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Speaker 1: West Epics Lift Service at Angel Ye, I'm stephan New Santiago,

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Speaker 1: I'm G. G McGuire, I'm Sophie Green and Race the

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Speaker 1: five nine is here and I'm Worst the five nine

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Speaker 1: or just Race five nine. Now, well you know I

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Speaker 1: answered to both. Okay, I'm the honorary fifth member and

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Speaker 1: Stephanie is an honorary fifth member of slaughter House. Yes, congratulationships,

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Speaker 1: stephaniely slaughtered today, So house forever. All right, Now, you

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Speaker 1: know you're a little bit like, Okay, it's gonna throw

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Speaker 1: me on the bus, but we usnna have some fun

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Speaker 1: with you today. Al Right, nothing's off limits, right, nothing's

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Speaker 1: off limits. Just try to go easy on me, try

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Speaker 1: to go oh man, all right, all right. We always

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Speaker 1: start up with the tip of the day, right, So

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Speaker 1: today's tip is how much money do you spend on

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Speaker 1: the first date? What you think is the right amount

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Speaker 1: of money on the first date with somebody. I don't

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Speaker 1: think it's um. I don't think you should go into

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Speaker 1: it thinking about it. I agree, I don't think there's

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Speaker 1: a right amount, but we're on average. What would you say, like, Okay,

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Speaker 1: let's just say you can only bring cash. How much

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Speaker 1: cash do you bring for the first date, would you

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Speaker 1: approximate I would just shoot to have fun, you know,

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Speaker 1: like if I'm with somebody or if I'm by myself,

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Speaker 1: I just like to have fun. I just like that

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Speaker 1: have a good time. I'm from Detroit, though I'm not

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Speaker 1: like a you know what I mean, Like we don't

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Speaker 1: really get into the whole tricking and ship, you know,

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Speaker 1: but today the first date trick know I'm saying, in

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Speaker 1: terms of calling it, we don't. We don't get into

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Speaker 1: that first we do. We do what we want to do.

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Speaker 1: I like that. So would it be basically how you

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Speaker 1: feel towards a woman based you know how much she

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Speaker 1: was spending, like spending her think she would? I think

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Speaker 1: if you know, if I'm with her, she's just with me.

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Speaker 1: She's doing what I want to do. But it's the

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Speaker 1: first date. Now. The reason I asked this is because

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Speaker 1: I'm baller alert. They had posted this conversation right now.

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Speaker 1: The girl said, if you want to see me, plan

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Speaker 1: a date worth having. He said, I like to have

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Speaker 1: a simple meat and greet to make sure there's a

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Speaker 1: mutual interest before planning an extravagant date. That's why I said,

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Speaker 1: let's go to Starbucks or something like that, and she said,

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Speaker 1: I don't do drinks or coffee, and he said, but

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Speaker 1: what do you do? She said, I would much rather

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Speaker 1: you meet meet you for a date that you plan

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Speaker 1: so I can look good. And he said, sorry, but

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Speaker 1: that that's not gonna work for me. Good luck to

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Speaker 1: you though, exactly. Yeah, who hang in that situation would

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Speaker 1: you say? I mean, I'm not in a position to

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Speaker 1: say that he's wrong, you know what I'm saying, Like

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Speaker 1: he you never know what his financial situation is, his

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Speaker 1: financial situation, you never know what his past history is

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Speaker 1: with people, you know, like there's certain things that could

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Speaker 1: have happened to automatically stand towards financials. When I hear that,

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Speaker 1: I understand what I'm saying. Let's just kind of meet

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Speaker 1: in person before we go do something. And I waste

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Speaker 1: my time, not even just my money, but I feel

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Speaker 1: like my time is more valuable than in the amount

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Speaker 1: of money. Of course I can't get there. But then

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Speaker 1: he said an extrave again first date. Like she's not saying, Okay,

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Speaker 1: I need you to spend hundreds of dollars on me

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Speaker 1: want to just go to Starbucks, like I want you

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Speaker 1: to at least make a little effort. They put too

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Speaker 1: much thought into it. He should have just been like, hey,

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Speaker 1: then you can't. You're not and then you don't the

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Speaker 1: first day, but you know you don't. You don't think

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Speaker 1: look at it like first day exactly. You could be

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Speaker 1: because you can start bucks to Yeah, but she was

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Speaker 1: She was nasty, Like you don't even deserve to have

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Speaker 1: a nice day. Why can't we just meet up? But

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Speaker 1: enough to make that effortive. It could be Hey, let's

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Speaker 1: So maybe now she's like, look, enough is enough. I

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Speaker 1: don't want to know goddamn a kuiato, you know what

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Speaker 1: know he's gonna understand. It's a little crazy to even

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Speaker 1: like had that kind of disagreement that so early. Yeah exactly,

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Speaker 1: go through the chemistry engine. Don't don't dumb it down.

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Speaker 1: If you wouldn't go to Starbucks by yourself, don't try

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Speaker 1: to like take her there, you know what I'm saying. No,

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Speaker 1: but I think when you do that, like oh, just

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Speaker 1: close wide, let's you know, for some coffee. But this

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Speaker 1: is a plan first date, not enough plan for That's

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Speaker 1: what I'm thinking, like you're giving yourself a break, like

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Speaker 1: you get to see each other regular, you don't have

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Speaker 1: to get dressed for that, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: But the first date, that's not the first date you

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Speaker 1: exactly if you've been going like when you ask somebody

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Speaker 1: for dinner, you know what I mean, that's the first date.

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Speaker 1: You know, I have a dinner. You could judge that

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Speaker 1: as a first date, a noble all day and then

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Speaker 1: every single day and then Friday you go, yeah, let's

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Speaker 1: meet a Starbucks. Because I just want to make sure

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Speaker 1: you're not exactly you're getting this pumper brains. This is

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Speaker 1: because I don't drink coffee. So if you say let's

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Speaker 1: I'm declining. Yeah, yeah, I think I think I would

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Speaker 1: feel strange. I for guys like my Starbucks want to

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Speaker 1: John with juice, want to meet me at John? I mean,

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Speaker 1: bad first date impression? I haven't been on many dates really,

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Speaker 1: I did like a lot of cheating, really date that much,

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Speaker 1: It wasn't like I'm going to take you out. It

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Speaker 1: was Yeah, it wasn't. It wasn't never like a drunken SMA.

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Speaker 1: according process, I don't know what that was your first day?

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Speaker 1: What about your first day with your wife? Do you

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Speaker 1: remember that? Um? Yeah, yeah, yeah. We went to Denny's.

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Speaker 1: I don't h I think with you very few minutunderstand

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Speaker 1: in how to differentiate between courting sleeping with someone in dating.

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Speaker 1: At least you you understand that some people they really

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't consider that a date. If you take me

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Speaker 1: to Denny's, though, we're good. Yeah, that's a great because

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Speaker 1: asking questions about that about guys who are like I

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Speaker 1: She doesn't really know anything else, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: So it's almost like she probably was afraid to even

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Speaker 1: It was like it was like a spiritual awakening. That's

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Speaker 1: what I call it. Steph. You hung with us before,

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Speaker 1: you see, I used to drink like I used to

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Speaker 1: This is your first sober solo album. Yeah, Well, well

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Speaker 1: So what do you think but say that's a compliment.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna do this and his whole head up. You

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00:20:52,760 --> 00:20:55,520
Speaker 1: might be like, I don't feel like I'm loved I

423
00:20:55,560 --> 00:20:57,560
Speaker 1: feel like I need somebody to treat me well. I

424
00:20:57,560 --> 00:20:59,440
Speaker 1: want somebody to take care of me, treat me good,

425
00:20:59,480 --> 00:21:02,479
Speaker 1: and somebody I slide in there because literally, you know,

426
00:21:02,680 --> 00:21:06,440
Speaker 1: it's an emotional thing, right, I don't know necessarily like

427
00:21:06,680 --> 00:21:08,880
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get him back. Yeah, like if she had

428
00:21:08,920 --> 00:21:13,200
Speaker 1: too much time, you're boring the last one on women cheats,

429
00:21:13,320 --> 00:21:16,320
Speaker 1: she's just alone all the time. Yeah, well she should

430
00:21:16,359 --> 00:21:23,320
Speaker 1: never let me find out. Girl the text funny, I'd

431
00:21:23,320 --> 00:21:25,800
Speaker 1: never go through a phone. No, no, no, you know

432
00:21:25,880 --> 00:21:28,159
Speaker 1: I think that's bad. Betty Wap actually said something like

433
00:21:28,200 --> 00:21:30,399
Speaker 1: you said. I saw on the internet this week that

434
00:21:30,480 --> 00:21:32,359
Speaker 1: he said, you know what kind of game is this

435
00:21:32,440 --> 00:21:34,119
Speaker 1: when girls are getting way of pussy and I'm like,

436
00:21:34,200 --> 00:21:38,480
Speaker 1: now here here, here, come on now, I mean you're

437
00:21:38,520 --> 00:21:40,680
Speaker 1: having a lot of kids, Like, you can't say that

438
00:21:40,840 --> 00:21:44,280
Speaker 1: it's funny how the double standards work. It's so funny, child, right,

439
00:21:45,000 --> 00:21:47,280
Speaker 1: we can't do anything we can't do. Like, man, I'm

440
00:21:47,320 --> 00:21:49,520
Speaker 1: in the room full of women, I can't. I think.

441
00:21:49,560 --> 00:21:51,360
Speaker 1: I think I get it though, you know, we all

442
00:21:51,440 --> 00:21:54,560
Speaker 1: understand each other's side. That's all. Y'all understand your side,

443
00:21:54,560 --> 00:21:56,400
Speaker 1: and I understand what y'are saying. I get it because

444
00:21:56,480 --> 00:21:58,959
Speaker 1: usually I'm in a room full of men and getting

445
00:21:59,320 --> 00:22:03,960
Speaker 1: slater called hit little water water. No, I'm definitely get it.

