WEBVTT - Second Date Update: So Turned On

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to your brand new Second Date podcast. Thank you

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<v Speaker 1>so much for being here and today. Well, I guess

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<v Speaker 1>the part where they're playing with their food during the

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<v Speaker 1>date is a highlight.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Yeah, the low light gets real low so you'll

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<v Speaker 2>hear it in just a second. My first comment to lexis.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, Rosebud Sims said, when I was a kid, I

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<v Speaker 3>hated the talking part of the radio in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Now I hate the music and listen to the talking

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<v Speaker 1>part online.

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<v Speaker 3>Love you guys.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, welcome to adulthood.

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<v Speaker 1>My own kid actually turned the station the other day

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<v Speaker 1>when he heard my voice.

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<v Speaker 2>Come on.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, it was like rude right face too, ye, not

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<v Speaker 1>getting your allowance this week.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, let's get into your brand new Second Day.

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<v Speaker 1>It starts right now, broken Jeffrey in the morning Second

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<v Speaker 1>Date updates.

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<v Speaker 4>I just googled the top turn ons for guys during

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<v Speaker 4>dates WHOA and Google was like, I don't know, ask

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<v Speaker 4>Chat GPT. So I went and I asked Chat GPT,

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<v Speaker 4>Hey what turns guys on?

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<v Speaker 2>Shouldn't you know you're a guy And they.

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<v Speaker 4>Were like, oh, come on now, jeff you know. Oh

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<v Speaker 4>so I'm getting no answers from both of the smartest

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<v Speaker 4>computers on planet Earth.

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<v Speaker 2>They must listen.

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<v Speaker 4>Here's what I've learned from a good friend of mine,

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<v Speaker 4>jose Bolanos. A woman with a great personality and a nice,

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<v Speaker 4>low cut napkin will always have my attention. So that's

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<v Speaker 4>what I have to go off of. When one of

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<v Speaker 4>our listeners said that he was turned on big time

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<v Speaker 4>by the end of his date, I think I know

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<v Speaker 4>what he means. I cannot wait to find out how

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<v Speaker 4>low his dates napkin was cut. Chris, Welcome to the show,

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<v Speaker 4>my man.

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<v Speaker 5>Hey, thanks for having me.

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<v Speaker 2>God, I know that I want to part of any

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<v Speaker 2>of this. The rest of this conversation.

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<v Speaker 4>I know Brooks getting far too turned on thinking about

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<v Speaker 4>how low she wants to cut her napkin for her

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<v Speaker 4>next day. It doesn't have to because it's hot, Am

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<v Speaker 4>I right, Chris?

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<v Speaker 1>Chris?

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<v Speaker 4>Chris knows, all right. So now that we've got all

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<v Speaker 4>the gears turning, we're all oiled up and ready to go.

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<v Speaker 4>Chris tell us about the woman that she met. What's

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<v Speaker 4>her name?

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<v Speaker 5>Her name was Lisa?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, my sister's name is Lisa.

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<v Speaker 3>Man.

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<v Speaker 4>Now I got this tiny napkin and I'm thinking about Chris.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm so sorry. It's a good name, some strong female name.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's talk about your Lisa, Chris.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. I met her on a dating app.

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<v Speaker 5>I won't say which one, but she was definitely leading

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<v Speaker 5>the charge throughout this interaction because this is the thing

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<v Speaker 5>she wanted to get right to the date. I'm somebody

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<v Speaker 5>that wants to take it slow. I would like to

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<v Speaker 5>get to know whoever they are be a chat.

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<v Speaker 2>Isn't that exhausting though?

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<v Speaker 1>Like I've just heard that people disappear like it never

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<v Speaker 1>materials so much can ruin it?

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<v Speaker 4>Like before I know broke? Why don't they jump straight

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<v Speaker 4>into bed with you like first five minutes. Let's really

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<v Speaker 4>get to.

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<v Speaker 2>Know good old days, Jeff. I miss those days of

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<v Speaker 2>dating with you.

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<v Speaker 4>Chris, what's wrong with you? Why do you want to

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<v Speaker 4>talk to them?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>I want to get to know you. Do we have

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<v Speaker 5>that same sense of humor whatever? But Lisa, she just

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<v Speaker 5>jumped right and said, I'd like to get to know

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<v Speaker 5>you in person. Let's do it on a date.

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<v Speaker 4>Wow.

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<v Speaker 5>She suggested a place that I would have never thought

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<v Speaker 5>that a wola would suggest a date for, which was

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<v Speaker 5>Popeyes Popeye' chickens.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeahorn chicken. Oh so good?

