WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Right To Remain Sexy 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:02.320 Hey, it's your Second Date Update podcast with Brook and 0:00:02.360 --> 0:00:04.240 Jeffrey in the Morning, the home of the Second Date Update, 0:00:04.280 --> 0:00:07.160 and it's brand new today. One of our listeners says 0:00:07.160 --> 0:00:11.039 his date had one very odd request shortly after they 0:00:11.080 --> 0:00:11.879 sat down for dinner. 0:00:12.320 --> 0:00:14.280 I'd love to hear a few degree to it like 0:00:14.360 --> 0:00:16.240 he did. Let us know in the comments, and I 0:00:16.280 --> 0:00:18.760 love our comments. We love our comments. Sect Yes, it's 0:00:18.760 --> 0:00:20.480 my favorite thing to look through. Seriously. 0:00:20.960 --> 0:00:23.720 I saw him from Macy Brown who said introducing me 0:00:23.760 --> 0:00:26.000 to this show was the best thing TikTok has ever 0:00:26.079 --> 0:00:26.599 done for me. 0:00:26.760 --> 0:00:29.920 Hey, what a statement. 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Or a sultry child and family therapist. 0:01:27.760 --> 0:01:30.240 I haven't tell you my problem. 0:01:30.480 --> 0:01:34.479 Tell me how my childhood upbringing turn me bad? Did 0:01:34.560 --> 0:01:35.800 you just say abandonment issues? 0:01:36.319 --> 0:01:36.559 Yeah? 0:01:36.640 --> 0:01:39.440 And one of our listeners apparently couldn't resist the lure 0:01:39.560 --> 0:01:43.080 of a smoke show in a sexy uniform, so let's 0:01:43.120 --> 0:01:43.920 talk to him about it. 0:01:43.959 --> 0:01:46.040 His name is Nick. Nick. Welcome to the show. 0:01:46.600 --> 0:01:47.600 Hey, thanks for having me. 0:01:50.320 --> 0:01:52.680 I am so curious about the profession here. 0:01:52.840 --> 0:01:56.800 It's just like a milkman. Who's this person that she met? 0:01:56.800 --> 0:01:57.640 And what do they do? 0:01:58.280 --> 0:02:00.520 Her name is Becca and she's a cop. 0:02:00.880 --> 0:02:01.520 Oh, she is a. 0:02:03.600 --> 0:02:06.960 Copy lady. 0:02:06.960 --> 0:02:10.800 Cops are sexy, like you know, their waist always looks 0:02:10.800 --> 0:02:11.799 so cinched, like. 0:02:11.800 --> 0:02:14.520 It's ready to go at the moment. 0:02:15.240 --> 0:02:16.600 Just a power that they have. 0:02:16.760 --> 0:02:19.440 Yeah, okay, the like license and registration and I'm like 0:02:19.560 --> 0:02:21.440 five ft ten in single I'm. 0:02:21.320 --> 0:02:23.760 Sure we're all telling you stuff you already know, right, Nick. 0:02:25.160 --> 0:02:28.359 Exactly, did you meet her while getting arrested? 0:02:28.560 --> 0:02:31.600 Or no, we met on the apps? 0:02:31.800 --> 0:02:33.720 Oh you did? Okay, okay, if you're a cop, do 0:02:33.760 --> 0:02:35.839 you share that on the app? Or is that a no? 0:02:35.840 --> 0:02:36.000 No? 0:02:36.400 --> 0:02:39.720 That was her picture. Of course, I made a dumb joke. 0:02:39.800 --> 0:02:41.880 I said, are you a real copper or stripper? 0:02:42.120 --> 0:02:42.520 Oh? 0:02:45.000 --> 0:02:45.799 Did she like that? 0:02:46.400 --> 0:02:49.400 No? She was like, ha ha, You're only the tenth 0:02:49.400 --> 0:02:54.520 person to stay that. Yeah, that one's a pretty basic joke. 0:02:54.680 --> 0:02:56.320 So you're already start with her. 0:02:56.440 --> 0:02:58.880 Yeah, but she responded, isn't that just half the battle 0:02:59.280 --> 0:02:59.919 dating apps? 0:03:00.560 --> 0:03:01.560 How'd you turn it around? 