Speaker 1: West Epics Lift Service at Angel Ye, I'm stephan New Santiago,
Speaker 1: I'm G. G McGuire, I'm Sophie Green and Race the
Speaker 1: five nine is here and I'm Worst the five nine
Speaker 1: or just Race five nine. Now, well you know I
Speaker 1: answered to both. Okay, I'm the honorary fifth member and
Speaker 1: Stephanie is an honorary fifth member of slaughter House. Yes, congratulationships,
Speaker 1: stephaniely slaughtered today, So house forever. All right, Now, you
Speaker 1: know you're a little bit like, Okay, it's gonna throw
Speaker 1: me on the bus, but we usnna have some fun
Speaker 1: with you today. Al Right, nothing's off limits, right, nothing's
Speaker 1: off limits. Just try to go easy on me, try
Speaker 1: to go oh man, all right, all right. We always
Speaker 1: start up with the tip of the day, right, So
Speaker 1: today's tip is how much money do you spend on
Speaker 1: the first date? What you think is the right amount
Speaker 1: of money on the first date with somebody. I don't
Speaker 1: think it's um. I don't think you should go into
Speaker 1: it thinking about it. I agree, I don't think there's
Speaker 1: a right amount, but we're on average. What would you say, like, Okay,
Speaker 1: let's just say you can only bring cash. How much
Speaker 1: cash do you bring for the first date, would you
Speaker 1: approximate I would just shoot to have fun, you know,
Speaker 1: like if I'm with somebody or if I'm by myself,
Speaker 1: I just like to have fun. I just like that
Speaker 1: have a good time. I'm from Detroit, though I'm not
Speaker 1: like a you know what I mean, Like we don't
Speaker 1: really get into the whole tricking and ship, you know,
Speaker 1: but today the first date trick know I'm saying, in
Speaker 1: terms of calling it, we don't. We don't get into
Speaker 1: that first we do. We do what we want to do.
Speaker 1: I like that. So would it be basically how you
Speaker 1: feel towards a woman based you know how much she
Speaker 1: was spending, like spending her think she would? I think
Speaker 1: if you know, if I'm with her, she's just with me.
Speaker 1: She's doing what I want to do. But it's the
Speaker 1: first date. Now. The reason I asked this is because
Speaker 1: I'm baller alert. They had posted this conversation right now.
Speaker 1: The girl said, if you want to see me, plan
Speaker 1: a date worth having. He said, I like to have
Speaker 1: a simple meat and greet to make sure there's a
Speaker 1: mutual interest before planning an extravagant date. That's why I said,
Speaker 1: let's go to Starbucks or something like that, and she said,
Speaker 1: I don't do drinks or coffee, and he said, but
Speaker 1: what do you do? She said, I would much rather
Speaker 1: you meet meet you for a date that you plan
Speaker 1: so I can look good. And he said, sorry, but
Speaker 1: that that's not gonna work for me. Good luck to
Speaker 1: you though, exactly. Yeah, who hang in that situation would
Speaker 1: you say? I mean, I'm not in a position to
Speaker 1: say that he's wrong, you know what I'm saying, Like
Speaker 1: he you never know what his financial situation is, his
Speaker 1: financial situation, you never know what his past history is
Speaker 1: with people, you know, like there's certain things that could
Speaker 1: have happened to automatically stand towards financials. When I hear that,
Speaker 1: I understand what I'm saying. Let's just kind of meet
Speaker 1: in person before we go do something. And I waste
Speaker 1: my time, not even just my money, but I feel
Speaker 1: like my time is more valuable than in the amount
Speaker 1: of money. Of course I can't get there. But then
Speaker 1: he said an extrave again first date. Like she's not saying, Okay,
Speaker 1: I need you to spend hundreds of dollars on me
Speaker 1: and take me somewhere extravagant, but she's saying I don't
Speaker 1: want to just go to Starbucks, like I want you
Speaker 1: to at least make a little effort. They put too
Speaker 1: much thought into it. He should have just been like, hey,
Speaker 1: let's meet off for some goalfee you really quick, and
Speaker 1: then you can't. You're not and then you don't the
Speaker 1: first day, but you know you don't. You don't think
Speaker 1: of it as a first day. You just never never
Speaker 1: look at it like first day exactly. You could be
Speaker 1: out with somebody I don't know I met I just
Speaker 1: when you met her. You should know if you want
Speaker 1: to take her out on the real day or not exactly,
Speaker 1: because you can start bucks to Yeah, but she was
Speaker 1: she was nasty about it, you know, she was nasty.
Speaker 1: She was nasty, Like you don't even deserve to have
Speaker 1: a nice day. Why can't we just meet up? But
Speaker 1: could setting the standard like not pressed up with me,
Speaker 1: you saying you think you could just take me for
Speaker 1: it's our first date. Like I kind of feel like
Speaker 1: sometimes in the first day that guy should be trying
Speaker 1: to like compress order to try to show you, Okay,
Speaker 1: I planned something out and I think that it's important
Speaker 1: enough to make that effortive. It could be Hey, let's
Speaker 1: go to the arcade or you know something fine, but
Speaker 1: playing something I agree with you, and just like you
Speaker 1: know your serd words, it could be her past. She
Speaker 1: could have doubled guys. I just wanted to get her
Speaker 1: dominoes and or I mean, you know, or either get
Speaker 1: on a pizzahead exactly. You don't carry out so baby down.
Speaker 1: So maybe now she's like, look, enough is enough. I
Speaker 1: don't want to know goddamn a kuiato, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean. I don't want some goddamn no. But you
Speaker 1: know he's gonna understand. It's a little crazy to even
Speaker 1: like had that kind of disagreement that so early. Yeah exactly,
Speaker 1: it's like I mean, but just like you said, if
Speaker 1: she hanging with me, she hanging with me, so you know,
Speaker 1: go through the chemistry engine. Don't don't dumb it down.
Speaker 1: If you wouldn't go to Starbucks by yourself, don't try
Speaker 1: to like take her there, you know what I'm saying. No,
Speaker 1: but I think when you do that, like oh, just
Speaker 1: to meet up, like oh where you're at? Oh, I'm
Speaker 1: close wide, let's you know, for some coffee. But this
Speaker 1: is a plan first date, not enough plan for That's
Speaker 1: what I'm thinking, like you're giving yourself a break, like
Speaker 1: you get to see each other regular, you don't have
Speaker 1: to get dressed for that, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: But the first date, that's not the first date you
Speaker 1: could go into Starbucks is like exactly three day are
Speaker 1: exactly if you've been going like when you ask somebody
Speaker 1: for dinner, you know what I mean, that's the first date.
Speaker 1: You know, I have a dinner. You could judge that
Speaker 1: as a first date, a noble all day and then
Speaker 1: every single day and then Friday you go, yeah, let's
Speaker 1: meet a Starbucks. Because I just want to make sure
Speaker 1: you're not exactly you're getting this pumper brains. This is
Speaker 1: because I don't drink coffee. So if you say let's
Speaker 1: go out, yeah, that's not doesn't really do much for me.
Speaker 1: Doesn't mean anywhere I'm funny, you know, so I'm respect
Speaker 1: I'm declining. Yeah, yeah, I think I think I would
Speaker 1: feel strange. I for guys like my Starbucks want to
Speaker 1: be me at Starbucks. I don't drink coffee. But if
Speaker 1: a guy hit me and was like, hey, I'm at
Speaker 1: John with juice, want to meet me at John? I mean,
Speaker 1: I like exactly exactly. Yeah, have you ever made a
Speaker 1: bad first date impression? I haven't been on many dates really,
Speaker 1: not even in your youth, not really not really like
Speaker 1: I was. I was, I was. I've been with my
Speaker 1: girls since eighteen, so like I went through this long
Speaker 1: thing like I'm anna recovering alcoholic, So like I went
Speaker 1: through ten years of being like an extreme alcoholic. So
Speaker 1: I did like a lot of cheating, really date that much,
Speaker 1: meet girls, like have them come to the shows like that.
