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I'm a thirty eight year old married 19 00:01:06,319 --> 00:01:10,080 Speaker 1: woman and my husband is thirty four. We've been married 20 00:01:10,120 --> 00:01:13,120 Speaker 1: for four years. And we're getting our first house built, 21 00:01:13,200 --> 00:01:15,600 Speaker 1: so I've had to put my husband on a budget 22 00:01:15,880 --> 00:01:18,679 Speaker 1: to make sure we can afford to furnish our new house. 23 00:01:19,160 --> 00:01:21,800 Speaker 1: He is the one that is always shopping and buying 24 00:01:21,840 --> 00:01:25,040 Speaker 1: gadgets for the house. We are sharing one credit card, 25 00:01:25,080 --> 00:01:28,400 Speaker 1: and I give him an allowance weekly at his request. 26 00:01:28,800 --> 00:01:32,720 Speaker 1: His money is usually gone within two days because he's forgotten. 27 00:01:32,720 --> 00:01:35,039 Speaker 1: He's a baller on a budget and will splurge on 28 00:01:35,080 --> 00:01:37,839 Speaker 1: a steak for lunch a couple of days a week. 29 00:01:38,280 --> 00:01:41,080 Speaker 1: I blame it on his parents, who still enable him 30 00:01:41,200 --> 00:01:45,080 Speaker 1: and coddle him. He's definitely not a mama's boy, but 31 00:01:45,240 --> 00:01:48,200 Speaker 1: his mama can't stand to hear him complain about money. 32 00:01:48,640 --> 00:01:51,760 Speaker 1: They're retired and have plenty of money saved up, so 33 00:01:51,800 --> 00:01:54,520 Speaker 1: they give it to him if he asks. It's gotten 34 00:01:54,560 --> 00:01:57,320 Speaker 1: so bad that his mother called me and said she 35 00:01:57,440 --> 00:01:59,920 Speaker 1: needs my help because her son said he's on a 36 00:02:00,040 --> 00:02:02,520 Speaker 1: budget and can't afford to eat lunch during the week. 37 00:02:02,960 --> 00:02:06,240 Speaker 1: I reminded her that her son is bougie and I 38 00:02:06,360 --> 00:02:09,240 Speaker 1: can't eat leftovers for lunch, so it's his fault if 39 00:02:09,280 --> 00:02:13,080 Speaker 1: he can't afford his overpriced lunches. That's when she opened 40 00:02:13,160 --> 00:02:15,520 Speaker 1: up about how much money they've given my husband in 41 00:02:15,560 --> 00:02:18,840 Speaker 1: the past month. She called her own son a moocher, 42 00:02:19,160 --> 00:02:22,200 Speaker 1: and she blamed herself since she spoiled him all of 43 00:02:22,280 --> 00:02:24,800 Speaker 1: his life. She said that I have a problem on 44 00:02:24,840 --> 00:02:27,680 Speaker 1: my hands if he doesn't stop spending. She told me 45 00:02:27,720 --> 00:02:30,600 Speaker 1: to check his closet because he's been buying new shirts 46 00:02:30,720 --> 00:02:33,640 Speaker 1: and leaving out with his t shirt on, then putting 47 00:02:33,680 --> 00:02:36,440 Speaker 1: the new shirt on before he walks into his office. 48 00:02:36,760 --> 00:02:38,600 Speaker 1: My mother in law wants me to talk to my 49 00:02:38,720 --> 00:02:42,160 Speaker 1: husband and tell him to stop mooching off them. I 50 00:02:42,200 --> 00:02:46,200 Speaker 1: think it's their job to finish raising their son. Should 51 00:02:46,200 --> 00:02:49,959 Speaker 1: I get into the middle of their problem, I'll agree 52 00:02:50,000 --> 00:02:52,480 Speaker 1: with you this is his parents problem, but this is 53 00:02:52,520 --> 00:02:55,519 Speaker 1: also you and your husband's problem. This is a whole 54 00:02:55,680 --> 00:02:59,320 Speaker 