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Speaker 1: one two? Want to want to what is this? Oh? Hi,

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Speaker 1: I said, Nie Spring has sprung. Girls, shear shirtles. See

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Speaker 1: my elbows are out. They're actually, they're very actually, but

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Speaker 2: No, I just was like, you know, I've been trying

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Speaker 2: I just I've been trying to not put on a

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Speaker 1: That is my goal.

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Speaker 2: I wake up and I say, if you put the

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Speaker 1: So I said, let me set a little for you

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Speaker 1: in a black turtleneck. When you done, please don't please,

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Speaker 1: don't know if it's a tourtleneck dress. No, put me

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Speaker 1: in the Selena bra with the rhymestones, the go on

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Speaker 2: Now, let me tell you those pants were something else

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Speaker 2: it just looked like like a shiny spoon, like a

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Speaker 1: The red one. I thought you was in Greece.

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Speaker 2: Oh surely I don't even know the song for grease,

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Speaker 2: but yeah, I was like, somebody cue it in.

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Speaker 1: Put it in, plugging the song the white people grease,

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Speaker 1: Black people grease the black people grease is dex Yes,

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Speaker 1: what was I going to say? Oh, let's just get

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Speaker 2: Why do I have to lose something when I'm doing

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Speaker 1: What you mean like give something up? Yes, what you're

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Speaker 2: So you know, every every show I'm going to talk about,

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Speaker 2: I'm going anti depressants, y'all, I am doing the work.

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Speaker 1: Uh huh, lost my ass? Oh me, you put it on,

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Speaker 1: put it on a screen. I mean, these are these

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Speaker 1: like you no, no, no, look said hold on, no, no,

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Speaker 2: I do not have a butt anymore like I can

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Speaker 1: Friend? You have a butt? Girl? You you have a butt?

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Speaker 1: What do I have? I have a long back.

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Speaker 2: No, I'm gonna honestly, I'm gonna post a picture of

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Speaker 1: he said. Waiting bucket. They say it's called mess, what

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Speaker 1: Who listens to the podcast, yes on it? What what

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Speaker 1: listen to women led shows. Uh, that's that women's history.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely not. No, we should not be able to trust

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Speaker 1: Listen. That's for being an adult is about. And also

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Speaker 1: into a new season. Spring has sprung, it has Who

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Speaker 1: What is your mess besides coming for me? Oh? What

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Speaker 2: of yourself and kill Obviously you're not a spring chicken,

423
00:23:32,040 --> 00:23:33,520
Speaker 2: but you're very your youthful.

424
00:23:34,200 --> 00:23:38,200
Speaker 1: But next to him, he looks like it's crazy, that's what. Yeah.

425
00:23:38,200 --> 00:23:40,560
Speaker 1: And so we have that conversation and I get how

426
00:23:40,560 --> 00:23:42,879
Speaker 1: it could be offensive, like IM like a small no

427
00:23:43,119 --> 00:23:46,040
Speaker 1: for him, I like a scurfy look. And I said,

428
00:23:46,119 --> 00:23:49,000
Speaker 1: I said, ooh, babe, like keep this hair makes you

429
00:23:49,040 --> 00:23:51,760
Speaker 1: look older and he hated me saying that, which I

430
00:23:51,840 --> 00:23:54,040
Speaker 1: get because he was like, well, babe, you wouldn't like

431
00:23:54,200 --> 00:23:57,080
Speaker 1: if I told you, Like, I like how you did

432
00:23:57,200 --> 00:24:00,159
Speaker 1: something because it made you look younger, especially as one

433
00:24:00,160 --> 00:24:02,399
Speaker 1: who was older than that. I was like, okay, you

434
00:24:02,520 --> 00:24:06,560
Speaker 1: got me. Well maybe older is the wrong word, just like, oh,

435
00:24:06,600 --> 00:24:08,840
Speaker 1: you look real like I don't know how, let me

436
00:24:08,960 --> 00:24:11,360
Speaker 1: tell you. And he just said the cutest thing yesterday

437
00:24:11,720 --> 00:24:14,000
Speaker 1: and it made me think of you because you came

438
00:24:14,040 --> 00:24:17,080
Speaker 1: in with your sapphor bag and he hit me yesterday.

439
00:24:17,160 --> 00:24:18,680
Speaker 1: He was like, Babe, I tried to call you, but

440
00:24:18,720 --> 00:24:20,639
Speaker 1: I was recording yesterday and I was like, what happened?

441
00:24:20,680 --> 00:24:23,440
Speaker 1: He was like, I went to uh Far and spent like,

442
00:24:23,840 --> 00:24:25,960
Speaker 1: you know, two hundred dollars on the skincare stuff. And

443
00:24:26,080 --> 00:24:28,320
Speaker 1: he was like, your number didn't show up. I was

444
00:24:28,359 --> 00:24:30,719
Speaker 1: trying to get you the points for your support thing.

445
00:24:30,840 --> 00:24:32,440
Speaker 1: He was like, your number didn't work, and then I

446
00:24:32,520 --> 00:24:34,960
Speaker 1: tried your email. I said, oh, baby, it's my old number.

447
00:24:35,560 --> 00:24:37,240
Speaker 1: I said, it's the six four sixth number that you

448
00:24:37,320 --> 00:24:40,840
Speaker 1: never knew, so you don't have it the sapphort thinking

449
00:24:40,840 --> 00:24:46,040
Speaker 1: about getting me the points, you didn't listen, He said,

450
00:24:46,560 --> 00:24:48,520
Speaker 1: my man is not buying me anything I said for him,

451
00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:50,240
Speaker 1: but he was gonna get me his point. You don't

452
00:24:50,280 --> 00:24:59,919
Speaker 1: give me his points. Don't tell no long distance relationship.

453
00:25:00,200 --> 00:25:03,480
Speaker 1: He's he's in l A. I'm in Atlanta. I'm sorry

454
00:25:03,520 --> 00:25:07,320
Speaker 1: to hear that. Don't you listen? Hey, it's not just

455
00:25:07,640 --> 00:25:12,640
Speaker 1: believing my nest to go move on with somebody. Don't

456
00:25:12,680 --> 00:25:15,760
Speaker 1: talk about it. You wearing red nails because you came

457
00:25:15,840 --> 00:25:19,960
Speaker 1: here for violence. No, these red nails? Is I heard

458
00:25:20,040 --> 00:25:24,560
Speaker 1: wife color nails. I've never seen a married person with

459
00:25:24,680 --> 00:25:28,080
Speaker 1: red nails. Also, girl, you are not a wife. I

460
00:25:28,200 --> 00:25:31,040
Speaker 1: am a huge one. Girl. You can you talk to her?

461
00:25:31,160 --> 00:25:33,359
Speaker 1: You are a full girlfriend with these bright red nails.

462
00:25:33,880 --> 00:25:41,159
Speaker 1: Stiletto pops ever thought? Listen, Well, it's giving wife to

463
00:25:41,240 --> 00:25:43,360
Speaker 1: me as someone who doesn't even care to be a wife. Okay,

464
00:25:43,480 --> 00:25:45,600
Speaker 1: let me be great. I never heard a wife call

465
00:25:45,760 --> 00:25:48,000
Speaker 1: up her husband was like, y'all want some Christian and

466
00:25:48,080 --> 00:25:50,320
Speaker 1: I what's up? Men? Love rednails? Look at it? Oh?

467
00:25:50,359 --> 00:25:52,560
Speaker 1: I dated a guy who did not like really? Yeah,

468
00:25:52,760 --> 00:26:02,080
Speaker 1: why you do know? This looks like wife nails? Dude, Manny,

469
00:26:02,160 --> 00:26:05,320
Speaker 1: we are gonna box after this spot. We can't box

470
00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:09,200
Speaker 1: on air because that's like against iHeart or whatever, but none, no,

471
00:26:09,240 --> 00:26:14,320
Speaker 1: no side be ready to starar hr I heartthearts violence.

472
00:26:14,560 --> 00:26:16,920
Speaker 1: We y'all can fight here. Guard. We're gonna put it

473
00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:21,639
Speaker 1: on the Patreon Guard Guard Guard. So wait, you do

474
00:26:21,760 --> 00:26:27,200
Speaker 1: want to get married? No, you know what, we're ready.

475
00:26:27,240 --> 00:26:29,320
Speaker 1: Talked to your friend, talk to her so you don

476
00:26:29,600 --> 00:26:33,480
Speaker 1: you got I'll get the ring, I'll go through a ceremony,

477
00:26:33,560 --> 00:26:36,040
Speaker 1: I'll do the honeymoon. I don't want it on paper,

478
00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:39,240
Speaker 1: but not bringing again up. I'm not bringing again but

479
00:26:39,240 --> 00:26:41,240
Speaker 1: I'm just sudden. You know you don't You don't want

480
00:26:41,240 --> 00:26:44,560
Speaker 1: it on paper because you don't want to lose your assets. Yeah,

481
00:26:44,560 --> 00:26:47,160
Speaker 1: because then when yeah, then when we break up, it's

482
00:26:47,240 --> 00:26:51,520
Speaker 1: expensive break up. We're not gonna do this. Stop acting

483
00:26:51,640 --> 00:26:53,600
Speaker 1: like we do not see the divorce rate and what's

484
00:26:53,680 --> 00:26:56,680
Speaker 1: happening in this world and in society and in life.

