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Speaker 1: Welcome to your brand new Second Date podcast. Thank you

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Speaker 1: so much for being here and today. Well, I guess

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Speaker 1: the part where they're playing with their food during the

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Speaker 1: date is a highlight.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, the low light gets real low so you'll

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Speaker 2: hear it in just a second. My first comment to lexis.

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Speaker 3: Yes, Rosebud Sims said, when I was a kid, I

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Speaker 3: hated the talking part of the radio in the morning.

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Speaker 1: Now I hate the music and listen to the talking

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Speaker 1: part online.

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Speaker 3: Love you guys.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, welcome to adulthood.

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Speaker 1: My own kid actually turned the station the other day

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Speaker 1: when he heard my voice.

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Speaker 2: Come on.

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Speaker 1: Oh, it was like rude right face too, ye, not

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Speaker 1: getting your allowance this week.

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Speaker 2: All right, let's get into your brand new Second Day.

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Speaker 1: It starts right now, broken Jeffrey in the morning Second

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Speaker 1: Date updates.

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Speaker 4: I just googled the top turn ons for guys during

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Speaker 4: dates WHOA and Google was like, I don't know, ask

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Speaker 4: Chat GPT. So I went and I asked Chat GPT,

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Speaker 4: Hey what turns guys on?

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Speaker 2: Shouldn't you know you're a guy And they.

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Speaker 4: Were like, oh, come on now, jeff you know. Oh

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Speaker 4: so I'm getting no answers from both of the smartest

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Speaker 4: computers on planet Earth.

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Speaker 2: They must listen.

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Speaker 4: Here's what I've learned from a good friend of mine,

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Speaker 4: jose Bolanos. A woman with a great personality and a nice,

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Speaker 4: low cut napkin will always have my attention. So that's

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Speaker 4: what I have to go off of. When one of

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Speaker 4: our listeners said that he was turned on big time

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Speaker 4: by the end of his date, I think I know

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Speaker 4: what he means. I cannot wait to find out how

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Speaker 4: low his dates napkin was cut. Chris, Welcome to the show,

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Speaker 4: my man.

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Speaker 5: Hey, thanks for having me.

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Speaker 2: God, I know that I want to part of any

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Speaker 2: of this. The rest of this conversation.

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Speaker 4: I know Brooks getting far too turned on thinking about

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Speaker 4: how low she wants to cut her napkin for her

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Speaker 4: next day. It doesn't have to because it's hot, Am

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Speaker 4: I right, Chris?

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Speaker 1: Chris?

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Speaker 4: Chris knows, all right. So now that we've got all

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Speaker 4: the gears turning, we're all oiled up and ready to go.

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Speaker 4: Chris tell us about the woman that she met. What's

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Speaker 4: her name?

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Speaker 5: Her name was Lisa?

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Speaker 4: Oh, my sister's name is Lisa.

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Speaker 3: Man.

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Speaker 4: Now I got this tiny napkin and I'm thinking about Chris.

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Speaker 4: I'm so sorry. It's a good name, some strong female name.

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Speaker 2: Let's talk about your Lisa, Chris.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. I met her on a dating app.

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Speaker 5: I won't say which one, but she was definitely leading

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Speaker 5: the charge throughout this interaction because this is the thing

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Speaker 5: she wanted to get right to the date. I'm somebody

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Speaker 5: that wants to take it slow. I would like to

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Speaker 2: Isn't that exhausting though?

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Speaker 1: Like I've just heard that people disappear like it never

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Speaker 1: materials so much can ruin it?

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Speaker 4: Like before I know broke? Why don't they jump straight

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Speaker 4: into bed with you like first five minutes. Let's really

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Speaker 2: Know good old days, Jeff. I miss those days of

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Speaker 2: dating with you.

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Speaker 4: Chris, what's wrong with you? Why do you want to

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Speaker 4: talk to them?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: I want to get to know you. Do we have

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Speaker 5: that same sense of humor whatever? But Lisa, she just

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Speaker 5: jumped right and said, I'd like to get to know

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Speaker 5: you in person. Let's do it on a date.

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Speaker 4: Wow.

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Speaker 5: She suggested a place that I would have never thought

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Speaker 5: that a wola would suggest a date for, which was

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Speaker 5: Popeyes Popeye' chickens.

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Speaker 2: Yeahorn chicken. Oh so good?

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Speaker 5: It is great but I was like, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I about your stokes.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, did you actually go inside of Popeyes? Or did

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Speaker 5: We went inside no drive.

