0:37:29.920 --> 0:37:31.759
<v Speaker 1>She's like, oh, you can't tell her. Not that she's

0:37:31.800 --> 0:37:37.960
<v Speaker 1>the baddest thing that scared confessional. Yes, she's She's made

0:37:37.960 --> 0:37:41.280
<v Speaker 1>a debut on the Real Housewives at Potomac um. But

0:37:41.280 --> 0:37:43.120
<v Speaker 1>but you know, there's been so many times. And I

0:37:43.440 --> 0:37:47.359
<v Speaker 1>can remember when um I was starting Potomac season one.

0:37:47.400 --> 0:37:49.040
<v Speaker 1>Before we started, I told him, I was like, Hey,

0:37:49.040 --> 0:37:51.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna do this show whatever, and he was like,

0:37:51.040 --> 0:37:54.480
<v Speaker 1>just how you know, I just really I'm concerned. I

0:37:54.520 --> 0:37:59.359
<v Speaker 1>was like, what's your concern? This fool says um I

0:37:59.400 --> 0:38:05.000
<v Speaker 1>think no one gonna like you. Well he said it

0:38:05.040 --> 0:38:07.480
<v Speaker 1>in a nice way, meaning that you can't say that

0:38:07.520 --> 0:38:09.280
<v Speaker 1>in a nice well he did. He was like, meaning,

0:38:09.320 --> 0:38:13.880
<v Speaker 1>you're beautiful, you have a strong personality that can be

0:38:13.920 --> 0:38:17.880
<v Speaker 1>taken any kind of way. So but that got that

0:38:17.920 --> 0:38:20.000
<v Speaker 1>messed with my head and I thought about it a lot.

0:38:21.360 --> 0:38:23.040
<v Speaker 1>I did. I didn't talk about it. I didn't talk

0:38:23.040 --> 0:38:24.200
<v Speaker 1>about it, but I thought about it the light of

0:38:24.239 --> 0:38:28.239
<v Speaker 1>my own private moments. Okay, it didn't stop me from

0:38:28.280 --> 0:38:30.400
<v Speaker 1>being me because that's just who I am, but it

0:38:30.560 --> 0:38:34.520
<v Speaker 1>made me feel a sense of fear about doing what

0:38:34.560 --> 0:38:37.200
<v Speaker 1>I was doing and being me. And I never want

0:38:37.200 --> 0:38:41.160
<v Speaker 1>to be fearful about just being me. So take that, Jamal,

0:38:41.360 --> 0:38:44.759
<v Speaker 1>take it right. Because people love me, thank you, season six,

0:38:44.800 --> 0:38:49.840
<v Speaker 1>and they love me everybody, everybody. Not everybody loves me

0:38:49.840 --> 0:38:52.680
<v Speaker 1>to get horrible d ms, but some people love me,

0:38:53.560 --> 0:38:57.480
<v Speaker 1>so you know, it's funny. So I, um, I have

0:38:57.760 --> 0:39:03.360
<v Speaker 1>a mentality air in my head. I'm just like nobody's perfect.

0:39:04.120 --> 0:39:07.239
<v Speaker 1>So if I go into this and I, you know,

0:39:07.320 --> 0:39:09.760
<v Speaker 1>fall flat on my face or a mess up or whatever,

0:39:09.880 --> 0:39:12.719
<v Speaker 1>then like so be it souf like that. So I

0:39:12.800 --> 0:39:16.920
<v Speaker 1>never really like let fear paralyzed me from like doing

0:39:17.000 --> 0:39:19.880
<v Speaker 1>something which is like very weird because I am I

0:39:19.880 --> 0:39:22.759
<v Speaker 1>would consider myself an introvert. But when it comes time

0:39:22.800 --> 0:39:24.600
<v Speaker 1>to like do something in front of people, like I

0:39:24.640 --> 0:39:28.399
<v Speaker 1>have no problems doing it, but I do, I would

0:39:28.440 --> 0:39:33.400
<v Speaker 1>say a time when I would feel a little bit uncomfortable. Um,

0:39:33.440 --> 0:39:36.560
<v Speaker 1>I was doing some like real estate seminars like speaking

0:39:36.920 --> 0:39:39.040
<v Speaker 1>because I was doing real estate investing as my real

0:39:39.120 --> 0:39:42.000
<v Speaker 1>estate mentor would have seminar when you are flipping houses,

0:39:43.239 --> 0:39:45.600
<v Speaker 1>and he would invite me to speak to the audience

0:39:45.920 --> 0:39:49.960
<v Speaker 1>and myself myselves very attractive guys. It's just f y.

