WEBVTT - Ep 27. "Times Up"

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<v Speaker 1>We're just too unapologetically black women with an opinion to

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<v Speaker 1>talk back. He Hello, mamma, let me whist that yeady

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<v Speaker 1>sound good? You like damn got a sex as body?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh what I like to hear? I like to hear.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm about to come pay your rent? Why did I

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<v Speaker 1>pay your rent? And I might eat that bussy? It

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<v Speaker 1>was good you made me to pay your rent. Yes, Hey, y'all,

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<v Speaker 1>welcome back to a new episode that we talk back.

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<v Speaker 1>It's your girl a j And it's me Tim Man.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey y'all. I love y'all, everybody, you know all these

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<v Speaker 1>I love all my whole and how it's How are

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<v Speaker 1>you feeling, Tam, I honestly feel like ship right now.

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<v Speaker 1>M hmm, I know so good. It was my birthday weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>I was outside and that might have been of a

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<v Speaker 1>stake because the bitch can't breathe through a nose. You

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<v Speaker 1>might just have a cold. Everything is not COVID weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, my weekend. Um, I don't do much. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been really learning how to do option trading. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if anybody out there, um, any of our

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<v Speaker 1>listeners are in the stock market like that, But I've

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<v Speaker 1>always been in the stock market, but bitch, I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>learn how to option trade and if anybody interested, hit

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<v Speaker 1>me up, but just been Yeah, man, I really just

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<v Speaker 1>been looking at fucking stock charts all weekend and understanding

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<v Speaker 1>trends and all that type of ship. So that's what

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<v Speaker 1>I've been doing, making money. I'm not mad at that bitch.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wait, he also lost a family member and I'm sorry, sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>So I lost my dog, Bella last week, y'all, my

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<v Speaker 1>whole kid, Bella, Bella, sweet lady Bella James. I had

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<v Speaker 1>to put her down and I'm still debating, Um, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't hate to stay put her down. I had to

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<v Speaker 1>put her to sleep because she got extremely sick all

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<v Speaker 1>of a sudden within a week. And I just feel

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<v Speaker 1>like I want to pull up and I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>like do a drive by on the fucking vet because

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<v Speaker 1>this nick didn't call me back yet and I called

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<v Speaker 1>him since last week Tuesday, and I don't get a

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<v Speaker 1>call back yet. She was there the week before he

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<v Speaker 1>gave he prescribed me some medicine that he probably should

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<v Speaker 1>not have based on the vety she ended up at

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<v Speaker 1>and I told a receptionist like, hey, I had to

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<v Speaker 1>put my dog to sleep today? Can you have the

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<v Speaker 1>vet call me back? No call back? So, y'all, I

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<v Speaker 1>think I'm a fucking lawyer, right, it's already drafted up

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<v Speaker 1>a demand letter. Bitch, you're gonna pay me for my

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<v Speaker 1>pain and stuffing because I have been suffering the last week,

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<v Speaker 1>like for real, for real, Like I never knew I

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<v Speaker 1>could be that sad about my dog. I've had my

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<v Speaker 1>dogs and she was just little, as little as my hand,

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<v Speaker 1>eleven years old. That's my fucking kid dog. And I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like somebody took her from me. So and if

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<v Speaker 1>she was suffering, so I didn't have no choice because

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<v Speaker 1>I would be being selfish if I would keep it here, Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I would just literally she was barely breathing properly. She

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't standing up girl that she was rough. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to put an event and I have yet

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<v Speaker 1>to go pick up her remains because it's sad. I

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<v Speaker 1>might go today because I don't want to get there

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<v Speaker 1>one day and he'd be like, oh, we threw it

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<v Speaker 1>out because then when every game like what now, I

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<v Speaker 1>gotta knock over every fucking thing y'all office with my forearm,

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<v Speaker 1>like so I'm trying to avoid violence. I ain't turning

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<v Speaker 1>to switch on I hit the violence switch yet, but

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<v Speaker 1>I really feel like fighting somebody but my fucking dog,

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<v Speaker 1>because I don't think I'm gonna feel good until don't

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<v Speaker 1>fight nobody. Yeah, so I have had a positive way.

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<v Speaker 1>How go to like a boxing class? Oh, go to

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<v Speaker 1>that place I'm going to next week where you go

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<v Speaker 1>and you break shit. I do want to I've seen

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<v Speaker 1>that place in Charlotte before. I do want to go something.

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<v Speaker 1>You should come with me, come up here. We'll come

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<v Speaker 1>to meet me and Columbia. We can go break ship together.

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<v Speaker 1>And I have the face because that's what I wanna do. Alright.

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<v Speaker 1>So for um this week's dumbass Internet Ship, we just

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<v Speaker 1>like to talk about some of some of the current events,

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<v Speaker 1>things that we're seeing online because you know, it's just

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<v Speaker 1>social media is a bigger part of everybody fucking life. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to talk about a couple of things.

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<v Speaker 1>So Keisha Cole's mother just passed the way, Frankie Peter,

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<v Speaker 1>Frankie yeah Man and Bismarcki passed away. Every year been

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<v Speaker 1>rough every year, rough of years since two thousand nineteen.

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<v Speaker 1>Sending a lot of love and light to Kepsh your

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<v Speaker 1>cold man. Yeah, and Nephi and all them. She had

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of kids, man, it was just keep shows

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of them. Man. You know, it's tough. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>Kerom was on drugs for a very very long time

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<v Speaker 1>and they're saying that she overdook at her birth. On

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<v Speaker 1>her birth basically yeah, having a good time. M hmm. Also,

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<v Speaker 1>bitch just sucking fitting off. I even already. But if

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<v Speaker 1>somebody has been putting fitting on and got there in marijuana,

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<v Speaker 1>you better be careful who the fuck you on your

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<v Speaker 1>weed from out here? Like what is happening sitting all

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<v Speaker 1>in the marijuana? It causes people to die essentially, it's

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<v Speaker 1>been causing a lot of people to o D. So

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<v Speaker 1>I'm thinking, I'm wondering. I don't know what type of

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<v Speaker 1>drugs she was on. They've been putting fitting all in

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<v Speaker 1>the hero on in so you shoot that sh it

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<v Speaker 1>up like you don't really have a high survival weight rate.

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't know what are we gonna do about

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<v Speaker 1>drugs in our community? What can we do? Well? I

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<v Speaker 1>know in as a Utah, they basically then legalize every drug.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what that really does. Um, I know

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<v Speaker 1>since the um epidemic and the opioid epidemic and the

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<v Speaker 1>methophetamine epidemic has hit the white community. There's more treatment

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<v Speaker 1>centers for them now because it's being don't want a

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<v Speaker 1>medical issue exactly. Essentially, it's being handled as a medical

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<v Speaker 1>issue now. So that's one thing UM as opposed to,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, UM addicts being treated as criminals for being

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<v Speaker 1>sick essentially. Yeah, would you No, I don't want to.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I really didn't do what That's like. What's

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<v Speaker 1>the movie that privilege it? What's the TV show Love

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<v Speaker 1>of Country that they got nominated for eighteen Emmys? Is

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<v Speaker 1>still they canceled it? You know why? Because they're exposing

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<v Speaker 1>black magic. Yeah, they're exposing the magic that black people have.

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<v Speaker 1>But that penot gland is so calcified. Yeah mm hmmm,

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<v Speaker 1>you'll never be able to tap into it. Yeah. I know.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why we can't have certain conversations. Bitch, you talking

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<v Speaker 1>about one day you're gonna know and then you're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be like girl. So just so I'm like, yeah, girl,

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<v Speaker 1>now we had a conversation. Because I am not the

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<v Speaker 1>type of person with the big gas ego who want

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<v Speaker 1>to go around and beat my belief systems into people.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't do that. So whatever, we're just explained to

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<v Speaker 1>our listeners what you mean by the penot gland being calcified.

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<v Speaker 1>So there's a lot of things that's being put in food.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like a third eye essentially, you know what I'm

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<v Speaker 1>So you're saying I need to align my chop for us, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that could be a part of it, you know, because, um,

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<v Speaker 1>what I noticed when having conversations with certain people, especially

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<v Speaker 1>based on like the type of foods they eat, the

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<v Speaker 1>conversation kind of be more aligned with my beliefs, Like

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<v Speaker 1>people who are who are on more of a to me,

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<v Speaker 1>this is what I've been noticing. People who are on

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<v Speaker 1>more of a plant based diet, the conversations be different,

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<v Speaker 1>Like we kind of have the same thoughts as opposed

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<v Speaker 1>to people who consume a lot of pork, beef and ship.

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<v Speaker 1>Like that is like they don't see the same ship

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<v Speaker 1>we see somehow. So I attributed to the guet. I

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<v Speaker 1>attributed to the diet. Why because you know, especially if

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<v Speaker 1>you eat in pork, right, we're going in a hold

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<v Speaker 1>some whole other ship. But let's just go ahead and

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<v Speaker 1>go there right quick. If you were in pork unless

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<v Speaker 1>you eat in wild boar like you shot that wild

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<v Speaker 1>hog in the middle of the forest, like pigs that

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<v Speaker 1>they keep like on a farm to kill and slaughter

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<v Speaker 1>like a slaughterhouse. They were at least a chemical because

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<v Speaker 1>like a chemical, they released this chemical into the meat,

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<v Speaker 1>like when they're scared. So if they're killed in that

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<v Speaker 1>way and then you're now you're ingesting that meat, you're

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<v Speaker 1>taking on all types of stress that that pig was

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<v Speaker 1>going through when it died. I really believe that you

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<v Speaker 1>are what you eat. That's why that's where the whole

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<v Speaker 1>thing comes from. So you feel like I got the

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<v Speaker 1>sandwich wen yes, and like he must have been mad.

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<v Speaker 1>He was magically delicious, So I don't know what his

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<v Speaker 1>stress level was when he died. But thank you for

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<v Speaker 1>giving your life. Bitch. I had a pork chop sandwich.

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<v Speaker 1>Is I was like ten years old maybe, But my problem, bitch,

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<v Speaker 1>I love bread and sugar, which is still some man

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<v Speaker 1>made bullshit. Do you know illegal it should be. It's

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<v Speaker 1>like cry because I like baked goods, I like I

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<v Speaker 1>like sweet stuff, I like chocolate. I got a whole problem, child,

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<v Speaker 1>and it ain't nothing wrong with the chocolate but it's

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<v Speaker 1>like the sweetener. The sugar is the issue. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so look this one with the crack and the goddamn

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<v Speaker 1>black community, all the ship we're addicted to in the

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<v Speaker 1>black community. Um, I don't know what we can do

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<v Speaker 1>about um. Definitely, passing more legislation is not the fucking solution.

