WEBVTT - SECOND DATE UPDATE- The Holiday Party

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<v Speaker 1>Let me grab Nathan and Tarzana. It is our second

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<v Speaker 1>date update. So I guess he met this woman out

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<v Speaker 1>and they had separate plans for the years, but they

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<v Speaker 1>met a holiday party, then they went you know, apart

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<v Speaker 1>from New Years.

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<v Speaker 2>Then they got back together.

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<v Speaker 1>A couple of dates apparently went well, and now she's

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<v Speaker 1>blowing them off, right, is Nathan? Is that a fair

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<v Speaker 1>characterization of what happened?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, that's right.

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<v Speaker 2>So you went out twice with her.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we met at a friends like one of those

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<v Speaker 3>friends holiday parties. It was crazy that the guest list

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<v Speaker 3>kind of exploded. So I went with a friend of mine.

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<v Speaker 3>She knew one of the roommates throwing the party, she

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<v Speaker 3>knew the sister of the roommate, so it was more

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<v Speaker 3>like friends of friends. We didn't really have any other

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<v Speaker 3>connections besides that. But we met there and we really

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<v Speaker 3>hit it off. And yeah, so you know, once once

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<v Speaker 3>I started talking to her, we didn't really stop. We

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<v Speaker 3>kissed a little bit there. You know, there was mistletoe

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<v Speaker 3>as a holiday party, and I asked her out before

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<v Speaker 3>before she left, and and so yeah, we went out

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<v Speaker 3>a couple of times. We had dinner, We tried to

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<v Speaker 3>do the Candy kne Lane and Woodland Hills, but the

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<v Speaker 3>lines were crazy long, so we didn't end up doing that.

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<v Speaker 3>But yeah, so then we just went out last week,

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<v Speaker 3>we saw we saw any anyone but you, and then

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<v Speaker 3>came back to my place and you seem like a.

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<v Speaker 2>Good I know, I'm like, this all sounds great.

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<v Speaker 1>Great, Nathan, you kind of piqued our interests over here. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it doesn't work out. Somebody might be listening.

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<v Speaker 2>By the way, I heard the movie is good? Which

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<v Speaker 2>one's movie? Anyone that loved who's it? Okay? Guys?

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of things out there on screens theaters only, yes, theaters?

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<v Speaker 2>All right, Nathan.

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<v Speaker 1>So but now she's not getting back to you, So

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<v Speaker 1>can you retrace your steps? Is there anything you can

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<v Speaker 1>think about that happened as to why?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I don't really think so. I mean, in

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<v Speaker 3>the last date we had, it felt like something was off,

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<v Speaker 3>and she she seemed like she was not talking as

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<v Speaker 3>much as she did the first time that we went out, So,

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, you know, it was good, but but yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>it seemed just a little off. But now it's just like,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm lucky if I even get a response from her,

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<v Speaker 3>and all, all.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, so I will put you on hold. We have

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<v Speaker 1>her number here, what's her name, Maya. We're gonna try

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<v Speaker 1>and call Maya next and see how we can find

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<v Speaker 1>out why. Like, what's the deal. Guy sounds like a

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<v Speaker 1>great dater. So if you're listening and it doesn't work

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<v Speaker 1>out with Maya, we have Nathan's number.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, hit us up. Yeah, that's what we should be doing.

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<v Speaker 2>I've just done on it. Right if it doesn't work

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<v Speaker 2>out because it's a date.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if we give it away quite like that,

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<v Speaker 1>but we can certainly give out the number of the

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<v Speaker 1>person that gets blown off if it seems like somebody

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<v Speaker 1>you like when you're listening with.

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<v Speaker 2>The permission for permission, sure, but.

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<v Speaker 1>I I'd be listening to Nathan going I like that guy. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I almost hope it doesn't work out with Maya.

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<v Speaker 2>For me, I agree. I think it's a market adds

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<v Speaker 2>to the whole thing for me. Genius. Now you have

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<v Speaker 2>the opportunity whatever buty.

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<v Speaker 1>It gives people the opportunity, like I know that, Like

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<v Speaker 1>when you you hear somebody on the air, you go, wow,

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<v Speaker 1>that person sounds like I don't want to.

