Speaker 1: What's up, Y'all's your girl lex p And it's your
Speaker 1: girl Jury in the call and you are tuned in
Speaker 1: to another episode of Poor.
Speaker 2: Mind, where a drunk mind speaks sober thought.
Speaker 1: We gotta guess today, We gotta guess today. Now, y'all know,
Speaker 1: I gotta do my introduction. I don't know me killing
Speaker 1: the intro. I know I say this every week, but
Speaker 1: I'm really excited because this is somebody that I have
Speaker 1: been following on social media for years. Like I feel
Speaker 1: like she was one of the like ogs of influencing
Speaker 1: and makeup and that like before it was cool to
Speaker 1: be like get ready with me, ain't getting ready? I
Speaker 1: want to introduce one of the first o G influencers,
Speaker 1: business mogul Love Everything under the Sun. So, oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: iin't know you was the old follower girl I have
Speaker 1: been around about you.
Speaker 2: Listen, Okay, we definitely know who you are. Okay, so listen.
Speaker 1: I like look up like old pictures of me and
Speaker 1: I used to have like the hoghlighter yellow I was
Speaker 1: like and then back but back then I was real,
Speaker 1: real broke, so I couldn't little crayon cake, but I
Speaker 1: was doing what I could with little stuff for Walmart.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. So that much, we have
Speaker 1: a lot to get into today. So I do want
Speaker 1: you to, like, for the people who don't know, you
Speaker 1: introduced Supercent.
Speaker 3: Okay, so Supercent is a started as a social media
Speaker 3: influencer and then ended up being an entrepreneur, philanthropist, everything
Speaker 3: under the summer, I said, But it literally started out
Speaker 3: with me just being social media influencer and now on
Speaker 3: a call, I wasn't even trying to be an influencer.
Speaker 3: I was just trying to like get online, talk, get
Speaker 3: off and you know, and then like everybody was started
Speaker 3: started to relate to it.
Speaker 1: So I'm like, okay, so you've been doing that too,
Speaker 1: say a little more, you know.
Speaker 2: So I just kind of got addicted to.
Speaker 3: Telling my story. That's how story Time I superstarted. So
Speaker 3: that's what that's why I kind of popped that the
Speaker 3: story time of super Do you regret any of like
Speaker 3: the stories that not a mother, ma'am. This wasn't recent,
Speaker 3: but when you went off, it's a classic.
Speaker 1: West, don't regret it. I don't go West, don't regret
Speaker 1: it because everything I said he went got it.
Speaker 2: So she motivated that mother, you needed it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so you know, how.
Speaker 4: Did you come up with your name? Like, how did
Speaker 4: you come up with Supercent?
Speaker 2: It's a girl.
Speaker 1: My god. First of all, I hate super O. My god,
Speaker 1: I cringe ever my head. Okay, well.
Speaker 3: My original my original stage name is was them super
Speaker 3: all right in New Orleans, meaning was up, it was
Speaker 3: up super So super Sin came because my page coming
Speaker 3: and deleted and every page, every new page I made,
Speaker 3: it was like super villy, like something like you know
Speaker 3: something somebody died and came make the lifetime. So then
Speaker 3: I got stuck with super Cent. I'm thinking, I'm gona
Speaker 3: have to page probably like two weeks, gonna get deleted. Cool,
Speaker 3: and then I come back on another. But I've been
Speaker 3: with this for nine years, so now I'm stuck with.
Speaker 1: That part.
Speaker 2: I didn't know.
Speaker 1: But about your page do be getting deleted exactly? I'm like,
Speaker 1: what is super go? Because you.
Speaker 2: South streat these days.
Speaker 1: Imagine it wasn't that strict then, but I was.
Speaker 2: I was too vulgar then, so now I.
Speaker 1: Like toning all down and I'm like, I can't see
Speaker 1: nothing nothing.
Speaker 2: Guess how you got to step on Twitter something?
Speaker 1: And that's not even with us like we have like
Speaker 1: started bleeping out the curse words. Yeah you know, yeah
Speaker 1: that's not like a sailor. You got what's out? I
Speaker 1: think out of the hall?
Speaker 2: I think so I think you said that. Like I
Speaker 2: like to start it off with the T.
Speaker 1: I want to get into like your relationships because one
Speaker 1: thing that I do love about you because you are
Speaker 1: like me. First of all, what's your sign? Okay, you're
Speaker 1: a query is you are a lover girl? I am,
Speaker 1: and I love the way you just love unapologetically. You
Speaker 1: do care if you've been in a relationship for twenty years,
Speaker 1: next day you're gonna pop out.
Speaker 2: Y'all got another one?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: And you won't accept this nigga?
Speaker 1: Yes?
Speaker 2: Yes.
Speaker 1: So do you feel like, how do you feel like
Speaker 1: on social media? Like because I know people judge you
Speaker 1: a lot and they they feel, oh, super moving too fast,
Speaker 1: she's doing it too fast? Oh super slow down? So
Speaker 1: how do you feel like living your relationships out online?
Speaker 1: Because people do follow you because they want to know
Speaker 1: what's going on with you.
Speaker 2: They want to know your life. That's how we.
Speaker 1: Started out as a fan talking. So do you feel
Speaker 1: pressure to be like a certain way in these relationships?
Speaker 1: Like how do you navigate that I have.
Speaker 3: Never felt pressure in a relationship, betil I got in
Speaker 3: this one, and this one is different because I'm a
Speaker 3: little older.
Speaker 1: I'm thirty six, thirty seven. Okay, so this one is
Speaker 1: a little different.
Speaker 3: Than by being engaged, But before that, I never felt pressured.
Speaker 1: I'm like, bitch, y'all gonna love who I love, right right?
Speaker 3: If I dropped that nigga, y'all gott to drop them too,
Speaker 3: Right'm following move on nigga right here. So it's like
Speaker 3: I'm more pressure than this one because this one, I'm
Speaker 3: not gonna say this one is more serious than the
Speaker 3: other ones, but this one is this one is my fever,
Speaker 3: Like this one is done how But do you feel
Speaker 3: like that because your age, because we're not.
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna say because of the age.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna say because all the time and effort I
Speaker 3: put into this one, and not just to not saying
Speaker 3: I didn't put in time effort to my legislation, because
Speaker 3: I did. But this one, like this one is more
Speaker 3: This is more my speed. This is finally on my
Speaker 3: fucking level. You know, I feel like I met my match.
Speaker 3: I met somebody who who could deal with me. I
Speaker 3: met somebody who made me want to change myself. Like
Speaker 3: I'm in counseling. I never wanted to go to counseling
Speaker 3: and take out this nigga. Okay, you know, so it's
Speaker 3: like I didn't.
Speaker 2: I didn't.
Speaker 3: Got so many positive things happened to me from this
Speaker 3: relationship to what Like, I ain't about to drop you
Speaker 3: on your head. Yeah, I'm about just stuck it out
Speaker 3: with you. But if I do decide to drop.
Speaker 1: Him, we gotta drop him too. You gotta drop Okay,
Speaker 1: you gotta understand, all right, that's all the reason. Like
Speaker 1: I said, I am just like you. I'm just like you,
Speaker 1: and I be like every week I'll be like, oh
Speaker 1: I'm in love, this is my man.
Speaker 2: But a lot of women like that.
Speaker 3: Listen, I don't know why these holes were acting like
Speaker 3: they don't be happy from niggas, the niggas. You're just
Speaker 3: not popular fast, Oh you're not popular, So we don't
Speaker 3: know about the niggas.
Speaker 1: You happen like, we don't know about situation. You're not
Speaker 1: that girl yet.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know about us because of course we're gonna post.
Speaker 3: Of course when we love w you see the smile
Speaker 3: on our face. You see us all happy, so of
Speaker 3: course you're gonna see it. And I don't see it
Speaker 3: with you because bitch, I don't follow you.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 3: But you know, like y'all know, girls be happening from nimeon,
Speaker 3: from niggas and niggas. They know one nigga don't do right, Okay,
Speaker 3: let me find somebody else.
Speaker 2: That's that's that's like.
Speaker 1: I think what I'm struggling with now, like I'm thirty five.
Speaker 2: I think what I'm struggling with.
Speaker 1: Now is because I stay in situations too long, like
Speaker 1: I'm not only long. Like if a man is like
Speaker 1: not treating me how I want to be treated. And
Speaker 1: I'm not talking about cheating because a lot of times
Speaker 1: cheating don't be the problem. It just like we're not
Speaker 1: aligning properly. So I be like trying to stick it
Speaker 1: out and work it out, and it's just like the
Speaker 1: all the signs will be telling me to move on.
Speaker 1: I'll be like, no, I gotta hold it down. He
Speaker 1: op hold it down. But it's like, girl, you need
Speaker 1: to move on.
Speaker 3: I think base teen, you're thirty five, you should be
Speaker 3: at an age, but you feel like you ain't got
Speaker 3: to prove nothing to the more niggas.
Speaker 2: Yeah, like I ain't gotta hold nothing down. Yeah, I
Speaker 2: should have came in straight because I walked in street.
Speaker 1: I don't got it and that's the thing.
Speaker 2: I don't got no baggage.
Speaker 1: DS. No, you should be fri frizz a fucking bird,
Speaker 1: cause the main.
Speaker 3: Thing, the main thing women make me worry about it.
Speaker 3: Nigger nigga met my kids. My kids love him. Now
Speaker 3: I gotta keep them.
Speaker 1: Like, but you have to have to worry about.
Speaker 4: You should be on ten trips with ten different niggas,
Speaker 4: big moves, like you had you and a person and
Speaker 4: have to see everything the same in order for y'all
Speaker 4: to be together. Do y'all feel like when people be like, oh,
Speaker 4: opposite the tracks, that's like really a thing? Or do
Speaker 4: you feel like if you're in a person are so
Speaker 4: opposite y'all can't make you.
Speaker 2: I think it depends on what it is.
Speaker 3: I agree, like just because I like Seinfeld, you like
Speaker 3: Seinfeld on me connect right, I don't mean that's just
Speaker 3: like money bad man.
Speaker 2: It depends on what it because.
Speaker 1: But if you like a Trump supporter, well, but I'm
Speaker 1: a Democrat, religious households, that's different it's gonna affect our.
Speaker 3: But you're gonna be arguing, right, it's gonna fact. If
Speaker 3: you just gonna fact I was shot, it's gonna fect everything.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's different.
Speaker 1: Religion, but like little stuff like oh you don't like
Speaker 1: to watch Game of Throngs or Harry Patter, But like, morally,
Speaker 1: I do think that people need to align three worlds
Speaker 1: and what they believe. Agreed. Agree, Now, I was definitely
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Speaker 1: it because I like, you're finish. Get I am, y'all.
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Speaker 1: I've been going through that.
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Speaker 4: This game, y'all call it the situation shoot. So okay,
Speaker 4: I'm gonna go fire. While the first question is what
Speaker 4: does your last relationship mean?
Speaker 1: Oh girl, y'all saw it. It was all low among us. Okay,
Speaker 1: so I'm not putting your bus I'm not putting nothing
Speaker 1: out there that you didn't put out them.
Speaker 2: Okay, do it.
Speaker 1: That was a little in between.
Speaker 2: It was amazing.
Speaker 1: I was talking to my hair styles about about Oh
Speaker 1: my god.
Speaker 2: I was like, oh my god, we got super coming
Speaker 2: on tomorrow.
Speaker 1: Don't google, bitch, I follow you, follow you like I
Speaker 1: ain't know, little like let me peaky to know. I'll
Speaker 1: be knowing what she was up to. So I want
Speaker 1: to talk about not the one that everybody knew about.
Speaker 1: I want to talk about Lewis, the man in the background,
Speaker 1: the one that everybody thought was like they kept saying
Speaker 1: it was like Channing Tatum. It was he looked white.
Speaker 2: You know what?
Speaker 1: He looked white? Oh bitch, I was not expecting you
Speaker 1: to say, yeah, how you know about old you? I
Speaker 1: follow you and they was like a white man, white man.
Speaker 1: I said, that's not a white man. He looked like
Speaker 1: a deep southern Louisiana. I don't know what.
Speaker 3: He was my very first white experience.
Speaker 1: I want to talk about him.
Speaker 3: We know why you went lord, and then we want
Speaker 3: to talk about the white This is my first time.
Speaker 3: But you hold ya something.
Speaker 2: I gotta funk out about that.
Speaker 1: I know what.
Speaker 2: I never talked about this. I know I haven't because
Speaker 2: you just you just act like that didn't happen.
Speaker 1: I did. I moved on, I know, but I follow him.
Speaker 1: We never. I never popped out about him. It was
Speaker 1: like he was he was. That's how y'all know. I'm
Speaker 1: not making this up like I followed her. Damn it,
Speaker 1: I'll be talking. It was, and it was.
Speaker 2: It's crazy. Look I'm stuttering.
Speaker 3: It's crazy, you know that because it literally was like
Speaker 3: only his social media one time.
Speaker 1: That was that video they caught him in the background.
Speaker 3: But yeah, we dated for like three months, okay, and
Speaker 3: that was my first you know, white chocolate Okay.
Speaker 1: Was he like hood? No, That's what I liked.
Speaker 3: I liked that he was a real genuine white boy.
Speaker 2: I really like that. You used to listen like Paramou
Speaker 2: no Way, Paramour.
Speaker 1: Like cold Play, and it was all yellow greens.
Speaker 2: He was an authentic white man, Okay, And I like that.
Speaker 3: Like he had he had a little urban size so
Speaker 3: when it comes to clothing, but in interior he.
Speaker 2: Was he was big white Okay, big.
Speaker 1: Now, what did you like about it.
Speaker 4: Do you feel like it was very different from dating
Speaker 4: back like the so.
Speaker 3: Hm hm because I don't want to put my black
Speaker 3: man down because I look, first of all, let's let's
Speaker 3: talk about it.
Speaker 4: But I dated a white man one okay, you did? Okay,
Speaker 4: so terrible, it's terrible experience out of team. I'm not recommending.
Speaker 1: Really, No, he's a witch part which girl.
Speaker 4: He got mad at me because I didn't want to
Speaker 4: have sex with him and he left me in Miami.
Speaker 1: He tried to leave me stranded. Girl got mad at
Speaker 1: me because I didn't want to grow. That's what I
Speaker 1: didn't want to. I don't want no pork right now.
Speaker 1: Put a sheet over that port. I was really mad
Speaker 1: and I'm not gonna feel it.
Speaker 2: But you know renidence exactly.
Speaker 1: So what did he do though?
Speaker 2: Like okay, so he was like over it and put
Speaker 2: that cover on.
Speaker 1: So ho was was it? Good? Girl? My nigga gonna
Speaker 1: kill me? You right? It was got understand okay before
Speaker 1: the person and it was the past. But my experience,
Speaker 1: by my first experience, I thoroughly enjoyed it.
Speaker 3: I'm not I enjoyed the dating era. I enjoyed the
Speaker 3: town trips. I enjoyed the courting. I enjoyed. I enjoyed,
Speaker 3: I enjoyed the surprise gifts. I enjoyed everything it was.
Speaker 3: It was a different experience. And before that's all he ate,
Speaker 3: That's all he did.
Speaker 2: Do you feel like that's like a fetish. I always
Speaker 2: think it's weird.
Speaker 3: Probably probably like when I see the girls he's dated
Speaker 3: and the baby mama, Yeah gotta gotta be. But he's
Speaker 3: still I thought, Yeah, he's still the interior, like his interior.
Speaker 3: I like how even though you gotta even, you gotta
Speaker 3: fetish for whatever, Like you're not trying to be me,
Speaker 3: but you don't try to be me.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like he was.
Speaker 1: A third money bag and be like yeah, bitch.
Speaker 3: He's like exactly, bitch, Like up, I got my people
Speaker 3: with none of that here. Real, Like the first time
Speaker 3: he flew to New Orleans and he stayed there for
Speaker 3: a week and went on a date every day, Yeah,
Speaker 3: every day, Like I love niggas, gonna be damned for real,
Speaker 3: like my nigga date, like my my fiance. He he
Speaker 3: was after after the the White Boy, I got my fiance.
