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Speaker 1: Were were doing, Jakes, So the word of the day
Speaker 1: is impetuous, I M P E T I O U
Speaker 1: s impetuous, impetuous um and impetua's is basically like acting
Speaker 1: or moving too quickly without thinking or care. And when
Speaker 1: I think about impetuous, I think about the way that
Speaker 1: most nigga is nuts were without too quickly. You don't
Speaker 1: kill I thought, yes, man, we out finish sate. It's
Speaker 1: on the league that old covers don't let you add it.
Speaker 1: Now I'm that it's but it's that a good thing,
Speaker 1: you know, a bad thing, a quick nut. It's terrible.
Speaker 1: I know it's a terrible thing for the woman. Did
Speaker 1: she get flattered by that? So look on my page
Speaker 1: from Shout Out of Spiritual Work, I reposited it from them.
Speaker 1: But so the first tweet was when like a woman says,
Speaker 1: you know, she got that super grip water, super soaker, Candyland, whatever, whatever.
Speaker 1: But then when the nigga gets in it and nut's quick,
Speaker 1: she's not flattered by that being a compliment of her advertisement.
Speaker 1: She's piste off because she wasn't satisfying. Yeah, like that,
Speaker 1: get a rose, usual rose. You can't lose shot or
Speaker 1: you know I'm gonna cut or you just find you
Speaker 1: somebody that could go the first round quick and in
Speaker 1: the second round you got it. You just want somebody
Speaker 1: that knows how to funk and it gets rid of
Speaker 1: the first nut before he comes to you, so that
Speaker 1: you don't even have to work something else with me.
Speaker 1: I mean not, no, not before he not. You don't
Speaker 1: have to fund somebody else to get rid of the
Speaker 1: first n You can jack off and get rid of it.
Speaker 1: It's gonna be if it's a quick if you're a
Speaker 1: quick nutter, and you know that, like, okay, your second round,
Speaker 1: it's gonna be extended, like you know, you gotta get
Speaker 1: that first nut out of the way. Nothing ain't with
Speaker 1: that ship rules. I think that we're basically like if
Speaker 1: you move too quick and you don't really have a
Speaker 1: purpose or a meaning to what you're trying to get it,
Speaker 1: or your goals or anything like that, you can easily
Speaker 1: like funk up. You know what I'm saying. You move
Speaker 1: too quick, You get into something too quick without having
Speaker 1: the right mindset or something like that. You never know
Speaker 1: like what you get yourself into, you might make a
Speaker 1: mistake and then you might piggyback off of it later
Speaker 1: and be like damn, well, I think I moved too quick,
Speaker 1: Like a lot of people do that in life, you know. Yeah,
Speaker 1: they're veryan postal. So it's like, that's like me with
Speaker 1: my music. You know what I'm saying, Like, it's not
Speaker 1: gonna kick off right then and there, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, So I can't expect it to move too
Speaker 1: fast or anything like that. I gotta take time. You
Speaker 1: gotta take your time. You really gotta study and really
Speaker 1: get your mindset right to really move forward with stuff.
Speaker 1: So yeah, it's it could, it could, It could definitely,
Speaker 1: But you could be what's the name of the word impetuous.
Speaker 1: You could be impetuous with your words too. You can.
Speaker 1: You can. You can speak too fast and say the
Speaker 1: wrong ship and regret it. But then as black people us,
Speaker 1: I can know I said the wrong ship, But since
Speaker 1: I said it, I'm gonna stand on it. You get
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, and you're knowing some bullshit? Yeah that's ego,
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, right, that ego is like I ain't gonna
Speaker 1: take it back because try. Yeah, I got sign the
Speaker 1: answer that do. Y'all don't feel like when people say
Speaker 1: stuff fast and they piste off, that's really how they
Speaker 1: truly feel because when people say shipped to me quick,
Speaker 1: I feel like that's really how you feel. You can't
Speaker 1: come back and say I regret that, but you can
Speaker 1: feel that. You can feel like that in the moment.
Speaker 1: Though about that, because I don't mean like that before.
Speaker 1: You just you don't mean to. It's just like you're
Speaker 1: just trying to do a quick job. Yeah, you're in
Speaker 1: the moment part of you mean to. Huh if it
Speaker 1: came out, I meant that in the moment. You can
Speaker 1: mean something in the moment and then you see how
Speaker 1: the person receiving and you think about it, be like, damn,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't really trying to see it like that, but
Speaker 1: I was trying to see it like that at the
Speaker 1: moment and the moment under the heat, in the heat
Speaker 1: of the moment. What about the people that be saying
Speaker 1: crazy ship like I hope you die or your mama
Speaker 1: gonna die, and ship like that, like you you can't
Speaker 1: take them type of words back. I'm just saying people
Speaker 1: be saying that type of ship when they're mad. Are
Speaker 1: you mad at people be saying like I hope you die,
Speaker 1: I hope your mama died, hope everybody around you die,
Speaker 1: and I'm sorry. I was just mad. But it's like
Speaker 1: you're saying a lot of ship that you know, really
Speaker 1: it ain't gonna happen to them, Yeah, because I did
Speaker 1: that before too, Like like give an example, like my
Speaker 1: friend has a club it's not it's not open anymore,
Speaker 1: and his brother has the club next door. So we
Speaker 1: were having an event there and it was a discrepancy
Speaker 1: about the parking. But like me and I've known this, yeah,
Speaker 1: but like I've known him for so long, bro, and
Speaker 1: like we've never had an issue, never had a dispute,
Speaker 1: never had nothing. But he was like trying it about
Speaker 1: some parking and they weren't even open her ship. So
Speaker 1: it was like it was it kept escalating, kept escalating.
Speaker 1: It was like some real petty tip for that ship.
Speaker 1: And like I was so mad to the point where
Speaker 1: like I was literally like like tears crying, and I
Speaker 1: said a whole bunch of ship that like I didn't
Speaker 1: really mean at the moment, like I told the nigga
Speaker 1: like he was gonna have to move his kids and
Speaker 1: like all kind of ship like, but it was, but
Speaker 1: it was like I felt, but that's how disrespected that
Speaker 1: I felt, Like I really felt like, you're really doing
Speaker 1: this to me about some parking for some ship that
Speaker 1: you're not even using, just trying to be like on
Speaker 1: some bullshit. So I have done that. I never wished
Speaker 1: depth on nobody or no ship like that, but I
Speaker 1: have like done some ship, said some ship that I
Speaker 1: didn't mean their kids because they was gonna pop them there.
Speaker 1: I wasn't trying to get that deep into it, but
Speaker 1: like not like, but it's just like I feel like
Speaker 1: when when you when you're pushed past your limits and
Speaker 1: you feel like disrespected, unwarranted or you feel like disrespected
Speaker 1: intentionally for no reason. I feel like sometimes, like you said,
Speaker 1: you can say some ship that you don't mean and
Speaker 1: it doesn't necessarily mean that that's how you feel because
Speaker 1: me and him have never had a problem. We we
Speaker 1: love each other, We've never had no issues. He always
Speaker 1: looks out for me, whatever whatever. But in that moment,
Speaker 1: I really felt like, nigga, like your kids are gonna
Speaker 1: have to move, like if you keep sucking playing with me.
Speaker 1: Like That's how I felt, but it wasn't. After that,
Speaker 1: we you know what I'm saying. We talked about it,
Speaker 1: We hugged and made up and I never thought about
Speaker 1: his kids again, How dangerous is that? Because in that situation,
Speaker 1: that's one thing. But sometimes that ship that was stacks
Speaker 1: on top of each other like hits the fan, and
Speaker 1: sometimes people might sometimes people might feel like if it
Speaker 1: gets to that point, they'll be like, oh, that's how
Speaker 1: you really felt all along and they never spoke on
Speaker 1: it or something like that. So I feel like that's
Speaker 1: what kind of make it escalate in certain situations, because
Speaker 1: it's like, if you're saying it now, Dunn, why you
Speaker 1: feel las week when I was going through this, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, So that escalate, Yeah, because just
Speaker 1: like in that situation with me and him, like he
Speaker 1: knows we never had no problem, and he knew that
Speaker 1: he was wrong and he knew that, Like I flipped
Speaker 1: because you were wrong and you tried me, and I
Speaker 1: had all the right and authority to flip. But it
Speaker 1: was like, if you're in a situation with somebody and
Speaker 1: you've had little ship here and there, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying to make you kind of like when it
Speaker 1: comes out like yeah, you meant that, And I was
Speaker 1: I was thinking about yeah back in Yeah, yeah, you've
Speaker 1: been waiting for a little to let up to this
Speaker 1: what's the word again, impetuous? What you feel like one
Speaker 1: of your impetuous situations? Was it happened to you? Or
Speaker 1: I mean says some wrong. You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: Like the situation, I guess do give it like you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, like a lot of kids, like
Speaker 1: a promise that I cut my second baby mama. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like she coming at me sideways
Speaker 1: though you feel this like man, I'm like fucking bitch,
Speaker 1: like you could die. But she take it as like
Speaker 1: I mean, but I mean that's my that's my second
Speaker 1: baby mom. Because she appreciate nothing. You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: Like she said, my baby mama, I ain't got no
Speaker 1: respect for do you know? You gotta what you got,
Speaker 1: but I got respect for my child. You gotta have
Speaker 1: a certain level of because she's the mother of your kids,
Speaker 1: your second did your second kid live with you? And
Speaker 1: you know that and you know that, you know that,
Speaker 1: you know that, you you know you're advocate for real.
Speaker 1: You said that I am so you know some of
Speaker 1: these women's Now I'm not saying that disrespect is never good.
Speaker 1: You know some of these women put they selling them
Speaker 1: situate in a in a predicament where you can't even rich,
Speaker 1: you can't even deal with him respect. No, I'm totally
Speaker 1: with that, but to a certain extent, if your kids
Speaker 1: are smart, if your kids are well fed, if your
Speaker 1: kids are mannerable. Even though you and this bitch are
Speaker 1: getting into it, if she's doing what she's about to
Speaker 1: do as a mother, you still have to have some
Speaker 1: ounce of something for her because she's making sure that
Speaker 1: your kids are good. Now, if you and her getting
Speaker 1: into it and she's doing dirty ship to you, yeah,
Speaker 1: she's the worst bitch in the world. But at the
Speaker 1: end of the day, there has to be a little
Speaker 1: piece of something if your kids are on point and
Speaker 1: she's taking care of your kids. But you can put
Speaker 1: me in a position that I say something pickle with ship,
Speaker 1: whatever it is, where I can say that, yeah, you
Speaker 1: take care. You know what I'm saying? Like the calling
Speaker 1: about no dead being ship man m a four months?
Speaker 1: God damn, how much more fucker you wanted me to do? Wait? Wait,
Speaker 1: say that again, hold on, hold on, say it again,
Speaker 1: number four once? What that mean? I mean I ain't
Speaker 1: saying not wrong with I mean I'm gonna do what
Speaker 1: I'll do. You know she's straight, fit, pels whatever. But
Speaker 1: I don't know what he's saying. Man, when you won't
Speaker 1: go motherfucker using the baby and something else. You're using
Speaker 1: the baby. It's your leverage. But is he doing it's
Speaker 1: a four months baby? Just baby four months? But you
Speaker 1: want me to get chipped out on a month for
Speaker 1: four month? Wait? Whoever you putting words in that man mouth?
Speaker 1: He didn't say she has the ten. What's the problem.
