WEBVTT - Ep. 63 "99 Won't, 1 Will" 0:00:03.040 --> 0:00:07.080 We're just too unapologetically black women with an opinion who 0:00:07.240 --> 0:00:12.520 talk about what's up? Y'all. Welcome to a new episode. 0:00:12.520 --> 0:00:15.080 If we talk back, it's your girl a j what 0:00:15.320 --> 0:00:18.439 app Hey, y'all, it's me Tim Bam. I fucking love 0:00:18.480 --> 0:00:21.239 you guys. Man, I missed y'all. How you doing, a J? Child? 0:00:21.360 --> 0:00:26.680 I'm good battling the pollen killing me? Girl? What? I 0:00:26.720 --> 0:00:29.159 can't even see the polo, but it's already beating my 0:00:29.280 --> 0:00:32.720 ass like you can't. Typically, I don't start feeling this 0:00:32.840 --> 0:00:35.720 bad from pollen until I can see it. But I 0:00:35.760 --> 0:00:38.280 can't see it on cars or nothing, but it's already. 0:00:38.320 --> 0:00:40.720 It's like invisible. Girl. We got what the fund is 0:00:40.760 --> 0:00:45.000 that calipine trees in Charleston and I can't keep my 0:00:45.320 --> 0:00:48.479 car clean? Like? Why im a month of pollen? I'm 0:00:48.520 --> 0:00:51.240 sick of this ship because I can barely breathe. Breathe again. 0:00:51.440 --> 0:00:56.080 I'm tired of taking take your medicine. How was your weekend, bitch? 0:00:56.560 --> 0:01:01.040 I went out to dinner. Um, you went on a date. No, 0:01:01.320 --> 0:01:05.000 not exactly. My family, Um, my sister and my nephew 0:01:05.080 --> 0:01:07.760 was in town, so I hung up with them and 0:01:07.800 --> 0:01:11.679 my sister's friends. My nephew plays football and ship. So 0:01:11.720 --> 0:01:14.640 I went to this little football camp this weekend for 0:01:14.720 --> 0:01:17.160 my weekend. Y'all, I just got to slow down. I 0:01:17.280 --> 0:01:21.440 just got to slow down. COVID had me stuck in 0:01:21.440 --> 0:01:24.360 the house, and now I'm just like stuck in the house. 0:01:24.480 --> 0:01:31.399 What stuck in the house? And I've just been outside outside. 0:01:31.959 --> 0:01:33.920 But I live alone, so it's just like, why should 0:01:33.920 --> 0:01:35.520 I just stay in the house by myself when I 0:01:35.560 --> 0:01:39.200 can be outside mingling with the masses. I don't be 0:01:39.240 --> 0:01:42.240 missing going out like that. That's because you'd be bowed up. 0:01:42.959 --> 0:01:45.720 I do not be bowed up, you know. I wish 0:01:48.680 --> 0:01:50.840 I do not be I ain't got no boob, I 0:01:50.880 --> 0:01:53.000 don't have no boot, I don't have like a potential booth. 0:01:53.040 --> 0:01:56.360 So I'm just kind of like hanging out with the girls. 0:01:57.360 --> 0:01:59.240 I like being booed up, but I definitely gonna be 0:01:59.280 --> 0:02:04.120 brewed up but up. But girls saying the same thing 0:02:04.160 --> 0:02:08.320 twice don't make it mean nothing different. Beach, I don't 0:02:08.400 --> 0:02:10.799 like hot girl summers like I like this dick. When 0:02:10.800 --> 0:02:12.520 I get off the beach, I'm sorry. I don't want 0:02:12.520 --> 0:02:16.079 to go out of tower, bitches, So I'm working on that. 0:02:16.560 --> 0:02:18.440 You can go out of town with bitches. It's still 0:02:18.480 --> 0:02:21.600 suck dick. Yeah, random dick, because that's what I'm saying, 0:02:21.680 --> 0:02:25.440 bitches be doing. Don't take on bitches, be fucking random. 0:02:25.520 --> 0:02:32.120 Nick is on vacation. I with it, Shaye. What we 0:02:32.160 --> 0:02:35.680 got going on in stupid ass internet news? A lot? 0:02:36.080 --> 0:02:41.440 This girl a lot. Jesse Williams is asking the court 0:02:41.520 --> 0:02:44.840 to reduce his child support payments for his eight year 0:02:44.840 --> 0:02:49.200 old and six year old children. So apparently he's paying 0:02:49.240 --> 0:02:55.000 forty dollars monthly child support and he wants to reduce. Uh. 0:02:55.320 --> 0:02:59.040 He was making He made six point two million and 0:02:59.160 --> 0:03:03.480 a hundred eighty thousands and residuals on Gray's Anatomy, But 0:03:03.600 --> 0:03:06.519 now he's making sixteen hundred dollars a week as a 0:03:06.600 --> 0:03:09.280 star of the play Take Me Out, So he's not 0:03:09.400 --> 0:03:11.519 making that kind of ends right now. So he said 0:03:11.520 --> 0:03:13.119 he don't want to pay them forty bands a month. 