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Speaker 1: What's up, Y'all's your girl lex p And it's your

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Speaker 1: to another episode of Poor.

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Speaker 2: Mind, where a drunk mind speaks sober thought.

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Speaker 1: We gotta guess today, We gotta guess today. Now, y'all know,

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Speaker 1: I gotta do my introduction. I don't know me killing

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Speaker 1: the intro. I know I say this every week, but

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Speaker 1: I'm really excited because this is somebody that I have

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Speaker 1: been following on social media for years. Like I feel

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Speaker 1: like she was one of the like ogs of influencing

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Speaker 1: and makeup and that like before it was cool to

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Speaker 1: be like get ready with me, ain't getting ready? I

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Speaker 1: want to introduce one of the first o G influencers,

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Speaker 1: business mogul Love Everything under the Sun. So, oh my gosh,

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Speaker 1: iin't know you was the old follower girl I have

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Speaker 1: been around about you.

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Speaker 2: Listen, Okay, we definitely know who you are. Okay, so listen.

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Speaker 1: I like look up like old pictures of me and

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Speaker 1: I used to have like the hoghlighter yellow I was

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Speaker 1: like and then back but back then I was real,

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Speaker 1: real broke, so I couldn't little crayon cake, but I

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Speaker 1: was doing what I could with little stuff for Walmart.

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. So that much, we have

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Speaker 1: a lot to get into today. So I do want

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Speaker 1: you to, like, for the people who don't know, you

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Speaker 1: introduced Supercent.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so Supercent is a started as a social media

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Speaker 3: influencer and then ended up being an entrepreneur, philanthropist, everything

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Speaker 3: under the summer, I said, But it literally started out

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Speaker 3: a call, I wasn't even trying to be an influencer.

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Speaker 3: I was just trying to like get online, talk, get

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Speaker 3: started to relate to it.

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Speaker 1: So I'm like, okay, so you've been doing that too,

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Speaker 1: say a little more, you know.

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Speaker 2: So I just kind of got addicted to.

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Speaker 3: Telling my story. That's how story Time I superstarted. So

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Speaker 3: that's what that's why I kind of popped that the

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Speaker 3: story time of super Do you regret any of like

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Speaker 3: the stories that not a mother, ma'am. This wasn't recent,

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Speaker 3: but when you went off, it's a classic.

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Speaker 1: West, don't regret it. I don't go West, don't regret

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Speaker 1: it because everything I said he went got it.

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Speaker 2: So she motivated that mother, you needed it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so you know, how.

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Speaker 4: Did you come up with your name? Like, how did

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Speaker 2: It's a girl.

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Speaker 1: My god. First of all, I hate super O. My god,

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Speaker 3: My original my original stage name is was them super

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Speaker 3: all right in New Orleans, meaning was up, it was

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Speaker 3: up super So super Sin came because my page coming

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Speaker 3: and deleted and every page, every new page I made,

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Speaker 3: it was like super villy, like something like you know

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Speaker 3: I got stuck with super Cent. I'm thinking, I'm gona

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Speaker 3: have to page probably like two weeks, gonna get deleted. Cool,

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Speaker 3: and then I come back on another. But I've been

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Speaker 3: with this for nine years, so now I'm stuck with.

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Speaker 1: That part.

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Speaker 2: I didn't know.

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Speaker 1: But about your page do be getting deleted exactly? I'm like,

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Speaker 1: what is super go? Because you.

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Speaker 2: South streat these days.

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Speaker 1: Imagine it wasn't that strict then, but I was.

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Speaker 2: I was too vulgar then, so now I.

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Speaker 1: Like toning all down and I'm like, I can't see

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Speaker 2: Guess how you got to step on Twitter something?

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Speaker 1: And that's not even with us like we have like

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Speaker 1: started bleeping out the curse words. Yeah you know, yeah

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Speaker 1: that's not like a sailor. You got what's out? I

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Speaker 1: I want to get into like your relationships because one

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Speaker 1: a query is you are a lover girl? I am,

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Speaker 2: Y'all got another one?

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Speaker 2: And you won't accept this nigga?

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Speaker 1: So do you feel like, how do you feel like

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Speaker 1: how do you feel like living your relationships out online?

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Speaker 1: Because people do follow you because they want to know

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Speaker 2: They want to know your life. That's how we.

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Speaker 1: Started out as a fan talking. So do you feel

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Speaker 3: Never felt pressure in a relationship, betil I got in

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Speaker 3: Than by being engaged, But before that, I never felt pressured.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, bitch, y'all gonna love who I love, right right?

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Speaker 3: If I dropped that nigga, y'all gott to drop them too,

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Speaker 3: Right'm following move on nigga right here. So it's like

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Speaker 3: Like this one is done how But do you feel

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Speaker 2: I'm not gonna say because of the age.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna say because all the time and effort I

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Speaker 3: This is more my speed. This is finally on my

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Speaker 3: I met somebody who who could deal with me. I

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Speaker 3: I'm in counseling. I never wanted to go to counseling

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Speaker 3: Got so many positive things happened to me from this

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Speaker 1: you gotta understand, all right, that's all the reason. Like

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Speaker 1: I said, I am just like you. I'm just like you,

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Speaker 2: But a lot of women like that.

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Speaker 3: Listen, I don't know why these holes were acting like

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Speaker 3: they don't be happy from niggas, the niggas. You're just

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Speaker 3: not popular fast, Oh you're not popular, So we don't

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Speaker 1: You happen like, we don't know about situation. You're not

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know about us because of course we're gonna post.

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Speaker 3: Of course when we love w you see the smile

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Speaker 3: course you're gonna see it. And I don't see it

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Speaker 3: But you know, like y'all know, girls be happening from nimeon,

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Speaker 3: from niggas and niggas. They know one nigga don't do right, Okay,

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Speaker 2: That's that's that's like.

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Speaker 1: I think what I'm struggling with now, like I'm thirty five.

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Speaker 2: I think what I'm struggling with.

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Speaker 1: Now is because I stay in situations too long, like

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Speaker 1: I'll be like, no, I gotta hold it down. He

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Speaker 3: I think base teen, you're thirty five, you should be

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like I ain't gotta hold nothing down. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: I don't got it and that's the thing.

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Speaker 2: I don't got no baggage.

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Speaker 1: DS. No, you should be fri frizz a fucking bird,

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Speaker 3: Thing, the main thing women make me worry about it.

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Speaker 3: Nigger nigga met my kids. My kids love him. Now

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Speaker 1: Like, but you have to have to worry about.

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Speaker 4: You should be on ten trips with ten different niggas,

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Speaker 4: big moves, like you had you and a person and

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Speaker 2: I think it depends on what it is.

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Speaker 3: I agree, like just because I like Seinfeld, you like

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Speaker 2: It depends on what it because.

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Speaker 1: But if you like a Trump supporter, well, but I'm

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Speaker 1: a Democrat, religious households, that's different it's gonna affect our.

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Speaker 3: But you're gonna be arguing, right, it's gonna fact. If

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Speaker 3: you just gonna fact I was shot, it's gonna fect everything.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's different.

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Speaker 1: Religion, but like little stuff like oh you don't like

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Speaker 1: I do think that people need to align three worlds

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Speaker 1: and what they believe. Agreed. Agree, Now, I was definitely

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Speaker 1: it because I like, you're finish. Get I am, y'all.

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Speaker 1: I had an anxiety attack this morning. I finished. Really

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Speaker 1: I've been going through that.

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Speaker 2: I have my first one in a long way.

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Speaker 1: I had reading what we drinking.

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Speaker 4: Today needed to me to take those cares away. Okay,

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Speaker 4: this one is called the Woolsam super okay, all right,

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Speaker 4: So we have spirit of choice in this one. We

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Speaker 4: have some grapefruit, some pomegranate, We have some lime, a

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Speaker 4: little bit of that ouba that we.

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Speaker 2: Talked about before winter. Yeah, I know I tasted. I

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Speaker 2: was like you like even old boton everything.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we used to be We used to make hennessy

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Speaker 1: and coke and be a bad bitch. That's it.

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Speaker 2: I was bit she was hosting.

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Speaker 1: I know how to I know how to make a

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Speaker 4: This game, y'all call it the situation shoot. So okay,

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna go fire. While the first question is what

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Speaker 1: Oh girl, y'all saw it. It was all low among us. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so I'm not putting your bus I'm not putting nothing

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Speaker 1: That was a little in between.

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Speaker 2: It was amazing.

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Speaker 1: I was talking to my hair styles about about Oh

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Speaker 1: I want to talk about Lewis, the man in the background,

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Speaker 1: it was like Channing Tatum. It was he looked white.

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Speaker 2: You know what?

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Speaker 1: He looked white? Oh bitch, I was not expecting you

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Speaker 1: to say, yeah, how you know about old you? I

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Speaker 1: I said, that's not a white man. He looked like

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Speaker 1: a deep southern Louisiana. I don't know what.

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Speaker 3: He was my very first white experience.

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Speaker 1: I want to talk about him.

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Speaker 3: We know why you went lord, and then we want

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Speaker 3: But you hold ya something.

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Speaker 2: I gotta funk out about that.

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Speaker 1: I know what.

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Speaker 2: I never talked about this. I know I haven't because

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Speaker 2: you just you just act like that didn't happen.

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Speaker 1: I did. I moved on, I know, but I follow him.

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Speaker 1: We never. I never popped out about him. It was

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Speaker 1: like he was he was. That's how y'all know. I'm

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Speaker 1: not making this up like I followed her. Damn it,

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Speaker 1: I'll be talking. It was, and it was.

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Speaker 2: It's crazy. Look I'm stuttering.

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Speaker 3: It's crazy, you know that because it literally was like

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Speaker 3: only his social media one time.

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Speaker 1: That was that video they caught him in the background.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, we dated for like three months, okay, and

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Speaker 3: that was my first you know, white chocolate Okay.

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Speaker 1: Was he like hood? No, That's what I liked.

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Speaker 3: I liked that he was a real genuine white boy.

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Speaker 2: I really like that. You used to listen like Paramou

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Speaker 2: no Way, Paramour.

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Speaker 1: Like cold Play, and it was all yellow greens.

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Speaker 2: He was an authentic white man, Okay, And I like that.

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Speaker 3: Like he had he had a little urban size so

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Speaker 3: when it comes to clothing, but in interior he.

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Speaker 2: Was he was big white Okay, big.

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Speaker 1: Now, what did you like about it.

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Speaker 4: Do you feel like it was very different from dating

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Speaker 4: back like the so.

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Speaker 3: Hm hm because I don't want to put my black

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Speaker 3: man down because I look, first of all, let's let's

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Speaker 4: But I dated a white man one okay, you did? Okay,

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Speaker 4: so terrible, it's terrible experience out of team. I'm not recommending.

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Speaker 1: Really, No, he's a witch part which girl.

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Speaker 4: He got mad at me because I didn't want to

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Speaker 1: He tried to leave me stranded. Girl got mad at

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Speaker 1: me because I didn't want to grow. That's what I

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Speaker 1: didn't want to. I don't want no pork right now.

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Speaker 1: Put a sheet over that port. I was really mad

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Speaker 1: and I'm not gonna feel it.

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Speaker 2: But you know renidence exactly.

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Speaker 1: So what did he do though?

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Speaker 2: Like okay, so he was like over it and put

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Speaker 1: So ho was was it? Good? Girl? My nigga gonna

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Speaker 1: kill me? You right? It was got understand okay before

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Speaker 1: the person and it was the past. But my experience,

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Speaker 1: by my first experience, I thoroughly enjoyed it.

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Speaker 3: I'm not I enjoyed the dating era. I enjoyed the

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Speaker 3: town trips. I enjoyed the courting. I enjoyed. I enjoyed,

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Speaker 3: I enjoyed the surprise gifts. I enjoyed everything it was.

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Speaker 3: It was a different experience. And before that's all he ate,

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Speaker 3: That's all he did.

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Speaker 2: Do you feel like that's like a fetish. I always

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Speaker 2: think it's weird.

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Speaker 3: Probably probably like when I see the girls he's dated

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Speaker 3: and the baby mama, Yeah gotta gotta be. But he's

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Speaker 3: still I thought, Yeah, he's still the interior, like his interior.

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Speaker 3: I like how even though you gotta even, you gotta

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Speaker 3: but you don't try to be me.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Like he was.

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Speaker 1: A third money bag and be like yeah, bitch.

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Speaker 3: He's like exactly, bitch, Like up, I got my people

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Speaker 3: with none of that here. Real, Like the first time

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Speaker 3: he flew to New Orleans and he stayed there for

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Speaker 3: a week and went on a date every day, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: every day, Like I love niggas, gonna be damned for real,

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Speaker 3: like my nigga date, like my my fiance. He he

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Speaker 3: was after after the the White Boy, I got my fiance.

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Speaker 2: And he was a dater.

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Speaker 3: Yah, But before that, I've never met a nigga, not nigga,

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Speaker 3: but I never met a man that dated that much.

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Speaker 2: That white boy I'm going.

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Speaker 3: So it taught you like, okay, this is your your

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Speaker 1: He's at the tone.

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Speaker 3: After I dealt with him, I said, I'm not dating

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Speaker 3: no more men that's not gonna want to actually date me.

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Speaker 2: And sometimes you need that.

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Speaker 1: What I've learned to is getting older because I used

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Speaker 2: Used to be like, oh my god, it didn't work out,

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Speaker 2: what I'm not gonna do.

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Speaker 1: But sometimes men come in your lives to teach you

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Speaker 1: a lesson. Like the guy dated last well not last

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Speaker 1: year at this point.

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Speaker 2: Was it last year?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it was last year before I got with my well,

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Speaker 1: oh whatever. But the one I went to Costa Rica

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Speaker 1: with it was not meant to be a forever. But

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Speaker 1: he taught me like, this is what a man is

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Speaker 1: supposed to do exactly, and you carried that with you.

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Speaker 1: I did because I'm like, oh, this is a man

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Speaker 1: is supposed to like. The dates were so creative, they

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Speaker 1: were so different, like we went on a rooftop and

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Speaker 1: saw orchestra play.

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Speaker 2: It was so like we went.

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Speaker 1: And saw this live band and all they played all

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Speaker 1: night was Lil Wayne music.

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Speaker 2: It was like fun.

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Speaker 1: So I think this is what women do as well.

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Speaker 1: When a man knows how to court a woman and

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Speaker 1: he treats us nice, we get we get that confused

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Speaker 1: with like, oh my god, I thought you were my forever.

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Speaker 1: You were supposed to wind and Dimi, No, he's no,

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Speaker 1: she's dating. Yeah, he's dating, and and he's enjoying a

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Speaker 1: What you do whenever you date someone you're interested in them,

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Speaker 1: and when.

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Speaker 2: You're no longer interested in Yeah, and.

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Speaker 1: It didn't work out between us, you know, things happened

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Speaker 1: at X y Z. But I was like, Oh, this

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Speaker 1: is what dating is supposed to look like. You don't

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Speaker 1: have to wait until y'all are in a committed relationship

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Speaker 1: to go on or go somewhere. Like he said, that's

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Speaker 1: what I thought.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, people say, oh, why would you out of

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Speaker 3: time somebody you don't know, because bitch, yesterday, it's.

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Speaker 1: Today, because he invited me then, And I'm not even

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Speaker 1: saying that you got to go to Greece so Costa

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Speaker 1: out of Atlanta and go to a wannery for.

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Speaker 2: Well, the white boy took me to believe in them.

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Speaker 1: I'm going.

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Speaker 2: I had a great time.

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Speaker 1: I know you did. I did, you'd be having a ball.

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Speaker 1: I had a great time.

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Speaker 2: I can't lie. I was posting like dish that everybother

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Speaker 3: I'm so glad I clocked your tea was taking all

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Speaker 3: my pictures like I love it.

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Speaker 1: I love it. I thoroughly enjoyed it. I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 2: Have you do you ever spend the block?

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Speaker 1: Listen, I'm gonna spend a blocker you are?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's coming.

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Speaker 1: She's confirming me right now, only because I like to

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Speaker 3: I know what I'm gonna get from you. I already

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Speaker 3: know what the fun they expect from you. If you,

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Speaker 3: if you, if you could only give me good dick

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Speaker 3: and you could cook, and you could fucking you're gonna

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Speaker 2: I know that already.

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Speaker 3: I have to figure it out from a nigga I

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Speaker 3: don't know. I don't know if he's straight. I don't

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Speaker 3: know if he I don't got time to get to know.

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Speaker 2: So I am a spind a block.

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Speaker 1: You don't know if he's These niggas gonna be straight

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Speaker 1: You gotta find out, like on a date, if they

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Speaker 1: spending the block. Niggas don't.

442
00:20:49,240 --> 00:20:50,040
Speaker 2: I'm spending the block.

443
00:20:50,080 --> 00:20:51,440
Speaker 1: I'm gonna spend the block.

444
00:20:51,480 --> 00:20:55,320
Speaker 2: I'm not really a spind the blocker. I did it once, Okay,

445
00:20:55,320 --> 00:20:55,760
Speaker 2: how was it?

446
00:20:56,119 --> 00:21:02,400
Speaker 1: Terrible? Decisions terrible? It was terrible.

447
00:21:02,520 --> 00:21:05,520
Speaker 2: I don't know why I did the ship it ended up.

448
00:21:05,600 --> 00:21:08,320
Speaker 4: I mean it was cool because it was beneficial, you

449
00:21:08,359 --> 00:21:09,719
Speaker 4: know what I mean, Like he was doing a lot

450
00:21:09,760 --> 00:21:14,280
Speaker 4: of stuff for me. But ultimately I think that when

451
00:21:14,320 --> 00:21:16,800
Speaker 4: somebody do me wrong, he did me wrong the first

452
00:21:16,800 --> 00:21:18,760
Speaker 4: time we dated each other, so I feel like I

453
00:21:18,880 --> 00:21:22,760
Speaker 4: wasn't fully over it the second Yeah. Yeah, like I

454
00:21:22,800 --> 00:21:24,600
Speaker 4: wasn't fully over it, And I don't know why I

455
00:21:24,640 --> 00:21:27,119
Speaker 4: had convinced myself I could I could deal with him

456
00:21:27,160 --> 00:21:29,760
Speaker 4: again because this benefit because he was always pretty beneficial.

457
00:21:30,119 --> 00:21:31,439
Speaker 2: So it was like, okay, I could deal with him

458
00:21:31,480 --> 00:21:32,439
Speaker 2: again because what he doing.

459
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Speaker 1: I'm not spending the black with niggas that fucked over me,

460
00:21:34,840 --> 00:21:35,280
Speaker 1: Like I'm not.

461
00:21:37,400 --> 00:21:38,640
Speaker 2: I'm not going back to my baby dad.

462
00:21:38,840 --> 00:21:41,160
Speaker 3: I'm not going back to like niggas that broke my heart.

463
00:21:42,320 --> 00:21:45,560
Speaker 3: That's who I didn't have to close you with niggas why.

464
00:21:45,200 --> 00:21:49,000
Speaker 1: We broke up. Then we didn't talking about it the more. Okay, yeah, okay,

465
00:21:49,320 --> 00:21:50,879
Speaker 1: And now if you spend the black niggas that that

466
00:21:50,960 --> 00:21:52,960
Speaker 1: fucked you, fucked you up, then that's supid.

467
00:21:53,040 --> 00:21:55,479
Speaker 4: And he didn't fuck me over the second time. I

468
00:21:55,520 --> 00:21:56,520
Speaker 4: just think I wasn't.

469
00:21:57,320 --> 00:21:59,359
Speaker 2: I didn't feel the same way about him.

470
00:21:59,520 --> 00:22:02,480
Speaker 1: That's what that's that's the hard about heading the block

471
00:22:02,480 --> 00:22:06,840
Speaker 1: because it'd be like, man, yeah, it's like cock and exactly,

472
00:22:07,040 --> 00:22:09,360
Speaker 1: all feelings gonna be there, and that you didn't grown

473
00:22:09,400 --> 00:22:12,399
Speaker 1: past that. You're over night, you got better morals, like

474
00:22:12,440 --> 00:22:14,919
Speaker 1: you know what you know, you'll.

475
00:22:14,760 --> 00:22:16,960
Speaker 4: Be knowing it some bullshit like I remember one time

476
00:22:17,040 --> 00:22:18,480
Speaker 4: I was just like, oh my god.

477
00:22:18,359 --> 00:22:21,720
Speaker 1: Why am I here? Because here do something? Because it

478
00:22:21,720 --> 00:22:23,880
Speaker 1: was nothing to please. That's what it is right now,

479
00:22:25,200 --> 00:22:26,159
Speaker 1: That's really what it is like.

480
00:22:26,240 --> 00:22:28,480
Speaker 3: You spend a block with somebody when you don't got

481
00:22:28,520 --> 00:22:30,960
Speaker 3: time to meet new niggah, Like, let me go fuck

482
00:22:31,000 --> 00:22:32,760
Speaker 3: with something that I already I already know that good,

483
00:22:32,880 --> 00:22:34,639
Speaker 3: I already know the head good, I already know. But

484
00:22:34,680 --> 00:22:36,320
Speaker 3: you're gonna spend some money on me I already know,

485
00:22:36,760 --> 00:22:37,880
Speaker 3: So why the fuck with the nigga?

486
00:22:37,920 --> 00:22:39,080
Speaker 1: I don't know if you're gonna give me all this.

487
00:22:39,160 --> 00:22:41,240
Speaker 1: I gotta wait and see. Yeah, I do.

488
00:22:41,280 --> 00:22:44,560
Speaker 2: Feel like the situation. You know, you know what's going on.

489
00:22:44,480 --> 00:22:47,120
Speaker 1: That's what you already know. That's that's pretty spending black WITHO,

490
00:22:47,160 --> 00:22:47,520
Speaker 1: that's it.

491
00:22:47,720 --> 00:22:50,080
Speaker 4: I feel like with Ashanti, though, that's one of the

492
00:22:50,240 --> 00:22:53,920
Speaker 4: very few scenarios we're spending the block work. I feel

493
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Speaker 4: like spending the block don't be working a lot of

494
00:22:55,800 --> 00:22:58,639
Speaker 4: the time because it's the reason why.

495
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Speaker 2: You work, because you're pregnant. Huh, you're saying work you're pregnant.

496
00:23:01,960 --> 00:23:03,560
Speaker 4: No, no, no, I'm saying this is one of the

497
00:23:03,680 --> 00:23:06,720
Speaker 4: very rare scenarios where two people decided to spend the

498
00:23:06,760 --> 00:23:08,520
Speaker 4: block with each other and it looks like they're gonna

499
00:23:08,560 --> 00:23:09,840
Speaker 4: have there happily ever after.

500
00:23:10,440 --> 00:23:11,840
Speaker 2: I feel like most of the time, you don't you

501
00:23:11,880 --> 00:23:14,119
Speaker 2: said about Jalo and Benet Flip too, and they divorce.

502
00:23:14,760 --> 00:23:15,520
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying.

503
00:23:15,600 --> 00:23:18,080
Speaker 4: It didn't work because I feel like it because the

504
00:23:18,160 --> 00:23:20,760
Speaker 4: thing with Jlo and Ben Athlete, it was a reason

505
00:23:20,840 --> 00:23:23,840
Speaker 4: why y'all broke up the first time. Y'all should have

506
00:23:23,920 --> 00:23:26,320
Speaker 4: left it where it was, And I feel like normally

507
00:23:26,440 --> 00:23:28,399
Speaker 4: that's how it be with spending the block. It's a

508
00:23:28,440 --> 00:23:29,960
Speaker 4: reason why me and this nigga didn't work out the

509
00:23:30,000 --> 00:23:30,400
Speaker 4: first time.

510
00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:33,720
Speaker 3: But sometimes you don't get the closure. So that's what said,

511
00:23:33,760 --> 00:23:35,560
Speaker 3: you spending the block because you didn't have the closure,

512
00:23:35,600 --> 00:23:36,200
Speaker 3: so you don't.

513
00:23:36,040 --> 00:23:39,920
Speaker 1: Know yet, and sometimes people will change, like things change. Yeah,

514
00:23:40,160 --> 00:23:41,920
Speaker 1: so if you if this person has been doing the

515
00:23:41,960 --> 00:23:44,760
Speaker 1: work to heal and things like that, you might spend

516
00:23:44,800 --> 00:23:46,800
Speaker 1: the block and you may get a whole nother person.

517
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Speaker 2: You do, but I gotta so I gotta do.

518
00:23:48,800 --> 00:23:51,359
Speaker 3: Some people talking about you ever lost somebody and you

519
00:23:51,600 --> 00:23:53,720
Speaker 3: like you lost them where they kind of left you

520
00:23:54,359 --> 00:23:56,560
Speaker 3: and me, you lost them, and then you spend.

521
00:23:56,400 --> 00:23:59,320
Speaker 2: The block because you deserve this new met Yeah. Like

522
00:23:59,400 --> 00:24:01,240
Speaker 2: I'm a new person. I'm not like that anymore.

523
00:24:01,400 --> 00:24:01,920
Speaker 1: I changed.

524
00:24:01,960 --> 00:24:03,440
Speaker 2: I did that and then when you get in the

525
00:24:03,520 --> 00:24:05,000
Speaker 2: new you, but I don't like you.

526
00:24:05,760 --> 00:24:08,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm better. Yeah, that's how that happened to me.

527
00:24:09,720 --> 00:24:12,320
Speaker 1: I think sometimes it's okay to spend the b but

528
00:24:12,640 --> 00:24:15,240
Speaker 1: it depends what your goals are. It does sometimes you

529
00:24:15,320 --> 00:24:16,520
Speaker 1: just need to spend the box because you just need

530
00:24:16,560 --> 00:24:19,240
Speaker 1: a little rebound, and that's it's gonna make you feel better,

531
00:24:19,280 --> 00:24:22,120
Speaker 1: and that's ok yeah, and that's okay.

532
00:24:22,480 --> 00:24:24,840
Speaker 2: Time pass something to do when there's nothing to do.

533
00:24:25,320 --> 00:24:26,800
Speaker 1: All right, we're gonna go. Look, we're supposed to be

534
00:24:26,800 --> 00:24:29,440
Speaker 1: playing a game. We have made it a whole time.

535
00:24:29,960 --> 00:24:32,800
Speaker 1: We did. All right, I got a fun one. It's

536
00:24:32,800 --> 00:24:36,399
Speaker 1: gonna be a fun one. Quote and act out of

537
00:24:36,520 --> 00:24:43,359
Speaker 1: line from your favorite movie. Mm hmmm. Quote out on

538
00:24:43,520 --> 00:24:48,080
Speaker 1: line from your favorite I am my boy, Damon, I

539
00:24:48,160 --> 00:24:48,679
Speaker 1: gotta put me.

540
00:24:48,680 --> 00:24:49,560
Speaker 2: First, Lucious.

541
00:24:51,880 --> 00:24:55,320
Speaker 1: God. I love how she left that nigga stand up

542
00:24:55,960 --> 00:24:58,040
Speaker 1: the other bucks she did. I gotta put me first,

543
00:24:58,080 --> 00:25:03,080
Speaker 1: Loucious min I talk about this movie a lot. Mine

544
00:25:03,160 --> 00:25:04,840
Speaker 1: is from it. You actually quoted this the other day

545
00:25:04,880 --> 00:25:10,520
Speaker 1: because yes, because this scenario is so crazy. That's throat,

546
00:25:17,080 --> 00:25:17,600
Speaker 1: no bitch.

547
00:25:17,800 --> 00:25:19,960
Speaker 4: Because at the end of the day, because I had

548
00:25:20,040 --> 00:25:23,760
Speaker 4: tweeted this on Twitter and going viral, because nobody had

549
00:25:23,800 --> 00:25:26,560
Speaker 4: posted that clip from the right movie, and I just

550
00:25:26,880 --> 00:25:28,560
Speaker 4: even though you watched stuff as an adult.

551
00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:35,159
Speaker 1: Different when you old. The yay girl clued me. That

552
00:25:35,280 --> 00:25:38,600
Speaker 1: girl crying. I'm like, oh, I got all these kids

553
00:25:38,640 --> 00:25:42,000
Speaker 1: and I gotta find a mask. It hit different when

554
00:25:42,000 --> 00:25:46,399
Speaker 1: you watch movies. Yes, So I make on.

555
00:25:46,480 --> 00:25:50,120
Speaker 4: Twitter and I was like, you know how motherfucking mad

556
00:25:50,240 --> 00:25:53,399
Speaker 4: I would be if I'm spassing on the nigga and

557
00:25:53,520 --> 00:25:55,720
Speaker 4: I tell him I'm pregnant and he needs to be

558
00:25:55,880 --> 00:25:57,680
Speaker 4: with me and he don't want to leave his wife

559
00:25:57,720 --> 00:26:00,400
Speaker 4: and I'm going off on his nigga and he start

560
00:26:00,480 --> 00:26:04,879
Speaker 4: writing a song me break, I.

561
00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:09,400
Speaker 5: Knock all this shows.

562
00:26:10,320 --> 00:26:17,119
Speaker 1: Out writing a song about what she was saying to

563
00:26:17,200 --> 00:26:24,000
Speaker 1: knock you the face blind, Oh.

564
00:26:28,359 --> 00:26:30,440
Speaker 2: You right now, and nigga, you can't stop it, you

565
00:26:30,520 --> 00:26:31,920
Speaker 2: can't coming.

566
00:26:32,560 --> 00:26:35,040
Speaker 1: She was the first crash. She was crashing out behind him.

567
00:26:35,119 --> 00:26:38,119
Speaker 2: She was she must have been good.

568
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Speaker 1: You think it was good? Yeah? He always I was like, yeah,

569
00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:46,359
Speaker 1: all them other senses, is they a ma Yeah, I

570
00:26:46,440 --> 00:26:48,480
Speaker 1: don't have some good That's why you had all them kids.

571
00:26:48,640 --> 00:26:49,880
Speaker 2: He definitely had a lot of kids.

572
00:26:49,920 --> 00:26:52,080
Speaker 1: He had a lot of kids. Okay, we're gonna get

573
00:26:52,119 --> 00:26:55,159
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Speaker 1: about the Dult Chang Gobana set that Skims released with

601
00:28:10,440 --> 00:28:14,360
Speaker 1: Kim Kardashian, and it happened with the Lulu Limen as well.

