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Speaker 1: What's up? What's up? Everybody? Everybody feelings? Oh yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: we get to the word. Yeah, you're really fantastic. Good

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Speaker 1: you focused? Good and she looked kind of focused. The

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Speaker 1: the show. Show. You're gonna give us a little so right,

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Speaker 1: a couple of notes. That's hard. What's going on? It's good,

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Speaker 1: something that you're happy to be, man, don't happy. You

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Speaker 1: have to be good man. Yeah, that's my man. So

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Speaker 1: we're basically gonna build off a word and just create

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Speaker 1: a great conversation. So Jade's gonna bless us with the word.

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Speaker 1: Were were doing, Jakes, So the word of the day

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Speaker 1: is impetuous, I M P E T I O U

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Speaker 1: s impetuous, impetuous um and impetua's is basically like acting

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Speaker 1: or moving too quickly without thinking or care. And when

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Speaker 1: I think about impetuous, I think about the way that

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Speaker 1: most nigga is nuts were without too quickly. You don't

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Speaker 1: kill I thought, yes, man, we out finish sate. It's

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Speaker 1: on the league that old covers don't let you add it.

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Speaker 1: Now I'm that it's but it's that a good thing,

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Speaker 1: you know, a bad thing, a quick nut. It's terrible.

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Speaker 1: I know it's a terrible thing for the woman. Did

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Speaker 1: she get flattered by that? So look on my page

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Speaker 1: from Shout Out of Spiritual Work, I reposited it from them.

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Speaker 1: But so the first tweet was when like a woman says,

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Speaker 1: you know, she got that super grip water, super soaker, Candyland, whatever, whatever.

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Speaker 1: But then when the nigga gets in it and nut's quick,

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Speaker 1: she's not flattered by that being a compliment of her advertisement.

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Speaker 1: She's piste off because she wasn't satisfying. Yeah, like that,

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Speaker 1: get a rose, usual rose. You can't lose shot or

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Speaker 1: you know I'm gonna cut or you just find you

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Speaker 1: somebody that could go the first round quick and in

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Speaker 1: the second round you got it. You just want somebody

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Speaker 1: that knows how to funk and it gets rid of

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Speaker 1: the first nut before he comes to you, so that

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Speaker 1: you don't even have to work something else with me.

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Speaker 1: I mean not, no, not before he not. You don't

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Speaker 1: have to fund somebody else to get rid of the

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Speaker 1: first n You can jack off and get rid of it.

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Speaker 1: It's gonna be if it's a quick if you're a

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Speaker 1: quick nutter, and you know that, like, okay, your second round,

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Speaker 1: it's gonna be extended, like you know, you gotta get

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Speaker 1: that first nut out of the way. Nothing ain't with

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Speaker 1: that ship rules. I think that we're basically like if

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Speaker 1: you move too quick and you don't really have a

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Speaker 1: purpose or a meaning to what you're trying to get it,

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Speaker 1: or your goals or anything like that, you can easily

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Speaker 1: like funk up. You know what I'm saying. You move

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Speaker 1: too quick, You get into something too quick without having

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Speaker 1: the right mindset or something like that. You never know

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Speaker 1: like what you get yourself into, you might make a

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Speaker 1: mistake and then you might piggyback off of it later

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Speaker 1: and be like damn, well, I think I moved too quick,

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Speaker 1: Like a lot of people do that in life, you know. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: they're veryan postal. So it's like, that's like me with

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Speaker 1: I'm saying, So I can't expect it to move too

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Speaker 1: gotta take your time. You really gotta study and really

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Speaker 1: get your mindset right to really move forward with stuff.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, it's it could, it could, It could definitely,

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Speaker 1: But you could be what's the name of the word impetuous.

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Speaker 1: You could be impetuous with your words too. You can.

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Speaker 1: You can. You can speak too fast and say the

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Speaker 1: wrong ship and regret it. But then as black people us,

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Speaker 1: I can know I said the wrong ship, But since

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Speaker 1: I said it, I'm gonna stand on it. You get

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Speaker 1: what I'm saying, and you're knowing some bullshit? Yeah that's ego,

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, right, that ego is like I ain't gonna

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Speaker 1: answer that do. Y'all don't feel like when people say

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Speaker 1: I feel like that's really how you feel. You can't

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Speaker 1: Though about that, because I don't mean like that before.

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Speaker 1: You just you don't mean to. It's just like you're

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Speaker 1: just trying to do a quick job. Yeah, you're in

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Speaker 1: the person receiving and you think about it, be like, damn,

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't really trying to see it like that, but

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Speaker 1: of the moment. What about the people that be saying

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Speaker 1: crazy ship like I hope you die or your mama

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Speaker 1: take them type of words back. I'm just saying people

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Speaker 1: be saying that type of ship when they're mad. Are

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Speaker 1: you mad at people be saying like I hope you die,

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Speaker 1: I hope your mama died, hope everybody around you die,

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Speaker 1: and I'm sorry. I was just mad. But it's like

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Speaker 1: it ain't gonna happen to them, Yeah, because I did

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Speaker 1: that before too, Like like give an example, like my

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Speaker 1: and his brother has the club next door. So we

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Speaker 1: about the parking. But like me and I've known this, yeah,

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Speaker 1: but like I've known him for so long, bro, and

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Speaker 1: like we've never had an issue, never had a dispute,

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Speaker 1: never had nothing. But he was like trying it about

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Speaker 1: it was like it was it kept escalating, kept escalating.

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Speaker 1: It was like some real petty tip for that ship.

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Speaker 1: And like I was so mad to the point where

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Speaker 1: said a whole bunch of ship that like I didn't

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Speaker 1: really mean at the moment, like I told the nigga

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Speaker 1: like he was gonna have to move his kids and

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Speaker 1: like all kind of ship like, but it was, but

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Speaker 1: it was like I felt, but that's how disrespected that

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Speaker 1: I felt, Like I really felt like, you're really doing

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Speaker 1: some bullshit. So I have done that. I never wished

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Speaker 1: didn't mean their kids because they was gonna pop them there.

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Speaker 1: I wasn't trying to get that deep into it, but

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Speaker 1: like not like, but it's just like I feel like

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Speaker 1: when when you when you're pushed past your limits and

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Speaker 1: you feel like disrespected, unwarranted or you feel like disrespected

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Speaker 1: intentionally for no reason. I feel like sometimes, like you said,

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Speaker 1: you can say some ship that you don't mean and

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Speaker 1: it doesn't necessarily mean that that's how you feel because

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Speaker 1: me and him have never had a problem. We we

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Speaker 1: love each other, We've never had no issues. He always

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Speaker 1: looks out for me, whatever whatever. But in that moment,

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Speaker 1: I really felt like, nigga, like your kids are gonna

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Speaker 1: have to move, like if you keep sucking playing with me.

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Speaker 1: Like That's how I felt, but it wasn't. After that,

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Speaker 1: we you know what I'm saying. We talked about it,

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Speaker 1: We hugged and made up and I never thought about

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Speaker 1: his kids again, How dangerous is that? Because in that situation,

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Speaker 1: that's one thing. But sometimes that ship that was stacks

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Speaker 1: what kind of make it escalate in certain situations, because

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Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, So that escalate, Yeah, because just

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Speaker 1: because you were wrong and you tried me, and I

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Speaker 1: had all the right and authority to flip. But it

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Speaker 1: I'm saying to make you kind of like when it

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Speaker 1: I was thinking about yeah back in Yeah, yeah, you've

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Speaker 1: what's the word again, impetuous? What you feel like one

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Speaker 1: of your impetuous situations? Was it happened to you? Or

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Speaker 1: I mean says some wrong. You know what I'm saying,

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Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, like a lot of kids, like

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Speaker 1: a promise that I cut my second baby mama. You

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Speaker 1: though you feel this like man, I'm like fucking bitch,

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Speaker 1: like you could die. But she take it as like

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Speaker 1: I mean, but I mean that's my that's my second

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Speaker 1: Like she said, my baby mama, I ain't got no

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Speaker 1: respect for do you know? You gotta what you got,

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Speaker 1: but I got respect for my child. You gotta have

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Speaker 1: a certain level of because she's the mother of your kids,

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Speaker 1: your second did your second kid live with you? And

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Speaker 1: you know that, you you know you're advocate for real.

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Speaker 1: You said that I am so you know some of

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Speaker 1: these women's Now I'm not saying that disrespect is never good.

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Speaker 1: You know some of these women put they selling them

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Speaker 1: situate in a in a predicament where you can't even rich,

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Speaker 1: you can't even deal with him respect. No, I'm totally

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Speaker 1: with that, but to a certain extent, if your kids

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Speaker 1: getting into it, if she's doing what she's about to

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Speaker 1: do as a mother, you still have to have some

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Speaker 1: ounce of something for her because she's making sure that

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Speaker 1: into it and she's doing dirty ship to you, yeah,

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Speaker 1: end of the day, there has to be a little

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Speaker 1: she's taking care of your kids. But you can put

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Speaker 1: me in a position that I say something pickle with ship,

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Speaker 1: whatever it is, where I can say that, yeah, you

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Speaker 1: take care. You know what I'm saying? Like the calling

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Speaker 1: about no dead being ship man m a four months?

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Speaker 1: God damn, how much more fucker you wanted me to do? Wait? Wait,

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Speaker 1: say that again, hold on, hold on, say it again,

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Speaker 1: number four once? What that mean? I mean I ain't

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Speaker 1: saying not wrong with I mean I'm gonna do what

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Speaker 1: I'll do. You know she's straight, fit, pels whatever. But

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Speaker 1: go to jail, jail. Your baby dad, he was you

423
00:23:45,000 --> 00:23:46,800
Speaker 1: mad street nigger? I mean he had a baby by

424
00:23:46,880 --> 00:23:48,280
Speaker 1: streeting and he go to jail. You're mad at it?

425
00:23:48,880 --> 00:23:50,520
Speaker 1: If I'm mad that he went to jail, Yeah, because

426
00:23:50,520 --> 00:23:52,160
Speaker 1: he's not there to nurture the baby no more. Yeah,

427
00:23:52,160 --> 00:23:54,160
Speaker 1: of course I'm gonna be mad. So but you knew

428
00:23:54,200 --> 00:23:56,960
Speaker 1: this was a drug dealer. Listen, so you do you

429
00:23:56,960 --> 00:23:58,719
Speaker 1: know what coma being in the streets? First of all,

430
00:23:59,680 --> 00:24:02,920
Speaker 1: who I don't know? Listen, my baby father not a

431
00:24:02,960 --> 00:24:05,400
Speaker 1: street niggase, I'm gonna talk about experience. Okay, my baby

432
00:24:05,440 --> 00:24:07,480
Speaker 1: father not a street nigga. So I can't sit here.

433
00:24:07,480 --> 00:24:11,240
Speaker 1: And but if my baby father was a street nigga

434
00:24:11,440 --> 00:24:14,160
Speaker 1: and he still wasn't doing emotionally there for my child,

435
00:24:14,240 --> 00:24:17,359
Speaker 1: if if you go to jail, yeah, I'm gonna anybody

436
00:24:17,440 --> 00:24:19,840
Speaker 1: gonna fill with anybody go to jail back. But I said,

437
00:24:19,880 --> 00:24:21,440
Speaker 1: are you're gonna be upset with him that he can't

438
00:24:21,440 --> 00:24:23,560
Speaker 1: provide and do the thing that it wouldn't be. I

439
00:24:23,560 --> 00:24:25,320
Speaker 1: wouldn't be upset that he can't provide. I'll just be

440
00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:27,680
Speaker 1: upset like we in a situation because I, like you said,

441
00:24:27,720 --> 00:24:30,040
Speaker 1: alreadyknew what I signed up for. Both listen, at the

442
00:24:30,119 --> 00:24:31,880
Speaker 1: end of the day, what y'all was saying was, Okay,

443
00:24:31,920 --> 00:24:33,480
Speaker 1: you already dealing with a nigga here in the streets

444
00:24:33,480 --> 00:24:35,240
Speaker 1: that he doing whatever, you know, a type of nigga

445
00:24:35,280 --> 00:24:37,080
Speaker 1: you signed up for. What y'all failed to realize is

446
00:24:37,119 --> 00:24:39,360
Speaker 1: these niggs could be street niggas to y'all and all

447
00:24:39,400 --> 00:24:41,760
Speaker 1: the homeboys and all this street all blah blah blah.

448
00:24:41,800 --> 00:24:43,080
Speaker 1: But when he get in the bed with that girl,

449
00:24:43,080 --> 00:24:44,680
Speaker 1: he ain't sitting here telling her I ain't gonna be

450
00:24:44,720 --> 00:24:46,600
Speaker 1: shipped when I put this baby in you. He ain't

451
00:24:46,600 --> 00:24:54,119
Speaker 1: get hey to her. He fi whispers and motherfucker, it don't.

452
00:24:54,160 --> 00:24:56,640
Speaker 1: I don't. Okay, I get what you're saying, you won't

453
00:24:56,720 --> 00:24:59,719
Speaker 1: need the bed for how this this many minute. But

454
00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:03,880
Speaker 1: if the saying it's not having a kid, But when

455
00:25:03,880 --> 00:25:06,240
Speaker 1: when you have a kid that ain't got nothing to

456
00:25:06,280 --> 00:25:07,920
Speaker 1: do with it? Does when we have a kid, we're

457
00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:12,680
Speaker 1: gonna we already saying that you jealous, Let bitch, that's

458
00:25:12,160 --> 00:25:17,040
Speaker 1: what that's, you know, that's that's not that's not what

459
00:25:17,080 --> 00:25:20,720
Speaker 1: I said. Is what you said? Envious of the situation.

460
00:25:20,800 --> 00:25:26,640
Speaker 1: You're not listening. You when you can't take that. You're saying,

461
00:25:26,680 --> 00:25:30,639
Speaker 1: I take my child eight and you look at the

462
00:25:30,720 --> 00:25:36,000
Speaker 1: Instagram and see this Nika out with that you're not

463
00:25:36,000 --> 00:25:40,320
Speaker 1: taking But why the bitch in it? Man? What don't

464
00:25:40,320 --> 00:25:45,600
Speaker 1: you feel you say? Also came back and said it

465
00:25:45,600 --> 00:25:51,359
Speaker 1: could have been you with your home boys. You but

466
00:25:52,400 --> 00:25:54,520
Speaker 1: you're not taking care of your child, and you gotta bitch.

467
00:25:54,520 --> 00:25:56,600
Speaker 1: It's a problem. Bro. If you're not taking care of

468
00:25:56,640 --> 00:25:59,720
Speaker 1: your motherfucking child and you're not another woman and that

469
00:26:00,200 --> 00:26:01,960
Speaker 1: it's not forcing you to take care of your child,

470
00:26:02,000 --> 00:26:04,119
Speaker 1: that's a problem. And if you're a woman and you

471
00:26:04,200 --> 00:26:06,439
Speaker 1: don't see a problem with that, then you're a problem.

472
00:26:06,480 --> 00:26:09,240
Speaker 1: But but you just said the six because some people

473
00:26:09,280 --> 00:26:12,280
Speaker 1: feel like financial is taking care of the kids. Some

474
00:26:12,320 --> 00:26:14,680
Speaker 1: people feel like some people do feel okay, But you're

475
00:26:14,680 --> 00:26:16,840
Speaker 1: saying if this nigga and coming over at four o'clock

476
00:26:16,840 --> 00:26:20,040
Speaker 1: in the morning because you talk that's what we said earlier. Well,

477
00:26:20,080 --> 00:26:21,959
Speaker 1: you said if he if you, if he can't give

478
00:26:22,040 --> 00:26:24,280
Speaker 1: him a couple of days out the week, that's offbrate

479
00:26:24,320 --> 00:26:26,120
Speaker 1: you because you see him with his other bitch. That's

480
00:26:26,160 --> 00:26:27,919
Speaker 1: what you said. He could be giving me money and

481
00:26:27,960 --> 00:26:31,359
Speaker 1: all that. That's what you're saying. Yes you did, shot

482
00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:34,399
Speaker 1: you did. We can be busy, that's the Did you

483
00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:41,320
Speaker 1: just say that? My people? Anybody anything? My god? Like?

484
00:26:42,520 --> 00:26:45,760
Speaker 1: You said? Right? You said one thing, But I knew

485
00:26:45,760 --> 00:26:48,280
Speaker 1: what she meant because what you said, you know, I

486
00:26:48,480 --> 00:26:51,560
Speaker 1: know because I'm after all this man woman child bit

487
00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:55,080
Speaker 1: sounds all that ship. I'm the kid that y'all forgot about.

488
00:26:55,600 --> 00:26:58,200
Speaker 1: And yes, we do grow up. And my daddy was

489
00:26:58,400 --> 00:27:01,159
Speaker 1: no street nigger. He was a preacher. He's still a preacher.