0:03:13.120 --> 0:03:15.600 What do you think about that? Yeah? I mean when 0:03:15.639 --> 0:03:17.640 people life changes, you go to court and you have 0:03:17.760 --> 0:03:20.160 things adjusted. So his ex wife still wants them to 0:03:20.240 --> 0:03:23.800 come up with forty a month even if he's not 0:03:23.840 --> 0:03:27.160 making up. I just want to say, Lord, everybody, by 0:03:27.160 --> 0:03:31.919 your heads, Lord, what you're doing for others. Please see 0:03:32.000 --> 0:03:33.760 fit to do for me in the name. But she's 0:03:33.800 --> 0:03:37.520 just safe man forty thousand on my Listen, we need 0:03:37.520 --> 0:03:41.840 to we need to see what the annual income or 0:03:41.960 --> 0:03:46.560 salary is for a celebrity baby mama. Be good. They're 0:03:46.600 --> 0:03:51.000 just making faint because apparently apparently she doesn't work, and 0:03:51.160 --> 0:03:54.320 she holds a New York real estate license that she's 0:03:54.320 --> 0:03:56.840 not using, so you want him to get a better 0:03:56.840 --> 0:04:00.200 paying job so you ain't gotta work, basically, right, they 0:04:00.200 --> 0:04:03.000 need to go on and create a major in college 0:04:03.080 --> 0:04:06.960 for celebrity baby mama because if he's paying forty dollars 0:04:07.000 --> 0:04:11.640 a month, it's a career option, all right. Hell yeah 0:04:11.760 --> 0:04:14.360 the fuck. You know some people, I'm pretty sure. I'm 0:04:14.400 --> 0:04:17.360 not saying I'm pretty sure, but people breathe their children. 0:04:17.360 --> 0:04:20.760 It's just black women don't be bred to to to 0:04:20.880 --> 0:04:25.360 go after those type of suitors. Does somebody straight take 0:04:25.400 --> 0:04:27.160 care of your ass? Like, really, you're supposed to be 0:04:27.200 --> 0:04:30.240 going from your daddy house to your husband house, but 0:04:31.800 --> 0:04:35.880 straggling and as he's supposed to have like a dowry 0:04:36.040 --> 0:04:38.520 or something for my motherfucking man, exactly make it rain 0:04:38.560 --> 0:04:40.080 on me at the wedding. You know, like they do 0:04:40.120 --> 0:04:43.720 at the African weddings. That's what we need, an African 0:04:45.880 --> 0:04:49.159 child support. But for somebody who has this kind of money, 0:04:49.279 --> 0:04:51.440 just seemed like should they even be on child support? 0:04:51.839 --> 0:04:53.640 He don't seem like the type that wouldn't take care 0:04:53.680 --> 0:04:56.200 of his kids. I'm sure he wouldn't be giving her 0:04:56.240 --> 0:04:59.000 that much. No, that's excessive. And she's not working, so 0:04:59.040 --> 0:05:00.960 we said that before. She is not working. She has 0:05:01.000 --> 0:05:04.560 a New York real estate license and she's not using it. 0:05:04.880 --> 0:05:07.040 So basically, you need him to go get a higher 0:05:07.040 --> 0:05:10.320 paying job so you can continue not to work. Are 0:05:10.360 --> 0:05:15.480 we mad at her? Yeah? Because kids are both parties responsibility. 0:05:15.880 --> 0:05:17.640 But I guess you know, once you married, she's a 0:05:17.680 --> 0:05:22.479 full time custodian though sounds like okay, but I know 0:05:22.560 --> 0:05:25.960 a full time job in itself for who because a 0:05:26.040 --> 0:05:27.680 lot a lot of people. Yeah, that's what I was 0:05:27.720 --> 0:05:29.680 about to say, Like in a marriage, I guess once 0:05:29.680 --> 0:05:31.719 you divorce somebody, if he was making a certain amount 0:05:31.760 --> 0:05:34.279 of money, he has to pay for you to maintain 0:05:34.360 --> 0:05:38.280 this lifestyle. Mm hmm. But if he's not making that 0:05:38.320 --> 0:05:40.640 money anymore, the courts should adjusted. And I feel like 0:05:40.680 --> 0:05:43.760 if she ever loved him, she would want to adjust 0:05:43.839 --> 0:05:47.160 it to Alexa play was Love Got to Do With It? 0:05:47.279 --> 0:05:54.280 By Tina Turner. No, I agreetars is a lie. I 0:05:54.320 --> 0:05:56.960 mean you can survive off much less much much less, 0:05:58.560 --> 0:06:02.200 or get back to work since uh, everybody doing real 0:06:02.279 --> 0:06:04.080 estate now, I go ahead and get back to work. 0:06:04.200 --> 0:06:06.440 But she living in New York? Like, how good is that? Realist? 