Speaker 2: And he was a dater.
Speaker 3: Yah, But before that, I've never met a nigga, not nigga,
Speaker 3: but I never met a man that dated that much.
Speaker 2: That white boy I'm going.
Speaker 3: So it taught you like, okay, this is your your
Speaker 3: niggas gonna date me.
Speaker 1: He's at the tone.
Speaker 3: After I dealt with him, I said, I'm not dating
Speaker 3: no more men that's not gonna want to actually date me.
Speaker 2: And sometimes you need that.
Speaker 1: What I've learned to is getting older because I used
Speaker 1: to get so attached to men and I.
Speaker 2: Used to be like, oh my god, it didn't work out,
Speaker 2: what I'm not gonna do.
Speaker 1: But sometimes men come in your lives to teach you
Speaker 1: a lesson. Like the guy dated last well not last
Speaker 1: year at this point.
Speaker 2: Was it last year?
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was last year before I got with my well,
Speaker 1: oh whatever. But the one I went to Costa Rica
Speaker 1: with it was not meant to be a forever. But
Speaker 1: he taught me like, this is what a man is
Speaker 1: supposed to do exactly, and you carried that with you.
Speaker 1: I did because I'm like, oh, this is a man
Speaker 1: is supposed to like. The dates were so creative, they
Speaker 1: were so different, like we went on a rooftop and
Speaker 1: saw orchestra play.
Speaker 2: It was so like we went.
Speaker 1: And saw this live band and all they played all
Speaker 1: night was Lil Wayne music.
Speaker 2: It was like fun.
Speaker 1: So I think this is what women do as well.
Speaker 1: When a man knows how to court a woman and
Speaker 1: he treats us nice, we get we get that confused
Speaker 1: with like, oh my god, I thought you were my forever.
Speaker 1: You were supposed to wind and Dimi, No, he's no,
Speaker 1: she's dating. Yeah, he's dating, and and he's enjoying a
Speaker 1: proper mano his date. So when we broke up, I
Speaker 1: was so devastated. I'm like, but we did this in
Speaker 1: x y Z. He was like, yes, that's what I do.
Speaker 1: What you do whenever you date someone you're interested in them,
Speaker 1: and when.
Speaker 2: You're no longer interested in Yeah, and.
Speaker 1: It didn't work out between us, you know, things happened
Speaker 1: at X y Z. But I was like, Oh, this
Speaker 1: is what dating is supposed to look like. You don't
Speaker 1: have to wait until y'all are in a committed relationship
Speaker 1: to go on or go somewhere. Like he said, that's
Speaker 1: what I thought.
Speaker 3: I'm like, people say, oh, why would you out of
Speaker 3: time somebody you don't know, because bitch, yesterday, it's.
Speaker 1: Today, because he invited me then, And I'm not even
Speaker 1: saying that you got to go to Greece so Costa
Speaker 1: Rica like y'all can go, y'all can drive an hour
Speaker 1: out of Atlanta and go to a wannery for.
Speaker 2: Well, the white boy took me to believe in them.
Speaker 1: I'm going.
Speaker 2: I had a great time.
Speaker 1: I know you did. I did, you'd be having a ball.
Speaker 1: I had a great time.
Speaker 2: I can't lie. I was posting like dish that everybother
Speaker 2: by myself with the boy I knew.
Speaker 3: I'm so glad I clocked your tea was taking all
Speaker 3: my pictures like I love it.
Speaker 1: I love it. I thoroughly enjoyed it. I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 2: Have you do you ever spend the block?
Speaker 1: Listen, I'm gonna spend a blocker you are?
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's coming.
Speaker 1: She's confirming me right now, only because I like to
Speaker 1: deal with what I'm used to.
Speaker 3: I know what I'm gonna get from you. I already
Speaker 3: know what the fun they expect from you. If you,
Speaker 3: if you, if you could only give me good dick
Speaker 3: and you could cook, and you could fucking you're gonna
Speaker 3: be at home and nine.
Speaker 2: I know that already.
Speaker 3: I have to figure it out from a nigga I
Speaker 3: don't know. I don't know if he's straight. I don't
Speaker 3: know if he I don't got time to get to know.
Speaker 2: So I am a spind a block.
Speaker 1: You don't know if he's These niggas gonna be straight
Speaker 1: for real, you know, belying they they do not be straight.
Speaker 1: You gotta find out, like on a date, if they
Speaker 1: got a job. Like no, Like that's why i'd be
Speaker 1: spending the block. Niggas don't.
Speaker 2: I'm spending the block.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna spend the block.
Speaker 2: I'm not really a spind the blocker. I did it once, Okay,
Speaker 2: how was it?
Speaker 1: Terrible? Decisions terrible? It was terrible.
Speaker 2: I don't know why I did the ship it ended up.
Speaker 4: I mean it was cool because it was beneficial, you
Speaker 4: know what I mean, Like he was doing a lot
Speaker 4: of stuff for me. But ultimately I think that when
Speaker 4: somebody do me wrong, he did me wrong the first
Speaker 4: time we dated each other, so I feel like I
Speaker 4: wasn't fully over it the second Yeah. Yeah, like I
Speaker 4: wasn't fully over it, And I don't know why I
Speaker 4: had convinced myself I could I could deal with him
Speaker 4: again because this benefit because he was always pretty beneficial.
Speaker 2: So it was like, okay, I could deal with him
Speaker 2: again because what he doing.
Speaker 1: I'm not spending the black with niggas that fucked over me,
Speaker 1: Like I'm not.
Speaker 2: I'm not going back to my baby dad.
Speaker 3: I'm not going back to like niggas that broke my heart.
Speaker 3: That's who I didn't have to close you with niggas why.
Speaker 1: We broke up. Then we didn't talking about it the more. Okay, yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: And now if you spend the black niggas that that
Speaker 1: fucked you, fucked you up, then that's supid.
Speaker 4: And he didn't fuck me over the second time. I
Speaker 4: just think I wasn't.
Speaker 2: I didn't feel the same way about him.
Speaker 1: That's what that's that's the hard about heading the block
Speaker 1: because it'd be like, man, yeah, it's like cock and exactly,
Speaker 1: all feelings gonna be there, and that you didn't grown
Speaker 1: past that. You're over night, you got better morals, like
Speaker 1: you know what you know, you'll.
Speaker 4: Be knowing it some bullshit like I remember one time
Speaker 4: I was just like, oh my god.
Speaker 1: Why am I here? Because here do something? Because it
Speaker 1: was nothing to please. That's what it is right now,
Speaker 1: That's really what it is like.
Speaker 3: You spend a block with somebody when you don't got
Speaker 3: time to meet new niggah, Like, let me go fuck
Speaker 3: with something that I already I already know that good,
Speaker 3: I already know the head good, I already know. But
Speaker 3: you're gonna spend some money on me I already know,
Speaker 3: So why the fuck with the nigga?
Speaker 1: I don't know if you're gonna give me all this.
Speaker 1: I gotta wait and see. Yeah, I do.
Speaker 2: Feel like the situation. You know, you know what's going on.
Speaker 1: That's what you already know. That's that's pretty spending black WITHO,
Speaker 1: that's it.
Speaker 4: I feel like with Ashanti, though, that's one of the
Speaker 4: very few scenarios we're spending the block work. I feel
Speaker 4: like spending the block don't be working a lot of
Speaker 4: the time because it's the reason why.
Speaker 2: You work, because you're pregnant. Huh, you're saying work you're pregnant.
Speaker 4: No, no, no, I'm saying this is one of the
Speaker 4: very rare scenarios where two people decided to spend the
Speaker 4: block with each other and it looks like they're gonna
Speaker 4: have there happily ever after.
Speaker 2: I feel like most of the time, you don't you
Speaker 2: said about Jalo and Benet Flip too, and they divorce.
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 4: It didn't work because I feel like it because the
Speaker 4: thing with Jlo and Ben Athlete, it was a reason
Speaker 4: why y'all broke up the first time. Y'all should have
Speaker 4: left it where it was, And I feel like normally
Speaker 4: that's how it be with spending the block. It's a
Speaker 4: reason why me and this nigga didn't work out the
Speaker 4: first time.
Speaker 3: But sometimes you don't get the closure. So that's what said,
Speaker 3: you spending the block because you didn't have the closure,
Speaker 3: so you don't.
Speaker 1: Know yet, and sometimes people will change, like things change. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so if you if this person has been doing the
Speaker 1: work to heal and things like that, you might spend
Speaker 1: the block and you may get a whole nother person.
Speaker 2: You do, but I gotta so I gotta do.
Speaker 3: Some people talking about you ever lost somebody and you
Speaker 3: like you lost them where they kind of left you
Speaker 3: and me, you lost them, and then you spend.
Speaker 2: The block because you deserve this new met Yeah. Like
Speaker 2: I'm a new person. I'm not like that anymore.
Speaker 1: I changed.
Speaker 2: I did that and then when you get in the
Speaker 2: new you, but I don't like you.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm better. Yeah, that's how that happened to me.
Speaker 1: I think sometimes it's okay to spend the b but
Speaker 1: it depends what your goals are. It does sometimes you
Speaker 1: just need to spend the box because you just need
Speaker 1: a little rebound, and that's it's gonna make you feel better,
Speaker 1: and that's ok yeah, and that's okay.
Speaker 2: Time pass something to do when there's nothing to do.
Speaker 1: All right, we're gonna go. Look, we're supposed to be
Speaker 1: playing a game. We have made it a whole time.
Speaker 1: We did. All right, I got a fun one. It's
Speaker 1: gonna be a fun one. Quote and act out of
Speaker 1: line from your favorite movie. Mm hmmm. Quote out on
Speaker 1: line from your favorite I am my boy, Damon, I
Speaker 1: gotta put me.
Speaker 2: First, Lucious.
Speaker 1: God. I love how she left that nigga stand up
Speaker 1: the other bucks she did. I gotta put me first,
Speaker 1: Loucious min I talk about this movie a lot. Mine
Speaker 1: is from it. You actually quoted this the other day
Speaker 1: because yes, because this scenario is so crazy. That's throat,
Speaker 1: no bitch.
Speaker 4: Because at the end of the day, because I had
Speaker 4: tweeted this on Twitter and going viral, because nobody had
Speaker 4: posted that clip from the right movie, and I just
Speaker 4: even though you watched stuff as an adult.
Speaker 1: Different when you old. The yay girl clued me. That
Speaker 1: girl crying. I'm like, oh, I got all these kids
Speaker 1: and I gotta find a mask. It hit different when
Speaker 1: you watch movies. Yes, So I make on.
Speaker 4: Twitter and I was like, you know how motherfucking mad
Speaker 4: I would be if I'm spassing on the nigga and
Speaker 4: I tell him I'm pregnant and he needs to be
Speaker 4: with me and he don't want to leave his wife
Speaker 4: and I'm going off on his nigga and he start
Speaker 4: writing a song me break, I.
Speaker 5: Knock all this shows.
Speaker 1: Out writing a song about what she was saying to
Speaker 1: knock you the face blind, Oh.
Speaker 2: You right now, and nigga, you can't stop it, you
Speaker 2: can't coming.
Speaker 1: She was the first crash. She was crashing out behind him.
Speaker 2: She was she must have been good.
Speaker 1: You think it was good? Yeah? He always I was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: all them other senses, is they a ma Yeah, I
Speaker 1: don't have some good That's why you had all them kids.
Speaker 2: He definitely had a lot of kids.
Speaker 1: He had a lot of kids. Okay, we're gonna get
Speaker 1: into the topic. We got to do it, Okay. I
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Speaker 1: poor mind I feel like you're a person that's part
Speaker 1: of the culture and being a business owner with makeup
Speaker 1: and everything that you do. You have to follow like
Speaker 1: trends to a certain extent when it goes into your
Speaker 1: business and everything like that. But one thing that I
Speaker 1: have noticed, there's like a discourse going on right now
Speaker 1: about the Dult Chang Gobana set that Skims released with
Speaker 1: Kim Kardashian, and it happened with the Lulu Limen as well.
Speaker 1: This happened with Tulum and Grease when people started traveling
Speaker 1: to Tulum and Greece. So I wanted to talk about
Speaker 1: when other cultures do it, it's cool, but when black
Speaker 1: women do it, it's ghetto. Like when a bunch of
Speaker 1: black women or black people in general start doing something,
Speaker 1: they hurry, I want to call it ghetto. So the
Speaker 1: dultchain Cobana and Skims had a collapse and they dropped it,
Speaker 1: and everybody's like, oh my god, this is so ghetto.
Speaker 1: Y'all wearing it with ugs, y'all wearing it with these
Speaker 1: Blissiaga boots, Like y'all look crazy closed with big boots. Yeah,
Speaker 1: with like the boots.
Speaker 4: It was a girl who went viral on TikTok a
Speaker 4: few days ago and she had the drop from Kim
Speaker 4: Kardashian and Adult and Drop. She had on the supee
Speaker 4: set and then she had on the big blisiaga boots
Speaker 4: that looked like the uga And this guy went viral
Speaker 4: because he was going in and he was like, y'all
Speaker 4: not even dressing it up, y'all not even putting it.
Speaker 1: But it was more than him. It was like it
Speaker 1: was a lot of five of creators like going in
Speaker 1: on that look, and they kept calling it tackyhett And
Speaker 1: I just think it's crazy that every time black women
Speaker 1: do something they.
Speaker 2: Use black models.
Speaker 1: It was a black girl that had so a lot
Speaker 1: of like the TikToker girls or that are popular. They
Speaker 1: had the outfit on basically just the top the bottom,
Speaker 1: and like some ugs, they were like, oh, this is tacky.
Speaker 1: Kim did not mean for y'all to style this like this.
Speaker 1: But my argument was Kim Kardashian, she dresses like in basics,
Speaker 1: you know, Kanye put her. She's very simple with her style,
Speaker 1: and that became popular. I'm pretty sure when she puts
Speaker 1: it on, she's just gonna put the top, the bottom,
Speaker 1: maybe a leopard coach and somes and that's it. So
Speaker 1: I feel like every time black women do something in
Speaker 1: the map. We can't enjoy nothing.
Speaker 3: They take away our creativity, like we if that's my style,
Speaker 3: that's my style, right, is he not a fashion girl?
Speaker 3: Everybody is not a hill like our hills. Yeah, I'm
Speaker 3: gonna put on some other but I got some fresh.
Speaker 3: I'm happy about these oggs.
Speaker 1: Bitch, we twining low key because you ain't got my well,
Speaker 1: we got creams brought.
Speaker 2: Can I tell you something to I do. Look at
Speaker 2: super Page put on today.
Speaker 1: It's out. It's because you're tall. Yeah, yeah, you're tall,
Speaker 1: and then like you just you have a very chill.
Speaker 2: Style because I'm a tone boy.
Speaker 1: Yes me too, yes yeah, and we like heart. It's
Speaker 1: the wildest head.
Speaker 6: That's that's what come from over there. That's what my
Speaker 6: fashion sins come from.
Speaker 1: My toneboy ways, from my masterline side.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So yeah, like you be cute with this. So I
Speaker 1: remember even like you don't remember this because even had
Speaker 1: an Assence. We had Essence Festival weekend and we went
Speaker 1: to the We went to Larry Morrow's dinner.
Speaker 2: It was dint right across from you. Girl, really shout
Speaker 2: out to Larry. Yeah, my god, super.
Speaker 1: I know, but I was, yeah, I know, I would love. No, girl,
Speaker 1: you was being cute over there. I don't think you
Speaker 1: like the food. I don't know, well, you know it's
Speaker 1: like cater but like you wasn't like really eating. But
Speaker 1: what we was here? Okay, So Larry Morrow had a
Speaker 1: dinner in New Orleans. It's his festival weekend. It was
Speaker 1: it was an Amazon from Yeah, yeah you but just
Speaker 1: what that speak I was looking for people to like.
Speaker 3: I was like superhill, Oh my god, because first of all,
Speaker 3: I found out about that event late, so I came
Speaker 3: there already full.
Speaker 2: Yeah. I was just drinking and trying to get hookah.