Speaker 1: It wasn't like I'm going to take you out. It
Speaker 1: was Yeah, it wasn't. It wasn't never like a drunken SMA.
Speaker 1: I never. I never. I never went through I haven't.
Speaker 1: I can't remember a time where I went through like
Speaker 1: according process, I don't know what that was your first day?
Speaker 1: What about your first day with your wife? Do you
Speaker 1: remember that? Um? Yeah, yeah, yeah. We went to Denny's.
Speaker 1: We went to we were we were eighteen, and I
Speaker 1: remember us going there. It was like it was like
Speaker 1: a double date and um, me and my friend had
Speaker 1: to go to the bathroom and like antie up money.
Speaker 1: We don't know if we had when that check gonna come.
Speaker 1: I don't h I think with you very few minutunderstand
Speaker 1: in how to differentiate between courting sleeping with someone in dating.
Speaker 1: At least you you understand that some people they really
Speaker 1: don't know how to date or how to court. They're like,
Speaker 1: what do you mean courting you? And then they get
Speaker 1: actually turned off. And I know a lot of times
Speaker 1: we all speak about that. A lot of men don't
Speaker 1: know the difference between courting and dating. They just think like, oh,
Speaker 1: let's hang on the Starbucks, like you know, stepping me said,
Speaker 1: and it's just okay, No, it's not like at least John,
Speaker 1: but juice juice press. So it's good that you actually
Speaker 1: know how to do that. Yeah, I think it's good
Speaker 1: to make a good first impression if you if you
Speaker 1: enter that person, you want to make a I mean
Speaker 1: if a guy again, getting back to the Starbucks saying,
Speaker 1: if a guy invited me to anything little like that,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't consider that a date. If you take me
Speaker 1: to Denny's, though, we're good. Yeah, that's a great because
Speaker 1: I remember this guy took me to Red lobsterre when
Speaker 1: I was eighteen, and that he was a barber. He
Speaker 1: had money exactly away that cash right now, we were
Speaker 1: taking me about the earlier. Some people feel like she
Speaker 1: didn't can make your relationships stronger. Do you feel like
Speaker 1: in any way we were discussing this downstairs, that there's
Speaker 1: a way that they can't make your relationship stronger. Hm,
Speaker 1: I don't know about that. I don't know about that.
Speaker 1: I think, No, she's gonna here. She listens to everything
Speaker 1: I do, partly because of cheating, I think. I think, um,
Speaker 1: it's very difficult to bounce back from that in terms
Speaker 1: of her letting it go, like my wife won't. She
Speaker 1: won't let it go. Like I get a lot of
Speaker 1: asking questions about that about guys who are like I
Speaker 1: cheated and now she doesn't trust me. What can I
Speaker 1: do to win her back? So? What? What? What if
Speaker 1: I would you give to a guy who cheated, got
Speaker 1: caught cheated for years? But then you know it's trying
Speaker 1: to do right. It's about the action. It's about the action.
Speaker 1: It's never about the words. Like I think, you start
Speaker 1: off in a relationship, you can build up trust with
Speaker 1: somebody with words, and then if you follow behind that
Speaker 1: with an action it goes against what you said, then
Speaker 1: you automatically have to follow that bad action up with
Speaker 1: a good action in order to reinforce. You can't talk
Speaker 1: your way back into that trust, but you have to
Speaker 1: do it. So I just basically, I mean, she could
Speaker 1: say she believed what you say, but she could just
Speaker 1: be talking, you know, like like we basically raised each other.
Speaker 1: She doesn't really know anything else, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So it's almost like she probably was afraid to even
Speaker 1: leave me even if she wanted to, because you think,
Speaker 1: to yourself, I've been with this person all these years,
Speaker 1: how could he just do this, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So now it's like now it's like I had to
Speaker 1: just completely turn my life around. And I didn't just
Speaker 1: do it for her. I did it for my kids,
Speaker 1: and I did it, you know, because I wanted to live.
Speaker 1: It was like it was like a spiritual awakening. That's
Speaker 1: what I call it. Steph. You hung with us before,
Speaker 1: you see, I used to drink like I used to
Speaker 1: drink like not like everybody else. Like it was. How
Speaker 1: do you know the difference between liking to drink a
Speaker 1: lot and being an alcoholic? Like you know, there's a
Speaker 1: fine line. People, you drink so much, you're an alcoholic.
Speaker 1: But an alcoholic is not just somebody who you know,
Speaker 1: likes to drink. It's a little more than that. Yes,
Speaker 1: I'm wired like an addict. I'm wired liked. It's like
Speaker 1: a couple of knes breakfast. My first my first, my
Speaker 1: first addiction. My first addiction was chewing gum in high school.
Speaker 1: So if I don't choot you and gum, I grind
Speaker 1: my teeth. Oh yeah, So like I do everything and
Speaker 1: being just no matter what it is. I ate an
Speaker 1: entire pack of cookies today. I got the cookies. I
Speaker 1: ate one cookie. Once I ate one of them, I
Speaker 1: needed to eat the rest of them. Damn. I do
Speaker 1: stuff like that too. Can actually indulgent. Exactly, when you
Speaker 1: like something, you tend to like one to consume it.
Speaker 1: So if I if I like, if I don't have
Speaker 1: a drink, I don't necessarily need it. But if I
Speaker 1: drink Monday and Tuesday Wednesday, I'm drinking. There's nothing gonna
Speaker 1: stop me from drinking Wednesday. So now my thing is okay,
Speaker 1: I'm not drinking today, not drinking tomorrow, and I just
Speaker 1: take it to day at the time. Right, And it's
Speaker 1: been four years now, almost four years. Congratulationship, thank you.
Speaker 1: That's a big deal. Right, it was necessary it was necessary,
Speaker 1: because I definitely wouldn't if I would have went well, Actually,
Speaker 1: I went to the hospital. I went to the hospital
Speaker 1: and the doctor told me, if I had have went
Speaker 1: two or three more months as hard as I was going,
Speaker 1: then I would have had to get put on the
Speaker 1: donor's list. And when you when you're an alcoholic, he said,
Speaker 1: I would have. I would have been facing irreversible damage.
Speaker 1: And when you're an alcoholic, they automatically put you at
Speaker 1: the bottom, you know what I'm saying, because they feel
Speaker 1: like you did it to yourself. Yeah, and I was
Speaker 1: like right teetering on the brink of losing my family,
Speaker 1: like my girl was just building up enough strength to
Speaker 1: How do you feel You feel healthy? I feel great?
Speaker 1: This is your first sober solo album. Yeah, Well, well
Speaker 1: your solo album? Yeah, I did Prime. I did Prime
Speaker 1: with DJ Premier and um, that was my first solo
Speaker 1: work that I put out. But this is my first
Speaker 1: solo solo, so sober solo album, Layers. So you feel
Speaker 1: like we're gonna learn a lot more about you on
Speaker 1: this because from what I've heard so far, it seems
Speaker 1: like it's a lot more personal as far as you
Speaker 1: talk about things that happened in your life and maybe
Speaker 1: do you see things you feel like more clearly now
Speaker 1: when you go yeah, yeah, I haven't. I haven't really
Speaker 1: been that personal or introspective in the past in my
Speaker 1: career because I spent all my time drinking. So once
Speaker 1: I got sober, all of these memories just started hitting
Speaker 1: me and Ship, it was like I just became immediately introspective.
