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Speaker 1: I'm about to come pay your rent? Why did I

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Speaker 1: was good you made me to pay your rent. Yes, Hey, y'all,

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Speaker 1: welcome back to a new episode that we talk back.

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Speaker 1: It's your girl a j And it's me Tim Man.

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Speaker 1: Hey y'all. I love y'all, everybody, you know all these

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Speaker 1: I love all my whole and how it's How are

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Speaker 1: you feeling, Tam, I honestly feel like ship right now.

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Speaker 1: M hmm, I know so good. It was my birthday weekend.

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Speaker 1: might just have a cold. Everything is not COVID weekend.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, my weekend. Um, I don't do much. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I've been really learning how to do option trading. I

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Speaker 1: don't know if anybody out there, um, any of our

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Speaker 1: always been in the stock market, but bitch, I didn't

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Speaker 1: me up, but just been Yeah, man, I really just

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Speaker 1: been looking at fucking stock charts all weekend and understanding

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Speaker 1: I've been doing, making money. I'm not mad at that bitch.

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Speaker 1: So I lost my dog, Bella last week, y'all, my

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Speaker 1: still they canceled it? You know why? Because they're exposing

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Speaker 1: That's why we can't have certain conversations. Bitch, you talking

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Speaker 1: So there's a lot of things that's being put in food.

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Speaker 1: we've got life is yours on him? Right? That ship

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Speaker 1: You may be addicted to how you feel. You feel better?

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Speaker 1: like brownies. I don't like that smoke in my fucking lungs.

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Speaker 1: I don't like edibles because see, when you smoke weed,

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Speaker 1: what kind of system is that? So is that only damn?

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Speaker 1: you would put it. I come to come, try, come,

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Speaker 1: and chicken and beef. No pork sandwich, No, no, no

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Speaker 1: hard drugs. It's not crazy because I enjoyed all those

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Speaker 1: while you own some hard drugs, no you're not. No,

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Speaker 1: yeah's to be excelling in school. It's like the what

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Speaker 1: Let's do a dumb bitch story right quick. You know,

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Speaker 1: you know what we should do real quick. Let's pay

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Speaker 1: like now, first the first night if I wanted him

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Speaker 1: so what you're about to do? Right? Easy? Because you

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Speaker 1: So audios, and like, when did you'll meet? And when

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Speaker 1: did y'all start sucking around? And why the fund can

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Speaker 1: of just talking to the niked as right there in

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Speaker 1: your house? You are really God, wait for two weeks,

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Speaker 1: so this naked just been waking up Washington and going

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Speaker 1: and coming back, and you want to talk to another

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Speaker 1: bit about him? Did you go to work? Do you

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Speaker 1: got a job where you living? What's your last name,

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Speaker 1: I want to go to your house. Period. That's an

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Speaker 1: easy way. Oh it's see, that's the submissive, very meek

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Speaker 1: Isn't really a science for a woman to figure out

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Speaker 1: They don't know how to speak up when it comes

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Speaker 1: turned into like when you're going home, but you're scared

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Speaker 1: alligns you without a topic too. He probably still laying

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Speaker 1: up in there right now while we're talking, eating up

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Speaker 1: all your turkey sandwiches and ship he got kid to home.

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Speaker 1: Is he drinking your kids juicy juice? Right? Little nick

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Speaker 1: Nate mad as well? Oh what go Wrome? I hate

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Speaker 1: mama all my daddy? Right, call your baby daddy if

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Speaker 1: you got one, call your baby daddy talking about But look,

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Speaker 1: black women and women, we need to stop putting men

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Speaker 1: in the positions. Now, you got yourself and some dumb ship.

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Speaker 1: Now you wanna call your brother and uncle or somebody

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Speaker 1: over there assist snoop dog off parole. And he's staying

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Speaker 1: in front of my daughter. No, you're gonna ripe me

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00:25:30,280 --> 00:25:33,560
Speaker 1: in front up front of my son to get out.

425
00:25:34,840 --> 00:25:38,280
Speaker 1: He ain't got a job. She sounds like she just

426
00:25:38,359 --> 00:25:41,360
Speaker 1: wants to know if he can possibly even get out.

427
00:25:42,000 --> 00:25:45,520
Speaker 1: Do you have someplace else to go? Right? Don't message

428
00:25:45,560 --> 00:25:48,000
Speaker 1: that other woman though, whatever you do, do not message

429
00:25:48,040 --> 00:25:51,880
Speaker 1: that other woman. Whatever you do, please don't. She has

430
00:25:52,640 --> 00:25:56,760
Speaker 1: her life, she her age is growing back, and he

431
00:25:56,840 --> 00:25:58,800
Speaker 1: probably at your house because he can't go to hers.

432
00:25:58,800 --> 00:26:06,960
Speaker 1: No more, no more cobo sexual. So what is it

433
00:26:07,080 --> 00:26:13,520
Speaker 1: time to leave a relationship? How do you know it's

434
00:26:13,600 --> 00:26:17,760
Speaker 1: time when you spend more time frowning and smiling. It's

435
00:26:17,760 --> 00:26:22,520
Speaker 1: time to go, but that's that's not something you can

436
00:26:22,600 --> 00:26:25,040
Speaker 1: determine for anyone else. When it's time for they don't

437
00:26:25,119 --> 00:26:27,879
Speaker 1: leave because you can talk to you blew in the

438
00:26:27,960 --> 00:26:30,160
Speaker 1: face to another bit by like girl, you just need

439
00:26:30,160 --> 00:26:32,600
Speaker 1: to go, But they ain't going nowhere until they're good

440
00:26:32,600 --> 00:26:36,040
Speaker 1: and god damn ready. Mm hmmm, hold on, tam, Let's

441
00:26:36,040 --> 00:26:43,080
Speaker 1: say some bills. So we said earlier is before, and

442
00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:45,760
Speaker 1: you want to hit that nigger reset button, but before

443
00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:47,200
Speaker 1: if you feel like you want to put your hands

444
00:26:47,200 --> 00:26:49,639
Speaker 1: on somebody, should probably leave before then too. You know,

445
00:26:50,240 --> 00:26:52,439
Speaker 1: if you really love somebody, you're gonna want to kill

446
00:26:52,480 --> 00:26:54,800
Speaker 1: them at some point in the relationship. Right, I feel

447
00:26:54,840 --> 00:27:00,680
Speaker 1: like that's normal. Okay, keep going. But if you start

448
00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:03,199
Speaker 1: planning on how you're gonna kill them and how you're

449
00:27:03,200 --> 00:27:06,040
Speaker 1: gonna get away with it, that's when it's starting to leap. Yes,

450
00:27:06,119 --> 00:27:08,800
Speaker 1: So when you start planning, that's when it's ready to go. Yeah,

451
00:27:08,840 --> 00:27:14,480
Speaker 1: when you start calling your home girls and Google and

452
00:27:14,520 --> 00:27:17,440
Speaker 1: how to kill it get away with it? Watching Viola