0:03:02.120 --> 0:03:04.000 She did have other pictures on there, and there was 0:03:04.040 --> 0:03:06.880 a picture of her having a cup of coffee at 0:03:06.880 --> 0:03:09.400 a cafe, and so I was like, oh, you like coffee. 0:03:09.560 --> 0:03:10.920 I thought for sure you were going to make a 0:03:10.960 --> 0:03:12.120 donut joke at that. 0:03:13.919 --> 0:03:16.520 I don't think of this opportunity that would have been. 0:03:16.960 --> 0:03:20.000 No, no, you already took a jab your bro. What 0:03:20.639 --> 0:03:21.960 did you do with the coffee? 0:03:22.400 --> 0:03:24.200 I just was like, oh, yeah, you know, are you 0:03:24.639 --> 0:03:27.880 a coffee fan? And she basically got super fired up and. 0:03:28.000 --> 0:03:30.280 Was like you know, And then you asked her what's 0:03:30.280 --> 0:03:31.119 your drink? Right? 0:03:31.200 --> 0:03:32.680 Like, that's what you have to ask I did, and 0:03:32.680 --> 0:03:34.720 then she started going off about how she had gone 0:03:34.720 --> 0:03:37.000 recently to her favorite coffee shop and they got her 0:03:37.360 --> 0:03:39.560 coffee order wrong and she wasn't mad about it, but 0:03:39.600 --> 0:03:41.480 she was just mentioning. And I was like, Oh, I'll 0:03:41.480 --> 0:03:43.800 put a bad Yelp review on their site for you. 0:03:43.920 --> 0:03:47.320 And this is a cute connection. 0:03:47.760 --> 0:03:49.760 Okay, So this is all the chat leading. 0:03:49.600 --> 0:03:51.560 Up to the date, all the chat leading up to 0:03:51.600 --> 0:03:54.040 the date. And so I recovered and I was like, well, 0:03:54.120 --> 0:03:55.480 let's hang out, let's go out to dinner. 0:03:56.080 --> 0:03:58.160 How was that? Where'd you guys? I mean, was it 0:03:58.200 --> 0:03:59.760 fancy or was it more casual? 0:04:00.000 --> 0:04:00.600 A coffee? 0:04:01.240 --> 0:04:03.160 No, it wasn't coffee, it was I would say it 0:04:03.200 --> 0:04:05.520 was you know, Mitt, I didn't want to go like divy, 0:04:05.600 --> 0:04:07.560 but I also didn't want to go like high pressure, 0:04:07.600 --> 0:04:11.480 super expensive. So it's to a place that felt comfortable. 0:04:11.880 --> 0:04:14.960 Great conversation. We talked a little bit about her working 0:04:15.160 --> 0:04:16.159 in law enforcement. 0:04:16.640 --> 0:04:18.400 Yeah, what is it like to go on a date 0:04:18.480 --> 0:04:19.520 with a real cop? 0:04:20.040 --> 0:04:22.400 Uh? You know, she didn't come into uniform. It was 0:04:22.480 --> 0:04:23.200 pretty chill. 0:04:23.400 --> 0:04:27.120 Uh didn't come Did you expect her any point? 0:04:27.120 --> 0:04:29.120 Though? I don't know. I know some people get off 0:04:29.160 --> 0:04:31.039 of work and then they had just come directly. No, 0:04:31.320 --> 0:04:32.359 I wasn't expecting that. 0:04:32.440 --> 0:04:34.840 I guess okay, it would feel like a very powerful 0:04:34.880 --> 0:04:36.680 move though, to sit in a booth right next to 0:04:36.720 --> 0:04:37.320 a cop. 0:04:37.160 --> 0:04:40.280 And I would think that somebody was with their parole officer. 0:04:42.080 --> 0:04:44.279 Even then you cough as a bad boy at that 0:04:44.320 --> 0:04:45.800 point to everybody in the restaurant. 