WEBVTT - Ep. 46 Ft. Royce Da 5'9 0:00:02.120 --> 0:00:05.480 West Epics Lift Service at Angel Ye, I'm stephan New Santiago, 0:00:05.640 --> 0:00:08.680 I'm G. G McGuire, I'm Sophie Green and Race the 0:00:08.680 --> 0:00:11.360 five nine is here and I'm Worst the five nine 0:00:12.080 --> 0:00:14.480 or just Race five nine. Now, well you know I 0:00:14.560 --> 0:00:19.720 answered to both. Okay, I'm the honorary fifth member and 0:00:19.760 --> 0:00:24.000 Stephanie is an honorary fifth member of slaughter House. Yes, congratulationships, 0:00:23.960 --> 0:00:28.440 stephaniely slaughtered today, So house forever. All right, Now, you 0:00:28.480 --> 0:00:31.080 know you're a little bit like, Okay, it's gonna throw 0:00:31.080 --> 0:00:32.400 me on the bus, but we usnna have some fun 0:00:32.440 --> 0:00:35.720 with you today. Al Right, nothing's off limits, right, nothing's 0:00:35.760 --> 0:00:37.640 off limits. Just try to go easy on me, try 0:00:37.640 --> 0:00:40.840 to go oh man, all right, all right. We always 0:00:40.840 --> 0:00:42.720 start up with the tip of the day, right, So 0:00:42.800 --> 0:00:44.800 today's tip is how much money do you spend on 0:00:44.800 --> 0:00:46.560 the first date? What you think is the right amount 0:00:46.600 --> 0:00:49.760 of money on the first date with somebody. I don't 0:00:49.800 --> 0:00:52.360 think it's um. I don't think you should go into 0:00:52.440 --> 0:00:55.400 it thinking about it. I agree, I don't think there's 0:00:55.440 --> 0:00:59.080 a right amount, but we're on average. What would you say, like, Okay, 0:00:59.480 --> 0:01:01.319 let's just say you can only bring cash. How much 0:01:01.320 --> 0:01:02.960 cash do you bring for the first date, would you 0:01:03.120 --> 0:01:06.720 approximate I would just shoot to have fun, you know, 0:01:06.840 --> 0:01:09.319 like if I'm with somebody or if I'm by myself, 0:01:09.360 --> 0:01:10.800 I just like to have fun. I just like that 0:01:10.800 --> 0:01:12.440 have a good time. I'm from Detroit, though I'm not 0:01:12.480 --> 0:01:14.720 like a you know what I mean, Like we don't 0:01:14.760 --> 0:01:17.600 really get into the whole tricking and ship, you know, 0:01:17.920 --> 0:01:21.920 but today the first date trick know I'm saying, in 0:01:22.160 --> 0:01:25.400 terms of calling it, we don't. We don't get into 0:01:25.440 --> 0:01:29.800 that first we do. We do what we want to do. 0:01:29.880 --> 0:01:31.560 I like that. So would it be basically how you 0:01:31.560 --> 0:01:33.520 feel towards a woman based you know how much she 0:01:33.600 --> 0:01:36.160 was spending, like spending her think she would? I think 0:01:36.200 --> 0:01:37.760 if you know, if I'm with her, she's just with me. 0:01:37.880 --> 0:01:39.280 She's doing what I want to do. But it's the 0:01:39.400 --> 0:01:41.399 first date. Now. The reason I asked this is because 0:01:41.400 --> 0:01:44.360 I'm baller alert. They had posted this conversation right now. 0:01:44.400 --> 0:01:45.840 The girl said, if you want to see me, plan 0:01:45.880 --> 0:01:47.800 a date worth having. He said, I like to have 0:01:47.840 --> 0:01:49.560 a simple meat and greet to make sure there's a 0:01:49.640 --> 0:01:53.120 mutual interest before planning an extravagant date. That's why I said, 0:01:53.160 --> 0:01:55.520 let's go to Starbucks or something like that, and she said, 0:01:55.560 --> 0:01:57.880 I don't do drinks or coffee, and he said, but 0:01:57.960 --> 0:01:59.360 what do you do? She said, I would much rather 0:01:59.440 --> 0:02:01.440 you meet meet you for a date that you plan 0:02:01.560 --> 0:02:03.480 so I can look good. And he said, sorry, but 0:02:03.560 --> 0:02:05.200 that that's not gonna work for me. Good luck to 0:02:05.240 --> 0:02:10.600 you though, exactly. Yeah, who hang in that situation would 0:02:10.639 --> 0:02:12.840 you say? I mean, I'm not in a position to 0:02:12.880 --> 0:02:14.680 say that he's wrong, you know what I'm saying, Like 0:02:14.720 --> 