453
00:27:17,520 --> 00:27:19,840
Speaker 1: Davis or how to get Away with Murder right down

454
00:27:19,880 --> 00:27:22,080
Speaker 1: notes and ship how to just all of a body,

455
00:27:23,000 --> 00:27:26,199
Speaker 1: that's when it's time to go. Yeah. Um, So I

456
00:27:26,200 --> 00:27:30,199
Speaker 1: think respect is definitely earned, but so it's disrespect. So

457
00:27:30,240 --> 00:27:33,719
Speaker 1: if you find yourself being like extremely disrespectful to your partner,

458
00:27:34,359 --> 00:27:39,720
Speaker 1: if you weren't already like that, um, you're losing respect

459
00:27:39,720 --> 00:27:42,680
Speaker 1: for them because it's just sting. Certain things like love

460
00:27:43,359 --> 00:27:46,399
Speaker 1: won't allow you to say and do to somebody you

461
00:27:46,520 --> 00:27:48,880
Speaker 1: really in love with. So if you just start doing

462
00:27:48,880 --> 00:27:51,480
Speaker 1: a bunch of stupid ship to the person you with,

463
00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:56,639
Speaker 1: it's probably time to go. Yeah. When you start ah

464
00:27:57,119 --> 00:27:59,800
Speaker 1: telling other your work husband about how much you hate

465
00:27:59,800 --> 00:28:11,639
Speaker 1: your it's time to go. Sid. But you know, a

466
00:28:11,680 --> 00:28:15,520
Speaker 1: lot of us we stay long, long, long past time ago,

467
00:28:16,000 --> 00:28:21,680
Speaker 1: you know, long past expiration date. Yea. I think sometimes

468
00:28:21,760 --> 00:28:24,000
Speaker 1: sometimes people just need a break. Also, it may not

469
00:28:24,080 --> 00:28:27,000
Speaker 1: even be a permanent breakup, but that that could be

470
00:28:27,040 --> 00:28:30,400
Speaker 1: the reset though, to take some time apart and come

471
00:28:30,400 --> 00:28:33,560
Speaker 1: back together. How about this when you call my phone, like,

472
00:28:33,600 --> 00:28:35,720
Speaker 1: I always have a regular face, so I always add

473
00:28:35,720 --> 00:28:38,640
Speaker 1: to and to laughing. Right, it's always gonna be a

474
00:28:38,680 --> 00:28:41,440
Speaker 1: fun time when we talk to each other. If every

475
00:28:41,480 --> 00:28:45,480
Speaker 1: time your significant other hitting you up, it's like what

476
00:28:45,560 --> 00:28:50,320
Speaker 1: the funk? Now, Like you automatically get anxiety. Maybe just

477
00:28:50,440 --> 00:28:53,840
Speaker 1: maybe you need a break or it just maybe time

478
00:28:53,880 --> 00:28:57,600
Speaker 1: to go. So, my my father was here this weekend

479
00:28:57,720 --> 00:29:00,480
Speaker 1: for my birthday and he was saying that young people cool,

480
00:29:00,840 --> 00:29:04,560
Speaker 1: we don't know how to stick it out. We don't

481
00:29:04,640 --> 00:29:07,720
Speaker 1: know how to fight through the good times the bad times,

482
00:29:07,800 --> 00:29:10,800
Speaker 1: Like we just want instant gratification and as soon as

483
00:29:10,840 --> 00:29:14,200
Speaker 1: it started being fun, then it's time to leave for us.

484
00:29:14,680 --> 00:29:16,600
Speaker 1: He's like, y'all don't even stay on job. He's like,

485
00:29:16,760 --> 00:29:18,680
Speaker 1: back in my day, I thinkus we'll stay on the

486
00:29:18,800 --> 00:29:24,760
Speaker 1: job fifty yells, y'all leave after thirty days, right, We're

487
00:29:24,760 --> 00:29:29,080
Speaker 1: just staying for abuse. We're not Why do we have to?

488
00:29:29,280 --> 00:29:31,400
Speaker 1: We got other options. I think we have options. We

489
00:29:31,440 --> 00:29:33,920
Speaker 1: feel like we have more options now and that's why.

490
00:29:34,280 --> 00:29:37,640
Speaker 1: But when it comes to our relationships, do we check

491
00:29:37,640 --> 00:29:41,600
Speaker 1: out too soon? Especially when you've decided to get married

492
00:29:42,240 --> 00:29:45,920
Speaker 1: to take the bidder with the sweet? Are we checking

493
00:29:45,960 --> 00:29:50,000
Speaker 1: out too soon? I have had three relationships in the

494
00:29:50,120 --> 00:29:56,480
Speaker 1: last twelve years, twell, thirteen years, right, and I feel

495
00:29:56,520 --> 00:30:00,800
Speaker 1: like I may have overstayed too long. And at least

496
00:30:00,840 --> 00:30:04,480
Speaker 1: two of those relationships, you know what I'm saying. The

497
00:30:04,520 --> 00:30:08,040
Speaker 1: experience obviously, like they say, it's not like it's not

498
00:30:08,120 --> 00:30:10,960
Speaker 1: really a loss. But you use a lot of time

499
00:30:11,280 --> 00:30:13,480
Speaker 1: being someplace you're not supposed to be, and you've got

500
00:30:13,520 --> 00:30:16,920
Speaker 1: a lot of signs that told you, hey, what the

501
00:30:16,960 --> 00:30:20,400
Speaker 1: fund is up? So five years is that a little

502
00:30:20,400 --> 00:30:22,760
Speaker 1: bit of time? Oh no, that's not a little bit

503
00:30:22,800 --> 00:30:24,880
Speaker 1: of time. It just I guess it just depends on

504
00:30:25,040 --> 00:30:28,880
Speaker 1: the relationship. Mhm. I can he learned anything from it?

505
00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:31,960
Speaker 1: I learned. I learned a lot of stuff from from

506
00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:34,680
Speaker 1: the relationships I've been in. I learned my likes, I

507
00:30:34,760 --> 00:30:41,120
Speaker 1: learned my dislikes. You yeah, boundaries, you know, with boundaries

508
00:30:41,160 --> 00:30:45,160
Speaker 1: I want to establish in the next relationship. Um My

509
00:30:45,240 --> 00:30:47,560
Speaker 1: daddy told me I wasn't gonna never get nobody because

510
00:30:47,600 --> 00:30:49,400
Speaker 1: of my mouth. That's what he told me all the

511
00:30:49,480 --> 00:30:52,200
Speaker 1: day here. He said, You're never gonna get a man

512
00:30:52,240 --> 00:30:55,479
Speaker 1: because of your mouth. I know, I mean, I know

513
00:30:55,920 --> 00:30:57,960
Speaker 1: we always say men just want somebody who shut the

514
00:30:57,960 --> 00:30:59,960
Speaker 1: funk up. But I really believe like a strong man,

515
00:31:00,000 --> 00:31:01,960
Speaker 1: they don't want that. They don't want a real man.