490
00:27:01,200 --> 00:27:03,440
Speaker 1: But guess what, I love my father. My daddy wasn't ship,

491
00:27:04,040 --> 00:27:06,639
Speaker 1: and he was never there, and I still wanted to

492
00:27:06,640 --> 00:27:08,479
Speaker 1: love him, but my mother would get masked. So I

493
00:27:08,520 --> 00:27:10,479
Speaker 1: had to hate my father in order to show my

494
00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:13,479
Speaker 1: mother I love her. What what she's saying is that

495
00:27:13,520 --> 00:27:15,800
Speaker 1: it's hard at times, and when she see you out

496
00:27:15,840 --> 00:27:18,439
Speaker 1: here doing you're living your best life. She's just simply

497
00:27:18,440 --> 00:27:20,800
Speaker 1: saying that she wished that you could see or appreciate

498
00:27:20,840 --> 00:27:24,119
Speaker 1: the struggle. Just how a working man feels that the

499
00:27:24,160 --> 00:27:27,240
Speaker 1: wife is always ragging on him. He out working, he

500
00:27:27,280 --> 00:27:29,600
Speaker 1: wants them to know how the struggle is real. At

501
00:27:29,600 --> 00:27:31,080
Speaker 1: the end of the day, it's a struggling at the

502
00:27:31,119 --> 00:27:32,600
Speaker 1: end of the day, the only person who's gonna get

503
00:27:32,600 --> 00:27:34,919
Speaker 1: sucked up is the child. And yes, we do know,

504
00:27:35,320 --> 00:27:37,960
Speaker 1: We hear and know and see everything, and we don't

505
00:27:38,000 --> 00:27:41,960
Speaker 1: forget shit period. So you all had and I don't

506
00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:46,560
Speaker 1: have no kidd to me. The parents draw the winds

507
00:27:46,640 --> 00:27:48,399
Speaker 1: with the child. They do because at the end of

508
00:27:48,400 --> 00:27:50,600
Speaker 1: the day they do. I know if I know, if

509
00:27:50,640 --> 00:27:53,040
Speaker 1: I have, if I gonna have a baby, but a struggle, right,

510
00:27:53,400 --> 00:27:56,199
Speaker 1: I know that my kid as soon as I if

511
00:27:56,240 --> 00:27:58,920
Speaker 1: I wrong, I know that somebody else gonna have to

512
00:27:58,920 --> 00:28:01,000
Speaker 1: watch my baby at nighttime because I'm in the street

513
00:28:01,000 --> 00:28:04,119
Speaker 1: grind and she's checking up at the end of the

514
00:28:04,200 --> 00:28:07,440
Speaker 1: day because I got it. It's saying, but somebody else

515
00:28:07,520 --> 00:28:10,080
Speaker 1: watching the child what he's gonna be because he in

516
00:28:10,119 --> 00:28:13,680
Speaker 1: your posses. You know what you got? This thing ain't

517
00:28:13,680 --> 00:28:15,760
Speaker 1: never been to no function, say you never did nothing.

518
00:28:15,880 --> 00:28:17,680
Speaker 1: How the fund are gonna turn into a great day?

519
00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:20,680
Speaker 1: That part, it's what I'm saying. That's all I'm saying.

520
00:28:20,800 --> 00:28:23,480
Speaker 1: But I think she just wanted to have give me

521
00:28:23,520 --> 00:28:25,920
Speaker 1: a responsibility and thank them I'm going to change no

522
00:28:26,040 --> 00:28:27,760
Speaker 1: offer to be the same nigga, and I'm gonna be

523
00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:29,440
Speaker 1: even worse because you're gonna be upset and you're gonna

524
00:28:29,480 --> 00:28:32,159
Speaker 1: display that to me. And it works on side. It

525
00:28:32,200 --> 00:28:36,119
Speaker 1: works on the side. Okay, you feel if you had

526
00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:38,280
Speaker 1: a kid, right, yeah, you could be a street and

527
00:28:38,480 --> 00:28:41,160
Speaker 1: you could do all that kind of stuff. You get

528
00:28:41,200 --> 00:28:43,600
Speaker 1: the other you could be any any nigga. Like, if

529
00:28:43,640 --> 00:28:45,160
Speaker 1: you don't want to be there for your child, you're

530
00:28:45,200 --> 00:28:49,480
Speaker 1: not gonna be then how you because the moment is

531
00:28:49,520 --> 00:28:55,640
Speaker 1: never gonna worry she wanted to do that gonna do

532
00:28:55,680 --> 00:28:57,680
Speaker 1: You're gonna have another problem, you know how he with

533
00:28:57,840 --> 00:29:01,680
Speaker 1: his bitch or he with his plans. But that to

534
00:29:01,760 --> 00:29:04,760
Speaker 1: that child when that child get old enough and be like, damn, mama,

535
00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:08,640
Speaker 1: my daddy, my daddy won there? Where's my daddy? Or

536
00:29:09,160 --> 00:29:11,880
Speaker 1: damn my daddy with this girl with this lady he

537
00:29:11,920 --> 00:29:14,560
Speaker 1: got she got three kids, and he forget about me?

538
00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:16,680
Speaker 1: What about me? Because you got niggas out here that

539
00:29:16,720 --> 00:29:18,960
Speaker 1: a girl have sex with a bitch, we got fifteen

540
00:29:19,040 --> 00:29:21,960
Speaker 1: kids and spend all that time with them and forget

541
00:29:21,960 --> 00:29:24,080
Speaker 1: about the first child that you didn't have with that woman.

542
00:29:24,560 --> 00:29:27,520
Speaker 1: And then that first child's gonna feel abandoned. That's abandon

543
00:29:29,360 --> 00:29:32,040
Speaker 1: A lot of stuff come in that. So it's it's okay.

544
00:29:32,080 --> 00:29:33,400
Speaker 1: You can go do your thing, can't go to the

545
00:29:33,440 --> 00:29:35,480
Speaker 1: strip club, throw all your money, but make sure you

546
00:29:35,560 --> 00:29:37,760
Speaker 1: dropped by my baby and tell my baby, hey, you

547
00:29:37,800 --> 00:29:40,200
Speaker 1: love them, and get the funk on. Just do that,

548
00:29:40,320 --> 00:29:49,760
Speaker 1: bo that'll be. You can't deal with this man. If

549
00:29:49,760 --> 00:29:52,200
Speaker 1: you can't deal if you can't deal with me as

550
00:29:52,200 --> 00:29:54,280
Speaker 1: a woman, or if you can't deal with me, don't

551
00:29:54,320 --> 00:29:56,200
Speaker 1: deal with me. But if you can deal with your child,

552
00:29:56,240 --> 00:30:05,080
Speaker 1: deal with your child. How The problem is men have

553
00:30:05,240 --> 00:30:08,640
Speaker 1: the option that men have the and that's just what

554
00:30:08,680 --> 00:30:11,720
Speaker 1: it is. Men have the on rather they want to

555
00:30:11,760 --> 00:30:14,040
Speaker 1: be in their child's life or not, and then rather

556
00:30:14,320 --> 00:30:16,560
Speaker 1: whatever you do, women supposed to be okay with it.

557
00:30:16,680 --> 00:30:18,760
Speaker 1: You can't say that, but you can. You cannot drag

558
00:30:18,880 --> 00:30:22,200
Speaker 1: me because of your feelings baby, because you don't want

559
00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:24,840
Speaker 1: to be a mother. She's some bullshit, bad she all

560
00:30:24,880 --> 00:30:27,800
Speaker 1: type of bullshit. But men can go and decide to

561
00:30:27,920 --> 00:30:30,640
Speaker 1: pop in, pop out, go over here and have babies

562
00:30:30,640 --> 00:30:32,160
Speaker 1: and do whatever the funk you want to do. Because

563
00:30:32,160 --> 00:30:34,120
Speaker 1: that's just ask you all the question, what if what

564
00:30:34,200 --> 00:30:36,000
Speaker 1: if I say, okay, baby, you see we don't get

565
00:30:36,040 --> 00:30:38,000
Speaker 1: along coming in the talk, so we need to find

566
00:30:38,000 --> 00:30:40,320
Speaker 1: you another baby and give me back. No woman has

567
00:30:40,320 --> 00:30:43,080
Speaker 1: going no real monther about but don't saying so you

568
00:30:43,080 --> 00:30:46,959
Speaker 1: want me to be on your time and it's just

569
00:30:47,440 --> 00:30:50,080
Speaker 1: us co parenting, Like what the hell? But I'm saying something,

570
00:30:50,600 --> 00:30:53,560
Speaker 1: have you ever seen a situation, well, it definitely impossible

571
00:30:53,600 --> 00:30:56,160
Speaker 1: to co parents. I have that I'm talking about from

572
00:30:56,200 --> 00:30:58,320
Speaker 1: that issue because I see a lot of my niggles

573
00:30:58,320 --> 00:30:59,920
Speaker 1: that want to be in their kids life and it's

574
00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:06,880
Speaker 1: like it impossible. Yes, that's whatever. That's what I'm speaking on.

575
00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:08,880
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, a motherfucker that making dumn

576
00:31:08,880 --> 00:31:11,560
Speaker 1: that impossible to be with their kids, not a person.

577
00:31:11,600 --> 00:31:14,680
Speaker 1: That's and what you said shot that put me in that,

578
00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:17,960
Speaker 1: my friend, because of what I'm doing. You're saying whatever

579
00:31:18,000 --> 00:31:19,520
Speaker 1: I'm trying to do for my baby is not enough.

580
00:31:20,560 --> 00:31:23,120
Speaker 1: That's why I took that an offense because you're saying,

581
00:31:23,840 --> 00:31:25,960
Speaker 1: all right, I can wake up one day even if

582
00:31:25,960 --> 00:31:28,479
Speaker 1: you take as kid financially he might say him one

583
00:31:28,560 --> 00:31:30,800
Speaker 1: or two five times and whatever I can do, but

584
00:31:30,840 --> 00:31:33,120
Speaker 1: that's not enough because I'm waking up seeing you doing

585
00:31:33,160 --> 00:31:35,400
Speaker 1: what you're doing, and I'm frustrated with my kid being

586
00:31:35,440 --> 00:31:39,200
Speaker 1: hunger or saying crying or whatever. That ain't right to me.

587
00:31:39,440 --> 00:31:42,560
Speaker 1: That's not that's not right. That's not right. Now, hear

588
00:31:42,600 --> 00:31:44,640
Speaker 1: me out here. Can we all just go ahead, go ahead,

589
00:31:44,680 --> 00:31:47,600
Speaker 1: gear me out. Listen. You said like you just said

590
00:31:47,680 --> 00:31:50,000
Speaker 1: three or five times out the month or whatever. It is.

591
00:31:50,240 --> 00:31:52,600
Speaker 1: What I'm saying is a mom when she have that child,

592
00:31:52,680 --> 00:31:57,520
Speaker 1: we really have the four seven like barrier on us.

593
00:31:57,520 --> 00:32:00,000
Speaker 1: And like baby Girls said in the beginning, you got postpartum,

594
00:32:00,000 --> 00:32:04,120
Speaker 1: you got all types of depressions. All that has communicated, though, Queen,

595
00:32:04,160 --> 00:32:06,120
Speaker 1: that's what I'm if it's not a communicate, if you're

596
00:32:06,120 --> 00:32:08,360
Speaker 1: just feeling like you're feel you me, then you're gonna

597
00:32:08,360 --> 00:32:10,600
Speaker 1: make me say both of you. That's what usually happen.

598
00:32:10,680 --> 00:32:13,840
Speaker 1: That's what I got it. That's what usually happen. It's like,

599
00:32:13,880 --> 00:32:16,680
Speaker 1: I can't do it. I can't. I can't. I can't

600
00:32:16,720 --> 00:32:18,600
Speaker 1: operate off your feelings because you already told me if

601
00:32:18,640 --> 00:32:21,040
Speaker 1: that's envy there, So I'm gonna feel that because I'm

602
00:32:21,080 --> 00:32:24,000
Speaker 1: not the time to deal with my kid. I'm gonna

603
00:32:24,000 --> 00:32:26,960
Speaker 1: feel that. And I think that piggyback on her saying,

604
00:32:27,720 --> 00:32:29,440
Speaker 1: if you're not upset and we coped praying, we cop

605
00:32:29,480 --> 00:32:31,760
Speaker 1: praying the fun but I got going on now, I

606
00:32:31,800 --> 00:32:34,520
Speaker 1: gotta understand it. It's it's it never's gonna be uh.

607
00:32:34,640 --> 00:32:39,000
Speaker 1: Communication is gonna make me know my obligations. But I can't.

608
00:32:39,040 --> 00:32:41,240
Speaker 1: I can't. I can't let you wake up every day

609
00:32:41,360 --> 00:32:44,640
Speaker 1: with different motherfuckers ship for me to do. But the

610
00:32:44,880 --> 00:32:47,239
Speaker 1: whole thing too is like even outside of that, like

611
00:32:47,480 --> 00:32:48,880
Speaker 1: and I know I don't have kids, so I don't

612
00:32:48,960 --> 00:32:52,480
Speaker 1: understand or whatever the fun she said, But once you

613
00:32:52,760 --> 00:32:54,840
Speaker 1: decide to lay down with this nigga and decide to

614
00:32:54,880 --> 00:32:57,760
Speaker 1: go ahead and have this baby, you don't understand that

615
00:32:58,240 --> 00:33:00,320
Speaker 1: your job from now on is to be a mother

616
00:33:00,400 --> 00:33:04,240
Speaker 1: and to be here with this kid seven, whether this

617
00:33:04,320 --> 00:33:07,480
Speaker 1: nake is present or not. That's what I was saying. Father,

618
00:33:09,920 --> 00:33:17,600
Speaker 1: I get what you're saying, but still it's still haven

619
00:33:17,720 --> 00:33:21,120
Speaker 1: profit communication though. If you if you're some bullshit, you're

620
00:33:21,160 --> 00:33:25,000
Speaker 1: some bullshit no matter what's be bullshit. I understand that,

621
00:33:25,040 --> 00:33:26,880
Speaker 1: but negg to be bullshit, but you can push him

622
00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:29,280
Speaker 1: on the way and making some worse bullshit. I could

623
00:33:29,360 --> 00:33:34,120
Speaker 1: be some bullshit that want to be somebody bullshit real ship.

624
00:33:34,200 --> 00:33:36,239
Speaker 1: I could already be some bullshit. You wanna take up

625
00:33:36,240 --> 00:33:38,480
Speaker 1: my kid, but you're flushing me away because I can't

626
00:33:38,560 --> 00:33:40,520
Speaker 1: deal with you like I can look at this kid

627
00:33:40,760 --> 00:33:42,560
Speaker 1: as the thing that's going to change my life, but

628
00:33:42,840 --> 00:33:47,800
Speaker 1: you got to be basically, that's not gonna happen. You

629
00:33:47,880 --> 00:33:51,080
Speaker 1: might take out child support and put me on a visitation, right,

630
00:33:51,440 --> 00:33:54,240
Speaker 1: they're just like trying to fight oil. It's not gonna happen.

631
00:33:54,400 --> 00:33:56,120
Speaker 1: I'm just saying that's the only way's gonna work because

632
00:33:56,120 --> 00:33:58,360
Speaker 1: I can't do when I called you, Now, I gotta

633
00:33:58,360 --> 00:34:00,200
Speaker 1: go through something like, hey, what y'all doing that? I

634
00:34:00,280 --> 00:34:02,920
Speaker 1: want to get broth for the weekend? Taking he can't

635
00:34:02,920 --> 00:34:07,200
Speaker 1: call that week you know that ship go like that? Now,

636
00:34:07,240 --> 00:34:10,600
Speaker 1: I gotta now, I gotta be. I gotta damn kiss

637
00:34:10,640 --> 00:34:13,680
Speaker 1: your ad to be a father, to take care of

638
00:34:13,719 --> 00:34:16,440
Speaker 1: my because the only way for me to get to

639
00:34:16,560 --> 00:34:19,600
Speaker 1: this nigga is through you. Only way for me to

640
00:34:19,600 --> 00:34:22,080
Speaker 1: see my kids through his small So if I don't

641
00:34:22,080 --> 00:34:24,879
Speaker 1: have a relationship, proper relationship with his mom, that's gonna

642
00:34:24,960 --> 00:34:28,000
Speaker 1: damn the relationship with my kids. That's just going back

643
00:34:28,000 --> 00:34:29,759
Speaker 1: to what she said. You know what you laid down

644
00:34:29,840 --> 00:34:33,440
Speaker 1: with you know the type of I respect that because

645
00:34:33,440 --> 00:34:35,560
Speaker 1: you got a lot of women out here that will

646
00:34:35,600 --> 00:34:38,920
Speaker 1: really just lay down with any anybody just because of

647
00:34:38,960 --> 00:34:41,359
Speaker 1: their own emotions and feelings or whatever. And then they

648
00:34:41,480 --> 00:34:44,160
Speaker 1: have a baby and be fucked up and sucked over.

