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Speaker 1: Once upon a time there was a good old traditional housewife,

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Speaker 2: She cleaned and cared for her children and the man

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Speaker 3: She was both obeed, hint and soft by nature.

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Speaker 4: She was a good woman who always made good choices.

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Speaker 2: We're good Mom's bad choices to single mom who said

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Speaker 2: fuck the patriarchy, shared all their bad choices and.

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Speaker 3: Sound out they were so bad.

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Speaker 5: After all, we're experts, overshares and your new besties.

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Speaker 3: Sit back and enjoy the ride.

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Speaker 6: I can do it. Welcome back to good Mom's bad Choices.

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Speaker 3: I'm Erica and I'm Nila. Happy Wednesday, Ages is Way's Day,

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Speaker 3: Beaches he Day. How that's so good?

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Speaker 6: How are you?

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Speaker 3: I'm good. I'm a sparkly shirt on I see New

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Speaker 2: I had this lingerie that I haven't pulled out in

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Speaker 6: Oh so I was giving both a little little feature.

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Speaker 3: Let me bring the titties out for the for the audience.

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Speaker 3: Love you all anyway, y'all. I'm excited.

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Speaker 2: We are actually if you are watching YouTube, you can

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Speaker 3: We are radio house studios and you know, shit, that

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Speaker 2: we know people, you know, because Easter is a real bitch. Okay,

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Speaker 3: We pull I pulled up and I said, okay, yeah.

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Speaker 6: The valley girls were like, oh, this is far from home.

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Speaker 6: Like, share, bring your ass home anything in the valleys

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Speaker 3: Anyway.

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Speaker 2: I'm so excited because we have a special guest you guys, today,

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Speaker 3: Show host actress Sanger, podcast host miss Jesse Woo woo.

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Speaker 3: Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 6: Jazz's up, sister, how are you you look beautiful?

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Speaker 1: I'm good, happy to be with y'all.

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Speaker 2: Yes, and we just did an episode her, so make

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Speaker 3: We had a lot of good conversations.

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Speaker 2: We talked about ping people's mouths, we talked about threesomes,

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Speaker 2: we talked about other mother wounds, all types of shit,

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Speaker 1: Yes, it was a very very good conversations. I'm excited

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Speaker 3: Bring it on.

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Speaker 6: Just a couple of things, not just.

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Speaker 3: Right, just a couple of things.

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Speaker 1: Is my podcast just a couple of things?

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Speaker 6: Very clever, just like vacations.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, vacations my trip that I take with my

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Speaker 2: And anyone who's our audience is for sure going to

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Speaker 3: I am not I would not go to subscribers at all.

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Speaker 1: No, it's it's like I feel like I've heard like

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Speaker 6: That's because Dominatrix just got big.

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Speaker 5: You know, we need maybe we need to call our

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Speaker 5: and right comments.

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Speaker 3: Good night, Jess, thank you for coming on our show.

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Speaker 3: Thanks for having me. All.

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Speaker 2: We do a segment on our show called bad Choice

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Speaker 2: of the week. Have you had any bad choices this week?

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Speaker 3: Bad mom?

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Speaker 4: Not a bad mom, but a bad mom.

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Speaker 3: I'm living. I had a long weekend and I didn't.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, baby, but he wanted some and I just

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Speaker 1: I made up for it. You overheard him on the

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Speaker 6: Man? A little morning head?

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Speaker 3: Or so? He said that thing you did this morning?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Well I don't tell us what the thing is

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Speaker 5: my books. That's the whole reason the friendship. Like what

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Speaker 1: Well, he I would just say this, he said the

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Speaker 3: I said, I know that's right. Literally, Oh my god,

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Speaker 3: us a little bit about you. Where is you from.

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Speaker 1: I'm from Day motherfucking County. I'm from Miami Dade County.

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Speaker 1: I'm not from Florida.

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Speaker 3: I am from Miami.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, I grew up in Miami. But I was

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Speaker 1: I'm a Canada passport, Yes I do.

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Speaker 1: And then like trying to be a journalist in Miami,

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Speaker 1: And then like I went to like this open and

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Speaker 1: BT executive was there.

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Speaker 1: Literally like she asked me, She's like, hey, I'm looking

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Speaker 3: A show that we have at BT Breaks. She's like,

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Speaker 6: And yes, I do everything.

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Speaker 1: Literally every time she asked me a question, I was

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Speaker 3: I love that you said that.

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Speaker 2: You said yes because I think a lot of times

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Speaker 2: Sort of later, Yeah, I think literally that is literally

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Speaker 2: the only reason maybe you are successful. Listen, we delied,

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Speaker 2: the denied. We lied our way to the time period.

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Speaker 5: Lie.

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Speaker 1: We lied a little bit like when I used to

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Speaker 1: work in corporate Do you know Excel? Yes, you know,

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Speaker 1: I was a copy and patient.

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Speaker 4: Bitch.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, no, no shit, I don't know what

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Speaker 2: Google's for in this day and age. You say yes

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Speaker 3: Well then you talk back and they be like I

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Speaker 2: Like do you guys communicate it all? And like growing up?

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Speaker 3: Oh, you're you're horrible. You're you're horrible. You're supposed to give.

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Speaker 3: I can't thank you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: What parenting? Did you get?

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Speaker 7: Well?

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Speaker 3: Your siblings have a similar experience of you.

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Speaker 1: And we all said Jeremy and Unison, like we all said,

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Speaker 3: I mean, I pick up your brother from school, Go

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Speaker 6: You didn't do it. If you didn't clean the house,

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Speaker 1: signs of a lot of talent, like very very early,

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00:19:27,920 --> 00:19:30,879
Speaker 1: and none of that was invested in. But then I

443
00:19:30,920 --> 00:19:35,240
Speaker 1: saw other children be invested in. And but then what's

444
00:19:35,320 --> 00:19:39,560
Speaker 1: crazy is if you look at all of us, the

445
00:19:39,720 --> 00:19:43,800
Speaker 1: children that got the most ended up doing the least.

446
00:19:44,119 --> 00:19:46,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, because they've never had some they didn't have to,

447
00:19:46,600 --> 00:19:48,000
Speaker 2: ended up doing the least.

448
00:19:48,480 --> 00:19:50,520
Speaker 3: I remember when I went and got my masters, Jeremy was.

449
00:19:50,520 --> 00:19:53,640
Speaker 1: Like, damn, Jess, we don't see you master some She yes,

450
00:19:54,040 --> 00:19:56,240
Speaker 1: you know, And I can't tell you one degree that

451
00:19:56,280 --> 00:19:59,359
Speaker 1: my siblings have, but they saw me do everything, and

452
00:19:59,359 --> 00:20:02,679
Speaker 1: then they even see what I'm doing now, and I mean,

453
00:20:02,720 --> 00:20:04,240
Speaker 1: I've always just figured it out.

454
00:20:04,280 --> 00:20:05,679
Speaker 3: I was like that, I just was.

455
00:20:06,040 --> 00:20:07,879
Speaker 1: I feel like I was that child that was that

456
00:20:07,920 --> 00:20:10,359
Speaker 1: baby that was just thrown in water and I just

457
00:20:10,400 --> 00:20:14,120
Speaker 1: had to like swim and everybody else was.

458
00:20:14,080 --> 00:20:15,920
Speaker 3: Like, okayh go paddle board and here go.

459
00:20:16,080 --> 00:20:18,520
Speaker 1: And I'm like, damn, y'all got it easier and I

460
00:20:18,560 --> 00:20:20,680
Speaker 1: had it the worst and I've done the most.

461
00:20:20,720 --> 00:20:22,600
Speaker 2: So do you think that some of that is because

462
00:20:22,600 --> 00:20:25,520
Speaker 2: of a you had to be resourceful and be maybe

463
00:20:25,560 --> 00:20:28,760
Speaker 2: perhaps there was like a need to impress. Was there

464
00:20:28,760 --> 00:20:31,320
Speaker 2: any was there like a want to impress your mother,

465
00:20:31,359 --> 00:20:33,560
Speaker 2: where they didn't have to do that because it was

466
00:20:33,600 --> 00:20:35,480
Speaker 2: already kind of given to them.

467
00:20:36,640 --> 00:20:36,920
Speaker 6: Hmm.

468
00:20:39,320 --> 00:20:40,920
Speaker 1: I don't know if it was a want to impress.

469
00:20:40,920 --> 00:20:44,840
Speaker 1: I had no choice, like I'm Haitian, like I had

470
00:20:44,880 --> 00:20:49,600
Speaker 1: like Haitian women, Haitian girls, you have no choice. You

471
00:20:49,840 --> 00:20:54,000
Speaker 1: have to be successful, like there's no choice, and like

472
00:20:54,080 --> 00:20:58,160
Speaker 1: in a Haitian household, I think that the girls are raised,

473
00:20:58,320 --> 00:21:03,040
Speaker 1: the boys are loved, Like it's a very different dynamic.

474
00:21:03,200 --> 00:21:06,640
Speaker 1: Every now and then you'll see a mother that's more

475
00:21:06,760 --> 00:21:08,760
Speaker 1: loving or you know, with her daughter, But most of

476
00:21:08,800 --> 00:21:12,440
Speaker 1: the time it's like I think that in the Haitian culture,

477
00:21:12,840 --> 00:21:17,600
Speaker 1: women are raised to be prepared for a very tough world,

478
00:21:17,800 --> 00:21:18,760
Speaker 1: and that's what my mom did.

479
00:21:18,880 --> 00:21:20,159
Speaker 3: I'm very thankful to her.

480
00:21:20,080 --> 00:21:23,800
Speaker 1: For that because the things I experienced with her, I

481
00:21:23,840 --> 00:21:26,440
Speaker 1: think she definitely got me ready for this mago world

482
00:21:26,480 --> 00:21:28,840
Speaker 1: we ain right now, Like she got me ready for that,

483
00:21:29,040 --> 00:21:32,400
Speaker 1: and I feel like I will always soar Like there's

484
00:21:32,400 --> 00:21:34,359
Speaker 1: been times in life that I've lost everything and I'm like,

485
00:21:34,440 --> 00:21:36,160
Speaker 1: it's okay, because I'm going to get it all back

486
00:21:36,200 --> 00:21:39,040
Speaker 1: plus more because I feel like that's how she raised me.

487
00:21:40,440 --> 00:21:43,840
Speaker 1: But yeah, I just feel like that's just kind of

488
00:21:43,880 --> 00:21:47,120
Speaker 1: like the nature of raising the girl versus the boy.