0:02:18.120 he you never know what his financial situation is, his 0:02:18.200 --> 0:02:21.040 financial situation, you never know what his past history is 0:02:21.080 --> 0:02:23.919 with people, you know, like there's certain things that could 0:02:23.919 --> 0:02:28.919 have happened to automatically stand towards financials. When I hear that, 0:02:29.320 --> 0:02:31.919 I understand what I'm saying. Let's just kind of meet 0:02:31.960 --> 0:02:35.080 in person before we go do something. And I waste 0:02:35.080 --> 0:02:36.720 my time, not even just my money, but I feel 0:02:36.720 --> 0:02:38.680 like my time is more valuable than in the amount 0:02:38.680 --> 0:02:40.080 of money. Of course I can't get there. But then 0:02:40.120 --> 0:02:43.680 he said an extrave again first date. Like she's not saying, Okay, 0:02:43.720 --> 0:02:45.560 I need you to spend hundreds of dollars on me 0:02:45.600 --> 0:02:48.079 and take me somewhere extravagant, but she's saying I don't 0:02:48.120 --> 0:02:50.519 want to just go to Starbucks, like I want you 0:02:50.560 --> 0:02:53.240 to at least make a little effort. They put too 0:02:53.280 --> 0:02:54.920 much thought into it. He should have just been like, hey, 0:02:55.000 --> 0:02:57.280 let's meet off for some goalfee you really quick, and 0:02:57.280 --> 0:03:01.239 then you can't. You're not and then you don't the 0:03:01.320 --> 0:03:03.440 first day, but you know you don't. You don't think 0:03:03.440 --> 0:03:07.000 of it as a first day. You just never never 0:03:07.720 --> 0:03:10.519 look at it like first day exactly. You could be 0:03:10.560 --> 0:03:17.280 out with somebody I don't know I met I just 0:03:17.320 --> 0:03:18.760 when you met her. You should know if you want 0:03:18.760 --> 0:03:20.400 to take her out on the real day or not exactly, 0:03:20.440 --> 0:03:23.400 because you can start bucks to Yeah, but she was 0:03:23.639 --> 0:03:25.880 she was nasty about it, you know, she was nasty. 0:03:26.040 --> 0:03:28.720 She was nasty, Like you don't even deserve to have 0:03:28.800 --> 0:03:30.880 a nice day. Why can't we just meet up? But 0:03:31.400 --> 0:03:34.720 could setting the standard like not pressed up with me, 0:03:34.840 --> 0:03:36.160 you saying you think you could just take me for 0:03:36.440 --> 0:03:38.400 it's our first date. Like I kind of feel like 0:03:38.440 --> 0:03:40.240 sometimes in the first day that guy should be trying 0:03:40.240 --> 0:03:44.400 to like compress order to try to show you, Okay, 0:03:44.720 --> 0:03:47.400 I planned something out and I think that it's important 0:03:47.480 --> 0:03:52.000 enough to make that effortive. It could be Hey, let's 0:03:52.040 --> 0:03:54.240 go to the arcade or you know something fine, but 0:03:54.280 --> 0:03:56.200 playing something I agree with you, and just like you 0:03:56.240 --> 0:03:58.200 know your serd words, it could be her past. She 0:03:58.200 --> 0:04:00.280 could have doubled guys. I just wanted to get her 0:04:00.320 --> 0:04:03.440 dominoes and or I mean, you know, or either get 0:04:03.520 --> 0:04:06.520 on a pizzahead exactly. You don't carry out so baby down. 0:04:06.840 --> 0:04:08.680 So maybe now she's like, look, enough is enough. I 0:04:08.680 --> 0:04:10.880 don't want to know goddamn a kuiato, you know what 0:04:10.920 --> 0:04:12.640 I mean. I don't want some goddamn no. But you 0:04:12.680 --> 0:04:16.800 know he's gonna understand. It's a little crazy to even 0:04:16.880 --> 0:04:19.760 like had that kind of disagreement that so early. Yeah exactly, 0:04:19.760 --> 0:04:21.320 it's like I mean, but just like you said, if 0:04:21.320 --> 0:04:23.760 she hanging with me, she hanging with me, so you know, 0:04:24.880 --> 0:04:28.200 go through the chemistry engine. Don't don't dumb it down. 0:04:28.240 --> 0:04:30.360 If you wouldn't go to Starbucks by yourself, don't try 0:04:30.400 --> 0:04:32.040 to like take her there, you know what I'm saying. No, 0:04:32.080 --> 0:04:35.040 but I think when