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Speaker 4: Because for anybody listening, that's a little first date tip,

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Speaker 4: do the drive through slow backs eat only. How are

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Speaker 4: not working out, just remember that for your next one. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 4: So take us inside Popeyes with Lisa. What happens?

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Speaker 5: Well, I would say, first off, when I saw her, she.

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Speaker 1: Was happy about that dude, and to be cute and

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Speaker 5: She was super cute, super nice. She made me laugh.

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Speaker 5: That was like a big highlight. This is silly. But

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Speaker 5: she would us that chicken tenders and make them walk

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Speaker 2: Why do I picture the rockets like chicken.

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Speaker 4: Chicken legs coming right out?

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Speaker 2: They were tenders. They weren't the drumsticks. They should have

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Speaker 4: That would have been Yeah, she's not as funny as

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Speaker 4: we want her to do. We're going to dock her

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Speaker 4: a point like end.

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Speaker 5: I mean, everything was going great. I mean there was

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Speaker 5: so much flirtation, eye contact, her smile, she was touching

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Speaker 5: was pretty short, I would guess, like I don't know,

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Speaker 5: thirty forty minutes. She just said, hey, I'm having a

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Speaker 5: great time, but I gotta go. I hope to see

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Speaker 5: you again, and then I walked her to her car.

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Speaker 5: On that moment, I was feeling the vibe. I went

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Speaker 5: in for a kiss goodbye, and next thing I know,

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Speaker 5: her fingers are on my lips, stopping me. Says to me,

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Speaker 5: naughty boy. Oh, literally moves my lips with her hand

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Speaker 5: to her cheek. I don't know. It must have been

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Speaker 5: the control, but that was the most turned on I've

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Speaker 2: No way.

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Speaker 4: Onto her cheek. That did it, man, I.

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Speaker 5: Don't know it was. I know she was saying no

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Speaker 4: You just discovered a woman to take control. Brother, Yeah,

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Speaker 4: that's what I discovered.

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Speaker 1: I mean, obviously she was being fun and playful with it, like,

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Speaker 1: it's not like she was turning you down in a

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Speaker 2: So I am actually surprised you're not seeing her again.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm surprised too, I mean, what what's happened since.

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Speaker 5: I was a little bit of chit chat via text

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Speaker 5: right after the date, okay, but then it just went

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Speaker 2: Man, the chicken's gun cold.

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Speaker 4: She's trying to ghost you, for sure. Yeah, just because

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Speaker 4: it's cold, doesn't wan you can't pop it in the

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Speaker 4: microwave reheat it.

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Speaker 1: Get you would choose an air fryer. Well, I mean

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Speaker 4: I'm working with what we got here at the radio station,

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Speaker 4: and they definitely don't have air fryers or ninja whatever

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Speaker 4: chicken right now, I'm yeah, I'm confused too, but I'm

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Speaker 4: liking it no matter what. Maybe she just wants to

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Speaker 4: take it super super slow with you because she liked

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Speaker 4: you that much, that's true, But.

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Speaker 2: She wanted to take it fast in the beginning.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, no, fast slow. It's like watching a Lexus drive.

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Speaker 4: It's hard to follow. So let's try and call her.

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Speaker 4: We'll figure out if she has a reason for not

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Speaker 4: we do your second date update with Lisa right after

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Speaker 4: this with Lisa, right after this broken Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: Second date updates, We're on.

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Speaker 4: The phone with Chris, who told us that his date

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Speaker 4: with Lisa was the most turned on that he has

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Speaker 4: ever been. Are you after getting the deats? It's not

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Speaker 4: hard to understand why he said that, because first off,

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Speaker 4: they went to Popeyes, then they played foot seat together

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Speaker 4: with their chicken tenders.

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Speaker 2: That they were.

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Speaker 6: Legs sexy again, and then at the very end, when

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Speaker 6: he leaned in to kiss her, she blocked it with

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Speaker 5: Boy.

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Speaker 4: Oh yes, yes, I mean, am I the only one

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Speaker 4: who's sweating thinking about that? Maybe I'm getting sick. I'll

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Speaker 4: probably get a check out. But I mean, according to Chris,

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Speaker 4: it was an intense connection that they shared that day.

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Speaker 2: That's so cool.

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Speaker 4: It has been four days though, since they last spoke

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Speaker 4: over text, and he's not sure what killed the momentum.

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Speaker 4: We're going to try and help him figure out why.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I would love that. I mean, it was a

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Speaker 5: perfect matchup, super funny, quirky, pretty woman. I mean, come on,

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Speaker 5: help me out.