Speaker 1: But they want sir, hooka because it was a little
Speaker 1: bogie they said hookah.
Speaker 2: It was there wasn't something that day because they was
Speaker 2: for y'all. But but yeah, I saw you y'all dirty.
Speaker 1: But no, but I remember seeing how, my god, she
Speaker 1: looks so cute because I'm the same way, like I
Speaker 1: wear heels. I always keep a heel on. But like
Speaker 1: I was just saying, like, I just like be looking
Speaker 1: at you for your fashion sens because I think there's
Speaker 1: more than fashion is about being creative and doing what
Speaker 1: makes you feel exactly and what makes you comfortable to it. Yes,
Speaker 1: so I don't a real true fashion stuff and they
Speaker 1: don't sit on the internet calling people tacky. But it's
Speaker 1: only when black women do something. It's it's because a
Speaker 1: nigga won't hold you to his standards. Bitch, I'm not
Speaker 1: your bitch. Yeah, I'm not your bitch. I'm not for you.
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna never be for you. You can't even
Speaker 3: pull me. But don't saving what I can't wear. Hello,
Speaker 3: Niggas do that a lot.
Speaker 4: And I just feel like, if something looks fun, if
Speaker 4: something looks good.
Speaker 1: Why we wouldn't want to do it too. Yeah, we've
Speaker 1: seen people and we started going to and we don't.
Speaker 3: Don't like folks saying busting on wide open and it's
Speaker 3: got it, having all the hookahs, but they had min
Speaker 3: hoocas there.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't listen.
Speaker 2: I went in twenty one. I know, I ain't see
Speaker 2: that min houcas. I got there, used to hustle like,
Speaker 2: oh you want to wear this? That you want that
Speaker 2: watermelon man exactly.
Speaker 1: Like they would put us in this category and not.
Speaker 3: And and I feel like they try to take away
Speaker 3: from our like we we ignite everything, set us stop playing.
Speaker 1: On our top. So I do feel like sometimes like
Speaker 1: I don't like the trend of like looking at somebody
Speaker 1: like and doing an emulating like what I said, like,
Speaker 1: I'll look at your outfit and I'm like, oh, I
Speaker 1: can do something like that, but I put my own
Speaker 1: little twister okay, and that it's yours and that was yours, right,
Speaker 1: So it's like, I do think the girls need to
Speaker 1: don't don't copy and pay somebody's outfit, you know, put
Speaker 1: your own little But even if if you do, what's
Speaker 1: the problem, what's the what's the issue? I do it.
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, I get on a picture outfit right now.
Speaker 1: I copied off. I always cop copy off of Dre
Speaker 1: outfice too. If I got a good little winter out waiting,
Speaker 1: I meant, said, I can't wait. Which one? Oh my god?
Speaker 1: Which it's the one that you were last year when
Speaker 1: we were in Houston and we did the kiyt interview
Speaker 1: and you had on that card again, I said often
Speaker 1: to eat that it's simple.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I feel like it's cute everything we wear
Speaker 3: because seen somebody else do it. Bitch, I don't know
Speaker 3: why they act like, oh it's my own style, No, bitch,
Speaker 3: sind somebody else do it, and you added a Chaine. Okay,
Speaker 3: I get it, but it's okay to say I'm inspired.
Speaker 2: By somebody else.
Speaker 4: At this point you can't be. I'm not gonna say
Speaker 4: you can't be an originator. But it's like everybody have
Speaker 4: like it's already somebody that's done. It's okay, but you
Speaker 4: can make it your own, right, you could do it,
Speaker 4: and you're gonna do it.
Speaker 1: You But like, I don't know, I don't like when
Speaker 1: they just put things that's always getting on because you
Speaker 1: know they're doing the same thing with Lulu Lemon. Now,
Speaker 1: so what question what ghetto means to you?
Speaker 3: Like like, name something you see and you'd be like,
Speaker 3: that's since I agree with two pieceful us is not ghettle.
Speaker 3: But tell me something that you see and you be like, bitch,
Speaker 3: that's ghettle.
Speaker 1: I got one.
Speaker 2: You go first, a bonnie in public.
Speaker 1: I think that's a little good even on the plane.
Speaker 4: On the plane, if you're wearing that house in the airport,
Speaker 4: that's a little getto. But if you got like an
Speaker 4: overnight flight, if you got like a ten hour flights
Speaker 4: to make you say in.
Speaker 3: The airport, you're not gonna see me for time, but
Speaker 3: you want to see me for the thirty seconds walking
Speaker 3: past you.
Speaker 2: If are you gonna tell the bond it, I would
Speaker 2: be like that ghetto okay.
Speaker 1: That I don't know. I'm not gonna lie. When I
Speaker 1: see a bonnit in public, I'm like, oh, she probably
Speaker 1: gonna have something to do. That's what I take it
Speaker 1: as I mean. But there's been you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: There's been where I had to take a flight and
Speaker 1: bitch when I I had to hit the ground running.
Speaker 3: But see you saying like, once you land, you put
Speaker 3: it on. No, bitch, I'm leaving my house. I'm getting
Speaker 3: in the car, going.
Speaker 1: To the store with the bore.
Speaker 2: Not the store, but what I do. But only because
Speaker 2: like I don't usually I'm in my car lot.
Speaker 3: I leave my house, I go in the garage, I
Speaker 3: get my car, and I'm not getting out until I
Speaker 3: get back to my house, pick my kids, fucking pick
Speaker 3: up blind. So I have my bondy on, yeah, and
Speaker 3: I be on you know, Live or something, so it
Speaker 3: looks like I gotta bund it on everybody.
Speaker 2: But I'm really just in my car.
Speaker 1: But that's okay.
Speaker 2: You see me McDonald's in the drive.
Speaker 1: That whole got up.
Speaker 4: She said in the air no, because you're in the car.
Speaker 4: Like if you leave in your house and you going
Speaker 4: pick your kings up.
Speaker 1: Whatever, I'm not gonna lie. I'm going to wear in
Speaker 1: the airport. I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna wear it no where else, but I'm
Speaker 3: going to wear an airport. I'm not gonna lie to
Speaker 3: you only because bitch hair is a lot and I
Speaker 3: don't want it on me.
Speaker 1: In my face. But I'm not the hat on it
Speaker 1: is ghetto. When I see it's somebody wearing a bonnit
Speaker 1: in the airport, I assume. I don't think it's ghetto,
Speaker 1: but I assume like she has to land and hit
Speaker 1: the ground running pajamas in the airport. Like, okay, I'll
Speaker 1: say pajamas in the airport. A little gets pajamas and bonnets.
Speaker 1: It's the same thing to me.
Speaker 2: Agree.
Speaker 1: So for me, my thing that I see is sometimes
Speaker 1: I'll be like, this is ghetto. Like when you wear
Speaker 1: like booty shorts in public, Oh, I hate it.
Speaker 2: Oh that is so good on to me. That's like
Speaker 2: I don't want to see your ass.
Speaker 1: It's like you got kids here, Yeah, that's that's cheeks.
Speaker 3: I don't think color hair is ghetto. I don't think
Speaker 3: big earrings is ghetto. I don't big persons is ghetto.
Speaker 3: I think if I could see pussy your body on
Speaker 3: your niggas you see around.
Speaker 2: Children, Like, why are we normalizing these days wearing.
Speaker 4: A body suit outside with no stockings off long with
Speaker 4: your whole ass.
Speaker 2: Where are you going the strip?
Speaker 1: Where are you okay?
Speaker 3: So how do you feel about if they're wearing that
Speaker 3: an adult only club? You know, because they got Now
Speaker 3: if I see you with that target, bitch, you get them.
Speaker 3: But if you want to club to niggas, I mean,
Speaker 3: that's what.
Speaker 1: It's for, That's what it's.
Speaker 4: It depends on the environment, like if you're going to
Speaker 4: a club, if you going to an adult club, whatever,
Speaker 4: that's fine with children, Like are you are going to
Speaker 4: do a school peekup and you got on booty shorts?
Speaker 1: Yeahs?
Speaker 2: And bonnet combo is nasty work to gather fascination? It
Speaker 2: isation if you you I wanted to, I can't.
Speaker 1: I catch it with the flip flops. But you know
Speaker 1: what's crazy? But I said when I say ghetto, though
Speaker 1: it doesn't, it's not a color to me because because
Speaker 1: white holes do it too, Like I sa, I've been
Speaker 1: behind a very small town, all white town. Them host
Speaker 1: is ghetto. Yeah, what I told you. The first time
Speaker 1: I seen a girl body tires, that's ghetto to me.
Speaker 1: But it was a white girl that did it. Like
Speaker 1: when I seeing like a crash out, it was a
Speaker 1: white girl. I seen crash because we are women at
Speaker 1: the end of the day, you know what I'm saying. Right, So,
Speaker 1: like the first time we have this thing called Kroger
Speaker 1: feet where I'm from, Croger feet.
Speaker 2: Kroger feet.
Speaker 1: That's when like you see somebody with dirty feet and
Speaker 1: it looks like they've been walking.
Speaker 2: Around with them in the old navy stands.
Speaker 1: Ones. You know about the first time I seen people
Speaker 1: back in the day, I think they was like they were.
Speaker 1: It was a nice little little Abercrombie. But I'm saying
Speaker 1: the first time I seen somebody walking around the store
Speaker 1: with no shoes on, that's ghetto.
Speaker 2: That's ghetto.
Speaker 1: But it was it was a they wasn't home. It
Speaker 1: was it was a white shoes when you have shoes anywhey, bitch,
Speaker 1: did you print the trash no shoes on?
Speaker 2: Come on, you want to talk about what's ghetto walking
Speaker 2: outside with.
Speaker 1: No sho if you step apartment, even if like, okay,
Speaker 1: we live in high rises, right if you step out
Speaker 1: and even you know, like the trash shoes at the
Speaker 1: end of the hallway, If you step out of your house,
Speaker 1: even if the trash shoot is right there without no
Speaker 1: shoes on, that's a little get up because walking in
Speaker 1: the trash room with no shoes on in the bathroom.
Speaker 3: But what about if you in a hotel, okay, and
Speaker 3: you're going down to get the extra key and you
Speaker 3: got your stock phone, you.
Speaker 1: Know you gotta put some shoes now. You gonna walk
Speaker 1: down in a bonnet, a little bonnet real quick. That's
Speaker 1: that's no. You gotta put you gotta.
Speaker 4: Past give us sock the pass because it's stupping between
Speaker 4: your foot in the ground.
Speaker 2: Let my kids the sanitation.
Speaker 1: Just put some shoes on, some shoes on. I'm to
Speaker 1: go downstairs and get my key. I ain't gonna lie, okay,
Speaker 1: not every time. Every time a minute, I literally have
Speaker 1: to walk down and get up. She's like, I gotta
Speaker 1: lay my hedges, not the edges. Draw don't go nowhere
Speaker 1: because she's up pretty.
Speaker 2: She's you can tell you a bad bitch.
Speaker 3: You can sell you can tell you Thanksgiving. We were
Speaker 3: sitting down right here. She was over there, get her
Speaker 3: make up ready, getting listen.
Speaker 1: We had Thanksgiving the other day, so we all decided
Speaker 1: to do a friends giving like with all of us
Speaker 1: because we didn't go home. Everybody like, okay, it's just us,
Speaker 1: it's just the girls. I walk in with some uggs, leggings,
Speaker 1: looking regular. My homegirl got on a T shirt, some
Speaker 1: tennis shoes. My other homegirl she already drunk as fuck,
Speaker 1: hair all over her head. We're doing whatever. Dra walks in. Hey,
Speaker 1: she got on some hern boots. You could tell a scar.
Speaker 1: She's like, y'all.
Speaker 4: In my defense, I said that was my first stop.
Speaker 4: I had somewhere else to go after that. I ended
Speaker 4: up not going because yours. I had somewhere to go afterwards.
Speaker 4: That was like my first little stop. But I ended
Speaker 4: up not going because my friend was like, oh, it's okay,
Speaker 4: you don't got to pull up because I feel sick.
Speaker 4: But I was supposed to go somewhere else.
Speaker 2: That's why I was cute. Put on the whole imuld
Speaker 2: go and.
Speaker 1: See them bitches.
Speaker 2: I would have wore some ugsuk, okay, but it's not
Speaker 2: a bad thing.
Speaker 1: But you'd be going nowhere, like you ain't gonna walk
Speaker 1: down that's with sock song.
Speaker 2: But I don't see nothing. I didn't say I would
Speaker 2: do it.
Speaker 4: I said, I say, I don't nothing wrong with it,
Speaker 4: like and to me, it's just dirty if you don't
Speaker 4: have nothing between your food your feet, if you got
Speaker 4: sock song, it's a barrier. Yeah, and especially if you're
Speaker 4: just going downstairs real quick, get a key going back.
Speaker 3: I don't like walking in my house with I was
Speaker 3: socks on. If I do, it's because, oh I I
Speaker 3: hate walking.
Speaker 1: I'm a slipper girl. I do wear slippers and I'm
Speaker 1: a side girl. I'm doing a sock But now I will.
Speaker 2: Say it's s gattle.
Speaker 1: When people wear sneakers and socks to the beach, that's
Speaker 1: ghetto too.
Speaker 2: What's said about that?
Speaker 1: Because why are you it's hot? It's ninety bitch, I
Speaker 1: just had on sneakers at the beach. Why would you
Speaker 1: wear sneakers on the ATV? Okay, that's different. You have
Speaker 1: to wear. If you wear flip flops on the a TV,
Speaker 1: that's ghetto because why are you not prepared?
Speaker 2: But you about to kill yourself? You look crazy trying
Speaker 2: to get all poppy, you know what I'm saying. But
Speaker 2: if you're like it's like a beach day.
Speaker 1: If you go to like a beach club like Nikki
Speaker 1: Beach in Miami and you got sneakers on, that's crazy.
Speaker 1: People don't like to stand between these tools. No, no, no,
Speaker 1: I'm fine with.
Speaker 2: It, but some people don't.
Speaker 1: But should be hot, I ain't about no fucking Miami.
Speaker 3: So that's about solf fucking out the country saying that
Speaker 3: should be hot. It's just saying to be hot Miami
Speaker 3: saying that's saying all right, but no, I feel like just.
Speaker 1: Dressed for that occasion. Put some flip flops on.
Speaker 2: Okay, I don't like flip flops, my feat flip flops,
Speaker 2: but I wasn't.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie when your foot than you. I
Speaker 1: wear a ten. Okay, well I was still I feel
Speaker 1: like an not not that bad. That's in my height.
Speaker 1: I'm six feet so it's different. But flip thoughts on me,
Speaker 1: I'll be looking like the dude. Like one picture I
Speaker 1: took it was for your birthday, was big, this seat
Speaker 1: was so fu And took a picture for her birthday
Speaker 1: last year when were we went to knife Yeah, and
Speaker 1: everybody was like, we took a picture and I had
Speaker 1: on these cute shoes I had just bought that day.
Speaker 1: They were so cute. It was the pink red bottles.
Speaker 1: Like I was sitting that up. There was like god, damn,
Speaker 1: lex feet big fifty. They call you gotta les gear.
Speaker 2: Somebody got to point it, like damn, I put.
Speaker 1: My feet up. But I'm okay. Let me ask you
Speaker 1: that though.
Speaker 2: Were you ever like insecure.
Speaker 1: About your heights?
Speaker 2: I used to be.
Speaker 3: I didn't accept my height, so I was like, nineteen, okay, yeah,
Speaker 3: I'm saying and only I think I only accepted it
Speaker 3: because I already had a tall for instance, like six.
Speaker 3: But when I met other tall girls, that's when I
Speaker 3: accepted my height, like okay, I'm about to walk in
Speaker 3: the room.
Speaker 1: That's when I noticed that the height was sexy, like yeah.
Speaker 3: Looking or who them tall girls? Is I climb that tree?
Speaker 3: Like I'm like, okay, these niggas, it's sexy.
Speaker 1: Nine Like That's when I said, except them those nineteen Yeah,
Speaker 1: I feel like I accepted my height at an older age.