1: family issue right here. Your husband wants what he wants 55 00:02:59,360 --> 00:03:01,400 Speaker 1: and he doesn't care where he gets it if he 56 00:03:01,440 --> 00:03:03,240 Speaker 1: can't get it from you. If he spends all the 57 00:03:03,280 --> 00:03:05,080 Speaker 1: money you give him, then he'll go to his mom 58 00:03:05,080 --> 00:03:07,720 Speaker 1: and she'll give it to him. So he is a 59 00:03:07,800 --> 00:03:11,520 Speaker 1: mama's boy in that sense. I think he's immature, and 60 00:03:11,600 --> 00:03:15,079 Speaker 1: I think his mom, you know, keeps giving him money 61 00:03:15,280 --> 00:03:18,919 Speaker 1: because she obviously can't say no to him, even now 62 00:03:18,919 --> 00:03:21,040 Speaker 1: that he's a grown man with the family of his own. 63 00:03:21,480 --> 00:03:25,080 Speaker 1: She wants you to talk to him and be the 64 00:03:25,120 --> 00:03:28,040 Speaker 1: bad guy, so to speak. And that's a problem. But 65 00:03:28,240 --> 00:03:31,280 Speaker 1: you all need to talk, all of you. Maybe when 66 00:03:31,280 --> 00:03:33,560 Speaker 1: he sees that you guys are all in one accord 67 00:03:33,600 --> 00:03:36,920 Speaker 1: about saving and sacrificing for the new house, he'll get it. 68 00:03:37,200 --> 00:03:40,400 Speaker 1: Maybe not, but you gotta do something. You got to 69 00:03:40,400 --> 00:03:43,280 Speaker 1: put some sort of system in place where a certain 70 00:03:43,320 --> 00:03:45,680 Speaker 1: amount of money goes into the house account. You know, 71 00:03:45,800 --> 00:03:48,000 Speaker 1: try that. I think that's a good place to start. 72 00:03:48,400 --> 00:03:50,600 Speaker 1: His parents have to be on board with this in 73 00:03:50,720 --> 00:03:54,040 Speaker 1: order for this to work. Though I do know it 74 00:03:54,080 --> 00:03:56,920 Speaker 1: can be done because people do it every day. It's 75 00:03:57,000 --> 00:03:59,160 Speaker 1: hard for him because he's never had to do anything 76 00:03:59,240 --> 00:04:02,120 Speaker 1: like this before. He's been spoiled. His mom told you that, 77 00:04:02,160 --> 00:04:05,240 Speaker 1: and you probably knew it before you married him, and 78 00:04:05,600 --> 00:04:08,320 Speaker 1: it's all part of growing up and being responsible. He 79 00:04:08,480 --> 00:04:12,720 Speaker 1: is a grown man. But his parents need to put 80 00:04:12,760 --> 00:04:14,640 Speaker 1: a stop to him running to them every time he 81 00:04:14,720 --> 00:04:17,279 Speaker 1: needs money. If they want to give him money, leave 82 00:04:17,320 --> 00:04:20,080 Speaker 1: it for him in the will. Okay, that's what I say. 83 00:04:20,120 --> 00:04:22,960 Speaker 1: From now on, they're not teaching him anything if they 84 00:04:23,040 --> 00:04:30,520 Speaker 1: keep spoiling him this way, Steve, this letter, it's utterly ridiculous, 85 00:04:31,040 --> 00:04:34,520 Speaker 1: And I'll tell you why. You're not married to a moocher. 86 00:04:34,640 --> 00:04:38,000 Speaker 1: That's not the problem. Now, I don't need This is 87 00:04:38,000 --> 00:04:42,359 Speaker 1: the wrong title for this letter. You're married to what's 88 00:04:42,440 --> 00:04:45,520 Speaker 1: supposed to be a man who doesn't act like a 89 00:04:45,600 --> 00:04:49,240 Speaker 1: man who hasn't grown up and who hasn't been required 90 00:04:49,279 --> 00:04:54,680 Speaker 1: to grow up. That's not a moocher. That's something totally different. 