446
00:22:04,000 --> 00:22:05,560
Speaker 1: Y'all put up with a lot. That's why I feel

447
00:22:05,560 --> 00:22:07,600
Speaker 1: like women should be put up on the pedestal. I

448
00:22:07,640 --> 00:22:09,560
Speaker 1: really do. I really do. You guys do put up

449
00:22:09,560 --> 00:22:12,000
Speaker 1: with a lot. But you know, I do think sometimes

450
00:22:12,040 --> 00:22:15,720
Speaker 1: y'all don't understand our side, and I'll spend I stop

451
00:22:15,760 --> 00:22:18,480
Speaker 1: spending a lot of time trying to explain I really did.

452
00:22:18,520 --> 00:22:20,080
Speaker 1: I just was like, all right, man, she's not going

453
00:22:20,119 --> 00:22:22,679
Speaker 1: to ever get it because we're wired different. Well, I

454
00:22:22,720 --> 00:22:24,919
Speaker 1: agree with that. I mean, listen, I say this. I

455
00:22:25,000 --> 00:22:27,240
Speaker 1: know I'm around guys all the time, clearly, like I

456
00:22:27,320 --> 00:22:29,399
Speaker 1: work with all guys. I've always worked around guys, so

457
00:22:29,440 --> 00:22:32,000
Speaker 1: I feel like I hear a lot about what goes

458
00:22:32,000 --> 00:22:34,000
Speaker 1: on and I witnessed a lot, so I think about

459
00:22:34,040 --> 00:22:37,080
Speaker 1: things differently because I've seen guys who have been in relationships,

460
00:22:37,080 --> 00:22:39,840
Speaker 1: been married, cheated, and then managed to make their marriage

461
00:22:39,840 --> 00:22:42,040
Speaker 1: work after that. Now, as a woman, you might say, oh,

462
00:22:42,040 --> 00:22:43,679
Speaker 1: if he cheats me, I'm leaving him. I'm leaving him.

463
00:22:43,680 --> 00:22:47,640
Speaker 1: But that's not necessarily true, you know, So I can't

464
00:22:47,640 --> 00:22:49,840
Speaker 1: agree with that. But I also feel like a woman

465
00:22:49,960 --> 00:22:53,000
Speaker 1: if a man, she's telling you, men feel like women

466
00:22:53,080 --> 00:22:55,640
Speaker 1: need to stick by their man and stop leaving them

467
00:22:55,680 --> 00:22:58,000
Speaker 1: so easily. But I also feel like, if you cheat,

468
00:22:58,040 --> 00:23:00,000
Speaker 1: you don't know if she's gonna stay or not. Maybe

469
00:23:00,000 --> 00:23:02,840
Speaker 1: she will, maybe she won't. It's really her choice, her decision,

470
00:23:03,160 --> 00:23:05,679
Speaker 1: and it's based on how you treat her afterward and

471
00:23:05,720 --> 00:23:09,719
Speaker 1: how she feels. You know. I agree with that. I

472
00:23:09,760 --> 00:23:11,239
Speaker 1: agree with that, and I don't. I don't know if

473
00:23:11,240 --> 00:23:14,400
Speaker 1: I'm doing such a great job with my situation, why

474
00:23:14,400 --> 00:23:16,320
Speaker 1: are you saying that? I mean, I don't know. I

475
00:23:16,359 --> 00:23:19,239
Speaker 1: don't know. She's still she's still. You would think like

476
00:23:19,280 --> 00:23:21,840
Speaker 1: with the changes that I've made, she'd be like ecstatic,

477
00:23:22,000 --> 00:23:24,720
Speaker 1: But but it's hard to erase all those years. And

478
00:23:25,119 --> 00:23:27,040
Speaker 1: I say this because I always say this too. If

479
00:23:27,040 --> 00:23:29,320
Speaker 1: a woman decides to stay with a man after he's

480
00:23:29,400 --> 00:23:31,080
Speaker 1: cheated and they agree to work it out. She kind

481
00:23:31,080 --> 00:23:33,000
Speaker 1: of has to let those things you have to agree with,

482
00:23:33,040 --> 00:23:39,920
Speaker 1: your man still has a lot to prove. That's one

483
00:23:39,920 --> 00:23:43,120
Speaker 1: I think it's, you know, it's behind us and everything

484
00:23:43,240 --> 00:23:46,200
Speaker 1: is good. We have like an argument about something, even

485
00:23:46,200 --> 00:23:48,000
Speaker 1: if it's an argument about something that she that I

486
00:23:48,000 --> 00:23:50,400
Speaker 1: feel she's not doing, it's just like a mind back

487
00:23:50,400 --> 00:23:54,880
Speaker 1: on her defense mechanism. She put the guard up like this,

488
00:23:56,520 --> 00:23:58,800
Speaker 1: every everything comes back again, and it's just be like, oh,

489
00:24:00,320 --> 00:24:01,920
Speaker 1: do you think you have any room to ever say

490
00:24:01,960 --> 00:24:06,000
Speaker 1: anything back based upon what you've done her? I think

491
00:24:06,000 --> 00:24:08,160
Speaker 1: I should always have room to say things back if

492
00:24:08,160 --> 00:24:10,320
Speaker 1: this is, you know, if we're having a conversation and

493
00:24:10,400 --> 00:24:13,080
Speaker 1: we were in a relationship, right, But sometimes you gotta

494
00:24:13,119 --> 00:24:15,840
Speaker 1: just swallow your path. Just be like, you know what,

495
00:24:16,680 --> 00:24:19,080
Speaker 1: she's still with me, she took me back. Let me

496
00:24:19,119 --> 00:24:21,880
Speaker 1: just shut the funk up and right. And I don't

497
00:24:21,880 --> 00:24:23,760
Speaker 1: get you don't get to use that. You don't get

498
00:24:23,760 --> 00:24:25,240
Speaker 1: to use that as a crush to be able to

499
00:24:25,240 --> 00:24:27,280
Speaker 1: do anything you want to do. I don't think it's

500
00:24:27,280 --> 00:24:30,040
Speaker 1: a crutch. I think it's more so like what Angela said,

501
00:24:30,119 --> 00:24:33,480
Speaker 1: if she's taking you back after she's dealt with years

502
00:24:33,480 --> 00:24:36,280
Speaker 1: of something, even if it was something from something that

503
00:24:36,359 --> 00:24:39,200
Speaker 1: was enabling you, you know, rather hurting you. The point

504
00:24:39,200 --> 00:24:41,080
Speaker 1: that she did that, I think that gives her a

505
00:24:41,119 --> 00:24:45,199
Speaker 1: get out of job. It's probably still difficult for everything. No,

506
00:24:45,320 --> 00:24:47,720
Speaker 1: not for everything, but I think for as many years

507
00:24:47,720 --> 00:24:49,880
Speaker 1: if you, I don't know as many years, but as

508
00:24:49,880 --> 00:24:52,639
Speaker 1: many years as you've done that in effect to her,

509
00:24:52,720 --> 00:24:55,160
Speaker 1: I think she needs that year's plus. But I feel

510
00:24:55,200 --> 00:24:57,119
Speaker 1: like sometimes it's hard, Like listen, I know guys who

511
00:24:57,240 --> 00:24:59,040
Speaker 1: wanted to stay with that women but found it difficult

512
00:24:59,040 --> 00:25:02,240
Speaker 1: to do so because of the stress of trying to

513
00:25:02,280 --> 00:25:05,040
Speaker 1: win her back and make her trust you again. Sometimes

514
00:25:05,040 --> 00:25:06,800
Speaker 1: it makes you feel like I don't even know if

515
00:25:06,840 --> 00:25:10,480
Speaker 1: I want to do this right exactly, of course. So

516
00:25:11,560 --> 00:25:13,800
Speaker 1: that's something that women have to take into consideration too,

517
00:25:13,880 --> 00:25:16,360
Speaker 1: because if a man is trying to change and make

518
00:25:16,440 --> 00:25:18,920
Speaker 1: those changes, while it's difficult for us and we want

519
00:25:18,920 --> 00:25:21,280
Speaker 1: to bring up every little ship thing you did when

520
00:25:21,320 --> 00:25:23,280
Speaker 1: you leave the cap off the toothpaste, and we're bringing

521
00:25:23,359 --> 00:25:27,919
Speaker 1: up whatever it is, I'm gonna just go ahead and

522
00:25:27,920 --> 00:25:30,520
Speaker 1: fight it out, because don't fight though, this is what

523
00:25:30,600 --> 00:25:32,840
Speaker 1: I'm saying I'm just gonna go ahead and thug it

524
00:25:32,880 --> 00:25:36,720
Speaker 1: out with my wife. I don't I don't wish to

525
00:25:36,880 --> 00:25:39,760
Speaker 1: go through none of this ship again with a whole

526
00:25:39,760 --> 00:25:42,720
Speaker 1: another person's And that was one of the questions that

527
00:25:42,760 --> 00:25:45,480
Speaker 1: we actually had right and we were talking about this,

528
00:25:45,520 --> 00:25:47,240
Speaker 1: would you what's the better dealing with somebody that you're

529
00:25:47,280 --> 00:25:50,359
Speaker 1: comfortable with or taking a risk with somebody new. I

530
00:25:50,359 --> 00:25:52,399
Speaker 1: don't want to start over once I once, I had

531
00:25:52,440 --> 00:25:54,120
Speaker 1: a once, I had a few side tricks to start

532
00:25:54,160 --> 00:25:59,119
Speaker 1: acting like my girl just going back to the old

533
00:25:59,119 --> 00:26:02,920
Speaker 1: battle acts in to a certain point with someone. Once

534
00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:06,240
Speaker 1: you're like long term with someone, it has to take.