Speaker 1: You know how to beat you be man, Come get Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm getting money. You're telling me to come baby. The
Speaker 1: more you've been don't don't don't he baby talking sh
Speaker 1: up at in the morning. Ship rose some bullshit like okay,
Speaker 1: you cook, get your daughter. She won't let me sleep
Speaker 1: and talk. That means you gotta get her some days
Speaker 1: out the week. So you gotta come get your daughters
Speaker 1: two or three days. Now. Let me tell you, girl,
Speaker 1: I want a kid and the baby folk months. That
Speaker 1: first year is hell for any money gonna keep it?
Speaker 1: It's hell. So if I got your kids and the
Speaker 1: kid living me satur days out the week, and I'll
Speaker 1: call you and saying come get him two days out
Speaker 1: the way you what you're doing out of spike sometimes
Speaker 1: be right, call you to get on your nerve and
Speaker 1: do some ship out of spike right now. I ain't
Speaker 1: going to them. I ain't. But it's women like that definitely,
Speaker 1: when like you got like a new girl and she's
Speaker 1: still when she was with you, and stuff like that.
Speaker 1: I want my first baby, mom, but I got a
Speaker 1: phoe by your feeling. But I make you all my
Speaker 1: kids straights like you've been playing pinkball. Yeah here, do
Speaker 1: you take care of anything? That's all? And I can't
Speaker 1: taking care of She's still calling you a phone in
Speaker 1: the morning, asked me for she just want to be
Speaker 1: with him? That is That could be that too, though
Speaker 1: that's fat now that might be fact. I'm here with
Speaker 1: this one. I'm making sure I'm keeping my first kids
Speaker 1: and the kids straight. And then I tell her, look,
Speaker 1: I bet I'm about to finish running around the kids.
Speaker 1: Let me tell, let me ask this. Were you the
Speaker 1: second baby mama? Were you with her for any extended
Speaker 1: period of time or did you just her and had
Speaker 1: a baby. I just had a baby. Keep it straight.
Speaker 1: Every want me to be honest with you, though you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. She doesn't have a reason to
Speaker 1: feel like she was in a relationship with you or
Speaker 1: anything like that before you went back to the first one? Man,
Speaker 1: did you leave her for the first one? Yeah? I
Speaker 1: went back to the first Okay, man, that's what it is.
Speaker 1: That's what it is. So what you call it spiteful?
Speaker 1: I don't know, y'all. Situation, the girl don't get mad,
Speaker 1: but you know, but you know they're gonna, they're gonna,
Speaker 1: they're gonna. What else would she do? Facts, I gotta
Speaker 1: get on your nerves for this, because this is getting
Speaker 1: on my nerves that you're not here. Yeah, right, yeah
Speaker 1: it shot know what the we're talking about, bro, I
Speaker 1: gotta raised my hand, all right, I do know what
Speaker 1: you're talking about. But at the same time, I feel
Speaker 1: like a lot of men don't recognize what mothers have
Speaker 1: to go through and y'all things, a lot of men
Speaker 1: think that mama's just be calling to be up under
Speaker 1: your ass, and in reality, I'm gonna, I'm gonna keep
Speaker 1: it a buck with you. We sometimes be envious of
Speaker 1: the fact that you outliving your motherfucking life. If we
Speaker 1: see on Instagram that you out with your new bitch
Speaker 1: and y'all out having fun and I'm trying to go
Speaker 1: to sleep, and this it's envious because we both had
Speaker 1: this child. And if I know that you're not jumping
Speaker 1: up and you don't even at least have like two
Speaker 1: or three of them nights when you feel where I feel,
Speaker 1: I'm pissed the funk off. But then the man turned
Speaker 1: around and say, okay, give me my eyes. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: bring mover here my other folk. I'm not saying everyone
Speaker 1: I know me my child father. All I'm gonna do
Speaker 1: is give me her phone number, and she my sister
Speaker 1: wife were in this ship together. I don't give a
Speaker 1: fun on another one. What's spending I'm saying, state like,
Speaker 1: you know what? This is what I'm saying. You know what,
Speaker 1: I don't want to deal with you. You know, my
Speaker 1: nerve is baby mom, give me my baby, Give me
Speaker 1: my baby. You say, but since you since you here,
Speaker 1: I don't want to deal with you cause you get
Speaker 1: on my nerve. I keep on saying, and peck with
Speaker 1: what the name of the word, I'm gonna keep saying,
Speaker 1: Petzels ship done with you. So what we do is,
Speaker 1: let's let's not out to sched you. What I'm about
Speaker 1: to schedule, then it's gonna be when it's when the
Speaker 1: schedule going right, everything going smooth. It's too smooth for
Speaker 1: you know, so you're gonna have to corrupt my life
Speaker 1: when it's smooth when I when I when I agree
Speaker 1: to do everything that I decided to do, and I
Speaker 1: want you on that, and that's what I'm doing. We're
Speaker 1: not got big. I got a comment as a as
Speaker 1: the real Naked Advocate, right, so you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: like like no disrespect to mothers, and you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, no disrespect to women or no ship like that.
Speaker 1: But just going back to what I was saying about
Speaker 1: being envious about seeing this nigga living his life with
Speaker 1: his new bitch and not having to worry about the
Speaker 1: kid and all that kind of ship. I just feel
Speaker 1: like personally two things. Like the first thing, I feel like,
Speaker 1: you knew what you were dealing with before, you know
Speaker 1: what you're dealing with before you had a baby by
Speaker 1: this nigga. You knew that this nigga wasn't finished in
Speaker 1: the house. You knew this nigga like all kind of ship.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. First of all, second of all,
Speaker 1: as far as like what he does. If you guys
Speaker 1: are not together, that's not any of your concern. But
Speaker 1: I usually see they got a problem. For every solution
Speaker 1: you make, you make a solution. Here another problem. Every
Speaker 1: solution you make, it's another problem because the problem is
Speaker 1: not it's an underlying the baby. You can't use your
Speaker 1: baby as a bargain at your baby. Can I speak?
Speaker 1: Not to answer what Jay said. The envious part is
Speaker 1: more so if a mom is sitting there and doing
Speaker 1: everything she needs to do for this motherfucking child and
Speaker 1: the dad it ain't got nothing to do with the
Speaker 1: dad got a new bitchack that. That's just my point was.
Speaker 1: If I'm at this house all day eight with this
Speaker 1: motherfucking child and I see the dad is out enjoying
Speaker 1: his life with his new bitch, any woman is going
Speaker 1: to feel a type of way. They don't got nothing
Speaker 1: to do with the bit. It could have been you
Speaker 1: be out with your homeboy, you be out with your mama.
Speaker 1: When I feel like what you say, it does make sense.
Speaker 1: If it does you just with another winner's new bitch.
Speaker 1: That's ivy. No, it ain't missed a very perfect point.
Speaker 1: If I am with this child, your child, our child,
Speaker 1: you're a child. But you know if you have a
Speaker 1: child with a man, that's becoming your child, Like, come on, y'all,
Speaker 1: stop here, this man or to your baby, dad, who
Speaker 1: child is it in? It's still our child? If he say,
Speaker 1: if he who baby is that, it's still it's art.
Speaker 1: But hold out up the daddy, the daddy, then man,
Speaker 1: the man put this dick in you and look at
Speaker 1: what you're talking about. Consent, niggas coming somebody. I'm not
Speaker 1: saying that you don't love your child anymore, y'all, I'm
Speaker 1: missing my point. My point is if you have a
Speaker 1: child with somebody, right, we're talking about women, the bullshit bitches.
Speaker 1: Either way it goes. You have a child with somebody.
Speaker 1: And I'm sitting there and I had a child twenty four,
Speaker 1: motherfucking eight. And then I look in on your social media.
Speaker 1: Hold on not necessarily when you have a child anyway,
Speaker 1: you have a child eight and I look on your
Speaker 1: social media. You got a new bitch. You're doing whatever
Speaker 1: you're doing. You out seven and I'm at home. I
Speaker 1: know I gotta be up in the morning. This child
Speaker 1: wake up four month olds wake up fifty times a
Speaker 1: fucking night. So if I'm sitting here and I'm frustrated
Speaker 1: because i gotta do all this and I'm looking at you,
Speaker 1: I I want to say, help media, because so they
Speaker 1: they're not pulling his weight. What y'all talking about interest,
Speaker 1: not all the child the women I was raised by.
Speaker 1: Fuck your mom, your dadd and your mama's women. Right, No,
Speaker 1: because it's my baby, granted, chance is my motherfucker. So
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, even if your mom
Speaker 1: and your grandmama felt that weight when you would sleep
Speaker 1: at night, she was still pissed off cuting that man out. Yeah,
Speaker 1: y'all don't know that they still pissed off because of
Speaker 1: these niggas out. What y'all talking about myself? I guess said.
Speaker 1: When you say, if I see him with his new
Speaker 1: bitch's feel a type of way. No point. My point
Speaker 1: was if I'm at I'm raising his child eight, I'm
Speaker 1: still sick to that. If I'm raising his child eight, right,
Speaker 1: And if I go and I'm like, damn, the daddy
Speaker 1: ain't there, and not look every time I turn around
Speaker 1: you on social media popping bottles and all that type
Speaker 1: of ship, You're gonna get a bitch that's gonna say
Speaker 1: some ship about that because you ain't pulling your weight.
Speaker 1: I don't even give a funk if you're sitting here
Speaker 1: sending her money money don't help support a child like, yes,
Speaker 1: you have something like the baby live with you. If
Speaker 1: the baby lives, they're gonna wake up with you at
Speaker 1: four o'clock in the morning. Right. But if we got
Speaker 1: if we gotta, if this is my child and your
Speaker 1: child also, yes, okay, just because you had a rough
Speaker 1: night with this baby, don't mean it. I'm a dead beat. Officially,
Speaker 1: I said, do you get the child two or three
Speaker 1: days out the week? If you come and get the
Speaker 1: child to three days off the weekend. On my fourth day,
Speaker 1: the baby just tied and cry. I can't call you.
Speaker 1: But if you don't get this child none of these
Speaker 1: days out the week, and I bug you, nikke, help
Speaker 1: you on your ass. You put this baby. Let me
Speaker 1: say that. Let me say this. What if when I
Speaker 1: was with you, I wanted home at four o'clock in
Speaker 1: the morning, then I don't know outside listen, I got
Speaker 1: morn I got you, I got you. I'm saying I
Speaker 1: shot saying as far as because you know I got
Speaker 1: a kid, my baby folk much. You know what I'm
Speaker 1: saying as a mother, your baby gonna cling onto you,
Speaker 1: regardless being a mother because you had him in the hospital.
Speaker 1: You skin the skin, your baby gonna know you more
Speaker 1: than the daddy. But at the same time, women we
Speaker 1: go through postpartum, we go through depression. But I get
Speaker 1: what she's saying. If we're going through this and the
Speaker 1: baby four months, you gotta give your girl or whoever,
Speaker 1: even if she knows you. If that nigga is not
Speaker 1: if support, I don't want to do nothing turned me
Speaker 1: to a motherfucker naturally, not anything you letting me and
Speaker 1: we have a baggy. That's your responsibility too. It's not
Speaker 1: just on me. I'm not I didn't make the say
Speaker 1: that don't have something feel like responsibility? Is this my baby?