Speaker 1: I'm like, I can't do nothing about it. But then
Speaker 1: once men like I realized all they like that they
Speaker 1: love it. They love a little even though they hated
Speaker 1: when I was in middle school. Yeah, them same middle
Speaker 1: school niggas, all on our trail. But she got my
Speaker 1: DM They like it now they do. I like tall girls,
Speaker 1: but she ain't like the naven middle school.
Speaker 2: But I think it's always the classic case of like.
Speaker 1: Wanting what you don't have.
Speaker 4: Yeah, because when I yeah, because when I was younger,
Speaker 4: I feel like I always wanted to be taller.
Speaker 1: Really, I ain't never hear no short hold city you
Speaker 1: ever heard show? No, Well, I'm I like wanting to
Speaker 1: have a little, a little height like my A short
Speaker 1: girl may see it, Like I wish I was like
Speaker 1: five seven five, but that's not tall.
Speaker 2: You gotta be like five ten.
Speaker 1: That's tall.
Speaker 2: I don't even count five seven girls though.
Speaker 4: But see, so it is more so that like I
Speaker 4: was like, damn, I wish I was like five eight.
Speaker 4: But but when you got things going.
Speaker 2: No, you won't be safe.
Speaker 1: Yeah you know what I mean.
Speaker 4: You're still gonna be taller than a lot of these niggas. Yea,
Speaker 4: So I really use the wish I was taller like
Speaker 4: I used to be, Like damn, Like I'm really not
Speaker 4: gonna grow no, more.
Speaker 2: I really used to be.
Speaker 4: I really used to be upset about it. I was like, damn,
Speaker 4: I'm really yeah, I used to wish I was taller.
Speaker 1: Little you too. I want to be pete. I want
Speaker 1: to be a petite. I want to Yeah, I want
Speaker 1: to look up. I want to look up to my niggas. Yeah.
Speaker 1: But I got over. I got over that real quick,
Speaker 1: like cause these niggas do not be tall. But I'm not.
Speaker 1: I'm not tall in the grand scheme of I'm not
Speaker 1: but for a woman, I was the way he was finished,
Speaker 1: you're not. She's like five yeah, but listen though, she
Speaker 1: gotta let hell but girl, but when it comes to dating,
Speaker 1: I'm tall, agree because I wear shoulds a lot. So
Speaker 1: when I put on heels and I wear platform heels
Speaker 1: a lot to like, I've been six inch heels by
Speaker 1: the time I put a heel on, I'm six one
Speaker 1: six to these niggas don't be six one.
Speaker 2: Six because all the show holds got them.
Speaker 1: All couple. The other day, I'm like, that's supposed to
Speaker 1: love y'all me me and hate them up and took
Speaker 1: all the hold are y'all like the same When I
Speaker 1: put it the heel tallow freak myself. That's all right.
Speaker 2: I want to I want my niggas to tower.
Speaker 4: Yeah, y'all gotta date, y'all mean yeah, I had to
Speaker 4: stop taking them.
Speaker 1: When you have a call man, though, you do feel
Speaker 1: a little different, like it feels.
Speaker 2: Like see baby though.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'm like, this is how little hug.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Because other than that, I'd
Speaker 1: be like, hey, nigga, will we going eating? Yeah? You
Speaker 1: know you still got it like kind of like a lady. Okay,
Speaker 1: my voice, Oh my god, y'all.
Speaker 2: I was on Twitter yesterday.
Speaker 4: No, I was on in TikTok Live the other day
Speaker 4: and somebody was like, dram Be sounded like Future and
Speaker 4: I was.
Speaker 1: I was like, Mitch, use me, I think that's a
Speaker 1: Southern thing. Though they was like, they was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: your voice is deep as FuG. I was like, do
Speaker 1: I really sound like future? Friend? But it's real. Red
Speaker 1: I always said a deep voice. It's a Southern thing.
Speaker 1: I think Southern women just have deep boys sound like
Speaker 1: is it from my daddy? Probably it gotta be. I
Speaker 1: heard that.
Speaker 2: Listen.
Speaker 3: I literally went by because that don't sound like a
Speaker 3: nigga said that you I woldt viral vine because they
Speaker 3: said that sounded like a nigga. I was like the
Speaker 3: tonebok girl with a voice, and I was told, so
Speaker 3: I give me about it, like.
Speaker 1: Girl, I feel like, I don't know, I feel like
Speaker 1: a little I think it's that's playing with me exactly,
Speaker 1: said the future reach. I'm almost reached. She's giving deep
Speaker 1: voice supremacy exactly. But that'd be the main thing. Like
Speaker 1: when people describing like they always be like, oh that
Speaker 1: girl on the on the blue couch, she's so masculine
Speaker 1: because like I said, I'm a.
Speaker 3: Little bit taller. I snig boy, and that's and that's
Speaker 3: what they get from it. Like you not, but you
Speaker 3: don't know me enough to say, man, you you coming
Speaker 3: from my voice to my height and how I'm talking,
Speaker 3: that's it right.
Speaker 1: But I think on social media too, like of course,
Speaker 1: like we give a little extra because we're entertaining.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm supposed to ignite it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I'm like every day that faces people really
Speaker 1: be online thinking I wake up like listen, I'm listen.
Speaker 2: I didn't think I don't like that every day.
Speaker 3: I did not think somebody thought of me like that
Speaker 3: until I got my fiance. The first date, he said
Speaker 3: he thought I was gonna be loud and ghetto.
Speaker 1: I'm like, why the fun would you think that? Yeah,
Speaker 1: because I'm loud online. I'm a lady, That's what I'll
Speaker 1: be saying. I think men do expect that out of me,
Speaker 1: so when they they can get a totally.
Speaker 4: Different sometimes, and I think, just think I'm gonna be
Speaker 4: a certain way and I'm ghetto. Yeah, you more yetto
Speaker 4: than me.
Speaker 2: First of all, absolutely, this lady grew up around our
Speaker 2: lighter friend.
Speaker 4: Yeah, no, around hood, the hood, the hood people, the
Speaker 4: trees all.
Speaker 1: I'm definitely a little more. She'd be like, I'm dying.
Speaker 4: The crazy thing about me, though, is I grew up
Speaker 4: in the hood, but I want to private school until you.
Speaker 1: Have the best world, girls. I grew up in a
Speaker 1: diverse neighborhood.
Speaker 3: It was white, but I went to a school that
Speaker 3: could have been a fucking private school, but it was.
Speaker 2: It was public, but it.
Speaker 1: Gave private and then I got kicked out and I
Speaker 1: went to a public school that was big nigga.
Speaker 2: I'm my damn bitch y'all.
Speaker 3: You nigga's dumb, you know, I'm like, okay, So my
Speaker 3: school was a good school. I did go, so I
Speaker 3: did come from a private looking school and I met it.
Speaker 3: So I got the best of all worlds. And I'm
Speaker 3: happy because I could like being around it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, in a room, you could adapt in any situation.
Speaker 1: Where are you from? In New Orleans seventeen? The nigga
Speaker 1: may not know that though, because he was.
Speaker 2: On it that nine years.
Speaker 1: But see, I used to come up.
Speaker 2: I used to, girl, I forgot.
Speaker 4: Now you can't have the New Orleans because, like you said,
Speaker 4: he really from that, But I used to when I
Speaker 4: was in high school. Now this is like my first
Speaker 4: boyfriend that I was like super in love with. He
Speaker 4: was on the West Bank and he was like people
Speaker 4: always say, the West Bank ain't really New Orleans.
Speaker 1: It depends on which part is he from Algiers or.
Speaker 2: Like from Algiers Elia is New Orleans, Okay, but the
Speaker 2: New Orleans people feel like that's not New Orleans.
Speaker 1: That's what he was saying. Cool it is.
Speaker 3: It's still if you could address said New Orleans, Louisian, don't. Yeah,
Speaker 3: once you pass Elgier's, that's the west Bank and the
Speaker 3: west The thing is the west Bank.
Speaker 2: We do that because the west Bank is still on
Speaker 2: each side.
Speaker 1: They don't.
Speaker 3: They don't funk with the city is what we call
Speaker 3: New Orleans. The city, the West Bank. Everything that you
Speaker 3: need is on the West Bank.
Speaker 1: They have no reason to come to New Words.
Speaker 2: But they feel like, nah, but I'm from the West Bank.
Speaker 2: We feel like, well, from New Orleans. But then there
Speaker 2: was a lot of time they're gonna stay there from
Speaker 2: New Orleans.
Speaker 1: Okay, that West Bank, Nigga. If you go to Houston,
Speaker 1: he's gonna stay. I'm from New Orleans. That's what happened.
Speaker 1: He moved to Houston.
Speaker 4: That's how we started dating in high school because he
Speaker 4: moved when Katrina happened.
Speaker 2: Okay, girl, because you know everybody, Oh.
Speaker 1: My god, it was everybody, Oh my god, I know
Speaker 1: you are what you girl? What? Yes? I was that mean?
Speaker 1: You was in high school too, right? I was in
Speaker 1: ninete seventeen.
Speaker 2: You went to school, No, I didn't.
Speaker 3: So what happened was when when the storm hits, I
Speaker 3: ended up evacuating to bad Roofe And in January first,
Speaker 3: two thousand and six, we moved to Texas. I didn't
Speaker 3: move to Houston. I moved to Clelly Like and then
Speaker 3: I moved to We moved on NASA Roe one. My
Speaker 3: sister went to clic High.
Speaker 2: She graduated from.
Speaker 1: Okay, so once we moved to text, but I ain't
Speaker 1: gonnack to school work. Yo. He was like like I
Speaker 1: went to Memoros, I'm not going to So I didn't
Speaker 1: be took in Texas. But I was in Texas.
Speaker 3: I worked in Texas, and I saw how everybody went
Speaker 3: to went to you saying bish new Orleington host to
Speaker 3: know what I'm just saying.
Speaker 1: Remember didn't he graduate from You of h Yeah he did.
Speaker 1: He wasn't tu No, it was You of Age because
Speaker 1: that was before I flunked out of You of Age.
Speaker 1: He was there and then he was like taking like
Speaker 1: it was something like yeah, but he was taking some
Speaker 1: like creative class like I want to say it was
Speaker 1: like a poetry class or something. But they said that
Speaker 1: like that's what he was. But so I was in Orange.
Speaker 1: I told you we're Orange is It's the first stop,
Speaker 1: Like when you leave Louisiana and you're on it and
Speaker 1: Orange is the first stop. So we got a big
Speaker 1: wave of people from Man.
Speaker 2: It was so crazy.
Speaker 1: I wasn't I mean, I want to hear from a
Speaker 1: Texas girl. Okay, fun you knew it was exactly what's
Speaker 1: the way they fun? Yeah, And then of course I
Speaker 1: was a child when I was young. I was a
Speaker 1: kid because because you said you were in eighth grade, No,
Speaker 1: I was in ninth grade.
Speaker 2: You was in ninth grade.
Speaker 1: So I was, yeah, that makes sense. I was like
Speaker 1: a junior or a singer at that time whatever. So
Speaker 1: when it came, it was just like we're a small school.
Speaker 1: We're four a school. So when they came, it was
Speaker 1: like a whole bunch of it was so it was
Speaker 1: everything was out of order. We had, you know, a
Speaker 1: class that usually had twenty people in it. Now it's
Speaker 1: like forty forty five people. So I'm walking in my
Speaker 1: classroom and I don't have nowhere to see it, and
Speaker 1: I think I'm already thinking I'm.
Speaker 2: Queen Bee and I'm like, oh my god, like when
Speaker 2: do y'all.
Speaker 1: Need to get out of my seat?
Speaker 2: Do you know, like you need to get out of
Speaker 2: my seat?
Speaker 4: And she used to be so please you show her
Speaker 4: that picture of you when you were your emo face.
Speaker 2: Yeah I had an emo face.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I used to think. I was like, saw
Speaker 1: my girl, I'm like, somebody needs to get out of
Speaker 1: my seat. I have nowhere to sat hold on my lap.
Speaker 1: She coming down that booty? Hell what happened? Like, oh
Speaker 1: my god, I love it. I was like, who helped me?
Speaker 2: We definitely claimed the territory.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it was a difference. It was fine.
Speaker 2: It was like, yeah, so you know, I'm not listening.
Speaker 3: One thing in New Orleans girls was hating how you
Speaker 3: Texas holes was stealing on niggas?
Speaker 1: Like why is definitely or a story It's probably gonna
Speaker 1: get gonna know, so I'm not gonna say nat because
Speaker 1: y'all obviously donna know who I'm talking about. You know,
Speaker 1: I hope they do not click this and send this
Speaker 1: to this man. So there was a guy from Orange.
Speaker 2: From Orange, Yes, it was really popular. He was very
Speaker 2: very good at sports.
Speaker 1: The way his story went on, Yeah, they are where
Speaker 1: I'm about to go with this, So how many niggas
Speaker 1: is really from Orange? Exactly? So anyway history where his
Speaker 1: story letter. He ended up going to the league being
Speaker 1: like the number one safety in the league. Like he
Speaker 1: had a story. But I remember when they came down
Speaker 1: from New Orleans. This girl came from New Orleans and
Speaker 1: she was she was cleaning up bench. So that's what
Speaker 1: it wasn't like the Checklist girls. Was the New Orleans
Speaker 1: girls came and they was cleaning.
Speaker 4: Up, They was getting they was getting there.
Speaker 1: Yes, that's what I'm saying. So from my experience, I
Speaker 1: was like, oh my god, because at that point, like
Speaker 1: I used to swear, me and him was in love
Speaker 1: like my mom knew his mom. I was like, oh
Speaker 1: my god, this is my hood, right right. I mean,
Speaker 1: that's not how like all happened happened from that happened
Speaker 1: in my friend though. But anyways, it was like I
Speaker 1: remember when she came, like she was dating a lot
Speaker 1: of like the top not nigg I was like, she
Speaker 1: came and cleaned up business. I feel like, honestly they
Speaker 1: mar out there the TMZ article, Oh wait, she was ors.
Speaker 1: She wanted them girls.
Speaker 2: She is from New Orleans. Because I know exactly know
Speaker 2: what I'm talking from.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna sell you out of here show. I mean,
Speaker 1: people they already if they if when I said number
Speaker 1: one safety in the league, they probably already know if
Speaker 1: you say number one safety in the league. At one point,
Speaker 1: he's from Orange. There's literally one person I always say this,
Speaker 1: dumb copular people in Orange, you and me.
Speaker 2: That Shiffer Fakes said that ship population.
Speaker 1: Literally literally heard the Orange before. No, it's not that
Speaker 1: far from Louisiana. Yeah, it's we're not close to New Orleans.
Speaker 1: So where I grew up my house, like I could
Speaker 1: literally walked to Louisiana. That's how close it really. How
Speaker 1: like that border where you cross, it's right there. It's
Speaker 1: it's very, very close. So I had a lot of people.
Speaker 1: That's all I was telling you girls, because I might
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you. I don't want to say not
Speaker 1: on here, just because you know, they have kids and
Speaker 1: we got to protect the children. Oh they got kids together. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she got the nigga. Oh baby got him. It's some
Speaker 1: hot tea. Really, it was like a whole thing on teams.
Speaker 1: Then she walked up in the house with guns blazing.
Speaker 1: Bit I know what you're talking about, Mighty.
Speaker 2: I'm thinking it was somebody didn't know.
Speaker 1: Okay. Yeah when she when they left New Orleans they
Speaker 1: came to Orange, she was an Orange. Okay, beg Okay,
Speaker 1: it's eam been hot for years. But I've been out
Speaker 1: to loop with that team, been there, okay, okay, because
Speaker 1: then it's some new tea and I'm gonna feel you
Speaker 1: in and please, I got you up. Dave me friend.
Speaker 2: I'm it's real.
Speaker 1: I feel like this is a good segue into Okay,
Speaker 1: so let me do because it's matches I thought we
Speaker 1: was doing with the game nobody. It's a question to
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Speaker 1: What's the cornyest thing you've ever done while in love?
Speaker 1: Corny the corniest thing you've ever done when you've been
Speaker 1: in love? I'll say mine. Okay, so here y'all the
Speaker 1: course thing I've ever done.
