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Speaker 1: It's time to catch a Cheater.

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Speaker 2: Only on the Jubile Show, Alissa is on the phone

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Speaker 2: today for it to Catch a Cheater, and she thinks

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Speaker 2: that her boyfriend named Will of a year might be

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Speaker 2: messing around, so we'll see if we can help her out. Alyssa,

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Speaker 2: thanks for coming on the show. What's up? Why do

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Speaker 2: you think Will is cheating on you?

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Speaker 3: I have to say that over this last year, since

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Speaker 3: meeting Will, he's he's been my angel.

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Speaker 1: I've been through quite a bit. I had really messed

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Speaker 1: up home life, and I wasn't able to keep a

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Speaker 1: job because.

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Speaker 3: Of substance stuff, and goes in and out of rehab

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Speaker 3: and it's been really, really rough. It sounds dramatic, but

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Speaker 3: when I met Will, it was really the beginning of

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Speaker 3: me trying to kind of claw my way out of there.

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Speaker 3: He's helped me out, He's helped me get on my

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Speaker 3: feet and even helped me get the job that I

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Speaker 3: have right now.

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Speaker 1: He's done so much for me it hurts so deeply

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Speaker 1: that he might cheating on me.

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Speaker 3: He's always been kind of a geek since I met him,

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Speaker 3: but I mean, he's one of those people.

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Speaker 1: Who's he's always got his laptop on him.

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Speaker 3: And he's either posting or he's reposting or commenting or whatever.

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Speaker 1: I mean, compared to what I used to be addicted to,

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Speaker 1: it's just nothing. But I mean, he's kind of addicted.

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Speaker 3: But he used to be very open about all this

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Speaker 3: stuff that he's doing, and he always had his laptop

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Speaker 3: open next to us when he was when he was

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Speaker 1: But in the last few weeks he's gone into this

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Speaker 4: Weird secret mode, like he'll face his laptop away from me,

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Speaker 4: or he'll just pick it up and take it in

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Speaker 4: the screen.

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Speaker 1: And he's never ever been like that, And.

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Speaker 3: You know, I'll say something about it, but he'll just say, oh,

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Speaker 3: you know, you're just seeing things, isn't out there, or

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Speaker 3: just say I'm not being secretive and stuff like that.

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Speaker 1: But I mean, I thought that maybe wasn't my head.

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Speaker 1: But my friends sent me a screencap of something that

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Speaker 1: really made me suspicious.

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Speaker 2: Okay, what was that?

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Speaker 3: So she sent me a screencap of this relationship blog

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Speaker 3: that she saw, and it was this blog of about

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Speaker 3: somebody talking about a randomly specific fight with his girlfriend

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Speaker 3: about this actor who was in breaking dad and just

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Speaker 3: reading it it sounded super familiar. It was like, are

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Speaker 3: the exact fight that we had had, like down to

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Speaker 3: the actor. That wasn't the part that made me call

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Speaker 3: you guys. It was the comments underneath the blog post.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 3: So there was this back and forth and the comments

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Speaker 3: between the author of the blog and some fangirl okay,

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Speaker 3: and the comments were like, I'm so glad you finally

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Speaker 3: left her. Now I have you for myself, responds, thanks

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Speaker 3: for always being near through all this, And it's just.

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Speaker 1: That was the part.

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Speaker 3: It wasn't the blog. It wasn't like the copying of

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Speaker 3: our life exactly. It's just like the comments with this girl.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, Alyssa is on the phone and she

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Speaker 2: thinks that her boyfriend of a year named Will might

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Speaker 2: be cheating. So we're about to call him and pretend

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Speaker 2: and its flowers delivered from our Florida department, and we'll

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Speaker 2: see if he sends those to his girlfriend Alyssa or

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Speaker 2: to somebody else. But first Alissa, why don't you remind

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Speaker 2: us about your situation again? Real quick?

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Speaker 3: So I've set this boyfriend of a year and he's

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Speaker 3: been really supportive. But I found this blog that went

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Speaker 3: over like exactly the fight we had, and in the

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Speaker 3: comments there was this girl saying, you know, I'm so

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Speaker 3: glad you finally left her, and I just I don't

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Speaker 3: know for sure if Will was the author of the blog,

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Speaker 3: and I definitely do not know whoever the person was

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Speaker 3: that was commenting. I just need to know if this

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Speaker 3: is all in my head. I feel like I'm crazy,

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Speaker 3: and I don't want to feel that way anymore.

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Speaker 1: I just have to know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but it seems kind of coincidental you would find

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Speaker 2: the blog and then all that stuff. So all right,

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Speaker 2: are you ready for us to call? Okay, here we go. Hi,

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Speaker 1: This is Will.

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Speaker 3: Hi.

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Speaker 2: Will. Please don't hang up. This is not a marketing

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Speaker 1: Okay, you can send them to Annie.

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Speaker 2: Annie, Okay, and do you want to include a card

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Speaker 2: to Annie?

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Speaker 5: Just just say this say almost gun and I'm all yours.

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Speaker 2: Almost gotcha? Okay, great, And at this point I'll let

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Speaker 2: you know that this is actually a radio show.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Hi, it's called The Jewel Show.

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Speaker 3: Hi.

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Speaker 2: I'm Victoria and my name is Jewbell. And we do

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Speaker 2: a segment called to Catch a Cheater, where if you

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Speaker 2: think your significant other might be messing around, you see

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Speaker 2: what they send flowers to and your girlfriend of a year,

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Speaker 2: Alyssa is on the phone, has been listening.

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Speaker 1: Wait wait wait phone, yeah, wait, what's going on? Alyssa?

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Speaker 2: Who?

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Speaker 1: Annie?

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Speaker 3: Wait? Wait?