Speaker 1: I get him. But but they're gonna get mad once
Speaker 1: they see another nigga stepping up being stepped daddy. You see,
Speaker 1: I take this bitch over to my house. But as
Speaker 1: a woman, I'm gonna be mad because that's just me
Speaker 1: as a woman, my right, not right. My killer gonna
Speaker 1: be like that, taking But what's taking care of your child?
Speaker 1: Let's taking care of your child, taking care of a child.
Speaker 1: Let me let me express for anybody that don't is
Speaker 1: a problem. It's not no, it's not to do. Needn't
Speaker 1: go to jail, jail. Your baby dad, he was you
Speaker 1: mad street nigger? I mean he had a baby by
Speaker 1: streeting and he go to jail. You're mad at it?
Speaker 1: If I'm mad that he went to jail, Yeah, because
Speaker 1: he's not there to nurture the baby no more. Yeah,
Speaker 1: of course I'm gonna be mad. So but you knew
Speaker 1: this was a drug dealer. Listen, so you do you
Speaker 1: know what coma being in the streets? First of all,
Speaker 1: who I don't know? Listen, my baby father not a
Speaker 1: street niggase, I'm gonna talk about experience. Okay, my baby
Speaker 1: father not a street nigga. So I can't sit here.
Speaker 1: And but if my baby father was a street nigga
Speaker 1: and he still wasn't doing emotionally there for my child,
Speaker 1: if if you go to jail, yeah, I'm gonna anybody
Speaker 1: gonna fill with anybody go to jail back. But I said,
Speaker 1: are you're gonna be upset with him that he can't
Speaker 1: provide and do the thing that it wouldn't be. I
Speaker 1: wouldn't be upset that he can't provide. I'll just be
Speaker 1: upset like we in a situation because I, like you said,
Speaker 1: alreadyknew what I signed up for. Both listen, at the
Speaker 1: end of the day, what y'all was saying was, Okay,
Speaker 1: you already dealing with a nigga here in the streets
Speaker 1: that he doing whatever, you know, a type of nigga
Speaker 1: you signed up for. What y'all failed to realize is
Speaker 1: these niggs could be street niggas to y'all and all
Speaker 1: the homeboys and all this street all blah blah blah.
Speaker 1: But when he get in the bed with that girl,
Speaker 1: he ain't sitting here telling her I ain't gonna be
Speaker 1: shipped when I put this baby in you. He ain't
Speaker 1: get hey to her. He fi whispers and motherfucker, it don't.
Speaker 1: I don't. Okay, I get what you're saying, you won't
Speaker 1: need the bed for how this this many minute. But
Speaker 1: if the saying it's not having a kid, But when
Speaker 1: when you have a kid that ain't got nothing to
Speaker 1: do with it? Does when we have a kid, we're
Speaker 1: gonna we already saying that you jealous, Let bitch, that's
Speaker 1: what that's, you know, that's that's not that's not what
Speaker 1: I said. Is what you said? Envious of the situation.
Speaker 1: You're not listening. You when you can't take that. You're saying,
Speaker 1: I take my child eight and you look at the
Speaker 1: Instagram and see this Nika out with that you're not
Speaker 1: taking But why the bitch in it? Man? What don't
Speaker 1: you feel you say? Also came back and said it
Speaker 1: could have been you with your home boys. You but
Speaker 1: you're not taking care of your child, and you gotta bitch.
Speaker 1: It's a problem. Bro. If you're not taking care of
Speaker 1: your motherfucking child and you're not another woman and that
Speaker 1: it's not forcing you to take care of your child,
Speaker 1: that's a problem. And if you're a woman and you
Speaker 1: don't see a problem with that, then you're a problem.
Speaker 1: But but you just said the six because some people
Speaker 1: feel like financial is taking care of the kids. Some
Speaker 1: people feel like some people do feel okay, But you're
Speaker 1: saying if this nigga and coming over at four o'clock
Speaker 1: in the morning because you talk that's what we said earlier. Well,
Speaker 1: you said if he if you, if he can't give
Speaker 1: him a couple of days out the week, that's offbrate
Speaker 1: you because you see him with his other bitch. That's
Speaker 1: what you said. He could be giving me money and
Speaker 1: all that. That's what you're saying. Yes you did, shot
Speaker 1: you did. We can be busy, that's the Did you
Speaker 1: just say that? My people? Anybody anything? My god? Like?
Speaker 1: You said? Right? You said one thing, But I knew
Speaker 1: what she meant because what you said, you know, I
Speaker 1: know because I'm after all this man woman child bit
Speaker 1: sounds all that ship. I'm the kid that y'all forgot about.
Speaker 1: And yes, we do grow up. And my daddy was
Speaker 1: no street nigger. He was a preacher. He's still a preacher.
Speaker 1: But guess what, I love my father. My daddy wasn't ship,
Speaker 1: and he was never there, and I still wanted to
Speaker 1: love him, but my mother would get masked. So I
Speaker 1: had to hate my father in order to show my
Speaker 1: mother I love her. What what she's saying is that
Speaker 1: it's hard at times, and when she see you out
Speaker 1: here doing you're living your best life. She's just simply
Speaker 1: saying that she wished that you could see or appreciate
Speaker 1: the struggle. Just how a working man feels that the
Speaker 1: wife is always ragging on him. He out working, he
Speaker 1: wants them to know how the struggle is real. At
Speaker 1: the end of the day, it's a struggling at the
Speaker 1: end of the day, the only person who's gonna get
Speaker 1: sucked up is the child. And yes, we do know,
Speaker 1: We hear and know and see everything, and we don't
Speaker 1: forget shit period. So you all had and I don't
Speaker 1: have no kidd to me. The parents draw the winds
Speaker 1: with the child. They do because at the end of
Speaker 1: the day they do. I know if I know, if
Speaker 1: I have, if I gonna have a baby, but a struggle, right,
Speaker 1: I know that my kid as soon as I if
Speaker 1: I wrong, I know that somebody else gonna have to
Speaker 1: watch my baby at nighttime because I'm in the street
Speaker 1: grind and she's checking up at the end of the
Speaker 1: day because I got it. It's saying, but somebody else
Speaker 1: watching the child what he's gonna be because he in
Speaker 1: your posses. You know what you got? This thing ain't
Speaker 1: never been to no function, say you never did nothing.
Speaker 1: How the fund are gonna turn into a great day?
Speaker 1: That part, it's what I'm saying. That's all I'm saying.
Speaker 1: But I think she just wanted to have give me
Speaker 1: a responsibility and thank them I'm going to change no
Speaker 1: offer to be the same nigga, and I'm gonna be
Speaker 1: even worse because you're gonna be upset and you're gonna
Speaker 1: display that to me. And it works on side. It
Speaker 1: works on the side. Okay, you feel if you had
Speaker 1: a kid, right, yeah, you could be a street and
Speaker 1: you could do all that kind of stuff. You get
Speaker 1: the other you could be any any nigga. Like, if
Speaker 1: you don't want to be there for your child, you're
Speaker 1: not gonna be then how you because the moment is
Speaker 1: never gonna worry she wanted to do that gonna do
Speaker 1: You're gonna have another problem, you know how he with
Speaker 1: his bitch or he with his plans. But that to
Speaker 1: that child when that child get old enough and be like, damn, mama,
Speaker 1: my daddy, my daddy won there? Where's my daddy? Or
Speaker 1: damn my daddy with this girl with this lady he
Speaker 1: got she got three kids, and he forget about me?
Speaker 1: What about me? Because you got niggas out here that
Speaker 1: a girl have sex with a bitch, we got fifteen
Speaker 1: kids and spend all that time with them and forget
Speaker 1: about the first child that you didn't have with that woman.
Speaker 1: And then that first child's gonna feel abandoned. That's abandon
Speaker 1: A lot of stuff come in that. So it's it's okay.
Speaker 1: You can go do your thing, can't go to the
Speaker 1: strip club, throw all your money, but make sure you
Speaker 1: dropped by my baby and tell my baby, hey, you
Speaker 1: love them, and get the funk on. Just do that,
Speaker 1: bo that'll be. You can't deal with this man. If
Speaker 1: you can't deal if you can't deal with me as
Speaker 1: a woman, or if you can't deal with me, don't
Speaker 1: deal with me. But if you can deal with your child,
Speaker 1: deal with your child. How The problem is men have
Speaker 1: the option that men have the and that's just what
Speaker 1: it is. Men have the on rather they want to
Speaker 1: be in their child's life or not, and then rather
Speaker 1: whatever you do, women supposed to be okay with it.
Speaker 1: You can't say that, but you can. You cannot drag
Speaker 1: me because of your feelings baby, because you don't want
Speaker 1: to be a mother. She's some bullshit, bad she all
Speaker 1: type of bullshit. But men can go and decide to
Speaker 1: pop in, pop out, go over here and have babies
Speaker 1: and do whatever the funk you want to do. Because
Speaker 1: that's just ask you all the question, what if what
Speaker 1: if I say, okay, baby, you see we don't get
Speaker 1: along coming in the talk, so we need to find
Speaker 1: you another baby and give me back. No woman has
Speaker 1: going no real monther about but don't saying so you
Speaker 1: want me to be on your time and it's just
Speaker 1: us co parenting, Like what the hell? But I'm saying something,
Speaker 1: have you ever seen a situation, well, it definitely impossible
Speaker 1: to co parents. I have that I'm talking about from
Speaker 1: that issue because I see a lot of my niggles
Speaker 1: that want to be in their kids life and it's
Speaker 1: like it impossible. Yes, that's whatever. That's what I'm speaking on.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, a motherfucker that making dumn
Speaker 1: that impossible to be with their kids, not a person.
Speaker 1: That's and what you said shot that put me in that,
Speaker 1: my friend, because of what I'm doing. You're saying whatever
Speaker 1: I'm trying to do for my baby is not enough.
Speaker 1: That's why I took that an offense because you're saying,
Speaker 1: all right, I can wake up one day even if
Speaker 1: you take as kid financially he might say him one
Speaker 1: or two five times and whatever I can do, but
Speaker 1: that's not enough because I'm waking up seeing you doing
Speaker 1: what you're doing, and I'm frustrated with my kid being
Speaker 1: hunger or saying crying or whatever. That ain't right to me.
Speaker 1: That's not that's not right. That's not right. Now, hear
Speaker 1: me out here. Can we all just go ahead, go ahead,
Speaker 1: gear me out. Listen. You said like you just said
Speaker 1: three or five times out the month or whatever. It is.
Speaker 1: What I'm saying is a mom when she have that child,
Speaker 1: we really have the four seven like barrier on us.
Speaker 1: And like baby Girls said in the beginning, you got postpartum,
Speaker 1: you got all types of depressions. All that has communicated, though, Queen,
Speaker 1: that's what I'm if it's not a communicate, if you're
Speaker 1: just feeling like you're feel you me, then you're gonna
Speaker 1: make me say both of you. That's what usually happen.
Speaker 1: That's what I got it. That's what usually happen. It's like,
Speaker 1: I can't do it. I can't. I can't. I can't
Speaker 1: operate off your feelings because you already told me if
Speaker 1: that's envy there, So I'm gonna feel that because I'm
Speaker 1: not the time to deal with my kid. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: feel that. And I think that piggyback on her saying,
Speaker 1: if you're not upset and we coped praying, we cop
Speaker 1: praying the fun but I got going on now, I
Speaker 1: gotta understand it. It's it's it never's gonna be uh.
