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Speaker 5: The Second Date Update.
Speaker 6: There's certain professions out there that are just considered sex.
Speaker 2: Oh oh yeah, okay.
Speaker 6: Like who's not swiping right on a hot firefighter.
Speaker 3: Right, that's me, okay, or something I thought you were
Speaker 3: going to say no, or down with the hose.
Speaker 5: That's more like that. That's what Alex is doing, but
Speaker 5: she turned her Michael exactly. Or a hunky doctor, yeah
Speaker 5: that's the classic. Or a sultry child and family therapist.
Speaker 2: I haven't tell you my problem.
Speaker 5: Tell me how my childhood upbringing turn me bad? Did
Speaker 5: you just say abandonment issues?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 6: And one of our listeners apparently couldn't resist the lure
Speaker 6: of a smoke show in a sexy uniform, so let's
Speaker 6: talk to him about it.
Speaker 5: His name is Nick. Nick. Welcome to the show.
Speaker 4: Hey, thanks for having me.
Speaker 2: I am so curious about the profession here.
Speaker 5: It's just like a milkman. Who's this person that she met?
Speaker 5: And what do they do?
Speaker 4: Her name is Becca and she's a cop.
Speaker 2: Oh, she is a.
Speaker 5: Copy lady.
Speaker 1: Cops are sexy, like you know, their waist always looks
Speaker 1: so cinched, like.
Speaker 5: It's ready to go at the moment.
Speaker 2: Just a power that they have.
Speaker 7: Yeah, okay, the like license and registration and I'm like
Speaker 7: five ft ten in single I'm.
Speaker 5: Sure we're all telling you stuff you already know, right, Nick.
Speaker 1: Exactly, did you meet her while getting arrested?
Speaker 4: Or no, we met on the apps?
Speaker 2: Oh you did? Okay, okay, if you're a cop, do
Speaker 2: you share that on the app? Or is that a no?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 4: That was her picture. Of course, I made a dumb joke.
Speaker 4: I said, are you a real copper or stripper?
Speaker 5: Oh?
Speaker 2: Did she like that?
Speaker 4: No? She was like, ha ha, You're only the tenth
Speaker 4: person to stay that. Yeah, that one's a pretty basic joke.
Speaker 5: So you're already start with her.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but she responded, isn't that just half the battle
Speaker 1: dating apps?
Speaker 2: How'd you turn it around?
Speaker 4: She did have other pictures on there, and there was
Speaker 4: a picture of her having a cup of coffee at
Speaker 4: a cafe, and so I was like, oh, you like coffee.
Speaker 2: I thought for sure you were going to make a
Speaker 2: donut joke at that.
Speaker 4: I don't think of this opportunity that would have been.
Speaker 5: No, no, you already took a jab your bro. What
Speaker 5: did you do with the coffee?
Speaker 4: I just was like, oh, yeah, you know, are you
Speaker 4: a coffee fan? And she basically got super fired up and.
Speaker 6: Was like you know, And then you asked her what's
Speaker 6: your drink? Right?
Speaker 4: Like, that's what you have to ask I did, and
Speaker 4: then she started going off about how she had gone
Speaker 4: recently to her favorite coffee shop and they got her
Speaker 4: coffee order wrong and she wasn't mad about it, but
Speaker 4: she was just mentioning. And I was like, Oh, I'll
Speaker 4: put a bad Yelp review on their site for you.
Speaker 2: And this is a cute connection.
Speaker 5: Okay, So this is all the chat leading.
Speaker 4: Up to the date, all the chat leading up to
Speaker 4: the date. And so I recovered and I was like, well,
Speaker 4: let's hang out, let's go out to dinner.
Speaker 2: How was that? Where'd you guys? I mean, was it
Speaker 2: fancy or was it more casual?
Speaker 5: A coffee?
Speaker 4: No, it wasn't coffee, it was I would say it
Speaker 4: was you know, Mitt, I didn't want to go like divy,
Speaker 4: but I also didn't want to go like high pressure,
Speaker 4: super expensive. So it's to a place that felt comfortable.