649
00:34:46,719 --> 00:34:50,880
Speaker 1: Yeah they had babies like you my wife. Yeah, but

650
00:34:51,280 --> 00:34:52,839
Speaker 1: my wife. Now you just got a baby. We got

651
00:34:52,920 --> 00:34:54,560
Speaker 1: a baby. Let's take it. Lets figure out how to

652
00:34:54,560 --> 00:34:58,239
Speaker 1: take this chikid's kids? Do you really want I'm even

653
00:34:58,280 --> 00:35:00,239
Speaker 1: trying to be a daddy to this motherfucker. And we

654
00:35:00,320 --> 00:35:05,160
Speaker 1: ain't got no type of nothing going on. You have

655
00:35:05,239 --> 00:35:08,440
Speaker 1: a kid, it's way way different. You look at you

656
00:35:08,480 --> 00:35:13,279
Speaker 1: will feel, you would think because my dad, my dad

657
00:35:13,440 --> 00:35:15,440
Speaker 1: was awake, he went to chang and he did all

658
00:35:15,480 --> 00:35:18,239
Speaker 1: that ship. So I in my heart, even if I

659
00:35:18,320 --> 00:35:21,399
Speaker 1: didn't funk with Shante coming up, I'm gonna stay around

660
00:35:21,440 --> 00:35:24,360
Speaker 1: to my kids get grown, because they're just that's what

661
00:35:24,480 --> 00:35:26,360
Speaker 1: I chose. You know what I'm saying, Like, I'm not

662
00:35:26,440 --> 00:35:29,560
Speaker 1: gonna allow you because I see if me and you

663
00:35:29,600 --> 00:35:33,239
Speaker 1: would break up, you're gonna be better and it's gonna

664
00:35:33,280 --> 00:35:35,719
Speaker 1: go get my kids. You're gonna tell them I left y'all,

665
00:35:35,880 --> 00:35:38,840
Speaker 1: not you. So now you're pausing to my kids to

666
00:35:38,880 --> 00:35:41,399
Speaker 1: the point of I'm starting to see that a little funk,

667
00:35:41,920 --> 00:35:45,080
Speaker 1: like a little funk niggle towards me. Yeah. So now

668
00:35:45,160 --> 00:35:48,960
Speaker 1: I'm like, I ain't fool. Yeah, what I've wanted to do,

669
00:35:49,040 --> 00:35:50,640
Speaker 1: You're gonna see when you get grown, you get your

670
00:35:50,680 --> 00:35:53,480
Speaker 1: own bitch. But no, I ain't gonna allow you to

671
00:35:53,520 --> 00:35:55,520
Speaker 1: do that. Ain't allow myself to do that. But then

672
00:35:55,560 --> 00:35:59,080
Speaker 1: that's gonna hurt them. But something just feel like, I

673
00:35:59,160 --> 00:36:01,640
Speaker 1: ain't even gonna like you, bitch, So why the play

674
00:36:01,760 --> 00:36:03,919
Speaker 1: like I like you for this kid, Either we're gonna

675
00:36:03,920 --> 00:36:07,320
Speaker 1: co fare or we're not. Just because you got the

676
00:36:07,400 --> 00:36:09,279
Speaker 1: oversea you got the baby. What you don't mean that

677
00:36:09,640 --> 00:36:13,279
Speaker 1: you the you? You are reasly me? Yes, why are

678
00:36:13,280 --> 00:36:14,680
Speaker 1: you looking at me? That ain't what I said. I'm

679
00:36:14,719 --> 00:36:16,759
Speaker 1: asking you though, but that that's kind of what you said.

680
00:36:16,760 --> 00:36:19,840
Speaker 1: I didn't. I initially said two or three days? What

681
00:36:19,960 --> 00:36:22,279
Speaker 1: did I tell you, bro? I said, if your father

682
00:36:22,360 --> 00:36:25,239
Speaker 1: get their child two or three days, that's what I'm saying.

683
00:36:25,280 --> 00:36:28,399
Speaker 1: If you're not getting your child at all, He's said

684
00:36:28,400 --> 00:36:30,480
Speaker 1: he was already doing that. No, but I was just saying,

685
00:36:30,600 --> 00:36:32,400
Speaker 1: like my did I ask you? I said, did you

686
00:36:32,480 --> 00:36:34,120
Speaker 1: get your child like two or three days. That's where

687
00:36:34,160 --> 00:36:36,080
Speaker 1: it kind of popped off, just a touch of situation

688
00:36:36,239 --> 00:36:38,640
Speaker 1: because I see a lot of niggas, real good dads.

689
00:36:38,920 --> 00:36:41,880
Speaker 1: They'd be trying for theybe trying the best, like asking

690
00:36:41,920 --> 00:36:43,600
Speaker 1: me like I'd had to call one of my part

691
00:36:43,640 --> 00:36:45,600
Speaker 1: the baby mom for him, Like you're tripping, I let

692
00:36:45,640 --> 00:36:46,800
Speaker 1: him get it, le him see the baby. You know

693
00:36:46,800 --> 00:36:49,600
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like I could call this bitch myself.

694
00:36:50,400 --> 00:36:52,600
Speaker 1: That's a friend because she my friend, he my friend.

695
00:36:52,960 --> 00:36:54,880
Speaker 1: Like y'all tripping in there, I get to us a

696
00:36:55,000 --> 00:36:56,640
Speaker 1: climbing ground for them to get their kids. That ship

697
00:36:56,760 --> 00:37:01,040
Speaker 1: lame to meause I'm not I'm not taking away from

698
00:37:01,080 --> 00:37:03,280
Speaker 1: y'all on that lame ship. I'm not defending no bullshit

699
00:37:03,400 --> 00:37:05,840
Speaker 1: woman at all. What I'm saying is there are some

700
00:37:06,040 --> 00:37:09,000
Speaker 1: men out there that's even more import That's what I'm

701
00:37:09,000 --> 00:37:12,200
Speaker 1: talking about. But if he becomes a dad beat, No, queen,

702
00:37:13,000 --> 00:37:15,000
Speaker 1: if this dude become a dead beat, don't be mad.

703
00:37:15,080 --> 00:37:17,080
Speaker 1: I'm fucking take care of your kids. No, I am

704
00:37:17,160 --> 00:37:20,040
Speaker 1: just what I'm saying. I'm not saying that, all right, listen,

705
00:37:20,160 --> 00:37:22,799
Speaker 1: That's all I'm saying. I'm not saying but even if

706
00:37:22,880 --> 00:37:25,279
Speaker 1: that man decided to become a dead beat, right, the

707
00:37:25,400 --> 00:37:27,560
Speaker 1: woman is still gonna feel some type of way. I

708
00:37:27,600 --> 00:37:30,440
Speaker 1: don't give a funk what you're talking about saying. If

709
00:37:30,480 --> 00:37:32,239
Speaker 1: you're a dad beat and I have a child with you,

710
00:37:32,600 --> 00:37:35,120
Speaker 1: you're not doing ship for my child. And I see

711
00:37:35,160 --> 00:37:37,239
Speaker 1: you popping bottle with your boys, your new bit or

712
00:37:37,280 --> 00:37:43,520
Speaker 1: whatever you've got going on. Your guns, No but alive,

713
00:37:43,640 --> 00:37:45,440
Speaker 1: hold on. And I'm not saying that because I know

714
00:37:45,560 --> 00:37:49,680
Speaker 1: some dead nigga sold women hope some motherfucking dreams. I

715
00:37:49,800 --> 00:37:52,320
Speaker 1: got home girls that was with niggas that had told

716
00:37:52,400 --> 00:37:55,360
Speaker 1: them all type of bullshit that and told them we're

717
00:37:55,400 --> 00:37:57,239
Speaker 1: gonna have this baby. I'm gonna put this baby in you,

718
00:37:57,520 --> 00:38:11,080
Speaker 1: and they have mother nigger that's like you got, you

719
00:38:11,239 --> 00:38:14,879
Speaker 1: got you have, you got some some niggers that will

720
00:38:14,920 --> 00:38:18,880
Speaker 1: sit there. There'll be one person while they wit you

721
00:38:19,320 --> 00:38:21,759
Speaker 1: talking to you before a baby. But then when they

722
00:38:21,880 --> 00:38:24,680
Speaker 1: had that baby, and that pressure get on them as

723
00:38:25,200 --> 00:38:28,720
Speaker 1: them being men, because women mature faster than me and period,

724
00:38:29,480 --> 00:38:32,600
Speaker 1: they get that responsibility. They get that mindset like I

725
00:38:32,719 --> 00:38:34,879
Speaker 1: can't handle this ship. So what I'm gonna do, I'm

726
00:38:34,880 --> 00:38:37,880
Speaker 1: gonna go. I'm gonna go funk off because my stress

727
00:38:38,000 --> 00:38:40,719
Speaker 1: level it is not the stress level of hurt where

728
00:38:40,760 --> 00:38:42,640
Speaker 1: she could just cope with being with her baby, being

729
00:38:42,680 --> 00:38:45,759
Speaker 1: by herself. A nigga gotta go funk on something, gotta

730
00:38:45,800 --> 00:38:48,480
Speaker 1: go lick on something, gotta go be with, be with

731
00:38:48,600 --> 00:38:50,399
Speaker 1: the niggas and all this kind of ship to really

732
00:38:50,440 --> 00:38:54,439
Speaker 1: get theirselves together instead of taking time to actually learn

733
00:38:54,560 --> 00:38:57,359
Speaker 1: to be a parent, learn to know how to take

734
00:38:57,400 --> 00:38:59,120
Speaker 1: care of a baby, learning a lot of this kind

735
00:38:59,160 --> 00:39:01,640
Speaker 1: of stuff. But at the same time, it's like, I

736
00:39:01,840 --> 00:39:04,360
Speaker 1: can't as a woman, I can't take all that stress

737
00:39:04,440 --> 00:39:08,520
Speaker 1: on top of postpartum, on top of me healing my body,

738
00:39:08,640 --> 00:39:12,239
Speaker 1: healing fully from pushing the whole six seven eight cow

739
00:39:12,400 --> 00:39:15,319
Speaker 1: baby out of me, and thinking like damn, I ain't

740
00:39:15,320 --> 00:39:17,200
Speaker 1: got nobody to be there for you. Just thinking that

741
00:39:17,280 --> 00:39:20,160
Speaker 1: girl and had no type of support, no family, no nothing.

742
00:39:20,200 --> 00:39:22,960
Speaker 1: All she got is you. She gonna call you at

743
00:39:23,040 --> 00:39:26,400
Speaker 1: four o'clock in the morning. My my ship danging right now.

744
00:39:26,440 --> 00:39:28,600
Speaker 1: I ain't ain't I can't walk, I can't do this.

745
00:39:29,080 --> 00:39:33,920
Speaker 1: If you can't be like I'm gonna come through relationship.

746
00:39:34,920 --> 00:39:37,600
Speaker 1: If you ain't in a relationship, you gotta think like damn,

747
00:39:37,680 --> 00:39:40,839
Speaker 1: you gotta kill give me the baby, give me the baby.

748
00:39:41,000 --> 00:39:43,239
Speaker 1: I feel like, yeah, I understand, feel like that. Let

749
00:39:43,280 --> 00:39:48,480
Speaker 1: me get my but but but but you can't. It

750
00:39:48,600 --> 00:39:51,200
Speaker 1: has to be organized. You can't call me a spur

751
00:39:51,239 --> 00:39:53,719
Speaker 1: of the moment just because tonight you tie you and

752
00:39:53,800 --> 00:39:55,879
Speaker 1: say can you come get him to me? Don't feel

753
00:39:55,920 --> 00:39:59,480
Speaker 1: like this. Yeah, you're playing with me. But if you

754
00:39:59,600 --> 00:40:02,520
Speaker 1: say I'm gonna be tired, I know I am. Can

755
00:40:02,560 --> 00:40:05,160
Speaker 1: you get this baby two times or three times a week?

756
00:40:06,239 --> 00:40:08,640
Speaker 1: That that's communication. You can't call me out of blue.

757
00:40:08,680 --> 00:40:10,279
Speaker 1: They don't tell him well man, or what I'm doing

758
00:40:10,440 --> 00:40:12,960
Speaker 1: and tell me come get this baby. You feel like

759
00:40:13,000 --> 00:40:16,680
Speaker 1: you're sped. Didn't do that right, That's impossible. How you

760
00:40:16,719 --> 00:40:18,399
Speaker 1: couldn't call me and tell me to come home before

761
00:40:18,440 --> 00:40:20,680
Speaker 1: I was when I was just sucking you. So I

762
00:40:20,680 --> 00:40:21,920
Speaker 1: aren't gonna be able to call and tell me to

763
00:40:21,960 --> 00:40:23,359
Speaker 1: come get the baby a four o'clock in the morning,

764
00:40:25,239 --> 00:40:32,799
Speaker 1: in the morning before sometime. Sometimes, man, man, I don't

765
00:40:32,840 --> 00:40:37,560
Speaker 1: know what kind of y'all didn't win. Because nigga you're

766
00:40:37,560 --> 00:40:41,239
Speaker 1: dinner with he gonna be signs nig a funks, gonna

767
00:40:41,239 --> 00:40:43,239
Speaker 1: be a fun nigger. Ain't talking about talk about the

768
00:40:43,280 --> 00:40:45,440
Speaker 1: nigga who really all their kids. It's something that really

769
00:40:45,560 --> 00:40:49,200
Speaker 1: love their kids but hate their baby mamas and they

770
00:40:49,280 --> 00:40:52,759
Speaker 1: she hate him. So if you come, if I know

771
00:40:52,960 --> 00:40:54,640
Speaker 1: you hate me and I hate you, if you're calling

772
00:40:54,680 --> 00:40:56,320
Speaker 1: me a four o'clock in the morning, you're being spiteful

773
00:40:58,400 --> 00:40:59,640
Speaker 1: because at the end of the day, you knew you

774
00:40:59,680 --> 00:41:03,680
Speaker 1: were earlier that day. So can you get can you

775
00:41:03,760 --> 00:41:05,479
Speaker 1: get the baby, or can y'all come get the baby

776
00:41:05,520 --> 00:41:07,160
Speaker 1: for the night or whatever. Let me get some risk.

777
00:41:08,480 --> 00:41:12,600
Speaker 1: I'm communication is all it takes. But there goes back

778
00:41:12,600 --> 00:41:13,840
Speaker 1: to what I was what I was getting ready to

779
00:41:13,880 --> 00:41:17,480
Speaker 1: say about her saying, like the nigga having to deal

780
00:41:17,520 --> 00:41:19,719
Speaker 1: with pressure and stuff up and all of that. But

781
00:41:19,880 --> 00:41:22,880
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, what if the pressure

782
00:41:23,800 --> 00:41:26,560
Speaker 1: is okay, I feel what you're saying about like postpartum

783
00:41:26,640 --> 00:41:28,359
Speaker 1: and all of that, because that's the very real thing

784
00:41:28,480 --> 00:41:31,719
Speaker 1: I have. Every friend that I have has ever had

785
00:41:31,760 --> 00:41:34,319
Speaker 1: a baby went through postpartum and I went through with him,

786
00:41:34,360 --> 00:41:36,600
Speaker 1: so I understand and I get it or whatever. But

787
00:41:36,719 --> 00:41:38,720
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, you're saying, like pressure

788
00:41:38,760 --> 00:41:42,920
Speaker 1: or whatever whatever on this nigga, but you're going through postpartum,

789
00:41:42,960 --> 00:41:44,840
Speaker 1: You're going through this you're going through that at the

790
00:41:44,960 --> 00:41:47,160
Speaker 1: end of the day, you can't. You're saying that the

791
00:41:47,280 --> 00:41:49,040
Speaker 1: man should you know, learn how to be a father,

792
00:41:49,160 --> 00:41:51,640
Speaker 1: learned how to be a parent, whatever, whatever, blah blah blah.

793
00:41:51,760 --> 00:41:54,560
Speaker 1: That's a process that doesn't just happen overnight, especially when

794
00:41:54,560 --> 00:41:57,200
Speaker 1: you're dealing with especially when you're dealing with a nigga

795
00:41:57,440 --> 00:41:59,719
Speaker 1: that has never had those type of responsibilities. Okay, and

796
00:41:59,800 --> 00:42:02,440
Speaker 1: that just like a girl who just had her first baby.

797
00:42:02,560 --> 00:42:04,279
Speaker 1: We could do this together. We don't have to be

798
00:42:04,360 --> 00:42:06,840
Speaker 1: together what I'm saying, but we can learn this ship together.

799
00:42:07,320 --> 00:42:10,680
Speaker 1: You it's not about I'm not saying like stressed men

800
00:42:10,760 --> 00:42:13,560
Speaker 1: don't stress. Men can go through postpartum too. But at

801
00:42:13,640 --> 00:42:17,520
Speaker 1: the same time, if this our first baby, now I'm

802
00:42:17,520 --> 00:42:19,719
Speaker 1: speaking love, you don't have five kids, you should know

803
00:42:19,800 --> 00:42:22,200
Speaker 1: how to deal with it. Definitely you should just be

804
00:42:22,320 --> 00:42:26,480
Speaker 1: like kick I got. But if this show first baby

805
00:42:26,520 --> 00:42:28,359
Speaker 1: and yo baby like folk months and all this kind

806
00:42:28,360 --> 00:42:31,719
Speaker 1: of stuff, she's gonna need that support because this is

807
00:42:31,760 --> 00:42:35,840
Speaker 1: our first child together. But what I'm talking if you

808
00:42:36,120 --> 00:42:39,040
Speaker 1: if you just toss up on y'all talking about two

809
00:42:39,040 --> 00:42:42,080
Speaker 1: different things. I'm talking about a kid, ain't talking about

810
00:42:42,080 --> 00:42:44,439
Speaker 1: a of a new one. I feel like a new born.

811
00:42:44,680 --> 00:42:48,680
Speaker 1: Y'all still be together for much just whatever your situation is.