you do that, like oh, just 0:04:35.080 --> 0:04:36.840 to meet up, like oh where you're at? Oh, I'm 0:04:36.880 --> 0:04:40.159 close wide, let's you know, for some coffee. But this 0:04:40.240 --> 0:04:42.680 is a plan first date, not enough plan for That's 0:04:42.680 --> 0:04:45.039 what I'm thinking, like you're giving yourself a break, like 0:04:45.080 --> 0:04:47.200 you get to see each other regular, you don't have 0:04:47.279 --> 0:04:49.320 to get dressed for that, you know what I mean. 0:04:50.160 --> 0:04:52.479 But the first date, that's not the first date you 0:04:52.520 --> 0:04:58.000 could go into Starbucks is like exactly three day are 0:04:58.880 --> 0:05:01.560 exactly if you've been going like when you ask somebody 0:05:01.640 --> 0:05:03.880 for dinner, you know what I mean, that's the first date. 0:05:04.040 --> 0:05:06.120 You know, I have a dinner. You could judge that 0:05:06.160 --> 0:05:08.560 as a first date, a noble all day and then 0:05:08.880 --> 0:05:11.479 every single day and then Friday you go, yeah, let's 0:05:11.480 --> 0:05:13.359 meet a Starbucks. Because I just want to make sure 0:05:14.320 --> 0:05:19.360 you're not exactly you're getting this pumper brains. This is 0:05:19.880 --> 0:05:22.400 because I don't drink coffee. So if you say let's 0:05:22.400 --> 0:05:24.440 go out, yeah, that's not doesn't really do much for me. 0:05:24.560 --> 0:05:28.599 Doesn't mean anywhere I'm funny, you know, so I'm respect 0:05:28.640 --> 0:05:31.880 I'm declining. Yeah, yeah, I think I think I would 0:05:31.880 --> 0:05:33.880 feel strange. I for guys like my Starbucks want to 0:05:33.880 --> 0:05:37.480 be me at Starbucks. I don't drink coffee. But if 0:05:37.480 --> 0:05:39.080 a guy hit me and was like, hey, I'm at 0:05:39.160 --> 0:05:42.720 John with juice, want to meet me at John? I mean, 0:05:42.760 --> 0:05:50.480 I like exactly exactly. Yeah, have you ever made a 0:05:50.560 --> 0:05:55.280 bad first date impression? I haven't been on many dates really, 0:05:55.320 --> 0:05:58.160 not even in your youth, not really not really like 0:05:58.200 --> 0:06:00.839 I was. I was, I was. I've been with my 0:06:00.880 --> 0:06:05.320 girls since eighteen, so like I went through this long 0:06:05.400 --> 0:06:08.360 thing like I'm anna recovering alcoholic, So like I went 0:06:08.360 --> 0:06:11.839 through ten years of being like an extreme alcoholic. So 0:06:11.880 --> 0:06:15.440 I did like a lot of cheating, really date that much, 0:06:16.200 --> 0:06:20.520 meet girls, like have them come to the shows like that. 0:06:20.720 --> 0:06:22.040 It wasn't like I'm going to take you out. It 0:06:22.080 --> 0:06:24.320 was Yeah, it wasn't. It wasn't never like a drunken SMA. 0:06:24.440 --> 0:06:26.640 I never. I never. I never went through I haven't. 0:06:26.760 --> 0:06:28.919 I can't remember a time where I went through like 0:06:28.960 --> 0:06:32.720 according process, I don't know what that was your first day? 0:06:32.760 --> 0:06:34.160 What about your first day with your wife? Do you 0:06:34.200 --> 0:06:37.880 remember that? Um? Yeah, yeah, yeah. We went to Denny's. 0:06:38.360 --> 0:06:42.440 We went to we were we were eighteen, and I 0:06:42.520 --> 0:06:45.360 remember us going there. It was like it was like 0:06:45.400 --> 0:06:48.080 a double date and um, me and my friend had 0:06:48.120 --> 0:06:52.320 to go to the bathroom and like antie up money. 0:06:53.320 --> 0:06:55.160 We don't know if we had when that check gonna come. 0:06:55.200 --> 0:07:00.000 I don't h I think with you very few minutunderstand 0:07:00.040 --> 0:07:03.480 in how to differentiate between courting sleeping with someone in dating. 