485
00:26:56,800 --> 00:26:58,560
Speaker 1: So why do you even get married? Then? So that's

486
00:26:58,600 --> 00:27:02,320
Speaker 1: what I'm not and the party. You could call me

487
00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:05,159
Speaker 1: your wife, you my husband. We could both wear rings

488
00:27:05,520 --> 00:27:10,080
Speaker 1: in matrimony. But like I said, when it comes to

489
00:27:10,160 --> 00:27:13,520
Speaker 1: four fifteen, we are filing separately. I don't even know

490
00:27:13,560 --> 00:27:16,199
Speaker 1: a four fifteen. Yeah, week, you don't pay your taxes.

491
00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:20,280
Speaker 1: I haven't done it yet. That's why you don't go

492
00:27:20,400 --> 00:27:23,639
Speaker 1: back from fifteen. No, that's the deadline, bitch. You got

493
00:27:23,680 --> 00:27:28,560
Speaker 1: a couple of weeks after stop. This is where like

494
00:27:28,680 --> 00:27:36,160
Speaker 1: last Monday. Oh okay, my god, I'm like that city.

495
00:27:36,200 --> 00:27:39,520
Speaker 1: You don't feel down for no week. That is the

496
00:27:39,720 --> 00:27:43,480
Speaker 1: filing deadline. But you want to get your taxes before

497
00:27:43,520 --> 00:27:44,639
Speaker 1: they start. Can't wait to get me?

498
00:27:44,800 --> 00:27:45,080
Speaker 2: Sorry.

499
00:27:45,119 --> 00:27:47,200
Speaker 1: I used to be in the H and R block. Bitch,

500
00:27:47,600 --> 00:27:50,640
Speaker 1: you're worrying about my taxes. Let's worry about you being confused.

501
00:27:50,640 --> 00:27:52,040
Speaker 1: I used to work at H and R Block. I

502
00:27:52,160 --> 00:27:53,480
Speaker 1: used to work at E Y. I was in the

503
00:27:53,520 --> 00:27:56,840
Speaker 1: tax department. I was an accounting Sorry for all you

504
00:27:57,000 --> 00:28:00,040
Speaker 1: were to be entrepreneurs to please fire your taxes. I

505
00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:01,880
Speaker 1: don't know what it is. Maybe y'all feel like they're

506
00:28:01,880 --> 00:28:04,719
Speaker 1: coming for you. I have probably five plus friends right

507
00:28:04,760 --> 00:28:10,240
Speaker 1: now that are three plus years in back taxes. Two

508
00:28:10,320 --> 00:28:12,680
Speaker 1: of them are in six figures, owing over one hundred

509
00:28:12,680 --> 00:28:15,359
Speaker 1: thousand dollars. What are they going to do in state?

510
00:28:15,440 --> 00:28:28,440
Speaker 1: What are they going to do? Move? I think when

511
00:28:28,520 --> 00:28:31,639
Speaker 1: are they within? Are the dates you can set up

512
00:28:31,640 --> 00:28:33,960
Speaker 1: a payment plan? I don't want to do that. Trump

513
00:28:34,119 --> 00:28:36,879
Speaker 1: just fired like five hundred I R S employees. I

514
00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:40,040
Speaker 1: think I'm okay. Oh yeah, no Trump. Trump didn't move

515
00:28:40,160 --> 00:28:42,880
Speaker 1: the d O E to the d O J or something.

516
00:28:42,880 --> 00:28:44,920
Speaker 1: I don't know. He just did something where now the

517
00:28:44,960 --> 00:28:47,960
Speaker 1: people that's above the SBA are in charge of our

518
00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:52,400
Speaker 1: student loans. So I'm like, really, computer, I was like,

519
00:28:52,520 --> 00:28:55,680
Speaker 1: I thought it was Sally May. Now it's John. I'm

520
00:28:55,720 --> 00:28:59,760
Speaker 1: not owing John, Sally May, Sally Sally and if it

521
00:28:59,800 --> 00:29:05,080
Speaker 1: ain't Sally, nobody getting they money? And set wait till

522
00:29:05,080 --> 00:29:12,200
Speaker 1: wait did Sally transition? Now they laid Sally off, changing

523
00:29:13,320 --> 00:29:17,280
Speaker 1: d I should Sally and be like, how you doing? Girl? Listen?

524
00:29:18,080 --> 00:29:19,760
Speaker 1: I know I was ducking you, but it seemed like

525
00:29:19,840 --> 00:29:24,080
Speaker 1: you hard he Sally Tally. Man, if you want to

526
00:29:24,120 --> 00:29:28,840
Speaker 1: be on mess come on that. So why is it

527
00:29:29,040 --> 00:29:30,800
Speaker 1: messy that you date people who are not the same

528
00:29:30,840 --> 00:29:34,600
Speaker 1: age as you? Just what I hear like the response

529
00:29:34,640 --> 00:29:36,680
Speaker 1: from my friends. I think every time we go on

530
00:29:36,760 --> 00:29:39,880
Speaker 1: the internet, there's this conversation. Of course we're not talking

531
00:29:39,880 --> 00:29:42,760
Speaker 1: about the pds, but there's a conversation. Is two consenting

532
00:29:42,800 --> 00:29:45,520
Speaker 1: adults what happens when there's an age gap? And so

533
00:29:45,600 --> 00:29:47,560
Speaker 1: I've dealt with that with my friends. Of course, yes,

534
00:29:47,600 --> 00:29:49,600
Speaker 1: I do get the oh he's British, so then there's

535
00:29:49,640 --> 00:29:52,680
Speaker 1: a little acceptance there. But then even like you like

536
00:29:52,760 --> 00:29:55,400
Speaker 1: I think, and I've dated people with a bigger age

537
00:29:55,440 --> 00:29:57,720
Speaker 1: gap than that, they're like, what do y'all talk about?

538
00:29:58,160 --> 00:30:00,760
Speaker 1: And maybe I'm childish? I don't know, but I'm we know,

539
00:30:02,200 --> 00:30:04,320
Speaker 1: you know what's crazy about it? Though I'm not dating

540
00:30:04,360 --> 00:30:07,040
Speaker 1: the y ends them niggas carry me. Now. What I

541
00:30:07,080 --> 00:30:11,200
Speaker 1: don't like is like twenty four and down twenty six.

542
00:30:11,560 --> 00:30:13,160
Speaker 1: You know it's crazy. When I was thirty three, I

543
00:30:13,320 --> 00:30:15,840
Speaker 1: was talking to a twenty two year old, so you

544
00:30:15,880 --> 00:30:22,280
Speaker 1: can't say that two year old Jayden Smith? Hey, no,

545
00:30:22,680 --> 00:30:25,160
Speaker 1: what was he doing? He had on a Batman costume,

546
00:30:25,400 --> 00:30:28,840
Speaker 1: he was Jersey, he was a millionaire with a It

547
00:30:29,000 --> 00:30:34,320
Speaker 1: was very cold and not you said tall, very twenty two.

548
00:30:35,760 --> 00:30:37,440
Speaker 1: How do you this? How do you feel that that

549
00:30:37,600 --> 00:30:39,600
Speaker 1: is crazy? How do I feel? Yeah? It made me

550
00:30:39,680 --> 00:30:43,480
Speaker 1: feel real good. Actually, damn nigga feel good. I was like,

551
00:30:44,040 --> 00:30:46,400
Speaker 1: I said, I can't think all this now, hold on now,

552
00:30:46,440 --> 00:30:51,120
Speaker 1: but oh my god, but you it here which I

553
00:30:51,200 --> 00:30:54,000
Speaker 1: was doing toys r us. I'm a big kidd. No,

554
00:30:55,080 --> 00:30:59,120
Speaker 1: he texted all his rs backwards. Did we say w

555
00:30:59,280 --> 00:31:04,920
Speaker 1: A w W I D what is that? Everybody do

556
00:31:05,080 --> 00:31:08,040
Speaker 1: that when they get on the other stuff they doing.

557
00:31:08,120 --> 00:31:12,160
Speaker 1: Now everything is like tf AF I know that's the

558
00:31:12,280 --> 00:31:14,680
Speaker 1: fun as fun, right yeah, but everything is like all right,

559
00:31:14,920 --> 00:31:19,040
Speaker 1: like everything is like letters, Yeah I need full sentences. Yeah.

560
00:31:19,040 --> 00:31:21,560
Speaker 2: I think that you may say my little my little

561
00:31:21,720 --> 00:31:23,760
Speaker 2: little ship that I don't even like that.

562
00:31:24,200 --> 00:31:27,680
Speaker 1: First of nasty's nasty, and now you're calling me a turd?

563
00:31:27,840 --> 00:31:31,760
Speaker 1: What do we do my little ship? My yeah, yeah,

564
00:31:32,040 --> 00:31:37,920
Speaker 1: my yeah, yeah, I like the yeah, no, my little yeah. Yeah,

565
00:31:37,960 --> 00:31:40,640
Speaker 1: that's you know what I mean. You know, because here's

566
00:31:40,680 --> 00:31:43,880
Speaker 1: the thing women. Now, I'm gonna sit here and shame

567
00:31:44,200 --> 00:31:47,320
Speaker 1: women be wanting titles. So niggas was like, katep girlfriend,

568
00:31:47,360 --> 00:31:48,720
Speaker 1: let me give us something else so she could be

569
00:31:48,720 --> 00:31:53,640
Speaker 1: said say little ship, yeah little yeah, yeah, the little ship.

