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Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect

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Speaker 1: Podcast Network and I heart radio. Hi, and welcome to

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Speaker 1: another episode of Reasonably Shaky. I am Gazelle Bryant, and

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Speaker 1: we're gonna do that one more time because Robin's meant

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Speaker 1: fell out of her mouth. Okay, Hi, well, hello, welcome

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Speaker 1: to another episode of a reasonably Shaky. I am Gazelle Bryant.

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Speaker 1: What's up? What's up? And this is Robin Dixon. Thank

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Speaker 1: you once again for being here with us. Yes, we've

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Speaker 1: been rocking and rolling reasonably Shady straight we sure haven

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Speaker 1: This has been so fun because everyone is giving us

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Speaker 1: so much great feedback, which is just giving us so

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Speaker 1: much more motivation to keep it going. Yes, yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: and and I'm loving the feedback, So keep it going people,

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Speaker 1: all right. So first and foremost, you know, we always

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Speaker 1: give our Reasonably Shady moment of the week. Robin, I

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Speaker 1: had a big one. What is it? Can't wait? What happened? Okay?

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Speaker 1: So to know me is to know that I hate

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Speaker 1: the dentist. Like hate the dentist. I know your father

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Speaker 1: was a dentist, and um, you know, so you were

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Speaker 1: around drilling. I guess you were around water pick teeth,

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Speaker 1: pick all that, all that stuff. Okay, So the drill

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Speaker 1: and just the thought of going to the dentist sends

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Speaker 1: me into major anxiety. I dream about it the night before.

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Speaker 1: I have nightmares about it the night before, and I

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Speaker 1: wake up like, oh my god, I don't want to go.

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Speaker 1: So by time I get there, my dentist, Marcus Tappened.

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Speaker 1: He's been with me for years. Yes, so he knows

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Speaker 1: my crazy, like he knows that Giselle cannot stay in

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Speaker 1: the sight of him. But I love him now. But

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Speaker 1: he probably, like most of his patients are probably like that. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So he I had to get a filling redone because

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Speaker 1: it was old, and he was like, I'm just gonna

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Speaker 1: give you gas him filling you needed gas for a filling?

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Speaker 1: What does that mean? Robbing? The robbing. As soon as

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Speaker 1: he turns on the drills at that moment, he said,

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Speaker 1: he said, I'm not dealing with you today. Yeah. So

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Speaker 1: he's like this out from the from the jump, I'm

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Speaker 1: giving you the gas. Okay. So gas is amazing. I

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Speaker 1: just want everyone to know it's amazing. So he gave

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Speaker 1: it to me and then like, you can kind of

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Speaker 1: control it. You can tell him if you want more,

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Speaker 1: or you can kind of say okay, I have enough,

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Speaker 1: they kind of cut off. So I was like, hi

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Speaker 1: as a kite, this this was like amazing, and you

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Speaker 1: felt really good. I felt like good about myself. I

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Speaker 1: felt like I could fly. I felt like I was

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Speaker 1: just like hovering over the entire earth. And it was

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Speaker 1: just it was how much did you ask him? For? Goodness?

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Speaker 1: They don't give you those pieces of information. They just

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Speaker 1: like put it on your nose and you keep it moving,

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Speaker 1: all right. So this is actually the shady moment is

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Speaker 1: I didn't want to go to a dentist, and I

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Speaker 1: hate him, Marcus Tapping, but I love you. The reasonable

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Speaker 1: moment is I love the gas. So if you ever go,

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Speaker 1: get the gas, even when you don't need it, even

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Speaker 1: when you don't need to, just get this, ask for

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Speaker 1: a gas. So my father, yes, was a dentist. And

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Speaker 1: because he was a dentist, and he would have so

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Speaker 1: many patients like you that were so scared. Anytime, like

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Speaker 1: when I went to get my wisdom teeth done, he

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Speaker 1: was like, you better not winch you better not wine,

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Speaker 1: you better not cry, because now he's punking you into submission.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, he was like, because you are patients.

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Speaker 1: When they're you know, screaming and stuff, they make our

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Speaker 1: jobs so much harder, so you better go in there

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Speaker 1: and go I don't want to hear you crap. I'm like, okay,

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Speaker 1: so yeah, I literally went and got you know, wisdom tea.

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Speaker 1: When people get their wisdom teeth out, they usually go

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Speaker 1: to sleep. Yes, yes, but my father didn't. He doesn't

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Speaker 1: really like, you know, you're going under for no reason.

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Speaker 1: So he's like, you're not going under, and you better

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Speaker 1: not crap. Better not. I don't want you. Better not

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Speaker 1: come lane, because thank god my father wasn't a dentist.

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Speaker 1: Say so, when I go to the dentist, I'm like,

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Speaker 1: I tough it out. I'm a soldier. You're a soldier. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I'm a I'm a big punk, but I'm high. I

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Speaker 1: think it's good. So mine shady moment. Okay, nothing reasonable

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Speaker 1: about this goes to CVS. What happened at CBS. They

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Speaker 1: need to get their inventory management system corrected or just

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Speaker 1: throw it in the trash. Because so Carter got a

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Speaker 1: of oscuter bites. You rub it on your mosquito bite

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Speaker 1: my gosh, like, let me go get him this after

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Speaker 1: bite product. So I went to CVS. I typed in

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Speaker 1: after bite. They had the product. I put in my

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Speaker 1: it was like, okay, this store has it. The store

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Speaker 1: this okay. I went to three stores that had it

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Speaker 1: on the website where it was in stock, and the

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Speaker 1: three stores none of them had it, and even to

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Speaker 1: the second store sent me to the third store because

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Speaker 1: they're like, oh yeah, they put into the oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's insane, to three different CVS is for a product

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Speaker 1: that's on their website that says it's in stock in

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Speaker 1: those stores. And yeah, CVS do better, do better, And

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Speaker 1: y'all's inventory system is trash. But right, just start away, like,

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Speaker 1: don't even like because I think the problem is, you know,

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Speaker 1: people steal. Who's stealing? I'm the sea bite product. But

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Speaker 1: what is stealing have to do with it? Because then

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Speaker 1: their inventory system is not updated? Oh what I mean

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Speaker 1: in the sty But it's like, yeah, just don't even

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Speaker 1: an inventory system. There's that, and shorten the damn receipts.

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Speaker 1: Why is the receipts so long? I just don't want

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Speaker 1: to stay it. Just keep hunting, printing, and keep printing.

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Speaker 1: You don't use your cups. I don't use my cupons there?

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, I don't. I don't. I don't use my cupons.

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Speaker 1: Maybe I need to so I can save two Okay, alright,

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Speaker 1: But speaking of speaking of kind of like money, right,

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Speaker 1: So I went out with my girlfriend the other day

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Speaker 1: to the counter and you order your food and then

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Speaker 1: then you get a little um number and you put

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Speaker 1: at your table and they bring new your food. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so she said, because I've been having trouble because I

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Speaker 1: feel like after the during the pandemic, the whole tipping

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Speaker 1: need rousing regulations. So if it's a place like this,

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Speaker 1: like you you walk up, you order your food, you

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Speaker 1: sit down. There's not a lot of services. She gives

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Speaker 1: I give okay, but she said, you know, if I

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Speaker 1: just go buy something, I'm not tipping. I'm like, well,

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Speaker 1: you don't have to tip if you're just going to buy,

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Speaker 1: you know, some toothpaste. Okay, Now I do feel like

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Speaker 1: everybody's asking for a tip? Is it just me? No? Right?