0:07:03.520 --> 0:07:05.599 At least you you understand that some people they really 0:07:05.640 --> 0:07:08.159 don't know how to date or how to court. They're like, 0:07:08.200 --> 0:07:09.880 what do you mean courting you? And then they get 0:07:09.920 --> 0:07:12.480 actually turned off. And I know a lot of times 0:07:12.480 --> 0:07:14.160 we all speak about that. A lot of men don't 0:07:14.160 --> 0:07:17.040 know the difference between courting and dating. They just think like, oh, 0:07:17.120 --> 0:07:19.200 let's hang on the Starbucks, like you know, stepping me said, 0:07:19.280 --> 0:07:21.920 and it's just okay, No, it's not like at least John, 0:07:21.960 --> 0:07:24.400 but juice juice press. So it's good that you actually 0:07:24.400 --> 0:07:26.080 know how to do that. Yeah, I think it's good 0:07:26.120 --> 0:07:27.960 to make a good first impression if you if you 0:07:28.200 --> 0:07:30.120 enter that person, you want to make a I mean 0:07:30.200 --> 0:07:33.000 if a guy again, getting back to the Starbucks saying, 0:07:33.120 --> 0:07:35.800 if a guy invited me to anything little like that, 0:07:35.880 --> 0:07:40.240 I wouldn't consider that a date. If you take me 0:07:40.280 --> 0:07:43.880 to Denny's, though, we're good. Yeah, that's a great because 0:07:43.920 --> 0:07:45.960 I remember this guy took me to Red lobsterre when 0:07:46.000 --> 0:07:52.200 I was eighteen, and that he was a barber. He 0:07:52.240 --> 0:07:59.480 had money exactly away that cash right now, we were 0:07:59.480 --> 0:08:01.960 taking me about the earlier. Some people feel like she 0:08:02.040 --> 0:08:04.880 didn't can make your relationships stronger. Do you feel like 0:08:04.920 --> 0:08:07.280 in any way we were discussing this downstairs, that there's 0:08:07.280 --> 0:08:12.840 a way that they can't make your relationship stronger. Hm, 0:08:12.880 --> 0:08:15.120 I don't know about that. I don't know about that. 0:08:15.200 --> 0:08:17.960 I think, No, she's gonna here. She listens to everything 0:08:17.960 --> 0:08:23.960 I do, partly because of cheating, I think. I think, um, 0:08:24.000 --> 0:08:27.440 it's very difficult to bounce back from that in terms 0:08:27.480 --> 0:08:30.760 of her letting it go, like my wife won't. She 0:08:30.800 --> 0:08:32.320 won't let it go. Like I get a lot of 0:08:32.360 --> 0:08:34.880 asking questions about that about guys who are like I 0:08:34.960 --> 0:08:37.160 cheated and now she doesn't trust me. What can I 0:08:37.200 --> 0:08:39.160 do to win her back? So? What? What? What if 0:08:39.160 --> 0:08:41.439 I would you give to a guy who cheated, got 0:08:41.480 --> 0:08:44.160 caught cheated for years? But then you know it's trying 0:08:44.160 --> 0:08:47.079 to do right. It's about the action. It's about the action. 0:08:47.120 --> 0:08:49.920 It's never about the words. Like I think, you start 0:08:49.960 --> 0:08:52.160 off in a relationship, you can build up trust with 0:08:52.200 --> 0:08:55.440 somebody with words, and then if you follow behind that 0:08:55.520 --> 0:08:58.199 with an action it goes against what you said, then 0:08:58.240 --> 0:09:02.320 you automatically have to follow that bad action up with 0:09:02.360 --> 0:09:05.400 a good action in order to reinforce. You can't talk 0:09:05.440 --> 0:09:07.240 your way back into that trust, but you have to 0:09:07.280 --> 0:09:11.360 do it. So I just basically, I mean, she could 0:09:11.360 --> 0:09:13.080 say she believed what you say, but she could just 0:09:13.120 --> 0:09:16.600 be talking, you know, like like we basically raised each other. 0:09:16.720 --> 0:09:19.480 She doesn't really know anything else, you know what I'm saying. 0:09:19.520 --> 0:09:23.600 So it's almost like she probably was afraid to even 0:09:23.720 --> 0:09:26.480 leave me even if she wanted to, because you think, 0:09:26.480 --> 0:09:28.360 to yourself, I've been with this person all these years, 0:09:28.360 --> 0:09:30.160 how could he just do this, you know what I'm saying. 