0:04:46.440 --> 0:04:48.280 So was she cool though, because like, you're on a 0:04:48.360 --> 0:04:50.800 date with a cop, I would be nervous. 0:04:51.160 --> 0:04:52.479 Did you only have one drink? 0:04:52.640 --> 0:04:56.599 Can you mention are expiring you and get you? 0:04:57.440 --> 0:04:58.200 That's a good point. 0:04:58.560 --> 0:05:01.480 How does it go on my mind? I was like, 0:05:01.760 --> 0:05:05.000 I can't tell any stories about my bad boy early days, 0:05:05.040 --> 0:05:07.800 all that sort of stuff. But there was one point, 0:05:08.000 --> 0:05:10.360 you know, we didn't really stick to her working law 0:05:10.400 --> 0:05:13.240 enforcement too long, but there was one point where she 0:05:13.360 --> 0:05:15.800 was like, hey, do you mind if we could switch 0:05:15.880 --> 0:05:18.400 seats so I can like face the door. 0:05:18.600 --> 0:05:21.839 Oh yeah, oh yeah. People liked it. 0:05:21.880 --> 0:05:23.919 Are in law enforce, like they always want to seize 0:05:24.120 --> 0:05:27.880 in case they can never be caught by surprise, that's 0:05:27.920 --> 0:05:28.839 what happens in the movies. 0:05:28.960 --> 0:05:31.440 No smart though, or it's a good excuse for her 0:05:31.480 --> 0:05:33.480 to be like when I need to escape from this stage, 0:05:33.520 --> 0:05:34.640 I know exactly where I. 0:05:34.560 --> 0:05:36.680 Need to run down. I mean either way, Yeah, so 0:05:36.960 --> 0:05:37.640 did you switch? 0:05:38.200 --> 0:05:40.920 Yeah? I was down with making that happen. So we did. 0:05:41.000 --> 0:05:43.600 You know, she's a really smart person. We had really 0:05:43.680 --> 0:05:48.040 good conversation about lots of topics. I don't know why 0:05:48.080 --> 0:05:50.080 at this point she's not texting me back. 0:05:50.279 --> 0:05:51.200 Wow. 0:05:51.760 --> 0:05:54.440 End and I ended with like a really nice hug, 0:05:54.600 --> 0:05:57.000 Let's do this again. I didn't go into the kiss 0:05:57.000 --> 0:05:58.680 because it didn't feel like we were quite there, but 0:05:58.720 --> 0:06:01.599 there was definitely some heemish. And when I said let's 0:06:01.640 --> 0:06:04.640 do this again, there was no hesitation, No let me 0:06:04.640 --> 0:06:06.320 think about it, let me look at my schedule, none 0:06:06.360 --> 0:06:08.400 of that stuff. I can tell. The brush off and 0:06:08.600 --> 0:06:10.880 like an actual let's do this again. 0:06:11.360 --> 0:06:13.560 Yeah, you should have asked if you could hit the 0:06:13.600 --> 0:06:16.200 siren in her cop car and driven around the block 0:06:16.240 --> 0:06:16.919 real quick. 0:06:17.720 --> 0:06:22.720 Because one's ever no one's ever asked that before. I mean, 0:06:22.760 --> 0:06:23.200 who knows. 0:06:23.240 --> 0:06:25.159 Maybe she's on an undercover mission and that's why she 0:06:25.200 --> 0:06:27.360 hasn't gotten back to you because she's not allowed. 0:06:27.680 --> 0:06:31.000 So wait, nick, question, is she the one who suggested 0:06:31.040 --> 0:06:33.360 that you go have dinner at that particular restaurant? 0:06:33.400 --> 0:06:35.320 Wait a minute, and she had to watch the door, Jett. 0:06:35.440 --> 0:06:38.560 Yeah, I throw a couple of options when we were chatting, 0:06:38.600 --> 0:06:39.960 and she selected that one. 0:06:40.279 --> 0:06:42.560 Oh was it in like a really shady part of 0:06:42.600 --> 0:06:44.200 town for no reason whatsoever? 