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Speaker 2: But are the old school niggas doing it? They might

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Speaker 1: They are they wait for that special moment. You're gonna milk.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna milk. This is the taking over the game,

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Speaker 1: all right, everybody? Welcome to Truth after Dark.

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Speaker 2: Do you think that men or women are more toxic?

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Speaker 3: What's side they? Y'all?

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Speaker 1: Welcome to another edition season three, look at us.

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Speaker 3: Truth after Dark. Make sure you tune in daily. Man.

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Speaker 1: Welcome y'all, it's another edition of Truth after Dark. I'm

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Speaker 1: your host, paul A Pierced the Truth. I got the

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Speaker 1: lovely azaar sitting here looking off. M Uh, what's up girl,

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Speaker 1: Good to see you again?

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Speaker 4: Back got it?

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Speaker 3: How you doing? Hey? We got Look, we got a

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Speaker 3: new little set up here. I got the hookah rollers. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: we popping, we popping. What's going on? What we got?

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Speaker 3: What we got today? What we're talking about?

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Speaker 4: Hey?

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Speaker 3: Hold on though, man, did you see uh? Man?

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Speaker 1: There's a lot of shit going on out here in

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Speaker 1: the streets before we even get into it, Like the

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Speaker 1: whole CARDI B with stuff on.

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Speaker 4: That I'm talking about it, but I.

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Speaker 1: Didn't even I didn't even know, And then you got

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Speaker 1: the whole job rule on the planes, I rule my

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 1: I hate to see, you know, when the rap beefs

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Speaker 1: is doing that because I feel like for the culture

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Speaker 1: that you know, we should all be vibing together and

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Speaker 1: doing something. I know, the history with them and Yayo

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Speaker 1: I hope that can get a resolve soon that that'll

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Speaker 1: be you know, that'd be dope for the culture if

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Speaker 1: it was a sit down with them and we can

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Speaker 1: get them on truth after dark. Yeah, yo, fifty, I

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Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know, but you know, you hate

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Speaker 1: to something. You know, I just love us, I love

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Speaker 1: you know, everybody in the in the culture that's that's

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Speaker 1: doing a thing. But like, yeah, did you see that

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Speaker 2: So yeah, so Stean Diggs supposedly, I mean they broke up,

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Speaker 2: so it's not a secret that obviously Stefan dis has

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Speaker 2: and Cardi B's not feeling that because that's blowing me.

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Speaker 2: That's gonna blow me because the baby's not old enough

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Speaker 2: it's not like the baby's there to support you. You

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Speaker 2: got your No, I'm never going for that, and Cardi

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Speaker 2: B is done and fifty cent posted imagine losing the

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Speaker 2: super Bowl and losing this bitch. He was like, this

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Speaker 2: is crazy. You lost a bad one, and he said

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Speaker 2: You lost your girl and you lost the super Bowl.

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Speaker 2: You are silly, And it's just like, yeah, these men,

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Speaker 3: You know, it's just like.

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Speaker 1: Stepan Diggs is treating her like she's just some work

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Speaker 1: You know what it is like? She knew what it

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Speaker 3: This going on. You wanna you wanna, you wanna? You

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Speaker 2: Nah, Well this is what man, This is what men

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Speaker 2: fail to understand. I understand what you're saying. Like me personally,

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Speaker 2: Stephan Diggs has all these baby mamas arre you know

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Speaker 2: what it is. I'm not going to do that, but

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Speaker 2: to me, like he might really love me, and we

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Speaker 3: Cody, it's some work for him.

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Speaker 1: Let's keep it one hundred, Like all right, I got

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Speaker 1: you over here, I got her over there, Like you

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Speaker 1: I'm with you, and we got pregnant, like like like

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Speaker 2: That's crazy. That's not your man.

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Speaker 1: I don't have to be. But he has a child

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Speaker 1: with her. He's saying like, Hey, my child want to

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Speaker 2: The child that's want to come to the game. No,

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Speaker 2: that's bullshit. That's some bullshit. And if that's me, I'm

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Speaker 2: cool too. No, I'm good, like I'm good. Love and

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Speaker 2: That's why I think women don't put yourself in that

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Speaker 2: don't don't. Don't don't do it. Women, just get your

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Speaker 4: Love you.

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Speaker 1: Just because you're a celebrity, that don't mean you work.

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Speaker 1: You ain't no work. Because it's a lot of celebrity

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Speaker 2: How you work if you're boo app inlab posting together?

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Speaker 1: But like it's like he'd be over here and everybody

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Speaker 1: This ain't nothing I'm making up. Like he he flexing

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Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like should he add a out of

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Speaker 2: You shouldn't be there. There's no reason. The baby's a newborn.

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Speaker 2: like and that's another thing. Though everybody wants so much

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Speaker 3: But like she accepted it. Yeah, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: That's you don't do that period, Like I'm not going

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Speaker 3: This is my thing is you went for the other ship,

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Speaker 2: Like come on, because you know, because you don't know

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Speaker 2: what the conversations they've had, you want to say, a

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Speaker 2: if that man behind closed doors is like, baby, I

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Speaker 2: You don't know what he's saying. And you men think

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Speaker 2: to her, trust me, like you don't know men's pillow

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Speaker 2: talk and say all types of stuff to women and

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Speaker 2: give them a false reality and hope that something is different,

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Speaker 2: and so you don't know that he might have been

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Speaker 2: consoling her the whole time, like I don't like these women.

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Speaker 2: It wasn't like that. It was a mistake. I don't

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Speaker 1: So yeah, the beginning when they got together, people was like,

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Speaker 1: why are you?

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Speaker 3: Why is card with him?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: People say that all the time though about people. People

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Speaker 2: I love you, you know me, you know how I

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Speaker 4: Yeah, remember what you see.

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Speaker 3: Who is this girl a Lotto? I'm over here like

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Speaker 4: I don't want it? Period?

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Speaker 2: Because he wasn't playing around.

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Speaker 4: He said, I'm not goingth.

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Speaker 3: Walk through the VIP door want like, No, I'm over here.

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Speaker 2: I'm over here, baby this I'm not dealing with this girl.

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Speaker 2: I'm at the wall with it like and I feel him.

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Speaker 4: He said.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. He said that he has a two kid minimum

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Speaker 3: Rawmen, I pull up like the man, what I'll rolling

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Speaker 4: Roll you rolling with that?

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Speaker 1: Probably don't know how to make no oxtails. She don't

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Speaker 3: You can't make her make it nothing chips at night.

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Speaker 4: I'm dead ship.

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Speaker 1: I walk with, I'll walk with shout out. I love

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Speaker 3: Hey?

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Speaker 1: You know them forty enough, they're a little insecure, they're desperate.

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Speaker 3: You think you slick.

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Speaker 3: If they're single, if you fortying up and applies is

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Speaker 1: Standards almost is out the window, and you got like

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Speaker 1: You gotta choose who choose you? A single woman with kids,

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Speaker 1: it's humbled, you know. And they will go beyond for

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Speaker 4: Okay.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And that's.

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Speaker 1: What he's saying, Like they're gonna go more beyond because

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Speaker 1: it's cool. I feel that, okay.

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Speaker 2: So Idris Elba he talks about his definition of romance

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Speaker 2: Like when she hugs him and affirms him, that's what

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Speaker 4: What do you feel that's his views?

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Speaker 2: I'm saying, do you agree with that? Do you feel

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Speaker 3: All right?

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Speaker 1: So my definition of romance is doing the things you

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Speaker 1: don't normally do. That's more romance because romance is not

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Speaker 1: is like something different that you don't normally do you

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Speaker 1: The man don't every day do that, you know, that's romance.

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Speaker 1: When he put the candles out, he made her some food,

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Speaker 1: and we're just like, oh, damn, I don't usually get this. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so like damn, that was a romantic and it was sexy.

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Speaker 1: Romance is sexy. Yeah, you know what I'm saying. It's

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Speaker 3: It's not an everyday thing, but it's something.

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Speaker 1: So that's what romance is really all about, doing the

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Speaker 1: Your idea of a romance? Like what is romantic to you?

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Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying? What's romantic? Romantic?

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Speaker 1: I feel like for me, like if a man don't

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Speaker 2: No, I feel like it's not. I feel like though, okay,

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Speaker 2: for you, that's not romance.

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Speaker 1: It never does that and he does it, that's romantic.

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Speaker 1: Romance is a combination of a number of things. It's

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Speaker 2: Are you asking me what I think? Or are you

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Speaker 2: telling me what you think?

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Speaker 4: I'm so confused.

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Speaker 2: I personally feel like romance to me is like the

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Speaker 2: little things, like being thoughtful. Like again, if you said something,

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Speaker 2: or if I said I like something, and then it's like,

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Speaker 2: It could be something so small, or like I noticed that,

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Speaker 2: like little stuff. I feel like that's super romantic in

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Speaker 2: I got you this little rope.

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Speaker 1: Romance is dead in this generation. No, it is only

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Speaker 1: old school cats know what romance really is like the

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Speaker 1: real romance, Like this new generations don't know.

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Speaker 3: What romance is.

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Speaker 2: I don't believe that.

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Speaker 1: I believe that because real, like the real romance is like,

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Speaker 1: all right, I wrote her a letter. Yeah, ain't nobody

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Speaker 1: writing a letter? They texted a letter.

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Speaker 2: I've wrote a letter.

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Speaker 1: I can't write a letter on it and he leave

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Speaker 1: it there for you, or like say, it's your boyfriend.

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Speaker 3: Y'all live in the same thing and he wrote you

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Speaker 2: Yeah, writing a letter got to your mail.

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Speaker 1: That's romance. And it's only old school cats is doing that.

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Speaker 1: That's open.

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Speaker 2: I've written letters, and I've got writ letters, and it's

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Speaker 3: Time a man wrote you a letter ten years ago.

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, actually not, I've had a years

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Speaker 2: older then. No, I mean he yeah, he was not

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Speaker 2: older like he probably is, like thirty eight eight, that's older.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he was born in the in the early eighties.

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Speaker 1: That's like only eighties. After eighties, romance died for real

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Speaker 1: because this new generation don't know what romance.

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Speaker 3: They think romance is opening the door. That's not romance.

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Speaker 1: Real romance come from all school cats, like we understand

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Speaker 1: what the roman Like the rose Pedals let me, let

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Speaker 1: me have a rose pedal when she walk in the

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Speaker 1: door there. That's gonna lead to something. It's gonna lead

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Speaker 1: to the table over here with the food. And then

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Speaker 1: after that he gonna have a note. Okay, after you

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Speaker 1: finish eating, go over here, and it's a rose pedals

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Speaker 3: It's gonna like be a treasure hunt.

439
00:21:40,320 --> 00:21:42,520
Speaker 1: Like that's real old school, like this new school don't

440
00:21:42,560 --> 00:21:45,280
Speaker 1: know nothing about the treasure hunt. Romance typic like that's

441
00:21:45,520 --> 00:21:48,200
Speaker 1: all school cats can do that, you know what I'm saying.

442
00:21:48,200 --> 00:21:51,440
Speaker 3: Ain't no new cats doing that. That's romance.

443
00:21:52,280 --> 00:21:53,879
Speaker 1: Like they think, oh, I'm gonna put you on the

444
00:21:54,119 --> 00:21:55,680
Speaker 1: because you got money, I'll put you on the private

445
00:21:55,760 --> 00:21:59,399
Speaker 1: jet with some roses. That man, that's not real romance

446
00:21:59,440 --> 00:22:03,080
Speaker 1: because you got the money. If it costs money, a

447
00:22:03,080 --> 00:22:08,560
Speaker 1: lot of money, that's not romance. Romance don't cost a lot.

448
00:22:08,960 --> 00:22:14,480
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. Romance is thoughtful than a motherfucker.

449
00:22:14,560 --> 00:22:16,879
Speaker 2: That's what I was trying to say. The thoughtful stuff

450
00:22:17,359 --> 00:22:20,840
Speaker 2: exactly what I said, like thinking about the things that

451
00:22:21,880 --> 00:22:25,160
Speaker 2: like literally I'm on my period right now. I'm not

452
00:22:25,359 --> 00:22:28,000
Speaker 2: I'm saying if I'm on my period, right, you know

453
00:22:28,080 --> 00:22:31,240
Speaker 2: that means you have like lower iron. So like I

454
00:22:31,320 --> 00:22:33,080
Speaker 2: know men who are like, oh, I track my girl's

455
00:22:33,080 --> 00:22:34,840
Speaker 2: period and when she has lower iron, I make her

456
00:22:34,880 --> 00:22:37,840
Speaker 2: a steak and I get her a heating pad and

457
00:22:37,920 --> 00:22:40,520
Speaker 2: some hot tea and da da da da dah. Like

458
00:22:40,960 --> 00:22:44,840
Speaker 2: that's so romantic right there, Like that's or like even

459
00:22:44,880 --> 00:22:47,199
Speaker 2: just tracking your roman's period and knowing like she's more

460
00:22:47,240 --> 00:22:51,879
Speaker 2: emotional right now because this and she's like knowing that

461
00:22:52,280 --> 00:22:55,520
Speaker 2: it's crazy. That's romance to me, like knowing my body,

462
00:22:55,680 --> 00:22:58,560
Speaker 2: knowing what I'm going through, knowing that I'm pm messing

463
00:22:58,640 --> 00:23:00,399
Speaker 2: and it's harder. So you got me a stake and

464
00:23:00,440 --> 00:23:03,639
Speaker 2: my favorite little sweet like something like that, Like to

465
00:23:03,720 --> 00:23:06,840
Speaker 2: me is really really romantic, like little stuff again, like

466
00:23:06,960 --> 00:23:08,680
Speaker 2: knowing your partner's.