602
00:28:15,119 --> 00:28:18,159
Speaker 1: This happened with Tulum and Grease when people started traveling

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604
00:28:20,880 --> 00:28:23,640
Speaker 1: when other cultures do it, it's cool, but when black

605
00:28:23,720 --> 00:28:26,800
Speaker 1: women do it, it's ghetto. Like when a bunch of

606
00:28:26,880 --> 00:28:29,440
Speaker 1: black women or black people in general start doing something,

607
00:28:29,480 --> 00:28:32,480
Speaker 1: they hurry, I want to call it ghetto. So the

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Speaker 1: dultchain Cobana and Skims had a collapse and they dropped it,

609
00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:38,120
Speaker 1: and everybody's like, oh my god, this is so ghetto.

610
00:28:38,600 --> 00:28:41,080
Speaker 1: Y'all wearing it with ugs, y'all wearing it with these

611
00:28:41,120 --> 00:28:47,200
Speaker 1: Blissiaga boots, Like y'all look crazy closed with big boots. Yeah,

612
00:28:47,280 --> 00:28:47,960
Speaker 1: with like the boots.

613
00:28:48,080 --> 00:28:50,480
Speaker 4: It was a girl who went viral on TikTok a

614
00:28:50,560 --> 00:28:54,080
Speaker 4: few days ago and she had the drop from Kim

615
00:28:54,160 --> 00:28:56,840
Speaker 4: Kardashian and Adult and Drop. She had on the supee

616
00:28:56,880 --> 00:28:59,560
Speaker 4: set and then she had on the big blisiaga boots

617
00:28:59,600 --> 00:29:03,440
Speaker 4: that looked like the uga And this guy went viral

618
00:29:03,480 --> 00:29:05,640
Speaker 4: because he was going in and he was like, y'all

619
00:29:05,760 --> 00:29:08,360
Speaker 4: not even dressing it up, y'all not even putting it.

620
00:29:08,440 --> 00:29:09,800
Speaker 1: But it was more than him. It was like it

621
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Speaker 1: was a lot of five of creators like going in

622
00:29:11,880 --> 00:29:15,480
Speaker 1: on that look, and they kept calling it tackyhett And

623
00:29:15,600 --> 00:29:19,080
Speaker 1: I just think it's crazy that every time black women

624
00:29:19,200 --> 00:29:20,400
Speaker 1: do something they.

625
00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:21,840
Speaker 2: Use black models.

626
00:29:22,600 --> 00:29:25,160
Speaker 1: It was a black girl that had so a lot

627
00:29:25,200 --> 00:29:28,200
Speaker 1: of like the TikToker girls or that are popular. They

628
00:29:28,320 --> 00:29:31,160
Speaker 1: had the outfit on basically just the top the bottom,

629
00:29:31,200 --> 00:29:34,600
Speaker 1: and like some ugs, they were like, oh, this is tacky.

630
00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:36,640
Speaker 1: Kim did not mean for y'all to style this like this.

631
00:29:37,400 --> 00:29:43,480
Speaker 1: But my argument was Kim Kardashian, she dresses like in basics,

632
00:29:43,960 --> 00:29:47,280
Speaker 1: you know, Kanye put her. She's very simple with her style,

633
00:29:47,400 --> 00:29:51,280
Speaker 1: and that became popular. I'm pretty sure when she puts

634
00:29:51,320 --> 00:29:52,920
Speaker 1: it on, she's just gonna put the top, the bottom,

635
00:29:53,120 --> 00:29:56,720
Speaker 1: maybe a leopard coach and somes and that's it. So

636
00:29:57,000 --> 00:29:59,600
Speaker 1: I feel like every time black women do something in

637
00:29:59,640 --> 00:30:01,000
Speaker 1: the map. We can't enjoy nothing.

638
00:30:01,040 --> 00:30:04,320
Speaker 3: They take away our creativity, like we if that's my style,

639
00:30:04,440 --> 00:30:07,360
Speaker 3: that's my style, right, is he not a fashion girl?

640
00:30:07,400 --> 00:30:10,080
Speaker 3: Everybody is not a hill like our hills. Yeah, I'm

641
00:30:10,080 --> 00:30:11,800
Speaker 3: gonna put on some other but I got some fresh.

642
00:30:12,000 --> 00:30:13,040
Speaker 3: I'm happy about these oggs.

643
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Speaker 1: Bitch, we twining low key because you ain't got my well,

644
00:30:15,560 --> 00:30:16,920
Speaker 1: we got creams brought.

645
00:30:17,440 --> 00:30:20,160
Speaker 2: Can I tell you something to I do. Look at

646
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Speaker 2: super Page put on today.

647
00:30:23,400 --> 00:30:27,600
Speaker 1: It's out. It's because you're tall. Yeah, yeah, you're tall,

648
00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:30,680
Speaker 1: and then like you just you have a very chill.

649
00:30:30,560 --> 00:30:31,840
Speaker 2: Style because I'm a tone boy.

650
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Speaker 1: Yes me too, yes yeah, and we like heart. It's

651
00:30:38,640 --> 00:30:39,680
Speaker 1: the wildest head.

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Speaker 6: That's that's what come from over there. That's what my

653
00:30:45,080 --> 00:30:46,040
Speaker 6: fashion sins come from.

654
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Speaker 1: My toneboy ways, from my masterline side.

655
00:30:48,880 --> 00:30:49,120
Speaker 2: Yeah.

656
00:30:49,640 --> 00:30:52,200
Speaker 1: So yeah, like you be cute with this. So I

657
00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:57,600
Speaker 1: remember even like you don't remember this because even had

658
00:30:57,600 --> 00:30:59,719
Speaker 1: an Assence. We had Essence Festival weekend and we went

659
00:30:59,720 --> 00:31:01,400
Speaker 1: to the We went to Larry Morrow's dinner.

660
00:31:02,280 --> 00:31:04,400
Speaker 2: It was dint right across from you. Girl, really shout

661
00:31:04,440 --> 00:31:07,040
Speaker 2: out to Larry. Yeah, my god, super.

662
00:31:09,360 --> 00:31:15,680
Speaker 1: I know, but I was, yeah, I know, I would love. No, girl,

663
00:31:18,320 --> 00:31:20,080
Speaker 1: you was being cute over there. I don't think you

664
00:31:20,200 --> 00:31:23,200
Speaker 1: like the food. I don't know, well, you know it's

665
00:31:23,240 --> 00:31:25,400
Speaker 1: like cater but like you wasn't like really eating. But

666
00:31:25,480 --> 00:31:28,160
Speaker 1: what we was here? Okay, So Larry Morrow had a

667
00:31:28,240 --> 00:31:30,760
Speaker 1: dinner in New Orleans. It's his festival weekend. It was

668
00:31:31,600 --> 00:31:36,080
Speaker 1: it was an Amazon from Yeah, yeah you but just

669
00:31:36,120 --> 00:31:42,320
Speaker 1: what that speak I was looking for people to like.

670
00:31:42,440 --> 00:31:45,520
Speaker 3: I was like superhill, Oh my god, because first of all,

671
00:31:45,520 --> 00:31:47,160
Speaker 3: I found out about that event late, so I came

672
00:31:47,200 --> 00:31:47,880
Speaker 3: there already full.

673
00:31:48,000 --> 00:31:50,400
Speaker 2: Yeah. I was just drinking and trying to get hookah.

674
00:31:50,400 --> 00:31:52,400
Speaker 1: But they want sir, hooka because it was a little

675
00:31:52,440 --> 00:31:54,480
Speaker 1: bogie they said hookah.

676
00:31:54,720 --> 00:31:57,400
Speaker 2: It was there wasn't something that day because they was

677
00:31:57,920 --> 00:32:01,640
Speaker 2: for y'all. But but yeah, I saw you y'all dirty.

678
00:32:01,760 --> 00:32:03,840
Speaker 1: But no, but I remember seeing how, my god, she

679
00:32:03,920 --> 00:32:05,480
Speaker 1: looks so cute because I'm the same way, like I

680
00:32:05,640 --> 00:32:08,600
Speaker 1: wear heels. I always keep a heel on. But like

681
00:32:08,680 --> 00:32:10,480
Speaker 1: I was just saying, like, I just like be looking

682
00:32:10,560 --> 00:32:12,720
Speaker 1: at you for your fashion sens because I think there's

683
00:32:12,760 --> 00:32:16,280
Speaker 1: more than fashion is about being creative and doing what

684
00:32:16,400 --> 00:32:19,160
Speaker 1: makes you feel exactly and what makes you comfortable to it. Yes,

685
00:32:19,320 --> 00:32:24,840
Speaker 1: so I don't a real true fashion stuff and they

686
00:32:24,880 --> 00:32:28,000
Speaker 1: don't sit on the internet calling people tacky. But it's

687
00:32:28,080 --> 00:32:32,720
Speaker 1: only when black women do something. It's it's because a

688
00:32:32,760 --> 00:32:34,960
Speaker 1: nigga won't hold you to his standards. Bitch, I'm not

689
00:32:35,040 --> 00:32:37,360
Speaker 1: your bitch. Yeah, I'm not your bitch. I'm not for you.

690
00:32:37,480 --> 00:32:40,080
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna never be for you. You can't even

691
00:32:40,080 --> 00:32:42,320
Speaker 3: pull me. But don't saving what I can't wear. Hello,

692
00:32:42,560 --> 00:32:43,400
Speaker 3: Niggas do that a lot.

693
00:32:43,640 --> 00:32:46,560
Speaker 4: And I just feel like, if something looks fun, if

694
00:32:46,600 --> 00:32:47,600
Speaker 4: something looks good.

695
00:32:48,280 --> 00:32:50,800
Speaker 1: Why we wouldn't want to do it too. Yeah, we've

696
00:32:50,920 --> 00:32:58,240
Speaker 1: seen people and we started going to and we don't.

697
00:32:58,360 --> 00:33:05,840
Speaker 3: Don't like folks saying busting on wide open and it's

698
00:33:05,840 --> 00:33:07,640
Speaker 3: got it, having all the hookahs, but they had min

699
00:33:07,680 --> 00:33:08,160
Speaker 3: hoocas there.

700
00:33:08,400 --> 00:33:09,000
Speaker 1: I wouldn't listen.

701
00:33:09,000 --> 00:33:11,600
Speaker 2: I went in twenty one. I know, I ain't see

702
00:33:11,600 --> 00:33:18,160
Speaker 2: that min houcas. I got there, used to hustle like,

703
00:33:18,280 --> 00:33:20,040
Speaker 2: oh you want to wear this? That you want that

704
00:33:20,120 --> 00:33:22,520
Speaker 2: watermelon man exactly.

705
00:33:23,920 --> 00:33:26,640
Speaker 1: Like they would put us in this category and not.

706
00:33:26,800 --> 00:33:28,560
Speaker 3: And and I feel like they try to take away

707
00:33:28,600 --> 00:33:36,760
Speaker 3: from our like we we ignite everything, set us stop playing.

708
00:33:36,600 --> 00:33:39,280
Speaker 1: On our top. So I do feel like sometimes like

709
00:33:39,560 --> 00:33:42,240
Speaker 1: I don't like the trend of like looking at somebody

710
00:33:42,440 --> 00:33:45,840
Speaker 1: like and doing an emulating like what I said, like,

711
00:33:45,920 --> 00:33:47,400
Speaker 1: I'll look at your outfit and I'm like, oh, I

712
00:33:47,440 --> 00:33:49,400
Speaker 1: can do something like that, but I put my own

713
00:33:49,440 --> 00:33:53,120
Speaker 1: little twister okay, and that it's yours and that was yours, right,

714
00:33:53,480 --> 00:33:55,840
Speaker 1: So it's like, I do think the girls need to

715
00:33:55,880 --> 00:33:58,880
Speaker 1: don't don't copy and pay somebody's outfit, you know, put

716
00:33:58,920 --> 00:34:01,080
Speaker 1: your own little But even if if you do, what's

717
00:34:01,120 --> 00:34:03,480
Speaker 1: the problem, what's the what's the issue? I do it.

718
00:34:04,320 --> 00:34:06,400
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, I get on a picture outfit right now.

719
00:34:06,560 --> 00:34:08,840
Speaker 1: I copied off. I always cop copy off of Dre

720
00:34:09,040 --> 00:34:13,120
Speaker 1: outfice too. If I got a good little winter out waiting,

721
00:34:13,320 --> 00:34:19,960
Speaker 1: I meant, said, I can't wait. Which one? Oh my god?

722
00:34:20,120 --> 00:34:22,600
Speaker 1: Which it's the one that you were last year when

723
00:34:22,640 --> 00:34:24,960
Speaker 1: we were in Houston and we did the kiyt interview

724
00:34:25,000 --> 00:34:28,879
Speaker 1: and you had on that card again, I said often

725
00:34:28,960 --> 00:34:32,080
Speaker 1: to eat that it's simple.

726
00:34:33,600 --> 00:34:37,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I feel like it's cute everything we wear

727
00:34:37,160 --> 00:34:38,759
Speaker 3: because seen somebody else do it. Bitch, I don't know

728
00:34:38,760 --> 00:34:40,480
Speaker 3: why they act like, oh it's my own style, No, bitch,

729
00:34:40,560 --> 00:34:42,680
Speaker 3: sind somebody else do it, and you added a Chaine. Okay,

730
00:34:42,680 --> 00:34:46,240
Speaker 3: I get it, but it's okay to say I'm inspired.

731
00:34:45,840 --> 00:34:46,440
Speaker 2: By somebody else.

732
00:34:47,360 --> 00:34:49,680
Speaker 4: At this point you can't be. I'm not gonna say

733
00:34:49,719 --> 00:34:52,640
Speaker 4: you can't be an originator. But it's like everybody have

734
00:34:52,880 --> 00:34:56,759
Speaker 4: like it's already somebody that's done. It's okay, but you

735
00:34:56,880 --> 00:34:59,000
Speaker 4: can make it your own, right, you could do it,

736
00:34:59,120 --> 00:34:59,719
Speaker 4: and you're gonna do it.

737
00:34:59,800 --> 00:35:02,880
Speaker 1: You But like, I don't know, I don't like when

738
00:35:02,920 --> 00:35:05,320
Speaker 1: they just put things that's always getting on because you

739
00:35:05,320 --> 00:35:07,000
Speaker 1: know they're doing the same thing with Lulu Lemon. Now,

740
00:35:07,480 --> 00:35:09,560
Speaker 1: so what question what ghetto means to you?

741
00:35:09,760 --> 00:35:12,000
Speaker 3: Like like, name something you see and you'd be like,

742
00:35:12,239 --> 00:35:15,600
Speaker 3: that's since I agree with two pieceful us is not ghettle.

743
00:35:15,800 --> 00:35:18,000
Speaker 3: But tell me something that you see and you be like, bitch,

744
00:35:18,080 --> 00:35:18,560
Speaker 3: that's ghettle.

745
00:35:18,640 --> 00:35:19,239
Speaker 1: I got one.

746
00:35:20,200 --> 00:35:25,400
Speaker 2: You go first, a bonnie in public.

747
00:35:25,800 --> 00:35:27,800
Speaker 1: I think that's a little good even on the plane.

748
00:35:31,120 --> 00:35:33,680
Speaker 4: On the plane, if you're wearing that house in the airport,

749
00:35:34,239 --> 00:35:36,560
Speaker 4: that's a little getto. But if you got like an

750
00:35:36,600 --> 00:35:38,719
Speaker 4: overnight flight, if you got like a ten hour flights

751
00:35:39,360 --> 00:35:40,000
Speaker 4: to make you say in.

752
00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:41,440
Speaker 3: The airport, you're not gonna see me for time, but

753
00:35:41,480 --> 00:35:43,520
Speaker 3: you want to see me for the thirty seconds walking

754
00:35:43,560 --> 00:35:43,880
Speaker 3: past you.

755
00:35:44,400 --> 00:35:46,000
Speaker 2: If are you gonna tell the bond it, I would

756
00:35:46,040 --> 00:35:48,640
Speaker 2: be like that ghetto okay.

757
00:35:48,400 --> 00:35:50,680
Speaker 1: That I don't know. I'm not gonna lie. When I

758
00:35:50,760 --> 00:35:52,520
Speaker 1: see a bonnit in public, I'm like, oh, she probably

759
00:35:52,520 --> 00:35:54,680
Speaker 1: gonna have something to do. That's what I take it

760
00:35:54,719 --> 00:35:59,160
Speaker 1: as I mean. But there's been you know what I'm saying.

761
00:35:59,200 --> 00:36:01,440
Speaker 1: There's been where I had to take a flight and

762
00:36:01,520 --> 00:36:04,400
Speaker 1: bitch when I I had to hit the ground running.

763
00:36:04,520 --> 00:36:06,680
Speaker 3: But see you saying like, once you land, you put

764
00:36:06,719 --> 00:36:08,560
Speaker 3: it on. No, bitch, I'm leaving my house. I'm getting

765
00:36:08,560 --> 00:36:09,760
Speaker 3: in the car, going.

766
00:36:09,640 --> 00:36:11,240
Speaker 1: To the store with the bore.

767
00:36:11,440 --> 00:36:15,680
Speaker 2: Not the store, but what I do. But only because

768
00:36:15,880 --> 00:36:18,279
Speaker 2: like I don't usually I'm in my car lot.

769
00:36:18,680 --> 00:36:20,200
Speaker 3: I leave my house, I go in the garage, I

770
00:36:20,239 --> 00:36:21,840
Speaker 3: get my car, and I'm not getting out until I

771
00:36:21,920 --> 00:36:24,560
Speaker 3: get back to my house, pick my kids, fucking pick

772
00:36:24,640 --> 00:36:26,480
Speaker 3: up blind. So I have my bondy on, yeah, and

773
00:36:26,600 --> 00:36:28,160
Speaker 3: I be on you know, Live or something, so it

774
00:36:28,200 --> 00:36:29,400
Speaker 3: looks like I gotta bund it on everybody.

775
00:36:29,520 --> 00:36:30,520
Speaker 2: But I'm really just in my car.

776
00:36:30,960 --> 00:36:31,680
Speaker 1: But that's okay.

777
00:36:33,239 --> 00:36:35,759
Speaker 2: You see me McDonald's in the drive.

778
00:36:36,160 --> 00:36:36,719
Speaker 1: That whole got up.

779
00:36:39,600 --> 00:36:41,560
Speaker 4: She said in the air no, because you're in the car.

780
00:36:41,680 --> 00:36:43,719
Speaker 4: Like if you leave in your house and you going

781
00:36:44,120 --> 00:36:45,120
Speaker 4: pick your kings up.

782
00:36:45,200 --> 00:36:47,960
Speaker 1: Whatever, I'm not gonna lie. I'm going to wear in

783
00:36:48,000 --> 00:36:48,960
Speaker 1: the airport. I'm not gonna lie.

784
00:36:48,960 --> 00:36:50,120
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna wear it no where else, but I'm

785
00:36:50,160 --> 00:36:51,640
Speaker 3: going to wear an airport. I'm not gonna lie to

786
00:36:51,680 --> 00:36:55,800
Speaker 3: you only because bitch hair is a lot and I

787
00:36:55,840 --> 00:36:56,640
Speaker 3: don't want it on me.

788
00:36:56,680 --> 00:37:00,800
Speaker 1: In my face. But I'm not the hat on it

789
00:37:00,920 --> 00:37:06,920
Speaker 1: is ghetto. When I see it's somebody wearing a bonnit

790
00:37:07,000 --> 00:37:09,880
Speaker 1: in the airport, I assume. I don't think it's ghetto,

791
00:37:09,960 --> 00:37:12,279
Speaker 1: but I assume like she has to land and hit

792
00:37:12,320 --> 00:37:15,799
Speaker 1: the ground running pajamas in the airport. Like, okay, I'll

793
00:37:15,840 --> 00:37:21,320
Speaker 1: say pajamas in the airport. A little gets pajamas and bonnets.

794
00:37:21,520 --> 00:37:22,520
Speaker 1: It's the same thing to me.

795
00:37:22,760 --> 00:37:23,080
Speaker 2: Agree.

796
00:37:23,280 --> 00:37:25,880
Speaker 1: So for me, my thing that I see is sometimes

797
00:37:25,880 --> 00:37:27,520
Speaker 1: I'll be like, this is ghetto. Like when you wear

798
00:37:27,600 --> 00:37:29,360
Speaker 1: like booty shorts in public, Oh, I hate it.

799
00:37:29,560 --> 00:37:31,960
Speaker 2: Oh that is so good on to me. That's like

800
00:37:32,080 --> 00:37:33,040
Speaker 2: I don't want to see your ass.

801
00:37:34,040 --> 00:37:37,600
Speaker 1: It's like you got kids here, Yeah, that's that's cheeks.

802
00:37:37,840 --> 00:37:39,640
Speaker 3: I don't think color hair is ghetto. I don't think

803
00:37:39,680 --> 00:37:42,800
Speaker 3: big earrings is ghetto. I don't big persons is ghetto.

804
00:37:42,840 --> 00:37:45,000
Speaker 3: I think if I could see pussy your body on

805
00:37:45,120 --> 00:37:46,880
Speaker 3: your niggas you see around.

806
00:37:46,680 --> 00:37:51,239
Speaker 2: Children, Like, why are we normalizing these days wearing.

807
00:37:51,080 --> 00:37:54,960
Speaker 4: A body suit outside with no stockings off long with

808
00:37:55,480 --> 00:37:56,120
Speaker 4: your whole ass.

809
00:37:56,440 --> 00:37:58,319
Speaker 2: Where are you going the strip?

810
00:37:59,320 --> 00:38:01,959
Speaker 1: Where are you okay?

811
00:38:01,960 --> 00:38:03,320
Speaker 3: So how do you feel about if they're wearing that

812
00:38:03,960 --> 00:38:06,560
Speaker 3: an adult only club? You know, because they got Now

813
00:38:06,640 --> 00:38:09,759
Speaker 3: if I see you with that target, bitch, you get them.

814
00:38:10,120 --> 00:38:12,080
Speaker 3: But if you want to club to niggas, I mean,

815
00:38:12,080 --> 00:38:12,319
Speaker 3: that's what.

816
00:38:12,320 --> 00:38:13,359
Speaker 1: It's for, That's what it's.

817
00:38:15,320 --> 00:38:17,920
Speaker 4: It depends on the environment, like if you're going to

818
00:38:18,239 --> 00:38:20,360
Speaker 4: a club, if you going to an adult club, whatever,

819
00:38:20,840 --> 00:38:26,880
Speaker 4: that's fine with children, Like are you are going to

820
00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:29,080
Speaker 4: do a school peekup and you got on booty shorts?

821
00:38:29,160 --> 00:38:33,080
Speaker 1: Yeahs?

822
00:38:33,320 --> 00:38:39,800
Speaker 2: And bonnet combo is nasty work to gather fascination? It

823
00:38:41,320 --> 00:38:47,640
Speaker 2: isation if you you I wanted to, I can't.

824
00:38:49,000 --> 00:38:51,560
Speaker 1: I catch it with the flip flops. But you know

825
00:38:51,680 --> 00:38:54,120
Speaker 1: what's crazy? But I said when I say ghetto, though

826
00:38:54,160 --> 00:38:57,000
Speaker 1: it doesn't, it's not a color to me because because

827
00:38:57,040 --> 00:39:00,359
Speaker 1: white holes do it too, Like I sa, I've been

828
00:39:00,400 --> 00:39:03,279
Speaker 1: behind a very small town, all white town. Them host

829
00:39:03,320 --> 00:39:07,120
Speaker 1: is ghetto. Yeah, what I told you. The first time

830
00:39:07,160 --> 00:39:10,960
Speaker 1: I seen a girl body tires, that's ghetto to me.

831
00:39:11,360 --> 00:39:13,440
Speaker 1: But it was a white girl that did it. Like

832
00:39:13,560 --> 00:39:15,719
Speaker 1: when I seeing like a crash out, it was a

833
00:39:15,760 --> 00:39:17,799
Speaker 1: white girl. I seen crash because we are women at

834
00:39:17,800 --> 00:39:20,279
Speaker 1: the end of the day, you know what I'm saying. Right, So,

835
00:39:20,480 --> 00:39:23,760
Speaker 1: like the first time we have this thing called Kroger

836
00:39:23,840 --> 00:39:25,600
Speaker 1: feet where I'm from, Croger feet.

837
00:39:25,600 --> 00:39:26,239
Speaker 2: Kroger feet.

838
00:39:27,280 --> 00:39:29,640
Speaker 1: That's when like you see somebody with dirty feet and

839
00:39:29,719 --> 00:39:30,880
Speaker 1: it looks like they've been walking.

840
00:39:30,640 --> 00:39:33,200
Speaker 2: Around with them in the old navy stands.

841
00:39:34,800 --> 00:39:41,439
Speaker 1: Ones. You know about the first time I seen people

842
00:39:41,719 --> 00:39:45,960
Speaker 1: back in the day, I think they was like they were.

843
00:39:46,320 --> 00:39:52,160
Speaker 1: It was a nice little little Abercrombie. But I'm saying

844
00:39:52,239 --> 00:39:55,799
Speaker 1: the first time I seen somebody walking around the store

845
00:39:55,880 --> 00:39:58,320
Speaker 1: with no shoes on, that's ghetto.

846
00:39:58,520 --> 00:39:59,000
Speaker 2: That's ghetto.

847
00:39:59,040 --> 00:40:01,120
Speaker 1: But it was it was a they wasn't home. It

848
00:40:01,200 --> 00:40:10,319
Speaker 1: was it was a white shoes when you have shoes anywhey, bitch,

849
00:40:10,680 --> 00:40:12,160
Speaker 1: did you print the trash no shoes on?

850
00:40:12,400 --> 00:40:16,840
Speaker 2: Come on, you want to talk about what's ghetto walking

851
00:40:16,880 --> 00:40:17,400
Speaker 2: outside with.

852
00:40:17,480 --> 00:40:21,719
Speaker 1: No sho if you step apartment, even if like, okay,

853
00:40:21,920 --> 00:40:24,399
Speaker 1: we live in high rises, right if you step out

854
00:40:24,480 --> 00:40:26,120
Speaker 1: and even you know, like the trash shoes at the

855
00:40:26,200 --> 00:40:28,760
Speaker 1: end of the hallway, If you step out of your house,

856
00:40:29,040 --> 00:40:30,960
Speaker 1: even if the trash shoot is right there without no

857
00:40:31,040 --> 00:40:32,960
Speaker 1: shoes on, that's a little get up because walking in

858
00:40:33,080 --> 00:40:35,680
Speaker 1: the trash room with no shoes on in the bathroom.

859
00:40:37,560 --> 00:40:40,160
Speaker 3: But what about if you in a hotel, okay, and

860
00:40:40,239 --> 00:40:42,640
Speaker 3: you're going down to get the extra key and you

861
00:40:42,719 --> 00:40:44,080
Speaker 3: got your stock phone, you.

862
00:40:44,120 --> 00:40:47,400
Speaker 1: Know you gotta put some shoes now. You gonna walk

863
00:40:47,440 --> 00:40:50,359
Speaker 1: down in a bonnet, a little bonnet real quick. That's

864
00:40:50,360 --> 00:40:53,040
Speaker 1: that's no. You gotta put you gotta.

865
00:40:53,200 --> 00:40:56,680
Speaker 4: Past give us sock the pass because it's stupping between

866
00:40:56,760 --> 00:40:58,320
Speaker 4: your foot in the ground.

867
00:40:58,840 --> 00:41:01,879
Speaker 2: Let my kids the sanitation.

868
00:41:02,719 --> 00:41:07,279
Speaker 1: Just put some shoes on, some shoes on. I'm to

869
00:41:07,400 --> 00:41:13,680
Speaker 1: go downstairs and get my key. I ain't gonna lie, okay,

870
00:41:14,520 --> 00:41:18,440
Speaker 1: not every time. Every time a minute, I literally have

871
00:41:18,600 --> 00:41:20,600
Speaker 1: to walk down and get up. She's like, I gotta

872
00:41:20,680 --> 00:41:24,080
Speaker 1: lay my hedges, not the edges. Draw don't go nowhere

873
00:41:24,680 --> 00:41:26,280
Speaker 1: because she's up pretty.

874
00:41:26,840 --> 00:41:28,239
Speaker 2: She's you can tell you a bad bitch.

875
00:41:28,280 --> 00:41:31,120
Speaker 3: You can sell you can tell you Thanksgiving. We were

876
00:41:31,160 --> 00:41:32,560
Speaker 3: sitting down right here. She was over there, get her

877
00:41:32,600 --> 00:41:34,480
Speaker 3: make up ready, getting listen.

878
00:41:34,560 --> 00:41:36,520
Speaker 1: We had Thanksgiving the other day, so we all decided

879
00:41:36,520 --> 00:41:38,120
Speaker 1: to do a friends giving like with all of us

880
00:41:38,120 --> 00:41:41,080
Speaker 1: because we didn't go home. Everybody like, okay, it's just us,

881
00:41:41,360 --> 00:41:45,240
Speaker 1: it's just the girls. I walk in with some uggs, leggings,

882
00:41:45,280 --> 00:41:48,120
Speaker 1: looking regular. My homegirl got on a T shirt, some

883
00:41:48,239 --> 00:41:51,319
Speaker 1: tennis shoes. My other homegirl she already drunk as fuck,

884
00:41:51,760 --> 00:41:55,319
Speaker 1: hair all over her head. We're doing whatever. Dra walks in. Hey,

885
00:41:55,600 --> 00:41:59,240
Speaker 1: she got on some hern boots. You could tell a scar.

886
00:41:59,440 --> 00:42:00,399
Speaker 1: She's like, y'all.

887
00:42:03,280 --> 00:42:06,400
Speaker 4: In my defense, I said that was my first stop.

888
00:42:06,840 --> 00:42:09,640
Speaker 4: I had somewhere else to go after that. I ended

889
00:42:09,719 --> 00:42:14,200
Speaker 4: up not going because yours. I had somewhere to go afterwards.

890
00:42:14,280 --> 00:42:16,359
Speaker 4: That was like my first little stop. But I ended

891
00:42:16,440 --> 00:42:18,680
Speaker 4: up not going because my friend was like, oh, it's okay,

892
00:42:18,680 --> 00:42:20,120
Speaker 4: you don't got to pull up because I feel sick.

893
00:42:20,680 --> 00:42:23,000
Speaker 4: But I was supposed to go somewhere else.

894
00:42:23,239 --> 00:42:26,960
Speaker 2: That's why I was cute. Put on the whole imuld

895
00:42:27,080 --> 00:42:27,239
Speaker 2: go and.

896
00:42:27,280 --> 00:42:28,040
Speaker 1: See them bitches.

897
00:42:28,080 --> 00:42:31,800
Speaker 2: I would have wore some ugsuk, okay, but it's not

898
00:42:31,920 --> 00:42:32,480
Speaker 2: a bad thing.