570
00:31:53,720 --> 00:31:56,080
Speaker 1: I'm not okay, yeah, okay, yeah. I just want to

571
00:31:56,160 --> 00:31:58,920
Speaker 1: know this. I don't want to know what y'all talked about.

572
00:31:59,320 --> 00:32:02,240
Speaker 1: How did y'all communicate? Was it text? Was it FaceTime?

573
00:32:02,280 --> 00:32:04,720
Speaker 1: You're talking about it on Twitter? You're talking about the younger,

574
00:32:04,840 --> 00:32:07,760
Speaker 1: the twenty two year old, Yeah, yeah, we text? How

575
00:32:07,800 --> 00:32:13,000
Speaker 1: did you meet him? Oh? Now she got a call throat.

576
00:32:13,040 --> 00:32:15,360
Speaker 1: You don't in the same way I meet most people

577
00:32:16,200 --> 00:32:19,440
Speaker 1: if it's not in person, Instagram, in the d ms.

578
00:32:20,040 --> 00:32:22,040
Speaker 2: Your dms are to go down in the dms like

579
00:32:22,120 --> 00:32:24,640
Speaker 2: that's how those are very like you give an it's

580
00:32:24,800 --> 00:32:28,440
Speaker 2: very range. She's like, you know you auit. It will

581
00:32:28,520 --> 00:32:31,320
Speaker 2: give like real estate and it's you in your podcast

582
00:32:31,440 --> 00:32:34,080
Speaker 2: and it's you on a boat in a throng at

583
00:32:34,080 --> 00:32:34,800
Speaker 2: the star game.

584
00:32:35,360 --> 00:32:37,760
Speaker 1: Is she like, I believe in shooting my shot and

585
00:32:37,840 --> 00:32:40,080
Speaker 1: I do that by liking a ton of pictures and

586
00:32:40,280 --> 00:32:47,360
Speaker 1: hopefully if they like you. I wouldn't liked all his

587
00:32:47,440 --> 00:32:49,160
Speaker 1: pictures because he didn't have a lot and he's flitting

588
00:32:49,160 --> 00:32:52,760
Speaker 1: my dms. So you so you originated her bumble hold on,

589
00:32:52,840 --> 00:32:54,600
Speaker 1: hold on, hold on, let the let the hold on

590
00:32:54,840 --> 00:32:56,280
Speaker 1: because it's a lot of people listening right now. That

591
00:32:56,320 --> 00:33:00,200
Speaker 1: are because when you said, oh went out, okay, I'm

592
00:33:00,240 --> 00:33:06,240
Speaker 1: turning the lights off. Are we still recording? Whoa I hate? Like?

593
00:33:07,720 --> 00:33:10,040
Speaker 1: Here we go. Wait a second, are y'all women they

594
00:33:10,120 --> 00:33:13,160
Speaker 1: believe y'all have to be approached Chase, No, no, no, no,

595
00:33:13,320 --> 00:33:15,040
Speaker 1: this is the question. This is the question that was

596
00:33:15,040 --> 00:33:17,200
Speaker 1: asking about you. I wanted to I wanted to make

597
00:33:17,200 --> 00:33:19,440
Speaker 1: an announcement to the people listening. When you said that

598
00:33:20,160 --> 00:33:22,720
Speaker 1: you met you meet people through your d MS, I

599
00:33:22,840 --> 00:33:24,640
Speaker 1: was about to say, my damns is dry as hell.

600
00:33:24,960 --> 00:33:27,920
Speaker 1: I'm also not on Instagram liking lots of stuff. Yeah,

601
00:33:28,920 --> 00:33:31,880
Speaker 1: looking it was posting my stuff and I leave No.

602
00:33:32,080 --> 00:33:35,520
Speaker 1: I thought it a smoke signal I'm interested if you

603
00:33:35,720 --> 00:33:38,800
Speaker 1: like over three pictures, that that person is interested at

604
00:33:38,880 --> 00:33:42,520
Speaker 1: least in your looks. That was to me and I

605
00:33:42,720 --> 00:33:44,520
Speaker 1: just I just was like, oh, they just they just

606
00:33:44,600 --> 00:33:48,880
Speaker 1: found me. I was like, oh, they like my stuff.

607
00:33:50,520 --> 00:33:54,800
Speaker 1: They're like you like you? No, you, I've missed a

608
00:33:54,880 --> 00:33:57,280
Speaker 1: lot of you. You may be missed it because when

609
00:33:57,320 --> 00:33:59,760
Speaker 1: you went to their page and not attracted. If they

610
00:33:59,840 --> 00:34:02,880
Speaker 1: were attractive and they liked all your pictures, I think

611
00:34:02,920 --> 00:34:05,440
Speaker 1: you would respond differently. So how many pictures is is

612
00:34:05,520 --> 00:34:08,239
Speaker 1: ideal for somebody for you to get somebody's attention? You

613
00:34:08,320 --> 00:34:11,239
Speaker 1: think I would say, I would say three is a

614
00:34:11,320 --> 00:34:15,359
Speaker 1: little shot. I would say at least six. That's that's

615
00:34:15,400 --> 00:34:18,920
Speaker 1: two rows, okay, in rows, doesn't matter what or you

616
00:34:19,080 --> 00:34:21,880
Speaker 1: just scroll back and like six, Oh I hold you.

617
00:34:22,160 --> 00:34:24,640
Speaker 1: Sometimes I'd be like I'll like him, Like I like

618
00:34:24,680 --> 00:34:26,440
Speaker 1: a lot of pictures. And if I don't get no

619
00:34:26,520 --> 00:34:28,399
Speaker 1: hits back, I might give it a couple of days

620
00:34:28,400 --> 00:34:30,480
Speaker 1: because maybe he wasn't on his phone and a lot

621
00:34:30,600 --> 00:34:35,160
Speaker 1: came in. I'll double back. You don't like six more man,

622
00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:39,520
Speaker 1: he said, not today, not tomorrow. You you takes it back,

623
00:34:41,880 --> 00:34:46,719
Speaker 1: I'd be like you got you not don't know why

624
00:34:46,800 --> 00:34:49,719
Speaker 1: fire are you like like like like like like I

625
00:34:49,800 --> 00:34:51,080
Speaker 1: mean back in the day, I was a little bit

626
00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:53,239
Speaker 1: more bold, and you used to send a little jip

627
00:34:53,320 --> 00:34:56,879
Speaker 1: with the girls shooting the basket like I'm shooting deal.

628
00:34:57,480 --> 00:35:00,320
Speaker 1: I've done that too. I love that less into this

629
00:35:00,360 --> 00:35:02,239
Speaker 1: in your single and you hate the dating apps, jump

630
00:35:02,320 --> 00:35:05,240
Speaker 1: back on. Let's be very clear, not only that in person,

631
00:35:06,000 --> 00:35:08,759
Speaker 1: men and women. I send drinks from across the room. Hey,

632
00:35:09,120 --> 00:35:11,239
Speaker 1: I'll tell my waiter whatever they're drinkings, and another one

633
00:35:11,239 --> 00:35:16,080
Speaker 1: and you give like Richard Gear, Yeah, I'm going after

634
00:35:16,160 --> 00:35:20,960
Speaker 1: what I want. Ask great. No. When y'all you apply

635
00:35:21,080 --> 00:35:23,000
Speaker 1: for a job you want right, the same is for

636
00:35:23,440 --> 00:35:26,279
Speaker 1: when you're dating. If you apply from across the room

637
00:35:26,360 --> 00:35:28,919
Speaker 1: that you want, Why am I just gonna see a job?

638
00:35:29,000 --> 00:35:34,160
Speaker 1: Never came knocking at your dough, Hey, that's not I'm

639
00:35:35,000 --> 00:35:40,120
Speaker 1: knocking on Maybe like an isn't just gonna be like

640
00:35:40,239 --> 00:35:44,040
Speaker 1: out of the blue. Hey, we commending a drink to

641
00:35:44,160 --> 00:35:50,600
Speaker 1: somebody is very James Bond. Okay, that's classy. I did

642
00:35:50,640 --> 00:35:52,840
Speaker 1: it this. I got money in the checking and the savings.

643
00:35:53,200 --> 00:35:55,320
Speaker 1: But if a man it is now it's easy. In

644
00:35:55,360 --> 00:35:56,919
Speaker 1: New York, I get it's a little tough, like saying

645
00:35:59,640 --> 00:36:03,200
Speaker 1: bitch and the South seven dollars table drinks somebody. If

646
00:36:03,200 --> 00:36:05,880
Speaker 1: a man sends me a drink, I think it's a setup.

647
00:36:06,000 --> 00:36:06,440
Speaker 1: If a one.

648
00:36:06,680 --> 00:36:08,960
Speaker 2: If a woman sends me drink, also feels like a setup.

649
00:36:09,000 --> 00:36:16,160
Speaker 2: It's just I want let me get my own drink. No, no, no,

650
00:36:16,520 --> 00:36:18,160
Speaker 2: come to me, like, let me get you a drink.

651
00:36:18,200 --> 00:36:21,239
Speaker 2: Don't just be some weird mysterious drink.