Speaker 4: Great conversation. We talked a little bit about her working
Speaker 4: in law enforcement.
Speaker 5: Yeah, what is it like to go on a date
Speaker 5: with a real cop?
Speaker 4: Uh? You know, she didn't come into uniform. It was
Speaker 4: pretty chill.
Speaker 2: Uh didn't come Did you expect her any point?
Speaker 4: Though? I don't know. I know some people get off
Speaker 4: of work and then they had just come directly. No,
Speaker 4: I wasn't expecting that.
Speaker 6: I guess okay, it would feel like a very powerful
Speaker 6: move though, to sit in a booth right next to
Speaker 6: a cop.
Speaker 1: And I would think that somebody was with their parole officer.
Speaker 6: Even then you cough as a bad boy at that
Speaker 6: point to everybody in the restaurant.
Speaker 7: So was she cool though, because like, you're on a
Speaker 7: date with a cop, I would be nervous.
Speaker 5: Did you only have one drink?
Speaker 2: Can you mention are expiring you and get you?
Speaker 5: That's a good point.
Speaker 4: How does it go on my mind? I was like,
Speaker 4: I can't tell any stories about my bad boy early days,
Speaker 4: all that sort of stuff. But there was one point,
Speaker 4: you know, we didn't really stick to her working law
Speaker 4: enforcement too long, but there was one point where she
Speaker 4: was like, hey, do you mind if we could switch
Speaker 4: seats so I can like face the door.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, oh yeah. People liked it.
Speaker 1: Are in law enforce, like they always want to seize
Speaker 1: in case they can never be caught by surprise, that's
Speaker 1: what happens in the movies.
Speaker 6: No smart though, or it's a good excuse for her
Speaker 6: to be like when I need to escape from this stage,
Speaker 6: I know exactly where I.
Speaker 5: Need to run down. I mean either way, Yeah, so
Speaker 5: did you switch?
Speaker 4: Yeah? I was down with making that happen. So we did.
Speaker 4: You know, she's a really smart person. We had really
Speaker 4: good conversation about lots of topics. I don't know why
Speaker 4: at this point she's not texting me back.
Speaker 5: Wow.
Speaker 4: End and I ended with like a really nice hug,
Speaker 4: Let's do this again. I didn't go into the kiss
Speaker 4: because it didn't feel like we were quite there, but
Speaker 4: there was definitely some heemish. And when I said let's
Speaker 4: do this again, there was no hesitation, No let me
Speaker 4: think about it, let me look at my schedule, none
Speaker 4: of that stuff. I can tell. The brush off and
Speaker 4: like an actual let's do this again.
Speaker 6: Yeah, you should have asked if you could hit the
Speaker 6: siren in her cop car and driven around the block
Speaker 6: real quick.
Speaker 2: Because one's ever no one's ever asked that before. I mean,
Speaker 2: who knows.
Speaker 1: Maybe she's on an undercover mission and that's why she
Speaker 1: hasn't gotten back to you because she's not allowed.
Speaker 6: So wait, nick, question, is she the one who suggested
Speaker 6: that you go have dinner at that particular restaurant?
Speaker 2: Wait a minute, and she had to watch the door, Jett.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I throw a couple of options when we were chatting,
Speaker 4: and she selected that one.
Speaker 6: Oh was it in like a really shady part of
Speaker 6: town for no reason whatsoever?
Speaker 2: A really nice part of town.
Speaker 1: Maybe it's a white collar crime like embezzlement or something.
Speaker 6: Oh my god, we might actually help solve the crime
Speaker 6: by doing this second data.
Speaker 3: Probably not.
Speaker 5: Well.
Speaker 6: Yeah, and you know how most when you get them
Speaker 6: on the phone, they tell you everything.
Speaker 5: They're like an open book.
Speaker 2: Yeah, those cops. Yeah, I don't know, I've ever had
Speaker 2: that long of a conversation.
Speaker 6: Yeah, well, this is going to be a first in
Speaker 6: a lot of different ways. For usually they don't.
Speaker 2: Run a background check on the show. Oh yeah, with
Speaker 2: the cops, I've never gotten.