899
00:42:32,680 --> 00:42:35,719
Speaker 1: But you'd be going nowhere, like you ain't gonna walk

900
00:42:35,800 --> 00:42:37,960
Speaker 1: down that's with sock song.

901
00:42:38,200 --> 00:42:40,479
Speaker 2: But I don't see nothing. I didn't say I would

902
00:42:40,520 --> 00:42:40,680
Speaker 2: do it.

903
00:42:40,800 --> 00:42:44,840
Speaker 4: I said, I say, I don't nothing wrong with it,

904
00:42:45,040 --> 00:42:47,600
Speaker 4: like and to me, it's just dirty if you don't

905
00:42:47,719 --> 00:42:55,520
Speaker 4: have nothing between your food your feet, if you got

906
00:42:55,640 --> 00:42:58,680
Speaker 4: sock song, it's a barrier. Yeah, and especially if you're

907
00:42:58,719 --> 00:43:00,799
Speaker 4: just going downstairs real quick, get a key going back.

908
00:43:00,800 --> 00:43:02,080
Speaker 3: I don't like walking in my house with I was

909
00:43:02,120 --> 00:43:05,120
Speaker 3: socks on. If I do, it's because, oh I I

910
00:43:05,200 --> 00:43:05,600
Speaker 3: hate walking.

911
00:43:05,760 --> 00:43:07,799
Speaker 1: I'm a slipper girl. I do wear slippers and I'm

912
00:43:07,800 --> 00:43:12,120
Speaker 1: a side girl. I'm doing a sock But now I will.

913
00:43:11,960 --> 00:43:12,520
Speaker 2: Say it's s gattle.

914
00:43:12,560 --> 00:43:15,680
Speaker 1: When people wear sneakers and socks to the beach, that's

915
00:43:15,719 --> 00:43:16,239
Speaker 1: ghetto too.

916
00:43:16,360 --> 00:43:17,080
Speaker 2: What's said about that?

917
00:43:17,480 --> 00:43:20,120
Speaker 1: Because why are you it's hot? It's ninety bitch, I

918
00:43:20,239 --> 00:43:22,080
Speaker 1: just had on sneakers at the beach. Why would you

919
00:43:22,160 --> 00:43:26,680
Speaker 1: wear sneakers on the ATV? Okay, that's different. You have

920
00:43:26,840 --> 00:43:29,479
Speaker 1: to wear. If you wear flip flops on the a TV,

921
00:43:29,800 --> 00:43:31,720
Speaker 1: that's ghetto because why are you not prepared?

922
00:43:31,760 --> 00:43:34,480
Speaker 2: But you about to kill yourself? You look crazy trying

923
00:43:34,480 --> 00:43:36,920
Speaker 2: to get all poppy, you know what I'm saying. But

924
00:43:37,080 --> 00:43:38,520
Speaker 2: if you're like it's like a beach day.

925
00:43:38,520 --> 00:43:40,280
Speaker 1: If you go to like a beach club like Nikki

926
00:43:40,320 --> 00:43:43,279
Speaker 1: Beach in Miami and you got sneakers on, that's crazy.

927
00:43:43,360 --> 00:43:47,759
Speaker 1: People don't like to stand between these tools. No, no, no,

928
00:43:48,160 --> 00:43:48,799
Speaker 1: I'm fine with.

929
00:43:48,880 --> 00:43:49,960
Speaker 2: It, but some people don't.

930
00:43:50,360 --> 00:43:52,560
Speaker 1: But should be hot, I ain't about no fucking Miami.

931
00:43:52,600 --> 00:43:54,680
Speaker 3: So that's about solf fucking out the country saying that

932
00:43:54,719 --> 00:43:59,440
Speaker 3: should be hot. It's just saying to be hot Miami

933
00:43:59,560 --> 00:44:02,000
Speaker 3: saying that's saying all right, but no, I feel like just.

934
00:44:02,080 --> 00:44:03,840
Speaker 1: Dressed for that occasion. Put some flip flops on.

935
00:44:04,120 --> 00:44:07,120
Speaker 2: Okay, I don't like flip flops, my feat flip flops,

936
00:44:07,120 --> 00:44:07,600
Speaker 2: but I wasn't.

937
00:44:07,640 --> 00:44:10,200
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie when your foot than you. I

938
00:44:10,280 --> 00:44:14,319
Speaker 1: wear a ten. Okay, well I was still I feel

939
00:44:14,360 --> 00:44:17,200
Speaker 1: like an not not that bad. That's in my height.

940
00:44:17,560 --> 00:44:20,600
Speaker 1: I'm six feet so it's different. But flip thoughts on me,

941
00:44:21,480 --> 00:44:26,800
Speaker 1: I'll be looking like the dude. Like one picture I

942
00:44:26,880 --> 00:44:30,759
Speaker 1: took it was for your birthday, was big, this seat

943
00:44:30,920 --> 00:44:34,320
Speaker 1: was so fu And took a picture for her birthday

944
00:44:34,440 --> 00:44:37,480
Speaker 1: last year when were we went to knife Yeah, and

945
00:44:37,680 --> 00:44:39,960
Speaker 1: everybody was like, we took a picture and I had

946
00:44:40,000 --> 00:44:41,879
Speaker 1: on these cute shoes I had just bought that day.

947
00:44:41,920 --> 00:44:43,800
Speaker 1: They were so cute. It was the pink red bottles.

948
00:44:43,880 --> 00:44:46,600
Speaker 1: Like I was sitting that up. There was like god, damn,

949
00:44:46,719 --> 00:44:54,319
Speaker 1: lex feet big fifty. They call you gotta les gear.

950
00:44:54,480 --> 00:44:57,720
Speaker 2: Somebody got to point it, like damn, I put.

951
00:44:57,600 --> 00:44:59,560
Speaker 1: My feet up. But I'm okay. Let me ask you

952
00:44:59,640 --> 00:44:59,920
Speaker 1: that though.

953
00:45:00,040 --> 00:45:01,560
Speaker 2: Were you ever like insecure.

954
00:45:01,160 --> 00:45:01,840
Speaker 1: About your heights?

955
00:45:01,920 --> 00:45:02,360
Speaker 2: I used to be.

956
00:45:03,560 --> 00:45:06,160
Speaker 3: I didn't accept my height, so I was like, nineteen, okay, yeah,

957
00:45:06,160 --> 00:45:08,440
Speaker 3: I'm saying and only I think I only accepted it

958
00:45:08,600 --> 00:45:10,799
Speaker 3: because I already had a tall for instance, like six.

959
00:45:11,360 --> 00:45:13,840
Speaker 3: But when I met other tall girls, that's when I

960
00:45:14,200 --> 00:45:16,120
Speaker 3: accepted my height, like okay, I'm about to walk in

961
00:45:16,160 --> 00:45:16,440
Speaker 3: the room.

962
00:45:16,520 --> 00:45:19,440
Speaker 1: That's when I noticed that the height was sexy, like yeah.

963
00:45:19,680 --> 00:45:22,799
Speaker 3: Looking or who them tall girls? Is I climb that tree?

964
00:45:22,840 --> 00:45:24,400
Speaker 3: Like I'm like, okay, these niggas, it's sexy.

965
00:45:24,520 --> 00:45:27,239
Speaker 1: Nine Like That's when I said, except them those nineteen Yeah,

966
00:45:27,280 --> 00:45:29,439
Speaker 1: I feel like I accepted my height at an older age.

967
00:45:29,480 --> 00:45:31,520
Speaker 1: I'm like, I can't do nothing about it. But then

968
00:45:31,560 --> 00:45:34,200
Speaker 1: once men like I realized all they like that they

969
00:45:34,280 --> 00:45:36,279
Speaker 1: love it. They love a little even though they hated

970
00:45:36,320 --> 00:45:38,719
Speaker 1: when I was in middle school. Yeah, them same middle

971
00:45:38,760 --> 00:45:40,880
Speaker 1: school niggas, all on our trail. But she got my

972
00:45:41,000 --> 00:45:43,680
Speaker 1: DM They like it now they do. I like tall girls,

973
00:45:43,719 --> 00:45:45,240
Speaker 1: but she ain't like the naven middle school.

974
00:45:46,160 --> 00:45:48,719
Speaker 2: But I think it's always the classic case of like.

975
00:45:50,440 --> 00:45:51,560
Speaker 1: Wanting what you don't have.

976
00:45:52,080 --> 00:45:54,319
Speaker 4: Yeah, because when I yeah, because when I was younger,

977
00:45:54,360 --> 00:45:56,440
Speaker 4: I feel like I always wanted to be taller.

978
00:45:56,680 --> 00:46:00,920
Speaker 1: Really, I ain't never hear no short hold city you

979
00:46:00,920 --> 00:46:04,080
Speaker 1: ever heard show? No, Well, I'm I like wanting to

980
00:46:04,160 --> 00:46:07,919
Speaker 1: have a little, a little height like my A short

981
00:46:08,000 --> 00:46:09,320
Speaker 1: girl may see it, Like I wish I was like

982
00:46:09,360 --> 00:46:11,160
Speaker 1: five seven five, but that's not tall.

983
00:46:11,440 --> 00:46:12,799
Speaker 2: You gotta be like five ten.

984
00:46:13,440 --> 00:46:13,879
Speaker 1: That's tall.

985
00:46:13,920 --> 00:46:15,800
Speaker 2: I don't even count five seven girls though.

986
00:46:16,160 --> 00:46:19,040
Speaker 4: But see, so it is more so that like I

987
00:46:19,160 --> 00:46:20,839
Speaker 4: was like, damn, I wish I was like five eight.

988
00:46:21,200 --> 00:46:24,160
Speaker 4: But but when you got things going.

989
00:46:24,080 --> 00:46:25,680
Speaker 2: No, you won't be safe.

990
00:46:26,280 --> 00:46:27,000
Speaker 1: Yeah you know what I mean.

991
00:46:27,000 --> 00:46:29,239
Speaker 4: You're still gonna be taller than a lot of these niggas. Yea,

992
00:46:29,960 --> 00:46:32,560
Speaker 4: So I really use the wish I was taller like

993
00:46:32,600 --> 00:46:34,520
Speaker 4: I used to be, Like damn, Like I'm really not

994
00:46:34,600 --> 00:46:35,440
Speaker 4: gonna grow no, more.

995
00:46:35,560 --> 00:46:36,120
Speaker 2: I really used to be.

996
00:46:36,480 --> 00:46:38,319
Speaker 4: I really used to be upset about it. I was like, damn,

997
00:46:38,360 --> 00:46:41,080
Speaker 4: I'm really yeah, I used to wish I was taller.

998
00:46:41,480 --> 00:46:44,120
Speaker 1: Little you too. I want to be pete. I want

999
00:46:44,160 --> 00:46:46,520
Speaker 1: to be a petite. I want to Yeah, I want

1000
00:46:46,520 --> 00:46:48,680
Speaker 1: to look up. I want to look up to my niggas. Yeah.

1001
00:46:49,000 --> 00:46:50,919
Speaker 1: But I got over. I got over that real quick,

1002
00:46:51,000 --> 00:46:53,480
Speaker 1: like cause these niggas do not be tall. But I'm not.

1003
00:46:53,880 --> 00:46:57,640
Speaker 1: I'm not tall in the grand scheme of I'm not

1004
00:46:57,880 --> 00:46:59,920
Speaker 1: but for a woman, I was the way he was finished,

1005
00:47:01,000 --> 00:47:04,880
Speaker 1: you're not. She's like five yeah, but listen though, she

1006
00:47:04,920 --> 00:47:09,280
Speaker 1: gotta let hell but girl, but when it comes to dating,

1007
00:47:09,440 --> 00:47:13,279
Speaker 1: I'm tall, agree because I wear shoulds a lot. So

1008
00:47:13,400 --> 00:47:15,560
Speaker 1: when I put on heels and I wear platform heels

1009
00:47:15,560 --> 00:47:18,640
Speaker 1: a lot to like, I've been six inch heels by

1010
00:47:18,680 --> 00:47:20,080
Speaker 1: the time I put a heel on, I'm six one

1011
00:47:20,160 --> 00:47:22,479
Speaker 1: six to these niggas don't be six one.

1012
00:47:22,440 --> 00:47:24,399
Speaker 2: Six because all the show holds got them.

1013
00:47:26,560 --> 00:47:28,360
Speaker 1: All couple. The other day, I'm like, that's supposed to

1014
00:47:28,440 --> 00:47:35,200
Speaker 1: love y'all me me and hate them up and took

1015
00:47:35,239 --> 00:47:40,400
Speaker 1: all the hold are y'all like the same When I

1016
00:47:40,440 --> 00:47:44,640
Speaker 1: put it the heel tallow freak myself. That's all right.

1017
00:47:44,680 --> 00:47:48,680
Speaker 2: I want to I want my niggas to tower.

1018
00:47:48,960 --> 00:47:51,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, y'all gotta date, y'all mean yeah, I had to

1019
00:47:52,080 --> 00:47:52,759
Speaker 4: stop taking them.

1020
00:47:54,960 --> 00:47:56,919
Speaker 1: When you have a call man, though, you do feel

1021
00:47:56,920 --> 00:47:59,400
Speaker 1: a little different, like it feels.

1022
00:47:59,320 --> 00:48:01,640
Speaker 2: Like see baby though.

1023
00:48:01,719 --> 00:48:04,200
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'm like, this is how little hug.

1024
00:48:05,560 --> 00:48:07,040
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Because other than that, I'd

1025
00:48:07,040 --> 00:48:12,600
Speaker 1: be like, hey, nigga, will we going eating? Yeah? You

1026
00:48:12,640 --> 00:48:20,000
Speaker 1: know you still got it like kind of like a lady. Okay,

1027
00:48:20,480 --> 00:48:23,919
Speaker 1: my voice, Oh my god, y'all.

1028
00:48:24,040 --> 00:48:25,720
Speaker 2: I was on Twitter yesterday.

1029
00:48:25,920 --> 00:48:28,640
Speaker 4: No, I was on in TikTok Live the other day

1030
00:48:29,280 --> 00:48:33,600
Speaker 4: and somebody was like, dram Be sounded like Future and

1031
00:48:33,719 --> 00:48:33,960
Speaker 4: I was.

1032
00:48:35,719 --> 00:48:38,880
Speaker 1: I was like, Mitch, use me, I think that's a

1033
00:48:38,960 --> 00:48:41,399
Speaker 1: Southern thing. Though they was like, they was like, yeah,

1034
00:48:41,480 --> 00:48:44,000
Speaker 1: your voice is deep as FuG. I was like, do

1035
00:48:44,160 --> 00:48:48,560
Speaker 1: I really sound like future? Friend? But it's real. Red

1036
00:48:48,719 --> 00:48:51,640
Speaker 1: I always said a deep voice. It's a Southern thing.

1037
00:48:51,680 --> 00:48:54,560
Speaker 1: I think Southern women just have deep boys sound like

1038
00:48:55,080 --> 00:48:58,160
Speaker 1: is it from my daddy? Probably it gotta be. I

1039
00:48:58,320 --> 00:48:58,600
Speaker 1: heard that.

1040
00:48:58,760 --> 00:48:59,000
Speaker 2: Listen.

1041
00:48:59,080 --> 00:49:01,480
Speaker 3: I literally went by because that don't sound like a

1042
00:49:01,560 --> 00:49:05,160
Speaker 3: nigga said that you I woldt viral vine because they

1043
00:49:05,200 --> 00:49:07,759
Speaker 3: said that sounded like a nigga. I was like the

1044
00:49:08,160 --> 00:49:10,719
Speaker 3: tonebok girl with a voice, and I was told, so

1045
00:49:10,880 --> 00:49:12,080
Speaker 3: I give me about it, like.

1046
00:49:12,200 --> 00:49:14,000
Speaker 1: Girl, I feel like, I don't know, I feel like

1047
00:49:14,000 --> 00:49:21,320
Speaker 1: a little I think it's that's playing with me exactly,

1048
00:49:21,520 --> 00:49:24,879
Speaker 1: said the future reach. I'm almost reached. She's giving deep

1049
00:49:24,960 --> 00:49:32,920
Speaker 1: voice supremacy exactly. But that'd be the main thing. Like

1050
00:49:32,960 --> 00:49:35,920
Speaker 1: when people describing like they always be like, oh that

1051
00:49:36,080 --> 00:49:38,640
Speaker 1: girl on the on the blue couch, she's so masculine

1052
00:49:38,880 --> 00:49:39,880
Speaker 1: because like I said, I'm a.

1053
00:49:39,880 --> 00:49:44,759
Speaker 3: Little bit taller. I snig boy, and that's and that's

1054
00:49:44,800 --> 00:49:46,200
Speaker 3: what they get from it. Like you not, but you

1055
00:49:46,239 --> 00:49:48,239
Speaker 3: don't know me enough to say, man, you you coming

1056
00:49:48,239 --> 00:49:50,440
Speaker 3: from my voice to my height and how I'm talking,

1057
00:49:50,520 --> 00:49:51,239
Speaker 3: that's it right.

1058
00:49:51,280 --> 00:49:53,080
Speaker 1: But I think on social media too, like of course,

1059
00:49:53,120 --> 00:49:55,000
Speaker 1: like we give a little extra because we're entertaining.

1060
00:49:55,120 --> 00:49:56,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm supposed to ignite it.

1061
00:49:57,080 --> 00:50:01,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I'm like every day that faces people really

1062
00:50:01,320 --> 00:50:07,080
Speaker 1: be online thinking I wake up like listen, I'm listen.

1063
00:50:07,239 --> 00:50:09,960
Speaker 2: I didn't think I don't like that every day.

1064
00:50:10,040 --> 00:50:11,640
Speaker 3: I did not think somebody thought of me like that

1065
00:50:11,800 --> 00:50:14,759
Speaker 3: until I got my fiance. The first date, he said

1066
00:50:14,800 --> 00:50:16,640
Speaker 3: he thought I was gonna be loud and ghetto.

1067
00:50:16,960 --> 00:50:18,719
Speaker 1: I'm like, why the fun would you think that? Yeah,

1068
00:50:18,840 --> 00:50:21,960
Speaker 1: because I'm loud online. I'm a lady, That's what I'll

1069
00:50:22,040 --> 00:50:23,920
Speaker 1: be saying. I think men do expect that out of me,

1070
00:50:23,960 --> 00:50:26,040
Speaker 1: so when they they can get a totally.

1071
00:50:25,800 --> 00:50:30,120
Speaker 4: Different sometimes, and I think, just think I'm gonna be

1072
00:50:30,320 --> 00:50:34,440
Speaker 4: a certain way and I'm ghetto. Yeah, you more yetto

1073
00:50:34,520 --> 00:50:34,719
Speaker 4: than me.

1074
00:50:36,600 --> 00:50:40,680
Speaker 2: First of all, absolutely, this lady grew up around our

1075
00:50:40,800 --> 00:50:41,400
Speaker 2: lighter friend.

1076
00:50:42,360 --> 00:50:48,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, no, around hood, the hood, the hood people, the

1077
00:50:49,040 --> 00:50:49,799
Speaker 4: trees all.

1078
00:50:50,719 --> 00:50:56,800
Speaker 1: I'm definitely a little more. She'd be like, I'm dying.

1079
00:50:57,440 --> 00:50:59,239
Speaker 4: The crazy thing about me, though, is I grew up

1080
00:50:59,239 --> 00:51:01,640
Speaker 4: in the hood, but I want to private school until you.

1081
00:51:01,640 --> 00:51:06,520
Speaker 1: Have the best world, girls. I grew up in a

1082
00:51:06,680 --> 00:51:07,600
Speaker 1: diverse neighborhood.

1083
00:51:07,600 --> 00:51:09,960
Speaker 3: It was white, but I went to a school that

1084
00:51:10,200 --> 00:51:11,920
Speaker 3: could have been a fucking private school, but it was.

1085
00:51:12,000 --> 00:51:12,719
Speaker 2: It was public, but it.

1086
00:51:13,000 --> 00:51:14,920
Speaker 1: Gave private and then I got kicked out and I

1087
00:51:14,960 --> 00:51:16,640
Speaker 1: went to a public school that was big nigga.

1088
00:51:17,200 --> 00:51:18,439
Speaker 2: I'm my damn bitch y'all.

1089
00:51:18,520 --> 00:51:21,320
Speaker 3: You nigga's dumb, you know, I'm like, okay, So my

1090
00:51:21,440 --> 00:51:23,239
Speaker 3: school was a good school. I did go, so I

1091
00:51:23,320 --> 00:51:25,680
Speaker 3: did come from a private looking school and I met it.

1092
00:51:25,719 --> 00:51:27,080
Speaker 3: So I got the best of all worlds. And I'm

1093
00:51:27,400 --> 00:51:30,000
Speaker 3: happy because I could like being around it.

1094
00:51:30,200 --> 00:51:33,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, in a room, you could adapt in any situation.

1095
00:51:33,640 --> 00:51:36,719
Speaker 1: Where are you from? In New Orleans seventeen? The nigga

1096
00:51:36,760 --> 00:51:38,000
Speaker 1: may not know that though, because he was.

1097
00:51:38,000 --> 00:51:38,839
Speaker 2: On it that nine years.

1098
00:51:39,160 --> 00:51:40,880
Speaker 1: But see, I used to come up.

1099
00:51:45,800 --> 00:51:47,320
Speaker 2: I used to, girl, I forgot.

1100
00:51:47,640 --> 00:51:50,759
Speaker 4: Now you can't have the New Orleans because, like you said,

1101
00:51:50,840 --> 00:51:54,800
Speaker 4: he really from that, But I used to when I

1102
00:51:54,920 --> 00:51:56,680
Speaker 4: was in high school. Now this is like my first

1103
00:51:56,719 --> 00:51:59,000
Speaker 4: boyfriend that I was like super in love with. He

1104
00:51:59,160 --> 00:52:00,719
Speaker 4: was on the West Bank and he was like people

1105
00:52:00,760 --> 00:52:02,840
Speaker 4: always say, the West Bank ain't really New Orleans.

1106
00:52:03,120 --> 00:52:05,400
Speaker 1: It depends on which part is he from Algiers or.

1107
00:52:05,440 --> 00:52:10,080
Speaker 2: Like from Algiers Elia is New Orleans, Okay, but the

1108
00:52:10,440 --> 00:52:12,160
Speaker 2: New Orleans people feel like that's not New Orleans.

1109
00:52:12,160 --> 00:52:13,960
Speaker 1: That's what he was saying. Cool it is.

1110
00:52:14,200 --> 00:52:19,480
Speaker 3: It's still if you could address said New Orleans, Louisian, don't. Yeah,

1111
00:52:19,640 --> 00:52:22,120
Speaker 3: once you pass Elgier's, that's the west Bank and the

1112
00:52:22,200 --> 00:52:23,520
Speaker 3: west The thing is the west Bank.

1113
00:52:23,600 --> 00:52:25,040
Speaker 2: We do that because the west Bank is still on

1114
00:52:25,120 --> 00:52:25,640
Speaker 2: each side.

1115
00:52:26,000 --> 00:52:26,279
Speaker 1: They don't.

1116
00:52:26,360 --> 00:52:28,279
Speaker 3: They don't funk with the city is what we call

1117
00:52:28,400 --> 00:52:31,440
Speaker 3: New Orleans. The city, the West Bank. Everything that you

1118
00:52:31,560 --> 00:52:32,440
Speaker 3: need is on the West Bank.

1119
00:52:32,480 --> 00:52:33,960
Speaker 1: They have no reason to come to New Words.

1120
00:52:34,040 --> 00:52:35,560
Speaker 2: But they feel like, nah, but I'm from the West Bank.

1121
00:52:35,600 --> 00:52:38,200
Speaker 2: We feel like, well, from New Orleans. But then there

1122
00:52:38,320 --> 00:52:39,759
Speaker 2: was a lot of time they're gonna stay there from

1123
00:52:39,760 --> 00:52:40,200
Speaker 2: New Orleans.

1124
00:52:40,600 --> 00:52:43,040
Speaker 1: Okay, that West Bank, Nigga. If you go to Houston,

1125
00:52:43,040 --> 00:52:45,080
Speaker 1: he's gonna stay. I'm from New Orleans. That's what happened.

1126
00:52:45,320 --> 00:52:46,840
Speaker 1: He moved to Houston.

1127
00:52:46,880 --> 00:52:48,600
Speaker 4: That's how we started dating in high school because he

1128
00:52:48,680 --> 00:52:49,960
Speaker 4: moved when Katrina happened.

1129
00:52:50,000 --> 00:52:54,680
Speaker 2: Okay, girl, because you know everybody, Oh.

1130
00:52:54,600 --> 00:52:57,840
Speaker 1: My god, it was everybody, Oh my god, I know

1131
00:52:58,760 --> 00:53:04,359
Speaker 1: you are what you girl? What? Yes? I was that mean?

1132
00:53:04,440 --> 00:53:06,400
Speaker 1: You was in high school too, right? I was in

1133
00:53:06,480 --> 00:53:07,600
Speaker 1: ninete seventeen.

1134
00:53:08,760 --> 00:53:10,360
Speaker 2: You went to school, No, I didn't.

1135
00:53:10,719 --> 00:53:13,560
Speaker 3: So what happened was when when the storm hits, I

1136
00:53:13,760 --> 00:53:17,920
Speaker 3: ended up evacuating to bad Roofe And in January first,

1137
00:53:17,960 --> 00:53:21,719
Speaker 3: two thousand and six, we moved to Texas. I didn't

1138
00:53:21,719 --> 00:53:26,600
Speaker 3: move to Houston. I moved to Clelly Like and then

1139
00:53:26,600 --> 00:53:30,600
Speaker 3: I moved to We moved on NASA Roe one. My

1140
00:53:30,680 --> 00:53:31,920
Speaker 3: sister went to clic High.

1141
00:53:32,000 --> 00:53:32,839
Speaker 2: She graduated from.

1142
00:53:33,520 --> 00:53:35,520
Speaker 1: Okay, so once we moved to text, but I ain't

1143
00:53:35,520 --> 00:53:38,200
Speaker 1: gonnack to school work. Yo. He was like like I

1144
00:53:38,320 --> 00:53:40,839
Speaker 1: went to Memoros, I'm not going to So I didn't

1145
00:53:40,880 --> 00:53:43,480
Speaker 1: be took in Texas. But I was in Texas.

1146
00:53:43,560 --> 00:53:46,480
Speaker 3: I worked in Texas, and I saw how everybody went

1147
00:53:46,560 --> 00:53:48,759
Speaker 3: to went to you saying bish new Orleington host to

1148
00:53:48,840 --> 00:53:49,479
Speaker 3: know what I'm just saying.

1149
00:53:49,640 --> 00:53:54,200
Speaker 1: Remember didn't he graduate from You of h Yeah he did.

1150
00:53:54,760 --> 00:53:56,839
Speaker 1: He wasn't tu No, it was You of Age because

1151
00:53:57,000 --> 00:53:58,520
Speaker 1: that was before I flunked out of You of Age.

1152
00:53:58,760 --> 00:54:00,520
Speaker 1: He was there and then he was like taking like

1153
00:54:00,680 --> 00:54:05,000
Speaker 1: it was something like yeah, but he was taking some

1154
00:54:05,280 --> 00:54:06,880
Speaker 1: like creative class like I want to say it was

1155
00:54:06,920 --> 00:54:09,200
Speaker 1: like a poetry class or something. But they said that

1156
00:54:09,360 --> 00:54:12,120
Speaker 1: like that's what he was. But so I was in Orange.

1157
00:54:12,160 --> 00:54:14,040
Speaker 1: I told you we're Orange is It's the first stop,

1158
00:54:14,120 --> 00:54:17,080
Speaker 1: Like when you leave Louisiana and you're on it and

1159
00:54:17,200 --> 00:54:19,959
Speaker 1: Orange is the first stop. So we got a big

1160
00:54:20,160 --> 00:54:23,040
Speaker 1: wave of people from Man.

1161
00:54:23,000 --> 00:54:24,719
Speaker 2: It was so crazy.

1162
00:54:25,080 --> 00:54:28,560
Speaker 1: I wasn't I mean, I want to hear from a

1163
00:54:28,719 --> 00:54:37,680
Speaker 1: Texas girl. Okay, fun you knew it was exactly what's

1164
00:54:37,719 --> 00:54:40,320
Speaker 1: the way they fun? Yeah, And then of course I

1165
00:54:42,200 --> 00:54:43,880
Speaker 1: was a child when I was young. I was a

1166
00:54:44,000 --> 00:54:47,040
Speaker 1: kid because because you said you were in eighth grade, No,

1167
00:54:47,160 --> 00:54:48,000
Speaker 1: I was in ninth grade.

1168
00:54:48,040 --> 00:54:48,719
Speaker 2: You was in ninth grade.

1169
00:54:48,719 --> 00:54:51,120
Speaker 1: So I was, yeah, that makes sense. I was like

1170
00:54:51,160 --> 00:54:53,480
Speaker 1: a junior or a singer at that time whatever. So

1171
00:54:53,600 --> 00:54:55,920
Speaker 1: when it came, it was just like we're a small school.

1172
00:54:55,960 --> 00:54:57,680
Speaker 1: We're four a school. So when they came, it was

1173
00:54:57,719 --> 00:55:00,400
Speaker 1: like a whole bunch of it was so it was

1174
00:55:00,440 --> 00:55:03,960
Speaker 1: everything was out of order. We had, you know, a

1175
00:55:04,080 --> 00:55:06,520
Speaker 1: class that usually had twenty people in it. Now it's

1176
00:55:06,560 --> 00:55:09,000
Speaker 1: like forty forty five people. So I'm walking in my

1177
00:55:09,120 --> 00:55:11,000
Speaker 1: classroom and I don't have nowhere to see it, and

1178
00:55:11,080 --> 00:55:12,319
Speaker 1: I think I'm already thinking I'm.

1179
00:55:12,280 --> 00:55:14,440
Speaker 2: Queen Bee and I'm like, oh my god, like when

1180
00:55:14,440 --> 00:55:14,880
Speaker 2: do y'all.

1181
00:55:14,760 --> 00:55:15,920
Speaker 1: Need to get out of my seat?

1182
00:55:16,760 --> 00:55:18,680
Speaker 2: Do you know, like you need to get out of

1183
00:55:18,760 --> 00:55:19,320
Speaker 2: my seat?

1184
00:55:19,840 --> 00:55:24,560
Speaker 4: And she used to be so please you show her

1185
00:55:24,960 --> 00:55:28,440
Speaker 4: that picture of you when you were your emo face.

1186
00:55:29,239 --> 00:55:31,000
Speaker 2: Yeah I had an emo face.