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<v Speaker 1>Passing legislation on people going to jail for drugs and

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<v Speaker 1>ship like that. No, like, no, it doesn't. So the

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<v Speaker 1>treatment centers, that's a that's a one way um intervention

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<v Speaker 1>for family members. We gotta really, you know, be a

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<v Speaker 1>family for real, for real. But here's how Black people

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<v Speaker 1>handle our family drug addiction. They're grown. What I'm gonna do?

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<v Speaker 1>Mm hmmm. Until they died and they got on the

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<v Speaker 1>T shirt crimb ain't one Harver, No, No, I hope

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<v Speaker 1>we've got life is yours on him? Right? That ship

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<v Speaker 1>is magic. Crack especially is magic. Like that ship was

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<v Speaker 1>a party drug during our parents time and then you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you're just sitting at a party and somebody like, hey man,

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<v Speaker 1>try this ship. Now you're just strung off for the

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<v Speaker 1>rest of your life. Right, that ship is mad unless

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<v Speaker 1>you can beat it. A lot of people don't beat it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I guess it all. You gotta love yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not. I don't have an addictive personality aside from sugar.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm addicted to marijuana. You may not be addicted to marijuana.

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<v Speaker 1>You may be addicted to how you feel. You feel better?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it the same thing? If something else to make

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<v Speaker 1>you feel how to marijuana feel, would you still smoke?

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<v Speaker 1>Did not be addicted to that too as well? I

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<v Speaker 1>like brownies. I don't like that smoke in my fucking lungs.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like edibles because see, when you smoke weed,

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<v Speaker 1>you go up and then you come down. Edibles you

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<v Speaker 1>go up and you stayed the funk up. For That's

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<v Speaker 1>why I only do any drugs right before I'm like

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<v Speaker 1>to go to sleep. What's the point You're doing it

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<v Speaker 1>before you go to sleep. I do it to go

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<v Speaker 1>to sleep. I don't want to be high during the

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<v Speaker 1>day when I got it to do, I'm not going

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<v Speaker 1>to be productive. Some people you might you could produce.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't. Hi, Yeah, I just can't. I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to stay high. I know eventually I'm coming down if

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<v Speaker 1>I smoke, and it'll be soon. But when eating that ship,

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<v Speaker 1>I remember one of the guys who worked in my

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<v Speaker 1>who works in my building, he gave me a liquid

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<v Speaker 1>marijuana right like juice. It was a juice and it

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<v Speaker 1>was elimonade. So he didn't explain to me that I

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<v Speaker 1>should just take a shot of it. You know, he

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<v Speaker 1>didn't express that to me. I guess he just assumed,

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<v Speaker 1>with me being such a connoisseur that I knew, but

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know. So I drink it with my sandwich

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<v Speaker 1>on my lunch break. Baby, I couldn't need to come

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<v Speaker 1>back to work. I was sitting on the floor Indian style, crying,

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<v Speaker 1>freestyling to instrumental beats on YouTube. Bitch, I was he

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<v Speaker 1>bit you made your creative? Wait a minute, you could

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<v Speaker 1>have been the next mative Stallion bit you on the juice.

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<v Speaker 1>It wasn't good. It's terrible shame. But some people smoke away,

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<v Speaker 1>they saying they some more creative. I do. I do

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<v Speaker 1>feel like I am more creative while I'm high, But

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like to use hot tools and scissors around

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<v Speaker 1>people while I'm on drugs, so it doesn't work in

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<v Speaker 1>that realm, right shame. So we went from we went

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<v Speaker 1>from don't do drugs to here's the drugs that I do.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not just like goodness. That that's all I do.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't funk when nothing else like no lean or

0:13:56.880 --> 0:13:59.760
<v Speaker 1>no pills or no none of that just just weak.

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<v Speaker 1>We can come from the earth. We're just good and

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<v Speaker 1>I just don't like. How do you funk? How do

0:14:04.360 --> 0:14:08.120
<v Speaker 1>these people trying to profit off of weed? At this point? Nobody?

0:14:08.120 --> 0:14:11.000
<v Speaker 1>I guess that's the whole thing surrounding it. Went in

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<v Speaker 1>to the other side. They change the rules, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Now they're making billions and we can't even find an

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<v Speaker 1>entry point to the weed business. Um, you know who

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<v Speaker 1>else I want to talk about? Britney spears, bitch. It's

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<v Speaker 1>Britney bitch. What do you think about that? Conservatorship bullshit?

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<v Speaker 1>You imagine? I don't understand what it is. Could you

0:14:35.760 --> 0:14:40.280
<v Speaker 1>imagine somebody else having control over your life forever? You

0:14:40.320 --> 0:14:45.200
<v Speaker 1>mean like my mama? Yeah, well it's her daddy. So

0:14:45.400 --> 0:14:48.720
<v Speaker 1>conservatorship is a legal agreement that gives a third party

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<v Speaker 1>control over someone else. Like, how does the court assign

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<v Speaker 1>somebody else to your life? Right? Um? It says they

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<v Speaker 1>can be imposed. They can they can be a posed

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<v Speaker 1>only by a court, and only a court can terminate them.

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<v Speaker 1>The person put in charge of the person's affairs is

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<v Speaker 1>called the conservatoire or the guardian in some states. So

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<v Speaker 1>remember that movie that was on Netflix a little while

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<v Speaker 1>ago where that white lady and it was like, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>it was called I Care or something like that or

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<v Speaker 1>I Care. Yeah, she and she was in charge. She

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<v Speaker 1>was I guess she was a conservative for people. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>she was. I've seen that ship and they killed that

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<v Speaker 1>that dude shot her in the head at the end.

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<v Speaker 1>That was a really good movie. Yeah it was. That

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<v Speaker 1>was a really good movie. So maybe some that's what

0:15:38.760 --> 0:15:41.400
<v Speaker 1>Brittany got going on about to say something ugly, but

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't gonna say that. Why she need to shoot

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<v Speaker 1>her daddy? Ned she wanted fast and jail, though she

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<v Speaker 1>does want him in jail, like she's saying, she's been

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<v Speaker 1>abused and basically she's been a sex a sex slave

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<v Speaker 1>from what she's saying to her daddy for thirteen years.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe not for her daddy, but maybe he was pamping

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<v Speaker 1>her out. Who knows, like you have control over somebody

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<v Speaker 1>else's life. This is why she wants to retire, This

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<v Speaker 1>is why she no longer wants to be an entertainer,

0:16:07.920 --> 0:16:11.800
<v Speaker 1>and she hasn't been entertaining because he's been profiting off

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<v Speaker 1>of her life and likeness for the last thirteen years

0:16:15.040 --> 0:16:18.040
<v Speaker 1>because he has control over her. I guess once she

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<v Speaker 1>becomes are you bigger than life? At that point, she's

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<v Speaker 1>still her, right, She's still Britney Spears, but her likeness

0:16:27.240 --> 0:16:30.680
<v Speaker 1>is actually now bigger than her her actual physical you

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<v Speaker 1>see what I'm saying. So he has control over her brand, everything,

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<v Speaker 1>And it's just weird to me. How and what's going on?

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<v Speaker 1>Why the court won't let her be in charge of herself?

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<v Speaker 1>Is she not mentally capable? That's head At that time

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<v Speaker 1>it was going a little They could have been a

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<v Speaker 1>cry for help. They could have been doing stuff to

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<v Speaker 1>her even at that time. And then you shave your

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<v Speaker 1>head off, and now you really appair crazy to the

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<v Speaker 1>courts and your daddy can just step right in. And

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<v Speaker 1>you lost your kids to the to the dancer. She

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<v Speaker 1>don't have her kids, so she lost her kids. Remember

0:17:09.440 --> 0:17:13.600
<v Speaker 1>her backup dancer her name was Yeah, she lost her

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<v Speaker 1>kids to him. That was the beginning of the ship. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>she wants to have more kids, she said, but she's

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<v Speaker 1>been forced by her dad to keep an I U. D.

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<v Speaker 1>How do you know Danny forced you because he has

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<v Speaker 1>she no longer controls her life. She hasn't, So how

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<v Speaker 1>she went to the doctor had to put it in?

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<v Speaker 1>So did she could have just said I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to go right, but you are no longer in control

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<v Speaker 1>of you. That's why I don't understand what kind of

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<v Speaker 1>what kind of system is that? So is that only damn?

0:17:43.600 --> 0:17:46.280
<v Speaker 1>My motherfucker said they got control ottle me. I wish

0:17:46.320 --> 0:17:49.720
<v Speaker 1>you would put it. I come to come, try, come,

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<v Speaker 1>try and put it. Or she might have put it

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<v Speaker 1>in herself and then they wouldn't let her take it out. Maybe,

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<v Speaker 1>but last about ten years, I don't know, but I

0:17:59.320 --> 0:18:02.200
<v Speaker 1>never had that possible. I had one of them ships

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<v Speaker 1>put in my arm and I had them take it

0:18:04.240 --> 0:18:07.879
<v Speaker 1>out in the three months I couldn't pop my pussy,

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<v Speaker 1>the saying I was like, let me take this up.

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<v Speaker 1>I still could popp it. I'm gonna stay where are

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<v Speaker 1>your arm? Wait ages in the cut of the arm.

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<v Speaker 1>So what I had was it's called implant on and

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<v Speaker 1>it went in my arm, but my period stayed on

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<v Speaker 1>for like three months straight, so I had to So

0:18:27.119 --> 0:18:29.000
<v Speaker 1>then it was like, we're gonna give you an oral

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<v Speaker 1>birth control to take with that, and I was like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not If this don't work, take it out. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna take a pill, and had a ship in

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<v Speaker 1>my arm. Hell no, man, take this ship out of

0:18:39.400 --> 0:18:42.320
<v Speaker 1>my arm. And that white lady she left a hole

0:18:42.400 --> 0:18:47.280
<v Speaker 1>in my arm trying to joke that ship out. That

0:18:47.359 --> 0:18:50.879
<v Speaker 1>ship is not natural. Like you got forty fifty year

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<v Speaker 1>old women who have never experienced an orgasm for real,

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<v Speaker 1>and they've been on birth control, birth control all all

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<v Speaker 1>through the teenage years and twenties, and ship like that

0:19:01.280 --> 0:19:05.800
<v Speaker 1>that should have stopping something stopping how your body is

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<v Speaker 1>normally supposed to be, right, mm hmm, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>We can add that to the list of the pork

0:19:12.600 --> 0:19:20.359
<v Speaker 1>and chicken and beef. No pork sandwich, No, no, no

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<v Speaker 1>hard drugs. It's not crazy because I enjoyed all those

0:19:27.359 --> 0:19:30.080
<v Speaker 1>things except for the I D hard drugs. Pork sandwich.