652
00:36:21,360 --> 00:36:24,800
Speaker 1: I prefer the mysteriousness of the waiter comes over and

653
00:36:24,880 --> 00:36:26,200
Speaker 1: I'm like, I didn't know to that, and they go,

654
00:36:26,560 --> 00:36:30,120
Speaker 1: there's somebody over there, that gentleman, that lady, and then

655
00:36:30,160 --> 00:36:33,200
Speaker 1: that eye contacted you a drink? What's up? You guys

656
00:36:33,320 --> 00:36:37,320
Speaker 1: never been roofed before that. It's the serring it to you.

657
00:36:38,320 --> 00:36:42,799
Speaker 1: Sometimes they're in coots. Who do you mean you watch?

658
00:36:44,000 --> 00:36:46,640
Speaker 1: You want too much? A Lifetime movie channel. It's true

659
00:36:46,719 --> 00:36:49,960
Speaker 1: it's happened. I've been roofed before. Okay, you drink or

660
00:36:50,000 --> 00:36:51,319
Speaker 1: somebody put it in a drink that you had at

661
00:36:51,360 --> 00:36:51,560
Speaker 1: the bar.

662
00:36:54,960 --> 00:36:56,719
Speaker 2: He is I think I put my drink down and

663
00:36:56,800 --> 00:36:59,000
Speaker 2: I picked up somebody else's. That's what I really feel like.

664
00:37:02,600 --> 00:37:06,000
Speaker 1: Now you got I can get my own drink. You

665
00:37:06,160 --> 00:37:08,920
Speaker 1: picking up other people's drinks? Cootie? Are you picking up

666
00:37:08,920 --> 00:37:33,560
Speaker 1: what I'm putting down? I love shooting my shot though

667
00:37:33,600 --> 00:37:36,040
Speaker 1: it's fun, and I mean maybe because I'm someone who's

668
00:37:36,400 --> 00:37:38,520
Speaker 1: learned to accept rejection. I love saying no and that

669
00:37:38,600 --> 00:37:41,560
Speaker 1: I'm not interested to people. So if someone's not interested

670
00:37:41,560 --> 00:37:43,479
Speaker 1: in me, I don't take a personal onto the name. Okay,

671
00:37:43,560 --> 00:37:46,680
Speaker 1: let's say you take ten shots. Oh, you shoot ten shots,

672
00:37:47,120 --> 00:37:49,320
Speaker 1: you send ten drinks, you slide in ten dms, you

673
00:37:49,440 --> 00:37:54,960
Speaker 1: tap six people's ten whatever. How often? How many times

674
00:37:55,000 --> 00:37:56,480
Speaker 1: out of ten do you feel like I'm a good

675
00:37:56,520 --> 00:37:59,440
Speaker 1: B plus at least eight? Now? Does it go anywhere? No?

676
00:37:59,560 --> 00:38:02,400
Speaker 1: But do I often exchange at least numbers where we

677
00:38:02,480 --> 00:38:05,840
Speaker 1: continue talking. Does it get anywhere after? Sometimes? No? But

678
00:38:06,000 --> 00:38:09,080
Speaker 1: right now I have a relationship. Also, my ex was

679
00:38:09,120 --> 00:38:15,279
Speaker 1: the same. I met him on Zoom Zoom Zoom. The pandemic. Wait,

680
00:38:15,480 --> 00:38:20,520
Speaker 1: so you I met him on Zoom and what's crazy

681
00:38:20,640 --> 00:38:23,000
Speaker 1: is I I flirted with him first. I was like

682
00:38:23,719 --> 00:38:25,480
Speaker 1: because I like tall men and he had a big

683
00:38:25,560 --> 00:38:27,719
Speaker 1: I said, yr head, met your body like I taught

684
00:38:27,760 --> 00:38:31,200
Speaker 1: you was over there, because he could have been over there.

685
00:38:31,280 --> 00:38:34,359
Speaker 1: Write that down, rite that. Hold on. Can you tell

686
00:38:34,440 --> 00:38:37,040
Speaker 1: us how the zoom started? Well? No, so y'all know

687
00:38:37,160 --> 00:38:39,920
Speaker 1: during the pandemic everyone could record virtually, so at the

688
00:38:39,960 --> 00:38:42,279
Speaker 1: time a lot of people tried to start podcasts. We

689
00:38:42,400 --> 00:38:45,239
Speaker 1: have a mutual friend. So the mutual friend was having

690
00:38:45,320 --> 00:38:47,560
Speaker 1: me on as a guest, and when we got on Zoom,

691
00:38:47,600 --> 00:38:51,640
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, so at first I tried to

692
00:38:51,680 --> 00:38:55,040
Speaker 1: do it incognito. I was like, so, can I get

693
00:38:55,080 --> 00:38:57,640
Speaker 1: your social media tags so I could be sure to

694
00:38:58,040 --> 00:39:01,200
Speaker 1: you know, tag you and any the host that we have.

695
00:39:01,600 --> 00:39:03,640
Speaker 1: I was gonna slide in the DNS there. He didn't

696
00:39:03,680 --> 00:39:06,240
Speaker 1: have social media because he was you said, he's seventeen

697
00:39:06,280 --> 00:39:08,839
Speaker 1: years olderan you he a man? Yeah, he's a man

698
00:39:08,880 --> 00:39:11,279
Speaker 1: of you can't get him on his what's apped? For sure?

699
00:39:11,320 --> 00:39:14,719
Speaker 1: He got that and had him on come he did,

700
00:39:14,840 --> 00:39:18,520
Speaker 1: but yeah, the hotmail, So then you know I shot

701
00:39:18,600 --> 00:39:21,560
Speaker 1: my shot over there over the zoom I've been shooting,

702
00:39:21,800 --> 00:39:24,200
Speaker 1: started a private chat with him if if I was

703
00:39:24,280 --> 00:39:26,600
Speaker 1: in the side chat, and then we stayed on after

704
00:39:26,680 --> 00:39:29,919
Speaker 1: the recording and held a regard may have been the host.

705
00:39:30,080 --> 00:39:33,120
Speaker 2: Well also know, like, yo, you must be paying for

706
00:39:33,200 --> 00:39:35,160
Speaker 2: zoom because you know you only get forty nine minutes

707
00:39:35,920 --> 00:39:36,480
Speaker 2: shut it down.

708
00:39:36,800 --> 00:39:39,080
Speaker 1: You have to pay for zoom. Yeah, yeah, if you

709
00:39:39,360 --> 00:39:42,080
Speaker 1: compet this woman. I paid for zooms to make sure. Hey,

710
00:39:42,200 --> 00:39:44,279
Speaker 1: some people, Hey, there have been many a zooms where

711
00:39:44,320 --> 00:39:46,959
Speaker 1: we had to start restarted because I ain't paying. You'll,

712
00:39:48,280 --> 00:39:53,000
Speaker 1: y'all stop that. It has happened to me. We've been

713
00:39:53,080 --> 00:39:55,480
Speaker 1: do town halls for our horrible, for our whore hide

714
00:39:55,520 --> 00:39:57,759
Speaker 1: for the podcast every once a month. We have over

715
00:39:57,800 --> 00:39:59,440
Speaker 1: one hundred people in there, and we had to pay

716
00:39:59,560 --> 00:40:01,799
Speaker 1: for it to allow over one hundred people to be on. Okay, well,

717
00:40:01,880 --> 00:40:04,839
Speaker 1: let me hold your zoo. I don't want your tax. Yeah,

718
00:40:06,239 --> 00:40:09,440
Speaker 1: I'm not playing with you. What's up? What's the messiest

719
00:40:09,440 --> 00:40:12,120
Speaker 1: thing about dating somebody who you have a big age

720
00:40:12,160 --> 00:40:17,200
Speaker 1: gap with? I would say, I mean the way goals align,

721
00:40:17,800 --> 00:40:22,040
Speaker 1: so like right now and we've had the conversation, he like,

722
00:40:22,400 --> 00:40:26,320
Speaker 1: I am pretty set that I don't want kids he

723
00:40:26,480 --> 00:40:28,279
Speaker 1: has a kid, You have a child. Shut up. But

724
00:40:28,440 --> 00:40:32,080
Speaker 1: what I'm saying is I'm thirty four. In four years

725
00:40:32,200 --> 00:40:34,279
Speaker 1: i'll be thirty eight. I feel like I'll be still

726
00:40:34,480 --> 00:40:37,560
Speaker 1: kind of set where I'm at right now based on

727
00:40:37,840 --> 00:40:40,080
Speaker 1: what I've been able to accomplish financially, all the things

728
00:40:40,120 --> 00:40:43,759
Speaker 1: I do professionally, like professional things will excel, But I'm

729
00:40:43,880 --> 00:40:45,759
Speaker 1: kind of set where I'm at right now. Have you

730
00:40:45,800 --> 00:40:48,160
Speaker 1: frozen your eggs? I don't want kids. You don't want

731
00:40:48,160 --> 00:40:50,239
Speaker 1: to at all? You said, throw them away? Yeah, baby,

732
00:40:50,960 --> 00:40:54,320
Speaker 1: But listen, my friends knee eggs. I said, you won't mind. Apparently,

733
00:40:54,320 --> 00:40:59,920
Speaker 1: I'm sorry shooting your shot. They said, I don't want

734
00:40:59,960 --> 00:41:08,839
Speaker 1: your eggs. So and then for for him, he does,

735
00:41:09,000 --> 00:41:12,480
Speaker 1: but not for some years down the line, but between

736
00:41:12,560 --> 00:41:15,960
Speaker 1: twenty six and thirty he's gonna change so much over

737
00:41:16,040 --> 00:41:18,640
Speaker 1: that time. So to me, it's the conversation of there's

738
00:41:18,680 --> 00:41:20,279
Speaker 1: gonna be a lot of things that you want now

739
00:41:20,440 --> 00:41:22,520
Speaker 1: that you're that are going to change by the time

740
00:41:22,560 --> 00:41:24,400
Speaker 1: you're thirty. For me, it's not really the same. So

741
00:41:24,520 --> 00:41:27,440
Speaker 1: it's really trying to align goals and be realistic about

742
00:41:27,520 --> 00:41:31,600
Speaker 1: where we adhere together. Like again, difference with my ex

743
00:41:31,800 --> 00:41:34,200
Speaker 1: that I just dated. He was retired when we were

744
00:41:34,280 --> 00:41:39,600
Speaker 1: dating for me professional where I was at. I was like, oh,

745
00:41:39,719 --> 00:41:41,160
Speaker 1: I have so much more things I need to do,

746
00:41:41,239 --> 00:41:43,200
Speaker 1: and he was kind of like, I did all the

747
00:41:43,239 --> 00:41:45,239
Speaker 1: work I need to do. I'm retired. I'm good. So like,

748
00:41:45,400 --> 00:41:47,400
Speaker 1: did you hit him with a thera gun? What's that?