0:39:50.040 --> 0:39:52.080
<v Speaker 1>I yes, he won't ask me out on a date,

0:39:52.080 --> 0:39:56.160
<v Speaker 1>but he's very attractive. Okay, anyway, moving on. So so yeah,

0:39:56.200 --> 0:39:59.680
<v Speaker 1>So even though I have the mentality like Okay, if

0:39:59.680 --> 0:40:01.520
<v Speaker 1>I mess that my speech, I can just be like,

0:40:01.560 --> 0:40:04.040
<v Speaker 1>oh I lost my trainers, lot, let me start over,

0:40:04.080 --> 0:40:06.560
<v Speaker 1>you know whatever, Like I still would sit there, like

0:40:07.560 --> 0:40:10.040
<v Speaker 1>knowing he was about to call me on stage with

0:40:10.160 --> 0:40:13.960
<v Speaker 1>like butterflies in my stomach and realizing like okay, I

0:40:13.960 --> 0:40:20.080
<v Speaker 1>can't turn around now, like no, it's too late, or

0:40:20.120 --> 0:40:21.799
<v Speaker 1>I'd be like why did I agree to do this?

0:40:22.280 --> 0:40:25.120
<v Speaker 1>Why I want to go home? But but the thing

0:40:25.200 --> 0:40:26.880
<v Speaker 1>is like once I feel like with most people, it's

0:40:26.920 --> 0:40:28.759
<v Speaker 1>like once you just like put one ft in front

0:40:28.800 --> 0:40:32.160
<v Speaker 1>of the other and you start like talking or doing,

0:40:32.600 --> 0:40:34.840
<v Speaker 1>then it's kind of like that you just release that

0:40:34.880 --> 0:40:38.640
<v Speaker 1>nervousness said anxiousness. But but for the most part, like

0:40:38.719 --> 0:40:41.080
<v Speaker 1>even like you know, when people have weddings and they're

0:40:41.120 --> 0:40:43.919
<v Speaker 1>like the bride is like so nervous and worried about

0:40:43.960 --> 0:40:46.879
<v Speaker 1>everything being perfect. Like I you know, if I ever

0:40:46.920 --> 0:40:49.920
<v Speaker 1>give someone advice, like before wedding, I said, look, don't

0:40:49.960 --> 0:40:54.000
<v Speaker 1>worry about what goes wrong during your wedding. You're the

0:40:54.040 --> 0:40:56.880
<v Speaker 1>only person that really knows what's supposed to happen to

0:40:57.080 --> 0:41:00.480
<v Speaker 1>your wedding. So if like, if like the song doesn't

0:41:00.560 --> 0:41:03.600
<v Speaker 1>play at the right time, nobody's really going to know that,

0:41:03.640 --> 0:41:05.120
<v Speaker 1>and they're not going to sit there and be like,

0:41:05.239 --> 0:41:11.359
<v Speaker 1>oh my god, Katie's wedding was horrible because because her

0:41:11.400 --> 0:41:13.719
<v Speaker 1>song played five seconds later than it should have been.

0:41:14.080 --> 0:41:16.960
<v Speaker 1>So I just feel like sometimes people like overthink stuff

0:41:17.640 --> 0:41:20.440
<v Speaker 1>when really it's like we're all human where all we

0:41:20.520 --> 0:41:23.719
<v Speaker 1>all make mistakes. And I think what makes people more

0:41:23.760 --> 0:41:26.839
<v Speaker 1>like comfortable and relatable to one another is when they

0:41:26.880 --> 0:41:30.480
<v Speaker 1>feel like the other people in the room are being human. Yes,

0:41:30.800 --> 0:41:33.799
<v Speaker 1>you know, when people try to act perfect child that

0:41:33.840 --> 0:41:37.839
<v Speaker 1>don't work. That's really problematic for me, like because I'm

0:41:37.880 --> 0:41:41.799
<v Speaker 1>just like I know my ships think like like yes,

0:41:41.920 --> 0:41:47.640
<v Speaker 1>unfortunately I've smelled no. But I mean you're you're absolutely right,

0:41:47.640 --> 0:41:50.279
<v Speaker 1>like you you you have to be yourself right, But

0:41:50.440 --> 0:41:52.720
<v Speaker 1>it's it's okay, like being able to laugh at yourself,

0:41:53.120 --> 0:41:55.319
<v Speaker 1>Like it's actually really important that you're able to laugh

0:41:55.320 --> 0:41:58.440
<v Speaker 1>at yourself if you mess up, if you fall, if

0:41:58.480 --> 0:42:01.120
<v Speaker 1>you trip in front of people, like laugh at yourself

0:42:01.520 --> 0:42:07.960
<v Speaker 1>because it's funny, and don't be don't buy into fear,

0:42:08.440 --> 0:42:11.080
<v Speaker 1>like let that thing go, breathe it out, take that

0:42:11.120 --> 0:42:13.000
<v Speaker 1>first step, like you said, you gotta take that first

0:42:13.000 --> 0:42:17.319
<v Speaker 1>step and everything will work out. Um. So yeah, fear

0:42:17.360 --> 0:42:18.799
<v Speaker 1>is not your friend. Don't let it be your friend.