Speaker 1: I started thinking of like old memories that I thought
Speaker 1: I lost forever from like growing up and ship. It's
Speaker 1: pretty cool. It's pretty cool, like aside from like anxiety
Speaker 1: and like some of the crazy ship that happens to
Speaker 1: you when you when you sober up, it's pretty cool
Speaker 1: just to be for your brain to start working like
Speaker 1: that again. Because it's interesting all the projects that we've
Speaker 1: heard you on, all the groups that you've done, all
Speaker 1: your solo albums, there's a lot of things we didn't
Speaker 1: really know about you, and I feel like from from
Speaker 1: what I've heard so far, I was like, oh, I
Speaker 1: didn't have no idea. It's it's yeah, it'll sunk you
Speaker 1: up a little bit. Like if you if you've been
Speaker 1: following me, you'd be like, wow, we took them so
Speaker 1: long to talk about this because generally artists do that
Speaker 1: their first album. The first album is like, Hi, my
Speaker 1: name is such and such, get to know me. This
Speaker 1: is what you need to know about me. I didn't
Speaker 1: come out the gate like that. I came out the
Speaker 1: gate like Liverpool MC Liverpool, you know man, because that's
Speaker 1: what I wanted to do, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: So Selfie's like, that's right. I think it's good because
Speaker 1: you know, as an artist myself, it's you know, and
Speaker 1: if you are guarded, you know, it's a lot of
Speaker 1: times people expect you to put our records like that.
Speaker 1: So I think it's dope that you have the gift
Speaker 1: that continues to give, you know, beyond your lyrical ability,
Speaker 1: you know, and work with the names you work with.
Speaker 1: It's like to have that kind of longevity and now
Speaker 1: you get to show people personally, it's like wow, you
Speaker 1: get to open up a different layer basically your you know,
Speaker 1: your conscious level. Now layers. I like that. That was
Speaker 1: like thank you, and I mean I've seen people say, um,
Speaker 1: you know in regards to layers. This is my first
Speaker 1: time really getting into Race to five nine. I had
Speaker 1: no idea. Now I got to go back and listen
Speaker 1: to some of his earlier work. Yeah, and you probably
Speaker 1: like the earlier stuff a little bit better. But I'm
Speaker 1: off for growth. Yeah, yeah, this is this is it's
Speaker 1: definitely growth. If not anything else, it's it's definitely growth.
Speaker 1: It's a hey, other ladies appearing for growth? We need it, right.
Speaker 1: I knew, I knew it was coming. Now. Stephanie had
Speaker 1: a question. We were talking about this downstairs, and uh,
Speaker 1: this is from one of her friends, one of my friends.
Speaker 1: She's in a relationship and you know, she's they get
Speaker 1: along her her boyfriend, they get along and you know
Speaker 1: they've been together for a while. But the sex is
Speaker 1: just it's not as good as it used to be.
Speaker 1: Like he um, it's not terrible, but he's coming really fast.
Speaker 1: So what do you think but say that's a compliment.
Speaker 1: Is that a compliment if a guy comes really fast?
Speaker 1: Or should we be offended? How old is you know
Speaker 1: what we're asking? He Um, he's in his forties? Damn?
Speaker 1: What what what is it to be? What is it
Speaker 1: to be offended about? I don't understand he's coming about
Speaker 1: getting I mean time, I mean what you just said,
Speaker 1: you just said, you said, should we be flattered? I
Speaker 1: know she was saying, should the woman be flattered? Like,
Speaker 1: oh he came fast? I mean my pussy good? Yeah, like,
Speaker 1: oh ship, he came fast. I'm offended because I'm just
Speaker 1: saying here, but I think when you're in he got
Speaker 1: his name's one thing, that's one thing, and it's one
Speaker 1: thing to not try hard enough, and then it's another
Speaker 1: thing to just you know what I'm saying all the time, though,
Speaker 1: come on, I think when you're when you're in a
Speaker 1: committed relationship, you know, when what happens in the beginning
Speaker 1: isn't really what's happening, you know, when you're down the line. Right.
Speaker 1: So this woman doesn't want to cheat, she won't cheat,
Speaker 1: but she's like miserable. She wants sucks. She wants somebody
Speaker 1: to suck her. Right. So they started off, he started off.
Speaker 1: They had like an amazing sucks life. They started up.
Speaker 1: It sounds like they need to have you know, they
Speaker 1: need to just have a talk. So what should she do?
Speaker 1: Should she cheat? Never gonna say girls, girls cheating and disgusting. Wait,
Speaker 1: hold on, no, no, no, no no, But you could
Speaker 1: have understood it. If your body would have cheated on
Speaker 1: you at some point, you would understood it. But after
Speaker 1: everything you were doing, I'm sure you could be like,
Speaker 1: but I could have not kill her and him. There's
Speaker 1: not one man that can stand the fact that his
Speaker 1: woman was with someone with millions of bitches exactly you
Speaker 1: said for years if she stepped out one time, what
Speaker 1: if you always separated like okay, I'm not doing this,
Speaker 1: I'm not working with you. You know what's so crazy?
Speaker 1: Just to add to the cheating things, I'm already said,
Speaker 1: I'll kill you. Um, it's someone that I know right
Speaker 1: now who's in jail. They was actually broken up, like
Speaker 1: they were not together. She stepped out when they were
Speaker 1: not together, and he literally cannot her and some more
Speaker 1: ships and good and all because she had sex while
Speaker 1: they were broken up. So I believe you when you
Speaker 1: said you're killer's not your manager resal but no. But
Speaker 1: he literally now has fifty years for what he did
Speaker 1: happen just because that's because when men and their men
Speaker 1: and their reasoning, like, oh my god, you didn't for
Speaker 1: me because men can't take it. But you know what
Speaker 1: we were saying downstairs, women are better cheaters than men. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but hecause to be times woman's not get hard. Man
Speaker 1: are the ones will get Let me let me ask you,
Speaker 1: y'all think it's cool for women to cheat out of spite?
Speaker 1: And I think I think it. I think I think
Speaker 1: it depends. I'm not saying that it's cool, but it's
Speaker 1: life and exactly that's what I mean. It's not it's
Speaker 1: I'm saying it happens in real life. Yeah, it does happen,
Speaker 1: but I think it's very wrong. But you don't. So
Speaker 1: if a guy is cheating, cheating, cheating, you think I
Speaker 1: stay and take it because that's all. No, I don't
Speaker 1: think she should stay and take it. Yeah, she should
Speaker 1: probably leave, you know, But sometimes it's hard. Listen, let
Speaker 1: me tell you how women leaving relationship a lot. We've
Speaker 1: don't left before you know, we left. We're trying to
Speaker 1: get together, we're trying to figure out what are we
Speaker 1: gonna do next with trash, But like, I need somebody
Speaker 1: to distract me, so I'm not sitting here obsessed over this.
Speaker 1: And that's when you know all the things your man
Speaker 1: won't do steps in. Yeah, but you know that's not
Speaker 1: that's not leaving. That's not leaving, that's staying and cheating. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but sometimes it's with the intention chating. A lot of
Speaker 1: women cheat with the intent to leave. Well, well, I
Speaker 1: could be honest. I've cheated and I left, and the
Speaker 1: person I cheated on him what I left and was
Speaker 1: in relationship with them. I've cheated on. We have a
Speaker 1: little overlap. Sometimes I've cheated on almost every single one
Speaker 1: of my boy reason. I'm sure that I could rate.
Speaker 1: I could reason all of the cheating that I've done,
Speaker 1: but listen to some type of way through alcoholism. I'm
Speaker 1: sure I could reasonably. No, but it's true. I'm sure
Speaker 1: I'm ready to move on. I'm sure. I'm sure I
Speaker 1: could point out trying could point out things. I could
Speaker 1: point out things that I was unhappy with with my
Speaker 1: wife and things that she wasn't doing. I'm sure I could. Yeah,
Speaker 1: But if also stand back to why I wish you
Speaker 1: do those things when she wasn't really being appreciated, Well,
Speaker 1: what about me being appreciated? It's but it's give and
Speaker 1: take it. You can't you can't be like what about me?