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<v Speaker 5>It is great but I was like, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>I would never even suggest that myself.

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<v Speaker 2>I about your stokes.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, did you actually go inside of Popeyes? Or did

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<v Speaker 4>you do the drive through nice and slow?

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<v Speaker 5>We went inside no drive.

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<v Speaker 4>Because for anybody listening, that's a little first date tip,

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<v Speaker 4>do the drive through slow backs eat only. How are

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<v Speaker 4>you cruise control? By Chris? If this day ends up

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<v Speaker 4>not working out, just remember that for your next one. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 4>So take us inside Popeyes with Lisa. What happens?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I would say, first off, when I saw her, she.

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<v Speaker 1>Was happy about that dude, and to be cute and

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<v Speaker 1>fast food lighting is a feat and she was.

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<v Speaker 5>She was super cute, super nice. She made me laugh.

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<v Speaker 5>That was like a big highlight. This is silly. But

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<v Speaker 5>she would us that chicken tenders and make them walk

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<v Speaker 5>towards me. I don't know. It was like some weird bitch.

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<v Speaker 2>Why do I picture the rockets like chicken.

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<v Speaker 4>Chicken legs coming right out?

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<v Speaker 2>They were tenders. They weren't the drumsticks. They should have

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<v Speaker 2>been the drumsticks.

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<v Speaker 4>That would have been Yeah, she's not as funny as

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<v Speaker 4>we want her to do. We're going to dock her

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<v Speaker 4>a point like end.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, everything was going great. I mean there was

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<v Speaker 5>so much flirtation, eye contact, her smile, she was touching

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<v Speaker 5>my hand. There's a lot of that. And then it

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<v Speaker 5>was pretty short, I would guess, like I don't know,

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<v Speaker 5>thirty forty minutes. She just said, hey, I'm having a

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<v Speaker 5>great time, but I gotta go. I hope to see

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<v Speaker 5>you again, and then I walked her to her car.

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<v Speaker 5>On that moment, I was feeling the vibe. I went

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<v Speaker 5>in for a kiss goodbye, and next thing I know,

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<v Speaker 5>her fingers are on my lips, stopping me. Says to me,

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<v Speaker 5>naughty boy. Oh, literally moves my lips with her hand

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<v Speaker 5>to her cheek. I don't know. It must have been

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<v Speaker 5>the control, but that was the most turned on I've

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<v Speaker 5>ever been.

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<v Speaker 2>No way.

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<v Speaker 4>Onto her cheek. That did it, man, I.

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<v Speaker 5>Don't know it was. I know she was saying no

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<v Speaker 5>to the kiss, but I was like, whatever you want.

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<v Speaker 4>You just discovered a woman to take control. Brother, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>that's what I discovered.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, obviously she was being fun and playful with it, like,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not like she was turning you down in a

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<v Speaker 1>cold way.

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<v Speaker 2>So I am actually surprised you're not seeing her again.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'm surprised too, I mean, what what's happened since.

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<v Speaker 5>I was a little bit of chit chat via text

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<v Speaker 5>right after the date, okay, but then it just went

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<v Speaker 5>radio silence for the last four days.

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<v Speaker 2>Man, the chicken's gun cold.

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<v Speaker 4>She's trying to ghost you, for sure. Yeah, just because

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<v Speaker 4>it's cold, doesn't wan you can't pop it in the

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<v Speaker 4>microwave reheat it.

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<v Speaker 1>Get you would choose an air fryer. Well, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>microwave chicken is not worried.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm working with what we got here at the radio station,

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<v Speaker 4>and they definitely don't have air fryers or ninja whatever

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<v Speaker 4>chicken right now, I'm yeah, I'm confused too, but I'm

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<v Speaker 4>liking it no matter what. Maybe she just wants to

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<v Speaker 4>take it super super slow with you because she liked

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<v Speaker 4>you that much, that's true, But.

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<v Speaker 2>She wanted to take it fast in the beginning.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, no, fast slow. It's like watching a Lexus drive.

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<v Speaker 4>It's hard to follow. So let's try and call her.

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<v Speaker 4>We'll figure out if she has a reason for not

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<v Speaker 4>talking to you in the last four days, but hopefully

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<v Speaker 4>we can get her to agree to another meetup when

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<v Speaker 4>we do your second date update with Lisa right after

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<v Speaker 4>this with Lisa, right after this broken Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Second date updates, We're on.