489
00:21:47,640 --> 00:21:49,600
Speaker 5: You having this conversation with you, it just makes me

490
00:21:49,640 --> 00:21:53,800
Speaker 5: realize like the protection, Like just thinking about the backlash

491
00:21:53,840 --> 00:21:56,360
Speaker 5: that Sunflower got in our show, the backlash that you've

492
00:21:56,359 --> 00:22:00,520
Speaker 5: gotten for saying that out loud. Even my husband fiance

493
00:22:00,840 --> 00:22:04,000
Speaker 5: doesn't contact his mom and I was with my mom

494
00:22:04,080 --> 00:22:06,200
Speaker 5: and her friend, and I like mention that and like,

495
00:22:06,200 --> 00:22:08,399
Speaker 5: I'm in a really healthy relationship. I'm really happy, and

496
00:22:08,440 --> 00:22:09,879
Speaker 5: like she's like houses like she was his mom, Like

497
00:22:09,880 --> 00:22:11,399
Speaker 5: he doesn't talk to her, and they're like, oh, like

498
00:22:11,440 --> 00:22:11,840
Speaker 5: you need to.

499
00:22:11,760 --> 00:22:12,320
Speaker 6: Worry about that.

500
00:22:12,359 --> 00:22:15,320
Speaker 5: You need to you know, and I and I and honestly,

501
00:22:15,359 --> 00:22:17,360
Speaker 5: prior to this relationship, I would think the same thing

502
00:22:17,440 --> 00:22:20,360
Speaker 5: because even for me, I've had very up and down

503
00:22:20,400 --> 00:22:22,160
Speaker 5: relationship with my mom and there's been times where I've

504
00:22:22,200 --> 00:22:24,760
Speaker 5: taken a big step back and taken like months off,

505
00:22:24,840 --> 00:22:27,800
Speaker 5: Like so, I'm gonna let you deal with you because bitch,

506
00:22:27,800 --> 00:22:29,200
Speaker 5: you're talking to me like a bitch on the street

507
00:22:29,359 --> 00:22:33,000
Speaker 5: and this is not gonna work. But never being like

508
00:22:33,080 --> 00:22:35,600
Speaker 5: I will cut you off completely, I've never been there

509
00:22:35,840 --> 00:22:39,000
Speaker 5: because I'm a cancer. I'm gonna always forgive I'm not

510
00:22:39,000 --> 00:22:42,120
Speaker 5: gonna forget, though, but I do. Even yesterday I went

511
00:22:42,119 --> 00:22:44,480
Speaker 5: to Mother's Day lunch and I brought up something about

512
00:22:44,520 --> 00:22:50,000
Speaker 5: my childhood and just like, no, that didn't happen. And

513
00:22:50,040 --> 00:22:52,400
Speaker 5: I'm like, I've already learned like not to have these conversations.

514
00:22:52,440 --> 00:22:55,280
Speaker 5: But I do think that there is a huge level

515
00:22:55,359 --> 00:22:59,919
Speaker 5: of lack of accountability for mothers because we do do

516
00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:02,800
Speaker 5: so much because we birth, because we raised, because we sacrifice,

517
00:23:03,040 --> 00:23:05,480
Speaker 5: because we're trying to figure it out most of the time.

518
00:23:05,560 --> 00:23:09,200
Speaker 5: Like there is this I see with my parent, that

519
00:23:09,400 --> 00:23:12,560
Speaker 5: there is just complete lack of accountability, like you are

520
00:23:12,560 --> 00:23:15,480
Speaker 5: not even listening to shit I have to say, Like specifically,

521
00:23:15,480 --> 00:23:16,720
Speaker 5: one time I was telling her, like I had an

522
00:23:16,720 --> 00:23:18,760
Speaker 5: abortion in high school and I didn't tell her.

523
00:23:18,760 --> 00:23:19,880
Speaker 6: I tried not to tell her, but.

524
00:23:19,840 --> 00:23:22,159
Speaker 5: The school called and told them that I missed school.

525
00:23:22,560 --> 00:23:24,040
Speaker 6: So this she had to end up picking me up

526
00:23:24,040 --> 00:23:24,960
Speaker 6: from planned parenthood.

527
00:23:25,160 --> 00:23:27,760
Speaker 1: Lord, and you didn't catch a bus or nothing. Girl,

528
00:23:28,240 --> 00:23:32,439
Speaker 1: I was fucking anesthesia out, Lord have mercy, So she

529
00:23:32,600 --> 00:23:33,080
Speaker 1: picked me up.

530
00:23:33,160 --> 00:23:33,320
Speaker 6: Child.

531
00:23:33,359 --> 00:23:34,520
Speaker 5: I was not expecting to picking me up there my

532
00:23:34,560 --> 00:23:36,320
Speaker 5: homegirls and pick me up. But all this had happened

533
00:23:36,320 --> 00:23:38,760
Speaker 5: while I was in the fucking planned parenthood all day

534
00:23:39,440 --> 00:23:41,639
Speaker 5: and she called she I remember, she picked me up

535
00:23:41,680 --> 00:23:44,239
Speaker 5: and cursed me out all the way home and was like,

536
00:23:45,560 --> 00:23:47,280
Speaker 5: basically like, you threw your baby in the trash.

537
00:23:47,359 --> 00:23:49,439
Speaker 6: You'll probably kill me for repeating this, but it's the truth.

538
00:23:49,520 --> 00:23:51,520
Speaker 5: Yeah, And I brought it up one time and she

539
00:23:51,600 --> 00:23:54,119
Speaker 5: was just like, I didn't say that, And I'm like, bitch,

540
00:23:54,240 --> 00:23:55,879
Speaker 5: you think I would make How the fuck would I

541
00:23:55,920 --> 00:23:59,919
Speaker 5: remember this particular line right fucking twenty years later, And

542
00:24:00,160 --> 00:24:02,359
Speaker 5: so even last night, it was something stupid about like

543
00:24:02,400 --> 00:24:04,399
Speaker 5: how much I was in that like how much I

544
00:24:04,480 --> 00:24:07,399
Speaker 5: was the oldest kid and did so much around the house.

545
00:24:08,119 --> 00:24:10,160
Speaker 6: It's like, no, you didn't I cleaned your room. I'm like, girl,

546
00:24:10,200 --> 00:24:12,679
Speaker 6: what the fuck are you talking about? But I realized,

547
00:24:12,720 --> 00:24:14,160
Speaker 6: I'm like, we.

548
00:24:14,680 --> 00:24:18,359
Speaker 5: Give moms a level of like delusion. We allow mothers

549
00:24:18,400 --> 00:24:20,199
Speaker 5: to have a level of delusion that allows them to

550
00:24:20,280 --> 00:24:23,000
Speaker 5: live in this fucking world they made up. And even

551
00:24:23,040 --> 00:24:25,240
Speaker 5: as a mom, I recognize that, like, there's going to

552
00:24:25,280 --> 00:24:27,680
Speaker 5: require for me to take accountability in the way that

553
00:24:27,720 --> 00:24:29,560
Speaker 5: I parent, And when I have another kid, I'm gonna

554
00:24:29,560 --> 00:24:31,280
Speaker 5: be a different parent because I'm in a different position.

555
00:24:31,359 --> 00:24:33,760
Speaker 5: I'm a different person I'm a different relationship, and like

556
00:24:34,040 --> 00:24:36,560
Speaker 5: there is such a like I think as mothers and

557
00:24:36,600 --> 00:24:39,320
Speaker 5: as as we're having this conversation, it's important, like no

558
00:24:39,359 --> 00:24:41,000
Speaker 5: matter where you're at in the stage, even if you're

559
00:24:41,480 --> 00:24:44,479
Speaker 5: fifty eight, mom, like it takes like listen to your

560
00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:46,959
Speaker 5: child and take accountability.

561
00:24:46,400 --> 00:24:47,600
Speaker 6: And say, like I fucked up.

562
00:24:48,160 --> 00:24:50,840
Speaker 5: It's okay if you're not a perfect mom, because we

563
00:24:50,920 --> 00:24:53,240
Speaker 5: don't have the blueprint, we don't have the rule book.

564
00:24:53,280 --> 00:24:55,520
Speaker 5: We don't fucking know what we're doing, and a lot

565
00:24:55,520 --> 00:24:57,480
Speaker 5: of us are making this shit up, and so if

566
00:24:57,520 --> 00:24:58,320
Speaker 5: you fuck up.

567
00:24:58,240 --> 00:24:58,880
Speaker 6: It's okay.

568
00:24:59,240 --> 00:25:01,919
Speaker 5: But please, for the love of God, listen to the

569
00:25:01,960 --> 00:25:05,720
Speaker 5: experience your kids have to take acknowledgment and be like, damn,

570
00:25:05,760 --> 00:25:07,760
Speaker 5: maybe I was fucked up in these places, maybe I

571
00:25:07,880 --> 00:25:09,320
Speaker 5: was hurting and that I couldn't.

572
00:25:09,000 --> 00:25:11,879
Speaker 6: Give you this, so that you're not fucking gaslighting me.

573
00:25:11,960 --> 00:25:14,359
Speaker 5: And then I'm not resentful and annoyed because immediately that

574
00:25:14,359 --> 00:25:16,160
Speaker 5: conversation started and I was like, I just I've learned

575
00:25:16,160 --> 00:25:16,879
Speaker 5: to just shut the fuck up.

576
00:25:16,880 --> 00:25:17,720
Speaker 6: I'll just look at you.

577
00:25:17,840 --> 00:25:20,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I really just check out too.

578
00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:23,119
Speaker 5: Yeah, Like, especially black people, like there's this undying loyalty

579
00:25:23,119 --> 00:25:25,040
Speaker 5: to mothers like you can abuse me, you could hurt me,

580
00:25:25,040 --> 00:25:27,080
Speaker 5: you could talk crazy to me, and I'm supposed to

581
00:25:27,119 --> 00:25:29,280
Speaker 5: just love you and not fucking talk about it. And

582
00:25:29,320 --> 00:25:31,359
Speaker 5: I think that kind of prepares when you do that

583
00:25:31,400 --> 00:25:34,800
Speaker 5: to your kids, it preps them, without your knowing subconsciously,

584
00:25:35,080 --> 00:25:37,320
Speaker 5: to be in like violent relationships.

585
00:25:37,400 --> 00:25:37,600
Speaker 6: Yep.

586
00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:41,280
Speaker 5: And then you're true, you accept gas lighting from relationships

587
00:25:41,320 --> 00:25:42,960
Speaker 5: and lovers that you're with because you're like, my mom

588
00:25:42,960 --> 00:25:43,680
Speaker 5: lies to me all the time.