Speaker 2: I was dating this guy. I was maybe like one,
Speaker 2: and at the time I didn't have a lot of money.
Speaker 1: But I used to waitress in Bartend so I was
Speaker 1: like doing better than him, and I just thought he
Speaker 1: was just like the most grand man in the world.
Speaker 1: And I remember Hotel Derek around Valentine's Day. They used
Speaker 1: to do like a package hotel. There used to be
Speaker 1: a really popular hotel in Houston. Yeah, and they had
Speaker 1: this package that you could buy for like seven hundred
Speaker 1: dollars and they would decorate your hotel room with champagne
Speaker 1: and included a dinner like everything. So I literally, like
Speaker 1: I remember, I worked like three shifts, scrounged up my
Speaker 1: little seven hundred dollars and I paid for the room
Speaker 1: and I did all this. But to me, the reason
Speaker 1: I say is corny because it's corny because he should
Speaker 1: have done that for me. It was a lot, like
Speaker 1: I did a lot. Well, first of all, have you
Speaker 1: ever done anything for you before that? No?
Speaker 2: Oh? Yeah, it's corny.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's why I say he ain't never if he
Speaker 1: set the tone and I sat, I had three dollars,
Speaker 1: he had two. Oh, but that's the kind of that's
Speaker 1: that's not bad three and two, but five and even
Speaker 1: about five dollars on him? If he's not here, is
Speaker 1: that he's still be like, Yeah, I used to suck
Speaker 1: with her.
Speaker 2: I know that, But don't claim me.
Speaker 1: I know he does. Don't do that, Oh, I know
Speaker 1: he does.
Speaker 4: How many niggas you'all think? Me telling people I used
Speaker 4: to fuck with with hard core six it's a hard
Speaker 4: core bitch a lot?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know. I just like I said, bitch, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna I'm gonna drop a nick and pick up another one. Yeah,
Speaker 1: this is what I'm like. I love to fall in
Speaker 1: love quickly, Bitch, I'm a love girl.
Speaker 3: I don't want I don't want to with with niggas
Speaker 3: at one time. I want to with one nigga at
Speaker 3: a time. So if this nigga not acting right, I'm
Speaker 3: a fuck with another one and he expired and I'm
Speaker 3: with another one.
Speaker 1: So it's probably a lot of niggas.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I hate that. But to me, you ain't
Speaker 2: got no.
Speaker 1: Baby probing proven Caro.
Speaker 2: This Louis, Louis and Philip. That's it, Louis, what's the
Speaker 2: corniest thing? Girl? Mine is so okay, my Bury.
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna say it's my first relationship, but to me,
Speaker 3: this is my first real relationship. This is the first
Speaker 3: nigga that we moved in a house together, like imagining
Speaker 3: you know, women, like we got our own shit set
Speaker 3: up and then we're moving niggain. But it's the first
Speaker 3: relationship I had where he had his own house. I
Speaker 3: had my own house.
Speaker 1: When we started dating, I moved into his house and.
Speaker 2: Then we got a house together. So to me, that's
Speaker 2: my own relationship. Yeah, a nigga that like really like bitch.
Speaker 1: Oh no, we were looking together. So he broke up
Speaker 1: with me.
Speaker 3: In like August of twenty eleven. I think I was
Speaker 3: like twenty two, twenty three. He broke up with me
Speaker 3: and then but I at least went up to like November,
Speaker 3: but we had to stay the other into November, right, So,
Speaker 3: like I noticed.
Speaker 2: The shift of him like.
Speaker 3: Being under me all day to him like not coming home,
Speaker 3: and he never done that before. So I'm like, okay,
Speaker 3: well he must be fucking on somebody I'm finding fucking with.
Speaker 2: So bitch.
Speaker 3: I used to drop them off at work every morning
Speaker 3: because he rode bikes. But I had a call, so
Speaker 3: I'm like, okay, you don't get his back around, so
Speaker 3: let me see who dropping him off at work? But
Speaker 3: I go to the job, I park my car underneath
Speaker 3: the bridge. I'm sitting in the bushes, smood who's dropping
Speaker 3: them off? And I'm in the bushes. Bitch, I'm sticky.
Speaker 1: I'm itching because my dumbass ain't with no long sleep.
Speaker 1: I got on the.
Speaker 3: Every every second, I'm itching, like, okay, he's gonna be
Speaker 3: a six thirty six for the five.
Speaker 2: Okay, this is the butterfuck Lake for work. I'm like
Speaker 2: this nigga, like not.
Speaker 1: He must be what somebody he laid so he really wanted.
Speaker 1: Now you don't run late for nobody, but you're runna
Speaker 1: live for somebody knew. I'm like all this in my mind.
Speaker 1: So then I see he get dropped off a bout
Speaker 1: a hole in a raggedy call bach who cost so regular?
Speaker 1: I heard it, you heard him.
Speaker 2: Then he got out. I thought the look, kiss my
Speaker 2: heart broke. I'm in the bushes, dying bitch.
Speaker 1: Did you drop out? No? Because technically, technically he said
Speaker 1: we were not together. I had to respect that, but
Speaker 1: for my own sanity I needed to see it. Yeah.
Speaker 3: So me being in the bushes at six forty five
Speaker 3: in the morning and he gets dropped off by and
Speaker 3: then I call the phone like, oh so you get
Speaker 3: dropped off and he hung up in my face.
Speaker 2: Girls, So I would have popped out them bushes.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie because you already there already there
Speaker 1: would have what you would have shown me, like I
Speaker 1: told you, then then I'm gonna have to pop him
Speaker 1: in bags. I can't do that.
Speaker 2: It just would have been that type of day morals.
Speaker 2: Friend you right, friends, I crashed, but see how.
Speaker 1: Hunger.
Speaker 2: I can't be left there like that because you really
Speaker 2: could have lest with me all.
Speaker 1: Night and then she would have probably ten years later,
Speaker 1: twenty years, like to be telling a story on TikTok
Speaker 1: about it right.
Speaker 2: About the time Stupa popped up on me. And right,
Speaker 2: you did, right, you did right? Okay, what's the corniest
Speaker 2: thing you've done?
Speaker 1: Bitch?
Speaker 2: Where do I start?
Speaker 1: Oh?
Speaker 2: My god, I stayed at my very first one.
Speaker 4: Real no, literally probably coming to somebody as a woman. Yeah,
Speaker 4: I knew, like my nigga, I knew he was like
Speaker 4: fucking with this girl. I knew he was with this girl.
Speaker 4: This was high school. I knew he was sucking with
Speaker 4: this girl. And I called her high school And don't
Speaker 4: high school?
Speaker 2: High school?
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, in adulthood.
Speaker 4: In adulthood, I talked about a nigga on our show. Bitch, No, no, no,
Speaker 4: because you gotta know me though, super, I'm like extremely proud,
Speaker 4: like I don't like people. I don't like people in
Speaker 4: my business, so I'm never gonna really talk about like
Speaker 4: I'll say little stuff here and there about my relationship
Speaker 4: or like my my nigga and stuff, but I really
Speaker 4: don't talk about my business like that. This nigga made
Speaker 4: me so fucking man and lex is fucking terrible because
Speaker 4: she she fucking egged me on.
Speaker 2: Now what do you do?
Speaker 1: Girl? No, I'm talking about you egged me on to
Speaker 1: talk about it on the shop. I was like, now
Speaker 1: what he do? Girl? I know everything?
Speaker 2: She was like, yeah, girl, I feel like if you mad,
Speaker 2: you should just say something.
Speaker 1: She's just say it.
Speaker 4: I said this nigga name, yes she is, and it
Speaker 4: was like somebody there people know.
Speaker 1: No we deleted. No, we deleted that.
Speaker 4: That's all about this an old episode from like twenty eighteen.
Speaker 2: Girl. We had like three viewers, but.
Speaker 4: I was still mad caught that t then they still
Speaker 4: they still be talking about it to day, just like, yeah,
Speaker 4: you catching up.
Speaker 1: Bit you was talking about white man, white man and
Speaker 1: no fucking mindy talking about white man. So my fathers
Speaker 1: don't even know about that show.
Speaker 2: My father, my father's on about that, but you bitch.
Speaker 1: In front of XP. I mean like remember that time
Speaker 1: you clocked out? Was not a second that girl we
Speaker 1: ain't talking about told me asks for the little cause.
Speaker 1: She kept sad, like, oh god, y'are here follow me.
Speaker 1: I'm like, no, let me tell you how much I've
Speaker 1: been following y'all in hell, But you showed up with
Speaker 1: that one because told me saying, get them them questions
Speaker 1: from these souls. I would have died that. Okay, God,
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Speaker 4: Okay, So the topic is being dumb in love. Do
Speaker 4: you feel like it's a such thing as being dumb
Speaker 4: when you're in love or do you just feel like
Speaker 4: I'm in love like anything goes. I feel like I'm
Speaker 4: that type of person, So I feel like anything go
Speaker 4: when I really love.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well it is. Do you feel like you can
Speaker 2: be there for sure?
Speaker 3: Like all the signs be there and we just be
Speaker 3: ignoring them because we're stupid. Yeah, because we wanted to
Speaker 3: work and we start. Once you start living off potential,
Speaker 3: you're gonna let everything fly, like you know what, I
Speaker 3: know you could, I know you could become almost I
Speaker 3: mean there's some stick that you living on potential. I
Speaker 3: know you're gonna stop cheating because you gonna do you
Speaker 3: and counseling that you living off potential, like we didn't
Speaker 3: seen all the signs and we just still thugging it.
Speaker 3: We gotta stop feeling. We gotta like we don't owe
Speaker 3: no nigga, no thug life. I'm gotta tugging with you.
Speaker 3: I didn't do it too many niggas.
Speaker 1: I don't.
Speaker 2: I don't owe you that I'm not.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we don't gotta go to the struggle for me to.
Speaker 3: I don't gotta prove myself to you. When you married me,
Speaker 3: then I'll show you. But other than that, like we
Speaker 3: we boyfriend girlfriend, bitch, I don't gotta thug it out
Speaker 3: with you. Yeah, Like I think that's when we that's
Speaker 3: when we just dumbing in love. Like we're still trying
Speaker 3: to prove to a nigga in our thirties that we
Speaker 3: I've been here for you since to begin that bitch
Speaker 3: with our bad Yeah, because we don't gotta do that.
Speaker 2: We don't got to waste something like that.
Speaker 1: But I think one thing about being dumb in love
Speaker 1: too is like if you're a person like you love love,
Speaker 1: love releases a doper, mean it released something.
Speaker 2: I love it feel so lood.
Speaker 1: So as much as it's I think it's okay to
Speaker 1: be dumb in love, that's what you're supposed to do.
Speaker 1: Enjoy it. But you also need to know how to
Speaker 1: move on and fall out of love. That problem, right,
Speaker 1: But you be in captivity, yeah, because you was dumb
Speaker 1: in love, like this you really do. It's like you
Speaker 1: fall in love is a drug, but you need that
Speaker 1: antidote exactly, and you see your self. That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So I think it's okay to be dumb in love
Speaker 1: sometimes because it feels good in the moment. I'm very
Speaker 1: much this is what I feel right now. But when
Speaker 1: it's time to heal, exactly, it's time to heal, that's me.
Speaker 1: So you have to you have to recognize when it's
Speaker 1: time to leave a situation. But I think love should
Speaker 1: be fun and love should feel good. And sometimes you
Speaker 1: meet somebody and you may be in love quote unquote
Speaker 1: for a short time, and sometimes it lasts years, and
Speaker 1: some people are thinking enough where it lasts forever. So
Speaker 1: I think one thing about love is like you have
Speaker 1: to be okay with taking risks. Falling in love is
Speaker 1: risk because on both sides, you're literally falling for someone
Speaker 1: and hoping that when shit gets bad that they'll catch you, right,
Speaker 1: And if they don't, then what right you gotta be
Speaker 1: able to catch yourself?
Speaker 2: Sign you ignore.
Speaker 1: Exactly because they got always excuses why they couldn't catch
Speaker 1: a bitch, right, and you believe them, right. So I
Speaker 1: think being dumb in love is just like now you
Speaker 1: can't lose yourself.
Speaker 2: That's now you can't like do.
Speaker 1: You looking in the mirror and you don't recognize yourself
Speaker 1: no more? And you're doing things like I'm not saying
Speaker 1: be dumb behind somebody, but if it's fun and you're
Speaker 1: having it, loving it, and you're enjoying it, agree be dumb,
Speaker 1: especially if you can self and induce yourself.
Speaker 2: Yeah, because I know I can't. I'm gonna roll over
Speaker 2: niggas so fast.
Speaker 1: New nigga me, please, new Nigga's me, New nigga me,
Speaker 1: please please.
Speaker 2: I've recently got into but I've been Yeah.
Speaker 1: See I'm not well. I don't like new nigga me,
Speaker 1: but I just be doing it.
Speaker 3: War Listen, I've been. I've been a social butterfly all
Speaker 3: my life. Yeah, before the internet, bitch, before Yahoo check,
Speaker 3: I was on a party. Who y'all remember b B.
Speaker 2: BlackBerry, BlackBerry Messenger. I never had. It was an elite society.
Speaker 2: It was it was like I was young.
Speaker 1: I was in game. I was doing your check. You
Speaker 1: said you was yao check y'all. I think I had
Speaker 1: aim I aimed to yeah, I had, But I was
Speaker 1: on a party line, bitch, yeah, are.
Speaker 4: You talking about Are you talking about the hotline where
Speaker 4: you can call and day?
Speaker 2: It used to be like, yeah, you got so. And
Speaker 2: I was fourteen, I was on the porter. I've been
Speaker 2: looking there.
Speaker 1: We could have got abducted, literally did that was the
Speaker 1: whole time where Lifetime was making movies about girls, little
Speaker 1: girl from relationship.
Speaker 2: You said, what Virginia with a nigga? He was older
Speaker 2: than me?
Speaker 1: How old was he?
Speaker 2: I was girl girl?
Speaker 1: I feel like horsenness.
Speaker 2: I was sixteen, he was swimming.
Speaker 1: See, okay, no, that it's not you ain't right now,
Speaker 1: that's not that bad now that what I mean.
Speaker 4: What I mean is we're not going to act like
Speaker 4: it's not twenty year old niggas that used to be
Speaker 4: picking girls.
Speaker 1: Up from school because how you they need at that time?
Speaker 2: And Grainy, now that we're grown, we know that she
Speaker 2: was wrong.
Speaker 1: We know that was but it was going on. It
Speaker 1: was still going on. And who used to go to
Speaker 1: like Taco Bell, the McDonald's and sit in the parking
Speaker 1: lot because he knew we would come get the food.
Speaker 3: Now, see, that's nothing that's different, that's like, that's just
Speaker 3: that's you shouting that's your scouting.
Speaker 2: That's different, Like that's pedophile.
Speaker 1: Like that's like, oh girl, he got some food.
Speaker 2: Like, no, that's not, bitch, that's different.
Speaker 1: He would be like, we would just be outside. That's like,
Speaker 1: I got some candy, comes to the van like some
Speaker 1: dumb ass. The part was different because on the part
Speaker 1: of line, I thought, Oh, I was on the point
Speaker 1: line saying I'm nineteen, So that's different. Was we lying
Speaker 1: you had to be older than eighteen to be Yeah,
Speaker 1: we definitely like your life.
Speaker 2: He said, I got a big man.
Speaker 1: But she was really risky because about the phone conversation
Speaker 1: my cherry pop until for you, it wasn't conversation. I
Speaker 1: love that nigga for years. Oh my god, girl, Like
Speaker 1: I was like twenty one. I remember my baby dad
Speaker 1: on the party line you did, I made my best friend.
Speaker 2: This is a social butterfly.
Speaker 1: Y'all understand. Yeah, she ain't start with Instagram. Yeah, this
Speaker 1: ship been me since the party line. I've always been popular.
Speaker 1: Always the party line was lead, though I remembers it.
Speaker 2: Was a time. Yeah, I never did the party line
Speaker 2: thing you did.
Speaker 1: I missed it.