0:19:30.359 --> 0:19:32.720
<v Speaker 1>And if you have and you eat a per sandwich

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<v Speaker 1>while you own some hard drugs, no you're not. No,

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<v Speaker 1>no taking any hard drugs, all right. The closest thing

0:19:44.960 --> 0:19:48.720
<v Speaker 1>I've ever taken is more than weed is I took

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<v Speaker 1>a perkoce at one day. It was my birthday. I

0:19:51.520 --> 0:19:55.200
<v Speaker 1>was living in Europe. My friend was like, Papa heard

0:19:55.320 --> 0:20:00.080
<v Speaker 1>with me. It'll be fun, bitch. I was like the

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<v Speaker 1>coma on the couch all night. I didn't even make

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<v Speaker 1>it to the club. Everybody went out on my birthday

0:20:06.240 --> 0:20:08.280
<v Speaker 1>and I was when I woke up, I was nauseous.

0:20:08.320 --> 0:20:12.000
<v Speaker 1>I was sick for two days. Perko said, I've never

0:20:12.040 --> 0:20:19.439
<v Speaker 1>take another one. Shame. It'll be fun, they said, I

0:20:19.480 --> 0:20:21.640
<v Speaker 1>did an adderall before, and that just makes you want

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<v Speaker 1>to get up and go, Like, I feel like I

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<v Speaker 1>need that adderall. I don't feel like adderall is a

0:20:26.960 --> 0:20:31.840
<v Speaker 1>recreational drug. Adderall is like ah, it makes you focus, yeah,

0:20:32.200 --> 0:20:35.399
<v Speaker 1>and make you focus like I probably need adderall. I

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<v Speaker 1>would want to like, all right, I wake up, I'm

0:20:37.600 --> 0:20:39.320
<v Speaker 1>gonna clean my house. I'm gonna fly to Africa and

0:20:39.320 --> 0:20:41.240
<v Speaker 1>save the children. I'm gonna come back and perform the

0:20:41.280 --> 0:20:46.240
<v Speaker 1>healthcare system. I'm gonna That's how it was. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>he'll be on a lot of adderall. Oh yeah, yeah,

0:20:50.359 --> 0:20:55.040
<v Speaker 1>yeah's to be excelling in school. It's like the what

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<v Speaker 1>was that movie that came out Limitless. Yes, that's the

0:21:00.280 --> 0:21:03.320
<v Speaker 1>closest thing to limitless Peel that we have. I might

0:21:03.359 --> 0:21:05.159
<v Speaker 1>need to trying to see if I can get a prescription. Like,

0:21:05.240 --> 0:21:08.120
<v Speaker 1>I just can't focus. I just can't beat y'all gonna

0:21:08.119 --> 0:21:13.400
<v Speaker 1>be a millionaire by December because my brain be everywhere.

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<v Speaker 1>My brain be everywhere to wear like, I don't start

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<v Speaker 1>ship because my brain is just like, Okay, you need addition,

0:21:20.280 --> 0:21:25.119
<v Speaker 1>need that exactly, So I'll pick one thing. Yeah, So

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<v Speaker 1>before we get into the topic, because we've just been

0:21:27.960 --> 0:21:33.720
<v Speaker 1>rambling bitch uh no on the topic, let's do it.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's do a dumb bitch story right quick. You know,

0:21:37.080 --> 0:21:39.760
<v Speaker 1>you know what we should do real quick. Let's pay

0:21:39.800 --> 0:21:48.800
<v Speaker 1>some bills, all right. So today's dumb bitch story comes

0:21:48.880 --> 0:21:51.760
<v Speaker 1>from one of our Instagram listeners who would like to

0:21:51.840 --> 0:21:55.399
<v Speaker 1>remain anonymous. She says, Hi, I would like to remain

0:21:55.440 --> 0:21:58.399
<v Speaker 1>a non but I need some dumb bitch advice. So

0:21:58.480 --> 0:22:01.040
<v Speaker 1>I met the guy i'm with through one of my

0:22:01.200 --> 0:22:03.959
<v Speaker 1>other guy friends. So I thought it was a solid

0:22:03.960 --> 0:22:07.240
<v Speaker 1>hook up. But I think this nigga is homeless. I've

0:22:07.320 --> 0:22:11.960
<v Speaker 1>never really, i've never really had in house dick, and

0:22:12.000 --> 0:22:15.320
<v Speaker 1>it's been nice. But he's been at my house now

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<v Speaker 1>for two weeks and I don't know how to get

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<v Speaker 1>him to leave. I like him and still want to

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<v Speaker 1>deal with him, but I was under the impression that

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<v Speaker 1>he had his shipped together. Really I actually know the

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<v Speaker 1>I g of the girl he was with before, and

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<v Speaker 1>I almost want to message her to see what's really

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<v Speaker 1>up with him. What should I do? Well? First of all,

0:22:35.800 --> 0:22:40.520
<v Speaker 1>how old is this child? Because because how you can't

0:22:40.520 --> 0:22:42.640
<v Speaker 1>get him motherfucking to leave your house. Ain't no way

0:22:43.040 --> 0:22:44.960
<v Speaker 1>staying for my house for two weeks without me being

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<v Speaker 1>like now, first the first night if I wanted him

0:22:48.200 --> 0:22:50.080
<v Speaker 1>to say okay, but then the next morning, I'll be like,

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<v Speaker 1>so what you're about to do? Right? Easy? Because you

0:22:53.000 --> 0:22:54.520
<v Speaker 1>got to get the funk up out of here. I

0:22:54.560 --> 0:22:56.280
<v Speaker 1>gotta go to work. I got ship to do now,

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<v Speaker 1>So audios, and like, when did you'll meet? And when

0:23:00.320 --> 0:23:03.119
<v Speaker 1>did y'all start sucking around? And why the fund can

0:23:03.160 --> 0:23:05.560
<v Speaker 1>you talk to? You want to message another bit instead

0:23:05.560 --> 0:23:07.240
<v Speaker 1>of just talking to the niked as right there in

0:23:07.280 --> 0:23:13.919
<v Speaker 1>your house? You are really God, wait for two weeks,

0:23:15.480 --> 0:23:18.480
<v Speaker 1>so this naked just been waking up Washington and going

0:23:18.560 --> 0:23:20.919
<v Speaker 1>and coming back, and you want to talk to another

0:23:20.960 --> 0:23:25.080
<v Speaker 1>bit about him? Did you go to work? Do you

0:23:25.119 --> 0:23:30.760
<v Speaker 1>got a job where you living? What's your last name,

0:23:33.080 --> 0:23:36.800
<v Speaker 1>I want to go to your house. Period. That's an

0:23:36.800 --> 0:23:42.560
<v Speaker 1>easy way. Oh it's see, that's the submissive, very meek

0:23:42.640 --> 0:23:46.120
<v Speaker 1>and mild manner type women who are afraid to ask

0:23:46.160 --> 0:23:49.280
<v Speaker 1>the real questions because how you just have a nigga

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<v Speaker 1>just sitting up in there for two weeks and you're

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<v Speaker 1>like home. And I also think it's a science for women.

0:23:55.520 --> 0:23:59.480
<v Speaker 1>Isn't really a science for a woman to figure out

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<v Speaker 1>how to talk to the man and be able to

0:24:02.920 --> 0:24:06.840
<v Speaker 1>ask what they want or ask questions at all. It's

0:24:06.880 --> 0:24:09.360
<v Speaker 1>like a skill set that some women just don't have.

0:24:10.080 --> 0:24:11.800
<v Speaker 1>They don't know how to speak up when it comes

0:24:12.000 --> 0:24:14.280
<v Speaker 1>come to men, especially when they're getting dick down, because

0:24:14.280 --> 0:24:15.919
<v Speaker 1>it sounds like if E've been there for two weeks,

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<v Speaker 1>she happy to just have a nigger there for the

0:24:18.040 --> 0:24:19.600
<v Speaker 1>first couple of days. Now, all of a sudden, it

0:24:19.880 --> 0:24:22.880
<v Speaker 1>turned into like when you're going home, but you're scared

0:24:22.920 --> 0:24:24.520
<v Speaker 1>to ask him when he's going home, do you want

0:24:24.600 --> 0:24:27.840
<v Speaker 1>him to go home? He wanted to stay right This

0:24:27.960 --> 0:24:30.840
<v Speaker 1>alligns you without a topic too. He probably still laying

0:24:30.920 --> 0:24:33.000
<v Speaker 1>up in there right now while we're talking, eating up

0:24:33.040 --> 0:24:36.480
<v Speaker 1>all your turkey sandwiches and ship he got kid to home.

0:24:36.920 --> 0:24:41.439
<v Speaker 1>Is he drinking your kids juicy juice? Right? Little nick

0:24:41.560 --> 0:24:46.240
<v Speaker 1>Nate mad as well? Oh what go Wrome? I hate

0:24:46.240 --> 0:25:03.080
<v Speaker 1>mama all my daddy? Right, call your baby daddy if

0:25:03.119 --> 0:25:07.120
<v Speaker 1>you got one, call your baby daddy talking about But look,

0:25:08.800 --> 0:25:10.840
<v Speaker 1>black women and women, we need to stop putting men

0:25:10.840 --> 0:25:14.280
<v Speaker 1>in the positions. Now, you got yourself and some dumb ship.

0:25:14.400 --> 0:25:16.439
<v Speaker 1>Now you wanna call your brother and uncle or somebody

0:25:16.440 --> 0:25:20.440
<v Speaker 1>over there assist snoop dog off parole. And he's staying

0:25:20.440 --> 0:25:23.240
<v Speaker 1>in your house, kicking over your son a little fort

0:25:23.359 --> 0:25:28.159
<v Speaker 1>in the living room, stupid ship. You're gonna write me

0:25:28.200 --> 0:25:30.240
<v Speaker 1>in front of my daughter. No, you're gonna ripe me

0:25:30.280 --> 0:25:33.560
<v Speaker 1>in front up front of my son to get out.