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<v Speaker 4>The phone with Chris, who told us that his date

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<v Speaker 4>with Lisa was the most turned on that he has

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<v Speaker 4>ever been. Are you after getting the deats? It's not

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<v Speaker 4>hard to understand why he said that, because first off,

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<v Speaker 4>they went to Popeyes, then they played foot seat together

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<v Speaker 4>with their chicken tenders.

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<v Speaker 2>That they were.

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<v Speaker 6>Legs sexy again, and then at the very end, when

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<v Speaker 6>he leaned in to kiss her, she blocked it with

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<v Speaker 6>her greasy hand and then guided his lips onto her cheek.

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<v Speaker 5>Boy.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yes, yes, I mean, am I the only one

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<v Speaker 4>who's sweating thinking about that? Maybe I'm getting sick. I'll

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<v Speaker 4>probably get a check out. But I mean, according to Chris,

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<v Speaker 4>it was an intense connection that they shared that day.

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<v Speaker 2>That's so cool.

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<v Speaker 4>It has been four days though, since they last spoke

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<v Speaker 4>over text, and he's not sure what killed the momentum.

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<v Speaker 4>We're going to try and help him figure out why.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I would love that. I mean, it was a

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<v Speaker 5>perfect matchup, super funny, quirky, pretty woman. I mean, come on,

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<v Speaker 5>help me out.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you have any theories?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I must have just said something wrong or

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<v Speaker 5>weird in the text, But I've gone back through and

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<v Speaker 5>looked at him and there's nothing there that stands out.

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<v Speaker 2>You didn't send any pictures, did you?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 4>I did not, Okay, because sometimes I send a naked,

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<v Speaker 4>unbreaded chicken and that usually kills it.

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<v Speaker 2>Much about jeff And yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>The girls like it breaded, by the way, Chris, that's

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<v Speaker 4>another hot dating tip for you, just in case this

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<v Speaker 4>doesn't work out.

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<v Speaker 5>All right, I'll take it.

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<v Speaker 4>For guys to go ahead, feel free to steal that. Yes,

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<v Speaker 4>I know again, Brooke is getting too turned on just

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<v Speaker 4>thinking about that naked chicken breast before. Yeah, exactly. So

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<v Speaker 4>let's just dial Lisa. We'll see if she answers, and

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<v Speaker 4>then hopefully we can figure this out. So here we go. Hello, Hey,

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<v Speaker 4>we're looking to speak with Lisa.

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<v Speaker 5>This is Lisa.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey, Lisa, thanks for answering. You're on a radio show

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<v Speaker 4>right now. It's kind of cool called Brook and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 4>in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, Lisa, Hey, but you star?

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<v Speaker 1>Hi? Okay, Yeah, I think this actually could be a

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<v Speaker 1>really exciting call for her.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, all of us are very excited to talk to

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<v Speaker 4>you because we heard about a date that you went

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<v Speaker 4>on with one of our listeners, a really nice seeming

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<v Speaker 4>guy named Chris.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, Chris, Yeah, your pop Eye boyfriend?

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<v Speaker 2>Can we call it already? I guess about it is funny.

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<v Speaker 4>Pop Bye guy, Pop Bye.

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<v Speaker 5>Gop bye guy. I like that.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Uh, why are you calling?

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<v Speaker 5>Sorry? Right?

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<v Speaker 4>So this is a segment called a second date update.

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<v Speaker 4>We do it when a listener of ours is having

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<v Speaker 4>trouble figuring out why they're not getting a second meet

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<v Speaker 4>up with someone. We call on their behalf to try

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<v Speaker 4>and figure out if there's a reason why.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, I don't know, you know, Okay, did

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<v Speaker 1>you start with your initial thoughts, like when he walked

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<v Speaker 1>into Popeyes?

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<v Speaker 2>You were like, what.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean?

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<v Speaker 5>I thought I was cute? I just OK.

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<v Speaker 4>It sounds like you're on the fence about it. At

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<v Speaker 4>least you're not outright saying no, I didn't like him,

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<v Speaker 4>So that's a good sign.

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<v Speaker 3>It's tough because I do want to see him again

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<v Speaker 3>and I had a great time. It's just that's not

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<v Speaker 3>my specific situation.

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<v Speaker 4>What do you mean, what's your specific situation?

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<v Speaker 3>So in my situation, my boyfriend likes it when I

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<v Speaker 3>go on dates with other guys.

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<v Speaker 4>You what your boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, I get it.

