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Speaker 1: from an issue or hardship, you should seek help from

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Speaker 2: Hi Cheeky's. I want to first start off by saying

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Speaker 2: much for giving us this podcast to ask you questions.

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Speaker 2: So my question to you is about situationships. Do you

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Speaker 3: But you know, like sometimes like you need those needs

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Speaker 2: But anyway, Bixis, thank you so much for everything. By

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Speaker 2: that and he did that because you a boss. As Anyways,

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Speaker 2: I love your tiktoking. Okay, I love you byeay.

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Speaker 1: Yeah if I love you, Thank you, Mama, thank you

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Speaker 1: so much. Thank you for listening to dear Cheeky's and

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Speaker 1: sending in your question. Of course, you guys know I

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Speaker 6: Hi Chiki's I'm a huge fan. I have read both

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Speaker 2: Strong Jingo Nasa.

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Speaker 6: You guys inspire me, and you guys made me realize

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Speaker 5: So fresh at it.

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Speaker 1: Well, Vanessa, the fact that you are asking for advice

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Speaker 1: I know, I know it's hard not to, but you

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Speaker 1: something positive. I'm reading this book right now that is

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Speaker 1: called Don't Believe Everything You Think. Find it Don't Believe

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Speaker 1: Everything you think, and it helps you so much of

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Speaker 1: So try that and read that book. It's going to

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Speaker 1: help you. You guys. You guys are seriously like the

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Speaker 1: best fans ever. I am so grateful to have this

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Speaker 1: platform where I can connect with you all. Thank you Steph, Sasa, Leslie,

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