749
00:41:47,960 --> 00:41:54,360
Speaker 1: I see you hit back? Massage? Did that for me?

750
00:41:56,480 --> 00:41:59,360
Speaker 1: He was right, he did that one. He definitely had like,

751
00:41:59,440 --> 00:42:03,040
Speaker 1: well it man, that age? She should he's already retired. Yes,

752
00:42:03,800 --> 00:42:04,759
Speaker 1: it was money and got out.

753
00:42:04,840 --> 00:42:05,040
Speaker 2: Yeah.

754
00:42:05,040 --> 00:42:07,840
Speaker 1: It was a different like type of relationship than now

755
00:42:07,880 --> 00:42:10,720
Speaker 1: where I'm with someone who is public, who's an entrepreneur,

756
00:42:10,800 --> 00:42:12,879
Speaker 1: who's an entertainer, like, so we just have so much

757
00:42:12,920 --> 00:42:14,520
Speaker 1: more in common even though we're in different industries.

758
00:42:14,680 --> 00:42:17,080
Speaker 2: Question that older guy, did he give you allowance? Which

759
00:42:17,080 --> 00:42:17,760
Speaker 2: is social Security?

760
00:42:17,760 --> 00:42:19,560
Speaker 1: I know I made more money than him. You said,

761
00:42:19,719 --> 00:42:24,680
Speaker 1: sol security number? With social Security money they get retire Yeah, no,

762
00:42:25,480 --> 00:42:27,040
Speaker 1: I let him keep all his coins. I made more

763
00:42:27,080 --> 00:42:33,239
Speaker 1: money than him. Okay, that's damn many. You're making money.

764
00:42:33,280 --> 00:42:37,200
Speaker 1: You still don't want to eat my coulchie? My god?

765
00:42:38,320 --> 00:42:40,520
Speaker 1: What else is the crazy thing about you? Though? For

766
00:42:40,600 --> 00:42:42,600
Speaker 1: as long as I've known you, baby, you stay in

767
00:42:42,640 --> 00:42:45,759
Speaker 1: a relationship. This is true even the first time I

768
00:42:45,880 --> 00:42:49,560
Speaker 1: met you. You are a relationship as curly because I

769
00:42:49,600 --> 00:42:51,800
Speaker 1: can't be in the streets because I make really bad decisions.

770
00:42:53,400 --> 00:42:55,319
Speaker 1: Has been there for the moments that I have been out,

771
00:42:55,360 --> 00:43:01,480
Speaker 1: and she's like, oh, get you. Why would you say that?

772
00:43:01,760 --> 00:43:04,480
Speaker 1: Would you do that? Why are we going there? Why

773
00:43:04,480 --> 00:43:06,040
Speaker 1: are we pulling out? No? No, no, I'll pull up

774
00:43:06,040 --> 00:43:08,400
Speaker 1: with Cidy. I'll be like, yeah, what you were and

775
00:43:08,760 --> 00:43:12,680
Speaker 1: you and you exist better as a single woman. I

776
00:43:12,840 --> 00:43:15,759
Speaker 1: like being I like being single too, Yeah, I like being.

777
00:43:15,920 --> 00:43:19,560
Speaker 1: I mean the person I'm with now doesn't doesn't agree

778
00:43:19,600 --> 00:43:22,320
Speaker 1: with that, you know, like he's all about you know.

779
00:43:22,640 --> 00:43:24,279
Speaker 1: Even today were walking down the street and you trying

780
00:43:24,280 --> 00:43:26,040
Speaker 1: to hold my hand and every time he tries to

781
00:43:26,080 --> 00:43:29,359
Speaker 1: hold my hand, I'm like, what PTA is a thing? Yeah,

782
00:43:29,480 --> 00:43:32,960
Speaker 1: I'm got an arm linker. You look at so confused

783
00:43:33,000 --> 00:43:36,279
Speaker 1: every time arms. I mean, you don't hold hands. Me

784
00:43:36,440 --> 00:43:39,680
Speaker 1: and my partner now like we like we're shocked at

785
00:43:39,760 --> 00:43:43,279
Speaker 1: how much like PDA you kind of have. You know,

786
00:43:43,760 --> 00:43:46,600
Speaker 1: it's four head kisses. I don't believe in people making

787
00:43:46,640 --> 00:43:49,520
Speaker 1: out in public and doing all that extra ship like bro,

788
00:43:49,640 --> 00:43:53,080
Speaker 1: go get a room. Literally get a room. We are

789
00:43:53,160 --> 00:43:56,760
Speaker 1: not in high school, like literally, we are adults be outside.

790
00:43:57,160 --> 00:43:59,040
Speaker 1: I think in high school you make out because you

791
00:43:59,120 --> 00:44:01,320
Speaker 1: got to go back to your parent's house as adults,

792
00:44:01,440 --> 00:44:04,879
Speaker 1: save that tongue in each other down but behind closed door.

793
00:44:05,160 --> 00:44:07,719
Speaker 1: Or we are both really really drunk in which case

794
00:44:07,880 --> 00:44:11,200
Speaker 1: and then with your excuse, right, so you don't So

795
00:44:11,320 --> 00:44:13,640
Speaker 1: when you have these martinis and you're out at the club,

796
00:44:13,800 --> 00:44:17,400
Speaker 1: you're not making out. Oh if I'm ready, if I'm hot,

797
00:44:17,440 --> 00:44:19,640
Speaker 1: and bother like that, baby, we're going We're going home,

798
00:44:20,160 --> 00:44:21,719
Speaker 1: but we staying out here with all the strangers. Paul,

799
00:44:21,800 --> 00:44:31,080
Speaker 1: let me put some in my mouth. Shut up. Maybe

800
00:44:31,120 --> 00:44:33,360
Speaker 1: that's how you starting to seventeen years older than you

801
00:44:33,480 --> 00:44:36,560
Speaker 1: may know? You have blood pressure? Oh very much, so

802
00:44:36,800 --> 00:44:38,960
Speaker 1: very much. Let me go home and put something you know,

803
00:44:39,160 --> 00:44:44,439
Speaker 1: even like dating someone from from Europe. I European women

804
00:44:44,520 --> 00:44:46,799
Speaker 1: don't speak like we do here in a medico. That's

805
00:44:46,840 --> 00:44:51,360
Speaker 1: not true. No, I think the sexually, the sexual liberation

806
00:44:51,760 --> 00:44:54,359
Speaker 1: and the way that we're able to present ourselves way

807
00:44:54,440 --> 00:44:57,120
Speaker 1: more liberally. Like they're a lot more conservative in Europe

808
00:44:57,160 --> 00:45:00,040
Speaker 1: than I be, seeing them on TikTok and stuff and

809
00:45:00,800 --> 00:45:11,399
Speaker 1: some cak see. Maybe I don't understand them obviously. I'm

810
00:45:11,480 --> 00:45:13,759
Speaker 1: un serious with that. Okay, Well, I mean, are you

811
00:45:13,840 --> 00:45:16,000
Speaker 1: teaching him a lot of things? Can he haves he

812
00:45:16,080 --> 00:45:21,399
Speaker 1: taught you to him? We gotta watch Matilda, a children's movie.

813
00:45:21,600 --> 00:45:25,920
Speaker 1: I love the one with the little yellow hat in

814
00:45:26,000 --> 00:45:31,400
Speaker 1: the cartoon cartoon, but Matilda is the one with principal

815
00:45:31,520 --> 00:45:35,480
Speaker 1: charchable and the chocolate cake. I can with the twists. Yes, yes,

816
00:45:35,560 --> 00:45:37,600
Speaker 1: somebody commented on a post them my recently. They said

817
00:45:37,600 --> 00:45:39,279
Speaker 1: she looked like the little black girl from Matilla. We're

818
00:45:39,320 --> 00:45:43,640
Speaker 1: calling you that. I said, I'm gonna have to go

819
00:45:43,719 --> 00:45:46,920
Speaker 1: back and rewatch watching Matilda. In terms of like learning

820
00:45:47,000 --> 00:45:49,960
Speaker 1: from each other, I think how we showed like professionally

821
00:45:50,080 --> 00:45:53,160
Speaker 1: we both like feed and support into each other that way.