467
00:23:08,359 --> 00:23:11,640
Speaker 1: Hard to be romantic. It's hard to keep thinking of that. Yeah,

468
00:23:12,240 --> 00:23:15,720
Speaker 1: old school know what romance is. I don't think this

469
00:23:15,880 --> 00:23:18,080
Speaker 1: new generation know what romance is. They just use the

470
00:23:18,119 --> 00:23:22,159
Speaker 1: money and to be romantic and think that's romantic. Oh

471
00:23:22,200 --> 00:23:24,200
Speaker 1: you know what, I'm gonna you take this shopping spring.

472
00:23:24,240 --> 00:23:26,080
Speaker 1: I'm gonnaly you and your girls here, Like they think

473
00:23:26,119 --> 00:23:28,639
Speaker 1: that's romance that's not that's not romantic.

474
00:23:28,720 --> 00:23:30,879
Speaker 2: And at the end of the day, like I always say,

475
00:23:31,200 --> 00:23:33,879
Speaker 2: a man with a million dollars can give you five

476
00:23:34,000 --> 00:23:37,040
Speaker 2: hundred dollars and a man with one hundred dollars can

477
00:23:37,080 --> 00:23:40,280
Speaker 2: give you one hundred dollars, which one's more romantic. So

478
00:23:40,359 --> 00:23:43,159
Speaker 2: you're taking the gesture of oh, he already has all

479
00:23:43,200 --> 00:23:45,320
Speaker 2: this money. It's nothing for him to do those things,

480
00:23:45,600 --> 00:23:48,479
Speaker 2: but it's something for someone who doesn't have it or

481
00:23:48,840 --> 00:23:52,520
Speaker 2: not or just like thinking, like actually using your brain, like, oh,

482
00:23:52,720 --> 00:23:53,720
Speaker 2: this person said this.

483
00:23:54,240 --> 00:23:55,560
Speaker 4: You know what I mean. I'm gonna do this.

484
00:23:56,160 --> 00:24:00,560
Speaker 3: I do a man that don't have a lot of money, romantic.

485
00:24:01,240 --> 00:24:04,600
Speaker 2: Easy, baby, got off work, babe, I know you had

486
00:24:04,600 --> 00:24:07,639
Speaker 2: a long day. I ran you a path I have

487
00:24:07,720 --> 00:24:09,960
Speaker 2: to oil out. I'm gonna rub you down, I'm gonna

488
00:24:09,960 --> 00:24:12,200
Speaker 2: give you massage. I'm gonna put on your favorite show.

489
00:24:12,600 --> 00:24:15,240
Speaker 2: We're gonna watch your favorite show together. I lit your

490
00:24:15,320 --> 00:24:18,040
Speaker 2: candles because I know you love the candles. I made

491
00:24:18,080 --> 00:24:21,360
Speaker 2: you dinner because I know you want dinner, like easy.

492
00:24:21,680 --> 00:24:24,560
Speaker 2: Like it's just with women, I mean again new age

493
00:24:24,600 --> 00:24:27,439
Speaker 2: women and different things, like it's different now, but like

494
00:24:27,520 --> 00:24:30,920
Speaker 2: for women who actually caring, who are actually lover girls

495
00:24:31,040 --> 00:24:33,840
Speaker 2: like me, Like, those things go a really long way.

496
00:24:33,920 --> 00:24:35,960
Speaker 1: So that's why I say, these two generations don't know

497
00:24:36,040 --> 00:24:37,840
Speaker 1: what romance. If you're in your twenties, they don't know

498
00:24:37,840 --> 00:24:38,800
Speaker 1: what the romance is.

499
00:24:39,760 --> 00:24:42,000
Speaker 2: I mean, I can't just count out a whole generation.

500
00:24:42,200 --> 00:24:45,240
Speaker 3: Counted out as a whole I'm counted out. They don't.

501
00:24:45,280 --> 00:24:45,720
Speaker 3: We don't know.

502
00:24:46,960 --> 00:24:49,160
Speaker 1: Like for real data, dude in his twenties and see

503
00:24:49,160 --> 00:24:50,440
Speaker 1: if he can be some romantic shit.

504
00:24:50,920 --> 00:24:54,399
Speaker 2: I'm not dating anybody in their twenties, but yeah, I

505
00:24:54,440 --> 00:24:54,920
Speaker 2: get it.

506
00:24:56,359 --> 00:24:58,000
Speaker 3: What did you think? What'd you think? You think?

507
00:24:58,280 --> 00:25:01,600
Speaker 1: I think romances did like with the new generation. Just

508
00:25:01,600 --> 00:25:03,479
Speaker 1: for you new generation, that's what That's the only thing.

509
00:25:03,480 --> 00:25:04,720
Speaker 1: I think you got to be with an old school

510
00:25:04,760 --> 00:25:05,240
Speaker 1: nigga to know.

511
00:25:05,840 --> 00:25:07,840
Speaker 2: But are the old school niggas doing it? They might

512
00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:10,359
Speaker 2: know what it is, but are they lighting candles and

513
00:25:10,640 --> 00:25:13,480
Speaker 2: running bats and doing rolls pedals? They are?

514
00:25:13,760 --> 00:25:17,200
Speaker 3: They wait for that special moment You're gonna melt. You're

515
00:25:17,200 --> 00:25:17,760
Speaker 3: gonna melt.

516
00:25:20,119 --> 00:25:22,199
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521
00:25:34,280 --> 00:25:38,879
Speaker 2: gonna ask you, is this more of a bare minimum

522
00:25:39,119 --> 00:25:41,920
Speaker 2: treatment or princess treatment? I don't know if you've seen online,

523
00:25:42,080 --> 00:25:45,040
Speaker 2: but there's like men and women in relationships and they

524
00:25:45,080 --> 00:25:47,439
Speaker 2: go and this guy interviews them and says, is this

525
00:25:47,520 --> 00:25:51,000
Speaker 2: bare minimum or is this princess treatment? So is a

526
00:25:51,080 --> 00:25:53,640
Speaker 2: man doing this for a woman? Is this a man

527
00:25:53,720 --> 00:25:55,600
Speaker 2: doing this for a woman? Is just like you should

528
00:25:55,600 --> 00:25:57,360
Speaker 2: be doing this? This is you don't get you don't

529
00:25:57,359 --> 00:25:59,680
Speaker 2: get cookies for this? Or is this princess treatment?

530
00:25:59,720 --> 00:26:00,640
Speaker 3: That's this treatment?

531
00:26:00,800 --> 00:26:01,119
Speaker 4: Okay?

532
00:26:01,200 --> 00:26:06,639
Speaker 2: So opening the car door princess baar fucking minimum, like

533
00:26:06,800 --> 00:26:08,760
Speaker 2: the hell hare minimum?

534
00:26:09,440 --> 00:26:11,120
Speaker 4: Like arms the door.

535
00:26:11,600 --> 00:26:14,000
Speaker 2: See that's the you get it, you as gentleman ladies,

536
00:26:14,040 --> 00:26:16,520
Speaker 2: because these men out here they don't want.

537
00:26:16,400 --> 00:26:20,879
Speaker 1: To, like if you got to open the door every time,

538
00:26:21,240 --> 00:26:23,359
Speaker 1: and that's gonna make or break something?

539
00:26:23,520 --> 00:26:26,560
Speaker 2: It's not. But is it? It's not princess treatment? It's

540
00:26:26,640 --> 00:26:29,200
Speaker 2: bare minimum?

541
00:26:29,440 --> 00:26:32,480
Speaker 3: Is that meaningful? Though? I think that how do women

542
00:26:32,600 --> 00:26:36,000
Speaker 3: actually feel? Like? I think after like ten open doors,

543
00:26:36,040 --> 00:26:40,000
Speaker 3: it's like this is what I'll say, I think when

544
00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:40,840
Speaker 3: it's at the beginning.

545
00:26:40,880 --> 00:26:43,679
Speaker 2: It's that's the problem with men. They do things at

546
00:26:43,680 --> 00:26:46,160
Speaker 2: the beginning and then they fall off the thing. Yeah,

547
00:26:46,240 --> 00:26:49,080
Speaker 2: but it doesn't matter. I think that for me, I

548
00:26:49,080 --> 00:26:50,960
Speaker 2: would say, like the open door is not a huge

549
00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:54,000
Speaker 2: deal for me, But I think as women like is

550
00:26:54,000 --> 00:26:54,520
Speaker 2: it sweet?

551
00:26:54,520 --> 00:26:55,320
Speaker 4: And is it like? Wow?

552
00:26:55,400 --> 00:26:57,920
Speaker 3: I feel like such we are doing over open the door.

553
00:26:58,000 --> 00:27:00,160
Speaker 2: I don't think it's an argument. I think it's it's

554
00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:03,399
Speaker 2: about like, damn, okay, that feels good. Like it doesn't.

555
00:27:03,440 --> 00:27:05,280
Speaker 2: It's not an argument. When a man does it doesn't

556
00:27:05,280 --> 00:27:08,199
Speaker 2: feel like wow, Yes, it feels good. But is it

557
00:27:08,240 --> 00:27:08,880
Speaker 2: an argument?

558
00:27:09,080 --> 00:27:09,199
Speaker 3: No?

559
00:27:09,520 --> 00:27:11,400
Speaker 2: Is it something where it's like he didn't open my door?

560
00:27:11,800 --> 00:27:11,960
Speaker 4: No?

561
00:27:12,400 --> 00:27:15,840
Speaker 2: But women we notice little gentleman's stuff like it's just

562
00:27:15,960 --> 00:27:16,479
Speaker 2: is what it is?

563
00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:18,200
Speaker 3: How many times you gotta do it every time?

564
00:27:18,440 --> 00:27:18,600
Speaker 4: No?

565
00:27:18,680 --> 00:27:20,680
Speaker 2: I don't think so me honestly though, though I'm gonna

566
00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:23,360
Speaker 2: be honest. I dated a guy who always opened my door,

567
00:27:23,400 --> 00:27:25,360
Speaker 2: and at some times I'm like, get in the car,

568
00:27:25,440 --> 00:27:28,600
Speaker 2: let's hit it. Like I do have that feeling, but

569
00:27:28,680 --> 00:27:31,760
Speaker 2: sometimes it's nice. I feel like it's just sometimes it's nice.

570
00:27:31,760 --> 00:27:34,439
Speaker 3: I don't think every time, like what times on date night.

571
00:27:34,840 --> 00:27:37,560
Speaker 2: Date night, or or if it's just a situation where

572
00:27:37,800 --> 00:27:40,159
Speaker 2: let's say we're getting into the car and you have

573
00:27:40,240 --> 00:27:43,119
Speaker 2: to walk past my door and you open it, or

574
00:27:43,200 --> 00:27:44,240
Speaker 2: like little stuff like I.

575
00:27:44,200 --> 00:27:47,159
Speaker 1: Feel like this if it's raining, if the weather is

576
00:27:47,200 --> 00:27:49,120
Speaker 1: snow on the ground, but hold on, let.

577
00:27:49,040 --> 00:27:51,240
Speaker 3: Me make sure all right? Good?

578
00:27:51,359 --> 00:27:54,480
Speaker 1: But like every time it's like, damn, let's let's run here,

579
00:27:54,720 --> 00:27:56,720
Speaker 1: Like you ain't gotta open the door every time.

580
00:27:56,840 --> 00:28:00,240
Speaker 3: I like on date night, Okay, that's that's yeah. Yeah,

581
00:28:00,280 --> 00:28:01,080
Speaker 3: day night is cool.

582
00:28:03,040 --> 00:28:05,520
Speaker 4: Yeah for sure, my birthday, yeah for sure.

583
00:28:06,280 --> 00:28:08,879
Speaker 1: But like we're just going down the street, get some

584
00:28:09,000 --> 00:28:11,960
Speaker 1: in and out, get in the cargirl, let's go get

585
00:28:11,960 --> 00:28:12,439
Speaker 1: this burger.

586
00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:17,359
Speaker 2: Okay, let's move on to the next one. Sending a

587
00:28:17,400 --> 00:28:22,160
Speaker 2: good morning and good night text bear minimum or princess treatment.

588
00:28:25,280 --> 00:28:27,640
Speaker 4: Bare minimum exactly, I agree.

589
00:28:29,720 --> 00:28:32,320
Speaker 2: Walking her to her door, like if you drop off

590
00:28:32,320 --> 00:28:36,560
Speaker 2: at home on how the night went, bare minimum or

591
00:28:36,560 --> 00:28:37,720
Speaker 2: Princess's treatment.

592
00:28:39,560 --> 00:28:42,480
Speaker 1: That's princess treatment. Walking to the door. Oh, I was

593
00:28:42,520 --> 00:28:46,160
Speaker 1: probably living a high rise. I gotta go through the elevator,

594
00:28:46,480 --> 00:28:49,240
Speaker 1: park in the parking lot, walk you all the way

595
00:28:49,320 --> 00:28:52,600
Speaker 1: up to the door. What you live in a house

596
00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:54,800
Speaker 1: or you live in an apartment, It depends you have

597
00:28:54,880 --> 00:28:57,120
Speaker 1: to ques and that damn, I gotta go through security,

598
00:28:57,120 --> 00:28:59,120
Speaker 1: two doors, walk you upstairs.

599
00:28:59,320 --> 00:29:00,840
Speaker 3: Then I got king. I don't know what my car

600
00:29:00,920 --> 00:29:01,320
Speaker 3: right now?