0:25:34.840 --> 0:25:38.280
<v Speaker 1>He ain't got a job. She sounds like she just

0:25:38.359 --> 0:25:41.360
<v Speaker 1>wants to know if he can possibly even get out.

0:25:42.000 --> 0:25:45.520
<v Speaker 1>Do you have someplace else to go? Right? Don't message

0:25:45.560 --> 0:25:48.000
<v Speaker 1>that other woman though, whatever you do, do not message

0:25:48.040 --> 0:25:51.880
<v Speaker 1>that other woman. Whatever you do, please don't. She has

0:25:52.640 --> 0:25:56.760
<v Speaker 1>her life, she her age is growing back, and he

0:25:56.840 --> 0:25:58.800
<v Speaker 1>probably at your house because he can't go to hers.

0:25:58.800 --> 0:26:06.960
<v Speaker 1>No more, no more cobo sexual. So what is it

0:26:07.080 --> 0:26:13.520
<v Speaker 1>time to leave a relationship? How do you know it's

0:26:13.600 --> 0:26:17.760
<v Speaker 1>time when you spend more time frowning and smiling. It's

0:26:17.760 --> 0:26:22.520
<v Speaker 1>time to go, but that's that's not something you can

0:26:22.600 --> 0:26:25.040
<v Speaker 1>determine for anyone else. When it's time for they don't

0:26:25.119 --> 0:26:27.879
<v Speaker 1>leave because you can talk to you blew in the

0:26:27.960 --> 0:26:30.160
<v Speaker 1>face to another bit by like girl, you just need

0:26:30.160 --> 0:26:32.600
<v Speaker 1>to go, But they ain't going nowhere until they're good

0:26:32.600 --> 0:26:36.040
<v Speaker 1>and god damn ready. Mm hmmm, hold on, tam, Let's

0:26:36.040 --> 0:26:43.080
<v Speaker 1>say some bills. So we said earlier is before, and

0:26:43.119 --> 0:26:45.760
<v Speaker 1>you want to hit that nigger reset button, but before

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<v Speaker 1>if you feel like you want to put your hands

0:26:47.200 --> 0:26:49.639
<v Speaker 1>on somebody, should probably leave before then too. You know,

0:26:50.240 --> 0:26:52.439
<v Speaker 1>if you really love somebody, you're gonna want to kill

0:26:52.480 --> 0:26:54.800
<v Speaker 1>them at some point in the relationship. Right, I feel

0:26:54.840 --> 0:27:00.680
<v Speaker 1>like that's normal. Okay, keep going. But if you start

0:27:00.720 --> 0:27:03.199
<v Speaker 1>planning on how you're gonna kill them and how you're

0:27:03.200 --> 0:27:06.040
<v Speaker 1>gonna get away with it, that's when it's starting to leap. Yes,

0:27:06.119 --> 0:27:08.800
<v Speaker 1>So when you start planning, that's when it's ready to go. Yeah,

0:27:08.840 --> 0:27:14.480
<v Speaker 1>when you start calling your home girls and Google and

0:27:14.520 --> 0:27:17.440
<v Speaker 1>how to kill it get away with it? Watching Viola

0:27:17.520 --> 0:27:19.840
<v Speaker 1>Davis or how to get Away with Murder right down

0:27:19.880 --> 0:27:22.080
<v Speaker 1>notes and ship how to just all of a body,

0:27:23.000 --> 0:27:26.199
<v Speaker 1>that's when it's time to go. Yeah. Um, So I

0:27:26.200 --> 0:27:30.199
<v Speaker 1>think respect is definitely earned, but so it's disrespect. So

0:27:30.240 --> 0:27:33.719
<v Speaker 1>if you find yourself being like extremely disrespectful to your partner,

0:27:34.359 --> 0:27:39.720
<v Speaker 1>if you weren't already like that, um, you're losing respect

0:27:39.720 --> 0:27:42.680
<v Speaker 1>for them because it's just sting. Certain things like love

0:27:43.359 --> 0:27:46.399
<v Speaker 1>won't allow you to say and do to somebody you

0:27:46.520 --> 0:27:48.880
<v Speaker 1>really in love with. So if you just start doing

0:27:48.880 --> 0:27:51.480
<v Speaker 1>a bunch of stupid ship to the person you with,

0:27:51.720 --> 0:27:56.639
<v Speaker 1>it's probably time to go. Yeah. When you start ah

0:27:57.119 --> 0:27:59.800
<v Speaker 1>telling other your work husband about how much you hate

0:27:59.800 --> 0:28:11.639
<v Speaker 1>your it's time to go. Sid. But you know, a

0:28:11.680 --> 0:28:15.520
<v Speaker 1>lot of us we stay long, long, long past time ago,

0:28:16.000 --> 0:28:21.680
<v Speaker 1>you know, long past expiration date. Yea. I think sometimes

0:28:21.760 --> 0:28:24.000
<v Speaker 1>sometimes people just need a break. Also, it may not

0:28:24.080 --> 0:28:27.000
<v Speaker 1>even be a permanent breakup, but that that could be

0:28:27.040 --> 0:28:30.400
<v Speaker 1>the reset though, to take some time apart and come

0:28:30.400 --> 0:28:33.560
<v Speaker 1>back together. How about this when you call my phone, like,

0:28:33.600 --> 0:28:35.720
<v Speaker 1>I always have a regular face, so I always add

0:28:35.720 --> 0:28:38.640
<v Speaker 1>to and to laughing. Right, it's always gonna be a

0:28:38.680 --> 0:28:41.440
<v Speaker 1>fun time when we talk to each other. If every

0:28:41.480 --> 0:28:45.480
<v Speaker 1>time your significant other hitting you up, it's like what

0:28:45.560 --> 0:28:50.320
<v Speaker 1>the funk? Now, Like you automatically get anxiety. Maybe just

0:28:50.440 --> 0:28:53.840
<v Speaker 1>maybe you need a break or it just maybe time

0:28:53.880 --> 0:28:57.600
<v Speaker 1>to go. So, my my father was here this weekend

0:28:57.720 --> 0:29:00.480
<v Speaker 1>for my birthday and he was saying that young people cool,

0:29:00.840 --> 0:29:04.560
<v Speaker 1>we don't know how to stick it out. We don't

0:29:04.640 --> 0:29:07.720
<v Speaker 1>know how to fight through the good times the bad times,

0:29:07.800 --> 0:29:10.800
<v Speaker 1>Like we just want instant gratification and as soon as

0:29:10.840 --> 0:29:14.200
<v Speaker 1>it started being fun, then it's time to leave for us.

0:29:14.680 --> 0:29:16.600
<v Speaker 1>He's like, y'all don't even stay on job. He's like,

0:29:16.760 --> 0:29:18.680
<v Speaker 1>back in my day, I thinkus we'll stay on the

0:29:18.800 --> 0:29:24.760
<v Speaker 1>job fifty yells, y'all leave after thirty days, right, We're

0:29:24.760 --> 0:29:29.080
<v Speaker 1>just staying for abuse. We're not Why do we have to?

0:29:29.280 --> 0:29:31.400
<v Speaker 1>We got other options. I think we have options. We

0:29:31.440 --> 0:29:33.920
<v Speaker 1>feel like we have more options now and that's why.

0:29:34.280 --> 0:29:37.640
<v Speaker 1>But when it comes to our relationships, do we check

0:29:37.640 --> 0:29:41.600
<v Speaker 1>out too soon? Especially when you've decided to get married

0:29:42.240 --> 0:29:45.920
<v Speaker 1>to take the bidder with the sweet? Are we checking

0:29:45.960 --> 0:29:50.000
<v Speaker 1>out too soon? I have had three relationships in the

0:29:50.120 --> 0:29:56.480
<v Speaker 1>last twelve years, twell, thirteen years, right, and I feel

0:29:56.520 --> 0:30:00.800
<v Speaker 1>like I may have overstayed too long. And at least

0:30:00.840 --> 0:30:04.480
<v Speaker 1>two of those relationships, you know what I'm saying. The

0:30:04.520 --> 0:30:08.040
<v Speaker 1>experience obviously, like they say, it's not like it's not

0:30:08.120 --> 0:30:10.960
<v Speaker 1>really a loss. But you use a lot of time

0:30:11.280 --> 0:30:13.480
<v Speaker 1>being someplace you're not supposed to be, and you've got

0:30:13.520 --> 0:30:16.920
<v Speaker 1>a lot of signs that told you, hey, what the

0:30:16.960 --> 0:30:20.400
<v Speaker 1>fund is up? So five years is that a little

0:30:20.400 --> 0:30:22.760
<v Speaker 1>bit of time? Oh no, that's not a little bit

0:30:22.800 --> 0:30:24.880
<v Speaker 1>of time. It just I guess it just depends on

0:30:25.040 --> 0:30:28.880
<v Speaker 1>the relationship. Mhm. I can he learned anything from it?

0:30:30.000 --> 0:30:31.960
<v Speaker 1>I learned. I learned a lot of stuff from from

0:30:31.960 --> 0:30:34.680
<v Speaker 1>the relationships I've been in. I learned my likes, I

0:30:34.760 --> 0:30:41.120
<v Speaker 1>learned my dislikes. You yeah, boundaries, you know, with boundaries

0:30:41.160 --> 0:30:45.160
<v Speaker 1>I want to establish in the next relationship. Um My

0:30:45.240 --> 0:30:47.560
<v Speaker 1>daddy told me I wasn't gonna never get nobody because

0:30:47.600 --> 0:30:49.400
<v Speaker 1>of my mouth. That's what he told me all the

0:30:49.480 --> 0:30:52.200
<v Speaker 1>day here. He said, You're never gonna get a man

0:30:52.240 --> 0:30:55.479
<v Speaker 1>because of your mouth. I know, I mean, I know

0:30:55.920 --> 0:30:57.960
<v Speaker 1>we always say men just want somebody who shut the

0:30:57.960 --> 0:30:59.960
<v Speaker 1>funk up. But I really believe like a strong man,

0:31:00.000 --> 0:31:01.960
<v Speaker 1>they don't want that. They don't want a real man.