1187
00:55:33,480 --> 00:55:35,120
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I used to think. I was like, saw

1188
00:55:35,239 --> 00:55:38,080
Speaker 1: my girl, I'm like, somebody needs to get out of

1189
00:55:38,160 --> 00:55:44,319
Speaker 1: my seat. I have nowhere to sat hold on my lap.

1190
00:55:47,080 --> 00:55:50,960
Speaker 1: She coming down that booty? Hell what happened? Like, oh

1191
00:55:51,040 --> 00:55:54,840
Speaker 1: my god, I love it. I was like, who helped me?

1192
00:55:55,120 --> 00:55:56,480
Speaker 2: We definitely claimed the territory.

1193
00:55:56,680 --> 00:55:58,480
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it was a difference. It was fine.

1194
00:55:59,000 --> 00:56:02,320
Speaker 2: It was like, yeah, so you know, I'm not listening.

1195
00:56:02,520 --> 00:56:05,239
Speaker 3: One thing in New Orleans girls was hating how you

1196
00:56:05,440 --> 00:56:07,360
Speaker 3: Texas holes was stealing on niggas?

1197
00:56:07,480 --> 00:56:13,799
Speaker 1: Like why is definitely or a story It's probably gonna

1198
00:56:13,800 --> 00:56:19,319
Speaker 1: get gonna know, so I'm not gonna say nat because

1199
00:56:19,360 --> 00:56:21,239
Speaker 1: y'all obviously donna know who I'm talking about. You know,

1200
00:56:21,880 --> 00:56:23,320
Speaker 1: I hope they do not click this and send this

1201
00:56:23,400 --> 00:56:26,680
Speaker 1: to this man. So there was a guy from Orange.

1202
00:56:27,480 --> 00:56:30,040
Speaker 2: From Orange, Yes, it was really popular. He was very

1203
00:56:30,160 --> 00:56:31,000
Speaker 2: very good at sports.

1204
00:56:31,560 --> 00:56:33,600
Speaker 1: The way his story went on, Yeah, they are where

1205
00:56:33,600 --> 00:56:35,560
Speaker 1: I'm about to go with this, So how many niggas

1206
00:56:35,640 --> 00:56:38,920
Speaker 1: is really from Orange? Exactly? So anyway history where his

1207
00:56:39,040 --> 00:56:41,239
Speaker 1: story letter. He ended up going to the league being

1208
00:56:41,280 --> 00:56:43,040
Speaker 1: like the number one safety in the league. Like he

1209
00:56:43,160 --> 00:56:46,759
Speaker 1: had a story. But I remember when they came down

1210
00:56:46,800 --> 00:56:48,800
Speaker 1: from New Orleans. This girl came from New Orleans and

1211
00:56:48,880 --> 00:56:52,239
Speaker 1: she was she was cleaning up bench. So that's what

1212
00:56:52,400 --> 00:56:55,080
Speaker 1: it wasn't like the Checklist girls. Was the New Orleans

1213
00:56:55,120 --> 00:56:56,839
Speaker 1: girls came and they was cleaning.

1214
00:56:56,680 --> 00:56:59,920
Speaker 4: Up, They was getting they was getting there.

1215
00:57:01,760 --> 00:57:03,759
Speaker 1: Yes, that's what I'm saying. So from my experience, I

1216
00:57:03,800 --> 00:57:05,360
Speaker 1: was like, oh my god, because at that point, like

1217
00:57:05,600 --> 00:57:07,239
Speaker 1: I used to swear, me and him was in love

1218
00:57:07,600 --> 00:57:09,520
Speaker 1: like my mom knew his mom. I was like, oh

1219
00:57:09,560 --> 00:57:12,120
Speaker 1: my god, this is my hood, right right. I mean,

1220
00:57:12,200 --> 00:57:15,600
Speaker 1: that's not how like all happened happened from that happened

1221
00:57:15,640 --> 00:57:17,880
Speaker 1: in my friend though. But anyways, it was like I

1222
00:57:17,960 --> 00:57:20,280
Speaker 1: remember when she came, like she was dating a lot

1223
00:57:20,440 --> 00:57:23,800
Speaker 1: of like the top not nigg I was like, she

1224
00:57:23,880 --> 00:57:28,720
Speaker 1: came and cleaned up business. I feel like, honestly they

1225
00:57:29,280 --> 00:57:34,320
Speaker 1: mar out there the TMZ article, Oh wait, she was ors.

1226
00:57:34,520 --> 00:57:35,400
Speaker 1: She wanted them girls.

1227
00:57:35,520 --> 00:57:38,960
Speaker 2: She is from New Orleans. Because I know exactly know

1228
00:57:39,000 --> 00:57:39,600
Speaker 2: what I'm talking from.

1229
00:57:41,360 --> 00:57:43,160
Speaker 1: I'm gonna sell you out of here show. I mean,

1230
00:57:43,320 --> 00:57:46,320
Speaker 1: people they already if they if when I said number

1231
00:57:46,320 --> 00:57:48,320
Speaker 1: one safety in the league, they probably already know if

1232
00:57:48,600 --> 00:57:50,760
Speaker 1: you say number one safety in the league. At one point,

1233
00:57:50,840 --> 00:57:54,360
Speaker 1: he's from Orange. There's literally one person I always say this,

1234
00:57:54,440 --> 00:57:56,960
Speaker 1: dumb copular people in Orange, you and me.

1235
00:57:58,560 --> 00:58:03,200
Speaker 2: That Shiffer Fakes said that ship population.

1236
00:58:04,280 --> 00:58:08,920
Speaker 1: Literally literally heard the Orange before. No, it's not that

1237
00:58:09,080 --> 00:58:12,680
Speaker 1: far from Louisiana. Yeah, it's we're not close to New Orleans.

1238
00:58:13,320 --> 00:58:15,200
Speaker 1: So where I grew up my house, like I could

1239
00:58:15,200 --> 00:58:18,240
Speaker 1: literally walked to Louisiana. That's how close it really. How

1240
00:58:18,640 --> 00:58:22,240
Speaker 1: like that border where you cross, it's right there. It's

1241
00:58:22,960 --> 00:58:25,080
Speaker 1: it's very, very close. So I had a lot of people.

1242
00:58:25,120 --> 00:58:27,400
Speaker 1: That's all I was telling you girls, because I might

1243
00:58:28,120 --> 00:58:30,680
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you. I don't want to say not

1244
00:58:30,800 --> 00:58:32,840
Speaker 1: on here, just because you know, they have kids and

1245
00:58:32,880 --> 00:58:35,560
Speaker 1: we got to protect the children. Oh they got kids together. Yeah,

1246
00:58:37,080 --> 00:58:40,880
Speaker 1: she got the nigga. Oh baby got him. It's some

1247
00:58:41,160 --> 00:58:44,600
Speaker 1: hot tea. Really, it was like a whole thing on teams.

1248
00:58:44,640 --> 00:58:46,960
Speaker 1: Then she walked up in the house with guns blazing.

1249
00:58:47,040 --> 00:58:54,400
Speaker 1: Bit I know what you're talking about, Mighty.

1250
00:58:55,880 --> 00:58:57,080
Speaker 2: I'm thinking it was somebody didn't know.

1251
00:58:57,120 --> 00:58:59,480
Speaker 1: Okay. Yeah when she when they left New Orleans they

1252
00:58:59,480 --> 00:59:03,160
Speaker 1: came to Orange, she was an Orange. Okay, beg Okay,

1253
00:59:03,360 --> 00:59:05,560
Speaker 1: it's eam been hot for years. But I've been out

1254
00:59:05,560 --> 00:59:11,520
Speaker 1: to loop with that team, been there, okay, okay, because

1255
00:59:11,520 --> 00:59:13,200
Speaker 1: then it's some new tea and I'm gonna feel you

1256
00:59:13,280 --> 00:59:17,920
Speaker 1: in and please, I got you up. Dave me friend.

1257
00:59:18,960 --> 00:59:21,479
Speaker 2: I'm it's real.

1258
00:59:22,880 --> 00:59:27,200
Speaker 1: I feel like this is a good segue into Okay,

1259
00:59:27,280 --> 00:59:29,480
Speaker 1: so let me do because it's matches I thought we

1260
00:59:29,600 --> 00:59:31,720
Speaker 1: was doing with the game nobody. It's a question to

1261
00:59:31,960 --> 00:59:33,800
Speaker 1: enter the segue. So I'm gonna let you off. Y'all.

1262
00:59:33,840 --> 00:59:36,480
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1290
01:00:48,080 --> 01:00:51,640
Speaker 1: Corny the corniest thing you've ever done when you've been

1291
01:00:51,720 --> 01:00:55,440
Speaker 1: in love? I'll say mine. Okay, so here y'all the

1292
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1293
01:00:56,640 --> 01:01:00,960
Speaker 2: I was dating this guy. I was maybe like one,

1294
01:01:01,760 --> 01:01:03,960
Speaker 2: and at the time I didn't have a lot of money.

1295
01:01:03,800 --> 01:01:05,760
Speaker 1: But I used to waitress in Bartend so I was

1296
01:01:05,840 --> 01:01:08,400
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1297
01:01:08,520 --> 01:01:10,720
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01:01:11,360 --> 01:01:17,360
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1300
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Speaker 1: a really popular hotel in Houston. Yeah, and they had

1301
01:01:21,680 --> 01:01:23,680
Speaker 1: this package that you could buy for like seven hundred

1302
01:01:23,680 --> 01:01:26,800
Speaker 1: dollars and they would decorate your hotel room with champagne

1303
01:01:26,840 --> 01:01:30,320
Speaker 1: and included a dinner like everything. So I literally, like

1304
01:01:30,440 --> 01:01:32,920
Speaker 1: I remember, I worked like three shifts, scrounged up my

1305
01:01:32,960 --> 01:01:35,760
Speaker 1: little seven hundred dollars and I paid for the room

1306
01:01:35,960 --> 01:01:37,840
Speaker 1: and I did all this. But to me, the reason

1307
01:01:37,880 --> 01:01:40,560
Speaker 1: I say is corny because it's corny because he should

1308
01:01:40,560 --> 01:01:43,600
Speaker 1: have done that for me. It was a lot, like

1309
01:01:43,720 --> 01:01:46,640
Speaker 1: I did a lot. Well, first of all, have you

1310
01:01:46,680 --> 01:01:48,280
Speaker 1: ever done anything for you before that? No?

1311
01:01:48,760 --> 01:01:49,640
Speaker 2: Oh? Yeah, it's corny.

1312
01:01:49,800 --> 01:01:53,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's why I say he ain't never if he

1313
01:01:53,800 --> 01:01:57,360
Speaker 1: set the tone and I sat, I had three dollars,

1314
01:01:57,440 --> 01:01:59,840
Speaker 1: he had two. Oh, but that's the kind of that's

1315
01:02:00,120 --> 01:02:03,880
Speaker 1: that's not bad three and two, but five and even

1316
01:02:03,920 --> 01:02:08,920
Speaker 1: about five dollars on him? If he's not here, is

1317
01:02:09,000 --> 01:02:10,560
Speaker 1: that he's still be like, Yeah, I used to suck

1318
01:02:10,600 --> 01:02:10,800
Speaker 1: with her.

1319
01:02:11,200 --> 01:02:12,800
Speaker 2: I know that, But don't claim me.

1320
01:02:13,080 --> 01:02:15,360
Speaker 1: I know he does. Don't do that, Oh, I know

1321
01:02:15,560 --> 01:02:15,800
Speaker 1: he does.

1322
01:02:15,880 --> 01:02:18,200
Speaker 4: How many niggas you'all think? Me telling people I used

1323
01:02:18,200 --> 01:02:23,479
Speaker 4: to fuck with with hard core six it's a hard

1324
01:02:23,560 --> 01:02:24,480
Speaker 4: core bitch a lot?

1325
01:02:24,680 --> 01:02:28,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know. I just like I said, bitch, I'm

1326
01:02:28,120 --> 01:02:30,320
Speaker 1: gonna I'm gonna drop a nick and pick up another one. Yeah,

1327
01:02:30,360 --> 01:02:32,360
Speaker 1: this is what I'm like. I love to fall in

1328
01:02:32,440 --> 01:02:34,440
Speaker 1: love quickly, Bitch, I'm a love girl.

1329
01:02:34,480 --> 01:02:36,080
Speaker 3: I don't want I don't want to with with niggas

1330
01:02:36,080 --> 01:02:37,480
Speaker 3: at one time. I want to with one nigga at

1331
01:02:37,480 --> 01:02:39,680
Speaker 3: a time. So if this nigga not acting right, I'm

1332
01:02:39,680 --> 01:02:42,520
Speaker 3: a fuck with another one and he expired and I'm

1333
01:02:42,920 --> 01:02:43,640
Speaker 3: with another one.

1334
01:02:43,840 --> 01:02:44,840
Speaker 1: So it's probably a lot of niggas.

1335
01:02:45,000 --> 01:02:48,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I hate that. But to me, you ain't

1336
01:02:48,680 --> 01:02:48,920
Speaker 2: got no.

1337
01:02:48,960 --> 01:02:53,240
Speaker 1: Baby probing proven Caro.

1338
01:02:53,440 --> 01:02:58,640
Speaker 2: This Louis, Louis and Philip. That's it, Louis, what's the

1339
01:02:58,680 --> 01:03:02,640
Speaker 2: corniest thing? Girl? Mine is so okay, my Bury.

1340
01:03:02,760 --> 01:03:04,880
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna say it's my first relationship, but to me,

1341
01:03:05,560 --> 01:03:08,320
Speaker 3: this is my first real relationship. This is the first

1342
01:03:08,440 --> 01:03:11,920
Speaker 3: nigga that we moved in a house together, like imagining

1343
01:03:12,000 --> 01:03:13,560
Speaker 3: you know, women, like we got our own shit set

1344
01:03:13,640 --> 01:03:15,960
Speaker 3: up and then we're moving niggain. But it's the first

1345
01:03:16,000 --> 01:03:18,240
Speaker 3: relationship I had where he had his own house. I

1346
01:03:18,280 --> 01:03:18,919
Speaker 3: had my own house.

1347
01:03:19,320 --> 01:03:22,720
Speaker 1: When we started dating, I moved into his house and.

1348
01:03:22,720 --> 01:03:24,240
Speaker 2: Then we got a house together. So to me, that's

1349
01:03:24,240 --> 01:03:26,800
Speaker 2: my own relationship. Yeah, a nigga that like really like bitch.

1350
01:03:26,880 --> 01:03:30,320
Speaker 1: Oh no, we were looking together. So he broke up

1351
01:03:30,360 --> 01:03:30,600
Speaker 1: with me.

1352
01:03:32,080 --> 01:03:34,520
Speaker 3: In like August of twenty eleven. I think I was

1353
01:03:34,560 --> 01:03:37,400
Speaker 3: like twenty two, twenty three. He broke up with me

1354
01:03:37,680 --> 01:03:39,680
Speaker 3: and then but I at least went up to like November,

1355
01:03:40,160 --> 01:03:42,520
Speaker 3: but we had to stay the other into November, right, So,

1356
01:03:42,720 --> 01:03:44,320
Speaker 3: like I noticed.

1357
01:03:43,960 --> 01:03:45,160
Speaker 2: The shift of him like.

1358
01:03:46,680 --> 01:03:48,960
Speaker 3: Being under me all day to him like not coming home,

1359
01:03:49,080 --> 01:03:51,400
Speaker 3: and he never done that before. So I'm like, okay,

1360
01:03:51,480 --> 01:03:53,640
Speaker 3: well he must be fucking on somebody I'm finding fucking with.

1361
01:03:54,080 --> 01:03:54,560
Speaker 2: So bitch.

1362
01:03:55,480 --> 01:03:57,360
Speaker 3: I used to drop them off at work every morning

1363
01:03:58,000 --> 01:04:01,360
Speaker 3: because he rode bikes. But I had a call, so

1364
01:04:01,400 --> 01:04:02,880
Speaker 3: I'm like, okay, you don't get his back around, so

1365
01:04:02,960 --> 01:04:04,720
Speaker 3: let me see who dropping him off at work? But

1366
01:04:04,920 --> 01:04:07,760
Speaker 3: I go to the job, I park my car underneath

1367
01:04:07,800 --> 01:04:12,840
Speaker 3: the bridge. I'm sitting in the bushes, smood who's dropping

1368
01:04:12,880 --> 01:04:14,840
Speaker 3: them off? And I'm in the bushes. Bitch, I'm sticky.

1369
01:04:14,920 --> 01:04:17,480
Speaker 1: I'm itching because my dumbass ain't with no long sleep.

1370
01:04:18,440 --> 01:04:18,960
Speaker 1: I got on the.

1371
01:04:21,920 --> 01:04:23,960
Speaker 3: Every every second, I'm itching, like, okay, he's gonna be

1372
01:04:24,000 --> 01:04:25,160
Speaker 3: a six thirty six for the five.

1373
01:04:25,400 --> 01:04:27,240
Speaker 2: Okay, this is the butterfuck Lake for work. I'm like

1374
01:04:27,520 --> 01:04:29,040
Speaker 2: this nigga, like not.

1375
01:04:29,600 --> 01:04:31,479
Speaker 1: He must be what somebody he laid so he really wanted.

1376
01:04:31,800 --> 01:04:33,560
Speaker 1: Now you don't run late for nobody, but you're runna

1377
01:04:33,560 --> 01:04:36,200
Speaker 1: live for somebody knew. I'm like all this in my mind.

1378
01:04:36,760 --> 01:04:38,160
Speaker 1: So then I see he get dropped off a bout

1379
01:04:38,160 --> 01:04:41,280
Speaker 1: a hole in a raggedy call bach who cost so regular?

1380
01:04:41,280 --> 01:04:42,880
Speaker 1: I heard it, you heard him.

1381
01:04:44,200 --> 01:04:48,560
Speaker 2: Then he got out. I thought the look, kiss my

1382
01:04:48,640 --> 01:04:51,040
Speaker 2: heart broke. I'm in the bushes, dying bitch.

1383
01:04:51,360 --> 01:04:55,800
Speaker 1: Did you drop out? No? Because technically, technically he said

1384
01:04:55,840 --> 01:04:58,440
Speaker 1: we were not together. I had to respect that, but

1385
01:04:58,920 --> 01:05:01,400
Speaker 1: for my own sanity I needed to see it. Yeah.

1386
01:05:01,600 --> 01:05:03,840
Speaker 3: So me being in the bushes at six forty five

1387
01:05:03,880 --> 01:05:08,680
Speaker 3: in the morning and he gets dropped off by and

1388
01:05:08,800 --> 01:05:11,040
Speaker 3: then I call the phone like, oh so you get

1389
01:05:11,200 --> 01:05:13,040
Speaker 3: dropped off and he hung up in my face.

1390
01:05:13,280 --> 01:05:16,160
Speaker 2: Girls, So I would have popped out them bushes.

1391
01:05:16,400 --> 01:05:19,320
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie because you already there already there

1392
01:05:19,920 --> 01:05:22,800
Speaker 1: would have what you would have shown me, like I

1393
01:05:22,880 --> 01:05:25,200
Speaker 1: told you, then then I'm gonna have to pop him

1394
01:05:25,200 --> 01:05:27,160
Speaker 1: in bags. I can't do that.

1395
01:05:27,400 --> 01:05:29,840
Speaker 2: It just would have been that type of day morals.

1396
01:05:29,880 --> 01:05:33,640
Speaker 2: Friend you right, friends, I crashed, but see how.

1397
01:05:35,160 --> 01:05:35,480
Speaker 1: Hunger.

1398
01:05:36,480 --> 01:05:38,840
Speaker 2: I can't be left there like that because you really

1399
01:05:38,880 --> 01:05:41,120
Speaker 2: could have lest with me all.

1400
01:05:41,080 --> 01:05:43,440
Speaker 1: Night and then she would have probably ten years later,

1401
01:05:43,520 --> 01:05:45,440
Speaker 1: twenty years, like to be telling a story on TikTok

1402
01:05:45,480 --> 01:05:46,520
Speaker 1: about it right.

1403
01:05:47,520 --> 01:05:53,000
Speaker 2: About the time Stupa popped up on me. And right,

1404
01:05:53,080 --> 01:05:54,880
Speaker 2: you did, right, you did right? Okay, what's the corniest

1405
01:05:54,880 --> 01:05:55,360
Speaker 2: thing you've done?

1406
01:05:56,280 --> 01:05:56,560
Speaker 1: Bitch?

1407
01:05:57,520 --> 01:05:58,320
Speaker 2: Where do I start?

1408
01:05:58,480 --> 01:05:58,920
Speaker 1: Oh?

1409
01:05:59,000 --> 01:06:02,080
Speaker 2: My god, I stayed at my very first one.

1410
01:06:05,120 --> 01:06:14,040
Speaker 4: Real no, literally probably coming to somebody as a woman. Yeah,

1411
01:06:15,280 --> 01:06:18,160
Speaker 4: I knew, like my nigga, I knew he was like

1412
01:06:18,280 --> 01:06:21,080
Speaker 4: fucking with this girl. I knew he was with this girl.

1413
01:06:21,120 --> 01:06:23,320
Speaker 4: This was high school. I knew he was sucking with

1414
01:06:23,400 --> 01:06:26,960
Speaker 4: this girl. And I called her high school And don't

1415
01:06:27,400 --> 01:06:27,920
Speaker 4: high school?

1416
01:06:28,160 --> 01:06:28,560
Speaker 2: High school?

1417
01:06:28,640 --> 01:06:30,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, in adulthood.

1418
01:06:31,280 --> 01:06:40,160
Speaker 4: In adulthood, I talked about a nigga on our show. Bitch, No, no, no,

1419
01:06:40,400 --> 01:06:43,640
Speaker 4: because you gotta know me though, super, I'm like extremely proud,

1420
01:06:44,120 --> 01:06:46,720
Speaker 4: like I don't like people. I don't like people in

1421
01:06:46,840 --> 01:06:50,800
Speaker 4: my business, so I'm never gonna really talk about like

1422
01:06:50,880 --> 01:06:53,400
Speaker 4: I'll say little stuff here and there about my relationship

1423
01:06:53,560 --> 01:06:55,760
Speaker 4: or like my my nigga and stuff, but I really

1424
01:06:55,800 --> 01:06:58,800
Speaker 4: don't talk about my business like that. This nigga made

1425
01:06:58,840 --> 01:07:02,600
Speaker 4: me so fucking man and lex is fucking terrible because

1426
01:07:02,720 --> 01:07:05,080
Speaker 4: she she fucking egged me on.

1427
01:07:06,800 --> 01:07:07,280
Speaker 2: Now what do you do?

1428
01:07:07,440 --> 01:07:09,880
Speaker 1: Girl? No, I'm talking about you egged me on to

1429
01:07:09,960 --> 01:07:12,920
Speaker 1: talk about it on the shop. I was like, now

1430
01:07:12,960 --> 01:07:15,080
Speaker 1: what he do? Girl? I know everything?

1431
01:07:15,160 --> 01:07:17,200
Speaker 2: She was like, yeah, girl, I feel like if you mad,

1432
01:07:17,280 --> 01:07:18,400
Speaker 2: you should just say something.

1433
01:07:18,520 --> 01:07:19,600
Speaker 1: She's just say it.

1434
01:07:20,360 --> 01:07:23,880
Speaker 4: I said this nigga name, yes she is, and it

1435
01:07:24,080 --> 01:07:26,200
Speaker 4: was like somebody there people know.

1436
01:07:27,920 --> 01:07:29,480
Speaker 1: No we deleted. No, we deleted that.

1437
01:07:29,640 --> 01:07:33,360
Speaker 4: That's all about this an old episode from like twenty eighteen.

1438
01:07:33,400 --> 01:07:35,240
Speaker 2: Girl. We had like three viewers, but.

1439
01:07:35,320 --> 01:07:38,000
Speaker 4: I was still mad caught that t then they still

1440
01:07:38,200 --> 01:07:43,640
Speaker 4: they still be talking about it to day, just like, yeah,

1441
01:07:43,640 --> 01:07:44,360
Speaker 4: you catching up.

1442
01:07:44,360 --> 01:07:47,840
Speaker 1: Bit you was talking about white man, white man and

1443
01:07:48,000 --> 01:07:51,440
Speaker 1: no fucking mindy talking about white man. So my fathers

1444
01:07:51,440 --> 01:07:54,479
Speaker 1: don't even know about that show.

1445
01:07:55,280 --> 01:07:58,200
Speaker 2: My father, my father's on about that, but you bitch.

1446
01:08:00,280 --> 01:08:02,360
Speaker 1: In front of XP. I mean like remember that time

1447
01:08:03,320 --> 01:08:08,800
Speaker 1: you clocked out? Was not a second that girl we

1448
01:08:08,840 --> 01:08:12,960
Speaker 1: ain't talking about told me asks for the little cause.

1449
01:08:13,000 --> 01:08:15,600
Speaker 1: She kept sad, like, oh god, y'are here follow me.

1450
01:08:15,680 --> 01:08:17,080
Speaker 1: I'm like, no, let me tell you how much I've

1451
01:08:17,080 --> 01:08:18,920
Speaker 1: been following y'all in hell, But you showed up with

1452
01:08:18,960 --> 01:08:22,880
Speaker 1: that one because told me saying, get them them questions

1453
01:08:22,920 --> 01:08:28,000
Speaker 1: from these souls. I would have died that. Okay, God,

1454
01:08:28,200 --> 01:08:29,160
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1476
01:09:26,920 --> 01:09:29,400
Speaker 4: Okay, So the topic is being dumb in love. Do

1477
01:09:29,479 --> 01:09:31,439
Speaker 4: you feel like it's a such thing as being dumb

1478
01:09:31,520 --> 01:09:33,000
Speaker 4: when you're in love or do you just feel like

1479
01:09:33,920 --> 01:09:37,000
Speaker 4: I'm in love like anything goes. I feel like I'm

1480
01:09:37,080 --> 01:09:38,600
Speaker 4: that type of person, So I feel like anything go

1481
01:09:38,760 --> 01:09:39,400
Speaker 4: when I really love.

1482
01:09:40,040 --> 01:09:43,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, well it is. Do you feel like you can

1483
01:09:43,280 --> 01:09:44,200
Speaker 2: be there for sure?

1484
01:09:44,400 --> 01:09:47,760
Speaker 3: Like all the signs be there and we just be

1485
01:09:47,880 --> 01:09:50,640
Speaker 3: ignoring them because we're stupid. Yeah, because we wanted to

1486
01:09:50,680 --> 01:09:53,519
Speaker 3: work and we start. Once you start living off potential,

1487
01:09:54,040 --> 01:09:56,479
Speaker 3: you're gonna let everything fly, like you know what, I

1488
01:09:56,640 --> 01:09:59,160
Speaker 3: know you could, I know you could become almost I

1489
01:09:59,240 --> 01:10:01,800
Speaker 3: mean there's some stick that you living on potential. I

1490
01:10:01,960 --> 01:10:03,800
Speaker 3: know you're gonna stop cheating because you gonna do you

1491
01:10:03,880 --> 01:10:06,360
Speaker 3: and counseling that you living off potential, like we didn't

1492
01:10:06,400 --> 01:10:08,600
Speaker 3: seen all the signs and we just still thugging it.

1493
01:10:08,880 --> 01:10:10,760
Speaker 3: We gotta stop feeling. We gotta like we don't owe

1494
01:10:10,800 --> 01:10:13,160
Speaker 3: no nigga, no thug life. I'm gotta tugging with you.

1495
01:10:13,439 --> 01:10:14,799
Speaker 3: I didn't do it too many niggas.

1496
01:10:14,800 --> 01:10:15,040
Speaker 1: I don't.

1497
01:10:15,120 --> 01:10:16,840
Speaker 2: I don't owe you that I'm not.

1498
01:10:17,800 --> 01:10:19,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, we don't gotta go to the struggle for me to.

1499
01:10:19,720 --> 01:10:22,680
Speaker 3: I don't gotta prove myself to you. When you married me,

1500
01:10:22,880 --> 01:10:25,280
Speaker 3: then I'll show you. But other than that, like we

1501
01:10:25,600 --> 01:10:28,559
Speaker 3: we boyfriend girlfriend, bitch, I don't gotta thug it out

1502
01:10:28,600 --> 01:10:31,160
Speaker 3: with you. Yeah, Like I think that's when we that's

1503
01:10:31,200 --> 01:10:33,040
Speaker 3: when we just dumbing in love. Like we're still trying

1504
01:10:33,080 --> 01:10:34,960
Speaker 3: to prove to a nigga in our thirties that we

1505
01:10:35,600 --> 01:10:37,400
Speaker 3: I've been here for you since to begin that bitch

1506
01:10:37,520 --> 01:10:40,000
Speaker 3: with our bad Yeah, because we don't gotta do that.

1507
01:10:40,040 --> 01:10:41,160
Speaker 2: We don't got to waste something like that.

1508
01:10:41,360 --> 01:10:43,360
Speaker 1: But I think one thing about being dumb in love

1509
01:10:43,439 --> 01:10:46,280
Speaker 1: too is like if you're a person like you love love,

1510
01:10:46,400 --> 01:10:48,759
Speaker 1: love releases a doper, mean it released something.

1511
01:10:49,720 --> 01:10:50,960
Speaker 2: I love it feel so lood.

1512
01:10:51,360 --> 01:10:53,760
Speaker 1: So as much as it's I think it's okay to

1513
01:10:53,840 --> 01:10:55,680
Speaker 1: be dumb in love, that's what you're supposed to do.

1514
01:10:55,800 --> 01:10:57,680
Speaker 1: Enjoy it. But you also need to know how to

1515
01:10:57,880 --> 01:11:00,640
Speaker 1: move on and fall out of love. That problem, right,

1516
01:11:01,080 --> 01:11:05,000
Speaker 1: But you be in captivity, yeah, because you was dumb

1517
01:11:05,040 --> 01:11:09,600
Speaker 1: in love, like this you really do. It's like you

1518
01:11:10,479 --> 01:11:12,240
Speaker 1: fall in love is a drug, but you need that

1519
01:11:12,280 --> 01:11:17,200
Speaker 1: antidote exactly, and you see your self. That's what I'm saying.

1520
01:11:17,320 --> 01:11:18,880
Speaker 1: So I think it's okay to be dumb in love

1521
01:11:18,960 --> 01:11:20,720
Speaker 1: sometimes because it feels good in the moment. I'm very

1522
01:11:20,800 --> 01:11:25,680
Speaker 1: much this is what I feel right now. But when

1523
01:11:25,720 --> 01:11:31,120
Speaker 1: it's time to heal, exactly, it's time to heal, that's me.