601
00:29:01,560 --> 00:29:06,480
Speaker 2: Okay, next one, giving your partner your phone password bare

602
00:29:06,600 --> 00:29:07,840
Speaker 2: minimum or princess treatment.

603
00:29:08,680 --> 00:29:14,800
Speaker 3: That's princess treatment for sure. Yeah, I mean off.

604
00:29:15,360 --> 00:29:18,400
Speaker 2: I think that like if I'm with someone, I don't

605
00:29:18,400 --> 00:29:20,280
Speaker 2: really care if I don't have nothing to hide. So

606
00:29:20,440 --> 00:29:22,760
Speaker 2: like I think being sneaky about your phone is weird.

607
00:29:23,880 --> 00:29:25,560
Speaker 2: It's like, what are we sneaky?

608
00:29:25,640 --> 00:29:26,200
Speaker 3: Like? Yeah?

609
00:29:26,760 --> 00:29:28,840
Speaker 2: For what like if you if I can't touch your

610
00:29:28,840 --> 00:29:30,800
Speaker 2: phone and you're nervous, or you can't just look at

611
00:29:30,800 --> 00:29:33,160
Speaker 2: my phone or pick up my phone or call someone

612
00:29:33,160 --> 00:29:35,560
Speaker 2: from my phone, I think that's weird, like or do

613
00:29:35,680 --> 00:29:36,480
Speaker 2: something from my phone.

614
00:29:36,560 --> 00:29:37,960
Speaker 4: I don't like that all right, I.

615
00:29:37,880 --> 00:29:39,800
Speaker 3: Know is this a red flag? Let me ask you?

616
00:29:39,680 --> 00:29:42,320
Speaker 4: You love to get to this is part of that though.

617
00:29:42,360 --> 00:29:45,160
Speaker 3: This is this is bare minimum. Like if you in

618
00:29:45,240 --> 00:29:48,440
Speaker 3: the car where a dude he driving you around and

619
00:29:48,520 --> 00:29:51,880
Speaker 3: he take his phone off of like Bluetooth for the car,

620
00:29:52,160 --> 00:29:54,000
Speaker 3: so like you know when when the phone ring in the.

621
00:29:54,000 --> 00:29:55,479
Speaker 4: Car, that's tricky.

622
00:29:55,640 --> 00:29:56,920
Speaker 3: I don't like that, right.

623
00:29:57,160 --> 00:30:00,200
Speaker 2: That means you're hiding. You could tell though, like, I

624
00:30:00,200 --> 00:30:03,800
Speaker 2: don't like that, and I'm not someone that's like overly

625
00:30:03,840 --> 00:30:06,280
Speaker 2: gonna like I will never I'm not going through nobody's phone.

626
00:30:06,280 --> 00:30:06,880
Speaker 4: I'm not doing that.

627
00:30:06,920 --> 00:30:09,400
Speaker 3: But you're gonna say something if he like, take the

628
00:30:09,400 --> 00:30:10,280
Speaker 3: bluetoo off in the.

629
00:30:10,240 --> 00:30:12,840
Speaker 4: Car his phone, ring say something?

630
00:30:14,200 --> 00:30:17,800
Speaker 2: What am I not saying? I say something about anything?

631
00:30:17,840 --> 00:30:18,120
Speaker 4: I don't.

632
00:30:18,240 --> 00:30:20,840
Speaker 2: I don't like I do pick and choose my battles.

633
00:30:20,880 --> 00:30:23,520
Speaker 2: I do not say something about everything. But if that

634
00:30:23,640 --> 00:30:25,760
Speaker 2: is gonna bother me now and now I'm gonna be

635
00:30:25,840 --> 00:30:29,080
Speaker 2: like you're saying like you're sneaky.

636
00:30:29,120 --> 00:30:29,800
Speaker 4: I don't trust you.

637
00:30:30,200 --> 00:30:38,880
Speaker 2: Trusty Okay, so bear minimum or princess treatment. Buying flowers randomly, bear.

638
00:30:38,800 --> 00:30:41,000
Speaker 4: Fucking minimum princess treatment.

639
00:30:41,080 --> 00:30:47,080
Speaker 2: That's so crazy. That's bare minimum, Brian, flowers randomly for

640
00:30:47,120 --> 00:30:50,040
Speaker 2: your girl is just bare minimum to me, Like, there's

641
00:30:50,080 --> 00:30:52,320
Speaker 2: no way that's princess treatment.

642
00:30:52,800 --> 00:30:56,200
Speaker 4: When you have a woman that you love and care about, I.

643
00:30:56,120 --> 00:30:57,440
Speaker 3: Think I can tell you I love you, and that's

644
00:30:57,440 --> 00:30:58,760
Speaker 3: equally to giving you flowers.

645
00:30:59,560 --> 00:31:04,680
Speaker 2: Okay, I think that you random a little flower, pick

646
00:31:04,680 --> 00:31:06,440
Speaker 2: a flower and give it to her.

647
00:31:07,200 --> 00:31:07,920
Speaker 4: Cute stuff.

648
00:31:07,960 --> 00:31:08,680
Speaker 3: That's easy.

649
00:31:08,720 --> 00:31:12,760
Speaker 1: See, this is what my thing is like for men

650
00:31:13,080 --> 00:31:17,640
Speaker 1: who got some bread to buy flowers, Like you can

651
00:31:17,640 --> 00:31:20,160
Speaker 1: buy your girl flowers every day. You can take her

652
00:31:20,240 --> 00:31:23,280
Speaker 1: shopping and make her smile every day. But you could

653
00:31:23,280 --> 00:31:26,440
Speaker 1: do that, and that don't that don't mean that he

654
00:31:26,560 --> 00:31:28,680
Speaker 1: loved you because he could do that for any girl.

655
00:31:28,760 --> 00:31:31,120
Speaker 2: I agree, you know what I'm saying that.

656
00:31:31,120 --> 00:31:35,320
Speaker 1: Like we're not saying that like flowers. It might be

657
00:31:35,360 --> 00:31:38,280
Speaker 1: a dude that's in the girl flowers every day. That's like,

658
00:31:38,400 --> 00:31:40,160
Speaker 1: he could do that when you spend money on the

659
00:31:40,200 --> 00:31:43,320
Speaker 1: girl you like, he like, you know what I mean,

660
00:31:43,440 --> 00:31:45,200
Speaker 1: Here here go some flowers, here goes some flower, he

661
00:31:45,240 --> 00:31:47,680
Speaker 1: goes some like. But when you like, actually something that's

662
00:31:47,680 --> 00:31:51,600
Speaker 1: gonna take up hit your time, that's princess tree. When

663
00:31:51,600 --> 00:31:56,160
Speaker 1: you're taking a waste the time that you just feel like,

664
00:31:57,120 --> 00:32:00,560
Speaker 1: going out of going out of your way is princes treatment.

665
00:32:00,760 --> 00:32:02,760
Speaker 1: Like you have something to do, but you don't do

666
00:32:02,800 --> 00:32:05,840
Speaker 1: that because you want to do something for your girl,

667
00:32:06,280 --> 00:32:07,640
Speaker 1: you want to do something for your wife.

668
00:32:08,160 --> 00:32:09,800
Speaker 3: That's more princess treatment.

669
00:32:09,800 --> 00:32:12,000
Speaker 1: When you just like, you know what I have, I'm

670
00:32:12,320 --> 00:32:15,520
Speaker 1: off that today, I'm not doing it. I'm taking I'm

671
00:32:15,560 --> 00:32:19,840
Speaker 1: taking day off. That's Princeville's treatment. I'm not gonna go

672
00:32:20,000 --> 00:32:22,719
Speaker 1: to the gym. I want to take her to breakfast

673
00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:25,840
Speaker 1: or lunch. That's princess treatment. But like the flower thing

674
00:32:25,920 --> 00:32:28,480
Speaker 1: and to open the door thing, everybody doing that.

675
00:32:28,280 --> 00:32:30,320
Speaker 2: That's so and everybody's not doing that.

676
00:32:30,840 --> 00:32:32,280
Speaker 3: Everybody can do that.

677
00:32:32,240 --> 00:32:34,000
Speaker 2: Ever, but but it is going out of your way

678
00:32:34,000 --> 00:32:36,960
Speaker 2: because it's being thoughtful. It's like, oh, I just decided

679
00:32:37,280 --> 00:32:40,960
Speaker 2: today to go out of my way. I'm gonna do this. Yeah,

680
00:32:41,160 --> 00:32:43,320
Speaker 2: men who have assistance and have that on a rotation.

681
00:32:43,440 --> 00:32:45,440
Speaker 2: But if you're a man, that's just like cool. I

682
00:32:45,480 --> 00:32:47,360
Speaker 2: went out of my way to think of her today.

683
00:32:47,360 --> 00:32:49,440
Speaker 1: Are we dating? Are we together? When I tell open

684
00:32:49,480 --> 00:32:52,920
Speaker 1: the door too? What are we dating? Or are we

685
00:32:53,040 --> 00:32:55,880
Speaker 1: together for what? Because guys gonna open the door when.

686
00:32:55,760 --> 00:32:58,520
Speaker 4: They're dating together, we're talking about when.

687
00:32:58,360 --> 00:32:59,880
Speaker 3: You together, they stop opening the door.

688
00:33:00,600 --> 00:33:01,560
Speaker 2: No, not all man.

689
00:33:02,640 --> 00:33:05,640
Speaker 1: Well that's why I say beconsistent. If you ain't gonna

690
00:33:05,640 --> 00:33:07,360
Speaker 1: do it in the day, error, don't do it.

691
00:33:08,120 --> 00:33:10,760
Speaker 2: With that because you don't want to introduce a woman

692
00:33:10,800 --> 00:33:13,800
Speaker 2: to a vibe that you can't maintain. Yeah, don't introduce

693
00:33:13,800 --> 00:33:16,280
Speaker 2: me to a vibe you cannot maintain. Honey, I'm not

694
00:33:16,360 --> 00:33:18,760
Speaker 2: tripping off the door open anything like I think it's nice,

695
00:33:18,800 --> 00:33:20,920
Speaker 2: and I think it's cool when it's done and it's

696
00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:22,560
Speaker 2: like okay, But I don't think it has to be

697
00:33:22,600 --> 00:33:25,960
Speaker 2: at every day, every moment because sometimes it's like, let's

698
00:33:25,960 --> 00:33:27,880
Speaker 2: get in the car, let's hit it. Like I don't

699
00:33:27,880 --> 00:33:29,520
Speaker 2: want to wait and wait till you get in the car.

700
00:33:29,560 --> 00:33:31,840
Speaker 2: But I'm also can be impatient, so I'm like, let's

701
00:33:31,880 --> 00:33:34,600
Speaker 2: go right. I think flowers are nice. I think every

702
00:33:34,600 --> 00:33:38,600
Speaker 2: woman likes flowers. But you know, okay, So remembering the

703
00:33:38,640 --> 00:33:40,560
Speaker 2: small details she mentioned.

704
00:33:40,280 --> 00:33:44,920
Speaker 1: That's princess treatment. That's Princemas because it's it's little shit

705
00:33:45,440 --> 00:33:49,440
Speaker 1: that details. It is Prince's treatment because you can remember

706
00:33:49,480 --> 00:33:51,400
Speaker 1: something that she told you like months ago, and then

707
00:33:51,400 --> 00:33:53,920
Speaker 1: you made it come to flutation like damn.

708
00:33:53,760 --> 00:33:54,280
Speaker 3: I forgot that.

709
00:33:54,360 --> 00:33:58,200
Speaker 4: I you can't you know, yeah, like you know.

710
00:33:58,200 --> 00:34:00,040
Speaker 1: I really like this and you was just a in

711
00:34:00,040 --> 00:34:02,120
Speaker 1: the middle of a conversation. But then like damn, he

712
00:34:02,200 --> 00:34:04,720
Speaker 1: remembered that you liked that, and he made it happens

713
00:34:06,640 --> 00:34:08,480
Speaker 1: like like if you if you watching TV, that place

714
00:34:08,560 --> 00:34:11,520
Speaker 1: is so pretty, but then he brought you a trip there.

715
00:34:11,760 --> 00:34:13,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's amazing, you know.

716
00:34:13,120 --> 00:34:15,480
Speaker 1: That's that's what I'm talking about. That's the little thing

717
00:34:15,719 --> 00:34:16,480
Speaker 1: that happens.

718
00:34:16,640 --> 00:34:22,200
Speaker 2: I will say that that's like wow, that because it's.

719
00:34:22,200 --> 00:34:24,359
Speaker 3: Like a little conversation that you might have been just

720
00:34:24,560 --> 00:34:27,480
Speaker 3: on the that's so fly.

721
00:34:27,640 --> 00:34:30,080
Speaker 1: He remember you said that, Like you you comment on

722
00:34:30,080 --> 00:34:32,080
Speaker 1: a girl's dress and then next thing you know, he

723
00:34:32,120 --> 00:34:34,800
Speaker 1: bought you that dress. You know what I'm saying. That's

724
00:34:35,120 --> 00:34:38,359
Speaker 1: that's when you're really paying attention to your girl and

725
00:34:38,400 --> 00:34:40,440
Speaker 1: your wife. Like you really got to pay attention to

726
00:34:40,440 --> 00:34:43,239
Speaker 1: the little stuff. I think that's the princess treatment, not

727
00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:47,359
Speaker 1: the little ship that. Like everybody like we're just asking.