Speaker 1: That's like childhood. You have to sit there and you
Speaker 1: have to deal with, you know, hardships and relationships. No, no, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: I'm totally willing to deal with with that. I'm just
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, like, just because she asked your question
Speaker 1: and you said what about me first? Instead of figuring
Speaker 1: out why wasn't why didn't she feel appreciated? No, but
Speaker 1: she was asking me a question in response to what
Speaker 1: I had said to me. I was saying, I was saying,
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure that I can reason, because you guys
Speaker 1: were reasoning cheating, right, and what I'm saying, I'm sure
Speaker 1: I could reason on my side too, Yeah, because there
Speaker 1: were a lot of factors with me too, like I
Speaker 1: never cheated on my girl before I are the drinking.
Speaker 1: How many years with that? You don't want to be
Speaker 1: asking I started drinking, we would together, actually were together
Speaker 1: in high school, and then like after, you know, after
Speaker 1: I started drinking, that's when I started pretty much becoming
Speaker 1: a shell of myself. That has to be hard to
Speaker 1: be with somebody. And you're watching them like do these
Speaker 1: things and you're concerned about them, But at the same time,
Speaker 1: you're like, I don't want to take this, but I think, well,
Speaker 1: I know I have a problem, Like I have a problem.
Speaker 1: I have a drinking problem, and it caused me to
Speaker 1: make a lot of bad decisions. So I think for
Speaker 1: her to, out of spite or whatever it is, cheat
Speaker 1: on me in return, I think that would be wrong. Well,
Speaker 1: it might not necessarily be out of spite. It's an
Speaker 1: emotional thing. I think sometimes women cheat. It's not like
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do this and his whole head up. You
Speaker 1: might be like, I don't feel like I'm loved I
Speaker 1: feel like I need somebody to treat me well. I
Speaker 1: want somebody to take care of me, treat me good,
Speaker 1: and somebody I slide in there because literally, you know,
Speaker 1: it's an emotional thing, right, I don't know necessarily like
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get him back. Yeah, like if she had
Speaker 1: too much time, you're boring the last one on women cheats,
Speaker 1: she's just alone all the time. Yeah, well she should
Speaker 1: never let me find out. Girl the text funny, I'd
Speaker 1: never go through a phone. No, no, no, you know
Speaker 1: I think that's bad. Betty Wap actually said something like
Speaker 1: you said. I saw on the internet this week that
Speaker 1: he said, you know what kind of game is this
Speaker 1: when girls are getting way of pussy and I'm like,
Speaker 1: now here here, here, come on now, I mean you're
Speaker 1: having a lot of kids, Like, you can't say that
Speaker 1: it's funny how the double standards work. It's so funny, child, right,
Speaker 1: we can't do anything we can't do. Like, man, I'm
Speaker 1: in the room full of women, I can't. I think.
Speaker 1: I think I get it though, you know, we all
Speaker 1: understand each other's side. That's all. Y'all understand your side,
Speaker 1: and I understand what y'are saying. I get it because
Speaker 1: usually I'm in a room full of men and getting
Speaker 1: slater called hit little water water. No, I'm definitely get it.
Speaker 1: Y'all put up with a lot. That's why I feel
Speaker 1: like women should be put up on the pedestal. I
Speaker 1: really do. I really do. You guys do put up
Speaker 1: with a lot. But you know, I do think sometimes
Speaker 1: y'all don't understand our side, and I'll spend I stop
Speaker 1: spending a lot of time trying to explain I really did.
Speaker 1: I just was like, all right, man, she's not going
Speaker 1: to ever get it because we're wired different. Well, I
Speaker 1: agree with that. I mean, listen, I say this. I
Speaker 1: know I'm around guys all the time, clearly, like I
Speaker 1: work with all guys. I've always worked around guys, so
Speaker 1: I feel like I hear a lot about what goes
Speaker 1: on and I witnessed a lot, so I think about
Speaker 1: things differently because I've seen guys who have been in relationships,
Speaker 1: been married, cheated, and then managed to make their marriage
Speaker 1: work after that. Now, as a woman, you might say, oh,
Speaker 1: if he cheats me, I'm leaving him. I'm leaving him.
Speaker 1: But that's not necessarily true, you know, So I can't
Speaker 1: agree with that. But I also feel like a woman
Speaker 1: if a man, she's telling you, men feel like women
Speaker 1: need to stick by their man and stop leaving them
Speaker 1: so easily. But I also feel like, if you cheat,
Speaker 1: you don't know if she's gonna stay or not. Maybe
Speaker 1: she will, maybe she won't. It's really her choice, her decision,
Speaker 1: and it's based on how you treat her afterward and
Speaker 1: how she feels. You know. I agree with that. I
Speaker 1: agree with that, and I don't. I don't know if
Speaker 1: I'm doing such a great job with my situation, why
Speaker 1: are you saying that? I mean, I don't know. I
Speaker 1: don't know. She's still she's still. You would think like
Speaker 1: with the changes that I've made, she'd be like ecstatic,
Speaker 1: But but it's hard to erase all those years. And
Speaker 1: I say this because I always say this too. If
Speaker 1: a woman decides to stay with a man after he's
Speaker 1: cheated and they agree to work it out. She kind
Speaker 1: of has to let those things you have to agree with,
Speaker 1: your man still has a lot to prove. That's one
Speaker 1: I think it's, you know, it's behind us and everything
Speaker 1: is good. We have like an argument about something, even
Speaker 1: if it's an argument about something that she that I
Speaker 1: feel she's not doing, it's just like a mind back
Speaker 1: on her defense mechanism. She put the guard up like this,
Speaker 1: every everything comes back again, and it's just be like, oh,
Speaker 1: do you think you have any room to ever say
Speaker 1: anything back based upon what you've done her? I think
Speaker 1: I should always have room to say things back if
Speaker 1: this is, you know, if we're having a conversation and
Speaker 1: we were in a relationship, right, But sometimes you gotta
Speaker 1: just swallow your path. Just be like, you know what,
Speaker 1: she's still with me, she took me back. Let me
Speaker 1: just shut the funk up and right. And I don't
Speaker 1: get you don't get to use that. You don't get
Speaker 1: to use that as a crush to be able to
Speaker 1: do anything you want to do. I don't think it's
Speaker 1: a crutch. I think it's more so like what Angela said,
Speaker 1: if she's taking you back after she's dealt with years
Speaker 1: of something, even if it was something from something that
Speaker 1: was enabling you, you know, rather hurting you. The point
Speaker 1: that she did that, I think that gives her a
Speaker 1: get out of job. It's probably still difficult for everything. No,
Speaker 1: not for everything, but I think for as many years
Speaker 1: if you, I don't know as many years, but as
Speaker 1: many years as you've done that in effect to her,
Speaker 1: I think she needs that year's plus. But I feel
Speaker 1: like sometimes it's hard, Like listen, I know guys who
Speaker 1: wanted to stay with that women but found it difficult
Speaker 1: to do so because of the stress of trying to
Speaker 1: win her back and make her trust you again. Sometimes
Speaker 1: it makes you feel like I don't even know if
Speaker 1: I want to do this right exactly, of course. So
Speaker 1: that's something that women have to take into consideration too,
Speaker 1: because if a man is trying to change and make
Speaker 1: those changes, while it's difficult for us and we want
Speaker 1: to bring up every little ship thing you did when
Speaker 1: you leave the cap off the toothpaste, and we're bringing
Speaker 1: up whatever it is, I'm gonna just go ahead and
Speaker 1: fight it out, because don't fight though, this is what
Speaker 1: I'm saying I'm just gonna go ahead and thug it
Speaker 1: out with my wife. I don't I don't wish to
Speaker 1: go through none of this ship again with a whole
Speaker 1: another person's And that was one of the questions that
Speaker 1: we actually had right and we were talking about this,
Speaker 1: would you what's the better dealing with somebody that you're
Speaker 1: comfortable with or taking a risk with somebody new. I
Speaker 1: don't want to start over once I once, I had
Speaker 1: a once, I had a few side tricks to start
Speaker 1: acting like my girl just going back to the old
Speaker 1: battle acts in to a certain point with someone. Once
Speaker 1: you're like long term with someone, it has to take.