535
00:26:06,600 --> 00:26:09,359
Speaker 1: It's gonna take like a whole lot to just be like, okay,

536
00:26:09,400 --> 00:26:12,560
Speaker 1: I'm done. Like it's hard to just move on when

537
00:26:12,600 --> 00:26:15,199
Speaker 1: you're comfortable with someone and you're just used to be

538
00:26:15,240 --> 00:26:17,639
Speaker 1: in a certain way and just you know, that comfortability

539
00:26:17,680 --> 00:26:23,439
Speaker 1: factor is a big factor. And starting over, Jess, you

540
00:26:23,520 --> 00:26:27,640
Speaker 1: tried it. I just tried it, and I'm back, always back.

541
00:26:28,359 --> 00:26:34,960
Speaker 1: I'm like moved out and it was it was horrible

542
00:26:35,640 --> 00:26:37,480
Speaker 1: and I was still in love. I never felt out.

543
00:26:37,600 --> 00:26:39,600
Speaker 1: That's what it was so for her, and I think

544
00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:41,280
Speaker 1: it's difficult to me when you're in love with someone

545
00:26:41,359 --> 00:26:44,320
Speaker 1: that's genuine. Yeah, I never felt out of love. I tried.

546
00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:46,320
Speaker 1: I tried to make him the scumbag of the world.

547
00:26:46,320 --> 00:26:48,080
Speaker 1: I try to make him like the worst person ever

548
00:26:48,240 --> 00:26:50,760
Speaker 1: in my head, and I just my heart wouldn't let

549
00:26:50,760 --> 00:26:53,960
Speaker 1: me and we just ended up being bare. But do

550
00:26:54,000 --> 00:26:56,040
Speaker 1: you still bring up stuff that happened in the past.

551
00:26:58,840 --> 00:27:01,080
Speaker 1: I try not to, but sometimes I can't help it.

552
00:27:01,160 --> 00:27:05,160
Speaker 1: He's human. He bring up step too, though, So absolutely, yeah,

553
00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:06,840
Speaker 1: do you bring it? Do you bring it up just

554
00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:08,600
Speaker 1: when you don't want to be wrong about something that

555
00:27:08,640 --> 00:27:12,439
Speaker 1: you know you did wrong. No, it's usually when he

556
00:27:12,600 --> 00:27:14,719
Speaker 1: on some bullshit and I just do someone on top

557
00:27:14,760 --> 00:27:25,320
Speaker 1: of it. Like, I don't forget you. I think g N.

558
00:27:25,640 --> 00:27:29,880
Speaker 1: I think your relationship is pretty normal. I don't think

559
00:27:29,920 --> 00:27:32,560
Speaker 1: that they go through too much like the relationships you

560
00:27:32,600 --> 00:27:36,159
Speaker 1: guys were previously speaking about just now, Like it sounds

561
00:27:36,200 --> 00:27:40,640
Speaker 1: like these relationships are just heavy and they're hard and

562
00:27:41,000 --> 00:27:43,719
Speaker 1: not good, Like these type of relationships you need to

563
00:27:43,760 --> 00:27:45,960
Speaker 1: move on from. Like when you're in a relationship with

564
00:27:46,000 --> 00:27:48,640
Speaker 1: somebody and you're always bringing up the past, that's never

565
00:27:48,680 --> 00:27:52,920
Speaker 1: gonna work. Yeah, but it ain't, you know, like hours

566
00:27:55,520 --> 00:28:01,520
Speaker 1: and then one day when you're trying to grow with somebody,

567
00:28:01,600 --> 00:28:03,439
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, you have to you have

568
00:28:03,520 --> 00:28:07,200
Speaker 1: to accept all their all their flaws and all their mistakes,

569
00:28:07,240 --> 00:28:10,160
Speaker 1: because just like they're going to accept yours. But did

570
00:28:10,160 --> 00:28:12,080
Speaker 1: you have some rules? Like okay? Is she like okay?

571
00:28:12,119 --> 00:28:14,240
Speaker 1: In order for me to feel more comfortable, this is

572
00:28:14,280 --> 00:28:15,720
Speaker 1: what I need you to do, like things that you

573
00:28:15,760 --> 00:28:17,720
Speaker 1: don't need to do, like okay, every night, we need

574
00:28:17,760 --> 00:28:19,959
Speaker 1: to face time when you're on the road, or are

575
00:28:20,000 --> 00:28:21,680
Speaker 1: there things like that? Or do you bring her out

576
00:28:21,720 --> 00:28:24,560
Speaker 1: to dates more often? Like what are there things that

577
00:28:24,600 --> 00:28:27,240
Speaker 1: you do differently now to try to prove it? Yeah,

578
00:28:27,280 --> 00:28:29,399
Speaker 1: she's bringing some things on me, like she wants me

579
00:28:29,440 --> 00:28:36,280
Speaker 1: to be like this romantic guy. Now, nothing wrong with that.

580
00:28:36,320 --> 00:28:38,080
Speaker 1: I'm not saying. I'm not saying there's nothing wrong with

581
00:28:38,160 --> 00:28:40,600
Speaker 1: I just it's just an adjustment for me, that's all.

582
00:28:40,920 --> 00:28:44,160
Speaker 1: So you wo're never romantic, you would say, she says

583
00:28:44,200 --> 00:28:47,840
Speaker 1: I was, But I'm like, I'm like the li the

584
00:28:47,880 --> 00:28:50,160
Speaker 1: liquor like mess my brain up so much I can

585
00:28:50,200 --> 00:28:52,560
Speaker 1: barely remember, Like I'm like, damn, what did I used

586
00:28:52,600 --> 00:28:54,920
Speaker 1: to do? Because yeah, whatever this is, I gotta, I

587
00:28:54,960 --> 00:28:58,680
Speaker 1: gotta I gotta get it back innocent love. Yeah, it's

588
00:28:58,720 --> 00:29:00,880
Speaker 1: like she yeah, she did. She paints this picture of

589
00:29:00,960 --> 00:29:06,000
Speaker 1: me like I was just the sweetest kid, probably on

590
00:29:06,040 --> 00:29:09,320
Speaker 1: the road and you know hip hip hop. Do you

591
00:29:09,320 --> 00:29:12,000
Speaker 1: think it's expected They're like, Okay, you're dating a rapper

592
00:29:12,560 --> 00:29:18,480
Speaker 1: who's successful. It just kind of comes to the territory. Um. Yeah,

593
00:29:18,600 --> 00:29:21,360
Speaker 1: I think that that's the consensus. But that's not true.

594
00:29:21,480 --> 00:29:23,520
Speaker 1: I don't think. I don't think it has It doesn't

595
00:29:23,560 --> 00:29:25,840
Speaker 1: have to come with the territory. It doesn't. And my son,

596
00:29:26,000 --> 00:29:28,640
Speaker 1: my son is a producer. He wants to be an artist.

597
00:29:28,960 --> 00:29:34,000
Speaker 1: So that's that's gonna get that's gonna get preached. Yeah, yep.

598
00:29:34,120 --> 00:29:36,400
Speaker 1: So you know, like there's a lot of things that

599
00:29:36,440 --> 00:29:39,200
Speaker 1: people think come along with the business. It's not true.

600
00:29:39,600 --> 00:29:41,600
Speaker 1: Did your kids feel away towards you, like when things

601
00:29:41,640 --> 00:29:43,240
Speaker 1: were going on, did they know where they like? I

602
00:29:43,240 --> 00:29:45,560
Speaker 1: think I dodged the bullet. I think I dodged the bullet.

603
00:29:45,680 --> 00:29:50,080
Speaker 1: That means she's a game exactly Why because if she

604
00:29:50,160 --> 00:29:52,960
Speaker 1: Because sometimes mothers will tell their kids that your daddy

605
00:29:52,960 --> 00:29:55,120
Speaker 1: ain't shit, you know he did this are a guy

606
00:29:55,200 --> 00:29:57,640
Speaker 1: friend of that? Yeah, I mean we wouldn't be together.

607
00:29:57,720 --> 00:30:00,720
Speaker 1: She was that kind of person. She's a person, you

608
00:30:00,760 --> 00:30:02,440
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So it's like that's why we

609
00:30:02,560 --> 00:30:06,120
Speaker 1: still we're still together. She deserves everything with no comment,

610
00:30:06,480 --> 00:30:09,000
Speaker 1: not that much lip bad what I mean with lip

611
00:30:10,880 --> 00:30:15,120
Speaker 1: I'm I'm doing. You know, I'm trying. I'm trying to

612
00:30:15,200 --> 00:30:17,560
Speaker 1: know she wants to get complimented more. I gotta work

613
00:30:17,600 --> 00:30:20,040
Speaker 1: on that. I got that's normal. I gotta work on

614
00:30:20,080 --> 00:30:22,760
Speaker 1: that thinking in your head, but don't say it out loud. No,

615
00:30:22,920 --> 00:30:26,200
Speaker 1: I just I just figure, you know, like here, yeah,

616
00:30:28,040 --> 00:30:31,760
Speaker 1: you know, we like that. We like you want to hear, right,

617
00:30:32,040 --> 00:30:40,280
Speaker 1: and especially when you notice, like a new hairstyle like that,

618
00:30:40,960 --> 00:30:44,080
Speaker 1: because I bet you noticed if she don't wax her

619
00:30:43,000 --> 00:30:46,600
Speaker 1: m you noticed that. I know I noticed everything. She

620
00:30:46,720 --> 00:30:48,760
Speaker 1: just she just you know, she just wants everything her

621
00:30:48,800 --> 00:30:50,720
Speaker 1: way right now. That's that's all. It's cool. I don't

622
00:30:50,720 --> 00:30:52,480
Speaker 1: know if you say that. I think I think she

623
00:30:52,520 --> 00:30:55,120
Speaker 1: just wants to feel appreciate it. Let's not say her wife.