0:09:30.200 --> 0:09:33.800 So now it's like now it's like I had to 0:09:33.960 --> 0:09:36.640 just completely turn my life around. And I didn't just 0:09:36.640 --> 0:09:38.400 do it for her. I did it for my kids, 0:09:38.480 --> 0:09:41.480 and I did it, you know, because I wanted to live. 0:09:44.840 --> 0:09:47.040 It was like it was like a spiritual awakening. That's 0:09:47.080 --> 0:09:49.280 what I call it. Steph. You hung with us before, 0:09:49.280 --> 0:09:51.079 you see, I used to drink like I used to 0:09:51.160 --> 0:09:55.120 drink like not like everybody else. Like it was. How 0:09:55.120 --> 0:09:57.080 do you know the difference between liking to drink a 0:09:57.080 --> 0:09:59.520 lot and being an alcoholic? Like you know, there's a 0:09:59.559 --> 0:10:02.320 fine line. People, you drink so much, you're an alcoholic. 0:10:02.640 --> 0:10:05.280 But an alcoholic is not just somebody who you know, 0:10:05.480 --> 0:10:08.040 likes to drink. It's a little more than that. Yes, 0:10:08.240 --> 0:10:11.280 I'm wired like an addict. I'm wired liked. It's like 0:10:11.320 --> 0:10:15.160 a couple of knes breakfast. My first my first, my 0:10:15.200 --> 0:10:18.760 first addiction. My first addiction was chewing gum in high school. 0:10:20.000 --> 0:10:22.280 So if I don't choot you and gum, I grind 0:10:22.320 --> 0:10:25.559 my teeth. Oh yeah, So like I do everything and 0:10:25.679 --> 0:10:27.679 being just no matter what it is. I ate an 0:10:27.760 --> 0:10:30.280 entire pack of cookies today. I got the cookies. I 0:10:30.440 --> 0:10:32.080 ate one cookie. Once I ate one of them, I 0:10:32.120 --> 0:10:34.120 needed to eat the rest of them. Damn. I do 0:10:34.160 --> 0:10:36.920 stuff like that too. Can actually indulgent. Exactly, when you 0:10:36.920 --> 0:10:38.640 like something, you tend to like one to consume it. 0:10:39.320 --> 0:10:40.920 So if I if I like, if I don't have 0:10:40.960 --> 0:10:43.000 a drink, I don't necessarily need it. But if I 0:10:43.080 --> 0:10:47.480 drink Monday and Tuesday Wednesday, I'm drinking. There's nothing gonna 0:10:47.480 --> 0:10:51.200 stop me from drinking Wednesday. So now my thing is okay, 0:10:51.400 --> 0:10:54.720 I'm not drinking today, not drinking tomorrow, and I just 0:10:54.720 --> 0:10:56.559 take it to day at the time. Right, And it's 0:10:56.559 --> 0:10:59.960 been four years now, almost four years. Congratulationship, thank you. 0:11:00.200 --> 0:11:04.160 That's a big deal. Right, it was necessary it was necessary, 0:11:04.160 --> 0:11:06.640 because I definitely wouldn't if I would have went well, Actually, 0:11:06.679 --> 0:11:08.560 I went to the hospital. I went to the hospital 0:11:08.920 --> 0:11:10.560 and the doctor told me, if I had have went 0:11:10.640 --> 0:11:13.440 two or three more months as hard as I was going, 0:11:13.720 --> 0:11:14.960 then I would have had to get put on the 0:11:15.000 --> 0:11:18.800 donor's list. And when you when you're an alcoholic, he said, 0:11:18.840 --> 0:11:21.160 I would have. I would have been facing irreversible damage. 0:11:21.200 --> 0:11:23.560 And when you're an alcoholic, they automatically put you at 0:11:23.600 --> 0:11:26.440 the bottom, you know what I'm saying, because they feel 0:11:26.440 --> 0:11:28.200 like you did it to yourself. Yeah, and I was 0:11:28.240 --> 0:11:31.760 like right teetering on the brink of losing my family, 0:11:31.840 --> 0:11:35.880 like my girl was just building up enough strength to 0:11:36.000 --> 0:11:38.040 How do you feel You feel healthy? I feel great? 0:11:38.320 --> 0:11:42.520 This is your first sober solo album. Yeah, Well, well 0:11:42.559 --> 0:11:45.040 your solo album? Yeah, I did Prime. I did Prime 0:11:45.040 --> 0:11:48.120 with DJ Premier and um, that was my first solo 0:11:48.200 --> 0:11:49.800 work that I put out. But this is my first 0:11:49.840 --> 0:11:55.000 solo solo, so sober solo album, Layers. So you feel 0:11:55.000 --> 0:11:56.439 like we're gonna learn a lot more about you on 0:11:56.480 --> 0:11:58.120 this because from what I've heard so far, it seems 0:11:58.120 --> 0:11:59.760 like it's a lot more personal as far as you 0:11:59.760 --> 0:12:02.480 talk about things that happened in your life and maybe 0:12:02.559 --> 0:12:04.360 do you see things you feel like more clearly now 0:12:04.440 --> 0:12:06.760 when you go yeah, yeah, I haven't. I haven't really 0:12:06.800 --> 0:12:10.160 been that personal or introspective in the past in my 0:12:10.280 --> 0:12:13.480 career because I spent all my time drinking. So once 0:12:13.520 --> 0:12:15.920 I got sober, all of these memories just started hitting 0:12:15.920 --> 0:12:19.080 me and Ship, it was like I just became immediately introspective. 