589
00:25:43,680 --> 00:25:44,080
Speaker 6: It's fine.

590
00:25:44,520 --> 00:25:47,840
Speaker 2: How would you say your relationships have been influenced by

591
00:25:47,840 --> 00:25:51,280
Speaker 2: the way you were loved by your mother? I mean,

592
00:25:51,400 --> 00:25:55,920
Speaker 2: I haven't really had many relationships, and maybe that's why

593
00:25:57,119 --> 00:26:00,920
Speaker 2: I had a lot of situationships and you know, situation

594
00:26:01,040 --> 00:26:02,480
Speaker 2: that almost became relationships.

595
00:26:02,640 --> 00:26:06,200
Speaker 3: But I will say I call him mister Eastern.

596
00:26:06,240 --> 00:26:08,879
Speaker 1: But Jay, when he met my mother for the first

597
00:26:09,000 --> 00:26:13,679
Speaker 1: time last year, he was so nervous and he and

598
00:26:13,880 --> 00:26:16,040
Speaker 1: I just I had not told him a lot because

599
00:26:16,080 --> 00:26:21,120
Speaker 1: it's like, you know, he has he has his mother wounds,

600
00:26:21,160 --> 00:26:24,560
Speaker 1: but him and his mom have such a healthy relationship.

601
00:26:24,640 --> 00:26:28,880
Speaker 1: His mother actually has validated a lot of his feelings

602
00:26:28,920 --> 00:26:29,280
Speaker 1: and stuff.

603
00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:30,960
Speaker 3: And I'm like, damn, I wish I had that.

604
00:26:31,560 --> 00:26:35,240
Speaker 1: But then like we meet for a brunch and my

605
00:26:35,400 --> 00:26:38,239
Speaker 1: mom looked at him, and you know, we sat down

606
00:26:38,320 --> 00:26:40,880
Speaker 1: and she just burst into tears.

607
00:26:40,920 --> 00:26:42,880
Speaker 3: Like he asked her, He's like.

608
00:26:42,840 --> 00:26:46,240
Speaker 1: Can you tell me about He's so inquisitive. My man

609
00:26:46,400 --> 00:26:48,760
Speaker 1: loves he loves to ask you questions.

610
00:26:48,800 --> 00:26:50,560
Speaker 3: He loves to talk. He wants to understand.

611
00:26:50,720 --> 00:26:52,920
Speaker 1: He's like, so tell me about Jesse. Tell me about Jess,

612
00:26:52,920 --> 00:26:55,040
Speaker 1: Like how was she growing up? And how's and like

613
00:26:55,080 --> 00:26:56,760
Speaker 1: my mom is like two words in and then she's

614
00:26:56,800 --> 00:26:59,640
Speaker 1: just like burst into tears. Like I'm like, I'm trying

615
00:26:59,640 --> 00:27:01,200
Speaker 1: to have chicken and waffles.

616
00:27:01,240 --> 00:27:03,720
Speaker 3: What's going on? Like you know what I mean? Mimosas

617
00:27:03,800 --> 00:27:04,720
Speaker 3: is flawing, what's happened?

618
00:27:04,760 --> 00:27:08,400
Speaker 1: She usually that emotional, My mom's emotional, but not like that,

619
00:27:08,520 --> 00:27:11,040
Speaker 1: Like she burst into tears and then she was just

620
00:27:11,560 --> 00:27:16,960
Speaker 1: I'm paraphrasing, but she was saying that I made a

621
00:27:17,000 --> 00:27:18,800
Speaker 1: lot of mistakes with you. I'm just perfect. But she's

622
00:27:18,840 --> 00:27:20,399
Speaker 1: like I made a lot of mistakes with her. I

623
00:27:20,440 --> 00:27:23,080
Speaker 1: made a lot of mistakes with her, and like she

624
00:27:23,320 --> 00:27:25,040
Speaker 1: just was like letting it all out with him, and

625
00:27:25,080 --> 00:27:27,360
Speaker 1: I just remember being so upset. I'm like, you ain't

626
00:27:27,400 --> 00:27:30,359
Speaker 1: never said this to me, You've never said this to me,

627
00:27:30,920 --> 00:27:31,960
Speaker 1: So why are you saying.

628
00:27:31,760 --> 00:27:34,800
Speaker 3: It to him? Like you're looking at him and it's like.

629
00:27:34,840 --> 00:27:40,040
Speaker 1: I did this and I did that, and it's like, girl.

630
00:27:40,359 --> 00:27:44,639
Speaker 3: You just met this man. I'm fifty seven and you

631
00:27:44,680 --> 00:27:46,920
Speaker 3: ain't never said this shit to me, you know what

632
00:27:46,960 --> 00:27:49,760
Speaker 3: I mean. Like, so it's just like I know it's

633
00:27:49,800 --> 00:27:50,200
Speaker 3: in there.

634
00:27:50,600 --> 00:27:53,320
Speaker 1: I know you have it in there, but for whatever

635
00:27:53,359 --> 00:27:56,439
Speaker 1: the reason, you haven't said that to me. And until

636
00:27:56,480 --> 00:27:59,479
Speaker 1: you say it to me, I can't accept it. I

637
00:27:59,520 --> 00:28:03,080
Speaker 1: can't really lease that. Like I in my mind like

638
00:28:03,119 --> 00:28:06,040
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be I don't hate my mother like

639
00:28:06,119 --> 00:28:09,240
Speaker 1: I love my mother, but I feel like my feelings

640
00:28:09,240 --> 00:28:12,840
Speaker 1: are valid and just like you said, it's like it's

641
00:28:12,840 --> 00:28:14,840
Speaker 1: this thing of well this, this didn't happen like this,

642
00:28:15,560 --> 00:28:16,480
Speaker 1: what about what you did?

643
00:28:16,560 --> 00:28:17,200
Speaker 3: Because you did.

644
00:28:17,800 --> 00:28:20,800
Speaker 1: So it's just like until then, I don't I have

645
00:28:20,880 --> 00:28:23,920
Speaker 1: to kind of just express myself how I can, which

646
00:28:23,960 --> 00:28:27,240
Speaker 1: is whether it's a therapist. But also when I introduce

647
00:28:27,280 --> 00:28:30,120
Speaker 1: that conversation, I'm like, dang, it's a lot of girls

648
00:28:30,119 --> 00:28:32,640
Speaker 1: out there. Who's a lot of women out there who

649
00:28:32,680 --> 00:28:35,080
Speaker 1: have mother wounds who want to talk about it. I'm like,

650
00:28:35,240 --> 00:28:38,120
Speaker 1: maybe maybe I can create that safe place I don't know.

651
00:28:38,800 --> 00:28:42,200
Speaker 1: Maybe I'll go on to a mother wound's tools, do

652
00:28:42,320 --> 00:28:46,480
Speaker 1: a mother wound's retreat like something, because I feel like

653
00:28:46,520 --> 00:28:48,200
Speaker 1: a lot of women have that. And it's not that

654
00:28:48,240 --> 00:28:50,360
Speaker 1: we hate our mothers. It's not that we don't like

655
00:28:50,440 --> 00:28:52,200
Speaker 1: our mother's it's not that we want to see our

656
00:28:52,200 --> 00:28:56,040
Speaker 1: mothers dead like no, it's that like we have wounds

657
00:28:56,040 --> 00:28:57,960
Speaker 1: that we want to release and we want to heal from,

658
00:28:58,000 --> 00:28:59,840
Speaker 1: and we don't want to pass that on to our daughters.

659
00:29:00,240 --> 00:29:06,560
Speaker 1: My biggest fear in life is having kids and them

660
00:29:06,640 --> 00:29:07,479
Speaker 1: hating my guts.

661
00:29:08,400 --> 00:29:10,000
Speaker 3: Seriously, Well, I think.

662
00:29:09,960 --> 00:29:13,600
Speaker 2: Just knowing being that self aware is already you're combating that,

663
00:29:13,800 --> 00:29:16,800
Speaker 2: even that that possibility even happening. I think people like,

664
00:29:17,160 --> 00:29:20,479
Speaker 2: if you can't even acknowledge the things that have happened

665
00:29:20,480 --> 00:29:22,240
Speaker 2: to you or the way that your mother has, then

666
00:29:22,280 --> 00:29:25,120
Speaker 2: there's then of course you're gonna keep passing keep passing

667
00:29:25,160 --> 00:29:27,360
Speaker 2: it on. Yeah, yeah, so I think And I feel

668
00:29:27,440 --> 00:29:29,200
Speaker 2: bad too, even like going back to my man, like

669
00:29:30,200 --> 00:29:33,040
Speaker 2: he wants that whole, you know, So I hope we

670
00:29:33,080 --> 00:29:35,880
Speaker 2: can get to that, Like when we're around each other,

671
00:29:35,920 --> 00:29:38,920
Speaker 2: it's great, but it's just like I can.

672
00:29:38,840 --> 00:29:41,520
Speaker 1: Only do certain things for so long. Like it's like, Okay,

673
00:29:41,560 --> 00:29:44,720
Speaker 1: we there's a conversation that needs to happen, and there's

674
00:29:44,760 --> 00:29:47,240
Speaker 1: a way it has to happen. And if it don't

675
00:29:47,280 --> 00:29:50,800
Speaker 1: happen like that, I can't move forward in a way

676
00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:54,640
Speaker 1: I want to move forward to. But until then, we

677
00:29:55,320 --> 00:29:56,000
Speaker 1: come on down.

678
00:29:56,160 --> 00:29:58,080
Speaker 5: We can have you no mimosas we can't have chicken

679
00:29:58,080 --> 00:30:03,920
Speaker 5: and while phones and we an hour and thirty minutes. Yeah, right,

680
00:30:04,080 --> 00:30:06,880
Speaker 5: so yeah, And also I think we're also in a

681
00:30:07,040 --> 00:30:09,200
Speaker 5: in an era where we have been given you know,

682
00:30:09,240 --> 00:30:10,480
Speaker 5: with the internet makes.

683
00:30:10,400 --> 00:30:11,000
Speaker 3: Us sound so old.

684
00:30:11,040 --> 00:30:13,520
Speaker 5: You know, we got the internet right with the Internet

685
00:30:13,520 --> 00:30:20,160
Speaker 5: and technology right Microsoft word that is, we have we

686
00:30:20,240 --> 00:30:23,920
Speaker 5: have access to understanding and like to work to language

687
00:30:24,320 --> 00:30:27,840
Speaker 5: that like makes us gives us like perspective into our childhoods,

688
00:30:27,840 --> 00:30:29,719
Speaker 5: Like that wasn't normal.

689
00:30:29,960 --> 00:30:30,280
Speaker 3: Right.