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Speaker 1: So it's like when So when it's a store like okay,

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Speaker 1: a sandwich place, right, And now they have those um

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Speaker 1: registers or point of sale systems that like you swipe

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Speaker 1: it's like and it shows the cap the tip, like

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Speaker 1: do you want to tip? And it's like you feel like, wait,

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Speaker 1: I'm supposed to tip hair. This is like Starbucks or something,

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like you did nothing but

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Speaker 1: give me my sandwich, right, right, So it is like, okay,

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Speaker 1: when should you When should you tip and when should

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Speaker 1: you not? Right? And like when is it okay to

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Speaker 1: feel like service me and I will tip you well, right,

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Speaker 1: but if there's no service involved, why am I tipping you? Right?

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Speaker 1: But even okay, so we don't tip it me Donalds

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Speaker 1: or Chick fil a? Right, why do we tip? Why

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Speaker 1: are we tipping at a sandwich spot? I don't know,

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Speaker 1: tipped over right, No, it's too much, It's it's like

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Speaker 1: it's all I mean, I I do try to if

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Speaker 1: if I see that little screen and it's like do

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Speaker 1: I'll probably give ten percent to the ten you give

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Speaker 1: like if it's carry out, or if they're not um,

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Speaker 1: then I'll give or do you give eighteen? It's easier

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Speaker 1: to calculate. Yeah, I'm a twenty girl. I'm a twenty girl. Okay,

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Speaker 1: speaking of things that I'm like disgusted with the disappoint Okay,

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Speaker 1: baby hair, I can't. I can't take it anymore because

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Speaker 1: I don't. I don't like I'm of the generation where

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Speaker 1: don't have any. But it's not even, it's not even.

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Speaker 1: I don't care if I don't have baby hair. I'm

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Speaker 1: sick of looking at baby hair that's twirled around your

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Speaker 1: forehead and it's confused, right, people, It's like you can

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Speaker 1: just like you can put a weave in your hair,

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Speaker 1: why would you want that? Right? I don't know. It

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Speaker 1: looks silly to me. It looks it's distracting. It's distracting.

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Speaker 1: I'm confused. I don't know what's happening. I want to

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Speaker 1: know who is actually um who actually started this? Like

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Speaker 1: we made this? Okay? Like are we that board? Are

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Speaker 1: we that board with like just looking like a you know,

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Speaker 1: all right, right? Is it? I mean, they'll go like

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Speaker 1: all your forehead and like twirl it around around. Now,

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Speaker 1: with some baby here, I'm gonna talk about you real badna.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna talk about now. Don't get me wrong. It's

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Speaker 1: just clearly for the young people and young people rock

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Speaker 1: out because you all are very creative and y'all do

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Speaker 1: all kinds of nonsense that I would never do. But

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Speaker 1: at some point, a I mean, I just see what

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Speaker 1: recently the other day at the basketball game? What was

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Speaker 1: what's the what's the name Keisha? Yes, yes, yes, she

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Speaker 1: had she had a whole situation. She had a what

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Speaker 1: do you call it? A crooked road on her forehead.

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Speaker 1: It was Now do you think so? Was that actual

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Speaker 1: that was like drawn on? It? Was that her actual hair?

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Speaker 1: It was? It was it was baby hair tattoos, baby

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Speaker 1: hair tattoos. So I feel like, okay, or is it

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Speaker 1: we've tattoo? I feel like I saw this products like

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Speaker 1: on Instagram and I thought it was a joke. Kesha

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Speaker 1: didn't think it was a joke. She said, I'm I'm

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Speaker 1: a stick that thing on my forehead go out in public.

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Speaker 1: It's it's kind of like, I just want people to

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Speaker 1: busy and ain't nothing. I love seeing our people come up.

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00:22:20,880 --> 00:22:23,400
Speaker 1: Do you remember when Chloe kardashian't have to talk show? Yeah?

421
00:22:23,400 --> 00:22:25,439
Speaker 1: I do. That didn't last very long. It didn't. It

422
00:22:25,480 --> 00:22:27,359
Speaker 1: was it was I didn't I didn't feel like it

423
00:22:27,440 --> 00:22:30,200
Speaker 1: was given the right platform. I think she's up big

424
00:22:30,280 --> 00:22:32,560
Speaker 1: enough personality that she could handle it, but I didn't

425
00:22:32,560 --> 00:22:34,240
Speaker 1: think the platform is right. I heard that she said

426
00:22:34,240 --> 00:22:37,160
Speaker 1: it was like a lot more work than she thought

427
00:22:37,160 --> 00:22:38,760
Speaker 1: it was going to be, and she just so she

428
00:22:38,800 --> 00:22:40,920
Speaker 1: just didn't want to work that her. Charlemagne, we don't

429
00:22:40,960 --> 00:22:43,320
Speaker 1: want you to give up on your talk show until

430
00:22:43,440 --> 00:22:48,240
Speaker 1: Robin and Iran the end. All right, we're moving on. Okay,

431
00:22:48,320 --> 00:22:50,680
Speaker 1: So a couple other things I would like to talk

432
00:22:50,720 --> 00:22:53,320
Speaker 1: about because it's happening in these streets. Is you know,

433
00:22:53,600 --> 00:22:55,719
Speaker 1: we have gone through a lot in the past year

434
00:22:55,720 --> 00:22:59,520
Speaker 1: and a half with this COVID situation, and that Dr

435
00:22:59,600 --> 00:23:04,800
Speaker 1: Fouch he is like he's probably tired. He didn't have

436
00:23:05,000 --> 00:23:08,920
Speaker 1: enough and he was like testifying in front of Congress.

437
00:23:09,680 --> 00:23:12,119
Speaker 1: So he was being asked crazy, asked questions by that

438
00:23:13,440 --> 00:23:17,000
Speaker 1: Paul ran Rampaul. I can't get his I think it's

439
00:23:17,080 --> 00:23:20,200
Speaker 1: rand Paul and foul. She like started moving his neck

440
00:23:20,359 --> 00:23:22,320
Speaker 1: like a like a black woman. He started moving his

441
00:23:22,359 --> 00:23:24,240
Speaker 1: neck to the side. He said, let me tell you something.

442
00:23:24,560 --> 00:23:26,560
Speaker 1: So when he started moving his neck, I said, oh, ship,

443
00:23:26,680 --> 00:23:28,720
Speaker 1: how don't you got some black in him? I said,

444
00:23:28,760 --> 00:23:31,439
Speaker 1: oh my god. So then he started moving his neck

445
00:23:31,480 --> 00:23:33,879
Speaker 1: and he was lying. What you won't do it is

446
00:23:33,920 --> 00:23:36,119
Speaker 1: say I'm lying, and you ain't even going to imply.