624
00:30:55,240 --> 00:30:59,680
Speaker 1: She is appreciated. Well, that's good. I love her lots.

625
00:31:01,720 --> 00:31:03,120
Speaker 1: Do you think there's anything that you can do to

626
00:31:03,160 --> 00:31:05,480
Speaker 1: prevent somebody from cheating on you? Like? Is there something

627
00:31:06,040 --> 00:31:07,880
Speaker 1: for the women here? What can we do to prevent

628
00:31:07,920 --> 00:31:10,440
Speaker 1: our men from everybody's sacking their head? No, nothing, What

629
00:31:10,520 --> 00:31:12,200
Speaker 1: can you do to prevent a man from cheating? Is

630
00:31:12,200 --> 00:31:17,520
Speaker 1: there any clone yourself? Because you do every same time

631
00:31:17,680 --> 00:31:20,400
Speaker 1: and throw yourself at home fifteen times like dark some

632
00:31:20,480 --> 00:31:22,560
Speaker 1: kind of We feel like we do everything for you,

633
00:31:22,600 --> 00:31:24,480
Speaker 1: But why is he still cheating? Is there anything we

634
00:31:24,560 --> 00:31:28,760
Speaker 1: can do good? Pussy's new pussy even if it's whack.

635
00:31:30,280 --> 00:31:32,320
Speaker 1: It just depends on what kind of what kind of guy.

636
00:31:33,280 --> 00:31:34,880
Speaker 1: It depends on what kind of guy you got. You

637
00:31:34,880 --> 00:31:39,080
Speaker 1: gotta just you gotta be mindful to always be fair

638
00:31:39,160 --> 00:31:43,000
Speaker 1: for him. And one thing women don't realize is women

639
00:31:43,680 --> 00:31:47,640
Speaker 1: get irritating. Like y'all don't mind being irritating at the

640
00:31:47,720 --> 00:31:53,640
Speaker 1: wrong times. Irritation less irritation can stop a man from

641
00:31:53,640 --> 00:31:57,800
Speaker 1: even thinking about cheating. But what irritates you? I don't like,

642
00:31:58,200 --> 00:32:01,440
Speaker 1: just like I don't like get calls while I'm working

643
00:32:01,920 --> 00:32:04,520
Speaker 1: about things that are not that important, that aren't more

644
00:32:04,560 --> 00:32:08,360
Speaker 1: important than work. Stop, don't stop my studio session to

645
00:32:08,520 --> 00:32:13,840
Speaker 1: argue with me via text about some bullshit. Yeah, like

646
00:32:13,880 --> 00:32:17,320
Speaker 1: I don't. I hate that, but that's not gonna drive

647
00:32:17,360 --> 00:32:19,880
Speaker 1: me the sheet. But when I was drinking it would

648
00:32:19,880 --> 00:32:28,560
Speaker 1: be like this irritation stress, you know, when you're running

649
00:32:28,560 --> 00:32:30,760
Speaker 1: around and you you know, you're opening yourself up to

650
00:32:30,800 --> 00:32:32,640
Speaker 1: all of these, you know, different people. You know, you

651
00:32:32,720 --> 00:32:35,120
Speaker 1: got all these different girls calling your phone. They all

652
00:32:35,200 --> 00:32:37,800
Speaker 1: act like that. They want to be exactly what your

653
00:32:37,840 --> 00:32:40,320
Speaker 1: wife ain't. They want to be the perfect They want

654
00:32:40,320 --> 00:32:43,120
Speaker 1: to be the perfect girl in the beginning, you know

655
00:32:43,160 --> 00:32:46,560
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. They want to be like they say,

656
00:32:46,640 --> 00:32:48,040
Speaker 1: they know, they try to say the right ship and

657
00:32:48,040 --> 00:32:49,760
Speaker 1: they do everything. You just be you just be drunk

658
00:32:49,800 --> 00:32:53,800
Speaker 1: like okay, you know what, I'm help me, you know,

659
00:32:54,080 --> 00:32:55,640
Speaker 1: So that would be my that would be my That

660
00:32:55,680 --> 00:32:58,360
Speaker 1: would be my suggestion, trying to be trying not to

661
00:32:58,360 --> 00:33:01,920
Speaker 1: be irritating, like don't nitpick and that it don't be

662
00:33:01,960 --> 00:33:04,320
Speaker 1: too nitpicky about everything. I know it's kind of in

663
00:33:04,480 --> 00:33:07,400
Speaker 1: women's nature to do that, and I understand that, but

664
00:33:07,440 --> 00:33:12,200
Speaker 1: just scale back a little bit now. Interestingly enough, this

665
00:33:12,240 --> 00:33:14,360
Speaker 1: was what I found might be difficult to overcome. You

666
00:33:14,440 --> 00:33:17,000
Speaker 1: did have a sex tape that had to be hard

667
00:33:17,040 --> 00:33:19,360
Speaker 1: for her to even you know, have to see because

668
00:33:19,640 --> 00:33:22,440
Speaker 1: that was online. Yeah, I mean, if that's what you

669
00:33:22,480 --> 00:33:25,560
Speaker 1: want to call that ship, I mean, you was in

670
00:33:25,640 --> 00:33:27,760
Speaker 1: one position the whole time. I was just I was

671
00:33:27,800 --> 00:33:34,160
Speaker 1: just like I I was just drunk, you know what

672
00:33:34,160 --> 00:33:36,480
Speaker 1: I'm saying. I was just like I wasn't even I

673
00:33:36,520 --> 00:33:38,240
Speaker 1: don't even remember that ship, you know what I'm saying, Like,

674
00:33:38,280 --> 00:33:41,280
Speaker 1: I wasn't even that was Yeah, that's all that was.

675
00:33:41,360 --> 00:33:45,240
Speaker 1: Grace is just gonna blame everything on the I'm not

676
00:33:45,520 --> 00:33:47,040
Speaker 1: he saying, but he really had a disease. He's one

677
00:33:47,080 --> 00:33:49,440
Speaker 1: of the hospital. No I'm saying. I'm saying, if that's

678
00:33:49,440 --> 00:33:52,080
Speaker 1: what you would call that ship sex tape, the sex

679
00:33:52,080 --> 00:33:54,520
Speaker 1: tape is like that sex tape is like fucking the

680
00:33:54,520 --> 00:33:59,760
Speaker 1: ship everything that I'm like, well, you shocked me. That

681
00:33:59,800 --> 00:34:03,120
Speaker 1: came out like damn it. I wasn't really shocked. I

682
00:34:03,160 --> 00:34:06,480
Speaker 1: wasn't really shocked. It was just like okay, here we go, okay, okay.

683
00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:13,040
Speaker 1: Now I'm like, I'm like, yeah, now you're really Now

684
00:34:13,040 --> 00:34:17,120
Speaker 1: you're really doing it now, sir. And the thing is,

685
00:34:17,120 --> 00:34:19,759
Speaker 1: I got like a call from a side girl. First, like, man,

686
00:34:25,320 --> 00:34:29,920
Speaker 1: I worry about my wife, I worried about my fucking

687
00:34:30,239 --> 00:34:32,799
Speaker 1: my first love finding out, and here you go calling me.

688
00:34:32,840 --> 00:34:37,520
Speaker 1: I could do without you right now, you know. So

689
00:34:37,560 --> 00:34:39,040
Speaker 1: I was I was thinking about that and it was

690
00:34:39,080 --> 00:34:40,719
Speaker 1: just like that was one of the things that made

691
00:34:40,719 --> 00:34:45,160
Speaker 1: me like I decided. It was like, you know, all right,

692
00:34:45,160 --> 00:34:47,319
Speaker 1: now I'm real big on the hohope. I don't want

693
00:34:47,320 --> 00:34:49,640
Speaker 1: to be corny. It's one thing to have a problem,

694
00:34:49,680 --> 00:34:51,680
Speaker 1: you know, you got a problem, but now this is

695
00:34:51,719 --> 00:34:53,839
Speaker 1: just corny. You know what I'm saying, Like, I can't.

696
00:34:53,840 --> 00:34:55,719
Speaker 1: I can't be that guy. And then my son is

697
00:34:55,760 --> 00:34:59,640
Speaker 1: he was in middle school at the time, because I

698
00:34:59,680 --> 00:35:01,799
Speaker 1: remember having to talk to him, like I went home

699
00:35:01,840 --> 00:35:03,799
Speaker 1: and he was like I asked him how he felt,

700
00:35:03,840 --> 00:35:06,239
Speaker 1: and he was like, why did you do it? Dad?

701
00:35:06,400 --> 00:35:10,000
Speaker 1: You know, and it was like I can't even remember

702
00:35:10,000 --> 00:35:12,880
Speaker 1: what I said to him, but I vowed like my daughters,

703
00:35:13,000 --> 00:35:15,680
Speaker 1: my daughter was just my daughter was really young. And

704
00:35:15,680 --> 00:35:18,360
Speaker 1: then I've since and had a daughter because it was like,

705
00:35:18,400 --> 00:35:21,280
Speaker 1: as soon as I got sober, it was like kids everywhere.