690
00:30:30,840 --> 00:30:32,600
Speaker 5: I watched a lot of family matters and she never

691
00:30:32,600 --> 00:30:34,640
Speaker 5: said that to her, do, right, you know what I mean? Like,

692
00:30:34,840 --> 00:30:36,800
Speaker 5: there's a lot And we're also in the era of

693
00:30:36,840 --> 00:30:39,560
Speaker 5: like speaking about it, talking about it being a wound,

694
00:30:39,640 --> 00:30:42,920
Speaker 5: and like talking about therapy, talking about mental health, talking

695
00:30:42,920 --> 00:30:45,920
Speaker 5: about going to a fucking retreat. And even in our

696
00:30:46,000 --> 00:30:49,160
Speaker 5: like really retreat business, we've seen a few mom and

697
00:30:49,280 --> 00:30:52,240
Speaker 5: daughters come together really and it's been really healing just

698
00:30:52,240 --> 00:30:54,920
Speaker 5: to observe and just the fact that they're willing to

699
00:30:55,000 --> 00:30:57,840
Speaker 5: do that and be vulnerable with their kids in adulthood.

700
00:30:57,840 --> 00:30:59,720
Speaker 5: Because I was thinking about what you said, and I realized, like,

701
00:30:59,760 --> 00:31:04,160
Speaker 5: even with me, to my mom, I there's certain relationships,

702
00:31:04,160 --> 00:31:06,320
Speaker 5: there's certain things that I can be really kind hearted

703
00:31:06,360 --> 00:31:08,200
Speaker 5: and warm and soft with people that I don't know

704
00:31:08,280 --> 00:31:08,680
Speaker 5: very well.

705
00:31:09,080 --> 00:31:10,640
Speaker 6: But when it comes to my own family, like I.

706
00:31:10,640 --> 00:31:13,600
Speaker 5: Support people, I support women all year long, but then

707
00:31:13,640 --> 00:31:16,320
Speaker 5: becames to my mom, I'm like, yeah, because you got

708
00:31:16,320 --> 00:31:19,000
Speaker 5: that wound. Yeah, and it hurts too much. It's too

709
00:31:19,240 --> 00:31:22,120
Speaker 5: it's too much. I can't show up like sometimes I do.

710
00:31:22,160 --> 00:31:25,360
Speaker 5: Maybe if I smoke a joint first, I'm like, oh

711
00:31:25,360 --> 00:31:25,920
Speaker 5: my god, I love you.

712
00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:27,640
Speaker 1: It's okay, you know, but I think I'm gonna start

713
00:31:27,640 --> 00:31:29,760
Speaker 1: doing a little crack with my daddy. Maybe maybe I'll

714
00:31:29,760 --> 00:31:31,560
Speaker 1: do a little cracked first.

715
00:31:32,200 --> 00:31:38,280
Speaker 5: It's just a little pink Molly.

716
00:31:36,720 --> 00:31:38,400
Speaker 3: Little pink crack that they were talking about in the

717
00:31:38,400 --> 00:31:38,920
Speaker 3: Diddy Trip.

718
00:31:38,960 --> 00:31:39,480
Speaker 1: Maybe I could.

719
00:31:39,600 --> 00:31:40,320
Speaker 3: That's Allercy.

720
00:31:40,440 --> 00:31:42,600
Speaker 6: Don't do that, Oh, don't do it, Okay, I did

721
00:31:42,600 --> 00:31:48,560
Speaker 6: that once. Not pink cracker. Not the pink crack, don't

722
00:31:48,560 --> 00:31:50,040
Speaker 6: do it, don't do it.

723
00:31:50,360 --> 00:31:52,920
Speaker 1: No, but also too, and just one last thing I

724
00:31:52,920 --> 00:31:56,520
Speaker 1: want to say too, is I hate when like people

725
00:31:56,600 --> 00:31:59,200
Speaker 1: share like parent wounds or mother wounds and it's like,

726
00:31:59,560 --> 00:31:59,920
Speaker 1: but you.

727
00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:01,560
Speaker 6: Only got one mama.

728
00:32:01,760 --> 00:32:05,160
Speaker 1: I know, I know, I came out of one Kouchie,

729
00:32:05,320 --> 00:32:10,040
Speaker 1: I know that, but still, like I still want to

730
00:32:10,080 --> 00:32:12,360
Speaker 1: be able to either talk about.

731
00:32:12,120 --> 00:32:14,520
Speaker 3: These feelings or be able to resolve them.

732
00:32:14,760 --> 00:32:18,160
Speaker 1: And again, like there are spaces that need to be

733
00:32:18,200 --> 00:32:21,000
Speaker 1: held for other people, Like you'd be surprised, Like how

734
00:32:21,080 --> 00:32:23,440
Speaker 1: y'all said, Like you'll be surprised stuff that you guys.

735
00:32:23,240 --> 00:32:24,240
Speaker 3: Share on your podcast.

736
00:32:24,720 --> 00:32:26,680
Speaker 1: Y'all are out here freeing bitches, like you know what

737
00:32:26,720 --> 00:32:29,480
Speaker 1: I mean. Like I want to free bitches too from

738
00:32:29,480 --> 00:32:32,400
Speaker 1: like whatever wounds they have, like and let people know

739
00:32:32,440 --> 00:32:35,040
Speaker 1: like you're not by yourself, Like well.

740
00:32:34,920 --> 00:32:37,160
Speaker 2: I think too, Like we're always talking about just like

741
00:32:37,800 --> 00:32:41,520
Speaker 2: childhood and everything goes back to childhood, So how the

742
00:32:41,560 --> 00:32:44,240
Speaker 2: fuck am I supposed to heal if I'm not allowed

743
00:32:44,640 --> 00:32:48,480
Speaker 2: to talk about the darkest parts of my childhood.

744
00:32:48,520 --> 00:32:52,160
Speaker 3: And sometimes it is the mom. So yeah, we're used

745
00:32:52,200 --> 00:32:52,640
Speaker 3: to the dad.

746
00:32:52,800 --> 00:32:57,680
Speaker 2: Like yeah, it's like for the women specifically, but the mother.

747
00:32:57,800 --> 00:32:59,400
Speaker 2: Thing is like, oh that's the whold.

748
00:32:59,160 --> 00:33:01,200
Speaker 3: Wo wo wo? Right, but who took care of you?

749
00:33:01,200 --> 00:33:02,920
Speaker 3: You alive? She pushed you out her pussy?

750
00:33:03,280 --> 00:33:04,560
Speaker 6: But did you guys to be grateful?

751
00:33:05,880 --> 00:33:07,320
Speaker 3: Bills was always were you hungry?

752
00:33:07,520 --> 00:33:07,680
Speaker 4: Right?

753
00:33:08,440 --> 00:33:11,560
Speaker 3: If you was your daddy there? Right? What you say

754
00:33:11,600 --> 00:33:14,000
Speaker 3: to his ass? Right? Like you can't have no qualms.

755
00:33:13,720 --> 00:33:15,400
Speaker 5: With this, with this bitch, because this nigga did the

756
00:33:15,400 --> 00:33:16,560
Speaker 5: worst of the worst of the worst.

757
00:33:16,640 --> 00:33:18,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know it's crazy too.

758
00:33:18,480 --> 00:33:19,640
Speaker 3: I'm sorry. Just one last thing.

759
00:33:20,440 --> 00:33:23,280
Speaker 1: Mister Easton met my daddy, right, and he meets my

760
00:33:23,400 --> 00:33:26,680
Speaker 1: dad and he says the same thing, So tell me

761
00:33:26,680 --> 00:33:27,760
Speaker 1: about Jessica growing up?

762
00:33:27,840 --> 00:33:29,200
Speaker 3: Mind you. I told my.

763
00:33:29,280 --> 00:33:31,360
Speaker 1: Man my dad was hardly there, but I don't know

764
00:33:31,360 --> 00:33:33,920
Speaker 1: if he was so excited to meet my father.

765
00:33:34,000 --> 00:33:36,320
Speaker 3: So he's like, tell me about Jessica. How was she grown?

766
00:33:36,520 --> 00:33:40,600
Speaker 1: And my dad starts lying through his body, Oh, she

767
00:33:40,800 --> 00:33:43,479
Speaker 1: was such a good daughter and she was so smart.

768
00:33:43,600 --> 00:33:48,120
Speaker 1: And I said, that's why I went.

769
00:33:48,760 --> 00:33:52,400
Speaker 3: I was like, nigga, you were not there. He's like

770
00:33:52,520 --> 00:33:56,760
Speaker 3: almost choked. It's like, wait a minute, I thought we

771
00:33:56,760 --> 00:34:01,040
Speaker 3: was protecting a good time. Why would you ruin this moment?

772
00:34:01,080 --> 00:34:01,920
Speaker 3: Are you gonna ruin this.

773
00:34:01,880 --> 00:34:04,480
Speaker 6: Moment, Yes I am, but the truth weren't there.

774
00:34:04,640 --> 00:34:05,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, crazy.

775
00:34:05,520 --> 00:34:07,520
Speaker 6: Did he react negatively after he said that.

776
00:34:07,560 --> 00:34:11,080
Speaker 3: He No, damn well, he was a damn ball. How

777
00:34:11,160 --> 00:34:14,239
Speaker 3: daddy doing now? Is he has? He's fine, he looks good.

778
00:34:14,360 --> 00:34:17,240
Speaker 1: He got him a white girlfriend. White women love Haitia

779
00:34:17,280 --> 00:34:20,279
Speaker 1: Man in Canada. So my daddy all one thing about him.

780
00:34:20,760 --> 00:34:23,239
Speaker 1: He always gonna have something to fall back on, and

781
00:34:23,280 --> 00:34:28,520
Speaker 1: that's white women. That's white women.

782
00:34:28,600 --> 00:34:32,399
Speaker 5: Okay, that's so interesting, you know because my mom growing

783
00:34:32,520 --> 00:34:35,000
Speaker 5: up used to tell me that, uh, my dad like

784
00:34:35,040 --> 00:34:36,040
Speaker 5: Asian women, and he does.

785
00:34:36,080 --> 00:34:37,680
Speaker 6: My mom has very chinky eyes. I don't know if

786
00:34:37,680 --> 00:34:38,239
Speaker 6: I'm supposed to.

787
00:34:38,200 --> 00:34:40,600
Speaker 1: Say that, if that's I've been told that I have.

788
00:34:40,920 --> 00:34:42,800
Speaker 6: Chinky eyes, I don't think chinky were supposed to say that.