516
00:31:02,040 --> 00:31:05,120
Speaker 1: Doesn't want a yes man or yes ma'am, somebody who

517
00:31:05,280 --> 00:31:09,320
Speaker 1: just never checks them when they're sucking up. Nobody really

518
00:31:09,320 --> 00:31:13,960
Speaker 1: wants that. That is that that's not genuine right. So

519
00:31:14,000 --> 00:31:15,840
Speaker 1: if y'all I feel like you're a weak man, if

520
00:31:15,840 --> 00:31:18,360
Speaker 1: you want a woman who doesn't have an opinion and

521
00:31:18,400 --> 00:31:20,800
Speaker 1: who can't check you when you're sucking up, like I'm

522
00:31:20,840 --> 00:31:22,960
Speaker 1: just supposed to just let you do. That's why I

523
00:31:23,000 --> 00:31:24,680
Speaker 1: blame white women for a lot of the things that's

524
00:31:24,680 --> 00:31:27,720
Speaker 1: happening and happening in the world, because they sit back

525
00:31:27,760 --> 00:31:29,400
Speaker 1: and they let their men do what the funk they

526
00:31:29,440 --> 00:31:31,120
Speaker 1: want to do, and they, you know, reap the benefits

527
00:31:31,120 --> 00:31:34,960
Speaker 1: on the back end um that because they want to

528
00:31:34,960 --> 00:31:38,240
Speaker 1: do it too. But we black bitches because we check people,

529
00:31:39,760 --> 00:31:41,680
Speaker 1: you know. So they get to be like nice, little

530
00:31:41,680 --> 00:31:43,680
Speaker 1: timid because they don't see much, but they definitely do,

531
00:31:43,800 --> 00:31:46,240
Speaker 1: they just may not do it publicly. So maybe we

532
00:31:46,240 --> 00:31:50,440
Speaker 1: need to learn learn that I only punch my nick

533
00:31:50,480 --> 00:31:55,440
Speaker 1: in the face one time in public. It was because

534
00:31:56,520 --> 00:31:59,080
Speaker 1: what I never hit it? They getting public, bitch, I

535
00:31:59,080 --> 00:32:01,680
Speaker 1: ain't trying to go to jail. I showed chin check

536
00:32:01,760 --> 00:32:06,000
Speaker 1: that nigga in public. He called me a hole in

537
00:32:06,080 --> 00:32:11,400
Speaker 1: front of everybody. Uh, I wasn't doing nothing. I was

538
00:32:11,720 --> 00:32:13,960
Speaker 1: we was at a club. Was all at the club

539
00:32:14,240 --> 00:32:16,720
Speaker 1: and we was in like the smoke section. My whole

540
00:32:16,800 --> 00:32:20,080
Speaker 1: girl smoked Newports. So he was in a smoke section,

541
00:32:21,400 --> 00:32:25,040
Speaker 1: and I mean outside, you know, like outside on the pario,

542
00:32:26,040 --> 00:32:28,680
Speaker 1: and it was these guys just came over and was

543
00:32:28,760 --> 00:32:32,600
Speaker 1: just chatting us up or whatever. And I was there

544
00:32:32,640 --> 00:32:35,080
Speaker 1: with my nigga. It wasn't like I was like trying

545
00:32:35,120 --> 00:32:38,120
Speaker 1: to pick up nobody. We were This is in Europe,

546
00:32:38,440 --> 00:32:41,440
Speaker 1: so we're in London. They were like, oh, y'all Americans. Yeah,

547
00:32:41,520 --> 00:32:45,040
Speaker 1: and you know how we talk, and we were just

548
00:32:45,160 --> 00:32:48,480
Speaker 1: chatting and he just saw some niggas standing there talking

549
00:32:48,520 --> 00:32:50,880
Speaker 1: to us instead of just coming over and talking to

550
00:32:51,720 --> 00:33:00,240
Speaker 1: He's like you out here being the hole, right, that's

551
00:33:00,240 --> 00:33:04,240
Speaker 1: a reflex. Actually, yeah, did he start acting? How did

552
00:33:04,280 --> 00:33:08,680
Speaker 1: he act after you hit him? He reset the fun

553
00:33:08,840 --> 00:33:13,280
Speaker 1: up talking about because I wasn't even doing the whole

554
00:33:13,280 --> 00:33:15,600
Speaker 1: ship like I'm gonna I have to talk to other

555
00:33:15,680 --> 00:33:20,360
Speaker 1: humans in this world, like you know, mm hmm damn. Yeah.

556
00:33:20,520 --> 00:33:23,360
Speaker 1: That's the only time I ever hit. Yeah, I think

557
00:33:23,400 --> 00:33:29,560
Speaker 1: that's the only time. But now I see them if

558
00:33:29,600 --> 00:33:31,680
Speaker 1: he would have punched me back and then driving and

559
00:33:31,680 --> 00:33:34,800
Speaker 1: everybody would have been like, oh he wrong for then,

560
00:33:36,600 --> 00:33:39,720
Speaker 1: so okay. So I never just straight up hit somebody

561
00:33:39,760 --> 00:33:42,600
Speaker 1: in front of people. But I definitely that smack niggas

562
00:33:42,600 --> 00:33:46,479
Speaker 1: in some cars before while I was driving, No like

563
00:33:46,600 --> 00:33:52,040
Speaker 1: park driving, yes, no, just both times were parked two

564
00:33:52,080 --> 00:33:55,080
Speaker 1: different people. Now, But this one in particular smacked one

565
00:33:55,120 --> 00:33:59,480
Speaker 1: of my ex boyfriends because the bitch was like stalking

566
00:33:59,520 --> 00:34:04,280
Speaker 1: me on Facebook about him, right, And I pulled up

567
00:34:04,320 --> 00:34:07,640
Speaker 1: to his job to talk to him about it while

568
00:34:07,680 --> 00:34:10,560
Speaker 1: he was on break, and the nigga said something when

569
00:34:10,560 --> 00:34:13,120
Speaker 1: he got like dog, I just smacked the funk out

570
00:34:13,160 --> 00:34:14,960
Speaker 1: of his ask girl, we got it back into the

571
00:34:15,000 --> 00:34:19,720
Speaker 1: day of job. Um, must be somebody saw me snack him. Obviously,

572
00:34:19,800 --> 00:34:22,640
Speaker 1: somebody saw me hit the nigga in the car. And

573
00:34:22,680 --> 00:34:24,960
Speaker 1: the person told like the superfud was like, hey man,

574
00:34:25,040 --> 00:34:32,440
Speaker 1: somebody out there snacking one of your employees. I snacked

575
00:34:32,440 --> 00:34:34,239
Speaker 1: the ship out that nigger in the car. Man, that's

576
00:34:34,280 --> 00:34:43,080
Speaker 1: not funny, y'all listen, we are knocking laughing, just funny.