Speaker 5: Out of a ticket.
Speaker 6: This is going to be interesting when we come back,
Speaker 6: call Becca and get you your second date update. Right
Speaker 6: after this second date update. Normally our show is getting
Speaker 6: cops called on us. Yeah that's but today we're the
Speaker 6: ones calling up a cop that's right, not to report
Speaker 6: an emergency, but to get answers for our friend Nick,
Speaker 6: who went out with a law enforcement officer named Becca
Speaker 6: the other night.
Speaker 7: So we just tell nine one one and ask Rebecca.
Speaker 2: I think that's how it works.
Speaker 4: We act.
Speaker 6: We actually have Beca's cell phone numbers, so it's probably
Speaker 6: easier to do that. The thing is, Nick's not getting
Speaker 6: a call back after their romantic dinner. Is there a
Speaker 6: reason for it? Or was the whole dinner affront for
Speaker 6: a sting operation that she was running to bring down
Speaker 6: an Italian mob boss.
Speaker 2: I mean, honestly, that sounds like he's making a joke.
Speaker 1: But she sat facing the door, she picked the restaurant,
Speaker 1: and now she's not calling him back as.
Speaker 6: Nick, did you realize when you reached out to us
Speaker 6: for help that this is where the call was going
Speaker 6: to go.
Speaker 4: I like your imagination. I don't know if that's the case.
Speaker 4: I just she's cute, she's smart, she's a great woman.
Speaker 5: At least that's what she wants you to think.
Speaker 7: Yeah, sounds that she has a hitout on her. Her
Speaker 7: back was facing she knows that there's a hit man
Speaker 7: out there.
Speaker 5: Looking for it.
Speaker 6: It's possible, or maybe there's a simple reason and you
Speaker 6: messed up in some way.
Speaker 5: Let's figure it out. I'm going to dial her number.
Speaker 2: Well, they're gonna be great options.
Speaker 5: We are here for the tea, so let's do it.
Speaker 5: I'm dialing it right now.
Speaker 4: Hello.
Speaker 5: Hi, we're looking to speak with Becca.
Speaker 8: Speaking.
Speaker 5: Hey, Becca, how you doing out your officer.
Speaker 2: I'm honestly kind of nervous.
Speaker 6: I don't know if we should really mention that it
Speaker 6: was a little late. We're brooking Jeffery in the morning,
Speaker 6: and you probably heard my co host say officer Becca
Speaker 6: because we heard that you're a cop. And I just
Speaker 6: want to ask you upfront, is it okay for us
Speaker 6: to mention your profession.
Speaker 5: On the radio.
Speaker 8: I'm okay with that.
Speaker 5: We're allowed to say that.
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, she put it on her dating profile, he said, put.
Speaker 5: On the radio. I mean that's a different thing, you know, a.
Speaker 1: Worse lazier than a dating Definitely, people probably see your profile.
Speaker 6: Bottom line is we wanted to talk to you about
Speaker 6: a date you went on recently with a guy named Nick. A.
Speaker 8: Yeah, that sign.
Speaker 5: Was not good.
Speaker 6: So Nick reached out to us because he said he
Speaker 6: really enjoyed spending time with you that night, and he's
Speaker 6: curious if there's a reason why you're not calling him
Speaker 6: back and arranging a second meet up.
Speaker 1: Honestly, I'd say he's clueless, like he really expected to
Speaker 1: see you again.
Speaker 8: Yeah, so obviously I work in law enforcement. I've been
Speaker 8: on the forest for some time now, so I'm gonna
Speaker 8: always look up who I'm going on a date with
Speaker 8: or who I'm spending time with.
Speaker 2: Don't you wish you had that type of access, Alex,
Speaker 2: I know I only have my reverse Google image search.
Speaker 8: Yeah, I mean, but like, I did this on my
Speaker 8: own time. I don't use like police scanners.
Speaker 4: I hired someone myself.
Speaker 1: Okay, you're just doing your own normal just you're probably
Speaker 1: better at it than us.
Speaker 5: You got more resources than the average person.