789
00:34:42,840 --> 00:34:45,319
Speaker 3: But okay, I'm sorry, you know, I'm sorry. No Asian hate.

790
00:34:45,320 --> 00:34:47,080
Speaker 3: And I mean, but my mom he was.

791
00:34:47,120 --> 00:34:49,440
Speaker 5: Like cheat with Asian women, and she would fucking hate

792
00:34:49,480 --> 00:34:52,800
Speaker 5: Asian women, like Tilla says. She'd be like making derogatory terms.

793
00:34:52,840 --> 00:34:55,880
Speaker 5: It's like super traumatic. But now that I grow up,

794
00:34:55,920 --> 00:34:57,880
Speaker 5: I think, like one time my dad like brought a

795
00:34:57,920 --> 00:35:00,279
Speaker 5: bitch around. First of all, I have like inherent so

796
00:35:00,320 --> 00:35:03,640
Speaker 5: much jealousy because of my mother, but also like but nigga.

797
00:35:03,400 --> 00:35:04,720
Speaker 6: What the fuck is this bitch around?

798
00:35:06,160 --> 00:35:09,239
Speaker 5: And I just realized, like as an adult, as a

799
00:35:09,280 --> 00:35:12,319
Speaker 5: black woman, I'm looking at him like so sideways, like.

800
00:35:12,400 --> 00:35:14,440
Speaker 3: Nigga, you got together.

801
00:35:14,360 --> 00:35:16,240
Speaker 6: Yeah, like what the fuck are you?

802
00:35:16,320 --> 00:35:18,359
Speaker 5: Like you put in talking shit about black women, then

803
00:35:18,360 --> 00:35:20,920
Speaker 5: you go to this fucking mediocre Asian bitch. I'm just

804
00:35:20,960 --> 00:35:24,000
Speaker 5: so confused, Like it really makes me put in like

805
00:35:24,000 --> 00:35:27,280
Speaker 5: a different perspective of my father, like as a black woman,

806
00:35:27,880 --> 00:35:30,759
Speaker 5: and you're talking about black women about weaves and this

807
00:35:30,840 --> 00:35:33,279
Speaker 5: and that, and like even growing up couldn't wear no weave.

808
00:35:33,440 --> 00:35:35,680
Speaker 5: Then black black women this, but then you go over

809
00:35:35,719 --> 00:35:37,359
Speaker 5: to this other bitch like they.

810
00:35:37,280 --> 00:35:38,320
Speaker 3: Can be as medio.

811
00:35:38,400 --> 00:35:40,640
Speaker 1: I've saw a white woman say that on TikTok too.

812
00:35:40,960 --> 00:35:43,279
Speaker 1: Oh she went on TikTok and she was like, my

813
00:35:43,640 --> 00:35:48,000
Speaker 1: black father got the most mediocre white woman. She's my

814
00:35:48,040 --> 00:35:51,839
Speaker 1: mom and she's like, and no shade, but it's true.

815
00:35:51,960 --> 00:35:54,400
Speaker 1: Like black men will literally say all that shit about

816
00:35:54,400 --> 00:35:56,680
Speaker 1: black women and then when they go the beach life,

817
00:35:56,680 --> 00:35:59,640
Speaker 1: Fiona from Shrey literally but you gotta you gotta have

818
00:35:59,719 --> 00:36:01,319
Speaker 1: tire banks over here, like you know what I'm saying,

819
00:36:01,360 --> 00:36:03,520
Speaker 1: I'm so really.

820
00:36:03,360 --> 00:36:06,600
Speaker 6: In my adulthood, it made me really changed my perspective.

821
00:36:06,640 --> 00:36:09,280
Speaker 5: I'm your father, and I'm like, I just I can't

822
00:36:09,880 --> 00:36:10,560
Speaker 5: understand it.

823
00:36:10,800 --> 00:36:14,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think, and even to depending on their upbringing,

824
00:36:14,320 --> 00:36:16,960
Speaker 1: to like I said, in Canada, it's a thing like

825
00:36:17,040 --> 00:36:18,799
Speaker 1: a lot of Haitian men up there are with white women.

826
00:36:18,840 --> 00:36:21,080
Speaker 1: It's just like a thing. I don't know what that is.

827
00:36:21,560 --> 00:36:26,080
Speaker 1: I think depending on whatever your geographical situation, maybe what

828
00:36:26,160 --> 00:36:29,520
Speaker 1: the whiteness brings to your life, you know, is.

829
00:36:29,400 --> 00:36:30,799
Speaker 6: That what the whiteness brings to your life?

830
00:36:30,800 --> 00:36:32,600
Speaker 1: No, I'm just saying like it might be that. And

831
00:36:32,840 --> 00:36:35,120
Speaker 1: and I think a lot of people don't understand. Racism

832
00:36:35,440 --> 00:36:37,640
Speaker 1: is huge in Canada too, Like you know, my mom

833
00:36:37,719 --> 00:36:40,000
Speaker 1: was called the N word, you know. Like so I

834
00:36:40,040 --> 00:36:43,080
Speaker 1: think sometimes too, it's kind of like, okay, if I

835
00:36:43,320 --> 00:36:44,960
Speaker 1: get a little bit this whiteness.

836
00:36:44,520 --> 00:36:47,360
Speaker 3: Actim, yeah, there's a status. There's a status. And also

837
00:36:47,480 --> 00:36:50,799
Speaker 3: like you become a safer black Yeah. Yeah, it's it's

838
00:36:50,840 --> 00:36:52,080
Speaker 3: so weird when when.

839
00:36:51,960 --> 00:36:54,960
Speaker 2: You walk into a room with a white woman, you're oh, okay, good, right,

840
00:36:55,040 --> 00:36:55,359
Speaker 2: you're good.

841
00:36:55,600 --> 00:36:57,799
Speaker 3: You walk in with another black woman, They're like, yeah,

842
00:36:57,840 --> 00:37:00,479
Speaker 3: what they you have to do? I it's weird.

843
00:37:00,520 --> 00:37:03,120
Speaker 5: I just feel like my parents are so black power too,

844
00:37:03,200 --> 00:37:06,640
Speaker 5: Like I was raised so pro black that, and as

845
00:37:06,640 --> 00:37:08,439
Speaker 5: an adult, I'm like, who the fuck are you?

846
00:37:08,520 --> 00:37:08,640
Speaker 2: Like?

847
00:37:08,760 --> 00:37:11,239
Speaker 6: Who are you? Do you hate yourself? Okay, maybe he's

848
00:37:11,280 --> 00:37:13,000
Speaker 6: having a mid life prices.

849
00:37:13,080 --> 00:37:18,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, well sorry, I'm telling me my daddy met

850
00:37:18,280 --> 00:37:20,040
Speaker 2: missus and was like white.

851
00:37:22,120 --> 00:37:24,600
Speaker 3: But I gotta I got you. Yeah, you want to

852
00:37:24,600 --> 00:37:26,960
Speaker 3: meet my new white bitch on the internet today about

853
00:37:27,400 --> 00:37:28,400
Speaker 3: Lil Wayne and.

854
00:37:29,080 --> 00:37:32,160
Speaker 5: Wait, I was somewhere and I'm so happy you brought

855
00:37:32,160 --> 00:37:33,880
Speaker 5: it up because I was watching it on silent and

856
00:37:33,920 --> 00:37:35,320
Speaker 5: I really wanted to turn the volume on.

857
00:37:35,440 --> 00:37:37,239
Speaker 2: But he's been dating this girl. I think her name

858
00:37:37,280 --> 00:37:39,920
Speaker 2: is Denise something. She's a been model. I think she

859
00:37:40,000 --> 00:37:41,880
Speaker 2: might be Latina. I'm not sure she's been They've been

860
00:37:41,960 --> 00:37:43,399
Speaker 2: dating for a long time. I remember when they first

861
00:37:43,440 --> 00:37:45,799
Speaker 2: got together because she had a career, like she was

862
00:37:46,080 --> 00:37:48,480
Speaker 2: like a very popular plus size model Sports.

863
00:37:48,239 --> 00:37:51,840
Speaker 1: Illustrated, And I was like, how this happen?

864
00:37:51,840 --> 00:37:52,520
Speaker 3: How did this happen?

865
00:37:52,600 --> 00:37:55,360
Speaker 2: Okay, whatever I've done forgot about their relationship. Blah la

866
00:37:55,440 --> 00:37:58,560
Speaker 2: la fast forces. Today I get on the internet, she's

867
00:37:58,600 --> 00:38:01,760
Speaker 2: talking about wank me and my daughter out the house

868
00:38:02,080 --> 00:38:05,560
Speaker 2: on Mother's Day. This is diabolical all and and he's

869
00:38:05,560 --> 00:38:08,000
Speaker 2: out here about to fly in this white girl, this

870
00:38:08,080 --> 00:38:10,239
Speaker 2: white bitch from l A or trying her to LA

871
00:38:10,320 --> 00:38:11,080
Speaker 2: to come hang out with him.

872
00:38:11,120 --> 00:38:13,319
Speaker 3: And then I saw the white woman that he was

873
00:38:13,360 --> 00:38:19,280
Speaker 3: flying in. Girl. They showed him. Can can I see it? Please?

874
00:38:20,040 --> 00:38:21,759
Speaker 6: You know I couldn't watch it on the sound, but

875
00:38:21,760 --> 00:38:22,239
Speaker 6: I look at.

876
00:38:23,680 --> 00:38:28,840
Speaker 3: I said, have like what he.

877
00:38:28,120 --> 00:38:32,280
Speaker 2: He got that little Louisiana dick, that brutal.

878
00:38:32,440 --> 00:38:34,520
Speaker 5: Yeah, he got the little niggas be having that dick.

879
00:38:34,600 --> 00:38:37,840
Speaker 5: Sometimes you got that all your readers, the short kings.

880
00:38:38,520 --> 00:38:40,600
Speaker 6: You have to when you was that little. It's a

881
00:38:40,680 --> 00:38:41,160
Speaker 6: long dick.

882
00:38:41,320 --> 00:38:44,640
Speaker 5: Yeah, it has to be, which is also always usually digmatization.

883
00:38:45,080 --> 00:38:46,880
Speaker 3: It's no, it's a digmatization.

884
00:38:47,520 --> 00:38:49,799
Speaker 1: My only thing was I did have an instance where

885
00:38:49,840 --> 00:38:52,640
Speaker 1: I did do a short man, but he did, but

886
00:38:52,719 --> 00:38:56,040
Speaker 1: it just when we when it was time to spoon,

887
00:38:56,200 --> 00:38:57,239
Speaker 1: I can't.