91 00:04:54,680 --> 00:04:58,360 Speaker 1: We dealer here. This is really ridiculous. You're thirty eight 92 00:04:58,480 --> 00:05:02,160 Speaker 1: and your husband is thirty four. You already was in 93 00:05:02,240 --> 00:05:06,600 Speaker 1: trouble with him. Not only is he younger than you, 94 00:05:07,120 --> 00:05:12,320 Speaker 1: but he acts like it. That's scary. But he don't 95 00:05:12,360 --> 00:05:15,599 Speaker 1: even act thirty four. See if this letter was from 96 00:05:15,600 --> 00:05:18,880 Speaker 1: a sixteen year old or eighteen year old or twenty 97 00:05:18,960 --> 00:05:22,120 Speaker 1: year old, I could be a little bit more tolerant. 98 00:05:22,520 --> 00:05:26,640 Speaker 1: This guy is thirty four years old. So here's a deal. 99 00:05:29,680 --> 00:05:32,320 Speaker 1: We've been married four years. We're getting our first house, 100 00:05:32,440 --> 00:05:36,440 Speaker 1: so I've had to put my husband on the budget. Okay, 101 00:05:36,520 --> 00:05:38,640 Speaker 1: that's a little bit of a problem to make sure 102 00:05:38,680 --> 00:05:42,000 Speaker 1: we can afford to furnish our house. You couldn't just 103 00:05:42,120 --> 00:05:46,560 Speaker 1: tell him that he don't understand that he is the 104 00:05:46,560 --> 00:05:49,720 Speaker 1: one that's always shopping and buying gadgets for the house. 105 00:05:50,080 --> 00:05:53,880 Speaker 1: We're sharing one credit card. I give him allowance weekly. 106 00:05:54,800 --> 00:05:58,880 Speaker 1: That's another problem. That's what you do for teenagers. At 107 00:05:58,960 --> 00:06:07,320 Speaker 1: his request. His money is usually gone within two days. Wow, dude, suck. 108 00:06:07,400 --> 00:06:12,240 Speaker 1: That's wrong because he's forgotten he's a baller on a budget. No, 109 00:06:12,640 --> 00:06:16,240 Speaker 1: he's not a baller on a budget. He's not a baller. See, 110 00:06:16,240 --> 00:06:20,080 Speaker 1: he's just on a budget because what you described to 111 00:06:20,120 --> 00:06:24,400 Speaker 1: me next just threw me off. And he will splurge 112 00:06:24,440 --> 00:06:27,120 Speaker 1: on a steak for lunch a couple of days a week. 113 00:06:27,240 --> 00:06:30,640 Speaker 1: I'll be damn two steaks through your ass, complete out 114 00:06:30,640 --> 00:06:37,039 Speaker 1: of way, two damn pieces of meat. You got the 115 00:06:37,240 --> 00:06:42,000 Speaker 1: chicken in your asses, out in steak. Hold that thought, Steve. 116 00:06:43,080 --> 00:06:45,320 Speaker 1: We'll have part two of your response coming up at 117 00:06:45,320 --> 00:06:48,760 Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after be our today's strawberry letter subject 118 00:06:48,839 --> 00:06:51,720 Speaker 1: married to a moocher. We'll get back into it right 119 00:06:51,760 --> 00:06:56,360 Speaker 1: after this. You're listening to Harvey Morning Show. All right, 120 00:06:56,400 --> 00:06:59,320 Speaker 1: Come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter. Finish up 121 00:06:59,320 --> 00:07:03,240 Speaker 1: your response the subject married to a mature You don't 122 00:07:03,279 --> 00:07:05,520 Speaker 1: like that title. I don't like the title because this 123 00:07:05,560 --> 00:07:07,680 Speaker 1: is a thirty four year old dude that can't stay 124 00:07:07,680 --> 00:07:10,240 Speaker 1: on budget and does a lot of other things too. 125 00:07:10,280 --> 