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Speaker 1: Hey, it's your Second Date Update podcast with Brook and

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Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the Morning, the home of the Second Date Update,

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Speaker 1: and it's brand new today. One of our listeners says

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Speaker 1: his date had one very odd request shortly after they

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Speaker 1: sat down for dinner.

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Speaker 2: I'd love to hear a few degree to it like

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Speaker 3: to this show was the best thing TikTok has ever

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Speaker 3: done for me.

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Speaker 2: Hey, what a statement. TikTok does a lot for people.

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Speaker 2: Let's get this show started though, right now.

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Speaker 5: The Second Date Update.

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Speaker 6: There's certain professions out there that are just considered sex.

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Speaker 2: Oh oh yeah, okay.

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Speaker 6: Like who's not swiping right on a hot firefighter.

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Speaker 3: Right, that's me, okay, or something I thought you were

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Speaker 3: going to say no, or down with the hose.

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Speaker 5: That's more like that. That's what Alex is doing, but

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Speaker 5: she turned her Michael exactly. Or a hunky doctor, yeah

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Speaker 5: that's the classic. Or a sultry child and family therapist.

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Speaker 2: I haven't tell you my problem.

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Speaker 5: Tell me how my childhood upbringing turn me bad? Did

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Speaker 5: you just say abandonment issues?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: And one of our listeners apparently couldn't resist the lure

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Speaker 6: of a smoke show in a sexy uniform, so let's

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Speaker 6: talk to him about it.

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Speaker 5: His name is Nick. Nick. Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 4: Hey, thanks for having me.

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Speaker 2: I am so curious about the profession here.

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Speaker 5: It's just like a milkman. Who's this person that she met?

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Speaker 5: And what do they do?

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Speaker 4: Her name is Becca and she's a cop.

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Speaker 2: Oh, she is a.

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Speaker 5: Copy lady.

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Speaker 1: Cops are sexy, like you know, their waist always looks

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Speaker 1: so cinched, like.

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Speaker 5: It's ready to go at the moment.

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Speaker 2: Just a power that they have.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, okay, the like license and registration and I'm like

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Speaker 7: five ft ten in single I'm.

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Speaker 5: Sure we're all telling you stuff you already know, right, Nick.

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Speaker 1: Exactly, did you meet her while getting arrested?

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Speaker 4: Or no, we met on the apps?

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Speaker 2: Oh you did? Okay, okay, if you're a cop, do

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Speaker 2: you share that on the app? Or is that a no?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 4: That was her picture. Of course, I made a dumb joke.

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Speaker 4: I said, are you a real copper or stripper?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Did she like that?

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Speaker 4: No? She was like, ha ha, You're only the tenth

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Speaker 4: person to stay that. Yeah, that one's a pretty basic joke.

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Speaker 5: So you're already start with her.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but she responded, isn't that just half the battle

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Speaker 1: dating apps?

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Speaker 2: How'd you turn it around?

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Speaker 4: She did have other pictures on there, and there was

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Speaker 4: a picture of her having a cup of coffee at

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Speaker 4: a cafe, and so I was like, oh, you like coffee.

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Speaker 2: I thought for sure you were going to make a

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Speaker 2: donut joke at that.

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Speaker 4: I don't think of this opportunity that would have been.

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Speaker 5: No, no, you already took a jab your bro. What

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Speaker 5: did you do with the coffee?

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Speaker 4: I just was like, oh, yeah, you know, are you

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Speaker 4: a coffee fan? And she basically got super fired up and.

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Speaker 6: Was like you know, And then you asked her what's

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Speaker 6: your drink? Right?

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Speaker 4: Like, that's what you have to ask I did, and

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Speaker 4: then she started going off about how she had gone

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Speaker 4: recently to her favorite coffee shop and they got her

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Speaker 4: coffee order wrong and she wasn't mad about it, but

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Speaker 4: she was just mentioning. And I was like, Oh, I'll

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Speaker 4: put a bad Yelp review on their site for you.

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Speaker 2: And this is a cute connection.