0:31:02.040 --> 0:31:05.120
<v Speaker 1>Doesn't want a yes man or yes ma'am, somebody who

0:31:05.280 --> 0:31:09.320
<v Speaker 1>just never checks them when they're sucking up. Nobody really

0:31:09.320 --> 0:31:13.960
<v Speaker 1>wants that. That is that that's not genuine right. So

0:31:14.000 --> 0:31:15.840
<v Speaker 1>if y'all I feel like you're a weak man, if

0:31:15.840 --> 0:31:18.360
<v Speaker 1>you want a woman who doesn't have an opinion and

0:31:18.400 --> 0:31:20.800
<v Speaker 1>who can't check you when you're sucking up, like I'm

0:31:20.840 --> 0:31:22.960
<v Speaker 1>just supposed to just let you do. That's why I

0:31:23.000 --> 0:31:24.680
<v Speaker 1>blame white women for a lot of the things that's

0:31:24.680 --> 0:31:27.720
<v Speaker 1>happening and happening in the world, because they sit back

0:31:27.760 --> 0:31:29.400
<v Speaker 1>and they let their men do what the funk they

0:31:29.440 --> 0:31:31.120
<v Speaker 1>want to do, and they, you know, reap the benefits

0:31:31.120 --> 0:31:34.960
<v Speaker 1>on the back end um that because they want to

0:31:34.960 --> 0:31:38.240
<v Speaker 1>do it too. But we black bitches because we check people,

0:31:39.760 --> 0:31:41.680
<v Speaker 1>you know. So they get to be like nice, little

0:31:41.680 --> 0:31:43.680
<v Speaker 1>timid because they don't see much, but they definitely do,

0:31:43.800 --> 0:31:46.240
<v Speaker 1>they just may not do it publicly. So maybe we

0:31:46.240 --> 0:31:50.440
<v Speaker 1>need to learn learn that I only punch my nick

0:31:50.480 --> 0:31:55.440
<v Speaker 1>in the face one time in public. It was because

0:31:56.520 --> 0:31:59.080
<v Speaker 1>what I never hit it? They getting public, bitch, I

0:31:59.080 --> 0:32:01.680
<v Speaker 1>ain't trying to go to jail. I showed chin check

0:32:01.760 --> 0:32:06.000
<v Speaker 1>that nigga in public. He called me a hole in

0:32:06.080 --> 0:32:11.400
<v Speaker 1>front of everybody. Uh, I wasn't doing nothing. I was

0:32:11.720 --> 0:32:13.960
<v Speaker 1>we was at a club. Was all at the club

0:32:14.240 --> 0:32:16.720
<v Speaker 1>and we was in like the smoke section. My whole

0:32:16.800 --> 0:32:20.080
<v Speaker 1>girl smoked Newports. So he was in a smoke section,

0:32:21.400 --> 0:32:25.040
<v Speaker 1>and I mean outside, you know, like outside on the pario,

0:32:26.040 --> 0:32:28.680
<v Speaker 1>and it was these guys just came over and was

0:32:28.760 --> 0:32:32.600
<v Speaker 1>just chatting us up or whatever. And I was there

0:32:32.640 --> 0:32:35.080
<v Speaker 1>with my nigga. It wasn't like I was like trying

0:32:35.120 --> 0:32:38.120
<v Speaker 1>to pick up nobody. We were This is in Europe,

0:32:38.440 --> 0:32:41.440
<v Speaker 1>so we're in London. They were like, oh, y'all Americans. Yeah,

0:32:41.520 --> 0:32:45.040
<v Speaker 1>and you know how we talk, and we were just

0:32:45.160 --> 0:32:48.480
<v Speaker 1>chatting and he just saw some niggas standing there talking

0:32:48.520 --> 0:32:50.880
<v Speaker 1>to us instead of just coming over and talking to

0:32:51.720 --> 0:33:00.240
<v Speaker 1>He's like you out here being the hole, right, that's

0:33:00.240 --> 0:33:04.240
<v Speaker 1>a reflex. Actually, yeah, did he start acting? How did

0:33:04.280 --> 0:33:08.680
<v Speaker 1>he act after you hit him? He reset the fun

0:33:08.840 --> 0:33:13.280
<v Speaker 1>up talking about because I wasn't even doing the whole

0:33:13.280 --> 0:33:15.600
<v Speaker 1>ship like I'm gonna I have to talk to other

0:33:15.680 --> 0:33:20.360
<v Speaker 1>humans in this world, like you know, mm hmm damn. Yeah.

0:33:20.520 --> 0:33:23.360
<v Speaker 1>That's the only time I ever hit. Yeah, I think

0:33:23.400 --> 0:33:29.560
<v Speaker 1>that's the only time. But now I see them if

0:33:29.600 --> 0:33:31.680
<v Speaker 1>he would have punched me back and then driving and

0:33:31.680 --> 0:33:34.800
<v Speaker 1>everybody would have been like, oh he wrong for then,

0:33:36.600 --> 0:33:39.720
<v Speaker 1>so okay. So I never just straight up hit somebody

0:33:39.760 --> 0:33:42.600
<v Speaker 1>in front of people. But I definitely that smack niggas

0:33:42.600 --> 0:33:46.479
<v Speaker 1>in some cars before while I was driving, No like

0:33:46.600 --> 0:33:52.040
<v Speaker 1>park driving, yes, no, just both times were parked two

0:33:52.080 --> 0:33:55.080
<v Speaker 1>different people. Now, But this one in particular smacked one

0:33:55.120 --> 0:33:59.480
<v Speaker 1>of my ex boyfriends because the bitch was like stalking

0:33:59.520 --> 0:34:04.280
<v Speaker 1>me on Facebook about him, right, And I pulled up

0:34:04.320 --> 0:34:07.640
<v Speaker 1>to his job to talk to him about it while

0:34:07.680 --> 0:34:10.560
<v Speaker 1>he was on break, and the nigga said something when

0:34:10.560 --> 0:34:13.120
<v Speaker 1>he got like dog, I just smacked the funk out

0:34:13.160 --> 0:34:14.960
<v Speaker 1>of his ask girl, we got it back into the

0:34:15.000 --> 0:34:19.720
<v Speaker 1>day of job. Um, must be somebody saw me snack him. Obviously,

0:34:19.800 --> 0:34:22.640
<v Speaker 1>somebody saw me hit the nigga in the car. And

0:34:22.680 --> 0:34:24.960
<v Speaker 1>the person told like the superfud was like, hey man,

0:34:25.040 --> 0:34:32.440
<v Speaker 1>somebody out there snacking one of your employees. I snacked

0:34:32.440 --> 0:34:34.239
<v Speaker 1>the ship out that nigger in the car. Man, that's

0:34:34.280 --> 0:34:43.080
<v Speaker 1>not funny, y'all listen, we are knocking laughing, just funny.

0:34:43.560 --> 0:34:48.320
<v Speaker 1>Oh wait, this wasn't I don't know is this considered

0:34:48.320 --> 0:34:51.920
<v Speaker 1>domestic violence because I didn't physically hit him, alright, I

0:34:52.000 --> 0:34:54.640
<v Speaker 1>had all right, this is living in Europe. This, I mean,

0:34:54.840 --> 0:34:57.319
<v Speaker 1>all my boyfriend stories are from there, because that's the

0:34:57.360 --> 0:35:00.560
<v Speaker 1>last time I had a nigga. But I in the

0:35:00.600 --> 0:35:02.600
<v Speaker 1>hair salon all day. Right, I went in the hair

0:35:02.600 --> 0:35:06.839
<v Speaker 1>salon like eight that morning, and then I left there

0:35:06.880 --> 0:35:09.920
<v Speaker 1>at like seven and night went home shower eight and

0:35:09.960 --> 0:35:14.000
<v Speaker 1>then I bartended too. So I bartended till four in

0:35:14.000 --> 0:35:17.680
<v Speaker 1>the morning, right three thirty three thirty, I got off

0:35:18.040 --> 0:35:20.799
<v Speaker 1>and he was like, I can't drive home. I'm at

0:35:20.960 --> 0:35:24.759
<v Speaker 1>SO and so house. Come scoot me right. So I

0:35:24.800 --> 0:35:26.640
<v Speaker 1>was like, all right, but I'm tired. I've been working

0:35:26.719 --> 0:35:28.759
<v Speaker 1>all day. So I'm gonna let you know. When I

0:35:28.800 --> 0:35:31.440
<v Speaker 1>get close, I want you to come outside. So I

0:35:31.560 --> 0:35:34.400
<v Speaker 1>called him. Once I got close and he was like,

0:35:34.440 --> 0:35:38.600
<v Speaker 1>all right, I'm coming. Two minutes later, I'm ready to

0:35:38.640 --> 0:35:41.040
<v Speaker 1>go home. What are you doing? I'm coming. I'm coming

0:35:41.360 --> 0:35:44.400
<v Speaker 1>another like almost two minutes. He got me sitting outside

0:35:44.440 --> 0:35:47.960
<v Speaker 1>for twenty minutes. So he finally came outside and he

0:35:48.040 --> 0:35:50.160
<v Speaker 1>had his cup in his hand and he was like

0:35:50.280 --> 0:35:52.359
<v Speaker 1>laughing with niggles out of there. I think it has

0:35:53.920 --> 0:35:57.360
<v Speaker 1>like everything all good. Right, So I'm sitting in a

0:35:57.440 --> 0:36:00.359
<v Speaker 1>carl like now I'm gonna fun this nick up. He did.

0:36:01.239 --> 0:36:04.560
<v Speaker 1>So he gets in the car and I was like,

0:36:04.600 --> 0:36:06.400
<v Speaker 1>why would you do that? That's so rude, Like I

0:36:06.440 --> 0:36:08.200
<v Speaker 1>told you, I'm tired. I've been working all day. Why

0:36:08.239 --> 0:36:10.239
<v Speaker 1>would you have me sitting out here waiting that long?

0:36:10.640 --> 0:36:12.200
<v Speaker 1>He's like, man till the funk out. I had to

0:36:12.280 --> 0:36:15.239
<v Speaker 1>finish playing spade, and he had his little drink in

0:36:15.239 --> 0:36:17.279
<v Speaker 1>his hand and he was taking it up to his lip.

0:36:18.000 --> 0:36:20.319
<v Speaker 1>Wo I do it. I smacked back up out his

0:36:20.400 --> 0:36:25.759
<v Speaker 1>motherfucking hand, and liquor herenesse and lemonade start flying, and

0:36:25.880 --> 0:36:29.200
<v Speaker 1>his laugh or whatever he caught the cup or whatever.

0:36:29.239 --> 0:36:33.560
<v Speaker 1>He's like mmmmmm. And then I was talking ship, like, see, motherfucker,

0:36:33.640 --> 0:36:35.600
<v Speaker 1>you see how you make me act. I don't want

0:36:35.600 --> 0:36:37.400
<v Speaker 1>to do that ship to you, but you at disrespect

0:36:37.440 --> 0:36:39.319
<v Speaker 1>to me, had me out here all this motherfucking time.