Speaker 8: Yeah. I found some things that I thought he would
Speaker 8: be more forthcoming with, and when he wasn't, I it
Speaker 8: turned me off. I have no more interest.
Speaker 2: Are you saying he lied to you on the date?
Speaker 8: He did kind of abstain from the truth. He wasn't
Speaker 8: forthcoming with information, which I feel is a lie.
Speaker 5: Yeah, well, you're dating a cop.
Speaker 7: You have to be honest, especially if it's about well,
Speaker 7: what can I ask was it like a criminal thing?
Speaker 5: Right? That's the only thing you looked.
Speaker 7: Up, right.
Speaker 8: I don't know if it's appropriate for the radio.
Speaker 1: Okay, wanted if it's like a record that is supposed
Speaker 1: to be private, then don't share it.
Speaker 2: But if it's something we get any of us could
Speaker 2: find on the internet, spill away.
Speaker 5: We honestly don't have standards.
Speaker 6: The part, the thing that you don't you might not realize,
Speaker 6: beca is that part of being on this segment is
Speaker 6: the person agrees to hear whatever the reason is, no
Speaker 6: matter how embarrassing or strange it might be.
Speaker 8: I mean, if he agreed to that, then yeah, I'll
Speaker 8: share it. He was married a year ago to a
Speaker 8: Russian woman and she filed for divorce about a month ago. Yeah,
Speaker 8: that's a huge part of his life. And to just
Speaker 8: withhold that information.
Speaker 1: That's a lot of first date to bring up thoughts
Speaker 1: on that, like, how do you even start?
Speaker 2: So listen, I had this Russian wife.
Speaker 5: Yeah, like that you were expecting him to bring that up?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 8: I think I was expecting him to tell me if
Speaker 8: he was separated. Being separated is a lot different from divorce.
Speaker 2: Oh it's not official yet.
Speaker 8: Yeah, I feel like he could withhold a lot of
Speaker 8: information if he's not forthcoming about the truth.
Speaker 2: I can see that. I mean, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I kind of am with her on that, Like, if
Speaker 1: it's divorced and final and you're done with it. But
Speaker 1: if you're in the middle of a separation.
Speaker 6: And I think you can list it on your dating profile,
Speaker 6: like specifically your status single divorce, separating that what you
Speaker 6: look for mostly.
Speaker 5: Is the most traumatized would be.
Speaker 6: Like, yeah, but like, did you even talk about relationships
Speaker 6: at all on the date?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 8: I mean I hinted about it and I shared about
Speaker 8: a little bit, you know, just keeping respectful details private.
Speaker 8: But yeah, he said he didn't want to talk about it,
Speaker 8: and it seemed like he was evading the truth instead
Speaker 8: of just a private person.
Speaker 6: Okay, warning you know, Becca, I think the person who's
Speaker 6: actually going to find all of this the most interesting
Speaker 6: is actually Nick himself, who is listening on the other line,
Speaker 6: has tapped into our phone somehow.
Speaker 5: We did consent to it. Now, so he is there
Speaker 5: wanting to talk to you. Wow, come on, guys, I'm sorry.
Speaker 2: I mean, you wanted the truth out of him. Now's
Speaker 2: the chance?
Speaker 5: NICKI there?
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm here. So what's up? Becca? You go on
Speaker 4: dates with people and you look up their history before
Speaker 4: you do.
Speaker 8: So, yes, Nick, I'm a cop.
Speaker 4: I think yeah, right, Well, we were going to a
Speaker 4: public place, and I feel like that's kind of using
Speaker 4: your cop resources to look up my history was Excuse me.
Speaker 8: I didn't use police resources. I use my own personal resources.
Speaker 8: And I just think it's really weird you wouldn't say anything.
Speaker 4: I mean, I'm not telling you if that's true or not.
Speaker 4: I mean you could have looked that up on some
Speaker 4: strange site that has false information.
Speaker 2: Is okay.
Speaker 1: I'm actually going to back up on this because I
Speaker 1: have a friend who's fiance looked her up when they
Speaker 1: were dating and he got all the information wrong.