447
00:23:36,240 --> 00:23:38,680
Speaker 1: And the person that's lying right now is you. Did

448
00:23:38,680 --> 00:23:41,080
Speaker 1: he say that? Is that word for word? It's pretty

449
00:23:41,119 --> 00:23:44,680
Speaker 1: much verbatim. It is pretty much because he's oh, he

450
00:23:44,720 --> 00:23:48,800
Speaker 1: came for him the senator pool. You do not know

451
00:23:48,880 --> 00:23:51,600
Speaker 1: what you are talking about, quite frankly, and I want

452
00:23:51,600 --> 00:23:55,320
Speaker 1: to say that officially, you do not know what you

453
00:23:55,400 --> 00:23:59,760
Speaker 1: are talking about, and you are employing that what we

454
00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:04,920
Speaker 1: did was responsible for the deaths of individual I totally resented.

455
00:24:05,359 --> 00:24:08,960
Speaker 1: And if anybody is lying here, Senator, it is you.

456
00:24:10,800 --> 00:24:13,720
Speaker 1: So ryand Paul and Paul Ran whatever his name is.

457
00:24:13,880 --> 00:24:17,560
Speaker 1: He started like I'm in and he started like stuttering

458
00:24:17,640 --> 00:24:21,119
Speaker 1: like yeah, and I was like, Foulchi get his ass,

459
00:24:21,640 --> 00:24:24,639
Speaker 1: get him, get in all of them. Anyone that is

460
00:24:24,680 --> 00:24:26,920
Speaker 1: trying to give foul. She pushed back on his job

461
00:24:27,080 --> 00:24:30,080
Speaker 1: is listening, moron, You're an anyot. This man has been

462
00:24:30,080 --> 00:24:33,720
Speaker 1: doing this for like forty years, moron, And like, hello,

463
00:24:33,960 --> 00:24:36,439
Speaker 1: we're trying to get through this pandemic. We're not trying

464
00:24:36,520 --> 00:24:39,480
Speaker 1: to have a repeat now. We're not now, not at all.

465
00:24:39,640 --> 00:24:42,479
Speaker 1: I don't even want to get into like the wise, Like,

466
00:24:42,520 --> 00:24:45,439
Speaker 1: but what is the issue right now? Why does it

467
00:24:45,480 --> 00:24:49,280
Speaker 1: feel like a certain part of the um world is

468
00:24:49,280 --> 00:24:51,080
Speaker 1: trying or not world, but certain part of the country

469
00:24:51,200 --> 00:24:54,200
Speaker 1: is trying to tell people not to get the vaccine.

470
00:24:54,200 --> 00:24:56,200
Speaker 1: I don't know what's wrong with these people, because again,

471
00:24:56,280 --> 00:24:58,840
Speaker 1: we can all get vaccines, So like, I don't what

472
00:24:59,000 --> 00:25:01,320
Speaker 1: is behind that. I don't know understand the goal because

473
00:25:01,359 --> 00:25:04,080
Speaker 1: it's like, okay, don't you know, like if you're encouraging

474
00:25:04,119 --> 00:25:06,640
Speaker 1: your people not to get the vaccine, then they might

475
00:25:06,720 --> 00:25:10,840
Speaker 1: get sick, and then your people will will might not

476
00:25:10,880 --> 00:25:13,159
Speaker 1: be here, so like you're not helping your case. I

477
00:25:13,200 --> 00:25:16,240
Speaker 1: don't understand. I don't don't understand. And there's new variants,

478
00:25:16,240 --> 00:25:17,840
Speaker 1: and I think that's also what they were talking about.

479
00:25:17,840 --> 00:25:20,480
Speaker 1: There's new variants out there. And Fauci is like even

480
00:25:20,520 --> 00:25:25,040
Speaker 1: more pressed about everybody getting vaccinated. And he again he

481
00:25:25,160 --> 00:25:27,640
Speaker 1: is a black woman inside of him, because he started

482
00:25:27,680 --> 00:25:29,720
Speaker 1: moving his head to the left and to the right,

483
00:25:30,280 --> 00:25:32,600
Speaker 1: and he said, what you won't do. It's called me

484
00:25:32,640 --> 00:25:38,040
Speaker 1: a liar. And I said, okay, I need to look Okay,

485
00:25:38,160 --> 00:25:40,280
Speaker 1: So so Robin, I know we want to talk about

486
00:25:40,320 --> 00:25:42,160
Speaker 1: Erica Jane a little bit. By the way, Erica Jane

487
00:25:42,240 --> 00:25:45,520
Speaker 1: is on the Real Housewives of Beverly Hills. We absolutely

488
00:25:45,560 --> 00:25:48,119
Speaker 1: love her. It's been a lot that has happened on

489
00:25:48,160 --> 00:25:50,520
Speaker 1: that show, and I'm not up to date, but I

490
00:25:50,560 --> 00:25:57,720
Speaker 1: know you're up to date. Yes, Okay, So the latest episode, um, gosh, okay,

491
00:25:57,720 --> 00:26:02,960
Speaker 1: they were like, oh wait, like, how mansion somewhere somewhere

492
00:26:03,280 --> 00:26:07,080
Speaker 1: one of Kyle's mansions. Okay, um, and Eric comes late.

493
00:26:07,119 --> 00:26:10,040
Speaker 1: I guess they had some sort of court deposition and

494
00:26:10,600 --> 00:26:15,359
Speaker 1: Erica starts like sharing more about what's going on, and

495
00:26:16,080 --> 00:26:18,240
Speaker 1: she's pretty much I mean, she comes in, she's like

496
00:26:18,280 --> 00:26:20,679
Speaker 1: you can see that she's just defeated, like this whole

497
00:26:20,760 --> 00:26:25,080
Speaker 1: situation with her husband, um, you know, being sued for

498
00:26:25,280 --> 00:26:28,040
Speaker 1: millions of dollars and pretty much running a Ponzi scheme

499
00:26:28,119 --> 00:26:32,360
Speaker 1: and not paying his his clients the money that they're owed. Um,

500
00:26:32,440 --> 00:26:35,480
Speaker 1: and now it's like carrying over into her life. It's

501
00:26:35,520 --> 00:26:39,439
Speaker 1: like totally defeating her. From what I've read kind of

502
00:26:39,440 --> 00:26:41,919
Speaker 1: on social media, like people kind of still think that

503
00:26:42,000 --> 00:26:45,640
Speaker 1: she's lying, that she knew that he was stealing from

504
00:26:45,680 --> 00:26:48,240
Speaker 1: his clients and she's just not saying it is that

505
00:26:48,320 --> 00:26:50,040
Speaker 1: was that was that was thin. So I think there's

506
00:26:50,080 --> 00:26:52,480
Speaker 1: like a couple of different things that they think she's

507
00:26:52,520 --> 00:26:54,439
Speaker 1: lying about. Some people think that she just knew the

508
00:26:54,440 --> 00:26:57,679
Speaker 1: whole time all along, and which I don't believe, like

509
00:26:57,720 --> 00:26:59,960
Speaker 1: because like I believe that because she she's pretty m

510
00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:03,080
Speaker 1: is paying the picture like I was just the wife

511
00:27:03,160 --> 00:27:05,440
Speaker 1: and he was the powerful husband, like you know, he

512
00:27:05,920 --> 00:27:09,119
Speaker 1: didn't allow me into like anything, you know, they went