812
00:42:48,680 --> 00:42:52,359
Speaker 1: I don't know what you got going on. I don't

813
00:42:52,400 --> 00:43:00,920
Speaker 1: know what you got going on with that's like you know,

814
00:43:00,960 --> 00:43:03,600
Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, so what if this isn't like you

815
00:43:03,719 --> 00:43:06,120
Speaker 1: sitting here telling people that you're trying to start a business.

816
00:43:06,560 --> 00:43:08,560
Speaker 1: So if you start your business, you take your last,

817
00:43:08,880 --> 00:43:12,080
Speaker 1: got that, get your ship, you take your last you

818
00:43:12,120 --> 00:43:13,959
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, to get your baby situated because

819
00:43:13,960 --> 00:43:16,359
Speaker 1: you know you got a fifth child. So okay, if

820
00:43:16,360 --> 00:43:18,799
Speaker 1: you sit here and break this down to your baby mama, like, look, yo,

821
00:43:19,320 --> 00:43:21,800
Speaker 1: I got got down setified, k got damn. You know

822
00:43:21,840 --> 00:43:24,360
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. But ship going on. I need to

823
00:43:24,440 --> 00:43:27,719
Speaker 1: got to get right. So if I'm saying there telling

824
00:43:27,719 --> 00:43:30,319
Speaker 1: you that, and you agree, then I take my ship

825
00:43:30,320 --> 00:43:32,400
Speaker 1: and go get my business gone. Then when the business

826
00:43:32,440 --> 00:43:35,160
Speaker 1: get gone, you know money ain't gonna come here. We talked,

827
00:43:35,880 --> 00:43:38,279
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So okay about the blue

828
00:43:38,360 --> 00:43:39,880
Speaker 1: just caught me got them? Oh yeah, I need you

829
00:43:39,880 --> 00:43:41,600
Speaker 1: to go do this and that Pampers ain't ship, bro.

830
00:43:41,680 --> 00:43:45,880
Speaker 1: Everybody about got the pampers. That's fast. Anybody about pompers,

831
00:43:46,000 --> 00:43:48,080
Speaker 1: but don't make a situation. Bro cousin Nigga was up

832
00:43:48,160 --> 00:43:51,480
Speaker 1: got them they're talking about basically, they're talking about like

833
00:43:52,040 --> 00:43:54,680
Speaker 1: compassion for the kid, compassion for this, competition for that.

834
00:43:54,960 --> 00:43:59,560
Speaker 1: But but to me, that leads to what you want

835
00:44:00,160 --> 00:44:10,040
Speaker 1: right exactly, to me, we're not get big. I think

836
00:44:10,040 --> 00:44:11,840
Speaker 1: it's the energy that's put out to like if the

837
00:44:12,000 --> 00:44:14,200
Speaker 1: if the if the woman just putting out a toxic

838
00:44:14,600 --> 00:44:18,040
Speaker 1: energy and all that. You just how my kids like

839
00:44:18,239 --> 00:44:25,160
Speaker 1: I can't even get near this energy because sometimes let's

840
00:44:25,200 --> 00:44:27,480
Speaker 1: put this ego and all this baby daddy baby mama

841
00:44:27,520 --> 00:44:31,720
Speaker 1: shipped to the side and be mother's And I'm speaking

842
00:44:31,800 --> 00:44:34,400
Speaker 1: on a bitch who using this baby as a bargaining

843
00:44:34,440 --> 00:44:36,920
Speaker 1: too well. I think I was speaking on being a mother, right,

844
00:44:37,600 --> 00:44:40,840
Speaker 1: I was speaking on being a full time mother with

845
00:44:40,960 --> 00:44:43,280
Speaker 1: a full time baby. Daddy was already your baby dadda

846
00:44:43,320 --> 00:44:46,759
Speaker 1: though he's saying that was you know, end up being

847
00:44:46,760 --> 00:44:49,200
Speaker 1: a baby mama. How'd that go? Well? Even if you

848
00:44:49,440 --> 00:44:51,400
Speaker 1: you fucked it and she had the baby, right, but

849
00:44:52,960 --> 00:44:57,760
Speaker 1: no stipulations, you still have to either child support plus visitation.

850
00:44:57,880 --> 00:45:01,160
Speaker 1: You still have to find come to coming ground, shot man,

851
00:45:01,280 --> 00:45:04,360
Speaker 1: You got the you coming ground between y'all child support,

852
00:45:06,960 --> 00:45:10,680
Speaker 1: the baby mama, the baby daddy, Like it's whether you're

853
00:45:10,719 --> 00:45:13,120
Speaker 1: witness nigga or not. Like if you're not with this nigga,

854
00:45:13,440 --> 00:45:16,360
Speaker 1: nine times, I'd of tend there's gonna be some issue

855
00:45:16,360 --> 00:45:19,799
Speaker 1: there and some sort of fucking dissension there because you're

856
00:45:19,840 --> 00:45:21,719
Speaker 1: not with this nigga like she just said. And I

857
00:45:21,800 --> 00:45:23,880
Speaker 1: hate to have to keep going back to it. But

858
00:45:24,960 --> 00:45:29,160
Speaker 1: when female see a nigga doing something other than them,

859
00:45:29,840 --> 00:45:31,640
Speaker 1: when they have a baby, or when there's a small

860
00:45:31,719 --> 00:45:34,320
Speaker 1: child involved, nine times I'd attend there are gonna be

861
00:45:34,640 --> 00:45:38,719
Speaker 1: some major issues with that relationship. Signy up, signy up,

862
00:45:38,719 --> 00:45:40,800
Speaker 1: sign me up real quick. I hate to do this.

863
00:45:40,840 --> 00:45:43,320
Speaker 1: I'm gonna put my business out there like everybody here. No,

864
00:45:43,360 --> 00:45:45,759
Speaker 1: I'm not with my daughter daddy, like I'm not with

865
00:45:45,960 --> 00:45:48,200
Speaker 1: Chance dad at all. But me and Chance Dad ain't

866
00:45:48,200 --> 00:45:50,320
Speaker 1: been together what since Chance was two months old? Like

867
00:45:50,560 --> 00:45:53,560
Speaker 1: that's my baby daddy. I don't like Chance dad has data.

868
00:45:53,600 --> 00:45:56,600
Speaker 1: Other women, none of that ship play a part like

869
00:45:56,760 --> 00:45:58,800
Speaker 1: and nothing that if I get mad at her daddy,

870
00:45:59,000 --> 00:46:00,560
Speaker 1: if I get mad at her dad, ain't got nothing

871
00:46:00,600 --> 00:46:03,719
Speaker 1: to do with no other Exactly Why do you get

872
00:46:03,760 --> 00:46:05,640
Speaker 1: mad at No, if I'm mad at Chance Dad, this

873
00:46:05,760 --> 00:46:08,040
Speaker 1: is what I get together. Why not get mad? Why

874
00:46:08,080 --> 00:46:11,960
Speaker 1: do you get mad? Why do you get mad? I'm

875
00:46:12,040 --> 00:46:14,880
Speaker 1: mad at Chance Daddy. It's because of like the urgency.

876
00:46:15,239 --> 00:46:18,080
Speaker 1: Like if Chance school called me and say Chance didn't

877
00:46:18,120 --> 00:46:20,560
Speaker 1: did some ship, and then her dad called me about it.

878
00:46:20,840 --> 00:46:22,799
Speaker 1: My next question is are you on your way up there?

879
00:46:23,000 --> 00:46:24,839
Speaker 1: If he not saying I'm on my way up there,

880
00:46:25,200 --> 00:46:27,040
Speaker 1: or and it's like, nigga, it's for me to go

881
00:46:27,160 --> 00:46:28,959
Speaker 1: shoot the school up. It's for me to go figure

882
00:46:28,960 --> 00:46:32,840
Speaker 1: out what parents we are. We both are when you

883
00:46:32,960 --> 00:46:35,080
Speaker 1: have a child man Chance daddy, then just sucking make

884
00:46:35,160 --> 00:46:40,440
Speaker 1: him make her out of nothing. No, he is her dad,

885
00:46:40,880 --> 00:46:43,880
Speaker 1: great Chance, love her fucking daddy. Her daddy's loved the

886
00:46:43,920 --> 00:46:46,200
Speaker 1: funk out of Chance. But still you and I both

887
00:46:46,239 --> 00:46:48,120
Speaker 1: know I'm to be bad as fun with Chance Daddy.

888
00:46:48,280 --> 00:46:51,719
Speaker 1: I'll hear me out. You don't got nothing to do

889
00:46:51,840 --> 00:46:54,120
Speaker 1: with my personal issues with him. Is most of my

890
00:46:54,280 --> 00:46:56,560
Speaker 1: issues with him is like the sense of urgency when

891
00:46:56,600 --> 00:46:59,239
Speaker 1: it comes to Chance. Or it's like if you ain't

892
00:46:59,280 --> 00:47:01,279
Speaker 1: seen Chance in two weeks and my baby asking me

893
00:47:01,320 --> 00:47:03,719
Speaker 1: for a chance with her daddy, That's where I'm at

894
00:47:03,800 --> 00:47:08,600
Speaker 1: and a mother first, because I know you love my child.

895
00:47:08,680 --> 00:47:11,000
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna never look at chance and be like yo,

896
00:47:11,120 --> 00:47:13,239
Speaker 1: yo daddy, some bush I would never do that. I'm

897
00:47:13,239 --> 00:47:15,879
Speaker 1: gonna make up excuse for like, oh, your daddy at work,

898
00:47:16,200 --> 00:47:18,160
Speaker 1: your daddy at work, blah blah blah. So if I

899
00:47:18,239 --> 00:47:19,880
Speaker 1: call you like I've been telling a chance, you've been

900
00:47:19,920 --> 00:47:21,960
Speaker 1: at work for seven eight days, my niggas, we need

901
00:47:22,040 --> 00:47:23,640
Speaker 1: to see her. You get what I'm saying. So now

902
00:47:23,680 --> 00:47:26,280
Speaker 1: I'm on that ass. It may seem like, oh, shot

903
00:47:26,400 --> 00:47:28,920
Speaker 1: some bullshit, but I'm cussing your ass out because I

904
00:47:29,080 --> 00:47:30,839
Speaker 1: just sat here a lot of chance for a whole

905
00:47:30,920 --> 00:47:34,640
Speaker 1: week saying you've been at working my baby. What I'm

906
00:47:34,680 --> 00:47:37,040
Speaker 1: saying is a lot of parents go through that type

907
00:47:37,040 --> 00:47:39,440
Speaker 1: of ship with these niggas. Niggas would tell women all

908
00:47:39,560 --> 00:47:42,560
Speaker 1: type of ship. I guess we're talking about. We're talking

909
00:47:42,560 --> 00:47:45,360
Speaker 1: about differ. You know. I think what the difference is

910
00:47:45,520 --> 00:47:47,719
Speaker 1: me and baby girl. I'm talking about women, y'all talking

911
00:47:47,719 --> 00:47:50,080
Speaker 1: about bitches that just giving niggas the hard time just

912
00:47:50,200 --> 00:47:53,680
Speaker 1: to be giving them the hearts. Motherhood, I'm saying about

913
00:47:53,719 --> 00:47:57,239
Speaker 1: flame motherhood in general. Most mothers, like the average mom,

914
00:47:57,480 --> 00:47:59,320
Speaker 1: we're not talking about the bitches that's just want to

915
00:47:59,320 --> 00:48:01,759
Speaker 1: get niggas a time. I'm talking about the average the

916
00:48:01,800 --> 00:48:04,680
Speaker 1: ones who actually want to the ones who are sitting

917
00:48:04,680 --> 00:48:07,120
Speaker 1: there and actually take care of their child and let

918
00:48:07,200 --> 00:48:08,799
Speaker 1: the nigga do what they want to do. But at

919
00:48:08,840 --> 00:48:11,319
Speaker 1: the same time, it's like, in the back of my head,

920
00:48:11,360 --> 00:48:13,440
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be like, Damn, I want to go to

921
00:48:13,520 --> 00:48:16,399
Speaker 1: the Bahamas, Nicky. You just left from Jamaica and ship

922
00:48:16,640 --> 00:48:18,839
Speaker 1: and been there two weeks. Can you at least come

923
00:48:18,960 --> 00:48:21,120
Speaker 1: get the baby for two weeks so I can take

924
00:48:21,160 --> 00:48:23,400
Speaker 1: a cruise so I can get a break. You know

925
00:48:23,440 --> 00:48:27,399
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So would you feel like your baby,

926
00:48:27,440 --> 00:48:38,840
Speaker 1: mama woman or just a baby? What you think? Serious?

927
00:48:44,200 --> 00:48:50,880
Speaker 1: Grown men cry like bro like you women that's fucked

928
00:48:50,960 --> 00:48:54,120
Speaker 1: up with the kids, like you kid working chip and

929
00:48:54,320 --> 00:48:57,000
Speaker 1: turning the kid against this dude. Well he had a

930
00:48:57,480 --> 00:48:59,480
Speaker 1: like Mom, if you're saying this, it's gotta be right.

931
00:49:00,400 --> 00:49:03,160
Speaker 1: If you're saying this ain't ship, this gotta be so

932
00:49:03,280 --> 00:49:06,080
Speaker 1: you you you building my relationship with my kid for

933
00:49:06,239 --> 00:49:10,480
Speaker 1: me all off of your emotions. So the only reason

934
00:49:10,480 --> 00:49:12,360
Speaker 1: why why I felt feel like we're going back and

935
00:49:12,400 --> 00:49:14,440
Speaker 1: forth it because when you said what you said. It

936
00:49:14,560 --> 00:49:16,719
Speaker 1: makes me make me thought of how do you bet

937
00:49:16,800 --> 00:49:21,520
Speaker 1: you do? My that's it. I get that, But just

938
00:49:21,680 --> 00:49:23,960
Speaker 1: even that a lot of women would let me just

939
00:49:24,000 --> 00:49:26,279
Speaker 1: say this, a lot of women when they have a kid, right,

940
00:49:26,760 --> 00:49:28,800
Speaker 1: our life is never gonna be what it once was

941
00:49:28,920 --> 00:49:31,239
Speaker 1: once we had this child. I'm gonna just put that

942
00:49:31,280 --> 00:49:33,200
Speaker 1: out there. Our life is never what it was once

943
00:49:33,239 --> 00:49:35,080
Speaker 1: we decided to pop this damn baby out of us.

944
00:49:35,400 --> 00:49:38,040
Speaker 1: But we get envious. Like when I say envy, it

945
00:49:38,120 --> 00:49:40,960
Speaker 1: ain't hate. It's just envious that the fact that man,

946
00:49:41,040 --> 00:49:43,320
Speaker 1: y'all can still boost around, y'all can still do what

947
00:49:43,400 --> 00:49:45,279
Speaker 1: the funk y'all want to do. I could be at

948
00:49:45,320 --> 00:49:47,000
Speaker 1: the house with this big gass baby. I just had

949
00:49:47,080 --> 00:49:49,880
Speaker 1: this baby. Whatever, I ain't gonna move around like. I

950
00:49:49,960 --> 00:49:52,680
Speaker 1: get what you're saying, But think about this though, my opinion,

951
00:49:53,120 --> 00:49:55,680
Speaker 1: most women should know before they have a kid. This

952
00:49:55,880 --> 00:49:58,040
Speaker 1: is solely on me, regardless of how it goes. That's

953
00:49:58,080 --> 00:49:59,799
Speaker 1: a lot of kids. So at the end of the day,

954
00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:02,000
Speaker 1: take out of that, you take that out of your man,

955
00:50:02,120 --> 00:50:05,239
Speaker 1: because the thing about it, what you're saying is some

956
00:50:05,360 --> 00:50:07,320
Speaker 1: wo machinity had kid that should just run around like

957
00:50:07,360 --> 00:50:09,680
Speaker 1: the nigga, then either you want to be a woman

958
00:50:09,800 --> 00:50:12,880
Speaker 1: or a man, gonna be a nigga regardless. No, this

959
00:50:13,000 --> 00:50:15,000
Speaker 1: is what I'm saying. When you have a child, nobody

960
00:50:15,160 --> 00:50:16,920
Speaker 1: is having a child. I'm gonna just keep it a

961
00:50:17,000 --> 00:50:19,600
Speaker 1: buck with you. No woman is having a child thinking

962
00:50:19,680 --> 00:50:22,960
Speaker 1: that I'm solely about to be providing for this child

963
00:50:23,000 --> 00:50:31,480
Speaker 1: by myself, Like nobody is thinking that. Yeah, just what

964
00:50:31,520 --> 00:50:34,279
Speaker 1: I'm saying. So you know what come w being a mom? Right?