0:06:44.560 --> 0:06:46.080 A really nice part of town. 0:06:46.240 --> 0:06:50.040 Maybe it's a white collar crime like embezzlement or something. 0:06:50.120 --> 0:06:52.599 Oh my god, we might actually help solve the crime 0:06:52.680 --> 0:06:53.960 by doing this second data. 0:06:54.160 --> 0:06:54.720 Probably not. 0:06:55.279 --> 0:06:56.239 Well. 0:06:58.040 --> 0:07:00.920 Yeah, and you know how most when you get them 0:07:00.960 --> 0:07:02.279 on the phone, they tell you everything. 0:07:03.400 --> 0:07:04.360 They're like an open book. 0:07:04.440 --> 0:07:07.360 Yeah, those cops. Yeah, I don't know, I've ever had 0:07:07.400 --> 0:07:08.440 that long of a conversation. 0:07:08.560 --> 0:07:10.480 Yeah, well, this is going to be a first in 0:07:10.520 --> 0:07:12.560 a lot of different ways. For usually they don't. 0:07:12.440 --> 0:07:15.840 Run a background check on the show. Oh yeah, with 0:07:15.880 --> 0:07:18.000 the cops, I've never gotten. 0:07:17.760 --> 0:07:18.360 Out of a ticket. 0:07:19.680 --> 0:07:21.560 This is going to be interesting when we come back, 0:07:21.760 --> 0:07:23.880 call Becca and get you your second date update. Right 0:07:23.920 --> 0:07:30.920 after this second date update. Normally our show is getting 0:07:30.960 --> 0:07:34.560 cops called on us. Yeah that's but today we're the 0:07:34.600 --> 0:07:38.960 ones calling up a cop that's right, not to report 0:07:39.000 --> 0:07:41.760 an emergency, but to get answers for our friend Nick, 0:07:41.920 --> 0:07:44.640 who went out with a law enforcement officer named Becca 0:07:44.720 --> 0:07:45.240 the other night. 0:07:45.320 --> 0:07:47.400 So we just tell nine one one and ask Rebecca. 0:07:47.440 --> 0:07:48.280 I think that's how it works. 0:07:48.400 --> 0:07:48.720 We act. 0:07:49.000 --> 0:07:51.320 We actually have Beca's cell phone numbers, so it's probably 0:07:51.360 --> 0:07:54.400 easier to do that. The thing is, Nick's not getting 0:07:54.440 --> 0:07:57.760 a call back after their romantic dinner. Is there a 0:07:57.800 --> 0:08:00.960 reason for it? Or was the whole dinner affront for 0:08:01.040 --> 0:08:04.120 a sting operation that she was running to bring down 0:08:04.160 --> 0:08:05.520 an Italian mob boss. 0:08:05.760 --> 0:08:08.120 I mean, honestly, that sounds like he's making a joke. 0:08:08.200 --> 0:08:11.080 But she sat facing the door, she picked the restaurant, 0:08:11.120 --> 0:08:13.040 and now she's not calling him back as. 0:08:16.360 --> 0:08:18.640 Nick, did you realize when you reached out to us 0:08:18.680 --> 0:08:20.400 for help that this is where the call was going 0:08:20.480 --> 0:08:20.720 to go. 0:08:22.680 --> 0:08:25.440 I like your imagination. I don't know if that's the case. 0:08:25.520 --> 0:08:29.280 I just she's cute, she's smart, she's a great woman. 0:08:30.120 --> 0:08:31.640 At least that's what she wants you to think. 0:08:31.720 --> 0:08:34.240 Yeah, sounds that she has a hitout on her. Her 0:08:34.320 --> 0:08:36.800 back was facing she knows that there's a hit man 0:08:36.840 --> 0:08:37.320 out there. 