513
00:27:09,200 --> 00:27:11,520
Speaker 1: on business and I believe that, um, and he's you know,

514
00:27:11,600 --> 00:27:14,439
Speaker 1: very controlling, and she almost makes it seem like she

515
00:27:14,600 --> 00:27:18,200
Speaker 1: literally like had outside of the money that he would

516
00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:20,320
Speaker 1: give her. Like she has no money for her of

517
00:27:20,359 --> 00:27:21,960
Speaker 1: her own, you know what I mean? Like she has

518
00:27:22,040 --> 00:27:28,119
Speaker 1: no she had no say no, like no insight onlieve

519
00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:31,399
Speaker 1: that that which is like so like you know it's crazy,

520
00:27:31,440 --> 00:27:34,080
Speaker 1: like because no matter how rich your husband is, please

521
00:27:34,200 --> 00:27:37,200
Speaker 1: just control what's going right, Be aware of the money,

522
00:27:37,200 --> 00:27:38,919
Speaker 1: Be aware of the bank account. Make sure you have

523
00:27:39,040 --> 00:27:41,960
Speaker 1: your own stash. Now I didn't set it to everybody,

524
00:27:42,119 --> 00:27:44,639
Speaker 1: right exactly have you? I mean you're gonna have a

525
00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:47,840
Speaker 1: joint account and then you have your own account right right.

526
00:27:47,880 --> 00:27:50,919
Speaker 1: You don't need to know about it. Absolutely, just stack

527
00:27:51,000 --> 00:27:53,080
Speaker 1: your money. Absolutely. And my grandmother used to tell me

528
00:27:53,119 --> 00:27:57,600
Speaker 1: that not your grandmother, grandmother, my grand like your grandmother's name.

529
00:27:58,640 --> 00:28:01,600
Speaker 1: Juliette was dropping something not what I was like ten,

530
00:28:01,680 --> 00:28:05,439
Speaker 1: and I'm like what did she say? Have your own money, baby,

531
00:28:05,800 --> 00:28:08,760
Speaker 1: make sure that you have your own money. She would

532
00:28:08,760 --> 00:28:10,399
Speaker 1: tell me. I would be like ten, and I'm like,

533
00:28:10,480 --> 00:28:14,159
Speaker 1: I think you only I was dropping some purls to

534
00:28:14,359 --> 00:28:18,080
Speaker 1: miss her. Um so anyway, so like people think she's lying,

535
00:28:18,320 --> 00:28:20,960
Speaker 1: Like so she's like sharing all this information and she

536
00:28:21,040 --> 00:28:25,080
Speaker 1: said Tom got in a car accident. He was unconscious

537
00:28:25,119 --> 00:28:27,000
Speaker 1: for twelve hours and she found one the side of

538
00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:29,719
Speaker 1: the road and then she said he was that This

539
00:28:29,760 --> 00:28:31,520
Speaker 1: word got a little weird because I feel like she

540
00:28:31,600 --> 00:28:34,480
Speaker 1: was saying, like he was in this car accident, he

541
00:28:34,520 --> 00:28:39,560
Speaker 1: was unconscious, which led to his like neuro degenerative problems.

542
00:28:40,080 --> 00:28:43,800
Speaker 1: Is that what I'm inter He supposedly has um dementia, right,

543
00:28:43,880 --> 00:28:46,720
Speaker 1: so now that so so I feel like she was implying, like, Okay,

544
00:28:46,720 --> 00:28:48,760
Speaker 1: this car accident has led to like, you know, his

545
00:28:48,960 --> 00:28:50,880
Speaker 1: neuro problems. And oh, one of the things that I

546
00:28:50,920 --> 00:28:52,959
Speaker 1: thought sounded kind of fits she was like, she was like,

547
00:28:53,520 --> 00:28:57,000
Speaker 1: you know, I left because this was a couple episodes.

548
00:28:57,040 --> 00:28:59,680
Speaker 1: I left because he just wouldn't get help. You could

549
00:28:59,680 --> 00:29:01,840
Speaker 1: tell his hearing was, you know, going bad, and the

550
00:29:01,920 --> 00:29:03,640
Speaker 1: sight was going bad, and I would tell him get help,

551
00:29:03,640 --> 00:29:06,640
Speaker 1: and he would just you know, push back and reject me.

552
00:29:06,680 --> 00:29:09,240
Speaker 1: And I'm like, that's not that's get a divorce. Yeah,

553
00:29:09,240 --> 00:29:11,600
Speaker 1: that's not when you leave. That's when I helped him out, right,

554
00:29:11,680 --> 00:29:14,000
Speaker 1: That's when you realize he's a little getting a little

555
00:29:14,000 --> 00:29:17,440
Speaker 1: bit older. So I think people, I think people don't

556
00:29:17,440 --> 00:29:20,680
Speaker 1: really believe the reason for the divorce, like for her leaving,

557
00:29:21,080 --> 00:29:24,600
Speaker 1: like I think people think she's divorcing him because she

558
00:29:24,640 --> 00:29:28,920
Speaker 1: wants to separate herself financially from all this legal mess

559
00:29:29,960 --> 00:29:32,080
Speaker 1: you know that's going down with him, and that's what

560
00:29:32,120 --> 00:29:35,600
Speaker 1: she should say, right. I feel like I would be like, look,

561
00:29:35,720 --> 00:29:38,800
Speaker 1: I heard something don't sound right and he's not being open,

562
00:29:38,880 --> 00:29:40,800
Speaker 1: and I'm out. I don't want to be implicated in

563
00:29:40,800 --> 00:29:44,520
Speaker 1: any of this. But now it's like, so, I think

564
00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:47,400
Speaker 1: that's where people are conflicted, because I do feel that

565
00:29:47,440 --> 00:29:50,520
Speaker 1: she's struggling, and I don't believe she knew what he

566
00:29:50,600 --> 00:29:53,960
Speaker 1: was doing, but I do think that when she got

567
00:29:53,960 --> 00:29:55,680
Speaker 1: wind of it, when she got wind of like all

568
00:29:55,680 --> 00:29:58,760
Speaker 1: the legal problems he was having this financial troubles, that's

569
00:29:58,800 --> 00:30:01,160
Speaker 1: when she was like, I got I have to separate myself.