0:36:40.040 --> 0:36:41.879
<v Speaker 1>So then we pull up to the house because it's

0:36:41.920 --> 0:36:44.239
<v Speaker 1>not that far. He literally could have walked, you know,

0:36:44.280 --> 0:36:46.640
<v Speaker 1>I could have should have left his ass. So we

0:36:46.760 --> 0:36:49.920
<v Speaker 1>get to the house and we get out of the car.

0:36:50.000 --> 0:36:51.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm still talking ship, and he hopped out the car

0:36:52.080 --> 0:36:54.120
<v Speaker 1>and he took what was left in the cup and

0:36:54.239 --> 0:36:56.719
<v Speaker 1>threw it in my face. It's time to leave. And

0:36:56.800 --> 0:37:04.160
<v Speaker 1>I was like, Nigga, when I can see again, that's

0:37:04.239 --> 0:37:07.520
<v Speaker 1>so toxic. Girl. Then nigga ran in the house and

0:37:07.640 --> 0:37:10.360
<v Speaker 1>lock themselfs in the bedroom because he knew I was

0:37:10.360 --> 0:37:13.799
<v Speaker 1>about to go on go to his ass. And then

0:37:13.840 --> 0:37:16.440
<v Speaker 1>he climbed out the bedroom window and went walking back

0:37:16.520 --> 0:37:18.400
<v Speaker 1>and had his homeboy pick up up from the street

0:37:18.680 --> 0:37:20.440
<v Speaker 1>because he already knew I was about to take it

0:37:20.840 --> 0:37:24.640
<v Speaker 1>to his ass. So before it even gets there, what

0:37:24.760 --> 0:37:27.560
<v Speaker 1>are some things that happened before it even gets physical

0:37:28.080 --> 0:37:30.480
<v Speaker 1>that are indicators that you need to get the fuck

0:37:30.719 --> 0:37:33.360
<v Speaker 1>up out of there, because I'm pretty sure there's a

0:37:33.400 --> 0:37:35.919
<v Speaker 1>lot of non physical things that happened before you start

0:37:35.960 --> 0:37:38.200
<v Speaker 1>putting your hands on each other and doing. Nigga, who

0:37:38.320 --> 0:37:41.120
<v Speaker 1>called you a hole for standing outside talking to people?

0:37:42.280 --> 0:37:46.839
<v Speaker 1>Verbal abuse? He used to Yeah, anytime somebody's just disrespectful

0:37:46.840 --> 0:37:49.680
<v Speaker 1>at the mouth. I know y'all New Yorkers, that's how

0:37:49.760 --> 0:37:51.920
<v Speaker 1>y'all like to talk to each other. But it's not healthy.

0:37:52.719 --> 0:37:54.640
<v Speaker 1>I don't new people from New York were talking. They

0:37:54.760 --> 0:37:58.240
<v Speaker 1>scared me when they talk like you got grown women

0:37:58.280 --> 0:38:02.560
<v Speaker 1>telling grown men and suck they That is disrespectful. Probing

0:38:02.600 --> 0:38:04.879
<v Speaker 1>my pearls now. I did tell one man in life

0:38:04.920 --> 0:38:07.080
<v Speaker 1>to suck my dick. So I found out my ex

0:38:07.160 --> 0:38:10.640
<v Speaker 1>boyfriend had a whole baby out here that I just

0:38:10.719 --> 0:38:14.600
<v Speaker 1>found out about last year. Now he's away in college.

0:38:16.840 --> 0:38:19.360
<v Speaker 1>Dad's in college. You don't even know, but I couldn't.

0:38:19.360 --> 0:38:21.239
<v Speaker 1>I really felt the way about it, like even though

0:38:21.280 --> 0:38:22.880
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to be with him, and you know,

0:38:23.080 --> 0:38:24.680
<v Speaker 1>so I sent a message to his home, but I

0:38:24.760 --> 0:38:27.000
<v Speaker 1>was like, listen, you talk to your friend, you tell

0:38:27.040 --> 0:38:35.200
<v Speaker 1>our nigga suck my dick respectfully. You can't respectfully, I know.

0:38:35.280 --> 0:38:42.279
<v Speaker 1>And he's like, disrespectful head, don't. They're like, sit on it. Yeah,

0:38:42.440 --> 0:38:45.279
<v Speaker 1>So yeah, that's that's that's not nice. And I was

0:38:45.480 --> 0:38:49.560
<v Speaker 1>trying to be blatantly as disrespectful as possible, especially because

0:38:49.560 --> 0:38:52.359
<v Speaker 1>he in prison. So how disrespectful is that to tell

0:38:52.560 --> 0:38:55.200
<v Speaker 1>man in prison that I knew exactly what I was doing.

0:38:55.680 --> 0:38:57.400
<v Speaker 1>I don't talk to him, and I wanted to offend

0:38:57.480 --> 0:39:01.800
<v Speaker 1>him as much as possible. I don't, I like you

0:39:01.920 --> 0:39:04.640
<v Speaker 1>a fuck nigga. You I don't talk like that or

0:39:05.280 --> 0:39:08.280
<v Speaker 1>suthing my dick. That don't even sound right coming. It's terrible,

0:39:08.400 --> 0:39:12.080
<v Speaker 1>it's actually terrible. That's the first and last time, well

0:39:12.120 --> 0:39:14.719
<v Speaker 1>I don't say last, that's a that's the first time

0:39:14.800 --> 0:39:18.200
<v Speaker 1>I ever used the term. But I what I say

0:39:18.400 --> 0:39:20.759
<v Speaker 1>is like I say ship, And this is what I'm

0:39:20.800 --> 0:39:23.320
<v Speaker 1>working on, trying to be a better person because I

0:39:23.360 --> 0:39:25.239
<v Speaker 1>won't cuss at you, but I don't say some ship

0:39:25.360 --> 0:39:28.600
<v Speaker 1>like that ain't even your baby anyway, you know, something

0:39:28.680 --> 0:39:37.840
<v Speaker 1>like that bit you me, I forgot every with the truth,

0:39:42.200 --> 0:39:45.600
<v Speaker 1>you know what? That might be fighting words. That's words though, Yeah,

0:39:45.680 --> 0:39:48.200
<v Speaker 1>that's words. Yeah, I'd rather you say something I did

0:39:48.320 --> 0:39:50.360
<v Speaker 1>to tell me that my baby mama lied to me

0:39:50.480 --> 0:39:55.680
<v Speaker 1>about my kids. You straight just tapped that nigga in

0:39:55.840 --> 0:40:00.680
<v Speaker 1>with that. Yeah, that'sn't tapping. Yeah, you know, because the

0:40:00.719 --> 0:40:04.719
<v Speaker 1>podcast is to me, it's get toward you know, women,

0:40:04.800 --> 0:40:08.759
<v Speaker 1>our age, younger women so they can just live like

0:40:08.880 --> 0:40:11.960
<v Speaker 1>curiously through all dumb ship. She's just like knowing when

0:40:12.200 --> 0:40:14.160
<v Speaker 1>when no one when to leave a situation that is

0:40:14.239 --> 0:40:18.960
<v Speaker 1>not is not serving you. You know. Um, I feel

0:40:19.000 --> 0:40:24.400
<v Speaker 1>like these young girls are you know, are growing the

0:40:24.600 --> 0:40:27.640
<v Speaker 1>value value and adding tax you know, in a way

0:40:27.680 --> 0:40:30.600
<v Speaker 1>that we did not growing up because we had, like

0:40:30.760 --> 0:40:34.200
<v Speaker 1>Trina's telling you, like five or six best friends. But

0:40:34.239 --> 0:40:36.799
<v Speaker 1>she says she was getting paid for these houses. Now

0:40:36.800 --> 0:40:40.120
<v Speaker 1>at least they getting baid. China definitely was saying if

0:40:40.200 --> 0:40:43.080
<v Speaker 1>she knew what she knew now she'd be sucking by

0:40:43.160 --> 0:40:45.200
<v Speaker 1>the time she was tending because she was getting money

0:40:45.320 --> 0:40:49.680
<v Speaker 1>from niggas. Remember the time she was if I could,

0:40:49.800 --> 0:40:51.719
<v Speaker 1>if I, if I could do it all again, I'll

0:40:51.760 --> 0:40:54.200
<v Speaker 1>be fucking by the time I'm ten. You remember that?

0:40:54.760 --> 0:41:01.920
<v Speaker 1>And who's bad is? Trina was definitely about getting that

0:41:02.040 --> 0:41:03.800
<v Speaker 1>check out about these niggas, like I feel like and

0:41:03.880 --> 0:41:05.920
<v Speaker 1>when listening to Trina when I was in high school,

0:41:05.960 --> 0:41:08.279
<v Speaker 1>like Trina really made me feel like, these niggas better

0:41:08.320 --> 0:41:09.719
<v Speaker 1>come with something if they want to sun on me,

0:41:10.440 --> 0:41:13.520
<v Speaker 1>Like if you have a car, I didn't grow up

0:41:13.640 --> 0:41:15.880
<v Speaker 1>listening to Trina. It's so crazy because I'll be in

0:41:15.920 --> 0:41:17.680
<v Speaker 1>a car with all my friends and treating song and

0:41:17.719 --> 0:41:19.759
<v Speaker 1>everybody rapping all the lyrics, and I'd be like, where

0:41:20.000 --> 0:41:23.520
<v Speaker 1>was I I missed it? I don't know. The only

0:41:23.560 --> 0:41:25.640
<v Speaker 1>song I know really was like pull over that as

0:41:25.680 --> 0:41:29.520
<v Speaker 1>too Fat? What was you listening to? I was listening

0:41:29.600 --> 0:41:33.040
<v Speaker 1>to jay Z, I was listening to Nash, was listening

0:41:33.040 --> 0:41:35.520
<v Speaker 1>to Tupac, I was listening to Big Gi, I was

0:41:35.600 --> 0:41:40.080
<v Speaker 1>listening to the NA But yeah, I feel like a lot.

0:41:40.440 --> 0:41:45.000
<v Speaker 1>We have a way more female rappers out now than before,

0:41:45.200 --> 0:41:47.120
<v Speaker 1>and all of them on the same you know, get

0:41:49.800 --> 0:41:52.160
<v Speaker 1>that it had to check that you want to see.