965
00:50:34,360 --> 00:50:36,640
Speaker 1: I know that I didn't have the option. I knew

966
00:50:36,719 --> 00:50:38,680
Speaker 1: that once I decided to, like, whoa, I'm about to

967
00:50:38,719 --> 00:50:41,040
Speaker 1: have chance. I knew that no matter what her daddy

968
00:50:41,080 --> 00:50:43,200
Speaker 1: decided to do, if whatever the funk happens, I have

969
00:50:43,360 --> 00:50:46,040
Speaker 1: to take care of the child. But even though I'm

970
00:50:46,160 --> 00:50:48,600
Speaker 1: keeping it a buck, I'm still gonna get piste off

971
00:50:48,680 --> 00:50:57,040
Speaker 1: with this, niggah. What you're talking about the situation. I'm

972
00:50:57,040 --> 00:50:58,960
Speaker 1: gonna keep it a buck with y'all. If I like

973
00:50:59,120 --> 00:51:01,320
Speaker 1: still to this day, if I'm stretched out, y'all know

974
00:51:01,360 --> 00:51:03,319
Speaker 1: how to run through this this with chance all types

975
00:51:03,360 --> 00:51:06,200
Speaker 1: of ship. What would it would it be different if,

976
00:51:07,320 --> 00:51:09,120
Speaker 1: and I'm just saying in general, would it be different

977
00:51:09,160 --> 00:51:11,680
Speaker 1: if all you had to do was take care of

978
00:51:11,760 --> 00:51:14,040
Speaker 1: the daughter. Or is it more resentment maybe because you

979
00:51:14,120 --> 00:51:16,080
Speaker 1: still have to like move and shake and work and

980
00:51:16,160 --> 00:51:18,959
Speaker 1: it also provide as well. Do you think it would

981
00:51:18,960 --> 00:51:20,560
Speaker 1: be different if it was like I'm just and I'm

982
00:51:20,600 --> 00:51:23,440
Speaker 1: just shooting to the moon a ball player that your

983
00:51:23,440 --> 00:51:25,560
Speaker 1: house paid, your car paid, all that ship is paid.

984
00:51:25,600 --> 00:51:26,799
Speaker 1: All you gotta do is take care of the child.

985
00:51:26,800 --> 00:51:28,440
Speaker 1: You think it would be different. I don't know how

986
00:51:28,520 --> 00:51:30,839
Speaker 1: to answer that. Because of the type of woman I am,

987
00:51:31,080 --> 00:51:33,759
Speaker 1: so I want to keep everything honest. I don't know

988
00:51:33,840 --> 00:51:36,000
Speaker 1: how to answer that because I was dating somebody that says, shot,

989
00:51:36,000 --> 00:51:37,520
Speaker 1: I could give you a million dollars right now. You're

990
00:51:37,520 --> 00:51:40,240
Speaker 1: still gonna work the way that you work, So in reality,

991
00:51:40,320 --> 00:51:42,440
Speaker 1: I don't know how to answer that. But okay, let

992
00:51:42,440 --> 00:51:44,719
Speaker 1: me ask you this. If y'all was in a relationship

993
00:51:44,920 --> 00:51:46,840
Speaker 1: and dude was in the house with you, would you

994
00:51:46,880 --> 00:51:48,520
Speaker 1: give a funk if he if he's a truck driver

995
00:51:48,600 --> 00:51:50,480
Speaker 1: going for two weeks and you're actually telling the chance

996
00:51:50,600 --> 00:51:53,840
Speaker 1: he's at work. Yes, I'm not gonna lie to you.

997
00:51:54,000 --> 00:51:56,480
Speaker 1: Why would you get out of the house hold on?

998
00:51:56,600 --> 00:51:58,799
Speaker 1: Hold on, hold on. I will only give a funk

999
00:51:58,840 --> 00:52:01,800
Speaker 1: if if it's effect my child of her saying I

1000
00:52:02,000 --> 00:52:03,920
Speaker 1: miss my daddy. I don't get to see my daddy.

1001
00:52:07,880 --> 00:52:11,040
Speaker 1: That's also stressed for in that situation. It's also stressed

1002
00:52:11,080 --> 00:52:12,759
Speaker 1: for the father having to be the prom I get

1003
00:52:12,800 --> 00:52:16,839
Speaker 1: that even with a chance, dad like he do everything

1004
00:52:16,880 --> 00:52:19,120
Speaker 1: he can do for a chance, he do everything he

1005
00:52:19,160 --> 00:52:21,359
Speaker 1: can possibly do for my daughter. I'm saying I would

1006
00:52:21,400 --> 00:52:24,440
Speaker 1: still feel like, damn baby, want to spend Okay, when

1007
00:52:24,480 --> 00:52:26,319
Speaker 1: you come back, can you spend a whole weekend with her?

1008
00:52:26,480 --> 00:52:28,879
Speaker 1: I'll be trying to compromise that. You give it. Them

1009
00:52:28,880 --> 00:52:30,520
Speaker 1: saying you're a truck driving You're doing everything you need

1010
00:52:30,600 --> 00:52:32,920
Speaker 1: to do for the family. Okay, cool. Let me ask

1011
00:52:32,960 --> 00:52:35,400
Speaker 1: you a question. If he was a truck driver before,

1012
00:52:35,840 --> 00:52:38,400
Speaker 1: and he's a double shift, he's a super worker. This

1013
00:52:38,560 --> 00:52:39,880
Speaker 1: is what I do. I want my kids that are

1014
00:52:39,920 --> 00:52:42,120
Speaker 1: the best, So I gotta work for the next teen years.

1015
00:52:42,640 --> 00:52:44,600
Speaker 1: Back and forth, back and forth. I see my baby

1016
00:52:44,640 --> 00:52:46,600
Speaker 1: on FaceTime. Whatever I can do, I can do, and

1017
00:52:46,719 --> 00:52:49,239
Speaker 1: my baby saying I miss up. I'm a because I

1018
00:52:49,280 --> 00:52:51,360
Speaker 1: want to take care. First of all, I never said not,

1019
00:52:51,760 --> 00:52:53,279
Speaker 1: but I'm saying you you're gonna be upset with me

1020
00:52:53,320 --> 00:52:55,120
Speaker 1: because I'm trying to take care I'm set, but I'm

1021
00:52:55,200 --> 00:52:57,239
Speaker 1: also gonna say, hey, can we put can we put

1022
00:52:57,320 --> 00:52:59,360
Speaker 1: the family on the insurance? So maybe when you got

1023
00:52:59,480 --> 00:53:00,879
Speaker 1: a short drive, if you can stop by the house

1024
00:53:00,920 --> 00:53:02,160
Speaker 1: and get a chance and she can ride with you

1025
00:53:02,480 --> 00:53:04,840
Speaker 1: to motherfucking South Carolina and back. But you, but but,

1026
00:53:05,080 --> 00:53:07,399
Speaker 1: but you don't understand. You're trying to compromise. But you're

1027
00:53:07,400 --> 00:53:09,680
Speaker 1: trying to compromise a man's life that you can't do

1028
00:53:10,200 --> 00:53:12,640
Speaker 1: because I may not want my much out in a truck.

1029
00:53:13,040 --> 00:53:14,600
Speaker 1: But listen, when you have a child, we both gott

1030
00:53:14,640 --> 00:53:16,799
Speaker 1: to compromise because I gotta compromise my life to take

1031
00:53:16,840 --> 00:53:18,640
Speaker 1: care of his mother. Okay, but when I started, when

1032
00:53:18,680 --> 00:53:21,359
Speaker 1: I when when I stopped working? Okay once I okay,

1033
00:53:21,440 --> 00:53:23,040
Speaker 1: let let me say that you're right? All right, Well,

1034
00:53:23,040 --> 00:53:25,719
Speaker 1: I'll tell you what that we're gonna see a big

1035
00:53:25,719 --> 00:53:27,080
Speaker 1: fact and pay for me and your the baby. I'm

1036
00:53:27,600 --> 00:53:29,360
Speaker 1: out and take I'm a burp. I'm gonna do everything.

1037
00:53:29,520 --> 00:53:32,560
Speaker 1: How that work? Then I'm a lazy ass nigga. I

1038
00:53:32,680 --> 00:53:34,320
Speaker 1: give you that because how did that work? And this

1039
00:53:34,360 --> 00:53:35,640
Speaker 1: is what I'm gonna hit you. If I spend all

1040
00:53:35,680 --> 00:53:38,040
Speaker 1: the time with him but can't provide, how did that

1041
00:53:38,160 --> 00:53:39,759
Speaker 1: go and then this is what I was saying, like

1042
00:53:42,520 --> 00:53:45,400
Speaker 1: a pick me or no ship like that. But at

1043
00:53:45,440 --> 00:53:49,040
Speaker 1: the same time, the same way, the kid is saying whatever,

1044
00:53:49,239 --> 00:53:52,239
Speaker 1: like Okay, I missed my daddy, whatever, whatever. Y'all don't

1045
00:53:52,239 --> 00:53:54,160
Speaker 1: think that if this nig is a real pair, and

1046
00:53:54,239 --> 00:53:56,200
Speaker 1: if this nig is a real nigger and a real daddy,

1047
00:53:56,400 --> 00:53:58,279
Speaker 1: that he's hurt that he can't see his child for

1048
00:53:58,360 --> 00:54:00,920
Speaker 1: two thank you. I'm not saying thank you now that

1049
00:54:01,040 --> 00:54:04,160
Speaker 1: was real right now, thank you. It's like some people

1050
00:54:04,239 --> 00:54:07,719
Speaker 1: like just say, if it's a rock star, a rock star,

1051
00:54:07,800 --> 00:54:11,359
Speaker 1: they'd be going on tours for six months. I got

1052
00:54:11,440 --> 00:54:13,560
Speaker 1: a baby moment at home. What I supposed to do

1053
00:54:13,640 --> 00:54:15,640
Speaker 1: with that? I supposed to not go on a talk

1054
00:54:15,840 --> 00:54:17,759
Speaker 1: But I was a rock starble before I had the baby.

1055
00:54:18,520 --> 00:54:21,759
Speaker 1: Nothing's appout to change. I supposed nat lay a home,

1056
00:54:22,000 --> 00:54:23,880
Speaker 1: lose all my endorsement, lose all that, and then be

1057
00:54:23,920 --> 00:54:27,200
Speaker 1: a laz as nigga. Because if you're a rock star,

1058
00:54:27,760 --> 00:54:30,880
Speaker 1: nine times out of a hunting you can motherfucking afford

1059
00:54:31,200 --> 00:54:34,279
Speaker 1: to fly us out there. Because you're not on the road.

1060
00:54:34,560 --> 00:54:35,840
Speaker 1: You don't gotta have us on the rock, but you

1061
00:54:35,880 --> 00:54:39,640
Speaker 1: can should see your child facetiging baby, How are you

1062
00:54:39,680 --> 00:54:41,880
Speaker 1: gonna tell me what to do with me? I'm not

1063
00:54:43,080 --> 00:54:44,200
Speaker 1: what you I'm trying to tell you what to do

1064
00:54:44,280 --> 00:54:47,239
Speaker 1: with our child. But I'm saying, you can make that

1065
00:54:47,320 --> 00:54:51,480
Speaker 1: a comfortable situation. Also, you can make that a comfort

1066
00:54:51,520 --> 00:54:54,399
Speaker 1: simple waiting for hour with you our It's just you're

1067
00:54:54,400 --> 00:54:57,600
Speaker 1: saying what you want. You can make that a comfortable

1068
00:54:57,640 --> 00:55:06,600
Speaker 1: situation for us. I just am I right around. You

1069
00:55:06,680 --> 00:55:09,760
Speaker 1: can't make a situation only if we could compromise, ifbody

1070
00:55:09,760 --> 00:55:14,360
Speaker 1: could cut my child could so long though, yeah, you

1071
00:55:14,520 --> 00:55:17,320
Speaker 1: go for six months and I know you, and I

1072
00:55:17,440 --> 00:55:19,879
Speaker 1: know you got a purpose behind it. Now, if you're

1073
00:55:19,960 --> 00:55:23,000
Speaker 1: just out there with no purpose, then I'm definitely one way.

1074
00:55:23,360 --> 00:55:25,120
Speaker 1: But if you're out there, if you're out there with

1075
00:55:25,239 --> 00:55:29,040
Speaker 1: a purpose, of course, me being a mother, I'm gonna

1076
00:55:29,040 --> 00:55:31,200
Speaker 1: have to take that role as it's not even about

1077
00:55:31,239 --> 00:55:33,240
Speaker 1: you being a Mother's about you being a real woman,

1078
00:55:33,600 --> 00:55:36,320
Speaker 1: a woman, a mother period because the child is involved,

1079
00:55:36,480 --> 00:55:38,080
Speaker 1: So regardless of what it is, I have to be

1080
00:55:38,160 --> 00:55:42,759
Speaker 1: a mother. So being a mother's being a woman regardless

1081
00:55:42,920 --> 00:55:45,800
Speaker 1: because your whole body changing you being that's your womanhood

1082
00:55:45,920 --> 00:55:48,560
Speaker 1: right there for real, for real, having a child because

1083
00:55:48,600 --> 00:55:53,239
Speaker 1: everybody can't do that. So women, So being real, when

1084
00:55:53,360 --> 00:55:56,240
Speaker 1: you have a situation where you're going for six months, cool,

1085
00:55:57,120 --> 00:55:59,400
Speaker 1: I'm the one who has to sit there and be like,

1086
00:55:59,520 --> 00:56:02,640
Speaker 1: baby daddy ain't gonna be back for another six months.

1087
00:56:03,040 --> 00:56:06,040
Speaker 1: But why because this is that in the third But

1088
00:56:06,120 --> 00:56:08,080
Speaker 1: I want to see him. I got a game next week.

1089
00:56:08,160 --> 00:56:13,000
Speaker 1: This is my biggest game of the week. Gonna lay

1090
00:56:13,040 --> 00:56:16,239
Speaker 1: up and nurture your baby. Get dropping for walk. It's

1091
00:56:16,239 --> 00:56:17,640
Speaker 1: like you need to get dropping for walk. He got

1092
00:56:17,760 --> 00:56:21,120
Speaker 1: to stay all right? Everything different? Now I gotta stay

1093
00:56:21,160 --> 00:56:24,080
Speaker 1: going for two years. You see the ship. Do people

1094
00:56:24,080 --> 00:56:26,839
Speaker 1: have to tell their kids if the nigga go to jail?

1095
00:56:26,880 --> 00:56:28,520
Speaker 1: Do people have to tell they got to console their

1096
00:56:28,600 --> 00:56:32,200
Speaker 1: kids and make them understand what's going on. You can't

1097
00:56:32,360 --> 00:56:35,759
Speaker 1: change the situation. If that's change the situation. I'm just

1098
00:56:35,840 --> 00:56:39,759
Speaker 1: saying as a mother, the type of stress that could

1099
00:56:39,800 --> 00:56:42,960
Speaker 1: be having to take. I just said that earlier. I

1100
00:56:43,040 --> 00:56:45,400
Speaker 1: said fathers go through postpartum two. But I'm saying it

1101
00:56:45,480 --> 00:56:50,520
Speaker 1: for father and anxiety, stress from being from the fresh

1102
00:56:50,600 --> 00:56:53,239
Speaker 1: and all of that. It's ties in the postpartum. But

1103
00:56:53,360 --> 00:56:55,600
Speaker 1: the thing about it is, I'm getting to the point

1104
00:56:55,680 --> 00:56:59,840
Speaker 1: where I'm not saying me and shot not saying that nigga.

1105
00:57:00,120 --> 00:57:02,160
Speaker 1: We're not saying you can't gonna make your money. We're

1106
00:57:02,239 --> 00:57:06,480
Speaker 1: talking about us being the ones sitting down to a

1107
00:57:06,640 --> 00:57:11,240
Speaker 1: hurt child, a child who's concerned, a child who is wondering,

1108
00:57:11,640 --> 00:57:14,359
Speaker 1: and we have to That's like if you was little

1109
00:57:14,640 --> 00:57:17,439
Speaker 1: and your daddy gone for this amount of time, even

1110
00:57:17,480 --> 00:57:19,480
Speaker 1: though he faced time. You I got. I got partners

1111
00:57:19,520 --> 00:57:21,600
Speaker 1: who have been in jail for years and they haven't

1112
00:57:21,640 --> 00:57:24,000
Speaker 1: had kids grow up, and they seven eight and they

1113
00:57:24,120 --> 00:57:28,520
Speaker 1: still like it destroys them. But at the same time,

1114
00:57:28,560 --> 00:57:32,000
Speaker 1: when you have a kid, it ain't about you because

1115
00:57:32,040 --> 00:57:36,400
Speaker 1: you have to sacrifice. I'm not I didn't never say

1116
00:57:36,400 --> 00:57:38,440
Speaker 1: it was about the mama. I never said that. I'm

1117
00:57:38,560 --> 00:57:41,800
Speaker 1: saying you, when you have a child locked up or

1118
00:57:42,000 --> 00:57:44,880
Speaker 1: you gone or whatever, that child gonna feel all of that,

1119
00:57:45,160 --> 00:57:47,000
Speaker 1: regardless of what it is. That child gonna feel it

1120
00:57:47,080 --> 00:57:50,200
Speaker 1: more than that that nigga has locked up because regardless

1121
00:57:50,200 --> 00:57:52,040
Speaker 1: of if he doesn't got locked up for something that

1122
00:57:52,560 --> 00:57:55,000
Speaker 1: he was trying to do or a mistake or whatever,

1123
00:57:55,480 --> 00:57:58,280
Speaker 1: that child is gonna question that mother every day, and

1124
00:57:58,400 --> 00:58:02,560
Speaker 1: that mother is going to have the stress of explaining, explaining, explaining,

1125
00:58:02,840 --> 00:58:05,920
Speaker 1: and that's sometimes what grows hating the child within the parents.