888
00:38:57,520 --> 00:39:00,479
Speaker 5: When I was I was folding underwear and I could

889
00:39:00,480 --> 00:39:02,200
Speaker 5: fit his small shirts.

890
00:39:02,239 --> 00:39:03,959
Speaker 6: And I'm already a very petite woman.

891
00:39:04,680 --> 00:39:05,400
Speaker 3: I know, I love.

892
00:39:05,320 --> 00:39:07,040
Speaker 6: Sex foot tall, but I am.

893
00:39:07,520 --> 00:39:10,440
Speaker 5: I was like, this has tall your man now at

894
00:39:10,480 --> 00:39:11,560
Speaker 5: six feet yeah, he's not.

895
00:39:11,719 --> 00:39:14,040
Speaker 1: Mine is six three. I got it well, let him

896
00:39:14,040 --> 00:39:15,200
Speaker 1: tell it. It's he's six fool.

897
00:39:15,400 --> 00:39:17,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, I like a little love. You gotta have a

898
00:39:17,880 --> 00:39:18,799
Speaker 3: little Yeah.

899
00:39:18,880 --> 00:39:21,239
Speaker 2: He's tall and I can wear my my my nine

900
00:39:21,320 --> 00:39:24,640
Speaker 2: inch twelve inch heels and I ain't gotta worry about Yeah.

901
00:39:24,760 --> 00:39:26,480
Speaker 1: But I also thought that the girl too said she

902
00:39:26,520 --> 00:39:28,520
Speaker 1: said something about DV. Didn She said that Lil Wayne

903
00:39:28,960 --> 00:39:31,200
Speaker 1: allegedly that he hit her or something like that.

904
00:39:32,080 --> 00:39:35,120
Speaker 3: Yes, said that he had little niggas also be hitting.

905
00:39:35,600 --> 00:39:37,000
Speaker 3: I can't find it. Oh here it is here.

906
00:39:39,719 --> 00:39:45,320
Speaker 5: You're fucking lying, I know you fucking line.

907
00:39:46,360 --> 00:39:49,520
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, okay.

908
00:39:48,200 --> 00:39:50,240
Speaker 6: Here wait, wait, hold on, let me hold ahead.

909
00:39:50,320 --> 00:39:50,919
Speaker 3: Look at it.

910
00:39:51,320 --> 00:39:56,239
Speaker 2: Ah, the one in the center, that's the main girl,

911
00:39:56,560 --> 00:39:57,600
Speaker 2: that's the one of the last.

912
00:39:57,800 --> 00:40:02,319
Speaker 3: Put the glasses. Yes see whatever you just said.

913
00:40:02,440 --> 00:40:06,080
Speaker 5: Yes, that looks like somebody is Grandma Mom from the PTA.

914
00:40:08,400 --> 00:40:10,160
Speaker 3: Anyway, Kings, do better.

915
00:40:10,440 --> 00:40:11,600
Speaker 2: Okay, before we get out of here, I want to

916
00:40:11,600 --> 00:40:16,120
Speaker 2: play a little game that it's called trigger. So I'm

917
00:40:16,160 --> 00:40:17,560
Speaker 2: gonna say a word and you say the first thing

918
00:40:17,600 --> 00:40:20,960
Speaker 2: that comes to mind. Oh, don't overthink it, just go

919
00:40:21,000 --> 00:40:29,520
Speaker 2: for it. Ready, I'm ready, bad habits, I.

920
00:40:29,560 --> 00:40:37,520
Speaker 3: Drew a blank. Procrastination marriage a sap A sap. Are

921
00:40:37,520 --> 00:40:42,319
Speaker 3: you ready for mister Easter. How'd y'all meet?

922
00:40:42,840 --> 00:40:46,480
Speaker 1: We met Actually he was on a press tour for

923
00:40:46,640 --> 00:40:51,520
Speaker 1: his documentary. He has documentary called Freaknickout that it went.

924
00:40:51,360 --> 00:40:54,000
Speaker 2: Viral last year, and I was his last press stop.

925
00:40:54,040 --> 00:40:56,560
Speaker 2: I was on destination. I was his last press stop,

926
00:40:57,200 --> 00:40:59,040
Speaker 2: and we changed numbers.

927
00:40:59,080 --> 00:40:59,480
Speaker 3: I didn't know.

928
00:40:59,520 --> 00:41:01,239
Speaker 1: We actually used to live in the same building. He

929
00:41:01,320 --> 00:41:03,640
Speaker 1: told me that we met several times in the elevator.

930
00:41:03,680 --> 00:41:05,759
Speaker 1: I was like, damn, I never I didn't remember. The

931
00:41:05,760 --> 00:41:07,279
Speaker 1: guy used to just be like hey, and I just

932
00:41:07,760 --> 00:41:08,520
Speaker 1: put my head down.

933
00:41:08,760 --> 00:41:09,440
Speaker 3: I still do that.

934
00:41:10,360 --> 00:41:12,439
Speaker 1: And then so like he was like, you know, let's

935
00:41:12,480 --> 00:41:14,759
Speaker 1: exchange numbers. I love to know what you got going on.

936
00:41:15,200 --> 00:41:18,040
Speaker 1: I love to, you know, maybe work on something cool.

937
00:41:18,160 --> 00:41:20,560
Speaker 1: And then like we had a meeting and everything was putonic.

938
00:41:20,800 --> 00:41:22,279
Speaker 1: But I remember when I left the meeting, I just

939
00:41:22,320 --> 00:41:25,680
Speaker 1: was like hmm. And I had text him that week

940
00:41:25,840 --> 00:41:28,040
Speaker 1: like I was like, hey, what are you doing like

941
00:41:28,120 --> 00:41:30,360
Speaker 1: Easter weekend and He's like, oh, I'm going to church.

942
00:41:30,960 --> 00:41:32,800
Speaker 1: And I wanted to ask him if I would go

943
00:41:32,800 --> 00:41:34,360
Speaker 1: to church with him, but I thought it was weird.

944
00:41:34,400 --> 00:41:36,880
Speaker 1: Then he asked me, so we went to church together

945
00:41:36,920 --> 00:41:37,400
Speaker 1: for Easter.

946
00:41:37,640 --> 00:41:41,960
Speaker 6: We went to date, very very cute.

947
00:41:42,160 --> 00:41:44,919
Speaker 3: Church brunch and we've been together ever since.

948
00:41:44,960 --> 00:41:47,759
Speaker 2: That's a story you could tell the kids. Wholesome. Yeah,

949
00:41:48,480 --> 00:41:53,600
Speaker 2: which leads me to my next word, religion. Oh, relationship

950
00:41:53,760 --> 00:42:02,080
Speaker 2: instead a relationship, a relationship with Christ, monogamy, love and

951
00:42:02,160 --> 00:42:02,520
Speaker 2: hip hop.

952
00:42:09,440 --> 00:42:14,000
Speaker 3: Hated it, hated it? Uh, last time you had sex

953
00:42:14,400 --> 00:42:15,080
Speaker 3: this morning?

954
00:42:15,640 --> 00:42:16,040
Speaker 6: Amen?

955
00:42:16,640 --> 00:42:19,640
Speaker 3: Porn category b b W.

956
00:42:22,200 --> 00:42:24,040
Speaker 6: BBW big black woman?

957
00:42:24,200 --> 00:42:28,200
Speaker 3: Yeah really? Or or you know, I want to know

958
00:42:28,280 --> 00:42:28,520
Speaker 3: when I.

959
00:42:28,600 --> 00:42:29,920
Speaker 6: Wanted the Asians?

960
00:42:29,960 --> 00:42:33,800
Speaker 3: Really? Who? Why would you do that? Example?

961
00:42:33,880 --> 00:42:35,840
Speaker 6: I was literally like, I was like, what.

962
00:42:35,760 --> 00:42:41,120
Speaker 2: Categories between the changing and what? So is it they

963
00:42:41,320 --> 00:42:44,560
Speaker 2: are they getting by a specific race?

964
00:42:44,920 --> 00:42:46,120
Speaker 3: Or is it's just Asians?

965
00:42:46,200 --> 00:42:48,920
Speaker 1: So so this is gonna sound crazy, but I mean

966
00:42:48,960 --> 00:42:50,520
Speaker 1: I don't watch it right now at the moment. It's

967
00:42:50,520 --> 00:42:52,839
Speaker 1: been a while, but I used to watch a lot

968
00:42:52,920 --> 00:42:54,280
Speaker 1: like anime porn.

969
00:42:54,360 --> 00:42:55,479
Speaker 3: Like it was like it was like.

970
00:42:57,080 --> 00:43:01,960
Speaker 6: And tie and you know that when you I want

971
00:43:02,000 --> 00:43:03,560
Speaker 6: I'm like, what's going on? Oh?

972
00:43:04,120 --> 00:43:06,480
Speaker 1: I just thought it was funny, like it was entertaining.

973
00:43:06,920 --> 00:43:09,359
Speaker 3: That was Oh my god.

974
00:43:09,400 --> 00:43:12,200
Speaker 2: Wait, speaking of which, I'm going to just interject her

975
00:43:12,200 --> 00:43:14,480
Speaker 2: real quick about my bad choice of the week. Bitch,

976
00:43:15,160 --> 00:43:21,040
Speaker 2: my it was the of anime porn. So I had.

977
00:43:21,120 --> 00:43:23,400
Speaker 3: I don't know I had. I was watching Oh we

978
00:43:23,400 --> 00:43:25,040
Speaker 3: have separate hotel rooms. I don't know, we have separal

979
00:43:25,040 --> 00:43:25,399
Speaker 3: tail rooms.

980
00:43:25,480 --> 00:43:26,160
Speaker 6: I was in Atlanta.

981
00:43:26,400 --> 00:43:28,400
Speaker 3: I was at Atlanta. Yeah, I'd been watching porn in

982
00:43:28,440 --> 00:43:28,840
Speaker 3: my computer.

983
00:43:29,680 --> 00:43:33,560
Speaker 2: I get home back to LA and my daughter is like, Mommy,

984
00:43:33,560 --> 00:43:34,400
Speaker 2: I have to do an assignment.

985
00:43:34,520 --> 00:43:36,320
Speaker 3: Oh, I need to use your computer. And I was like, okay.

986
00:43:36,440 --> 00:43:37,400
Speaker 3: I hand her my computer.

987
00:43:37,680 --> 00:43:40,680
Speaker 2: We're on the couch together and she opens the computer

988
00:43:41,160 --> 00:43:44,239
Speaker 2: and then she closes it and she hands it to

989
00:43:44,280 --> 00:43:45,880
Speaker 2: me and goes, mommy, you have to put your password in,

990
00:43:45,920 --> 00:43:47,440
Speaker 2: and then she walks away.