0:06:06.480 --> 0:06:09.000 I'm pretty sure. I'm pretty sure. Like the fucking sh 0:06:09.240 --> 0:06:13.359 is astronomically nobody vinyl houses right now? For real? She 0:06:13.480 --> 0:06:16.000 unify her some damn investors. That's just buying up some 0:06:16.080 --> 0:06:22.640 damn property somewhere. Good luck, Jesse. Guess what Tyler Perry 0:06:22.720 --> 0:06:28.200 admits to using my dia voice in bed Ill? What 0:06:28.240 --> 0:06:30.880 the fund is that about? Could you imagine he'll put 0:06:30.920 --> 0:06:36.919 his dick and you tell my heiler, Oh, this is 0:06:36.920 --> 0:06:41.520 pussy good hler Is it pussy m that he's using 0:06:41.560 --> 0:06:49.800 that voice? One? Oh? That is that is a good question. 0:06:50.120 --> 0:06:52.800 Is he using that voice when he gets some dick? 0:06:56.360 --> 0:06:59.320 Tyler Perry is not gay. Tyler Perry is a straight 0:06:59.400 --> 0:07:02.360 black man. I know again nigga stole his credit card 0:07:02.440 --> 0:07:06.680 one time. How did that happened? How this nigga, How 0:07:06.720 --> 0:07:09.760 this young nigga got your fucking wallet. Please tell me, 0:07:12.280 --> 0:07:17.880 because because I know how I get nigga's wallets. The fun. 0:07:20.360 --> 0:07:22.440 I thought he ty Perry had a girlfriend at one point. 0:07:22.520 --> 0:07:26.200 He might do. He might be bisexual, but I don't 0:07:26.240 --> 0:07:29.040 think he's ever said he's had a sexual I just 0:07:29.080 --> 0:07:31.560 don't understand why media would ever need to come up 0:07:31.600 --> 0:07:37.760 and again like at all, gay, straight, whatever whatever you like. 0:07:38.040 --> 0:07:40.400 MDIA needs to stay the funk out, Yeah, because I'm 0:07:40.440 --> 0:07:47.320 definitely not sucking media dog me neither. She got the 0:07:47.440 --> 0:07:50.720 big as cities though. The closest I'm sucking to the 0:07:50.760 --> 0:08:00.280 closest I might fun to media is Oprah. You bitch, 0:08:00.320 --> 0:08:05.000 girls gonna beat your ass. I'm just playing girl and 0:08:05.240 --> 0:08:10.760 stay at me. Oh y'all, we can only aspire to 0:08:10.800 --> 0:08:13.560 beat their motherfucker's when we get that a shot. So 0:08:13.800 --> 0:08:17.760 I heard Jannet Jackson used to date Tyler Perry. You 0:08:17.880 --> 0:08:20.400 heard a motherfucking like bitch. Ain't no way Tyler Perry 0:08:20.440 --> 0:08:23.720 got no Jenny Jackson. Listen, Tyler Perry was sucking with 0:08:23.840 --> 0:08:27.200 Jamaine dupri Why the funk would she not with? Uh? See, 0:08:27.200 --> 0:08:29.760 that's how room will start. Tyler Perry was sucking Jamaine Dupris. 0:08:31.200 --> 0:08:36.360 You know what I meant, Janie Jesson. See that's how 0:08:36.440 --> 0:08:40.680 room will start right there, welcome to Atlanta, like and 0:08:40.800 --> 0:08:42.600 you know, I feel like she only did he Jamine 0:08:42.640 --> 0:08:44.640 dpre to get at one up on the Ridkerry for 0:08:44.720 --> 0:08:49.240 hits for songs. She was definitely acting on a on 0:08:49.280 --> 0:08:55.640 a couple of Tyler Perry films. She want she don't 0:08:55.640 --> 0:09:00.400 have to funk for no job. That's Jennie Jensen. Janet 0:09:00.440 --> 0:09:04.000 Jackson was sucking for them lead roholes, Honey, Janet bo. 0:09:04.200 --> 0:09:07.440 I just don't understand why she Jermaine and Tyler Perry. 0:09:07.480 --> 0:09:10.040 That just don't seem right. She all got no preference. 0:09:11.840 --> 0:09:16.280 She just probably right. I don't see. She's probably just 0:09:16.360 --> 0:09:19.240 like good people. That's how she She probably just based 0:09:19.240 --> 0:09:21.480 it on goodness and ship. You know her voice sound 0:09:21.559 --> 0:09:26.240 like that's how she feels, like fucking rainbow bright Cariburians, bitch. 