706
00:35:22,200 --> 00:35:24,279
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Yeah, so now I got

707
00:35:24,400 --> 00:35:27,760
Speaker 1: young baby daughters, and when they get in middle school,

708
00:35:28,040 --> 00:35:31,080
Speaker 1: I cannot be on the internet with my balls hanging

709
00:35:31,120 --> 00:35:33,960
Speaker 1: out on the couch in a hotel. So do you

710
00:35:34,000 --> 00:35:36,760
Speaker 1: think the sex safe effect of your career it affected

711
00:35:36,760 --> 00:35:39,640
Speaker 1: your life affect in my life? I don't. I don't.

712
00:35:39,680 --> 00:35:44,520
Speaker 1: I don't think it affected my career, but personal life. Yeah,

713
00:35:44,520 --> 00:35:46,520
Speaker 1: and that's more important to me to my career at

714
00:35:46,560 --> 00:35:49,040
Speaker 1: this point in my in my you know, in my journeys.

715
00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:51,560
Speaker 1: Of course, I don't give a funk about hip hop

716
00:35:51,719 --> 00:35:53,680
Speaker 1: as it pertains to my life, you know, like I

717
00:35:53,680 --> 00:35:55,800
Speaker 1: want to walk away from the ship with my family

718
00:35:56,080 --> 00:36:00,239
Speaker 1: and yeah, absolutely do any of y'all have a sex

719
00:36:00,280 --> 00:36:04,200
Speaker 1: tape there you you never do? Well? Yeah, not the one,

720
00:36:04,480 --> 00:36:07,480
Speaker 1: but I have. I haven't. It's not in no one's possession,

721
00:36:07,520 --> 00:36:09,919
Speaker 1: but anybody could get it though. No, no, no, no,

722
00:36:09,920 --> 00:36:13,680
Speaker 1: no no. Don't become an alcoholic because I don't really

723
00:36:13,719 --> 00:36:16,520
Speaker 1: drink at all. Actually I'm not. I actually, I mean

724
00:36:16,840 --> 00:36:18,640
Speaker 1: I don't mind like a glass of champagne or maybe

725
00:36:18,719 --> 00:36:21,279
Speaker 1: two like mohitos, but I'm not a drink mohitos. But

726
00:36:21,320 --> 00:36:23,680
Speaker 1: that's it. That's very exactly I mean, because I'm not

727
00:36:23,719 --> 00:36:26,000
Speaker 1: a drinker. But you know, it's in my possession. It's

728
00:36:26,040 --> 00:36:29,800
Speaker 1: you know, the WiFi never hits words side, no cheesy,

729
00:36:29,840 --> 00:36:32,400
Speaker 1: what about you? I know you? I mean, if he

730
00:36:32,480 --> 00:36:37,400
Speaker 1: lose his iPhone and I mighty figure out. Yeah, you

731
00:36:37,480 --> 00:36:41,239
Speaker 1: might find all types of ship, but at least you

732
00:36:41,320 --> 00:36:43,800
Speaker 1: are confident that you performed. Well, oh no, of course

733
00:36:44,560 --> 00:36:47,680
Speaker 1: that's the thing. We'll give you a performance a point,

734
00:36:51,200 --> 00:36:53,440
Speaker 1: please do. The last thing I need is a good performance.

735
00:36:53,440 --> 00:36:55,680
Speaker 1: I feel like if you take some ship out, you

736
00:36:55,680 --> 00:36:57,840
Speaker 1: don't take some If some ship from with me and

737
00:36:57,880 --> 00:36:59,759
Speaker 1: my wife get out there, then you know it might

738
00:36:59,800 --> 00:37:03,680
Speaker 1: write it's my stock a little bit that Oh yeah yeah,

739
00:37:03,840 --> 00:37:05,440
Speaker 1: and my girl, me and my girl. Yeah we got

740
00:37:05,480 --> 00:37:12,200
Speaker 1: we got some real good footage I'm proud of. But

741
00:37:12,280 --> 00:37:14,160
Speaker 1: that ship, you know, that ship that hit media take

742
00:37:14,200 --> 00:37:16,320
Speaker 1: out with some straight garbage? What about your step? You

743
00:37:16,400 --> 00:37:20,000
Speaker 1: got anything you're nervous about. I haven't anything you're nervous

744
00:37:20,040 --> 00:37:25,000
Speaker 1: about leaking. I mean honestly, everything that I've recorded, whether

745
00:37:25,120 --> 00:37:29,600
Speaker 1: it's a video with someone else or by myself, they're

746
00:37:29,640 --> 00:37:37,080
Speaker 1: really good. So it doesn't matter. I got plenty video.

747
00:37:37,280 --> 00:37:40,160
Speaker 1: I'm a naked person. I'm in my house all the time,

748
00:37:40,320 --> 00:37:45,759
Speaker 1: just naked. I have so much footage. I have a lot.

749
00:37:46,880 --> 00:37:48,680
Speaker 1: I have like years worth, Like I got it from

750
00:37:48,719 --> 00:37:53,439
Speaker 1: two thousand fourteen, two thousand, Yes, yeah, you go back

751
00:37:53,440 --> 00:37:56,000
Speaker 1: and look at it. Yeah, I compare, you know. I

752
00:37:56,000 --> 00:37:58,840
Speaker 1: feel like right now like I'm prime time. My body

753
00:37:58,880 --> 00:38:02,920
Speaker 1: looks so bast compared, it's all my videos. Do you

754
00:38:02,960 --> 00:38:04,920
Speaker 1: listen to music when you have sex? Or maybe I

755
00:38:05,000 --> 00:38:06,759
Speaker 1: just got like the hang of it. I know my

756
00:38:06,920 --> 00:38:11,839
Speaker 1: angles like do you have like a sex? Like? Are

757
00:38:11,880 --> 00:38:13,920
Speaker 1: their songs? You're like, Okay, this is gonna really do

758
00:38:13,960 --> 00:38:16,680
Speaker 1: it for me? You know what? I what is a

759
00:38:16,800 --> 00:38:19,880
Speaker 1: perfect There's two? There's two albums because I feel like

760
00:38:19,880 --> 00:38:22,680
Speaker 1: you gotta put something on and just let it play.

761
00:38:23,120 --> 00:38:26,600
Speaker 1: And for me, it's two albums and Miguel the Kaleidoscope

762
00:38:26,800 --> 00:38:30,000
Speaker 1: Dream every great album to have sex to. It's bomb

763
00:38:30,080 --> 00:38:33,640
Speaker 1: to have sex too, It's amazing. And then um r

764
00:38:33,760 --> 00:38:47,120
Speaker 1: Kelly the TP two from Too Right. I've had some

765
00:38:47,280 --> 00:38:52,920
Speaker 1: away coming in from Miami. I was listening today on

766
00:38:52,920 --> 00:38:55,520
Speaker 1: the plane. I love it. Listen to the album. I

767
00:38:55,560 --> 00:38:57,759
Speaker 1: can't listen to that album unless I'm having sex because

768
00:38:57,760 --> 00:38:59,680
Speaker 1: it reminds me of having sex. And then I'm like,

769
00:39:00,000 --> 00:39:04,279
Speaker 1: when I ask that you like, you don't have to

770
00:39:04,320 --> 00:39:07,480
Speaker 1: give you a phone call? Right? It was available, not Sophie,

771
00:39:07,560 --> 00:39:09,680
Speaker 1: what about you? You have a sex playlist or anything

772
00:39:09,719 --> 00:39:14,960
Speaker 1: you listen to a sex playlist? I don't really have

773
00:39:15,000 --> 00:39:17,040
Speaker 1: a sex playlist. I really like, I really want to

774
00:39:17,080 --> 00:39:20,400
Speaker 1: hear them for me, it's maybe the ego thing. I

775
00:39:20,480 --> 00:39:24,319
Speaker 1: prefer to hear him. Yeah, I mean for me, Like

776
00:39:24,640 --> 00:39:27,200
Speaker 1: you know, I'm really big upon that because you know,

777
00:39:27,320 --> 00:39:29,239
Speaker 1: you know, I work out for you here with the

778
00:39:29,320 --> 00:39:33,160
Speaker 1: music like you're blasting, like you're not, I really want

779
00:39:33,200 --> 00:39:35,279
Speaker 1: to hear those. So I mean, and I'm actually gonna

780
00:39:35,320 --> 00:39:37,640
Speaker 1: ask questions to make you respond. What kind of questions

781
00:39:37,680 --> 00:39:42,840
Speaker 1: you asked? You know the music? What kind of questions

782
00:39:42,800 --> 00:39:44,400
Speaker 1: do you be asking? Do we ask a lot of

783
00:39:44,480 --> 00:39:49,560
Speaker 1: questions like what said I work out, which is very

784
00:39:49,600 --> 00:39:52,240
Speaker 1: true because you know, I mean, but I mean, I definitely,

785
00:39:52,360 --> 00:39:54,360
Speaker 1: I definitely want to ask questions because you know my

786
00:39:54,480 --> 00:39:57,520
Speaker 1: vegan diet. Actually I want to know how does not

787
00:39:57,560 --> 00:39:59,560
Speaker 1: pussy tastes because I'm like, I don't drink soda. So

788
00:39:59,600 --> 00:40:01,600
Speaker 1: this is called can award and fresh juice. So I

789
00:40:01,640 --> 00:40:03,080
Speaker 1: want you to make sure that you tell me how

790
00:40:03,080 --> 00:40:06,759
Speaker 1: I taste. And I'm like selling me any like it's

791
00:40:07,120 --> 00:40:11,840
Speaker 1: ain't no salary pussy over here. It's not bad. It

792
00:40:11,880 --> 00:40:13,719
Speaker 1: doesn't have much taste. No no, no no, no no. Yeah,

793
00:40:13,760 --> 00:40:15,920
Speaker 1: but the seldium, I wanted to be a little more juicy,

794
00:40:16,000 --> 00:40:18,520
Speaker 1: and now I want to okay, okay, yeah, you know

795
00:40:18,520 --> 00:40:20,200
Speaker 1: I wanted. I wanted to be like Fiji with a

796
00:40:20,200 --> 00:40:22,200
Speaker 1: little bit of you know, fruity flavors. You know, Okay,

797
00:40:23,880 --> 00:40:26,000
Speaker 1: yeah exactly. And what if he's like, what is my

798
00:40:26,040 --> 00:40:27,680
Speaker 1: dick taste? Like? I mean, I'm gonna be like, I

799
00:40:27,719 --> 00:40:29,360
Speaker 1: don't know, but pull it out, let me taste it.