0:08:37.200 --> 0:08:38.040 Looking for it. 0:08:38.040 --> 0:08:40.640 It's possible, or maybe there's a simple reason and you 0:08:40.960 --> 0:08:42.880 messed up in some way. 0:08:43.280 --> 0:08:45.000 Let's figure it out. I'm going to dial her number. 0:08:45.080 --> 0:08:46.200 Well, they're gonna be great options. 0:08:47.480 --> 0:08:49.839 We are here for the tea, so let's do it. 0:08:50.000 --> 0:08:51.120 I'm dialing it right now. 0:08:59.360 --> 0:08:59.680 Hello. 0:09:00.480 --> 0:09:02.120 Hi, we're looking to speak with Becca. 0:09:03.440 --> 0:09:03.880 Speaking. 0:09:04.679 --> 0:09:07.000 Hey, Becca, how you doing out your officer. 0:09:07.840 --> 0:09:10.040 I'm honestly kind of nervous. 0:09:11.080 --> 0:09:13.760 I don't know if we should really mention that it 0:09:13.840 --> 0:09:17.360 was a little late. We're brooking Jeffery in the morning, 0:09:17.520 --> 0:09:20.400 and you probably heard my co host say officer Becca 0:09:20.720 --> 0:09:22.960 because we heard that you're a cop. And I just 0:09:23.000 --> 0:09:25.199 want to ask you upfront, is it okay for us 0:09:25.200 --> 0:09:27.160 to mention your profession. 0:09:26.720 --> 0:09:27.360 On the radio. 0:09:28.200 --> 0:09:29.199 I'm okay with that. 0:09:29.320 --> 0:09:30.120 We're allowed to say that. 0:09:30.200 --> 0:09:32.960 Okay, Well, she put it on her dating profile, he said, put. 0:09:32.880 --> 0:09:35.000 On the radio. I mean that's a different thing, you know, a. 0:09:34.960 --> 0:09:38.040 Worse lazier than a dating Definitely, people probably see your profile. 0:09:41.640 --> 0:09:43.480 Bottom line is we wanted to talk to you about 0:09:43.480 --> 0:09:47.199 a date you went on recently with a guy named Nick. A. 0:09:47.679 --> 0:09:50.640 Yeah, that sign. 0:09:50.559 --> 0:09:51.160 Was not good. 0:09:51.360 --> 0:09:53.560 So Nick reached out to us because he said he 0:09:53.640 --> 0:09:56.720 really enjoyed spending time with you that night, and he's 0:09:56.840 --> 0:09:59.640 curious if there's a reason why you're not calling him 0:09:59.640 --> 0:10:01.240 back and arranging a second meet up. 0:10:01.400 --> 0:10:04.520 Honestly, I'd say he's clueless, like he really expected to 0:10:04.520 --> 0:10:05.160 see you again. 0:10:06.559 --> 0:10:11.600 Yeah, so obviously I work in law enforcement. I've been 0:10:11.720 --> 0:10:15.280 on the forest for some time now, so I'm gonna 0:10:15.320 --> 0:10:18.160 always look up who I'm going on a date with 0:10:18.480 --> 0:10:19.880 or who I'm spending time with. 0:10:20.120 --> 0:10:23.120 Don't you wish you had that type of access, Alex, 0:10:23.360 --> 0:10:26.199 I know I only have my reverse Google image search. 0:10:26.440 --> 0:10:29.280 Yeah, I mean, but like, I did this on my 0:10:29.320 --> 0:10:31.880 own time. I don't use like police scanners. 0:10:31.960 --> 0:10:33.640 I hired someone myself. 0:10:33.920 --> 0:10:37.560 Okay, you're just doing your own normal just you're probably 0:10:37.600 --> 0:10:38.679 better at it than us. 0:10:38.840 --> 0:10:41.080 You got more resources than the average person. 0:10:41.480 --> 0:10:44.800 Yeah. I found some things that I thought he would 0:10:44.840 --> 0:10:48.360 be more forthcoming with, and when he wasn't, I it 0:10:48.400 --> 0:10:51.239 turned me off. I have no more interest. 