Speaker 1: Communication is gonna make me know my obligations. But I can't.
Speaker 1: I can't. I can't let you wake up every day
Speaker 1: with different motherfuckers ship for me to do. But the
Speaker 1: whole thing too is like even outside of that, like
Speaker 1: and I know I don't have kids, so I don't
Speaker 1: understand or whatever the fun she said, But once you
Speaker 1: decide to lay down with this nigga and decide to
Speaker 1: go ahead and have this baby, you don't understand that
Speaker 1: your job from now on is to be a mother
Speaker 1: and to be here with this kid seven, whether this
Speaker 1: nake is present or not. That's what I was saying. Father,
Speaker 1: I get what you're saying, but still it's still haven
Speaker 1: profit communication though. If you if you're some bullshit, you're
Speaker 1: some bullshit no matter what's be bullshit. I understand that,
Speaker 1: but negg to be bullshit, but you can push him
Speaker 1: on the way and making some worse bullshit. I could
Speaker 1: be some bullshit that want to be somebody bullshit real ship.
Speaker 1: I could already be some bullshit. You wanna take up
Speaker 1: my kid, but you're flushing me away because I can't
Speaker 1: deal with you like I can look at this kid
Speaker 1: as the thing that's going to change my life, but
Speaker 1: you got to be basically, that's not gonna happen. You
Speaker 1: might take out child support and put me on a visitation, right,
Speaker 1: they're just like trying to fight oil. It's not gonna happen.
Speaker 1: I'm just saying that's the only way's gonna work because
Speaker 1: I can't do when I called you, Now, I gotta
Speaker 1: go through something like, hey, what y'all doing that? I
Speaker 1: want to get broth for the weekend? Taking he can't
Speaker 1: call that week you know that ship go like that? Now,
Speaker 1: I gotta now, I gotta be. I gotta damn kiss
Speaker 1: your ad to be a father, to take care of
Speaker 1: my because the only way for me to get to
Speaker 1: this nigga is through you. Only way for me to
Speaker 1: see my kids through his small So if I don't
Speaker 1: have a relationship, proper relationship with his mom, that's gonna
Speaker 1: damn the relationship with my kids. That's just going back
Speaker 1: to what she said. You know what you laid down
Speaker 1: with you know the type of I respect that because
Speaker 1: you got a lot of women out here that will
Speaker 1: really just lay down with any anybody just because of
Speaker 1: their own emotions and feelings or whatever. And then they
Speaker 1: have a baby and be fucked up and sucked over.
Speaker 1: Yeah they had babies like you my wife. Yeah, but
Speaker 1: my wife. Now you just got a baby. We got
Speaker 1: a baby. Let's take it. Lets figure out how to
Speaker 1: take this chikid's kids? Do you really want I'm even
Speaker 1: trying to be a daddy to this motherfucker. And we
Speaker 1: ain't got no type of nothing going on. You have
Speaker 1: a kid, it's way way different. You look at you
Speaker 1: will feel, you would think because my dad, my dad
Speaker 1: was awake, he went to chang and he did all
Speaker 1: that ship. So I in my heart, even if I
Speaker 1: didn't funk with Shante coming up, I'm gonna stay around
Speaker 1: to my kids get grown, because they're just that's what
Speaker 1: I chose. You know what I'm saying, Like, I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna allow you because I see if me and you
Speaker 1: would break up, you're gonna be better and it's gonna
Speaker 1: go get my kids. You're gonna tell them I left y'all,
Speaker 1: not you. So now you're pausing to my kids to
Speaker 1: the point of I'm starting to see that a little funk,
Speaker 1: like a little funk niggle towards me. Yeah. So now
Speaker 1: I'm like, I ain't fool. Yeah, what I've wanted to do,
Speaker 1: You're gonna see when you get grown, you get your
Speaker 1: own bitch. But no, I ain't gonna allow you to
Speaker 1: do that. Ain't allow myself to do that. But then
Speaker 1: that's gonna hurt them. But something just feel like, I
Speaker 1: ain't even gonna like you, bitch, So why the play
Speaker 1: like I like you for this kid, Either we're gonna
Speaker 1: co fare or we're not. Just because you got the
Speaker 1: oversea you got the baby. What you don't mean that
Speaker 1: you the you? You are reasly me? Yes, why are
Speaker 1: you looking at me? That ain't what I said. I'm
Speaker 1: asking you though, but that that's kind of what you said.
Speaker 1: I didn't. I initially said two or three days? What
Speaker 1: did I tell you, bro? I said, if your father
Speaker 1: get their child two or three days, that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: If you're not getting your child at all, He's said
Speaker 1: he was already doing that. No, but I was just saying,
Speaker 1: like my did I ask you? I said, did you
Speaker 1: get your child like two or three days. That's where
Speaker 1: it kind of popped off, just a touch of situation
Speaker 1: because I see a lot of niggas, real good dads.
Speaker 1: They'd be trying for theybe trying the best, like asking
Speaker 1: me like I'd had to call one of my part
Speaker 1: the baby mom for him, Like you're tripping, I let
Speaker 1: him get it, le him see the baby. You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like I could call this bitch myself.
Speaker 1: That's a friend because she my friend, he my friend.
Speaker 1: Like y'all tripping in there, I get to us a
Speaker 1: climbing ground for them to get their kids. That ship
Speaker 1: lame to meause I'm not I'm not taking away from
Speaker 1: y'all on that lame ship. I'm not defending no bullshit
Speaker 1: woman at all. What I'm saying is there are some
Speaker 1: men out there that's even more import That's what I'm
Speaker 1: talking about. But if he becomes a dad beat, No, queen,
Speaker 1: if this dude become a dead beat, don't be mad.
Speaker 1: I'm fucking take care of your kids. No, I am
Speaker 1: just what I'm saying. I'm not saying that, all right, listen,
Speaker 1: That's all I'm saying. I'm not saying but even if
Speaker 1: that man decided to become a dead beat, right, the
Speaker 1: woman is still gonna feel some type of way. I
Speaker 1: don't give a funk what you're talking about saying. If
Speaker 1: you're a dad beat and I have a child with you,
Speaker 1: you're not doing ship for my child. And I see
Speaker 1: you popping bottle with your boys, your new bit or
Speaker 1: whatever you've got going on. Your guns, No but alive,
Speaker 1: hold on. And I'm not saying that because I know
Speaker 1: some dead nigga sold women hope some motherfucking dreams. I
Speaker 1: got home girls that was with niggas that had told
Speaker 1: them all type of bullshit that and told them we're
Speaker 1: gonna have this baby. I'm gonna put this baby in you,
Speaker 1: and they have mother nigger that's like you got, you
Speaker 1: got you have, you got some some niggers that will
Speaker 1: sit there. There'll be one person while they wit you
Speaker 1: talking to you before a baby. But then when they
Speaker 1: had that baby, and that pressure get on them as
Speaker 1: them being men, because women mature faster than me and period,
Speaker 1: they get that responsibility. They get that mindset like I
Speaker 1: can't handle this ship. So what I'm gonna do, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna go. I'm gonna go funk off because my stress
Speaker 1: level it is not the stress level of hurt where
Speaker 1: she could just cope with being with her baby, being
Speaker 1: by herself. A nigga gotta go funk on something, gotta
Speaker 1: go lick on something, gotta go be with, be with
Speaker 1: the niggas and all this kind of ship to really
Speaker 1: get theirselves together instead of taking time to actually learn
Speaker 1: to be a parent, learn to know how to take
Speaker 1: care of a baby, learning a lot of this kind
Speaker 1: of stuff. But at the same time, it's like, I
Speaker 1: can't as a woman, I can't take all that stress
Speaker 1: on top of postpartum, on top of me healing my body,
Speaker 1: healing fully from pushing the whole six seven eight cow
Speaker 1: baby out of me, and thinking like damn, I ain't
Speaker 1: got nobody to be there for you. Just thinking that
Speaker 1: girl and had no type of support, no family, no nothing.
Speaker 1: All she got is you. She gonna call you at
Speaker 1: four o'clock in the morning. My my ship danging right now.
Speaker 1: I ain't ain't I can't walk, I can't do this.
Speaker 1: If you can't be like I'm gonna come through relationship.
Speaker 1: If you ain't in a relationship, you gotta think like damn,
Speaker 1: you gotta kill give me the baby, give me the baby.
Speaker 1: I feel like, yeah, I understand, feel like that. Let
Speaker 1: me get my but but but but you can't. It
Speaker 1: has to be organized. You can't call me a spur
Speaker 1: of the moment just because tonight you tie you and
Speaker 1: say can you come get him to me? Don't feel
Speaker 1: like this. Yeah, you're playing with me. But if you
Speaker 1: say I'm gonna be tired, I know I am. Can
Speaker 1: you get this baby two times or three times a week?
Speaker 1: That that's communication. You can't call me out of blue.
Speaker 1: They don't tell him well man, or what I'm doing
Speaker 1: and tell me come get this baby. You feel like
Speaker 1: you're sped. Didn't do that right, That's impossible. How you
Speaker 1: couldn't call me and tell me to come home before
Speaker 1: I was when I was just sucking you. So I
Speaker 1: aren't gonna be able to call and tell me to
Speaker 1: come get the baby a four o'clock in the morning,
Speaker 1: in the morning before sometime. Sometimes, man, man, I don't
Speaker 1: know what kind of y'all didn't win. Because nigga you're
Speaker 1: dinner with he gonna be signs nig a funks, gonna
Speaker 1: be a fun nigger. Ain't talking about talk about the
Speaker 1: nigga who really all their kids. It's something that really
Speaker 1: love their kids but hate their baby mamas and they
Speaker 1: she hate him. So if you come, if I know
Speaker 1: you hate me and I hate you, if you're calling
Speaker 1: me a four o'clock in the morning, you're being spiteful
Speaker 1: because at the end of the day, you knew you
Speaker 1: were earlier that day. So can you get can you
Speaker 1: get the baby, or can y'all come get the baby
Speaker 1: for the night or whatever. Let me get some risk.
Speaker 1: I'm communication is all it takes. But there goes back
Speaker 1: to what I was what I was getting ready to
Speaker 1: say about her saying, like the nigga having to deal
Speaker 1: with pressure and stuff up and all of that. But
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, what if the pressure
Speaker 1: is okay, I feel what you're saying about like postpartum
Speaker 1: and all of that, because that's the very real thing
Speaker 1: I have. Every friend that I have has ever had
Speaker 1: a baby went through postpartum and I went through with him,
Speaker 1: so I understand and I get it or whatever. But
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, you're saying, like pressure
Speaker 1: or whatever whatever on this nigga, but you're going through postpartum,
Speaker 1: You're going through this you're going through that at the
Speaker 1: end of the day, you can't. You're saying that the
Speaker 1: man should you know, learn how to be a father,
Speaker 1: learned how to be a parent, whatever, whatever, blah blah blah.
Speaker 1: That's a process that doesn't just happen overnight, especially when
Speaker 1: you're dealing with especially when you're dealing with a nigga
Speaker 1: that has never had those type of responsibilities. Okay, and
Speaker 1: that just like a girl who just had her first baby.
Speaker 1: We could do this together. We don't have to be
Speaker 1: together what I'm saying, but we can learn this ship together.