1524
01:11:31,479 --> 01:11:33,840
Speaker 1: So you have to you have to recognize when it's

1525
01:11:33,880 --> 01:11:37,080
Speaker 1: time to leave a situation. But I think love should

1526
01:11:37,120 --> 01:11:39,320
Speaker 1: be fun and love should feel good. And sometimes you

1527
01:11:39,360 --> 01:11:42,360
Speaker 1: meet somebody and you may be in love quote unquote

1528
01:11:42,600 --> 01:11:44,760
Speaker 1: for a short time, and sometimes it lasts years, and

1529
01:11:44,840 --> 01:11:47,920
Speaker 1: some people are thinking enough where it lasts forever. So

1530
01:11:48,240 --> 01:11:50,280
Speaker 1: I think one thing about love is like you have

1531
01:11:50,439 --> 01:11:53,160
Speaker 1: to be okay with taking risks. Falling in love is

1532
01:11:53,240 --> 01:11:57,240
Speaker 1: risk because on both sides, you're literally falling for someone

1533
01:11:57,720 --> 01:12:00,280
Speaker 1: and hoping that when shit gets bad that they'll catch you, right,

1534
01:12:00,800 --> 01:12:03,360
Speaker 1: And if they don't, then what right you gotta be

1535
01:12:03,400 --> 01:12:04,519
Speaker 1: able to catch yourself?

1536
01:12:04,600 --> 01:12:05,720
Speaker 2: Sign you ignore.

1537
01:12:05,840 --> 01:12:08,559
Speaker 1: Exactly because they got always excuses why they couldn't catch

1538
01:12:08,560 --> 01:12:12,040
Speaker 1: a bitch, right, and you believe them, right. So I

1539
01:12:12,120 --> 01:12:15,560
Speaker 1: think being dumb in love is just like now you

1540
01:12:15,680 --> 01:12:16,839
Speaker 1: can't lose yourself.

1541
01:12:17,840 --> 01:12:19,280
Speaker 2: That's now you can't like do.

1542
01:12:21,000 --> 01:12:22,960
Speaker 1: You looking in the mirror and you don't recognize yourself

1543
01:12:23,080 --> 01:12:25,320
Speaker 1: no more? And you're doing things like I'm not saying

1544
01:12:25,439 --> 01:12:28,679
Speaker 1: be dumb behind somebody, but if it's fun and you're

1545
01:12:28,720 --> 01:12:33,240
Speaker 1: having it, loving it, and you're enjoying it, agree be dumb,

1546
01:12:33,560 --> 01:12:35,839
Speaker 1: especially if you can self and induce yourself.

1547
01:12:35,920 --> 01:12:38,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, because I know I can't. I'm gonna roll over

1548
01:12:38,640 --> 01:12:39,400
Speaker 2: niggas so fast.

1549
01:12:39,720 --> 01:12:43,160
Speaker 1: New nigga me, please, new Nigga's me, New nigga me,

1550
01:12:43,320 --> 01:12:44,880
Speaker 1: please please.

1551
01:12:44,960 --> 01:12:48,559
Speaker 2: I've recently got into but I've been Yeah.

1552
01:12:48,600 --> 01:12:51,080
Speaker 1: See I'm not well. I don't like new nigga me,

1553
01:12:51,200 --> 01:12:52,000
Speaker 1: but I just be doing it.

1554
01:12:54,600 --> 01:13:00,800
Speaker 3: War Listen, I've been. I've been a social butterfly all

1555
01:13:00,840 --> 01:13:04,960
Speaker 3: my life. Yeah, before the internet, bitch, before Yahoo check,

1556
01:13:05,280 --> 01:13:07,559
Speaker 3: I was on a party. Who y'all remember b B.

1557
01:13:09,080 --> 01:13:13,000
Speaker 2: BlackBerry, BlackBerry Messenger. I never had. It was an elite society.

1558
01:13:13,120 --> 01:13:15,120
Speaker 2: It was it was like I was young.

1559
01:13:15,280 --> 01:13:17,680
Speaker 1: I was in game. I was doing your check. You

1560
01:13:17,720 --> 01:13:21,519
Speaker 1: said you was yao check y'all. I think I had

1561
01:13:21,600 --> 01:13:24,880
Speaker 1: aim I aimed to yeah, I had, But I was

1562
01:13:24,920 --> 01:13:28,439
Speaker 1: on a party line, bitch, yeah, are.

1563
01:13:28,360 --> 01:13:30,360
Speaker 4: You talking about Are you talking about the hotline where

1564
01:13:30,360 --> 01:13:31,160
Speaker 4: you can call and day?

1565
01:13:31,280 --> 01:13:35,760
Speaker 2: It used to be like, yeah, you got so. And

1566
01:13:35,920 --> 01:13:39,960
Speaker 2: I was fourteen, I was on the porter. I've been

1567
01:13:40,040 --> 01:13:41,400
Speaker 2: looking there.

1568
01:13:41,680 --> 01:13:45,200
Speaker 1: We could have got abducted, literally did that was the

1569
01:13:45,280 --> 01:13:48,559
Speaker 1: whole time where Lifetime was making movies about girls, little

1570
01:13:48,560 --> 01:13:50,800
Speaker 1: girl from relationship.

1571
01:13:52,960 --> 01:13:56,040
Speaker 2: You said, what Virginia with a nigga? He was older

1572
01:13:56,080 --> 01:13:56,240
Speaker 2: than me?

1573
01:13:56,920 --> 01:13:57,519
Speaker 1: How old was he?

1574
01:13:58,400 --> 01:13:59,400
Speaker 2: I was girl girl?

1575
01:13:59,439 --> 01:14:00,840
Speaker 1: I feel like horsenness.

1576
01:14:01,760 --> 01:14:03,040
Speaker 2: I was sixteen, he was swimming.

1577
01:14:03,600 --> 01:14:07,360
Speaker 1: See, okay, no, that it's not you ain't right now,

1578
01:14:07,720 --> 01:14:10,040
Speaker 1: that's not that bad now that what I mean.

1579
01:14:11,040 --> 01:14:13,200
Speaker 4: What I mean is we're not going to act like

1580
01:14:13,680 --> 01:14:15,560
Speaker 4: it's not twenty year old niggas that used to be

1581
01:14:15,640 --> 01:14:16,560
Speaker 4: picking girls.

1582
01:14:16,360 --> 01:14:19,559
Speaker 1: Up from school because how you they need at that time?

1583
01:14:19,840 --> 01:14:23,240
Speaker 2: And Grainy, now that we're grown, we know that she

1584
01:14:23,560 --> 01:14:23,960
Speaker 2: was wrong.

1585
01:14:24,280 --> 01:14:26,479
Speaker 1: We know that was but it was going on. It

1586
01:14:26,600 --> 01:14:29,040
Speaker 1: was still going on. And who used to go to

1587
01:14:29,160 --> 01:14:31,200
Speaker 1: like Taco Bell, the McDonald's and sit in the parking

1588
01:14:31,240 --> 01:14:32,880
Speaker 1: lot because he knew we would come get the food.

1589
01:14:33,000 --> 01:14:35,080
Speaker 3: Now, see, that's nothing that's different, that's like, that's just

1590
01:14:36,160 --> 01:14:38,120
Speaker 3: that's you shouting that's your scouting.

1591
01:14:38,160 --> 01:14:39,360
Speaker 2: That's different, Like that's pedophile.

1592
01:14:39,560 --> 01:14:41,280
Speaker 1: Like that's like, oh girl, he got some food.

1593
01:14:41,400 --> 01:14:43,439
Speaker 2: Like, no, that's not, bitch, that's different.

1594
01:14:43,439 --> 01:14:45,400
Speaker 1: He would be like, we would just be outside. That's like,

1595
01:14:45,680 --> 01:14:49,280
Speaker 1: I got some candy, comes to the van like some

1596
01:14:49,400 --> 01:14:52,639
Speaker 1: dumb ass. The part was different because on the part

1597
01:14:52,680 --> 01:14:55,200
Speaker 1: of line, I thought, Oh, I was on the point

1598
01:14:55,280 --> 01:14:59,679
Speaker 1: line saying I'm nineteen, So that's different. Was we lying

1599
01:15:00,080 --> 01:15:03,439
Speaker 1: you had to be older than eighteen to be Yeah,

1600
01:15:03,439 --> 01:15:06,080
Speaker 1: we definitely like your life.

1601
01:15:06,280 --> 01:15:07,679
Speaker 2: He said, I got a big man.

1602
01:15:07,880 --> 01:15:12,719
Speaker 1: But she was really risky because about the phone conversation

1603
01:15:14,320 --> 01:15:17,760
Speaker 1: my cherry pop until for you, it wasn't conversation. I

1604
01:15:18,520 --> 01:15:22,519
Speaker 1: love that nigga for years. Oh my god, girl, Like

1605
01:15:22,560 --> 01:15:25,880
Speaker 1: I was like twenty one. I remember my baby dad

1606
01:15:26,000 --> 01:15:28,240
Speaker 1: on the party line you did, I made my best friend.

1607
01:15:29,120 --> 01:15:30,400
Speaker 2: This is a social butterfly.

1608
01:15:30,600 --> 01:15:34,439
Speaker 1: Y'all understand. Yeah, she ain't start with Instagram. Yeah, this

1609
01:15:34,520 --> 01:15:38,400
Speaker 1: ship been me since the party line. I've always been popular.

1610
01:15:38,600 --> 01:15:42,600
Speaker 1: Always the party line was lead, though I remembers it.

1611
01:15:42,640 --> 01:15:44,720
Speaker 2: Was a time. Yeah, I never did the party line

1612
01:15:44,760 --> 01:15:45,160
Speaker 2: thing you did.

1613
01:15:45,479 --> 01:15:46,000
Speaker 1: I missed it.

1614
01:15:46,240 --> 01:15:50,519
Speaker 3: Mister damn you remember when you remember when Facebook had

1615
01:15:50,560 --> 01:15:52,000
Speaker 3: the Houston versus New Orleans.

1616
01:15:52,600 --> 01:15:55,160
Speaker 1: I don't remember that because I wasn't. I wasn't in

1617
01:15:55,240 --> 01:15:57,479
Speaker 1: either city. I was in a smaller city, so mad

1618
01:15:57,960 --> 01:16:00,559
Speaker 1: everybody was in that group on Facebook group mm hm.

1619
01:16:01,320 --> 01:16:03,400
Speaker 1: When I got got into Facebook, it was during a

1620
01:16:03,439 --> 01:16:07,320
Speaker 1: time where like you had to have college email. Yeah,

1621
01:16:07,520 --> 01:16:10,479
Speaker 1: so I wasn't because when I graduated from I graduated

1622
01:16:10,560 --> 01:16:12,280
Speaker 1: high school in two thousand and seven, I didn't go

1623
01:16:12,360 --> 01:16:14,519
Speaker 1: straight to college, so I took like a year or

1624
01:16:14,560 --> 01:16:16,960
Speaker 1: two off, so I didn't have a college email. But

1625
01:16:17,080 --> 01:16:20,439
Speaker 1: it opened. Yeah yeah, yeah, okay, so that's probably when

1626
01:16:20,439 --> 01:16:20,760
Speaker 1: I got.

1627
01:16:21,680 --> 01:16:25,040
Speaker 3: Houston and New Orleans had a group thing where everybody

1628
01:16:25,120 --> 01:16:29,360
Speaker 3: was fussing. There was beefing, but I can't see y'all

1629
01:16:29,360 --> 01:16:31,600
Speaker 3: say it to your niggas. Butch I came down like

1630
01:16:32,640 --> 01:16:33,160
Speaker 3: it was crazy.

1631
01:16:33,320 --> 01:16:34,720
Speaker 1: It was coming to me, y'all.

1632
01:16:34,760 --> 01:16:37,240
Speaker 2: Remember I red a pipe crush Pike.

1633
01:16:38,439 --> 01:16:42,479
Speaker 4: It was another little website before Facebook. Then everybody used

1634
01:16:42,479 --> 01:16:44,080
Speaker 4: to be like one of the fire It was like

1635
01:16:44,160 --> 01:16:45,160
Speaker 4: one of the young.

1636
01:16:46,640 --> 01:16:49,519
Speaker 1: In middle school. Had middle school.

1637
01:16:50,439 --> 01:16:50,960
Speaker 2: I had a time.

1638
01:16:51,160 --> 01:16:53,840
Speaker 1: Why I had a time on social media where I

1639
01:16:53,920 --> 01:16:56,600
Speaker 1: was a whore? How about you a ward? What was

1640
01:16:56,640 --> 01:16:57,479
Speaker 1: you doing? Girl?

1641
01:16:58,160 --> 01:16:59,480
Speaker 2: It's for only things.

1642
01:17:00,800 --> 01:17:03,200
Speaker 1: For you. Used to be popping that pussy online on

1643
01:17:03,439 --> 01:17:07,640
Speaker 1: black play mood in my in my throne Underweld, I

1644
01:17:07,840 --> 01:17:11,080
Speaker 1: go that cry, don't got my pictures, girl, I used

1645
01:17:11,080 --> 01:17:13,800
Speaker 1: to steal my pictures and put my porns like, no listen.

1646
01:17:13,840 --> 01:17:14,679
Speaker 2: I always listened.

1647
01:17:15,240 --> 01:17:17,200
Speaker 1: I used to surgery.

1648
01:17:17,280 --> 01:17:18,040
Speaker 2: I was always a fine.

1649
01:17:18,120 --> 01:17:20,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, you always had that fine bitch. Yeah, so bitch.

1650
01:17:20,840 --> 01:17:22,800
Speaker 3: In two thousand, before I had my son, I ended

1651
01:17:22,840 --> 01:17:24,320
Speaker 3: up taking down because my baby dad, who I met

1652
01:17:24,360 --> 01:17:24,799
Speaker 3: on the porter.

1653
01:17:24,720 --> 01:17:25,360
Speaker 1: Line, So let me go.

1654
01:17:25,439 --> 01:17:26,680
Speaker 2: It's down, So I take it down.

1655
01:17:26,800 --> 01:17:28,960
Speaker 1: But my utube to get like fifty thousand views in

1656
01:17:28,960 --> 01:17:31,160
Speaker 1: two thousand and eight, That's that's what I am.

1657
01:17:31,200 --> 01:17:31,360
Speaker 2: Now.

1658
01:17:33,080 --> 01:17:35,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm getting fifty thousand viudes because I'm I'm dancing

1659
01:17:35,240 --> 01:17:37,160
Speaker 1: the bounce music the box we just got popping because

1660
01:17:37,160 --> 01:17:38,840
Speaker 1: of the tree. Yeah, I'm on.

1661
01:17:39,360 --> 01:17:41,280
Speaker 3: I'm in my little apart minutes two thousand and eight,

1662
01:17:41,439 --> 01:17:43,559
Speaker 3: I got my throne on. I'm dancing a pretty ricky

1663
01:17:43,840 --> 01:17:44,439
Speaker 3: genu wine.

1664
01:17:45,240 --> 01:17:45,479
Speaker 1: I'm not.

1665
01:17:47,320 --> 01:17:49,160
Speaker 3: I said, got the videos which I'm telling you, and

1666
01:17:49,240 --> 01:17:51,800
Speaker 3: I was going viral on YouTube for being in the throne.

1667
01:17:52,000 --> 01:17:55,160
Speaker 1: Oh my say, now that was messing before I discovered you.

1668
01:17:55,400 --> 01:17:57,960
Speaker 2: I don't remember you popping it. I don't remember you

1669
01:17:58,080 --> 01:18:01,000
Speaker 2: popping it either, sup, my baby, that did't even.

1670
01:18:00,960 --> 01:18:03,320
Speaker 1: Take all of it down, But I remember my ring.

1671
01:18:03,520 --> 01:18:04,200
Speaker 2: I'm going the camera.

1672
01:18:04,280 --> 01:18:07,639
Speaker 4: Why used to have my I did too in high school.

1673
01:18:08,360 --> 01:18:10,920
Speaker 4: I've been crashing out, wilding out for a long time.

1674
01:18:11,720 --> 01:18:14,000
Speaker 2: And I used to be in the parking lot birthday.

1675
01:18:13,720 --> 01:18:15,960
Speaker 1: Tongue in high school. And I'm thinking about it. I

1676
01:18:16,000 --> 01:18:17,720
Speaker 1: got my period in nineteen, so I'm not gonna say

1677
01:18:17,760 --> 01:18:21,720
Speaker 1: high school nineteen. I was ay like nineteen. What your

1678
01:18:21,720 --> 01:18:24,080
Speaker 1: mama said, gir She tried to kick me out of

1679
01:18:24,080 --> 01:18:27,640
Speaker 1: the house. She's lying out the house. She could not

1680
01:18:27,720 --> 01:18:28,439
Speaker 1: want to let me in.

1681
01:18:29,080 --> 01:18:31,080
Speaker 2: It was only because of my daddy that I ended

1682
01:18:31,160 --> 01:18:31,880
Speaker 2: up getting in the house.

1683
01:18:31,920 --> 01:18:34,519
Speaker 1: And at that time, tongue piers was like suck. Yeah,

1684
01:18:34,840 --> 01:18:36,400
Speaker 1: it makes you suck at that time, and I used

1685
01:18:36,400 --> 01:18:41,760
Speaker 1: to be in class, oh yeah, see breath punky, no

1686
01:18:41,960 --> 01:18:47,439
Speaker 1: tongue tongue when it wasn't because that y'all know. Tongue

1687
01:18:47,479 --> 01:18:49,840
Speaker 1: reings will make your breath funky if you don't break.

1688
01:18:51,160 --> 01:18:55,240
Speaker 1: Don't know how the first like you know you had one? Yes,

1689
01:18:55,439 --> 01:18:58,519
Speaker 1: I just said I had my tongue, people, bitch, I

1690
01:18:58,640 --> 01:19:00,519
Speaker 1: kept it for like a year or two. And then

1691
01:19:00,640 --> 01:19:05,559
Speaker 1: she got because you know, because the pluss would come

1692
01:19:05,600 --> 01:19:09,800
Speaker 1: from your tongue, your tongue ring was effected. Why was it?

1693
01:19:10,840 --> 01:19:15,559
Speaker 1: That's what your ship was, Foster, He's like, hey, y'all,

1694
01:19:15,640 --> 01:19:19,920
Speaker 1: I never had a pussy tongue. Me. I was like

1695
01:19:19,960 --> 01:19:22,200
Speaker 1: the hall of plussy tongue. You wouldn't bush you you

1696
01:19:22,400 --> 01:19:25,960
Speaker 1: haven't had a but yeah, but I'm not trying to

1697
01:19:26,000 --> 01:19:28,720
Speaker 1: be funny like a lot of you them that say,

1698
01:19:28,760 --> 01:19:30,720
Speaker 1: you know fat those people. Everybody, well, a lot of

1699
01:19:30,760 --> 01:19:34,280
Speaker 1: people had the tongue like the tongue ring circle was

1700
01:19:34,320 --> 01:19:41,320
Speaker 1: Funky Brick who he was a pusy was fm C

1701
01:19:41,560 --> 01:19:48,160
Speaker 1: coming funky mouth click. I never had like I remember,

1702
01:19:48,320 --> 01:19:49,760
Speaker 1: I didn't keep it in that long. I'm not gonna

1703
01:19:49,800 --> 01:19:52,320
Speaker 1: lie because it hurts so bad. And it was, oh

1704
01:19:52,520 --> 01:19:55,439
Speaker 1: my god alone, I don't know my tongue used to

1705
01:19:55,479 --> 01:19:59,439
Speaker 1: be swollen that because I'm buck my tongue.

1706
01:19:59,240 --> 01:19:59,960
Speaker 2: Fair, I'm like.

1707
01:20:05,120 --> 01:20:10,760
Speaker 1: Then lingering. And then so I had my tongue ring

1708
01:20:10,840 --> 01:20:13,040
Speaker 1: in the parking lot, eat my Big Max with the

1709
01:20:13,120 --> 01:20:17,439
Speaker 1: nigga that bit. Maybe it was the Big Max sauce

1710
01:20:18,920 --> 01:20:24,160
Speaker 1: and nigga, and he said, bring the lit the leader

1711
01:20:24,200 --> 01:20:25,200
Speaker 1: of the punk mouth click.

1712
01:20:25,520 --> 01:20:27,599
Speaker 2: I want the leader that Nigga puts something of your

1713
01:20:27,640 --> 01:20:28,200
Speaker 2: big mabach.

1714
01:20:29,640 --> 01:20:34,040
Speaker 1: Oh my god. I just remember like I didn't like

1715
01:20:34,160 --> 01:20:36,360
Speaker 1: my tongue ring. I didn't because I thought maybe it

1716
01:20:36,479 --> 01:20:39,640
Speaker 1: wasn't but you know what I think it was. But

1717
01:20:39,760 --> 01:20:42,479
Speaker 1: I have a short tongue, so maybe he hear something

1718
01:20:42,560 --> 01:20:47,120
Speaker 1: under that, you know that what's that little thing? Something?

1719
01:20:47,200 --> 01:20:49,840
Speaker 2: He hit something, Bitch, he hit something.

1720
01:20:49,880 --> 01:20:55,040
Speaker 1: Bitch said knows no.

1721
01:20:57,840 --> 01:20:59,200
Speaker 2: Was affected because it wasn't mine.

1722
01:20:59,439 --> 01:21:01,200
Speaker 1: That was a me where she thought we was all

1723
01:21:01,200 --> 01:21:06,320
Speaker 1: about the bond. No, no, I know.

1724
01:21:06,640 --> 01:21:08,360
Speaker 2: I remember my tongue like plussing up.

1725
01:21:12,000 --> 01:21:18,320
Speaker 1: It was bad experience with piercing too, because I still

1726
01:21:18,360 --> 01:21:21,400
Speaker 1: have these scars. I have like a snake bike because

1727
01:21:21,400 --> 01:21:23,840
Speaker 1: I went through my EMO era, so I had everything pierced.

1728
01:21:23,880 --> 01:21:26,559
Speaker 1: I had like a thing in my chest. I had

1729
01:21:26,640 --> 01:21:29,679
Speaker 1: bars in my through it. But I remember like getting

1730
01:21:29,720 --> 01:21:33,640
Speaker 1: my lip pierced, and like my piercing like sunk in

1731
01:21:33,800 --> 01:21:37,200
Speaker 1: and my skin was like growing over my piercing. I've

1732
01:21:37,320 --> 01:21:39,320
Speaker 1: had a bad experience, but I got my belly button

1733
01:21:39,400 --> 01:21:42,800
Speaker 1: ring in high school. I was my body rejected it

1734
01:21:42,880 --> 01:21:44,880
Speaker 1: because I was I was playing volleyball. I used to

1735
01:21:44,880 --> 01:21:48,240
Speaker 1: play volleyball, and literally I slid across the corn and

1736
01:21:48,400 --> 01:21:54,240
Speaker 1: ripped out. O girl, I had, I had funky breath,

1737
01:21:55,400 --> 01:21:59,439
Speaker 1: I messed up belly button, skin growing over my piercing,

1738
01:22:00,240 --> 01:22:02,120
Speaker 1: and then I had the nurse to be like turn

1739
01:22:02,200 --> 01:22:12,200
Speaker 1: around and tonight is around and get out through it.

1740
01:22:12,320 --> 01:22:19,080
Speaker 1: Y'all be're trying to laugh at me. Yeah, rode home.

1741
01:22:20,720 --> 01:22:23,519
Speaker 1: But I thought this was a safe No, bitch, no,

1742
01:22:24,240 --> 01:22:28,360
Speaker 1: it was not like bitch you by yourself. I don't

1743
01:22:28,400 --> 01:22:30,880
Speaker 1: know what I was going.

1744
01:22:31,080 --> 01:22:33,639
Speaker 2: And yeah, that was that little bitch you by your.

1745
01:22:34,240 --> 01:22:41,400
Speaker 1: Your fucking tongue. Hours I had a little crust on it,

1746
01:22:42,040 --> 01:22:49,680
Speaker 1: a little round O god, funny. Okay, what's up? Bey

1747
01:22:49,680 --> 01:22:51,680
Speaker 1: all as your girl likex pee and it's your girl

1748
01:22:51,760 --> 01:22:55,479
Speaker 1: draining the call. And we have a very exciting announcement today.

1749
01:22:55,600 --> 01:22:57,360
Speaker 2: We have a brand new show dropping.

1750
01:22:57,760 --> 01:23:00,719
Speaker 4: Yes, we have a brand new shower dropping y'all Patreon.

1751
01:23:00,800 --> 01:23:03,679
Speaker 4: It's gonna air on September second, and it's called Poor Chronicles.

1752
01:23:03,840 --> 01:23:05,760
Speaker 4: We're gonna be doing so much stuff on there. We're

1753
01:23:05,800 --> 01:23:09,439
Speaker 4: gonna be doing challenges. If you can't go to Bella Lache,

1754
01:23:09,760 --> 01:23:10,800
Speaker 4: where the hell could you go?

1755
01:23:12,000 --> 01:23:15,960
Speaker 1: If you can't go to Bellanche what the hell we're

1756
01:23:15,960 --> 01:23:16,479
Speaker 1: gonna be doing.

1757
01:23:16,920 --> 01:23:19,000
Speaker 2: Talk to me, chit chat with me. You're gonna be

1758
01:23:19,000 --> 01:23:19,960
Speaker 2: feeling a little little tea.

1759
01:23:21,160 --> 01:23:24,040
Speaker 1: Oh my bird, No you didn't.

1760
01:23:26,320 --> 01:23:29,160
Speaker 4: God, everything y'all been wanting to see, we're gonna be

1761
01:23:29,160 --> 01:23:31,160
Speaker 4: doing it right here on Patreon.

1762
01:23:31,360 --> 01:23:33,760
Speaker 1: Yes, y'all ask us for so much. Well, we've been

1763
01:23:33,840 --> 01:23:37,320
Speaker 1: to give it to y'all every single Monday, and it's

1764
01:23:37,320 --> 01:23:40,200
Speaker 1: gonna be a time. Y'all know, Poor Minds has grown

1765
01:23:40,439 --> 01:23:42,840
Speaker 1: into its own little entity when we're gonna have a

1766
01:23:43,000 --> 01:23:46,880
Speaker 1: lot of fun still over here at Poor Chronicles. So

1767
01:23:47,000 --> 01:23:50,320
Speaker 1: make sure y'all tune in September. Second it's going down,

1768
01:23:50,600 --> 01:24:03,120
Speaker 1: says it's time to get into the b b BO.

1769
01:24:07,120 --> 01:24:08,040
Speaker 1: How do we first?

1770
01:24:08,120 --> 01:24:11,120
Speaker 4: Real quick though, how did we start talking about thinking

1771
01:24:11,200 --> 01:24:11,760
Speaker 4: tongue rings?

1772
01:24:11,800 --> 01:24:13,800
Speaker 1: We're supposed to be talking about being dumb in love?

1773
01:24:14,760 --> 01:24:18,280
Speaker 2: How did we get there from that?

1774
01:24:18,400 --> 01:24:18,639
Speaker 1: Today?

1775
01:24:19,479 --> 01:24:21,400
Speaker 2: All, let me talk butterfly.

1776
01:24:21,840 --> 01:24:26,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, we were talking about the tongue that I was

1777
01:24:26,320 --> 01:24:28,439
Speaker 1: talking about, and then I said I did too, and

1778
01:24:28,520 --> 01:24:32,040
Speaker 1: the lex is like, I don't know knowledge.

1779
01:24:32,240 --> 01:24:33,000
Speaker 2: Can I have another one?

1780
01:24:33,080 --> 01:24:37,080
Speaker 1: Please? Okay? So the topic go ahead, Dre.

1781
01:24:38,880 --> 01:24:41,360
Speaker 4: All right, but the six topics we want to talk

1782
01:24:41,360 --> 01:24:47,800
Speaker 4: about using lube and does using lube me yo coochie trash.

1783
01:24:49,320 --> 01:24:52,519
Speaker 1: Mhm, y'all want.

1784
01:24:52,360 --> 01:24:53,200
Speaker 2: To embarrass me again?

1785
01:24:53,320 --> 01:24:58,720
Speaker 3: Okay, so only because listen and I did not think

1786
01:24:58,760 --> 01:25:01,080
Speaker 3: this was the thing. And I'm being very transparent.

1787
01:25:01,400 --> 01:25:03,599
Speaker 1: Even if you left, I promise you I'm not gonna

1788
01:25:03,600 --> 01:25:03,840
Speaker 1: be made.

1789
01:25:03,880 --> 01:25:04,760
Speaker 2: We're probably gonna laugh.

1790
01:25:07,439 --> 01:25:11,120
Speaker 1: Warm me up first, buck, I'm sorry, Warm up, bitch.

1791
01:25:11,240 --> 01:25:18,160
Speaker 1: Got so when I have my daughter in twenty nineteen,

1792
01:25:18,720 --> 01:25:23,160
Speaker 1: I you bitches fake you say we try to be

1793
01:25:23,280 --> 01:25:25,280
Speaker 1: underhead me and I.

1794
01:25:25,320 --> 01:25:27,280
Speaker 2: Got into twenty nineteen, I got some health issues.

1795
01:25:27,280 --> 01:25:30,879
Speaker 1: I got dianosed with epilepsy, fucking adrening a whole.

1796
01:25:30,720 --> 01:25:32,479
Speaker 2: Lot of shit. I gotta take a whole lot of medication.

1797
01:25:32,600 --> 01:25:36,080
Speaker 3: Right, So, I don't have a normal period. Right so

1798
01:25:36,640 --> 01:25:39,160
Speaker 3: I was told by my doctor, by me not having

1799
01:25:39,160 --> 01:25:43,960
Speaker 3: a normal period, it may affect my wetness a little,

1800
01:25:44,080 --> 01:25:47,120
Speaker 3: right because they said the period, you know, clean your body.

1801
01:25:47,320 --> 01:25:49,519
Speaker 1: Yeah right now, I don't know how true it is.

1802
01:25:49,640 --> 01:25:52,479
Speaker 1: All I know is I asked, bitch, what's what's going on?

1803
01:25:52,720 --> 01:25:55,400
Speaker 3: Like, I know I'm antracted to my nigga, I'm gonna

1804
01:25:55,400 --> 01:25:58,200
Speaker 3: tract to this that like even when I masturbate, Like,

1805
01:25:59,040 --> 01:26:01,400
Speaker 3: what's going on, and she's like, well, you haven't had

1806
01:26:01,439 --> 01:26:02,080
Speaker 3: a periody no, but.

1807
01:26:02,200 --> 01:26:04,439
Speaker 2: Year, I'm okay, what does that mean? You know?

1808
01:26:04,920 --> 01:26:07,599
Speaker 1: So I had like a year.