0:09:27.000 --> 0:09:32.680 I just really like people who are good and kind. Heller. 0:09:33.040 --> 0:09:35.320 You can imagine him doing that to her room to 0:09:35.400 --> 0:09:43.960 Janet Jackson, Chad Tyler, I like it when you do 0:09:44.040 --> 0:09:49.160 my dear voice in the bed, do it, Tyler, do it? Tyler, Heller, 0:09:49.960 --> 0:09:54.079 hellerge it. Let me stop, y'all so I guess we 0:09:54.160 --> 0:09:58.520 got to talk about the elephant in the room, what 0:09:58.679 --> 0:10:01.720 the whole world is talking about out. But before we 0:10:01.760 --> 0:10:04.240 do that, let's go to a break. We'll be right back. 0:10:08.840 --> 0:10:10.559 I know you've been talking about it all week, but 0:10:10.600 --> 0:10:13.720 we're about to talk about a little bit more. Will Smith, 0:10:14.600 --> 0:10:31.800 Chris Rock, Jada Pinkett smacks slapgate. Yo. Was it necessary? Yeah? 0:10:32.240 --> 0:10:34.960 Sometimes no, because we just got finished having an episode 0:10:34.960 --> 0:10:38.000 saying domestic violence is never necessary. I don't know if 0:10:38.000 --> 0:10:41.280 that's counted as domestic violence, but it was violence, So 0:10:41.400 --> 0:10:46.760 violence is never necessary. How most change comes with violence. 0:10:47.320 --> 0:10:50.679 So maybe now Chris Rock will watch his sucking mouth 0:10:52.679 --> 0:10:55.520 about to do a comedy tour. His ticket sales went up, 0:10:56.000 --> 0:10:58.000 and he's about to say worse ship than he said 0:10:58.040 --> 0:11:00.800 then because Will Smith won't be there to smack his 0:11:00.880 --> 0:11:03.040 ass this time. I'll be unpaid and niggo to be 0:11:03.040 --> 0:11:07.920 there just in case, because I said, keep my wife 0:11:07.960 --> 0:11:11.760 therebut your motherfucking mouth. No, he's about to go crazy. 0:11:12.480 --> 0:11:14.720 I feel like that little part was added for us 0:11:14.720 --> 0:11:16.960 to meet. Okay, first of all, let me listen. Let 0:11:17.000 --> 0:11:20.640 y'all know that I believe that ship was fucking staged. 0:11:20.840 --> 0:11:25.880 This is a j also here and Will Smith had 0:11:25.920 --> 0:11:28.640 to add that keep my words name out your mouth 0:11:28.880 --> 0:11:31.200 to make it more convincible, because you know, that's like 0:11:31.240 --> 0:11:33.880 black people talk. If somebody say that ship, it gotta 0:11:33.920 --> 0:11:37.320 be real, right, Why what reason would they have to 0:11:37.400 --> 0:11:41.360 do that? Because the motherfucker Oscars ratings have been in 0:11:41.440 --> 0:11:44.320 the fucking trash can for hot for a decade or more. 0:11:44.720 --> 0:11:48.199 That's why this is the first year it was produced 0:11:48.200 --> 0:11:51.880 by a black man. Will Smith got his first Oscar. 0:11:52.000 --> 0:11:55.720 You smack a nigga, right, and then get the Best 0:11:56.040 --> 0:12:00.280 Actor awards shortly thereafter? You just acted and then you 0:12:00.280 --> 0:12:03.200 got an award for doing it. I don't think that 0:12:03.320 --> 0:12:05.320 was a nact. I really feel like he felt some 0:12:05.360 --> 0:12:07.800 type of way. I don't feel like Jada would want 0:12:07.840 --> 0:12:10.559 to use her ball head as a catalyst for ratings 0:12:10.559 --> 0:12:14.120 for the Oscar Awards, Like I'm sure they would be like, 0:12:14.200 --> 0:12:16.160 can we come up with something different to get in 0:12:16.160 --> 0:12:19.600 a fight about exself? For Jada ball is Like you 0:12:19.600 --> 0:12:21.800 know what I'm saying, Like, I don't think that was it. 0:12:23.480 --> 0:12:27.240 I feel her pain ship. I would have been mad too, 0:12:27.240 --> 0:12:29.080 because I'd be feeling my ship and all the time 0:12:29.080 --> 0:12:31.319 with a shadow, so I was feeling my ship in 0:12:31.440 --> 0:12:34.199 watching the oscars like me and Jade ain't the same boat. 0:12:34.360 --> 0:12:37.439 God damn. All right, so let's talk about it as 0:12:37.480 --> 0:12:40.600 if it were real, right, Let's just say, let's just 0:12:40.720 --> 0:12:42.720 let's just say how to leave the fucking smack? Was 0:12:42.880 --> 0:12:46.959 the smack was real? Yes? But was the whole ordeal nonstage? 