Speaker 1: You it's not about I'm not saying like stressed men
Speaker 1: don't stress. Men can go through postpartum too. But at
Speaker 1: the same time, if this our first baby, now I'm
Speaker 1: speaking love, you don't have five kids, you should know
Speaker 1: how to deal with it. Definitely you should just be
Speaker 1: like kick I got. But if this show first baby
Speaker 1: and yo baby like folk months and all this kind
Speaker 1: of stuff, she's gonna need that support because this is
Speaker 1: our first child together. But what I'm talking if you
Speaker 1: if you just toss up on y'all talking about two
Speaker 1: different things. I'm talking about a kid, ain't talking about
Speaker 1: a of a new one. I feel like a new born.
Speaker 1: Y'all still be together for much just whatever your situation is.
Speaker 1: I don't know what you got going on. I don't
Speaker 1: know what you got going on with that's like you know,
Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, so what if this isn't like you
Speaker 1: sitting here telling people that you're trying to start a business.
Speaker 1: So if you start your business, you take your last,
Speaker 1: got that, get your ship, you take your last you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, to get your baby situated because
Speaker 1: you know you got a fifth child. So okay, if
Speaker 1: you sit here and break this down to your baby mama, like, look, yo,
Speaker 1: I got got down setified, k got damn. You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. But ship going on. I need to
Speaker 1: got to get right. So if I'm saying there telling
Speaker 1: you that, and you agree, then I take my ship
Speaker 1: and go get my business gone. Then when the business
Speaker 1: get gone, you know money ain't gonna come here. We talked,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So okay about the blue
Speaker 1: just caught me got them? Oh yeah, I need you
Speaker 1: to go do this and that Pampers ain't ship, bro.
Speaker 1: Everybody about got the pampers. That's fast. Anybody about pompers,
Speaker 1: but don't make a situation. Bro cousin Nigga was up
Speaker 1: got them they're talking about basically, they're talking about like
Speaker 1: compassion for the kid, compassion for this, competition for that.
Speaker 1: But but to me, that leads to what you want
Speaker 1: right exactly, to me, we're not get big. I think
Speaker 1: it's the energy that's put out to like if the
Speaker 1: if the if the woman just putting out a toxic
Speaker 1: energy and all that. You just how my kids like
Speaker 1: I can't even get near this energy because sometimes let's
Speaker 1: put this ego and all this baby daddy baby mama
Speaker 1: shipped to the side and be mother's And I'm speaking
Speaker 1: on a bitch who using this baby as a bargaining
Speaker 1: too well. I think I was speaking on being a mother, right,
Speaker 1: I was speaking on being a full time mother with
Speaker 1: a full time baby. Daddy was already your baby dadda
Speaker 1: though he's saying that was you know, end up being
Speaker 1: a baby mama. How'd that go? Well? Even if you
Speaker 1: you fucked it and she had the baby, right, but
Speaker 1: no stipulations, you still have to either child support plus visitation.
Speaker 1: You still have to find come to coming ground, shot man,
Speaker 1: You got the you coming ground between y'all child support,
Speaker 1: the baby mama, the baby daddy, Like it's whether you're
Speaker 1: witness nigga or not. Like if you're not with this nigga,
Speaker 1: nine times, I'd of tend there's gonna be some issue
Speaker 1: there and some sort of fucking dissension there because you're
Speaker 1: not with this nigga like she just said. And I
Speaker 1: hate to have to keep going back to it. But
Speaker 1: when female see a nigga doing something other than them,
Speaker 1: when they have a baby, or when there's a small
Speaker 1: child involved, nine times I'd attend there are gonna be
Speaker 1: some major issues with that relationship. Signy up, signy up,
Speaker 1: sign me up real quick. I hate to do this.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna put my business out there like everybody here. No,
Speaker 1: I'm not with my daughter daddy, like I'm not with
Speaker 1: Chance dad at all. But me and Chance Dad ain't
Speaker 1: been together what since Chance was two months old? Like
Speaker 1: that's my baby daddy. I don't like Chance dad has data.
Speaker 1: Other women, none of that ship play a part like
Speaker 1: and nothing that if I get mad at her daddy,
Speaker 1: if I get mad at her dad, ain't got nothing
Speaker 1: to do with no other Exactly Why do you get
Speaker 1: mad at No, if I'm mad at Chance Dad, this
Speaker 1: is what I get together. Why not get mad? Why
Speaker 1: do you get mad? Why do you get mad? I'm
Speaker 1: mad at Chance Daddy. It's because of like the urgency.
Speaker 1: Like if Chance school called me and say Chance didn't
Speaker 1: did some ship, and then her dad called me about it.
Speaker 1: My next question is are you on your way up there?
Speaker 1: If he not saying I'm on my way up there,
Speaker 1: or and it's like, nigga, it's for me to go
Speaker 1: shoot the school up. It's for me to go figure
Speaker 1: out what parents we are. We both are when you
Speaker 1: have a child man Chance daddy, then just sucking make
Speaker 1: him make her out of nothing. No, he is her dad,
Speaker 1: great Chance, love her fucking daddy. Her daddy's loved the
Speaker 1: funk out of Chance. But still you and I both
Speaker 1: know I'm to be bad as fun with Chance Daddy.
Speaker 1: I'll hear me out. You don't got nothing to do
Speaker 1: with my personal issues with him. Is most of my
Speaker 1: issues with him is like the sense of urgency when
Speaker 1: it comes to Chance. Or it's like if you ain't
Speaker 1: seen Chance in two weeks and my baby asking me
Speaker 1: for a chance with her daddy, That's where I'm at
Speaker 1: and a mother first, because I know you love my child.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna never look at chance and be like yo,
Speaker 1: yo daddy, some bush I would never do that. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna make up excuse for like, oh, your daddy at work,
Speaker 1: your daddy at work, blah blah blah. So if I
Speaker 1: call you like I've been telling a chance, you've been
Speaker 1: at work for seven eight days, my niggas, we need
Speaker 1: to see her. You get what I'm saying. So now
Speaker 1: I'm on that ass. It may seem like, oh, shot
Speaker 1: some bullshit, but I'm cussing your ass out because I
Speaker 1: just sat here a lot of chance for a whole
Speaker 1: week saying you've been at working my baby. What I'm
Speaker 1: saying is a lot of parents go through that type
Speaker 1: of ship with these niggas. Niggas would tell women all
Speaker 1: type of ship. I guess we're talking about. We're talking
Speaker 1: about differ. You know. I think what the difference is
Speaker 1: me and baby girl. I'm talking about women, y'all talking
Speaker 1: about bitches that just giving niggas the hard time just
Speaker 1: to be giving them the hearts. Motherhood, I'm saying about
Speaker 1: flame motherhood in general. Most mothers, like the average mom,
Speaker 1: we're not talking about the bitches that's just want to
Speaker 1: get niggas a time. I'm talking about the average the
Speaker 1: ones who actually want to the ones who are sitting
Speaker 1: there and actually take care of their child and let
Speaker 1: the nigga do what they want to do. But at
Speaker 1: the same time, it's like, in the back of my head,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be like, Damn, I want to go to
Speaker 1: the Bahamas, Nicky. You just left from Jamaica and ship
Speaker 1: and been there two weeks. Can you at least come
Speaker 1: get the baby for two weeks so I can take
Speaker 1: a cruise so I can get a break. You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So would you feel like your baby,
Speaker 1: mama woman or just a baby? What you think? Serious?
Speaker 1: Grown men cry like bro like you women that's fucked
Speaker 1: up with the kids, like you kid working chip and
Speaker 1: turning the kid against this dude. Well he had a
Speaker 1: like Mom, if you're saying this, it's gotta be right.
Speaker 1: If you're saying this ain't ship, this gotta be so
Speaker 1: you you you building my relationship with my kid for
Speaker 1: me all off of your emotions. So the only reason
Speaker 1: why why I felt feel like we're going back and
Speaker 1: forth it because when you said what you said. It
Speaker 1: makes me make me thought of how do you bet
Speaker 1: you do? My that's it. I get that, But just
Speaker 1: even that a lot of women would let me just
Speaker 1: say this, a lot of women when they have a kid, right,
Speaker 1: our life is never gonna be what it once was
Speaker 1: once we had this child. I'm gonna just put that
Speaker 1: out there. Our life is never what it was once
Speaker 1: we decided to pop this damn baby out of us.
Speaker 1: But we get envious. Like when I say envy, it
Speaker 1: ain't hate. It's just envious that the fact that man,
Speaker 1: y'all can still boost around, y'all can still do what
Speaker 1: the funk y'all want to do. I could be at
Speaker 1: the house with this big gass baby. I just had
Speaker 1: this baby. Whatever, I ain't gonna move around like. I
Speaker 1: get what you're saying, But think about this though, my opinion,
Speaker 1: most women should know before they have a kid. This
Speaker 1: is solely on me, regardless of how it goes. That's
Speaker 1: a lot of kids. So at the end of the day,
Speaker 1: take out of that, you take that out of your man,
Speaker 1: because the thing about it, what you're saying is some
Speaker 1: wo machinity had kid that should just run around like
Speaker 1: the nigga, then either you want to be a woman
Speaker 1: or a man, gonna be a nigga regardless. No, this
Speaker 1: is what I'm saying. When you have a child, nobody
Speaker 1: is having a child. I'm gonna just keep it a
Speaker 1: buck with you. No woman is having a child thinking
Speaker 1: that I'm solely about to be providing for this child
Speaker 1: by myself, Like nobody is thinking that. Yeah, just what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. So you know what come w being a mom? Right?
Speaker 1: I know that I didn't have the option. I knew
Speaker 1: that once I decided to, like, whoa, I'm about to
Speaker 1: have chance. I knew that no matter what her daddy
Speaker 1: decided to do, if whatever the funk happens, I have
Speaker 1: to take care of the child. But even though I'm
Speaker 1: keeping it a buck, I'm still gonna get piste off
Speaker 1: with this, niggah. What you're talking about the situation. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna keep it a buck with y'all. If I like
Speaker 1: still to this day, if I'm stretched out, y'all know
Speaker 1: how to run through this this with chance all types
Speaker 1: of ship. What would it would it be different if,
Speaker 1: and I'm just saying in general, would it be different
Speaker 1: if all you had to do was take care of
Speaker 1: the daughter. Or is it more resentment maybe because you
Speaker 1: still have to like move and shake and work and
Speaker 1: it also provide as well. Do you think it would
Speaker 1: be different if it was like I'm just and I'm
Speaker 1: just shooting to the moon a ball player that your
Speaker 1: house paid, your car paid, all that ship is paid.
Speaker 1: All you gotta do is take care of the child.
Speaker 1: You think it would be different. I don't know how
Speaker 1: to answer that. Because of the type of woman I am,
Speaker 1: so I want to keep everything honest. I don't know
Speaker 1: how to answer that because I was dating somebody that says, shot,
Speaker 1: I could give you a million dollars right now. You're
Speaker 1: still gonna work the way that you work, So in reality,
Speaker 1: I don't know how to answer that. But okay, let
Speaker 1: me ask you this. If y'all was in a relationship
Speaker 1: and dude was in the house with you, would you
Speaker 1: give a funk if he if he's a truck driver
Speaker 1: going for two weeks and you're actually telling the chance
Speaker 1: he's at work. Yes, I'm not gonna lie to you.
Speaker 1: Why would you get out of the house hold on?
Speaker 1: Hold on, hold on. I will only give a funk
Speaker 1: if if it's effect my child of her saying I
Speaker 1: miss my daddy. I don't get to see my daddy.