00:07:12,720 Speaker 1: We haven't gotten into it, but here we go. She 126 00:07:13,000 --> 00:07:14,640 Speaker 1: had to put this dude on the budget because they're 127 00:07:14,640 --> 00:07:16,440 Speaker 1: trying to buy a house and they want to be 128 00:07:16,440 --> 00:07:19,960 Speaker 1: able for furnitures. He's the one that's always shopping, buying 129 00:07:20,000 --> 00:07:22,440 Speaker 1: gadgets for the house. We share a credit card. I 130 00:07:22,560 --> 00:07:24,520 Speaker 1: give him a weekly allowance. This is what you have 131 00:07:24,640 --> 00:07:26,200 Speaker 1: to do for a thirty four year old. Like I 132 00:07:26,240 --> 00:07:27,880 Speaker 1: said at the top of this letter, this letter was 133 00:07:27,920 --> 00:07:30,560 Speaker 1: about a sixteen year old, eighteen year old, a twenty 134 00:07:30,640 --> 00:07:33,040 Speaker 1: year old. I'd be a lot bit or tolerant. He's 135 00:07:33,040 --> 00:07:39,239 Speaker 1: thirty four. He's thirty four. What are we talking about him? 136 00:07:39,320 --> 00:07:43,600 Speaker 1: All right? And because he's forgotten and then the money 137 00:07:43,680 --> 00:07:46,320 Speaker 1: is usually gone that she gives him in two days 138 00:07:46,320 --> 00:07:48,800 Speaker 1: because he's forgotten, he's a ball on the budget. No, 139 00:07:49,080 --> 00:07:52,720 Speaker 1: he's just on a budget. He was splurge on a 140 00:07:52,800 --> 00:07:56,400 Speaker 1: steak for lunch a couple of days a week. So 141 00:07:56,440 --> 00:07:58,960 Speaker 1: if you're in the restaurant, they got chicken fishing steak, 142 00:08:00,200 --> 00:08:05,040 Speaker 1: and your decision to go with the stake twice throws 143 00:08:05,120 --> 00:08:10,240 Speaker 1: your whole budget out of whack. He's not making smart 144 00:08:10,320 --> 00:08:14,760 Speaker 1: decisions somewhere else and this guy is just not But 145 00:08:14,880 --> 00:08:18,440 Speaker 1: then you explain it in the letter. I blame it 146 00:08:18,480 --> 00:08:21,800 Speaker 1: on his parents, who will enable him and coddle him. 147 00:08:21,840 --> 00:08:25,160 Speaker 1: He's definitely not a mama's boy. But his mama can't 148 00:08:25,160 --> 00:08:29,680 Speaker 1: stand to hear him complain about money. They've retired, they 149 00:08:29,760 --> 00:08:31,680 Speaker 1: got plenty of money saved up, so they give it 150 00:08:31,680 --> 00:08:34,200 Speaker 1: to him if he asked. It's gotten so bad that 151 00:08:34,280 --> 00:08:36,520 Speaker 1: his mother called me and says she needs my help 152 00:08:36,840 --> 00:08:39,520 Speaker 1: because her son says he's on the budget and can't 153 00:08:39,559 --> 00:08:42,600 Speaker 1: afford to eat lunch during the week. So you go 154 00:08:42,679 --> 00:08:46,360 Speaker 1: to your mama for that. And then you said he's 155 00:08:46,400 --> 00:08:50,839 Speaker 1: not a mama's boy. Excuse me, excuse me. Well, what 156 00:08:51,400 --> 00:08:54,959 Speaker 1: do you think of mama's boy? Is you put him 157 00:08:55,000 --> 00:08:58,920 Speaker 1: on the budget? He mad, he goes a mama took 158 00:08:58,960 --> 00:09:00,640 Speaker 1: me out. He get on a budget, he can't even 159 00:09:00,679 --> 00:09:03,520 Speaker 1: have lunch, and then she give him the money. That's 160 00:09:03,559 --> 00:09:07,480 Speaker 1: a mama's boy. See, you're thinking of mama's boy if 161 00:09:07,480 --> 00:09:09,720 Speaker 1: he got to be