0:12:47.040 --> 0:12:50.360 I don't know, it's real questionable. It's just like how 0:12:50.440 --> 0:12:53.160 Chris Rock look hands behind his back like he prepared 0:12:53.200 --> 0:12:56.120 to get smack. So do you feel like Jada Pinkett 0:12:56.120 --> 0:12:58.120 really got alopecia or she shaved her hand to be 0:12:58.120 --> 0:13:01.880 a part of the conspiracy theory? I believe she has alopecia. 0:13:01.920 --> 0:13:04.120 Her daughter has shaved her has had her head and 0:13:04.120 --> 0:13:07.480 shaved for the last how many years, and solidarity you 0:13:07.520 --> 0:13:11.120 know with her mom. So yeah, I believe that she 0:13:11.280 --> 0:13:14.320 does have alopecia. And she's a lot of black women 0:13:14.360 --> 0:13:17.400 have alopecia, a lot of us so a lot of 0:13:17.400 --> 0:13:22.320 women period. So if it were real, right, y'all know 0:13:22.360 --> 0:13:25.000 my stands on it, So let's say, was legit? Right? 0:13:26.000 --> 0:13:28.200 I feel like Chris Rock pobably should have got smacked. 0:13:28.320 --> 0:13:31.160 I'm not gonna sit here and and they're trying to 0:13:31.200 --> 0:13:34.199 say that he didn't know about her her medical condition 0:13:34.320 --> 0:13:37.800 right with just some bullshit because she's very vocal about it. 0:13:37.840 --> 0:13:39.680 And we talked about Will Smith and Jada Pekett. These 0:13:39.720 --> 0:13:44.559 ain't no regular niggas. Okay, he's there, Pick, that's the 0:13:44.720 --> 0:13:46.520 pit his peers. You see what I'm saying. This ain't 0:13:46.520 --> 0:13:49.200 no stranger. And even if they're not friends, even if 0:13:49.200 --> 0:13:50.880 they haven't kicked it in the last few years, they 0:13:50.920 --> 0:13:55.760 know each other. They know of each other Rock, but 0:13:55.880 --> 0:13:57.959 he may not. I didn't know she had alopecia to 0:13:58.040 --> 0:14:01.640 this ship happened. I heard, I heard she had alopecia. 0:14:03.000 --> 0:14:05.520 I didn't know. I just thought she was just embracing 0:14:05.520 --> 0:14:09.520 her head like that. You know, older women like to 0:14:09.559 --> 0:14:12.360 cut their hair off, like especially. I can't speak for 0:14:12.360 --> 0:14:14.160 white women, but I know a lot of Black women. 0:14:14.200 --> 0:14:16.600 They'd be like, funk their hair. Once they start getting 0:14:16.600 --> 0:14:20.120 close to fifty, they'll be cutting it off or sister 0:14:20.200 --> 0:14:23.080 locks wanted the two. Y'all remember Chris Rock had that 0:14:24.080 --> 0:14:28.240 documentary Sorry good you remember? Do you remember Chris Rock 0:14:28.320 --> 0:14:33.640 had that um that good hair documentary? Yeah, so he 0:14:33.720 --> 0:14:36.920 knows like how important black women here is, Like Nigga 0:14:36.960 --> 0:14:39.880 you literally traveled the fucking world to see how much 0:14:39.880 --> 0:14:42.520 we spend on our hair. Not to mention Nigga spend 0:14:42.560 --> 0:14:44.760 a bunch of dumb money on stupid ship all the time. 0:14:44.840 --> 0:14:46.840 Why are you so concerned about black women in their hair? 0:14:47.240 --> 0:14:49.080 So I really feel like he probably should have been 0:14:49.120 --> 0:14:52.880 got smacked. And then like the g I Jane ship 0:14:53.240 --> 0:14:56.560 is like, you know, the strong black woman, like he 0:14:56.640 --> 0:14:59.080 was taking a punch of that too. It was a 0:14:59.120 --> 0:15:02.560 poor joke. Nobody even laughed at that ship, for they 0:15:02.600 --> 0:15:04.880 did kind of get up. I think Will Smith even 0:15:04.920 --> 0:15:06.600 might have chucked up a little bit. And then he 0:15:06.640 --> 0:15:10.360 looked over, Oh we're mad. I'm about to come up 0:15:10.400 --> 0:15:12.640 there and smacked the ship out of