Speaker 3: Mister damn you remember when you remember when Facebook had
Speaker 3: the Houston versus New Orleans.
Speaker 1: I don't remember that because I wasn't. I wasn't in
Speaker 1: either city. I was in a smaller city, so mad
Speaker 1: everybody was in that group on Facebook group mm hm.
Speaker 1: When I got got into Facebook, it was during a
Speaker 1: time where like you had to have college email. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so I wasn't because when I graduated from I graduated
Speaker 1: high school in two thousand and seven, I didn't go
Speaker 1: straight to college, so I took like a year or
Speaker 1: two off, so I didn't have a college email. But
Speaker 1: it opened. Yeah yeah, yeah, okay, so that's probably when
Speaker 1: I got.
Speaker 3: Houston and New Orleans had a group thing where everybody
Speaker 3: was fussing. There was beefing, but I can't see y'all
Speaker 3: say it to your niggas. Butch I came down like
Speaker 3: it was crazy.
Speaker 1: It was coming to me, y'all.
Speaker 2: Remember I red a pipe crush Pike.
Speaker 4: It was another little website before Facebook. Then everybody used
Speaker 4: to be like one of the fire It was like
Speaker 4: one of the young.
Speaker 1: In middle school. Had middle school.
Speaker 2: I had a time.
Speaker 1: Why I had a time on social media where I
Speaker 1: was a whore? How about you a ward? What was
Speaker 1: you doing? Girl?
Speaker 2: It's for only things.
Speaker 1: For you. Used to be popping that pussy online on
Speaker 1: black play mood in my in my throne Underweld, I
Speaker 1: go that cry, don't got my pictures, girl, I used
Speaker 1: to steal my pictures and put my porns like, no listen.
Speaker 2: I always listened.
Speaker 1: I used to surgery.
Speaker 2: I was always a fine.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you always had that fine bitch. Yeah, so bitch.
Speaker 3: In two thousand, before I had my son, I ended
Speaker 3: up taking down because my baby dad, who I met
Speaker 3: on the porter.
Speaker 1: Line, So let me go.
Speaker 2: It's down, So I take it down.
Speaker 1: But my utube to get like fifty thousand views in
Speaker 1: two thousand and eight, That's that's what I am.
Speaker 2: Now.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm getting fifty thousand viudes because I'm I'm dancing
Speaker 1: the bounce music the box we just got popping because
Speaker 1: of the tree. Yeah, I'm on.
Speaker 3: I'm in my little apart minutes two thousand and eight,
Speaker 3: I got my throne on. I'm dancing a pretty ricky
Speaker 3: genu wine.
Speaker 1: I'm not.
Speaker 3: I said, got the videos which I'm telling you, and
Speaker 3: I was going viral on YouTube for being in the throne.
Speaker 1: Oh my say, now that was messing before I discovered you.
Speaker 2: I don't remember you popping it. I don't remember you
Speaker 2: popping it either, sup, my baby, that did't even.
Speaker 1: Take all of it down, But I remember my ring.
Speaker 2: I'm going the camera.
Speaker 4: Why used to have my I did too in high school.
Speaker 4: I've been crashing out, wilding out for a long time.
Speaker 2: And I used to be in the parking lot birthday.
Speaker 1: Tongue in high school. And I'm thinking about it. I
Speaker 1: got my period in nineteen, so I'm not gonna say
Speaker 1: high school nineteen. I was ay like nineteen. What your
Speaker 1: mama said, gir She tried to kick me out of
Speaker 1: the house. She's lying out the house. She could not
Speaker 1: want to let me in.
Speaker 2: It was only because of my daddy that I ended
Speaker 2: up getting in the house.
Speaker 1: And at that time, tongue piers was like suck. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it makes you suck at that time, and I used
Speaker 1: to be in class, oh yeah, see breath punky, no
Speaker 1: tongue tongue when it wasn't because that y'all know. Tongue
Speaker 1: reings will make your breath funky if you don't break.
Speaker 1: Don't know how the first like you know you had one? Yes,
Speaker 1: I just said I had my tongue, people, bitch, I
Speaker 1: kept it for like a year or two. And then
Speaker 1: she got because you know, because the pluss would come
Speaker 1: from your tongue, your tongue ring was effected. Why was it?
Speaker 1: That's what your ship was, Foster, He's like, hey, y'all,
Speaker 1: I never had a pussy tongue. Me. I was like
Speaker 1: the hall of plussy tongue. You wouldn't bush you you
Speaker 1: haven't had a but yeah, but I'm not trying to
Speaker 1: be funny like a lot of you them that say,
Speaker 1: you know fat those people. Everybody, well, a lot of
Speaker 1: people had the tongue like the tongue ring circle was
Speaker 1: Funky Brick who he was a pusy was fm C
Speaker 1: coming funky mouth click. I never had like I remember,
Speaker 1: I didn't keep it in that long. I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: lie because it hurts so bad. And it was, oh
Speaker 1: my god alone, I don't know my tongue used to
Speaker 1: be swollen that because I'm buck my tongue.
Speaker 2: Fair, I'm like.
Speaker 1: Then lingering. And then so I had my tongue ring
Speaker 1: in the parking lot, eat my Big Max with the
Speaker 1: nigga that bit. Maybe it was the Big Max sauce
Speaker 1: and nigga, and he said, bring the lit the leader
Speaker 1: of the punk mouth click.
Speaker 2: I want the leader that Nigga puts something of your
Speaker 2: big mabach.
Speaker 1: Oh my god. I just remember like I didn't like
Speaker 1: my tongue ring. I didn't because I thought maybe it
Speaker 1: wasn't but you know what I think it was. But
Speaker 1: I have a short tongue, so maybe he hear something
Speaker 1: under that, you know that what's that little thing? Something?
Speaker 2: He hit something, Bitch, he hit something.
Speaker 1: Bitch said knows no.
Speaker 2: Was affected because it wasn't mine.
Speaker 1: That was a me where she thought we was all
Speaker 1: about the bond. No, no, I know.
Speaker 2: I remember my tongue like plussing up.
Speaker 1: It was bad experience with piercing too, because I still
Speaker 1: have these scars. I have like a snake bike because
Speaker 1: I went through my EMO era, so I had everything pierced.
Speaker 1: I had like a thing in my chest. I had
Speaker 1: bars in my through it. But I remember like getting
Speaker 1: my lip pierced, and like my piercing like sunk in
Speaker 1: and my skin was like growing over my piercing. I've
Speaker 1: had a bad experience, but I got my belly button
Speaker 1: ring in high school. I was my body rejected it
Speaker 1: because I was I was playing volleyball. I used to
Speaker 1: play volleyball, and literally I slid across the corn and
Speaker 1: ripped out. O girl, I had, I had funky breath,
Speaker 1: I messed up belly button, skin growing over my piercing,
Speaker 1: and then I had the nurse to be like turn
Speaker 1: around and tonight is around and get out through it.
Speaker 1: Y'all be're trying to laugh at me. Yeah, rode home.
Speaker 1: But I thought this was a safe No, bitch, no,
Speaker 1: it was not like bitch you by yourself. I don't
Speaker 1: know what I was going.
Speaker 2: And yeah, that was that little bitch you by your.
Speaker 1: Your fucking tongue. Hours I had a little crust on it,
Speaker 1: a little round O god, funny. Okay, what's up? Bey
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Speaker 1: How do we first?
Speaker 4: Real quick though, how did we start talking about thinking
Speaker 4: tongue rings?
Speaker 1: We're supposed to be talking about being dumb in love?
Speaker 2: How did we get there from that?
Speaker 1: Today?
Speaker 2: All, let me talk butterfly.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we were talking about the tongue that I was
Speaker 1: talking about, and then I said I did too, and
Speaker 1: the lex is like, I don't know knowledge.
Speaker 2: Can I have another one?
Speaker 1: Please? Okay? So the topic go ahead, Dre.
Speaker 4: All right, but the six topics we want to talk
Speaker 4: about using lube and does using lube me yo coochie trash.
Speaker 1: Mhm, y'all want.
Speaker 2: To embarrass me again?
Speaker 3: Okay, so only because listen and I did not think
Speaker 3: this was the thing. And I'm being very transparent.
Speaker 1: Even if you left, I promise you I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: be made.
Speaker 2: We're probably gonna laugh.
Speaker 1: Warm me up first, buck, I'm sorry, Warm up, bitch.
Speaker 1: Got so when I have my daughter in twenty nineteen,
Speaker 1: I you bitches fake you say we try to be
Speaker 1: underhead me and I.
Speaker 2: Got into twenty nineteen, I got some health issues.
Speaker 1: I got dianosed with epilepsy, fucking adrening a whole.
Speaker 2: Lot of shit. I gotta take a whole lot of medication.
Speaker 3: Right, So, I don't have a normal period. Right so
Speaker 3: I was told by my doctor, by me not having
Speaker 3: a normal period, it may affect my wetness a little,
Speaker 3: right because they said the period, you know, clean your body.
Speaker 1: Yeah right now, I don't know how true it is.
Speaker 1: All I know is I asked, bitch, what's what's going on?
Speaker 3: Like, I know I'm antracted to my nigga, I'm gonna
Speaker 3: tract to this that like even when I masturbate, Like,
Speaker 3: what's going on, and she's like, well, you haven't had
Speaker 3: a periody no, but.
Speaker 2: Year, I'm okay, what does that mean? You know?
Speaker 1: So I had like a year.
Speaker 3: Where I had to use loube because of I didn't
Speaker 3: have a men strew and I was like a little
Speaker 3: you know, and and I had to.
Speaker 1: I had to because what was going on with her
Speaker 1: was the true true I wasn't trying to be funny.
Speaker 1: How people will understand what?
Speaker 3: Because I listen, I started joining groups to see is
Speaker 3: it's around my body?
Speaker 1: Do I am I just not attracted or is it
Speaker 1: because I'm.
Speaker 2: I'm I'm I needs to be miss.
Speaker 1: Like you had that what happened? So I want a
Speaker 1: year with like some some dryness because of a year
Speaker 1: and this year.
Speaker 2: So bad.
Speaker 1: Listen, I'm being honest. Listen, that's all. It's pretty busy.
Speaker 1: I'm no. See, That's why I'm trying to make it
Speaker 1: relatable because she's really speaking people right, but she ain't
Speaker 1: gotta relate. Somebody gonna relate to me because I'm saying,
Speaker 1: I'm in a Facebook group, a lot of droll Facebook.
Speaker 2: We gotta draws Facebook.
Speaker 1: Listen, it's not me no more, but I still stay
Speaker 1: in in case I drop back into the error.
Speaker 2: But what was going on?
Speaker 1: The lady the doctor said it's because I don't have
Speaker 1: a menstrum, okay, and that that was the issue. And
Speaker 1: once I got my menstru back, I feel like, well, maybe.
Speaker 2: She was right because now I'm back pussy, you know.
Speaker 3: And and the thing is, I was so happy that
Speaker 3: it happened in my relationship because whatever if I was
Speaker 3: out being free niggas like, I'm like, I was committing
Speaker 3: my nigga, like, oh, thank you for tucking.
Speaker 1: It with me. Doesn't shown.
Speaker 3: Had to We had to do so much to jump started,
Speaker 3: Like my gosh, but that's but that's really though.
Speaker 1: It was like ten ten months. It was a long
Speaker 1: it was a long time to no no bitch.
Speaker 2: Let's see, I thought they was making some wores goodbye.
Speaker 3: Listen.
Speaker 2: I'm glad.
Speaker 1: I'm glad I had a nigga that you said this face.
Speaker 2: I'm glad, I'm glad I got a.
Speaker 1: Nigga that understore because let's talk about it. And he
Speaker 1: made sure he got it with, he made sure he
Speaker 1: stayed with.
Speaker 2: And I skeeping nigga.
Speaker 3: She don't got no problems with that coaching now right,
Speaker 3: It's just I'm just glad I had a problem. You're
Speaker 3: wad I had a rough patch while I was in
Speaker 3: a relationship, and that's what I'm saying. But honestly, I
Speaker 3: think you need to talk about that because everybody want
Speaker 3: to talk about our stuff with I got that gripple
Speaker 3: in that case.
Speaker 1: Everybody has that, and everybody has that, and it's okay.
Speaker 1: I think it's okay to use loube. Okay to use loube.
Speaker 1: It depends what's going on, especially quokie right right quick,
Speaker 1: you know, real quick.
Speaker 2: Or maybe he's a guy that wants to go two
Speaker 2: or three rounds and.
Speaker 4: But she went through something though, do y'all drop kuchie.
Speaker 4: It's hereditary like naturally because some people.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 3: Listen me, listen, I'm gonna ask listen me dealing with
Speaker 3: both sides of the fence, having dry cat, what you
Speaker 3: mean both sides of the fence, both sides been on
Speaker 3: both sides, on both sides you.
Speaker 1: Be eating coochie super No, she mean Mitch her Cuchie
Speaker 1: was weg and I'm not you dealt with.
Speaker 2: Like no, let's just right, So that's right.
Speaker 1: So me me dealing with women women be having dry
Speaker 1: catch a very young age.
Speaker 3: Okay, so I think I don't know if it's a
Speaker 3: hereditary bot, but it made me think now in my thirties,
Speaker 3: maybe she had something going on, like maybe she you know,
Speaker 3: maybe she did have minstrel or maybe something right, or
Speaker 3: maybe she just wasn't really in it and she thought
Speaker 3: she was.
Speaker 2: She was testing it.
Speaker 3: I don't know, because you kick it if you turned on, correct, right,
Speaker 3: So maybe she wasn't turned I was looking.
Speaker 1: But honestly, with the vagina, the way the vagina works,
Speaker 1: if anything is inserting the vagina, it's a natural thing
Speaker 1: for your it to produce something and yet in the inside.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but wet puss is it be all outside?
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I'm saying. If you're turned on, it's
Speaker 1: a little more. But it's a body's natural reaction to
Speaker 1: what even over there laughing hobby, what's funny, hobby, freak,
Speaker 1: don't give you mess some we some dry pussls. You
Speaker 1: gotta on it. You gotta spit on it. House is
Speaker 1: gonna get with you. Gotta spit on it special if
Speaker 1: you ain't got no lube. But honestly, I feel like
Speaker 1: if a woman has a dry vagina, it probably is
Speaker 1: something medical, because, like I said, it's a body's natural
Speaker 1: thing lubricating yourself. And I'm not saying like when you're
Speaker 1: turned on. It's a different type of wet. It's different
Speaker 1: type of way. It's when something inserts into the vagina.
Speaker 1: It's a natural The body's natural reaction to that mac
Speaker 1: and cheese is because something is insers, something that's penetrating.
Speaker 1: So even if they dried, they still may have a
Speaker 1: mac and cheese because the whole thing is that they
Speaker 1: got mac and cheese that they put the No, bitch,
Speaker 1: you just got a natural being wet on our side.
Speaker 2: Right.
Speaker 1: Right, So, bitch, do you still make mac and cheese
Speaker 1: with spaghetti noodles? It's a New Orleans thing. We got
Speaker 1: to what you mean because I remember her cooking on.
Speaker 3: Yes, bitch, okay, it's a New Orleans thing. I don't
Speaker 3: like that because you're from fucking.
Speaker 4: I'm used to I'm used to mac and cheese with spaghetti.
Speaker 4: But my family is from Louisiana, so it's my it's
Speaker 4: what my.
Speaker 1: Auntie used to make. She made elbow spaghetti, and.
Speaker 2: Not where your family was from from open from Vanacha.
Speaker 1: That's when Louisiana.
Speaker 2: People make it with who're making with spaghetti noodles? Some
Speaker 2: make it, but a lot of us make it with spaghetti.
Speaker 1: I don't like that. Why, it's just like what do
Speaker 1: you give you? What you give you? TRAINI yes, chicken
Speaker 1: spaghetti with no chicken.
Speaker 2: Look a chicken spaghetti. You never had chicken tetrasini. That
Speaker 2: sounds like a jump park.
Speaker 1: It's basically like a cheese a cheesy and it has
Speaker 1: like peppers chicken ch my jumble like pasta bitch kanda. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but we don't got cheese any.