991
00:43:47,040 --> 00:43:49,359
Speaker 3: So I'm like, okay, so I open it.

992
00:43:49,480 --> 00:43:51,920
Speaker 6: I'm like, why was the password partner?

993
00:43:52,760 --> 00:43:54,040
Speaker 3: I don't know, but it.

994
00:43:54,040 --> 00:43:55,640
Speaker 2: Was open and it was like, you know, the ad

995
00:43:55,680 --> 00:43:57,720
Speaker 2: page for porn. So it's like every type of porn,

996
00:43:58,400 --> 00:44:01,200
Speaker 2: all different types of anime. The was all tights, and

997
00:44:01,239 --> 00:44:03,960
Speaker 2: I was like, pink, big yellow, big black, dick, just

998
00:44:04,080 --> 00:44:06,399
Speaker 2: all dick, monkey dick.

999
00:44:06,800 --> 00:44:08,799
Speaker 6: Wait, but usually you have to put the password to

1000
00:44:08,800 --> 00:44:09,400
Speaker 6: see anything.

1001
00:44:10,440 --> 00:44:18,120
Speaker 2: It was the jaw like, I know, we didn't what

1002
00:44:18,120 --> 00:44:18,879
Speaker 2: are you gonna say?

1003
00:44:20,320 --> 00:44:23,720
Speaker 6: Pop ups? Yeah done, mommy, you put your password.

1004
00:44:25,560 --> 00:44:27,200
Speaker 3: So that was my choice. Of the Week.

1005
00:44:27,560 --> 00:44:28,879
Speaker 6: Did you avoid her for one hour?

1006
00:44:29,000 --> 00:44:29,120
Speaker 3: No?

1007
00:44:29,200 --> 00:44:31,120
Speaker 2: She came right back in and I said, okay, it's here,

1008
00:44:32,080 --> 00:44:41,680
Speaker 2: here's the word the document. I was screaming, love language, oh, affection,

1009
00:44:43,040 --> 00:44:43,680
Speaker 2: quality time.

1010
00:44:44,640 --> 00:44:50,480
Speaker 3: Morgan Freeman? Was he ever young? I thought this was crush?

1011
00:44:50,800 --> 00:44:54,480
Speaker 3: This is not your crush?

1012
00:44:51,960 --> 00:44:57,000
Speaker 6: More than.

1013
00:44:59,000 --> 00:45:00,600
Speaker 3: Where the fu? Great?

1014
00:45:02,440 --> 00:45:05,719
Speaker 5: I was really wondering, why, Wait, what did I say

1015
00:45:05,760 --> 00:45:08,560
Speaker 5: that I'll be saying. I was like, I've never seen

1016
00:45:08,560 --> 00:45:09,640
Speaker 5: Morgan Freeman on them.

1017
00:45:09,680 --> 00:45:12,560
Speaker 2: Now, now I will tell you I've said a crush

1018
00:45:12,560 --> 00:45:14,879
Speaker 2: of mine before, and I've got dragged for it every time.

1019
00:45:15,680 --> 00:45:17,320
Speaker 6: Who it wasn't Freeman?

1020
00:45:17,800 --> 00:45:21,400
Speaker 1: Wasn't It was Dave Chappelle, and people like he ugly.

1021
00:45:21,480 --> 00:45:24,399
Speaker 3: I'm like, no, it's not. I thought he would laugh

1022
00:45:24,400 --> 00:45:25,120
Speaker 3: me out my drawers.

1023
00:45:25,160 --> 00:45:26,920
Speaker 1: I love you a funny man.

1024
00:45:27,920 --> 00:45:28,759
Speaker 6: Does he like black women?

1025
00:45:29,200 --> 00:45:29,960
Speaker 3: He's with an Asian?

1026
00:45:30,120 --> 00:45:37,680
Speaker 6: Sorry Mam, sorry mom, I've never seen Dave Chappelle. Yeah.

1027
00:45:37,800 --> 00:45:39,560
Speaker 1: I feel like Dave Chappelle could get it if I

1028
00:45:39,719 --> 00:45:40,400
Speaker 1: wasn't in a relationship.

1029
00:45:40,440 --> 00:45:44,200
Speaker 3: I love my man, Jesse will talk her. Morgan Freeman crush?

1030
00:45:45,239 --> 00:45:50,400
Speaker 3: What what did I say? Show? What the fuck was

1031
00:45:50,440 --> 00:45:53,200
Speaker 3: I thinking? Or something?

1032
00:45:54,640 --> 00:45:54,920
Speaker 7: No? No?

1033
00:45:54,800 --> 00:45:58,960
Speaker 1: No, Yeah, he has a show you to Morgan Freeman.

1034
00:45:59,480 --> 00:46:05,000
Speaker 3: Forget like that daddy porn. Okay, he was never young.

1035
00:46:07,040 --> 00:46:09,879
Speaker 2: In one movie he played in Young the other side,

1036
00:46:10,160 --> 00:46:11,120
Speaker 2: there's this, there is this.

1037
00:46:11,800 --> 00:46:16,160
Speaker 1: There's this docu series on Apple right now with black actors,

1038
00:46:16,200 --> 00:46:18,319
Speaker 1: all the famous black actors that you could think of

1039
00:46:18,320 --> 00:46:19,000
Speaker 1: the Denzels.

1040
00:46:19,000 --> 00:46:21,000
Speaker 3: That it just elbows. And then they go to Morgan Freeman.

1041
00:46:21,080 --> 00:46:23,680
Speaker 3: They put up his first movie. This motherfucker had white hair.

1042
00:46:23,800 --> 00:46:26,600
Speaker 6: First move. Maybe he started late. He might be a vampire.

1043
00:46:26,800 --> 00:46:27,919
Speaker 3: Maybe he started late.

1044
00:46:28,160 --> 00:46:28,840
Speaker 6: He's a vampire.

1045
00:46:28,920 --> 00:46:30,799
Speaker 3: This is this is just a proof that you can

1046
00:46:30,800 --> 00:46:31,439
Speaker 3: start your career.

1047
00:46:32,520 --> 00:46:35,400
Speaker 2: And he's killed it as the older man and his

1048
00:46:35,560 --> 00:46:37,440
Speaker 2: voice is distinct, is very distinguished.

1049
00:46:39,000 --> 00:46:40,040
Speaker 3: Uh, deal breaker?

1050
00:46:40,920 --> 00:46:43,160
Speaker 6: Cheating really okay one time?

1051
00:46:44,040 --> 00:46:48,040
Speaker 1: Not for like Miami, no, no, one time. Yeah, so

1052
00:46:48,239 --> 00:46:50,239
Speaker 1: I would find out. I found out after the.

1053
00:46:50,200 --> 00:46:54,600
Speaker 3: Facts, like after what's cheating to you? He slept with

1054
00:46:54,600 --> 00:46:55,160
Speaker 3: somebody else?

1055
00:46:55,600 --> 00:46:57,480
Speaker 2: In general? Though, like what is cheating? Would be like

1056
00:46:57,520 --> 00:46:59,799
Speaker 2: texting e bitch and like on the low, like is

1057
00:46:59,840 --> 00:47:02,439
Speaker 2: it is there emotional cheating that you might pass.

1058
00:47:03,040 --> 00:47:05,480
Speaker 1: I feel like if I catch you texting somebody dust cheating,

1059
00:47:06,160 --> 00:47:06,759
Speaker 1: like I'm done?

1060
00:47:07,120 --> 00:47:11,520
Speaker 3: What the you texting her? Toxic? Trait. Oh, passive aggressiveness

1061
00:47:11,760 --> 00:47:13,600
Speaker 3: to Braxton hater.

1062
00:47:19,160 --> 00:47:22,600
Speaker 2: Okay, that's nothing passive about that.

1063
00:47:24,120 --> 00:47:25,840
Speaker 3: Very favorite sex position.

1064
00:47:26,800 --> 00:47:29,640
Speaker 1: Mmm, you know what, I need to be better at

1065
00:47:29,640 --> 00:47:30,760
Speaker 1: this as sex.

1066
00:47:31,520 --> 00:47:35,239
Speaker 3: It's not just I love me a little? What is

1067
00:47:35,840 --> 00:47:37,080
Speaker 3: a little? What is that like?

1068
00:47:37,320 --> 00:47:39,520
Speaker 2: Is that like a color from behind when I when

1069
00:47:39,520 --> 00:47:41,360
Speaker 2: I'm on my back missionary?

1070
00:47:41,520 --> 00:47:41,719
Speaker 6: Yeah?

1071
00:47:41,800 --> 00:47:50,680
Speaker 3: Okay, is he rock? I was like from turn on? Oh,

1072
00:47:50,840 --> 00:47:51,239
Speaker 3: turn on?

1073
00:47:51,560 --> 00:47:57,680
Speaker 1: Honestly like kissing, touching, Yeah, affection, turn off?

1074
00:47:58,640 --> 00:48:01,399
Speaker 3: Bad breath girl bad.

1075
00:48:01,840 --> 00:48:05,640
Speaker 2: I recently experienced that we hired for a show pramatized,

1076
00:48:05,680 --> 00:48:06,319
Speaker 2: and the thing is.

1077
00:48:06,280 --> 00:48:10,080
Speaker 1: Like it'd be it'd be like from within something is wrong.

1078
00:48:10,680 --> 00:48:12,359
Speaker 1: Yeah that the two brushs can't fix that.

1079
00:48:13,040 --> 00:48:13,839
Speaker 3: Mm hm that's how.

1080
00:48:13,800 --> 00:48:15,279
Speaker 6: You got demons therapy.

1081
00:48:16,000 --> 00:48:20,080
Speaker 3: Oh, I'm off for it. Kids, I would love to

1082
00:48:20,120 --> 00:48:20,560
Speaker 3: be a bomb.

1083
00:48:20,960 --> 00:48:23,080
Speaker 1: I would love I would love two children.

1084
00:48:22,840 --> 00:48:24,799
Speaker 3: To just start with one and take it from there.

1085
00:48:24,880 --> 00:48:31,680
Speaker 3: Let me tell you love eating pussy. You know I've

1086
00:48:31,719 --> 00:48:32,319
Speaker 3: never done that?

1087
00:48:32,960 --> 00:48:34,200
Speaker 6: Are you interested in at all?

1088
00:48:34,200 --> 00:48:36,000
Speaker 3: Have you kissed a woman? I never kissed a woman.

1089
00:48:36,080 --> 00:48:37,000
Speaker 6: You know what this is?