Speaker 4: It's true, you probably have the wrong guy.
Speaker 7: Nick is a common name.
Speaker 6: Is that a possibility that maybe it's a different Nick
Speaker 6: and you mix them up?
Speaker 8: It's one hundred percent Nick.
Speaker 5: Really, how do you know that?
Speaker 4: Because I'm a cop.
Speaker 8: Okay, I'm going to text you your marriage certificate right now.
Speaker 5: No, no, wait, you can do that.
Speaker 2: You got the marriage certificate public record?
Speaker 5: Yeah, I think, oh wow, you can. Look. I know.
Speaker 8: It's absolutely public record. And I just texted you a
Speaker 8: photo of it.
Speaker 4: And there's your wife's name.
Speaker 5: Do you have a text?
Speaker 2: Nick?
Speaker 4: Look, here's the deal. I wait a minute, it was
Speaker 4: a mistake, it was a short term thing. Yes, I
Speaker 4: was married. Yes, I'm getting a divorce. It's going to
Speaker 4: be done very soon.
Speaker 8: Okay, Yeah, you should have just said that.
Speaker 7: Yeah, back at the start.
Speaker 6: Should have been the first thing you said to her
Speaker 6: when you greeted her, inside of the rest of.
Speaker 1: Yeah. If he would have told you that, you would
Speaker 1: have been okay with it.
Speaker 8: Really, I mean, honestly, it's the best policy.
Speaker 4: We all have a past. Wow, come on, what else
Speaker 4: do you know about me? Do you look at my
Speaker 4: record from what college?
Speaker 2: Wait, you're still the one defensive. You just got outed
Speaker 2: as a liar.
Speaker 5: I'm curious what you did in college.
Speaker 4: That sounds kind of funny, a stupid frank with the cow.
Speaker 4: But that's not even the point.
Speaker 5: It's not her fault, now, okay, well.
Speaker 4: I'm not saying it's her fault. I'm saying it's my past.
Speaker 5: Relevant defense.
Speaker 6: This is kind of embarrassing information to open up with,
Speaker 6: not to mention, like on the radio, but especially on
Speaker 6: a first date with someone you're trying to impress.
Speaker 2: He's the one that chose to do the radio part. Well,
Speaker 2: I know, I'm just saying this is a lot sweet.
Speaker 6: I'm trying to defend a guy who's in a weird
Speaker 6: spot here. So Becca, he has admitted that you were right,
Speaker 6: and he's ready to move on hopefully with you.
Speaker 5: Would you be willing to give him a chance?
Speaker 8: I'm not interested. Guys, it's just a no brainer for me.
Speaker 8: You gotta be honest.
Speaker 4: I wasn't dishonest. I am separated. I'm getting a divorce.
Speaker 2: It's just too late you started with it. Probably wasn't me.
Speaker 4: I didn't know she was such a good copy.
Speaker 6: Her interrogation skills their next level, dude, So maybe like
Speaker 6: a different professional uniform, like a coast guard, they won't
Speaker 6: look up your past about just be honest.
Speaker 2: On the next day, Why different.
Speaker 5: Moment Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 6: Why do our listeners love it so much when people
Speaker 6: get busted in a lie?
Speaker 5: On our second day?
Speaker 6: Calls literally text into seven eighty five nine to two
Speaker 6: says I knew that guy was a liar the moment
Speaker 6: I heard him. I think I went out with him
Speaker 6: two months ago before he was separating. Who knows if
Speaker 6: that's true, But we could ask a certain officer that
Speaker 6: we know to go and investigate that particular text.
Speaker 1: We're friends now with the I don't know that it's
Speaker 1: worth her time or our time. Yeah, let that one
Speaker 1: lie he needs to work out his own mess.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 7: If anything, we call her asked for help, she'll probably
Speaker 7: run our names and one of us will get arrested.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a surprised that we're all sitting here without handcuffs.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I know, we all away good pair of handcuffs
Speaker 5: around our That's.
Speaker 6: Not what I think you going to someone else conversation anyway.
Speaker 6: Unfortunately that call turned out to not end in a
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