up under all the time. Now, 162 00:09:09,880 --> 00:09:12,640 Speaker 1: mama's boy if he's totally dependent on his mother instead 163 00:09:12,640 --> 00:09:14,720 Speaker 1: of the other way around. When you grow up, you're 164 00:09:14,760 --> 00:09:16,960 Speaker 1: supposed to take better care of your parents the older 165 00:09:17,000 --> 00:09:19,360 Speaker 1: you get. They shouldn't still be taking care of you 166 00:09:19,440 --> 00:09:25,200 Speaker 1: the older you get. That's a mama's boy. I reminded 167 00:09:25,240 --> 00:09:28,280 Speaker 1: her that her son is boogie and can't eat leftovers 168 00:09:28,320 --> 00:09:31,200 Speaker 1: for lunch, so it's his fault if he can't afford 169 00:09:31,280 --> 00:09:34,840 Speaker 1: his overpriced lunches. That's when she opened up about how 170 00:09:34,920 --> 00:09:37,560 Speaker 1: much money they give him. My husband in the past month. 171 00:09:37,960 --> 00:09:40,800 Speaker 1: She called her own son a mucha and she blamed 172 00:09:40,840 --> 00:09:44,080 Speaker 1: herself since she spoiled him all his life. She said 173 00:09:44,120 --> 00:09:46,120 Speaker 1: that I have a problem on my hands if he 174 00:09:46,160 --> 00:09:48,680 Speaker 1: don't stop spitting it. She told me to check his 175 00:09:48,800 --> 00:09:52,120 Speaker 1: closet because he's been buying new shirts and leaving out 176 00:09:52,160 --> 00:09:54,160 Speaker 1: with the T shirt on, then putting a new shirt 177 00:09:54,200 --> 00:09:57,040 Speaker 1: on before he walks into the office. I hear women 178 00:09:57,120 --> 00:09:59,240 Speaker 1: say that all the time, because when a man won't 179 00:09:59,240 --> 00:10:02,240 Speaker 1: give him money, the I'll see women doing they really 180 00:10:02,240 --> 00:10:03,679 Speaker 1: see a man. A matter of fact, I don't know 181 00:10:03,720 --> 00:10:06,520 Speaker 1: any man of that, dude, which lets me know you 182 00:10:06,600 --> 00:10:10,560 Speaker 1: have a boy, because I don't know any man who 183 00:10:10,679 --> 00:10:12,800 Speaker 1: do this. And you know I don't know any man 184 00:10:12,840 --> 00:10:15,240 Speaker 1: who do this, because at this age I don't hang 185 00:10:15,240 --> 00:10:20,160 Speaker 1: out with nobody but men. You gotta on your hand, 186 00:10:20,360 --> 00:10:23,640 Speaker 1: grown ass man that's taking care of families, were sacrificing 187 00:10:23,800 --> 00:10:27,480 Speaker 1: so our families can't have a life. Man, get out 188 00:10:27,480 --> 00:10:30,720 Speaker 1: of here. What are y'all tum on and putting up? 189 00:10:30,760 --> 00:10:33,079 Speaker 1: My mother in law wants me to talk to my 190 00:10:33,320 --> 00:10:38,079 Speaker 1: husband and tell him to stop mooching off of them. 191 00:10:38,200 --> 00:10:40,640 Speaker 1: I think it's their job to finish raising their sons. 192 00:10:40,679 --> 00:10:42,679 Speaker 1: Should I get into the middle of day problem? What 193 00:10:42,840 --> 00:10:44,880 Speaker 1: do you been in the middle of day problem? This 194 00:10:44,960 --> 00:10:48,400 Speaker 1: is your problem? This is your problem? Ain't they problem? 195 00:10:48,600 --> 00:10:50,960 Speaker 1: You ain't in the middle of day problem? You got 196 00:10:51,000 --> 00:10:58,040 Speaker 1: your own problem. What is the daddy doing? You said, parents? 