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Speaker 2: Do you have any theories?

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Speaker 5: I mean, I must have just said something wrong or

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Speaker 5: weird in the text, But I've gone back through and

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Speaker 5: looked at him and there's nothing there that stands out.

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Speaker 2: You didn't send any pictures, did you?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 4: I did not, Okay, because sometimes I send a naked,

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Speaker 4: unbreaded chicken and that usually kills it.

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Speaker 2: Much about jeff And yeah.

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Speaker 4: The girls like it breaded, by the way, Chris, that's

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Speaker 4: another hot dating tip for you, just in case this

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Speaker 5: All right, I'll take it.

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Speaker 4: For guys to go ahead, feel free to steal that. Yes,

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Speaker 4: I know again, Brooke is getting too turned on just

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Speaker 4: thinking about that naked chicken breast before. Yeah, exactly. So

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Speaker 4: then hopefully we can figure this out. So here we go. Hello, Hey,

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Speaker 4: we're looking to speak with Lisa.

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Speaker 5: This is Lisa.

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Speaker 4: Hey, Lisa, thanks for answering. You're on a radio show

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Speaker 4: right now. It's kind of cool called Brook and Jeffrey

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Speaker 4: in the Morning.

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Speaker 2: Hey, Lisa, Hey, but you star?

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Speaker 1: Hi? Okay, Yeah, I think this actually could be a

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Speaker 1: really exciting call for her.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, all of us are very excited to talk to

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Speaker 4: you because we heard about a date that you went

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Speaker 4: on with one of our listeners, a really nice seeming

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Speaker 4: guy named Chris.

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Speaker 1: Oh, Chris, Yeah, your pop Eye boyfriend?

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Speaker 2: Can we call it already? I guess about it is funny.

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Speaker 4: Pop Bye guy, Pop Bye.

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Speaker 5: Gop bye guy. I like that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Uh, why are you calling?

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Speaker 5: Sorry? Right?

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Speaker 4: So this is a segment called a second date update.

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Speaker 4: We do it when a listener of ours is having

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Speaker 4: trouble figuring out why they're not getting a second meet

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Speaker 4: up with someone. We call on their behalf to try

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Speaker 4: and figure out if there's a reason why.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't know, you know, Okay, did

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Speaker 1: you start with your initial thoughts, like when he walked

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Speaker 1: into Popeyes?

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Speaker 2: You were like, what.

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Speaker 3: I mean?

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Speaker 3: It's tough because I do want to see him again

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Speaker 4: You what your boyfriend.

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Speaker 5: Okay, I get it.

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Speaker 2: Like he likes to be jealous.

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Speaker 3: No, I mean not really, Like he goes on the

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so he came into the restaurant and watched me

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Speaker 4: He saw the two of you playing with each other's chicken.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry. That's what I can't get over either.

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Speaker 1: Like you were He said that you were acting like

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Speaker 3: I mean that's what you're supposed to do on a date, right,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it sucks because like you led Chris on our listener,

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Speaker 3: No, no, because I'm not lying because on my profile

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Speaker 3: No, I mean that's one of our rules, like we

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Speaker 4: That explains the guided mouth to the cheek is.

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Speaker 3: Very slope, friend, I mean not really like it keeps

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Speaker 2: That's one of the worst parts of dating.

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Speaker 3: For you.

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Speaker 4: But I don't know. But then you go to like

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Speaker 2: That's not true. I'm over ten years in and.

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Speaker 4: Like exactly, you've just proved my all right.

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Speaker 2: I think Chris is going to be just bummed. That's

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Speaker 4: Well we can. We don't need to guess, because we

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, he has heard all of that.

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Speaker 4: Unless he hung up.

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Speaker 5: Hey, Lisa, Oh no he didn't. He's still in I

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Speaker 5: don't even understand what what went on you? You did

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Speaker 5: this almost like a joke to have your boyfriend watched

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Speaker 3: It's not a joke. We just like watch each other

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Speaker 5: For your time with you, I make I mean what

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Speaker 5: you said to you is you're a casure up for

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Speaker 5: something casual. Well, it sounds like you're also in something

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Speaker 5: that's beyond casual, but you want something to catch I'm

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Speaker 5: I'm perplexed. I don't understand. It feels very rude, and

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Speaker 3: Okay, Chris, So after all the first dates I've had

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Speaker 3: and like we do this like once or twice a month,

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Speaker 3: and my boyfriend I might want to use one of

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Speaker 3: my golden tickets on you this year.