822
00:45:53,640 --> 00:45:57,160
Speaker 1: But I don't know, like right now we're learning each

823
00:45:57,200 --> 00:45:59,040
Speaker 1: other still in the bedroom, So I don't know what

824
00:45:59,080 --> 00:46:01,120
Speaker 1: I'm gonna teach him the bedroom yet. I'm sure I

825
00:46:01,200 --> 00:46:03,759
Speaker 1: got a lot to teach them, but right now, like

826
00:46:03,840 --> 00:46:05,839
Speaker 1: we're still just learning each other and existing and being

827
00:46:05,880 --> 00:46:07,600
Speaker 1: really happy around each other. Like I'm really excited we

828
00:46:07,640 --> 00:46:11,399
Speaker 1: about to do a day Universal Studios. Yeah, I don't

829
00:46:11,400 --> 00:46:15,560
Speaker 1: want to grow up. Its studios is for adults too.

830
00:46:15,840 --> 00:46:19,440
Speaker 1: We are not Disney is for the children. You know,

831
00:46:19,560 --> 00:46:23,839
Speaker 1: Birth is for the adults, y'all. Don't, y'all don't. I'm

832
00:46:24,200 --> 00:46:29,319
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do Universal Studios in Tokyo. To you're going

833
00:46:29,360 --> 00:46:31,520
Speaker 1: to be in Tokyo. I haven't bought that flight yet.

834
00:46:31,640 --> 00:46:35,560
Speaker 1: This year I'm doing Malta south of France, Macau and

835
00:46:35,920 --> 00:46:40,640
Speaker 1: all the time, I do that every year my birthday,

836
00:46:40,640 --> 00:46:42,319
Speaker 1: and then this year I'm also doing Macau. So I'm

837
00:46:42,320 --> 00:46:47,640
Speaker 1: gonna do mccau. It's the Vegas of China, China, Vegas, China.

838
00:46:47,800 --> 00:46:52,120
Speaker 1: You gotta say it like that. We're not gonna do that.

839
00:46:53,000 --> 00:46:55,640
Speaker 1: I mean, it's just like how you say it. I'm saying,

840
00:46:55,800 --> 00:46:56,560
Speaker 1: if you say.

841
00:46:56,440 --> 00:46:59,520
Speaker 2: The money, my my only thing is when you eat

842
00:46:59,600 --> 00:47:04,840
Speaker 2: somebody that young or much younger, I'm thinking about talking

843
00:47:04,920 --> 00:47:10,040
Speaker 2: to them and just like learning, like mentally, spiritually.

844
00:47:10,360 --> 00:47:10,800
Speaker 1: Like I was.

845
00:47:11,040 --> 00:47:13,480
Speaker 2: I was hooking up with someone who's ten years younger

846
00:47:13,560 --> 00:47:16,200
Speaker 2: than me, and uh, you know, we were talking about

847
00:47:16,200 --> 00:47:19,120
Speaker 2: the current state of affairs, and I was like, so,

848
00:47:19,239 --> 00:47:22,040
Speaker 2: what you think he's like listen with everything that's going on,

849
00:47:22,440 --> 00:47:22,719
Speaker 2: all I.

850
00:47:22,719 --> 00:47:26,759
Speaker 1: Could do is look fly, that's it. I said, what

851
00:47:27,160 --> 00:47:30,920
Speaker 1: did he I'm not mad at that. Wait, did you

852
00:47:31,000 --> 00:47:33,560
Speaker 1: ask that question while I was naked in the bed,

853
00:47:33,680 --> 00:47:36,239
Speaker 1: laid next to each other after you just slurped the

854
00:47:36,360 --> 00:47:41,120
Speaker 1: book like we're not saying anything of the specifics.

855
00:47:41,200 --> 00:47:43,080
Speaker 2: But it was after all of that. It was the

856
00:47:43,160 --> 00:47:46,080
Speaker 2: next day, yeah, and I was just you know, reading

857
00:47:46,920 --> 00:47:54,200
Speaker 2: her coffee. There was no there's no coffee, young, no,

858
00:47:54,920 --> 00:47:56,440
Speaker 2: none of that. I didn't get none of that.

859
00:47:56,760 --> 00:48:00,680
Speaker 1: You just a thin just a thin sheet, that's it.

860
00:48:00,840 --> 00:48:02,799
Speaker 1: And you were like, you were like, do you care

861
00:48:02,840 --> 00:48:04,480
Speaker 1: about what's going on in the world, And he said

862
00:48:04,800 --> 00:48:07,040
Speaker 1: not really, So all I can do is fly, baby.

863
00:48:07,640 --> 00:48:10,319
Speaker 1: You know, life is hard. I don't like to wake

864
00:48:10,400 --> 00:48:12,120
Speaker 1: up and feel like I need the weight of the

865
00:48:12,160 --> 00:48:14,560
Speaker 1: world on my shoulders either. Now, as long as I

866
00:48:14,560 --> 00:48:17,279
Speaker 1: could pick my outfit out for the day, life is good.

867
00:48:17,760 --> 00:48:20,160
Speaker 1: Because I got to pick the outfit, you know what.

868
00:48:20,560 --> 00:48:22,800
Speaker 1: I could see my outfit and I could hear the

869
00:48:22,880 --> 00:48:25,600
Speaker 1: podcast while I'm picking it out. I could see, I

870
00:48:25,640 --> 00:48:29,920
Speaker 1: could hear, I could walk, I could breathe too.

871
00:48:30,080 --> 00:48:33,560
Speaker 2: But you know, sometimes it's just like I do like

872
00:48:33,719 --> 00:48:38,200
Speaker 2: somebody emotionally mentally sound, and sometimes it takes a while

873
00:48:38,280 --> 00:48:39,479
Speaker 2: to get there, until you get older.

874
00:48:39,600 --> 00:48:41,680
Speaker 1: It was crazy we haven't had that conversation, but when

875
00:48:41,719 --> 00:48:44,560
Speaker 1: he was in Europe for the holidays, he put his

876
00:48:44,680 --> 00:48:46,319
Speaker 1: dad on the phone and me and his dad had

877
00:48:46,320 --> 00:48:50,000
Speaker 1: a great conversation about we're not thank you and his

878
00:48:50,160 --> 00:48:53,959
Speaker 1: dad are people, so we're not. His dad is older, okay,

879
00:48:54,080 --> 00:48:57,680
Speaker 1: sold like, probably you know the guy that y'all. He

880
00:48:57,800 --> 00:49:01,160
Speaker 1: has me by at least fifteen years, so I'm closer

881
00:49:01,239 --> 00:49:03,480
Speaker 1: to my boyfriend than I am his dad's age, which

882
00:49:03,640 --> 00:49:06,040
Speaker 1: is not the case for Oh my god. I was

883
00:49:06,080 --> 00:49:08,279
Speaker 1: in l A one time at the highlight room and

884
00:49:08,400 --> 00:49:10,120
Speaker 1: I saw this man. I was like, damn, he looked

885
00:49:10,400 --> 00:49:12,880
Speaker 1: he looked good. I was like, he looks kind of familiar,

886
00:49:14,239 --> 00:49:17,920
Speaker 1: and bitch, I fucked his daddy. And I was like, oh,

887
00:49:18,000 --> 00:49:21,560
Speaker 1: it's time to go age. How do you know you

888
00:49:21,680 --> 00:49:25,000
Speaker 1: fucked his dad because he talked there's a name. No,

889
00:49:25,200 --> 00:49:32,520
Speaker 1: he's somebody. He's a junior. He's a junior. It's when

890
00:49:32,560 --> 00:49:34,279
Speaker 1: you left. You should have tapped him to tell your daddy.

891
00:49:34,280 --> 00:49:38,680
Speaker 1: I said yes. I said, like, being thirty four and

892
00:49:38,800 --> 00:49:42,960
Speaker 1: reaching the age where I could, it makes sense to

893
00:49:43,120 --> 00:49:46,560
Speaker 1: have been and legally sleep with both the dad and

894
00:49:46,840 --> 00:49:53,800
Speaker 1: the son. You don't, Jerry, it was it was you know,

895
00:49:54,200 --> 00:49:56,680
Speaker 1: but I was like, wow, I'm getting up there, ain't

896
00:49:56,719 --> 00:50:00,600
Speaker 1: I You'lory Harvey, don't do dad? Wait, it were a

897
00:50:00,640 --> 00:50:03,120
Speaker 1: way she banged Diddy and the sun, Oh my god.

898
00:50:03,200 --> 00:50:09,200
Speaker 1: Allegedly allegedly. We know nothing. I wonder if she is

899
00:50:09,280 --> 00:50:14,839
Speaker 1: sitting in a character letter. You know, Steve said, don't

900
00:50:14,880 --> 00:50:17,840
Speaker 1: you do that. Girl. Let's let's read a message and

901
00:50:17,880 --> 00:50:19,400
Speaker 1: then let you get out of here because we know

902
00:50:19,719 --> 00:50:21,480
Speaker 1: you got to go. Put your boyfriend to bed out.

903
00:50:21,520 --> 00:50:25,920
Speaker 1: So that's wild, is it? Listen? I do put him

904
00:50:25,920 --> 00:50:29,319
Speaker 1: to bed, put that thing that red snap on him?

905
00:50:29,840 --> 00:50:33,920
Speaker 1: Why is it red? I'm red and it's a snapping.