728
00:34:47,040 --> 00:34:52,239
Speaker 2: These questions, Let's get to the next one, making it

729
00:34:52,280 --> 00:34:56,120
Speaker 2: a whole dissertation, Okay, checking in when you get home

730
00:34:56,160 --> 00:35:02,200
Speaker 2: princess treatment or bare minimum, bear minimum, sharing your location

731
00:35:02,320 --> 00:35:08,520
Speaker 2: princess treatment or bare minimum, bare minimum, introducing her to

732
00:35:08,600 --> 00:35:12,960
Speaker 2: your friends princess treatment or bare minimum introducing her to

733
00:35:13,000 --> 00:35:16,680
Speaker 2: your family princess tread bare minimum.

734
00:35:16,920 --> 00:35:22,399
Speaker 1: That's bare minimum. If we're together, like my my chick,

735
00:35:22,520 --> 00:35:24,960
Speaker 1: oh here here, here's my brother and my sister and

736
00:35:24,960 --> 00:35:26,359
Speaker 1: my mama, my dad, Like.

737
00:35:26,600 --> 00:35:29,840
Speaker 2: You're supposed to do that picking her up instead of

738
00:35:29,840 --> 00:35:35,160
Speaker 2: telling her the uber princess treatment or bare minimum?

739
00:35:35,280 --> 00:35:37,960
Speaker 3: Is it a black car princess treatment?

740
00:35:38,000 --> 00:35:43,719
Speaker 2: If it's a black car, complimenting her every day, bare minimum, princess.

741
00:35:43,400 --> 00:35:49,120
Speaker 3: Treatment, complimenting there is bare minimum.

742
00:35:48,440 --> 00:35:52,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, reassuring her when she feels insecure, bare minimum or

743
00:35:52,960 --> 00:35:54,040
Speaker 2: princess treatment.

744
00:35:55,280 --> 00:35:56,080
Speaker 3: Bare minimum.

745
00:35:56,200 --> 00:36:01,400
Speaker 2: Huh period, not liking and following thirst traps bare minimum

746
00:36:01,480 --> 00:36:04,799
Speaker 2: or princess treatment bear minimum.

747
00:36:04,960 --> 00:36:07,719
Speaker 1: He's not supposed to be doing that in a relationship.

748
00:36:07,760 --> 00:36:10,480
Speaker 1: This is in a relationship, right everything.

749
00:36:10,160 --> 00:36:13,759
Speaker 2: Okaya, Unfollowing your exes bare minimum.

750
00:36:13,480 --> 00:36:17,000
Speaker 4: Or princess treatment, that's bare minimal.

751
00:36:17,200 --> 00:36:19,080
Speaker 2: Exactly. You shouldn't be following your exes. And if I'm

752
00:36:19,120 --> 00:36:21,200
Speaker 2: dating someone who's fallowing the exes, I don't like that.

753
00:36:21,600 --> 00:36:24,920
Speaker 2: Texting updates throughout the day bare minimum or princess treatment.

754
00:36:26,600 --> 00:36:29,399
Speaker 3: That's Prince's treatment because I can't keep up with that.

755
00:36:29,520 --> 00:36:31,680
Speaker 3: Like here, I'm over here at seven eleven, I'm.

756
00:36:31,520 --> 00:36:34,440
Speaker 4: At the Gatation, not all of that.

757
00:36:34,960 --> 00:36:37,839
Speaker 1: I'm rolling down Krisshaw, Like, damn, I got it. That's

758
00:36:37,920 --> 00:36:40,480
Speaker 1: Prince's treatment. If you're doing that, you you you high?

759
00:36:40,560 --> 00:36:43,600
Speaker 1: You you really you cheating if you're doing that. If

760
00:36:43,600 --> 00:36:44,680
Speaker 1: a dude is doing that.

761
00:36:44,840 --> 00:36:46,480
Speaker 4: He cheating because he's guilty.

762
00:36:46,600 --> 00:36:48,480
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, he like no, he's not guilty, but he's

763
00:36:48,520 --> 00:36:51,160
Speaker 1: just like you know, I'm just I'm just at the

764
00:36:51,160 --> 00:36:51,720
Speaker 1: Homy house.

765
00:36:51,960 --> 00:36:54,040
Speaker 3: Hey, I just like he got something to high.

766
00:36:54,880 --> 00:36:55,760
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, you're.

767
00:36:55,640 --> 00:36:57,440
Speaker 1: Checking it all the time, like you're gonna live it

768
00:36:57,480 --> 00:36:59,359
Speaker 1: all at the homey house. But he really got at

769
00:36:59,400 --> 00:37:02,080
Speaker 1: a chick. How I'm just chilling all over here watching TV,

770
00:37:02,160 --> 00:37:05,400
Speaker 1: watching the game. Nah No, he doing something telling me

771
00:37:05,680 --> 00:37:07,200
Speaker 1: you ain't got to do all that when you secure

772
00:37:07,239 --> 00:37:09,800
Speaker 1: your relationship, Like she know your patterns, she know your

773
00:37:10,400 --> 00:37:11,719
Speaker 1: your moves and how you move.

774
00:37:11,760 --> 00:37:14,440
Speaker 3: You ain't got to do that. You know what I'm saying, You.

775
00:37:14,400 --> 00:37:15,720
Speaker 4: Ain't got to do that, Okay.

776
00:37:15,800 --> 00:37:21,560
Speaker 2: Carrying her bags automatically, Princess s Treaman her bare minimum carre.

777
00:37:21,520 --> 00:37:27,520
Speaker 3: Like, how heavy is it? I'm just seeing how heavy

778
00:37:27,600 --> 00:37:29,720
Speaker 3: is what bag? Like her bags?

779
00:37:29,800 --> 00:37:32,799
Speaker 2: Airport. We went to the mall, shet.

780
00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:34,799
Speaker 3: You, I got you a thing that roll, you can

781
00:37:34,920 --> 00:37:36,279
Speaker 3: roll that. I got my own bag.

782
00:37:36,360 --> 00:37:37,480
Speaker 4: What shopping?

783
00:37:37,920 --> 00:37:39,080
Speaker 3: This is where I'm gonna carry the back.

784
00:37:39,120 --> 00:37:41,080
Speaker 1: When it looks like it's too much, I'm gonna be

785
00:37:41,080 --> 00:37:42,960
Speaker 1: like all right, let me get grab that. But if

786
00:37:42,960 --> 00:37:45,399
Speaker 1: it's like she can roll that, because I got this.

787
00:37:45,600 --> 00:37:48,399
Speaker 2: She like what about like shopping and she has bags

788
00:37:48,440 --> 00:37:50,000
Speaker 2: in her hand. You guys are walking in the mall

789
00:37:50,120 --> 00:37:50,520
Speaker 2: or something.

790
00:37:50,640 --> 00:37:52,600
Speaker 1: Nah, she carried them because I want everybody to know.

791
00:37:52,680 --> 00:37:55,920
Speaker 1: Look look yeah yeah she she yeah, she got that

792
00:37:55,920 --> 00:37:58,480
Speaker 1: that bag. Girls like to carry that bag. I don't

793
00:37:58,480 --> 00:37:59,960
Speaker 1: care what you say. They like to hold them back,

794
00:38:00,719 --> 00:38:02,640
Speaker 1: like especially it's from one of them spots. They want

795
00:38:02,680 --> 00:38:06,000
Speaker 1: to hold them things like if it's heavy, I don't

796
00:38:06,000 --> 00:38:08,000
Speaker 1: want to go that. I got that just like that

797
00:38:08,080 --> 00:38:09,240
Speaker 1: little smaller.

798
00:38:09,440 --> 00:38:10,960
Speaker 2: I just think that for me. It's like I'm so

799
00:38:11,080 --> 00:38:13,560
Speaker 2: used to my dad, like if we're shopping carrying all

800
00:38:13,600 --> 00:38:17,200
Speaker 2: my bags, like it's just all of them, like unless

801
00:38:17,320 --> 00:38:20,360
Speaker 2: he's it's uncomfortable for him, and then I'm very helpful,

802
00:38:20,520 --> 00:38:23,040
Speaker 2: so I will carry something. But I do like I

803
00:38:23,040 --> 00:38:25,000
Speaker 2: don't care about carrying on damn bag.

804
00:38:25,440 --> 00:38:27,319
Speaker 1: But like if it's a small bag, like you want

805
00:38:27,360 --> 00:38:29,040
Speaker 1: to carry that, like look my man bought me just

806
00:38:29,080 --> 00:38:32,480
Speaker 1: walking through the mall like yeah girl, yeah yeah. I

807
00:38:32,520 --> 00:38:35,040
Speaker 1: feel like the girls like to be seen with they

808
00:38:35,520 --> 00:38:37,680
Speaker 1: the things that they man bought them. But when they's

809
00:38:37,680 --> 00:38:39,399
Speaker 1: getting like that big bag, I got the big one,

810
00:38:39,520 --> 00:38:41,120
Speaker 1: like oh yeah, I got that. You know this is

811
00:38:41,160 --> 00:38:42,319
Speaker 1: for her because I don't shop there.

812
00:38:42,480 --> 00:38:44,359
Speaker 2: I think it's more of a flex where it's like yeah,

813
00:38:44,400 --> 00:38:47,440
Speaker 2: my man bottom and he's holding them and I'm walking. Yeah,

814
00:38:48,480 --> 00:38:49,600
Speaker 2: Like what do you mean.

815
00:38:51,160 --> 00:38:52,000
Speaker 3: It's fifty fifty?

816
00:38:52,120 --> 00:38:52,440
Speaker 4: Okay?

817
00:38:53,280 --> 00:38:57,440
Speaker 2: Defending her in public disagreements bare minimum.

818
00:38:57,200 --> 00:39:03,680
Speaker 3: Or defending her pup like bare minimum, Like you better.

819
00:39:03,520 --> 00:39:07,920
Speaker 2: Defend even I think too. A big thing that I

820
00:39:07,960 --> 00:39:11,040
Speaker 2: agree with is if you have opposing opinions with your

821
00:39:11,480 --> 00:39:14,040
Speaker 2: man or your girl and you're in public, like you

822
00:39:14,040 --> 00:39:16,880
Speaker 2: should never like fight them on that in public. I

823
00:39:16,880 --> 00:39:19,439
Speaker 2: think it's like, okay, cool, Yeah, that's what he thinks

824
00:39:19,480 --> 00:39:24,440
Speaker 2: or that's what she thinks. Celebrating monthly anniversaries bare minimum.

825
00:39:24,520 --> 00:39:25,320
Speaker 2: Princess treatment.

826
00:39:26,200 --> 00:39:29,319
Speaker 3: That's princess treatment. Like I forget what day we meant,

827
00:39:29,560 --> 00:39:33,960
Speaker 3: I forget what day we got. We got to do this,

828
00:39:32,560 --> 00:39:34,680
Speaker 3: but we already.

829
00:39:34,440 --> 00:39:38,520
Speaker 1: Got Christmas, Valentine's your birthday Eastern?

830
00:39:38,800 --> 00:39:41,160
Speaker 4: Like what? Okay? So what anniversaryes?

831
00:39:41,160 --> 00:39:43,400
Speaker 2: Do you think people should celebrate only when they're married

832
00:39:43,640 --> 00:39:46,560
Speaker 2: or when they've been together for like a year.

833
00:39:45,280 --> 00:39:48,200
Speaker 1: The y'all been together for a year, y'all can celebrate that.

834
00:39:48,480 --> 00:39:52,560
Speaker 1: That's an accomplishment. And this this climate and day and time, Yeah,

835
00:39:52,600 --> 00:39:54,240
Speaker 1: we can go do something. We could take a little

836
00:39:54,239 --> 00:39:56,200
Speaker 1: trip like there, you know, we've been got a year.

837
00:39:56,239 --> 00:39:58,560
Speaker 1: You know, I'm gonna take you so weird, right, yeah,

838
00:39:58,680 --> 00:40:01,440
Speaker 1: because we already got gonna say, there's so much holidays

839
00:40:01,440 --> 00:40:03,960
Speaker 1: for the woman, Valentine Day, we got to do something

840
00:40:04,239 --> 00:40:06,240
Speaker 1: Easter like Christmas.

841
00:40:06,280 --> 00:40:08,000
Speaker 2: Who has to do but the man?

842
00:40:08,360 --> 00:40:10,000
Speaker 3: The man?

843
00:40:10,280 --> 00:40:13,239
Speaker 2: What are you doing on Easter for your girl? That's

844
00:40:13,440 --> 00:40:16,560
Speaker 2: your kids. You're not doing nothing for your girlfriend on Easter?

845
00:40:17,000 --> 00:40:17,880
Speaker 2: That sounds crazy.

846
00:40:18,560 --> 00:40:19,600
Speaker 4: She gets to Eastern.

847
00:40:19,760 --> 00:40:26,560
Speaker 2: Basket, I'll get I'm crying, like the Eastern Rasket is crazy.

848
00:40:27,440 --> 00:40:29,839
Speaker 2: Booking my birthday is right next to Easter, too, so

849
00:40:30,480 --> 00:40:32,960
Speaker 2: it has to be ready for the birthday booking trips

850
00:40:32,960 --> 00:40:33,840
Speaker 2: together instead.

851
00:40:34,719 --> 00:40:36,000
Speaker 4: That's not even a good one.

852
00:40:36,200 --> 00:40:40,080
Speaker 2: Okay, Do you have any that you want to add?