1809
01:26:07,640 --> 01:26:12,400
Speaker 3: Where I had to use loube because of I didn't

1810
01:26:12,439 --> 01:26:14,599
Speaker 3: have a men strew and I was like a little

1811
01:26:15,080 --> 01:26:16,519
Speaker 3: you know, and and I had to.

1812
01:26:17,040 --> 01:26:22,920
Speaker 1: I had to because what was going on with her

1813
01:26:23,360 --> 01:26:26,360
Speaker 1: was the true true I wasn't trying to be funny.

1814
01:26:27,120 --> 01:26:28,280
Speaker 1: How people will understand what?

1815
01:26:29,800 --> 01:26:33,240
Speaker 3: Because I listen, I started joining groups to see is

1816
01:26:33,320 --> 01:26:34,639
Speaker 3: it's around my body?

1817
01:26:34,880 --> 01:26:37,160
Speaker 1: Do I am I just not attracted or is it

1818
01:26:37,720 --> 01:26:38,320
Speaker 1: because I'm.

1819
01:26:38,280 --> 01:26:40,200
Speaker 2: I'm I'm I needs to be miss.

1820
01:26:41,560 --> 01:26:48,000
Speaker 1: Like you had that what happened? So I want a

1821
01:26:48,120 --> 01:26:52,840
Speaker 1: year with like some some dryness because of a year

1822
01:26:53,439 --> 01:26:54,639
Speaker 1: and this year.

1823
01:26:55,960 --> 01:26:56,360
Speaker 2: So bad.

1824
01:26:56,960 --> 01:27:02,519
Speaker 1: Listen, I'm being honest. Listen, that's all. It's pretty busy.

1825
01:27:06,800 --> 01:27:10,320
Speaker 1: I'm no. See, That's why I'm trying to make it

1826
01:27:10,439 --> 01:27:13,679
Speaker 1: relatable because she's really speaking people right, but she ain't

1827
01:27:13,720 --> 01:27:16,360
Speaker 1: gotta relate. Somebody gonna relate to me because I'm saying,

1828
01:27:16,360 --> 01:27:19,839
Speaker 1: I'm in a Facebook group, a lot of droll Facebook.

1829
01:27:19,840 --> 01:27:21,120
Speaker 2: We gotta draws Facebook.

1830
01:27:21,760 --> 01:27:23,439
Speaker 1: Listen, it's not me no more, but I still stay

1831
01:27:23,479 --> 01:27:24,920
Speaker 1: in in case I drop back into the error.

1832
01:27:25,920 --> 01:27:28,280
Speaker 2: But what was going on?

1833
01:27:30,320 --> 01:27:33,040
Speaker 1: The lady the doctor said it's because I don't have

1834
01:27:33,120 --> 01:27:36,680
Speaker 1: a menstrum, okay, and that that was the issue. And

1835
01:27:37,200 --> 01:27:39,679
Speaker 1: once I got my menstru back, I feel like, well, maybe.

1836
01:27:39,560 --> 01:27:42,080
Speaker 2: She was right because now I'm back pussy, you know.

1837
01:27:42,760 --> 01:27:44,960
Speaker 3: And and the thing is, I was so happy that

1838
01:27:45,040 --> 01:27:48,280
Speaker 3: it happened in my relationship because whatever if I was

1839
01:27:48,360 --> 01:27:53,400
Speaker 3: out being free niggas like, I'm like, I was committing

1840
01:27:53,439 --> 01:27:55,480
Speaker 3: my nigga, like, oh, thank you for tucking.

1841
01:27:55,200 --> 01:27:58,480
Speaker 1: It with me. Doesn't shown.

1842
01:28:00,120 --> 01:28:02,519
Speaker 3: Had to We had to do so much to jump started,

1843
01:28:02,840 --> 01:28:05,639
Speaker 3: Like my gosh, but that's but that's really though.

1844
01:28:05,800 --> 01:28:08,640
Speaker 1: It was like ten ten months. It was a long

1845
01:28:08,720 --> 01:28:12,439
Speaker 1: it was a long time to no no bitch.

1846
01:28:12,560 --> 01:28:16,639
Speaker 2: Let's see, I thought they was making some wores goodbye.

1847
01:28:17,120 --> 01:28:17,360
Speaker 3: Listen.

1848
01:28:17,400 --> 01:28:17,840
Speaker 2: I'm glad.

1849
01:28:17,840 --> 01:28:22,040
Speaker 1: I'm glad I had a nigga that you said this face.

1850
01:28:22,760 --> 01:28:24,320
Speaker 2: I'm glad, I'm glad I got a.

1851
01:28:24,320 --> 01:28:27,720
Speaker 1: Nigga that understore because let's talk about it. And he

1852
01:28:27,960 --> 01:28:30,960
Speaker 1: made sure he got it with, he made sure he

1853
01:28:31,040 --> 01:28:31,400
Speaker 1: stayed with.

1854
01:28:31,840 --> 01:28:33,639
Speaker 2: And I skeeping nigga.

1855
01:28:33,800 --> 01:28:36,439
Speaker 3: She don't got no problems with that coaching now right,

1856
01:28:36,600 --> 01:28:39,040
Speaker 3: It's just I'm just glad I had a problem. You're

1857
01:28:39,080 --> 01:28:40,760
Speaker 3: wad I had a rough patch while I was in

1858
01:28:40,840 --> 01:28:43,600
Speaker 3: a relationship, and that's what I'm saying. But honestly, I

1859
01:28:43,680 --> 01:28:45,599
Speaker 3: think you need to talk about that because everybody want

1860
01:28:45,640 --> 01:28:48,799
Speaker 3: to talk about our stuff with I got that gripple

1861
01:28:49,000 --> 01:28:49,519
Speaker 3: in that case.

1862
01:28:50,000 --> 01:28:52,519
Speaker 1: Everybody has that, and everybody has that, and it's okay.

1863
01:28:52,720 --> 01:28:56,760
Speaker 1: I think it's okay to use loube. Okay to use loube.

1864
01:28:56,800 --> 01:29:00,479
Speaker 1: It depends what's going on, especially quokie right right quick,

1865
01:29:00,520 --> 01:29:01,360
Speaker 1: you know, real quick.

1866
01:29:01,680 --> 01:29:03,720
Speaker 2: Or maybe he's a guy that wants to go two

1867
01:29:03,880 --> 01:29:05,400
Speaker 2: or three rounds and.

1868
01:29:07,080 --> 01:29:10,639
Speaker 4: But she went through something though, do y'all drop kuchie.

1869
01:29:10,720 --> 01:29:14,040
Speaker 4: It's hereditary like naturally because some people.

1870
01:29:13,840 --> 01:29:14,120
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1871
01:29:17,760 --> 01:29:23,720
Speaker 3: Listen me, listen, I'm gonna ask listen me dealing with

1872
01:29:23,840 --> 01:29:27,400
Speaker 3: both sides of the fence, having dry cat, what you

1873
01:29:27,439 --> 01:29:29,880
Speaker 3: mean both sides of the fence, both sides been on

1874
01:29:30,000 --> 01:29:31,400
Speaker 3: both sides, on both sides you.

1875
01:29:31,479 --> 01:29:34,719
Speaker 1: Be eating coochie super No, she mean Mitch her Cuchie

1876
01:29:34,840 --> 01:29:37,200
Speaker 1: was weg and I'm not you dealt with.

1877
01:29:37,240 --> 01:29:41,559
Speaker 2: Like no, let's just right, So that's right.

1878
01:29:42,240 --> 01:29:45,080
Speaker 1: So me me dealing with women women be having dry

1879
01:29:45,160 --> 01:29:46,840
Speaker 1: catch a very young age.

1880
01:29:47,080 --> 01:29:48,920
Speaker 3: Okay, so I think I don't know if it's a

1881
01:29:48,960 --> 01:29:51,679
Speaker 3: hereditary bot, but it made me think now in my thirties,

1882
01:29:52,120 --> 01:29:54,320
Speaker 3: maybe she had something going on, like maybe she you know,

1883
01:29:54,400 --> 01:29:56,600
Speaker 3: maybe she did have minstrel or maybe something right, or

1884
01:29:56,680 --> 01:29:58,479
Speaker 3: maybe she just wasn't really in it and she thought

1885
01:29:58,560 --> 01:29:58,800
Speaker 3: she was.

1886
01:29:58,880 --> 01:29:59,519
Speaker 2: She was testing it.

1887
01:29:59,520 --> 01:30:03,160
Speaker 3: I don't know, because you kick it if you turned on, correct, right,

1888
01:30:03,439 --> 01:30:04,880
Speaker 3: So maybe she wasn't turned I was looking.

1889
01:30:04,960 --> 01:30:07,519
Speaker 1: But honestly, with the vagina, the way the vagina works,

1890
01:30:07,520 --> 01:30:11,479
Speaker 1: if anything is inserting the vagina, it's a natural thing

1891
01:30:11,800 --> 01:30:15,960
Speaker 1: for your it to produce something and yet in the inside.

1892
01:30:16,120 --> 01:30:18,959
Speaker 2: Yeah, but wet puss is it be all outside?

1893
01:30:19,160 --> 01:30:21,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I'm saying. If you're turned on, it's

1894
01:30:21,160 --> 01:30:24,360
Speaker 1: a little more. But it's a body's natural reaction to

1895
01:30:25,400 --> 01:30:31,400
Speaker 1: what even over there laughing hobby, what's funny, hobby, freak,

1896
01:30:31,640 --> 01:30:40,000
Speaker 1: don't give you mess some we some dry pussls. You

1897
01:30:40,080 --> 01:30:44,560
Speaker 1: gotta on it. You gotta spit on it. House is

1898
01:30:44,600 --> 01:30:46,360
Speaker 1: gonna get with you. Gotta spit on it special if

1899
01:30:46,360 --> 01:30:48,479
Speaker 1: you ain't got no lube. But honestly, I feel like

1900
01:30:48,560 --> 01:30:51,640
Speaker 1: if a woman has a dry vagina, it probably is

1901
01:30:51,720 --> 01:30:53,880
Speaker 1: something medical, because, like I said, it's a body's natural

1902
01:30:53,920 --> 01:30:57,400
Speaker 1: thing lubricating yourself. And I'm not saying like when you're

1903
01:30:57,439 --> 01:31:00,400
Speaker 1: turned on. It's a different type of wet. It's different

1904
01:31:00,439 --> 01:31:04,360
Speaker 1: type of way. It's when something inserts into the vagina.

1905
01:31:04,439 --> 01:31:06,760
Speaker 1: It's a natural The body's natural reaction to that mac

1906
01:31:06,800 --> 01:31:09,360
Speaker 1: and cheese is because something is insers, something that's penetrating.

1907
01:31:09,960 --> 01:31:12,160
Speaker 1: So even if they dried, they still may have a

1908
01:31:12,200 --> 01:31:14,120
Speaker 1: mac and cheese because the whole thing is that they

1909
01:31:14,160 --> 01:31:16,000
Speaker 1: got mac and cheese that they put the No, bitch,

1910
01:31:16,400 --> 01:31:19,519
Speaker 1: you just got a natural being wet on our side.

1911
01:31:19,479 --> 01:31:19,879
Speaker 2: Right.

1912
01:31:21,720 --> 01:31:24,040
Speaker 1: Right, So, bitch, do you still make mac and cheese

1913
01:31:24,080 --> 01:31:27,040
Speaker 1: with spaghetti noodles? It's a New Orleans thing. We got

1914
01:31:27,120 --> 01:31:29,560
Speaker 1: to what you mean because I remember her cooking on.

1915
01:31:30,360 --> 01:31:33,760
Speaker 3: Yes, bitch, okay, it's a New Orleans thing. I don't

1916
01:31:33,880 --> 01:31:36,400
Speaker 3: like that because you're from fucking.

1917
01:31:37,080 --> 01:31:40,080
Speaker 4: I'm used to I'm used to mac and cheese with spaghetti.

1918
01:31:40,720 --> 01:31:43,479
Speaker 4: But my family is from Louisiana, so it's my it's

1919
01:31:43,520 --> 01:31:43,800
Speaker 4: what my.

1920
01:31:43,880 --> 01:31:47,040
Speaker 1: Auntie used to make. She made elbow spaghetti, and.

1921
01:31:47,640 --> 01:31:51,839
Speaker 2: Not where your family was from from open from Vanacha.

1922
01:31:56,200 --> 01:31:57,440
Speaker 1: That's when Louisiana.

1923
01:31:57,520 --> 01:32:00,240
Speaker 2: People make it with who're making with spaghetti noodles? Some

1924
01:32:00,400 --> 01:32:02,360
Speaker 2: make it, but a lot of us make it with spaghetti.

1925
01:32:02,640 --> 01:32:05,120
Speaker 1: I don't like that. Why, it's just like what do

1926
01:32:05,160 --> 01:32:09,960
Speaker 1: you give you? What you give you? TRAINI yes, chicken

1927
01:32:10,000 --> 01:32:11,240
Speaker 1: spaghetti with no chicken.

1928
01:32:11,800 --> 01:32:16,120
Speaker 2: Look a chicken spaghetti. You never had chicken tetrasini. That

1929
01:32:16,240 --> 01:32:17,240
Speaker 2: sounds like a jump park.

1930
01:32:26,680 --> 01:32:31,400
Speaker 1: It's basically like a cheese a cheesy and it has

1931
01:32:31,479 --> 01:32:37,120
Speaker 1: like peppers chicken ch my jumble like pasta bitch kanda. Yeah,

1932
01:32:37,920 --> 01:32:39,679
Speaker 1: but we don't got cheese any.

1933
01:32:40,160 --> 01:32:43,479
Speaker 2: I don't have cheese any my jumbalayapasta? What's your what's

1934
01:32:43,560 --> 01:32:44,960
Speaker 2: your mpasta? Bitch?

1935
01:32:45,000 --> 01:32:48,839
Speaker 3: You said you was following gen sausage is sausage chicken

1936
01:32:50,760 --> 01:32:54,959
Speaker 3: sausage chicken, but said one ing green and that's enough Alfredo,

1937
01:32:55,040 --> 01:32:59,559
Speaker 3: and we mixed with red sauce like dice tomeatles marin Arrow. Okay, okay,

1938
01:33:00,040 --> 01:33:02,160
Speaker 3: the jump lif if possible, afraid will be okay?

1939
01:33:02,240 --> 01:33:03,920
Speaker 2: Okay that you want to cook for us one day?

1940
01:33:03,920 --> 01:33:06,200
Speaker 2: I am, okay, I am, I'm coming to your house.

1941
01:33:07,080 --> 01:33:07,719
Speaker 2: I'm not kidding.

1942
01:33:07,760 --> 01:33:11,400
Speaker 1: So my friends, we are planning a trip in January

1943
01:33:11,479 --> 01:33:14,839
Speaker 1: to go to New Orleans, Al really Uary. Well, my friends,

1944
01:33:15,400 --> 01:33:16,599
Speaker 1: it's my friends from high school.

1945
01:33:16,680 --> 01:33:19,040
Speaker 2: Okay, it's in January. We're just going to go.

1946
01:33:19,240 --> 01:33:21,519
Speaker 1: It's actually one of her daughter's birthday, so we're just

1947
01:33:21,560 --> 01:33:24,439
Speaker 1: all doing like a hobby. But I'm a sneak off

1948
01:33:24,479 --> 01:33:28,120
Speaker 1: and I'm going to I am, and you think I'm playing,

1949
01:33:28,200 --> 01:33:29,479
Speaker 1: but like, but you really should.

1950
01:33:29,680 --> 01:33:31,759
Speaker 2: You're rid some jumper.

1951
01:33:32,479 --> 01:33:36,120
Speaker 1: I'm coming period, were don't I'm serious, bitch, don't plea

1952
01:33:36,479 --> 01:33:38,040
Speaker 1: but real, don't come.

1953
01:33:38,080 --> 01:33:39,400
Speaker 2: I'm ready.

1954
01:33:39,840 --> 01:33:40,920
Speaker 1: I'm ready for the hookah.

1955
01:33:41,200 --> 01:33:45,680
Speaker 2: God, you don't even smoke hoockah. About to wait smo

1956
01:33:45,720 --> 01:33:46,360
Speaker 2: hook in my house.

1957
01:33:46,520 --> 01:33:49,920
Speaker 1: She don't smoke cooker, neither one of us. We gave

1958
01:33:50,000 --> 01:33:52,600
Speaker 1: up hookah. I haven't smoked hooker in two years. But

1959
01:33:53,960 --> 01:33:56,080
Speaker 1: on god, I'm a pore.

1960
01:33:56,840 --> 01:33:58,040
Speaker 2: Pull up the tweet right.

1961
01:33:57,920 --> 01:34:01,400
Speaker 1: Now the last time. You don't mean you didn't smoke

1962
01:34:01,439 --> 01:34:03,880
Speaker 1: it after I never I didn't have smoke hookah in

1963
01:34:04,360 --> 01:34:08,880
Speaker 1: Turks on my mother that was open in two years,

1964
01:34:09,080 --> 01:34:11,800
Speaker 1: not either nothing. I don't like it.

1965
01:34:12,080 --> 01:34:13,280
Speaker 2: It literally makes me so.

1966
01:34:13,560 --> 01:34:20,000
Speaker 4: I haven't smoking it almost a year, way before nicotine hookah.

1967
01:34:23,120 --> 01:34:24,760
Speaker 1: But you know what it is. If it's making you sick,

1968
01:34:24,800 --> 01:34:27,479
Speaker 1: you guys try to black smoke, then I think for me, Yeah,

1969
01:34:27,800 --> 01:34:33,120
Speaker 1: people about that, if it's making you sick, was singing on, Yes,

1970
01:34:34,200 --> 01:34:37,000
Speaker 1: smoking make you sick, I don't do who who It's

1971
01:34:37,000 --> 01:34:37,559
Speaker 1: been two years.

1972
01:34:38,439 --> 01:34:41,000
Speaker 4: I haven't smoked hooka in like almost a year, but no,

1973
01:34:41,200 --> 01:34:43,719
Speaker 4: I was it is the long time. But I didn't

1974
01:34:43,760 --> 01:34:45,320
Speaker 4: used to like the way it would make me feel

1975
01:34:45,360 --> 01:34:48,160
Speaker 4: the next morning. I didn't like the way you black

1976
01:34:48,240 --> 01:34:50,360
Speaker 4: smooth and you'll be smoking black smoke.

1977
01:34:51,120 --> 01:34:54,679
Speaker 1: You could put yes, he said, he said, the hookah

1978
01:34:54,680 --> 01:34:57,320
Speaker 1: pants and the sha. I don't, I don't. I don't smoke.

1979
01:34:59,080 --> 01:35:01,320
Speaker 2: I don't want to walk off smelling like watermelon.

1980
01:35:01,439 --> 01:35:04,960
Speaker 1: Min I got my perfume on. I get you. You

1981
01:35:05,040 --> 01:35:08,680
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. I need to smell good. Well

1982
01:35:08,720 --> 01:35:10,240
Speaker 1: that's what it's all fruit, So you can smell like

1983
01:35:10,280 --> 01:35:14,960
Speaker 1: fruit fruit and hold like like that. Bitch, you're gonna

1984
01:35:14,960 --> 01:35:21,439
Speaker 1: try this black smoke. You're gonna try to breathe.

1985
01:35:21,680 --> 01:35:22,479
Speaker 2: I've never headache.

1986
01:35:22,560 --> 01:35:24,560
Speaker 1: You're not gonna be still sick. But you know what,

1987
01:35:24,880 --> 01:35:28,320
Speaker 1: it's not even I Smoke is not supposed to be

1988
01:35:28,439 --> 01:35:29,280
Speaker 1: in your lungs.

1989
01:35:29,760 --> 01:35:31,960
Speaker 2: But say that what start with that beach? Okay, stop

1990
01:35:32,040 --> 01:35:34,800
Speaker 2: with that don't start with the fruit and all that

1991
01:35:35,640 --> 01:35:36,120
Speaker 2: with that beach.

1992
01:35:36,360 --> 01:35:37,920
Speaker 1: Okay, I would have I would have been shut up,

1993
01:35:37,960 --> 01:35:45,840
Speaker 1: things first open, Okay, But I get that almost around

1994
01:35:45,840 --> 01:35:47,880
Speaker 1: the time I had stopped smoking hookah, though I was

1995
01:35:48,000 --> 01:35:50,280
Speaker 1: really sick and I didn't know what it was. I

1996
01:35:50,400 --> 01:35:54,040
Speaker 1: had low iron so literally I would like walk to

1997
01:35:54,200 --> 01:35:56,840
Speaker 1: the shower and I couldn't breathe, So I was like,

1998
01:35:57,000 --> 01:35:58,640
Speaker 1: is it the hookah? I didn't know what it was

1999
01:35:58,720 --> 01:36:00,439
Speaker 1: because I had gotten really, really fun and sick, So

2000
01:36:00,600 --> 01:36:03,439
Speaker 1: that's what really made me stop smoking it. But it

2001
01:36:03,560 --> 01:36:05,720
Speaker 1: was just like, Okay, I'm not smoking it no more. Now.

2002
01:36:05,960 --> 01:36:07,799
Speaker 2: Me being sick had nothing to do with the hookah.

2003
01:36:07,880 --> 01:36:10,920
Speaker 2: I'm gonna I'm gonna support your you know, I don't

2004
01:36:11,000 --> 01:36:11,200
Speaker 2: do it.

2005
01:36:11,400 --> 01:36:13,559
Speaker 1: You don't want to push nothing at this point, it's

2006
01:36:13,600 --> 01:36:15,840
Speaker 1: nothing to support. It's just like like how some people

2007
01:36:15,880 --> 01:36:16,240
Speaker 1: are just.

2008
01:36:16,520 --> 01:36:18,400
Speaker 2: Vegans or they don't eat something it's not but.

2009
01:36:18,400 --> 01:36:20,759
Speaker 1: Imagine say you're vegan us, but trying to support y'all.

2010
01:36:20,720 --> 01:36:21,360
Speaker 2: I'm gonna try it.

2011
01:36:24,680 --> 01:36:28,720
Speaker 1: Ain't never heard, ain't never hurt nobody. Black smoke ain't

2012
01:36:28,720 --> 01:36:32,120
Speaker 1: never hurt nobody, hurt nobody.

2013
01:36:32,320 --> 01:36:34,400
Speaker 4: No, So y'all, this is the question that I had

2014
01:36:34,439 --> 01:36:37,080
Speaker 4: because I'm not gonna had a conversation about these huh

2015
01:36:37,960 --> 01:36:40,000
Speaker 4: years ago on the show. We was like, if you

2016
01:36:40,320 --> 01:36:43,960
Speaker 4: if we saw my squirting, and we was like, if

2017
01:36:44,000 --> 01:36:47,839
Speaker 4: you squirt, it's your grannie fault, it's your your grannie.

2018
01:36:48,479 --> 01:36:49,640
Speaker 2: Squirting is hereditary?

2019
01:36:49,800 --> 01:36:52,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, is it? Yeah? Honestly, that's why we said, that's

2020
01:36:52,760 --> 01:36:54,320
Speaker 1: why you have the plastic on the sofa.

2021
01:36:54,520 --> 01:36:59,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, you think about it, No, think about all that

2022
01:37:00,080 --> 01:37:05,400
Speaker 2: follow house sitting on the Granted, had my grandma had

2023
01:37:05,400 --> 01:37:05,680
Speaker 2: it on that.

2024
01:37:05,680 --> 01:37:07,439
Speaker 1: Because she didn't want your next days hopping on the

2025
01:37:11,240 --> 01:37:13,720
Speaker 1: Or your grandma had all them kids because she wasn't

2026
01:37:13,760 --> 01:37:17,439
Speaker 1: sucking dick. That's why, bitch, your grandma had all them children.

2027
01:37:17,680 --> 01:37:20,160
Speaker 1: Think about what's up y'all at your girl XP and

2028
01:37:20,320 --> 01:37:20,800
Speaker 1: it's your girls.

2029
01:37:20,920 --> 01:37:21,680
Speaker 2: Ran a call and.

2030
01:37:21,760 --> 01:37:24,640
Speaker 1: Y'all do not forget to call our shot line. I

2031
01:37:24,720 --> 01:37:26,240
Speaker 1: know you heard of a hot line, but this is

2032
01:37:26,280 --> 01:37:28,000
Speaker 1: the poor mind's shot line.

2033
01:37:28,320 --> 01:37:29,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, we love to hear from y'all.

2034
01:37:29,800 --> 01:37:32,040
Speaker 4: Y'all need to call in, y'all, And this is not

2035
01:37:32,160 --> 01:37:34,320
Speaker 4: necessarily for questions, you know, we just want to hear

2036
01:37:34,360 --> 01:37:36,280
Speaker 4: from y'all if we want to know y'all feedback, y'all,

2037
01:37:36,320 --> 01:37:38,400
Speaker 4: thoughts on the show, or just what's going on in

2038
01:37:38,479 --> 01:37:40,880
Speaker 4: your life, so you can always call six seven eight

2039
01:37:41,360 --> 01:37:43,840
Speaker 4: eight two seven one eight two seeds.

2040
01:37:44,080 --> 01:37:46,599
Speaker 1: Yes, and y'all know, keep it short and cute. Don't

2041
01:37:46,640 --> 01:37:49,000
Speaker 1: be calling and letting us know about your baby daddy,

2042
01:37:49,000 --> 01:37:51,400
Speaker 1: says a brother, cousin, boyfriend. Okay, well I want to

2043
01:37:51,439 --> 01:37:53,559
Speaker 1: hear about that. Actually, well you know they can let

2044
01:37:53,560 --> 01:37:55,040
Speaker 1: a little some but you know, we want to keep

2045
01:37:55,040 --> 01:37:58,000
Speaker 1: it cute and short. Like she said, this is not questions,

2046
01:37:58,240 --> 01:38:00,680
Speaker 1: This is not pour your heart out so called. Give

2047
01:38:00,760 --> 01:38:02,560
Speaker 1: us a little feedback what you want to see on

2048
01:38:02,640 --> 01:38:05,200
Speaker 1: the show, any suggestions, what you think about the show,

2049
01:38:05,200 --> 01:38:07,200
Speaker 1: if you just want to simply give us our flowers,

2050
01:38:07,479 --> 01:38:09,639
Speaker 1: you know, or any It could be anything. What's bothering

2051
01:38:09,680 --> 01:38:11,400
Speaker 1: you this week, what got on your nerves this week?

2052
01:38:11,520 --> 01:38:13,160
Speaker 1: If you just want to vent and get some things

2053
01:38:13,240 --> 01:38:16,439
Speaker 1: off your chest, pull the shot line again. The number

2054
01:38:16,560 --> 01:38:21,439
Speaker 1: is six seven eight eight two seven one eight to six. Okay,

2055
01:38:21,520 --> 01:38:23,640
Speaker 1: so real quick, I want to shout out, y'all. I

2056
01:38:23,760 --> 01:38:25,719
Speaker 1: just got my hair done yesterday. I want to shout

2057
01:38:25,760 --> 01:38:26,840
Speaker 1: out crowns.

2058
01:38:26,520 --> 01:38:27,960
Speaker 2: Of love on the bundles.

2059
01:38:28,120 --> 01:38:30,560
Speaker 1: I went to rich look hair. She installed it so

2060
01:38:30,720 --> 01:38:32,920
Speaker 1: y'all know we love a good little one too, So

2061
01:38:33,040 --> 01:38:35,879
Speaker 1: make sure y'all check out Crowns of Love, get your bundles,

2062
01:38:35,960 --> 01:38:36,840
Speaker 1: and get your hair done.

2063
01:38:37,160 --> 01:38:39,640
Speaker 4: Yes, and I need to shout out mused because I

2064
01:38:39,840 --> 01:38:41,800
Speaker 4: meant to girl, I had a long night last night,

2065
01:38:42,080 --> 01:38:44,479
Speaker 4: but I meant wabbling up.

2066
01:38:49,600 --> 01:38:51,759
Speaker 1: I had a long I had a long.

2067
01:38:51,720 --> 01:38:54,479
Speaker 2: Light last night. I had intention on bringing you some

2068
01:38:54,720 --> 01:38:56,120
Speaker 2: of my Cosmitties lines because I.

2069
01:38:56,120 --> 01:38:58,880
Speaker 1: Have a lip gloss. But I'm gonna send it to you.

2070
01:38:59,280 --> 01:39:01,720
Speaker 1: The Queen need to get your mailing. Yeah, send it

2071
01:39:01,800 --> 01:39:03,960
Speaker 1: to me. I'm gonna send you mine. I'm gonna get

2072
01:39:03,960 --> 01:39:06,240
Speaker 1: your mailing. No, actually i'll drop it off. I'll hand

2073
01:39:06,280 --> 01:39:08,160
Speaker 1: deliver it because I'm going to her house and well,

2074
01:39:08,160 --> 01:39:09,840
Speaker 1: I'm probably get.

2075
01:39:11,400 --> 01:39:14,679
Speaker 2: Tickets and black smooth. I'm gonna come smoke that black

2076
01:39:14,720 --> 01:39:17,200
Speaker 2: smoke exactly I am.

2077
01:39:18,640 --> 01:39:23,920
Speaker 1: It ain't got no niggotine, not no nicotine. Really, it

2078
01:39:24,080 --> 01:39:27,280
Speaker 1: just tastes like fruit. I'm gonna try.

2079
01:39:27,600 --> 01:39:30,559
Speaker 4: Okay, So what I'm gonna send you some some used

2080
01:39:30,760 --> 01:39:32,360
Speaker 4: I'm okay.

2081
01:39:32,280 --> 01:39:34,040
Speaker 1: So real quick because I feel like when you I

2082
01:39:34,160 --> 01:39:36,200
Speaker 1: just want to ask this before we move on. Because

2083
01:39:36,200 --> 01:39:38,639
Speaker 1: there's a lot of makeup people who are doing makeup

2084
01:39:38,720 --> 01:39:41,639
Speaker 1: right now, they have cosmetic signs. Drea has a cosmetic line,

2085
01:39:41,640 --> 01:39:44,120
Speaker 1: and there's so many right now. So what advice could

2086
01:39:44,160 --> 01:39:46,080
Speaker 1: you give to like Dre or anybody else out there

2087
01:39:46,120 --> 01:39:48,720
Speaker 1: that has a cosmetic line, Like, what advice do you

2088
01:39:48,840 --> 01:39:51,439
Speaker 1: have for like marketing and how to stick out and

2089
01:39:51,800 --> 01:39:54,000
Speaker 1: be successful, especially in twenty twenty four.