Speaker 1: That's also stressed for in that situation. It's also stressed
Speaker 1: for the father having to be the prom I get
Speaker 1: that even with a chance, dad like he do everything
Speaker 1: he can do for a chance, he do everything he
Speaker 1: can possibly do for my daughter. I'm saying I would
Speaker 1: still feel like, damn baby, want to spend Okay, when
Speaker 1: you come back, can you spend a whole weekend with her?
Speaker 1: I'll be trying to compromise that. You give it. Them
Speaker 1: saying you're a truck driving You're doing everything you need
Speaker 1: to do for the family. Okay, cool. Let me ask
Speaker 1: you a question. If he was a truck driver before,
Speaker 1: and he's a double shift, he's a super worker. This
Speaker 1: is what I do. I want my kids that are
Speaker 1: the best, So I gotta work for the next teen years.
Speaker 1: Back and forth, back and forth. I see my baby
Speaker 1: on FaceTime. Whatever I can do, I can do, and
Speaker 1: my baby saying I miss up. I'm a because I
Speaker 1: want to take care. First of all, I never said not,
Speaker 1: but I'm saying you you're gonna be upset with me
Speaker 1: because I'm trying to take care I'm set, but I'm
Speaker 1: also gonna say, hey, can we put can we put
Speaker 1: the family on the insurance? So maybe when you got
Speaker 1: a short drive, if you can stop by the house
Speaker 1: and get a chance and she can ride with you
Speaker 1: to motherfucking South Carolina and back. But you, but but,
Speaker 1: but you don't understand. You're trying to compromise. But you're
Speaker 1: trying to compromise a man's life that you can't do
Speaker 1: because I may not want my much out in a truck.
Speaker 1: But listen, when you have a child, we both gott
Speaker 1: to compromise because I gotta compromise my life to take
Speaker 1: care of his mother. Okay, but when I started, when
Speaker 1: I when when I stopped working? Okay once I okay,
Speaker 1: let let me say that you're right? All right, Well,
Speaker 1: I'll tell you what that we're gonna see a big
Speaker 1: fact and pay for me and your the baby. I'm
Speaker 1: out and take I'm a burp. I'm gonna do everything.
Speaker 1: How that work? Then I'm a lazy ass nigga. I
Speaker 1: give you that because how did that work? And this
Speaker 1: is what I'm gonna hit you. If I spend all
Speaker 1: the time with him but can't provide, how did that
Speaker 1: go and then this is what I was saying, like
Speaker 1: a pick me or no ship like that. But at
Speaker 1: the same time, the same way, the kid is saying whatever,
Speaker 1: like Okay, I missed my daddy, whatever, whatever. Y'all don't
Speaker 1: think that if this nig is a real pair, and
Speaker 1: if this nig is a real nigger and a real daddy,
Speaker 1: that he's hurt that he can't see his child for
Speaker 1: two thank you. I'm not saying thank you now that
Speaker 1: was real right now, thank you. It's like some people
Speaker 1: like just say, if it's a rock star, a rock star,
Speaker 1: they'd be going on tours for six months. I got
Speaker 1: a baby moment at home. What I supposed to do
Speaker 1: with that? I supposed to not go on a talk
Speaker 1: But I was a rock starble before I had the baby.
Speaker 1: Nothing's appout to change. I supposed nat lay a home,
Speaker 1: lose all my endorsement, lose all that, and then be
Speaker 1: a laz as nigga. Because if you're a rock star,
Speaker 1: nine times out of a hunting you can motherfucking afford
Speaker 1: to fly us out there. Because you're not on the road.
Speaker 1: You don't gotta have us on the rock, but you
Speaker 1: can should see your child facetiging baby, How are you
Speaker 1: gonna tell me what to do with me? I'm not
Speaker 1: what you I'm trying to tell you what to do
Speaker 1: with our child. But I'm saying, you can make that
Speaker 1: a comfortable situation. Also, you can make that a comfort
Speaker 1: simple waiting for hour with you our It's just you're
Speaker 1: saying what you want. You can make that a comfortable
Speaker 1: situation for us. I just am I right around. You
Speaker 1: can't make a situation only if we could compromise, ifbody
Speaker 1: could cut my child could so long though, yeah, you
Speaker 1: go for six months and I know you, and I
Speaker 1: know you got a purpose behind it. Now, if you're
Speaker 1: just out there with no purpose, then I'm definitely one way.
Speaker 1: But if you're out there, if you're out there with
Speaker 1: a purpose, of course, me being a mother, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: have to take that role as it's not even about
Speaker 1: you being a Mother's about you being a real woman,
Speaker 1: a woman, a mother period because the child is involved,
Speaker 1: So regardless of what it is, I have to be
Speaker 1: a mother. So being a mother's being a woman regardless
Speaker 1: because your whole body changing you being that's your womanhood
Speaker 1: right there for real, for real, having a child because
Speaker 1: everybody can't do that. So women, So being real, when
Speaker 1: you have a situation where you're going for six months, cool,
Speaker 1: I'm the one who has to sit there and be like,
Speaker 1: baby daddy ain't gonna be back for another six months.
Speaker 1: But why because this is that in the third But
Speaker 1: I want to see him. I got a game next week.
Speaker 1: This is my biggest game of the week. Gonna lay
Speaker 1: up and nurture your baby. Get dropping for walk. It's
Speaker 1: like you need to get dropping for walk. He got
Speaker 1: to stay all right? Everything different? Now I gotta stay
Speaker 1: going for two years. You see the ship. Do people
Speaker 1: have to tell their kids if the nigga go to jail?
Speaker 1: Do people have to tell they got to console their
Speaker 1: kids and make them understand what's going on. You can't
Speaker 1: change the situation. If that's change the situation. I'm just
Speaker 1: saying as a mother, the type of stress that could
Speaker 1: be having to take. I just said that earlier. I
Speaker 1: said fathers go through postpartum two. But I'm saying it
Speaker 1: for father and anxiety, stress from being from the fresh
Speaker 1: and all of that. It's ties in the postpartum. But
Speaker 1: the thing about it is, I'm getting to the point
Speaker 1: where I'm not saying me and shot not saying that nigga.
Speaker 1: We're not saying you can't gonna make your money. We're
Speaker 1: talking about us being the ones sitting down to a
Speaker 1: hurt child, a child who's concerned, a child who is wondering,
Speaker 1: and we have to That's like if you was little
Speaker 1: and your daddy gone for this amount of time, even
Speaker 1: though he faced time. You I got. I got partners
Speaker 1: who have been in jail for years and they haven't
Speaker 1: had kids grow up, and they seven eight and they
Speaker 1: still like it destroys them. But at the same time,
Speaker 1: when you have a kid, it ain't about you because
Speaker 1: you have to sacrifice. I'm not I didn't never say
Speaker 1: it was about the mama. I never said that. I'm
Speaker 1: saying you, when you have a child locked up or
Speaker 1: you gone or whatever, that child gonna feel all of that,
Speaker 1: regardless of what it is. That child gonna feel it
Speaker 1: more than that that nigga has locked up because regardless
Speaker 1: of if he doesn't got locked up for something that
Speaker 1: he was trying to do or a mistake or whatever,
Speaker 1: that child is gonna question that mother every day, and
Speaker 1: that mother is going to have the stress of explaining, explaining, explaining,
Speaker 1: and that's sometimes what grows hating the child within the parents.
Speaker 1: But if you love, if you, if you, if you
Speaker 1: love this nigga, if you if you love this nigga,
Speaker 1: if you love this nigga, you're gonna keep you. Let
Speaker 1: me say this, let me say this part. Let me
Speaker 1: say this part. If I understand it's hurtful. If you
Speaker 1: love this man and y'all was in a relationship and
Speaker 1: it was some real ship that happened, you're gonna make
Speaker 1: sure that you make sure your child is comfortable if
Speaker 1: this man. If this man did everything he could and
Speaker 1: something happens, and you love this man and your child,
Speaker 1: you're gonna make sure both of them are comfortable. That's
Speaker 1: just what it is. If you don't funk with this nigga,
Speaker 1: you're gonna make sure that child. No, that's a fun nigga.
Speaker 1: That's what that's that's what happens man. Nine times in
Speaker 1: If you love this man and you look like the
Speaker 1: people when they're hugging the people, they feel folks going
Speaker 1: to go off the wall. What they do, they might
Speaker 1: can't even talk to the people. Is the letters I'm
Speaker 1: reading you. You're on the letter your daddy wrote chill.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna make you so comfortable. By the time you
Speaker 1: see this man, you're gonna love him the same way
Speaker 1: when he left, and it's gonna feel like it's donna
Speaker 1: feel like the same as that don't make it so.
Speaker 1: If you look at some bullshit you that's how you
Speaker 1: want your child to look out. But if you're looking
Speaker 1: at this man as a king, you wanna make sure
Speaker 1: this child, No, he's a king, no matter if he's
Speaker 1: gone for two weeks. Maybe this your dad is a king.
Speaker 1: He's hold now, Am I right or wrong? You're gonna
Speaker 1: be mad because I'm gonna say you're wrong because I
Speaker 1: just know, like my mama thought my daddy was some bullshit.
Speaker 1: But she ain't never told me my daddy was no bullshit.
Speaker 1: You know, she thought he was some bullshit. What I
Speaker 1: used to hear them in the room hold on my dad.
Speaker 1: My mom used to be like, yo, shy, we're gonna
Speaker 1: talk to your daddy every third say blah blah blah
Speaker 1: blah blah. When my daddy wasn't calling on that phone
Speaker 1: or that mama temment, whatever the funks you need to
Speaker 1: tell me to make me feel okay. But back and
Speaker 1: I hear her in the back arguing with and I'm
Speaker 1: going in there like, why are you arguing? My daddy?
Speaker 1: Give me. She's like, oh, I just said something to
Speaker 1: you that she never told me why she was arking.
Speaker 1: I got one even better. One Christmas, my daddy made
Speaker 1: me send him a whole motherfucking list. He kept saying, SHO,
Speaker 1: I'm about you everything on this list. I went bragging
Speaker 1: into my whole family. Hey, I'm gonna get everything on
Speaker 1: this list. My mama got mad at me bragging. She went,
Speaker 1: had me give her the list. My mama went and
Speaker 1: bought every motherfucking thing on that list, had it mail
Speaker 1: to the house. I'm calling my daddy like, oh, thank you,
Speaker 1: thank you, thank you, thank you. Thinking my daddy said
Speaker 1: there he over. They're like, oh you walk, are you welcome?
Speaker 1: Let me speak to your mama. Hear me out five six,
Speaker 1: seven years later, in our garage, I look at the
Speaker 1: box and find out that's my mama handwriting. My mama
Speaker 1: never told me she didn't. She bought the ship and
Speaker 1: to at the point I was like, Mama, that show
Speaker 1: here right, I ain't my daddy hand right. So my
Speaker 1: mama knew my daddy was some bullshit, But she never
Speaker 1: told me she was some bullshit. I know, but I'm
Speaker 1: just I wanted to answer your question. I couldn't agree
Speaker 1: with that because I know my mama knew my daddy
Speaker 1: was some bullshit, but she didn't throw that ship to me.
Speaker 1: That means she still loves him though, and love you
Speaker 1: and want and love you and want you all to
Speaker 1: have a relationship that y'all got. That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: She wants y'all to have that relationship because she loved
Speaker 1: him and you. If she hated him, you would know,
Speaker 1: didn't he ain't about your ship at about that? She
Speaker 1: envied him, you would know, didn't he ain't about your
Speaker 1: ship at about that? All right? I ain't trying to
Speaker 1: be right. I'm just I just don't see this ship.