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<v Speaker 1>So in a relationship with another man and you're just

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<v Speaker 1>doing this because it's your guys thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Like he likes to be jealous.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I mean not really, Like he goes on the

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<v Speaker 3>date too, and he watches like that's that's the same

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<v Speaker 3>he was in the restaurant.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so he came into the restaurant and watched me

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<v Speaker 3>go on a date with another guy.

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<v Speaker 4>He saw the two of you playing with each other's chicken.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry. That's what I can't get over either.

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<v Speaker 1>Like you were He said that you were acting like

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<v Speaker 1>chicken tenders were legs.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean that's what you're supposed to do on a date, right,

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<v Speaker 3>like have fun.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it sucks because like you led Chris on our listener,

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<v Speaker 1>like she didn't know we're in a relationship.

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<v Speaker 3>No, no, because I'm not lying because on my profile

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<v Speaker 3>it says that I'm looking for something casual.

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<v Speaker 4>So are you saying romance is still in play?

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<v Speaker 3>No, I mean that's one of our rules, like we

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<v Speaker 3>we can't do anything with other people, Like a kiss

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<v Speaker 3>on the cheek is as far as it can go.

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<v Speaker 4>That explains the guided mouth to the cheek is.

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<v Speaker 3>Very slope, friend, I mean not really like it keeps

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<v Speaker 3>things fun and exciting, and it makes it feel like

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<v Speaker 3>we're still in the early stages of dating.

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<v Speaker 2>That's one of the worst parts of dating.

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<v Speaker 3>For you.

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<v Speaker 4>But I don't know. But then you go to like

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<v Speaker 4>ten years deep into a relationship and you barely talk

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<v Speaker 4>to each other experience, right, you wish to have more

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<v Speaker 4>things to talk about.

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<v Speaker 2>That's not true. I'm over ten years in and.

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<v Speaker 4>Like exactly, you've just proved my all right.

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<v Speaker 2>I think Chris is going to be just bummed. That's

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<v Speaker 2>a bummer.

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<v Speaker 4>Well we can. We don't need to guess, because we

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<v Speaker 4>do have Chris waiting on the other line, listening in

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<v Speaker 4>on this conversation, wanting to talk to you. Lisa.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, he has heard all of that.

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<v Speaker 4>Unless he hung up.

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<v Speaker 5>Hey, Lisa, Oh no he didn't. He's still in I

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<v Speaker 5>don't even understand what what went on you? You did

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<v Speaker 5>this almost like a joke to have your boyfriend watched

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<v Speaker 5>me on a date with you.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not a joke. We just like watch each other

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<v Speaker 3>go on first dates with other people.

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<v Speaker 5>For your time with you, I make I mean what

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<v Speaker 5>you said to you is you're a casure up for

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<v Speaker 5>something casual. Well, it sounds like you're also in something

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<v Speaker 5>that's beyond casual, but you want something to catch I'm

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<v Speaker 5>I'm perplexed. I don't understand. It feels very rude, and

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<v Speaker 5>I feel like I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Chris, So after all the first dates I've had

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<v Speaker 3>and like we do this like once or twice a month,

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<v Speaker 3>like you were one of my favorites and it's so

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<v Speaker 3>and my boyfriend I might want to use one of

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<v Speaker 3>my golden tickets on you this year.

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<v Speaker 5>What okay?

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<v Speaker 3>So like a golden ticket is a second date with someone,

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<v Speaker 3>and I haven't used mine yet this year, and I'm

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<v Speaker 3>thinking of using it on you.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh this is great, Brook take notes.

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<v Speaker 5>For your But we have an actual, a real connection,

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<v Speaker 5>and I'm finding out it's just like a game no.

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<v Speaker 3>No, no, Like obviously we had a good time together,

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<v Speaker 3>like or otherwise you wouldn't have called this radio station.

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<v Speaker 4>So I just got you there.

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<v Speaker 5>We could go.

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<v Speaker 3>Out again, and I can't let you can see on

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<v Speaker 3>the cheek again, but you know my boyfriend will be watching.

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<v Speaker 3>That's a good question.

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<v Speaker 5>Where was he city? Did I interact with your boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 4>If he was in the drive through. I'm going to die.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't want to ruin it because, like he might

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<v Speaker 3>be in the same spot when we go on another date,

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<v Speaker 3>so you know, I want to let them be inconspicuous.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, does it ruined for you that he knows now

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<v Speaker 4>that the boyfriend's going to be in the vicinity? Isn't

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<v Speaker 4>that part of the facade?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean kind of, But like I would still use

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<v Speaker 3>my Goalden ticket on you, Chris, And like, again, my

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<v Speaker 3>boyfriend hasn't like officially agreed, but like I will extend that.