you. But I 0:15:12.720 --> 0:15:15.160 feel like his Everybody keeps saying that, but I feel 0:15:15.200 --> 0:15:18.080 like his laugh was a residual laugh from the previous 0:15:18.200 --> 0:15:20.320 whatever what was said, He was still in the midst 0:15:20.360 --> 0:15:22.760 of that. Now. You know how somebody can say some 0:15:22.840 --> 0:15:24.360 ship to you and you don't really catch it, but 0:15:24.440 --> 0:15:26.840 you did, is like subconsciously you heard it. I think 0:15:26.920 --> 0:15:29.040 that's what happened. We don't see when he got mad 0:15:29.040 --> 0:15:32.240 because it was off camera. We saw Jada rolling her 0:15:32.280 --> 0:15:36.160 eye and we saw him laughing, and the camera then 0:15:36.240 --> 0:15:39.200 went went to Chris. We don't know exactly when he 0:15:39.280 --> 0:15:41.720 got mad. We know the nigger got mad and he 0:15:41.840 --> 0:15:46.400 went up there and smacked the black man. Yep, smacked 0:15:46.440 --> 0:15:50.040 another black man right across the face. Um, live television. 0:15:50.560 --> 0:15:53.560 What Will Smith has smacked white man or a bigger man? 0:15:54.080 --> 0:15:56.080 Do you think? Yeah? I think so. I think he 0:15:56.120 --> 0:15:58.480 would have smacked anybody up there who was making them jokes, 0:15:59.440 --> 0:16:02.360 Will Smith, maybe not another woman. Jada would have went 0:16:02.440 --> 0:16:05.280 up there and smacked the bitch. Why she didn't smack 0:16:05.360 --> 0:16:12.080 Regina Hall? Then maybe those jokes were approved because um, 0:16:12.840 --> 0:16:15.480 they said that that joke was on the fly. Wasn't 0:16:15.680 --> 0:16:17.760 one of the jokes that had been approved for the show. 0:16:18.080 --> 0:16:21.760 It wasn't coming from teleprompter. It was You think Will 0:16:21.800 --> 0:16:24.360 Smith and Jada was at home like okay? Because I 0:16:24.360 --> 0:16:27.920 remember two thousand sixteen, I think Chris Rock close to 0:16:28.040 --> 0:16:30.720 that oscar and they weren't there. Jada Pinkett was actually 0:16:30.720 --> 0:16:35.160 trying to boycott the Oscars and Chris Rock was talking 0:16:35.200 --> 0:16:38.800 shit about them, not he was a whole. So I 0:16:38.880 --> 0:16:41.960 wonder if they were at the house like shit, if 0:16:42.040 --> 0:16:44.640 this nigga said anything tonight I'm a smack as sucking ass, 0:16:45.360 --> 0:16:48.280 and she bright, I dare you, I dare you. I 0:16:48.360 --> 0:16:50.440 bet you, I will I bet you, I'll go up there. 0:16:50.840 --> 0:16:52.760 You ain't gonna do ship? Will you ain't gonna do? 0:16:52.840 --> 0:16:56.160 She I dare you? And they probably had some drinks 0:16:56.160 --> 0:17:01.160 flowing that that ship. He was gonna go, Yeah, because 0:17:01.200 --> 0:17:04.480 the joke wasn't that bad, Like, it really wasn't that bad. 0:17:04.640 --> 0:17:08.520 But I can, I can, I understand it. But was 0:17:08.600 --> 0:17:14.120 it like smack warranted? No, it wasn't. I don't feel 0:17:14.119 --> 0:17:17.119 like it was smack warranted. But I get why he 0:17:17.280 --> 0:17:21.159 got smacked. But he could have fought him after the 0:17:21.240 --> 0:17:24.200 show when everybody was drunk. That seemed like more like 0:17:24.440 --> 0:17:27.240 he would have did remember remember that ship you thought 0:17:27.320 --> 0:17:33.040 was so funny earlier tonight and then hit him like, yeah, 0:17:33.080 --> 0:17:40.040 I hit him with the Oscar across the dead He definitely, 0:17:40.440 --> 0:17:42.200 he definitely would have been looking at some other fucking 0:17:42.280 --> 0:17:44.760 charges at that point. That would have been a more 0:17:44.840 --> 0:17:48.200 professional way to handle it. I think, to smack him 0:17:48.320 --> 0:17:53.320 at an after party with the Oscar award after what 0:17:53.680 --> 0:17:57.680 after he got his award, you know, not during the 0:17:57.720 --> 0:18:02.600 actual show. Oh so, black women around the world are 0:18:02.760 --> 0:18:08.680 applauding will Smith, while black men are very divided and indifferent. 