Speaker 1: I see it every day all day with the women.
Speaker 1: Just they feel the relationship should be through him. Do
Speaker 1: you feel like your relationship, I mean, chance relationship with
Speaker 1: her dad should be through you know, But that's how
Speaker 1: most women feel depending on our relationship is the relationship
Speaker 1: of a kid. I don't feel like that. But if
Speaker 1: the father is never ever ever, I'm just saying, That's
Speaker 1: what I said we're all talking about two different things.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. A dud is a dud.
Speaker 1: Dud is a dud. But you can turn a guy
Speaker 1: that might want to take care of his baby. But
Speaker 1: I want my first baby mom back. You can turn
Speaker 1: me into him. I wait to get old the god
Speaker 1: damn baby. Don't get him when you old enough to understand.
Speaker 1: And I can't. What's up? Just what happened? I'm sorry?
Speaker 1: Go around talking. Yeah, I can't. I can't. I can't
Speaker 1: control it. A little full months baby, I can't. I
Speaker 1: don't want to control that. You can't control that's that's
Speaker 1: the moment. But you can go to court to get
Speaker 1: a custody, get half custody, and you really care that much.
Speaker 1: I ain't trying to see the course. I'm just saying,
Speaker 1: if you really care that we would get into that.
Speaker 1: Oh man. I'm just saying, I want to get to
Speaker 1: that baby. You really care about that baby, and put
Speaker 1: the folks in your business. You get half custody. I'm
Speaker 1: just saying, if you care that much, but everything, I
Speaker 1: ain't gonna do that because they don't care that much.
Speaker 1: Everything because they don't care that much. Like the period
Speaker 1: you don't care that much. That's what it leads to.
Speaker 1: If I don't can't standing this bit, I don't care
Speaker 1: that much exactly. You don't care that much about that
Speaker 1: child here. Sometime that happens. I'm just saying sometime that's
Speaker 1: happened because one thing about it, when I'm not going
Speaker 1: to do I'm nothing that you run my life with
Speaker 1: this child period? Who you period? I'm feel like that's
Speaker 1: not unfair. I feel like you got women out there
Speaker 1: there to use that baby. Again. That's that's the only
Speaker 1: thing I'm talking about this. You're not gonna run my life. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but I think we're just speaking on the real ones
Speaker 1: because we're real mothers. We do we make it happen
Speaker 1: to where our child won't have the questions. But it's
Speaker 1: still be emotions in that ship too. It's emotions. Can
Speaker 1: feel something about nothing just because I'm your baby that
Speaker 1: it's gonna be emotions. Because let me tell you something,
Speaker 1: when you lay down with somebody and you do something,
Speaker 1: regardless of you make it love or whatever, that's soul
Speaker 1: ties period. That's that's feelings and that's a spiritual thing
Speaker 1: you have to do about that that it doesn't have
Speaker 1: anything one doesn't have anything to do with the e.
Speaker 1: That's fast, that's definitely fast that they ain't got nothing
Speaker 1: to do with that baby. How I feel about you
Speaker 1: because we saw tie an't got ship to do with
Speaker 1: my baby? I said, why putting the baby in what
Speaker 1: we got going? Because you missed me? Just say I
Speaker 1: missed you, baby, Come fun me and see your baby.
Speaker 1: That's what motherfucker's if you want to say instead of
Speaker 1: saying I'm tired, don't get out. That ain't what you're
Speaker 1: calling about. You calling because you just seen whatever you
Speaker 1: see and you just made you trigger something that you want.
Speaker 1: I missed this, nigga, but often to use this for that, Yeah,
Speaker 1: but me's ain't doing that. You're just gonna about your business.
Speaker 1: Well you're rare, you're one of one. Yeah, I mean
Speaker 1: you know, I just feel like I feel like if
Speaker 1: you don't have no kids, once you have a kid,
Speaker 1: you'll get it. You'll understand the stress. You'll understand because
Speaker 1: you can always. I don't have my frids. I don't
Speaker 1: have friends who don't have kids and me I didn't. Okay,
Speaker 1: I have a friend she has a little girl. My
Speaker 1: old friend she had a little girl. How baby daddy
Speaker 1: was wasn't around, so me stepping in being a good friend,
Speaker 1: I was that muscle to her and her child. Because
Speaker 1: at the same time, when you have a kid, you
Speaker 1: don't know what direction, especially like I keep saying, if
Speaker 1: it's your first child, you don't have no direction. You
Speaker 1: really you can. You can always depend on your mama them.
Speaker 1: But at the same time, they didn't lay down and
Speaker 1: had that kids, so you gotta figure it out. So
Speaker 1: by you saying, oh, you know what you're laying down with, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I know, I laid down with a real nigga, but
Speaker 1: this real nigga switched up when Ship got real. Thank you.
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. A nigga can switch up with
Speaker 1: ship onto my motherfucker who switched up on him. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's like now it's like I gotta be your warden. Now,
Speaker 1: I gotta be your probation, I gotta be everything. We
Speaker 1: got a baby together. That don't go like that. No,
Speaker 1: you you don't have to. That's not what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I don't agree with that neither. Yeah, I don't like.
Speaker 1: I totally feel like, Okay, I get it, okay, cool,
Speaker 1: keep me on my toes about my baby. Because I
Speaker 1: don't know that about no baby, you don't neither, so
Speaker 1: keep me on my toes. But when you started to
Speaker 1: be like, okay, there's like threats with this ship and
Speaker 1: obligation that some ship that I know I don't like.
Speaker 1: Come on, man, you want me to leave work to
Speaker 1: go get it from school and you because I'm tired
Speaker 1: on sleep when you can get up and go get him.
Speaker 1: But I'm working you still, And then when I when
Speaker 1: I if I lose my job. Now, my ladies, when
Speaker 1: you're gonna find another job? Like Mothercker wants you to
Speaker 1: be super Nigkel too, but you gotta see you got
Speaker 1: super moms out all right. But that's but women are
Speaker 1: throwing him in. Women are the back. But on other family,
Speaker 1: when you when you hear Mothercker's say we're going down,
Speaker 1: never say I'm going to my granddad, I'm going to
Speaker 1: my grandma house. I'm going on like I pay for
Speaker 1: all my bills ever forever. They're going on their mama house.
Speaker 1: They ain't coming over the day at the house. That's
Speaker 1: just how that goes. So it's up to you on
Speaker 1: highs gonna go. If you're dealing with a person next
Speaker 1: trying to be involved. But you can take a person
Speaker 1: that's trying to be involved and put them to a
Speaker 1: point that where they can't be involved to two things,
Speaker 1: like you said, you to go to the courts or
Speaker 1: we come up with a mutual understanding. Because now, okay,
Speaker 1: just saving is if I got a wife, if my
Speaker 1: wife I gonna get married. And it's like, I see
Speaker 1: my my wife, see up something between me and my
Speaker 1: baby mom. They got a riff just them too with
Speaker 1: me and my baby mom. Cool, but she telling me
Speaker 1: I'll respect let me deal with her with the baby.
Speaker 1: Women take that, don't kind of way? He my baby
Speaker 1: dad and know this is my wife now, so so
Speaker 1: we're together. So why she can't come get my baby?
Speaker 1: Whatever you do? And then I heard women be like,
Speaker 1: but why she gotta be there with her all day?
Speaker 1: Why you ain't there? However? Right? Really, all right, listen,
Speaker 1: I personally don't give a funk like my my child's
Speaker 1: father could day whoever the fun as long as I
Speaker 1: have her information and I could get in contact with
Speaker 1: her and she could get in contact with me. Have
Speaker 1: you seen women? I have seen women do that, and
Speaker 1: I under something to a certain extent. I understand because
Speaker 1: it's like if my child is asking for her daddy,
Speaker 1: Like if Chance got mommy, I want to see I
Speaker 1: want to see my daddy. I want to see dad.
Speaker 1: I wanna see my daddy. I want to see my daddy.
Speaker 1: And then I finally get with you on your schedule,
Speaker 1: and you said, all right, I'm gonna come pick up
Speaker 1: Chance and you're gonna spend I'm gonna spend time with Chance,
Speaker 1: and then Chance go with there with you. And then
Speaker 1: Chance picked the iPhone up and called me like, Mommy,
Speaker 1: I've just been here with Keisha because Daddy went to
Speaker 1: work and Daddy doing this and I'm just here with Keisha.
Speaker 1: I'm still gonna get in that ass because it's like, buddy,
Speaker 1: she's been asking to spend time with you, not keep
Speaker 1: miss Keisha. She want to spend time with you. So
Speaker 1: now I got an issue because you could have kept
Speaker 1: their ass at the house. They and she want to
Speaker 1: spend time. You cha, I'm just getting your break. If
Speaker 1: I ain't got time, ain't got time. I'm getting your break.
Speaker 1: My wife got him. She's gonna love my baby just
Speaker 1: like I love this is my wife. Will you you
Speaker 1: telling me two different scenarios. But if I'm tired. I
Speaker 1: don't give a funk. Should okay, Like even now, I'd
Speaker 1: be tired as my daughter to be with her auntie,
Speaker 1: She'll be with her daddy, auntie, her daddy, great grandma,
Speaker 1: should be with all her daddy, homeboy, her daddy, um
Speaker 1: home girl. I don't mind. I got your information. I'm
Speaker 1: cool with that. But if my chance is asking for
Speaker 1: her daddy, you're not taking it to your homeboy, your
Speaker 1: grandmama house and too everybody. She won't choose. If you
Speaker 1: ain't got time for her, then talk to me about
Speaker 1: let's figure out when you got time for her. That's
Speaker 1: what I'm talking about, because if the baby's for you,
Speaker 1: But if I'm tired and the baby for me, and
Speaker 1: you're saying I'm a good parent, what makes me a
Speaker 1: good parent? I'm a really good parents. Kids gonna always
Speaker 1: want to see they parents. They always want my grand
Speaker 1: baby want to see she want to come over the
Speaker 1: house every day, granddaddy. You can't not every day. So
Speaker 1: kid's gonna know that there's disappointments in life because I'm
Speaker 1: being a great father too. I'm making sure you have clothes,
Speaker 1: I'm making sure you have your livelihood is good. I'm
Speaker 1: making sure my wife got you, and make sure my
Speaker 1: mama got you, and making sure your mom your mom
Speaker 1: is having time for herself. I mean whatever, but still, nah,
Speaker 1: she needs to see you. You need to see that
Speaker 1: at the house. Woo. Nah that nobody said you need
Speaker 1: to sit at the house. She needs to see. All
Speaker 1: I'm saying is if you're a child, that's like you
Speaker 1: know your your grand baby, your grand baby call you granddaddy.
Speaker 1: I want to see you. What you do you make
Speaker 1: sure you see her. You may not see her every day,
Speaker 1: but if your granddadter call you bank, I know you're
Speaker 1: gonna make it. I don't have no problem disappointing her
Speaker 1: if I'm busy for real, but I don't busy. Donna
Speaker 1: tell her I'm busy for I'm busy for the rest
Speaker 1: of the week. But I see you Sunday. You're gonna
Speaker 1: let calm. If I got something else going on, I'm
Speaker 1: I'm gonna call on faith time. A lot. Ain't gonna
Speaker 1: bay can get your disappointments happened. I give you that.