1126
00:58:05,960 --> 00:58:08,960
Speaker 1: But if you love, if you, if you, if you

1127
00:58:09,120 --> 00:58:12,080
Speaker 1: love this nigga, if you if you love this nigga,

1128
00:58:12,560 --> 00:58:18,360
Speaker 1: if you love this nigga, you're gonna keep you. Let

1129
00:58:18,400 --> 00:58:19,560
Speaker 1: me say this, let me say this part. Let me

1130
00:58:19,600 --> 00:58:22,360
Speaker 1: say this part. If I understand it's hurtful. If you

1131
00:58:22,520 --> 00:58:25,000
Speaker 1: love this man and y'all was in a relationship and

1132
00:58:25,040 --> 00:58:27,440
Speaker 1: it was some real ship that happened, you're gonna make

1133
00:58:27,520 --> 00:58:30,840
Speaker 1: sure that you make sure your child is comfortable if

1134
00:58:30,920 --> 00:58:34,320
Speaker 1: this man. If this man did everything he could and

1135
00:58:34,440 --> 00:58:36,520
Speaker 1: something happens, and you love this man and your child,

1136
00:58:36,520 --> 00:58:38,520
Speaker 1: you're gonna make sure both of them are comfortable. That's

1137
00:58:38,560 --> 00:58:40,720
Speaker 1: just what it is. If you don't funk with this nigga,

1138
00:58:40,760 --> 00:58:43,040
Speaker 1: you're gonna make sure that child. No, that's a fun nigga.

1139
00:58:44,520 --> 00:58:51,040
Speaker 1: That's what that's that's what happens man. Nine times in

1140
00:58:51,360 --> 00:58:53,720
Speaker 1: If you love this man and you look like the

1141
00:58:53,880 --> 00:58:55,840
Speaker 1: people when they're hugging the people, they feel folks going

1142
00:58:55,920 --> 00:58:58,840
Speaker 1: to go off the wall. What they do, they might

1143
00:58:58,960 --> 00:59:00,800
Speaker 1: can't even talk to the people. Is the letters I'm

1144
00:59:00,840 --> 00:59:02,720
Speaker 1: reading you. You're on the letter your daddy wrote chill.

1145
00:59:03,040 --> 00:59:04,720
Speaker 1: I'm gonna make you so comfortable. By the time you

1146
00:59:04,800 --> 00:59:06,600
Speaker 1: see this man, you're gonna love him the same way

1147
00:59:06,680 --> 00:59:08,880
Speaker 1: when he left, and it's gonna feel like it's donna

1148
00:59:08,920 --> 00:59:18,280
Speaker 1: feel like the same as that don't make it so.

1149
00:59:18,360 --> 00:59:20,600
Speaker 1: If you look at some bullshit you that's how you

1150
00:59:20,640 --> 00:59:22,360
Speaker 1: want your child to look out. But if you're looking

1151
00:59:22,400 --> 00:59:23,960
Speaker 1: at this man as a king, you wanna make sure

1152
00:59:23,960 --> 00:59:25,840
Speaker 1: this child, No, he's a king, no matter if he's

1153
00:59:25,840 --> 00:59:28,000
Speaker 1: gone for two weeks. Maybe this your dad is a king.

1154
00:59:28,080 --> 00:59:34,240
Speaker 1: He's hold now, Am I right or wrong? You're gonna

1155
00:59:34,240 --> 00:59:37,080
Speaker 1: be mad because I'm gonna say you're wrong because I

1156
00:59:37,400 --> 00:59:39,640
Speaker 1: just know, like my mama thought my daddy was some bullshit.

1157
00:59:39,720 --> 00:59:41,520
Speaker 1: But she ain't never told me my daddy was no bullshit.

1158
00:59:41,760 --> 00:59:43,680
Speaker 1: You know, she thought he was some bullshit. What I

1159
00:59:43,800 --> 00:59:48,280
Speaker 1: used to hear them in the room hold on my dad.

1160
00:59:48,400 --> 00:59:50,080
Speaker 1: My mom used to be like, yo, shy, we're gonna

1161
00:59:50,080 --> 00:59:51,680
Speaker 1: talk to your daddy every third say blah blah blah

1162
00:59:51,680 --> 00:59:53,760
Speaker 1: blah blah. When my daddy wasn't calling on that phone

1163
00:59:53,840 --> 00:59:55,600
Speaker 1: or that mama temment, whatever the funks you need to

1164
00:59:55,640 --> 00:59:58,000
Speaker 1: tell me to make me feel okay. But back and

1165
00:59:58,320 --> 01:00:00,320
Speaker 1: I hear her in the back arguing with and I'm

1166
01:00:00,320 --> 01:00:01,640
Speaker 1: going in there like, why are you arguing? My daddy?

1167
01:00:01,640 --> 01:00:03,080
Speaker 1: Give me. She's like, oh, I just said something to

1168
01:00:03,120 --> 01:00:04,800
Speaker 1: you that she never told me why she was arking.

1169
01:00:04,840 --> 01:00:07,120
Speaker 1: I got one even better. One Christmas, my daddy made

1170
01:00:07,120 --> 01:00:09,360
Speaker 1: me send him a whole motherfucking list. He kept saying, SHO,

1171
01:00:09,360 --> 01:00:11,240
Speaker 1: I'm about you everything on this list. I went bragging

1172
01:00:11,280 --> 01:00:13,200
Speaker 1: into my whole family. Hey, I'm gonna get everything on

1173
01:00:13,320 --> 01:00:15,880
Speaker 1: this list. My mama got mad at me bragging. She went,

1174
01:00:16,040 --> 01:00:17,840
Speaker 1: had me give her the list. My mama went and

1175
01:00:17,920 --> 01:00:21,360
Speaker 1: bought every motherfucking thing on that list, had it mail

1176
01:00:21,440 --> 01:00:23,720
Speaker 1: to the house. I'm calling my daddy like, oh, thank you,

1177
01:00:23,800 --> 01:00:26,040
Speaker 1: thank you, thank you, thank you. Thinking my daddy said

1178
01:00:26,080 --> 01:00:27,520
Speaker 1: there he over. They're like, oh you walk, are you welcome?

1179
01:00:27,560 --> 01:00:30,400
Speaker 1: Let me speak to your mama. Hear me out five six,

1180
01:00:30,520 --> 01:00:32,520
Speaker 1: seven years later, in our garage, I look at the

1181
01:00:32,560 --> 01:00:35,280
Speaker 1: box and find out that's my mama handwriting. My mama

1182
01:00:35,440 --> 01:00:37,360
Speaker 1: never told me she didn't. She bought the ship and

1183
01:00:37,440 --> 01:00:38,680
Speaker 1: to at the point I was like, Mama, that show

1184
01:00:38,720 --> 01:00:41,480
Speaker 1: here right, I ain't my daddy hand right. So my

1185
01:00:41,640 --> 01:00:44,600
Speaker 1: mama knew my daddy was some bullshit, But she never

1186
01:00:44,720 --> 01:00:47,640
Speaker 1: told me she was some bullshit. I know, but I'm

1187
01:00:47,680 --> 01:00:49,919
Speaker 1: just I wanted to answer your question. I couldn't agree

1188
01:00:49,960 --> 01:00:51,680
Speaker 1: with that because I know my mama knew my daddy

1189
01:00:51,720 --> 01:00:53,800
Speaker 1: was some bullshit, but she didn't throw that ship to me.

1190
01:00:54,080 --> 01:00:55,840
Speaker 1: That means she still loves him though, and love you

1191
01:00:56,040 --> 01:00:57,360
Speaker 1: and want and love you and want you all to

1192
01:00:57,400 --> 01:00:59,800
Speaker 1: have a relationship that y'all got. That's what I'm saying.

1193
01:01:00,920 --> 01:01:02,680
Speaker 1: She wants y'all to have that relationship because she loved

1194
01:01:02,720 --> 01:01:05,360
Speaker 1: him and you. If she hated him, you would know,

1195
01:01:05,680 --> 01:01:09,200
Speaker 1: didn't he ain't about your ship at about that? She

1196
01:01:09,360 --> 01:01:11,760
Speaker 1: envied him, you would know, didn't he ain't about your

1197
01:01:11,760 --> 01:01:16,960
Speaker 1: ship at about that? All right? I ain't trying to

1198
01:01:17,000 --> 01:01:18,840
Speaker 1: be right. I'm just I just don't see this ship.

1199
01:01:18,920 --> 01:01:20,919
Speaker 1: I see it every day all day with the women.

1200
01:01:21,240 --> 01:01:25,400
Speaker 1: Just they feel the relationship should be through him. Do

1201
01:01:25,520 --> 01:01:27,960
Speaker 1: you feel like your relationship, I mean, chance relationship with

1202
01:01:28,320 --> 01:01:31,040
Speaker 1: her dad should be through you know, But that's how

1203
01:01:31,080 --> 01:01:35,240
Speaker 1: most women feel depending on our relationship is the relationship

1204
01:01:35,320 --> 01:01:39,440
Speaker 1: of a kid. I don't feel like that. But if

1205
01:01:39,760 --> 01:01:42,360
Speaker 1: the father is never ever ever, I'm just saying, That's

1206
01:01:43,880 --> 01:01:45,800
Speaker 1: what I said we're all talking about two different things.

1207
01:01:46,520 --> 01:01:48,080
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. A dud is a dud.

1208
01:01:49,200 --> 01:01:52,880
Speaker 1: Dud is a dud. But you can turn a guy

1209
01:01:53,200 --> 01:01:54,960
Speaker 1: that might want to take care of his baby. But

1210
01:01:55,040 --> 01:01:57,800
Speaker 1: I want my first baby mom back. You can turn

1211
01:01:57,960 --> 01:02:00,360
Speaker 1: me into him. I wait to get old the god

1212
01:02:00,440 --> 01:02:06,640
Speaker 1: damn baby. Don't get him when you old enough to understand.

1213
01:02:06,720 --> 01:02:09,360
Speaker 1: And I can't. What's up? Just what happened? I'm sorry?

1214
01:02:10,040 --> 01:02:12,680
Speaker 1: Go around talking. Yeah, I can't. I can't. I can't

1215
01:02:12,720 --> 01:02:15,200
Speaker 1: control it. A little full months baby, I can't. I

1216
01:02:15,240 --> 01:02:17,760
Speaker 1: don't want to control that. You can't control that's that's

1217
01:02:17,800 --> 01:02:20,960
Speaker 1: the moment. But you can go to court to get

1218
01:02:21,200 --> 01:02:23,680
Speaker 1: a custody, get half custody, and you really care that much.

1219
01:02:23,760 --> 01:02:25,360
Speaker 1: I ain't trying to see the course. I'm just saying,

1220
01:02:25,440 --> 01:02:27,960
Speaker 1: if you really care that we would get into that.

1221
01:02:28,240 --> 01:02:30,680
Speaker 1: Oh man. I'm just saying, I want to get to

1222
01:02:30,760 --> 01:02:32,320
Speaker 1: that baby. You really care about that baby, and put

1223
01:02:32,360 --> 01:02:34,160
Speaker 1: the folks in your business. You get half custody. I'm

1224
01:02:34,160 --> 01:02:36,040
Speaker 1: just saying, if you care that much, but everything, I

1225
01:02:36,040 --> 01:02:37,640
Speaker 1: ain't gonna do that because they don't care that much.

1226
01:02:37,760 --> 01:02:42,240
Speaker 1: Everything because they don't care that much. Like the period

1227
01:02:42,280 --> 01:02:44,040
Speaker 1: you don't care that much. That's what it leads to.

1228
01:02:44,600 --> 01:02:46,960
Speaker 1: If I don't can't standing this bit, I don't care

1229
01:02:47,000 --> 01:02:48,560
Speaker 1: that much exactly. You don't care that much about that

1230
01:02:48,640 --> 01:02:52,440
Speaker 1: child here. Sometime that happens. I'm just saying sometime that's

1231
01:02:52,480 --> 01:02:54,560
Speaker 1: happened because one thing about it, when I'm not going

1232
01:02:54,600 --> 01:02:56,240
Speaker 1: to do I'm nothing that you run my life with

1233
01:02:56,320 --> 01:03:00,200
Speaker 1: this child period? Who you period? I'm feel like that's

1234
01:03:00,240 --> 01:03:02,400
Speaker 1: not unfair. I feel like you got women out there

1235
01:03:02,440 --> 01:03:04,400
Speaker 1: there to use that baby. Again. That's that's the only

1236
01:03:04,440 --> 01:03:09,280
Speaker 1: thing I'm talking about this. You're not gonna run my life. Yeah,

1237
01:03:09,360 --> 01:03:11,680
Speaker 1: but I think we're just speaking on the real ones

1238
01:03:11,840 --> 01:03:14,440
Speaker 1: because we're real mothers. We do we make it happen

1239
01:03:14,720 --> 01:03:16,680
Speaker 1: to where our child won't have the questions. But it's

1240
01:03:16,680 --> 01:03:20,000
Speaker 1: still be emotions in that ship too. It's emotions. Can

1241
01:03:20,040 --> 01:03:22,320
Speaker 1: feel something about nothing just because I'm your baby that

1242
01:03:22,520 --> 01:03:24,720
Speaker 1: it's gonna be emotions. Because let me tell you something,

1243
01:03:24,720 --> 01:03:26,720
Speaker 1: when you lay down with somebody and you do something,

1244
01:03:27,120 --> 01:03:29,600
Speaker 1: regardless of you make it love or whatever, that's soul

1245
01:03:29,720 --> 01:03:33,480
Speaker 1: ties period. That's that's feelings and that's a spiritual thing

1246
01:03:33,640 --> 01:03:38,400
Speaker 1: you have to do about that that it doesn't have

1247
01:03:38,480 --> 01:03:40,760
Speaker 1: anything one doesn't have anything to do with the e.

1248
01:03:41,240 --> 01:03:44,520
Speaker 1: That's fast, that's definitely fast that they ain't got nothing

1249
01:03:44,520 --> 01:03:45,800
Speaker 1: to do with that baby. How I feel about you

1250
01:03:45,920 --> 01:03:47,640
Speaker 1: because we saw tie an't got ship to do with

1251
01:03:47,680 --> 01:03:53,160
Speaker 1: my baby? I said, why putting the baby in what

1252
01:03:53,320 --> 01:03:55,400
Speaker 1: we got going? Because you missed me? Just say I

1253
01:03:55,520 --> 01:03:57,360
Speaker 1: missed you, baby, Come fun me and see your baby.

1254
01:03:59,040 --> 01:04:02,880
Speaker 1: That's what motherfucker's if you want to say instead of

1255
01:04:02,960 --> 01:04:05,880
Speaker 1: saying I'm tired, don't get out. That ain't what you're

1256
01:04:05,960 --> 01:04:10,960
Speaker 1: calling about. You calling because you just seen whatever you

1257
01:04:11,080 --> 01:04:14,120
Speaker 1: see and you just made you trigger something that you want.

1258
01:04:14,160 --> 01:04:17,960
Speaker 1: I missed this, nigga, but often to use this for that, Yeah,

1259
01:04:18,040 --> 01:04:21,280
Speaker 1: but me's ain't doing that. You're just gonna about your business.

1260
01:04:22,720 --> 01:04:24,840
Speaker 1: Well you're rare, you're one of one. Yeah, I mean

1261
01:04:24,960 --> 01:04:26,920
Speaker 1: you know, I just feel like I feel like if

1262
01:04:26,960 --> 01:04:28,880
Speaker 1: you don't have no kids, once you have a kid,

1263
01:04:29,320 --> 01:04:32,880
Speaker 1: you'll get it. You'll understand the stress. You'll understand because

1264
01:04:32,920 --> 01:04:35,240
Speaker 1: you can always. I don't have my frids. I don't

1265
01:04:35,240 --> 01:04:39,720
Speaker 1: have friends who don't have kids and me I didn't. Okay,

1266
01:04:39,760 --> 01:04:42,080
Speaker 1: I have a friend she has a little girl. My

1267
01:04:42,200 --> 01:04:45,440
Speaker 1: old friend she had a little girl. How baby daddy

1268
01:04:45,520 --> 01:04:49,000
Speaker 1: was wasn't around, so me stepping in being a good friend,

1269
01:04:49,560 --> 01:04:53,479
Speaker 1: I was that muscle to her and her child. Because

1270
01:04:53,520 --> 01:04:55,920
Speaker 1: at the same time, when you have a kid, you

1271
01:04:55,960 --> 01:04:58,800
Speaker 1: don't know what direction, especially like I keep saying, if

1272
01:04:58,840 --> 01:05:03,280
Speaker 1: it's your first child, you don't have no direction. You

1273
01:05:03,440 --> 01:05:06,040
Speaker 1: really you can. You can always depend on your mama them.

1274
01:05:06,160 --> 01:05:08,320
Speaker 1: But at the same time, they didn't lay down and

1275
01:05:08,440 --> 01:05:10,760
Speaker 1: had that kids, so you gotta figure it out. So

1276
01:05:11,000 --> 01:05:15,640
Speaker 1: by you saying, oh, you know what you're laying down with, Yeah,

1277
01:05:15,680 --> 01:05:17,880
Speaker 1: I know, I laid down with a real nigga, but

1278
01:05:18,000 --> 01:05:20,680
Speaker 1: this real nigga switched up when Ship got real. Thank you.