Speaker 2: I don't have cheese any my jumbalayapasta? What's your what's
Speaker 2: your mpasta? Bitch?
Speaker 3: You said you was following gen sausage is sausage chicken
Speaker 3: sausage chicken, but said one ing green and that's enough Alfredo,
Speaker 3: and we mixed with red sauce like dice tomeatles marin Arrow. Okay, okay,
Speaker 3: the jump lif if possible, afraid will be okay?
Speaker 2: Okay that you want to cook for us one day?
Speaker 2: I am, okay, I am, I'm coming to your house.
Speaker 2: I'm not kidding.
Speaker 1: So my friends, we are planning a trip in January
Speaker 1: to go to New Orleans, Al really Uary. Well, my friends,
Speaker 1: it's my friends from high school.
Speaker 2: Okay, it's in January. We're just going to go.
Speaker 1: It's actually one of her daughter's birthday, so we're just
Speaker 1: all doing like a hobby. But I'm a sneak off
Speaker 1: and I'm going to I am, and you think I'm playing,
Speaker 1: but like, but you really should.
Speaker 2: You're rid some jumper.
Speaker 1: I'm coming period, were don't I'm serious, bitch, don't plea
Speaker 1: but real, don't come.
Speaker 2: I'm ready.
Speaker 1: I'm ready for the hookah.
Speaker 2: God, you don't even smoke hoockah. About to wait smo
Speaker 2: hook in my house.
Speaker 1: She don't smoke cooker, neither one of us. We gave
Speaker 1: up hookah. I haven't smoked hooker in two years. But
Speaker 1: on god, I'm a pore.
Speaker 2: Pull up the tweet right.
Speaker 1: Now the last time. You don't mean you didn't smoke
Speaker 1: it after I never I didn't have smoke hookah in
Speaker 1: Turks on my mother that was open in two years,
Speaker 1: not either nothing. I don't like it.
Speaker 2: It literally makes me so.
Speaker 4: I haven't smoking it almost a year, way before nicotine hookah.
Speaker 1: But you know what it is. If it's making you sick,
Speaker 1: you guys try to black smoke, then I think for me, Yeah,
Speaker 1: people about that, if it's making you sick, was singing on, Yes,
Speaker 1: smoking make you sick, I don't do who who It's
Speaker 1: been two years.
Speaker 4: I haven't smoked hooka in like almost a year, but no,
Speaker 4: I was it is the long time. But I didn't
Speaker 4: used to like the way it would make me feel
Speaker 4: the next morning. I didn't like the way you black
Speaker 4: smooth and you'll be smoking black smoke.
Speaker 1: You could put yes, he said, he said, the hookah
Speaker 1: pants and the sha. I don't, I don't. I don't smoke.
Speaker 2: I don't want to walk off smelling like watermelon.
Speaker 1: Min I got my perfume on. I get you. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. I need to smell good. Well
Speaker 1: that's what it's all fruit, So you can smell like
Speaker 1: fruit fruit and hold like like that. Bitch, you're gonna
Speaker 1: try this black smoke. You're gonna try to breathe.
Speaker 2: I've never headache.
Speaker 1: You're not gonna be still sick. But you know what,
Speaker 1: it's not even I Smoke is not supposed to be
Speaker 1: in your lungs.
Speaker 2: But say that what start with that beach? Okay, stop
Speaker 2: with that don't start with the fruit and all that
Speaker 2: with that beach.
Speaker 1: Okay, I would have I would have been shut up,
Speaker 1: things first open, Okay, But I get that almost around
Speaker 1: the time I had stopped smoking hookah, though I was
Speaker 1: really sick and I didn't know what it was. I
Speaker 1: had low iron so literally I would like walk to
Speaker 1: the shower and I couldn't breathe, So I was like,
Speaker 1: is it the hookah? I didn't know what it was
Speaker 1: because I had gotten really, really fun and sick, So
Speaker 1: that's what really made me stop smoking it. But it
Speaker 1: was just like, Okay, I'm not smoking it no more. Now.
Speaker 2: Me being sick had nothing to do with the hookah.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna I'm gonna support your you know, I don't
Speaker 2: do it.
Speaker 1: You don't want to push nothing at this point, it's
Speaker 1: nothing to support. It's just like like how some people
Speaker 1: are just.
Speaker 2: Vegans or they don't eat something it's not but.
Speaker 1: Imagine say you're vegan us, but trying to support y'all.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna try it.
Speaker 1: Ain't never heard, ain't never hurt nobody. Black smoke ain't
Speaker 1: never hurt nobody, hurt nobody.
Speaker 4: No, So y'all, this is the question that I had
Speaker 4: because I'm not gonna had a conversation about these huh
Speaker 4: years ago on the show. We was like, if you
Speaker 4: if we saw my squirting, and we was like, if
Speaker 4: you squirt, it's your grannie fault, it's your your grannie.
Speaker 2: Squirting is hereditary?
Speaker 1: Yeah, is it? Yeah? Honestly, that's why we said, that's
Speaker 1: why you have the plastic on the sofa.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you think about it, No, think about all that
Speaker 2: follow house sitting on the Granted, had my grandma had
Speaker 2: it on that.
Speaker 1: Because she didn't want your next days hopping on the
Speaker 1: Or your grandma had all them kids because she wasn't
Speaker 1: sucking dick. That's why, bitch, your grandma had all them children.
Speaker 1: Think about what's up y'all at your girl XP and
Speaker 1: it's your girls.
Speaker 2: Ran a call and.
Speaker 1: Y'all do not forget to call our shot line. I
Speaker 1: know you heard of a hot line, but this is
Speaker 1: the poor mind's shot line.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we love to hear from y'all.
Speaker 4: Y'all need to call in, y'all, And this is not
Speaker 4: necessarily for questions, you know, we just want to hear
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Speaker 4: thoughts on the show, or just what's going on in
Speaker 4: your life, so you can always call six seven eight
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Speaker 1: Yes, and y'all know, keep it short and cute. Don't
Speaker 1: be calling and letting us know about your baby daddy,
Speaker 1: says a brother, cousin, boyfriend. Okay, well I want to
Speaker 1: hear about that. Actually, well you know they can let
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Speaker 1: so real quick, I want to shout out, y'all. I
Speaker 1: just got my hair done yesterday. I want to shout
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Speaker 4: Yes, and I need to shout out mused because I
Speaker 4: meant to girl, I had a long night last night,
Speaker 4: but I meant wabbling up.
Speaker 1: I had a long I had a long.
Speaker 2: Light last night. I had intention on bringing you some
Speaker 2: of my Cosmitties lines because I.
Speaker 1: Have a lip gloss. But I'm gonna send it to you.
Speaker 1: The Queen need to get your mailing. Yeah, send it
Speaker 1: to me. I'm gonna send you mine. I'm gonna get
Speaker 1: your mailing. No, actually i'll drop it off. I'll hand
Speaker 1: deliver it because I'm going to her house and well,
Speaker 1: I'm probably get.
Speaker 2: Tickets and black smooth. I'm gonna come smoke that black
Speaker 2: smoke exactly I am.
Speaker 1: It ain't got no niggotine, not no nicotine. Really, it
Speaker 1: just tastes like fruit. I'm gonna try.
Speaker 4: Okay, So what I'm gonna send you some some used
Speaker 4: I'm okay.
Speaker 1: So real quick because I feel like when you I
Speaker 1: just want to ask this before we move on. Because
Speaker 1: there's a lot of makeup people who are doing makeup
Speaker 1: right now, they have cosmetic signs. Drea has a cosmetic line,
Speaker 1: and there's so many right now. So what advice could
Speaker 1: you give to like Dre or anybody else out there
Speaker 1: that has a cosmetic line, Like, what advice do you
Speaker 1: have for like marketing and how to stick out and
Speaker 1: be successful, especially in twenty twenty four.
Speaker 3: So marketing, you definitely got to build you a community
Speaker 3: in the marketing I think that's the best thing could
Speaker 3: have done in the Crown case when we built the community.
Speaker 2: Like I don't know how many.
Speaker 1: Followers you're but you already have poor minds. So that's
Speaker 1: that's bigger.
Speaker 3: Yeah, right, So when you build a community, you gotta
Speaker 3: you gotta work with them under them underdogs be so ready.
Speaker 1: Like they be, so they just be ready to work.
Speaker 1: That's a smaller influence, smaller influence, Like they ain't got
Speaker 1: no more than ten thousand followers.
Speaker 2: You got more follows than them already.
Speaker 1: What you could give them is marketing, exposure and products,
Speaker 1: free product.
Speaker 2: That's what you.
Speaker 1: Can get them off the bank, and that's all they
Speaker 1: that's all they want.
Speaker 3: They want to be seen, they want to be heard,
Speaker 3: and they want their conscious to be appreciated.
Speaker 2: So when they give you content like you, you don't
Speaker 2: got time to do your makeup every day.
Speaker 1: You don't have the time.
Speaker 2: But if you build your community, what's your brand called?
Speaker 1: Music?
Speaker 2: Music beauty? Music beauty?
Speaker 1: Okay, so you gotta come up with something for your community.
Speaker 1: Wy use, muse. You gotta come up with a name
Speaker 1: for them. I don't know music, I don't know something.
Speaker 1: Come up with a name for them. The followers, the squad,
Speaker 1: let's say you let's say you call it squallowers right now, okay,
Speaker 1: the let's say, just speaking off off the top, you
Speaker 1: call them that, and then you send them free products
Speaker 1: and they got like five thousand followers, and then all
Speaker 1: they wanted to do is do a video using your products,
Speaker 1: and then you post them so you have the most
Speaker 1: You have more followers than every every last one of them.
Speaker 3: But then when you market them, you give them free products,
Speaker 3: and you are giving them exposures to other brands, because
Speaker 3: other makeup brands follow you.
Speaker 2: Don't think they don't they do.
Speaker 1: They're watching you.
Speaker 2: They keep it up.
Speaker 1: You're gonna notice when you start a community and then
Speaker 1: these bigger brands.
Speaker 2: Start still in your fucking community.
Speaker 1: That's when you're gonna notice it, right, And that's the
Speaker 1: best way to market without you really coming out of
Speaker 1: your pocket.
Speaker 2: The most you going out your pocket is your.
Speaker 1: Products, right, and that works so well. I already had
Speaker 1: the big following. I came out with the courts. I
Speaker 1: worked with micro influencers.
Speaker 3: They was hungry, like they was tired of being overlooked
Speaker 3: by big brands because they didn't have the following. I
Speaker 3: had the follow and they didn't, So I market them
Speaker 3: to other brands because I knew a lot of makeup brands.
Speaker 2: Is following me.
Speaker 1: Same with you.
Speaker 3: You got a big podcast, you got a lot going on,
Speaker 3: and you're marketing to people that have never seen him,
Speaker 3: never heard of them.
Speaker 2: That's all they want.
Speaker 3: They just want to be seen and recognized. So build
Speaker 3: your community, send them products. They're gonna give you all
Speaker 3: the content in the world. They're gonna be loyalty. They're
Speaker 3: gonna send you all the content. And you got that's
Speaker 3: content the posts for weeks months. It's not enough contents
Speaker 3: you could do.
Speaker 1: Don't got enough time to be in the studio adding
Speaker 1: no fucking doing no photos.
Speaker 2: You don't have enough time to do that.
Speaker 1: You got your podcast, you got too much going on,
Speaker 1: trying to be asking you got too much going on
Speaker 1: for you to be at the damn studios trying to
Speaker 1: do product photos.
Speaker 2: They got girls that's gonna do.
Speaker 1: Product photos for you because they want to get reposted.
Speaker 3: So you find people like that and you build that community,
Speaker 3: you give them a name, just because they love feeling
Speaker 3: a part of something. They love being a part of
Speaker 3: the community and market, and don't don't care about the
Speaker 3: bigger brands.
Speaker 1: The bigger brand they're going to steal. But the thing is,
Speaker 1: there's gonna be more micro influences every day. A new
Speaker 1: micro influence is fucking born.
Speaker 3: So once that once you create that influence and they
Speaker 3: become bigger and they move on to a bigger brand. Okay, boom,
Speaker 3: you got another one that got five thousands. Never did
Speaker 3: The cycle never ends.
Speaker 1: If you're focused on the micro influencers, catered to the
Speaker 1: micro influencers, there wouldn't be the one that's gonna cater
Speaker 1: to you. They're gonna love you because you are. You
Speaker 1: see them, You see them like you know what they're doing,
Speaker 1: like you know what they're trying to do. They're trying
Speaker 1: to get big, they're trying to trying to work a
Speaker 1: brands big in your brand.
Speaker 2: Don't feel played by that.
Speaker 1: That's okay. Yeah, they will have another small influences gonna
Speaker 1: work on me too.
Speaker 2: So build your community.
Speaker 1: That's that's the main thing that's really gonna be nice.
Speaker 4: I never thought about that because I think even when
Speaker 4: I think about getting brand ambassadors and stuff, because I
Speaker 4: was talking to my social media manager about that earlier
Speaker 4: this week and I was just like, I think, you know,
Speaker 4: twenty twenty five, I really want to focus on trying
Speaker 4: to get brand and baskets, but we're thinking about all
Speaker 4: of these like big people that I should start sending
Speaker 4: products expending PR boxes too.
Speaker 3: Yeah, unless they're gonna take the PR box and shout
Speaker 3: out for free, but they're.
Speaker 1: Gonna charge you fifty thousand dollars because.
Speaker 2: That's what they be charging.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I worked, I worked with a few of them.
Speaker 2: I don't see how they do it.
Speaker 4: Like, but did you feel like when you did work, No,
Speaker 4: you got a big no looks of orders.
Speaker 1: No.
Speaker 3: No, And that's and that's my I'm not saying that's
Speaker 3: gonna be it's my experience, my experience, I think because
Speaker 3: I already created the crowunk case because who I am.
Speaker 2: I was the first influencer.
Speaker 3: I was the first big influence on the pronkis because
Speaker 3: I wouldn't work with an influence that was bigger than me.
Speaker 2: It didn't matter.
Speaker 1: I'm already that girl. Yeah.
Speaker 3: I've worked with a lot of influences with the cronks,
Speaker 3: but the bigger they were, the less I profited from them.
Speaker 4: I feel you on that thought, because I was just
Speaker 4: because you know, Black Friday, Soyber Monday passed not that
Speaker 4: long ago, and I made a lot of money from
Speaker 4: Black Friday and Cyber Monday. But it was I didn't
Speaker 4: even do like, no real promotion, Like it literally was
Speaker 4: from the ad that we started in the show, the
Speaker 4: podcast me all live every day for the whole four days.
Speaker 1: You stole it yourself basically, right, That's what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: which means you you are your first influences.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's that's what I'm saying. Like, so imagine if
Speaker 2: you'll go work.
Speaker 3: With somebody that's that you you feel like in your
Speaker 3: mind is bigger than you because they have more problems,
Speaker 3: they're on the blogs more, they got a lot more
Speaker 3: going on, and then when you post them, but your followers.
Speaker 2: But I won't see drill. I won't see that drill.
Speaker 2: I won't see this drill.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, so like that's how they look at it,
Speaker 3: Like you could, you could work with whatever like it.
Speaker 3: It's more of a flex than I'm making money from it. Yeah,
Speaker 3: So if you want to look cool for the look,
Speaker 3: but if you're doing it for the money.
Speaker 1: Okay, work with the micro influence.
Speaker 2: They bring the most money.
Speaker 3: They're bringing the So what's next for you with what
Speaker 3: do you want to do? But we're dropping more products.
Speaker 3: I stopped launching new products after I launched my last product.
Speaker 3: It was the News of the World collection that was
Speaker 3: like two years ago. I think, so now I'm about
Speaker 3: to really like stay. I used talking about products every month,
Speaker 3: like it was non stop our products, and I stopped
Speaker 3: it because.
Speaker 2: I'm like, well, maybe I'm maybe I'm dropping too soon,
Speaker 2: maybe I'm dropping too much.