Speaker 1: It's gonna take like a whole lot to just be like, okay,
Speaker 1: I'm done. Like it's hard to just move on when
Speaker 1: you're comfortable with someone and you're just used to be
Speaker 1: in a certain way and just you know, that comfortability
Speaker 1: factor is a big factor. And starting over, Jess, you
Speaker 1: tried it. I just tried it, and I'm back, always back.
Speaker 1: I'm like moved out and it was it was horrible
Speaker 1: and I was still in love. I never felt out.
Speaker 1: That's what it was so for her, and I think
Speaker 1: it's difficult to me when you're in love with someone
Speaker 1: that's genuine. Yeah, I never felt out of love. I tried.
Speaker 1: I tried to make him the scumbag of the world.
Speaker 1: I try to make him like the worst person ever
Speaker 1: in my head, and I just my heart wouldn't let
Speaker 1: me and we just ended up being bare. But do
Speaker 1: you still bring up stuff that happened in the past.
Speaker 1: I try not to, but sometimes I can't help it.
Speaker 1: He's human. He bring up step too, though, So absolutely, yeah,
Speaker 1: do you bring it? Do you bring it up just
Speaker 1: when you don't want to be wrong about something that
Speaker 1: you know you did wrong. No, it's usually when he
Speaker 1: on some bullshit and I just do someone on top
Speaker 1: of it. Like, I don't forget you. I think g N.
Speaker 1: I think your relationship is pretty normal. I don't think
Speaker 1: that they go through too much like the relationships you
Speaker 1: guys were previously speaking about just now, Like it sounds
Speaker 1: like these relationships are just heavy and they're hard and
Speaker 1: not good, Like these type of relationships you need to
Speaker 1: move on from. Like when you're in a relationship with
Speaker 1: somebody and you're always bringing up the past, that's never
Speaker 1: gonna work. Yeah, but it ain't, you know, like hours
Speaker 1: and then one day when you're trying to grow with somebody,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, you have to you have
Speaker 1: to accept all their all their flaws and all their mistakes,
Speaker 1: because just like they're going to accept yours. But did
Speaker 1: you have some rules? Like okay? Is she like okay?
Speaker 1: In order for me to feel more comfortable, this is
Speaker 1: what I need you to do, like things that you
Speaker 1: don't need to do, like okay, every night, we need
Speaker 1: to face time when you're on the road, or are
Speaker 1: there things like that? Or do you bring her out
Speaker 1: to dates more often? Like what are there things that
Speaker 1: you do differently now to try to prove it? Yeah,
Speaker 1: she's bringing some things on me, like she wants me
Speaker 1: to be like this romantic guy. Now, nothing wrong with that.
Speaker 1: I'm not saying. I'm not saying there's nothing wrong with
Speaker 1: I just it's just an adjustment for me, that's all.
Speaker 1: So you wo're never romantic, you would say, she says
Speaker 1: I was, But I'm like, I'm like the li the
Speaker 1: liquor like mess my brain up so much I can
Speaker 1: barely remember, Like I'm like, damn, what did I used
Speaker 1: to do? Because yeah, whatever this is, I gotta, I
Speaker 1: gotta I gotta get it back innocent love. Yeah, it's
Speaker 1: like she yeah, she did. She paints this picture of
Speaker 1: me like I was just the sweetest kid, probably on
Speaker 1: the road and you know hip hip hop. Do you
Speaker 1: think it's expected They're like, Okay, you're dating a rapper
Speaker 1: who's successful. It just kind of comes to the territory. Um. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I think that that's the consensus. But that's not true.
Speaker 1: I don't think. I don't think it has It doesn't
Speaker 1: have to come with the territory. It doesn't. And my son,
Speaker 1: my son is a producer. He wants to be an artist.
Speaker 1: So that's that's gonna get that's gonna get preached. Yeah, yep.
Speaker 1: So you know, like there's a lot of things that
Speaker 1: people think come along with the business. It's not true.
Speaker 1: Did your kids feel away towards you, like when things
Speaker 1: were going on, did they know where they like? I
Speaker 1: think I dodged the bullet. I think I dodged the bullet.
Speaker 1: That means she's a game exactly Why because if she
Speaker 1: Because sometimes mothers will tell their kids that your daddy
Speaker 1: ain't shit, you know he did this are a guy
Speaker 1: friend of that? Yeah, I mean we wouldn't be together.
Speaker 1: She was that kind of person. She's a person, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So it's like that's why we
Speaker 1: still we're still together. She deserves everything with no comment,
Speaker 1: not that much lip bad what I mean with lip
Speaker 1: I'm I'm doing. You know, I'm trying. I'm trying to
Speaker 1: know she wants to get complimented more. I gotta work
Speaker 1: on that. I got that's normal. I gotta work on
Speaker 1: that thinking in your head, but don't say it out loud. No,
Speaker 1: I just I just figure, you know, like here, yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, we like that. We like you want to hear, right,
Speaker 1: and especially when you notice, like a new hairstyle like that,
Speaker 1: because I bet you noticed if she don't wax her
Speaker 1: m you noticed that. I know I noticed everything. She
Speaker 1: just she just you know, she just wants everything her
Speaker 1: way right now. That's that's all. It's cool. I don't
Speaker 1: know if you say that. I think I think she
Speaker 1: just wants to feel appreciate it. Let's not say her wife.
Speaker 1: She is appreciated. Well, that's good. I love her lots.
Speaker 1: Do you think there's anything that you can do to
Speaker 1: prevent somebody from cheating on you? Like? Is there something
Speaker 1: for the women here? What can we do to prevent
Speaker 1: our men from everybody's sacking their head? No, nothing, What
Speaker 1: can you do to prevent a man from cheating? Is
Speaker 1: there any clone yourself? Because you do every same time
Speaker 1: and throw yourself at home fifteen times like dark some
Speaker 1: kind of We feel like we do everything for you,
Speaker 1: But why is he still cheating? Is there anything we
Speaker 1: can do good? Pussy's new pussy even if it's whack.
Speaker 1: It just depends on what kind of what kind of guy.
Speaker 1: It depends on what kind of guy you got. You
Speaker 1: gotta just you gotta be mindful to always be fair
Speaker 1: for him. And one thing women don't realize is women
Speaker 1: get irritating. Like y'all don't mind being irritating at the
Speaker 1: wrong times. Irritation less irritation can stop a man from
Speaker 1: even thinking about cheating. But what irritates you? I don't like,
Speaker 1: just like I don't like get calls while I'm working
Speaker 1: about things that are not that important, that aren't more
Speaker 1: important than work. Stop, don't stop my studio session to
Speaker 1: argue with me via text about some bullshit. Yeah, like
Speaker 1: I don't. I hate that, but that's not gonna drive
Speaker 1: me the sheet. But when I was drinking it would
Speaker 1: be like this irritation stress, you know, when you're running
Speaker 1: around and you you know, you're opening yourself up to
Speaker 1: all of these, you know, different people. You know, you
Speaker 1: got all these different girls calling your phone. They all
Speaker 1: act like that. They want to be exactly what your
Speaker 1: wife ain't. They want to be the perfect They want
Speaker 1: to be the perfect girl in the beginning, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. They want to be like they say,
Speaker 1: they know, they try to say the right ship and
Speaker 1: they do everything. You just be you just be drunk
Speaker 1: like okay, you know what, I'm help me, you know,
Speaker 1: So that would be my that would be my That
Speaker 1: would be my suggestion, trying to be trying not to
Speaker 1: be irritating, like don't nitpick and that it don't be
Speaker 1: too nitpicky about everything. I know it's kind of in
Speaker 1: women's nature to do that, and I understand that, but
Speaker 1: just scale back a little bit now. Interestingly enough, this
Speaker 1: was what I found might be difficult to overcome. You
Speaker 1: did have a sex tape that had to be hard
Speaker 1: for her to even you know, have to see because
Speaker 1: that was online. Yeah, I mean, if that's what you
Speaker 1: want to call that ship, I mean, you was in
Speaker 1: one position the whole time. I was just I was
Speaker 1: just like I I was just drunk, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. I was just like I wasn't even I
Speaker 1: don't even remember that ship, you know what I'm saying, Like,
Speaker 1: I wasn't even that was Yeah, that's all that was.