906
00:50:34,560 --> 00:50:36,919
Speaker 1: I'm yellow right now because we just left the winter. Girl,

907
00:50:36,960 --> 00:50:40,160
Speaker 1: you're red. Don't call it a red STAPs, you call

908
00:50:40,239 --> 00:50:47,640
Speaker 1: it I am or something. I don't like that either, snapper,

909
00:50:48,080 --> 00:50:51,840
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't like that either. No thank you messages? Okay?

910
00:50:52,880 --> 00:50:55,000
Speaker 1: Is he mess or am I? Hey, y'all?

911
00:50:55,160 --> 00:50:57,359
Speaker 2: So I've been seeing a man casually for a couple

912
00:50:57,440 --> 00:51:01,319
Speaker 2: of months. I go to his place once a week.

913
00:51:01,760 --> 00:51:04,240
Speaker 2: He'll order food, we may have a couple of drinks,

914
00:51:04,320 --> 00:51:06,520
Speaker 2: have sex, go to bed, and I'm out the door

915
00:51:06,600 --> 00:51:09,920
Speaker 2: before the sun even rises. Good our situationship is very

916
00:51:10,080 --> 00:51:13,160
Speaker 2: surface level, but he is consistent and I enjoy winding

917
00:51:13,239 --> 00:51:16,120
Speaker 2: down with him after a long week. So last Sunday,

918
00:51:16,280 --> 00:51:19,520
Speaker 2: I was getting ready for our usual routine. This day,

919
00:51:19,760 --> 00:51:24,239
Speaker 2: I have on a drawstring ponytail, which is already a mess.

920
00:51:25,000 --> 00:51:28,640
Speaker 2: That is seeing inch curly human hair. Okay, Uman, not out,

921
00:51:29,440 --> 00:51:30,640
Speaker 2: she said, not synthetic.

922
00:51:30,760 --> 00:51:32,960
Speaker 1: Okay, that's milk way.

923
00:51:35,400 --> 00:51:38,200
Speaker 2: Sixteen inch curly human hair that stays bald up in

924
00:51:38,280 --> 00:51:41,200
Speaker 2: a drawer for when I'm in between hairstyles. For context,

925
00:51:41,520 --> 00:51:43,759
Speaker 2: My hair is cut into a bob and I was

926
00:51:43,840 --> 00:51:45,839
Speaker 2: going on week three of a silk press.

927
00:51:49,440 --> 00:51:53,480
Speaker 1: Give us the backstory, pull us, I'm not silk press bob.

928
00:51:54,120 --> 00:51:55,360
Speaker 1: She's giving us the backstory.

929
00:51:55,440 --> 00:51:59,560
Speaker 2: Okay, Adamantly, the ponytail wasn't as secure as it could

930
00:51:59,560 --> 00:52:01,800
Speaker 2: have been because I didn't want a lot of tension

931
00:52:01,880 --> 00:52:02,359
Speaker 2: on my hair.

932
00:52:02,440 --> 00:52:03,720
Speaker 1: Okay, she gets my grains.

933
00:52:03,840 --> 00:52:07,280
Speaker 2: I sure you know where this is going. Long story short,

934
00:52:07,440 --> 00:52:10,560
Speaker 2: like our hair. We have our our food and drinks

935
00:52:10,840 --> 00:52:13,520
Speaker 2: and start doing the two he has. He has me

936
00:52:13,640 --> 00:52:15,719
Speaker 2: bent over in front of a mirror and in the

937
00:52:15,840 --> 00:52:18,839
Speaker 2: mints of him talk talking me through it. Brother gets

938
00:52:18,960 --> 00:52:21,640
Speaker 2: carried away. He grabbed my ponytail and had the nerve

939
00:52:21,719 --> 00:52:24,600
Speaker 2: to look shocked when it came off. I had never

940
00:52:24,760 --> 00:52:27,920
Speaker 2: experienced such a such a fail during sex, but the

941
00:52:28,000 --> 00:52:30,840
Speaker 2: situation was too funny to feel any shame or embarrassment

942
00:52:30,920 --> 00:52:33,120
Speaker 2: in the moment. It took me a minute or two

943
00:52:33,200 --> 00:52:35,480
Speaker 2: to collect myself, but I just threw it to the

944
00:52:35,600 --> 00:52:37,839
Speaker 2: side and let him get back to work. I thought

945
00:52:37,920 --> 00:52:40,800
Speaker 2: this was funny enough to share much love from Florida

946
00:52:40,960 --> 00:52:41,440
Speaker 2: your people.

947
00:52:41,520 --> 00:52:43,279
Speaker 1: But what she did share was that it was Jill

948
00:52:43,360 --> 00:52:45,600
Speaker 1: and Hall that did it. Because what black man gonna

949
00:52:45,600 --> 00:52:49,640
Speaker 1: be shot that a drawstring ponytail comes out? That's all

950
00:52:49,800 --> 00:52:51,320
Speaker 1: you want to give us all these details since but

951
00:52:51,360 --> 00:52:53,520
Speaker 1: you ain't let us know you was getting knocked down

952
00:52:53,560 --> 00:52:57,520
Speaker 1: by the colonizers. I know you not talking. I know

953
00:52:57,560 --> 00:53:00,440
Speaker 1: it's a biracial bit down both how at that's of

954
00:53:00,480 --> 00:53:03,160
Speaker 1: all Tammy's doors. I can talk about the white sand

955
00:53:03,200 --> 00:53:07,480
Speaker 1: the blacks. Let me be gral. But yeah, no, I

956
00:53:07,520 --> 00:53:10,000
Speaker 1: don't think it's mess. I think it's happened to all

957
00:53:10,080 --> 00:53:12,680
Speaker 1: of us. At least I've definitely had sex with someone

958
00:53:12,719 --> 00:53:14,600
Speaker 1: in a whole bun or a ponytail that came out

959
00:53:14,719 --> 00:53:16,960
Speaker 1: because we got a little carried away I had a

960
00:53:17,040 --> 00:53:17,920
Speaker 1: whole braid come out.

961
00:53:17,920 --> 00:53:20,880
Speaker 2: I used to literally braid braid come out because you know,

962
00:53:20,960 --> 00:53:22,080
Speaker 2: sometimes they.

963
00:53:21,920 --> 00:53:23,480
Speaker 1: Lean on it and then all of a sudden, you know,

964
00:53:23,600 --> 00:53:25,719
Speaker 1: you have that new growth and it just slip out

965
00:53:25,760 --> 00:53:27,960
Speaker 1: and it's like fuck, oh, I'm not gonna lie. You

966
00:53:28,040 --> 00:53:29,759
Speaker 1: pick it up. You're like, is there any hair in there?

967
00:53:29,880 --> 00:53:33,640
Speaker 1: It's like no, no. Literally, I literally had to hold

968
00:53:33,719 --> 00:53:37,919
Speaker 1: for dear life a halfway. Oh say, I'm getting ridd

969
00:53:38,000 --> 00:53:40,359
Speaker 1: I'm gonna because then bobby pins and the clips don't

970
00:53:40,360 --> 00:53:42,640
Speaker 1: really hold it all the way. The combs, but the

971
00:53:42,760 --> 00:53:45,680
Speaker 1: combs don't really be combing. So I've literally been having

972
00:53:45,719 --> 00:53:47,960
Speaker 1: sex securing the halfway.

973
00:53:48,080 --> 00:53:48,200
Speaker 2: Oh.

974
00:53:48,239 --> 00:53:51,440
Speaker 1: I fully have had sex and been like or I

975
00:53:51,520 --> 00:53:57,520
Speaker 1: get up and I'm like whoa, I'm like, oh my

976
00:53:58,719 --> 00:54:01,040
Speaker 1: head back down. Love that for her. I'm glad that

977
00:54:01,160 --> 00:54:04,600
Speaker 1: she is casually getting some good pen And don't be ashamed.

978
00:54:04,680 --> 00:54:07,320
Speaker 1: I mean over all adults, it's just like stuff happens.

979
00:54:07,400 --> 00:54:08,200
Speaker 1: Things fall out.

980
00:54:08,600 --> 00:54:08,839
Speaker 2: Girl.

981
00:54:09,000 --> 00:54:11,759
Speaker 1: He's seeing your silky ass, Bob. He knows that you

982
00:54:11,840 --> 00:54:14,400
Speaker 1: look like Edna most days, and that day you just

983
00:54:14,480 --> 00:54:15,400
Speaker 1: wanted to look you know, he.

984
00:54:15,400 --> 00:54:17,520
Speaker 2: Wanted a little you know, I want everybody to have

985
00:54:17,640 --> 00:54:20,200
Speaker 2: common sense when they're in the bedroom, like things are

986
00:54:20,239 --> 00:54:23,400
Speaker 2: not what everything is disappeared and if things switch up,

987
00:54:23,480 --> 00:54:23,920
Speaker 2: just keep going.