0:10:51.000 --> 0:10:53.040 Are you saying he lied to you on the date? 0:10:53.720 --> 0:10:57.400 He did kind of abstain from the truth. He wasn't 0:10:57.440 --> 0:11:00.600 forthcoming with information, which I feel is a lie. 0:11:01.440 --> 0:11:03.200 Yeah, well, you're dating a cop. 0:11:03.280 --> 0:11:05.640 You have to be honest, especially if it's about well, 0:11:05.640 --> 0:11:07.520 what can I ask was it like a criminal thing? 0:11:07.600 --> 0:11:08.880 Right? That's the only thing you looked. 0:11:08.679 --> 0:11:09.040 Up, right. 0:11:09.360 --> 0:11:11.880 I don't know if it's appropriate for the radio. 0:11:12.320 --> 0:11:17.040 Okay, wanted if it's like a record that is supposed 0:11:17.040 --> 0:11:18.640 to be private, then don't share it. 0:11:18.679 --> 0:11:20.720 But if it's something we get any of us could 0:11:20.720 --> 0:11:24.760 find on the internet, spill away. 0:11:24.920 --> 0:11:26.160 We honestly don't have standards. 0:11:27.720 --> 0:11:30.120 The part, the thing that you don't you might not realize, 0:11:30.120 --> 0:11:32.440 beca is that part of being on this segment is 0:11:32.840 --> 0:11:35.720 the person agrees to hear whatever the reason is, no 0:11:35.760 --> 0:11:38.520 matter how embarrassing or strange it might be. 0:11:39.080 --> 0:11:41.760 I mean, if he agreed to that, then yeah, I'll 0:11:41.800 --> 0:11:46.640 share it. He was married a year ago to a 0:11:46.720 --> 0:11:54.680 Russian woman and she filed for divorce about a month ago. Yeah, 0:11:54.880 --> 0:11:57.280 that's a huge part of his life. And to just 0:11:57.320 --> 0:11:59.160 withhold that information. 0:12:00.559 --> 0:12:03.640 That's a lot of first date to bring up thoughts 0:12:03.840 --> 0:12:05.240 on that, like, how do you even start? 0:12:05.320 --> 0:12:07.280 So listen, I had this Russian wife. 0:12:07.360 --> 0:12:11.439 Yeah, like that you were expecting him to bring that up? 0:12:12.200 --> 0:12:12.480 Yeah? 0:12:12.640 --> 0:12:14.640 I think I was expecting him to tell me if 0:12:14.679 --> 0:12:18.480 he was separated. Being separated is a lot different from divorce. 0:12:18.600 --> 0:12:19.920 Oh it's not official yet. 0:12:20.679 --> 0:12:24.320 Yeah, I feel like he could withhold a lot of 0:12:24.360 --> 0:12:27.880 information if he's not forthcoming about the truth. 0:12:29.040 --> 0:12:30.560 I can see that. I mean, I don't know. 0:12:30.640 --> 0:12:32.200 I kind of am with her on that, Like, if 0:12:32.240 --> 0:12:34.640 it's divorced and final and you're done with it. But 0:12:34.679 --> 0:12:37.720 if you're in the middle of a separation. 0:12:37.440 --> 0:12:40.040 And I think you can list it on your dating profile, 0:12:40.160 --> 0:12:43.600 like specifically your status single divorce, separating that what you 0:12:43.600 --> 0:12:48.920 look for mostly. 0:12:44.400 --> 0:12:48.520 Is the most traumatized would be. 0:12:50.960 --> 0:12:55.240 Like, yeah, but like, did you even talk about relationships 0:12:55.240 --> 0:12:56.000 at all on the date? 0:12:56.480 --> 0:12:56.720 Yeah? 0:12:56.800 --> 0:12:59.920 I mean I hinted about it and I shared about 0:13:00.320 --> 0:13:03.800 a little bit, you know, just keeping respectful details private. 0:13:03.880 --> 0:13:06.719 But yeah, he said he didn't want to talk about it, 0:13:06.800 --> 0:13:09.600 and it seemed like he was evading the truth instead 0:13:09.600 --> 0:13:10.840 of just a private person. 