1090
00:48:37,560 --> 00:48:38,920
Speaker 1: I would love to lick some titties.

1091
00:48:39,480 --> 00:48:40,280
Speaker 3: This is so random.

1092
00:48:40,920 --> 00:48:44,799
Speaker 2: The kids the pussy titties because I love titties. I

1093
00:48:44,840 --> 00:48:49,440
Speaker 2: love titties of all shapes, saggy titties, you know, perky titties,

1094
00:48:49,480 --> 00:48:57,919
Speaker 2: flappy titties, brown titties, just brown tittiest Yeah, yeah, yeah,

1095
00:48:58,080 --> 00:48:58,879
Speaker 2: titty the world.

1096
00:48:58,920 --> 00:49:00,439
Speaker 3: I just love nothing.

1097
00:49:00,520 --> 00:49:02,239
Speaker 1: But sometimes I will look at a woman. I'm like, damn,

1098
00:49:02,280 --> 00:49:04,480
Speaker 1: I wonder what her titties look like. But I don't

1099
00:49:04,560 --> 00:49:05,759
Speaker 1: think does that make me gay?

1100
00:49:06,040 --> 00:49:08,239
Speaker 6: No, I don't think that makes you gay, babe.

1101
00:49:10,080 --> 00:49:13,200
Speaker 2: Best advice you've ever gotten, well, best advice I've ever

1102
00:49:13,280 --> 00:49:17,000
Speaker 2: gotten that, Like it's so cliche, but like, just be yourself,

1103
00:49:17,480 --> 00:49:18,640
Speaker 2: especially in this industry.

1104
00:49:19,080 --> 00:49:19,840
Speaker 3: Just be yourself.

1105
00:49:19,960 --> 00:49:22,680
Speaker 1: Do you stop trying to do what you think other

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00:49:22,719 --> 00:49:25,879
Speaker 1: people are doing, or like, don't look at what other

1107
00:49:26,040 --> 00:49:28,479
Speaker 1: people what they're like. You never know what somebody else's

1108
00:49:28,520 --> 00:49:30,839
Speaker 1: journey is. So you might look at somebody like, damn,

1109
00:49:30,840 --> 00:49:33,920
Speaker 1: they got the successful podcast, but they've been doing it

1110
00:49:33,920 --> 00:49:36,000
Speaker 1: for seven years, eight years. You don't know, like what

1111
00:49:36,080 --> 00:49:39,680
Speaker 1: sacrifices they made. So yeah, just focus on me, do

1112
00:49:39,880 --> 00:49:42,960
Speaker 1: me stop looking to the side, just look above for everything.

1113
00:49:44,040 --> 00:49:47,279
Speaker 3: Yeah. Well that concludes our game of trigger. Thank you

1114
00:49:47,239 --> 00:49:48,600
Speaker 3: you've survived, Thank.

1115
00:49:48,440 --> 00:49:51,320
Speaker 1: You you did.

1116
00:49:52,120 --> 00:49:53,319
Speaker 2: Okay, I know we got to get out of here

1117
00:49:53,440 --> 00:49:56,719
Speaker 2: before we do, Do you mind sharing an affirmation with us?

1118
00:49:57,080 --> 00:49:57,879
Speaker 3: An affirmation?

1119
00:49:58,200 --> 00:50:00,959
Speaker 2: Yeah, something that, like you know, gets you motivated, maybe

1120
00:50:00,960 --> 00:50:04,200
Speaker 2: something you tell yourself in the morning or get you through.

1121
00:50:04,480 --> 00:50:06,480
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I have everything.

1122
00:50:06,840 --> 00:50:08,239
Speaker 3: I possess everything.

1123
00:50:08,360 --> 00:50:12,680
Speaker 1: I need to be the best me that this world

1124
00:50:13,160 --> 00:50:13,840
Speaker 1: should receive.

1125
00:50:14,680 --> 00:50:17,239
Speaker 2: I have everything I need to be the best me

1126
00:50:18,280 --> 00:50:21,400
Speaker 2: that this world should receive, this world should receive.

1127
00:50:21,880 --> 00:50:23,480
Speaker 3: Yes, it's always yes.

1128
00:50:24,160 --> 00:50:24,719
Speaker 1: I love that.

1129
00:50:24,840 --> 00:50:25,279
Speaker 3: Thank you.

1130
00:50:25,320 --> 00:50:26,719
Speaker 1: And I got nice TDS you.

1131
00:50:28,320 --> 00:50:31,040
Speaker 6: And that's real. No, they're really nice, good.

1132
00:50:33,320 --> 00:50:35,200
Speaker 3: Doctor. They're five years old. Are they in Atlanta or

1133
00:50:35,160 --> 00:50:36,440
Speaker 3: where they Oh, he's in Miami.

1134
00:50:36,520 --> 00:50:38,480
Speaker 5: I think thirty five hundred dollars because lovely me me

1135
00:50:38,560 --> 00:50:40,640
Speaker 5: said you can get five thousand thirty five.

1136
00:50:41,040 --> 00:50:41,600
Speaker 6: Lovely made me.

1137
00:50:41,520 --> 00:50:43,279
Speaker 5: Saying you get sailing for three thousand. You can get

1138
00:50:43,280 --> 00:50:44,520
Speaker 5: the gomy bear for thirty five hundred.

1139
00:50:44,600 --> 00:50:46,680
Speaker 2: I thought it was the BBL for five the BBL

1140
00:50:47,080 --> 00:50:48,480
Speaker 2: what thirty five?

1141
00:50:49,680 --> 00:50:53,200
Speaker 1: It's not doctor doctor Allman. And honestly he took money

1142
00:50:53,200 --> 00:50:55,319
Speaker 1: off because I was I was talking about him. But

1143
00:50:55,719 --> 00:50:59,720
Speaker 1: there's seven thousand high doctors. I'll talk about the Yeah. Yeah,

1144
00:50:59,800 --> 00:51:02,279
Speaker 1: and doctor Almond is like the titty god like oh,

1145
00:51:02,280 --> 00:51:07,960
Speaker 1: doctor Almond Altman a L. T M a Altman child.

1146
00:51:08,920 --> 00:51:11,160
Speaker 1: But yeah, like all the baddies have been to Almond.

1147
00:51:11,160 --> 00:51:13,879
Speaker 3: He's really good talk. But please don't get no bb

1148
00:51:13,960 --> 00:51:15,120
Speaker 3: O for three thousand, bitch.

1149
00:51:15,120 --> 00:51:17,279
Speaker 6: I'm not getting no God.

1150
00:51:17,920 --> 00:51:22,120
Speaker 2: I'm barely getting boots Okay, sane.

1151
00:51:21,960 --> 00:51:24,200
Speaker 5: Even though, but he's like, I want to get those injections.

1152
00:51:24,239 --> 00:51:26,000
Speaker 5: Like Kylie, they have all had like a bunch of

1153
00:51:26,080 --> 00:51:27,040
Speaker 5: filler in their hips.

1154
00:51:27,120 --> 00:51:32,240
Speaker 6: So that's that's filler. It's called sculpt like sculpts. Where

1155
00:51:32,280 --> 00:51:33,239
Speaker 6: is that later?

1156
00:51:33,480 --> 00:51:33,840
Speaker 3: I don't know.

1157
00:51:33,880 --> 00:51:35,239
Speaker 5: I'm just making that up. I'm not doing that. I'm

1158
00:51:35,239 --> 00:51:37,120
Speaker 5: barely getting titties. I'm gonna get titties after I turn

1159
00:51:37,160 --> 00:51:39,200
Speaker 5: forty and have another baby. I'm very in the market

1160
00:51:39,280 --> 00:51:39,480
Speaker 5: right now.

1161
00:51:39,520 --> 00:51:42,719
Speaker 3: I like Jesse. Let our people know where they can

1162
00:51:42,760 --> 00:51:45,440
Speaker 3: find you. The Jesse wu.

1163
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Speaker 1: On every platform, and my podcast is just a couple

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Speaker 1: of things podcasts.

1165
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Speaker 2: So make sure you check out jess on. We'll leave

1166
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Speaker 2: everything in the episode caption. Make sure you follow us

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1171
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Speaker 3: We don't.

1172
00:52:06,760 --> 00:52:08,439
Speaker 2: We're not gonna let harass you, but we aren't gonna

1173
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Speaker 2: send you discounts. Do a lot of shit, so make

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Speaker 2: sure you go to good.

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Speaker 3: Mom's bat choices dot com. And I see light.

1176
00:52:16,000 --> 00:52:20,919
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm living so good. Can't you tell I went

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00:52:21,000 --> 00:52:23,120
Speaker 4: through a drought. That's until I find out well may

1178
00:52:23,200 --> 00:52:25,200
Speaker 4: might have been known earth. I used to be broken

1179
00:52:25,320 --> 00:52:28,120
Speaker 4: till now I got the blues dancer like Beyonce Jasell

1180
00:52:28,440 --> 00:52:29,960
Speaker 4: throat shots or popping his car.

1181
00:52:30,040 --> 00:52:32,120
Speaker 6: We're in our voices, patriarch.

1182
00:52:31,719 --> 00:52:34,200
Speaker 3: And kept it in the box to it'splois. Women put

1183
00:52:34,280 --> 00:52:35,680
Speaker 3: the pee and powers.

1184
00:52:35,360 --> 00:52:36,160
Speaker 6: So what's pointingss?

1185
00:52:36,160 --> 00:52:38,800
Speaker 4: They want me to be good, so I make bad choices.

1186
00:52:38,960 --> 00:52:41,439
Speaker 4: Bad mom not a bad mom, but a bad mom.

1187
00:52:41,520 --> 00:52:44,480
Speaker 4: Itter's in on put cannabis in their bath. Bone walked

1188
00:52:44,520 --> 00:52:47,319
Speaker 4: in bosses Capp and I blew his cat boss hot dog.

1189
00:52:47,480 --> 00:52:48,520
Speaker 3: Now I'm immune to.

1190
00:52:48,520 --> 00:52:50,920
Speaker 4: The cat called Herbie and no waisted straight to it

1191
00:52:51,120 --> 00:52:51,919
Speaker 4: like a dollar sign.

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00:52:52,000 --> 00:52:53,840
Speaker 3: Mother rent the number when to it is like a

1193
00:52:53,920 --> 00:52:54,880
Speaker 3: water someone where.

1194
00:52:54,719 --> 00:52:57,120
Speaker 4: You're in the winter resential will when the summertime?

1195
00:52:57,320 --> 00:52:58,400
Speaker 6: I do what all they know?

1196
00:52:58,480 --> 00:52:59,640
Speaker 3: When that needs a running by