0:18:08.720 --> 0:18:10.160 You got a lot of black men that's like, yeah, 0:18:10.160 --> 0:18:12.920 I'm smacking whoever about my wife, no matter what. But 0:18:13.000 --> 0:18:14.800 then you got others is like that wasn't you know, 0:18:14.920 --> 0:18:18.240 like we're saying like maybe it wasn't warranted, Like maybe, um, 0:18:18.840 --> 0:18:23.000 it wasn't that serious. They keep talking about August south Cinia. 0:18:23.040 --> 0:18:25.600 They keep bringing him into the equation like that should 0:18:25.640 --> 0:18:28.320 be Will Smith shouldn't stay take up for his wife 0:18:28.400 --> 0:18:31.200 because she sucked somebody else, Like y'all don't be fucking 0:18:31.240 --> 0:18:34.280 other people. All the time they had, they were in 0:18:34.320 --> 0:18:37.360 an open relationship. Apparently he not mad no more. White 0:18:37.400 --> 0:18:40.480 y'all still mad about it. I don't have nothing to 0:18:40.520 --> 0:18:42.200 do with the person to your china, Like I ain't 0:18:42.240 --> 0:18:44.920 gonna fight over no woman who fucking more than me. 0:18:46.440 --> 0:18:49.359 That's what people are saying today. That was from I 0:18:49.440 --> 0:18:53.560 was about to say, tain who was that? That was applied? Girl. 0:18:53.960 --> 0:18:57.560 First of all, you don't have a wife, Okay, let's 0:18:57.640 --> 0:19:01.560 be clear. And y'all they talk about Jada Smith like 0:19:01.640 --> 0:19:04.199 everybody loved Jada, loved Jade into that August has seen 0:19:04.240 --> 0:19:08.280 a ship. Now she's just like the worst fucking woman 0:19:08.320 --> 0:19:11.560 in the world. And that's not fair because men get 0:19:11.720 --> 0:19:14.359 a second chance a million times, they get a million 0:19:14.440 --> 0:19:16.960 second chances. And not only are y'all talking about her 0:19:17.080 --> 0:19:18.520 like she's like the worst one in the world, you 0:19:18.680 --> 0:19:21.399 also saying she's not worthy of being protected by her 0:19:21.440 --> 0:19:25.399 own husband. Y'all stupid. Don't give a fun like if 0:19:25.440 --> 0:19:27.560 they choose, if they wake up and choose each other 0:19:27.680 --> 0:19:30.280 every day, no matter what's going on and their fucking lives, 0:19:30.359 --> 0:19:33.720 whose business is that? That's beautiful to me? Yes, like 0:19:33.800 --> 0:19:35.960 I want somebody who be about me like that too, Like, 0:19:36.040 --> 0:19:38.159 no matter what's going on. They got children together, so 0:19:38.800 --> 0:19:42.359 at the least that's his baby mama the fuck y'all stupid? 0:19:43.080 --> 0:19:45.800 So you think Chloe should choose Tristan every time like that? 0:19:46.880 --> 0:19:50.080 Did you you see how I throw a monkey rich 0:19:50.119 --> 0:19:54.680 in that ship at y'all last? That is not her husband. 0:19:55.720 --> 0:19:59.920 You saw what Lamar Oldham said? What he said? Yeah, 0:20:00.119 --> 0:20:01.520 he said if he would have showed up for his 0:20:01.640 --> 0:20:04.000 wife more, they probably still would have been married, if 0:20:04.040 --> 0:20:06.320 he would have showed up for her emotionally. All those 0:20:06.440 --> 0:20:09.400 this is what what black women are talking about when 0:20:09.480 --> 0:20:11.520 we say we want to be protected, you know what 0:20:11.600 --> 0:20:14.800 I'm saying, most of all, emotionally, we want to be 0:20:14.920 --> 0:20:20.080 protected absolutely. So do you feel like you want your 0:20:20.160 --> 0:20:24.960 husband to physically violate other people in your name even 0:20:25.000 --> 0:20:27.400 though they're not being physical, because I mean, he could 0:20:27.440 --> 0:20:29.320 have really gotten in some trouble you know for that. 0:20:30.880 --> 0:20:33.280 So are we protecting our men if we're saying yes, 0:20:33.400 --> 0:20:37.280 slap that niggas for saying that, are we protecting them? Okay? So, 0:20:37.400 --> 0:20:40.480 first of all, I'm never gonna intentionally send somebody I 0:20:40.720 --> 0:20:44.480 love into harm's way, right, But we