853
00:40:40,880 --> 00:40:45,120
Speaker 3: Bare minimum or King treatment or King treatment. Right, let's

854
00:40:45,120 --> 00:40:50,960
Speaker 3: get to that bare minimum or King treatment, bare minimum

855
00:40:51,440 --> 00:40:57,480
Speaker 3: or King treatment. If your girl, if she running to

856
00:40:59,400 --> 00:41:04,120
Speaker 3: her ex and you out, he'd be like, hey, how

857
00:41:04,200 --> 00:41:05,200
Speaker 3: you doing? And he do this?

858
00:41:07,239 --> 00:41:11,880
Speaker 1: Bare minimum is what you're gonna do? Hug or speak

859
00:41:12,360 --> 00:41:15,200
Speaker 1: King treatment? Don't speak to him? Or bare minimum?

860
00:41:15,480 --> 00:41:16,080
Speaker 3: Have hug.

861
00:41:17,640 --> 00:41:23,520
Speaker 2: I think that's not even the question. That's the question,

862
00:41:24,400 --> 00:41:26,400
Speaker 2: like I don't even know how to answer that. What

863
00:41:26,440 --> 00:41:28,240
Speaker 2: am I gonna do? If I run into my ex

864
00:41:28,480 --> 00:41:30,759
Speaker 2: and I'm with my man and he tries to reach

865
00:41:30,800 --> 00:41:34,359
Speaker 2: for a hug, yeah, I'm gonna be like and I'm

866
00:41:34,360 --> 00:41:37,080
Speaker 2: gonna keep it pushing dap you up like I don't

867
00:41:37,080 --> 00:41:40,799
Speaker 2: have nothing to no gimm Yeah I'm giving a matter

868
00:41:40,920 --> 00:41:43,160
Speaker 2: of fact, my ex is know not to come up

869
00:41:43,160 --> 00:41:44,319
Speaker 2: to me and try to give me a hug.

870
00:41:44,320 --> 00:41:44,640
Speaker 4: Honey.

871
00:41:44,920 --> 00:41:48,200
Speaker 2: They gonna be looking at me, probably try to text

872
00:41:48,200 --> 00:41:50,719
Speaker 2: me calling I'm so sorry, I fumbled. I want you,

873
00:41:50,840 --> 00:41:52,879
Speaker 2: I love you. That's what they're gonna do. Don't even

874
00:41:52,960 --> 00:41:55,040
Speaker 2: look at me, come up to me. You're blocked, and

875
00:41:55,120 --> 00:41:57,400
Speaker 2: I don't like you. All my exes don't do not.

876
00:41:57,480 --> 00:42:00,160
Speaker 2: I don't play that my exes and everyone that you have.

877
00:42:00,160 --> 00:42:02,160
Speaker 1: Been in a situation to where you was out with

878
00:42:02,160 --> 00:42:05,000
Speaker 1: your man and you definitely seen your eggs, like, hey,

879
00:42:05,040 --> 00:42:07,880
Speaker 1: how you doing just half hundy in front.

880
00:42:07,680 --> 00:42:08,320
Speaker 3: Of your man?

881
00:42:08,520 --> 00:42:10,440
Speaker 2: No, I never did that. But I've been in a

882
00:42:10,440 --> 00:42:11,280
Speaker 2: situation where.

883
00:42:11,120 --> 00:42:11,719
Speaker 4: I for show.

884
00:42:13,480 --> 00:42:15,480
Speaker 3: Okay, you've been in a situation where ran into your ex.

885
00:42:15,560 --> 00:42:17,359
Speaker 2: I for sure been a situation where I ran into

886
00:42:17,400 --> 00:42:20,319
Speaker 2: my ex. I've told this story other thing. So yeah,

887
00:42:20,360 --> 00:42:22,000
Speaker 2: I've been into a situation where I went into a

888
00:42:22,000 --> 00:42:27,040
Speaker 2: private party at a bar, and because the girl that

889
00:42:27,160 --> 00:42:29,680
Speaker 2: was at the front looking at names remembered me as

890
00:42:29,760 --> 00:42:33,440
Speaker 2: his girlfriend. She was like, oh, you're good. And I'm

891
00:42:33,480 --> 00:42:35,200
Speaker 2: with some and they're like, oh, y'all are good. So

892
00:42:35,360 --> 00:42:37,640
Speaker 2: they're not checking me like it's a party list. It's

893
00:42:37,640 --> 00:42:41,200
Speaker 2: his private party. He rented out this joint. They let

894
00:42:41,239 --> 00:42:48,160
Speaker 2: me in, him in, and yeah, the man comes up

895
00:42:48,200 --> 00:42:48,360
Speaker 2: to me.

896
00:42:48,440 --> 00:42:48,840
Speaker 4: I told you.

897
00:42:48,880 --> 00:42:51,600
Speaker 2: It was just like, oh my god, this is God.

898
00:42:51,880 --> 00:42:54,320
Speaker 2: I've been calling you every day. You have me blocked.

899
00:42:54,480 --> 00:42:55,399
Speaker 3: Your man was right there.

900
00:42:55,719 --> 00:42:57,520
Speaker 2: It wasn't my man. I was just dating this person.

901
00:42:57,880 --> 00:42:59,399
Speaker 4: Okay, date on a date.

902
00:42:59,480 --> 00:43:01,759
Speaker 2: So they can't say nothing because it's like we're not

903
00:43:01,920 --> 00:43:05,600
Speaker 2: We weren't serious. We were on a date like maybe

904
00:43:05,640 --> 00:43:06,759
Speaker 2: like three four dates in.

905
00:43:07,280 --> 00:43:07,480
Speaker 3: Yeah.

906
00:43:07,600 --> 00:43:10,400
Speaker 2: It was embarrassing and I was like this is wild.

907
00:43:10,480 --> 00:43:12,960
Speaker 2: And he literally was like this is a coincidence. This

908
00:43:13,000 --> 00:43:15,600
Speaker 2: is God because I've been praying to have you here.

909
00:43:15,800 --> 00:43:16,600
Speaker 4: His mom is.

910
00:43:16,560 --> 00:43:20,880
Speaker 2: There, his whole family, everyone coming up to me, hugging me. Azarre,

911
00:43:21,040 --> 00:43:23,440
Speaker 2: we love you. Y'all are back together. We wanted you

912
00:43:23,560 --> 00:43:26,799
Speaker 2: And I'm like, wait, no, we're not. Yeah, so that's

913
00:43:26,960 --> 00:43:27,680
Speaker 2: awkward as hell.

914
00:43:28,160 --> 00:43:31,960
Speaker 4: Give you another one. Very minimum or Kings treatment?

915
00:43:32,480 --> 00:43:36,759
Speaker 1: All right, bare minimum or King treatment? You meet a

916
00:43:36,840 --> 00:43:41,320
Speaker 1: guy that night, y'all vibe and insist flowing conversation, that

917
00:43:41,400 --> 00:43:50,640
Speaker 1: is going bear minimum or King treatment? Have you ever

918
00:43:51,200 --> 00:43:52,719
Speaker 1: had sex on.

919
00:43:52,680 --> 00:43:54,840
Speaker 3: The first night?

920
00:43:55,840 --> 00:43:58,080
Speaker 2: Hold on, this is not.

921
00:43:59,600 --> 00:44:03,000
Speaker 3: Line. Sex on the first night is bare minimal or

922
00:44:03,120 --> 00:44:03,920
Speaker 3: King treatment?

923
00:44:04,200 --> 00:44:08,200
Speaker 4: That's King treatment. Sound stupid as hell?

924
00:44:08,520 --> 00:44:10,960
Speaker 1: How does that stunt? You never had sex on the

925
00:44:11,000 --> 00:44:12,320
Speaker 1: first night you met a guy?

926
00:44:12,760 --> 00:44:12,960
Speaker 4: No?

927
00:44:14,480 --> 00:44:14,800
Speaker 3: Why?

928
00:44:15,040 --> 00:44:15,360
Speaker 4: Okay?

929
00:44:15,520 --> 00:44:19,120
Speaker 2: Fine, yes, like I've never had no one could come

930
00:44:19,239 --> 00:44:22,319
Speaker 2: up front and say that, like I've never just did

931
00:44:22,360 --> 00:44:24,279
Speaker 2: that and was just like, Okay.

932
00:44:24,239 --> 00:44:26,000
Speaker 3: What's the most you've ever done on the first night.

933
00:44:26,480 --> 00:44:27,960
Speaker 2: I'm not talking about all of this.

934
00:44:28,080 --> 00:44:34,040
Speaker 3: I'm like, what if you ever had sex on the

935
00:44:34,040 --> 00:44:34,640
Speaker 3: first night.

936
00:44:35,280 --> 00:44:39,759
Speaker 2: I'm not sharing those I've definitely like, yeah, I made

937
00:44:39,840 --> 00:44:43,359
Speaker 2: out kissed once. This is once I did. I made

938
00:44:43,400 --> 00:44:45,839
Speaker 2: out with this man. I did make out with this

939
00:44:45,880 --> 00:44:48,719
Speaker 2: man on the first night. So I don't want to do.

940
00:44:50,680 --> 00:44:51,520
Speaker 3: On the first night.

941
00:44:51,760 --> 00:44:53,279
Speaker 2: I'm not getting into this now.

942
00:44:54,040 --> 00:44:56,920
Speaker 3: You don't get into it. It's no if you don't get.

943
00:44:56,800 --> 00:45:00,680
Speaker 2: Into this saying yeah, I was like kissing and we

944
00:45:00,760 --> 00:45:01,440
Speaker 2: did a lot.

945
00:45:02,040 --> 00:45:04,600
Speaker 3: Have you ever done anything sexual on the first night?

946
00:45:04,760 --> 00:45:07,960
Speaker 3: With a man. That's a yes. You see one of

947
00:45:08,040 --> 00:45:09,479
Speaker 3: MoMA Paul's that's a yes.

948
00:45:09,680 --> 00:45:16,560
Speaker 2: No, that's not what I'm saying. But I never because

949
00:45:16,760 --> 00:45:19,719
Speaker 2: like you could be like rub bare minimum or king,

950
00:45:20,960 --> 00:45:23,400
Speaker 2: what's the next one? I'm not doing this about to

951
00:45:23,440 --> 00:45:26,560
Speaker 2: do this today because you do this all the time,

952
00:45:27,280 --> 00:45:29,640
Speaker 2: because we've talked about this before. You love to get

953
00:45:29,640 --> 00:45:32,640
Speaker 2: into this. Kids, you have one more, We're gonna move on.

954
00:45:32,760 --> 00:45:33,319
Speaker 3: We can move on.

955
00:45:33,360 --> 00:45:36,400
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959
00:45:48,440 --> 00:45:51,440
Speaker 2: So basically, there's a viral meme that went meme that

960
00:45:51,480 --> 00:45:55,200
Speaker 2: went around and man it asked men to give women

961
00:45:55,560 --> 00:45:57,719
Speaker 2: one piece of advice when it comes to being with

962
00:45:57,800 --> 00:46:01,520
Speaker 2: a man and being in a relationship. So one example

963
00:46:02,160 --> 00:46:05,200
Speaker 2: is get a man said this. He said, give no

964
00:46:05,400 --> 00:46:09,759
Speaker 2: man second chances. We are fully aware of our actions,

965
00:46:10,040 --> 00:46:16,080
Speaker 2: we consider the consequences beforehand, and we still make that choice.

966
00:46:16,280 --> 00:46:20,920
Speaker 2: Do you feel like that's good advice? So a viral

967
00:46:20,960 --> 00:46:23,480
Speaker 2: mean went around They asked men to give women one

968
00:46:23,520 --> 00:46:27,120
Speaker 2: piece of advice when being in a relationship. One example,

969
00:46:27,160 --> 00:46:28,839
Speaker 2: and I can show you the thing. It's a bunch

970
00:46:28,840 --> 00:46:31,319
Speaker 2: of them, but one example. The first one is give

971
00:46:31,360 --> 00:46:34,680
Speaker 2: no second chances. We are fully aware of our actions.

972
00:46:35,160 --> 00:46:38,040
Speaker 2: We consider the consequences.

973
00:46:39,719 --> 00:46:41,359
Speaker 3: Like who are we talking about? The man or the woman?

974
00:46:43,160 --> 00:46:46,480
Speaker 2: The men are asked to give women one piece of

975
00:46:46,520 --> 00:46:50,879
Speaker 2: advice a woman this, A man is telling women. This

976
00:46:50,920 --> 00:46:54,680
Speaker 2: is their advice to women, give no second chances. We

977
00:46:54,719 --> 00:46:59,520
Speaker 2: are fully aware of our actions, we consider the consequences beforehand,

978
00:46:59,680 --> 00:47:01,520
Speaker 2: and we still make that choice.

979
00:47:03,120 --> 00:47:04,040
Speaker 3: That's bad advice.

980
00:47:04,320 --> 00:47:05,720
Speaker 2: Why do you think that's bad advice?

981
00:47:06,000 --> 00:47:13,200
Speaker 1: Because some men do things out of like impulsive behavior

982
00:47:13,239 --> 00:47:18,600
Speaker 1: because they mad or they going through something Like a

983
00:47:18,680 --> 00:47:21,960
Speaker 1: man could be going through something that they girl don't

984
00:47:22,040 --> 00:47:27,160
Speaker 1: understand and he reacted and did something that he don't regret,

985
00:47:27,440 --> 00:47:31,400
Speaker 1: like for real, like he probably did something he ain't like.