570
00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:05,480
Speaker 1: So it's it's you gotta watch an episode. Imagine to

571
00:30:05,520 --> 00:30:08,400
Speaker 1: be in that kind of position in which you really

572
00:30:08,440 --> 00:30:13,560
Speaker 1: didn't have any financial hold on the marriage, right your

573
00:30:13,640 --> 00:30:16,840
Speaker 1: husband is making all kinds of katrians of dollars and

574
00:30:16,880 --> 00:30:23,320
Speaker 1: then you realize he's stealing it from people. That sucks. Yeah,

575
00:30:23,360 --> 00:30:25,360
Speaker 1: I wouldn't want to be in that position. Yeah, And

576
00:30:25,400 --> 00:30:27,240
Speaker 1: so I mean, and she's just like, you know, you

577
00:30:27,240 --> 00:30:31,440
Speaker 1: can see who your friends are when you broke. Yes, Yes,

578
00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:33,920
Speaker 1: yeah I was. I was broken eighty two and I

579
00:30:33,960 --> 00:30:40,040
Speaker 1: had no friends. No, I'm kidding. Okay, So we're gonna

580
00:30:40,040 --> 00:30:44,080
Speaker 1: pray for Erica. Yes, And I do feel like, um,

581
00:30:44,120 --> 00:30:46,200
Speaker 1: social media is being a little shady, So social media

582
00:30:46,280 --> 00:30:49,200
Speaker 1: give her a break. Just give her it is. I

583
00:30:49,240 --> 00:30:52,360
Speaker 1: think people because she's so like like ice cold, kind

584
00:30:52,400 --> 00:30:54,840
Speaker 1: of like she's not she's not very emotional. I think

585
00:30:54,840 --> 00:30:58,760
Speaker 1: people just want to see her like really, they want

586
00:30:58,760 --> 00:31:02,440
Speaker 1: to feel that she's really league genuine, genuine. But I

587
00:31:02,480 --> 00:31:04,960
Speaker 1: just think that's just her, you know what I mean,

588
00:31:05,000 --> 00:31:07,680
Speaker 1: Like she's not going to be like but she's gonna

589
00:31:07,760 --> 00:31:09,760
Speaker 1: like you know, I mean, she has some tears coming

590
00:31:09,800 --> 00:31:12,640
Speaker 1: down and the mass gara running down her face, but

591
00:31:12,800 --> 00:31:16,720
Speaker 1: she's still Her delivery is very it's very like stoic,

592
00:31:17,720 --> 00:31:19,480
Speaker 1: you know. And I think people want to see her

593
00:31:19,560 --> 00:31:22,920
Speaker 1: just like have a fit and fall out and just

594
00:31:23,160 --> 00:31:31,720
Speaker 1: you know, curl up into a ball and cry. Lord okay,

595
00:31:31,800 --> 00:31:33,040
Speaker 1: let me let me. Let me tell you what I

596
00:31:33,040 --> 00:31:36,000
Speaker 1: was watching the other day because it struck me. I

597
00:31:36,080 --> 00:31:40,280
Speaker 1: was watching Naomi Osako's Netflix documentary. It's like a three

598
00:31:40,360 --> 00:31:44,320
Speaker 1: or four parter. I didn't see it. She is it

599
00:31:44,440 --> 00:31:46,840
Speaker 1: just came out, just came out, and she I wanted

600
00:31:46,880 --> 00:31:49,680
Speaker 1: to get to know all about her because she's intriguing

601
00:31:49,720 --> 00:31:52,720
Speaker 1: to me. And now we're coming to the title of

602
00:31:52,800 --> 00:31:55,720
Speaker 1: this episode, which is called Fear is Not Your Friend.

603
00:31:56,520 --> 00:31:59,400
Speaker 1: Fear It's not your friend. No it's not. It's paralyzing,

604
00:31:59,520 --> 00:32:03,160
Speaker 1: Yes it is. Okay. So in two thousand eighteen, and

605
00:32:03,200 --> 00:32:05,160
Speaker 1: I think I got my my years straight, I'm not

606
00:32:05,160 --> 00:32:09,960
Speaker 1: really good with um dates. She was winning everything, okay, Okay,

607
00:32:10,200 --> 00:32:12,000
Speaker 1: she was beating the ship out of Coco, like she

608
00:32:12,120 --> 00:32:15,520
Speaker 1: brought Coco to tears. Um. That was the time I

609
00:32:15,520 --> 00:32:18,360
Speaker 1: think you remember that she allowed Coco she wanted to

610
00:32:18,360 --> 00:32:20,960
Speaker 1: do the interview afterwards with her. It was very moving,

611
00:32:21,320 --> 00:32:24,880
Speaker 1: so they did. They did the post um match interview together,

612
00:32:25,200 --> 00:32:27,920
Speaker 1: which normally you don't do. She was on top of

613
00:32:27,920 --> 00:32:30,240
Speaker 1: her game. She won the Grand Slam. She was amazing. Okay.

614
00:32:31,640 --> 00:32:37,120
Speaker 1: Then she said that that the fact that she was

615
00:32:37,160 --> 00:32:42,360
Speaker 1: trying to get there was her motivation. So after she

616
00:32:42,480 --> 00:32:46,280
Speaker 1: became number one in the world, there was no more

617
00:32:46,320 --> 00:32:50,760
Speaker 1: motivation for her. So that messed with her head. Okay,

618
00:32:50,800 --> 00:32:54,240
Speaker 1: so we can all kind of understand that, right, And

619
00:32:54,280 --> 00:32:56,520
Speaker 1: then the whole Black Lives matter. Things started happening and

620
00:32:56,560 --> 00:32:59,240
Speaker 1: the world started changing, and you know, we had George

621
00:32:59,240 --> 00:33:02,280
Speaker 1: Floyd and Brian the Tailor, and you know, we had

622
00:33:02,320 --> 00:33:04,280
Speaker 1: Trayvon Martin and all these things. And she was like

623
00:33:04,400 --> 00:33:08,200
Speaker 1: so conflicted about what's going on in this world and

624
00:33:08,320 --> 00:33:11,640
Speaker 1: was scared fear to talk about it. She was scared

625
00:33:11,680 --> 00:33:13,920
Speaker 1: to give her opinion about how she felt about what's

626
00:33:13,960 --> 00:33:18,080
Speaker 1: going on in this world. And that paralyzed her tennis

627
00:33:18,080 --> 00:33:22,200
Speaker 1: game because she didn't feel like she was being herself

628
00:33:22,440 --> 00:33:25,959
Speaker 1: and she wasn't really standing on her own convictions. So

629
00:33:26,000 --> 00:33:28,640
Speaker 1: she was getting into matches and losing, like they were

630
00:33:28,680 --> 00:33:31,440
Speaker 1: like wiping the floor with her. And I was like, girl,

631
00:33:31,480 --> 00:33:34,560
Speaker 1: get it together. I'm on episode three and I'm talking

632
00:33:34,560 --> 00:33:38,520
Speaker 1: to her. I'm like so like, so I think two

633
00:33:38,520 --> 00:33:41,720
Speaker 1: thousand nineteen, two thousand and twenty, No, it had to

634
00:33:41,760 --> 00:33:45,160
Speaker 1: be two thousand nineteen. She was losing, Okay, So she

635
00:33:45,320 --> 00:33:48,080
Speaker 1: wiped the floor with Coco and eighteen and Coco beat

636
00:33:48,120 --> 00:33:52,600
Speaker 1: her in nineteen. Okay, Okay. So then she realized, you

637
00:33:52,640 --> 00:33:57,560
Speaker 1: know what, I can't be scared to speak up. I

638
00:33:57,560 --> 00:33:59,600
Speaker 1: can't be scared to really talk about because you have

639
00:33:59,680 --> 00:34:02,600
Speaker 1: to keep them on. Her mother is Japanese. Her father

640
00:34:02,840 --> 00:34:07,800
Speaker 1: is Haitian, so this whole Black Lives matter really affects

641
00:34:07,800 --> 00:34:10,560
Speaker 1: her and when she can really identify with it, so

642
00:34:10,600 --> 00:34:12,120
Speaker 1: she's like, look at here, we're going to the to

643
00:34:12,160 --> 00:34:14,640
Speaker 1: the Friend of the US Open. I'm gonna wear the mask.