2090
01:39:54,920 --> 01:39:57,479
Speaker 3: So marketing, you definitely got to build you a community

2091
01:39:57,680 --> 01:40:00,200
Speaker 3: in the marketing I think that's the best thing could

2092
01:40:00,240 --> 01:40:02,240
Speaker 3: have done in the Crown case when we built the community.

2093
01:40:02,960 --> 01:40:03,920
Speaker 2: Like I don't know how many.

2094
01:40:03,800 --> 01:40:06,400
Speaker 1: Followers you're but you already have poor minds. So that's

2095
01:40:06,400 --> 01:40:06,880
Speaker 1: that's bigger.

2096
01:40:06,920 --> 01:40:10,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, right, So when you build a community, you gotta

2097
01:40:10,640 --> 01:40:13,880
Speaker 3: you gotta work with them under them underdogs be so ready.

2098
01:40:13,800 --> 01:40:16,240
Speaker 1: Like they be, so they just be ready to work.

2099
01:40:16,600 --> 01:40:19,439
Speaker 1: That's a smaller influence, smaller influence, Like they ain't got

2100
01:40:19,520 --> 01:40:20,960
Speaker 1: no more than ten thousand followers.

2101
01:40:21,080 --> 01:40:22,479
Speaker 2: You got more follows than them already.

2102
01:40:23,000 --> 01:40:27,559
Speaker 1: What you could give them is marketing, exposure and products,

2103
01:40:27,600 --> 01:40:28,160
Speaker 1: free product.

2104
01:40:28,320 --> 01:40:28,920
Speaker 2: That's what you.

2105
01:40:28,960 --> 01:40:30,360
Speaker 1: Can get them off the bank, and that's all they

2106
01:40:30,479 --> 01:40:31,160
Speaker 1: that's all they want.

2107
01:40:31,800 --> 01:40:33,559
Speaker 3: They want to be seen, they want to be heard,

2108
01:40:33,680 --> 01:40:35,840
Speaker 3: and they want their conscious to be appreciated.

2109
01:40:36,240 --> 01:40:38,280
Speaker 2: So when they give you content like you, you don't

2110
01:40:38,280 --> 01:40:39,559
Speaker 2: got time to do your makeup every day.

2111
01:40:39,840 --> 01:40:40,559
Speaker 1: You don't have the time.

2112
01:40:40,840 --> 01:40:43,479
Speaker 2: But if you build your community, what's your brand called?

2113
01:40:44,120 --> 01:40:44,400
Speaker 1: Music?

2114
01:40:44,720 --> 01:40:46,000
Speaker 2: Music beauty? Music beauty?

2115
01:40:46,040 --> 01:40:48,479
Speaker 1: Okay, so you gotta come up with something for your community.

2116
01:40:48,479 --> 01:40:52,680
Speaker 1: Wy use, muse. You gotta come up with a name

2117
01:40:52,720 --> 01:40:54,719
Speaker 1: for them. I don't know music, I don't know something.

2118
01:40:54,800 --> 01:40:57,839
Speaker 1: Come up with a name for them. The followers, the squad,

2119
01:40:58,560 --> 01:41:02,840
Speaker 1: let's say you let's say you call it squallowers right now, okay,

2120
01:41:03,439 --> 01:41:07,360
Speaker 1: the let's say, just speaking off off the top, you

2121
01:41:07,479 --> 01:41:10,040
Speaker 1: call them that, and then you send them free products

2122
01:41:10,360 --> 01:41:13,160
Speaker 1: and they got like five thousand followers, and then all

2123
01:41:13,200 --> 01:41:16,000
Speaker 1: they wanted to do is do a video using your products,

2124
01:41:16,040 --> 01:41:18,400
Speaker 1: and then you post them so you have the most

2125
01:41:18,479 --> 01:41:20,360
Speaker 1: You have more followers than every every last one of them.

2126
01:41:20,680 --> 01:41:22,679
Speaker 3: But then when you market them, you give them free products,

2127
01:41:22,680 --> 01:41:24,960
Speaker 3: and you are giving them exposures to other brands, because

2128
01:41:25,040 --> 01:41:26,400
Speaker 3: other makeup brands follow you.

2129
01:41:26,800 --> 01:41:27,760
Speaker 2: Don't think they don't they do.

2130
01:41:28,040 --> 01:41:28,800
Speaker 1: They're watching you.

2131
01:41:28,840 --> 01:41:29,320
Speaker 2: They keep it up.

2132
01:41:29,479 --> 01:41:32,000
Speaker 1: You're gonna notice when you start a community and then

2133
01:41:32,280 --> 01:41:33,240
Speaker 1: these bigger brands.

2134
01:41:33,000 --> 01:41:34,280
Speaker 2: Start still in your fucking community.

2135
01:41:34,320 --> 01:41:37,760
Speaker 1: That's when you're gonna notice it, right, And that's the

2136
01:41:37,840 --> 01:41:40,439
Speaker 1: best way to market without you really coming out of

2137
01:41:40,439 --> 01:41:40,880
Speaker 1: your pocket.

2138
01:41:40,960 --> 01:41:42,559
Speaker 2: The most you going out your pocket is your.

2139
01:41:42,479 --> 01:41:45,400
Speaker 1: Products, right, and that works so well. I already had

2140
01:41:45,439 --> 01:41:47,680
Speaker 1: the big following. I came out with the courts. I

2141
01:41:47,760 --> 01:41:49,080
Speaker 1: worked with micro influencers.

2142
01:41:49,200 --> 01:41:51,960
Speaker 3: They was hungry, like they was tired of being overlooked

2143
01:41:52,000 --> 01:41:54,640
Speaker 3: by big brands because they didn't have the following. I

2144
01:41:54,760 --> 01:41:57,519
Speaker 3: had the follow and they didn't, So I market them

2145
01:41:57,600 --> 01:42:00,200
Speaker 3: to other brands because I knew a lot of makeup brands.

2146
01:42:00,120 --> 01:42:00,680
Speaker 2: Is following me.

2147
01:42:01,160 --> 01:42:01,640
Speaker 1: Same with you.

2148
01:42:01,760 --> 01:42:03,680
Speaker 3: You got a big podcast, you got a lot going on,

2149
01:42:04,200 --> 01:42:06,400
Speaker 3: and you're marketing to people that have never seen him,

2150
01:42:06,439 --> 01:42:07,040
Speaker 3: never heard of them.

2151
01:42:07,400 --> 01:42:08,080
Speaker 2: That's all they want.

2152
01:42:08,360 --> 01:42:10,800
Speaker 3: They just want to be seen and recognized. So build

2153
01:42:10,840 --> 01:42:14,240
Speaker 3: your community, send them products. They're gonna give you all

2154
01:42:14,280 --> 01:42:17,200
Speaker 3: the content in the world. They're gonna be loyalty. They're

2155
01:42:17,200 --> 01:42:18,920
Speaker 3: gonna send you all the content. And you got that's

2156
01:42:19,160 --> 01:42:23,439
Speaker 3: content the posts for weeks months. It's not enough contents

2157
01:42:23,520 --> 01:42:23,840
Speaker 3: you could do.

2158
01:42:24,439 --> 01:42:27,000
Speaker 1: Don't got enough time to be in the studio adding

2159
01:42:27,000 --> 01:42:28,040
Speaker 1: no fucking doing no photos.

2160
01:42:28,080 --> 01:42:29,000
Speaker 2: You don't have enough time to do that.

2161
01:42:29,080 --> 01:42:30,560
Speaker 1: You got your podcast, you got too much going on,

2162
01:42:31,680 --> 01:42:33,080
Speaker 1: trying to be asking you got too much going on

2163
01:42:33,200 --> 01:42:35,519
Speaker 1: for you to be at the damn studios trying to

2164
01:42:35,560 --> 01:42:36,360
Speaker 1: do product photos.

2165
01:42:36,400 --> 01:42:37,439
Speaker 2: They got girls that's gonna do.

2166
01:42:37,439 --> 01:42:39,719
Speaker 1: Product photos for you because they want to get reposted.

2167
01:42:40,720 --> 01:42:43,639
Speaker 3: So you find people like that and you build that community,

2168
01:42:43,680 --> 01:42:46,240
Speaker 3: you give them a name, just because they love feeling

2169
01:42:46,280 --> 01:42:48,160
Speaker 3: a part of something. They love being a part of

2170
01:42:48,200 --> 01:42:51,439
Speaker 3: the community and market, and don't don't care about the

2171
01:42:51,640 --> 01:42:52,200
Speaker 3: bigger brands.

2172
01:42:52,200 --> 01:42:55,200
Speaker 1: The bigger brand they're going to steal. But the thing is,

2173
01:42:55,360 --> 01:42:58,000
Speaker 1: there's gonna be more micro influences every day. A new

2174
01:42:58,080 --> 01:42:59,519
Speaker 1: micro influence is fucking born.

2175
01:43:00,080 --> 01:43:03,040
Speaker 3: So once that once you create that influence and they

2176
01:43:03,080 --> 01:43:05,439
Speaker 3: become bigger and they move on to a bigger brand. Okay, boom,

2177
01:43:05,479 --> 01:43:08,040
Speaker 3: you got another one that got five thousands. Never did

2178
01:43:08,120 --> 01:43:09,160
Speaker 3: The cycle never ends.

2179
01:43:09,200 --> 01:43:11,960
Speaker 1: If you're focused on the micro influencers, catered to the

2180
01:43:12,040 --> 01:43:15,479
Speaker 1: micro influencers, there wouldn't be the one that's gonna cater

2181
01:43:15,560 --> 01:43:17,680
Speaker 1: to you. They're gonna love you because you are. You

2182
01:43:17,760 --> 01:43:19,760
Speaker 1: see them, You see them like you know what they're doing,

2183
01:43:19,840 --> 01:43:21,240
Speaker 1: like you know what they're trying to do. They're trying

2184
01:43:21,280 --> 01:43:23,080
Speaker 1: to get big, they're trying to trying to work a

2185
01:43:23,160 --> 01:43:24,120
Speaker 1: brands big in your brand.

2186
01:43:24,200 --> 01:43:25,120
Speaker 2: Don't feel played by that.

2187
01:43:25,280 --> 01:43:28,519
Speaker 1: That's okay. Yeah, they will have another small influences gonna

2188
01:43:28,520 --> 01:43:29,000
Speaker 1: work on me too.

2189
01:43:29,080 --> 01:43:30,360
Speaker 2: So build your community.

2190
01:43:30,960 --> 01:43:33,360
Speaker 1: That's that's the main thing that's really gonna be nice.

2191
01:43:33,479 --> 01:43:35,720
Speaker 4: I never thought about that because I think even when

2192
01:43:35,760 --> 01:43:40,439
Speaker 4: I think about getting brand ambassadors and stuff, because I

2193
01:43:40,560 --> 01:43:43,679
Speaker 4: was talking to my social media manager about that earlier

2194
01:43:43,800 --> 01:43:45,800
Speaker 4: this week and I was just like, I think, you know,

2195
01:43:45,960 --> 01:43:48,840
Speaker 4: twenty twenty five, I really want to focus on trying

2196
01:43:48,920 --> 01:43:51,640
Speaker 4: to get brand and baskets, but we're thinking about all

2197
01:43:51,720 --> 01:43:54,599
Speaker 4: of these like big people that I should start sending

2198
01:43:54,640 --> 01:43:56,720
Speaker 4: products expending PR boxes too.

2199
01:43:57,360 --> 01:44:00,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, unless they're gonna take the PR box and shout

2200
01:44:00,320 --> 01:44:02,479
Speaker 3: out for free, but they're.

2201
01:44:02,240 --> 01:44:04,639
Speaker 1: Gonna charge you fifty thousand dollars because.

2202
01:44:04,439 --> 01:44:05,559
Speaker 2: That's what they be charging.

2203
01:44:05,760 --> 01:44:07,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, I worked, I worked with a few of them.

2204
01:44:08,960 --> 01:44:10,000
Speaker 2: I don't see how they do it.

2205
01:44:10,320 --> 01:44:12,479
Speaker 4: Like, but did you feel like when you did work, No,

2206
01:44:12,640 --> 01:44:14,599
Speaker 4: you got a big no looks of orders.

2207
01:44:15,040 --> 01:44:15,080
Speaker 1: No.

2208
01:44:16,080 --> 01:44:18,519
Speaker 3: No, And that's and that's my I'm not saying that's

2209
01:44:18,520 --> 01:44:21,679
Speaker 3: gonna be it's my experience, my experience, I think because

2210
01:44:22,360 --> 01:44:24,599
Speaker 3: I already created the crowunk case because who I am.

2211
01:44:25,200 --> 01:44:26,400
Speaker 2: I was the first influencer.

2212
01:44:27,280 --> 01:44:29,280
Speaker 3: I was the first big influence on the pronkis because

2213
01:44:29,280 --> 01:44:30,960
Speaker 3: I wouldn't work with an influence that was bigger than me.

2214
01:44:31,120 --> 01:44:31,679
Speaker 2: It didn't matter.

2215
01:44:31,840 --> 01:44:33,240
Speaker 1: I'm already that girl. Yeah.

2216
01:44:33,720 --> 01:44:36,400
Speaker 3: I've worked with a lot of influences with the cronks,

2217
01:44:36,479 --> 01:44:40,080
Speaker 3: but the bigger they were, the less I profited from them.

2218
01:44:40,280 --> 01:44:41,800
Speaker 4: I feel you on that thought, because I was just

2219
01:44:41,840 --> 01:44:44,880
Speaker 4: because you know, Black Friday, Soyber Monday passed not that

2220
01:44:45,040 --> 01:44:48,679
Speaker 4: long ago, and I made a lot of money from

2221
01:44:48,760 --> 01:44:51,439
Speaker 4: Black Friday and Cyber Monday. But it was I didn't

2222
01:44:51,439 --> 01:44:54,680
Speaker 4: even do like, no real promotion, Like it literally was

2223
01:44:54,760 --> 01:44:58,479
Speaker 4: from the ad that we started in the show, the

2224
01:44:58,600 --> 01:45:02,679
Speaker 4: podcast me all live every day for the whole four days.

2225
01:45:03,000 --> 01:45:06,080
Speaker 1: You stole it yourself basically, right, That's what I'm saying,

2226
01:45:06,240 --> 01:45:08,080
Speaker 1: which means you you are your first influences.

2227
01:45:08,200 --> 01:45:10,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's that's what I'm saying. Like, so imagine if

2228
01:45:10,200 --> 01:45:10,840
Speaker 2: you'll go work.

2229
01:45:10,720 --> 01:45:13,000
Speaker 3: With somebody that's that you you feel like in your

2230
01:45:13,080 --> 01:45:15,400
Speaker 3: mind is bigger than you because they have more problems,

2231
01:45:15,840 --> 01:45:17,720
Speaker 3: they're on the blogs more, they got a lot more

2232
01:45:17,800 --> 01:45:20,080
Speaker 3: going on, and then when you post them, but your followers.

2233
01:45:20,160 --> 01:45:22,760
Speaker 2: But I won't see drill. I won't see that drill.

2234
01:45:22,800 --> 01:45:23,599
Speaker 2: I won't see this drill.

2235
01:45:23,760 --> 01:45:25,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, so like that's how they look at it,

2236
01:45:25,840 --> 01:45:28,280
Speaker 3: Like you could, you could work with whatever like it.

2237
01:45:28,439 --> 01:45:32,599
Speaker 3: It's more of a flex than I'm making money from it. Yeah,

2238
01:45:32,800 --> 01:45:35,400
Speaker 3: So if you want to look cool for the look,

2239
01:45:35,880 --> 01:45:37,280
Speaker 3: but if you're doing it for the money.

2240
01:45:38,479 --> 01:45:40,360
Speaker 1: Okay, work with the micro influence.

2241
01:45:40,760 --> 01:45:41,920
Speaker 2: They bring the most money.

2242
01:45:42,040 --> 01:45:45,200
Speaker 3: They're bringing the So what's next for you with what

2243
01:45:45,280 --> 01:45:47,960
Speaker 3: do you want to do? But we're dropping more products.

2244
01:45:48,800 --> 01:45:51,639
Speaker 3: I stopped launching new products after I launched my last product.

2245
01:45:52,000 --> 01:45:54,120
Speaker 3: It was the News of the World collection that was

2246
01:45:54,200 --> 01:45:56,880
Speaker 3: like two years ago. I think, so now I'm about

2247
01:45:56,880 --> 01:45:59,840
Speaker 3: to really like stay. I used talking about products every month,

2248
01:46:00,439 --> 01:46:03,280
Speaker 3: like it was non stop our products, and I stopped

2249
01:46:03,280 --> 01:46:03,759
Speaker 3: it because.

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01:46:03,560 --> 01:46:05,439
Speaker 2: I'm like, well, maybe I'm maybe I'm dropping too soon,

2251
01:46:05,479 --> 01:46:06,439
Speaker 2: maybe I'm dropping too much.

2252
01:46:06,439 --> 01:46:08,000
Speaker 1: I thought that was a bad thing, but really that

2253
01:46:08,080 --> 01:46:09,439
Speaker 1: was a good thing because I was on top of

2254
01:46:09,720 --> 01:46:12,120
Speaker 1: new ship. Yeah, so I stopped that. For like these

2255
01:46:12,160 --> 01:46:15,240
Speaker 1: past three years, I probably only dropped a new product

2256
01:46:15,360 --> 01:46:19,599
Speaker 1: like twice for years, like I dropped a whole collection

2257
01:46:20,160 --> 01:46:21,840
Speaker 1: and then before that I dropped two products. So I

2258
01:46:21,920 --> 01:46:24,479
Speaker 1: only dropped like eight products in three years, and that's

2259
01:46:24,840 --> 01:46:27,280
Speaker 1: that's wild for me. I used to drop products in

2260
01:46:28,160 --> 01:46:28,800
Speaker 1: a few months.

2261
01:46:29,400 --> 01:46:31,720
Speaker 3: So next I'm going back to the basic what I

2262
01:46:31,840 --> 01:46:33,439
Speaker 3: was doing before that worked for me, instead of me

2263
01:46:33,520 --> 01:46:34,240
Speaker 3: trying to drift.

2264
01:46:34,080 --> 01:46:35,800
Speaker 1: Off something new, I'm gonna go back to what I

2265
01:46:35,880 --> 01:46:37,759
Speaker 1: was doing. I'm gonna go back to my cro cuties.

2266
01:46:37,760 --> 01:46:41,040
Speaker 3: I'm gonna go back to my me dropping non stop

2267
01:46:41,080 --> 01:46:43,280
Speaker 3: products and see and see if that's gonna continue to

2268
01:46:43,320 --> 01:46:43,680
Speaker 3: work for me.

2269
01:46:43,920 --> 01:46:46,160
Speaker 1: Like we gotta drop foundations, drop new more ship, So

2270
01:46:46,160 --> 01:46:47,920
Speaker 1: I'm gonna just see that works for me. I think

2271
01:46:47,960 --> 01:46:49,000
Speaker 1: foundations would be dope.

2272
01:46:49,040 --> 01:46:51,240
Speaker 4: People always be asking me that, they'd be like, you

2273
01:46:51,400 --> 01:46:53,439
Speaker 4: eventually want to come out with foundation and stuff, and

2274
01:46:53,479 --> 01:46:54,800
Speaker 4: I always be like, yeah, I do.

2275
01:46:55,520 --> 01:46:56,120
Speaker 1: It's hard.

2276
01:46:56,520 --> 01:47:00,120
Speaker 2: It is found understand that, Yeah it is, because.

2277
01:46:59,880 --> 01:47:01,439
Speaker 4: I feel like you really got to come up with

2278
01:47:01,600 --> 01:47:04,120
Speaker 4: like a good you don't want to you don't want

2279
01:47:04,160 --> 01:47:04,960
Speaker 4: people putting ship on.

2280
01:47:04,960 --> 01:47:07,639
Speaker 1: It and break them out, and you gotta get ridiculed.

2281
01:47:07,720 --> 01:47:08,960
Speaker 1: You wanna come out with enough shades?

2282
01:47:09,360 --> 01:47:15,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, then you gotta said it's just hard. But do

2283
01:47:15,720 --> 01:47:18,679
Speaker 4: you do you eventually want to get into like stores

2284
01:47:18,800 --> 01:47:20,960
Speaker 4: like support real ALTI I was in Walmart.

2285
01:47:21,040 --> 01:47:25,840
Speaker 1: I'm Amazon, okay, so Walmart was cool. Probably probably one

2286
01:47:25,840 --> 01:47:27,240
Speaker 1: of my biggest downfalls in business.

2287
01:47:27,479 --> 01:47:30,880
Speaker 3: Wow, girl, I think once you hop in stores, you

2288
01:47:30,960 --> 01:47:32,040
Speaker 3: gotta be ready for stores.

2289
01:47:32,200 --> 01:47:34,280
Speaker 4: And if you're not ready, it's gonna it's gonna fuck you.

2290
01:47:34,600 --> 01:47:36,680
Speaker 4: Like as far as what like keeping the stock.

2291
01:47:36,680 --> 01:47:39,240
Speaker 3: Keeping in the stock like Walmart want the order when

2292
01:47:39,280 --> 01:47:41,439
Speaker 3: they want, they fucking order. Yeah, one want said, but

2293
01:47:41,600 --> 01:47:44,120
Speaker 3: I want ten thousand palates. They want ten thousand palaces.

2294
01:47:44,120 --> 01:47:45,840
Speaker 3: If you don't get into ten thousand palates, they're gonna

2295
01:47:45,840 --> 01:47:47,800
Speaker 3: penalize you. So you gotta pay them for not giving

2296
01:47:47,840 --> 01:47:50,559
Speaker 3: them ten thousand palates. So now and be my by

2297
01:47:50,640 --> 01:47:52,920
Speaker 3: me being a self funded business, I don't have no business.

2298
01:47:53,160 --> 01:47:56,000
Speaker 2: I'm I'm the soul. This is my money inside of

2299
01:47:56,000 --> 01:47:56,320
Speaker 2: my business.

2300
01:47:56,400 --> 01:47:56,519
Speaker 1: Yea.

2301
01:47:56,920 --> 01:47:59,160
Speaker 3: So now I gotta fund Walmart. I gotta fund me.

2302
01:47:59,640 --> 01:48:01,160
Speaker 3: So I got to keep walking and start and me

2303
01:48:01,200 --> 01:48:03,320
Speaker 3: and started, But I ain't got enough money. Yeah, I

2304
01:48:03,439 --> 01:48:04,320
Speaker 3: mean not having investors.

2305
01:48:04,360 --> 01:48:07,200
Speaker 1: I think I think the black community made investors look

2306
01:48:07,320 --> 01:48:09,960
Speaker 1: so bad for black businesses, and that's not what it is. Like.

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01:48:10,000 --> 01:48:12,080
Speaker 3: We should be seeking investors, we should be looking for

2308
01:48:12,200 --> 01:48:14,120
Speaker 3: We should not be spending our own money on our businesses.

2309
01:48:14,280 --> 01:48:14,479
Speaker 1: Yeah.

2310
01:48:14,600 --> 01:48:17,599
Speaker 3: White folks don't do it all right people money Yeah,

2311
01:48:17,640 --> 01:48:19,559
Speaker 3: white folks, and they're not about to drop a dominating

2312
01:48:19,600 --> 01:48:21,360
Speaker 3: money on their business. They're walking in like, but I

2313
01:48:21,479 --> 01:48:22,000
Speaker 3: need your money.

2314
01:48:22,000 --> 01:48:24,240
Speaker 1: I need your money and your money and once I

2315
01:48:24,280 --> 01:48:26,080
Speaker 1: get your money, cool, then I'm start the business. Like

2316
01:48:26,120 --> 01:48:28,320
Speaker 1: they're not spending their own money. And I feel like

2317
01:48:28,400 --> 01:48:30,519
Speaker 1: the black community like soon as the black business is

2318
01:48:30,520 --> 01:48:32,679
Speaker 1: getting investors, soon as the black soon as a black

2319
01:48:32,720 --> 01:48:35,000
Speaker 1: business selling company, they look at like, oh you sellout,

2320
01:48:35,080 --> 01:48:36,479
Speaker 1: No bitch, I'm scaling.

2321
01:48:37,240 --> 01:48:39,439
Speaker 2: I'm trying to do more. I was, I'm trying to

2322
01:48:39,479 --> 01:48:41,400
Speaker 2: get bigger. Yeah, you're trying to get their rooms are

2323
01:48:41,479 --> 01:48:42,479
Speaker 2: not in. I'm telling you.

2324
01:48:42,800 --> 01:48:45,599
Speaker 4: Literally, our social media manager she in here right now.

2325
01:48:46,000 --> 01:48:48,280
Speaker 4: Me and her was just having this conversation the other day.

2326
01:48:48,280 --> 01:48:50,360
Speaker 4: I was like, twenty twenty five, my goal is to

2327
01:48:50,560 --> 01:48:54,200
Speaker 4: like gain more capital outside of my money, yeah, so

2328
01:48:54,360 --> 01:48:57,000
Speaker 4: that I can really scale the business, yeah real and

2329
01:48:57,120 --> 01:48:59,360
Speaker 4: really have more money to invest, have more money to

2330
01:48:59,479 --> 01:49:01,000
Speaker 4: pay brand and bad.

2331
01:49:01,400 --> 01:49:03,599
Speaker 2: Because not how far can you go buy.

2332
01:49:03,960 --> 01:49:07,120
Speaker 4: Way more inventto it because it's like how far I

2333
01:49:07,160 --> 01:49:09,479
Speaker 4: would really just funded anybody yourself exactly.

2334
01:49:09,600 --> 01:49:11,439
Speaker 1: But then like you said, people will look at you

2335
01:49:11,640 --> 01:49:15,760
Speaker 1: like you if you sell top or are you sell

2336
01:49:15,880 --> 01:49:17,479
Speaker 1: to also, are you sales in any of these like

2337
01:49:17,600 --> 01:49:19,400
Speaker 1: bigger brands, they be looking at you like you would

2338
01:49:19,439 --> 01:49:22,000
Speaker 1: sell out. But it's like people really don't understand how

2339
01:49:22,120 --> 01:49:24,080
Speaker 1: much it takes to really run a business.

2340
01:49:24,240 --> 01:49:28,679
Speaker 2: Yes, scilly and too funded. Yes, if you don't have hell.

2341
01:49:28,800 --> 01:49:31,080
Speaker 3: You basically every every time you make, if you don't

2342
01:49:31,080 --> 01:49:33,720
Speaker 3: put it back into your brain, you're not making the money.

2343
01:49:33,840 --> 01:49:34,000
Speaker 1: Yep.

2344
01:49:34,360 --> 01:49:36,679
Speaker 3: Because now if I made if you made a hundred

2345
01:49:36,680 --> 01:49:38,840
Speaker 3: thousand dollars for Black Friday, you gotta put all that

2346
01:49:38,960 --> 01:49:39,679
Speaker 3: back into your brain.

2347
01:49:39,760 --> 01:49:44,200
Speaker 4: Ye, but oh you made one hundred thousand dollars, that's

2348
01:49:44,960 --> 01:49:45,320
Speaker 4: no bitch.

2349
01:49:45,320 --> 01:49:46,320
Speaker 2: I gotta put it back into my brain.

2350
01:49:46,360 --> 01:49:48,160
Speaker 1: How make money? Exactly?

2351
01:49:48,400 --> 01:49:50,320
Speaker 3: I gotta put all this back into my brain because

2352
01:49:50,360 --> 01:49:52,800
Speaker 3: if I bought a thousand of these products, now I

2353
01:49:52,840 --> 01:49:53,920
Speaker 3: gotta buy three thousands.

2354
01:49:53,920 --> 01:49:55,559
Speaker 2: So I gotta put this back into my business to.

2355
01:49:55,560 --> 01:49:57,759
Speaker 4: Buy three thouds because now it's way more people watching,

2356
01:49:57,840 --> 01:49:58,920
Speaker 4: it's way more people buying.

2357
01:49:59,000 --> 01:49:59,479
Speaker 1: I have to buy.

2358
01:50:01,360 --> 01:50:03,400
Speaker 3: So you know, I didn't make a thousand dollars, the

2359
01:50:03,439 --> 01:50:05,519
Speaker 3: business did, and now I gotta put that back into

2360
01:50:05,560 --> 01:50:08,439
Speaker 3: the business. And I feel like entrepreneur would never a

2361
01:50:08,520 --> 01:50:10,560
Speaker 3: person that's non entrepreneur would never understand that.

2362
01:50:10,680 --> 01:50:14,040
Speaker 1: So they're the ones that's judging the entrepreneurs, saying, oh

2363
01:50:14,160 --> 01:50:16,240
Speaker 1: you you this, and you that you sold out and

2364
01:50:16,280 --> 01:50:18,160
Speaker 1: you're just like, bitch, I'm doing this by.

2365
01:50:18,080 --> 01:50:19,799
Speaker 2: Myself, bitch. I didn't got no investors.

2366
01:50:19,840 --> 01:50:21,920
Speaker 1: I don't got no I don't got nobody that It's

2367
01:50:22,000 --> 01:50:24,840
Speaker 1: just me, even you got employees, your the money's part,

2368
01:50:24,960 --> 01:50:27,479
Speaker 1: it is just you. The capital is just you. If

2369
01:50:27,520 --> 01:50:29,240
Speaker 1: you only put your own money and so, like I didn't,

2370
01:50:29,560 --> 01:50:32,000
Speaker 1: once you get an investor. The crown Case made fifty

2371
01:50:32,000 --> 01:50:37,360
Speaker 1: million dollars. Fifty million dollars, that's amazing, Yes, but I did.

2372
01:50:37,479 --> 01:50:39,840
Speaker 1: I did all I could do. Yeah, I put all

2373
01:50:40,000 --> 01:50:42,360
Speaker 1: put my whole fucking foot. If you try to steal

2374
01:50:42,400 --> 01:50:43,920
Speaker 1: it to a billion dollars, you need in.

2375
01:50:44,200 --> 01:50:47,160
Speaker 3: I need investors, I cannot. I have nothing else to

2376
01:50:47,200 --> 01:50:49,320
Speaker 3: give you, bitch. Yeah, I didn't give my business my

2377
01:50:49,400 --> 01:50:51,639
Speaker 3: whole ass. Now I need something more.

2378
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Speaker 1: But you won't give that man. Never mind what what

2379
01:50:58,920 --> 01:51:02,040
Speaker 1: you won't get that man as wall up bitch. She

2380
01:51:02,280 --> 01:51:06,680
Speaker 1: said it. Okay, okay, if I rid you.

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01:51:06,760 --> 01:51:10,400
Speaker 6: Bitch, I would, but I can't so you know eventually, Okay,

2382
01:51:10,880 --> 01:51:13,200
Speaker 6: it wasn't like that the first song I tell you.