986
00:47:31,520 --> 00:47:33,920
Speaker 1: Men don't always be fully aware that their action is

987
00:47:33,920 --> 00:47:38,560
Speaker 1: not always women are more fully aware of their actions

988
00:47:38,680 --> 00:47:42,680
Speaker 1: when they do it. But a man be sometimes impulsive

989
00:47:42,840 --> 00:47:47,960
Speaker 1: on their decision based on an argument or or going

990
00:47:48,000 --> 00:47:50,760
Speaker 1: through it and like, no, it's not the same because

991
00:47:50,760 --> 00:47:51,520
Speaker 1: we are different.

992
00:47:52,560 --> 00:47:56,759
Speaker 3: We are completely different. And women.

993
00:47:58,400 --> 00:48:02,439
Speaker 1: When they do it. It's different than when a man

994
00:48:02,520 --> 00:48:09,200
Speaker 1: do it. I'm telling you it's an impulsive thing and

995
00:48:09,239 --> 00:48:13,280
Speaker 1: a man that's bad advice. Just period, that's bad advice

996
00:48:14,200 --> 00:48:16,400
Speaker 1: because men make more mistakes than women.

997
00:48:16,960 --> 00:48:25,479
Speaker 3: Mm hm, you know, and we we dumb.

998
00:48:26,360 --> 00:48:32,239
Speaker 1: We dumb because we we act on impulsive decisions and

999
00:48:32,360 --> 00:48:35,680
Speaker 1: do shit that we regret. When a women do it,

1000
00:48:35,760 --> 00:48:36,799
Speaker 1: they ain't gonna regret it.

1001
00:48:37,320 --> 00:48:37,919
Speaker 4: That's not true.

1002
00:48:38,040 --> 00:48:41,760
Speaker 2: No, No, you're not a woman. That's not true. Women

1003
00:48:41,880 --> 00:48:45,319
Speaker 2: regret things too. We're human beings. Women make mistakes and

1004
00:48:45,360 --> 00:48:46,160
Speaker 2: regret things.

1005
00:48:46,040 --> 00:48:46,680
Speaker 4: All the time.

1006
00:48:47,200 --> 00:48:51,239
Speaker 2: It's not lack of science. Like we're women, we have regrets.

1007
00:48:51,320 --> 00:48:54,480
Speaker 2: We have the same type of stuff. We are just

1008
00:48:54,719 --> 00:48:58,960
Speaker 2: more I think with a woman, like we consider things

1009
00:48:59,040 --> 00:49:01,480
Speaker 2: a lot harder, like like oh, I'm not gonna do this,

1010
00:49:01,560 --> 00:49:05,440
Speaker 2: like everything I do down to a picture you post

1011
00:49:05,480 --> 00:49:08,560
Speaker 2: on Instagram, you're gonna consider your man. And I think

1012
00:49:08,719 --> 00:49:13,239
Speaker 2: men they're more just self indulged, Like that's just how

1013
00:49:13,320 --> 00:49:16,280
Speaker 2: men operate for a lot of the time. Like most men,

1014
00:49:17,320 --> 00:49:20,000
Speaker 2: like women, when they mess with a man, their whole

1015
00:49:20,080 --> 00:49:23,120
Speaker 2: routine can come like be off and they'll like change

1016
00:49:23,160 --> 00:49:24,759
Speaker 2: their whole life for a man. But a man, I

1017
00:49:24,840 --> 00:49:27,359
Speaker 2: noticed and this is through the years. Men they don't

1018
00:49:27,480 --> 00:49:29,560
Speaker 2: change their stuff. They still gonna be going to the jail.

1019
00:49:29,560 --> 00:49:33,120
Speaker 2: They're not gonna miss a beat on their life. Women will, though,

1020
00:49:33,239 --> 00:49:36,480
Speaker 2: women will start they'll And that's why when women and

1021
00:49:36,560 --> 00:49:39,200
Speaker 2: men break up, a woman's whole life feels shadowed because

1022
00:49:39,200 --> 00:49:42,919
Speaker 2: she made her world like for the man. And that's

1023
00:49:42,960 --> 00:49:45,600
Speaker 2: why I think it's hard because men say, like, I

1024
00:49:45,640 --> 00:49:47,440
Speaker 2: want my women to be all about me. I want it,

1025
00:49:47,480 --> 00:49:49,800
Speaker 2: but that's such a big risk as a woman because

1026
00:49:50,080 --> 00:49:53,560
Speaker 2: you create this life around the man, and everything I

1027
00:49:53,600 --> 00:49:56,239
Speaker 2: do is surrounding that man, and then if we break up,

1028
00:49:56,320 --> 00:49:59,560
Speaker 2: my life is over. I have to rebuild and restart everything.

1029
00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:03,480
Speaker 2: I think that that's why women, when we make choices,

1030
00:50:03,800 --> 00:50:07,560
Speaker 2: we're more thinking more of like, this is the man

1031
00:50:07,600 --> 00:50:10,640
Speaker 2: I'm with, This, this person is like who I'm dealing with.

1032
00:50:10,680 --> 00:50:14,080
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna make silly mistakes because I'm not gonna

1033
00:50:14,120 --> 00:50:17,080
Speaker 2: jeopardize what I have. But I think, man, they just

1034
00:50:17,160 --> 00:50:18,600
Speaker 2: like y'all just do anything.

1035
00:50:19,440 --> 00:50:20,360
Speaker 4: And that's what I learned.

1036
00:50:20,400 --> 00:50:22,239
Speaker 1: This is what I got when you just said you

1037
00:50:22,320 --> 00:50:24,600
Speaker 1: said women build their life around the man.

1038
00:50:24,760 --> 00:50:26,120
Speaker 4: Right, Yeah, so man.

1039
00:50:26,080 --> 00:50:29,680
Speaker 1: Like, now when y'all break up or y'all go through

1040
00:50:29,680 --> 00:50:33,040
Speaker 1: something women to be like, oh, he's a narcissist. Oh,

1041
00:50:33,080 --> 00:50:36,360
Speaker 1: it's all about him. But you built your life around

1042
00:50:36,400 --> 00:50:39,920
Speaker 1: the man to where you want him to make it

1043
00:50:39,960 --> 00:50:42,439
Speaker 1: about him. So then when y'all break up, you say

1044
00:50:42,480 --> 00:50:47,080
Speaker 1: he's a narcissist, but you wanted me to be back, so, like,

1045
00:50:47,520 --> 00:50:48,560
Speaker 1: make it make sense.

1046
00:50:48,680 --> 00:50:50,840
Speaker 2: Not not all women do that. I think you always

1047
00:50:50,840 --> 00:50:52,200
Speaker 2: say this, So I don't know if that's something you

1048
00:50:52,239 --> 00:50:55,160
Speaker 2: went through, But honestly, that's not what all women say.

1049
00:50:55,200 --> 00:50:57,960
Speaker 2: I've done that before, and I haven't called never I

1050
00:50:58,000 --> 00:51:00,400
Speaker 2: talk on podcasts all the time. I've never called one

1051
00:51:00,440 --> 00:51:02,520
Speaker 2: of my ex narcissists. You never heard me say that.

1052
00:51:02,680 --> 00:51:05,080
Speaker 2: I've never did that, and I've done that with like,

1053
00:51:05,560 --> 00:51:08,160
Speaker 2: I don't think that. I don't believe in that. First

1054
00:51:08,200 --> 00:51:10,760
Speaker 2: of all, I think that word is just you so loosely.

1055
00:51:11,280 --> 00:51:13,600
Speaker 2: I think that man can be selfish at times. That

1056
00:51:13,600 --> 00:51:14,719
Speaker 2: doesn't mean you're a narcissist.

1057
00:51:14,800 --> 00:51:17,200
Speaker 1: But if you want to build your life around a

1058
00:51:17,239 --> 00:51:19,520
Speaker 1: man and you want him to make decisions and.

1059
00:51:19,480 --> 00:51:22,000
Speaker 2: You want him to like, that's not a narcissist.

1060
00:51:22,160 --> 00:51:25,000
Speaker 1: No, that's not about making decisions about like, like you

1061
00:51:25,040 --> 00:51:28,000
Speaker 1: want me to have the control. You want a man

1062
00:51:28,080 --> 00:51:30,080
Speaker 1: to like say all right, this is what we're doing.

1063
00:51:30,360 --> 00:51:32,279
Speaker 1: And then then you say, oh, you made it all

1064
00:51:32,280 --> 00:51:35,640
Speaker 1: about you at the end. But that's what you presented.

1065
00:51:36,360 --> 00:51:38,840
Speaker 2: I know, but you're talking about a specific situation, like

1066
00:51:38,920 --> 00:51:39,440
Speaker 2: I don't talk.

1067
00:51:40,320 --> 00:51:41,920
Speaker 3: That's what a lot of women do.

1068
00:51:42,520 --> 00:51:45,279
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, I don't know about that. I just feel like,

1069
00:51:45,360 --> 00:51:46,760
Speaker 2: at the end of the day, let's talk.

1070
00:51:46,600 --> 00:51:49,560
Speaker 3: About all your relationships. You made it about the man.

1071
00:51:50,360 --> 00:51:52,640
Speaker 2: I would say that a lot of them. I try to,

1072
00:51:52,920 --> 00:51:54,920
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. I tried to like cater

1073
00:51:55,000 --> 00:51:56,680
Speaker 2: to the man and do the things that I.

1074
00:51:57,000 --> 00:51:58,560
Speaker 3: Never called your exes a narcissist.

1075
00:51:58,920 --> 00:52:01,319
Speaker 2: You can look at every class clip I've ever had.

1076
00:52:01,360 --> 00:52:03,600
Speaker 2: I've never talked about my ex as a narcissist. I

1077
00:52:03,640 --> 00:52:07,279
Speaker 2: never called one of my exes a narcissists ever, Like

1078
00:52:07,520 --> 00:52:10,480
Speaker 2: not one time. Matter of fact, when I was single,

1079
00:52:10,600 --> 00:52:13,920
Speaker 2: I did years ago. I did a podcast with my

1080
00:52:14,040 --> 00:52:16,759
Speaker 2: ex and we literally sat there and talked about everything.

1081
00:52:17,160 --> 00:52:20,160
Speaker 2: I have a whole episode with my No, I'm not

1082
00:52:20,239 --> 00:52:20,680
Speaker 2: doing that.

1083
00:52:20,760 --> 00:52:22,359
Speaker 4: Why not? I'm not doing that.

1084
00:52:22,480 --> 00:52:24,000
Speaker 2: Do you want to bring your axes on the show?

1085
00:52:26,880 --> 00:52:27,200
Speaker 3: Why not?

1086
00:52:27,680 --> 00:52:29,879
Speaker 2: Okay, then you bring your axes on the show. I'm

1087
00:52:29,920 --> 00:52:33,040
Speaker 2: not bringing my axes on the show like I had.

1088
00:52:33,160 --> 00:52:37,359
Speaker 2: I had, I did a podcast, that's what am I

1089
00:52:37,400 --> 00:52:40,520
Speaker 2: healing with my ex? Like that sounds ridiculous.

1090
00:52:40,560 --> 00:52:43,919
Speaker 1: I'm like, have you ever had an ex to where

1091
00:52:43,920 --> 00:52:47,719
Speaker 1: you had a chance to say like you said the things.

1092
00:52:47,520 --> 00:52:48,400
Speaker 3: Where it went wrong?

1093
00:52:48,719 --> 00:52:51,400
Speaker 2: And so I'm telling you I did a podcast with

1094
00:52:51,440 --> 00:52:55,480
Speaker 2: my ex, me and him, We interviewed, like I interviewed that.

1095
00:52:55,680 --> 00:52:59,080
Speaker 2: We did a podcast episode a few years ago that

1096
00:52:59,280 --> 00:53:02,480
Speaker 2: and no, I don't fuck with my exes. I did

1097
00:53:02,480 --> 00:53:06,040
Speaker 2: that with him because like we were just freshly broken up,

1098
00:53:06,120 --> 00:53:09,880
Speaker 2: like and we just did it. But when him and

1099
00:53:09,960 --> 00:53:13,000
Speaker 2: I did it, like it was it was cool because

1100
00:53:13,239 --> 00:53:16,200
Speaker 2: he literally was just like he because people always like

1101
00:53:16,440 --> 00:53:18,920
Speaker 2: you're a da da da dah him, Like he was

1102
00:53:18,960 --> 00:53:21,440
Speaker 2: on there and he said things, but he never was

1103
00:53:21,520 --> 00:53:23,400
Speaker 2: like you thought I was controlling. You thought like I

1104
00:53:23,440 --> 00:53:25,560
Speaker 2: could literally show you the episode. Like I never called

1105
00:53:25,640 --> 00:53:28,120
Speaker 2: him a narcissist. I never said he was controlling any

1106
00:53:28,120 --> 00:53:30,880
Speaker 2: matter of fact. He was like you always were open

1107
00:53:30,960 --> 00:53:33,080
Speaker 2: to like if I'm like no, none of this, no

1108
00:53:33,200 --> 00:53:35,040
Speaker 2: d da da, like you would be open. You might

1109
00:53:35,080 --> 00:53:37,440
Speaker 2: say something, but you're not, Like I never tripped off

1110
00:53:37,480 --> 00:53:40,160
Speaker 2: those weren't our issues. Those were one of our issues.

1111
00:53:40,200 --> 00:53:45,400
Speaker 2: My issue was like are you cheating? Are you lying?