0:12:19.440 --> 0:12:21.760 I started thinking of like old memories that I thought 0:12:21.800 --> 0:12:24.440 I lost forever from like growing up and ship. It's 0:12:24.440 --> 0:12:27.679 pretty cool. It's pretty cool, like aside from like anxiety 0:12:27.720 --> 0:12:30.440 and like some of the crazy ship that happens to 0:12:30.480 --> 0:12:33.120 you when you when you sober up, it's pretty cool 0:12:33.240 --> 0:12:35.480 just to be for your brain to start working like 0:12:35.520 --> 0:12:37.840 that again. Because it's interesting all the projects that we've 0:12:37.840 --> 0:12:39.600 heard you on, all the groups that you've done, all 0:12:39.640 --> 0:12:41.520 your solo albums, there's a lot of things we didn't 0:12:41.559 --> 0:12:44.400 really know about you, and I feel like from from 0:12:44.400 --> 0:12:45.800 what I've heard so far, I was like, oh, I 0:12:45.840 --> 0:12:48.760 didn't have no idea. It's it's yeah, it'll sunk you 0:12:48.840 --> 0:12:50.679 up a little bit. Like if you if you've been 0:12:50.679 --> 0:12:52.360 following me, you'd be like, wow, we took them so 0:12:52.360 --> 0:12:54.640 long to talk about this because generally artists do that 0:12:54.760 --> 0:12:57.400 their first album. The first album is like, Hi, my 0:12:57.440 --> 0:12:59.840 name is such and such, get to know me. This 0:12:59.880 --> 0:13:01.680 is what you need to know about me. I didn't 0:13:01.679 --> 0:13:03.120 come out the gate like that. I came out the 0:13:03.120 --> 0:13:06.520 gate like Liverpool MC Liverpool, you know man, because that's 0:13:06.559 --> 0:13:07.880 what I wanted to do, you know what I mean. 0:13:07.920 --> 0:13:11.440 So Selfie's like, that's right. I think it's good because 0:13:11.480 --> 0:13:14.600 you know, as an artist myself, it's you know, and 0:13:14.640 --> 0:13:16.720 if you are guarded, you know, it's a lot of 0:13:16.720 --> 0:13:18.600 times people expect you to put our records like that. 0:13:18.679 --> 0:13:20.679 So I think it's dope that you have the gift 0:13:20.760 --> 0:13:23.240 that continues to give, you know, beyond your lyrical ability, 0:13:23.400 --> 0:13:25.120 you know, and work with the names you work with. 0:13:25.200 --> 0:13:27.960 It's like to have that kind of longevity and now 0:13:28.120 --> 0:13:29.839 you get to show people personally, it's like wow, you 0:13:29.880 --> 0:13:32.200 get to open up a different layer basically your you know, 0:13:32.200 --> 0:13:34.559 your conscious level. Now layers. I like that. That was 0:13:34.640 --> 0:13:39.120 like thank you, and I mean I've seen people say, um, 0:13:39.160 --> 0:13:42.520 you know in regards to layers. This is my first 0:13:42.520 --> 0:13:44.480 time really getting into Race to five nine. I had 0:13:44.520 --> 0:13:46.080 no idea. Now I got to go back and listen 0:13:46.080 --> 0:13:48.720 to some of his earlier work. Yeah, and you probably 0:13:48.800 --> 0:13:53.240 like the earlier stuff a little bit better. But I'm 0:13:53.280 --> 0:13:56.000 off for growth. Yeah, yeah, this is this is it's 0:13:56.040 --> 0:13:59.280 definitely growth. If not anything else, it's it's definitely growth. 0:13:59.440 --> 0:14:05.400 It's a hey, other ladies appearing for growth? We need it, right. 0:14:07.920 --> 0:14:13.840 I knew, I knew it was coming. Now. Stephanie had 0:14:13.840 --> 0:14:16.240 a question. We were talking about this downstairs, and uh, 0:14:16.640 --> 0:14:19.240 this is from one of her friends, one of my friends. 