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01:51:14,840 --> 01:51:16,439
Speaker 1: Do you give a good advice? Obviously you give good

2384
01:51:16,439 --> 01:51:19,720
Speaker 1: advice because you sp y'all at your girl XP and

2385
01:51:19,880 --> 01:51:21,120
Speaker 1: it's Sugarl Dre and the call.

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01:51:21,560 --> 01:51:21,880
Speaker 2: Y'all know.

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01:51:22,000 --> 01:51:24,560
Speaker 1: We have a segment on Poor Minds called Item of

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Speaker 1: the Week. But do you have a product or something

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Speaker 1: that you want to promote and you want it featured

2390
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01:51:29,280 --> 01:51:31,479
Speaker 2: Your opportunity is here period.

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Speaker 4: If you have an item or you have a business

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Speaker 4: and you want to get it promoted. We are now

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Speaker 4: having slots available on the Poor Mind's episode. So if

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01:51:39,439 --> 01:51:41,760
Speaker 4: you would like to get your product featured for Item

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Speaker 4: of the Week, all you need to do is send

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Speaker 4: an email to Item of the Week PM at gmail

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Speaker 4: dot com. That's I T E M O F T

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Speaker 4: H E W E E K PM at gmail dot com.

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Speaker 4: Send us an email and we'll work it out.

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01:51:58,880 --> 01:51:59,760
Speaker 1: We gonna figure it out.

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01:52:00,240 --> 01:52:03,840
Speaker 2: Get your product, get your business sponsored, and yeah, make

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01:52:03,880 --> 01:52:06,759
Speaker 2: you some money. We love to some more. A small

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01:52:06,840 --> 01:52:10,400
Speaker 2: business man and a black business said that, but I mean.

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01:52:12,479 --> 01:52:13,040
Speaker 1: Scramminade.

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01:52:13,160 --> 01:52:15,200
Speaker 2: Any business is welcome.

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01:52:15,640 --> 01:52:18,080
Speaker 1: Go into the Pour your heart out segment. Okay, so

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01:52:18,160 --> 01:52:20,479
Speaker 1: we're gonna read a letter. Drayton read George got in

2409
01:52:20,560 --> 01:52:22,840
Speaker 1: the top of one I love. So we're gonna read it.

2410
01:52:22,880 --> 01:52:24,840
Speaker 1: If you want your question answered on the show, send

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01:52:24,920 --> 01:52:28,680
Speaker 1: us an email at If you're a Patreon, remember put

2412
01:52:28,720 --> 01:52:33,360
Speaker 1: that in the title. I like that period you are?

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01:52:33,840 --> 01:52:35,800
Speaker 1: Oh you are as I said, O you are? I

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01:52:35,880 --> 01:52:38,559
Speaker 1: love that? All right, go ahead, dre this one.

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01:52:38,520 --> 01:52:43,080
Speaker 2: Message that's a long. We're only gonna do one one.

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01:52:43,520 --> 01:52:44,400
Speaker 1: This is an essay.

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01:52:45,880 --> 01:52:47,920
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, so read that one.

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01:52:48,240 --> 01:52:48,720
Speaker 1: Have read this?

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01:52:51,040 --> 01:52:52,120
Speaker 2: Why is the loan?

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01:52:52,560 --> 01:52:58,599
Speaker 1: I don't know the people a minimum?

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01:53:00,080 --> 01:53:01,839
Speaker 2: Okay, they said, Hi, ladies.

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01:53:02,280 --> 01:53:04,280
Speaker 4: First, I want to thank y'all for creating such an

2423
01:53:04,360 --> 01:53:08,280
Speaker 4: honest and open platform speaking on real life, relatable things.

2424
01:53:08,640 --> 01:53:12,599
Speaker 4: I will forever give y'all y'all flowers today. Okay, I'm

2425
01:53:12,640 --> 01:53:14,479
Speaker 4: going to try to make this the shortest possible.

2426
01:53:16,760 --> 01:53:17,040
Speaker 2: Okay.

2427
01:53:19,000 --> 01:53:21,799
Speaker 4: So, my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost

2428
01:53:21,880 --> 01:53:25,519
Speaker 4: six months now and things are starting to get super serious.

2429
01:53:25,960 --> 01:53:29,000
Speaker 4: He is literally the guy I've always dreamed of and wanted.

2430
01:53:29,600 --> 01:53:32,400
Speaker 4: Now here's the kicker. He has a son, and the

2431
01:53:32,479 --> 01:53:35,160
Speaker 4: mother of his son and I went to middle school together.

2432
01:53:35,479 --> 01:53:37,240
Speaker 4: We were cool and hung out in school.

2433
01:53:37,320 --> 01:53:39,920
Speaker 1: Sometimes, I've known both of them for about the same

2434
01:53:39,960 --> 01:53:42,800
Speaker 1: amount of time, but I was always closer to him.

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01:53:43,280 --> 01:53:45,880
Speaker 2: However, we never dated or anything.

2436
01:53:45,640 --> 01:53:46,400
Speaker 1: Like that back then.

2437
01:53:46,920 --> 01:53:50,160
Speaker 4: Fast forward, six years after graduating, he and I started

2438
01:53:50,200 --> 01:53:52,840
Speaker 4: hanging out, keeping in touch, and eventually really hit it off.

2439
01:53:53,439 --> 01:53:54,840
Speaker 1: We've been together ever since.

2440
01:53:55,280 --> 01:53:58,400
Speaker 4: Nobody really knows about us because we're super private, but

2441
01:53:58,520 --> 01:54:01,000
Speaker 4: I told him I think he's babies. Mother should know

2442
01:54:01,240 --> 01:54:04,320
Speaker 4: since I'm around their son alife. His son is six

2443
01:54:04,479 --> 01:54:07,840
Speaker 4: years old going on seven, so they had him pretty young.

2444
01:54:08,280 --> 01:54:11,080
Speaker 4: When he explained to her that we're in a serious relationship,

2445
01:54:11,160 --> 01:54:13,559
Speaker 4: she was very upset. She feels like I owe her

2446
01:54:13,680 --> 01:54:16,800
Speaker 4: loyalty because we were once friends in school. She also

2447
01:54:16,960 --> 01:54:20,200
Speaker 4: mentioned how we're acting like we've been friends this whole time,

2448
01:54:20,240 --> 01:54:23,080
Speaker 4: which isn't true. I haven't really spoken to her since

2449
01:54:23,120 --> 01:54:26,200
Speaker 4: before graduating, and it wasn't like we were besties. Now

2450
01:54:26,280 --> 01:54:28,160
Speaker 4: that she's trying to stop him from seeing his son

2451
01:54:28,280 --> 01:54:30,840
Speaker 4: because she doesn't want me around their child, I know

2452
01:54:30,960 --> 01:54:33,200
Speaker 4: how much he cherishes being a dad, and I don't

2453
01:54:33,240 --> 01:54:34,120
Speaker 4: want to come between that.

2454
01:54:34,760 --> 01:54:35,760
Speaker 1: I've been thinking.

2455
01:54:35,520 --> 01:54:37,720
Speaker 4: About walking away from the relationship for the sake of

2456
01:54:37,800 --> 01:54:40,200
Speaker 4: him and his son. He doesn't want to end things

2457
01:54:40,280 --> 01:54:42,240
Speaker 4: with me, and it's willing to take her to court

2458
01:54:42,320 --> 01:54:45,320
Speaker 4: if she doesn't let go soon. But I don't want

2459
01:54:45,320 --> 01:54:47,320
Speaker 4: to be the cause of all this drama to stop

2460
01:54:47,440 --> 01:54:50,480
Speaker 4: him from being an active father. Honestly, in this case,

2461
01:54:50,640 --> 01:54:54,160
Speaker 4: what would y'all do? Sorry, y'all tried to keep it short.

2462
01:54:54,280 --> 01:54:55,640
Speaker 4: I just wanted to give details.

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01:54:56,200 --> 01:54:56,480
Speaker 1: Bitch.

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01:54:57,720 --> 01:55:01,800
Speaker 3: He gonna deal with that again some else. Yeah, So, bitch,

2465
01:55:03,480 --> 01:55:06,200
Speaker 3: exactly stand outside that nigga, because he's going to deal

2466
01:55:06,280 --> 01:55:09,120
Speaker 3: with that with something. She's gonna find another issue something.

2467
01:55:09,200 --> 01:55:09,680
Speaker 1: Oh, I bitch.

2468
01:55:09,720 --> 01:55:11,120
Speaker 2: I don't like the way I saw you in Live.

2469
01:55:11,160 --> 01:55:12,120
Speaker 2: You was driving off crazy.

2470
01:55:12,400 --> 01:55:14,640
Speaker 3: I don't want you roll my children, no, bitch, So

2471
01:55:14,800 --> 01:55:17,480
Speaker 3: he needs to set that boundary a sat bitch.

2472
01:55:17,560 --> 01:55:19,400
Speaker 1: If y'all y'all was cool, I don't know what you

2473
01:55:19,480 --> 01:55:20,920
Speaker 1: was cool when in school we spoke to price the

2474
01:55:21,000 --> 01:55:25,080
Speaker 1: pictures with that? Was it like I was cool with

2475
01:55:25,160 --> 01:55:27,280
Speaker 1: Drake in school? I'll be like were. I don't know

2476
01:55:27,400 --> 01:55:27,920
Speaker 1: you like that.

2477
01:55:28,200 --> 01:55:30,240
Speaker 2: I've never been in your house, you never been to mind.

2478
01:55:30,360 --> 01:55:31,960
Speaker 2: I don't know your mama name, only your birthday.

2479
01:55:32,000 --> 01:55:32,680
Speaker 1: Bit you on the mind.

2480
01:55:32,720 --> 01:55:34,560
Speaker 2: I don't know your last How are we friends?

2481
01:55:35,280 --> 01:55:37,360
Speaker 3: How are we not friends like they love to proclaim

2482
01:55:37,440 --> 01:55:40,400
Speaker 3: that friend called when the nigga, I'm not your friend.

2483
01:55:40,760 --> 01:55:41,640
Speaker 2: He gonna deal with that.

2484
01:55:41,720 --> 01:55:42,640
Speaker 1: Again down the line.

2485
01:55:42,680 --> 01:55:44,280
Speaker 3: He needs to set that shit straightened now and she

2486
01:55:44,360 --> 01:55:46,000
Speaker 3: need to stand on side him while you set that

2487
01:55:46,040 --> 01:55:46,480
Speaker 3: you're straight.

2488
01:55:46,520 --> 01:55:49,000
Speaker 1: Don't don't don't give your nigga back, bitch.

2489
01:55:49,480 --> 01:55:51,480
Speaker 4: But you know what's crazy though, she said that in

2490
01:55:51,520 --> 01:55:54,720
Speaker 4: a message, she said she feels like I owe her

2491
01:55:54,840 --> 01:55:57,320
Speaker 4: loyalty because we were friends in school.

2492
01:55:57,760 --> 01:56:00,760
Speaker 1: But then she was like. She also mentioned we're acting

2493
01:56:00,920 --> 01:56:03,440
Speaker 1: like we've always been friends this whole time.

2494
01:56:03,680 --> 01:56:06,320
Speaker 2: She didn't flip it, understand, but so which one?

2495
01:56:06,400 --> 01:56:08,600
Speaker 1: Is it not friends? Or are we friends? If you

2496
01:56:08,640 --> 01:56:10,120
Speaker 1: feel like Lily.

2497
01:56:09,840 --> 01:56:11,720
Speaker 3: Because the girls put it in her mind. No, she

2498
01:56:11,720 --> 01:56:13,360
Speaker 3: could be flipping because the girl put in her mind,

2499
01:56:13,600 --> 01:56:15,760
Speaker 3: or she could feel like there was friends. But they

2500
01:56:15,800 --> 01:56:17,280
Speaker 3: haven't talked since graduation.

2501
01:56:17,720 --> 01:56:17,880
Speaker 1: Yeah.

2502
01:56:18,200 --> 01:56:20,160
Speaker 2: How old are they because if.

2503
01:56:20,120 --> 01:56:22,520
Speaker 1: They I don't think Yeah, she didn't say, but she

2504
01:56:22,680 --> 01:56:25,880
Speaker 1: said that they had they son young means she said that.

2505
01:56:25,960 --> 01:56:28,800
Speaker 2: The son is six going on seven, But they do

2506
01:56:28,920 --> 01:56:33,440
Speaker 2: that mean what he had missed, m M.

2507
01:56:34,280 --> 01:56:37,320
Speaker 1: I feel like the bigger lesson is for him to

2508
01:56:37,480 --> 01:56:40,440
Speaker 1: set them boundaries. He said he doesn't realize that even

2509
01:56:40,480 --> 01:56:43,760
Speaker 1: if he's not with you gonna deal with afterwards, shes

2510
01:56:43,760 --> 01:56:44,880
Speaker 1: gonna find a problem with her.

2511
01:56:45,920 --> 01:56:48,160
Speaker 2: She needs to heal and move on until he's.

2512
01:56:48,040 --> 01:56:51,120
Speaker 1: Gonna have a healthy relationship. Agree. Yeah, like she can't

2513
01:56:51,160 --> 01:56:53,480
Speaker 1: run his love life. And there's nothing that the girlfriend

2514
01:56:53,520 --> 01:56:56,680
Speaker 1: can do. Like you're the girlfriend, don't stretch yourself out.

2515
01:56:57,760 --> 01:56:59,240
Speaker 1: He's gonna have to do what he needs to do.

2516
01:56:59,600 --> 01:57:01,760
Speaker 1: But don't you don't stress yourself out because if you

2517
01:57:01,800 --> 01:57:05,800
Speaker 1: feel like you're over exerting yourself and yeah, don't do that.

2518
01:57:06,080 --> 01:57:08,440
Speaker 1: I agree, Like, take yourself out of it and let him.

2519
01:57:08,840 --> 01:57:09,240
Speaker 2: Let him.

2520
01:57:09,640 --> 01:57:13,280
Speaker 3: I wouldn't remove myself on purpose, right, he have to

2521
01:57:13,360 --> 01:57:14,920
Speaker 3: tell me, well, I'm just gonna do.

2522
01:57:15,000 --> 01:57:17,120
Speaker 2: This, and then okay, cool I get it. I'm gonna

2523
01:57:17,160 --> 01:57:19,400
Speaker 2: tell me a bitch, but cool I get it.

2524
01:57:19,520 --> 01:57:22,280
Speaker 1: But I'm not. I'm not gonna remove myself. But he

2525
01:57:22,360 --> 01:57:23,360
Speaker 1: gonna deal with that again.

2526
01:57:24,480 --> 01:57:26,800
Speaker 3: Once you bow down to your baby mama the first time,

2527
01:57:26,960 --> 01:57:28,920
Speaker 3: you gotta keep bombing down, Like.

2528
01:57:28,960 --> 01:57:31,000
Speaker 2: I definitely think baby mamas be pulling that car.

2529
01:57:31,160 --> 01:57:31,840
Speaker 1: Oh do they?

2530
01:57:32,000 --> 01:57:34,160
Speaker 2: Baby Mama's a superior for sure.

2531
01:57:34,360 --> 01:57:37,120
Speaker 1: You used to do that. No, what the girl? First

2532
01:57:37,120 --> 01:57:38,440
Speaker 1: of all, my baby dad is gonna let me. That's

2533
01:57:38,480 --> 01:57:44,920
Speaker 1: first because I had babies with no twenty one was young.

2534
01:57:45,040 --> 01:57:48,280
Speaker 1: But yeah, but I but he he said the tone fact.

2535
01:57:48,720 --> 01:57:49,480
Speaker 2: I didn't have to be that.

2536
01:57:49,480 --> 01:57:52,280
Speaker 1: Way with him, because it's no. Once he broke up,

2537
01:57:52,320 --> 01:57:52,720
Speaker 1: he broke up.

2538
01:57:52,720 --> 01:57:54,680
Speaker 2: It was done like like I said, new nigga.

2539
01:57:54,440 --> 01:57:56,280
Speaker 1: Me please, I move on. I get the fuck on,

2540
01:57:56,680 --> 01:57:59,080
Speaker 1: like I'd never double back on baby dad. It was done.

2541
01:57:59,560 --> 01:58:02,600
Speaker 1: So I respect my children father as the same, the

2542
01:58:02,640 --> 01:58:04,560
Speaker 1: same amount of superiority I have.

2543
01:58:04,760 --> 01:58:07,040
Speaker 3: You have to I'm not gonna feel like, oh well,

2544
01:58:07,240 --> 01:58:09,440
Speaker 3: I carried them and I did this and I nine

2545
01:58:09,520 --> 01:58:11,760
Speaker 3: twenty nine hours bitch, no like no.

2546
01:58:11,920 --> 01:58:12,680
Speaker 2: Like whatever you say.

2547
01:58:12,760 --> 01:58:14,320
Speaker 3: If you say this is not right for my child,

2548
01:58:14,400 --> 01:58:16,800
Speaker 3: I have to respect you because your parents all women,

2549
01:58:16,880 --> 01:58:18,680
Speaker 3: and I like that. Some women feel like they have more,

2550
01:58:18,880 --> 01:58:20,560
Speaker 3: they're more superior because they're the mind.

2551
01:58:20,640 --> 01:58:21,160
Speaker 1: They carried.

2552
01:58:21,360 --> 01:58:22,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, they carried the baby.

2553
01:58:22,400 --> 01:58:24,600
Speaker 1: So I feel like and and men when once a

2554
01:58:24,720 --> 01:58:28,600
Speaker 1: man bowed down the first time, it don't end. It

2555
01:58:28,760 --> 01:58:29,320
Speaker 1: don't end.

2556
01:58:30,520 --> 01:58:32,280
Speaker 2: Men don't take these bitches the court is.

2557
01:58:32,560 --> 01:58:33,120
Speaker 1: It don't end?

2558
01:58:33,240 --> 01:58:36,080
Speaker 4: You think court is always like a woman take a

2559
01:58:36,120 --> 01:58:37,280
Speaker 4: man in court in a heartbeat.

2560
01:58:37,640 --> 01:58:39,720
Speaker 1: A man should too. If you ready cap at your

2561
01:58:39,760 --> 01:58:41,680
Speaker 1: child showed me. Spend your money, spend your bad bite,

2562
01:58:41,720 --> 01:58:43,120
Speaker 1: get your lawyer, and take.

2563
01:58:43,000 --> 01:58:46,120
Speaker 2: The whole court. If not, then we're just gonna bow

2564
01:58:46,160 --> 01:58:48,680
Speaker 2: down to what she say. No, like all do if

2565
01:58:48,720 --> 01:58:50,640
Speaker 2: it's not no, yeah a woman.

2566
01:58:50,960 --> 01:58:53,560
Speaker 3: A woman should not run her baby daddy love life

2567
01:58:53,880 --> 01:58:56,040
Speaker 3: solely based off of because oh you don't like something

2568
01:58:56,080 --> 01:58:58,680
Speaker 3: you've seen, like no, bitch, like especially if something petty.

2569
01:59:00,000 --> 01:59:01,760
Speaker 3: It also be just because they don't want to move on.

2570
01:59:02,120 --> 01:59:03,800
Speaker 3: And that's a little that's a little more in depth.

2571
01:59:03,880 --> 01:59:05,720
Speaker 3: Like the girl, it sounds like it was really friends.

2572
01:59:05,800 --> 01:59:08,360
Speaker 1: So she said that they was.

2573
01:59:08,440 --> 01:59:09,240
Speaker 2: She said two things.

2574
01:59:09,320 --> 01:59:11,200
Speaker 3: She said, we was friends and then she said she

2575
01:59:11,240 --> 01:59:13,120
Speaker 3: said I owe her loyalty because it was friends.

2576
01:59:13,120 --> 01:59:15,320
Speaker 4: Then she said, well, we weren't friends like that. She

2577
01:59:15,440 --> 01:59:18,160
Speaker 4: said when they was in high school, they knew each other.

2578
01:59:18,560 --> 01:59:21,120
Speaker 4: They would hang out like a few times. So she

2579
01:59:21,280 --> 01:59:23,200
Speaker 4: was like, they wasn't friends like that, and.

2580
01:59:23,280 --> 01:59:25,360
Speaker 2: You ain't been in my mama house. I agree.

2581
01:59:25,720 --> 01:59:27,320
Speaker 3: If I don't know your birthday, I don't know, but

2582
01:59:27,520 --> 01:59:30,560
Speaker 3: I beatterly know your middle name, Like we're not you

2583
01:59:30,760 --> 01:59:33,680
Speaker 3: to social media. Lets you throw that friend called out

2584
01:59:33,800 --> 01:59:35,600
Speaker 3: so fast like all like hey, because I call you

2585
01:59:35,640 --> 01:59:36,480
Speaker 3: a friend right now, but.

2586
01:59:36,800 --> 01:59:39,560
Speaker 2: We're not friends. Coming on, we were just mad bitch.

2587
01:59:39,840 --> 01:59:41,640
Speaker 1: If I found you, don't want to I'm not about

2588
01:59:41,640 --> 01:59:42,000
Speaker 1: to fight you.

2589
01:59:42,240 --> 01:59:45,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, we're not friends, like I feel like social media

2590
01:59:45,240 --> 01:59:48,080
Speaker 3: let that framework go so loose, Like I've never been

2591
01:59:48,120 --> 01:59:49,800
Speaker 3: in your house, you never been to mind you.

2592
01:59:50,640 --> 01:59:51,280
Speaker 2: Your birthday party?

2593
01:59:51,360 --> 01:59:52,960
Speaker 3: So how to fucking your friend, bitch? I ain't been

2594
01:59:52,960 --> 01:59:55,120
Speaker 3: none of your birthday since high school? How to fuck

2595
01:59:55,160 --> 01:59:58,360
Speaker 3: am your friend? Why get in your crab ball bitch?

2596
01:59:59,000 --> 01:59:59,920
Speaker 3: Because I'm not your friend.

2597
02:00:02,560 --> 02:00:03,480
Speaker 1: Maybe that's the same.

2598
02:00:03,360 --> 02:00:04,280
Speaker 2: Thing I'm not your friend.

2599
02:00:04,440 --> 02:00:06,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree. I agree.

2600
02:00:08,560 --> 02:00:10,800
Speaker 3: A different always, always different set of room when it

2601
02:00:10,800 --> 02:00:11,520
Speaker 3: comes to them niggas.

2602
02:00:12,200 --> 02:00:13,920
Speaker 2: That's my nigga. But I'm not coming to both of them.

2603
02:00:14,040 --> 02:00:16,040
Speaker 1: So Super, let the girls know where they can find you.

2604
02:00:16,160 --> 02:00:18,120
Speaker 1: Follow you all that good stuff that you got coming up.

2605
02:00:18,680 --> 02:00:21,360
Speaker 1: You can find me on girl that they deleted my

2606
02:00:21,440 --> 02:00:21,880
Speaker 1: main I know.

2607
02:00:22,040 --> 02:00:22,680
Speaker 2: That's why I said you.

2608
02:00:25,680 --> 02:00:26,360
Speaker 1: Don't get it, BAGD.

2609
02:00:26,640 --> 02:00:26,760
Speaker 2: I know.

2610
02:00:26,880 --> 02:00:29,560
Speaker 3: I am so right now I'm on. You can still

2611
02:00:29,560 --> 02:00:33,960
Speaker 3: type in super it's still typing super stending. It's gonna

2612
02:00:33,960 --> 02:00:38,400
Speaker 3: pop up period, It's still gonna pop up type of

2613
02:00:38,440 --> 02:00:38,800
Speaker 3: super stent.

2614
02:00:38,840 --> 02:00:39,480
Speaker 2: It's gonna pop up.

2615
02:00:39,480 --> 02:00:42,880
Speaker 3: I'm on TikTok everything else everywhere else is wizam super okay,

2616
02:00:43,320 --> 02:00:44,879
Speaker 3: saying it's literally only on Instagram.

2617
02:00:45,080 --> 02:00:48,720
Speaker 2: Only on Instagram everywhere else is wizam super, w u

2618
02:00:48,880 --> 02:00:50,120
Speaker 2: z z a M Super.

2619
02:00:50,320 --> 02:00:59,520
Speaker 1: Even on YouTube is look we have a ball today show.

2620
02:01:00,040 --> 02:01:03,440
Speaker 2: I like y'all' when you holds comes to the wall.

2621
02:01:03,600 --> 02:01:06,160
Speaker 1: No, I'm serious, I'm not. I'm so don't act funny.

2622
02:01:06,720 --> 02:01:10,520
Speaker 2: I'm not voting. No, getting it out. You're smoking black

2623
02:01:10,560 --> 02:01:11,800
Speaker 2: smoke and bring your.

2624
02:01:11,760 --> 02:01:20,400
Speaker 1: Makeupgett sha make sure I've seen the ship. Make sure

2625
02:01:20,400 --> 02:01:23,160
Speaker 1: you're saying okay, and I'm gonna make sure yes.

2626
02:01:23,560 --> 02:01:24,600
Speaker 2: And we'll see y'all next week.

2627
02:01:25,240 --> 02:01:30,160
Speaker 1: Y'all, y'all, make sure y'all share the content, like subscribe,

2628
02:01:30,440 --> 02:01:32,280
Speaker 1: follow all that good stuff. And let me say this

2629
02:01:32,360 --> 02:01:36,480
Speaker 1: before we close out, y'all, there is one Twitter account

2630
02:01:36,560 --> 02:01:37,920
Speaker 1: that is connected to poor Minds.

2631
02:01:37,960 --> 02:01:38,520
Speaker 2: It's p O.

2632
02:01:38,800 --> 02:01:42,720
Speaker 1: You are underscore in my n d s. Y'all are

2633
02:01:42,800 --> 02:01:45,920
Speaker 1: tagging the wrong poor Minds page. If you see at

2634
02:01:46,040 --> 02:01:48,480
Speaker 1: poor Minds with no underscore, that is at fake page,

2635
02:01:48,560 --> 02:01:51,960
Speaker 1: do not follow that page. Okay, they block me Andrea

2636
02:01:52,480 --> 02:01:55,000
Speaker 1: and the poor Minds page on both so we only

2637
02:01:55,080 --> 02:01:59,920
Speaker 1: have one Instagram, one Twitter, one TikTok.

2638
02:02:00,320 --> 02:02:02,480
Speaker 2: It is p o. You are underscore in.

2639
02:02:02,520 --> 02:02:05,240
Speaker 4: My nds, all right, and we gotta hell a fake

2640
02:02:05,440 --> 02:02:06,360
Speaker 4: Facebook page.

2641
02:02:06,800 --> 02:02:08,840
Speaker 2: The facebook pages it's our face.

2642
02:02:09,040 --> 02:02:09,920
Speaker 1: The crazy thing is.

2643
02:02:10,000 --> 02:02:13,120
Speaker 4: Our Facebook page actually have the least amount of file report.

2644
02:02:13,200 --> 02:02:15,680
Speaker 4: So if you're on face, the one that's ours got

2645
02:02:15,760 --> 02:02:17,760
Speaker 4: the least amount of files, but one that's.

2646
02:02:17,720 --> 02:02:19,560
Speaker 2: Not us got like two hundred and fifty.

2647
02:02:19,640 --> 02:02:22,280
Speaker 1: Thou make if you actually look at the content, because

2648
02:02:22,320 --> 02:02:25,000
Speaker 1: the caption is like whoever it is, don't speak English?

2649
02:02:25,280 --> 02:02:27,560
Speaker 2: Because their captures are like bumba claude?

2650
02:02:27,560 --> 02:02:32,000
Speaker 1: Should men? Should men pay bill? Should men pay bill? Yes? No?

2651
02:02:33,280 --> 02:02:36,520
Speaker 1: Check answer below block block pull.

2652
02:02:36,640 --> 02:02:39,760
Speaker 2: Pull Like that's literally with the captions.

2653
02:02:39,920 --> 02:02:44,200
Speaker 1: I'm like you what that DG's bumba claudemba claud Okay

2654
02:02:44,720 --> 02:02:50,120
Speaker 1: we our name is the Squabblers, the squabblers, the squabblers

2655
02:02:54,000 --> 02:02:59,840
Speaker 1: and the squabblers. Oh we finished? Are you ready? I'm ready.

2656
02:03:00,200 --> 02:03:06,680
Speaker 2: M I've been thinking about you.

2657
02:03:08,680 --> 02:03:13,720
Speaker 1: For quite a while. You're on my mind every day

2658
02:03:14,160 --> 02:03:19,600
Speaker 1: and every night. My every thought is you. The things

2659
02:03:19,680 --> 02:03:20,040
Speaker 1: you do.

2660
02:03:21,800 --> 02:03:25,800
Speaker 3: It's so sad, it's fine and to me, I'm most

2661
02:03:25,880 --> 02:03:27,440
Speaker 3: confessing girl.

2662
02:03:29,400 --> 02:03:35,800
Speaker 1: And lacky. You sent She's up my spine every time

2663
02:03:36,240 --> 02:03:43,880
Speaker 1: I take one look at you. How like girl, you

2664
02:03:44,120 --> 02:03:47,960
Speaker 1: blowing my mind with the thing. Just say to me,

2665
02:03:48,640 --> 02:03:52,200
Speaker 1: I like the way you come here. I like those

2666
02:03:52,320 --> 02:03:53,520
Speaker 1: sounds close your way.

2667
02:03:54,040 --> 02:03:57,520
Speaker 3: It's just a little things you do that show how

2668
02:03:57,680 --> 02:04:01,400
Speaker 3: much I really can like where I'm all along with you.

2669
02:04:02,040 --> 02:04:06,000
Speaker 1: You know exactly what to do. You put that fire

2670
02:04:06,040 --> 02:04:09,800
Speaker 1: inside of me, make it more than just a dream.

2671
02:04:13,040 --> 02:04:24,360
Speaker 1: And how my looking. She got them socks on, and

2672
02:04:24,600 --> 02:04:30,560
Speaker 1: she like, I'm super, I'm super gonna get my hotel keys,

2673
02:04:33,000 --> 02:04:34,600
Speaker 1: shut up soupera.

2674
02:04:36,000 --> 02:04:36,520
Speaker 5: Next week.

2675
02:04:36,560 --> 02:04:39,560
Speaker 1: And she I'm crying.

2676
02:04:41,520 --> 02:04:53,120
Speaker 5: I can't stay with her. Great, that's my shame across

2677
02:04:53,120 --> 02:04:53,960
Speaker 5: the hotel.

2678
02:05:07,280 --> 02:05:18,840
Speaker 1: Down with it down, down ing down,