0:13:11.040 --> 0:13:15.240 Okay, warning you know, Becca, I think the person who's 0:13:15.240 --> 0:13:17.520 actually going to find all of this the most interesting 0:13:18.440 --> 0:13:22.720 is actually Nick himself, who is listening on the other line, 0:13:22.760 --> 0:13:26.040 has tapped into our phone somehow. 0:13:27.679 --> 0:13:30.040 We did consent to it. Now, so he is there 0:13:30.120 --> 0:13:35.679 wanting to talk to you. Wow, come on, guys, I'm sorry. 0:13:36.559 --> 0:13:38.440 I mean, you wanted the truth out of him. Now's 0:13:38.480 --> 0:13:38.960 the chance? 0:13:39.559 --> 0:13:40.160 NICKI there? 0:13:40.800 --> 0:13:44.280 Yeah, I'm here. So what's up? Becca? You go on 0:13:44.360 --> 0:13:46.640 dates with people and you look up their history before 0:13:46.679 --> 0:13:46.959 you do. 0:13:46.960 --> 0:13:50.480 So, yes, Nick, I'm a cop. 0:13:52.520 --> 0:13:55.280 I think yeah, right, Well, we were going to a 0:13:55.320 --> 0:13:58.800 public place, and I feel like that's kind of using 0:13:58.840 --> 0:14:03.199 your cop resources to look up my history was Excuse me. 0:14:03.200 --> 0:14:07.439 I didn't use police resources. I use my own personal resources. 0:14:08.040 --> 0:14:11.120 And I just think it's really weird you wouldn't say anything. 0:14:12.600 --> 0:14:15.320 I mean, I'm not telling you if that's true or not. 0:14:15.480 --> 0:14:17.120 I mean you could have looked that up on some 0:14:17.640 --> 0:14:20.160 strange site that has false information. 0:14:24.160 --> 0:14:24.600 Is okay. 0:14:24.640 --> 0:14:26.440 I'm actually going to back up on this because I 0:14:26.480 --> 0:14:29.320 have a friend who's fiance looked her up when they 0:14:29.320 --> 0:14:31.680 were dating and he got all the information wrong. 0:14:31.880 --> 0:14:33.600 It's true, you probably have the wrong guy. 0:14:34.280 --> 0:14:35.400 Nick is a common name. 0:14:36.720 --> 0:14:38.800 Is that a possibility that maybe it's a different Nick 0:14:38.840 --> 0:14:39.600 and you mix them up? 0:14:40.280 --> 0:14:41.760 It's one hundred percent Nick. 0:14:42.640 --> 0:14:44.440 Really, how do you know that? 0:14:45.040 --> 0:14:45.920 Because I'm a cop. 0:14:47.960 --> 0:14:51.760 Okay, I'm going to text you your marriage certificate right now. 0:14:52.280 --> 0:14:55.200 No, no, wait, you can do that. 0:14:55.240 --> 0:14:57.640 You got the marriage certificate public record? 0:14:57.800 --> 0:15:01.520 Yeah, I think, oh wow, you can. Look. I know. 0:15:07.960 --> 0:15:11.240 It's absolutely public record. And I just texted you a 0:15:11.240 --> 0:15:11.920 photo of it. 0:15:11.960 --> 0:15:13.160 And there's your wife's name. 0:15:15.280 --> 0:15:15.960 Do you have a text? 0:15:16.200 --> 0:15:16.440 Nick? 0:15:18.400 --> 0:15:24.440 Look, here's the deal. I wait a minute, it was 0:15:24.480 --> 0:15:27.440 a mistake, it was a short term thing. Yes, I 0:15:27.520 --> 0:15:30.200 was married. Yes, I'm getting a divorce. It's going to 0:15:30.240 --> 0:15:31.680 be done very soon. 0:15:32.320 --> 0:15:37.080 Okay, Yeah, you should have just said that. 0:15:36.000 --> 0:15:37.080 Yeah, back at the start. 