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Speaker 1: It is the strawberry lettuce subject. My husband is not

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Speaker 1: carrying her casket. Exclamation mark. Here's Stephen Shirley. Here's my ordeal.

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Speaker 1: My husband and I have been married for eight years

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Speaker 1: and I said, h E double l no, SPL's hail.

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Speaker 1: And I told my husband's best friend that the family

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Speaker 1: later that day, I asked my best friend if I

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Speaker 1: She told me that I need to be more concerned

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Speaker 1: my husband's face. Needless to say, I'm not speaking to

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Speaker 1: her right now. I am in no way, shape or

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Speaker 1: and that is it. He seems a bit uneasy with

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Speaker 1: get your thoughts on this. Am I wrong? Please help? Well?

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Speaker 1: You know you sound like one of those women that

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Speaker 1: is not here for it at all. You're not having it.

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Speaker 1: I don't care if she's dead, alive or what. I

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Speaker 1: bet you did say some choice words to your husband

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Speaker 1: other than hub l. No, you said this is some

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Speaker 1: b s. Probably you know you're a little crazy, said it?

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Speaker 1: She said it, yeah, and you're a little crazy. But

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Speaker 1: it's okay. It's all right. You have every right to

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Speaker 1: gotta tell you lighten up, please, I mean the woman

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Speaker 1: was his ex girlfriend. Right, You've been married to him

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Speaker 1: for the last eight years and your best friend was right.

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Speaker 1: I think the woman is dead. I mean, are you

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Speaker 1: not mention that in this letter. It's okay, she just

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Speaker 1: loved him from afar still according to this letter. Now

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Speaker 1: you know she's dead. Now, So and you've told your

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Speaker 1: you won't like it. But I mean, you know, so

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Speaker 1: he's not gonna rock the boat. He doesn't want you mad.

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Speaker 1: He doesn't want, you know, to come in the house

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Speaker 1: and with you with an attitude and all that. So, yes,

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Speaker 1: and pay your respects. But again I say to you,

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Speaker 1: just get to the bottom of it. Am I wrong?

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Speaker 1: You know? Good? Here? Well, you ron, you've been married

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Speaker 1: for eight years to this man. You got three beautiful children.

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Speaker 1: One of my husband's long time ex girlfriend died over

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Speaker 1: the weekend. We were all shocked. Now, let's break that down.

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Speaker 1: We were all shocked. Now was you shocked or was

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Speaker 1: you made it real. Stink at where it looked like

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Speaker 1: So later that day, then you steal in it. You

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Speaker 1: I'm not speaking her right. I am in no way,

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Speaker 1: This woman being married to this man eight years, they

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Speaker 1: writing the letter said, we was all shocked. I don't

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Speaker 1: the same. Damn sound, See Charlie, say something shocking to me,

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Speaker 1: Oh Steve, you lost all your money? What now say

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Speaker 1: You are very jealous and insecure. I told my husband

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Speaker 1: You ain't even like the woman. What is your ass

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Speaker 1: I'll tell you what you're betting. I thank you fitting

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Speaker 1: When your thoughts on Today's Strawberry Letter At Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: more on this strawberry letter. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, he's

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Speaker 1: he said, is absolutely no, you will not be a

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Speaker 1: You thought you're just gonna leave me and the kids

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Speaker 1: take this over, sweetie. You you ain't going nowhere. But no,

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Speaker 1: well listen to me. You're not going nowhere. Yeah, you

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Speaker 1: ain't fished to be no, pall bear We in this

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Speaker 1: Listen to me. Was look at this past, and we're

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Speaker 1: his family looking over? What her family looking over here? Phone? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's me. It's me. I don't need all that. It's me. Look,

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Speaker 1: I'm the wife right now. You understand sitting up in

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Speaker 1: about she gone too soon. She didn't get about here

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Speaker 1: Because we missed her. You miss her. She wasn't that

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Speaker 1: what is this open casket? Oh my god? That hus

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Speaker 1: You wanted an open cap, I'll tell you, I don't

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Speaker 1: give it. Damn what she wanted, well, we wanted closed.

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Speaker 1: ain't glit? A lipstick fault? She had her lass kiss

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Speaker 1: What does she glitter? Lip chunk? Dressing up just like

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Speaker 1: I don't like park of Funeral Home to this day.

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Speaker 1: Always been trying to make you look mold than you

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Speaker 1: stepping real tall around that part. To slow down, Let's

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Speaker 1: this girl says I was you might miss but yes,

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Speaker 1: sistuh what baby? What about the three minute remarks? We

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Speaker 1: You come out with your minutes, but no, yes, Connie,

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Speaker 1: They're good people. They They just asked me to be

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Speaker 1: y'all understand me? You better not care pers down here

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Speaker 1: Can I ask the question it conn what the repass?

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Speaker 1: Didn't you just see me repairs? When you sit around

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Speaker 1: I wish you would reminisce. I wish you would ram

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Speaker 1: and listen over this half and see what happened to you.

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Speaker 1: That's not a good look. Now. You know, we got

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Speaker 1: worried about this half for all these years. Well you

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Speaker 1: sound a little insecure, baby, I don't. I ain't as

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Speaker 1: Uh you're listening. She was stained Harday Morning Show