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Speaker 1: Wait?

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Speaker 3: What?

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Speaker 2: What is what is happening?

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Speaker 5: What do y'all?

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Speaker 1: What are y'all doing? I called them to see if

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Speaker 1: you were cheating on me, and damn it, you are.

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Speaker 5: Wait do you think I'm cheating?

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 5: Why would you think?

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Speaker 1: Why are you?

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Speaker 5: Why would you?

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Speaker 3: What?

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, why are you so secretive about your laptop?

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Speaker 1: And what is this rumant? One where we're in had.

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Speaker 3: Our exact fight down to the actor, I'm breaking bad

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Speaker 3: and then you're you're talking to someone in the comments?

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Speaker 3: Wait what do you and and you just send some flowers?

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Speaker 1: Did somebody named Annie? Wait?

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Speaker 5: Listen this Okay, First of all, I don't know what

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Speaker 5: you're talking about. Annie is it's somebody that I work with.

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Speaker 5: Any is a coworker. She's my friend at works. She's

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Speaker 5: working on a project and she's been struggling. So what

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Speaker 5: I'm doing is I'm trying to finish up my project.

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Speaker 5: And I say it, I'm all yours because when I

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Speaker 5: been really patient.

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Speaker 1: Agree, why are you saying you're all hers? I would

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Speaker 1: be all hers to your life?

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Speaker 5: Is it? She's been really patient, That's what I'm sayings.

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Speaker 2: And coworkers.

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, no no. I already knew he were

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Speaker 3: cheating on me. I don't even care about that, But

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Speaker 3: God knows what else she been doing? The entire blonde

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Speaker 3: series about me and how he's how he saved me.

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Speaker 1: Wait, so, okay, okay, look, yes, I have the blog.

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Speaker 5: I have a blog that I write, but it's not like.

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Speaker 2: You.

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Speaker 5: I write a blog series about our relationship. Yeah, so

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Speaker 5: what I do that? Yes?

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Speaker 2: So who are you communicating with in the comments?

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Speaker 5: Just the fans, the people that talk back and forth

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Speaker 5: with me. It's not like like I'm doing anything with him.

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Speaker 5: It's not even that big a deal. I don't understand

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Speaker 5: why you're so upset about it.

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Speaker 3: It is a blonde series of my entire relationship with you.

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Speaker 3: How may you took me from almost ask to what

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Speaker 3: I am today?

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Speaker 1: And oh oh.

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Speaker 3: The details that you give I would not even share

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Speaker 3: with Jenny, my best friend.

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Speaker 5: What Okay, But it's not like I'm lying like it's

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Speaker 5: what happened. It is a recount of our relationship. From

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Speaker 5: my perspective, I should be able to write that.

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Speaker 1: There's them in there, it's unreal.

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Speaker 2: Well, but Alyssa, what about that girl that you saw

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Speaker 2: him talking to?

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Speaker 1: What girl? What girl? Did you see me talking to you? No?

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, you were talking to I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Maybe that was Annie on the comments that you were saying, Oh,

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Speaker 3: you know, it's only a little while.

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Speaker 1: Longer, and then I'll be all yours and all this stuff.

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Speaker 3: It's like, thank you for being patient with me, and

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Speaker 1: That's her, isn't it.

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Speaker 3: And then you send her roses and say that I'm

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Speaker 3: almost done and I'm all yours.

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Speaker 1: What I don't even mean?

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Speaker 2: The girl is on the blog.

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Speaker 1: I don't know where. Oh, just stop already, let's stop.

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Speaker 5: The car means.

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Speaker 2: Though, from all yours to help to help with work.

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Speaker 5: It's about work, like.

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Speaker 2: Any why are you lying?

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Speaker 1: What am I lying about? I'm telling you what you

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Speaker 5: Mother, you want I'm trying to tell you what's going on,

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Speaker 5: but you don't want to hear like I write the blog, yes,

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Speaker 5: and my coworkers struggling to I fit the flowers.

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Speaker 1: That's what happened.

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Speaker 2: It feels weird.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and this blog of yours, you're this modern state.

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Speaker 1: How you've saved a girl.

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Speaker 3: You got the flip flugs out of her hand to

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Speaker 3: make her realize yourself worse. Oh my gosh, that's you say.

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Speaker 3: And you know what, all a bunch of things that

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Speaker 3: you wrote in the father that blog, they never happened,

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Speaker 3: and you've been monetizing it.

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Speaker 1: Be way for stuff. Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, people want to give me tips for the blog

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Speaker 5: that I write, so I take them. That's that's not

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Speaker 5: a big deal.

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Speaker 3: I didn't give you permission to write any of this

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Speaker 3: or to post those personal photos.

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Speaker 1: You got none of my permissions for this. I blurred

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Speaker 1: your faith? Oh oh you could not.

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Speaker 3: Oh and Will, by the way, did you know that

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Speaker 3: your your work, your company has a website that has

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Speaker 3: a list of every single person who works there and

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Speaker 3: there is not a single Annie.

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Speaker 1: Oh, imagine that. Yeah, you're caught, You're caught lying.

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Speaker 2: She just hung up, Melissa. I am so sorry. I

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Speaker 2: think you got your answer. That sucks.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, couldn't even come clean. He could not even be honest.

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Speaker 2: That's not a strong warrior type of a man, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: you portray yourself to be if you can't even tell

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Speaker 2: somebody the truth. Good news is you won't be on

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Speaker 2: a blog anymore that you don't want to be. And

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Speaker 2: if you are, you can go ahead and see that.

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Speaker 1: But yeah I will. Can I get this segment from

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Speaker 1: you guys so I can use it as evidence the

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Speaker 1: Jewel Shows to catch a cheater