197 00:10:58,800 --> 00:11:02,200 Speaker 1: Where where is his ass? Or is he in the 198 00:11:02,240 --> 00:11:05,960 Speaker 1: same position the boy? And maybe the boy is emmulating 199 00:11:06,080 --> 00:11:08,520 Speaker 1: his father. That's why the father ain't stepped in and 200 00:11:08,679 --> 00:11:14,559 Speaker 1: said nothing. He got this, He got this behavior from somewhere. 201 00:11:15,760 --> 00:11:18,720 Speaker 1: So the boy's mama been been baby in the daddy too. 202 00:11:19,760 --> 00:11:23,439 Speaker 1: Maybe the daddy saw I promise you I couldn't go 203 00:11:23,440 --> 00:11:31,120 Speaker 1: over Slick Harvey's house ask for a damn thing. Ye boy, boy, 204 00:11:31,200 --> 00:11:33,760 Speaker 1: you coming over here to eat lunch. What what? What 205 00:11:34,360 --> 00:11:39,560 Speaker 1: ain't you working? Yeah, daddy, where your money? I spend 206 00:11:39,600 --> 00:11:43,040 Speaker 1: it on two states? Well, yeah, you ain't gonna be 207 00:11:43,120 --> 00:11:47,600 Speaker 1: the steak no more here. I'm just telling you how 208 00:11:47,640 --> 00:11:50,000 Speaker 1: smooth it come stake when you go the off, didn't 209 00:11:50,000 --> 00:11:52,200 Speaker 1: started making some same which you're taking the work. You 210 00:11:52,240 --> 00:11:55,280 Speaker 1: can't come over here, boy, But man, your mama retired. 211 00:11:55,320 --> 00:11:59,040 Speaker 1: We even to come over here. You what, this doesn't 212 00:11:59,040 --> 00:12:03,560 Speaker 1: make any sense what you're saying. He's thirty four. You 213 00:12:03,800 --> 00:12:08,520 Speaker 1: and them enabled him. He acts like a child. You 214 00:12:08,640 --> 00:12:12,280 Speaker 1: all treating him like a child. Now, let me ask 215 00:12:12,280 --> 00:12:15,360 Speaker 1: you something in this whole letter between you, the writer 216 00:12:15,480 --> 00:12:20,200 Speaker 1: of the letter, your mama ended daddy as anybody thought 217 00:12:20,240 --> 00:12:25,000 Speaker 1: of mentioning manhood to him. But the only one can 218 00:12:25,040 --> 00:12:28,480 Speaker 1: tell him how to man act is his father. And 219 00:12:28,679 --> 00:12:32,000 Speaker 1: his father is solid, because I think he's duplicating with 220 00:12:32,120 --> 00:12:33,720 Speaker 1: his father did. But then you say they got a 221 00:12:33,720 --> 00:12:36,440 Speaker 1: lot of money and they both retired, so somebody did 222 00:12:36,520 --> 00:12:39,440 Speaker 1: something right in their family. Should I get in the 223 00:12:39,440 --> 00:12:41,960 Speaker 1: middle of the situation, girl, You in the middle of 224 00:12:42,000 --> 00:12:46,080 Speaker 1: your own mess. Look look what his mama told you. 225 00:12:47,160 --> 00:12:49,120 Speaker 1: She said, you got a problem on your hands. If 226 00:12:49,120 --> 00:12:52,640 Speaker 1: he don't stop spending, I leave, He's asked, that's what 227 00:12:57,800 --> 00:13:02,319 Speaker 1: fash He hardly provoked a divorce. Who it is up 228 00:13:02,320 --> 00:13:05,400 Speaker 1: on Instagram at Steve Harvey FM to comment on today's 229 00:13:05,440 --> 00:13:07,760 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. You can also check out the Strawberry Letter 230 00:13:07,840 --> 00:13:11,400 Speaker 1: podcast on demand. Coming up next it is Junior and 231 00:13:11,600 --> 00:13:15,520 Speaker 1: Sports Talk. Right after this, you're listening to the Stave 232 00:13:15,679 --> 00:13:16,640 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show