800
00:40:29,640 --> 00:40:31,279
Speaker 1: I mean, it's my guy. I have to say that. Now.

801
00:40:31,360 --> 00:40:32,799
Speaker 1: Let me ask you this, because you date a guy

802
00:40:32,840 --> 00:40:36,640
Speaker 1: who eats all kinds of nasty ship no, you know,

803
00:40:36,680 --> 00:40:38,640
Speaker 1: that's actually a thing that I have a problem with

804
00:40:38,719 --> 00:40:41,640
Speaker 1: dating now. Being that I do have such a strict diet,

805
00:40:42,480 --> 00:40:44,279
Speaker 1: it's difficult for me to date someone who eats bad.

806
00:40:44,320 --> 00:40:46,080
Speaker 1: Like I'm always looking at the plate like you're gonna

807
00:40:46,080 --> 00:40:48,560
Speaker 1: eat that? I can't say with my friends. And I'm

808
00:40:48,600 --> 00:40:51,360
Speaker 1: not even like anything, just like a kind of a

809
00:40:51,360 --> 00:40:54,319
Speaker 1: clean eater, like not vegitarian or vegan. I don't eat

810
00:40:54,360 --> 00:40:56,359
Speaker 1: work out beer, to eat beef. I try to buy

811
00:40:56,360 --> 00:40:58,839
Speaker 1: like organic food, and I try to like cook most

812
00:40:58,880 --> 00:41:00,920
Speaker 1: of my food. I'm not really big restaurants, but my

813
00:41:00,960 --> 00:41:03,520
Speaker 1: friends they eat McDonald's and drink so smoke cigar. Ioud

814
00:41:03,560 --> 00:41:07,759
Speaker 1: be like chicken. I mean, I don't mean, because it's

815
00:41:07,760 --> 00:41:10,920
Speaker 1: like your body your body really tastes like what you consume.

816
00:41:11,000 --> 00:41:12,640
Speaker 1: And it's just like if I'm sitting there watching you

817
00:41:12,640 --> 00:41:14,480
Speaker 1: eat chemicals, I'm like, oh my god, it's chemicals and

818
00:41:14,560 --> 00:41:16,320
Speaker 1: that that's hard from those corn serve. I'm like, I

819
00:41:16,400 --> 00:41:20,040
Speaker 1: sorry freaking And I have to say that. You know,

820
00:41:20,120 --> 00:41:24,200
Speaker 1: the guys I'm with, they have really good diets. They

821
00:41:24,200 --> 00:41:30,760
Speaker 1: eat well, like I can't even imagine dating somebody who's

822
00:41:30,840 --> 00:41:34,319
Speaker 1: cheese groups. Have you ever tasted nasty sperm? Yeah, it's

823
00:41:34,360 --> 00:41:36,520
Speaker 1: the word I can say, so yes, And that's the reason.

824
00:41:36,560 --> 00:41:45,000
Speaker 1: It's like molted airway you like girls, we remember it

825
00:41:45,440 --> 00:41:48,719
Speaker 1: tastes like it's like bleak should be like comm is

826
00:41:48,719 --> 00:41:54,640
Speaker 1: not already the most tasty thing anyway. Yeah, I'm sure

827
00:41:54,680 --> 00:41:57,840
Speaker 1: it would be like give me some let me squeeze.

828
00:41:59,760 --> 00:42:05,960
Speaker 1: Let probably got drunk off much, but right now the

829
00:42:06,040 --> 00:42:08,920
Speaker 1: nasty come does exist. And it's like after that moment

830
00:42:08,960 --> 00:42:10,799
Speaker 1: you I mean, I literally I was just like and

831
00:42:10,840 --> 00:42:12,279
Speaker 1: it was my boyfriend at the time, and I was

832
00:42:12,360 --> 00:42:14,359
Speaker 1: just like, because I don't believe in giving her less

833
00:42:14,360 --> 00:42:16,960
Speaker 1: my nigga, I just wanted and I was just like, listen,

834
00:42:17,040 --> 00:42:19,440
Speaker 1: I can't do this anymore because it tastes really fucking nasty.

835
00:42:19,440 --> 00:42:20,360
Speaker 1: He's like, what do you mean? I was like, it

836
00:42:20,360 --> 00:42:23,080
Speaker 1: takes like fucking nastiness, fucking please, just when it hit

837
00:42:23,120 --> 00:42:25,800
Speaker 1: the air, I was like, I mean, and he was offended,

838
00:42:25,880 --> 00:42:28,160
Speaker 1: but I was just like, no, because you're doing it.

839
00:42:28,200 --> 00:42:29,960
Speaker 1: Wasn't a nicer way to say that. I mean, I

840
00:42:30,000 --> 00:42:32,080
Speaker 1: didn't give a funk. It wasn't I mean, it wasn't

841
00:42:32,120 --> 00:42:33,799
Speaker 1: nice to put that nasty come to my mom. It wasn't.

842
00:42:33,800 --> 00:42:37,359
Speaker 1: So you get what you get? Well, listen, he well

843
00:42:37,400 --> 00:42:40,200
Speaker 1: he should have had nasty. It was you kiss the

844
00:42:40,239 --> 00:42:42,040
Speaker 1: guy right after it comes in your mouth, or you

845
00:42:42,080 --> 00:42:46,720
Speaker 1: have to. Now you're talking it because some men forgot

846
00:42:46,719 --> 00:42:49,640
Speaker 1: about that. That's called snowball and not like the kind

847
00:42:49,680 --> 00:42:54,719
Speaker 1: of like giving it. And I haven't brushed my teeth yet.

848
00:42:53,760 --> 00:42:57,759
Speaker 1: If it's still snowball, is that okay with you? What's that?

849
00:42:57,800 --> 00:43:01,040
Speaker 1: I'm sorry? Is it okay like her to kiss you

850
00:43:01,120 --> 00:43:03,960
Speaker 1: right after you come in her mouth or actually not okay?

851
00:43:04,440 --> 00:43:09,239
Speaker 1: It depends on the mess. Even if it's yeah, she

852
00:43:09,320 --> 00:43:14,160
Speaker 1: still it's all gone. What is wrong with you? Guys?

853
00:43:14,560 --> 00:43:16,440
Speaker 1: Wait a minute, Wait a minute, somebody if you get

854
00:43:16,480 --> 00:43:18,640
Speaker 1: but if you gave your your girl head and when

855
00:43:18,680 --> 00:43:21,440
Speaker 1: you want to kiss her mouth to taste it. I

856
00:43:21,480 --> 00:43:23,399
Speaker 1: want so then why is it okay for her? But

857
00:43:23,400 --> 00:43:25,480
Speaker 1: but she can't kiss you. I mean it's not okay.

858
00:43:25,640 --> 00:43:28,040
Speaker 1: Is she not okay with it? Okay? One of my

859
00:43:28,120 --> 00:43:30,120
Speaker 1: good friends, one of my goods, I'm not okay with it.

860
00:43:30,600 --> 00:43:34,720
Speaker 1: Man is a curious person, though, but like back curious.

861
00:43:34,920 --> 00:43:39,640
Speaker 1: I don't know what she sucks is dick? He comes

862
00:43:39,640 --> 00:43:41,640
Speaker 1: to her mouth when they make out, he wants to

863
00:43:41,640 --> 00:43:44,800
Speaker 1: taste it. Yeah, it's tasting your own come again. That

864
00:43:44,840 --> 00:43:47,560
Speaker 1: sounds like a porn I was watching to me. I

865
00:43:47,560 --> 00:43:50,200
Speaker 1: don't want to call it gay, and I don't want

866
00:43:50,200 --> 00:43:53,280
Speaker 1: to call it bisexual. I just want to say he's

867
00:43:53,400 --> 00:43:56,560
Speaker 1: he wants to staystymself. He's like a cat cat. Yes,

868
00:43:56,719 --> 00:44:00,360
Speaker 1: it's that's that's just like unnecessarily weird. For no, he'saking

869
00:44:00,400 --> 00:44:03,200
Speaker 1: extreme nurses, just freaky. I just don't want to judge,

870
00:44:03,239 --> 00:44:05,719
Speaker 1: because you know, I don't judge my friends and they're no,

871
00:44:07,239 --> 00:44:11,759
Speaker 1: I don't. I mean, I mean, I understand me personally.

872
00:44:11,880 --> 00:44:14,719
Speaker 1: If um, if a guy comes in my mouth and

873
00:44:14,800 --> 00:44:17,960
Speaker 1: he asked me to make out with him, I'm not

874
00:44:17,960 --> 00:44:19,920
Speaker 1: gonna do it. I'm gonna feel a little awkward. I'm

875
00:44:19,920 --> 00:44:23,360
Speaker 1: gonna be like, wait, I'm gonna make up an excuse.