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Speaker 5: Okay, So this is all the chat leading.

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Speaker 4: Up to the date, all the chat leading up to

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Speaker 4: the date. And so I recovered and I was like, well,

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Speaker 4: let's hang out, let's go out to dinner.

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Speaker 2: How was that? Where'd you guys? I mean, was it

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Speaker 5: A coffee?

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Speaker 4: No, it wasn't coffee, it was I would say it

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Speaker 4: was you know, Mitt, I didn't want to go like divy,

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Speaker 4: but I also didn't want to go like high pressure,

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Speaker 4: super expensive. So it's to a place that felt comfortable.

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Speaker 4: Great conversation. We talked a little bit about her working

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Speaker 4: in law enforcement.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, what is it like to go on a date

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Speaker 5: with a real cop?

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Speaker 4: Uh? You know, she didn't come into uniform. It was

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Speaker 4: pretty chill.

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Speaker 2: Uh didn't come Did you expect her any point?

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Speaker 4: Though? I don't know. I know some people get off

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Speaker 4: of work and then they had just come directly. No,

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Speaker 4: I wasn't expecting that.

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Speaker 6: I guess okay, it would feel like a very powerful

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Speaker 6: move though, to sit in a booth right next to

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Speaker 1: And I would think that somebody was with their parole officer.

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Speaker 6: Even then you cough as a bad boy at that

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Speaker 6: point to everybody in the restaurant.

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Speaker 7: So was she cool though, because like, you're on a

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Speaker 7: date with a cop, I would be nervous.

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Speaker 5: Did you only have one drink?

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Speaker 2: Can you mention are expiring you and get you?

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Speaker 5: That's a good point.

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Speaker 4: How does it go on my mind? I was like,

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Speaker 4: I can't tell any stories about my bad boy early days,

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Speaker 4: all that sort of stuff. But there was one point,

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Speaker 4: you know, we didn't really stick to her working law

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Speaker 4: enforcement too long, but there was one point where she

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Speaker 4: was like, hey, do you mind if we could switch

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Speaker 4: seats so I can like face the door.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, oh yeah. People liked it.

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Speaker 1: Are in law enforce, like they always want to seize

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Speaker 1: in case they can never be caught by surprise, that's

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Speaker 1: what happens in the movies.

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Speaker 6: No smart though, or it's a good excuse for her

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Speaker 6: to be like when I need to escape from this stage,

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Speaker 6: I know exactly where I.

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Speaker 5: Need to run down. I mean either way, Yeah, so

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Speaker 5: did you switch?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? I was down with making that happen. So we did.

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Speaker 4: You know, she's a really smart person. We had really

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Speaker 4: good conversation about lots of topics. I don't know why

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Speaker 4: at this point she's not texting me back.

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Speaker 5: Wow.

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Speaker 4: End and I ended with like a really nice hug,

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Speaker 4: Let's do this again. I didn't go into the kiss

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Speaker 4: because it didn't feel like we were quite there, but

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Speaker 4: there was definitely some heemish. And when I said let's

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Speaker 4: do this again, there was no hesitation, No let me

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Speaker 4: think about it, let me look at my schedule, none

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Speaker 4: of that stuff. I can tell. The brush off and

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Speaker 4: like an actual let's do this again.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, you should have asked if you could hit the

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Speaker 6: siren in her cop car and driven around the block

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Speaker 6: real quick.

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Speaker 2: Because one's ever no one's ever asked that before. I mean,

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Speaker 2: who knows.

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Speaker 1: Maybe she's on an undercover mission and that's why she

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Speaker 1: hasn't gotten back to you because she's not allowed.

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Speaker 6: So wait, nick, question, is she the one who suggested

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Speaker 6: that you go have dinner at that particular restaurant?

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Speaker 2: Wait a minute, and she had to watch the door, Jett.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I throw a couple of options when we were chatting,

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Speaker 4: and she selected that one.

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Speaker 6: Oh was it in like a really shady part of

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Speaker 6: town for no reason whatsoever?

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Speaker 2: A really nice part of town.