1279
01:05:21,600 --> 01:05:23,760
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. A nigga can switch up with

1280
01:05:23,840 --> 01:05:28,000
Speaker 1: ship onto my motherfucker who switched up on him. Yeah,

1281
01:05:28,480 --> 01:05:31,160
Speaker 1: it's like now it's like I gotta be your warden. Now,

1282
01:05:31,280 --> 01:05:33,800
Speaker 1: I gotta be your probation, I gotta be everything. We

1283
01:05:33,840 --> 01:05:35,440
Speaker 1: got a baby together. That don't go like that. No,

1284
01:05:35,680 --> 01:05:37,480
Speaker 1: you you don't have to. That's not what I'm saying.

1285
01:05:37,520 --> 01:05:39,720
Speaker 1: I don't agree with that neither. Yeah, I don't like.

1286
01:05:39,880 --> 01:05:43,000
Speaker 1: I totally feel like, Okay, I get it, okay, cool,

1287
01:05:43,480 --> 01:05:45,120
Speaker 1: keep me on my toes about my baby. Because I

1288
01:05:45,120 --> 01:05:46,840
Speaker 1: don't know that about no baby, you don't neither, so

1289
01:05:47,000 --> 01:05:48,520
Speaker 1: keep me on my toes. But when you started to

1290
01:05:48,560 --> 01:05:51,480
Speaker 1: be like, okay, there's like threats with this ship and

1291
01:05:51,640 --> 01:05:54,560
Speaker 1: obligation that some ship that I know I don't like.

1292
01:05:55,120 --> 01:05:57,320
Speaker 1: Come on, man, you want me to leave work to

1293
01:05:57,360 --> 01:05:59,439
Speaker 1: go get it from school and you because I'm tired

1294
01:05:59,480 --> 01:06:01,560
Speaker 1: on sleep when you can get up and go get him.

1295
01:06:02,480 --> 01:06:04,080
Speaker 1: But I'm working you still, And then when I when

1296
01:06:04,080 --> 01:06:06,200
Speaker 1: I if I lose my job. Now, my ladies, when

1297
01:06:06,200 --> 01:06:08,600
Speaker 1: you're gonna find another job? Like Mothercker wants you to

1298
01:06:08,600 --> 01:06:11,120
Speaker 1: be super Nigkel too, but you gotta see you got

1299
01:06:11,200 --> 01:06:14,400
Speaker 1: super moms out all right. But that's but women are

1300
01:06:14,480 --> 01:06:21,200
Speaker 1: throwing him in. Women are the back. But on other family,

1301
01:06:22,760 --> 01:06:24,560
Speaker 1: when you when you hear Mothercker's say we're going down,

1302
01:06:24,680 --> 01:06:25,920
Speaker 1: never say I'm going to my granddad, I'm going to

1303
01:06:26,000 --> 01:06:28,840
Speaker 1: my grandma house. I'm going on like I pay for

1304
01:06:28,920 --> 01:06:31,680
Speaker 1: all my bills ever forever. They're going on their mama house.

1305
01:06:32,480 --> 01:06:35,760
Speaker 1: They ain't coming over the day at the house. That's

1306
01:06:35,760 --> 01:06:38,000
Speaker 1: just how that goes. So it's up to you on

1307
01:06:38,160 --> 01:06:40,640
Speaker 1: highs gonna go. If you're dealing with a person next

1308
01:06:41,320 --> 01:06:43,560
Speaker 1: trying to be involved. But you can take a person

1309
01:06:43,600 --> 01:06:45,400
Speaker 1: that's trying to be involved and put them to a

1310
01:06:45,440 --> 01:06:48,000
Speaker 1: point that where they can't be involved to two things,

1311
01:06:48,360 --> 01:06:50,480
Speaker 1: like you said, you to go to the courts or

1312
01:06:50,560 --> 01:06:52,680
Speaker 1: we come up with a mutual understanding. Because now, okay,

1313
01:06:52,800 --> 01:06:54,400
Speaker 1: just saving is if I got a wife, if my

1314
01:06:54,480 --> 01:06:57,600
Speaker 1: wife I gonna get married. And it's like, I see

1315
01:06:58,200 --> 01:07:01,000
Speaker 1: my my wife, see up something between me and my

1316
01:07:01,000 --> 01:07:03,200
Speaker 1: baby mom. They got a riff just them too with

1317
01:07:03,280 --> 01:07:04,720
Speaker 1: me and my baby mom. Cool, but she telling me

1318
01:07:04,720 --> 01:07:07,080
Speaker 1: I'll respect let me deal with her with the baby.

1319
01:07:07,520 --> 01:07:10,439
Speaker 1: Women take that, don't kind of way? He my baby

1320
01:07:10,520 --> 01:07:13,720
Speaker 1: dad and know this is my wife now, so so

1321
01:07:13,920 --> 01:07:16,200
Speaker 1: we're together. So why she can't come get my baby?

1322
01:07:16,240 --> 01:07:18,320
Speaker 1: Whatever you do? And then I heard women be like,

1323
01:07:18,600 --> 01:07:20,400
Speaker 1: but why she gotta be there with her all day?

1324
01:07:23,120 --> 01:07:29,640
Speaker 1: Why you ain't there? However? Right? Really, all right, listen,

1325
01:07:29,920 --> 01:07:33,280
Speaker 1: I personally don't give a funk like my my child's

1326
01:07:33,280 --> 01:07:35,480
Speaker 1: father could day whoever the fun as long as I

1327
01:07:35,600 --> 01:07:37,680
Speaker 1: have her information and I could get in contact with

1328
01:07:37,720 --> 01:07:40,240
Speaker 1: her and she could get in contact with me. Have

1329
01:07:40,360 --> 01:07:43,000
Speaker 1: you seen women? I have seen women do that, and

1330
01:07:43,040 --> 01:07:45,560
Speaker 1: I under something to a certain extent. I understand because

1331
01:07:45,560 --> 01:07:48,360
Speaker 1: it's like if my child is asking for her daddy,

1332
01:07:49,160 --> 01:07:50,760
Speaker 1: Like if Chance got mommy, I want to see I

1333
01:07:50,760 --> 01:07:52,040
Speaker 1: want to see my daddy. I want to see dad.

1334
01:07:52,080 --> 01:07:53,520
Speaker 1: I wanna see my daddy. I want to see my daddy.

1335
01:07:53,600 --> 01:07:55,320
Speaker 1: And then I finally get with you on your schedule,

1336
01:07:55,360 --> 01:07:56,680
Speaker 1: and you said, all right, I'm gonna come pick up

1337
01:07:56,800 --> 01:07:59,040
Speaker 1: Chance and you're gonna spend I'm gonna spend time with Chance,

1338
01:07:59,240 --> 01:08:01,000
Speaker 1: and then Chance go with there with you. And then

1339
01:08:01,080 --> 01:08:03,360
Speaker 1: Chance picked the iPhone up and called me like, Mommy,

1340
01:08:03,360 --> 01:08:08,040
Speaker 1: I've just been here with Keisha because Daddy went to

1341
01:08:08,120 --> 01:08:10,080
Speaker 1: work and Daddy doing this and I'm just here with Keisha.

1342
01:08:10,120 --> 01:08:12,040
Speaker 1: I'm still gonna get in that ass because it's like, buddy,

1343
01:08:12,240 --> 01:08:14,080
Speaker 1: she's been asking to spend time with you, not keep

1344
01:08:14,120 --> 01:08:16,200
Speaker 1: miss Keisha. She want to spend time with you. So

1345
01:08:16,360 --> 01:08:18,880
Speaker 1: now I got an issue because you could have kept

1346
01:08:18,880 --> 01:08:20,439
Speaker 1: their ass at the house. They and she want to

1347
01:08:20,479 --> 01:08:24,400
Speaker 1: spend time. You cha, I'm just getting your break. If

1348
01:08:24,400 --> 01:08:26,200
Speaker 1: I ain't got time, ain't got time. I'm getting your break.

1349
01:08:26,240 --> 01:08:28,760
Speaker 1: My wife got him. She's gonna love my baby just

1350
01:08:28,840 --> 01:08:31,439
Speaker 1: like I love this is my wife. Will you you

1351
01:08:31,520 --> 01:08:34,040
Speaker 1: telling me two different scenarios. But if I'm tired. I

1352
01:08:34,040 --> 01:08:36,160
Speaker 1: don't give a funk. Should okay, Like even now, I'd

1353
01:08:36,200 --> 01:08:37,920
Speaker 1: be tired as my daughter to be with her auntie,

1354
01:08:38,120 --> 01:08:40,120
Speaker 1: She'll be with her daddy, auntie, her daddy, great grandma,

1355
01:08:40,120 --> 01:08:42,640
Speaker 1: should be with all her daddy, homeboy, her daddy, um

1356
01:08:42,720 --> 01:08:45,200
Speaker 1: home girl. I don't mind. I got your information. I'm

1357
01:08:45,200 --> 01:08:47,360
Speaker 1: cool with that. But if my chance is asking for

1358
01:08:47,560 --> 01:08:50,200
Speaker 1: her daddy, you're not taking it to your homeboy, your

1359
01:08:50,200 --> 01:08:52,840
Speaker 1: grandmama house and too everybody. She won't choose. If you

1360
01:08:52,920 --> 01:08:54,719
Speaker 1: ain't got time for her, then talk to me about

1361
01:08:54,800 --> 01:08:57,639
Speaker 1: let's figure out when you got time for her. That's

1362
01:08:57,640 --> 01:09:01,439
Speaker 1: what I'm talking about, because if the baby's for you,

1363
01:09:04,240 --> 01:09:06,600
Speaker 1: But if I'm tired and the baby for me, and

1364
01:09:06,680 --> 01:09:10,040
Speaker 1: you're saying I'm a good parent, what makes me a

1365
01:09:10,120 --> 01:09:13,839
Speaker 1: good parent? I'm a really good parents. Kids gonna always

1366
01:09:13,920 --> 01:09:17,000
Speaker 1: want to see they parents. They always want my grand

1367
01:09:17,040 --> 01:09:18,600
Speaker 1: baby want to see she want to come over the

1368
01:09:18,680 --> 01:09:25,040
Speaker 1: house every day, granddaddy. You can't not every day. So

1369
01:09:25,600 --> 01:09:28,880
Speaker 1: kid's gonna know that there's disappointments in life because I'm

1370
01:09:28,920 --> 01:09:31,559
Speaker 1: being a great father too. I'm making sure you have clothes,

1371
01:09:31,640 --> 01:09:34,160
Speaker 1: I'm making sure you have your livelihood is good. I'm

1372
01:09:34,160 --> 01:09:35,880
Speaker 1: making sure my wife got you, and make sure my

1373
01:09:35,960 --> 01:09:37,840
Speaker 1: mama got you, and making sure your mom your mom

1374
01:09:38,000 --> 01:09:41,800
Speaker 1: is having time for herself. I mean whatever, but still, nah,

1375
01:09:42,120 --> 01:09:43,800
Speaker 1: she needs to see you. You need to see that

1376
01:09:43,800 --> 01:09:47,280
Speaker 1: at the house. Woo. Nah that nobody said you need

1377
01:09:47,360 --> 01:09:48,640
Speaker 1: to sit at the house. She needs to see. All

1378
01:09:48,680 --> 01:09:51,360
Speaker 1: I'm saying is if you're a child, that's like you

1379
01:09:51,479 --> 01:09:54,880
Speaker 1: know your your grand baby, your grand baby call you granddaddy.

1380
01:09:54,920 --> 01:09:56,320
Speaker 1: I want to see you. What you do you make

1381
01:09:56,360 --> 01:09:58,280
Speaker 1: sure you see her. You may not see her every day,

1382
01:09:58,479 --> 01:10:01,040
Speaker 1: but if your granddadter call you bank, I know you're

1383
01:10:01,040 --> 01:10:02,840
Speaker 1: gonna make it. I don't have no problem disappointing her

1384
01:10:02,840 --> 01:10:05,840
Speaker 1: if I'm busy for real, but I don't busy. Donna

1385
01:10:05,840 --> 01:10:08,200
Speaker 1: tell her I'm busy for I'm busy for the rest

1386
01:10:08,200 --> 01:10:10,439
Speaker 1: of the week. But I see you Sunday. You're gonna

1387
01:10:10,479 --> 01:10:12,360
Speaker 1: let calm. If I got something else going on, I'm

1388
01:10:12,439 --> 01:10:14,160
Speaker 1: I'm gonna call on faith time. A lot. Ain't gonna

1389
01:10:14,160 --> 01:10:17,320
Speaker 1: bay can get your disappointments happened. I give you that.

1390
01:10:19,040 --> 01:10:20,920
Speaker 1: But but but when the baby mama, if this was

1391
01:10:21,000 --> 01:10:23,600
Speaker 1: my baby mama and I lied, I don't funked up

1392
01:10:23,600 --> 01:10:27,680
Speaker 1: the whole world, my whole real I'm not gonna go

1393
01:10:27,760 --> 01:10:30,640
Speaker 1: through with you because it's like you promised her. But

1394
01:10:31,200 --> 01:10:33,040
Speaker 1: if when you when you get your ship by chance,

1395
01:10:33,320 --> 01:10:35,240
Speaker 1: by chance, ship, I didn't know that, we're gonna do

1396
01:10:35,400 --> 01:10:38,880
Speaker 1: the ror um all, I probably getting my baby. So

1397
01:10:40,080 --> 01:10:41,560
Speaker 1: when I shot no, I ain't gonna be bad to

1398
01:10:41,600 --> 01:10:43,599
Speaker 1: do that ship scream I gotta go get my baby.

1399
01:10:44,680 --> 01:10:46,360
Speaker 1: I ain't saying that because I mean, that's my life

1400
01:10:46,439 --> 01:10:48,800
Speaker 1: right now. But I'm asking you a question. Would you

1401
01:10:48,880 --> 01:10:51,599
Speaker 1: be pissed off if he promised her and she's gonna

1402
01:10:51,600 --> 01:10:55,120
Speaker 1: be upset with Sunday calm, Yeah, I'm being honest with you. Yes,

1403
01:10:55,360 --> 01:10:57,800
Speaker 1: I will still feel away, but I can still be understanding.

1404
01:10:58,240 --> 01:10:59,920
Speaker 1: You can still feel away and be piste off of

1405
01:11:00,000 --> 01:11:02,800
Speaker 1: somebody and still have understanding that should happened with me

1406
01:11:02,840 --> 01:11:04,880
Speaker 1: and my daughter daddy all the time, like it'd be

1407
01:11:04,920 --> 01:11:06,760
Speaker 1: certain should I'll be like, yo, I'm gonna take Chance

1408
01:11:06,800 --> 01:11:08,920
Speaker 1: to swim it just today, I'm taking Chance to swimming.

1409
01:11:09,040 --> 01:11:10,920
Speaker 1: But we're still here. Hey, buddy, can you take her

1410
01:11:10,920 --> 01:11:12,800
Speaker 1: to swimming? But if he's a good father what I'm saying,

1411
01:11:12,840 --> 01:11:14,160
Speaker 1: he's a good father to me, he's gonna make that

1412
01:11:14,280 --> 01:11:17,560
Speaker 1: up right, But I'm just saying that it's still the disappointment.

1413
01:11:17,600 --> 01:11:19,880
Speaker 1: If it come Sunday, you ain't do what you said

1414
01:11:19,920 --> 01:11:21,760
Speaker 1: you was gonna do a grand baby, she could still

1415
01:11:21,760 --> 01:11:24,080
Speaker 1: be disappointed and then you go and tell her another day.

1416
01:11:24,160 --> 01:11:26,320
Speaker 1: But the mama can still feel a type away, like damn,

1417
01:11:26,400 --> 01:11:28,680
Speaker 1: I didn't told her. She's still feeling away, but you're

1418
01:11:28,720 --> 01:11:32,000
Speaker 1: gonna disappoint her also, so I would have we both

1419
01:11:32,120 --> 01:11:34,240
Speaker 1: can we both her parents? You can still I'll be

1420
01:11:34,320 --> 01:11:37,280
Speaker 1: feeling piste off with myself a chance. You get what

1421
01:11:37,320 --> 01:11:39,880
Speaker 1: I'm saying, mama's feel the same ship that mama's feel

1422
01:11:39,920 --> 01:11:41,360
Speaker 1: the same ship. But if I got to deal with

1423
01:11:41,439 --> 01:11:46,080
Speaker 1: my own disappointment and then I gotta double up when

1424
01:11:46,120 --> 01:11:48,160
Speaker 1: I disappointed her, why do men you have to be

1425
01:11:48,479 --> 01:11:52,880
Speaker 1: at odds saying what happened? No, we don't odds that.

1426
01:11:53,000 --> 01:11:54,840
Speaker 1: What I'm saying is we don't have to tell you.