876
00:44:23,360 --> 00:44:26,040
Speaker 1: Oh wait, hold on, I'm getting it some thirsty you

877
00:44:26,040 --> 00:44:28,040
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Let me get some water because

878
00:44:28,280 --> 00:44:31,319
Speaker 1: wash it, damn. And I'm gonna I'm gonna. You know,

879
00:44:31,800 --> 00:44:34,680
Speaker 1: I'm gonna. I'm not gonna. It's gonna be a turnoff. Right,

880
00:44:34,760 --> 00:44:39,279
Speaker 1: it's weird to you. Yeah, it is very weird. But

881
00:44:39,360 --> 00:44:43,480
Speaker 1: I don't but reverse it. When I come and when

882
00:44:43,480 --> 00:44:47,239
Speaker 1: I come from a guy giving me oral, I don't

883
00:44:47,320 --> 00:44:49,200
Speaker 1: mind him coming up and kissing me. I think you

884
00:44:49,280 --> 00:44:51,399
Speaker 1: want to take yourself calm up and kiss me. Yeah,

885
00:44:51,400 --> 00:44:55,680
Speaker 1: I want to look at it. Yeah, right, reverse it.

886
00:44:55,680 --> 00:44:58,560
Speaker 1: It's okay. But for the guy to come in the

887
00:44:58,640 --> 00:45:02,080
Speaker 1: girl's mouth and then make out with her, it's it's awkward.

888
00:45:02,120 --> 00:45:08,239
Speaker 1: That's a little strange. I think it's it's curious. Well,

889
00:45:08,239 --> 00:45:10,280
Speaker 1: here's the last question I have for you guys today.

890
00:45:10,840 --> 00:45:13,319
Speaker 1: All right, and this question is if you could have

891
00:45:13,400 --> 00:45:16,759
Speaker 1: one superpower, what would it be. I want to fly.

892
00:45:18,239 --> 00:45:20,040
Speaker 1: That makes sense. You can get where you gotta go

893
00:45:20,080 --> 00:45:24,279
Speaker 1: with that, having to worry about traffic. I want to

894
00:45:24,280 --> 00:45:33,319
Speaker 1: be invisible. Oh ship, it's on ship. Yeah, I know.

895
00:45:33,360 --> 00:45:43,319
Speaker 1: He was home now you know, damn problem in the bedroom, Like, oh,

896
00:45:43,440 --> 00:45:46,000
Speaker 1: this is what you're doing when I'm not here? Um,

897
00:45:46,040 --> 00:45:48,560
Speaker 1: I think I want to predict the future. Oh you

898
00:45:48,560 --> 00:45:50,319
Speaker 1: can win a lot of you. Yeah. See for me,

899
00:45:50,560 --> 00:45:52,560
Speaker 1: I'm like, you know, I would want something like that.

900
00:45:52,680 --> 00:45:54,520
Speaker 1: I can kind of I can kind of like you know,

901
00:45:54,680 --> 00:45:56,600
Speaker 1: if I know something bad it's going to happen, I

902
00:45:56,600 --> 00:46:01,120
Speaker 1: can kind of. She gotta go one up me and

903
00:46:01,160 --> 00:46:12,239
Speaker 1: ships I'm just flying. Just like a week later, I'm

904
00:46:12,239 --> 00:46:20,120
Speaker 1: just tired of I would like a fly. You know

905
00:46:20,160 --> 00:46:23,920
Speaker 1: what it is that y'all seen that movie Handcock and no, no,

906
00:46:24,040 --> 00:46:27,160
Speaker 1: I know we on live service, but Handcock. Yeah, I

907
00:46:27,239 --> 00:46:29,640
Speaker 1: wanted to that guy. I wanted to be that guy.

908
00:46:29,719 --> 00:46:31,520
Speaker 1: I don't wanted to be a drunk the drunk guy

909
00:46:32,120 --> 00:46:35,359
Speaker 1: everywhere back in my drunk days. I wanted to fly

910
00:46:35,480 --> 00:46:38,759
Speaker 1: with a bottle. Deity, what's your superpower? I would want

911
00:46:38,840 --> 00:46:43,680
Speaker 1: like super strength, you know, to be really strong, really yeah,

912
00:46:43,719 --> 00:46:48,360
Speaker 1: because break into things really easily. Want to be a criminal,

913
00:46:54,880 --> 00:46:57,520
Speaker 1: the fifth member of Slaughterhouse. We would say, she wants superpowers,

914
00:46:57,640 --> 00:47:04,279
Speaker 1: super break in the shop people love really we saw it.

915
00:47:04,360 --> 00:47:09,400
Speaker 1: We saw the Grandpost was like black ste but it

916
00:47:09,440 --> 00:47:11,160
Speaker 1: would be like no, Like I feel like I can

917
00:47:11,239 --> 00:47:14,160
Speaker 1: easily beat somebody up now, But it would be like

918
00:47:14,920 --> 00:47:17,520
Speaker 1: what if I had like super stroke, that would be

919
00:47:17,600 --> 00:47:20,440
Speaker 1: like they'll be like Dad, She's like I'm off and

920
00:47:20,520 --> 00:47:24,480
Speaker 1: post easy now it'll be like, no, sweat off on

921
00:47:24,480 --> 00:47:26,640
Speaker 1: my back. Well, I always just like freeze time. You

922
00:47:26,680 --> 00:47:29,000
Speaker 1: ever seen that show back in the day. I think

923
00:47:29,000 --> 00:47:31,680
Speaker 1: it's called out of this World? It's something is remember

924
00:47:31,840 --> 00:47:34,400
Speaker 1: together in free time and then be able to do

925
00:47:34,480 --> 00:47:36,440
Speaker 1: I was like, can freeze time now, I'd never be

926
00:47:36,520 --> 00:47:40,719
Speaker 1: late to nothing just waiting. I just freeze time, taking nap,

927
00:47:43,560 --> 00:47:45,200
Speaker 1: if you want to sit in first class on the flight,

928
00:47:45,280 --> 00:47:53,960
Speaker 1: just freeze time. But right up right exactly. That's so.

929
00:47:53,960 --> 00:47:57,480
Speaker 1: So yeah, we got a thing with time. What is that?

930
00:47:57,560 --> 00:48:00,520
Speaker 1: What was that show cold and he was called out

931
00:48:00,520 --> 00:48:03,600
Speaker 1: of this world? There's something like that him that was

932
00:48:03,719 --> 00:48:07,520
Speaker 1: back in the day movies. So that's why the time

933
00:48:07,600 --> 00:48:09,960
Speaker 1: stuff Like you said, yeah, like that because that's something

934
00:48:10,000 --> 00:48:12,600
Speaker 1: you can't get back. No, it's not. I mean time

935
00:48:12,719 --> 00:48:15,359
Speaker 1: is the most valuable commodity there. So I agree, if

936
00:48:15,360 --> 00:48:18,560
Speaker 1: you could take anything back race, would you besides not

937
00:48:18,560 --> 00:48:23,960
Speaker 1: signing with Dr dre well, you know what that situation

938
00:48:24,120 --> 00:48:27,000
Speaker 1: I reflect back on that and think to myself, I

939
00:48:27,080 --> 00:48:29,360
Speaker 1: wonder what would have happened if I would have signed

940
00:48:30,440 --> 00:48:32,840
Speaker 1: on the shelf. Yeah, I never really I never really

941
00:48:32,920 --> 00:48:35,360
Speaker 1: say damn, I wish I would have. I just wonder

942
00:48:35,440 --> 00:48:38,359
Speaker 1: what would have happened had I would have had had

943
00:48:38,360 --> 00:48:40,360
Speaker 1: I weighed my options a little bit better, but I

944
00:48:40,440 --> 00:48:42,080
Speaker 1: was just so young. And then I called him and

945
00:48:42,120 --> 00:48:44,520
Speaker 1: accent what he thought. He was like, get that million. Yeah,

946
00:48:44,640 --> 00:48:46,080
Speaker 1: it was like he told me to do it, you

947
00:48:46,120 --> 00:48:47,359
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So it was like, I don't

948
00:48:47,400 --> 00:48:51,399
Speaker 1: feel like I played him in any kind of way. Table. Yeah,

949
00:48:51,440 --> 00:48:53,640
Speaker 1: So I mean I don't. I wouldn't. I don't know

950
00:48:53,640 --> 00:48:56,279
Speaker 1: if I would take that back because I'm really really

951
00:48:56,320 --> 00:48:59,399
Speaker 1: happy where I'm at right now. So I mean, maybe

952
00:48:59,440 --> 00:49:01,680
Speaker 1: some of the hurt for my girl, you know, maybe

953
00:49:01,680 --> 00:49:07,600
Speaker 1: some of that ship And I'm not I'm not. I'm

954
00:49:07,600 --> 00:49:09,360
Speaker 1: not just saying that because I'm because I'm here, Like

955
00:49:09,400 --> 00:49:11,359
Speaker 1: I'm actually like, she actually mad at me right now?

956
00:49:11,400 --> 00:49:14,799
Speaker 1: She always mad at you do? What did I do?

957
00:49:14,880 --> 00:49:19,520
Speaker 1: This congratulation even made yourself? No, I didn't play myself.