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<v Speaker 2>Be their friend. Yep. It adds a little bit of

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<v Speaker 2>a competition for the other person. Yeah, I don't am

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<v Speaker 2>I rooting for We already have somebody on deck.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I'm almost thinking, if you're listening to a second eight update,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm rooting for you because you're listening.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I don't know if Maya listens or not.

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<v Speaker 4>It's like the burner, you know, is it like you

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<v Speaker 4>know they say you should always have like many saucepans

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<v Speaker 4>on the burner, you know, like your main your main meal,

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<v Speaker 4>but then you have your sides.

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<v Speaker 2>He never heard about someone being on the back burner. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>but burner. It's like burner, phone, burner. And then she

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<v Speaker 2>just meant to say back burner. Let's come back here

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<v Speaker 2>at Kiss on Air with Ryan Seacrest On Air with

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<v Speaker 2>a Ryan Seacrest.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, so we're in a second date update, and

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<v Speaker 1>you should know that Nathan had a couple of romantic,

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<v Speaker 1>really good sounding dates with Maya and they met at

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<v Speaker 1>a holiday party. They did these dates around southern California

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<v Speaker 1>here in LA and then she's completely blown him off.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, this pretty textbook second date update issue, and

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<v Speaker 1>he can't figure out. He's like, dude, I'm stumped, why

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<v Speaker 1>is she blowing me off. You don't get it, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>because it was very drastic. I was out of nowhere,

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<v Speaker 1>just blew him off after what sounded like some really

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<v Speaker 1>great dates. So my thinking was, I like Nathan.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know him. I mean I just met him

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<v Speaker 2>on the phone. I like him.

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<v Speaker 1>If you like him and it doesn't work out, and

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<v Speaker 1>you want to call in and get his number, we'll

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<v Speaker 1>give it out.

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<v Speaker 2>Ask him what his sign is, Nathan, what's your sign?

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<v Speaker 5>Leo?

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<v Speaker 1>Great?

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<v Speaker 2>Why is it great?

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<v Speaker 5>Yes? A great?

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<v Speaker 2>Leos are great if you're a Taurus out there.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, well, let's get to Maya and he wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>work out with Maya. Let's see if we can figure

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<v Speaker 1>this out. So Nathan, be very quiet. I'm gonna put

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<v Speaker 1>her on okay, listening to see if we can find

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<v Speaker 1>out why she's blowing you off so coldly.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, all right, Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>Maya, thank you for holding. You're on the air with

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<v Speaker 1>us here. It's Ryan Seacrest, Sisney and Tanya.

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<v Speaker 2>How are you.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm doing well? How are you?

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<v Speaker 1>Which in super well? Thank you for asking and thanks

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<v Speaker 1>for coming on. I appreciate agreeing to do this. We're

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<v Speaker 1>calling you about a guy named Nathan that you went

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<v Speaker 1>out with a couple of times. Does that sound familiar?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, yeah, yeah, I remember him.

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<v Speaker 2>Tell me about Nathan.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, okay. So it started off amazing, almost, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>like a fairy tale actually, but you know, apparently maybe

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<v Speaker 4>too much. Yeah, it was. It was a little too much.

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<v Speaker 2>What do you mean too much?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, we went to a movie, you know, and it

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<v Speaker 4>was nice, and then we grabbed a drink and headed

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<v Speaker 4>back to his place. But then things got it got weird.

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<v Speaker 4>Well it got weird, like it was clean and everything,

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<v Speaker 4>but he still had his Christmas decorations up, and yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>That's weird. I mean that's a start to the point

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<v Speaker 1>where you judged him on that.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you like him?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay? I don't know. I just think it was a

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<v Speaker 4>bit much, but I gave him the benefit of doubt

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<v Speaker 4>and I was like, have you not had the time

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<v Speaker 4>to take him down? And he was like no, And

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<v Speaker 4>then he went into like full childhood like load, like

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<v Speaker 4>talking about how the holidays are like such a big

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<v Speaker 4>deal for him and he's sad when they're over, so

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<v Speaker 4>he just stretches it out as long as he can.

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<v Speaker 2>Look.