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Speaker 1: Maybe it's a white collar crime like embezzlement or something.

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Speaker 6: Oh my god, we might actually help solve the crime

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Speaker 6: by doing this second data.

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Speaker 3: Probably not.

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Speaker 5: Well.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, and you know how most when you get them

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Speaker 6: on the phone, they tell you everything.

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Speaker 5: They're like an open book.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, those cops. Yeah, I don't know, I've ever had

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Speaker 2: that long of a conversation.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, well, this is going to be a first in

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Speaker 6: a lot of different ways. For usually they don't.

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Speaker 2: Run a background check on the show. Oh yeah, with

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Speaker 2: the cops, I've never gotten.

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Speaker 5: Out of a ticket.

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Speaker 6: This is going to be interesting when we come back,

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Speaker 6: call Becca and get you your second date update. Right

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Speaker 6: after this second date update. Normally our show is getting

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Speaker 6: cops called on us. Yeah that's but today we're the

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Speaker 6: ones calling up a cop that's right, not to report

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Speaker 6: an emergency, but to get answers for our friend Nick,

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Speaker 6: who went out with a law enforcement officer named Becca

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Speaker 6: the other night.

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Speaker 7: So we just tell nine one one and ask Rebecca.

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Speaker 2: I think that's how it works.

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Speaker 4: We act.

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Speaker 6: We actually have Beca's cell phone numbers, so it's probably

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Speaker 6: easier to do that. The thing is, Nick's not getting

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Speaker 6: a call back after their romantic dinner. Is there a

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Speaker 6: reason for it? Or was the whole dinner affront for

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Speaker 6: a sting operation that she was running to bring down

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Speaker 6: an Italian mob boss.

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Speaker 2: I mean, honestly, that sounds like he's making a joke.

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Speaker 1: But she sat facing the door, she picked the restaurant,

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Speaker 1: and now she's not calling him back as.

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Speaker 6: Nick, did you realize when you reached out to us

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Speaker 6: for help that this is where the call was going

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Speaker 6: to go.

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Speaker 4: I like your imagination. I don't know if that's the case.

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Speaker 4: I just she's cute, she's smart, she's a great woman.

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Speaker 5: At least that's what she wants you to think.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, sounds that she has a hitout on her. Her

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Speaker 7: back was facing she knows that there's a hit man

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Speaker 7: out there.

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Speaker 5: Looking for it.

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Speaker 6: It's possible, or maybe there's a simple reason and you

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Speaker 6: messed up in some way.

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Speaker 5: Let's figure it out. I'm going to dial her number.

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Speaker 2: Well, they're gonna be great options.

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Speaker 5: We are here for the tea, so let's do it.

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Speaker 5: I'm dialing it right now.

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Speaker 4: Hello.

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Speaker 5: Hi, we're looking to speak with Becca.

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Speaker 8: Speaking.

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Speaker 5: Hey, Becca, how you doing out your officer.

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Speaker 2: I'm honestly kind of nervous.

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Speaker 6: I don't know if we should really mention that it

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Speaker 6: was a little late. We're brooking Jeffery in the morning,

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Speaker 6: and you probably heard my co host say officer Becca

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Speaker 6: because we heard that you're a cop. And I just

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Speaker 6: want to ask you upfront, is it okay for us

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Speaker 6: to mention your profession.

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Speaker 5: On the radio.

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Speaker 8: I'm okay with that.

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Speaker 1: Honestly, I'd say he's clueless, like he really expected to

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Speaker 8: Yeah, so obviously I work in law enforcement. I've been

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Speaker 2: Don't you wish you had that type of access, Alex,

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Speaker 5: You got more resources than the average person.

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Speaker 8: Yeah. I found some things that I thought he would

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Speaker 8: He did kind of abstain from the truth. He wasn't

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Speaker 5: Yeah, well, you're dating a cop.

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Speaker 7: You have to be honest, especially if it's about well,

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Speaker 8: I don't know if it's appropriate for the radio.