958
00:49:18,719 --> 00:49:26,080
Speaker 1: She's not that she's a little mad at me. She

959
00:49:26,120 --> 00:49:27,799
Speaker 1: ain't that mad where I played it was like, you know,

960
00:49:28,520 --> 00:49:31,719
Speaker 1: we just mad, like you know, we kissed. I kissed

961
00:49:31,719 --> 00:49:33,200
Speaker 1: her before I left out the house. You know, when

962
00:49:33,200 --> 00:49:35,359
Speaker 1: we really mad at each other, we don't say bye, right,

963
00:49:35,920 --> 00:49:38,520
Speaker 1: And that's when you know what's fucked up. When you

964
00:49:38,560 --> 00:49:41,120
Speaker 1: walk out the door without saying nothing. Yeah, that's when

965
00:49:41,160 --> 00:49:45,160
Speaker 1: you know it's bad. Never do that, right. Well, I'm

966
00:49:45,200 --> 00:49:47,480
Speaker 1: not no matter how what we're going through. I'm not

967
00:49:47,480 --> 00:49:50,400
Speaker 1: getting on a flight. I'll go to the studio, I

968
00:49:50,520 --> 00:49:52,040
Speaker 1: go to the story because I'm not about that. I'm

969
00:49:52,080 --> 00:49:54,560
Speaker 1: not about to lead a state without saying by. That's

970
00:49:54,600 --> 00:49:57,880
Speaker 1: kind of guys. Are guys more sensitive to that, you know,

971
00:49:58,120 --> 00:50:01,120
Speaker 1: not saying bye thing? Because for me, like in the

972
00:50:01,160 --> 00:50:03,319
Speaker 1: morning when I'm getting ready, I don't have time to

973
00:50:03,360 --> 00:50:07,640
Speaker 1: say bye. I'm leaving somewhere. I gotta go. It depends

974
00:50:07,640 --> 00:50:12,080
Speaker 1: on You can't still say no because with my acting

975
00:50:12,120 --> 00:50:14,520
Speaker 1: and time. Oh my, alright, check it. When my one

976
00:50:14,560 --> 00:50:16,440
Speaker 1: time I was going to Detroit, New York. I was

977
00:50:16,520 --> 00:50:19,040
Speaker 1: hosting a party in Detroit, and I bet it was

978
00:50:19,080 --> 00:50:22,080
Speaker 1: that silver ring, but I was leaving it probably silver,

979
00:50:24,040 --> 00:50:26,839
Speaker 1: but you know, um, you know I left. It was

980
00:50:27,040 --> 00:50:28,560
Speaker 1: it was an early fight and I left. He was

981
00:50:28,560 --> 00:50:32,359
Speaker 1: still sleeping and he flipped on me. He's like, he's like, oh,

982
00:50:32,400 --> 00:50:35,600
Speaker 1: you didn't even say by to me when you left.

983
00:50:35,840 --> 00:50:39,040
Speaker 1: Who introduced Who introduced it into the relationship. That's important

984
00:50:39,160 --> 00:50:41,840
Speaker 1: because my girl introduced that ship into our relationship. So

985
00:50:41,920 --> 00:50:44,200
Speaker 1: now if she don't do it, I get mad because

986
00:50:44,200 --> 00:50:47,040
Speaker 1: she started. You know what I'm saying. But he didn't

987
00:50:47,080 --> 00:50:49,560
Speaker 1: want you leaving out of town without being mad, because

988
00:50:49,600 --> 00:50:55,080
Speaker 1: you know, you gotta leave town happy. Whatever it's got, though,

989
00:50:55,120 --> 00:50:58,480
Speaker 1: you just go get on the plane. Some strict made

990
00:50:58,480 --> 00:51:03,839
Speaker 1: me feel what I'm saying, so he made me feel

991
00:51:03,880 --> 00:51:07,399
Speaker 1: totally horrible about it. We're doing music now, we get

992
00:51:07,400 --> 00:51:09,040
Speaker 1: we're getting you getting on the next thing, Stephanie, you

993
00:51:09,080 --> 00:51:15,280
Speaker 1: know what we're gonna make House came, We're gonna do house.

994
00:51:16,320 --> 00:51:22,719
Speaker 1: My heart, I still be listening to Sleeping Bag. You know,

995
00:51:22,719 --> 00:51:24,719
Speaker 1: they always say you should never go to bed either,

996
00:51:24,840 --> 00:51:26,839
Speaker 1: although I know that's hard to do. You know, if

997
00:51:26,880 --> 00:51:29,239
Speaker 1: I'm mad, I'm mad, right, They always say don't go

998
00:51:29,280 --> 00:51:32,879
Speaker 1: to bed mad. That's like one of the rules. Yeah,

999
00:51:32,880 --> 00:51:40,000
Speaker 1: I'm not going to think about it. I'm listening like that.

1000
00:51:40,600 --> 00:51:42,080
Speaker 1: It ain't nothing worse than it ain't no worse than

1001
00:51:42,120 --> 00:51:45,200
Speaker 1: standing up late trying to get past some ship because

1002
00:51:45,440 --> 00:51:47,640
Speaker 1: go to sleep yourself. Like I really sit there and

1003
00:51:47,680 --> 00:51:49,879
Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, I'm trying to figure it out before

1004
00:51:49,880 --> 00:51:52,000
Speaker 1: and I'll be mad. So you know what the worst

1005
00:51:52,160 --> 00:51:54,080
Speaker 1: is when you're mad at somebody and they fall asleep.

1006
00:51:54,320 --> 00:52:00,879
Speaker 1: What you ain't You're waking up body. I'm like, don't

1007
00:52:00,960 --> 00:52:06,520
Speaker 1: let us as she ain't going for yea, I used

1008
00:52:06,520 --> 00:52:09,160
Speaker 1: to be in the crib drunk is hell coming in

1009
00:52:09,239 --> 00:52:11,640
Speaker 1: from a bender. You know what I'm saying. I'd be

1010
00:52:11,719 --> 00:52:16,280
Speaker 1: like halfway up. She would not let me go to sleep, Ryan, Bryan,

1011
00:52:16,440 --> 00:52:19,359
Speaker 1: you know all I keep hand government names exactly. Ryan.

1012
00:52:20,320 --> 00:52:25,279
Speaker 1: I'm like, why are you government naming me? Montgomery? Ryan

1013
00:52:25,440 --> 00:52:30,360
Speaker 1: Daniel Montgomery. You understand what she's saying. I'll wake up

1014
00:52:30,360 --> 00:52:35,680
Speaker 1: and don't remember nothing from yesterday. But that that's the

1015
00:52:35,719 --> 00:52:37,399
Speaker 1: worst when you're still mad in the morning. He don't

1016
00:52:37,400 --> 00:52:41,280
Speaker 1: remember exactly what I was the day before. We're not done.

1017
00:52:42,080 --> 00:52:46,000
Speaker 1: Don't try to act like nothing, like yeah, we don't

1018
00:52:46,040 --> 00:52:48,680
Speaker 1: let things go unless we feel like we've been heard,

1019
00:52:48,960 --> 00:52:53,200
Speaker 1: and we've never It's not over until we're ready for

1020
00:52:53,200 --> 00:52:56,319
Speaker 1: it to be right. That is absolutely correct. But Ryan

1021
00:52:56,400 --> 00:53:00,759
Speaker 1: Daniel Montgommy, we are rooting for you. I appreciate that.

1022
00:53:01,160 --> 00:53:03,080
Speaker 1: I need that, I need people rooting for me. No,

1023
00:53:03,239 --> 00:53:05,919
Speaker 1: for real, as far as everything goes, career is going great,

1024
00:53:05,960 --> 00:53:07,880
Speaker 1: So that part is good because you know what the

1025
00:53:07,920 --> 00:53:10,000
Speaker 1: worse is when your career sucks and then your home

1026
00:53:10,000 --> 00:53:12,200
Speaker 1: life sucks at the same time. Yeah, that's that's a

1027
00:53:12,200 --> 00:53:15,080
Speaker 1: double wham. You're right there. At least I'm doing great

1028
00:53:15,080 --> 00:53:20,000
Speaker 1: out here, making money, were successful, having the best album

1029
00:53:20,000 --> 00:53:23,799
Speaker 1: of my career, you know, But we are rooting for

1030
00:53:23,800 --> 00:53:25,279
Speaker 1: you at home. And so you know, I know your

1031
00:53:25,280 --> 00:53:29,640
Speaker 1: wife is gonna hear this and she's gonna not like something.

1032
00:53:29,800 --> 00:53:34,080
Speaker 1: But you know, it's cool. But she's gonna be like, yeah,

1033
00:53:34,120 --> 00:53:35,640
Speaker 1: it was cool, but why do you say that one

1034
00:53:35,680 --> 00:53:38,439
Speaker 1: thing though that's cool because he don't know no better

1035
00:53:39,840 --> 00:53:41,400
Speaker 1: n say. She's gonna be like, why did you tell

1036
00:53:41,480 --> 00:53:44,680
Speaker 1: him all was mad at you? Why? You know what? Listen,

1037
00:53:44,760 --> 00:53:49,520
Speaker 1: let's say you just say sorry, now, just sorry, apologize. Well,

1038
00:53:49,560 --> 00:53:54,839
Speaker 1: I need to know what I'm apologizing for. She said

1039
00:53:54,880 --> 00:53:56,680
Speaker 1: something that she's gonna be upset. We hit it with that.

1040
00:53:56,760 --> 00:53:58,880
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Sorry. Yeah, and I think you had a

1041
00:53:59,040 --> 00:54:03,759
Speaker 1: very respectful um time with us. Yeah, yeah, I tried

1042
00:54:03,800 --> 00:54:06,440
Speaker 1: to keep it well. Yeah, repect for you. I like.

1043
00:54:07,800 --> 00:54:12,000
Speaker 1: But I'm sorry, babe, if I said anything you said,

1044
00:54:12,400 --> 00:54:14,160
Speaker 1: if I said something wrong, I'm sorry. I know you're

1045
00:54:14,160 --> 00:54:17,640
Speaker 1: watching this, even if you say you didn't watch it,

1046
00:54:18,040 --> 00:54:22,160
Speaker 1: you watched all right. Different layers to this Layers race.

1047
00:54:22,200 --> 00:54:24,360
Speaker 1: Thanks for coming through. We really appreciate you being so

1048
00:54:24,680 --> 00:54:27,120
Speaker 1: for being so open and honest with us. Cool. Thank you.

1049
00:54:27,280 --> 00:54:29,680
Speaker 1: I appreciate you, guys. Live service cheers