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<v Speaker 1>What if you end up liking Chris more than your boyfriend,

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<v Speaker 1>That's not gonna.

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<v Speaker 5>Happen, Nobody. You all know that I'm still here.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, No, we know.

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<v Speaker 4>I just want to I want to get more details

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<v Speaker 4>about how this whole relationship thing works.

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<v Speaker 2>It is literally taking notes for some reason. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>really get it.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean not to be too progressive here, but it's

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<v Speaker 4>kind of archaic to think that just because a woman

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<v Speaker 4>is in a relationship, that means she can't hang out

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<v Speaker 4>with a man ever again or meet a new guy.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, Brooke, No, I don't agree with you on this one.

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<v Speaker 4>You think that women should be locked down once they're

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<v Speaker 4>in a relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>I think every relationship can have different boundaries, and that's

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<v Speaker 1>fine that those are the boundaries that she has with

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<v Speaker 1>her boyfriend. What I don't think is fine is that

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<v Speaker 1>you're lying to other people and like using people like

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<v Speaker 1>Chris along the way.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the part that sucks.

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<v Speaker 4>That's fair. But now all the boundaries have been set out,

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<v Speaker 4>she said exactly how it works, and Chris, you're in the.

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<v Speaker 2>Loop in the inner circle.

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<v Speaker 4>It's actually the inner triangle broke because it's a three

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<v Speaker 4>person thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Unless her boyfriend's on a double date while watching her

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<v Speaker 1>date that it would be a square.

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<v Speaker 4>Or really far away erectangle.

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<v Speaker 5>Wait have you done this before?

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<v Speaker 3>That's a great idea.

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<v Speaker 4>No, No, we're just storm in here. But we just

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<v Speaker 4>took geometry, So Lisa, it sounds like you've already told

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<v Speaker 4>us that you're willing to use your golden ticket on Chris.

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<v Speaker 4>Is that? Am I right about that? Yes, Chris, Lisa's

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<v Speaker 4>in and so is her boyfriend secretly in the corner.

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<v Speaker 4>Are you still down?

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<v Speaker 2>He's got to be listening to this.

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<v Speaker 5>I do not want to go out on dates with

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<v Speaker 5>somebody who needs approval from their boyfriend through what a

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<v Speaker 5>golden ticket. Yeah, no, no, thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>That's such a normal sentence to say that.

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<v Speaker 4>Chris, are you her?

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<v Speaker 3>Because like, if it works out, we could go and

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<v Speaker 3>watch his seat the next week.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh yeah, I never want to do that.

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<v Speaker 4>No, you two could be hiding in the ball pit

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<v Speaker 4>while they're inside the McDonald sharing a Mcchristmas. It's going

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<v Speaker 4>so well. You just remember no kissing, brooking Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 4>the morning. It's funny that Chris's biggest turn on was

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<v Speaker 4>when she said no to his kiss, But her biggest

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<v Speaker 4>turn on was her boyfriend watching her say no to

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<v Speaker 4>his kiss. Oh the irony.

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<v Speaker 2>There, it's chicken tender scene.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just still strange to me that that is part

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<v Speaker 1>of the arousal situation.

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<v Speaker 4>Now you know what you're getting into when you go

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<v Speaker 4>to Popeyes. I mean, I guess if you know you're

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<v Speaker 4>not hooking up with anyone, you got nothing to lose.

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<v Speaker 4>She's just having a good time, like she doesn't care.

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<v Speaker 2>Da free Popeyes.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, answerthing to talk about later with her boyfriend. Like

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<v Speaker 1>when you did that thing, I thought that was so funny,

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<v Speaker 1>so sexy.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god. People's turn ons are just evolving as

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<v Speaker 4>the world changes and I don't know if it's a

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<v Speaker 4>good thing or not.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not sure either Brook.

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<v Speaker 4>Does Michael want to watch you and me get some

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<v Speaker 4>red lobster? Maybe this weekend. I'll pretend to not see

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<v Speaker 4>him in the corner. If he's into that, I'm.

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<v Speaker 2>Gonna go no. But you can sit and watch us

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<v Speaker 2>if you want.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, that's not very fun for me. Your husband's like,

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<v Speaker 4>who's that weird guy choking on auber biscuit over there?

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know. Might reinvigorate your marriage because it sounds

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<v Speaker 4>like it definitely worked for Lisa Lost Opportunity.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll keep that in my back pocket.

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<v Speaker 4>keep us in your back pocket. If you ever need

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<v Speaker 4>help with your dating life, you can email the show.

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