577
00:34:43,560 --> 00:34:48,320
Speaker 1: Oh wait, this wasn't I don't know is this considered

578
00:34:48,320 --> 00:34:51,920
Speaker 1: domestic violence because I didn't physically hit him, alright, I

579
00:34:52,000 --> 00:34:54,640
Speaker 1: had all right, this is living in Europe. This, I mean,

580
00:34:54,840 --> 00:34:57,319
Speaker 1: all my boyfriend stories are from there, because that's the

581
00:34:57,360 --> 00:35:00,560
Speaker 1: last time I had a nigga. But I in the

582
00:35:00,600 --> 00:35:02,600
Speaker 1: hair salon all day. Right, I went in the hair

583
00:35:02,600 --> 00:35:06,839
Speaker 1: salon like eight that morning, and then I left there

584
00:35:06,880 --> 00:35:09,920
Speaker 1: at like seven and night went home shower eight and

585
00:35:09,960 --> 00:35:14,000
Speaker 1: then I bartended too. So I bartended till four in

586
00:35:14,000 --> 00:35:17,680
Speaker 1: the morning, right three thirty three thirty, I got off

587
00:35:18,040 --> 00:35:20,799
Speaker 1: and he was like, I can't drive home. I'm at

588
00:35:20,960 --> 00:35:24,759
Speaker 1: SO and so house. Come scoot me right. So I

589
00:35:24,800 --> 00:35:26,640
Speaker 1: was like, all right, but I'm tired. I've been working

590
00:35:26,719 --> 00:35:28,759
Speaker 1: all day. So I'm gonna let you know. When I

591
00:35:28,800 --> 00:35:31,440
Speaker 1: get close, I want you to come outside. So I

592
00:35:31,560 --> 00:35:34,400
Speaker 1: called him. Once I got close and he was like,

593
00:35:34,440 --> 00:35:38,600
Speaker 1: all right, I'm coming. Two minutes later, I'm ready to

594
00:35:38,640 --> 00:35:41,040
Speaker 1: go home. What are you doing? I'm coming. I'm coming

595
00:35:41,360 --> 00:35:44,400
Speaker 1: another like almost two minutes. He got me sitting outside

596
00:35:44,440 --> 00:35:47,960
Speaker 1: for twenty minutes. So he finally came outside and he

597
00:35:48,040 --> 00:35:50,160
Speaker 1: had his cup in his hand and he was like

598
00:35:50,280 --> 00:35:52,359
Speaker 1: laughing with niggles out of there. I think it has

599
00:35:53,920 --> 00:35:57,360
Speaker 1: like everything all good. Right, So I'm sitting in a

600
00:35:57,440 --> 00:36:00,359
Speaker 1: carl like now I'm gonna fun this nick up. He did.

601
00:36:01,239 --> 00:36:04,560
Speaker 1: So he gets in the car and I was like,

602
00:36:04,600 --> 00:36:06,400
Speaker 1: why would you do that? That's so rude, Like I

603
00:36:06,440 --> 00:36:08,200
Speaker 1: told you, I'm tired. I've been working all day. Why

604
00:36:08,239 --> 00:36:10,239
Speaker 1: would you have me sitting out here waiting that long?

605
00:36:10,640 --> 00:36:12,200
Speaker 1: He's like, man till the funk out. I had to

606
00:36:12,280 --> 00:36:15,239
Speaker 1: finish playing spade, and he had his little drink in

607
00:36:15,239 --> 00:36:17,279
Speaker 1: his hand and he was taking it up to his lip.

608
00:36:18,000 --> 00:36:20,319
Speaker 1: Wo I do it. I smacked back up out his

609
00:36:20,400 --> 00:36:25,759
Speaker 1: motherfucking hand, and liquor herenesse and lemonade start flying, and

610
00:36:25,880 --> 00:36:29,200
Speaker 1: his laugh or whatever he caught the cup or whatever.

611
00:36:29,239 --> 00:36:33,560
Speaker 1: He's like mmmmmm. And then I was talking ship, like, see, motherfucker,

612
00:36:33,640 --> 00:36:35,600
Speaker 1: you see how you make me act. I don't want

613
00:36:35,600 --> 00:36:37,400
Speaker 1: to do that ship to you, but you at disrespect

614
00:36:37,440 --> 00:36:39,319
Speaker 1: to me, had me out here all this motherfucking time.

615
00:36:40,040 --> 00:36:41,879
Speaker 1: So then we pull up to the house because it's

616
00:36:41,920 --> 00:36:44,239
Speaker 1: not that far. He literally could have walked, you know,

617
00:36:44,280 --> 00:36:46,640
Speaker 1: I could have should have left his ass. So we

618
00:36:46,760 --> 00:36:49,920
Speaker 1: get to the house and we get out of the car.

619
00:36:50,000 --> 00:36:51,960
Speaker 1: I'm still talking ship, and he hopped out the car

620
00:36:52,080 --> 00:36:54,120
Speaker 1: and he took what was left in the cup and

621
00:36:54,239 --> 00:36:56,719
Speaker 1: threw it in my face. It's time to leave. And

622
00:36:56,800 --> 00:37:04,160
Speaker 1: I was like, Nigga, when I can see again, that's

623
00:37:04,239 --> 00:37:07,520
Speaker 1: so toxic. Girl. Then nigga ran in the house and

624
00:37:07,640 --> 00:37:10,360
Speaker 1: lock themselfs in the bedroom because he knew I was

625
00:37:10,360 --> 00:37:13,799
Speaker 1: about to go on go to his ass. And then

626
00:37:13,840 --> 00:37:16,440
Speaker 1: he climbed out the bedroom window and went walking back

627
00:37:16,520 --> 00:37:18,400
Speaker 1: and had his homeboy pick up up from the street

628
00:37:18,680 --> 00:37:20,440
Speaker 1: because he already knew I was about to take it

629
00:37:20,840 --> 00:37:24,640
Speaker 1: to his ass. So before it even gets there, what

630
00:37:24,760 --> 00:37:27,560
Speaker 1: are some things that happened before it even gets physical

631
00:37:28,080 --> 00:37:30,480
Speaker 1: that are indicators that you need to get the fuck

632
00:37:30,719 --> 00:37:33,360
Speaker 1: up out of there, because I'm pretty sure there's a

633
00:37:33,400 --> 00:37:35,919
Speaker 1: lot of non physical things that happened before you start

634
00:37:35,960 --> 00:37:38,200
Speaker 1: putting your hands on each other and doing. Nigga, who

635
00:37:38,320 --> 00:37:41,120
Speaker 1: called you a hole for standing outside talking to people?

636
00:37:42,280 --> 00:37:46,839
Speaker 1: Verbal abuse? He used to Yeah, anytime somebody's just disrespectful

637
00:37:46,840 --> 00:37:49,680
Speaker 1: at the mouth. I know y'all New Yorkers, that's how

638
00:37:49,760 --> 00:37:51,920
Speaker 1: y'all like to talk to each other. But it's not healthy.