Speaker 1: Grace is just gonna blame everything on the I'm not
Speaker 1: he saying, but he really had a disease. He's one
Speaker 1: of the hospital. No I'm saying. I'm saying, if that's
Speaker 1: what you would call that ship sex tape, the sex
Speaker 1: tape is like that sex tape is like fucking the
Speaker 1: ship everything that I'm like, well, you shocked me. That
Speaker 1: came out like damn it. I wasn't really shocked. I
Speaker 1: wasn't really shocked. It was just like okay, here we go, okay, okay.
Speaker 1: Now I'm like, I'm like, yeah, now you're really Now
Speaker 1: you're really doing it now, sir. And the thing is,
Speaker 1: I got like a call from a side girl. First, like, man,
Speaker 1: I worry about my wife, I worried about my fucking
Speaker 1: my first love finding out, and here you go calling me.
Speaker 1: I could do without you right now, you know. So
Speaker 1: I was I was thinking about that and it was
Speaker 1: just like that was one of the things that made
Speaker 1: me like I decided. It was like, you know, all right,
Speaker 1: now I'm real big on the hohope. I don't want
Speaker 1: to be corny. It's one thing to have a problem,
Speaker 1: you know, you got a problem, but now this is
Speaker 1: just corny. You know what I'm saying, Like, I can't.
Speaker 1: I can't be that guy. And then my son is
Speaker 1: he was in middle school at the time, because I
Speaker 1: remember having to talk to him, like I went home
Speaker 1: and he was like I asked him how he felt,
Speaker 1: and he was like, why did you do it? Dad?
Speaker 1: You know, and it was like I can't even remember
Speaker 1: what I said to him, but I vowed like my daughters,
Speaker 1: my daughter was just my daughter was really young. And
Speaker 1: then I've since and had a daughter because it was like,
Speaker 1: as soon as I got sober, it was like kids everywhere.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Yeah, so now I got
Speaker 1: young baby daughters, and when they get in middle school,
Speaker 1: I cannot be on the internet with my balls hanging
Speaker 1: out on the couch in a hotel. So do you
Speaker 1: think the sex safe effect of your career it affected
Speaker 1: your life affect in my life? I don't. I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't think it affected my career, but personal life. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and that's more important to me to my career at
Speaker 1: this point in my in my you know, in my journeys.
Speaker 1: Of course, I don't give a funk about hip hop
Speaker 1: as it pertains to my life, you know, like I
Speaker 1: want to walk away from the ship with my family
Speaker 1: and yeah, absolutely do any of y'all have a sex
Speaker 1: tape there you you never do? Well? Yeah, not the one,
Speaker 1: but I have. I haven't. It's not in no one's possession,
Speaker 1: but anybody could get it though. No, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: no no. Don't become an alcoholic because I don't really
Speaker 1: drink at all. Actually I'm not. I actually, I mean
Speaker 1: I don't mind like a glass of champagne or maybe
Speaker 1: two like mohitos, but I'm not a drink mohitos. But
Speaker 1: that's it. That's very exactly I mean, because I'm not
Speaker 1: a drinker. But you know, it's in my possession. It's
Speaker 1: you know, the WiFi never hits words side, no cheesy,
Speaker 1: what about you? I know you? I mean, if he
Speaker 1: lose his iPhone and I mighty figure out. Yeah, you
Speaker 1: might find all types of ship, but at least you
Speaker 1: are confident that you performed. Well, oh no, of course
Speaker 1: that's the thing. We'll give you a performance a point,
Speaker 1: please do. The last thing I need is a good performance.
Speaker 1: I feel like if you take some ship out, you
Speaker 1: don't take some If some ship from with me and
Speaker 1: my wife get out there, then you know it might
Speaker 1: write it's my stock a little bit that Oh yeah yeah,
Speaker 1: and my girl, me and my girl. Yeah we got
Speaker 1: we got some real good footage I'm proud of. But
Speaker 1: that ship, you know, that ship that hit media take
Speaker 1: out with some straight garbage? What about your step? You
Speaker 1: got anything you're nervous about. I haven't anything you're nervous
Speaker 1: about leaking. I mean honestly, everything that I've recorded, whether
Speaker 1: it's a video with someone else or by myself, they're
Speaker 1: really good. So it doesn't matter. I got plenty video.
Speaker 1: I'm a naked person. I'm in my house all the time,
Speaker 1: just naked. I have so much footage. I have a lot.
Speaker 1: I have like years worth, Like I got it from
Speaker 1: two thousand fourteen, two thousand, Yes, yeah, you go back
Speaker 1: and look at it. Yeah, I compare, you know. I
Speaker 1: feel like right now like I'm prime time. My body
Speaker 1: looks so bast compared, it's all my videos. Do you
Speaker 1: listen to music when you have sex? Or maybe I
Speaker 1: just got like the hang of it. I know my
Speaker 1: angles like do you have like a sex? Like? Are
Speaker 1: their songs? You're like, Okay, this is gonna really do
Speaker 1: it for me? You know what? I what is a
Speaker 1: perfect There's two? There's two albums because I feel like
Speaker 1: you gotta put something on and just let it play.
Speaker 1: And for me, it's two albums and Miguel the Kaleidoscope
Speaker 1: Dream every great album to have sex to. It's bomb
Speaker 1: to have sex too, It's amazing. And then um r
Speaker 1: Kelly the TP two from Too Right. I've had some
Speaker 1: away coming in from Miami. I was listening today on
Speaker 1: the plane. I love it. Listen to the album. I
Speaker 1: can't listen to that album unless I'm having sex because
Speaker 1: it reminds me of having sex. And then I'm like,
Speaker 1: when I ask that you like, you don't have to
Speaker 1: give you a phone call? Right? It was available, not Sophie,
Speaker 1: what about you? You have a sex playlist or anything
Speaker 1: you listen to a sex playlist? I don't really have
Speaker 1: a sex playlist. I really like, I really want to
Speaker 1: hear them for me, it's maybe the ego thing. I
Speaker 1: prefer to hear him. Yeah, I mean for me, Like
Speaker 1: you know, I'm really big upon that because you know,
Speaker 1: you know, I work out for you here with the
Speaker 1: music like you're blasting, like you're not, I really want
Speaker 1: to hear those. So I mean, and I'm actually gonna
Speaker 1: ask questions to make you respond. What kind of questions
Speaker 1: you asked? You know the music? What kind of questions
Speaker 1: do you be asking? Do we ask a lot of
Speaker 1: questions like what said I work out, which is very
Speaker 1: true because you know, I mean, but I mean, I definitely,
Speaker 1: I definitely want to ask questions because you know my
Speaker 1: vegan diet. Actually I want to know how does not
Speaker 1: pussy tastes because I'm like, I don't drink soda. So
Speaker 1: this is called can award and fresh juice. So I
Speaker 1: want you to make sure that you tell me how
Speaker 1: I taste. And I'm like selling me any like it's
Speaker 1: ain't no salary pussy over here. It's not bad. It
Speaker 1: doesn't have much taste. No no, no no, no no. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but the seldium, I wanted to be a little more juicy,
Speaker 1: and now I want to okay, okay, yeah, you know
Speaker 1: I wanted. I wanted to be like Fiji with a
Speaker 1: little bit of you know, fruity flavors. You know, Okay,
Speaker 1: yeah exactly. And what if he's like, what is my
Speaker 1: dick taste? Like? I mean, I'm gonna be like, I
Speaker 1: don't know, but pull it out, let me taste it.