0:42:19.200 --> 0:42:20.600
<v Speaker 1>Don't talk to that thing. But you know what, it's

0:42:20.600 --> 0:42:23.120
<v Speaker 1>funny when you were saying, they only like she she

0:42:23.239 --> 0:42:24.919
<v Speaker 1>was winning and she was kind of like at the

0:42:25.040 --> 0:42:27.160
<v Speaker 1>at the top of her game, and then she felt

0:42:27.320 --> 0:42:29.440
<v Speaker 1>that it was almost like maybe the pressure to like

0:42:29.520 --> 0:42:32.880
<v Speaker 1>continue that like cause that fear. Um, I've kind of

0:42:32.960 --> 0:42:35.680
<v Speaker 1>experienced it and I kind of like share this on

0:42:35.719 --> 0:42:37.440
<v Speaker 1>the season, so I don't want to give up too much.

0:42:37.440 --> 0:42:39.680
<v Speaker 1>But like in the in my business, which I've had

0:42:39.719 --> 0:42:42.839
<v Speaker 1>a lot of success with um and belish like I

0:42:42.880 --> 0:42:47.560
<v Speaker 1>actually have gone through that emotion of you know, I've

0:42:48.440 --> 0:42:51.800
<v Speaker 1>had a lot of success with the business and now

0:42:52.320 --> 0:42:54.120
<v Speaker 1>you know, fear sets in of like Okay, how do

0:42:54.200 --> 0:42:57.400
<v Speaker 1>I keep up that success got it or not wanting

0:42:57.440 --> 0:42:59.959
<v Speaker 1>to fail, not wanting to like fall from my face.

0:43:00.040 --> 0:43:03.200
<v Speaker 1>So does it make you Is it to the place

0:43:03.239 --> 0:43:06.760
<v Speaker 1>where you're like talking yourself out of growing at times?

0:43:08.360 --> 0:43:12.160
<v Speaker 1>It's definitely a process. It's a process that you go through. Okay, yeah,

0:43:12.400 --> 0:43:14.759
<v Speaker 1>so you understand Naomi struggle. Oh yeah, I understand that.

0:43:14.800 --> 0:43:16.640
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'm not sure I didn't want like a

0:43:17.040 --> 0:43:19.080
<v Speaker 1>US open or nothing, but yes you did. In the

0:43:19.080 --> 0:43:22.319
<v Speaker 1>hat world, you want embellished on a US open. Yes,

0:43:22.600 --> 0:43:25.279
<v Speaker 1>yes it did. But but I can see I mean

0:43:25.280 --> 0:43:28.239
<v Speaker 1>my little right, I can relate a little bit. Yes, yes,

0:43:28.800 --> 0:43:30.920
<v Speaker 1>but but Robin, I'm here to tell you, fear is

0:43:30.960 --> 0:43:33.520
<v Speaker 1>not your friend. I know. Yes, it's gonna get you nowhere,

0:43:33.560 --> 0:43:35.080
<v Speaker 1>It's gonna get you know where. You You gotta you

0:43:35.120 --> 0:43:37.120
<v Speaker 1>gotta make it happen, and you have to show that

0:43:37.239 --> 0:43:38.560
<v Speaker 1>just one foot in front of the the other and you

0:43:38.600 --> 0:43:41.880
<v Speaker 1>can water really change your life. Right. Yeah. Because I

0:43:41.920 --> 0:43:43.840
<v Speaker 1>didn't have the fear of starting the business. It was

0:43:43.920 --> 0:43:46.799
<v Speaker 1>just once the business, you know, achieve success, It's like

0:43:46.880 --> 0:43:49.360
<v Speaker 1>the fear setting of like, Okay, how do I maintain

0:43:49.400 --> 0:43:51.840
<v Speaker 1>it and even continue to grow it. That's where the

0:43:51.880 --> 0:43:54.120
<v Speaker 1>fear kind of like started sitting like, oh, and then

0:43:54.120 --> 0:44:00.200
<v Speaker 1>it it's paralyzing. Yes, yes, yes, indeed, yes, all right,

0:44:00.239 --> 0:44:03.880
<v Speaker 1>I believe that is our show today. Um, and I

0:44:03.920 --> 0:44:08.480
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