1427
01:11:54,880 --> 01:11:57,400
Speaker 1: If this dude disappoints you, you're gonna get in that

1428
01:11:57,520 --> 01:11:59,840
Speaker 1: ass like you just said shot. Yeah, all right, so

1429
01:12:00,000 --> 01:12:02,280
Speaker 1: you're not being under No, I said you can get

1430
01:12:02,320 --> 01:12:05,040
Speaker 1: You can give somebody a situation, right, I could be

1431
01:12:05,160 --> 01:12:07,479
Speaker 1: understanding and still feel away. That's what I said, you

1432
01:12:07,560 --> 01:12:10,599
Speaker 1: can be understanding to the situation like that. I don't

1433
01:12:10,600 --> 01:12:13,200
Speaker 1: know you're being understanding if you don't, only know that

1434
01:12:13,240 --> 01:12:15,720
Speaker 1: you feel away. It's what I'm saying that if we

1435
01:12:15,800 --> 01:12:18,880
Speaker 1: could go like right now Sunday, You're supposed to get

1436
01:12:19,280 --> 01:12:22,280
Speaker 1: all your granddaughter Sunday, but we got the mall ship Sunday,

1437
01:12:22,360 --> 01:12:24,519
Speaker 1: so now you can't get it. I can still feel

1438
01:12:24,520 --> 01:12:26,760
Speaker 1: away because I didn't make plans for Sunday because maybe

1439
01:12:26,760 --> 01:12:28,720
Speaker 1: it's gonna be with Grandpa. Understand But when you feel away,

1440
01:12:28,760 --> 01:12:31,160
Speaker 1: are you being disrespectful to me? No, you don't have

1441
01:12:31,200 --> 01:12:33,280
Speaker 1: to be disrespectful. You can express like, man, you've got

1442
01:12:33,360 --> 01:12:36,320
Speaker 1: me up right now. But I do that normally happened, rarely,

1443
01:12:37,040 --> 01:12:39,800
Speaker 1: rarely happen in my case. Whoever, whoever, I can't speak

1444
01:12:39,800 --> 01:12:41,519
Speaker 1: for everybody, and some people I agree with you all.

1445
01:12:41,640 --> 01:12:43,599
Speaker 1: Some people agree with you and Jay. Some some bitches

1446
01:12:43,640 --> 01:12:46,080
Speaker 1: are bullshit. You do have bullshit women out here that

1447
01:12:46,200 --> 01:12:48,240
Speaker 1: just give me a hard time. But I was speaking

1448
01:12:48,280 --> 01:12:50,320
Speaker 1: more so the women that's just regular as fun. So

1449
01:12:50,439 --> 01:12:52,160
Speaker 1: what do you say if he, like you said, in

1450
01:12:52,200 --> 01:12:54,160
Speaker 1: a situation, if he can't get to get the kid,

1451
01:12:54,400 --> 01:12:59,280
Speaker 1: and what do you say? No, No, I'm gonna teest

1452
01:12:59,360 --> 01:13:01,280
Speaker 1: my saying. I don't say, I'm gonna you my exact thing.

1453
01:13:01,720 --> 01:13:03,120
Speaker 1: This that ship I'll be talking about. You see how

1454
01:13:03,160 --> 01:13:05,320
Speaker 1: you got the option and I don't have an option

1455
01:13:05,560 --> 01:13:07,960
Speaker 1: because I gotta leave big facts. When you tell me

1456
01:13:08,040 --> 01:13:10,080
Speaker 1: you you got some other ship, I gotta leave set

1457
01:13:10,200 --> 01:13:13,080
Speaker 1: and everybody around my job gotta understand. But you got

1458
01:13:13,160 --> 01:13:19,640
Speaker 1: the option I figured out by And that's but some

1459
01:13:19,840 --> 01:13:25,400
Speaker 1: women come from a disrespectful place. Yeah I can't. Yeah,

1460
01:13:25,439 --> 01:13:33,680
Speaker 1: some women, yeah, advocate. It's a lot of times when

1461
01:13:33,720 --> 01:13:38,520
Speaker 1: the daddy is the disappointment, the daddy's disappointment greatly outweighs

1462
01:13:38,640 --> 01:13:41,840
Speaker 1: the mommy's disappointment. Whenever the mom has to be disappointed

1463
01:13:41,880 --> 01:13:44,559
Speaker 1: the child, she makes a bigger deal. But they come

1464
01:13:44,640 --> 01:13:46,840
Speaker 1: with it because the mom is like, no, that's what

1465
01:13:46,920 --> 01:13:48,880
Speaker 1: I'm saying, that's what I'm saying. But that's how that

1466
01:13:48,920 --> 01:13:51,160
Speaker 1: ship goes. It's like it's not an even scale. And

1467
01:13:51,240 --> 01:13:54,559
Speaker 1: that's when niggers start like taking offense to this ship

1468
01:13:54,640 --> 01:13:57,400
Speaker 1: because it's like damn, like I know, I had something

1469
01:13:57,479 --> 01:13:59,479
Speaker 1: to do, and I know normally you pick up the slack,

1470
01:13:59,800 --> 01:14:02,760
Speaker 1: but like, okay, I had something to do. But then

1471
01:14:02,920 --> 01:14:05,840
Speaker 1: when it's a situation when the mom has something to do.

1472
01:14:05,960 --> 01:14:07,640
Speaker 1: True enough, she's with him at the time, and she

1473
01:14:07,760 --> 01:14:09,840
Speaker 1: desires to have ten million things to get to do

1474
01:14:10,000 --> 01:14:11,560
Speaker 1: and to not be able to show it. But it

1475
01:14:11,640 --> 01:14:14,800
Speaker 1: should be like an understanding, like you said, instead of not,

1476
01:14:15,640 --> 01:14:20,960
Speaker 1: instead of like your parents and your first heroes. Right, yeah,

1477
01:14:21,040 --> 01:14:23,240
Speaker 1: So I can't respect a woman who trying to turn

1478
01:14:24,200 --> 01:14:26,240
Speaker 1: me to a villain instead of a hero. I can't

1479
01:14:26,280 --> 01:14:28,040
Speaker 1: respect this. So I can see him and talk to

1480
01:14:28,080 --> 01:14:29,519
Speaker 1: you all about this all day because I see this

1481
01:14:29,560 --> 01:14:32,439
Speaker 1: ship happening, especially the biggest point, that's the biggest point

1482
01:14:32,479 --> 01:14:36,320
Speaker 1: of it all, like in front of my kid, and

1483
01:14:36,479 --> 01:14:39,040
Speaker 1: and and and you know what I'm saying, like or

1484
01:14:39,120 --> 01:14:42,000
Speaker 1: don't even let me over here that nigga somebody else

1485
01:14:42,080 --> 01:14:44,200
Speaker 1: my mama said, he give now, you're funking in my mind,

1486
01:14:45,120 --> 01:14:47,360
Speaker 1: regardless of how how she come back and trying to

1487
01:14:47,439 --> 01:14:50,280
Speaker 1: shook or or what. Because I love you more than

1488
01:14:50,360 --> 01:14:52,680
Speaker 1: I love him regardles cause I'm around you. So when

1489
01:14:52,680 --> 01:14:55,000
Speaker 1: I see you hurt behind this nigga, I'm starting to

1490
01:14:55,040 --> 01:14:57,519
Speaker 1: look at him different. And like you said, it could

1491
01:14:57,520 --> 01:15:00,240
Speaker 1: be a good dad for real. When you when you

1492
01:15:00,320 --> 01:15:03,560
Speaker 1: look at it, what what the word is before you

1493
01:15:03,680 --> 01:15:07,200
Speaker 1: make us and what's the word if Petro's decision or

1494
01:15:07,520 --> 01:15:10,519
Speaker 1: action all in all, you come back and be like

1495
01:15:11,640 --> 01:15:14,120
Speaker 1: you can compare it to he ain't really no bullshit.

1496
01:15:14,360 --> 01:15:15,960
Speaker 1: I just trying to keep him on his toes. But

1497
01:15:16,080 --> 01:15:18,559
Speaker 1: keeping him on his toes can have his child looking

1498
01:15:18,600 --> 01:15:21,200
Speaker 1: at him the wrong way. You get what I'm saying.

1499
01:15:21,439 --> 01:15:25,640
Speaker 1: And I see that ship so much. That'sh sickening. You

1500
01:15:25,760 --> 01:15:28,880
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, That's just sickening. Shot Uh and

1501
01:15:29,280 --> 01:15:32,080
Speaker 1: zay tigging. That's just sickening because at the end of

1502
01:15:32,080 --> 01:15:33,840
Speaker 1: the day, you want me to move off with your

1503
01:15:33,960 --> 01:15:38,479
Speaker 1: feelings and emotions. I ain't saying anything of that. Don't

1504
01:15:38,479 --> 01:15:40,320
Speaker 1: take care his kids like I don't funk with nigg

1505
01:15:40,360 --> 01:15:42,240
Speaker 1: of them'll take care of the kids like you can't

1506
01:15:42,240 --> 01:15:44,519
Speaker 1: even be my potter, because how the fun you're gonna

1507
01:15:44,520 --> 01:15:45,800
Speaker 1: tell him you love me un with me when you

1508
01:15:45,840 --> 01:15:49,120
Speaker 1: don't love them with your kids, you're a dunt like

1509
01:15:49,240 --> 01:15:53,360
Speaker 1: that's a that's the ultimate fuck you, like real ship

1510
01:15:53,439 --> 01:15:56,200
Speaker 1: you're dubbed. But I understand when the nigga trying to

1511
01:15:56,240 --> 01:15:58,400
Speaker 1: do everything he can do and I just got a

1512
01:15:58,439 --> 01:16:01,439
Speaker 1: bit too in the feelings, right, So now I gotta

1513
01:16:01,800 --> 01:16:04,840
Speaker 1: give it to God and goddamn tell whoeverse how I

1514
01:16:04,840 --> 01:16:06,519
Speaker 1: can get his money or go down to the courts,

1515
01:16:06,520 --> 01:16:08,240
Speaker 1: which niggas ain't really fin to do that because then

1516
01:16:08,320 --> 01:16:16,560
Speaker 1: I go down here. I got a old one. So

1517
01:16:16,640 --> 01:16:19,799
Speaker 1: it's just like it's just like a kid. Two. If

1518
01:16:19,840 --> 01:16:21,720
Speaker 1: a female isn't a feeling, that's the ros place for

1519
01:16:22,000 --> 01:16:24,720
Speaker 1: when the kid is involved, exactly because then you're gonna

1520
01:16:24,720 --> 01:16:26,120
Speaker 1: put me in my feelings. And I got to stand

1521
01:16:26,160 --> 01:16:28,960
Speaker 1: on some sucker. Ship ain't about to gett hurt. But

1522
01:16:29,000 --> 01:16:34,840
Speaker 1: the baby, I think, I think ultimately, I think they

1523
01:16:34,920 --> 01:16:36,519
Speaker 1: taking and I are talking about is that like we

1524
01:16:36,680 --> 01:16:39,600
Speaker 1: feel for our kids. So like when when I was

1525
01:16:39,880 --> 01:16:43,120
Speaker 1: almost like and I think what I'm saying, and then

1526
01:16:43,240 --> 01:16:44,960
Speaker 1: wrong y'all they said, and then wrong, I guess it

1527
01:16:45,080 --> 01:16:47,400
Speaker 1: just a misunderstanding on what we're talking about. I think

1528
01:16:47,439 --> 01:16:49,160
Speaker 1: we were talking about two different types of women. I

1529
01:16:49,320 --> 01:16:50,920
Speaker 1: wasn't talking about the bitches that just be giving the

1530
01:16:51,000 --> 01:16:52,639
Speaker 1: nigga's a hard time just to give him a hard time.

1531
01:16:52,640 --> 01:16:54,559
Speaker 1: But should you really getting chanced that a hard time? Though?

1532
01:16:55,000 --> 01:16:56,080
Speaker 1: I just say it was a good dad. But you

1533
01:16:56,160 --> 01:17:00,680
Speaker 1: get into answer. If you miss one thing, you're not

1534
01:17:00,960 --> 01:17:02,560
Speaker 1: hold on, I ain't gonna posession on care, but you

1535
01:17:02,640 --> 01:17:05,240
Speaker 1: and I know the personal. So like I get on chance, Dad,

1536
01:17:05,280 --> 01:17:06,720
Speaker 1: because in my thing, I'm gonna keep it a book.

1537
01:17:06,920 --> 01:17:08,599
Speaker 1: If I was to die, I want to make sure

1538
01:17:08,680 --> 01:17:11,519
Speaker 1: that chance still got the same type of that's going on.

1539
01:17:11,760 --> 01:17:14,040
Speaker 1: I'm just saying. I know I ain't, but I'm just saying,

1540
01:17:14,120 --> 01:17:17,320
Speaker 1: like I got hot standards for myself, and I mean

1541
01:17:17,400 --> 01:17:19,760
Speaker 1: I birth this child. I got high standards for my daughter.

1542
01:17:20,040 --> 01:17:22,280
Speaker 1: So if I go pedal to the metal twenty four

1543
01:17:22,360 --> 01:17:24,640
Speaker 1: mon eight, which both of you all y'all on this couch, No,

1544
01:17:24,880 --> 01:17:27,320
Speaker 1: I go seven for a chance. I need Chance Daddy

1545
01:17:27,400 --> 01:17:29,880
Speaker 1: to meet me and go twenty eight the same way.

1546
01:17:30,280 --> 01:17:32,400
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. But you basically saying like, bra

1547
01:17:32,439 --> 01:17:38,080
Speaker 1: ain't even let your start slipping exactly, so we even

1548
01:17:38,160 --> 01:17:41,120
Speaker 1: had chance, I tell him, a, I'm on your ass.

1549
01:17:41,720 --> 01:17:44,200
Speaker 1: My foot can always remain on your neck because I

1550
01:17:44,280 --> 01:17:45,960
Speaker 1: want your foot to always be on my neck when

1551
01:17:46,000 --> 01:17:47,559
Speaker 1: it comes to this baby. What about when it comes

1552
01:17:47,640 --> 01:17:49,920
Speaker 1: when you start coming from a disrespectful places. I don't.

1553
01:17:50,360 --> 01:17:55,280
Speaker 1: I don't disrespect chance, Daddy. That's a difference, like we

1554
01:17:55,320 --> 01:17:57,439
Speaker 1: don't got when you start using the word of I

1555
01:17:57,600 --> 01:18:03,000
Speaker 1: feel envious, envious all this respect, I hate all. I

1556
01:18:03,080 --> 01:18:04,760
Speaker 1: get that, but I'm gonna be honest with y'all. I

1557
01:18:04,760 --> 01:18:06,519
Speaker 1: don't care how y'all feel about it, but I'm gonna

1558
01:18:06,560 --> 01:18:09,200
Speaker 1: just be honest, Like if I am taking care of

1559
01:18:09,200 --> 01:18:11,519
Speaker 1: a chance, and chance was whatever age and I got

1560
01:18:11,560 --> 01:18:14,320
Speaker 1: her seven eight, nine, ten days a week, all day

1561
01:18:15,040 --> 01:18:18,440
Speaker 1: seven and the chance daddy is on his motherfucking Instagram

1562
01:18:18,680 --> 01:18:20,599
Speaker 1: and he out of his home, voys out with a bit.

1563
01:18:20,800 --> 01:18:23,400
Speaker 1: I am envious to that. Any woman that's gonna tell

1564
01:18:23,400 --> 01:18:25,439
Speaker 1: you she's not envious that she's lying. I don't care

1565
01:18:25,479 --> 01:18:27,000
Speaker 1: how y'all feel like, I could be hate or whatever.

1566
01:18:27,040 --> 01:18:29,160
Speaker 1: That's the reality of it. I'm gonna be envious of

1567
01:18:29,200 --> 01:18:31,280
Speaker 1: that ship because my life ain't what it was and

1568
01:18:31,320 --> 01:18:35,479
Speaker 1: you're still back to what you're all respect that I respect,

1569
01:18:35,479 --> 01:18:37,439
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be envious of that. I'm I ain't gonna

1570
01:18:37,479 --> 01:18:41,439
Speaker 1: lie to y'all that, but but being envious of that, ken,

1571
01:18:42,400 --> 01:18:46,320
Speaker 1: I guess what y'all Being envious of that can cause

1572
01:18:46,360 --> 01:18:52,479
Speaker 1: you to make what's the word, decisions and motions that

1573
01:18:52,640 --> 01:18:54,760
Speaker 1: the funk up the whole ship. And you know what,

1574
01:18:54,960 --> 01:18:57,240
Speaker 1: I'm gonna sit here and tell y'all, y'all probably absolutely

1575
01:18:57,320 --> 01:19:00,240
Speaker 1: motherfucking right. I'm gonna give you all that. But if

1576
01:19:00,280 --> 01:19:02,600
Speaker 1: I'm taking care of my child and this nick in

1577
01:19:02,640 --> 01:19:05,599
Speaker 1: the clubs, hell yeah, I'm with impect you with motherfucker decision.

1578
01:19:05,600 --> 01:19:07,000
Speaker 1: I'm on that ass. I're probably gonna be at the

1579
01:19:07,040 --> 01:19:13,160
Speaker 1: club when you're coming out this bit. Come get your own,

1580
01:19:14,080 --> 01:19:24,519
Speaker 1: wrapping up, wrapping up. You appreciate you, Congratulations, Thank you,

1581
01:19:26,680 --> 01:19:34,880
Speaker 1: baby mama problems you know what, I'm trying to get

1582
01:19:34,920 --> 01:19:40,840
Speaker 1: it up. Really appreciate you all. Pulling up to bro. No,

1583
01:19:41,000 --> 01:19:42,840
Speaker 1: that was a good one. Always checked us out of that.

1584
01:19:42,880 --> 01:19:45,400
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