644
00:34:14,880 --> 00:34:16,200
Speaker 1: You know what the people's names on it? Do you

645
00:34:16,239 --> 00:34:19,200
Speaker 1: all remember that? So she had seven of them laid

646
00:34:19,200 --> 00:34:21,959
Speaker 1: out on her bed because it was like seven people

647
00:34:22,000 --> 00:34:23,680
Speaker 1: she really wanted to bring light to. So it was

648
00:34:23,719 --> 00:34:27,160
Speaker 1: like George Floord, Brianna, Traylon Martin for others, I can't

649
00:34:27,200 --> 00:34:31,800
Speaker 1: remember um. And so the commentators and the dumbass pressed

650
00:34:31,840 --> 00:34:34,919
Speaker 1: people were all like, sell, how many mans she got?

651
00:34:35,280 --> 00:34:37,280
Speaker 1: She was like, I have seven because there's seven rounds,

652
00:34:38,719 --> 00:34:40,120
Speaker 1: and she was like, I want to be able to

653
00:34:40,120 --> 00:34:42,359
Speaker 1: wear all my all my masks. I mean, she has

654
00:34:42,400 --> 00:34:44,759
Speaker 1: to win every round. So that was her motivation, and

655
00:34:44,800 --> 00:34:47,720
Speaker 1: she was finally like, I'm stepping out of my fear

656
00:34:47,760 --> 00:34:52,359
Speaker 1: game and I am comfortable with how I feel about

657
00:34:52,400 --> 00:34:54,640
Speaker 1: what's going on in the world, and this is I'm

658
00:34:54,719 --> 00:34:57,080
Speaker 1: using my platform to speak on it. And she was

659
00:34:57,160 --> 00:35:00,719
Speaker 1: killing everybody. She was demolishing people to right and I

660
00:35:00,760 --> 00:35:02,960
Speaker 1: was like, go now you want me go go now yo,

661
00:35:03,080 --> 00:35:08,319
Speaker 1: my god. So then, um, long story short, she won

662
00:35:09,200 --> 00:35:13,120
Speaker 1: and it was all in that fear was paralyzing her.

663
00:35:13,320 --> 00:35:16,080
Speaker 1: So let's be clear, fear is not your friend. So

664
00:35:16,120 --> 00:35:20,840
Speaker 1: then it made me think of my daughter, Grace. I

665
00:35:20,920 --> 00:35:24,520
Speaker 1: want you all to know. Grace is now employed. She's

666
00:35:24,560 --> 00:35:29,480
Speaker 1: in the streets with a job. Yes, what kind of job?

667
00:35:29,680 --> 00:35:33,040
Speaker 1: What is she doing? She works at the smoothie place

668
00:35:33,120 --> 00:35:36,960
Speaker 1: down the street. Okay, okay, she works at the yogurt nonsense, okay,

669
00:35:37,000 --> 00:35:39,440
Speaker 1: all right, but she's very excited about her job. Okay, okay,

670
00:35:39,920 --> 00:35:41,520
Speaker 1: So let me tell you how she got her job.

671
00:35:41,560 --> 00:35:42,920
Speaker 1: So she walked in there one day. We go there

672
00:35:42,920 --> 00:35:44,880
Speaker 1: all the time, and she was like, she talked to

673
00:35:45,040 --> 00:35:47,760
Speaker 1: someone and she was like, oh, this place is so cool.

674
00:35:48,120 --> 00:35:50,960
Speaker 1: I wonder if I could work here something. And the

675
00:35:51,040 --> 00:35:53,279
Speaker 1: lady happened to be the manager. The manager gave her

676
00:35:53,320 --> 00:35:55,560
Speaker 1: her card and was like, you know, give me a call.

677
00:35:55,719 --> 00:35:58,480
Speaker 1: So Grace texted her or something, and then the lady said,

678
00:35:58,520 --> 00:36:00,960
Speaker 1: you have an interview. So Grace was like, man, I

679
00:36:01,000 --> 00:36:03,800
Speaker 1: got an interview. I said, okay, let's go. So we

680
00:36:03,880 --> 00:36:05,440
Speaker 1: go to the place for the interview, and that thing

681
00:36:05,480 --> 00:36:07,960
Speaker 1: didn't want to get out of the car. She was like,

682
00:36:11,160 --> 00:36:13,040
Speaker 1: she was shaking her head, like I can't do this.

683
00:36:13,640 --> 00:36:18,000
Speaker 1: I was like, Grace, you're going there and you're gonna

684
00:36:18,040 --> 00:36:19,879
Speaker 1: talk to the lady and you're gonna tell her that

685
00:36:19,960 --> 00:36:22,920
Speaker 1: you're wonderful. Okay, So she was I said okay. So

686
00:36:22,920 --> 00:36:25,120
Speaker 1: we went over like some quick stage questions that I

687
00:36:25,120 --> 00:36:27,719
Speaker 1: have gone through when I was interviewing a hundred years ago,

688
00:36:28,239 --> 00:36:30,640
Speaker 1: and I was like, this is what your answers are, right,

689
00:36:30,640 --> 00:36:33,480
Speaker 1: So we rolled played and I was like go and

690
00:36:33,560 --> 00:36:38,120
Speaker 1: she was like and I'm I'm having a hard time

691
00:36:38,160 --> 00:36:41,480
Speaker 1: believing that one of your children. Yes, she was nervous

692
00:36:41,520 --> 00:36:44,400
Speaker 1: and scared. She was she that fear was like taking

693
00:36:44,400 --> 00:36:47,080
Speaker 1: her over. Wow. So then I said, get out my

694
00:36:47,160 --> 00:36:50,719
Speaker 1: damn car, right, just get out. So she got out

695
00:36:50,760 --> 00:36:53,000
Speaker 1: the car, her sisters run the back. Her sisters got

696
00:36:53,000 --> 00:36:54,960
Speaker 1: out and was like hugging her like she was going

697
00:36:55,000 --> 00:36:58,600
Speaker 1: off to war. I was like, this is just dramatic

698
00:36:58,719 --> 00:37:01,600
Speaker 1: and stupid. So she goes in there and like ten

699
00:37:01,640 --> 00:37:03,879
Speaker 1: minutes later she's texting me talking about she got the job.

700
00:37:05,960 --> 00:37:08,360
Speaker 1: This is this. We were a fear factor over the

701
00:37:08,480 --> 00:37:13,280
Speaker 1: yogurt spot up the street. But my point is so

702
00:37:13,360 --> 00:37:16,239
Speaker 1: much paralyzed as people, and they don't want to move

703
00:37:16,280 --> 00:37:18,040
Speaker 1: forward all based off of fear and it's all in

704
00:37:18,080 --> 00:37:22,799
Speaker 1: your head. Absolutely, yeah, absolutely, I mean what okay, so

705
00:37:22,800 --> 00:37:25,359
Speaker 1: so great and I'm like, so surprised that Grace, Yeah,

706
00:37:25,680 --> 00:37:27,719
Speaker 1: any type of fear. She's probably mad that I'm telling

707
00:37:27,719 --> 00:37:29,799
Speaker 1: the story because you know, to know my child great.