0:14:20.000 --> 0:14:24.240 She's in a relationship and you know, she's they get 0:14:24.240 --> 0:14:27.520 along her her boyfriend, they get along and you know 0:14:27.520 --> 0:14:31.320 they've been together for a while. But the sex is 0:14:31.400 --> 0:14:33.840 just it's not as good as it used to be. 0:14:35.320 --> 0:14:39.400 Like he um, it's not terrible, but he's coming really fast. 0:14:40.600 --> 0:14:42.320 So what do you think but say that's a compliment. 0:14:43.000 --> 0:14:44.840 Is that a compliment if a guy comes really fast? 0:14:44.920 --> 0:14:46.640 Or should we be offended? How old is you know 0:14:46.680 --> 0:14:52.000 what we're asking? He Um, he's in his forties? Damn? 0:14:52.200 --> 0:14:53.920 What what what is it to be? What is it 0:14:53.920 --> 0:14:58.000 to be offended about? I don't understand he's coming about 0:14:58.760 --> 0:15:02.000 getting I mean time, I mean what you just said, 0:15:02.040 --> 0:15:05.600 you just said, you said, should we be flattered? I 0:15:05.640 --> 0:15:08.080 know she was saying, should the woman be flattered? Like, 0:15:08.120 --> 0:15:11.760 oh he came fast? I mean my pussy good? Yeah, like, 0:15:11.800 --> 0:15:14.760 oh ship, he came fast. I'm offended because I'm just 0:15:14.800 --> 0:15:18.520 saying here, but I think when you're in he got 0:15:18.520 --> 0:15:21.160 his name's one thing, that's one thing, and it's one 0:15:21.200 --> 0:15:23.160 thing to not try hard enough, and then it's another 0:15:23.200 --> 0:15:26.080 thing to just you know what I'm saying all the time, though, 0:15:26.160 --> 0:15:29.480 come on, I think when you're when you're in a 0:15:29.520 --> 0:15:34.080 committed relationship, you know, when what happens in the beginning 0:15:34.200 --> 0:15:37.680 isn't really what's happening, you know, when you're down the line. Right. 0:15:38.120 --> 0:15:40.960 So this woman doesn't want to cheat, she won't cheat, 0:15:41.120 --> 0:15:44.520 but she's like miserable. She wants sucks. She wants somebody 0:15:44.520 --> 0:15:50.200 to suck her. Right. So they started off, he started off. 0:15:50.600 --> 0:15:53.240 They had like an amazing sucks life. They started up. 0:15:55.960 --> 0:15:57.640 It sounds like they need to have you know, they 0:15:57.680 --> 0:15:59.320 need to just have a talk. So what should she do? 0:15:59.360 --> 0:16:11.120 Should she cheat? Never gonna say girls, girls cheating and disgusting. Wait, 0:16:11.160 --> 0:16:15.720 hold on, no, no, no, no no, But you could 0:16:15.720 --> 0:16:17.480 have understood it. If your body would have cheated on 0:16:17.520 --> 0:16:24.960 you at some point, you would understood it. But after 0:16:25.000 --> 0:16:28.880 everything you were doing, I'm sure you could be like, 0:16:28.800 --> 0:16:31.560 but I could have not kill her and him. There's 0:16:31.600 --> 0:16:34.000 not one man that can stand the fact that his 0:16:34.000 --> 0:16:37.640 woman was with someone with millions of bitches exactly you 0:16:37.680 --> 0:16:39.960 said for years if she stepped out one time, what 0:16:40.000 --> 0:16:42.040 if you always separated like okay, I'm not doing this, 0:16:42.120 --> 0:16:44.880 I'm not working with you. You know what's so crazy? 0:16:44.960 --> 0:16:46.640 Just to add to the cheating things, I'm already said, 0:16:46.640 --> 0:16:48.920 I'll kill you. Um, it's someone that I know right 0:16:48.960 --> 0:16:52.080 now who's in jail. They was actually broken up, like 0:16:52.160 --> 0:16:54.920 they were not together. She stepped out when they were 0:16:54.920 --> 0:16:58.840 not together, and he literally cannot her and some more 0:16:58.840 --> 0:17:02.960 ships and good and all because she had sex while 0:17:02.960 --> 0:17:04.840 they were broken up. So I believe you when you 0:17:04.840 --> 0:17:11.439 said you're killer's not your manager resal but no. But 0:17:11.480 --> 0:17:13.520 he literally now has fifty years for what he did 0:17:13.680 --> 0:17:16.920 happen just because that's because when men and their men 0:17:16.960 --> 0:17:19.200 and their reasoning, like, oh my god, you didn't for 0:17:19.320 --> 0:17:21.119 me because men can't take it. But you know what 0:17:21.160 --> 0:17:24.440 we were saying downstairs, women are better cheaters than men. Yeah, 0:17:24.720 --> 0:17:30.320 but hecause to be times woman's not get hard. Man 0:17:30.480 --> 0:17:32.040 are the ones will get Let me let me ask you, 0:17:33.000 --> 0:17:35.240 y'all think it's cool for women to cheat out of spite? 