1112
00:53:45,719 --> 00:53:49,040
Speaker 2: Like once that's happening, I'm done, And then I left him,

1113
00:53:49,120 --> 00:53:52,680
Speaker 2: like I'm not doing that, but like, yeah, I left

1114
00:53:52,680 --> 00:53:55,600
Speaker 2: his ass. I'm not doing no cheatings and all this

1115
00:53:55,680 --> 00:53:58,120
Speaker 2: stuff like you're not because man don't understand when you're

1116
00:53:58,200 --> 00:54:01,359
Speaker 2: cheating and stuff that starts to the soft spot I

1117
00:54:01,400 --> 00:54:04,440
Speaker 2: have for you, it starts to go away because I

1118
00:54:04,520 --> 00:54:07,080
Speaker 2: don't feel safe. I don't feel like I could be vulnerable.

1119
00:54:07,160 --> 00:54:09,680
Speaker 2: I don't feel like I could just be like okay, babe,

1120
00:54:09,680 --> 00:54:11,160
Speaker 2: I want to listen to everything you say. I want

1121
00:54:11,200 --> 00:54:13,560
Speaker 2: to do this because I'm nervous now every second that

1122
00:54:13,840 --> 00:54:16,840
Speaker 2: I look like a fool, that I'm looking stupid, I

1123
00:54:16,880 --> 00:54:19,880
Speaker 2: don't feel good anymore. I'm losing respect for you. So

1124
00:54:20,040 --> 00:54:22,200
Speaker 2: now it's not fair for either one of us to

1125
00:54:22,200 --> 00:54:26,959
Speaker 2: stay in this relationship anymore because I don't feel the same. Damn,

1126
00:54:27,480 --> 00:54:29,560
Speaker 2: I don't feel the same, like I just don't. I

1127
00:54:29,560 --> 00:54:32,239
Speaker 2: don't feel the same anymore, Like after you know for

1128
00:54:32,320 --> 00:54:35,839
Speaker 2: a fact that a man is cheating on you, you can't

1129
00:54:35,840 --> 00:54:38,040
Speaker 2: feel the same after that, And when anyone would tell

1130
00:54:38,040 --> 00:54:40,719
Speaker 2: you that, like it's just you wouldn't feel the same

1131
00:54:40,719 --> 00:54:43,200
Speaker 2: about a woman. You just don't.

1132
00:54:43,280 --> 00:54:43,640
Speaker 4: You don't.

1133
00:54:43,760 --> 00:54:46,319
Speaker 2: You don't trust them, you lose respect, You're paranoid, you

1134
00:54:46,400 --> 00:54:48,520
Speaker 2: get you don't want to be vulnerable, you don't want

1135
00:54:48,520 --> 00:54:49,520
Speaker 2: to be open anymore.

1136
00:54:49,840 --> 00:54:53,560
Speaker 1: Have you ever been with your man and ran into

1137
00:54:53,600 --> 00:54:57,840
Speaker 1: a dude that you used to mess with and didn't

1138
00:54:57,880 --> 00:55:00,239
Speaker 1: tell him, Like.

1139
00:55:01,040 --> 00:55:05,160
Speaker 2: You asked this question on the last You always ask

1140
00:55:05,239 --> 00:55:07,360
Speaker 2: these same questions what is he?

1141
00:55:10,239 --> 00:55:12,600
Speaker 1: And then ran into a dude you had a sexual

1142
00:55:13,480 --> 00:55:16,000
Speaker 1: encounter with or relationship but didn't tell him?

1143
00:55:16,480 --> 00:55:16,719
Speaker 4: Yeah?

1144
00:55:16,800 --> 00:55:19,080
Speaker 2: Probably, I mean, like, I don't feel like you should

1145
00:55:19,120 --> 00:55:21,400
Speaker 2: have to tell every second, Like if the man's not

1146
00:55:21,440 --> 00:55:23,239
Speaker 2: coming up to me, he's not your homeboy, we're not

1147
00:55:23,320 --> 00:55:25,440
Speaker 2: around each other. Like, what is the point I had

1148
00:55:25,480 --> 00:55:28,560
Speaker 2: sex with him? That's just oversharing. I don't want the

1149
00:55:28,640 --> 00:55:30,960
Speaker 2: man to tell me I had sex with her, Like,

1150
00:55:31,040 --> 00:55:33,160
Speaker 2: don't bring her around me. I'm not hugging her. I'm

1151
00:55:33,160 --> 00:55:36,920
Speaker 2: not saying what's n If.

1152
00:55:36,760 --> 00:55:39,920
Speaker 1: Your man ran into a girl that he had sexual

1153
00:55:39,960 --> 00:55:42,680
Speaker 1: relationship with or relationship, would you expect him to tell him?

1154
00:55:42,719 --> 00:55:45,839
Speaker 2: No, if she's not in my vicinity, and like, you're

1155
00:55:45,880 --> 00:55:48,799
Speaker 2: not introducing if she's coming up to you and she's like,

1156
00:55:49,280 --> 00:55:51,520
Speaker 2: oh my god and hugging you and doing the most.

1157
00:55:51,600 --> 00:55:53,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, if she's doing the most, you expect them to say.

1158
00:55:54,000 --> 00:55:56,799
Speaker 2: But if she's if she's all over you.

1159
00:55:56,239 --> 00:55:58,000
Speaker 3: No, she ain't gonna be all over because you with

1160
00:55:58,080 --> 00:55:58,600
Speaker 3: your girl.

1161
00:55:58,960 --> 00:55:59,080
Speaker 5: No.

1162
00:55:59,160 --> 00:56:01,560
Speaker 2: People are crazy though. They don't realize sometimes that your

1163
00:56:01,600 --> 00:56:03,719
Speaker 2: girl is right there or whatever, and they come over

1164
00:56:03,800 --> 00:56:04,880
Speaker 2: and they BEHU want.

1165
00:56:05,000 --> 00:56:08,200
Speaker 1: To tell you, Like if he was like, mn, a

1166
00:56:08,280 --> 00:56:11,640
Speaker 1: girl come on to y'all out right, she came up,

1167
00:56:11,920 --> 00:56:14,280
Speaker 1: she came up to you. Hey, good to see you again.

1168
00:56:15,640 --> 00:56:18,359
Speaker 1: It's good to see you, man. I hope everything as well.

1169
00:56:18,560 --> 00:56:20,160
Speaker 1: Like if she says some things like.

1170
00:56:20,080 --> 00:56:22,680
Speaker 2: That, good to see you again as a woman, you

1171
00:56:22,719 --> 00:56:24,960
Speaker 2: already know.

1172
00:56:23,880 --> 00:56:27,800
Speaker 3: You know, you know like that you think he probably.

1173
00:56:27,600 --> 00:56:30,040
Speaker 2: Can mess with her, and it's like, I don't. I

1174
00:56:30,040 --> 00:56:31,799
Speaker 2: don't really care for you to have to tell me

1175
00:56:31,960 --> 00:56:34,240
Speaker 2: if it's just like not that deep, it's just like whatever,

1176
00:56:34,320 --> 00:56:36,480
Speaker 2: Like I don't need to add on the list of

1177
00:56:36,520 --> 00:56:38,480
Speaker 2: every woman and what type you had and who you

1178
00:56:38,560 --> 00:56:41,759
Speaker 2: was having sex with. You don't that's gonna yeah, that's

1179
00:56:41,760 --> 00:56:44,279
Speaker 2: just gonna feel like damn, Like now I have to

1180
00:56:44,280 --> 00:56:46,520
Speaker 2: see every type of girl you had sex with and

1181
00:56:46,560 --> 00:56:49,799
Speaker 2: what your type is, Like I don't want to know

1182
00:56:49,840 --> 00:56:51,920
Speaker 2: all of that sometimes, like people need to learn to

1183
00:56:51,960 --> 00:56:54,840
Speaker 2: have some like privacy. I don't care to know every

1184
00:56:54,880 --> 00:56:57,840
Speaker 2: person you slept with, Like I just don't you know

1185
00:56:57,920 --> 00:57:01,759
Speaker 2: what I'm saying, Like sometimes just I don't want to know. Honestly,

1186
00:57:01,880 --> 00:57:03,680
Speaker 2: I just don't want to know all the time. Now,

1187
00:57:03,719 --> 00:57:08,160
Speaker 2: if it's a situation where like she's being disrespectful for

1188
00:57:08,200 --> 00:57:10,600
Speaker 2: some of the da da da da da, Like cool,

1189
00:57:10,880 --> 00:57:13,840
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, Like, what's up? But a

1190
00:57:13,880 --> 00:57:16,720
Speaker 2: woman is gonna know, like you could feel the energy

1191
00:57:17,120 --> 00:57:19,800
Speaker 2: of how a woman approaches a man because we're women,

1192
00:57:19,960 --> 00:57:25,160
Speaker 2: we know, like and her energy of life. Yeah, like

1193
00:57:24,880 --> 00:57:26,760
Speaker 2: what Like there's women who come like I've been out

1194
00:57:26,800 --> 00:57:28,520
Speaker 2: with a man and like a girl comes up like

1195
00:57:29,440 --> 00:57:33,640
Speaker 2: hey hello, like we know what's going on?

1196
00:57:33,960 --> 00:57:35,920
Speaker 3: You think you know that? That's what that means?

1197
00:57:36,560 --> 00:57:40,040
Speaker 2: Yes, Like if a girl cares with Paul, Hello Paul,

1198
00:57:40,240 --> 00:57:42,560
Speaker 2: and that's for sure happened since I've been out and

1199
00:57:42,760 --> 00:57:44,960
Speaker 2: I've seen things, and I know in my head, I'm like, oh,

1200
00:57:45,000 --> 00:57:47,400
Speaker 2: he was probably messing with her or dealt with her

1201
00:57:47,680 --> 00:57:50,800
Speaker 2: or ghost at her something for sure, because she's you

1202
00:57:50,840 --> 00:57:54,200
Speaker 2: could tell when a woman she's just like, hey, hey,

1203
00:57:54,720 --> 00:57:57,320
Speaker 2: do you see me? Like, I don't know why women

1204
00:57:57,360 --> 00:58:01,919
Speaker 2: do shit like that, because I'm not approaching it's hater shit.

1205
00:58:02,320 --> 00:58:05,520
Speaker 2: But men don't realize the level of haterism that women do,

1206
00:58:05,640 --> 00:58:08,480
Speaker 2: like doctor Sarah Fontino was talking about it and when

1207
00:58:08,520 --> 00:58:10,680
Speaker 2: she was on our pod. Men don't realize that, And

1208
00:58:10,680 --> 00:58:14,800
Speaker 2: that's why women get so upset with certain shit because

1209
00:58:14,840 --> 00:58:18,240
Speaker 2: you don't realize, like, women are such big haters when

1210
00:58:18,280 --> 00:58:20,760
Speaker 2: it comes to stuff like that, and they'll purposely plant

1211
00:58:20,840 --> 00:58:24,200
Speaker 2: seeds or say little slick shit or say a little

1212
00:58:24,320 --> 00:58:27,959
Speaker 2: like oh da da, Like they'll do that all the time,

1213
00:58:28,000 --> 00:58:30,840
Speaker 2: and as a woman, we peep that and we know like, oh,

1214
00:58:30,920 --> 00:58:32,840
Speaker 2: you're trying to be slick or you're trying to or

1215
00:58:32,880 --> 00:58:36,080
Speaker 2: they'll specifically be like, oh, this has happened. For sure,

1216
00:58:37,040 --> 00:58:39,600
Speaker 2: I won't be like, oh, I had no idea he

1217
00:58:39,680 --> 00:58:43,240
Speaker 2: had a boy a girlfriend. I had no idea, Like

1218
00:58:43,280 --> 00:58:45,400
Speaker 2: he never talks about it, like I would have never

1219
00:58:45,520 --> 00:58:49,400
Speaker 2: known he was in a relationship. What are you saying

1220
00:58:49,400 --> 00:58:51,520
Speaker 2: that for? Because you want someone to feel a way

1221
00:58:51,600 --> 00:58:54,800
Speaker 2: that your man is out here not looking like he's

1222
00:58:54,840 --> 00:58:57,880
Speaker 2: in a relationship. That's happened to me with my recent relationship.

1223
00:58:57,960 --> 00:59:00,280
Speaker 2: Like people do that all the time, and they make

1224
00:59:00,360 --> 00:59:02,480
Speaker 2: you feel they want to make you feel a way,

1225
00:59:02,800 --> 00:59:05,040
Speaker 2: and they want to plant that seed in your head.

1226
00:59:05,080 --> 00:59:08,960
Speaker 2: That is something weird going on for one hundred and

1227
00:59:08,960 --> 00:59:10,960
Speaker 2: it's like, I know all the tricks in the books.

1228
00:59:10,960 --> 00:59:12,360
Speaker 2: We heard you cannot play with me.

1229
00:59:12,760 --> 00:59:16,960
Speaker 3: How do you react to like you out with your dude?

1230
00:59:17,480 --> 00:59:19,120
Speaker 2: You love this, You out with your dude, go.

1231
00:59:19,120 --> 00:59:24,880
Speaker 3: Ahead, and then y'all go to like a spot and

1232
00:59:24,920 --> 00:59:25,520
Speaker 3: then it'd be.

1233
00:59:25,560 --> 00:59:27,800
Speaker 2: Like, oh, hey, it's good.

1234
00:59:27,600 --> 00:59:32,000
Speaker 3: Like like the girl know the god, Yeah, you see

1235
00:59:32,000 --> 00:59:34,280
Speaker 3: her with a girl. He'd be like, hey, how you doing.

1236
00:59:34,320 --> 00:59:36,560
Speaker 3: It's good to see you again, but you never saw

1237
00:59:36,600 --> 00:59:37,120
Speaker 3: her before?

1238
00:59:37,840 --> 00:59:40,640
Speaker 2: Like yeah, that's blowing me. I don't like that.