708
00:37:29,920 --> 00:37:31,759
Speaker 1: She's like, oh, you can't tell her. Not that she's

709
00:37:31,800 --> 00:37:37,960
Speaker 1: the baddest thing that scared confessional. Yes, she's She's made

710
00:37:37,960 --> 00:37:41,280
Speaker 1: a debut on the Real Housewives at Potomac um. But

711
00:37:41,280 --> 00:37:43,120
Speaker 1: but you know, there's been so many times. And I

712
00:37:43,440 --> 00:37:47,359
Speaker 1: can remember when um I was starting Potomac season one.

713
00:37:47,400 --> 00:37:49,040
Speaker 1: Before we started, I told him, I was like, Hey,

714
00:37:49,040 --> 00:37:51,000
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do this show whatever, and he was like,

715
00:37:51,040 --> 00:37:54,480
Speaker 1: just how you know, I just really I'm concerned. I

716
00:37:54,520 --> 00:37:59,359
Speaker 1: was like, what's your concern? This fool says um I

717
00:37:59,400 --> 00:38:05,000
Speaker 1: think no one gonna like you. Well he said it

718
00:38:05,040 --> 00:38:07,480
Speaker 1: in a nice way, meaning that you can't say that

719
00:38:07,520 --> 00:38:09,280
Speaker 1: in a nice well he did. He was like, meaning,

720
00:38:09,320 --> 00:38:13,880
Speaker 1: you're beautiful, you have a strong personality that can be

721
00:38:13,920 --> 00:38:17,880
Speaker 1: taken any kind of way. So but that got that

722
00:38:17,920 --> 00:38:20,000
Speaker 1: messed with my head and I thought about it a lot.

723
00:38:21,360 --> 00:38:23,040
Speaker 1: I did. I didn't talk about it. I didn't talk

724
00:38:23,040 --> 00:38:24,200
Speaker 1: about it, but I thought about it the light of

725
00:38:24,239 --> 00:38:28,239
Speaker 1: my own private moments. Okay, it didn't stop me from

726
00:38:28,280 --> 00:38:30,400
Speaker 1: being me because that's just who I am, but it

727
00:38:30,560 --> 00:38:34,520
Speaker 1: made me feel a sense of fear about doing what

728
00:38:34,560 --> 00:38:37,200
Speaker 1: I was doing and being me. And I never want

729
00:38:37,200 --> 00:38:41,160
Speaker 1: to be fearful about just being me. So take that, Jamal,

730
00:38:41,360 --> 00:38:44,759
Speaker 1: take it right. Because people love me, thank you, season six,

731
00:38:44,800 --> 00:38:49,840
Speaker 1: and they love me everybody, everybody. Not everybody loves me

732
00:38:49,840 --> 00:38:52,680
Speaker 1: to get horrible d ms, but some people love me,

733
00:38:53,560 --> 00:38:57,480
Speaker 1: so you know, it's funny. So I, um, I have

734
00:38:57,760 --> 00:39:03,360
Speaker 1: a mentality air in my head. I'm just like nobody's perfect.

735
00:39:04,120 --> 00:39:07,239
Speaker 1: So if I go into this and I, you know,

736
00:39:07,320 --> 00:39:09,760
Speaker 1: fall flat on my face or a mess up or whatever,

737
00:39:09,880 --> 00:39:12,719
Speaker 1: then like so be it souf like that. So I

738
00:39:12,800 --> 00:39:16,920
Speaker 1: never really like let fear paralyzed me from like doing

739
00:39:17,000 --> 00:39:19,880
Speaker 1: something which is like very weird because I am I

740
00:39:19,880 --> 00:39:22,759
Speaker 1: would consider myself an introvert. But when it comes time

741
00:39:22,800 --> 00:39:24,600
Speaker 1: to like do something in front of people, like I

742
00:39:24,640 --> 00:39:28,399
Speaker 1: have no problems doing it, but I do, I would

743
00:39:28,440 --> 00:39:33,400
Speaker 1: say a time when I would feel a little bit uncomfortable. Um,

744
00:39:33,440 --> 00:39:36,560
Speaker 1: I was doing some like real estate seminars like speaking

745
00:39:36,920 --> 00:39:39,040
Speaker 1: because I was doing real estate investing as my real

746
00:39:39,120 --> 00:39:42,000
Speaker 1: estate mentor would have seminar when you are flipping houses,

747
00:39:43,239 --> 00:39:45,600
Speaker 1: and he would invite me to speak to the audience

748
00:39:45,920 --> 00:39:49,960
Speaker 1: and myself myselves very attractive guys. It's just f y.

749
00:39:50,040 --> 00:39:52,080
Speaker 1: I yes, he won't ask me out on a date,

750
00:39:52,080 --> 00:39:56,160
Speaker 1: but he's very attractive. Okay, anyway, moving on. So so yeah,

751
00:39:56,200 --> 00:39:59,680
Speaker 1: So even though I have the mentality like Okay, if

752
00:39:59,680 --> 00:40:01,520
Speaker 1: I mess that my speech, I can just be like,

753
00:40:01,560 --> 00:40:04,040
Speaker 1: oh I lost my trainers, lot, let me start over,

754
00:40:04,080 --> 00:40:06,560
Speaker 1: you know whatever, Like I still would sit there, like

755
00:40:07,560 --> 00:40:10,040
Speaker 1: knowing he was about to call me on stage with

756
00:40:10,160 --> 00:40:13,960
Speaker 1: like butterflies in my stomach and realizing like okay, I

757
00:40:13,960 --> 00:40:20,080
Speaker 1: can't turn around now, like no, it's too late, or

758
00:40:20,120 --> 00:40:21,799
Speaker 1: I'd be like why did I agree to do this?

759
00:40:22,280 --> 00:40:25,120
Speaker 1: Why I want to go home? But but the thing

760
00:40:25,200 --> 00:40:26,880
Speaker 1: is like once I feel like with most people, it's

761
00:40:26,920 --> 00:40:28,759
Speaker 1: like once you just like put one ft in front

762
00:40:28,800 --> 00:40:32,160
Speaker 1: of the other and you start like talking or doing,

763
00:40:32,600 --> 00:40:34,840
Speaker 1: then it's kind of like that you just release that

764
00:40:34,880 --> 00:40:38,640
Speaker 1: nervousness said anxiousness. But but for the most part, like

765
00:40:38,719 --> 00:40:41,080
Speaker 1: even like you know, when people have weddings and they're

766
00:40:41,120 --> 00:40:43,919
Speaker 1: like the bride is like so nervous and worried about

767
00:40:43,960 --> 00:40:46,879
Speaker 1: everything being perfect. Like I you know, if I ever

768
00:40:46,920 --> 00:40:49,920
Speaker 1: give someone advice, like before wedding, I said, look, don't

769
00:40:49,960 --> 00:40:54,000
Speaker 1: worry about what goes wrong during your wedding. You're the

770
00:40:54,040 --> 00:40:56,880
Speaker 1: only person that really knows what's supposed to happen to

771
00:40:57,080 --> 00:41:00,480
Speaker 1: your wedding. So if like, if like the song doesn't

772
00:41:00,560 --> 00:41:03,600
Speaker 1: play at the right time, nobody's really going to know that,

773
00:41:03,640 --> 00:41:05,120
Speaker 1: and they're not going to sit there and be like,

774
00:41:05,239 --> 00:41:11,359
Speaker 1: oh my god, Katie's wedding was horrible because because her

775
00:41:11,400 --> 00:41:13,719
Speaker 1: song played five seconds later than it should have been.