Speaker 1: But but but when the baby mama, if this was
Speaker 1: my baby mama and I lied, I don't funked up
Speaker 1: the whole world, my whole real I'm not gonna go
Speaker 1: through with you because it's like you promised her. But
Speaker 1: if when you when you get your ship by chance,
Speaker 1: by chance, ship, I didn't know that, we're gonna do
Speaker 1: the ror um all, I probably getting my baby. So
Speaker 1: when I shot no, I ain't gonna be bad to
Speaker 1: do that ship scream I gotta go get my baby.
Speaker 1: I ain't saying that because I mean, that's my life
Speaker 1: right now. But I'm asking you a question. Would you
Speaker 1: be pissed off if he promised her and she's gonna
Speaker 1: be upset with Sunday calm, Yeah, I'm being honest with you. Yes,
Speaker 1: I will still feel away, but I can still be understanding.
Speaker 1: You can still feel away and be piste off of
Speaker 1: somebody and still have understanding that should happened with me
Speaker 1: and my daughter daddy all the time, like it'd be
Speaker 1: certain should I'll be like, yo, I'm gonna take Chance
Speaker 1: to swim it just today, I'm taking Chance to swimming.
Speaker 1: But we're still here. Hey, buddy, can you take her
Speaker 1: to swimming? But if he's a good father what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: he's a good father to me, he's gonna make that
Speaker 1: up right, But I'm just saying that it's still the disappointment.
Speaker 1: If it come Sunday, you ain't do what you said
Speaker 1: you was gonna do a grand baby, she could still
Speaker 1: be disappointed and then you go and tell her another day.
Speaker 1: But the mama can still feel a type away, like damn,
Speaker 1: I didn't told her. She's still feeling away, but you're
Speaker 1: gonna disappoint her also, so I would have we both
Speaker 1: can we both her parents? You can still I'll be
Speaker 1: feeling piste off with myself a chance. You get what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, mama's feel the same ship that mama's feel
Speaker 1: the same ship. But if I got to deal with
Speaker 1: my own disappointment and then I gotta double up when
Speaker 1: I disappointed her, why do men you have to be
Speaker 1: at odds saying what happened? No, we don't odds that.
Speaker 1: What I'm saying is we don't have to tell you.
Speaker 1: If this dude disappoints you, you're gonna get in that
Speaker 1: ass like you just said shot. Yeah, all right, so
Speaker 1: you're not being under No, I said you can get
Speaker 1: You can give somebody a situation, right, I could be
Speaker 1: understanding and still feel away. That's what I said, you
Speaker 1: can be understanding to the situation like that. I don't
Speaker 1: know you're being understanding if you don't, only know that
Speaker 1: you feel away. It's what I'm saying that if we
Speaker 1: could go like right now Sunday, You're supposed to get
Speaker 1: all your granddaughter Sunday, but we got the mall ship Sunday,
Speaker 1: so now you can't get it. I can still feel
Speaker 1: away because I didn't make plans for Sunday because maybe
Speaker 1: it's gonna be with Grandpa. Understand But when you feel away,
Speaker 1: are you being disrespectful to me? No, you don't have
Speaker 1: to be disrespectful. You can express like, man, you've got
Speaker 1: me up right now. But I do that normally happened, rarely,
Speaker 1: rarely happen in my case. Whoever, whoever, I can't speak
Speaker 1: for everybody, and some people I agree with you all.
Speaker 1: Some people agree with you and Jay. Some some bitches
Speaker 1: are bullshit. You do have bullshit women out here that
Speaker 1: just give me a hard time. But I was speaking
Speaker 1: more so the women that's just regular as fun. So
Speaker 1: what do you say if he, like you said, in
Speaker 1: a situation, if he can't get to get the kid,
Speaker 1: and what do you say? No, No, I'm gonna teest
Speaker 1: my saying. I don't say, I'm gonna you my exact thing.
Speaker 1: This that ship I'll be talking about. You see how
Speaker 1: you got the option and I don't have an option
Speaker 1: because I gotta leave big facts. When you tell me
Speaker 1: you you got some other ship, I gotta leave set
Speaker 1: and everybody around my job gotta understand. But you got
Speaker 1: the option I figured out by And that's but some
Speaker 1: women come from a disrespectful place. Yeah I can't. Yeah,
Speaker 1: some women, yeah, advocate. It's a lot of times when
Speaker 1: the daddy is the disappointment, the daddy's disappointment greatly outweighs
Speaker 1: the mommy's disappointment. Whenever the mom has to be disappointed
Speaker 1: the child, she makes a bigger deal. But they come
Speaker 1: with it because the mom is like, no, that's what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, that's what I'm saying. But that's how that
Speaker 1: ship goes. It's like it's not an even scale. And
Speaker 1: that's when niggers start like taking offense to this ship
Speaker 1: because it's like damn, like I know, I had something
Speaker 1: to do, and I know normally you pick up the slack,
Speaker 1: but like, okay, I had something to do. But then
Speaker 1: when it's a situation when the mom has something to do.
Speaker 1: True enough, she's with him at the time, and she
Speaker 1: desires to have ten million things to get to do
Speaker 1: and to not be able to show it. But it
Speaker 1: should be like an understanding, like you said, instead of not,
Speaker 1: instead of like your parents and your first heroes. Right, yeah,
Speaker 1: So I can't respect a woman who trying to turn
Speaker 1: me to a villain instead of a hero. I can't
Speaker 1: respect this. So I can see him and talk to
Speaker 1: you all about this all day because I see this
Speaker 1: ship happening, especially the biggest point, that's the biggest point
Speaker 1: of it all, like in front of my kid, and
Speaker 1: and and and you know what I'm saying, like or
Speaker 1: don't even let me over here that nigga somebody else
Speaker 1: my mama said, he give now, you're funking in my mind,
Speaker 1: regardless of how how she come back and trying to
Speaker 1: shook or or what. Because I love you more than
Speaker 1: I love him regardles cause I'm around you. So when
Speaker 1: I see you hurt behind this nigga, I'm starting to
Speaker 1: look at him different. And like you said, it could
Speaker 1: be a good dad for real. When you when you
Speaker 1: look at it, what what the word is before you
Speaker 1: make us and what's the word if Petro's decision or
Speaker 1: action all in all, you come back and be like
Speaker 1: you can compare it to he ain't really no bullshit.
Speaker 1: I just trying to keep him on his toes. But
Speaker 1: keeping him on his toes can have his child looking
Speaker 1: at him the wrong way. You get what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: And I see that ship so much. That'sh sickening. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, That's just sickening. Shot Uh and
Speaker 1: zay tigging. That's just sickening because at the end of
Speaker 1: the day, you want me to move off with your
Speaker 1: feelings and emotions. I ain't saying anything of that. Don't
Speaker 1: take care his kids like I don't funk with nigg
Speaker 1: of them'll take care of the kids like you can't
Speaker 1: even be my potter, because how the fun you're gonna
Speaker 1: tell him you love me un with me when you
Speaker 1: don't love them with your kids, you're a dunt like
Speaker 1: that's a that's the ultimate fuck you, like real ship
Speaker 1: you're dubbed. But I understand when the nigga trying to
Speaker 1: do everything he can do and I just got a
Speaker 1: bit too in the feelings, right, So now I gotta
Speaker 1: give it to God and goddamn tell whoeverse how I
Speaker 1: can get his money or go down to the courts,
Speaker 1: which niggas ain't really fin to do that because then
Speaker 1: I go down here. I got a old one. So
Speaker 1: it's just like it's just like a kid. Two. If
Speaker 1: a female isn't a feeling, that's the ros place for
Speaker 1: when the kid is involved, exactly because then you're gonna
Speaker 1: put me in my feelings. And I got to stand
Speaker 1: on some sucker. Ship ain't about to gett hurt. But
Speaker 1: the baby, I think, I think ultimately, I think they
Speaker 1: taking and I are talking about is that like we
Speaker 1: feel for our kids. So like when when I was
Speaker 1: almost like and I think what I'm saying, and then
Speaker 1: wrong y'all they said, and then wrong, I guess it
Speaker 1: just a misunderstanding on what we're talking about. I think
Speaker 1: we were talking about two different types of women. I
Speaker 1: wasn't talking about the bitches that just be giving the
Speaker 1: nigga's a hard time just to give him a hard time.
Speaker 1: But should you really getting chanced that a hard time? Though?
Speaker 1: I just say it was a good dad. But you
Speaker 1: get into answer. If you miss one thing, you're not
Speaker 1: hold on, I ain't gonna posession on care, but you
Speaker 1: and I know the personal. So like I get on chance, Dad,
Speaker 1: because in my thing, I'm gonna keep it a book.
Speaker 1: If I was to die, I want to make sure
Speaker 1: that chance still got the same type of that's going on.
Speaker 1: I'm just saying. I know I ain't, but I'm just saying,
Speaker 1: like I got hot standards for myself, and I mean
Speaker 1: I birth this child. I got high standards for my daughter.
Speaker 1: So if I go pedal to the metal twenty four
Speaker 1: mon eight, which both of you all y'all on this couch, No,
Speaker 1: I go seven for a chance. I need Chance Daddy
Speaker 1: to meet me and go twenty eight the same way.
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. But you basically saying like, bra
Speaker 1: ain't even let your start slipping exactly, so we even
Speaker 1: had chance, I tell him, a, I'm on your ass.
Speaker 1: My foot can always remain on your neck because I
Speaker 1: want your foot to always be on my neck when
Speaker 1: it comes to this baby. What about when it comes
Speaker 1: when you start coming from a disrespectful places. I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't disrespect chance, Daddy. That's a difference, like we
Speaker 1: don't got when you start using the word of I
Speaker 1: feel envious, envious all this respect, I hate all. I
Speaker 1: get that, but I'm gonna be honest with y'all. I
Speaker 1: don't care how y'all feel about it, but I'm gonna
Speaker 1: just be honest, Like if I am taking care of
Speaker 1: a chance, and chance was whatever age and I got
Speaker 1: her seven eight, nine, ten days a week, all day
Speaker 1: seven and the chance daddy is on his motherfucking Instagram
Speaker 1: and he out of his home, voys out with a bit.
Speaker 1: I am envious to that. Any woman that's gonna tell
Speaker 1: you she's not envious that she's lying. I don't care
Speaker 1: how y'all feel like, I could be hate or whatever.
Speaker 1: That's the reality of it. I'm gonna be envious of
Speaker 1: that ship because my life ain't what it was and
Speaker 1: you're still back to what you're all respect that I respect,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be envious of that. I'm I ain't gonna
Speaker 1: lie to y'all that, but but being envious of that, ken,
Speaker 1: I guess what y'all Being envious of that can cause
Speaker 1: you to make what's the word, decisions and motions that
Speaker 1: the funk up the whole ship. And you know what,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna sit here and tell y'all, y'all probably absolutely
Speaker 1: motherfucking right. I'm gonna give you all that. But if
Speaker 1: I'm taking care of my child and this nick in
Speaker 1: the clubs, hell yeah, I'm with impect you with motherfucker decision.
Speaker 1: I'm on that ass. I're probably gonna be at the
Speaker 1: club when you're coming out this bit. Come get your own,
Speaker 1: wrapping up, wrapping up. You appreciate you, Congratulations, Thank you,
Speaker 1: baby mama problems you know what, I'm trying to get
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