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Speaker 3: So like a golden ticket is a second date with someone,

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Speaker 4: Oh this is great, Brook take notes.

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Speaker 5: For your But we have an actual, a real connection,

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Speaker 5: and I'm finding out it's just like a game no.

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Speaker 3: No, no, Like obviously we had a good time together,

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Speaker 3: like or otherwise you wouldn't have called this radio station.

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Speaker 4: So I just got you there.

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Speaker 5: We could go.

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Speaker 3: Out again, and I can't let you can see on

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Speaker 3: the cheek again, but you know my boyfriend will be watching.

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Speaker 3: That's a good question.

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Speaker 5: Where was he city? Did I interact with your boyfriend.

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Speaker 4: If he was in the drive through. I'm going to die.

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Speaker 3: I don't want to ruin it because, like he might

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Speaker 3: so you know, I want to let them be inconspicuous.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, does it ruined for you that he knows now

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Speaker 4: that the boyfriend's going to be in the vicinity? Isn't

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Speaker 4: that part of the facade?

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Speaker 3: I mean kind of, But like I would still use

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Speaker 1: What if you end up liking Chris more than your boyfriend,

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Speaker 1: That's not gonna.

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Speaker 5: Happen, Nobody. You all know that I'm still here.

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Speaker 3: Right, No, we know.

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Speaker 4: I just want to I want to get more details

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Speaker 2: It is literally taking notes for some reason. I don't

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Speaker 4: I mean not to be too progressive here, but it's

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Speaker 2: Right, Brooke, No, I don't agree with you on this one.

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Speaker 4: You think that women should be locked down once they're

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Speaker 1: I think every relationship can have different boundaries, and that's

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Speaker 2: That's the part that sucks.

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Speaker 4: That's fair. But now all the boundaries have been set out,

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Speaker 4: she said exactly how it works, and Chris, you're in the.

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Speaker 2: Loop in the inner circle.

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Speaker 4: It's actually the inner triangle broke because it's a three

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Speaker 1: Unless her boyfriend's on a double date while watching her

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Speaker 4: Or really far away erectangle.

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Speaker 5: Wait have you done this before?

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Speaker 3: That's a great idea.

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Speaker 4: No, No, we're just storm in here. But we just

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Speaker 4: took geometry, So Lisa, it sounds like you've already told

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Speaker 4: Is that? Am I right about that? Yes, Chris, Lisa's

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Speaker 4: Are you still down?

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Speaker 2: He's got to be listening to this.

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Speaker 5: I do not want to go out on dates with

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Speaker 5: golden ticket. Yeah, no, no, thank you.

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Speaker 2: That's such a normal sentence to say that.

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Speaker 4: Chris, are you her?

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Speaker 3: Because like, if it works out, we could go and

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, I never want to do that.

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Speaker 4: No, you two could be hiding in the ball pit

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Speaker 4: while they're inside the McDonald sharing a Mcchristmas. It's going

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Speaker 4: so well. You just remember no kissing, brooking Jeffrey in

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Speaker 4: the morning. It's funny that Chris's biggest turn on was

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Speaker 2: There, it's chicken tender scene.

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Speaker 1: It's just still strange to me that that is part

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Speaker 4: Now you know what you're getting into when you go

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Speaker 4: to Popeyes. I mean, I guess if you know you're

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Speaker 4: She's just having a good time, like she doesn't care.

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Speaker 2: Da free Popeyes.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, answerthing to talk about later with her boyfriend. Like

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Speaker 1: when you did that thing, I thought that was so funny,

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Speaker 4: Oh my god. People's turn ons are just evolving as

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Speaker 2: I'm not sure either Brook.

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Speaker 4: Does Michael want to watch you and me get some

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Speaker 4: red lobster? Maybe this weekend. I'll pretend to not see

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Speaker 4: him in the corner. If he's into that, I'm.

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Speaker 2: Gonna go no. But you can sit and watch us

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Speaker 4: Oh, that's not very fun for me. Your husband's like,

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Speaker 4: who's that weird guy choking on auber biscuit over there?

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Speaker 4: I don't know. Might reinvigorate your marriage because it sounds

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Speaker 2: I'll keep that in my back pocket.

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Speaker 4: Things go sound good for you, and make sure you

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Speaker 4: keep us in your back pocket. If you ever need

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Speaker 4: help with your dating life, you can email the show.

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Speaker 4: We'll call that person who isn't calling you back, and

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Speaker 4: also keep our podcast in your back pocket too. Really well,

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