639
00:37:52,719 --> 00:37:54,640
Speaker 1: I don't new people from New York were talking. They

640
00:37:54,760 --> 00:37:58,240
Speaker 1: scared me when they talk like you got grown women

641
00:37:58,280 --> 00:38:02,560
Speaker 1: telling grown men and suck they That is disrespectful. Probing

642
00:38:02,600 --> 00:38:04,879
Speaker 1: my pearls now. I did tell one man in life

643
00:38:04,920 --> 00:38:07,080
Speaker 1: to suck my dick. So I found out my ex

644
00:38:07,160 --> 00:38:10,640
Speaker 1: boyfriend had a whole baby out here that I just

645
00:38:10,719 --> 00:38:14,600
Speaker 1: found out about last year. Now he's away in college.

646
00:38:16,840 --> 00:38:19,360
Speaker 1: Dad's in college. You don't even know, but I couldn't.

647
00:38:19,360 --> 00:38:21,239
Speaker 1: I really felt the way about it, like even though

648
00:38:21,280 --> 00:38:22,880
Speaker 1: I don't want to be with him, and you know,

649
00:38:23,080 --> 00:38:24,680
Speaker 1: so I sent a message to his home, but I

650
00:38:24,760 --> 00:38:27,000
Speaker 1: was like, listen, you talk to your friend, you tell

651
00:38:27,040 --> 00:38:35,200
Speaker 1: our nigga suck my dick respectfully. You can't respectfully, I know.

652
00:38:35,280 --> 00:38:42,279
Speaker 1: And he's like, disrespectful head, don't. They're like, sit on it. Yeah,

653
00:38:42,440 --> 00:38:45,279
Speaker 1: So yeah, that's that's that's not nice. And I was

654
00:38:45,480 --> 00:38:49,560
Speaker 1: trying to be blatantly as disrespectful as possible, especially because

655
00:38:49,560 --> 00:38:52,359
Speaker 1: he in prison. So how disrespectful is that to tell

656
00:38:52,560 --> 00:38:55,200
Speaker 1: man in prison that I knew exactly what I was doing.

657
00:38:55,680 --> 00:38:57,400
Speaker 1: I don't talk to him, and I wanted to offend

658
00:38:57,480 --> 00:39:01,800
Speaker 1: him as much as possible. I don't, I like you

659
00:39:01,920 --> 00:39:04,640
Speaker 1: a fuck nigga. You I don't talk like that or

660
00:39:05,280 --> 00:39:08,280
Speaker 1: suthing my dick. That don't even sound right coming. It's terrible,

661
00:39:08,400 --> 00:39:12,080
Speaker 1: it's actually terrible. That's the first and last time, well

662
00:39:12,120 --> 00:39:14,719
Speaker 1: I don't say last, that's a that's the first time

663
00:39:14,800 --> 00:39:18,200
Speaker 1: I ever used the term. But I what I say

664
00:39:18,400 --> 00:39:20,759
Speaker 1: is like I say ship, And this is what I'm

665
00:39:20,800 --> 00:39:23,320
Speaker 1: working on, trying to be a better person because I

666
00:39:23,360 --> 00:39:25,239
Speaker 1: won't cuss at you, but I don't say some ship

667
00:39:25,360 --> 00:39:28,600
Speaker 1: like that ain't even your baby anyway, you know, something

668
00:39:28,680 --> 00:39:37,840
Speaker 1: like that bit you me, I forgot every with the truth,

669
00:39:42,200 --> 00:39:45,600
Speaker 1: you know what? That might be fighting words. That's words though, Yeah,

670
00:39:45,680 --> 00:39:48,200
Speaker 1: that's words. Yeah, I'd rather you say something I did

671
00:39:48,320 --> 00:39:50,360
Speaker 1: to tell me that my baby mama lied to me

672
00:39:50,480 --> 00:39:55,680
Speaker 1: about my kids. You straight just tapped that nigga in

673
00:39:55,840 --> 00:40:00,680
Speaker 1: with that. Yeah, that'sn't tapping. Yeah, you know, because the

674
00:40:00,719 --> 00:40:04,719
Speaker 1: podcast is to me, it's get toward you know, women,

675
00:40:04,800 --> 00:40:08,759
Speaker 1: our age, younger women so they can just live like

676
00:40:08,880 --> 00:40:11,960
Speaker 1: curiously through all dumb ship. She's just like knowing when

677
00:40:12,200 --> 00:40:14,160
Speaker 1: when no one when to leave a situation that is

678
00:40:14,239 --> 00:40:18,960
Speaker 1: not is not serving you. You know. Um, I feel

679
00:40:19,000 --> 00:40:24,400
Speaker 1: like these young girls are you know, are growing the

680
00:40:24,600 --> 00:40:27,640
Speaker 1: value value and adding tax you know, in a way

681
00:40:27,680 --> 00:40:30,600
Speaker 1: that we did not growing up because we had, like

682
00:40:30,760 --> 00:40:34,200
Speaker 1: Trina's telling you, like five or six best friends. But

683
00:40:34,239 --> 00:40:36,799
Speaker 1: she says she was getting paid for these houses. Now

684
00:40:36,800 --> 00:40:40,120
Speaker 1: at least they getting baid. China definitely was saying if

685
00:40:40,200 --> 00:40:43,080
Speaker 1: she knew what she knew now she'd be sucking by

686
00:40:43,160 --> 00:40:45,200
Speaker 1: the time she was tending because she was getting money

687
00:40:45,320 --> 00:40:49,680
Speaker 1: from niggas. Remember the time she was if I could,

688
00:40:49,800 --> 00:40:51,719
Speaker 1: if I, if I could do it all again, I'll

689
00:40:51,760 --> 00:40:54,200
Speaker 1: be fucking by the time I'm ten. You remember that?

690
00:40:54,760 --> 00:41:01,920
Speaker 1: And who's bad is? Trina was definitely about getting that

691
00:41:02,040 --> 00:41:03,800
Speaker 1: check out about these niggas, like I feel like and

692
00:41:03,880 --> 00:41:05,920
Speaker 1: when listening to Trina when I was in high school,

693
00:41:05,960 --> 00:41:08,279
Speaker 1: like Trina really made me feel like, these niggas better

694
00:41:08,320 --> 00:41:09,719
Speaker 1: come with something if they want to sun on me,

695
00:41:10,440 --> 00:41:13,520
Speaker 1: Like if you have a car, I didn't grow up

696
00:41:13,640 --> 00:41:15,880
Speaker 1: listening to Trina. It's so crazy because I'll be in

697
00:41:15,920 --> 00:41:17,680
Speaker 1: a car with all my friends and treating song and

698
00:41:17,719 --> 00:41:19,759
Speaker 1: everybody rapping all the lyrics, and I'd be like, where

699
00:41:20,000 --> 00:41:23,520
Speaker 1: was I I missed it? I don't know. The only

700
00:41:23,560 --> 00:41:25,640
Speaker 1: song I know really was like pull over that as

701
00:41:25,680 --> 00:41:29,520
Speaker 1: too Fat? What was you listening to? I was listening

702
00:41:29,600 --> 00:41:33,040
Speaker 1: to jay Z, I was listening to Nash, was listening

703
00:41:33,040 --> 00:41:35,520
Speaker 1: to Tupac, I was listening to Big Gi, I was

704
00:41:35,600 --> 00:41:40,080
Speaker 1: listening to the NA But yeah, I feel like a lot.