Speaker 1: I mean, it's my guy. I have to say that. Now.
Speaker 1: Let me ask you this, because you date a guy
Speaker 1: who eats all kinds of nasty ship no, you know,
Speaker 1: that's actually a thing that I have a problem with
Speaker 1: dating now. Being that I do have such a strict diet,
Speaker 1: it's difficult for me to date someone who eats bad.
Speaker 1: Like I'm always looking at the plate like you're gonna
Speaker 1: eat that? I can't say with my friends. And I'm
Speaker 1: not even like anything, just like a kind of a
Speaker 1: clean eater, like not vegitarian or vegan. I don't eat
Speaker 1: work out beer, to eat beef. I try to buy
Speaker 1: like organic food, and I try to like cook most
Speaker 1: of my food. I'm not really big restaurants, but my
Speaker 1: friends they eat McDonald's and drink so smoke cigar. Ioud
Speaker 1: be like chicken. I mean, I don't mean, because it's
Speaker 1: like your body your body really tastes like what you consume.
Speaker 1: And it's just like if I'm sitting there watching you
Speaker 1: eat chemicals, I'm like, oh my god, it's chemicals and
Speaker 1: that that's hard from those corn serve. I'm like, I
Speaker 1: sorry freaking And I have to say that. You know,
Speaker 1: the guys I'm with, they have really good diets. They
Speaker 1: eat well, like I can't even imagine dating somebody who's
Speaker 1: cheese groups. Have you ever tasted nasty sperm? Yeah, it's
Speaker 1: the word I can say, so yes, And that's the reason.
Speaker 1: It's like molted airway you like girls, we remember it
Speaker 1: tastes like it's like bleak should be like comm is
Speaker 1: not already the most tasty thing anyway. Yeah, I'm sure
Speaker 1: it would be like give me some let me squeeze.
Speaker 1: Let probably got drunk off much, but right now the
Speaker 1: nasty come does exist. And it's like after that moment
Speaker 1: you I mean, I literally I was just like and
Speaker 1: it was my boyfriend at the time, and I was
Speaker 1: just like, because I don't believe in giving her less
Speaker 1: my nigga, I just wanted and I was just like, listen,
Speaker 1: I can't do this anymore because it tastes really fucking nasty.
Speaker 1: He's like, what do you mean? I was like, it
Speaker 1: takes like fucking nastiness, fucking please, just when it hit
Speaker 1: the air, I was like, I mean, and he was offended,
Speaker 1: but I was just like, no, because you're doing it.
Speaker 1: Wasn't a nicer way to say that. I mean, I
Speaker 1: didn't give a funk. It wasn't I mean, it wasn't
Speaker 1: nice to put that nasty come to my mom. It wasn't.
Speaker 1: So you get what you get? Well, listen, he well
Speaker 1: he should have had nasty. It was you kiss the
Speaker 1: guy right after it comes in your mouth, or you
Speaker 1: have to. Now you're talking it because some men forgot
Speaker 1: about that. That's called snowball and not like the kind
Speaker 1: of like giving it. And I haven't brushed my teeth yet.
Speaker 1: If it's still snowball, is that okay with you? What's that?
Speaker 1: I'm sorry? Is it okay like her to kiss you
Speaker 1: right after you come in her mouth or actually not okay?
Speaker 1: It depends on the mess. Even if it's yeah, she
Speaker 1: still it's all gone. What is wrong with you? Guys?
Speaker 1: Wait a minute, Wait a minute, somebody if you get
Speaker 1: but if you gave your your girl head and when
Speaker 1: you want to kiss her mouth to taste it. I
Speaker 1: want so then why is it okay for her? But
Speaker 1: but she can't kiss you. I mean it's not okay.
Speaker 1: Is she not okay with it? Okay? One of my
Speaker 1: good friends, one of my goods, I'm not okay with it.
Speaker 1: Man is a curious person, though, but like back curious.
Speaker 1: I don't know what she sucks is dick? He comes
Speaker 1: to her mouth when they make out, he wants to
Speaker 1: taste it. Yeah, it's tasting your own come again. That
Speaker 1: sounds like a porn I was watching to me. I
Speaker 1: don't want to call it gay, and I don't want
Speaker 1: to call it bisexual. I just want to say he's
Speaker 1: he wants to staystymself. He's like a cat cat. Yes,
Speaker 1: it's that's that's just like unnecessarily weird. For no, he'saking
Speaker 1: extreme nurses, just freaky. I just don't want to judge,
Speaker 1: because you know, I don't judge my friends and they're no,
Speaker 1: I don't. I mean, I mean, I understand me personally.
Speaker 1: If um, if a guy comes in my mouth and
Speaker 1: he asked me to make out with him, I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna do it. I'm gonna feel a little awkward. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna be like, wait, I'm gonna make up an excuse.
Speaker 1: Oh wait, hold on, I'm getting it some thirsty you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Let me get some water because
Speaker 1: wash it, damn. And I'm gonna I'm gonna. You know,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna. I'm not gonna. It's gonna be a turnoff. Right,
Speaker 1: it's weird to you. Yeah, it is very weird. But
Speaker 1: I don't but reverse it. When I come and when
Speaker 1: I come from a guy giving me oral, I don't
Speaker 1: mind him coming up and kissing me. I think you
Speaker 1: want to take yourself calm up and kiss me. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I want to look at it. Yeah, right, reverse it.
Speaker 1: It's okay. But for the guy to come in the
Speaker 1: girl's mouth and then make out with her, it's it's awkward.
Speaker 1: That's a little strange. I think it's it's curious. Well,
Speaker 1: here's the last question I have for you guys today.
Speaker 1: All right, and this question is if you could have
Speaker 1: one superpower, what would it be. I want to fly.
Speaker 1: That makes sense. You can get where you gotta go
Speaker 1: with that, having to worry about traffic. I want to
Speaker 1: be invisible. Oh ship, it's on ship. Yeah, I know.
Speaker 1: He was home now you know, damn problem in the bedroom, Like, oh,
Speaker 1: this is what you're doing when I'm not here? Um,
Speaker 1: I think I want to predict the future. Oh you
Speaker 1: can win a lot of you. Yeah. See for me,
Speaker 1: I'm like, you know, I would want something like that.
Speaker 1: I can kind of I can kind of like you know,
Speaker 1: if I know something bad it's going to happen, I
Speaker 1: can kind of. She gotta go one up me and
Speaker 1: ships I'm just flying. Just like a week later, I'm
Speaker 1: just tired of I would like a fly. You know
Speaker 1: what it is that y'all seen that movie Handcock and no, no,
Speaker 1: I know we on live service, but Handcock. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: wanted to that guy. I wanted to be that guy.
Speaker 1: I don't wanted to be a drunk the drunk guy
Speaker 1: everywhere back in my drunk days. I wanted to fly
Speaker 1: with a bottle. Deity, what's your superpower? I would want
Speaker 1: like super strength, you know, to be really strong, really yeah,
Speaker 1: because break into things really easily. Want to be a criminal,
Speaker 1: the fifth member of Slaughterhouse. We would say, she wants superpowers,
Speaker 1: super break in the shop people love really we saw it.