776
00:41:14,080 --> 00:41:16,960
Speaker 1: So I just feel like sometimes people like overthink stuff

777
00:41:17,640 --> 00:41:20,440
Speaker 1: when really it's like we're all human where all we

778
00:41:20,520 --> 00:41:23,719
Speaker 1: all make mistakes. And I think what makes people more

779
00:41:23,760 --> 00:41:26,839
Speaker 1: like comfortable and relatable to one another is when they

780
00:41:26,880 --> 00:41:30,480
Speaker 1: feel like the other people in the room are being human. Yes,

781
00:41:30,800 --> 00:41:33,799
Speaker 1: you know, when people try to act perfect child that

782
00:41:33,840 --> 00:41:37,839
Speaker 1: don't work. That's really problematic for me, like because I'm

783
00:41:37,880 --> 00:41:41,799
Speaker 1: just like I know my ships think like like yes,

784
00:41:41,920 --> 00:41:47,640
Speaker 1: unfortunately I've smelled no. But I mean you're you're absolutely right,

785
00:41:47,640 --> 00:41:50,279
Speaker 1: like you you you have to be yourself right, But

786
00:41:50,440 --> 00:41:52,720
Speaker 1: it's it's okay, like being able to laugh at yourself,

787
00:41:53,120 --> 00:41:55,319
Speaker 1: Like it's actually really important that you're able to laugh

788
00:41:55,320 --> 00:41:58,440
Speaker 1: at yourself if you mess up, if you fall, if

789
00:41:58,480 --> 00:42:01,120
Speaker 1: you trip in front of people, like laugh at yourself

790
00:42:01,520 --> 00:42:07,960
Speaker 1: because it's funny, and don't be don't buy into fear,

791
00:42:08,440 --> 00:42:11,080
Speaker 1: like let that thing go, breathe it out, take that

792
00:42:11,120 --> 00:42:13,000
Speaker 1: first step, like you said, you gotta take that first

793
00:42:13,000 --> 00:42:17,319
Speaker 1: step and everything will work out. Um. So yeah, fear

794
00:42:17,360 --> 00:42:18,799
Speaker 1: is not your friend. Don't let it be your friend.

795
00:42:19,200 --> 00:42:20,600
Speaker 1: Don't talk to that thing. But you know what, it's

796
00:42:20,600 --> 00:42:23,120
Speaker 1: funny when you were saying, they only like she she

797
00:42:23,239 --> 00:42:24,919
Speaker 1: was winning and she was kind of like at the

798
00:42:25,040 --> 00:42:27,160
Speaker 1: at the top of her game, and then she felt

799
00:42:27,320 --> 00:42:29,440
Speaker 1: that it was almost like maybe the pressure to like

800
00:42:29,520 --> 00:42:32,880
Speaker 1: continue that like cause that fear. Um, I've kind of

801
00:42:32,960 --> 00:42:35,680
Speaker 1: experienced it and I kind of like share this on

802
00:42:35,719 --> 00:42:37,440
Speaker 1: the season, so I don't want to give up too much.

803
00:42:37,440 --> 00:42:39,680
Speaker 1: But like in the in my business, which I've had

804
00:42:39,719 --> 00:42:42,839
Speaker 1: a lot of success with um and belish like I

805
00:42:42,880 --> 00:42:47,560
Speaker 1: actually have gone through that emotion of you know, I've

806
00:42:48,440 --> 00:42:51,800
Speaker 1: had a lot of success with the business and now

807
00:42:52,320 --> 00:42:54,120
Speaker 1: you know, fear sets in of like Okay, how do

808
00:42:54,200 --> 00:42:57,400
Speaker 1: I keep up that success got it or not wanting

809
00:42:57,440 --> 00:42:59,959
Speaker 1: to fail, not wanting to like fall from my face.

810
00:43:00,040 --> 00:43:03,200
Speaker 1: So does it make you Is it to the place

811
00:43:03,239 --> 00:43:06,760
Speaker 1: where you're like talking yourself out of growing at times?

812
00:43:08,360 --> 00:43:12,160
Speaker 1: It's definitely a process. It's a process that you go through. Okay, yeah,

813
00:43:12,400 --> 00:43:14,759
Speaker 1: so you understand Naomi struggle. Oh yeah, I understand that.

814
00:43:14,800 --> 00:43:16,640
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not sure I didn't want like a

815
00:43:17,040 --> 00:43:19,080
Speaker 1: US open or nothing, but yes you did. In the

816
00:43:19,080 --> 00:43:22,319
Speaker 1: hat world, you want embellished on a US open. Yes,

817
00:43:22,600 --> 00:43:25,279
Speaker 1: yes it did. But but I can see I mean

818
00:43:25,280 --> 00:43:28,239
Speaker 1: my little right, I can relate a little bit. Yes, yes,

819
00:43:28,800 --> 00:43:30,920
Speaker 1: but but Robin, I'm here to tell you, fear is

820
00:43:30,960 --> 00:43:33,520
Speaker 1: not your friend. I know. Yes, it's gonna get you nowhere,

821
00:43:33,560 --> 00:43:35,080
Speaker 1: It's gonna get you know where. You You gotta you

822
00:43:35,120 --> 00:43:37,120
Speaker 1: gotta make it happen, and you have to show that

823
00:43:37,239 --> 00:43:38,560
Speaker 1: just one foot in front of the the other and you

824
00:43:38,600 --> 00:43:41,880
Speaker 1: can water really change your life. Right. Yeah. Because I

825
00:43:41,920 --> 00:43:43,840
Speaker 1: didn't have the fear of starting the business. It was

826
00:43:43,920 --> 00:43:46,799
Speaker 1: just once the business, you know, achieve success, It's like

827
00:43:46,880 --> 00:43:49,360
Speaker 1: the fear setting of like, Okay, how do I maintain

828
00:43:49,400 --> 00:43:51,840
Speaker 1: it and even continue to grow it. That's where the

829
00:43:51,880 --> 00:43:54,120
Speaker 1: fear kind of like started sitting like, oh, and then

830
00:43:54,120 --> 00:44:00,200
Speaker 1: it it's paralyzing. Yes, yes, yes, indeed, yes, all right,

831
00:44:00,239 --> 00:44:03,880
Speaker 1: I believe that is our show today. Um, and I

832
00:44:03,920 --> 00:44:08,480
Speaker 1: want everybody to have a reasonable and a shady day exactly.

833
00:44:08,800 --> 00:44:11,160
Speaker 1: And hey, you know we have an email address. We

834
00:44:11,200 --> 00:44:14,680
Speaker 1: love your fact. Feel free to share with us your

835
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836
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837
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839
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840
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