705
00:41:40,440 --> 00:41:45,000
Speaker 1: We have a way more female rappers out now than before,

706
00:41:45,200 --> 00:41:47,120
Speaker 1: and all of them on the same you know, get

707
00:41:49,800 --> 00:41:52,160
Speaker 1: that it had to check that you want to see.

708
00:41:53,880 --> 00:41:56,040
Speaker 1: That's not all the female rappers. That's just the ones

709
00:41:56,120 --> 00:41:58,920
Speaker 1: that they allowed to be mainstream. There's a lot of

710
00:41:59,040 --> 00:42:02,360
Speaker 1: other rappers out here. You're like, what about Rampsody, She's dope.

711
00:42:02,840 --> 00:42:05,920
Speaker 1: You know, I've listened to her music and I couldn't

712
00:42:05,920 --> 00:42:07,759
Speaker 1: get it. And she's from the Carolina's I couldn't get

713
00:42:07,840 --> 00:42:11,960
Speaker 1: into it. Oh yeah, I like her, but I don't

714
00:42:12,080 --> 00:42:14,760
Speaker 1: some people I don't like their voice, like the delivery.

715
00:42:15,280 --> 00:42:17,960
Speaker 1: The lyrics and what they're saying be sounding good, but

716
00:42:18,040 --> 00:42:20,040
Speaker 1: I don't like the delivery of it. Like that the

717
00:42:20,440 --> 00:42:23,759
Speaker 1: young girl Alma Redda from Atlanta, Like I like what

718
00:42:23,920 --> 00:42:27,040
Speaker 1: she'd be saying, but the delivery is annoying to me,

719
00:42:27,200 --> 00:42:31,440
Speaker 1: Like how her voice sounds the super duper Atlanta dialect

720
00:42:31,800 --> 00:42:35,880
Speaker 1: along with it. It just sounds so forced. I don't know,

721
00:42:36,280 --> 00:42:38,520
Speaker 1: I don't like it, Like it's you don't have from Charleston.

722
00:42:38,600 --> 00:42:41,080
Speaker 1: So people be extra guchi, right, So it's like listening

723
00:42:41,120 --> 00:42:44,120
Speaker 1: to a song with a nigga rapping extra guchi. It's

724
00:42:44,160 --> 00:42:47,760
Speaker 1: almost annoying, like what are you saying? They don't even understand.

725
00:42:48,120 --> 00:42:52,960
Speaker 1: But then maybe you're not gonna I'm not. So I listened,

726
00:42:53,080 --> 00:42:56,640
Speaker 1: but I listened to what people say in lyrics, so

727
00:42:56,880 --> 00:43:00,839
Speaker 1: I listened to the actual words what they're saying. And um,

728
00:43:01,719 --> 00:43:04,520
Speaker 1: but if I don't like how it sounds, I don't

729
00:43:04,560 --> 00:43:06,839
Speaker 1: like the artist. I feel like it's more females are

730
00:43:06,920 --> 00:43:10,200
Speaker 1: here wrapping. Yeah, but they all want some get money.

731
00:43:10,239 --> 00:43:13,200
Speaker 1: Shpket better treat me like this. That a third, But

732
00:43:13,320 --> 00:43:19,640
Speaker 1: we also know that girls outside gird pussy and then

733
00:43:19,800 --> 00:43:23,800
Speaker 1: give me money. I used someone neck risks and my

734
00:43:23,920 --> 00:43:27,440
Speaker 1: hair stay done. I'm driving a fly as whip. The

735
00:43:27,600 --> 00:43:31,560
Speaker 1: fucking bitches, y'all haters, and this body is on sleek,

736
00:43:32,800 --> 00:43:35,200
Speaker 1: designer body is go to them. You ain't go to

737
00:43:35,320 --> 00:43:42,360
Speaker 1: my surgeon. You can't afford him. That's it in teeth nowadays?

738
00:43:42,680 --> 00:43:46,240
Speaker 1: What's all with that? What is going on? So everybody

739
00:43:46,320 --> 00:43:49,320
Speaker 1: gonna bitch. Let me tell you a hundred two hundred

740
00:43:49,400 --> 00:43:51,920
Speaker 1: years from now when they're finding all of our not

741
00:43:52,080 --> 00:43:54,600
Speaker 1: a hundred, we'll say, wait further than that. What about

742
00:43:54,960 --> 00:43:57,520
Speaker 1: five six years from now, a thousand years from now,

743
00:43:57,560 --> 00:44:01,760
Speaker 1: and they finding our fossils? Not even that far? Fake ass.

744
00:44:02,320 --> 00:44:06,279
Speaker 1: The titties like they go like our bones gonna look

745
00:44:06,320 --> 00:44:09,120
Speaker 1: so fucked up. They're like, what is this? Like they

746
00:44:09,200 --> 00:44:13,560
Speaker 1: had everybody had all the women had little plastic bags

747
00:44:13,719 --> 00:44:16,840
Speaker 1: that laid upon their breastplate. We don't know what the

748
00:44:16,920 --> 00:44:19,839
Speaker 1: bags were for. Maybe this was something that they put

749
00:44:19,920 --> 00:44:23,200
Speaker 1: in the casket to help them transition to the next side.

750
00:44:23,680 --> 00:44:26,799
Speaker 1: These these water bags right on the chest. We think

751
00:44:26,840 --> 00:44:29,719
Speaker 1: it held them down and tried to hold their soul down.

752
00:44:32,880 --> 00:44:36,520
Speaker 1: And they all have these bags, uh not that nice

753
00:44:36,600 --> 00:44:43,359
Speaker 1: looking bags with them, like these big square bags, said

754
00:44:43,400 --> 00:44:48,000
Speaker 1: burking on them in the casket and the casket with them.

755
00:44:50,280 --> 00:44:56,600
Speaker 1: We think these were offerings to God's women. They had

756
00:44:56,640 --> 00:45:02,680
Speaker 1: like some residue around the crowns up their heads, that

757
00:45:04,360 --> 00:45:07,960
Speaker 1: just residue because you bear me and my wig, don't

758
00:45:07,960 --> 00:45:11,320
Speaker 1: I gonna take my wig off? Apparently a lot of

759
00:45:11,480 --> 00:45:17,040
Speaker 1: them had hair dressed wigs, things glued to their scalps

760
00:45:19,840 --> 00:45:25,080
Speaker 1: and corn rolls underneath right there, real hair was corn

761
00:45:25,200 --> 00:45:34,000
Speaker 1: rolled like meek Mille mill fuzzy corn rolls. Yo. When

762
00:45:34,080 --> 00:45:36,600
Speaker 1: we get old, bitch, we're gonna be a lot of

763
00:45:37,800 --> 00:45:43,759
Speaker 1: bad back tattooed so weird eyelashes and wigs. We're just

764
00:45:43,840 --> 00:45:48,320
Speaker 1: gonna be granny bitches. In the church was sexy tatted