988
00:54:23,960 --> 00:54:25,640
Speaker 1: I thought you were gonna go with common sense that

989
00:54:25,840 --> 00:54:30,120
Speaker 1: weaves come on. No, no, they are attached in details, Yes,

990
00:54:30,400 --> 00:54:34,320
Speaker 1: we are secured. Wigs come off wigs, and so do

991
00:54:34,440 --> 00:54:37,799
Speaker 1: draw string ponytails. Well, we knew where I was gonna go. Wait,

992
00:54:37,880 --> 00:54:39,200
Speaker 1: I have one more, and I feel like this is

993
00:54:39,200 --> 00:54:41,719
Speaker 1: appropriate for you because you're here. I thought this title

994
00:54:41,760 --> 00:54:45,640
Speaker 1: said my sister keeps choosing Asians. What it says? Hey,

995
00:54:45,719 --> 00:54:49,440
Speaker 1: y'all heard you on decisions decisions and had to listen

996
00:54:50,080 --> 00:54:53,959
Speaker 1: my mess My little sister keeps shooting Asian. Ain't shit

997
00:54:54,040 --> 00:54:56,839
Speaker 1: ass niggas. That's ok there, it is as because I'm

998
00:54:56,880 --> 00:55:00,560
Speaker 1: like Asian. Her previous ex I had to beat up

999
00:55:00,600 --> 00:55:03,520
Speaker 1: in their own apartments that didn't have any heat or

1000
00:55:03,600 --> 00:55:06,680
Speaker 1: food in once in the dead of Cleveland winter because

1001
00:55:06,719 --> 00:55:09,000
Speaker 1: he was putting hands on her, and have her come

1002
00:55:09,200 --> 00:55:10,640
Speaker 1: live with me for a week because he called the

1003
00:55:10,680 --> 00:55:14,160
Speaker 1: police and filed assaultart Ooh okay. Her current baby daddy

1004
00:55:14,520 --> 00:55:17,399
Speaker 1: had her in a shootout and missing for a few

1005
00:55:17,520 --> 00:55:20,560
Speaker 1: days before she was pregnant, cheated on her multiple times

1006
00:55:20,640 --> 00:55:22,600
Speaker 1: and just had his side bitch, the neighbor down the

1007
00:55:22,640 --> 00:55:25,000
Speaker 1: hall from them fire a gun at my sister while

1008
00:55:25,080 --> 00:55:27,480
Speaker 1: she was eight months pregnant. Oh oh, and he ain't

1009
00:55:27,480 --> 00:55:29,680
Speaker 1: even sharp up to his own baby shower. Again, I'm

1010
00:55:29,680 --> 00:55:32,480
Speaker 1: gonna beat his ass too when I see him. But

1011
00:55:32,600 --> 00:55:35,200
Speaker 1: why should keep choosing these Asians? Like? That's how I'm

1012
00:55:35,320 --> 00:55:39,560
Speaker 1: I'm Murray stud We were raised in a middle class

1013
00:55:39,680 --> 00:55:42,279
Speaker 1: black Christian household in the suburbs. You ain't got to

1014
00:55:42,440 --> 00:55:46,680
Speaker 1: live like this. Sincerely, a concerned older brother. You know what,

1015
00:55:46,960 --> 00:55:50,560
Speaker 1: I want everyone to not be concerned with the love

1016
00:55:50,640 --> 00:55:54,319
Speaker 1: life that anyone chooses. When a woman's bed up. Sorry,

1017
00:55:54,440 --> 00:55:56,839
Speaker 1: yes I did quote R. Kelly. I think a woman

1018
00:55:56,920 --> 00:55:59,600
Speaker 1: will only a woman will stay with someone until she

1019
00:55:59,680 --> 00:56:02,120
Speaker 1: feels like she deserves better. There's nothing you could say,

1020
00:56:02,200 --> 00:56:05,400
Speaker 1: nothing you could do, And what I've seen literally happen

1021
00:56:05,640 --> 00:56:08,480
Speaker 1: is when the brothers specifically get involved in these type

1022
00:56:08,480 --> 00:56:10,600
Speaker 1: of situations, you could lose your life, You could get

1023
00:56:10,640 --> 00:56:13,080
Speaker 1: shot at, You could sit here and and have to

1024
00:56:13,160 --> 00:56:15,400
Speaker 1: go to court because you the laid hands are got

1025
00:56:15,480 --> 00:56:18,960
Speaker 1: assault charges. It sucks because you want better for them.

1026
00:56:19,480 --> 00:56:21,800
Speaker 1: But you can lead a what you can lead a

1027
00:56:21,840 --> 00:56:23,320
Speaker 1: horse to water. But you can't make him drink it.

1028
00:56:23,360 --> 00:56:24,080
Speaker 1: You can't make it drink.

1029
00:56:24,239 --> 00:56:26,040
Speaker 2: All I was going to say is this is I heeart.

1030
00:56:26,160 --> 00:56:27,920
Speaker 2: We we don't have stories like this. You don't have

1031
00:56:28,000 --> 00:56:30,720
Speaker 2: to take that on down. And Natalie none Zeus network.

1032
00:56:30,880 --> 00:56:34,160
Speaker 2: We're a family. We're a family network.

1033
00:56:35,040 --> 00:56:41,880
Speaker 1: Because decisions, decisions, you know, worry black effect. This is

1034
00:56:42,320 --> 00:56:46,040
Speaker 1: black effect adjacent. He said they were raising middle class

1035
00:56:46,200 --> 00:56:53,680
Speaker 1: black Christian that he said, we learn how to read.

1036
00:56:54,120 --> 00:56:57,560
Speaker 1: He said, you wan't a vacation. You do this. You

1037
00:56:57,600 --> 00:57:00,319
Speaker 1: ain't gotta do this. It sounds like a Tyler Perry movie.

1038
00:57:00,440 --> 00:57:02,160
Speaker 1: It's not wait for her to meet a light skinned

1039
00:57:02,160 --> 00:57:04,719
Speaker 1: man who want you call the job and he is

1040
00:57:04,760 --> 00:57:07,040
Speaker 1: going to bring her back to church with the with

1041
00:57:07,200 --> 00:57:08,000
Speaker 1: the lace.

1042
00:57:12,000 --> 00:57:15,959
Speaker 2: A drawstring with really bad brew hill bandana coming.

1043
00:57:17,000 --> 00:57:22,440
Speaker 1: Tell me what you want for him? Yeah, okay, this

1044
00:57:22,560 --> 00:57:26,520
Speaker 1: has been what a roller cime? Whoa. I didn't know

1045
00:57:26,600 --> 00:57:28,880
Speaker 1: we were gonna go here me neither from from where

1046
00:57:28,920 --> 00:57:30,720
Speaker 1: I started. And you know what, Mandy, when you listen

1047
00:57:30,760 --> 00:57:33,360
Speaker 1: to this episode, if you do, I will be like,

1048
00:57:33,600 --> 00:57:36,760
Speaker 1: I like this guest. This might be the only guest

1049
00:57:36,840 --> 00:57:39,880
Speaker 1: I like the job. You gotta listen back and don't

1050
00:57:39,960 --> 00:57:41,600
Speaker 1: think it's you. You gotta be like, Oh, I wonder

1051
00:57:41,640 --> 00:57:45,640
Speaker 1: who this person? Yeah, playing for the ding. I agree

1052
00:57:45,680 --> 00:57:49,560
Speaker 1: with everything they said. This is wonderful for your enjoyable

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Speaker 1: experience during bathtime. Oh you know what? Not doing it? No, No,

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Speaker 1: thank y'all for having me. Y'all. Make sure y'all check

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Speaker 1: out my podcast, and also have a book coming out,

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Speaker 1: Yeah Bard, a dual manifesto, Sexual Exploration and Power, available

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Speaker 1: I got the coins out. Help me become a New

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Speaker 1: York Times bestseller. You can. We ain't need five thousand. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: no it's ten I need ten thousand. Yeah, you got

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Speaker 1: ten thousand. I want ten thousand, ten thousand before the

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Speaker 1: first week is up. So book drops June twenty four.

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Speaker 1: I ordered mine pre orders. Yeah, she told me. She

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Speaker 1: sits to me, she edited. I was like, thank you. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: make sure you get that. And then if you want

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Speaker 1: to listen to more of my crazy ass, uh, check

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Speaker 1: me out on my podcast. I'm one half of this

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Speaker 1: is the Decisions Decisions podcast, and I am the host

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Speaker 1: who is often joined by my crazy wild friends with

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Speaker 1: very opposite takes of me on Selective Ignorance. So y'all

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Speaker 1: check that out. You see that. That's a professional science.

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Speaker 1: Always be plugging you. Listen, I got my dick in

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Speaker 1: the closet, but that's a whole other conversation. You know.

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Speaker 1: Won't leave it right there. And that's the title of

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Speaker 1: the pods closet. Will not allow that. The name of

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Speaker 1: the podcast is Christian, Black, Suburbs and middle class and

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Speaker 1: we can read. Thanks guys, and make sure.

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Speaker 2: You leave reviews on Apple and Spotify, and uh look

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Speaker 2: out for a live show when it when wenate.

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Speaker 1: Announce it when we will. We never forget to do

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Speaker 1: your texts. You might have missed it already. This is

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Speaker 1: probably gonna come out after the deadline. That's fine, Sally me.

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Speaker 1: I'll talk to you later, girl.

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Speaker 3: Mess with Sydney Washington and Marie Foston is a production

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Speaker 3: by Will Ferrell's Big Money Players and iHeartRadio podcast created

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Speaker 3: and hosted by Sydney Washington and Marie Foston. Executive produced

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Speaker 3: by Olivia Aguilar and Hans Sonny, super produced by Becca Ramos,

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Speaker 3: edited a mixed by Brian Jeffries. If you would like

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Speaker 3: your messages read on air, please email us at mess

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