all know there 0:20:44.560 --> 0:20:47.920 are such things as fighting words and fighting words are 0:20:48.400 --> 0:20:51.400 could be subjective. You know what I'm saying. Certain things 0:20:51.480 --> 0:20:53.440 might be fighting worries to you, sir, things might be 0:20:53.520 --> 0:20:56.879 fighting worries to me. On that particular day, him calling 0:20:56.960 --> 0:21:01.240 her g I Jane was fighting words. I mean, she 0:21:01.320 --> 0:21:03.280 didn't really send him in there, but she didn't stop him. 0:21:03.520 --> 0:21:06.560 You know what I'm saying. It's not now is Jada 0:21:06.640 --> 0:21:08.760 also the bad person because she didn't stop him from 0:21:08.800 --> 0:21:11.879 getting in trouble? But then we're supposed to let men 0:21:11.960 --> 0:21:13.600 do what they want to do, right, We're supposed to 0:21:13.640 --> 0:21:16.320 let men handle Let him man be a man and 0:21:16.480 --> 0:21:19.240 just stay in y'all can't have it both ways. So 0:21:19.359 --> 0:21:22.560 what I would saying earlier is that black women are like, yes, 0:21:22.680 --> 0:21:24.879 that's a smack for all black women who be getting 0:21:24.920 --> 0:21:28.880 disrespected or whatever going for from this day for everybody 0:21:28.960 --> 0:21:32.520 getting smacked, Like that's how black women feel now from 0:21:32.560 --> 0:21:37.040 what I'm hearing. Yeah, but the only problem with that 0:21:37.280 --> 0:21:40.200 is somebody's niggers got good. You bet. I'll be sitting 0:21:40.240 --> 0:21:42.040 your man out the smack to see anybody because of 0:21:42.080 --> 0:21:44.080 what they say, because your man might end up shot. 0:21:44.640 --> 0:21:47.600 It's not the same as the oscars. Every time real 0:21:47.680 --> 0:21:50.199 life you can get pop. Yep, you're gonna get pop. 0:21:50.359 --> 0:21:52.560 You're going to jail. And these are things that people 0:21:52.760 --> 0:21:55.040 do have to consider before they just roll up. Because 0:21:55.040 --> 0:21:57.919 we're talking about two prominent people in the community, right 0:21:58.080 --> 0:22:02.280 well everybody most we knew. Nobody was gonna die behind that, 0:22:03.680 --> 0:22:06.840 you know. And she was not an imminent danger, right 0:22:07.280 --> 0:22:10.320 you know, she wasn't in danger. Chris Rock wasn't really 0:22:10.440 --> 0:22:13.200 in danger. He just got smacked a little little tapped 0:22:13.240 --> 0:22:16.960 on the face to be reminded not to play with 0:22:17.200 --> 0:22:22.359 Mike Laurie. He smacked the shut out of Pooky. It 0:22:22.520 --> 0:22:24.920 wasn't even really like all right, wasn't really a smack 0:22:25.000 --> 0:22:27.840 the ship out of it. Wasn't really we all saying 0:22:27.920 --> 0:22:30.959 he got we'll smacked the ship out of Chris Rock. 0:22:31.080 --> 0:22:33.000 But then he really smacked the ship out of him. 0:22:33.280 --> 0:22:36.119 He had it was like it was like it was 0:22:36.200 --> 0:22:39.359 like a faux finger slap, you know, it wasn't. It 0:22:39.520 --> 0:22:46.639 was like a pap that nigga got papped. Okay, he 0:22:46.880 --> 0:22:49.480 moved for most of it, like he was going down 0:22:49.600 --> 0:22:52.320 as it was coming, So it wasn't. It wasn't like 0:22:52.440 --> 0:22:55.800 a real slap. I feel like Rick James was smacking 0:22:55.880 --> 0:23:04.560 motherfucker's harder than that in the eighties. Already he's backed 0:23:04.560 --> 0:23:06.920 the ship out. Charlie Murphy got the ship smacked down 0:23:06.920 --> 0:23:09.639 to him rest in peace. But I don't think it 0:23:09.800 --> 0:23:12.159 was the same. So I guess I touched on a 0:23:12.280 --> 0:23:14.200 little bit. So what I really want to talk about 0:23:14.240 --> 0:23:17.080 today is what does it mean when black women say 0:23:17.119 --> 0:23:19.960 they want to be protected. You know, we want men 0:23:20.080 --> 0:23:22.880 to show up. Financially, we say we want a man 0:23:23.000 --> 0:23:26.840 that's a provider, right, so we want provision. The other 0:23:26.920 --> 0:23:30.240