0:41:53.880 --> 0:41:56.040
<v Speaker 1>That's not all the female rappers. That's just the ones

0:41:56.120 --> 0:41:58.920
<v Speaker 1>that they allowed to be mainstream. There's a lot of

0:41:59.040 --> 0:42:02.360
<v Speaker 1>other rappers out here. You're like, what about Rampsody, She's dope.

0:42:02.840 --> 0:42:05.920
<v Speaker 1>You know, I've listened to her music and I couldn't

0:42:05.920 --> 0:42:07.759
<v Speaker 1>get it. And she's from the Carolina's I couldn't get

0:42:07.840 --> 0:42:11.960
<v Speaker 1>into it. Oh yeah, I like her, but I don't

0:42:12.080 --> 0:42:14.760
<v Speaker 1>some people I don't like their voice, like the delivery.

0:42:15.280 --> 0:42:17.960
<v Speaker 1>The lyrics and what they're saying be sounding good, but

0:42:18.040 --> 0:42:20.040
<v Speaker 1>I don't like the delivery of it. Like that the

0:42:20.440 --> 0:42:23.759
<v Speaker 1>young girl Alma Redda from Atlanta, Like I like what

0:42:23.920 --> 0:42:27.040
<v Speaker 1>she'd be saying, but the delivery is annoying to me,

0:42:27.200 --> 0:42:31.440
<v Speaker 1>Like how her voice sounds the super duper Atlanta dialect

0:42:31.800 --> 0:42:35.880
<v Speaker 1>along with it. It just sounds so forced. I don't know,

0:42:36.280 --> 0:42:38.520
<v Speaker 1>I don't like it, Like it's you don't have from Charleston.

0:42:38.600 --> 0:42:41.080
<v Speaker 1>So people be extra guchi, right, So it's like listening

0:42:41.120 --> 0:42:44.120
<v Speaker 1>to a song with a nigga rapping extra guchi. It's

0:42:44.160 --> 0:42:47.760
<v Speaker 1>almost annoying, like what are you saying? They don't even understand.

0:42:48.120 --> 0:42:52.960
<v Speaker 1>But then maybe you're not gonna I'm not. So I listened,

0:42:53.080 --> 0:42:56.640
<v Speaker 1>but I listened to what people say in lyrics, so

0:42:56.880 --> 0:43:00.839
<v Speaker 1>I listened to the actual words what they're saying. And um,

0:43:01.719 --> 0:43:04.520
<v Speaker 1>but if I don't like how it sounds, I don't

0:43:04.560 --> 0:43:06.839
<v Speaker 1>like the artist. I feel like it's more females are

0:43:06.920 --> 0:43:10.200
<v Speaker 1>here wrapping. Yeah, but they all want some get money.

0:43:10.239 --> 0:43:13.200
<v Speaker 1>Shpket better treat me like this. That a third, But

0:43:13.320 --> 0:43:19.640
<v Speaker 1>we also know that girls outside gird pussy and then

0:43:19.800 --> 0:43:23.800
<v Speaker 1>give me money. I used someone neck risks and my

0:43:23.920 --> 0:43:27.440
<v Speaker 1>hair stay done. I'm driving a fly as whip. The

0:43:27.600 --> 0:43:31.560
<v Speaker 1>fucking bitches, y'all haters, and this body is on sleek,

0:43:32.800 --> 0:43:35.200
<v Speaker 1>designer body is go to them. You ain't go to

0:43:35.320 --> 0:43:42.360
<v Speaker 1>my surgeon. You can't afford him. That's it in teeth nowadays?

0:43:42.680 --> 0:43:46.240
<v Speaker 1>What's all with that? What is going on? So everybody

0:43:46.320 --> 0:43:49.320
<v Speaker 1>gonna bitch. Let me tell you a hundred two hundred

0:43:49.400 --> 0:43:51.920
<v Speaker 1>years from now when they're finding all of our not

0:43:52.080 --> 0:43:54.600
<v Speaker 1>a hundred, we'll say, wait further than that. What about

0:43:54.960 --> 0:43:57.520
<v Speaker 1>five six years from now, a thousand years from now,

0:43:57.560 --> 0:44:01.760
<v Speaker 1>and they finding our fossils? Not even that far? Fake ass.

0:44:02.320 --> 0:44:06.279
<v Speaker 1>The titties like they go like our bones gonna look

0:44:06.320 --> 0:44:09.120
<v Speaker 1>so fucked up. They're like, what is this? Like they

0:44:09.200 --> 0:44:13.560
<v Speaker 1>had everybody had all the women had little plastic bags

0:44:13.719 --> 0:44:16.840
<v Speaker 1>that laid upon their breastplate. We don't know what the

0:44:16.920 --> 0:44:19.839
<v Speaker 1>bags were for. Maybe this was something that they put

0:44:19.920 --> 0:44:23.200
<v Speaker 1>in the casket to help them transition to the next side.

0:44:23.680 --> 0:44:26.799
<v Speaker 1>These these water bags right on the chest. We think

0:44:26.840 --> 0:44:29.719
<v Speaker 1>it held them down and tried to hold their soul down.

0:44:32.880 --> 0:44:36.520
<v Speaker 1>And they all have these bags, uh not that nice

0:44:36.600 --> 0:44:43.359
<v Speaker 1>looking bags with them, like these big square bags, said

0:44:43.400 --> 0:44:48.000
<v Speaker 1>burking on them in the casket and the casket with them.

0:44:50.280 --> 0:44:56.600
<v Speaker 1>We think these were offerings to God's women. They had

0:44:56.640 --> 0:45:02.680
<v Speaker 1>like some residue around the crowns up their heads, that

0:45:04.360 --> 0:45:07.960
<v Speaker 1>just residue because you bear me and my wig, don't

0:45:07.960 --> 0:45:11.320
<v Speaker 1>I gonna take my wig off? Apparently a lot of

0:45:11.480 --> 0:45:17.040
<v Speaker 1>them had hair dressed wigs, things glued to their scalps

0:45:19.840 --> 0:45:25.080
<v Speaker 1>and corn rolls underneath right there, real hair was corn

0:45:25.200 --> 0:45:34.000
<v Speaker 1>rolled like meek Mille mill fuzzy corn rolls. Yo. When

0:45:34.080 --> 0:45:36.600
<v Speaker 1>we get old, bitch, we're gonna be a lot of

0:45:37.800 --> 0:45:43.759
<v Speaker 1>bad back tattooed so weird eyelashes and wigs. We're just

0:45:43.840 --> 0:45:48.320
<v Speaker 1>gonna be granny bitches. In the church was sexy tatted

0:45:48.400 --> 0:45:54.400
<v Speaker 1>on our neck like they just got face tattoos. Do

0:45:54.520 --> 0:45:58.320
<v Speaker 1>We're gonna be We're gonna look crazy, but listen, imagine

0:45:58.360 --> 0:46:01.160
<v Speaker 1>what the kid's gonna be looking like. Though we're gonna

0:46:01.200 --> 0:46:05.279
<v Speaker 1>look we're gonna look conservative. But you know, if you

0:46:05.360 --> 0:46:07.600
<v Speaker 1>look at our ancestors, like you know how black people. Girl,

0:46:07.640 --> 0:46:09.440
<v Speaker 1>we're all off topic, but we're about to wrap it

0:46:09.520 --> 0:46:12.320
<v Speaker 1>up in a second. But you know how our ancestors

0:46:12.400 --> 0:46:15.800
<v Speaker 1>when you see pictures of them, they had gold teeth,

0:46:16.160 --> 0:46:18.400
<v Speaker 1>They had diamonds in their teeth. They wore a lot

0:46:18.480 --> 0:46:21.080
<v Speaker 1>of gold. Like we always been a flashy people, like

0:46:22.239 --> 0:46:26.200
<v Speaker 1>like gold dust. Gold is like the masculine, supposedly right,

0:46:26.239 --> 0:46:29.000
<v Speaker 1>and silva is the feminine. So back in the Egyptian time,

0:46:29.080 --> 0:46:31.840
<v Speaker 1>like the men wore silver, women wore gold and they

0:46:31.880 --> 0:46:34.000
<v Speaker 1>couldn't men can't even wear gold like on the actual

0:46:34.080 --> 0:46:38.040
<v Speaker 1>skin because it's a chemical that that the gold actually releases.

0:46:39.480 --> 0:46:43.040
<v Speaker 1>But um, we always been like this. We always moved

0:46:43.080 --> 0:46:45.640
<v Speaker 1>to the music. We just got all his soul and spirit.

0:46:46.239 --> 0:46:50.239
<v Speaker 1>Like it's just so tattered up like face tattoos and

0:46:50.280 --> 0:46:52.440
<v Speaker 1>all that ship people been doing. That tribe has always

0:46:52.480 --> 0:46:54.719
<v Speaker 1>been and they call it the face in your body now, right,

0:46:54.840 --> 0:46:58.839
<v Speaker 1>But it's really not. It's really culture when you think

0:46:58.880 --> 0:47:01.560
<v Speaker 1>about it, Like people, what about that culture where they

0:47:01.640 --> 0:47:07.560
<v Speaker 1>take the women put these rings around their necks and

0:47:08.360 --> 0:47:11.880
<v Speaker 1>on the beauty over there, Like how I bet they

0:47:11.960 --> 0:47:20.680
<v Speaker 1>can suck. You're so fucking stupid, this loan nigger. The

0:47:20.800 --> 0:47:29.000
<v Speaker 1>fun you're gonna do with this nick? So stupid, go

0:47:31.440 --> 0:47:36.359
<v Speaker 1>with this nick. So just to close out what our

0:47:36.440 --> 0:47:40.640
<v Speaker 1>topic was about, UM, you know when it when is

0:47:40.640 --> 0:47:43.320
<v Speaker 1>it time to really leave? I think we all know

0:47:43.520 --> 0:47:45.680
<v Speaker 1>when it's time to leave. But again, like we said,

0:47:46.040 --> 0:47:52.799
<v Speaker 1>people over extend mm hmm. The relationships that the expirasion date. Um,

0:47:52.960 --> 0:47:54.400
<v Speaker 1>you know when to leave. And I think it's like

0:47:54.520 --> 0:48:01.440
<v Speaker 1>you said, it's subjective to um the relationship, but especially

0:48:01.480 --> 0:48:04.239
<v Speaker 1>when it starts being physical, when it starts being a

0:48:04.360 --> 0:48:10.800
<v Speaker 1>lot of verbal um abuse, Um, you no longer respect

0:48:10.920 --> 0:48:15.240
<v Speaker 1>that person, it's time to go. Yeah, when it's easy

0:48:15.360 --> 0:48:19.799
<v Speaker 1>for you to disrespect them, it's time to go. I mean,

0:48:19.840 --> 0:48:21.279
<v Speaker 1>I don't even want to say if you're just a

0:48:21.320 --> 0:48:23.200
<v Speaker 1>disrespectful person, because if it's a woman who was just

0:48:23.280 --> 0:48:27.440
<v Speaker 1>disrespectful to manas you leaver, so he's not he's not

0:48:27.719 --> 0:48:30.000
<v Speaker 1>ending the relationship because he may be used to that

0:48:30.080 --> 0:48:33.120
<v Speaker 1>type of disrespect. He might he might have been raised

0:48:33.360 --> 0:48:38.400
<v Speaker 1>raised by a bitch who knows right, because like like it.

0:48:38.480 --> 0:48:42.840
<v Speaker 1>When you talk to him crazy thing, it's like a

0:48:42.880 --> 0:48:46.279
<v Speaker 1>get old foul mouth, fuck you, nigga. You're gonna eat

0:48:46.320 --> 0:48:49.000
<v Speaker 1>this chicken, motherfucking sandwich the way I made it, motherfucker,

0:48:49.160 --> 0:48:52.839
<v Speaker 1>and you're gonna be happy. Bitch. Damn my little girl

0:48:52.960 --> 0:49:05.719
<v Speaker 1>right here, your mommy and my mama. Yo, that's abuse.

0:49:05.880 --> 0:49:08.160
<v Speaker 1>These things don't know abuse when they see it. Man,

0:49:10.080 --> 0:49:12.200
<v Speaker 1>a lot of us are will stick abuse for love

0:49:12.320 --> 0:49:18.200
<v Speaker 1>because that's how we grew up. Shane. My mom may

0:49:18.280 --> 0:49:20.480
<v Speaker 1>never talk to me fucking crazy. Nobody never talked to

0:49:20.560 --> 0:49:22.399
<v Speaker 1>me crazy. So when somebody talk to me crazy, I'd

0:49:22.400 --> 0:49:26.920
<v Speaker 1>be like, who then are you talking to? I know

0:49:28.000 --> 0:49:33.879
<v Speaker 1>the fuck got me fucked up. No, I didn't grow

0:49:33.960 --> 0:49:36.880
<v Speaker 1>up in the house with my mom talk crazy. She

0:49:37.000 --> 0:49:46.440
<v Speaker 1>did talk crazy, but not to us around us. Um okay,

0:49:46.560 --> 0:49:54.440
<v Speaker 1>So let's um go into Okay, let's go into our

0:49:55.120 --> 0:50:02.040
<v Speaker 1>random sex facts. So this random sex fact is brought

0:50:02.080 --> 0:50:07.759
<v Speaker 1>to you by meet mindful dot com. So here's an

0:50:07.800 --> 0:50:14.879
<v Speaker 1>interesting thing about contraceptives. Women who take hormonal contraceptives tend

0:50:14.960 --> 0:50:19.600
<v Speaker 1>to be more attracted to men with lower testosterone levels

0:50:20.080 --> 0:50:26.080
<v Speaker 1>and less super masculine physical characteristics, according to research, But

0:50:26.280 --> 0:50:30.480
<v Speaker 1>women tend to desire overtly masculine men during their most

0:50:30.600 --> 0:50:34.200
<v Speaker 1>fertile times in their cycle, and more likely to stray

0:50:34.320 --> 0:50:37.720
<v Speaker 1>during this time as well. That time period is also

0:50:37.840 --> 0:50:41.319
<v Speaker 1>the easiest time for women to reach orgasm. Let's break

0:50:41.400 --> 0:50:46.480
<v Speaker 1>this down right quick. So they're saying women who are

0:50:46.520 --> 0:50:50.480
<v Speaker 1>on birth control are attracted to men who are less masculine.

0:50:51.000 --> 0:50:56.480
<v Speaker 1>It's because the birth control thriving certain hormones that make

0:50:56.600 --> 0:51:01.400
<v Speaker 1>you less feminine. So you're a tracted to the feminine

0:51:01.480 --> 0:51:04.759
<v Speaker 1>because you're becoming the masculine. Could that explain like the

0:51:04.800 --> 0:51:07.800
<v Speaker 1>ship we'll be talking about on Clubhouse right quick, like

0:51:08.400 --> 0:51:13.840
<v Speaker 1>the masculine women, women being more masculine, being in a

0:51:14.040 --> 0:51:16.960
<v Speaker 1>more masculine energy as opposed to being in their feminine energy.

0:51:17.040 --> 0:51:21.719
<v Speaker 1>Could birth control be the reason for that? Perhaps interesting

0:51:22.280 --> 0:51:28.040
<v Speaker 1>m m mmmm. And then it also says that women

0:51:28.080 --> 0:51:31.799
<v Speaker 1>are more likely to stray. It says, but women tend

0:51:31.840 --> 0:51:35.920
<v Speaker 1>to desire overtly masculine men during their most fertile times.

0:51:36.320 --> 0:51:38.360
<v Speaker 1>So say, for instance, this is how that reads to me.

0:51:38.840 --> 0:51:41.960
<v Speaker 1>If you're a woman, and you're on birth control and

0:51:42.040 --> 0:51:47.000
<v Speaker 1>you're with a man who's more of a uh less

0:51:47.160 --> 0:51:52.120
<v Speaker 1>masculine man right during your times of fertility, you may

0:51:52.600 --> 0:51:55.560
<v Speaker 1>be more attracted at just running that time to a

0:51:55.680 --> 0:52:04.440
<v Speaker 1>more masculine Yeah, a masculine man. What's the fuck? Right now?

0:52:04.640 --> 0:52:09.040
<v Speaker 1>You're fucking a metro sexual kind of dude, a beta male.

0:52:09.920 --> 0:52:14.560
<v Speaker 1>When you about to have your cycle, now you want

0:52:14.560 --> 0:52:23.120
<v Speaker 1>to d MX, So you you fucking Cavin Samuels or

0:52:23.160 --> 0:52:26.040
<v Speaker 1>your period right before your period, you wouldn't max, got it?

0:52:30.320 --> 0:52:32.560
<v Speaker 1>So look all right, but we really need to look

0:52:32.600 --> 0:52:35.759
<v Speaker 1>into that man, because that could really be that's you know,

0:52:35.760 --> 0:52:38.759
<v Speaker 1>because a lot of women are on birth control. We

0:52:38.800 --> 0:52:41.680
<v Speaker 1>already know planned parenthood is mainly in black communities while

0:52:41.719 --> 0:52:46.320
<v Speaker 1>white people got fertility clinics. Mm hmm. In planned parenthood

0:52:46.440 --> 0:52:48.880
<v Speaker 1>is not just for abortions. Planned parenthood is for a

0:52:49.000 --> 0:52:52.799
<v Speaker 1>planned parenthood, like so they give contraceptives or if you're

0:52:52.800 --> 0:52:55.160
<v Speaker 1>having a baby, they counsel you on that too. But

0:52:55.840 --> 0:52:58.680
<v Speaker 1>birth control is a big part of planned parenthood. So

0:52:58.760 --> 0:53:00.960
<v Speaker 1>if you're so, if a lot of black women are

0:53:01.120 --> 0:53:05.720
<v Speaker 1>on birth control from the time they started started puberty

0:53:05.840 --> 0:53:07.759
<v Speaker 1>for the most part, because your mom would be wanting

0:53:07.760 --> 0:53:08.880
<v Speaker 1>to put you on that ship as soon as she

0:53:08.920 --> 0:53:12.880
<v Speaker 1>think you about to be fucking. My mama didn't, but

0:53:13.040 --> 0:53:15.600
<v Speaker 1>I know a lot of my friends mom did. My

0:53:15.719 --> 0:53:17.920
<v Speaker 1>mom saw it as a weight, like, bitch, if I

0:53:17.960 --> 0:53:19.360
<v Speaker 1>put you on birth control, I mean, you're gonna be

0:53:19.360 --> 0:53:21.200
<v Speaker 1>working without a condom. And that's not really what I'm

0:53:21.200 --> 0:53:25.480
<v Speaker 1>concerned about. It's std is more so than the pregnancy. Um.

0:53:26.400 --> 0:53:28.839
<v Speaker 1>But that's a that's the real thing. That's that's kind

0:53:28.840 --> 0:53:30.759
<v Speaker 1>of that's weird to me that they actually did a

0:53:30.800 --> 0:53:34.120
<v Speaker 1>study on that that a woman that's on birth control

0:53:34.400 --> 0:53:40.680
<v Speaker 1>is more attracted to a feminine man. Oh no, exactly.

0:53:42.040 --> 0:53:45.200
<v Speaker 1>That's real interesting. So could that explain also more women

0:53:45.719 --> 0:53:49.520
<v Speaker 1>on your pussy right now and the analysts who you're

0:53:49.560 --> 0:53:51.440
<v Speaker 1>fucking and why are you suing? It might be the

0:53:51.600 --> 0:53:54.280
<v Speaker 1>implant on in your arm, even if it's a lesbian,

0:53:54.400 --> 0:53:56.440
<v Speaker 1>even if you're in a lesbian relationship. Could it be

0:53:56.520 --> 0:53:58.920
<v Speaker 1>the birth control that puts push push you towards that

0:53:58.960 --> 0:54:01.600
<v Speaker 1>because you're not looking for my skilling at that point,

0:54:02.560 --> 0:54:05.160
<v Speaker 1>or you could you could be the masculine, you're looking

0:54:05.200 --> 0:54:08.800
<v Speaker 1>for the feminine because of birth control. Yeah, that's crazy.

0:54:09.520 --> 0:54:17.240
<v Speaker 1>Girls fucking with your chromosomes, that fucking with your DNA

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<v Speaker 1>that you know, I never bitch. That's an interesting ship.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah it is. So we're gonna wrap it up for

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<v Speaker 1>the day. We ramble on and on and on, but

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<v Speaker 1>here we are and we made it through. And we

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<v Speaker 1>thank you guys for joining every Thursday exactly on the

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<v Speaker 1>on we Talked Back podcast. AJ Hall two point Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm official, Tam Bam. Hey, white people, don't forget to

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<v Speaker 1>send us to your execa black friend. Y'all getting scared,

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<v Speaker 1>don't get scared like we do have one I would

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<v Speaker 1>like to explore on our next episode, so we'll go

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<v Speaker 1>in to that. Then we'll plan around a kind of disorder.

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<v Speaker 1>But anyway, thank you guys for listening. Bye h