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<v Speaker 1>I get the idea there, because it is a little

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<v Speaker 1>lonely once you take all this stuff down. But I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like, also in this world where we're all trying

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<v Speaker 1>to find our connection, if you meet someone and it

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<v Speaker 1>goes as well and you like the dates, right, he

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<v Speaker 1>seem like a pretty cool dude on the dates.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean he seemed cool. It's just I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>I just once he got into an apartment, I just

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<v Speaker 4>I got the ick, you know, because you know, with guys,

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<v Speaker 4>there's like a fine line between like sweet and childish,

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<v Speaker 4>and this time, you know, he just went a little

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<v Speaker 4>bit too far into the childish side. And I don't

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<v Speaker 4>know it was just because.

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<v Speaker 1>Childish can be playful, or I guess it can give you,

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<v Speaker 1>as it did in this case, the ick. Well, Maya,

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<v Speaker 1>I just wanted to know that we are on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone with Nathan. He's here listening to this. Nathan, what's

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<v Speaker 1>your response to what Maya said?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I'm kind of bummed that was because those are like,

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<v Speaker 3>those are really personal feelings that I shared with you,

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<v Speaker 3>and it seemed like you really you told me you

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<v Speaker 3>really liked the holidays, and so I feel like we

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<v Speaker 3>shared that like it was common you know. Interest.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean I do like the holidays. It's just

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<v Speaker 4>I like the holidays. During the holidays, you know, it's

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<v Speaker 4>just I'm sorry, it just all was a bit much.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, you're like, you're like Buddy the elf.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh, I mean, I don't know, it's it's it sounds

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<v Speaker 5>like Maya here, I mean, would it have been better

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<v Speaker 5>Maya he had already had the decorations put away?

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<v Speaker 2>But like.

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<v Speaker 1>The problem, this is the real issue. I'm struggling. This

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<v Speaker 1>is it with Nathan because he had.

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<v Speaker 4>Too many decorations and they were still out or like,

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know what the issue is either. It's just

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<v Speaker 4>that we had fun. But you know, Nathan, you're an

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<v Speaker 4>adult and you had an elf on the shelf and

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<v Speaker 4>you live alone.

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<v Speaker 3>So I don't know, it just it was I didn't

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<v Speaker 3>feel like that was a big deal. But that really

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, okay, I I I hate that I'm saying

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<v Speaker 3>this on the radio, but like I had some like

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<v Speaker 3>harder times during the holidays when I was younger, and

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<v Speaker 3>you know, Christmas and the holidays, you know, season always

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<v Speaker 3>made me feel really happy and they still do. So

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<v Speaker 3>I keep my decorations up. It's just based on how

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<v Speaker 3>I feel. And I mean, I'm I've I've taken him

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<v Speaker 3>down now, you know, it's been like a month since,

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<v Speaker 3>like I haven't. I've taken him down now, but I

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<v Speaker 3>don't know that just.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not trying to found mean.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, you thank you so late for that.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I thank you for being honest with us. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>let you go. Yes, she's gone, that's not Nathan.

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<v Speaker 2>I like you more. Yeah, she's not the girl for you.

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<v Speaker 2>She's not.

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<v Speaker 1>But there's a lot of people hearing this right now.

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<v Speaker 1>And if you vibe with Nathan's vibe, like sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>you got a big heart.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's the one thing really important to me. I

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<v Speaker 3>don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I got you, and she should appreciate that a little

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<v Speaker 1>more if she's the one for you, the person that's

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<v Speaker 1>with you, like it's not meant to be. But anybody

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<v Speaker 1>wants to cank about your number, anybody calls in, I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's great.

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<v Speaker 4>So I don't think that you should feel any sort

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<v Speaker 4>of way about this, Nathan.

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<v Speaker 2>Can I give your number out to people to call

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<v Speaker 2>in off air?

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<v Speaker 4>Sure?

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<v Speaker 2>I guess Okay, great, I like him.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we should bring back all the nice people from

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<v Speaker 1>different second date updates. It didn't work out and see

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<v Speaker 1>if they match up with each other and call it

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<v Speaker 1>the second date, dating you.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, the alpha though, Come on,