0:17:35.640 --> 0:17:40.360 And I think I think it. I think I think 0:17:40.400 --> 0:17:42.920 it depends. I'm not saying that it's cool, but it's 0:17:43.000 --> 0:17:45.399 life and exactly that's what I mean. It's not it's 0:17:45.920 --> 0:17:48.520 I'm saying it happens in real life. Yeah, it does happen, 0:17:48.520 --> 0:17:51.040 but I think it's very wrong. But you don't. So 0:17:51.680 --> 0:17:53.960 if a guy is cheating, cheating, cheating, you think I 0:17:54.640 --> 0:17:57.520 stay and take it because that's all. No, I don't 0:17:57.520 --> 0:17:59.240 think she should stay and take it. Yeah, she should 0:17:59.240 --> 0:18:02.199 probably leave, you know, But sometimes it's hard. Listen, let 0:18:02.240 --> 0:18:04.520 me tell you how women leaving relationship a lot. We've 0:18:04.520 --> 0:18:07.720 don't left before you know, we left. We're trying to 0:18:07.720 --> 0:18:11.159 get together, we're trying to figure out what are we 0:18:11.160 --> 0:18:13.399 gonna do next with trash, But like, I need somebody 0:18:13.400 --> 0:18:16.240 to distract me, so I'm not sitting here obsessed over this. 0:18:16.800 --> 0:18:18.920 And that's when you know all the things your man 0:18:18.960 --> 0:18:20.960 won't do steps in. Yeah, but you know that's not 0:18:21.040 --> 0:18:24.840 that's not leaving. That's not leaving, that's staying and cheating. Yeah, 0:18:25.040 --> 0:18:28.119 but sometimes it's with the intention chating. A lot of 0:18:28.119 --> 0:18:31.840 women cheat with the intent to leave. Well, well, I 0:18:31.840 --> 0:18:33.720 could be honest. I've cheated and I left, and the 0:18:33.760 --> 0:18:35.560 person I cheated on him what I left and was 0:18:35.600 --> 0:18:38.359 in relationship with them. I've cheated on. We have a 0:18:38.359 --> 0:18:42.040 little overlap. Sometimes I've cheated on almost every single one 0:18:42.040 --> 0:18:51.920 of my boy reason. I'm sure that I could rate. 0:18:52.040 --> 0:18:54.480 I could reason all of the cheating that I've done, 0:18:55.000 --> 0:18:58.080 but listen to some type of way through alcoholism. I'm 0:18:58.119 --> 0:19:00.720 sure I could reasonably. No, but it's true. I'm sure 0:19:02.760 --> 0:19:05.879 I'm ready to move on. I'm sure. I'm sure I 0:19:05.880 --> 0:19:09.400 could point out trying could point out things. I could 0:19:09.440 --> 0:19:11.359 point out things that I was unhappy with with my 0:19:11.400 --> 0:19:14.040 wife and things that she wasn't doing. I'm sure I could. Yeah, 0:19:14.080 --> 0:19:16.520 But if also stand back to why I wish you 0:19:16.600 --> 0:19:21.520 do those things when she wasn't really being appreciated, Well, 0:19:21.520 --> 0:19:24.439 what about me being appreciated? It's but it's give and 0:19:24.520 --> 0:19:26.720 take it. You can't you can't be like what about me? 0:19:26.800 --> 0:19:28.919 That's like childhood. You have to sit there and you 0:19:28.960 --> 0:19:32.159 have to deal with, you know, hardships and relationships. No, no, no, no, no, 0:19:32.200 --> 0:19:34.639 I'm totally willing to deal with with that. I'm just 0:19:34.800 --> 0:19:37.200 I'm just saying, like, just because she asked your question 0:19:37.200 --> 0:19:38.920 and you said what about me first? Instead of figuring 0:19:38.960 --> 0:19:41.280 out why wasn't why didn't she feel appreciated? No, but 0:19:41.359 --> 0:19:43.359 she was asking me a question in response to what 0:19:43.400 --> 0:19:45.560 I had said to me. I was saying, I was saying, 0:19:45.560 --> 0:19:48.280