Speaker 1: I thought that was a bad thing, but really that
Speaker 1: was a good thing because I was on top of
Speaker 1: new ship. Yeah, so I stopped that. For like these
Speaker 1: past three years, I probably only dropped a new product
Speaker 1: like twice for years, like I dropped a whole collection
Speaker 1: and then before that I dropped two products. So I
Speaker 1: only dropped like eight products in three years, and that's
Speaker 1: that's wild for me. I used to drop products in
Speaker 1: a few months.
Speaker 3: So next I'm going back to the basic what I
Speaker 3: was doing before that worked for me, instead of me
Speaker 3: trying to drift.
Speaker 1: Off something new, I'm gonna go back to what I
Speaker 1: was doing. I'm gonna go back to my cro cuties.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna go back to my me dropping non stop
Speaker 3: products and see and see if that's gonna continue to
Speaker 3: work for me.
Speaker 1: Like we gotta drop foundations, drop new more ship, So
Speaker 1: I'm gonna just see that works for me. I think
Speaker 1: foundations would be dope.
Speaker 4: People always be asking me that, they'd be like, you
Speaker 4: eventually want to come out with foundation and stuff, and
Speaker 4: I always be like, yeah, I do.
Speaker 1: It's hard.
Speaker 2: It is found understand that, Yeah it is, because.
Speaker 4: I feel like you really got to come up with
Speaker 4: like a good you don't want to you don't want
Speaker 4: people putting ship on.
Speaker 1: It and break them out, and you gotta get ridiculed.
Speaker 1: You wanna come out with enough shades?
Speaker 4: Yeah, then you gotta said it's just hard. But do
Speaker 4: you do you eventually want to get into like stores
Speaker 4: like support real ALTI I was in Walmart.
Speaker 1: I'm Amazon, okay, so Walmart was cool. Probably probably one
Speaker 1: of my biggest downfalls in business.
Speaker 3: Wow, girl, I think once you hop in stores, you
Speaker 3: gotta be ready for stores.
Speaker 4: And if you're not ready, it's gonna it's gonna fuck you.
Speaker 4: Like as far as what like keeping the stock.
Speaker 3: Keeping in the stock like Walmart want the order when
Speaker 3: they want, they fucking order. Yeah, one want said, but
Speaker 3: I want ten thousand palates. They want ten thousand palaces.
Speaker 3: If you don't get into ten thousand palates, they're gonna
Speaker 3: penalize you. So you gotta pay them for not giving
Speaker 3: them ten thousand palates. So now and be my by
Speaker 3: me being a self funded business, I don't have no business.
Speaker 2: I'm I'm the soul. This is my money inside of
Speaker 2: my business.
Speaker 1: Yea.
Speaker 3: So now I gotta fund Walmart. I gotta fund me.
Speaker 3: So I got to keep walking and start and me
Speaker 3: and started, But I ain't got enough money. Yeah, I
Speaker 3: mean not having investors.
Speaker 1: I think I think the black community made investors look
Speaker 1: so bad for black businesses, and that's not what it is. Like.
Speaker 3: We should be seeking investors, we should be looking for
Speaker 3: We should not be spending our own money on our businesses.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: White folks don't do it all right people money Yeah,
Speaker 3: white folks, and they're not about to drop a dominating
Speaker 3: money on their business. They're walking in like, but I
Speaker 3: need your money.
Speaker 1: I need your money and your money and once I
Speaker 1: get your money, cool, then I'm start the business. Like
Speaker 1: they're not spending their own money. And I feel like
Speaker 1: the black community like soon as the black business is
Speaker 1: getting investors, soon as the black soon as a black
Speaker 1: business selling company, they look at like, oh you sellout,
Speaker 1: No bitch, I'm scaling.
Speaker 2: I'm trying to do more. I was, I'm trying to
Speaker 2: get bigger. Yeah, you're trying to get their rooms are
Speaker 2: not in. I'm telling you.
Speaker 4: Literally, our social media manager she in here right now.
Speaker 4: Me and her was just having this conversation the other day.
Speaker 4: I was like, twenty twenty five, my goal is to
Speaker 4: like gain more capital outside of my money, yeah, so
Speaker 4: that I can really scale the business, yeah real and
Speaker 4: really have more money to invest, have more money to
Speaker 4: pay brand and bad.
Speaker 2: Because not how far can you go buy.
Speaker 4: Way more inventto it because it's like how far I
Speaker 4: would really just funded anybody yourself exactly.
Speaker 1: But then like you said, people will look at you
Speaker 1: like you if you sell top or are you sell
Speaker 1: to also, are you sales in any of these like
Speaker 1: bigger brands, they be looking at you like you would
Speaker 1: sell out. But it's like people really don't understand how
Speaker 1: much it takes to really run a business.
Speaker 2: Yes, scilly and too funded. Yes, if you don't have hell.
Speaker 3: You basically every every time you make, if you don't
Speaker 3: put it back into your brain, you're not making the money.
Speaker 1: Yep.
Speaker 3: Because now if I made if you made a hundred
Speaker 3: thousand dollars for Black Friday, you gotta put all that
Speaker 3: back into your brain.
Speaker 4: Ye, but oh you made one hundred thousand dollars, that's
Speaker 4: no bitch.
Speaker 2: I gotta put it back into my brain.
Speaker 1: How make money? Exactly?
Speaker 3: I gotta put all this back into my brain because
Speaker 3: if I bought a thousand of these products, now I
Speaker 3: gotta buy three thousands.
Speaker 2: So I gotta put this back into my business to.
Speaker 4: Buy three thouds because now it's way more people watching,
Speaker 4: it's way more people buying.
Speaker 1: I have to buy.
Speaker 3: So you know, I didn't make a thousand dollars, the
Speaker 3: business did, and now I gotta put that back into
Speaker 3: the business. And I feel like entrepreneur would never a
Speaker 3: person that's non entrepreneur would never understand that.
Speaker 1: So they're the ones that's judging the entrepreneurs, saying, oh
Speaker 1: you you this, and you that you sold out and
Speaker 1: you're just like, bitch, I'm doing this by.
Speaker 2: Myself, bitch. I didn't got no investors.
Speaker 1: I don't got no I don't got nobody that It's
Speaker 1: just me, even you got employees, your the money's part,
Speaker 1: it is just you. The capital is just you. If
Speaker 1: you only put your own money and so, like I didn't,
Speaker 1: once you get an investor. The crown Case made fifty
Speaker 1: million dollars. Fifty million dollars, that's amazing, Yes, but I did.
Speaker 1: I did all I could do. Yeah, I put all
Speaker 1: put my whole fucking foot. If you try to steal
Speaker 1: it to a billion dollars, you need in.
Speaker 3: I need investors, I cannot. I have nothing else to
Speaker 3: give you, bitch. Yeah, I didn't give my business my
Speaker 3: whole ass. Now I need something more.
Speaker 1: But you won't give that man. Never mind what what
Speaker 1: you won't get that man as wall up bitch. She
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Speaker 4: First, I want to thank y'all for creating such an
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Speaker 4: I will forever give y'all y'all flowers today. Okay, I'm
Speaker 4: going to try to make this the shortest possible.
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Speaker 4: So, my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost
Speaker 4: six months now and things are starting to get super serious.
Speaker 4: He is literally the guy I've always dreamed of and wanted.
Speaker 4: Now here's the kicker. He has a son, and the
Speaker 4: mother of his son and I went to middle school together.
Speaker 4: We were cool and hung out in school.
Speaker 1: Sometimes, I've known both of them for about the same
Speaker 1: amount of time, but I was always closer to him.
Speaker 2: However, we never dated or anything.
Speaker 1: Like that back then.
Speaker 4: Fast forward, six years after graduating, he and I started
Speaker 4: hanging out, keeping in touch, and eventually really hit it off.
Speaker 1: We've been together ever since.
Speaker 4: Nobody really knows about us because we're super private, but
Speaker 4: I told him I think he's babies. Mother should know
Speaker 4: since I'm around their son alife. His son is six
Speaker 4: years old going on seven, so they had him pretty young.
Speaker 4: When he explained to her that we're in a serious relationship,
Speaker 4: she was very upset. She feels like I owe her
Speaker 4: loyalty because we were once friends in school. She also
Speaker 4: mentioned how we're acting like we've been friends this whole time,
Speaker 4: which isn't true. I haven't really spoken to her since
Speaker 4: before graduating, and it wasn't like we were besties. Now
Speaker 4: that she's trying to stop him from seeing his son
Speaker 4: because she doesn't want me around their child, I know
Speaker 4: how much he cherishes being a dad, and I don't
Speaker 4: want to come between that.
Speaker 1: I've been thinking.
Speaker 4: About walking away from the relationship for the sake of
Speaker 4: him and his son. He doesn't want to end things
Speaker 4: with me, and it's willing to take her to court
Speaker 4: if she doesn't let go soon. But I don't want
Speaker 4: to be the cause of all this drama to stop
Speaker 4: him from being an active father. Honestly, in this case,
Speaker 4: what would y'all do? Sorry, y'all tried to keep it short.
Speaker 4: I just wanted to give details.
Speaker 1: Bitch.
Speaker 3: He gonna deal with that again some else. Yeah, So, bitch,
Speaker 3: exactly stand outside that nigga, because he's going to deal
Speaker 3: with that with something. She's gonna find another issue something.
Speaker 1: Oh, I bitch.
Speaker 2: I don't like the way I saw you in Live.
Speaker 2: You was driving off crazy.
Speaker 3: I don't want you roll my children, no, bitch, So
Speaker 3: he needs to set that boundary a sat bitch.
Speaker 1: If y'all y'all was cool, I don't know what you
Speaker 1: was cool when in school we spoke to price the
Speaker 1: pictures with that? Was it like I was cool with
Speaker 1: Drake in school? I'll be like were. I don't know
Speaker 1: you like that.
Speaker 2: I've never been in your house, you never been to mind.
Speaker 2: I don't know your mama name, only your birthday.
Speaker 1: Bit you on the mind.
Speaker 2: I don't know your last How are we friends?
Speaker 3: How are we not friends like they love to proclaim
Speaker 3: that friend called when the nigga, I'm not your friend.
Speaker 2: He gonna deal with that.
Speaker 1: Again down the line.
Speaker 3: He needs to set that shit straightened now and she
Speaker 3: need to stand on side him while you set that
Speaker 3: you're straight.
Speaker 1: Don't don't don't give your nigga back, bitch.
Speaker 4: But you know what's crazy though, she said that in
Speaker 4: a message, she said she feels like I owe her
Speaker 4: loyalty because we were friends in school.
Speaker 1: But then she was like. She also mentioned we're acting
Speaker 1: like we've always been friends this whole time.
Speaker 2: She didn't flip it, understand, but so which one?
Speaker 1: Is it not friends? Or are we friends? If you
Speaker 1: feel like Lily.
Speaker 3: Because the girls put it in her mind. No, she
Speaker 3: could be flipping because the girl put in her mind,
Speaker 3: or she could feel like there was friends. But they
Speaker 3: haven't talked since graduation.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: How old are they because if.
Speaker 1: They I don't think Yeah, she didn't say, but she
Speaker 1: said that they had they son young means she said that.
Speaker 2: The son is six going on seven, But they do
Speaker 2: that mean what he had missed, m M.
Speaker 1: I feel like the bigger lesson is for him to
Speaker 1: set them boundaries. He said he doesn't realize that even
Speaker 1: if he's not with you gonna deal with afterwards, shes
Speaker 1: gonna find a problem with her.
Speaker 2: She needs to heal and move on until he's.
Speaker 1: Gonna have a healthy relationship. Agree. Yeah, like she can't
Speaker 1: run his love life. And there's nothing that the girlfriend
Speaker 1: can do. Like you're the girlfriend, don't stretch yourself out.
Speaker 1: He's gonna have to do what he needs to do.
Speaker 1: But don't you don't stress yourself out because if you
Speaker 1: feel like you're over exerting yourself and yeah, don't do that.
Speaker 1: I agree, Like, take yourself out of it and let him.
Speaker 2: Let him.
Speaker 3: I wouldn't remove myself on purpose, right, he have to
Speaker 3: tell me, well, I'm just gonna do.
Speaker 2: This, and then okay, cool I get it. I'm gonna
Speaker 2: tell me a bitch, but cool I get it.
Speaker 1: But I'm not. I'm not gonna remove myself. But he
Speaker 1: gonna deal with that again.
Speaker 3: Once you bow down to your baby mama the first time,
Speaker 3: you gotta keep bombing down, Like.
Speaker 2: I definitely think baby mamas be pulling that car.
Speaker 1: Oh do they?
Speaker 2: Baby Mama's a superior for sure.
Speaker 1: You used to do that. No, what the girl? First
Speaker 1: of all, my baby dad is gonna let me. That's
Speaker 1: first because I had babies with no twenty one was young.
Speaker 1: But yeah, but I but he he said the tone fact.
Speaker 2: I didn't have to be that.
Speaker 1: Way with him, because it's no. Once he broke up,
Speaker 1: he broke up.
Speaker 2: It was done like like I said, new nigga.
Speaker 1: Me please, I move on. I get the fuck on,
Speaker 1: like I'd never double back on baby dad. It was done.
Speaker 1: So I respect my children father as the same, the
Speaker 1: same amount of superiority I have.
Speaker 3: You have to I'm not gonna feel like, oh well,
Speaker 3: I carried them and I did this and I nine
Speaker 3: twenty nine hours bitch, no like no.
Speaker 2: Like whatever you say.
Speaker 3: If you say this is not right for my child,
Speaker 3: I have to respect you because your parents all women,
Speaker 3: and I like that. Some women feel like they have more,
Speaker 3: they're more superior because they're the mind.
Speaker 1: They carried.
Speaker 2: Yeah, they carried the baby.
Speaker 1: So I feel like and and men when once a
Speaker 1: man bowed down the first time, it don't end. It
Speaker 1: don't end.
Speaker 2: Men don't take these bitches the court is.
Speaker 1: It don't end?
Speaker 4: You think court is always like a woman take a
Speaker 4: man in court in a heartbeat.
Speaker 1: A man should too. If you ready cap at your
Speaker 1: child showed me. Spend your money, spend your bad bite,
Speaker 1: get your lawyer, and take.
Speaker 2: The whole court. If not, then we're just gonna bow
Speaker 2: down to what she say. No, like all do if
Speaker 2: it's not no, yeah a woman.
Speaker 3: A woman should not run her baby daddy love life
Speaker 3: solely based off of because oh you don't like something
Speaker 3: you've seen, like no, bitch, like especially if something petty.
Speaker 3: It also be just because they don't want to move on.
Speaker 3: And that's a little that's a little more in depth.
Speaker 3: Like the girl, it sounds like it was really friends.
Speaker 1: So she said that they was.
Speaker 2: She said two things.
Speaker 3: She said, we was friends and then she said she
Speaker 3: said I owe her loyalty because it was friends.
Speaker 4: Then she said, well, we weren't friends like that. She
Speaker 4: said when they was in high school, they knew each other.
Speaker 4: They would hang out like a few times. So she
Speaker 4: was like, they wasn't friends like that, and.
Speaker 2: You ain't been in my mama house. I agree.
Speaker 3: If I don't know your birthday, I don't know, but
Speaker 3: I beatterly know your middle name, Like we're not you
Speaker 3: to social media. Lets you throw that friend called out
Speaker 3: so fast like all like hey, because I call you
Speaker 3: a friend right now, but.
Speaker 2: We're not friends. Coming on, we were just mad bitch.
Speaker 1: If I found you, don't want to I'm not about
Speaker 1: to fight you.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we're not friends, like I feel like social media
Speaker 3: let that framework go so loose, Like I've never been
Speaker 3: in your house, you never been to mind you.
Speaker 2: Your birthday party?
Speaker 3: So how to fucking your friend, bitch? I ain't been
Speaker 3: none of your birthday since high school? How to fuck
Speaker 3: am your friend? Why get in your crab ball bitch?
Speaker 3: Because I'm not your friend.
Speaker 1: Maybe that's the same.
Speaker 2: Thing I'm not your friend.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree. I agree.
Speaker 3: A different always, always different set of room when it
Speaker 3: comes to them niggas.
Speaker 2: That's my nigga. But I'm not coming to both of them.
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