Speaker 1: We saw the Grandpost was like black ste but it
Speaker 1: would be like no, Like I feel like I can
Speaker 1: easily beat somebody up now, But it would be like
Speaker 1: what if I had like super stroke, that would be
Speaker 1: like they'll be like Dad, She's like I'm off and
Speaker 1: post easy now it'll be like, no, sweat off on
Speaker 1: my back. Well, I always just like freeze time. You
Speaker 1: ever seen that show back in the day. I think
Speaker 1: it's called out of this World? It's something is remember
Speaker 1: together in free time and then be able to do
Speaker 1: I was like, can freeze time now, I'd never be
Speaker 1: late to nothing just waiting. I just freeze time, taking nap,
Speaker 1: if you want to sit in first class on the flight,
Speaker 1: just freeze time. But right up right exactly. That's so.
Speaker 1: So yeah, we got a thing with time. What is that?
Speaker 1: What was that show cold and he was called out
Speaker 1: of this world? There's something like that him that was
Speaker 1: back in the day movies. So that's why the time
Speaker 1: stuff Like you said, yeah, like that because that's something
Speaker 1: you can't get back. No, it's not. I mean time
Speaker 1: is the most valuable commodity there. So I agree, if
Speaker 1: you could take anything back race, would you besides not
Speaker 1: signing with Dr dre well, you know what that situation
Speaker 1: I reflect back on that and think to myself, I
Speaker 1: wonder what would have happened if I would have signed
Speaker 1: on the shelf. Yeah, I never really I never really
Speaker 1: say damn, I wish I would have. I just wonder
Speaker 1: what would have happened had I would have had had
Speaker 1: I weighed my options a little bit better, but I
Speaker 1: was just so young. And then I called him and
Speaker 1: accent what he thought. He was like, get that million. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it was like he told me to do it, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So it was like, I don't
Speaker 1: feel like I played him in any kind of way. Table. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So I mean I don't. I wouldn't. I don't know
Speaker 1: if I would take that back because I'm really really
Speaker 1: happy where I'm at right now. So I mean, maybe
Speaker 1: some of the hurt for my girl, you know, maybe
Speaker 1: some of that ship And I'm not I'm not. I'm
Speaker 1: not just saying that because I'm because I'm here, Like
Speaker 1: I'm actually like, she actually mad at me right now?
Speaker 1: She always mad at you do? What did I do?
Speaker 1: This congratulation even made yourself? No, I didn't play myself.
Speaker 1: She's not that she's a little mad at me. She
Speaker 1: ain't that mad where I played it was like, you know,
Speaker 1: we just mad, like you know, we kissed. I kissed
Speaker 1: her before I left out the house. You know, when
Speaker 1: we really mad at each other, we don't say bye, right,
Speaker 1: And that's when you know what's fucked up. When you
Speaker 1: walk out the door without saying nothing. Yeah, that's when
Speaker 1: you know it's bad. Never do that, right. Well, I'm
Speaker 1: not no matter how what we're going through. I'm not
Speaker 1: getting on a flight. I'll go to the studio, I
Speaker 1: go to the story because I'm not about that. I'm
Speaker 1: not about to lead a state without saying by. That's
Speaker 1: kind of guys. Are guys more sensitive to that, you know,
Speaker 1: not saying bye thing? Because for me, like in the
Speaker 1: morning when I'm getting ready, I don't have time to
Speaker 1: say bye. I'm leaving somewhere. I gotta go. It depends
Speaker 1: on You can't still say no because with my acting
Speaker 1: and time. Oh my, alright, check it. When my one
Speaker 1: time I was going to Detroit, New York. I was
Speaker 1: hosting a party in Detroit, and I bet it was
Speaker 1: that silver ring, but I was leaving it probably silver,
Speaker 1: but you know, um, you know I left. It was
Speaker 1: it was an early fight and I left. He was
Speaker 1: still sleeping and he flipped on me. He's like, he's like, oh,
Speaker 1: you didn't even say by to me when you left.
Speaker 1: Who introduced Who introduced it into the relationship. That's important
Speaker 1: because my girl introduced that ship into our relationship. So
Speaker 1: now if she don't do it, I get mad because
Speaker 1: she started. You know what I'm saying. But he didn't
Speaker 1: want you leaving out of town without being mad, because
Speaker 1: you know, you gotta leave town happy. Whatever it's got, though,
Speaker 1: you just go get on the plane. Some strict made
Speaker 1: me feel what I'm saying, so he made me feel
Speaker 1: totally horrible about it. We're doing music now, we get
Speaker 1: we're getting you getting on the next thing, Stephanie, you
Speaker 1: know what we're gonna make House came, We're gonna do house.
Speaker 1: My heart, I still be listening to Sleeping Bag. You know,
Speaker 1: they always say you should never go to bed either,
Speaker 1: although I know that's hard to do. You know, if
Speaker 1: I'm mad, I'm mad, right, They always say don't go
Speaker 1: to bed mad. That's like one of the rules. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm not going to think about it. I'm listening like that.
Speaker 1: It ain't nothing worse than it ain't no worse than
Speaker 1: standing up late trying to get past some ship because
Speaker 1: go to sleep yourself. Like I really sit there and
Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, I'm trying to figure it out before
Speaker 1: and I'll be mad. So you know what the worst
Speaker 1: is when you're mad at somebody and they fall asleep.
Speaker 1: What you ain't You're waking up body. I'm like, don't
Speaker 1: let us as she ain't going for yea, I used
Speaker 1: to be in the crib drunk is hell coming in
Speaker 1: from a bender. You know what I'm saying. I'd be
Speaker 1: like halfway up. She would not let me go to sleep, Ryan, Bryan,
Speaker 1: you know all I keep hand government names exactly. Ryan.
Speaker 1: I'm like, why are you government naming me? Montgomery? Ryan
Speaker 1: Daniel Montgomery. You understand what she's saying. I'll wake up
Speaker 1: and don't remember nothing from yesterday. But that that's the
Speaker 1: worst when you're still mad in the morning. He don't
Speaker 1: remember exactly what I was the day before. We're not done.
Speaker 1: Don't try to act like nothing, like yeah, we don't
Speaker 1: let things go unless we feel like we've been heard,
Speaker 1: and we've never It's not over until we're ready for
Speaker 1: it to be right. That is absolutely correct. But Ryan
Speaker 1: Daniel Montgommy, we are rooting for you. I appreciate that.
Speaker 1: I need that, I need people rooting for me. No,
Speaker 1: for real, as far as everything goes, career is going great,
Speaker 1: So that part is good because you know what the
Speaker 1: worse is when your career sucks and then your home
Speaker 1: life sucks at the same time. Yeah, that's that's a
Speaker 1: double wham. You're right there. At least I'm doing great
Speaker 1: out here, making money, were successful, having the best album
Speaker 1: of my career, you know, But we are rooting for
Speaker 1: you at home. And so you know, I know your
Speaker 1: wife is gonna hear this and she's gonna not like something.
Speaker 1: But you know, it's cool. But she's gonna be like, yeah,
Speaker 1: it was cool, but why do you say that one
Speaker 1: thing though that's cool because he don't know no better
Speaker 1: n say. She's gonna be like, why did you tell
Speaker 1: him all was mad at you? Why? You know what? Listen,
Speaker 1: let's say you just say sorry, now, just sorry, apologize. Well,
Speaker 1: I need to know what I'm apologizing for. She said
Speaker 1: something that she's gonna be upset. We hit it with that.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Sorry. Yeah, and I think you had a
Speaker 1: very respectful um time with us. Yeah, yeah, I tried
Speaker 1: to keep it well. Yeah, repect for you. I like.
Speaker 1: But I'm sorry, babe, if I said anything you said,
Speaker 1: if I said something wrong, I'm sorry. I know you're
Speaker 1: watching this, even if you say you didn't watch it,
Speaker 1: you watched all right. Different layers to this Layers race.
Speaker 1: Thanks for coming through. We really appreciate you being so
Speaker 1: for being so open and honest with us. Cool. Thank you.
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