765
00:45:48,400 --> 00:45:54,400
Speaker 1: on our neck like they just got face tattoos. Do

766
00:45:54,520 --> 00:45:58,320
Speaker 1: We're gonna be We're gonna look crazy, but listen, imagine

767
00:45:58,360 --> 00:46:01,160
Speaker 1: what the kid's gonna be looking like. Though we're gonna

768
00:46:01,200 --> 00:46:05,279
Speaker 1: look we're gonna look conservative. But you know, if you

769
00:46:05,360 --> 00:46:07,600
Speaker 1: look at our ancestors, like you know how black people. Girl,

770
00:46:07,640 --> 00:46:09,440
Speaker 1: we're all off topic, but we're about to wrap it

771
00:46:09,520 --> 00:46:12,320
Speaker 1: up in a second. But you know how our ancestors

772
00:46:12,400 --> 00:46:15,800
Speaker 1: when you see pictures of them, they had gold teeth,

773
00:46:16,160 --> 00:46:18,400
Speaker 1: They had diamonds in their teeth. They wore a lot

774
00:46:18,480 --> 00:46:21,080
Speaker 1: of gold. Like we always been a flashy people, like

775
00:46:22,239 --> 00:46:26,200
Speaker 1: like gold dust. Gold is like the masculine, supposedly right,

776
00:46:26,239 --> 00:46:29,000
Speaker 1: and silva is the feminine. So back in the Egyptian time,

777
00:46:29,080 --> 00:46:31,840
Speaker 1: like the men wore silver, women wore gold and they

778
00:46:31,880 --> 00:46:34,000
Speaker 1: couldn't men can't even wear gold like on the actual

779
00:46:34,080 --> 00:46:38,040
Speaker 1: skin because it's a chemical that that the gold actually releases.

780
00:46:39,480 --> 00:46:43,040
Speaker 1: But um, we always been like this. We always moved

781
00:46:43,080 --> 00:46:45,640
Speaker 1: to the music. We just got all his soul and spirit.

782
00:46:46,239 --> 00:46:50,239
Speaker 1: Like it's just so tattered up like face tattoos and

783
00:46:50,280 --> 00:46:52,440
Speaker 1: all that ship people been doing. That tribe has always

784
00:46:52,480 --> 00:46:54,719
Speaker 1: been and they call it the face in your body now, right,

785
00:46:54,840 --> 00:46:58,839
Speaker 1: But it's really not. It's really culture when you think

786
00:46:58,880 --> 00:47:01,560
Speaker 1: about it, Like people, what about that culture where they

787
00:47:01,640 --> 00:47:07,560
Speaker 1: take the women put these rings around their necks and

788
00:47:08,360 --> 00:47:11,880
Speaker 1: on the beauty over there, Like how I bet they

789
00:47:11,960 --> 00:47:20,680
Speaker 1: can suck. You're so fucking stupid, this loan nigger. The

790
00:47:20,800 --> 00:47:29,000
Speaker 1: fun you're gonna do with this nick? So stupid, go

791
00:47:31,440 --> 00:47:36,359
Speaker 1: with this nick. So just to close out what our

792
00:47:36,440 --> 00:47:40,640
Speaker 1: topic was about, UM, you know when it when is

793
00:47:40,640 --> 00:47:43,320
Speaker 1: it time to really leave? I think we all know

794
00:47:43,520 --> 00:47:45,680
Speaker 1: when it's time to leave. But again, like we said,

795
00:47:46,040 --> 00:47:52,799
Speaker 1: people over extend mm hmm. The relationships that the expirasion date. Um,

796
00:47:52,960 --> 00:47:54,400
Speaker 1: you know when to leave. And I think it's like

797
00:47:54,520 --> 00:48:01,440
Speaker 1: you said, it's subjective to um the relationship, but especially

798
00:48:01,480 --> 00:48:04,239
Speaker 1: when it starts being physical, when it starts being a

799
00:48:04,360 --> 00:48:10,800
Speaker 1: lot of verbal um abuse, Um, you no longer respect

800
00:48:10,920 --> 00:48:15,240
Speaker 1: that person, it's time to go. Yeah, when it's easy

801
00:48:15,360 --> 00:48:19,799
Speaker 1: for you to disrespect them, it's time to go. I mean,

802
00:48:19,840 --> 00:48:21,279
Speaker 1: I don't even want to say if you're just a

803
00:48:21,320 --> 00:48:23,200
Speaker 1: disrespectful person, because if it's a woman who was just

804
00:48:23,280 --> 00:48:27,440
Speaker 1: disrespectful to manas you leaver, so he's not he's not

805
00:48:27,719 --> 00:48:30,000
Speaker 1: ending the relationship because he may be used to that

806
00:48:30,080 --> 00:48:33,120
Speaker 1: type of disrespect. He might he might have been raised

807
00:48:33,360 --> 00:48:38,400
Speaker 1: raised by a bitch who knows right, because like like it.

808
00:48:38,480 --> 00:48:42,840
Speaker 1: When you talk to him crazy thing, it's like a

809
00:48:42,880 --> 00:48:46,279
Speaker 1: get old foul mouth, fuck you, nigga. You're gonna eat

810
00:48:46,320 --> 00:48:49,000
Speaker 1: this chicken, motherfucking sandwich the way I made it, motherfucker,

811
00:48:49,160 --> 00:48:52,839
Speaker 1: and you're gonna be happy. Bitch. Damn my little girl

812
00:48:52,960 --> 00:49:05,719
Speaker 1: right here, your mommy and my mama. Yo, that's abuse.

813
00:49:05,880 --> 00:49:08,160
Speaker 1: These things don't know abuse when they see it. Man,

814
00:49:10,080 --> 00:49:12,200
Speaker 1: a lot of us are will stick abuse for love

815
00:49:12,320 --> 00:49:18,200
Speaker 1: because that's how we grew up. Shane. My mom may

816
00:49:18,280 --> 00:49:20,480
Speaker 1: never talk to me fucking crazy. Nobody never talked to

817
00:49:20,560 --> 00:49:22,399
Speaker 1: me crazy. So when somebody talk to me crazy, I'd

818
00:49:22,400 --> 00:49:26,920
Speaker 1: be like, who then are you talking to? I know

819
00:49:28,000 --> 00:49:33,879
Speaker 1: the fuck got me fucked up. No, I didn't grow

820
00:49:33,960 --> 00:49:36,880
Speaker 1: up in the house with my mom talk crazy. She

821
00:49:37,000 --> 00:49:46,440
Speaker 1: did talk crazy, but not to us around us. Um okay,

822
00:49:46,560 --> 00:49:54,440
Speaker 1: So let's um go into Okay, let's go into our

823
00:49:55,120 --> 00:50:02,040
Speaker 1: random sex facts. So this random sex fact is brought

824
00:50:02,080 --> 00:50:07,759
Speaker 1: to you by meet mindful dot com. So here's an

825
00:50:07,800 --> 00:50:14,879
Speaker 1: interesting thing about contraceptives. Women who take hormonal contraceptives tend

826
00:50:14,960 --> 00:50:19,600
Speaker 1: to be more attracted to men with lower testosterone levels

827
00:50:20,080 --> 00:50:26,080
Speaker 1: and less super masculine physical characteristics, according to research, But

828
00:50:26,280 --> 00:50:30,480
Speaker 1: women tend to desire overtly masculine men during their most

829
00:50:30,600 --> 00:50:34,200
Speaker 1: fertile times in their cycle, and more likely to stray

830
00:50:34,320 --> 00:50:37,720
Speaker 1: during this time as well. That time period is also

831
00:50:37,840 --> 00:50:41,319
Speaker 1: the easiest time for women to reach orgasm. Let's break

832
00:50:41,400 --> 00:50:46,480
Speaker 1: this down right quick. So they're saying women who are

833
00:50:46,520 --> 00:50:50,480
Speaker 1: on birth control are attracted to men who are less masculine.