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Speaker 1: Okay, wanted if it's like a record that is supposed

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Speaker 2: But if it's something we get any of us could

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Speaker 5: We honestly don't have standards.

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Speaker 8: I think I was expecting him to tell me if

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Speaker 6: And I think you can list it on your dating profile,

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Speaker 6: Okay, warning you know, Becca, I think the person who's

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Speaker 5: We did consent to it. Now, so he is there

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Speaker 5: wanting to talk to you. Wow, come on, guys, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 2: I mean, you wanted the truth out of him. Now's

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Speaker 5: NICKI there?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm here. So what's up? Becca? You go on

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Speaker 8: So, yes, Nick, I'm a cop.

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Speaker 4: I think yeah, right, Well, we were going to a

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Speaker 8: I didn't use police resources. I use my own personal resources.

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Speaker 8: And I just think it's really weird you wouldn't say anything.

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Speaker 2: Is okay.

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Speaker 1: I'm actually going to back up on this because I

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Speaker 4: It's true, you probably have the wrong guy.

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Speaker 7: Nick is a common name.

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Speaker 6: Is that a possibility that maybe it's a different Nick

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Speaker 6: and you mix them up?

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Speaker 8: It's one hundred percent Nick.

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Speaker 5: Really, how do you know that?

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Speaker 4: Because I'm a cop.

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Speaker 8: Okay, I'm going to text you your marriage certificate right now.

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Speaker 5: No, no, wait, you can do that.

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Speaker 2: You got the marriage certificate public record?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I think, oh wow, you can. Look. I know.

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Speaker 8: It's absolutely public record. And I just texted you a

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Speaker 5: Do you have a text?

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Speaker 2: Nick?

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Speaker 4: Look, here's the deal. I wait a minute, it was

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Speaker 8: Okay, Yeah, you should have just said that.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, back at the start.

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Speaker 6: Should have been the first thing you said to her

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Speaker 1: Yeah. If he would have told you that, you would

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Speaker 8: Really, I mean, honestly, it's the best policy.

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Speaker 4: We all have a past. Wow, come on, what else

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Speaker 4: record from what college?

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Speaker 2: Wait, you're still the one defensive. You just got outed

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Speaker 5: I'm curious what you did in college.

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Speaker 4: That sounds kind of funny, a stupid frank with the cow.

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Speaker 5: It's not her fault, now, okay, well.

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Speaker 4: I'm not saying it's her fault. I'm saying it's my past.

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Speaker 5: Relevant defense.

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Speaker 6: This is kind of embarrassing information to open up with,

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Speaker 2: He's the one that chose to do the radio part. Well,

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Speaker 6: I'm trying to defend a guy who's in a weird

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Speaker 5: Would you be willing to give him a chance?

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Speaker 8: I'm not interested. Guys, it's just a no brainer for me.

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Speaker 4: I wasn't dishonest. I am separated. I'm getting a divorce.

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Speaker 2: It's just too late you started with it. Probably wasn't me.

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Speaker 4: I didn't know she was such a good copy.

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Speaker 6: Her interrogation skills their next level, dude, So maybe like

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Speaker 2: On the next day, Why different.

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Speaker 5: Moment Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 6: Why do our listeners love it so much when people

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Speaker 5: On our second day?

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Speaker 6: Calls literally text into seven eighty five nine to two

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Speaker 6: I heard him. I think I went out with him

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Speaker 1: We're friends now with the I don't know that it's

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Speaker 1: worth her time or our time. Yeah, let that one

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 7: If anything, we call her asked for help, she'll probably

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a surprised that we're all sitting here without handcuffs.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I know, we all away good pair of handcuffs

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Speaker 5: around our That's.

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Speaker 6: Not what I think you going to someone else conversation anyway.

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Speaker 6: Unfortunately that call turned out to not end in a

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Speaker 6: second date. We can't win them all, but we can

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Speaker 6: always try. If you email the show and we'll call

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Speaker 6: that person who's not calling you back and go check

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Speaker 6: out all of our second dates wherever you find your

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Speaker 5: A Broken Jeffrey

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Speaker 4: Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning