1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:05,800 Speaker 1: I listen to the Black Diotips podcast because Rod and 2 00:00:06,000 --> 00:00:08,640 Speaker 1: Karen if. 3 00:00:07,840 --> 00:00:10,440 Speaker 2: We can imagine, if we imagine racism as a backed 4 00:00:10,520 --> 00:00:14,080 Speaker 2: up sink, the solution becomes clearer. Unclogged, look into the 5 00:00:14,120 --> 00:00:15,880 Speaker 2: drain and see what's backing it up, and get that 6 00:00:15,880 --> 00:00:19,440 Speaker 2: crap out of there. Now, the more practical question, how 7 00:00:19,520 --> 00:00:22,200 Speaker 2: is that accomplished? How do we get people of different 8 00:00:22,280 --> 00:00:24,960 Speaker 2: colors to learn to live in harmony? People smarter than 9 00:00:25,000 --> 00:00:27,480 Speaker 2: me have suggested for eons twisting the size of the 10 00:00:27,880 --> 00:00:32,200 Speaker 2: societal Ruber's cube while secretly fearing there is no real solution. 11 00:00:32,720 --> 00:00:35,120 Speaker 2: I believe the answer lies and asking the right question. 12 00:00:35,479 --> 00:00:37,720 Speaker 2: We should not ask how do we get rid of racism? 13 00:00:37,840 --> 00:00:40,200 Speaker 2: Our question should be how do we turn racism into 14 00:00:40,200 --> 00:00:43,479 Speaker 2: a sink? We We could start with a name change. 15 00:00:43,840 --> 00:00:46,280 Speaker 2: I know a rose by any other name would smell 16 00:00:46,320 --> 00:00:49,440 Speaker 2: the sweet to quote Shakespeare, but keep in mind, we're 17 00:00:49,479 --> 00:00:51,519 Speaker 2: not trying to get rid of the smell of racism. 18 00:00:51,560 --> 00:00:54,680 Speaker 2: That stink will probably be around forever. We're trying to 19 00:00:54,720 --> 00:00:57,080 Speaker 2: ease the pain of it and clear the way for 20 00:00:57,280 --> 00:01:01,080 Speaker 2: us to get along peacefully. That's right, We're unclogging. Before 21 00:01:01,080 --> 00:01:04,240 Speaker 2: I propose the name changes, Let's first examine whether or 22 00:01:04,280 --> 00:01:06,720 Speaker 2: not the name change is effective. I would argue it 23 00:01:06,800 --> 00:01:09,399 Speaker 2: is not only effective, but essential to the success in 24 00:01:09,440 --> 00:01:12,759 Speaker 2: many cases. Take actors for example, do you think rednecks 25 00:01:12,760 --> 00:01:14,560 Speaker 2: would ever line up to see a movie star in 26 00:01:14,600 --> 00:01:17,840 Speaker 2: a rugged all American cowboy named Marion Morrison? 27 00:01:18,080 --> 00:01:18,679 Speaker 1: Of course not. 28 00:01:19,200 --> 00:01:21,800 Speaker 2: But if his name was John Wayne, the line is 29 00:01:21,840 --> 00:01:23,959 Speaker 2: around the block and until the next in into the 30 00:01:23,959 --> 00:01:27,920 Speaker 2: next county. Everybody loved Lucy, but do you think we 31 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:31,840 Speaker 2: would have even liked Diane Desiree Belmont? Nobody would have 32 00:01:31,840 --> 00:01:34,919 Speaker 2: given a flying fuck. Back in the twenties, MGM actually 33 00:01:34,920 --> 00:01:36,480 Speaker 2: had a contest for people to come up with a 34 00:01:36,600 --> 00:01:39,560 Speaker 2: name for their budding starlet, Lucille Fay Lascieur. 35 00:01:40,400 --> 00:01:42,800 Speaker 1: The winning name was Joan Crawford. 36 00:01:43,080 --> 00:01:46,119 Speaker 2: It's unsure America would have cozied up to the father 37 00:01:46,160 --> 00:01:50,760 Speaker 2: figure Alfonzo da Abruzzo to de Abruzzo to comfort them 38 00:01:50,840 --> 00:01:54,520 Speaker 2: during the cynical seventies, but Alan Alda filled the bill perfectly. 39 00:01:54,800 --> 00:01:58,320 Speaker 2: Sometimes the changes aren't that big, but still significant. Ving 40 00:01:58,440 --> 00:02:03,680 Speaker 2: Rayne's real name is Irving. Ving was smart enough to 41 00:02:03,800 --> 00:02:06,400 Speaker 2: realize that, when you think about it, no brother should 42 00:02:06,440 --> 00:02:09,760 Speaker 2: really be named Irvin, and it's not just actors. Companies 43 00:02:10,240 --> 00:02:13,960 Speaker 2: for years have realized the power of name changing, branding, branding, 44 00:02:14,000 --> 00:02:18,000 Speaker 2: as they call it. I can't imagine anyone wanting to 45 00:02:18,040 --> 00:02:21,960 Speaker 2: back rub the Internet for information, but we love to Google. 46 00:02:22,520 --> 00:02:26,080 Speaker 2: You'll never catch me fiddling with my Marafucu. But I 47 00:02:26,120 --> 00:02:29,800 Speaker 2: can't put down my Nintendo. And that's science fiction movie? 48 00:02:30,080 --> 00:02:32,480 Speaker 2: And what science fiction movie did you walk into to 49 00:02:32,520 --> 00:02:36,160 Speaker 2: buy that radar range? I'll stick with my microwave, Thank 50 00:02:36,200 --> 00:02:38,399 Speaker 2: you very much. You see where I'm going. You can't 51 00:02:38,480 --> 00:02:41,240 Speaker 2: change the face of racism without changing the name, change 52 00:02:41,240 --> 00:02:42,360 Speaker 2: the way people feel about it. 53 00:02:42,400 --> 00:02:42,840 Speaker 1: Branded. 54 00:02:42,880 --> 00:02:45,359 Speaker 2: You may be asking, but Larry, why would we want 55 00:02:45,360 --> 00:02:47,640 Speaker 2: to soften such a hateful word. Don't we want people 56 00:02:47,680 --> 00:02:50,320 Speaker 2: to take it seriously? Yes, that's why I propose we 57 00:02:50,400 --> 00:02:51,799 Speaker 2: leave the word racism alone. 58 00:02:52,520 --> 00:02:53,320 Speaker 1: I change. 59 00:02:53,360 --> 00:02:57,800 Speaker 2: I suggest we changed the term African American. African American 60 00:02:57,800 --> 00:02:59,760 Speaker 2: as a brand is done. It served its purpose, It 61 00:02:59,840 --> 00:03:01,679 Speaker 2: did what it was supposed to do. But now it's 62 00:03:01,720 --> 00:03:04,880 Speaker 2: time for it to step aside. It's the twentieth century anyway. 63 00:03:05,240 --> 00:03:07,320 Speaker 2: First of all, no one really wants to be called 64 00:03:07,360 --> 00:03:10,560 Speaker 2: African American anymore. You see, as a black, this politically 65 00:03:10,560 --> 00:03:13,080 Speaker 2: correct term doesn't conjure up images of the struggle my 66 00:03:13,120 --> 00:03:15,919 Speaker 2: people are facing this country for several hundred years. When 67 00:03:15,919 --> 00:03:18,600 Speaker 2: I hear African American, my mind doesn't snap back to 68 00:03:18,639 --> 00:03:21,519 Speaker 2: the march on Saleman or Selma or the bus boycotts. 69 00:03:21,639 --> 00:03:23,959 Speaker 2: It doesn't stir up nostalgia for Joe Lewis or the 70 00:03:23,960 --> 00:03:26,760 Speaker 2: Harlem Renaissance. 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No 176 00:09:13,040 --> 00:09:15,280 Speaker 2: matter what's going on in life, I can always kind 177 00:09:15,280 --> 00:09:16,719 Speaker 2: of ride and care to give me two to three 178 00:09:16,760 --> 00:09:18,920 Speaker 2: hours of laughs and wisdom at the end of the day. 179 00:09:19,280 --> 00:09:23,520 Speaker 1: Keep up the great work, y'all. We will thank you, Okay, we. 180 00:09:23,559 --> 00:09:28,280 Speaker 2: Appreciate y'all leaving the five star reviews. The website, we 181 00:09:28,360 --> 00:09:31,720 Speaker 2: have comments, we have polls, stuff like that. We did 182 00:09:31,720 --> 00:09:35,480 Speaker 2: a feedback episode. It was called Pipping and Robbin of 183 00:09:36,000 --> 00:09:40,560 Speaker 2: podcasting at that text message my mom sent me and 184 00:09:41,080 --> 00:09:43,920 Speaker 2: we got a no comments, but we got the poll 185 00:09:43,960 --> 00:09:45,760 Speaker 2: and we got comments on the poll. The poll was 186 00:09:46,040 --> 00:09:48,840 Speaker 2: have you done an in depth in examination of Kamalis 187 00:09:49,000 --> 00:09:53,840 Speaker 2: Harris's record? And the reason I asked this is because 188 00:09:54,040 --> 00:09:58,120 Speaker 2: honestly I had done like cursory reading. But I was like, 189 00:09:58,320 --> 00:10:01,199 Speaker 2: I'm not even gonna get too caught up this until 190 00:10:01,440 --> 00:10:05,000 Speaker 2: something concrete is happening with Kamala Harris. Like I knew 191 00:10:05,040 --> 00:10:08,320 Speaker 2: I was gonna vote in the primary for Elizabeth Warren, 192 00:10:08,559 --> 00:10:11,680 Speaker 2: who had no chance to you know, shout out to 193 00:10:11,720 --> 00:10:16,800 Speaker 2: online people making me feel like that could happen. So 194 00:10:16,960 --> 00:10:21,240 Speaker 2: everybody progressive like us, no right, Joe Biden has no 195 00:10:21,360 --> 00:10:23,320 Speaker 2: chance in hell. Then you just be like, oh, y'all 196 00:10:23,400 --> 00:10:29,840 Speaker 2: was wrong anyway, So a look like so at that time, 197 00:10:29,920 --> 00:10:32,240 Speaker 2: I was like, she's not my presidential pick, so I 198 00:10:32,240 --> 00:10:35,800 Speaker 2: already know it really doesn't matter if that what they're 199 00:10:35,800 --> 00:10:37,560 Speaker 2: saying about her is true or not, And I'm not 200 00:10:37,600 --> 00:10:40,080 Speaker 2: gonna I don't want to deal with the buzz saw 201 00:10:40,240 --> 00:10:43,040 Speaker 2: of the trolls and stuff because I dealt with that 202 00:10:43,080 --> 00:10:45,840 Speaker 2: with the burning people, and it just it drives you crazy. 203 00:10:45,880 --> 00:10:48,280 Speaker 1: It's stressful. You don't make any headway. 204 00:10:48,360 --> 00:10:50,640 Speaker 2: You don't know who's a real person, who's not, who's 205 00:10:50,679 --> 00:10:52,600 Speaker 2: getting caught up in that bullshit and who's not. 206 00:10:54,040 --> 00:10:54,640 Speaker 1: So I just. 207 00:10:54,640 --> 00:10:58,319 Speaker 2: Chose to just like say, well, if I get if 208 00:10:58,320 --> 00:11:00,600 Speaker 2: it gets to a point where, you know, we need 209 00:11:00,600 --> 00:11:05,400 Speaker 2: to like discuss this, then I'll look into Kamala Harris. 210 00:11:05,440 --> 00:11:08,400 Speaker 2: And then she becomes a VP pick, and I'm like, Okay, 211 00:11:08,480 --> 00:11:10,440 Speaker 2: I need to know more information about her because I 212 00:11:10,480 --> 00:11:16,280 Speaker 2: have seen different arguments for and against her, and to 213 00:11:16,400 --> 00:11:19,040 Speaker 2: be frank, some of the arguments against her, I kind 214 00:11:19,040 --> 00:11:20,920 Speaker 2: of ignored them because they came from people that I 215 00:11:21,040 --> 00:11:23,800 Speaker 2: knew were kind of shady. They were like they were 216 00:11:23,840 --> 00:11:26,520 Speaker 2: like woke activist types, but you know, the type of 217 00:11:26,559 --> 00:11:30,280 Speaker 2: person that like got something bad to say about everybody, 218 00:11:30,320 --> 00:11:33,760 Speaker 2: just about and all that, like everybody. 219 00:11:33,800 --> 00:11:36,600 Speaker 5: I can't It's like I can't take nothing you say 220 00:11:36,640 --> 00:11:38,559 Speaker 5: seriously because everything you say is negative. 221 00:11:38,600 --> 00:11:39,360 Speaker 3: So I don't know what's the. 222 00:11:39,360 --> 00:11:41,600 Speaker 2: Truth, right, you know the kind of people that tell like, 223 00:11:41,640 --> 00:11:45,000 Speaker 2: I don't trust anybody that tells me not to vote 224 00:11:45,080 --> 00:11:46,000 Speaker 2: or voting doesn't matter. 225 00:11:46,040 --> 00:11:46,760 Speaker 1: I don't trust them. 226 00:11:47,000 --> 00:11:50,800 Speaker 2: So already yeah, already, whatever they got to say after that, 227 00:11:50,840 --> 00:11:53,240 Speaker 2: I'm like looking at them with decide on. So I 228 00:11:53,280 --> 00:11:57,240 Speaker 2: already knew, like it's probably some suspect shit. So anyway, 229 00:11:57,360 --> 00:11:59,320 Speaker 2: it made me go look up some podcasts and made 230 00:11:59,360 --> 00:12:02,960 Speaker 2: me go read some form articles and then you know, 231 00:12:03,080 --> 00:12:09,280 Speaker 2: Democracy Now and the podcast opening arguments to me were 232 00:12:09,320 --> 00:12:13,319 Speaker 2: the two best sources of like, well, here's a holistic 233 00:12:13,440 --> 00:12:16,800 Speaker 2: argument about her career and all her track record. And 234 00:12:17,400 --> 00:12:19,440 Speaker 2: you know, I encourage people on the show to go 235 00:12:19,520 --> 00:12:21,600 Speaker 2: listen to it. I think, you know, don't just trust me, 236 00:12:22,160 --> 00:12:24,600 Speaker 2: you know, just just because you got me saying like 237 00:12:24,679 --> 00:12:26,840 Speaker 2: this is a good information, go listen to it for yourself, 238 00:12:26,920 --> 00:12:30,040 Speaker 2: because you know, that's kind of the fucking problem is 239 00:12:30,080 --> 00:12:32,120 Speaker 2: people just listen to someone else and go, yeah, she's 240 00:12:32,160 --> 00:12:34,360 Speaker 2: a cop, you know, like, go. 241 00:12:34,200 --> 00:12:36,600 Speaker 1: Read it for yourself. Go look it up for yourself. 242 00:12:38,000 --> 00:12:40,199 Speaker 2: You know, if you need that, because I know a 243 00:12:40,200 --> 00:12:41,559 Speaker 2: lot of people don't even need that, a lot of 244 00:12:41,559 --> 00:12:42,480 Speaker 2: people are like Nigga. 245 00:12:42,559 --> 00:12:45,160 Speaker 1: I was voting for her and Joe Biden. 246 00:12:45,200 --> 00:12:47,440 Speaker 2: I wouldn't have gave a fuck what they They could 247 00:12:47,440 --> 00:12:49,480 Speaker 2: have done everything people did. 248 00:12:49,320 --> 00:12:52,000 Speaker 1: Say and I wouldn't give a fuck. So I mean that. Yeah, 249 00:12:52,040 --> 00:12:52,959 Speaker 1: I get that's why some. 250 00:12:52,920 --> 00:12:54,800 Speaker 2: People didn't do it, But I just encouraged people to 251 00:12:54,840 --> 00:12:57,680 Speaker 2: be informed. So anyway, that was the poe. 252 00:12:57,800 --> 00:12:58,240 Speaker 1: Have you done it? 253 00:12:58,240 --> 00:13:01,400 Speaker 2: In depth examination Kamala Harris's record yes or no? Forty 254 00:13:01,440 --> 00:13:04,720 Speaker 2: percent say yes, sixty percent say no. But I seen 255 00:13:04,760 --> 00:13:07,800 Speaker 2: the memes, which is the thing for me, is like 256 00:13:08,800 --> 00:13:12,680 Speaker 2: the memes now are like how people spread information. 257 00:13:12,760 --> 00:13:14,720 Speaker 1: And we know memes don't have to be true. 258 00:13:15,080 --> 00:13:18,560 Speaker 3: Come on at all, nobody's factor reality. 259 00:13:18,720 --> 00:13:21,920 Speaker 2: It's like a headline to an article. Anyway, the comments 260 00:13:21,920 --> 00:13:23,240 Speaker 2: were real. 261 00:13:23,360 --> 00:13:24,000 Speaker 1: Says I didn't. 262 00:13:24,160 --> 00:13:26,760 Speaker 2: I don't care if the Democratic candidates with Mickey and Mouse, 263 00:13:26,840 --> 00:13:29,679 Speaker 2: Tom and Jerry or Biden and Harris, that's who I'll 264 00:13:29,679 --> 00:13:33,720 Speaker 2: be voting for a period. Jacqueline says, I need a 265 00:13:33,760 --> 00:13:37,480 Speaker 2: third option. No, and I haven't seen the memes. Yeah, 266 00:13:37,840 --> 00:13:40,880 Speaker 2: I mean who, I just can't imagine people not seeing 267 00:13:40,920 --> 00:13:43,800 Speaker 2: the cop memes, you know, but I'll hear you you 268 00:13:43,840 --> 00:13:46,480 Speaker 2: didn't see it? All right, let's go to the next 269 00:13:46,520 --> 00:13:53,839 Speaker 2: episode upward spiral. This one we had Justin on People 270 00:13:53,880 --> 00:13:57,120 Speaker 2: Love Justin Dinan. On the show, Kim says, Rod, I 271 00:13:57,120 --> 00:14:00,400 Speaker 2: felt you today. I hate that motherfucker fucking Trump so much. 272 00:14:00,480 --> 00:14:03,360 Speaker 2: I get pissed, but just thinking about his trifling and 273 00:14:03,440 --> 00:14:07,160 Speaker 2: simple ass, I feel out with I fell out with 274 00:14:07,200 --> 00:14:09,520 Speaker 2: a close relative a while back because she told me 275 00:14:09,520 --> 00:14:12,840 Speaker 2: I shouldn't be against people who support Trump. She told 276 00:14:12,880 --> 00:14:15,240 Speaker 2: me I should be able to talk to them. I 277 00:14:15,280 --> 00:14:17,720 Speaker 2: cursed her the fuck out and blocked her number. Now 278 00:14:17,760 --> 00:14:19,560 Speaker 2: she hate him as well, and I don't know how 279 00:14:19,560 --> 00:14:22,920 Speaker 2: she feel about his supporters. I have kind of started 280 00:14:22,920 --> 00:14:25,480 Speaker 2: communicating with her again, but it isn't the same. I'm 281 00:14:25,520 --> 00:14:28,640 Speaker 2: definitely voting my mom, my four adult children, son in law, 282 00:14:28,680 --> 00:14:30,000 Speaker 2: and ex husband and his wife. 283 00:14:30,080 --> 00:14:30,960 Speaker 1: We all hate the ass. 284 00:14:31,000 --> 00:14:35,480 Speaker 2: So I'm with you, Kim, Like, honestly, man, I don't 285 00:14:35,480 --> 00:14:37,920 Speaker 2: really have room in my I just. 286 00:14:40,000 --> 00:14:42,000 Speaker 1: I honestly am struggling with that. 287 00:14:42,120 --> 00:14:44,640 Speaker 2: I can't even fuck with people that don't think that 288 00:14:44,760 --> 00:14:47,680 Speaker 2: his supporters are fucked up. Come on, I just don't 289 00:14:47,720 --> 00:14:51,280 Speaker 2: know how people are doing this, you know, maybe you know, 290 00:14:51,800 --> 00:14:53,840 Speaker 2: like I'm trying to have a peaceful existence, So I'm 291 00:14:53,880 --> 00:14:56,680 Speaker 2: not trying to argue with these people. 292 00:14:56,680 --> 00:14:57,720 Speaker 1: I'm not confronting them. 293 00:14:57,760 --> 00:14:59,760 Speaker 2: But when I see somebody say some stupid shit on 294 00:14:59,840 --> 00:15:03,680 Speaker 2: social media or something, I honestly just unfriend and move on, 295 00:15:03,840 --> 00:15:07,520 Speaker 2: because you can't save people that are that that are 296 00:15:07,640 --> 00:15:13,160 Speaker 2: that tied to what I would essentially call a false 297 00:15:13,680 --> 00:15:17,880 Speaker 2: perception of peace. You know, like I saw a post 298 00:15:17,960 --> 00:15:22,880 Speaker 2: on Facebook this week and it was a guy who had. 299 00:15:22,720 --> 00:15:24,920 Speaker 1: A friend. 300 00:15:26,320 --> 00:15:28,360 Speaker 2: That he took a picture with and his friend had 301 00:15:28,400 --> 00:15:30,880 Speaker 2: on like a Trump shirt, and then he had a 302 00:15:30,880 --> 00:15:35,240 Speaker 2: long post about how, you know, liberals is being divisive 303 00:15:35,280 --> 00:15:38,200 Speaker 2: as the conservatives and this is kind of like a 304 00:15:38,200 --> 00:15:41,400 Speaker 2: both sides problem, and you know, it doesn't make people 305 00:15:41,440 --> 00:15:45,320 Speaker 2: bad people to support Trump, and I I mean, and 306 00:15:45,360 --> 00:15:47,200 Speaker 2: it was like, you know, a post from this week, 307 00:15:47,360 --> 00:15:50,720 Speaker 2: like now, like not from four years ago. And I 308 00:15:50,840 --> 00:15:53,040 Speaker 2: just unfriended the person because I didn't know him that 309 00:15:53,040 --> 00:15:53,760 Speaker 2: well anyway. 310 00:15:54,000 --> 00:15:57,840 Speaker 3: But to me, that's so was everybody white? 311 00:15:57,840 --> 00:16:00,160 Speaker 2: I'm just asking, No, it was a black dude and 312 00:16:00,200 --> 00:16:02,800 Speaker 2: a white dude, white Trump support a black dude, And 313 00:16:02,960 --> 00:16:08,720 Speaker 2: I honestly was just like, I don't think, I don't know, 314 00:16:08,800 --> 00:16:10,920 Speaker 2: It's like it's like seeing a shark a person taking 315 00:16:10,920 --> 00:16:12,360 Speaker 2: a picture with a shark or some shit like. 316 00:16:12,320 --> 00:16:14,560 Speaker 1: It's you know what I mean, where I just can't. 317 00:16:15,080 --> 00:16:17,440 Speaker 2: I feel like there's a detachment from reality at some 318 00:16:17,480 --> 00:16:20,640 Speaker 2: point where it's like this is like to sit down 319 00:16:20,640 --> 00:16:22,160 Speaker 2: with that person and say, well, what is it you 320 00:16:22,200 --> 00:16:23,080 Speaker 2: support about Trump? 321 00:16:23,120 --> 00:16:25,000 Speaker 1: Because what you know what it is? That's what I 322 00:16:25,000 --> 00:16:25,400 Speaker 1: feel like. 323 00:16:25,680 --> 00:16:29,320 Speaker 2: You're afraid to have a real conversation, and I think 324 00:16:29,360 --> 00:16:32,720 Speaker 2: it's it's like the cowardice. To me, it's cowardice. It's 325 00:16:32,760 --> 00:16:36,920 Speaker 2: not bravery. It's cowardice pitched as bravery. Which is well, 326 00:16:36,960 --> 00:16:41,000 Speaker 2: as long as we don't have any substantial, substantial conversations, 327 00:16:41,360 --> 00:16:44,200 Speaker 2: as long as we never as long as we only 328 00:16:44,200 --> 00:16:46,200 Speaker 2: talk about what beer we drink and the fact that 329 00:16:46,200 --> 00:16:50,760 Speaker 2: we both breathe oxygen and excel carbon dioxide. 330 00:16:50,080 --> 00:16:51,240 Speaker 3: Then that's not your friend. 331 00:16:51,400 --> 00:16:54,840 Speaker 2: Then we're humans and we're all humans, and why can't 332 00:16:54,880 --> 00:16:58,920 Speaker 2: we see that? It's like, right, but that would you 333 00:16:58,960 --> 00:17:01,760 Speaker 2: take a picture with a not because to me, that's 334 00:17:01,760 --> 00:17:05,199 Speaker 2: what Donald Trump is, that's and its supporters are like that. 335 00:17:05,240 --> 00:17:07,879 Speaker 1: To me, I don't know how you can ignore that. 336 00:17:07,920 --> 00:17:09,560 Speaker 1: And maybe I'm speaking. 337 00:17:09,160 --> 00:17:11,480 Speaker 2: In like we talk about that black privilege of never 338 00:17:11,520 --> 00:17:15,720 Speaker 2: really having to be around white people our lives to survive. 339 00:17:15,840 --> 00:17:18,280 Speaker 2: So maybe I'm speaking from a place of privilege. 340 00:17:18,960 --> 00:17:20,880 Speaker 3: I guarantee I am, because I'm like. 341 00:17:20,880 --> 00:17:23,600 Speaker 2: The is this no, because I've just never had to 342 00:17:23,920 --> 00:17:27,880 Speaker 2: make that level of compromise on my humanity or I've 343 00:17:27,880 --> 00:17:30,360 Speaker 2: never been willing to, and I've never felt the need 344 00:17:30,440 --> 00:17:32,320 Speaker 2: to in order to be some. 345 00:17:32,320 --> 00:17:34,800 Speaker 1: White person's friend, you know what I mean. 346 00:17:35,920 --> 00:17:38,119 Speaker 2: And I would never give cover to somebody like that, 347 00:17:38,320 --> 00:17:40,520 Speaker 2: if like it's like someone having a clan. I'm in 348 00:17:40,560 --> 00:17:43,120 Speaker 2: the klan, but that doesn't mean we don't both eat 349 00:17:43,160 --> 00:17:45,600 Speaker 2: at the same restaurants, you know, Like I would never 350 00:17:45,720 --> 00:17:48,000 Speaker 2: take that picture with that person and provide cover for 351 00:17:48,080 --> 00:17:52,240 Speaker 2: that humanity, as if their ideas about me and mine 352 00:17:52,680 --> 00:17:55,639 Speaker 2: is just something that to be like disagreed with, but 353 00:17:56,400 --> 00:17:59,800 Speaker 2: you know, politely, and then we carry on. And I 354 00:18:00,640 --> 00:18:02,280 Speaker 2: don't know how you can say that and believe black 355 00:18:02,320 --> 00:18:04,080 Speaker 2: lives matter. I don't know how you can say that 356 00:18:04,200 --> 00:18:08,879 Speaker 2: and and and support you know, be like arrested feelers 357 00:18:08,880 --> 00:18:12,520 Speaker 2: of Riodna Taylor and you know, talk about George Floyd. 358 00:18:12,560 --> 00:18:14,320 Speaker 2: I just don't know how you can be that. And 359 00:18:15,400 --> 00:18:17,040 Speaker 2: I don't find it to be brave at all. So, 360 00:18:17,440 --> 00:18:18,960 Speaker 2: you know, but I don't like. At the same time, 361 00:18:19,800 --> 00:18:22,240 Speaker 2: the way I found my piece and my freedom is hey, 362 00:18:22,320 --> 00:18:24,280 Speaker 2: I don't really fucking know. You probably only like me 363 00:18:24,320 --> 00:18:27,080 Speaker 2: because of the show or some other shit, and just 364 00:18:27,200 --> 00:18:30,280 Speaker 2: you know, unfriend, do your thing. If that's what you 365 00:18:30,320 --> 00:18:32,800 Speaker 2: want to believe, that's what you want to believe. But 366 00:18:33,359 --> 00:18:37,320 Speaker 2: that's that's like, that's where I'm at with it. And 367 00:18:37,400 --> 00:18:39,720 Speaker 2: I think it's because deep down I just hate Donald Trump. 368 00:18:39,800 --> 00:18:41,280 Speaker 1: I hate the people that got him here. I hate 369 00:18:41,280 --> 00:18:42,800 Speaker 1: the Republicans. 370 00:18:42,400 --> 00:18:45,680 Speaker 2: Who don't even don't even fuck with him, but they 371 00:18:45,800 --> 00:18:49,480 Speaker 2: actually just want him to accomplish the goals that they've 372 00:18:49,520 --> 00:18:53,239 Speaker 2: had forever. Yes, and they let it slide because they 373 00:18:53,240 --> 00:18:54,440 Speaker 2: don't care how it gets done. 374 00:18:54,600 --> 00:18:58,679 Speaker 1: And yeah, that's gonna always bother me. I think, Yeah, No. 375 00:18:58,880 --> 00:19:00,000 Speaker 3: I's one of those. 376 00:19:01,960 --> 00:19:02,280 Speaker 1: For me. 377 00:19:02,720 --> 00:19:05,320 Speaker 5: That's when of them. Can't we all just get along? 378 00:19:05,400 --> 00:19:07,160 Speaker 5: We would all just love to get along. But that's 379 00:19:07,160 --> 00:19:08,680 Speaker 5: not the reality right here. 380 00:19:10,440 --> 00:19:11,800 Speaker 3: And a lot of. 381 00:19:11,760 --> 00:19:16,919 Speaker 5: People aren't willing to talk or confront people, which I 382 00:19:17,000 --> 00:19:20,800 Speaker 5: understand that. But if you're not willing to do that, 383 00:19:21,600 --> 00:19:24,080 Speaker 5: I also and you made that choice now, and I 384 00:19:24,119 --> 00:19:26,040 Speaker 5: also had the choice to be like Nigga, This is 385 00:19:26,040 --> 00:19:27,840 Speaker 5: a stupid I don't have to be around you and 386 00:19:27,880 --> 00:19:28,800 Speaker 5: don't have to be a friend. 387 00:19:29,160 --> 00:19:29,400 Speaker 1: Yeah. 388 00:19:29,600 --> 00:19:32,479 Speaker 2: It reminds me that Stephen Colbert back when he used 389 00:19:32,480 --> 00:19:35,880 Speaker 2: to do The Cobert Report, and he had this joke 390 00:19:36,000 --> 00:19:37,879 Speaker 2: and it was the funniest fucking joke to me. It 391 00:19:37,920 --> 00:19:40,000 Speaker 2: was this one picture because you know, he would be 392 00:19:40,080 --> 00:19:43,320 Speaker 2: pretending to be a conservative on the show, and so 393 00:19:44,200 --> 00:19:46,560 Speaker 2: he had this one joke that I thought was hilarious. 394 00:19:46,640 --> 00:19:49,920 Speaker 2: It was him and his black friend Alan and he 395 00:19:50,000 --> 00:19:53,720 Speaker 2: had this picture. We've used it for the show photos. Yeah, 396 00:19:53,760 --> 00:19:56,280 Speaker 2: and he always brought it up when he said something racist. 397 00:19:56,680 --> 00:19:59,040 Speaker 2: And that's what I thought about when I saw that picture. 398 00:19:59,119 --> 00:20:00,560 Speaker 2: This black dude Huggins somebody a Trump. 399 00:20:00,600 --> 00:20:00,719 Speaker 1: Think. 400 00:20:00,720 --> 00:20:04,680 Speaker 2: It's like when this dude does and says racist shit 401 00:20:04,960 --> 00:20:07,720 Speaker 2: or whatever, he can always point to this picture and 402 00:20:07,720 --> 00:20:10,880 Speaker 2: be like if this black person said, I'm cool, he said, 403 00:20:10,920 --> 00:20:13,679 Speaker 2: we shouldn't care about this, you know. And I think, 404 00:20:13,880 --> 00:20:18,280 Speaker 2: like I said, it's it's cowardice, massed as bravery, sold 405 00:20:18,320 --> 00:20:20,000 Speaker 2: to me as bravery, Like look, how brave I am. 406 00:20:20,080 --> 00:20:22,760 Speaker 1: I'm standing next to one. It's like that's not brave, No, 407 00:20:22,920 --> 00:20:23,640 Speaker 1: And that. 408 00:20:23,600 --> 00:20:26,400 Speaker 3: One black person does not speak for black as a whole. 409 00:20:26,680 --> 00:20:29,399 Speaker 2: Yeah, like, I get that we're all stuck in the 410 00:20:29,400 --> 00:20:31,720 Speaker 2: same house together, as in you know, the earth and 411 00:20:31,800 --> 00:20:37,879 Speaker 2: the country. But you know it's not my job to 412 00:20:37,880 --> 00:20:41,480 Speaker 2: to to put my life on the line to give 413 00:20:41,520 --> 00:20:44,600 Speaker 2: you cover. That's not my job, Sarah says, your random 414 00:20:44,600 --> 00:20:47,399 Speaker 2: thoughts have me cracking up. I am a garlic I 415 00:20:47,440 --> 00:20:50,719 Speaker 2: am also a garlic press for life. When I started cooking, 416 00:20:50,800 --> 00:20:52,679 Speaker 2: it would take me twenty minutes to slice of garlic 417 00:20:52,720 --> 00:20:56,080 Speaker 2: and onions. Your garlic press style is way fancy than mine, though. 418 00:20:56,160 --> 00:20:58,520 Speaker 2: I think I'm going to donate my own into some 419 00:20:58,520 --> 00:21:02,080 Speaker 2: communist community based free elective resource coup for the left 420 00:21:02,080 --> 00:21:03,359 Speaker 2: points and then upgrade. 421 00:21:03,560 --> 00:21:04,480 Speaker 3: Come on, upgrade. 422 00:21:04,920 --> 00:21:07,000 Speaker 2: It's not capitalism if you drop off your old shit 423 00:21:07,040 --> 00:21:09,199 Speaker 2: a good will. That's what I say, and that's what 424 00:21:09,280 --> 00:21:12,800 Speaker 2: I do. Karen, you had me laughing at drugs or drugs. 425 00:21:12,880 --> 00:21:16,480 Speaker 2: I often get the verbiage mixed up, but you reminded 426 00:21:16,520 --> 00:21:18,920 Speaker 2: me of a lead and a bad cop movie. 427 00:21:19,800 --> 00:21:23,040 Speaker 1: He's bringing in a shipment of drugs. Nothing too specific. 428 00:21:24,000 --> 00:21:26,680 Speaker 3: I'm very generic. I told you I am a square. 429 00:21:27,400 --> 00:21:29,800 Speaker 5: For years, the their programs, I told y'all, the their 430 00:21:29,840 --> 00:21:31,440 Speaker 5: programs had me saying. 431 00:21:31,600 --> 00:21:33,600 Speaker 3: All the drugs I was like, Oh, you do drugs, 432 00:21:33,640 --> 00:21:36,760 Speaker 3: You're gonna die. So y'all talking to somebody coming. 433 00:21:36,560 --> 00:21:42,400 Speaker 2: From that standpoint, Demetria Akad says, I was so thrilled 434 00:21:42,440 --> 00:21:44,680 Speaker 2: to hear the Marion House ad at the beginning of 435 00:21:44,760 --> 00:21:45,119 Speaker 2: the show. 436 00:21:45,359 --> 00:21:47,280 Speaker 1: This organization is nearing there to my heart. 437 00:21:47,320 --> 00:21:49,520 Speaker 2: They helped my mom with many resources prior to her 438 00:21:49,560 --> 00:21:53,120 Speaker 2: passing in twenty twelve. Since then, I've run the five 439 00:21:53,200 --> 00:21:56,040 Speaker 2: K annually in her memory. This past year, I have 440 00:21:56,119 --> 00:21:58,359 Speaker 2: had the pleasure of volunteering on the five K planning 441 00:21:58,359 --> 00:22:01,920 Speaker 2: committee and bringing fresh for advertising. I had to suggest 442 00:22:01,920 --> 00:22:05,159 Speaker 2: my favorite podcast, the Blackout Tips. Hopefully the listeners can 443 00:22:05,200 --> 00:22:07,320 Speaker 2: support my team team Pam Dukes. 444 00:22:07,760 --> 00:22:08,800 Speaker 1: But there you go, y'all. 445 00:22:08,880 --> 00:22:14,120 Speaker 2: Okay, if y'all haven't already, you know, donated, given your 446 00:22:14,160 --> 00:22:15,840 Speaker 2: time and your treasure and all that stuff. 447 00:22:16,600 --> 00:22:19,560 Speaker 1: Now you know where the directed team Pam Dukes. All right, 448 00:22:20,440 --> 00:22:23,600 Speaker 1: go hook her up, Monica said. 449 00:22:23,760 --> 00:22:27,240 Speaker 2: And I also thank you d because I mean, we 450 00:22:28,280 --> 00:22:32,600 Speaker 2: are independent podcasts, so we got to get our ad. 451 00:22:32,359 --> 00:22:34,920 Speaker 1: Revenue in where we can, and you. 452 00:22:34,880 --> 00:22:37,720 Speaker 2: Know, stuff like that actually helps us to be able 453 00:22:37,720 --> 00:22:40,000 Speaker 2: to have choices and decisions and stuff when we approach 454 00:22:40,119 --> 00:22:42,800 Speaker 2: for different deals and all this type of stuff like, 455 00:22:42,920 --> 00:22:47,159 Speaker 2: it's really just people like looking out for us with advertising, 456 00:22:48,160 --> 00:22:54,400 Speaker 2: people going premium, people that donate to the show, sponsor 457 00:22:54,520 --> 00:22:57,480 Speaker 2: stuff like that. That's really what helps us be able 458 00:22:57,520 --> 00:22:59,119 Speaker 2: to do this black ass show. 459 00:22:58,920 --> 00:23:01,000 Speaker 1: In the way that we black ass want to. Yes, Sir, 460 00:23:01,680 --> 00:23:02,600 Speaker 1: Monica says me. 461 00:23:02,800 --> 00:23:07,240 Speaker 2: Abolished capitalism, redistribute wealth, return to the workers, the means 462 00:23:07,240 --> 00:23:11,359 Speaker 2: of production. Also me listening to the blackout tips, the 463 00:23:11,400 --> 00:23:15,720 Speaker 2: what watch the garlic press, con mince and slice. Huh wait, 464 00:23:16,200 --> 00:23:17,440 Speaker 2: where can I find this trash? 465 00:23:17,480 --> 00:23:17,720 Speaker 1: Can? 466 00:23:17,920 --> 00:23:18,639 Speaker 3: Come on? Come on? 467 00:23:19,440 --> 00:23:21,560 Speaker 2: I cracked up when you said we can't be anti 468 00:23:21,640 --> 00:23:24,720 Speaker 2: capitalist because yep, one of my biggest flaws in Oprah 469 00:23:24,840 --> 00:23:26,639 Speaker 2: voices I love. 470 00:23:26,880 --> 00:23:30,160 Speaker 3: Gadget come off from gadgets. 471 00:23:30,359 --> 00:23:32,439 Speaker 2: So yeah, me and TJ Max, for example, is a 472 00:23:32,520 --> 00:23:34,720 Speaker 2: dangerous mix. I need one of these and one of 473 00:23:34,760 --> 00:23:38,640 Speaker 2: these and two of those. Shaking my head PSA. Justin 474 00:23:38,720 --> 00:23:41,800 Speaker 2: loved Justin on the regular episodes. Thanks Monica, thank you, 475 00:23:42,359 --> 00:23:45,040 Speaker 2: and yeah, absolutely, man, I can relate. 476 00:23:45,160 --> 00:23:47,200 Speaker 3: That's I got my own several shit going. 477 00:23:47,280 --> 00:23:50,720 Speaker 5: Hmmm, I like that, and I like that. I'll put 478 00:23:50,760 --> 00:23:53,960 Speaker 5: that on the on the ordit from Amazon lay the list. 479 00:23:54,640 --> 00:23:55,840 Speaker 1: Yep, that was a deep thought. 480 00:23:55,840 --> 00:23:59,440 Speaker 2: I had, and uh, you know, it's it's just funny 481 00:23:59,480 --> 00:24:03,399 Speaker 2: because like it's a joke, but it's also kind of serious. 482 00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:06,320 Speaker 2: It's like part of the problem is I'm part of 483 00:24:06,320 --> 00:24:09,400 Speaker 2: the problem because even if I agree about people need 484 00:24:09,480 --> 00:24:12,400 Speaker 2: more resources and money and time and blah blah blah, 485 00:24:12,440 --> 00:24:15,280 Speaker 2: I also do want to have this bond ass garlic press. 486 00:24:15,400 --> 00:24:17,800 Speaker 2: And maybe in the socialist utopia where we all live 487 00:24:17,840 --> 00:24:21,680 Speaker 2: in like block houses and everything is the same color gray, 488 00:24:22,480 --> 00:24:25,440 Speaker 2: you know, the dope. So the dope garlic press might 489 00:24:25,480 --> 00:24:28,560 Speaker 2: not be on the menu for everybody. Okay, so I'm 490 00:24:28,600 --> 00:24:30,760 Speaker 2: not told to me. If I can't make it myself 491 00:24:30,840 --> 00:24:32,720 Speaker 2: or barter for the shit, I might be in trouble 492 00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:33,080 Speaker 2: and I. 493 00:24:33,119 --> 00:24:35,440 Speaker 1: Need that motherfucker garlic press, all right. 494 00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:38,399 Speaker 2: I don't know that podcasting is a skill that's gonna 495 00:24:38,400 --> 00:24:41,080 Speaker 2: be highly sought after in the socialist don't know. 496 00:24:41,240 --> 00:24:42,760 Speaker 3: I don't know if we're gonna train that. 497 00:24:42,960 --> 00:24:45,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. I don't know how they gonna 498 00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:47,840 Speaker 1: work that. I don't know how that barter system works 499 00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:48,600 Speaker 1: at the commune. 500 00:24:48,680 --> 00:24:51,480 Speaker 2: I don't think that's part of it anyway. The poet 501 00:24:51,560 --> 00:24:52,560 Speaker 2: do you hate Donald Trump? 502 00:24:52,640 --> 00:24:53,160 Speaker 1: Yes? Or no? 503 00:24:53,680 --> 00:24:56,359 Speaker 2: Ninety four percent in the audience says yes, six percent 504 00:24:56,440 --> 00:24:56,880 Speaker 2: say no. 505 00:24:58,119 --> 00:25:01,680 Speaker 3: Karen, Oh, yeah, I hate him. 506 00:25:02,160 --> 00:25:05,720 Speaker 2: Rebecca says, love this episode. Ry don't be sending you 507 00:25:05,760 --> 00:25:08,320 Speaker 2: with your info on great cooking utensils. But I hear 508 00:25:08,359 --> 00:25:10,520 Speaker 2: you on getting something new. I broke down a musk 509 00:25:10,760 --> 00:25:14,920 Speaker 2: or so ago and bought two metal racks for my pantry. 510 00:25:15,400 --> 00:25:18,040 Speaker 2: I have never been more excited about some raised flouring 511 00:25:18,160 --> 00:25:20,719 Speaker 2: all my life. I just smiled now every time I 512 00:25:20,760 --> 00:25:23,520 Speaker 2: go into the pantry. Karen, Oh, I hear you about 513 00:25:23,520 --> 00:25:25,480 Speaker 2: the trash can. I was so fed up the last 514 00:25:25,480 --> 00:25:27,560 Speaker 2: time I went shopping for a trash can. I ended 515 00:25:27,600 --> 00:25:30,480 Speaker 2: up buying a hamper and converted it into a trash can. 516 00:25:30,960 --> 00:25:33,960 Speaker 2: I wanted a nice dog opening but to put my 517 00:25:34,080 --> 00:25:37,000 Speaker 2: trash in, because a nice big opening to put my 518 00:25:37,040 --> 00:25:40,120 Speaker 2: trash in because I love to shoot my trash from 519 00:25:40,160 --> 00:25:43,320 Speaker 2: across the room, And the only container that had opening 520 00:25:43,320 --> 00:25:45,040 Speaker 2: big enough to ensure that I would not miss my 521 00:25:45,040 --> 00:25:46,000 Speaker 2: target was a hamper. 522 00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:49,159 Speaker 1: Well, Rebecca sounded like you need to step your jumper 523 00:25:49,280 --> 00:25:50,800 Speaker 1: up to me. You know what I'm saying. 524 00:25:51,080 --> 00:25:53,800 Speaker 2: It sounded like the problem isn't the opening of the 525 00:25:53,840 --> 00:25:57,720 Speaker 2: trash can, but the motion and snapping that wrisk and 526 00:25:57,840 --> 00:26:00,720 Speaker 2: following through. Okay, you got the track, practice that none 527 00:26:00,800 --> 00:26:03,119 Speaker 2: rain shot. You got to line that bad boy up. 528 00:26:03,160 --> 00:26:07,920 Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, Release rotation splash. Okay, so 529 00:26:08,359 --> 00:26:10,960 Speaker 2: it sounded like somebody got some work to do in 530 00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:12,160 Speaker 2: the off seasons. 531 00:26:12,920 --> 00:26:15,040 Speaker 1: Works great with those big black trash bags too. 532 00:26:15,080 --> 00:26:19,000 Speaker 2: I am not down for some empty, some whimpy trash bags. 533 00:26:19,560 --> 00:26:22,280 Speaker 2: It's too easy to hate Trump anymore, but I still do. 534 00:26:22,560 --> 00:26:25,240 Speaker 2: I despise that man since his Robin Leech days on 535 00:26:25,359 --> 00:26:26,160 Speaker 2: Rich and Famous. 536 00:26:26,320 --> 00:26:27,640 Speaker 1: I was a kid in sarda Con. 537 00:26:27,880 --> 00:26:30,080 Speaker 2: I don't understand how all these adults fell for But 538 00:26:30,119 --> 00:26:32,080 Speaker 2: then I guess the same way that P. T. 539 00:26:32,280 --> 00:26:34,439 Speaker 1: Barnum in his day put. 540 00:26:34,359 --> 00:26:36,800 Speaker 2: Our But our great grandparents weren't as stupid as we 541 00:26:36,880 --> 00:26:40,240 Speaker 2: are collectively. Because his ass was never voted in the office, 542 00:26:40,400 --> 00:26:44,600 Speaker 2: they rightly laughed him off stage. I'm reading Mary Trump's 543 00:26:44,600 --> 00:26:48,200 Speaker 2: book too much and never enough, and still don't have 544 00:26:48,320 --> 00:26:51,520 Speaker 2: a look of sympathy for that ass hat. He gets 545 00:26:51,600 --> 00:26:54,439 Speaker 2: all the hate there's coming to him, and to be honest, 546 00:26:54,760 --> 00:26:57,159 Speaker 2: I wouldn't mind seeing him swing as a trader to 547 00:26:57,240 --> 00:27:00,879 Speaker 2: this country anyway. That's my two cents and some thanks 548 00:27:00,880 --> 00:27:04,879 Speaker 2: for all your hard work. Yeah, yeah, abolished the prisons 549 00:27:04,880 --> 00:27:06,160 Speaker 2: after y'all throw his ass in one. 550 00:27:06,280 --> 00:27:07,320 Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck. 551 00:27:08,119 --> 00:27:11,560 Speaker 2: That dude is the worst, honestly, Monica says, Yes, I 552 00:27:11,600 --> 00:27:13,360 Speaker 2: hate him so much. I had to dial it back 553 00:27:13,400 --> 00:27:15,840 Speaker 2: because it's actually not hate healthy for me to think 554 00:27:15,880 --> 00:27:16,720 Speaker 2: the things I think. 555 00:27:16,960 --> 00:27:18,359 Speaker 1: It's not that I want to go high. 556 00:27:18,359 --> 00:27:20,960 Speaker 2: I just don't want to spend hours visualizing way someone 557 00:27:20,960 --> 00:27:25,280 Speaker 2: could die. Eke is dark to even type that. Yeah, yeah, 558 00:27:25,359 --> 00:27:27,600 Speaker 2: they bring it out, bring it out to you, man 559 00:27:28,760 --> 00:27:31,560 Speaker 2: like you. I think if we wouldn't have relegated his 560 00:27:31,680 --> 00:27:35,159 Speaker 2: segment to that, y'all's man, I don't know what the 561 00:27:35,160 --> 00:27:37,639 Speaker 2: fuck the show would sound like right now. Every day 562 00:27:37,680 --> 00:27:44,679 Speaker 2: I would be on here sounding more and more angry. 563 00:27:42,880 --> 00:27:44,680 Speaker 3: Like, goddamn them niggas just stay on. 564 00:27:44,760 --> 00:27:49,040 Speaker 2: Angry yet right like, I don't y'all would hate this 565 00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:51,400 Speaker 2: do today? 566 00:27:52,640 --> 00:27:54,359 Speaker 1: What are what you gonna do tomorrow? 567 00:27:55,640 --> 00:28:00,400 Speaker 4: This guy, this guy just fishing. 568 00:27:59,440 --> 00:28:03,399 Speaker 1: Over his fishing on you what it tastes like? She 569 00:28:04,200 --> 00:28:06,639 Speaker 1: you know what it tastes like to me? 570 00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:09,399 Speaker 2: I feel like every day that's what that's what the 571 00:28:09,440 --> 00:28:12,440 Speaker 2: show will becomes. The farest with it, go on that 572 00:28:12,720 --> 00:28:14,840 Speaker 2: Shield show. 573 00:28:15,280 --> 00:28:16,680 Speaker 3: You gotta be the theme of the show. 574 00:28:17,280 --> 00:28:21,280 Speaker 2: Even he says, uh, yeah, that's how every show would 575 00:28:21,280 --> 00:28:22,600 Speaker 2: start with that clip. 576 00:28:22,720 --> 00:28:25,400 Speaker 1: That'll be the like we'll put some music underneath it. Yes, 577 00:28:26,680 --> 00:28:29,240 Speaker 1: Now what was gonna do today? 578 00:28:31,160 --> 00:28:34,960 Speaker 3: Go tomorrow? It's like it's the right. 579 00:28:38,200 --> 00:28:42,280 Speaker 1: Just angry, angry, angry man, just mad. Even He says, 580 00:28:42,320 --> 00:28:46,240 Speaker 1: whoever voted no in this poet, I hate you too. Yeah, 581 00:28:46,400 --> 00:28:48,800 Speaker 1: I mean four people voted no. But you know what I. 582 00:28:48,840 --> 00:28:52,320 Speaker 2: Figure it is, it's people vote no because not even 583 00:28:52,360 --> 00:28:55,160 Speaker 2: they support them, a lot of people and I and 584 00:28:54,960 --> 00:28:57,160 Speaker 2: I and I get this. By the way, you feel 585 00:28:57,200 --> 00:29:00,480 Speaker 2: like you're losing something in yourself to admit you hate 586 00:29:00,480 --> 00:29:03,400 Speaker 2: this dude. You know, it's like, damn, I lost something 587 00:29:03,640 --> 00:29:06,400 Speaker 2: because I try not to hate anybody, especially like Christian 588 00:29:06,440 --> 00:29:08,600 Speaker 2: people have been told you're not supposed to hate anybody. 589 00:29:09,000 --> 00:29:09,280 Speaker 1: Shit. 590 00:29:09,480 --> 00:29:11,760 Speaker 2: John Lewis said he don't hate Trump, and I respect 591 00:29:11,800 --> 00:29:14,360 Speaker 2: the fuck out of that man, you know, like that 592 00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:16,480 Speaker 2: man has so much more strength than I have when 593 00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:20,760 Speaker 2: it comes to racism and sacrifice. So, you know, I 594 00:29:20,840 --> 00:29:23,560 Speaker 2: get it, like we have been taught and indoctrinated that 595 00:29:23,600 --> 00:29:25,960 Speaker 2: shit our whole lives that you're not supposed to hate people, 596 00:29:26,560 --> 00:29:28,440 Speaker 2: you know, And so I can see why some people 597 00:29:28,520 --> 00:29:32,360 Speaker 2: be like, despite everything he's done, I can't allow myself 598 00:29:32,400 --> 00:29:35,200 Speaker 2: to hate him because whatever, here's my feelings. 599 00:29:35,400 --> 00:29:39,640 Speaker 1: That's semantics, Like y'all know if y'all hate that man, 600 00:29:40,200 --> 00:29:40,680 Speaker 1: you know what I mean? 601 00:29:40,720 --> 00:29:43,360 Speaker 2: I feel like people be lying to themselves, Like if 602 00:29:43,400 --> 00:29:45,680 Speaker 2: you see what he does and you care about other people, 603 00:29:45,760 --> 00:29:48,200 Speaker 2: I don't know how you can not feel some level 604 00:29:48,200 --> 00:29:48,960 Speaker 2: of hate for that dude. 605 00:29:50,160 --> 00:29:50,400 Speaker 1: You know. 606 00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:52,800 Speaker 2: It's like when you talk to somebody that's Christian, be 607 00:29:52,840 --> 00:29:55,160 Speaker 2: like I hate such and such, like I hate Hitler, 608 00:29:55,280 --> 00:29:56,200 Speaker 2: and they always. 609 00:29:55,880 --> 00:29:58,280 Speaker 1: Have to be like I don't hate anyone. 610 00:29:59,320 --> 00:30:05,440 Speaker 2: I strongly, strongly, strongly dislike him, but I would never 611 00:30:05,480 --> 00:30:07,280 Speaker 2: say hate. And I'm like, it's the same fucking feeling, 612 00:30:07,760 --> 00:30:09,400 Speaker 2: you know what I'm talking about. You want to call 613 00:30:09,440 --> 00:30:13,840 Speaker 2: your hate something else? Like this isn't like, oh, when 614 00:30:13,920 --> 00:30:16,760 Speaker 2: my grits get cold and they jail together, I strongly 615 00:30:16,800 --> 00:30:19,320 Speaker 2: dislike the grits, you know what I mean? Like, you 616 00:30:19,360 --> 00:30:21,160 Speaker 2: know what the fuck it is? Man, You hate him 617 00:30:21,200 --> 00:30:23,720 Speaker 2: the same way I hate them. You need to feel 618 00:30:23,800 --> 00:30:26,720 Speaker 2: differently about it. So you played the semantics game, and 619 00:30:26,840 --> 00:30:31,840 Speaker 2: here we are with the bullshit. But anyway, I'm Rod 620 00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:36,600 Speaker 2: Morrow and I'm an atheist, not afraid of burning in hell. 621 00:30:37,880 --> 00:30:41,800 Speaker 2: Crystal rites it into our our next episode twenty one 622 00:30:41,920 --> 00:30:46,760 Speaker 2: sixty trap Yoga Bay, who says Crystal Smith shout out 623 00:30:46,800 --> 00:30:50,960 Speaker 2: to du I graduated class in two thousand and five. 624 00:30:51,280 --> 00:30:53,680 Speaker 2: I tried yoga for the first time during the pandemic. 625 00:30:53,760 --> 00:30:54,880 Speaker 2: I might be into it. 626 00:30:55,080 --> 00:30:55,800 Speaker 1: Love it. 627 00:30:55,800 --> 00:30:56,840 Speaker 3: It's relaxing to me. 628 00:30:57,120 --> 00:30:57,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, Travi. 629 00:30:57,680 --> 00:31:00,000 Speaker 2: Yoga Bay was such a dope gas man. She was super, 630 00:31:00,720 --> 00:31:05,360 Speaker 2: super inspiring. You know, she loved like I love when 631 00:31:05,360 --> 00:31:08,480 Speaker 2: we have guests that love to talk, that that come 632 00:31:08,520 --> 00:31:13,000 Speaker 2: with something to say, and she was just dropping gems 633 00:31:13,280 --> 00:31:16,840 Speaker 2: and you know, I've really been prepared for the interview 634 00:31:16,840 --> 00:31:19,360 Speaker 2: and stuff, and uh, you know, I really really love 635 00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:22,360 Speaker 2: when I ask someone a question, especially someone who's been 636 00:31:22,360 --> 00:31:25,560 Speaker 2: doing a lot of interviews, and they're like, oh, nobody's 637 00:31:25,560 --> 00:31:26,200 Speaker 2: ever asked me that. 638 00:31:26,200 --> 00:31:29,280 Speaker 1: That's a great question, because I'm like, yes, like that's 639 00:31:29,320 --> 00:31:31,280 Speaker 1: what the fuck I do this job. 640 00:31:31,320 --> 00:31:34,800 Speaker 2: I think, yeah, not just think, but like that means 641 00:31:34,840 --> 00:31:39,040 Speaker 2: I thought, yeah, you know so, because I like, I like, 642 00:31:40,000 --> 00:31:42,480 Speaker 2: I prepare for these interviews, like I hear what other 643 00:31:42,480 --> 00:31:44,960 Speaker 2: people's interviews sound like, and they don't do shit, they 644 00:31:44,960 --> 00:31:49,080 Speaker 2: don't they don't research anything, they don't read anything, they 645 00:31:49,120 --> 00:31:52,440 Speaker 2: don't uh you know, they don't know anything about the person. 646 00:31:52,560 --> 00:31:54,640 Speaker 1: They just do these fucking generic interviews, and I don't. 647 00:31:54,680 --> 00:31:58,200 Speaker 2: I hate listening to them boring because I go there 648 00:31:58,240 --> 00:32:00,479 Speaker 2: hoping that some gyms will be dropping normal. It's just 649 00:32:00,520 --> 00:32:04,400 Speaker 2: like a boiler prey like, Okay, your book is about Blank, 650 00:32:04,520 --> 00:32:07,280 Speaker 2: I'm gonna ask you three questions about Blank. We'll fill 651 00:32:07,320 --> 00:32:09,240 Speaker 2: ten to twenty minutes, and then we'll just move the 652 00:32:09,280 --> 00:32:09,680 Speaker 2: fuck on. 653 00:32:09,760 --> 00:32:10,480 Speaker 1: And I'm like no. 654 00:32:11,520 --> 00:32:13,640 Speaker 2: So I was glad. I was happy because I did 655 00:32:13,720 --> 00:32:18,360 Speaker 2: do a bunch of research book, and then also like, 656 00:32:18,680 --> 00:32:21,840 Speaker 2: questions like that aren't even research based. That was just 657 00:32:21,960 --> 00:32:25,760 Speaker 2: me thinking about the interview, thinking about her, thinking about 658 00:32:27,120 --> 00:32:29,600 Speaker 2: answers I heard her give on other podcasts and stuff, 659 00:32:29,640 --> 00:32:33,400 Speaker 2: and being like, Okay, I want to ask her one 660 00:32:33,720 --> 00:32:36,800 Speaker 2: like this question because I feel like this is relevant. 661 00:32:37,120 --> 00:32:41,360 Speaker 2: So anyway, Brooklyn Shoebay says, I finally noticed how the 662 00:32:41,400 --> 00:32:46,640 Speaker 2: self isolating and WFH has eroded my emotional health, and 663 00:32:46,720 --> 00:32:48,880 Speaker 2: your interview with trap Yoga Bay reminded me that I 664 00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:52,160 Speaker 2: do have tools for true hilly. I really did enjoy 665 00:32:52,280 --> 00:32:54,800 Speaker 2: your interview with Trap Yoga Bay and your readings from 666 00:32:54,800 --> 00:32:58,320 Speaker 2: the Black and Zen book. It really helps helps to 667 00:32:58,360 --> 00:33:04,840 Speaker 2: reignite my yoga and meditation practice. Thank you, even he says, 668 00:33:04,880 --> 00:33:07,680 Speaker 2: thanks for having having these interviews. I didn't think yoga 669 00:33:07,760 --> 00:33:10,000 Speaker 2: was my thing because the music is so boring, but 670 00:33:10,040 --> 00:33:11,600 Speaker 2: now I'm willing to give it a try. Keep these 671 00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:16,640 Speaker 2: interviews coming. I keep discovering new things. Ev Thanks Evie, yep. 672 00:33:17,080 --> 00:33:20,000 Speaker 2: So I'm glad y'all enjoy them, because you know that 673 00:33:20,120 --> 00:33:22,640 Speaker 2: was the thing where I was like, I would like 674 00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:29,800 Speaker 2: to keep the show like like I used to think 675 00:33:30,000 --> 00:33:31,800 Speaker 2: I had to keep the show regimen. It has to 676 00:33:31,800 --> 00:33:33,960 Speaker 2: be this and it has to be that. But what's 677 00:33:34,000 --> 00:33:35,640 Speaker 2: the point of us having our own show if we 678 00:33:35,640 --> 00:33:36,840 Speaker 2: can't make it what we wanted to be? 679 00:33:36,920 --> 00:33:37,920 Speaker 3: Every day agreed? 680 00:33:39,160 --> 00:33:41,600 Speaker 1: Have you done yoga since the pandemic started? Yes or no? 681 00:33:43,040 --> 00:33:47,480 Speaker 2: Yes, yes as well? Twenty four our audience says yes. 682 00:33:47,520 --> 00:33:50,920 Speaker 2: Seventy six percent says no, I did too. This is 683 00:33:50,920 --> 00:33:53,440 Speaker 2: from Peaches seven forty nine. 684 00:33:53,520 --> 00:33:54,800 Speaker 1: My name is Peaches. 685 00:33:55,360 --> 00:33:58,040 Speaker 2: I did too much yoga and injured my shoulder early 686 00:33:58,080 --> 00:34:00,920 Speaker 2: on during the quarantine. I slow down, but I'm still 687 00:34:00,960 --> 00:34:04,080 Speaker 2: doing some yoga. I'm a little gunshot after the injury. 688 00:34:04,160 --> 00:34:07,320 Speaker 2: But I have a sweet little romance going on with yoga, 689 00:34:07,400 --> 00:34:08,759 Speaker 2: more so since the pandemic. 690 00:34:09,239 --> 00:34:14,400 Speaker 5: Yeah, one thing about yoga is that you you have 691 00:34:14,480 --> 00:34:16,640 Speaker 5: to listen to your body, and your body will let 692 00:34:16,640 --> 00:34:19,680 Speaker 5: you know. And it's really easy to push yourself too far. 693 00:34:20,000 --> 00:34:21,080 Speaker 3: And it's a difference. 694 00:34:20,760 --> 00:34:25,080 Speaker 5: Between discomfort and hurting, Like you know, those are two 695 00:34:25,200 --> 00:34:26,760 Speaker 5: separate things, and a lot of times you don't realize 696 00:34:26,760 --> 00:34:32,759 Speaker 5: you're hurt until afterwards because you want to be discomfort 697 00:34:32,880 --> 00:34:34,839 Speaker 5: in some forms of yoga depending on what you're doing, 698 00:34:34,880 --> 00:34:37,719 Speaker 5: because that means that you're stretching, that means you're a 699 00:34:37,800 --> 00:34:39,719 Speaker 5: flexible So there are going to be some levels of 700 00:34:39,800 --> 00:34:42,760 Speaker 5: just discomfort, but there's dif between that and you're actually 701 00:34:42,760 --> 00:34:46,799 Speaker 5: injuring yourself. So listen, listen to your body very particularly, 702 00:34:46,960 --> 00:34:48,680 Speaker 5: you know, once you reach a certain age, listen to 703 00:34:48,719 --> 00:34:49,160 Speaker 5: your body. 704 00:34:49,760 --> 00:34:51,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, you don't heal as quickly. 705 00:34:51,560 --> 00:34:55,239 Speaker 2: Yeah, And also, like there's different degrees of yoga, Like 706 00:34:55,320 --> 00:34:58,719 Speaker 2: there's moderate, there's a gentle. 707 00:34:59,680 --> 00:35:02,200 Speaker 1: You know, so you know kind of look around. 708 00:35:02,280 --> 00:35:06,640 Speaker 2: There's yoga for different body sizes, body tight, different age groups, 709 00:35:06,680 --> 00:35:09,200 Speaker 2: so you know, find the one that you can do 710 00:35:09,280 --> 00:35:11,880 Speaker 2: because you know, maybe your shoulder is too injured to 711 00:35:11,920 --> 00:35:13,160 Speaker 2: do what you were doing before. 712 00:35:13,239 --> 00:35:16,120 Speaker 1: But it doesn't mean you can't. You know, there's nothing 713 00:35:16,160 --> 00:35:16,640 Speaker 1: you can do. 714 00:35:17,600 --> 00:35:20,360 Speaker 5: And I know for me, I know I'm not quote 715 00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:24,040 Speaker 5: unquote old old, but you know, sometimes when you looking 716 00:35:24,080 --> 00:35:27,960 Speaker 5: for things, look for a gentle look for yoga for 717 00:35:28,080 --> 00:35:30,239 Speaker 5: older people, even though you might not be in the 718 00:35:30,280 --> 00:35:33,560 Speaker 5: age range to get targeting. The moves would be more 719 00:35:33,640 --> 00:35:36,560 Speaker 5: suited to your size. I remember when I used to 720 00:35:36,560 --> 00:35:40,520 Speaker 5: do water aerobics. I went to the water aerobics class 721 00:35:40,560 --> 00:35:43,799 Speaker 5: and me and like everybody, everybody, I don't know all 722 00:35:43,840 --> 00:35:46,960 Speaker 5: of them ladies was like fifty in up and we 723 00:35:46,960 --> 00:35:48,640 Speaker 5: were getting there. We would have a good time, but 724 00:35:48,719 --> 00:35:50,839 Speaker 5: that was my speed. I ain't need to be doing 725 00:35:50,840 --> 00:35:53,040 Speaker 5: nothing heavy. I ain't need to be doing nothing hard, 726 00:35:53,480 --> 00:35:56,680 Speaker 5: you know, But I know you have to know your body. 727 00:35:57,000 --> 00:35:57,160 Speaker 3: Well. 728 00:35:57,160 --> 00:35:59,000 Speaker 2: I know you're not oh oh, but you like to 729 00:35:59,040 --> 00:36:01,480 Speaker 2: think about thinking year old old and you like to 730 00:36:01,480 --> 00:36:04,759 Speaker 2: talk about being super old. So you know it would 731 00:36:04,800 --> 00:36:06,840 Speaker 2: make sense that you would fit in in those classes 732 00:36:06,880 --> 00:36:08,160 Speaker 2: and want to do that stuff. 733 00:36:08,200 --> 00:36:10,080 Speaker 3: So yeah, I like talking to the old ladies. 734 00:36:11,440 --> 00:36:14,800 Speaker 1: Your old soul is to say, I've been like that forever. 735 00:36:15,360 --> 00:36:19,720 Speaker 2: Episode twenty one sixty one Diamond and Silk discovery racism. 736 00:36:20,960 --> 00:36:24,399 Speaker 2: We had some comments, let's see Brooklyn shoe Ba says 737 00:36:24,440 --> 00:36:26,799 Speaker 2: Rod and Karen. I know you're probably tired of hearing this, 738 00:36:26,920 --> 00:36:29,600 Speaker 2: but you've absolutely been on fire during this pandemic. 739 00:36:30,160 --> 00:36:32,319 Speaker 1: First of all, we don't ever get tired of hearing that. 740 00:36:33,440 --> 00:36:36,360 Speaker 3: Hey, let me be doing a good job, my nigga. 741 00:36:36,400 --> 00:36:37,520 Speaker 1: That's all. We have. 742 00:36:39,000 --> 00:36:41,480 Speaker 2: Your run on Dimond and Silk having you laughing so hard. 743 00:36:41,560 --> 00:36:45,080 Speaker 2: I had just gotten over your Dizel Washington Junior audition improv. 744 00:36:45,520 --> 00:36:48,279 Speaker 2: I also appreciate youall comparing Democrats and liberals to the 745 00:36:48,280 --> 00:36:51,200 Speaker 2: final fight scene and the Avengers endgame. Damn it, you 746 00:36:51,239 --> 00:36:55,239 Speaker 2: made me my nerve hard smile. Oh, thank you. I 747 00:36:55,320 --> 00:36:56,720 Speaker 2: was so proud of myself today. 748 00:36:56,719 --> 00:36:57,760 Speaker 1: I thought of that analogy. 749 00:36:58,040 --> 00:37:00,279 Speaker 2: I have been turning it over in my head about 750 00:37:00,280 --> 00:37:03,680 Speaker 2: what this reminds me of for a while, and I 751 00:37:03,719 --> 00:37:04,640 Speaker 2: was like, that's it. 752 00:37:04,760 --> 00:37:08,279 Speaker 1: If I had a show where I did skits that 753 00:37:08,280 --> 00:37:11,759 Speaker 1: that obviously, well, y'all don't listen to that. 754 00:37:11,920 --> 00:37:14,480 Speaker 2: All of y'all have heard the nerd off, but Black 755 00:37:14,600 --> 00:37:15,840 Speaker 2: Robin would be a skit. 756 00:37:16,520 --> 00:37:18,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm here for Black Robin, where. 757 00:37:19,040 --> 00:37:23,480 Speaker 2: Bruce Wayne adopts one of these orphans that had their 758 00:37:23,480 --> 00:37:28,040 Speaker 2: family killed by some criminals. And instead of the black 759 00:37:28,160 --> 00:37:31,640 Speaker 2: Robin wanting to get like revenge and put on the 760 00:37:31,719 --> 00:37:34,200 Speaker 2: Robin suit and go out and fight crime, the black 761 00:37:34,280 --> 00:37:37,400 Speaker 2: Robin would be like, oh my god, the increase in 762 00:37:37,440 --> 00:37:43,040 Speaker 2: my motherfucking lifestyle and class is so big. I actually 763 00:37:43,400 --> 00:37:44,640 Speaker 2: just I'm gonna get some therapy. 764 00:37:44,719 --> 00:37:47,640 Speaker 1: I'm good. I don't want to kill criminals. I don't 765 00:37:47,640 --> 00:37:48,280 Speaker 1: want to fight. 766 00:37:48,120 --> 00:37:51,360 Speaker 3: Nobody classes at three o'clock, right. 767 00:37:51,239 --> 00:37:54,000 Speaker 2: I just want to be a rich kid now with privilege. 768 00:37:54,000 --> 00:37:55,320 Speaker 2: I want to go to a good school. 769 00:37:55,560 --> 00:37:57,160 Speaker 3: And Bruce wants you out here doing shit. 770 00:37:57,360 --> 00:37:59,800 Speaker 2: And then the whole thing is that, you know, Bruce Wayne, 771 00:38:00,160 --> 00:38:02,799 Speaker 2: his whole thing is that he doesn't want Robin fighting this. 772 00:38:03,160 --> 00:38:05,440 Speaker 2: That's how all the Robbins he had faux Robbins, and 773 00:38:05,480 --> 00:38:07,920 Speaker 2: all of them the same way. I'm gonna go fight crime. No, 774 00:38:07,960 --> 00:38:10,279 Speaker 2: you can't fight crime me No. And then they keep 775 00:38:10,320 --> 00:38:12,080 Speaker 2: fighting crime. It's like, well, if you're gonna fight, let 776 00:38:12,120 --> 00:38:14,319 Speaker 2: me show you how. And I'm and I'm like, well 777 00:38:14,360 --> 00:38:17,239 Speaker 2: what if secretly he just has always wanted them to 778 00:38:17,239 --> 00:38:19,640 Speaker 2: fight crime with him, and so he leave little clues 779 00:38:19,640 --> 00:38:22,399 Speaker 2: around the house and shit and so we're figuring out Yeah, 780 00:38:22,440 --> 00:38:24,120 Speaker 2: and that's how they end up fighting crime with him, 781 00:38:24,120 --> 00:38:26,960 Speaker 2: because they figure out he's Batman. And so instead of 782 00:38:27,320 --> 00:38:30,680 Speaker 2: the Black Robbin being like, oh, the clock door has 783 00:38:30,680 --> 00:38:32,560 Speaker 2: a tunnel behind it, they would just go up and 784 00:38:32,600 --> 00:38:33,960 Speaker 2: like close the clock door. 785 00:38:34,120 --> 00:38:36,279 Speaker 3: Yes, yes, who did this? 786 00:38:36,520 --> 00:38:37,480 Speaker 1: Yeah? 787 00:38:37,520 --> 00:38:39,520 Speaker 2: Man, it's a draft coming from manhere and they just 788 00:38:39,560 --> 00:38:41,440 Speaker 2: closed the door. I don't know what that was about. 789 00:38:41,680 --> 00:38:44,200 Speaker 2: You know, Bruce Wayne is laying on the couch. 790 00:38:44,480 --> 00:38:46,680 Speaker 5: But I don't know how these diamonds got on the 791 00:38:46,719 --> 00:38:48,160 Speaker 5: floor and just and just put it back. 792 00:38:48,080 --> 00:38:48,600 Speaker 3: On the shelf. 793 00:38:48,680 --> 00:38:51,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, Bruce Wayne laying on the couch, bloody and his 794 00:38:51,160 --> 00:38:53,799 Speaker 2: Batman uniform, k. 795 00:38:53,760 --> 00:38:56,280 Speaker 1: Need an injury, need his injuries tended to and stuff. 796 00:38:56,280 --> 00:38:59,000 Speaker 1: And the kid just comes in. It's like Alfred a 797 00:38:59,120 --> 00:39:01,520 Speaker 1: for he in here doing something. I don't know. 798 00:39:01,680 --> 00:39:04,200 Speaker 3: Nobody told me it was Halloween. We do a Halloween earl. 799 00:39:04,280 --> 00:39:06,520 Speaker 1: Right, I'm going back to bed. Don't you want to 800 00:39:06,600 --> 00:39:07,960 Speaker 1: know who killed your parents? 801 00:39:08,000 --> 00:39:08,200 Speaker 3: No? 802 00:39:08,320 --> 00:39:09,600 Speaker 1: I think the police will handle it. 803 00:39:10,160 --> 00:39:11,960 Speaker 3: You know, it'll be out on the case. 804 00:39:12,200 --> 00:39:15,080 Speaker 2: The police get the police, find out who killed Batman, 805 00:39:15,120 --> 00:39:16,400 Speaker 2: find out who killed your parents. 806 00:39:16,640 --> 00:39:19,200 Speaker 1: They be like, so we don't we not? I don't 807 00:39:19,200 --> 00:39:20,440 Speaker 1: want you to get vengeance tonight. 808 00:39:20,480 --> 00:39:22,520 Speaker 2: Okay, I'm going to bring on the justice like no, no, no, 809 00:39:22,680 --> 00:39:24,040 Speaker 2: let's just call the police and just stay in and 810 00:39:24,040 --> 00:39:26,200 Speaker 2: watch some Netflix. Why are you Why are you doing 811 00:39:26,239 --> 00:39:28,279 Speaker 2: any of this? I don't understand you're a billionaire. Why 812 00:39:28,280 --> 00:39:30,360 Speaker 2: are you beating people up? Just call the police that 813 00:39:30,480 --> 00:39:32,640 Speaker 2: I think we can take on the court and buy lawyers. 814 00:39:32,880 --> 00:39:35,200 Speaker 1: Yes, we got the money, we can get them to 815 00:39:35,200 --> 00:39:35,760 Speaker 1: go to jail. 816 00:39:36,120 --> 00:39:38,200 Speaker 5: I don't having a normal regula ass life, going to 817 00:39:38,280 --> 00:39:40,960 Speaker 5: high school and shit not skipping classes. 818 00:39:41,160 --> 00:39:44,520 Speaker 2: I think you should deal with your unresolved trauma. That's 819 00:39:44,520 --> 00:39:46,600 Speaker 2: what I think you should do, Bruce, because I have. 820 00:39:47,680 --> 00:39:50,960 Speaker 3: Bruce be like, I see you was in class. Oh 821 00:39:51,040 --> 00:39:52,080 Speaker 3: you didn't skip class? 822 00:39:52,160 --> 00:39:52,560 Speaker 1: Not once. 823 00:39:52,600 --> 00:39:55,480 Speaker 3: You're not fighting in in school or anything like that. 824 00:39:56,000 --> 00:39:56,239 Speaker 1: No. 825 00:39:56,440 --> 00:39:58,400 Speaker 2: I went to the Goddess Counselor because I had some 826 00:39:58,760 --> 00:40:02,399 Speaker 2: questions about career and uh, you know, how to deal 827 00:40:02,440 --> 00:40:03,920 Speaker 2: with my unresolved anger issues and. 828 00:40:04,000 --> 00:40:06,919 Speaker 3: Actually found out I enjoy drawing and doing chest. 829 00:40:07,760 --> 00:40:10,880 Speaker 1: You know, I'll tell you what. I'm into private jets. 830 00:40:10,960 --> 00:40:13,680 Speaker 2: I mean, why don't we take the private jet and 831 00:40:13,719 --> 00:40:14,960 Speaker 2: go to can Coon this weekend? 832 00:40:15,080 --> 00:40:17,680 Speaker 1: Like you know, like you know like rich people do. 833 00:40:18,000 --> 00:40:19,839 Speaker 3: I mean, I see you hanging around. What's that woman? 834 00:40:19,920 --> 00:40:22,799 Speaker 3: N ain't selenea? I like her? I like her a lot, 835 00:40:23,080 --> 00:40:23,279 Speaker 3: you know. 836 00:40:23,320 --> 00:40:25,720 Speaker 5: I think you should marry her, you know, and go ahead, 837 00:40:25,760 --> 00:40:28,560 Speaker 5: and we should just gone out to the to Jamaica when. 838 00:40:28,440 --> 00:40:30,239 Speaker 1: You're gonna have some kids on your own, you know. 839 00:40:30,960 --> 00:40:32,839 Speaker 3: I feel like we know me to be a step brother. 840 00:40:33,040 --> 00:40:35,799 Speaker 1: I'll be bringing my friends over to the crib and shit, nah, 841 00:40:35,840 --> 00:40:38,399 Speaker 1: I don't go in that room. No, that's okay. Just 842 00:40:38,400 --> 00:40:39,200 Speaker 1: just hang out in here. 843 00:40:39,200 --> 00:40:41,840 Speaker 2: Man, let's play some foodsball in the rich side of 844 00:40:41,880 --> 00:40:44,480 Speaker 2: the mansion. Like anyway, that would be my one. 845 00:40:44,320 --> 00:40:44,520 Speaker 1: Of my. 846 00:40:46,280 --> 00:40:48,880 Speaker 5: Batman had come in the room, and uh, it'll be 847 00:40:48,960 --> 00:40:50,000 Speaker 5: a bat you found. 848 00:40:50,080 --> 00:40:51,799 Speaker 3: He'd be like, what do you think about the back? Oh? 849 00:40:51,840 --> 00:40:54,799 Speaker 3: I love the bat. I actually am studying it. I 850 00:40:54,840 --> 00:40:55,600 Speaker 3: actually am. 851 00:40:55,480 --> 00:40:59,719 Speaker 5: Going to school to be a scientist to study sound like. 852 00:41:00,120 --> 00:41:04,000 Speaker 5: You know, I'm good. I just want to help people 853 00:41:04,000 --> 00:41:06,200 Speaker 5: with hearing aids. Like that's my that's my whole job. 854 00:41:06,239 --> 00:41:08,600 Speaker 5: I want to help people, you know, with the hearing. 855 00:41:08,680 --> 00:41:11,040 Speaker 5: And I found out you get that through the sonic 856 00:41:11,360 --> 00:41:12,240 Speaker 5: studying of bets. 857 00:41:12,600 --> 00:41:15,160 Speaker 2: Yep, somebody left a battering on the catchy table. I 858 00:41:15,200 --> 00:41:18,440 Speaker 2: don't know what that was about. But anyway, going to 859 00:41:18,480 --> 00:41:21,000 Speaker 2: a party of the night, so I try not to 860 00:41:21,280 --> 00:41:22,120 Speaker 2: keep you up too late. 861 00:41:22,840 --> 00:41:24,319 Speaker 1: I'm just kidding. I know you won't be in the house, 862 00:41:24,360 --> 00:41:25,000 Speaker 1: but it don't matter. 863 00:41:25,400 --> 00:41:28,000 Speaker 5: I mean, I found a belt and the belt had 864 00:41:28,080 --> 00:41:29,880 Speaker 5: all these buttons and stuff on it. 865 00:41:29,920 --> 00:41:30,799 Speaker 3: I didn't know what it was. 866 00:41:30,920 --> 00:41:32,799 Speaker 1: I didn't press none of the buttons. I put it 867 00:41:32,840 --> 00:41:34,080 Speaker 1: on it's bed. 868 00:41:34,760 --> 00:41:36,360 Speaker 3: I left it on your bed. 869 00:41:36,360 --> 00:41:38,640 Speaker 1: And no, I'm not curious what it was at all. 870 00:41:38,920 --> 00:41:41,680 Speaker 2: What I am curious is where's the key to the Porsche? Okay, 871 00:41:41,760 --> 00:41:44,240 Speaker 2: come on, because I'm trying to go to the mall. 872 00:41:44,400 --> 00:41:46,120 Speaker 5: I mean, if I can't do the Porsch, I'll be 873 00:41:46,120 --> 00:41:47,319 Speaker 5: more than happy to do the Uber. 874 00:41:47,440 --> 00:41:48,879 Speaker 3: If effort is busy. 875 00:41:48,800 --> 00:41:50,960 Speaker 2: I'ma be bringing girls to the crib and shit, it's 876 00:41:51,000 --> 00:41:53,280 Speaker 2: not anyway. So that would be one of my skis. 877 00:41:53,320 --> 00:41:55,839 Speaker 2: But but then this other skitch I think I would 878 00:41:55,920 --> 00:41:58,799 Speaker 2: have to do. Someone could probably do it with some 879 00:41:59,520 --> 00:42:04,440 Speaker 2: I don't know, by voicing over the actual movie footage. 880 00:42:04,840 --> 00:42:08,160 Speaker 2: But yeah, I think the Liberal Avengers would have to 881 00:42:08,200 --> 00:42:12,160 Speaker 2: be my next skit, which is the motherfucker's haggling so 882 00:42:12,239 --> 00:42:14,719 Speaker 2: much that thing't OUs winning because that's what the fuck 883 00:42:14,800 --> 00:42:15,040 Speaker 2: they do. 884 00:42:15,239 --> 00:42:16,880 Speaker 1: They are literally the fucking worst. 885 00:42:16,880 --> 00:42:21,000 Speaker 2: They're the worst teammates that you've ever had, like and 886 00:42:21,120 --> 00:42:22,279 Speaker 2: all of them think they're right. 887 00:42:22,400 --> 00:42:26,360 Speaker 1: So there's just no fucking working with them. There's no better, 888 00:42:26,440 --> 00:42:27,000 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. 889 00:42:27,000 --> 00:42:29,239 Speaker 2: It's like, you're down twenty and a half time, what 890 00:42:29,280 --> 00:42:30,759 Speaker 2: are we gonna do to win this game? 891 00:42:30,760 --> 00:42:33,440 Speaker 1: And everybody's like, but why do you get to shoot? 892 00:42:33,640 --> 00:42:38,319 Speaker 6: Like, motherfucker, we all gonna get to shoot, Like, like, 893 00:42:38,880 --> 00:42:41,160 Speaker 6: I know that we're getting close and we're breaking down 894 00:42:41,160 --> 00:42:42,960 Speaker 6: the lead and we're starting to get back in the game, 895 00:42:43,000 --> 00:42:45,719 Speaker 6: but like, we're not getting back in the game fast enough, 896 00:42:45,800 --> 00:42:47,359 Speaker 6: So I think we should quit and let the other 897 00:42:47,360 --> 00:42:48,120 Speaker 6: team keeps going. 898 00:42:48,320 --> 00:42:49,360 Speaker 1: How's that gonna work? 899 00:42:50,120 --> 00:42:53,720 Speaker 2: The math that that doesn't make sense? Trust me, Both 900 00:42:53,840 --> 00:42:54,839 Speaker 2: both scorers are the same. 901 00:42:55,239 --> 00:42:58,680 Speaker 1: Like we've been losing all the same, I know. 902 00:43:00,520 --> 00:43:04,920 Speaker 3: But you just got here. You you was it? You 903 00:43:05,000 --> 00:43:08,080 Speaker 3: showed up third quarter? How are you already tired? 904 00:43:08,520 --> 00:43:13,240 Speaker 2: Oh my god, Brooklyn Shoebase said, oh wait, so anyway. 905 00:43:14,760 --> 00:43:17,160 Speaker 1: Let's see. Uh dammit, you made my nerve hard smile. 906 00:43:17,200 --> 00:43:19,280 Speaker 2: In regards to voting for Joe Biden, if that motherfucker 907 00:43:19,320 --> 00:43:21,719 Speaker 2: pulled off a rubber mask and he said that the pope, 908 00:43:22,520 --> 00:43:24,920 Speaker 2: he was the pope that ordered the death of Jesus. 909 00:43:24,960 --> 00:43:27,360 Speaker 2: I'm still voting for him in November. Thank you for 910 00:43:27,360 --> 00:43:31,719 Speaker 2: your political poltary slash reporting question mark. I prefer your 911 00:43:31,719 --> 00:43:34,279 Speaker 2: filter than the actual news sources. Yeah, that's how I 912 00:43:34,360 --> 00:43:38,520 Speaker 2: am went the Daily Show anonymous right, saying, Rod and Karen, 913 00:43:38,560 --> 00:43:41,360 Speaker 2: you both made me made such great points about the 914 00:43:41,560 --> 00:43:44,520 Speaker 2: Selo Marley topic. A few years ago, when my sister 915 00:43:44,640 --> 00:43:48,360 Speaker 2: was celebrating a milestone, she went on Facebook and ranted 916 00:43:48,360 --> 00:43:50,880 Speaker 2: that no one was helping her or celebrating her and 917 00:43:50,960 --> 00:43:53,680 Speaker 2: nothing she does ever makes anyone proud. It was much 918 00:43:53,719 --> 00:43:56,440 Speaker 2: harsher than this my other siblings, one going through cancer, 919 00:43:56,480 --> 00:43:59,360 Speaker 2: one just lost her husband. My parents are still on 920 00:43:59,480 --> 00:44:01,759 Speaker 2: Facebook for with her, along with other family members of 921 00:44:01,800 --> 00:44:05,080 Speaker 2: family friends were her little Facebook friends. Didn't know is 922 00:44:05,080 --> 00:44:06,880 Speaker 2: that my sister has a habit of lashing out with 923 00:44:07,000 --> 00:44:09,959 Speaker 2: hurt for comments and then apologizing after she said something 924 00:44:10,040 --> 00:44:12,360 Speaker 2: she can't take back. She also has a habit of 925 00:44:12,360 --> 00:44:14,680 Speaker 2: not celebrating anyone else because what about me? 926 00:44:15,040 --> 00:44:17,319 Speaker 3: Right, And so that's what kills me. 927 00:44:17,920 --> 00:44:20,479 Speaker 5: The motherfuckers are complaining like that you don't do shit 928 00:44:20,560 --> 00:44:23,600 Speaker 5: for nobody else. Why the fuck are you complaining Like 929 00:44:23,760 --> 00:44:28,520 Speaker 5: it's one of those things you know like that, Like 930 00:44:28,560 --> 00:44:32,040 Speaker 5: I said, that's one of my person to pet peeves, Like, oh, nigga, 931 00:44:32,080 --> 00:44:34,480 Speaker 5: don't you better not forgetting nobody goddamn birthday? Then if 932 00:44:34,520 --> 00:44:36,440 Speaker 5: you gonna sit on your pediestudl and talking about what 933 00:44:36,440 --> 00:44:39,640 Speaker 5: about me, you bet you better rememberybody the birthday, everybody holiday, 934 00:44:39,840 --> 00:44:41,239 Speaker 5: everybody motherfucker anniversary. 935 00:44:41,239 --> 00:44:42,960 Speaker 3: Don't you never never never never never forget? 936 00:44:43,760 --> 00:44:45,439 Speaker 2: Yeah, And it's weird because a lot of people only 937 00:44:45,480 --> 00:44:47,759 Speaker 2: do that because they're keeping track for some weird type 938 00:44:47,800 --> 00:44:51,280 Speaker 2: of like you know, it's like the the wedding invitation 939 00:44:51,440 --> 00:44:53,920 Speaker 2: thing where I hate weddings and because so much of 940 00:44:53,960 --> 00:44:56,480 Speaker 2: it is like I did this for you, now you 941 00:44:56,560 --> 00:44:59,279 Speaker 2: have to do this for me. It's like, that's not how, 942 00:44:59,400 --> 00:45:02,960 Speaker 2: that's not this. I want anyone to attend anything for me. Ever, 943 00:45:03,160 --> 00:45:05,000 Speaker 2: come on, you don't owe me shit and I don't 944 00:45:05,040 --> 00:45:07,400 Speaker 2: owe you shit. So if you want to be here 945 00:45:07,400 --> 00:45:08,800 Speaker 2: out of the goodness of your heart because you just 946 00:45:08,840 --> 00:45:11,799 Speaker 2: want to be around and to celebrate a good time 947 00:45:11,800 --> 00:45:13,319 Speaker 2: with me, cool, And. 948 00:45:13,280 --> 00:45:14,600 Speaker 1: If not, move the fuck on. 949 00:45:14,760 --> 00:45:19,200 Speaker 2: I'm not interested in no fucking social capital anyway. So 950 00:45:19,440 --> 00:45:23,080 Speaker 2: when I saw them commenting on her post things like 951 00:45:23,360 --> 00:45:25,759 Speaker 2: you need to forget those negative people. God has shown 952 00:45:25,800 --> 00:45:27,840 Speaker 2: you who you can depend on, I was so pissed, 953 00:45:28,239 --> 00:45:30,399 Speaker 2: like why would she put us out there on front 954 00:45:30,400 --> 00:45:32,480 Speaker 2: street and make people think we did not care about her. 955 00:45:32,719 --> 00:45:34,000 Speaker 1: My father was devastated. 956 00:45:34,080 --> 00:45:36,279 Speaker 2: Not so much that he cares what people thinks if 957 00:45:36,280 --> 00:45:38,400 Speaker 2: it is accurate, but this was not accurate, and he 958 00:45:38,480 --> 00:45:41,320 Speaker 2: works in the counseling field and was embarrassed that people 959 00:45:41,320 --> 00:45:44,719 Speaker 2: would think, here's this man who neglects his. 960 00:45:44,680 --> 00:45:46,360 Speaker 1: Own child issue. Right. 961 00:45:47,000 --> 00:45:49,160 Speaker 2: We were actually playing in a surprise event for her, 962 00:45:49,239 --> 00:45:50,560 Speaker 2: and details are kept from her. 963 00:45:50,760 --> 00:45:53,960 Speaker 1: We ended up having to tell our surprise, tell our surprise. 964 00:45:53,640 --> 00:45:55,719 Speaker 2: And I actually didn't even want to participate after that, 965 00:45:55,920 --> 00:45:58,160 Speaker 2: but I went gave a gift and smiled. It has 966 00:45:58,200 --> 00:46:00,200 Speaker 2: been a few years and I've moved on. I'm the 967 00:46:00,200 --> 00:46:02,320 Speaker 2: best way I know how. I still don't feel comfortable 968 00:46:02,320 --> 00:46:04,400 Speaker 2: sharing my life with her because I have to protect 969 00:46:04,440 --> 00:46:06,680 Speaker 2: myself from the next time she does something like this. 970 00:46:07,320 --> 00:46:09,960 Speaker 2: We remain social media friends. I just don't comment on 971 00:46:10,000 --> 00:46:12,440 Speaker 2: her posts and hardly make any comments on my own page. 972 00:46:12,760 --> 00:46:15,759 Speaker 2: It's like holding hiding from a bully. People support call 973 00:46:15,800 --> 00:46:17,719 Speaker 2: out culture, but when I see it, I just don't 974 00:46:17,760 --> 00:46:20,440 Speaker 2: comment because I don't know the parties involved, the truth 975 00:46:20,560 --> 00:46:22,680 Speaker 2: or even if there's reasonable misunderstanding. 976 00:46:22,960 --> 00:46:25,640 Speaker 3: Right correct correct correct correct. 977 00:46:26,080 --> 00:46:29,600 Speaker 5: And what you can do is do like I have 978 00:46:30,239 --> 00:46:32,960 Speaker 5: some of my family and stuff set up. They only 979 00:46:33,000 --> 00:46:35,359 Speaker 5: see when I change my profile pick. If I don't 980 00:46:35,400 --> 00:46:37,920 Speaker 5: change my profile pick, they don't see nothing else I post. 981 00:46:38,480 --> 00:46:39,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, you can do that. 982 00:46:40,840 --> 00:46:43,720 Speaker 2: I've done that with people friends and not friends before 983 00:46:43,719 --> 00:46:45,960 Speaker 2: me too. There's people that you know, I see them 984 00:46:46,080 --> 00:46:48,920 Speaker 2: lashing out. I see them constantly in turmoil, and I 985 00:46:49,000 --> 00:46:53,240 Speaker 2: back off, man, like I'll mute their their whatever, social media, 986 00:46:53,360 --> 00:46:58,400 Speaker 2: muted whatever, you know, unfollow, unfriend, whatever I have to do, 987 00:46:58,480 --> 00:47:01,280 Speaker 2: because it's just a mat or a time with certain people 988 00:47:01,280 --> 00:47:04,120 Speaker 2: where they are gonna come for you and the same 989 00:47:04,360 --> 00:47:07,280 Speaker 2: unreasonableness that they've had with others, it'll. 990 00:47:07,080 --> 00:47:10,040 Speaker 1: Be for you. And man, this is kind of a 991 00:47:10,080 --> 00:47:14,400 Speaker 1: deep topic and I guess we can go into it. 992 00:47:14,520 --> 00:47:18,160 Speaker 2: So it's kind of this thing where I watched I 993 00:47:18,239 --> 00:47:20,960 Speaker 2: May Destroy You, except for the last two episodes when 994 00:47:21,120 --> 00:47:26,360 Speaker 2: I think those. Finale is Sunday, So anyway, but my 995 00:47:26,520 --> 00:47:29,640 Speaker 2: favorite and the most poignant moment so far and all 996 00:47:29,719 --> 00:47:33,640 Speaker 2: the show is her best friend goes with her to 997 00:47:33,719 --> 00:47:36,719 Speaker 2: the doctor, the physical doctor, not like a therapist, is 998 00:47:36,760 --> 00:47:39,120 Speaker 2: not like a mental health but like a doctor doctor. 999 00:47:39,719 --> 00:47:43,080 Speaker 2: And the doctor is like, Okay, your numbers look good, 1000 00:47:43,080 --> 00:47:48,040 Speaker 2: except you have you're having high blood pressure and it 1001 00:47:48,160 --> 00:47:51,919 Speaker 2: could be diet, it could be stress related, it could 1002 00:47:51,960 --> 00:47:52,800 Speaker 2: be a lot of stuff. 1003 00:47:53,080 --> 00:47:54,400 Speaker 1: So are you going through stress? 1004 00:47:54,440 --> 00:47:57,480 Speaker 2: And da da da, And it's like her friend is 1005 00:47:57,520 --> 00:48:01,360 Speaker 2: in there and they basically treat the doctor like adversarially, 1006 00:48:01,520 --> 00:48:04,440 Speaker 2: like he's a white man, and so one of the 1007 00:48:04,520 --> 00:48:06,600 Speaker 2: things he says is like, well, you know, Afro Caribbean 1008 00:48:06,640 --> 00:48:10,279 Speaker 2: people have issues with higher blood pressure, so it's something 1009 00:48:10,320 --> 00:48:11,719 Speaker 2: you might want to check on. And she was like, 1010 00:48:12,120 --> 00:48:15,320 Speaker 2: first of all, I'm not Afro, I'm not Caribbean, okay, 1011 00:48:15,640 --> 00:48:18,040 Speaker 2: and blah blah blah. And they go into this whole 1012 00:48:18,080 --> 00:48:21,799 Speaker 2: thing and it's like one that wasn't offensive. There was 1013 00:48:21,840 --> 00:48:25,480 Speaker 2: literally no fucking point to be mad about that. And 1014 00:48:25,760 --> 00:48:27,880 Speaker 2: he's a fucking doctor, like he's just trying to like 1015 00:48:28,040 --> 00:48:29,840 Speaker 2: what you want to say, black people, but it doesn't 1016 00:48:29,840 --> 00:48:30,839 Speaker 2: matter what the fuck he says. 1017 00:48:30,880 --> 00:48:33,560 Speaker 1: He's trying to save your life, and so he's like, 1018 00:48:33,840 --> 00:48:34,399 Speaker 1: you know, so. 1019 00:48:34,320 --> 00:48:37,520 Speaker 2: They get mad about that innocuous thing. 1020 00:48:37,560 --> 00:48:38,320 Speaker 1: It's like okay. 1021 00:48:38,800 --> 00:48:42,960 Speaker 2: Then they go outside, and because it's very dismissive, she 1022 00:48:43,040 --> 00:48:44,880 Speaker 2: does like it's over the top, like she does a 1023 00:48:45,040 --> 00:48:48,200 Speaker 2: live instagram from the doctor's office and shit right, so 1024 00:48:48,680 --> 00:48:50,719 Speaker 2: like it's meant to shock you, so don't you know 1025 00:48:50,840 --> 00:48:54,000 Speaker 2: it's a TV show. So then they go outside and 1026 00:48:55,760 --> 00:48:59,560 Speaker 2: Arabella goes she's on the phone, kind of ignoring her. 1027 00:48:59,600 --> 00:49:03,880 Speaker 2: Doctor walks out and starts smoking a vape pin and 1028 00:49:03,920 --> 00:49:07,959 Speaker 2: he was like, wait, she smokes. She vapes and he's 1029 00:49:08,000 --> 00:49:10,240 Speaker 2: like maybe that's the source of this high blood pressure, 1030 00:49:10,239 --> 00:49:13,160 Speaker 2: like she shouldn't be vaping. And Terry, who is the 1031 00:49:13,280 --> 00:49:17,000 Speaker 2: friend of Arabella, starts fighting with the doctor in there 1032 00:49:17,040 --> 00:49:20,560 Speaker 2: like no, like, first of all, is she smoking a cigarette? 1033 00:49:20,640 --> 00:49:23,279 Speaker 1: Is it better than cigarettes? And he was like what 1034 00:49:23,320 --> 00:49:24,640 Speaker 1: do you mean? Is it better than cigarettes? Is not 1035 00:49:24,719 --> 00:49:25,080 Speaker 1: good for you? 1036 00:49:25,120 --> 00:49:27,719 Speaker 2: She's like is it or is it not better than cigarettes? 1037 00:49:27,719 --> 00:49:29,920 Speaker 2: Because she needs something to take care of herself, you know, 1038 00:49:29,960 --> 00:49:32,680 Speaker 2: like self care blah blah blah, And he's like no, 1039 00:49:32,760 --> 00:49:35,840 Speaker 2: it's like it's not good and so she kind of 1040 00:49:35,840 --> 00:49:37,959 Speaker 2: whittles him down to being like is it better than. 1041 00:49:37,840 --> 00:49:40,000 Speaker 1: Just smoking a straight up cigarette. He's like, yes, it's better. 1042 00:49:40,160 --> 00:49:44,480 Speaker 2: She's like okay, then basically like mind your business, right, 1043 00:49:44,960 --> 00:49:48,839 Speaker 2: And she does it by saying like, because I'm protecting her. 1044 00:49:48,960 --> 00:49:52,239 Speaker 2: My friend is gone through trauma, she's been sexually assaulted, 1045 00:49:53,520 --> 00:49:57,480 Speaker 2: she's stressed, she's on the internet finding solace quote unquote, 1046 00:49:57,520 --> 00:49:59,600 Speaker 2: not really, but finding solace in all these people like 1047 00:49:59,640 --> 00:50:02,480 Speaker 2: support to her and stuff. So I'm just gonna do 1048 00:50:02,640 --> 00:50:03,920 Speaker 2: whatever she wants to do. 1049 00:50:04,040 --> 00:50:04,600 Speaker 1: Is I'm just. 1050 00:50:04,520 --> 00:50:06,160 Speaker 2: Gonna say it's the right thing, and I'm going to 1051 00:50:06,200 --> 00:50:09,240 Speaker 2: have her back, even if it's against a fucking medical 1052 00:50:09,280 --> 00:50:11,920 Speaker 2: doctor's advice whose job is only. 1053 00:50:11,719 --> 00:50:13,560 Speaker 1: To protect this patient. 1054 00:50:13,640 --> 00:50:17,239 Speaker 2: That's it, right, And that is the internet In a 1055 00:50:17,239 --> 00:50:19,160 Speaker 2: lot of cases, in a lot of. 1056 00:50:19,200 --> 00:50:22,560 Speaker 1: Cases, they're not there for you. That's what the problem is. 1057 00:50:22,680 --> 00:50:25,480 Speaker 2: It's like, well, what they think they're there for is 1058 00:50:25,520 --> 00:50:28,239 Speaker 2: not always right, you see what I'm saying. So like 1059 00:50:28,960 --> 00:50:31,200 Speaker 2: I can see the argument that well, Terry is that's 1060 00:50:31,239 --> 00:50:34,160 Speaker 2: her friend in self care and you know, white doctors 1061 00:50:34,160 --> 00:50:36,680 Speaker 2: and you know all this other stuff, rather than the truth, 1062 00:50:36,719 --> 00:50:39,560 Speaker 2: which is well, also, it's not good that my friend 1063 00:50:39,560 --> 00:50:42,399 Speaker 2: has high blood pressure, and it's not good that she's 1064 00:50:42,480 --> 00:50:44,600 Speaker 2: vaping with high blood pressure. It's not good that she's 1065 00:50:44,960 --> 00:50:47,319 Speaker 2: stressed out all the time and she's not dealing with it. 1066 00:50:47,640 --> 00:50:50,640 Speaker 2: These also aren't good. No, but there are things that 1067 00:50:50,680 --> 00:50:54,200 Speaker 2: she feels good about right now. So I'm going to 1068 00:50:54,400 --> 00:50:57,399 Speaker 2: just say fuck all of the other stuff that I'm 1069 00:50:57,400 --> 00:51:00,839 Speaker 2: supposed to do, Fuck the doctor's job. I just want 1070 00:51:00,880 --> 00:51:03,959 Speaker 2: her to feel good and feel like I have her back. 1071 00:51:04,000 --> 00:51:07,319 Speaker 2: So I'm gonna say, in this situation where I should 1072 00:51:07,400 --> 00:51:10,560 Speaker 2: mind my fucking business, I'm gonna say, fuck this doctor. 1073 00:51:10,800 --> 00:51:13,799 Speaker 5: Yes, even if it's detrimental to her health, even if 1074 00:51:13,800 --> 00:51:15,880 Speaker 5: it leads to her death, I am fine with that. 1075 00:51:16,520 --> 00:51:16,759 Speaker 1: Yes. 1076 00:51:17,000 --> 00:51:20,080 Speaker 2: And that, to me is what a lot of the 1077 00:51:20,680 --> 00:51:24,279 Speaker 2: someone expresses they have an issue with somebody, or they 1078 00:51:24,320 --> 00:51:27,640 Speaker 2: express something in a very vague way, and people just 1079 00:51:27,680 --> 00:51:30,560 Speaker 2: come in and they go, Yep, you're right, and people 1080 00:51:30,640 --> 00:51:32,919 Speaker 2: need to just know better, and I got your back, 1081 00:51:33,000 --> 00:51:35,960 Speaker 2: and we have. We have now made it so that 1082 00:51:36,040 --> 00:51:39,680 Speaker 2: people who are in the middle of trauma, people who 1083 00:51:39,719 --> 00:51:44,960 Speaker 2: are traumatized and have not resolved it, and most I 1084 00:51:45,000 --> 00:51:49,200 Speaker 2: think the worst version of this, people that actually are 1085 00:51:49,239 --> 00:51:52,840 Speaker 2: not having this not trauma, they're just being manipulative. We 1086 00:51:52,920 --> 00:51:56,160 Speaker 2: have given them the blueprint and we have given them 1087 00:51:56,200 --> 00:52:00,600 Speaker 2: carte blanche online to run roughshot over other people as 1088 00:52:00,600 --> 00:52:02,400 Speaker 2: long as they get to it first or they have 1089 00:52:02,520 --> 00:52:06,640 Speaker 2: their own version. And we think support is not like like, 1090 00:52:07,040 --> 00:52:11,839 Speaker 2: for example, you asking someone a detail on something to 1091 00:52:11,840 --> 00:52:13,480 Speaker 2: be like, I want to be clear, are you saying 1092 00:52:13,560 --> 00:52:15,400 Speaker 2: this happen is considered an attack? 1093 00:52:16,480 --> 00:52:18,439 Speaker 3: You just want to get a better understand right. 1094 00:52:18,600 --> 00:52:21,480 Speaker 2: We say stuff, you know, these broad sweeping statements that 1095 00:52:21,640 --> 00:52:24,719 Speaker 2: never hold up when in practice, you know, And like 1096 00:52:24,760 --> 00:52:26,839 Speaker 2: I said, I get why people say them, but they're 1097 00:52:26,880 --> 00:52:31,040 Speaker 2: not true. When we go believe black women believe, Black 1098 00:52:31,040 --> 00:52:34,840 Speaker 2: people believe, and then we go not Sean King, not 1099 00:52:34,960 --> 00:52:39,239 Speaker 2: these women that are hosting the rebroque, breada Khan, not 1100 00:52:39,440 --> 00:52:41,919 Speaker 2: this person, not that we don't actually believe that shit, 1101 00:52:42,120 --> 00:52:44,920 Speaker 2: like we It's something we slow up as a blanket 1102 00:52:44,960 --> 00:52:48,200 Speaker 2: because when an individual person wants to be. 1103 00:52:48,080 --> 00:52:50,040 Speaker 1: Believed they didn't go the whole group. 1104 00:52:50,080 --> 00:52:53,600 Speaker 2: This represents the whole group, right, And I think that's 1105 00:52:53,880 --> 00:52:56,560 Speaker 2: that has led to some conflations, and it's led to 1106 00:52:56,680 --> 00:53:01,279 Speaker 2: a lot of areas for people to be manipulated, and 1107 00:53:01,360 --> 00:53:05,880 Speaker 2: therefore you end up with situations where maybe your sister, 1108 00:53:06,000 --> 00:53:08,920 Speaker 2: the person who wrote in anonymous, maybe your sister is 1109 00:53:08,960 --> 00:53:10,800 Speaker 2: in a conflict with y'all. 1110 00:53:10,920 --> 00:53:11,400 Speaker 1: Maybe not. 1111 00:53:11,960 --> 00:53:16,200 Speaker 2: Maybe there's a misunderstanding, maybe not. And by that I 1112 00:53:16,239 --> 00:53:19,879 Speaker 2: mean either there's a misunderstanding genuinely or she just said, 1113 00:53:20,080 --> 00:53:22,000 Speaker 2: fuck it, I want the people on the internet to 1114 00:53:22,000 --> 00:53:25,439 Speaker 2: have my back, fuck the people in real life. What 1115 00:53:25,480 --> 00:53:28,920 Speaker 2: happens in these situations now is we're trained to just 1116 00:53:28,960 --> 00:53:31,160 Speaker 2: show up and be like, I support you, and however 1117 00:53:31,200 --> 00:53:34,680 Speaker 2: you want support, well, what does that mean? Because I 1118 00:53:34,719 --> 00:53:39,480 Speaker 2: watch people go from doxing people. I watched people, you know, 1119 00:53:39,520 --> 00:53:44,240 Speaker 2: accuse people of violence. I watched people lie about being attacked. 1120 00:53:44,280 --> 00:53:46,800 Speaker 2: I watched people lie about doing some shit to someone 1121 00:53:46,800 --> 00:53:49,520 Speaker 2: else because they got to us first. So they show 1122 00:53:49,600 --> 00:53:51,640 Speaker 2: up first and they go, this person is a piece 1123 00:53:51,640 --> 00:53:53,520 Speaker 2: of shit. And then when that person goes that's not 1124 00:53:53,560 --> 00:53:55,759 Speaker 2: what happened at all, that that person's lying on me, 1125 00:53:55,800 --> 00:53:57,680 Speaker 2: we go, nah, you're just saying that because they called 1126 00:53:57,680 --> 00:53:59,280 Speaker 2: your piece of shit, you are a piece. 1127 00:53:59,080 --> 00:54:02,480 Speaker 1: Of shit, and we we act like we know and 1128 00:54:02,600 --> 00:54:03,600 Speaker 1: you know, don't. 1129 00:54:03,719 --> 00:54:06,120 Speaker 3: And I've been on them. I'm like the person who 1130 00:54:06,200 --> 00:54:06,480 Speaker 3: rode in. 1131 00:54:06,560 --> 00:54:08,839 Speaker 5: I've been on the other side of that, and that 1132 00:54:09,080 --> 00:54:11,240 Speaker 5: is fucking infuriating. 1133 00:54:10,560 --> 00:54:13,560 Speaker 3: Because you're like, the fuck is this y'all do. And 1134 00:54:13,600 --> 00:54:14,359 Speaker 3: the thing is. 1135 00:54:14,280 --> 00:54:15,920 Speaker 5: You have to have it in a piece, not to 1136 00:54:16,000 --> 00:54:18,840 Speaker 5: snap on the people that actually don't know anything about it, 1137 00:54:18,880 --> 00:54:20,920 Speaker 5: but like the fuck y'all talking about y'all don't know 1138 00:54:20,920 --> 00:54:21,360 Speaker 5: what's happening. 1139 00:54:21,440 --> 00:54:23,279 Speaker 3: Y'all don't know what's going on. But you know, it 1140 00:54:23,360 --> 00:54:25,279 Speaker 3: takes an enter piece to be like, you know what, 1141 00:54:25,960 --> 00:54:27,799 Speaker 3: this is not that important. 1142 00:54:28,239 --> 00:54:30,880 Speaker 5: She's an ass. I'm gonna let her be an ass, 1143 00:54:31,760 --> 00:54:35,279 Speaker 5: and I'm just gonna separate myself, like you know, and 1144 00:54:35,320 --> 00:54:38,160 Speaker 5: I got familine as I love. But what I don't 1145 00:54:38,160 --> 00:54:40,239 Speaker 5: do is I don't go to the functions. I'll be like, 1146 00:54:40,280 --> 00:54:41,759 Speaker 5: I'm not going, I'm not being there. 1147 00:54:41,920 --> 00:54:44,080 Speaker 3: It's all right. I have an excuse. I blame Roger, 1148 00:54:44,320 --> 00:54:46,319 Speaker 3: like I like like, I don't like. 1149 00:54:46,960 --> 00:54:49,160 Speaker 5: I don't like to be around people like that because 1150 00:54:49,200 --> 00:54:52,640 Speaker 5: eventually you're gonna end up being put like this. If 1151 00:54:52,680 --> 00:54:54,600 Speaker 5: you're gonna allow on me, lie on me outside of 1152 00:54:54,640 --> 00:54:56,400 Speaker 5: my presence, I don't want to be around and you 1153 00:54:56,480 --> 00:54:56,960 Speaker 5: line on me. 1154 00:54:57,360 --> 00:54:57,560 Speaker 1: Yeah. 1155 00:54:57,640 --> 00:55:02,680 Speaker 2: The thing is, the the longing to set the record 1156 00:55:02,760 --> 00:55:06,160 Speaker 2: straight was something I had to learn to let go 1157 00:55:06,960 --> 00:55:11,960 Speaker 2: and to only do it when I felt it was needed, 1158 00:55:13,280 --> 00:55:15,560 Speaker 2: because you really can't win with certain folks. And the 1159 00:55:15,600 --> 00:55:21,320 Speaker 2: way that victimology is set up now, people will start 1160 00:55:21,400 --> 00:55:23,799 Speaker 2: some shit and then be the victim of the shit at. 1161 00:55:23,760 --> 00:55:24,440 Speaker 3: The same time. 1162 00:55:25,080 --> 00:55:28,359 Speaker 2: And we're now, at least the circle we run in 1163 00:55:29,040 --> 00:55:33,319 Speaker 2: is very much trained to just let that fly. We're like, 1164 00:55:33,440 --> 00:55:36,560 Speaker 2: let's err on the side of supporting the person that's 1165 00:55:36,560 --> 00:55:40,800 Speaker 2: the victim. So if the manipulator can weaponize the language 1166 00:55:40,800 --> 00:55:43,759 Speaker 2: of victimology first, then they quote unquote win. And that 1167 00:55:43,880 --> 00:55:45,160 Speaker 2: was the thing I had to let go. It's like, 1168 00:55:45,200 --> 00:55:47,480 Speaker 2: it's no winning with someone like that. Someone like that 1169 00:55:47,600 --> 00:55:50,560 Speaker 2: is in such turmoil, they're their own worst enemy. And 1170 00:55:50,760 --> 00:55:53,440 Speaker 2: people on the outside looking in. The only thing I 1171 00:55:53,480 --> 00:55:57,040 Speaker 2: can really faithfully say and rely on is they will 1172 00:55:57,080 --> 00:55:59,960 Speaker 2: eventually see the patterns the way. 1173 00:56:00,920 --> 00:56:02,800 Speaker 3: Yes, yes, yes, and and they will. 1174 00:56:03,239 --> 00:56:07,359 Speaker 5: And it's one of those things where, uh, the thing is, 1175 00:56:08,040 --> 00:56:10,320 Speaker 5: I know a lot of people have something within them 1176 00:56:10,360 --> 00:56:12,560 Speaker 5: like kind of like you, where I have. 1177 00:56:12,600 --> 00:56:15,399 Speaker 3: To speak my truth you you you know, I want 1178 00:56:15,520 --> 00:56:16,520 Speaker 3: I want to be heard. 1179 00:56:16,640 --> 00:56:18,719 Speaker 5: I don't want to be misrepresented, and I don't want 1180 00:56:18,760 --> 00:56:19,840 Speaker 5: to be misunderstood. 1181 00:56:20,120 --> 00:56:21,840 Speaker 3: Some people have that thing in there. 1182 00:56:21,680 --> 00:56:25,200 Speaker 5: And and once that's out of their control, you know, 1183 00:56:25,400 --> 00:56:27,160 Speaker 5: it makes them mad and anger and upset and they 1184 00:56:27,160 --> 00:56:28,799 Speaker 5: don't know how to handle it. And then well, I'm 1185 00:56:28,800 --> 00:56:31,200 Speaker 5: gonna fix it by going out and telling my truth. 1186 00:56:31,480 --> 00:56:34,160 Speaker 5: But the thing is truth doesn't matter when nobody wants. 1187 00:56:33,920 --> 00:56:34,600 Speaker 3: To hear the truth. 1188 00:56:34,880 --> 00:56:38,040 Speaker 5: And that's very hard for those people to understand. They 1189 00:56:38,080 --> 00:56:40,799 Speaker 5: don't understand that if nobody wants to hear it, it does 1190 00:56:40,880 --> 00:56:41,360 Speaker 5: not matter. 1191 00:56:41,560 --> 00:56:44,719 Speaker 3: So sometimes you have to learn when to stand up 1192 00:56:44,760 --> 00:56:46,440 Speaker 3: and fight and when to walk away. 1193 00:56:46,680 --> 00:56:49,920 Speaker 5: And sometimes walking away is the hardest shit ever because 1194 00:56:49,960 --> 00:56:52,239 Speaker 5: a lot of times walking away for some people mean 1195 00:56:52,320 --> 00:56:52,840 Speaker 5: I have to put my. 1196 00:56:52,880 --> 00:56:53,840 Speaker 3: Pride to the side. 1197 00:56:54,000 --> 00:56:55,880 Speaker 5: I have to put how I feel to the side, 1198 00:56:56,120 --> 00:56:58,320 Speaker 5: I have to put my right wrong to the side. 1199 00:56:58,560 --> 00:57:01,120 Speaker 5: I have to just let this person and be because 1200 00:57:01,120 --> 00:57:04,240 Speaker 5: the thing is them attacking you. Eventually they're gonna attack 1201 00:57:04,280 --> 00:57:06,640 Speaker 5: the other people around them too. Potentially, if you get 1202 00:57:06,640 --> 00:57:07,680 Speaker 5: to to this point. 1203 00:57:07,560 --> 00:57:10,560 Speaker 2: And you're walking in a room that isn't an actual 1204 00:57:10,600 --> 00:57:14,400 Speaker 2: physical room, correct, and you're walking into a room that 1205 00:57:14,719 --> 00:57:18,720 Speaker 2: is not on your side, they're on the side of conflict, 1206 00:57:18,800 --> 00:57:20,880 Speaker 2: they're on the side of wanting to see drama. They're 1207 00:57:20,880 --> 00:57:22,760 Speaker 2: on the side of ganging up on people and be 1208 00:57:22,960 --> 00:57:26,080 Speaker 2: part of a community. So you you know, it's like 1209 00:57:26,080 --> 00:57:27,720 Speaker 2: it's not gonna go how you think that was the 1210 00:57:27,720 --> 00:57:30,480 Speaker 2: thing that made me like you know? 1211 00:57:30,600 --> 00:57:32,240 Speaker 1: And then this is the other thing too. I was 1212 00:57:32,240 --> 00:57:33,280 Speaker 1: thinking about this this morning. 1213 00:57:33,280 --> 00:57:35,600 Speaker 2: I talked to my mom and I got off the phone, 1214 00:57:36,080 --> 00:57:37,360 Speaker 2: and I was just thinking about it because, you know, 1215 00:57:37,560 --> 00:57:40,040 Speaker 2: I'm really grateful to be able to like to have 1216 00:57:40,120 --> 00:57:42,040 Speaker 2: my parents, to be able to talk to my parents, 1217 00:57:42,480 --> 00:57:44,560 Speaker 2: to appreciate them while they hear all that stuff that 1218 00:57:44,600 --> 00:57:47,000 Speaker 2: you hear people say. You know, I'm just happy to 1219 00:57:47,080 --> 00:57:49,480 Speaker 2: have those positive relationships because a lot of people don't 1220 00:57:49,520 --> 00:57:51,600 Speaker 2: have those, and I w want to take it for granted, 1221 00:57:51,640 --> 00:57:52,400 Speaker 2: you know, correct. 1222 00:57:53,720 --> 00:57:55,760 Speaker 1: But the thing I was thinking was. 1223 00:57:56,560 --> 00:58:00,360 Speaker 2: Look, man, the people that built my foundation, you know, 1224 00:58:00,680 --> 00:58:03,960 Speaker 2: my mom and my dad and my aunts and relatives 1225 00:58:04,000 --> 00:58:09,080 Speaker 2: and all that stuff. That's a strong foundation, y'all not 1226 00:58:09,160 --> 00:58:12,840 Speaker 2: just gonna tear that apart. There's no no, no, no 1227 00:58:12,920 --> 00:58:15,480 Speaker 2: stranger can just come in here and break that down. 1228 00:58:15,800 --> 00:58:18,360 Speaker 2: They didn't put these bricks together, you know what I mean. 1229 00:58:18,440 --> 00:58:20,560 Speaker 2: They built me to be stronger than that, and to 1230 00:58:20,640 --> 00:58:23,400 Speaker 2: be stronger who I am and. 1231 00:58:23,120 --> 00:58:23,880 Speaker 1: All of that shit. 1232 00:58:24,120 --> 00:58:27,480 Speaker 2: And so I didn't make it this far because I'm weak, 1233 00:58:27,720 --> 00:58:29,000 Speaker 2: you know what I mean? I made it this far 1234 00:58:29,000 --> 00:58:33,080 Speaker 2: because I'm true to myself. We're what makes me special, 1235 00:58:33,160 --> 00:58:36,560 Speaker 2: you special. Everyone special is that truth to yourself and 1236 00:58:36,680 --> 00:58:39,440 Speaker 2: learning that over the course of time, you know, And 1237 00:58:39,480 --> 00:58:43,600 Speaker 2: so no one can come in and change that reality. 1238 00:58:43,640 --> 00:58:46,200 Speaker 2: No one can come in and destroy me or or 1239 00:58:46,360 --> 00:58:49,400 Speaker 2: you know, no lie can be bigger than the truth, 1240 00:58:49,560 --> 00:58:52,720 Speaker 2: you know what I mean? So like that that part 1241 00:58:53,040 --> 00:58:57,600 Speaker 2: is the part that really, you know, may I think 1242 00:58:57,680 --> 00:59:00,200 Speaker 2: that That's like I felt that way for a long time, 1243 00:59:00,240 --> 00:59:03,640 Speaker 2: but I was able to articulate that in my brain 1244 00:59:03,680 --> 00:59:05,800 Speaker 2: this morning and be like, and that's why the shit 1245 00:59:05,880 --> 00:59:07,400 Speaker 2: just falls away now because it used to be a 1246 00:59:07,440 --> 00:59:09,120 Speaker 2: time where I would want to be like, no, I'm 1247 00:59:09,120 --> 00:59:11,840 Speaker 2: setting the record straight. I'm gonna talk to this person. No, 1248 00:59:11,920 --> 00:59:14,000 Speaker 2: I am gonna do this. I'm gonna tell you know, 1249 00:59:14,080 --> 00:59:16,439 Speaker 2: even when I have conflict with people, I don't tell 1250 00:59:16,480 --> 00:59:19,920 Speaker 2: people about the conflict on Twitter, Facebook and shit a 1251 00:59:19,920 --> 00:59:22,520 Speaker 2: lot of times because I'm like, that's actually not helpful. 1252 00:59:22,560 --> 00:59:25,800 Speaker 2: It feels helpful because people come and tell you how 1253 00:59:25,800 --> 00:59:28,640 Speaker 2: smart and great you are, but it can't like you 1254 00:59:28,640 --> 00:59:31,320 Speaker 2: have to pick and choose when to do that because 1255 00:59:32,040 --> 00:59:34,000 Speaker 2: having a bunch of fucking people that will tell you 1256 00:59:34,080 --> 00:59:37,120 Speaker 2: nothing you do is wrong. Isn't actually the same thing 1257 00:59:37,120 --> 00:59:39,800 Speaker 2: as having friends or support. It just feels like that, 1258 00:59:40,400 --> 00:59:43,560 Speaker 2: and I don't get off on that feeling of look 1259 00:59:43,600 --> 00:59:46,080 Speaker 2: at me, these fools, they believe everything I'll say. I 1260 00:59:46,120 --> 00:59:48,360 Speaker 2: don't get off on that. So I think that was 1261 00:59:48,840 --> 00:59:51,880 Speaker 2: a major part of that thing, and it's one of 1262 00:59:51,880 --> 00:59:55,439 Speaker 2: the reasons I no longer go on. 1263 00:59:55,400 --> 00:59:59,800 Speaker 1: People's pages or whatever and just blindly be like, yeah, man, 1264 01:00:00,200 --> 01:00:01,280 Speaker 1: I got you whatever. 1265 01:00:01,160 --> 01:00:03,720 Speaker 2: Like nah, I actually don't know what the fuck happened, 1266 01:00:03,760 --> 01:00:06,040 Speaker 2: And that sucks to have to admit that. But in 1267 01:00:06,080 --> 01:00:09,400 Speaker 2: many cases, I don't even fucking know you, Like we 1268 01:00:09,560 --> 01:00:12,120 Speaker 2: haven't met, we're not friends. I don't know anything about 1269 01:00:12,160 --> 01:00:14,600 Speaker 2: your life beyond what I've seen, what you've shown me, 1270 01:00:15,160 --> 01:00:16,840 Speaker 2: and so I don't fucking know you. 1271 01:00:17,040 --> 01:00:19,480 Speaker 1: So I don't want to be like, y'all. 1272 01:00:19,640 --> 01:00:22,160 Speaker 2: I know people are saying this, but this person is 1273 01:00:22,160 --> 01:00:24,840 Speaker 2: a good person or not person, I don't know. Like 1274 01:00:24,880 --> 01:00:27,240 Speaker 2: there's a handful of people I do feel like that about, 1275 01:00:27,600 --> 01:00:28,680 Speaker 2: and most but most. 1276 01:00:28,520 --> 01:00:30,880 Speaker 1: People I don't know. They could be a serial killer. 1277 01:00:31,240 --> 01:00:33,160 Speaker 2: I don't know, and they could be lying, and they 1278 01:00:33,160 --> 01:00:36,000 Speaker 2: could be starting shit and then hide and behind other shit. 1279 01:00:36,080 --> 01:00:37,880 Speaker 2: And you don't find out till later. And I think 1280 01:00:38,440 --> 01:00:44,160 Speaker 2: that is what's missing. And so more importantly, the Internet. 1281 01:00:43,800 --> 01:00:47,080 Speaker 1: Is this cauldron, right, it is a It is this 1282 01:00:47,240 --> 01:00:48,120 Speaker 1: vat of lava. 1283 01:00:48,760 --> 01:00:52,680 Speaker 2: And so when you go to the Internet to voice 1284 01:00:52,680 --> 01:00:57,640 Speaker 2: your frustrations with someone that in real life you plan 1285 01:00:57,760 --> 01:01:00,760 Speaker 2: to be in their life forever, and in real life 1286 01:01:01,200 --> 01:01:04,320 Speaker 2: you plan to You've done this before, y'all have fought before, 1287 01:01:04,400 --> 01:01:07,160 Speaker 2: y'all have done whatever, but you ain't involved everyone else 1288 01:01:07,200 --> 01:01:07,440 Speaker 2: in it. 1289 01:01:07,920 --> 01:01:10,160 Speaker 1: When you do that, you can't get to take it back. 1290 01:01:11,000 --> 01:01:13,040 Speaker 2: You don't get to just like the people that see 1291 01:01:13,040 --> 01:01:15,560 Speaker 2: that remember that forever. And the people that see that 1292 01:01:15,640 --> 01:01:18,840 Speaker 2: aren't actually your friends or invested in your life. So 1293 01:01:18,920 --> 01:01:22,040 Speaker 2: they're just playing the fucking game of your life, right, 1294 01:01:22,080 --> 01:01:25,080 Speaker 2: They're playing the Monopoly version of your life, the good 1295 01:01:25,080 --> 01:01:26,520 Speaker 2: guys versus the bad guys. 1296 01:01:26,320 --> 01:01:26,800 Speaker 1: Of your life. 1297 01:01:26,840 --> 01:01:29,480 Speaker 3: You become the reality show of the day. 1298 01:01:29,600 --> 01:01:32,120 Speaker 2: Yes, And so when you present this shit out there 1299 01:01:32,160 --> 01:01:35,480 Speaker 2: and you aren't one hundred percent certain that this is 1300 01:01:35,480 --> 01:01:39,000 Speaker 2: the step you want to take, you make shit fucked up. 1301 01:01:39,680 --> 01:01:41,120 Speaker 1: Okay, this is like so. 1302 01:01:43,360 --> 01:01:46,440 Speaker 2: Her going my mom whipped us and she was emotionally 1303 01:01:46,480 --> 01:01:50,080 Speaker 2: distanced distant from us until I was in sixth grade. 1304 01:01:50,360 --> 01:01:53,160 Speaker 2: But she's been great from that point on. She worked 1305 01:01:53,160 --> 01:01:55,080 Speaker 2: on herself, she had therapy, she did this, that and 1306 01:01:55,160 --> 01:01:58,000 Speaker 2: the other. No one hears the rest of what the 1307 01:01:58,040 --> 01:02:01,440 Speaker 2: fuck you just said. One even cares that you said 1308 01:02:01,960 --> 01:02:04,560 Speaker 2: after sixth grade it was fine. What the headline is 1309 01:02:04,600 --> 01:02:08,959 Speaker 2: gonna be, Lauren Hill abused her daughter. Yes, and that's 1310 01:02:08,960 --> 01:02:12,280 Speaker 2: what your mom is gonna see. And you know you 1311 01:02:12,400 --> 01:02:15,360 Speaker 2: don't feel like that. You know that, y'all reconcile that, 1312 01:02:15,680 --> 01:02:17,640 Speaker 2: you know that she's worked on herself, and you know 1313 01:02:17,720 --> 01:02:20,400 Speaker 2: that you're proud of that. And to be very fucking honest, 1314 01:02:20,640 --> 01:02:23,120 Speaker 2: a lot of black parents have hit their kids to 1315 01:02:23,280 --> 01:02:26,480 Speaker 2: this fucking day till this fucking day, and that is 1316 01:02:26,520 --> 01:02:30,280 Speaker 2: trauma that has to be unworked and unlearned over generations. 1317 01:02:30,320 --> 01:02:32,840 Speaker 2: It's not gonna just happen, and it's no one parent 1318 01:02:32,960 --> 01:02:36,640 Speaker 2: or not not one parent. I'm I'll let y'all classify 1319 01:02:36,720 --> 01:02:40,439 Speaker 2: how y'all want to classify it, because I legitimately do 1320 01:02:40,480 --> 01:02:43,080 Speaker 2: feel that it's up to the individual to classify what 1321 01:02:43,120 --> 01:02:45,560 Speaker 2: they feel is the line for them. 1322 01:02:45,680 --> 01:02:47,040 Speaker 1: I think people do that a little too. 1323 01:02:47,360 --> 01:02:51,760 Speaker 2: We get a little too free with dismissing people's agency 1324 01:02:51,800 --> 01:02:54,439 Speaker 2: and being like, no, this is what happens. So y'all 1325 01:02:54,440 --> 01:02:56,400 Speaker 2: defining how you want to define it, don't write it. 1326 01:02:56,720 --> 01:03:01,560 Speaker 2: But the point is, like you may feel a certain 1327 01:03:01,600 --> 01:03:04,000 Speaker 2: way and feel like, but I know my mom on 1328 01:03:04,080 --> 01:03:04,640 Speaker 2: the other. 1329 01:03:04,560 --> 01:03:08,000 Speaker 1: Days, the other people don't, and it don't know, don't care. 1330 01:03:08,200 --> 01:03:10,400 Speaker 2: The other people just know your mom was late to 1331 01:03:10,440 --> 01:03:14,320 Speaker 2: some concerts. The other people know your mom hasn't put 1332 01:03:14,320 --> 01:03:17,520 Speaker 2: out an album in how many years. Other the other 1333 01:03:17,560 --> 01:03:19,760 Speaker 2: people have heard all the rumors, what people called your 1334 01:03:19,760 --> 01:03:22,560 Speaker 2: mom crazy and all this other shit. 1335 01:03:22,920 --> 01:03:26,280 Speaker 1: So they don't care about your mama. 1336 01:03:27,360 --> 01:03:30,400 Speaker 2: They're going to go find her page and her thing 1337 01:03:30,720 --> 01:03:34,080 Speaker 2: and say the vilest, meanest shit because to them, they 1338 01:03:34,120 --> 01:03:37,320 Speaker 2: feel vindicated because you've thrown her into the cauldron. You've 1339 01:03:37,360 --> 01:03:40,320 Speaker 2: thrown her into the lava, and the lava wants to 1340 01:03:40,640 --> 01:03:44,560 Speaker 2: it wants to devour her. So she makes the statement back, 1341 01:03:44,880 --> 01:03:47,760 Speaker 2: trying to explain, like, listen, my daughter's not lying. 1342 01:03:48,720 --> 01:03:50,080 Speaker 1: I was in this trauma. 1343 01:03:50,280 --> 01:03:53,520 Speaker 2: I was caught up in this idea that as a 1344 01:03:53,560 --> 01:03:56,520 Speaker 2: black woman, I have to raise my children in this 1345 01:03:56,600 --> 01:03:59,720 Speaker 2: way where like I'm I'm gonna beat you sold the cops, won't. 1346 01:03:59,720 --> 01:04:02,160 Speaker 1: We've all heard it. We've all heard it. 1347 01:04:02,280 --> 01:04:05,120 Speaker 2: We've all it's happened to some of us, all this shit, yes, 1348 01:04:05,680 --> 01:04:10,640 Speaker 2: and we know that there's a complex white patriarchal system 1349 01:04:10,720 --> 01:04:12,840 Speaker 2: that puts that in our minds to make that anti 1350 01:04:12,840 --> 01:04:16,200 Speaker 2: blackness occur. And it's not simply an individual feeling the 1351 01:04:16,240 --> 01:04:18,800 Speaker 2: way that we like to do all of our Internet 1352 01:04:18,880 --> 01:04:23,520 Speaker 2: sleuthing to make every problem with individual Internet like this 1353 01:04:23,640 --> 01:04:27,040 Speaker 2: is an individual feeling, though it is a collective societal 1354 01:04:27,160 --> 01:04:30,240 Speaker 2: pressure that has put black people into this situation where 1355 01:04:30,280 --> 01:04:33,280 Speaker 2: we embrace certain anti blackness because we think that is 1356 01:04:33,280 --> 01:04:37,600 Speaker 2: what it takes to survive, and worstly, sometimes it's the truth. 1357 01:04:37,840 --> 01:04:40,800 Speaker 2: Sometimes it is sometimes it has been the thing it 1358 01:04:40,800 --> 01:04:43,120 Speaker 2: took to get people to survive. It's not good, it's 1359 01:04:43,200 --> 01:04:46,560 Speaker 2: ugly because we were put in an ugly situation, but it's. 1360 01:04:46,480 --> 01:04:50,720 Speaker 1: Just a lot easier to go Lauryn Hill bad. So 1361 01:04:50,880 --> 01:04:53,080 Speaker 1: we're not gonna it don't matter what the fuck she's 1362 01:04:53,080 --> 01:04:54,160 Speaker 1: said in them two hours. 1363 01:04:54,360 --> 01:04:56,840 Speaker 2: It don't matter what her daughter said, It don't matter 1364 01:04:57,160 --> 01:04:59,000 Speaker 2: what the fuck Lawren's done and worked on. 1365 01:04:59,160 --> 01:05:02,160 Speaker 1: It don't matter. The Internet is not the place for that. 1366 01:05:02,840 --> 01:05:06,720 Speaker 2: So, you know, it's like this illusion that young people 1367 01:05:06,800 --> 01:05:08,800 Speaker 2: have of the Internet being like their place for their 1368 01:05:08,840 --> 01:05:12,840 Speaker 2: friendships and their these following of people, and we can 1369 01:05:12,880 --> 01:05:16,320 Speaker 2: have a nuanced discussion. It is not we bring nuanced 1370 01:05:16,360 --> 01:05:19,600 Speaker 2: discussions here to the podcast, you know what I mean, 1371 01:05:20,040 --> 01:05:22,760 Speaker 2: because you can't have it. You literally can't do it 1372 01:05:22,800 --> 01:05:26,600 Speaker 2: in these mediums. It's the biggest optical illusion. It's the 1373 01:05:26,640 --> 01:05:29,960 Speaker 2: fucking oasis in the desert that's really a mirage. It's 1374 01:05:30,040 --> 01:05:33,080 Speaker 2: not true, it's not gonna happen. And these young people 1375 01:05:33,120 --> 01:05:35,680 Speaker 2: convince themselves that they can, and then they end up 1376 01:05:35,720 --> 01:05:38,000 Speaker 2: here going, can y'all please stop telling my mom. 1377 01:05:37,880 --> 01:05:39,120 Speaker 1: To kill herself? Right? 1378 01:05:40,200 --> 01:05:42,920 Speaker 2: You know it's Beyonce, Hey, Hey, can y'all not tell 1379 01:05:43,480 --> 01:05:46,120 Speaker 2: Can y'all not be calling the co owner of the 1380 01:05:46,120 --> 01:05:48,720 Speaker 2: Warriors and one of my friends. Can you not be 1381 01:05:48,760 --> 01:05:52,040 Speaker 2: calling her a whore? And even be emojis on her 1382 01:05:52,080 --> 01:05:53,720 Speaker 2: fucking page? Because I didn't want that? 1383 01:05:54,520 --> 01:05:54,720 Speaker 3: You know? 1384 01:05:54,960 --> 01:05:57,600 Speaker 1: And these motherfuckers are so self right this they feel like, ah, 1385 01:05:57,840 --> 01:05:58,440 Speaker 1: I can do it. 1386 01:05:58,920 --> 01:06:01,560 Speaker 2: I'm vindicated because one time a white woman leaned over 1387 01:06:01,680 --> 01:06:06,200 Speaker 2: me like that, Like they have inserted themselves into your story. 1388 01:06:06,400 --> 01:06:08,440 Speaker 1: Your story doesn't even get to be your story if 1389 01:06:08,440 --> 01:06:09,400 Speaker 1: you put it on the internet. 1390 01:06:09,680 --> 01:06:12,640 Speaker 5: No, it doesn't, because once the internet gets a hold 1391 01:06:12,680 --> 01:06:17,760 Speaker 5: of it, it becomes in morphs and changes into whatever 1392 01:06:18,000 --> 01:06:21,400 Speaker 5: they say it is. Right. So that's very hard concept 1393 01:06:21,400 --> 01:06:24,920 Speaker 5: for people to understand. Once you put it on the internet, 1394 01:06:25,040 --> 01:06:27,959 Speaker 5: the internet gets to determine what it turns into. 1395 01:06:28,080 --> 01:06:29,520 Speaker 3: It is no longer yours. 1396 01:06:29,840 --> 01:06:32,520 Speaker 5: You have given them the power and the authority to 1397 01:06:33,560 --> 01:06:36,760 Speaker 5: change it into whatever they choose to change it to, 1398 01:06:37,160 --> 01:06:39,080 Speaker 5: for it to get as big as they wanted to get, 1399 01:06:39,320 --> 01:06:41,400 Speaker 5: for it to get as small as they wanted to get. 1400 01:06:41,600 --> 01:06:44,040 Speaker 5: And also the thing is too a lot of times. 1401 01:06:44,120 --> 01:06:46,040 Speaker 5: Once people do it and they realize that they've made 1402 01:06:46,080 --> 01:06:48,360 Speaker 5: an error, they want to correct it, but you can't 1403 01:06:48,360 --> 01:06:50,560 Speaker 5: correct it once. Kind of that's like once the cat's 1404 01:06:50,560 --> 01:06:53,560 Speaker 5: out of the bag, Once the glitter is out of 1405 01:06:53,600 --> 01:06:55,680 Speaker 5: the bag and its sprinkles everywhere, I don't care how 1406 01:06:55,760 --> 01:06:58,000 Speaker 5: much you wipe, You're still going to see remnants of 1407 01:06:58,040 --> 01:07:01,680 Speaker 5: glitter three months later, six months, three years later, five ten. 1408 01:07:02,040 --> 01:07:04,640 Speaker 5: You know you'll be like, well, god, damn, I've watched 1409 01:07:04,680 --> 01:07:05,840 Speaker 5: this shirt fifty five times. 1410 01:07:05,880 --> 01:07:08,640 Speaker 3: I'm still saying glitter. That's how the Internet is shit. 1411 01:07:08,720 --> 01:07:11,240 Speaker 5: Had you people don't forgot about this shit, But you 1412 01:07:11,280 --> 01:07:13,960 Speaker 5: know what somebody going to be I remember whining that 1413 01:07:14,120 --> 01:07:17,080 Speaker 5: that's that glitter because they will never ever, never, never, 1414 01:07:17,120 --> 01:07:19,480 Speaker 5: never let you forget. And this boys back to something 1415 01:07:19,520 --> 01:07:21,560 Speaker 5: you were saying before. This is why you have to 1416 01:07:21,840 --> 01:07:27,760 Speaker 5: pick and choose what you put your energy in, because 1417 01:07:27,840 --> 01:07:31,720 Speaker 5: you're trying to justify yourself to the ocean. Don't make 1418 01:07:31,760 --> 01:07:33,680 Speaker 5: no sense, does it? And that's what it is when 1419 01:07:33,720 --> 01:07:37,080 Speaker 5: it comes to the internet. You wasting energy talking to 1420 01:07:37,200 --> 01:07:39,840 Speaker 5: something that's much bigger than you, as something that can 1421 01:07:39,880 --> 01:07:40,440 Speaker 5: engulf you. 1422 01:07:40,840 --> 01:07:44,160 Speaker 2: Well, it's people think they're slaying dragons when it's much 1423 01:07:44,160 --> 01:07:45,920 Speaker 2: more like the Sailing witch trials. 1424 01:07:46,480 --> 01:07:47,680 Speaker 1: Like they think they getting. 1425 01:07:47,400 --> 01:07:49,280 Speaker 2: A group of people together to go like get the 1426 01:07:49,360 --> 01:07:51,800 Speaker 2: bad guys, but what happens is much more. 1427 01:07:51,880 --> 01:07:53,120 Speaker 1: It's like the witch trials where. 1428 01:07:53,000 --> 01:07:57,440 Speaker 2: It's like, because we need someone to do this to somebody. 1429 01:07:57,600 --> 01:08:00,800 Speaker 2: It's gotta than today's person you put on the menu 1430 01:08:00,880 --> 01:08:01,480 Speaker 2: is your mama. 1431 01:08:02,040 --> 01:08:05,120 Speaker 1: And you're like, I talked for two hours. I talked 1432 01:08:05,120 --> 01:08:06,000 Speaker 1: for two hours. 1433 01:08:06,280 --> 01:08:08,280 Speaker 2: I mentioned my mom a little bit, and then I 1434 01:08:08,320 --> 01:08:11,520 Speaker 2: said that everything was good. Now, why are y'all killing 1435 01:08:11,560 --> 01:08:14,360 Speaker 2: my mama to kill herself? Because that's what we do. 1436 01:08:14,800 --> 01:08:16,679 Speaker 2: We need a dragon, a slave, we need a witch 1437 01:08:16,720 --> 01:08:20,880 Speaker 2: to drown. We don't have time for this nuance, and well, 1438 01:08:20,920 --> 01:08:23,000 Speaker 2: you know what that is kind of like because maybe 1439 01:08:23,080 --> 01:08:26,200 Speaker 2: I didn't resolve my shit with my mama. So your 1440 01:08:26,200 --> 01:08:28,200 Speaker 2: mama now my mama is y'all, she gotta go you 1441 01:08:28,200 --> 01:08:31,680 Speaker 2: knowative today. So that's the thing, man, I just like 1442 01:08:31,760 --> 01:08:34,120 Speaker 2: when I read that story as the first thing, I thought, I, 1443 01:08:34,160 --> 01:08:39,559 Speaker 2: you know, unrelated but kind of related. The talliequality money 1444 01:08:39,560 --> 01:08:43,519 Speaker 2: maya thing is going into over over overtime, and now 1445 01:08:43,560 --> 01:08:47,719 Speaker 2: she has like a GoFundMe right, and so the whole 1446 01:08:47,760 --> 01:08:50,439 Speaker 2: time is already been kind of like all right, this 1447 01:08:50,520 --> 01:08:54,719 Speaker 2: shit like that at some point, conflict is not abuse, y'all. 1448 01:08:54,760 --> 01:08:57,160 Speaker 2: Both keep going back and forth, y'all, both keep trying 1449 01:08:57,160 --> 01:09:00,679 Speaker 2: to own a narrative to this story the the way 1450 01:09:00,720 --> 01:09:02,679 Speaker 2: people on the outside see it. He has a bigger 1451 01:09:02,680 --> 01:09:04,640 Speaker 2: platform and he's famous, so he should have been let 1452 01:09:04,720 --> 01:09:07,960 Speaker 2: it go. Regardless if it was lies about him or not, 1453 01:09:08,040 --> 01:09:08,599 Speaker 2: he should have. 1454 01:09:08,560 --> 01:09:09,240 Speaker 1: Been let it go. 1455 01:09:10,760 --> 01:09:13,240 Speaker 2: And I do understand that, and I do agree. I think, 1456 01:09:14,200 --> 01:09:15,800 Speaker 2: I don't know, you're going on six weeks, bro, what 1457 01:09:16,120 --> 01:09:16,479 Speaker 2: the fuck? 1458 01:09:16,520 --> 01:09:17,599 Speaker 1: Who cares? At this point? 1459 01:09:17,640 --> 01:09:21,280 Speaker 2: Like, at this point there's literally no positive outcome to 1460 01:09:21,320 --> 01:09:24,960 Speaker 2: be had. But so you know, people had kind of 1461 01:09:25,000 --> 01:09:28,200 Speaker 2: been like sight unseen, we're on her side. 1462 01:09:28,360 --> 01:09:29,680 Speaker 1: She's a black woman. 1463 01:09:29,439 --> 01:09:31,439 Speaker 2: We had to support black women, blah blah. Forget that 1464 01:09:31,520 --> 01:09:35,240 Speaker 2: she kind of started some lives about the dude. Forget 1465 01:09:35,240 --> 01:09:38,280 Speaker 2: that she you know, attributed lyrics about rape to the dude. 1466 01:09:38,840 --> 01:09:41,720 Speaker 2: Forget that she said he was a colorist when he's not. Like, 1467 01:09:42,040 --> 01:09:45,439 Speaker 2: forget all that shit. We gotta support a black woman. Okay, Cool, 1468 01:09:45,720 --> 01:09:49,840 Speaker 2: She starts to go fund me right, want some money. 1469 01:09:50,160 --> 01:09:53,000 Speaker 2: Now all of a sudden, the same trolls has been 1470 01:09:53,240 --> 01:09:55,559 Speaker 2: like on her side, that's been going out to tell 1471 01:09:55,560 --> 01:09:56,120 Speaker 2: lil quality. 1472 01:09:56,880 --> 01:10:00,559 Speaker 1: Now they're going after her. Well, why you money? 1473 01:10:00,640 --> 01:10:04,519 Speaker 2: You you know, you said your parents is abusers and stuff. 1474 01:10:04,560 --> 01:10:06,599 Speaker 2: But then here's tweets from two months ago, you talking 1475 01:10:06,600 --> 01:10:08,479 Speaker 2: about how much you love your parents and they rich 1476 01:10:08,600 --> 01:10:12,559 Speaker 2: and y'all got money, and now you're saying, uh, you know, 1477 01:10:12,600 --> 01:10:14,880 Speaker 2: you calling people broke two months ago and all this 1478 01:10:14,920 --> 01:10:17,519 Speaker 2: shit and now you and that's the fucking thing. 1479 01:10:18,040 --> 01:10:20,479 Speaker 1: You're the dragon though, you're the witch. 1480 01:10:20,800 --> 01:10:25,280 Speaker 2: You went from let's go get the torches, pitchforks and 1481 01:10:25,320 --> 01:10:28,280 Speaker 2: torches and go get Frankenstein to being the fucking monster. 1482 01:10:28,479 --> 01:10:31,920 Speaker 2: Like it happens that fucking fast man on the internet. 1483 01:10:31,920 --> 01:10:34,559 Speaker 2: You can't really fuck with none of these people because 1484 01:10:35,720 --> 01:10:37,679 Speaker 2: they be on high one day and be the lowest 1485 01:10:37,680 --> 01:10:38,439 Speaker 2: of the lowder next. 1486 01:10:38,439 --> 01:10:40,120 Speaker 1: Because no, there is no loyalty. 1487 01:10:40,120 --> 01:10:42,840 Speaker 2: The loyalty is to the loyalty is to the group 1488 01:10:42,920 --> 01:10:45,280 Speaker 2: of Every day we about to put somebody on this 1489 01:10:45,479 --> 01:10:49,120 Speaker 2: motherfucking uh pire and we're gonna burn them. 1490 01:10:49,240 --> 01:10:51,240 Speaker 3: Yep. Every day we got the feast on something. 1491 01:10:51,720 --> 01:10:54,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, so I think that's what I keep looking at, man, 1492 01:10:54,400 --> 01:10:57,400 Speaker 2: like this ship is the sailing witch trials. 1493 01:10:58,080 --> 01:11:00,160 Speaker 1: All right, Sorry, that was a long tangent I told 1494 01:11:00,200 --> 01:11:05,000 Speaker 1: y'all would be. Let's see. 1495 01:11:07,000 --> 01:11:09,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, about ten years ago, I took an emotional intelligence 1496 01:11:09,720 --> 01:11:12,480 Speaker 2: course and it has served me well personally and professionally. 1497 01:11:12,479 --> 01:11:14,920 Speaker 2: When something happens that bothers me, I recognize that my 1498 01:11:15,760 --> 01:11:20,559 Speaker 2: amic dollar, a MG dollar, a mgdala sorry, has been 1499 01:11:20,640 --> 01:11:22,920 Speaker 2: hijackeding that I need about twenty minutes for my frontal 1500 01:11:22,960 --> 01:11:26,760 Speaker 2: cort tex to take over, which is more reasonable thinking, Yo, 1501 01:11:27,240 --> 01:11:32,200 Speaker 2: I have felt that spike before, and. 1502 01:11:30,840 --> 01:11:31,760 Speaker 1: Now that's what I do. 1503 01:11:32,000 --> 01:11:35,960 Speaker 2: Rather than responding right away or whatever, I'll go sit 1504 01:11:36,000 --> 01:11:37,680 Speaker 2: down somewhere for a little bit and a lot of 1505 01:11:37,840 --> 01:11:41,519 Speaker 2: adrenaline feeling like I had, like that paranoia, that feeling 1506 01:11:41,520 --> 01:11:41,960 Speaker 2: of like. 1507 01:11:42,920 --> 01:11:45,479 Speaker 1: I have to react, you know, all eyes on me. 1508 01:11:45,920 --> 01:11:49,599 Speaker 2: Sometimes I'll just go sit down and just be like, 1509 01:11:49,680 --> 01:11:51,880 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna say shit right now, because if I 1510 01:11:51,960 --> 01:11:55,240 Speaker 2: did one, even if I said exactly what, I would 1511 01:11:55,280 --> 01:11:57,960 Speaker 2: want to be fine with saying later, it's coming from 1512 01:11:57,960 --> 01:12:02,400 Speaker 2: a place of like, uh, tension, and I don't want 1513 01:12:02,439 --> 01:12:03,519 Speaker 2: to react to people like that. 1514 01:12:05,000 --> 01:12:10,479 Speaker 5: M That's and I've just learned over the years, because 1515 01:12:10,479 --> 01:12:12,320 Speaker 5: a lot of times depends on situation. 1516 01:12:12,439 --> 01:12:14,440 Speaker 3: The first thing it popped in your head. 1517 01:12:14,840 --> 01:12:17,000 Speaker 5: I tell people it needs to be filtered, right, I've 1518 01:12:17,080 --> 01:12:20,360 Speaker 5: learned your initial response ten times out of ten needs 1519 01:12:20,400 --> 01:12:22,599 Speaker 5: to be filtered. It needs to be worked through your 1520 01:12:22,880 --> 01:12:25,439 Speaker 5: your logical party. You need to get a hold of. 1521 01:12:25,400 --> 01:12:28,280 Speaker 3: That and be like, hey, calm this down right. 1522 01:12:31,439 --> 01:12:33,400 Speaker 2: It is why if someone sends me a nasty email, 1523 01:12:33,439 --> 01:12:36,120 Speaker 2: don't respond right away. I wait about thirty minutes, and 1524 01:12:36,200 --> 01:12:38,439 Speaker 2: if I still feel like my response is warranted, I 1525 01:12:38,479 --> 01:12:40,760 Speaker 2: may send it. But usually my frontal cortex is taken 1526 01:12:40,840 --> 01:12:43,920 Speaker 2: over and I'm so much more deliberate and rational in 1527 01:12:43,960 --> 01:12:47,559 Speaker 2: my response. I had those times. If I had those 1528 01:12:47,560 --> 01:12:50,280 Speaker 2: times many years ago where driving home I thought I 1529 01:12:50,320 --> 01:12:53,919 Speaker 2: shouldn't have sent that email or responded that way. Emotional intelligence, 1530 01:12:53,960 --> 01:12:56,040 Speaker 2: couple with the fact that I'm over forty has helped 1531 01:12:56,040 --> 01:12:58,519 Speaker 2: me die back my give a down. Yeah, I almost 1532 01:12:58,560 --> 01:13:01,599 Speaker 2: have to, man, because being weaponars against you. JL Cole 1533 01:13:01,680 --> 01:13:04,200 Speaker 2: Van Wright saying all I can say is hats off 1534 01:13:04,200 --> 01:13:05,559 Speaker 2: to Jill Biden's first husband. 1535 01:13:05,560 --> 01:13:08,200 Speaker 1: That is j L level grudge holding pettiness. 1536 01:13:08,479 --> 01:13:08,800 Speaker 4: Ha ha ha. 1537 01:13:09,680 --> 01:13:13,240 Speaker 1: Man, Yeah he was still mad man. Oh these years, she. 1538 01:13:13,240 --> 01:13:14,599 Speaker 3: Must put that thing on him. 1539 01:13:14,680 --> 01:13:15,120 Speaker 7: Mm hmm. 1540 01:13:16,040 --> 01:13:18,840 Speaker 2: Rich says great analogy on the liberals reaction of Michelle 1541 01:13:18,840 --> 01:13:21,240 Speaker 2: Obama's speech. They are not ready to go as low 1542 01:13:21,280 --> 01:13:23,559 Speaker 2: as the Republicans because they would be looking down at 1543 01:13:23,560 --> 01:13:26,400 Speaker 2: the abyss. Instead of acting like Batman or Star War, 1544 01:13:26,520 --> 01:13:28,840 Speaker 2: liberals should be acting like the hooded Justice or the 1545 01:13:28,840 --> 01:13:29,479 Speaker 2: Punisher and. 1546 01:13:29,479 --> 01:13:30,880 Speaker 1: Shoot the motherfuckers in the head. 1547 01:13:31,840 --> 01:13:33,920 Speaker 3: They not ready for that, and they don't know, but 1548 01:13:33,960 --> 01:13:35,519 Speaker 3: they want a revolution. You get out of here. 1549 01:13:35,640 --> 01:13:37,840 Speaker 1: They couldn't live with that, man. It's and the thing. 1550 01:13:38,120 --> 01:13:38,880 Speaker 1: So this is the thing. 1551 01:13:38,880 --> 01:13:41,639 Speaker 2: I had to realize these people are human, Yes they are, 1552 01:13:41,720 --> 01:13:44,439 Speaker 2: and they're not you know, they aren't gonna match up 1553 01:13:44,479 --> 01:13:47,320 Speaker 2: all the time with the shit they say. It more 1554 01:13:47,439 --> 01:13:50,920 Speaker 2: annoys me when they withdraw that shit from other people 1555 01:13:50,960 --> 01:13:53,920 Speaker 2: and refuse to be understanding, but that's also human. Yes, 1556 01:13:53,960 --> 01:13:57,879 Speaker 2: you know, Megan Is Stallion revealed that Tory Lane's indeed 1557 01:13:57,920 --> 01:13:59,760 Speaker 2: did shoot her in the feed, and you know it 1558 01:13:59,760 --> 01:14:02,920 Speaker 2: had been looking that way. But my whole thing was 1559 01:14:03,080 --> 01:14:06,040 Speaker 2: I'm waiting on her to confirm because I've seen stranger 1560 01:14:06,080 --> 01:14:08,920 Speaker 2: things happen at this point, and I don't want to 1561 01:14:09,040 --> 01:14:13,880 Speaker 2: be part of this, like, you know, I'm a feeling 1562 01:14:13,920 --> 01:14:15,800 Speaker 2: the blanks, like and then you find out, oh, it 1563 01:14:15,800 --> 01:14:17,960 Speaker 2: didn't happen that way or it's different than what people 1564 01:14:18,000 --> 01:14:21,960 Speaker 2: are saying. So she and also because I think if 1565 01:14:21,960 --> 01:14:24,760 Speaker 2: you are a quote unquote centering victims, you do need 1566 01:14:24,800 --> 01:14:26,840 Speaker 2: to wait on them to tell you how they want 1567 01:14:26,840 --> 01:14:28,960 Speaker 2: to handle it. Like, I don't think it's fair to 1568 01:14:29,000 --> 01:14:31,200 Speaker 2: be like fuck what she said, this is what we 1569 01:14:31,240 --> 01:14:33,599 Speaker 2: need to do. Yeah, she didn't have to do that, right, 1570 01:14:33,840 --> 01:14:36,959 Speaker 2: So she came out and was like, look the police. 1571 01:14:37,040 --> 01:14:38,720 Speaker 2: I didn't want to get the police involved because I'm 1572 01:14:38,720 --> 01:14:41,840 Speaker 2: worried about basically police killing a black man, which you 1573 01:14:41,840 --> 01:14:44,200 Speaker 2: know is that duality that black women have to live 1574 01:14:44,240 --> 01:14:46,519 Speaker 2: in and that black men often take advantage of, you know, 1575 01:14:46,640 --> 01:14:50,120 Speaker 2: that that sympathy that they would never provide for a 1576 01:14:50,200 --> 01:14:53,160 Speaker 2: black woman in the same situation, Like a dude shoots 1577 01:14:53,160 --> 01:14:54,639 Speaker 2: you in the feet and you got to worry about 1578 01:14:54,680 --> 01:14:57,519 Speaker 2: saving his life from the police, you know what I mean, Like, 1579 01:14:57,600 --> 01:15:00,960 Speaker 2: that's that bullshit. And so and of course you got 1580 01:15:01,000 --> 01:15:03,320 Speaker 2: the people that I don't believe her, why she's snitching, 1581 01:15:03,360 --> 01:15:05,160 Speaker 2: you know, all the worst type of people in the world. 1582 01:15:05,280 --> 01:15:09,040 Speaker 1: You know, the less said about them, the better. But 1583 01:15:09,080 --> 01:15:09,679 Speaker 1: the thing. 1584 01:15:09,600 --> 01:15:16,400 Speaker 2: I kept coming back to was how you had people 1585 01:15:16,439 --> 01:15:19,960 Speaker 2: that were like, you know, defund the police, abolished prison, 1586 01:15:20,000 --> 01:15:24,240 Speaker 2: blah blah blah. They won't, they warn't that nigga under 1587 01:15:24,240 --> 01:15:26,880 Speaker 2: the jail. They want people in the streets to go 1588 01:15:26,920 --> 01:15:30,719 Speaker 2: find him and handle him, Okay. And that's and that's 1589 01:15:30,760 --> 01:15:34,000 Speaker 2: the reality that we don't talk about. And it's yes, 1590 01:15:34,120 --> 01:15:36,040 Speaker 2: it is the same people for somebody right saying is 1591 01:15:36,240 --> 01:15:40,599 Speaker 2: sure it's the same, Yes, it'd be the same people, 1592 01:15:40,640 --> 01:15:43,240 Speaker 2: and it and it's and and the thing is, I 1593 01:15:43,320 --> 01:15:47,599 Speaker 2: understand we're human, Like that's the fucking point is We're 1594 01:15:47,640 --> 01:15:51,080 Speaker 2: not machines, we're not computers. We are gonna have these days, 1595 01:15:51,120 --> 01:15:52,960 Speaker 2: So you know, you would hope people will be more 1596 01:15:53,040 --> 01:15:56,240 Speaker 2: understanding of other people's days, because I definitely understood I 1597 01:15:56,320 --> 01:16:00,519 Speaker 2: wasn't out there like, well, I guess uh, I don't 1598 01:16:00,520 --> 01:16:03,479 Speaker 2: see y'all restoring talking about restorative just I'm like, yeah, 1599 01:16:03,479 --> 01:16:06,280 Speaker 2: of course not. Like it's one of the reasons I 1600 01:16:06,280 --> 01:16:08,759 Speaker 2: think that shit can be silly because it can't cover everything, 1601 01:16:09,400 --> 01:16:12,040 Speaker 2: you know, and not every fucking victim of a crime. 1602 01:16:12,120 --> 01:16:14,439 Speaker 2: Want to imagine Megan is start having to sit down 1603 01:16:14,479 --> 01:16:18,040 Speaker 2: with Tory Lanez and fucking help in his rehabilitation. 1604 01:16:18,240 --> 01:16:19,920 Speaker 1: Ya, you're not how fucking crazy you sound. 1605 01:16:20,000 --> 01:16:20,760 Speaker 3: That's not her job. 1606 01:16:20,920 --> 01:16:23,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, Like if she don't want to do that, then 1607 01:16:23,240 --> 01:16:25,360 Speaker 1: what he goes free? 1608 01:16:25,760 --> 01:16:25,960 Speaker 3: You know? 1609 01:16:26,120 --> 01:16:29,639 Speaker 1: I see them restorative justice like conversations that happen on Twitter. 1610 01:16:30,160 --> 01:16:33,080 Speaker 1: I have caused harm to a community and then three 1611 01:16:33,120 --> 01:16:40,000 Speaker 1: weeks later I have opted out of the restorative justice process. Yeah, Like, 1612 01:16:40,040 --> 01:16:42,320 Speaker 1: what the fuck are y'all talking about? This is bullshit? 1613 01:16:43,040 --> 01:16:45,240 Speaker 2: Like, I know you don't want to say it because 1614 01:16:45,280 --> 01:16:47,360 Speaker 2: you've been saying this is gonna be the solution for everything, 1615 01:16:47,400 --> 01:16:49,200 Speaker 2: but clearly it's not. 1616 01:16:49,200 --> 01:16:51,200 Speaker 1: Nothing is one catch all, it's a you know, a 1617 01:16:51,280 --> 01:16:51,680 Speaker 1: catch all. 1618 01:16:51,760 --> 01:16:55,360 Speaker 2: Anyway, My point being, liberals ain't ready for that shit. 1619 01:16:55,439 --> 01:16:55,679 Speaker 1: Bruh. 1620 01:16:55,720 --> 01:16:59,280 Speaker 2: They not ready because they not ready to go low. 1621 01:16:59,560 --> 01:17:01,879 Speaker 2: They not ready to have Republican speak of that convention. 1622 01:17:02,560 --> 01:17:04,960 Speaker 1: You can't go low. You can't go low. 1623 01:17:05,080 --> 01:17:06,920 Speaker 2: You only want to go higher and higher to the 1624 01:17:06,920 --> 01:17:08,960 Speaker 2: point where you won't even vote, because you think that's 1625 01:17:09,000 --> 01:17:11,320 Speaker 2: the highest thing you can do. You can't go low 1626 01:17:11,439 --> 01:17:13,960 Speaker 2: enough to vote. What the fuck good are you? Monica 1627 01:17:14,000 --> 01:17:16,280 Speaker 2: says Rod I smiled when you talked about learning to 1628 01:17:16,320 --> 01:17:18,400 Speaker 2: pronounce Kamala's name correctly. 1629 01:17:18,600 --> 01:17:20,320 Speaker 1: Yeah. I'm working on this still. I'm sure I slip 1630 01:17:20,400 --> 01:17:21,920 Speaker 1: up time to time. Good on you. 1631 01:17:22,240 --> 01:17:24,719 Speaker 2: I also used to saying correctly, and maybe I learned 1632 01:17:24,800 --> 01:17:26,240 Speaker 2: in the dim debates not long ago. 1633 01:17:26,320 --> 01:17:30,799 Speaker 1: What's time anymore? Anyway? Since the VP pick, since. 1634 01:17:30,600 --> 01:17:33,320 Speaker 2: The VP pick announcement, I kind of started freaking out 1635 01:17:33,320 --> 01:17:35,160 Speaker 2: and blanking on how to say it in my brain 1636 01:17:35,200 --> 01:17:35,679 Speaker 2: to myself. 1637 01:17:35,720 --> 01:17:40,200 Speaker 1: So I'll repeat Kamma law, Comma law, Comma. 1638 01:17:40,160 --> 01:17:44,840 Speaker 2: Law, like some kind of mantra. Kind of hilarious. Hey, 1639 01:17:44,880 --> 01:17:49,120 Speaker 2: it happens. We all try our best. Rock Thanks, Monica. Ye, 1640 01:17:49,840 --> 01:17:52,160 Speaker 2: I never want to get anyone's names wrong, you know, 1641 01:17:52,240 --> 01:17:54,760 Speaker 2: if I can help it. Evie says, I definitely think 1642 01:17:54,800 --> 01:17:57,760 Speaker 2: I would have had a better Burthen experience if I 1643 01:17:57,760 --> 01:18:00,360 Speaker 2: had a black doctor, or at very least an empathetic one. 1644 01:18:02,000 --> 01:18:04,200 Speaker 2: My doctor my baby was premature, so I didn't get 1645 01:18:04,200 --> 01:18:06,400 Speaker 2: the doctor I wanted, and while it wasn't his fault, 1646 01:18:06,439 --> 01:18:09,000 Speaker 2: I went into premature labor. He made thinks so much 1647 01:18:09,000 --> 01:18:11,840 Speaker 2: worse thanks to his horrible bedside manner. I hope he 1648 01:18:11,920 --> 01:18:14,080 Speaker 2: gets as cancer for the way he treated. 1649 01:18:13,760 --> 01:18:14,880 Speaker 1: Me in my disgress. 1650 01:18:15,080 --> 01:18:17,120 Speaker 2: On the other hand, the doctor who worked on my 1651 01:18:17,200 --> 01:18:19,280 Speaker 2: daughter to save her life was an Asian man, and 1652 01:18:19,320 --> 01:18:21,639 Speaker 2: I think think him being a man of color probably 1653 01:18:21,640 --> 01:18:22,679 Speaker 2: helped on the side. 1654 01:18:22,720 --> 01:18:25,519 Speaker 1: Note, why is rush Limbaugh not dead yet? Right? I 1655 01:18:25,560 --> 01:18:28,120 Speaker 1: asked that question every day I wake up. I think 1656 01:18:28,200 --> 01:18:31,360 Speaker 1: they lied, I really do. 1657 01:18:31,360 --> 01:18:33,040 Speaker 3: Just so they can give him that achievement. 1658 01:18:33,120 --> 01:18:34,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not joking. I think they lied. 1659 01:18:34,920 --> 01:18:38,000 Speaker 2: I think they just embellished how sick he was so 1660 01:18:38,080 --> 01:18:40,479 Speaker 2: that they would be like, well, he is dying, so 1661 01:18:40,560 --> 01:18:42,360 Speaker 2: if we're ever gonna do it, we gotta do it. 1662 01:18:42,400 --> 01:18:44,479 Speaker 2: But the truth is, if you're ever gonna do it, 1663 01:18:44,479 --> 01:18:46,679 Speaker 2: it was gonna have to be this year of Trump's election, 1664 01:18:46,760 --> 01:18:49,679 Speaker 2: because he was not gonna get re elected more than likely, 1665 01:18:50,080 --> 01:18:53,639 Speaker 2: and Rush Limbaugh would never get offered that shit by 1666 01:18:53,680 --> 01:18:57,559 Speaker 2: any other president, even another Republican, because no other Republican 1667 01:18:57,640 --> 01:18:59,360 Speaker 2: is fucking silly enough. 1668 01:18:59,160 --> 01:19:03,040 Speaker 1: To do some stupid sh like that agreed anyway. The 1669 01:19:03,080 --> 01:19:06,640 Speaker 1: poet was Republican defector speaking at the Virtual DNC. Yes, no, 1670 01:19:06,840 --> 01:19:09,200 Speaker 1: or I don't care, Karen, I don't care. 1671 01:19:09,960 --> 01:19:12,360 Speaker 2: Sixty seven percent of the audience agrees with Karen they 1672 01:19:12,360 --> 01:19:16,479 Speaker 2: don't care. It's the highest rated one. Twenty three percent 1673 01:19:16,520 --> 01:19:20,360 Speaker 2: say yes they should speak, and nine percent say no. 1674 01:19:21,360 --> 01:19:26,120 Speaker 2: And I gotta say, because I do believe you can 1675 01:19:26,120 --> 01:19:31,240 Speaker 2: go low. I'm into twenty three percent. Yep, absolutely, I'm 1676 01:19:31,280 --> 01:19:33,519 Speaker 2: into twenty three percent. I love how people are like, well, 1677 01:19:33,560 --> 01:19:37,599 Speaker 2: this person is racist, is homophobic, so they shouldn't speak. 1678 01:19:37,600 --> 01:19:40,200 Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, they're racist too, and I'm black. Let 1679 01:19:40,280 --> 01:19:43,280 Speaker 2: the motherfucker speak, okay, cause. 1680 01:19:43,120 --> 01:19:44,920 Speaker 1: It ain't for me. I don't have to hear or 1681 01:19:44,960 --> 01:19:47,760 Speaker 1: watch any of this shit. I know what I'm voting for. 1682 01:19:48,080 --> 01:19:51,920 Speaker 2: Yes, but if some motherfucking white redneck, if it's even 1683 01:19:52,000 --> 01:19:55,040 Speaker 2: one of them, can change their mind about Trump because 1684 01:19:55,320 --> 01:19:58,040 Speaker 2: their favorite biggie is like even Trump is too much? 1685 01:20:00,200 --> 01:20:04,160 Speaker 1: Have the floor? Ye have the motherfucking floor. You got 1686 01:20:04,160 --> 01:20:07,840 Speaker 1: a dog? Anyway? The poe the uh. 1687 01:20:09,479 --> 01:20:12,240 Speaker 2: And yeah, some people thought, well, six nine percent thought now, 1688 01:20:12,439 --> 01:20:15,680 Speaker 2: so that that jobs. Brooklyn Shoe Bay says, I don't 1689 01:20:15,720 --> 01:20:17,000 Speaker 2: give a fuck as long as they bring the same 1690 01:20:17,120 --> 01:20:20,799 Speaker 2: energy on election day and preventing voter suppression. Yup, Monica 1691 01:20:20,880 --> 01:20:23,160 Speaker 2: says uh. In the bigger picture, I guess I don't 1692 01:20:23,160 --> 01:20:24,839 Speaker 2: care and they better put their words and the actions 1693 01:20:24,840 --> 01:20:27,280 Speaker 2: like Brooklyn Shoe Bay says, but I voted no because 1694 01:20:27,320 --> 01:20:28,200 Speaker 2: fuck Republicans. 1695 01:20:28,320 --> 01:20:28,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, I hear you. 1696 01:20:29,520 --> 01:20:32,439 Speaker 2: Eve He says they could have Amy Cooper speaking at 1697 01:20:32,439 --> 01:20:34,040 Speaker 2: the DNC. I still vote for Joe Biden. 1698 01:20:34,160 --> 01:20:34,559 Speaker 1: Mm hmm. 1699 01:20:34,760 --> 01:20:35,040 Speaker 3: Same. 1700 01:20:35,840 --> 01:20:37,559 Speaker 2: Let them speak. I don't give a fuck. They could 1701 01:20:37,600 --> 01:20:39,519 Speaker 2: have been the only speakers and I wouldn't give a fuck. 1702 01:20:39,600 --> 01:20:42,840 Speaker 2: I don't give a fuck either, Like do you hate 1703 01:20:42,880 --> 01:20:45,679 Speaker 2: this man or not? Who the fuck is still waiting 1704 01:20:45,720 --> 01:20:48,160 Speaker 2: on this? Like maybe if they have some good speeches 1705 01:20:48,160 --> 01:20:48,719 Speaker 2: at the DNC. 1706 01:20:49,040 --> 01:20:51,280 Speaker 3: What is the biggest pet rally? 1707 01:20:51,320 --> 01:20:52,400 Speaker 1: You and me are not the same? 1708 01:20:53,240 --> 01:20:56,880 Speaker 2: Episode twenty one sixty two, Niggas sins, tingling, we did 1709 01:20:56,880 --> 01:20:58,400 Speaker 2: our recapital love Craft country. 1710 01:20:59,120 --> 01:21:03,599 Speaker 1: Uh see. D Ramsey says, Hey, Rod. 1711 01:21:03,680 --> 01:21:06,639 Speaker 2: Robin, Karen, I miss any reviews you got, I miss 1712 01:21:06,720 --> 01:21:09,080 Speaker 2: any reviews you guys do. A movie shows a series. 1713 01:21:09,240 --> 01:21:11,360 Speaker 2: I'm glad you're reviewing the series. I read the book 1714 01:21:11,439 --> 01:21:13,240 Speaker 2: and I will not add my two cents worth. 1715 01:21:13,400 --> 01:21:15,720 Speaker 1: Thanks for the review. Thanks d Ramsey PhD. 1716 01:21:15,520 --> 01:21:16,280 Speaker 3: Thank you baby. 1717 01:21:16,680 --> 01:21:18,720 Speaker 2: And yeah, at first this episode had a problem where 1718 01:21:18,720 --> 01:21:22,080 Speaker 2: I uploaded it and it was missing some stuff. But 1719 01:21:22,120 --> 01:21:24,920 Speaker 2: if you doubt, if you delete and redownload, this fix now. Okay, 1720 01:21:25,360 --> 01:21:27,280 Speaker 2: Farrest says, I'm glad to hear you doing this when 1721 01:21:27,320 --> 01:21:29,200 Speaker 2: I haven't read the book or anything either, so I'm 1722 01:21:29,240 --> 01:21:30,599 Speaker 2: glad to be alone for the ride. 1723 01:21:30,720 --> 01:21:32,720 Speaker 1: You mentioned that you watch Penny Dreadford at the top 1724 01:21:32,760 --> 01:21:33,120 Speaker 1: of the show. 1725 01:21:33,160 --> 01:21:35,840 Speaker 2: Did you ever rock out check out Penny Dreadful City 1726 01:21:35,880 --> 01:21:36,400 Speaker 2: of Angels? 1727 01:21:36,800 --> 01:21:39,040 Speaker 1: Nah, but it's got canceled already. I saw that news. 1728 01:21:39,200 --> 01:21:40,920 Speaker 2: I thought it was pretty fresh take on the genre 1729 01:21:41,000 --> 01:21:43,320 Speaker 2: as well, because it's rooted in the mysticism of the 1730 01:21:43,360 --> 01:21:46,640 Speaker 2: world in the racial dynamics of the nineteen thirties Los Angeles. 1731 01:21:46,640 --> 01:21:49,320 Speaker 2: From a Chicano perspective, normally we tend to see racism 1732 01:21:49,400 --> 01:21:50,799 Speaker 2: as binary with black or white. 1733 01:21:51,240 --> 01:21:51,880 Speaker 1: But it was cool. 1734 01:21:51,880 --> 01:21:54,479 Speaker 2: It's for the past from that level. Anyway, it might 1735 01:21:54,520 --> 01:21:56,280 Speaker 2: be worth a look even. 1736 01:21:56,160 --> 01:21:57,040 Speaker 1: After it's been canceled. 1737 01:21:57,080 --> 01:21:59,160 Speaker 2: I mean, I might catch it anyway, but yeah, I 1738 01:21:59,200 --> 01:22:02,839 Speaker 2: was waiting on it the to beinge it. B says, 1739 01:22:03,120 --> 01:22:04,760 Speaker 2: thanks Rod and Karen. I had to go back to 1740 01:22:04,800 --> 01:22:07,160 Speaker 2: this episode to confirm whether you were or weren't taking 1741 01:22:07,200 --> 01:22:09,639 Speaker 2: any feedback on your review, and I still couldn't tell. 1742 01:22:09,760 --> 01:22:12,080 Speaker 1: Lol. If you aren't, then I guess this will end 1743 01:22:12,160 --> 01:22:12,719 Speaker 1: up in the bed. 1744 01:22:13,080 --> 01:22:15,280 Speaker 2: I've seen the trailer for the show, but after your review, 1745 01:22:15,320 --> 01:22:16,920 Speaker 2: I decided to follow the show along with you guys. 1746 01:22:16,960 --> 01:22:18,640 Speaker 1: It just looks gorgeous. Really drops you in. 1747 01:22:18,960 --> 01:22:21,320 Speaker 2: I got some Watchman vibes from the first episode. Maybe 1748 01:22:21,320 --> 01:22:23,960 Speaker 2: it's the superhero quality of the characters, the fantastical and 1749 01:22:24,040 --> 01:22:26,960 Speaker 2: alien imagery, or just the times in the black history 1750 01:22:26,960 --> 01:22:30,400 Speaker 2: that provide the backdrop to of the story. As someone 1751 01:22:30,439 --> 01:22:32,439 Speaker 2: who hasn't read the book, I'm excited to watch the 1752 01:22:32,439 --> 01:22:34,680 Speaker 2: show unfold with no idea. 1753 01:22:34,400 --> 01:22:35,120 Speaker 1: What to expect. 1754 01:22:35,280 --> 01:22:37,719 Speaker 2: By the way, it was great to see Shanisia Davis 1755 01:22:37,760 --> 01:22:40,719 Speaker 2: Williams from early edition, even if it was just a cameo. 1756 01:22:41,240 --> 01:22:43,320 Speaker 2: Looking forward to more love Craft Country. 1757 01:22:43,320 --> 01:22:45,040 Speaker 1: Thanks B, Thank you me too. 1758 01:22:45,680 --> 01:22:49,400 Speaker 2: Seven says, Hi, there, I appreciate stumbling upon your podcast, 1759 01:22:49,439 --> 01:22:52,280 Speaker 2: especially because of your review of Lovecraft Country. I've watched 1760 01:22:52,280 --> 01:22:54,760 Speaker 2: the episode three times, and I'm newly obsessed. I was 1761 01:22:54,760 --> 01:22:57,800 Speaker 2: eagerly confused about their reference to the artem as being 1762 01:22:57,840 --> 01:23:00,719 Speaker 2: Lovecraft Country, as y'all were, But once. 1763 01:23:00,560 --> 01:23:03,240 Speaker 1: You mentioned HP Lovecraft was a raging racist. 1764 01:23:02,880 --> 01:23:06,719 Speaker 2: I believe Lovecraft Country could be synonymous with the clean Country, 1765 01:23:06,760 --> 01:23:08,639 Speaker 2: but with a supernatural edge. 1766 01:23:09,280 --> 01:23:10,160 Speaker 1: Maybe I don't know. 1767 01:23:10,240 --> 01:23:11,840 Speaker 2: I mean the area of the map they're pointing to 1768 01:23:12,000 --> 01:23:15,280 Speaker 2: is a north though, so I don't know. I guess 1769 01:23:15,280 --> 01:23:17,759 Speaker 2: we'll find out it's the show progresses. Maybe we'll figure 1770 01:23:17,800 --> 01:23:21,080 Speaker 2: it out along, you know, along with audience. That's my 1771 01:23:21,160 --> 01:23:23,240 Speaker 2: contribution to the review. I can't wait to see how 1772 01:23:23,280 --> 01:23:25,559 Speaker 2: the rest of the show in folls and hear more 1773 01:23:25,640 --> 01:23:28,880 Speaker 2: reviews from your podcast. Seven Monica says, I was so 1774 01:23:28,960 --> 01:23:31,240 Speaker 2: glad to hear Karen explain what made her watch this 1775 01:23:31,320 --> 01:23:35,400 Speaker 2: show in particular among other current black shows. Good prompting there, Rod, 1776 01:23:36,080 --> 01:23:39,080 Speaker 2: That's what I do, Karen, when you explained how you 1777 01:23:39,160 --> 01:23:41,559 Speaker 2: knew it was related to Jordan Peel, therefore you understood 1778 01:23:41,560 --> 01:23:43,960 Speaker 2: it would not be pointless, gore hard, but would have 1779 01:23:43,960 --> 01:23:46,920 Speaker 2: a deeper message. I found myself relating and not relating 1780 01:23:46,960 --> 01:23:50,200 Speaker 2: because I loved get Out and was glad I saw us, 1781 01:23:50,240 --> 01:23:51,880 Speaker 2: but they scared the but Jesus out of me. 1782 01:23:52,200 --> 01:23:54,320 Speaker 1: I'm not a hard person that I made an excession for. 1783 01:23:54,280 --> 01:23:58,040 Speaker 2: Pill too hard to willing, too hard to willing to 1784 01:23:58,120 --> 01:24:00,400 Speaker 2: do that again. I know I'm probably too scared to 1785 01:24:00,439 --> 01:24:02,320 Speaker 2: read the book, but I'm also thrilled to know this 1786 01:24:02,360 --> 01:24:04,439 Speaker 2: is the topic of a show in this era. As 1787 01:24:04,479 --> 01:24:06,760 Speaker 2: a brown kid growing up in NYC, I used to 1788 01:24:07,040 --> 01:24:11,280 Speaker 2: get so scared day tripping to Connecticut and standing out 1789 01:24:11,320 --> 01:24:13,760 Speaker 2: in those small white towns. I didn't hear about the 1790 01:24:13,760 --> 01:24:15,880 Speaker 2: sundown town un till I was an adult, but I've 1791 01:24:15,920 --> 01:24:18,360 Speaker 2: been afraid of that my whole life. Anyway, I'm so 1792 01:24:18,600 --> 01:24:21,880 Speaker 2: thankful for your joint recaps. I miss them a lot. Karen, 1793 01:24:21,960 --> 01:24:23,840 Speaker 2: I know you'll hold me down because you're always so 1794 01:24:23,920 --> 01:24:26,679 Speaker 2: brave to watch it so I don't have to lol. 1795 01:24:26,800 --> 01:24:29,719 Speaker 2: And Rod, I'm glad you preemptively stopped the book spoiler 1796 01:24:29,720 --> 01:24:33,160 Speaker 2: people from inadvertently running viewing. We have some experience now, 1797 01:24:34,360 --> 01:24:37,000 Speaker 2: we've done this a few times. We know what fucks 1798 01:24:37,040 --> 01:24:39,040 Speaker 2: up a nothing fucks up a recap more than some 1799 01:24:39,200 --> 01:24:39,880 Speaker 2: know it all book. 1800 01:24:39,920 --> 01:24:43,920 Speaker 1: Motherfucker. That's just pretending that, oh, I don't know it. 1801 01:24:43,920 --> 01:24:45,960 Speaker 2: It'll be weird if in the third episode, so and 1802 01:24:46,000 --> 01:24:48,519 Speaker 2: so dies and you're like, and then the person dies 1803 01:24:48,560 --> 01:24:49,280 Speaker 2: and they're like, it's. 1804 01:24:49,160 --> 01:24:49,760 Speaker 1: Not from the book. 1805 01:24:49,760 --> 01:24:53,720 Speaker 2: I just it was just weird coincidence, Like just stop, what, like, 1806 01:24:53,760 --> 01:24:54,920 Speaker 2: why are you tinkering with it? 1807 01:24:55,160 --> 01:24:57,240 Speaker 1: Just let us do our thing. It should be fun 1808 01:24:57,280 --> 01:24:58,360 Speaker 1: for you that we don't. 1809 01:24:58,080 --> 01:25:00,080 Speaker 3: Know, right, that should be half the fun. 1810 01:25:00,160 --> 01:25:01,680 Speaker 1: I don't think I would ever review a show I 1811 01:25:01,720 --> 01:25:02,880 Speaker 1: read the book about. 1812 01:25:03,120 --> 01:25:06,240 Speaker 2: You know, like, the only reason we did Walking Down 1813 01:25:06,320 --> 01:25:07,840 Speaker 2: is because it was so different from the book. 1814 01:25:08,120 --> 01:25:10,120 Speaker 3: Yeah. I think we actually started watching the show before 1815 01:25:10,120 --> 01:25:11,000 Speaker 3: we read the book. We did. 1816 01:25:11,120 --> 01:25:16,679 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm excited to hear what you guys think and 1817 01:25:16,960 --> 01:25:19,439 Speaker 2: understanding and predicted the series goes all signed to Scared 1818 01:25:19,439 --> 01:25:25,160 Speaker 2: the Cat and last week, Lastly, Eve says, I honestly 1819 01:25:25,200 --> 01:25:27,000 Speaker 2: had no intention of watching this show until I found 1820 01:25:27,000 --> 01:25:29,479 Speaker 2: out you were reviewing it. But when I started the episode, 1821 01:25:29,520 --> 01:25:32,160 Speaker 2: I stopped and went to my HBO app Thank you 1822 01:25:32,240 --> 01:25:35,040 Speaker 2: so much, because this show is everything. My favorite part 1823 01:25:35,120 --> 01:25:38,759 Speaker 2: was Letitia running from the back of the Restlessness screaming, 1824 01:25:38,880 --> 01:25:40,040 Speaker 2: get your ass. 1825 01:25:39,840 --> 01:25:42,240 Speaker 1: Up, we gotta get the fuck out of here. 1826 01:25:42,560 --> 01:25:44,880 Speaker 2: That was the realist black shit ever And I hope 1827 01:25:44,920 --> 01:25:48,280 Speaker 2: that becomes a SoundBite on the show, especially love the 1828 01:25:48,360 --> 01:25:50,600 Speaker 2: races getting killed for being a racist. Thank you for 1829 01:25:50,640 --> 01:25:53,080 Speaker 2: reviewing this show and putting me on. No problem, ev, 1830 01:25:53,200 --> 01:25:57,240 Speaker 2: no problem. And the poll for this episode was did 1831 01:25:57,240 --> 01:25:58,759 Speaker 2: you watch love Craft Country? 1832 01:25:59,160 --> 01:25:59,400 Speaker 1: Yes? 1833 01:25:59,680 --> 01:26:01,840 Speaker 2: No, but I listened to your recap or no? And 1834 01:26:01,920 --> 01:26:03,760 Speaker 2: I didn't listen to recap, but I voted in the 1835 01:26:03,760 --> 01:26:14,519 Speaker 2: poll say yes, yeah nasty, and then eighteen percent said no, 1836 01:26:14,600 --> 01:26:17,880 Speaker 2: but I listened to your recap, which I never knew 1837 01:26:17,920 --> 01:26:19,200 Speaker 2: how many of y'all there were. 1838 01:26:19,320 --> 01:26:20,639 Speaker 1: There's so many of y'all. 1839 01:26:20,840 --> 01:26:22,960 Speaker 2: I brought this up on Twitter and the reply there 1840 01:26:23,000 --> 01:26:24,920 Speaker 2: were so many replies of like, yeah, I don't watch 1841 01:26:25,400 --> 01:26:27,439 Speaker 2: this show or I didn't watch that show y'all recap, 1842 01:26:27,520 --> 01:26:27,720 Speaker 2: but I. 1843 01:26:29,240 --> 01:26:30,160 Speaker 1: Love your recaps. 1844 01:26:30,520 --> 01:26:32,240 Speaker 3: I could go to the cooler talk, you know, when 1845 01:26:32,280 --> 01:26:34,040 Speaker 3: people was going to work. 1846 01:26:34,080 --> 01:26:36,439 Speaker 5: They was like I could actually talk about the characters 1847 01:26:36,479 --> 01:26:38,400 Speaker 5: and what happened and everything, right. 1848 01:26:38,439 --> 01:26:41,400 Speaker 2: Never seen an episode of this show, or you know, 1849 01:26:41,439 --> 01:26:42,679 Speaker 2: there would be people like, hey. 1850 01:26:42,520 --> 01:26:43,560 Speaker 1: I actually. 1851 01:26:44,640 --> 01:26:48,920 Speaker 2: You know, I haven't seen it for myself. But then 1852 01:26:48,960 --> 01:26:51,400 Speaker 2: I jumped into season seven and it was only because 1853 01:26:51,400 --> 01:26:52,760 Speaker 2: of y'all recap, So thank y'all. 1854 01:26:52,840 --> 01:26:54,839 Speaker 3: And it was like I could follow the characters and everything. 1855 01:26:56,040 --> 01:26:58,240 Speaker 2: And then lastly, no, and I didn't listen to the recap, 1856 01:26:58,280 --> 01:27:00,280 Speaker 2: but I voted in the poll You're a special type 1857 01:27:00,320 --> 01:27:04,920 Speaker 2: person twelve percent. Twelve percent of my audience. They're like, 1858 01:27:04,960 --> 01:27:07,360 Speaker 2: I don't even know what this episode is about. I 1859 01:27:07,400 --> 01:27:09,519 Speaker 2: skipped it all, Okay, I just had to be the 1860 01:27:09,560 --> 01:27:11,960 Speaker 2: one to say something. We did get a couple of 1861 01:27:12,240 --> 01:27:15,040 Speaker 2: one voicemail this week from my girl in mine. 1862 01:27:15,800 --> 01:27:20,240 Speaker 8: Hey, Ron, Hey, Ken, this is Emond. I just wanted 1863 01:27:20,280 --> 01:27:23,360 Speaker 8: to call y'all and tell you guys how much I'm 1864 01:27:24,120 --> 01:27:26,160 Speaker 8: I mean, I haven't even been. It's because I'm in 1865 01:27:26,200 --> 01:27:29,080 Speaker 8: my car, like just because I was about to cry. 1866 01:27:29,200 --> 01:27:33,400 Speaker 8: I was crying and I'm trying to like stop myself. 1867 01:27:33,720 --> 01:27:41,040 Speaker 8: But but the whole Jason Wish episode so good, the 1868 01:27:41,120 --> 01:27:42,360 Speaker 8: whole roller coaster. 1869 01:27:42,200 --> 01:27:43,080 Speaker 2: Ride of emotions. 1870 01:27:43,600 --> 01:27:47,400 Speaker 8: Beginning, I was blessing my bets, almost keeted on myself 1871 01:27:47,920 --> 01:27:50,519 Speaker 8: and now and then it's like I was on my 1872 01:27:50,560 --> 01:27:53,920 Speaker 8: way home and then I just started tearing about historians, 1873 01:27:53,960 --> 01:27:56,360 Speaker 8: just like just so happy for him that he's alive 1874 01:27:56,760 --> 01:27:59,479 Speaker 8: and just like and I was just thinking about his wife, 1875 01:27:59,720 --> 01:28:03,960 Speaker 8: like on that drive to Philly, not knowing if he's okay, 1876 01:28:04,400 --> 01:28:09,000 Speaker 8: and I'm just thinking about my husband. Oh goodness, I 1877 01:28:09,080 --> 01:28:14,000 Speaker 8: love y'all, but oh my goodness, I was a good one. 1878 01:28:17,240 --> 01:28:17,360 Speaker 4: Mm. 1879 01:28:18,560 --> 01:28:22,080 Speaker 8: I love y'all. I mean gonna go check his step out. 1880 01:28:22,200 --> 01:28:26,559 Speaker 8: But oh goodness, I loved it. But I'm gonna finish it. 1881 01:28:27,760 --> 01:28:30,960 Speaker 8: I just had to call on tell you the whole 1882 01:28:31,040 --> 01:28:34,439 Speaker 8: roller coaster ride of emotions. If there's started getting funny 1883 01:28:34,439 --> 01:28:38,240 Speaker 8: again because I can't handle this a car with red 1884 01:28:38,280 --> 01:28:42,439 Speaker 8: eyes and just tearing up. Okay, love y'all. 1885 01:28:43,120 --> 01:28:48,360 Speaker 1: By well, I mean it did. 1886 01:28:48,600 --> 01:28:51,360 Speaker 2: It did finish off funny. So I mean, you know, 1887 01:28:51,439 --> 01:28:55,320 Speaker 2: we know what we're doing. It was a very special episode, 1888 01:28:55,600 --> 01:28:57,920 Speaker 2: you know, I think. But I think that's the beauty 1889 01:28:57,960 --> 01:28:58,200 Speaker 2: of it. 1890 01:28:58,240 --> 01:28:58,439 Speaker 1: Man. 1891 01:28:58,560 --> 01:29:00,840 Speaker 2: Every a lot of the people were they have like 1892 01:29:00,880 --> 01:29:04,719 Speaker 2: these compelling stories, and you know, you go through hard times, 1893 01:29:05,000 --> 01:29:07,679 Speaker 2: you know, so I think that's one of the things 1894 01:29:07,720 --> 01:29:10,560 Speaker 2: that you know, you want to emphasize and it's just 1895 01:29:10,640 --> 01:29:12,599 Speaker 2: part of the story. And he's still here, and he's 1896 01:29:12,600 --> 01:29:15,000 Speaker 2: still and he had this funny ass stand up album 1897 01:29:15,080 --> 01:29:18,800 Speaker 2: and I see so many people going on Twitter and 1898 01:29:18,840 --> 01:29:21,160 Speaker 2: stuff and finding him on social media to be like, yo, 1899 01:29:21,240 --> 01:29:23,120 Speaker 2: I heard you on the show. I checked out your 1900 01:29:23,160 --> 01:29:26,760 Speaker 2: stand up. You're hilarious. You got a new fan all 1901 01:29:26,800 --> 01:29:30,360 Speaker 2: that stuff. That's what it's about many So you know, 1902 01:29:30,400 --> 01:29:32,280 Speaker 2: I'm glad, but I'm glad you went through the roller 1903 01:29:32,280 --> 01:29:35,879 Speaker 2: coaster of emotions because it was his life and that experience. 1904 01:29:35,880 --> 01:29:39,439 Speaker 2: It's a roller coaster of emotions, you know, So I 1905 01:29:39,479 --> 01:29:41,840 Speaker 2: feel you though it was if I hadn't heard that 1906 01:29:41,920 --> 01:29:44,880 Speaker 2: story a couple of times already when I was researching 1907 01:29:44,960 --> 01:29:48,920 Speaker 2: him and shout out to three guys on when RANDALP. 1908 01:29:49,000 --> 01:29:51,479 Speaker 2: Terrace interviewed him for a Woke Files. If it wasn't 1909 01:29:51,479 --> 01:29:53,439 Speaker 2: for that, I feel like maybe I would have been 1910 01:29:53,479 --> 01:29:55,839 Speaker 2: thrown back. But I already need the answers to those questions, 1911 01:29:56,240 --> 01:29:58,040 Speaker 2: so I was just like, wait till they hit this 1912 01:29:58,120 --> 01:29:58,840 Speaker 2: part of the story. 1913 01:29:59,040 --> 01:30:01,519 Speaker 1: Okay, tell on what happened at the club, you know. 1914 01:30:01,640 --> 01:30:04,120 Speaker 1: So all right, we got some emails to get to. 1915 01:30:04,760 --> 01:30:07,920 Speaker 2: Let's see if we can get through these before we 1916 01:30:08,000 --> 01:30:11,839 Speaker 2: run out of time. Jay full Wright said, Hi, Rod 1917 01:30:11,920 --> 01:30:14,400 Speaker 2: and Karen, listening to the feedback show, I just wanted 1918 01:30:14,400 --> 01:30:16,640 Speaker 2: to say that I love your thirst for knowledge and understanding. 1919 01:30:17,000 --> 01:30:19,640 Speaker 2: Nothing irritates me more than people who are not intellectually 1920 01:30:19,680 --> 01:30:22,640 Speaker 2: curious and are loud and wrong. I really appreciate you 1921 01:30:22,680 --> 01:30:28,320 Speaker 2: doing research on Kamala. Pronounce Kamala not Cumala. Seriously mispronounce 1922 01:30:28,320 --> 01:30:31,040 Speaker 2: her name is a big pet pee for her family. Yep, yep, 1923 01:30:31,080 --> 01:30:33,680 Speaker 2: I'm working on it and working on it. 1924 01:30:33,680 --> 01:30:35,080 Speaker 1: It motivated me to do the same. 1925 01:30:35,560 --> 01:30:39,120 Speaker 2: I mostly just get frustrated with people calling her cop mala, 1926 01:30:39,439 --> 01:30:41,720 Speaker 2: but now I feel equipped to making foreign rebuttals. But 1927 01:30:42,120 --> 01:30:44,800 Speaker 2: I should probably just view her name and save myself distress. 1928 01:30:46,160 --> 01:30:48,360 Speaker 1: By the way, still got her name muted. It ain't 1929 01:30:48,400 --> 01:30:50,880 Speaker 1: her fault, But I'm not dealing with these burning people 1930 01:30:50,920 --> 01:30:52,880 Speaker 1: no more. Karen. 1931 01:30:52,960 --> 01:30:55,960 Speaker 2: Your perspective on directing our pandemic anger and the something 1932 01:30:55,960 --> 01:30:58,559 Speaker 2: productive has really helped me not get so angry when 1933 01:30:58,600 --> 01:31:00,880 Speaker 2: I see people not behaving safely. I had to delete 1934 01:31:00,920 --> 01:31:03,479 Speaker 2: Instagram off my phone because I would get so stressed 1935 01:31:03,479 --> 01:31:05,240 Speaker 2: out of angrycy and people live recklessly. 1936 01:31:06,160 --> 01:31:07,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm still on that one. 1937 01:31:07,520 --> 01:31:09,040 Speaker 1: It's all in the stories. 1938 01:31:09,479 --> 01:31:12,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, like the yeah, the Instagram stories. 1939 01:31:12,360 --> 01:31:15,479 Speaker 2: You'd be like, oh, like on the picture they put 1940 01:31:15,479 --> 01:31:18,080 Speaker 2: on their pages, like them and a mask standing on 1941 01:31:18,120 --> 01:31:20,400 Speaker 2: their porch, just being safe, and then the picture in 1942 01:31:20,400 --> 01:31:23,200 Speaker 2: the story is just like them, like just fucking a 1943 01:31:23,240 --> 01:31:25,599 Speaker 2: telephone booth, you know what I mean, Just like here 1944 01:31:25,640 --> 01:31:27,760 Speaker 2: I am licking a toilet seat. Me and this man 1945 01:31:27,880 --> 01:31:29,679 Speaker 2: I just met. We go on a date licking toilet 1946 01:31:29,720 --> 01:31:32,640 Speaker 2: seas together haha. Hashtag stay safe. 1947 01:31:32,479 --> 01:31:37,439 Speaker 1: Like okay uh. 1948 01:31:37,560 --> 01:31:39,840 Speaker 2: I also found an activity golf that allows me to 1949 01:31:39,880 --> 01:31:41,800 Speaker 2: get out the house. I'm gonna take your advice and 1950 01:31:41,880 --> 01:31:44,000 Speaker 2: just wear my mask and focus on what I can control. 1951 01:31:44,680 --> 01:31:46,800 Speaker 1: Anyway, I really love the podcast. Keep Doing You Doing 1952 01:31:46,880 --> 01:31:49,799 Speaker 1: j Full, thanks J for and yeah. 1953 01:31:49,680 --> 01:31:52,760 Speaker 2: Man, I am intellectually curious, but I'm not like I'm 1954 01:31:52,760 --> 01:31:54,960 Speaker 2: not always on point. 1955 01:31:55,000 --> 01:31:56,920 Speaker 1: I'm sure you listen to the show long enough. 1956 01:31:56,960 --> 01:31:58,840 Speaker 2: There's times where I get my brain gets tired and 1957 01:31:58,880 --> 01:32:02,040 Speaker 2: I'm like, I can't, Like, I don't that's enough. 1958 01:32:01,880 --> 01:32:03,479 Speaker 1: You know what I mean. So it just depends on 1959 01:32:03,520 --> 01:32:04,000 Speaker 1: the topic. 1960 01:32:04,600 --> 01:32:08,200 Speaker 2: But something like I just try to be aware of 1961 01:32:08,240 --> 01:32:10,320 Speaker 2: when I don't know what the fuck I'm talking about 1962 01:32:10,400 --> 01:32:13,280 Speaker 2: and then leave it at that. I'm an avid podcast 1963 01:32:13,360 --> 01:32:16,120 Speaker 2: listener and that is probably my number one pet peeve. 1964 01:32:16,200 --> 01:32:19,599 Speaker 2: No matter how much I love the podcast, is I don't. 1965 01:32:19,760 --> 01:32:21,439 Speaker 2: I mean I never write in and tell them or nothing. 1966 01:32:21,479 --> 01:32:24,320 Speaker 2: I just it just is annoying when they get shited 1967 01:32:24,320 --> 01:32:29,679 Speaker 2: wrong and that's very easily readily accessible and they go 1968 01:32:29,960 --> 01:32:31,880 Speaker 2: I don't care, like I don't care, like if you 1969 01:32:31,920 --> 01:32:33,160 Speaker 2: get it wrong, you just didn't know. 1970 01:32:33,240 --> 01:32:35,760 Speaker 1: That's fine. Every human being does that. What we're doing 1971 01:32:35,880 --> 01:32:36,479 Speaker 1: is difficult. 1972 01:32:37,320 --> 01:32:39,000 Speaker 2: We're sitting up here talking for a couple of hours. 1973 01:32:39,040 --> 01:32:40,880 Speaker 2: You think it's not gonna be some mistakes. You think 1974 01:32:40,920 --> 01:32:42,360 Speaker 2: it's not gonna be some shit where we're like, I 1975 01:32:42,400 --> 01:32:43,759 Speaker 2: don't know the answer to this right. 1976 01:32:43,640 --> 01:32:45,360 Speaker 1: Now off the top of my head, but I think 1977 01:32:45,400 --> 01:32:46,719 Speaker 1: it was that, you know, like. 1978 01:32:46,640 --> 01:32:49,040 Speaker 2: That's gonna happen. But sometimes I just listen to shit 1979 01:32:49,040 --> 01:32:50,559 Speaker 2: and they be like, I don't know, maybe that's wrong. 1980 01:32:50,640 --> 01:32:53,840 Speaker 1: I don't care. I'm like, no, nigga, that's that's important. 1981 01:32:54,800 --> 01:32:58,240 Speaker 2: Like, if you're gonna say that the president of the 1982 01:32:58,320 --> 01:33:01,519 Speaker 2: United States killed seven people, you should probably go ahead 1983 01:33:01,520 --> 01:33:05,080 Speaker 2: and source check that one. Yes, anyway, Lauren writes, and 1984 01:33:05,120 --> 01:33:07,280 Speaker 2: Herman Kane speaking through the OUIGI board would be a 1985 01:33:07,320 --> 01:33:09,840 Speaker 2: Democrat version of Chalton Heston and yelling at a chair. 1986 01:33:10,439 --> 01:33:13,200 Speaker 2: I'm not I think that was Was it Charlton Heston 1987 01:33:13,280 --> 01:33:15,200 Speaker 2: yelling at the chair? I thought it was Clint Eastwood. 1988 01:33:15,160 --> 01:33:18,000 Speaker 3: Wed They both may have, you know what, same white. 1989 01:33:17,760 --> 01:33:20,880 Speaker 1: Man to me. No, I don't remember. Actually, I thought 1990 01:33:20,960 --> 01:33:23,160 Speaker 1: Charlton Heston was a different you know what, it was Clint. 1991 01:33:23,280 --> 01:33:25,880 Speaker 1: It was Clint Eastwood. They yelled at that chair. It 1992 01:33:25,960 --> 01:33:27,840 Speaker 1: was Clint. But unless Chalton did. 1993 01:33:27,720 --> 01:33:29,360 Speaker 5: It too, That's what I was thinking. They may have 1994 01:33:29,479 --> 01:33:31,679 Speaker 5: and I just didn't know. I was like, they probably 1995 01:33:31,720 --> 01:33:32,599 Speaker 5: may have both did it. 1996 01:33:32,680 --> 01:33:34,680 Speaker 1: Whatever. Republicans just do that all the time. We just 1997 01:33:34,680 --> 01:33:36,160 Speaker 1: don't ever watch every year. 1998 01:33:36,200 --> 01:33:38,920 Speaker 2: They just yelled at a chair, would you got damn 1999 01:33:39,000 --> 01:33:41,960 Speaker 2: hipb is your fucking things up? The gay agenda sitting 2000 01:33:41,960 --> 01:33:44,280 Speaker 2: in the chair right here, y'all, ladies, booter gay agenda 2001 01:33:44,320 --> 01:33:48,599 Speaker 2: please sitting in the chair being all invisible and gay 2002 01:33:49,040 --> 01:33:52,240 Speaker 2: women's rights boo. I'm not sure if I'm for it 2003 01:33:52,320 --> 01:33:54,519 Speaker 2: or against it, but I would it would be real funny. 2004 01:33:54,520 --> 01:33:55,559 Speaker 1: Well that's going low to me. 2005 01:33:56,800 --> 01:33:59,599 Speaker 2: Lastly from Julie, who says they're Rod and Karen, y'all 2006 01:33:59,640 --> 01:34:02,120 Speaker 2: better come. I'm through with the meditation and mindfulness encouragement, 2007 01:34:02,400 --> 01:34:05,000 Speaker 2: and then the surprise treat of love Craft country recaps. 2008 01:34:05,000 --> 01:34:08,519 Speaker 1: You are truly a bomb to our collectors or soul. 2009 01:34:09,479 --> 01:34:12,719 Speaker 2: I've been on a similar Jersey journey of familiarization, which 2010 01:34:12,760 --> 01:34:16,200 Speaker 2: apparently is what the Tibetan word for meditation means. With 2011 01:34:16,320 --> 01:34:18,519 Speaker 2: my feelings, trying to become more aware so I can 2012 01:34:18,560 --> 01:34:21,400 Speaker 2: make this life software operate just a little bit better, 2013 01:34:21,640 --> 01:34:23,960 Speaker 2: even when the hardware is jacked up in its design. 2014 01:34:24,080 --> 01:34:25,920 Speaker 2: So it's been a trip to see twenty twenty the 2015 01:34:25,960 --> 01:34:30,040 Speaker 2: symbol of ideal vision be the year that we get 2016 01:34:30,080 --> 01:34:32,479 Speaker 2: hit with a pandemic that has forced us to pause 2017 01:34:32,520 --> 01:34:35,240 Speaker 2: and the value our literal breathing in order to see 2018 01:34:35,360 --> 01:34:37,640 Speaker 2: what we need to do to be better. When you 2019 01:34:37,680 --> 01:34:39,800 Speaker 2: look at it this way, twenty twenty is one big 2020 01:34:39,840 --> 01:34:41,240 Speaker 2: ass meditation practice. 2021 01:34:42,280 --> 01:34:43,120 Speaker 1: That is how it feels. 2022 01:34:43,320 --> 01:34:46,320 Speaker 5: Twenty twenty is seeing what twenty twenty is allowing people 2023 01:34:46,360 --> 01:34:48,439 Speaker 5: to see what they are made of and what other 2024 01:34:48,439 --> 01:34:51,280 Speaker 5: people are made of, and some of us we ain't 2025 01:34:51,320 --> 01:34:54,000 Speaker 5: made enoughing we made a l yep. 2026 01:34:54,520 --> 01:34:57,600 Speaker 2: I hate here and I agree in the world that 2027 01:34:57,680 --> 01:35:01,080 Speaker 2: sets up reality that the values your humanity and then 2028 01:35:01,160 --> 01:35:03,759 Speaker 2: acts like the reality of your experience of that word 2029 01:35:04,160 --> 01:35:07,559 Speaker 2: world doesn't matter much less exists. I just see it 2030 01:35:07,560 --> 01:35:10,200 Speaker 2: as compulsory to carve out this practice that in many 2031 01:35:10,200 --> 01:35:15,200 Speaker 2: ways is an active rebellion. That's what's incorporating meditation or 2032 01:35:15,240 --> 01:35:18,599 Speaker 2: pausing breathing, seeing and just being seems like it could 2033 01:35:18,640 --> 01:35:22,280 Speaker 2: be to me I think about our world, Yo, it 2034 01:35:22,400 --> 01:35:26,960 Speaker 2: really is. Listen, It's an act of rebellion, not just 2035 01:35:27,000 --> 01:35:29,679 Speaker 2: because of this world, but because of the constant state 2036 01:35:29,760 --> 01:35:33,840 Speaker 2: people around us are in. Agreed, everything is a react now, react, 2037 01:35:33,920 --> 01:35:34,800 Speaker 2: now do something now. 2038 01:35:35,280 --> 01:35:37,280 Speaker 1: If you don't react, you don't care. And if you 2039 01:35:37,320 --> 01:35:39,919 Speaker 1: don't care, then you part of the problem. Like everything 2040 01:35:39,960 --> 01:35:41,880 Speaker 1: is encouraging you to react without thinking. 2041 01:35:42,680 --> 01:35:45,599 Speaker 5: Yeah, because when you do that, it actually benefits them 2042 01:35:46,760 --> 01:35:48,800 Speaker 5: when you do that, because they actually don't care. 2043 01:35:48,960 --> 01:35:50,960 Speaker 3: Because human beings are going to fuck up. 2044 01:35:51,280 --> 01:35:54,120 Speaker 5: So when you're in this constant state of rage, you 2045 01:35:54,160 --> 01:35:56,000 Speaker 5: will fuck up, and it's just something for them to 2046 01:35:56,080 --> 01:35:59,280 Speaker 5: dot down and remember and favorite and queue up. So 2047 01:35:59,400 --> 01:36:01,759 Speaker 5: if you try to be somebody, you know, you you 2048 01:36:01,760 --> 01:36:02,520 Speaker 5: you gotta. 2049 01:36:02,520 --> 01:36:04,519 Speaker 3: Ain't be shipped like them, you know, can't be shipped 2050 01:36:04,560 --> 01:36:04,880 Speaker 3: like them. 2051 01:36:04,880 --> 01:36:07,360 Speaker 5: But the second you come somebody or try to build 2052 01:36:07,400 --> 01:36:10,000 Speaker 5: something to grow or change or grow and evolve, they 2053 01:36:10,080 --> 01:36:12,040 Speaker 5: gonna take those things. If we remind you of how 2054 01:36:12,040 --> 01:36:14,600 Speaker 5: you wouldn't shit. And so that's why for me, I'm like, 2055 01:36:14,680 --> 01:36:16,840 Speaker 5: you know what fuck that I gonna I'm going to 2056 01:36:16,880 --> 01:36:19,320 Speaker 5: actually think about this, I'm going to pry critical thinking, 2057 01:36:19,600 --> 01:36:22,880 Speaker 5: I'm gonna care, I'm gonna love, I'm gonna understand, I'm 2058 01:36:22,920 --> 01:36:26,519 Speaker 5: gonna have compassion, I'm gonna do these things because y'all 2059 01:36:26,560 --> 01:36:30,080 Speaker 5: are like the complete opposite of the things that actually 2060 01:36:30,120 --> 01:36:31,160 Speaker 5: make people human. 2061 01:36:31,680 --> 01:36:34,519 Speaker 2: And I'm not saying meditation is thinking, but it is 2062 01:36:34,760 --> 01:36:37,639 Speaker 2: the space. Yes, it's you know, it's like if you're 2063 01:36:37,680 --> 01:36:39,920 Speaker 2: listening to a song and there's a blank space in 2064 01:36:39,960 --> 01:36:43,360 Speaker 2: the middle of the song, you're gonna stop and you know, 2065 01:36:43,520 --> 01:36:45,640 Speaker 2: be able to like get away from the vibe of 2066 01:36:45,640 --> 01:36:48,800 Speaker 2: the music for a second before returning, and that kind of, 2067 01:36:49,080 --> 01:36:50,920 Speaker 2: you know, it kind of matters, you know what I mean, 2068 01:36:50,960 --> 01:36:53,160 Speaker 2: It kind of helps you find your place. It's you know, 2069 01:36:53,680 --> 01:36:57,519 Speaker 2: like I think that's the element that it is a 2070 01:36:57,560 --> 01:37:01,280 Speaker 2: revolution now to find that because what everything about our 2071 01:37:01,320 --> 01:37:03,519 Speaker 2: media and the way we interact with each other is 2072 01:37:04,479 --> 01:37:07,639 Speaker 2: never take that second to breathe. Everything is go from 2073 01:37:07,640 --> 01:37:08,920 Speaker 2: the next fire to the next fire. 2074 01:37:09,040 --> 01:37:09,280 Speaker 1: Nope. 2075 01:37:09,280 --> 01:37:12,160 Speaker 5: Because the thing is when people fuck up, and it 2076 01:37:12,240 --> 01:37:14,800 Speaker 5: could actually be good and or bad depend on what side. 2077 01:37:14,920 --> 01:37:17,920 Speaker 5: Is giving somebody a chance to think and giving somebody 2078 01:37:17,960 --> 01:37:20,080 Speaker 5: a chance to breathe and giving somebody a chance to 2079 01:37:20,120 --> 01:37:24,839 Speaker 5: reevaluate something will actually fuck up your plan if you want. 2080 01:37:24,680 --> 01:37:25,920 Speaker 3: Them to make bad decisions. 2081 01:37:26,000 --> 01:37:28,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, it helps people, yeah, find their footing. 2082 01:37:28,479 --> 01:37:30,320 Speaker 2: I think about people before us who woke up every 2083 01:37:30,360 --> 01:37:32,439 Speaker 2: day that in humanity we find it hard to even 2084 01:37:32,479 --> 01:37:35,400 Speaker 2: imagine and wonder whether they too had found some inner 2085 01:37:35,400 --> 01:37:38,200 Speaker 2: piece that made them able to thrive under circumstances almost 2086 01:37:38,200 --> 01:37:39,160 Speaker 2: too absurd. 2087 01:37:38,760 --> 01:37:40,439 Speaker 1: For words, right, I think. 2088 01:37:40,479 --> 01:37:42,400 Speaker 2: So, I think you know one of the things I think. 2089 01:37:43,360 --> 01:37:46,200 Speaker 2: And I know I brought up being an atheist earlier. 2090 01:37:46,880 --> 01:37:49,760 Speaker 2: I'm probably more agnostic than atheists, but still the point being, 2091 01:37:50,320 --> 01:37:55,280 Speaker 2: I think rituals like praying and stuff help people mentally. 2092 01:37:55,160 --> 01:37:57,320 Speaker 1: Like you know people. 2093 01:37:57,439 --> 01:37:59,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, Like that's like, you can call it whatever you 2094 01:37:59,720 --> 01:38:02,360 Speaker 2: want to call it. Uh, but I think that stuff 2095 01:38:02,400 --> 01:38:05,439 Speaker 2: helps people and and it is that you know the 2096 01:38:05,520 --> 01:38:08,200 Speaker 2: extra second you need. So then when you hit us 2097 01:38:08,200 --> 01:38:11,760 Speaker 2: with the love Craft country recap and uh the art 2098 01:38:11,800 --> 01:38:15,080 Speaker 2: of the art of story in Baldwin's words, over those 2099 01:38:15,400 --> 01:38:18,880 Speaker 2: uh parks images got conjured again, I said, these blacks 2100 01:38:18,880 --> 01:38:24,439 Speaker 2: who tippeth the black suit Tippith then gave us exactly 2101 01:38:24,439 --> 01:38:26,680 Speaker 2: what we needed. The world gives us so much to 2102 01:38:26,720 --> 01:38:29,960 Speaker 2: be angry and despair about, countered, often only by our 2103 01:38:30,000 --> 01:38:32,680 Speaker 2: efforts to recognize ways we can find joint piece in it, 2104 01:38:33,240 --> 01:38:35,800 Speaker 2: along with fighting for ways to make it more just. 2105 01:38:36,200 --> 01:38:39,160 Speaker 2: Thanks for always encouraging us, even if it wasn't about meditation, 2106 01:38:39,240 --> 01:38:40,000 Speaker 2: specifically to. 2107 01:38:40,000 --> 01:38:44,360 Speaker 1: Pause, breathe, see and be better. Much love to you both, Julie, 2108 01:38:44,400 --> 01:38:46,120 Speaker 1: Thank you. 2109 01:38:45,880 --> 01:38:49,200 Speaker 2: From the black suit tippeth. Okay, we appreciate you. That's 2110 01:38:49,240 --> 01:38:52,920 Speaker 2: that's uh, that's what's up. All right, that's everything, uh 2111 01:38:53,280 --> 01:38:54,320 Speaker 2: for this week? 2112 01:38:54,880 --> 01:38:55,000 Speaker 6: Uh? 2113 01:38:55,280 --> 01:38:56,200 Speaker 1: Oh wait, we got one more. 2114 01:38:56,240 --> 01:38:58,400 Speaker 2: Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold up, Monique, right, Son, 2115 01:38:59,200 --> 01:39:00,960 Speaker 2: Rod and carram My just my loves. 2116 01:39:00,960 --> 01:39:02,240 Speaker 1: I believe we can win this shit. 2117 01:39:02,520 --> 01:39:06,160 Speaker 2: The underhanded tactics have seen to sour independent voters, so 2118 01:39:06,200 --> 01:39:08,599 Speaker 2: I'm gonna shake my chicken bones and hope that's the trend. 2119 01:39:08,720 --> 01:39:11,639 Speaker 2: Thursday was my birthday, so I was so happy birthday. 2120 01:39:11,640 --> 01:39:14,320 Speaker 2: By the belated birthday, I was so pleased to have 2121 01:39:14,360 --> 01:39:17,120 Speaker 2: the early bday president of seeing her accept that nomination. 2122 01:39:17,240 --> 01:39:19,960 Speaker 2: She rocked her speech. I'm hoping they turn the heat 2123 01:39:20,000 --> 01:39:21,639 Speaker 2: up and let her off the leash. If you will 2124 01:39:22,360 --> 01:39:25,040 Speaker 2: take the fucking gloves off. I'm done with Oh yeah, 2125 01:39:25,080 --> 01:39:28,080 Speaker 2: she called that nigga a predator. I'm done with the 2126 01:39:28,120 --> 01:39:31,200 Speaker 2: politics as usual. Get these voting plans together. Now, that's 2127 01:39:31,240 --> 01:39:34,080 Speaker 2: another thing. For all that I don't go low, but 2128 01:39:34,360 --> 01:39:36,559 Speaker 2: you know I'm not like Michelle Obama. They go hiw 2129 01:39:36,640 --> 01:39:37,200 Speaker 2: we go low. 2130 01:39:37,760 --> 01:39:39,920 Speaker 1: Kamala Harris is that go low person. 2131 01:39:40,400 --> 01:39:44,120 Speaker 7: And y'all, y'all don't like her. Fuck you, fuck you, 2132 01:39:44,120 --> 01:39:46,120 Speaker 7: you're always talking. You don't know what the fuck you want. 2133 01:39:46,840 --> 01:39:48,720 Speaker 7: She will go low on these niggas. She will put 2134 01:39:48,760 --> 01:39:51,559 Speaker 7: them in jail. Okay, let's something happen to Biden. 2135 01:39:51,680 --> 01:39:54,799 Speaker 2: If you win and Kamala be president, all them niggas 2136 01:39:54,840 --> 01:39:57,120 Speaker 2: gonna be leaving the country like, oh no, I'm going 2137 01:39:57,160 --> 01:39:58,160 Speaker 2: to going to. 2138 01:39:58,160 --> 01:40:00,800 Speaker 1: Chilling Bali with your boy Russell. Uh. 2139 01:40:00,920 --> 01:40:02,920 Speaker 2: If you don't think you can count on the postal service, 2140 01:40:02,960 --> 01:40:05,280 Speaker 2: then go in person. Voter in security is such a 2141 01:40:05,280 --> 01:40:08,320 Speaker 2: wild thing right now. I love y'all, Thanks money, and 2142 01:40:08,600 --> 01:40:12,760 Speaker 2: uh yeah, I'll talk more tomorrow, probably about why I 2143 01:40:12,920 --> 01:40:15,400 Speaker 2: think more than ever that Biden will win. 2144 01:40:17,000 --> 01:40:18,000 Speaker 1: Just based on the math. 2145 01:40:18,320 --> 01:40:22,760 Speaker 2: I just, I just, I mean, even the votes they 2146 01:40:22,800 --> 01:40:26,160 Speaker 2: want to suppress are black votes, which I totally understand. 2147 01:40:26,760 --> 01:40:30,719 Speaker 1: But it's a lot of white people that are over. 2148 01:40:30,560 --> 01:40:34,519 Speaker 2: This shit are so it's looking bad for Trump in 2149 01:40:34,560 --> 01:40:37,960 Speaker 2: my opinion, But still take your black ass out and vote. 2150 01:40:38,000 --> 01:40:39,400 Speaker 2: If you listen, to the sound of my voice. Take 2151 01:40:39,439 --> 01:40:42,840 Speaker 2: your whatever ass out and vote. Okay, no excuses. Let's 2152 01:40:42,880 --> 01:40:45,080 Speaker 2: do this, and if you don't do it, you should 2153 01:40:45,080 --> 01:40:47,640 Speaker 2: be ashamed of yourselves. Okay, Because Shane works when I 2154 01:40:47,680 --> 01:40:50,240 Speaker 2: want it to. That's how it works for everybody else. 2155 01:40:51,200 --> 01:40:52,680 Speaker 2: I'll just with you' all right. We'll talk to you 2156 01:40:52,720 --> 01:40:53,439 Speaker 2: all tomorrow too. 2157 01:40:53,840 --> 01:40:55,439 Speaker 1: I love you. Wh