834
00:50:51,000 --> 00:50:56,480
Speaker 1: It's because the birth control thriving certain hormones that make

835
00:50:56,600 --> 00:51:01,400
Speaker 1: you less feminine. So you're a tracted to the feminine

836
00:51:01,480 --> 00:51:04,759
Speaker 1: because you're becoming the masculine. Could that explain like the

837
00:51:04,800 --> 00:51:07,800
Speaker 1: ship we'll be talking about on Clubhouse right quick, like

838
00:51:08,400 --> 00:51:13,840
Speaker 1: the masculine women, women being more masculine, being in a

839
00:51:14,040 --> 00:51:16,960
Speaker 1: more masculine energy as opposed to being in their feminine energy.

840
00:51:17,040 --> 00:51:21,719
Speaker 1: Could birth control be the reason for that? Perhaps interesting

841
00:51:22,280 --> 00:51:28,040
Speaker 1: m m mmmm. And then it also says that women

842
00:51:28,080 --> 00:51:31,799
Speaker 1: are more likely to stray. It says, but women tend

843
00:51:31,840 --> 00:51:35,920
Speaker 1: to desire overtly masculine men during their most fertile times.

844
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Speaker 1: So say, for instance, this is how that reads to me.

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00:51:38,840 --> 00:51:41,960
Speaker 1: If you're a woman, and you're on birth control and

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Speaker 1: you're with a man who's more of a uh less

847
00:51:47,160 --> 00:51:52,120
Speaker 1: masculine man right during your times of fertility, you may

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00:51:52,600 --> 00:51:55,560
Speaker 1: be more attracted at just running that time to a

849
00:51:55,680 --> 00:52:04,440
Speaker 1: more masculine Yeah, a masculine man. What's the fuck? Right now?

850
00:52:04,640 --> 00:52:09,040
Speaker 1: You're fucking a metro sexual kind of dude, a beta male.

851
00:52:09,920 --> 00:52:14,560
Speaker 1: When you about to have your cycle, now you want

852
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Speaker 1: to d MX, So you you fucking Cavin Samuels or

853
00:52:23,160 --> 00:52:26,040
Speaker 1: your period right before your period, you wouldn't max, got it?

854
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Speaker 1: So look all right, but we really need to look

855
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Speaker 1: into that man, because that could really be that's you know,

856
00:52:35,760 --> 00:52:38,759
Speaker 1: because a lot of women are on birth control. We

857
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Speaker 1: already know planned parenthood is mainly in black communities while

858
00:52:41,719 --> 00:52:46,320
Speaker 1: white people got fertility clinics. Mm hmm. In planned parenthood

859
00:52:46,440 --> 00:52:48,880
Speaker 1: is not just for abortions. Planned parenthood is for a

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Speaker 1: planned parenthood, like so they give contraceptives or if you're

861
00:52:52,800 --> 00:52:55,160
Speaker 1: having a baby, they counsel you on that too. But

862
00:52:55,840 --> 00:52:58,680
Speaker 1: birth control is a big part of planned parenthood. So

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Speaker 1: if you're so, if a lot of black women are

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00:53:01,120 --> 00:53:05,720
Speaker 1: on birth control from the time they started started puberty

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Speaker 1: for the most part, because your mom would be wanting

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Speaker 1: to put you on that ship as soon as she

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Speaker 1: think you about to be fucking. My mama didn't, but

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Speaker 1: I know a lot of my friends mom did. My

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00:53:15,719 --> 00:53:17,920
Speaker 1: mom saw it as a weight, like, bitch, if I

870
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Speaker 1: put you on birth control, I mean, you're gonna be

871
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Speaker 1: working without a condom. And that's not really what I'm

872
00:53:21,200 --> 00:53:25,480
Speaker 1: concerned about. It's std is more so than the pregnancy. Um.

873
00:53:26,400 --> 00:53:28,839
Speaker 1: But that's a that's the real thing. That's that's kind

874
00:53:28,840 --> 00:53:30,759
Speaker 1: of that's weird to me that they actually did a

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Speaker 1: study on that that a woman that's on birth control

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Speaker 1: is more attracted to a feminine man. Oh no, exactly.

877
00:53:42,040 --> 00:53:45,200
Speaker 1: That's real interesting. So could that explain also more women

878
00:53:45,719 --> 00:53:49,520
Speaker 1: on your pussy right now and the analysts who you're

879
00:53:49,560 --> 00:53:51,440
Speaker 1: fucking and why are you suing? It might be the

880
00:53:51,600 --> 00:53:54,280
Speaker 1: implant on in your arm, even if it's a lesbian,

881
00:53:54,400 --> 00:53:56,440
Speaker 1: even if you're in a lesbian relationship. Could it be

882
00:53:56,520 --> 00:53:58,920
Speaker 1: the birth control that puts push push you towards that

883
00:53:58,960 --> 00:54:01,600
Speaker 1: because you're not looking for my skilling at that point,

884
00:54:02,560 --> 00:54:05,160
Speaker 1: or you could you could be the masculine, you're looking

885
00:54:05,200 --> 00:54:08,800
Speaker 1: for the feminine because of birth control. Yeah, that's crazy.

886
00:54:09,520 --> 00:54:17,240
Speaker 1: Girls fucking with your chromosomes, that fucking with your DNA

887
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Speaker 1: that you know, I never bitch. That's an interesting ship.

888
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Speaker 1: Yeah it is. So we're gonna wrap it up for

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Speaker 1: the day. We ramble on and on and on, but

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Speaker 1: here we are and we made it through. And we

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Speaker 1: thank you guys for joining every Thursday exactly on the

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Speaker 1: I'm official, Tam Bam. Hey, white people, don't forget to

896
00:54:51,120 --> 00:54:53,359
Speaker 1: send us to your execa black friend. Y'all getting scared,

897
00:54:53,440 --> 00:54:59,120
Speaker 1: don't get scared like we do have one I would

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00:54:59,160 --> 00:55:02,160
Speaker 1: like to explore on our next episode, so we'll go

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Speaker 1: in to that. Then we'll plan around a kind of disorder.

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