0:15:37.960 --> 0:15:39.600 Should have been the first thing you said to her 0:15:39.640 --> 0:15:41.480 when you greeted her, inside of the rest of. 0:15:44.680 --> 0:15:49.440 Yeah. If he would have told you that, you would 0:15:49.440 --> 0:15:50.360 have been okay with it. 0:15:50.440 --> 0:15:52.960 Really, I mean, honestly, it's the best policy. 0:15:53.120 --> 0:15:57.640 We all have a past. Wow, come on, what else 0:15:57.680 --> 0:15:58.960 do you know about me? Do you look at my 0:15:59.280 --> 0:16:01.120 record from what college? 0:16:01.200 --> 0:16:05.320 Wait, you're still the one defensive. You just got outed 0:16:05.360 --> 0:16:05.880 as a liar. 0:16:06.080 --> 0:16:07.400 I'm curious what you did in college. 0:16:07.440 --> 0:16:10.880 That sounds kind of funny, a stupid frank with the cow. 0:16:11.000 --> 0:16:12.360 But that's not even the point. 0:16:14.480 --> 0:16:17.080 It's not her fault, now, okay, well. 0:16:16.920 --> 0:16:19.360 I'm not saying it's her fault. I'm saying it's my past. 0:16:20.400 --> 0:16:22.440 Relevant defense. 0:16:22.520 --> 0:16:25.040 This is kind of embarrassing information to open up with, 0:16:25.480 --> 0:16:27.520 not to mention, like on the radio, but especially on 0:16:27.520 --> 0:16:29.400 a first date with someone you're trying to impress. 0:16:29.600 --> 0:16:31.960 He's the one that chose to do the radio part. Well, 0:16:32.000 --> 0:16:34.320 I know, I'm just saying this is a lot sweet. 0:16:34.520 --> 0:16:36.560 I'm trying to defend a guy who's in a weird 0:16:36.600 --> 0:16:39.640 spot here. So Becca, he has admitted that you were right, 0:16:40.120 --> 0:16:42.520 and he's ready to move on hopefully with you. 0:16:42.560 --> 0:16:44.040 Would you be willing to give him a chance? 0:16:45.320 --> 0:16:48.800 I'm not interested. Guys, it's just a no brainer for me. 0:16:48.960 --> 0:16:49.960 You gotta be honest. 0:16:53.000 --> 0:16:56.680 I wasn't dishonest. I am separated. I'm getting a divorce. 0:16:56.920 --> 0:16:59.800 It's just too late you started with it. Probably wasn't me. 0:17:01.840 --> 0:17:03.880 I didn't know she was such a good copy. 0:17:04.400 --> 0:17:08.119 Her interrogation skills their next level, dude, So maybe like 0:17:08.280 --> 0:17:11.240 a different professional uniform, like a coast guard, they won't 0:17:11.240 --> 0:17:13.399 look up your past about just be honest. 0:17:13.440 --> 0:17:16.520 On the next day, Why different. 0:17:16.320 --> 0:17:18.439 Moment Jeffrey in the morning. 0:17:18.920 --> 0:17:21.520 Why do our listeners love it so much when people 0:17:21.520 --> 0:17:22.680 get busted in a lie? 0:17:22.840 --> 0:17:23.640 On our second day? 0:17:23.720 --> 0:17:27.560 Calls literally text into seven eighty five nine to two 0:17:27.880 --> 0:17:30.840 says I knew that guy was a liar the moment 0:17:30.880 --> 0:17:32.840 I heard him. I think I went out with him 0:17:32.880 --> 0:17:37.600 two months ago before he was separating. Who knows if 0:17:37.640 --> 0:17:40.479 that's true, But we could ask a certain officer that 0:17:40.520 --> 0:17:43.240 we know to go and investigate that particular text. 0:17:43.720 --> 0:17:45.920 We're friends now with the I don't know that it's 0:17:45.920 --> 0:17:48.840 worth her time or our time. Yeah, let that one 0:17:48.880 --> 0:17:51.000 lie he needs to work out his own mess. 0:17:51.119 --> 0:17:51.399 Yeah. 0:17:51.480 --> 0:17:53.280