1239
00:59:41,120 --> 00:59:44,400
Speaker 4: I don't like, hey, oh it's good to see you again.

1240
00:59:44,480 --> 00:59:49,640
Speaker 4: I remember y'all is here yeah to me, and I don't. Yeah.

1241
00:59:49,720 --> 00:59:52,840
Speaker 2: I get so irritated by that, and I'm gonna be

1242
00:59:52,880 --> 00:59:55,919
Speaker 2: like what see, Like I'm really not the one because

1243
00:59:55,960 --> 00:59:59,120
Speaker 2: I will be like, so we saw him where you

1244
00:59:59,120 --> 01:00:02,480
Speaker 2: don't want to play with me because they're destructed. But

1245
01:00:02,560 --> 01:00:04,360
Speaker 2: you know what men do that? I notice that, man

1246
01:00:04,440 --> 01:00:06,520
Speaker 2: do I was just talking about this with my homegirl.

1247
01:00:06,960 --> 01:00:09,760
Speaker 2: I noticed this. Men love to do this and they

1248
01:00:09,760 --> 01:00:12,800
Speaker 2: don't think we notice this shit. Right, you'll be out

1249
01:00:13,880 --> 01:00:16,440
Speaker 2: and they'll be like multiple women chopping it up with

1250
01:00:16,520 --> 01:00:20,200
Speaker 2: your man, right, and you'll be right there, no introduction,

1251
01:00:20,320 --> 01:00:23,160
Speaker 2: no nothing. But when a man comes around, oh this

1252
01:00:23,200 --> 01:00:24,800
Speaker 2: is da da da da, this is da da da

1253
01:00:24,840 --> 01:00:27,400
Speaker 2: da dah. But they will not introduce you to the women.

1254
01:00:27,760 --> 01:00:30,000
Speaker 2: And I noticed that when men men do that because

1255
01:00:30,000 --> 01:00:31,760
Speaker 2: my homework was just telling me that. She was like,

1256
01:00:31,920 --> 01:00:33,400
Speaker 2: should I be offended by that? I was like, you

1257
01:00:33,480 --> 01:00:35,560
Speaker 2: know what I know about that too, Like men do

1258
01:00:35,600 --> 01:00:38,160
Speaker 2: that a lot. I don't know if it's subconsciously y'all

1259
01:00:38,200 --> 01:00:41,520
Speaker 2: don't even realize the women, but the introduce you to

1260
01:00:41,640 --> 01:00:43,880
Speaker 2: all the men, but they'll be chopping with a woman

1261
01:00:43,920 --> 01:00:46,440
Speaker 2: for thirty minutes and not even be like, oh, this

1262
01:00:46,480 --> 01:00:49,440
Speaker 2: is my girl, Lazar, this is d like.

1263
01:00:49,560 --> 01:00:53,320
Speaker 3: You expect every girl that comes up, No.

1264
01:00:53,240 --> 01:00:55,960
Speaker 2: Not every girl, but I will. I do notice the

1265
01:00:55,960 --> 01:00:58,000
Speaker 2: difference that, like when men come up, it's like, oh,

1266
01:00:58,000 --> 01:01:00,480
Speaker 2: this is my girl, but when a woman is around,

1267
01:01:00,720 --> 01:01:04,280
Speaker 2: and it's not every girl. But it's also like if

1268
01:01:04,320 --> 01:01:07,520
Speaker 2: you're around for a minute and y'all are chopping, you

1269
01:01:07,600 --> 01:01:11,040
Speaker 2: still ain't made an introduction. That's weird one hundred percent.

1270
01:01:11,360 --> 01:01:14,240
Speaker 2: It's like it's rude, it's rude, it's real with them.

1271
01:01:14,600 --> 01:01:14,960
Speaker 4: I don't know.

1272
01:01:14,960 --> 01:01:16,160
Speaker 2: I don't think you want to say I don't know,

1273
01:01:16,520 --> 01:01:18,520
Speaker 2: don't say that because you don't know that that's the case,

1274
01:01:18,560 --> 01:01:19,560
Speaker 2: because I've seen.

1275
01:01:19,360 --> 01:01:20,840
Speaker 3: That happen a lot.

1276
01:01:20,200 --> 01:01:24,520
Speaker 2: Though you just think it's disrespectful. You just feel like, damn,

1277
01:01:24,760 --> 01:01:27,560
Speaker 2: like I'm standing right here for ten minutes and you're

1278
01:01:27,640 --> 01:01:29,040
Speaker 2: chopping say.

1279
01:01:28,960 --> 01:01:31,200
Speaker 3: This is my girl or this is your name?

1280
01:01:31,960 --> 01:01:34,480
Speaker 2: Well either or, but you should make a different introduction,

1281
01:01:34,720 --> 01:01:36,720
Speaker 2: or you should make it known. For a man, you

1282
01:01:36,720 --> 01:01:38,479
Speaker 2: should want to say that this is my girl because

1283
01:01:38,480 --> 01:01:40,280
Speaker 2: you don't want that woman to say something crazy in

1284
01:01:40,280 --> 01:01:42,520
Speaker 2: front of her, Like I like to make it know,

1285
01:01:42,720 --> 01:01:43,760
Speaker 2: like you should make it known.

1286
01:01:44,000 --> 01:01:46,240
Speaker 3: This is like if you say, this is my man,

1287
01:01:46,320 --> 01:01:47,760
Speaker 3: so don't say nothing.

1288
01:01:47,920 --> 01:01:49,840
Speaker 2: It's not like don't say nothing.

1289
01:01:50,120 --> 01:01:54,800
Speaker 3: Hey, hey, hey, this is my bad like to say that, like.

1290
01:01:54,800 --> 01:01:57,640
Speaker 2: You think it's a respect thing though too like for me,

1291
01:01:58,600 --> 01:02:00,920
Speaker 2: but for me with a man, I feel like because

1292
01:02:00,960 --> 01:02:03,400
Speaker 2: men are man, it's like always like with women, it's like, oh,

1293
01:02:03,400 --> 01:02:05,280
Speaker 2: this is my man, this is my man. But I

1294
01:02:05,320 --> 01:02:08,520
Speaker 2: think when man, like I and I'm telling you this

1295
01:02:08,600 --> 01:02:10,720
Speaker 2: is like across the board with my homegirls, like men

1296
01:02:10,800 --> 01:02:13,320
Speaker 2: do this, Like I'm telling you, you'll peep it. Like

1297
01:02:13,600 --> 01:02:15,760
Speaker 2: they will not introduce you to the women, but they'll

1298
01:02:15,800 --> 01:02:17,640
Speaker 2: always be like, this is my girl. If it's a man,

1299
01:02:18,120 --> 01:02:20,480
Speaker 2: and it's like what is that? That's weird to me,

1300
01:02:20,520 --> 01:02:22,480
Speaker 2: And then a woman will literally come out their way

1301
01:02:22,520 --> 01:02:25,120
Speaker 2: and be like, oh so sorry, nice to meet you.

1302
01:02:25,440 --> 01:02:28,000
Speaker 2: I know him because of this and okay, nice to

1303
01:02:28,040 --> 01:02:31,440
Speaker 2: meet you. Like men do that all the time, all

1304
01:02:31,440 --> 01:02:33,160
Speaker 2: the time. I don't know why y'all do that. It's

1305
01:02:33,440 --> 01:02:45,280
Speaker 2: crazy to me. No, okay, okay, so okay, so.

1306
01:02:47,320 --> 01:02:47,760
Speaker 3: Good stuff.

1307
01:02:47,880 --> 01:02:52,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, so this is a this is something that I

1308
01:02:52,040 --> 01:02:57,200
Speaker 2: do agree with. Why do men label Latina angry as sexy,

1309
01:02:57,320 --> 01:03:00,800
Speaker 2: like she's spicy, she's sexy, But when black women are angry,

1310
01:03:00,840 --> 01:03:05,320
Speaker 2: it's ghetto or aggressive? And I do believe that they

1311
01:03:05,920 --> 01:03:08,680
Speaker 2: And this was like really viral on Instagram, like this

1312
01:03:08,760 --> 01:03:11,360
Speaker 2: man said this is funny because a Mexican man said

1313
01:03:11,400 --> 01:03:15,360
Speaker 2: it and he was like, it's crazy that Latino women ooh,

1314
01:03:15,440 --> 01:03:19,280
Speaker 2: she's spicy, she's elder that, like they're always spicy or

1315
01:03:19,400 --> 01:03:22,120
Speaker 2: sexy and when they're like angry, because they we have

1316
01:03:22,160 --> 01:03:26,880
Speaker 2: an attitude. Like globally everyone knows this, and so it's like, oh,

1317
01:03:26,920 --> 01:03:29,360
Speaker 2: they're spicy, they're sexy. But then when a black woman

1318
01:03:29,440 --> 01:03:32,680
Speaker 2: has an attitude, it's like, oh, you're angry, you're aggressive,

1319
01:03:32,760 --> 01:03:35,160
Speaker 2: you're ghetto, Like what is that?

1320
01:03:35,920 --> 01:03:42,040
Speaker 1: Well, the black woman's attitude is different from other attitudes

1321
01:03:42,840 --> 01:03:45,800
Speaker 1: because black women don't hold back.

1322
01:03:47,120 --> 01:03:48,560
Speaker 2: No, Latino women don't hold back.

1323
01:03:48,600 --> 01:03:50,320
Speaker 3: Well, Latino women.

1324
01:03:50,560 --> 01:03:53,640
Speaker 2: They don't hold back. They'll throw a whole zapato at you,

1325
01:03:53,760 --> 01:03:57,400
Speaker 2: a shoe like, they don't hold back. I've seen it firsthand.

1326
01:03:57,840 --> 01:03:59,760
Speaker 3: Like I don't know what that is.

1327
01:04:00,040 --> 01:04:03,240
Speaker 2: I've seen it firsthand, Like they'll be angry, they'll say

1328
01:04:03,280 --> 01:04:06,000
Speaker 2: all type of stuff to you, they'll be disrespectful, and

1329
01:04:06,040 --> 01:04:08,840
Speaker 2: it's like, ooh, she's spicy.

1330
01:04:07,880 --> 01:04:09,320
Speaker 3: That's spicy. That's ghetto too.

1331
01:04:09,760 --> 01:04:12,000
Speaker 2: But that's what I'm saying. It's labeled when you do.

1332
01:04:11,960 --> 01:04:14,000
Speaker 1: It in public. I don't care what race you are,

1333
01:04:14,080 --> 01:04:17,320
Speaker 1: that's ghetto. Like, don't do it in public. Let's let's

1334
01:04:17,320 --> 01:04:19,800
Speaker 1: handle this in a private matter. If we in a

1335
01:04:19,880 --> 01:04:23,680
Speaker 1: situation that's ghetto where the white black Latino, that's ghetto

1336
01:04:23,720 --> 01:04:28,080
Speaker 1: to me, You being ghetto regardless, it ain't no race

1337
01:04:28,120 --> 01:04:29,120
Speaker 1: on this.

1338
01:04:29,120 --> 01:04:32,280
Speaker 2: This is like but I'm not saying that, but I'm saying, like,

1339
01:04:32,840 --> 01:04:36,960
Speaker 2: it's a it's a well known thing that Latino women.

1340
01:04:37,040 --> 01:04:39,280
Speaker 2: It's like, oh, they're spicy and they're this. That's how

1341
01:04:39,280 --> 01:04:40,959
Speaker 2: they get labeled and black women are.

1342
01:04:42,520 --> 01:04:45,680
Speaker 1: Because a Latino woman will get spicy with you and

1343
01:04:45,720 --> 01:04:49,440
Speaker 1: then take you home and take you down, whereas a

1344
01:04:49,480 --> 01:04:52,800
Speaker 1: Black woman will get ghetto with you and it's gonna

1345
01:04:52,800 --> 01:04:55,160
Speaker 1: be an issued or y'all really gonna be fighting all night.

1346
01:04:55,880 --> 01:04:58,760
Speaker 1: I think the Latino women are gonna get spicy and

1347
01:04:58,760 --> 01:05:00,600
Speaker 1: it's gonna turn into a sexual situation.

1348
01:05:01,080 --> 01:05:04,400
Speaker 2: I think that you are justifying it, and that's not right.

1349
01:05:04,680 --> 01:05:05,000
Speaker 4: I think.

1350
01:05:05,400 --> 01:05:08,800
Speaker 1: I don't know, I just feel like that I'm going

1351
01:05:08,840 --> 01:05:09,280
Speaker 1: off for him.

1352
01:05:09,280 --> 01:05:11,160
Speaker 3: I'm not going for my experience because I don't I

1353
01:05:11,280 --> 01:05:14,360
Speaker 3: have never experience that with a Latino woman to where

1354
01:05:14,400 --> 01:05:17,800
Speaker 3: I'm just thinking, like, you know, Latino women as a

1355
01:05:17,840 --> 01:05:20,800
Speaker 3: culture are known to be the most sexual women as

1356
01:05:20,840 --> 01:05:27,280
Speaker 3: a culture, they are, whereas Black women as a culture

1357
01:05:27,680 --> 01:05:31,920
Speaker 3: are gonna stand on ten tolles with the attitude more so,

1358
01:05:32,840 --> 01:05:33,800
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying, they.

1359
01:05:33,800 --> 01:05:38,800
Speaker 1: Gonna they're gonna stand on ten I just think that's

1360
01:05:38,800 --> 01:05:41,160
Speaker 1: not it's not a judgment. It's just no, it's just

1361
01:05:41,200 --> 01:05:44,440
Speaker 1: like like homeboy, I'm gonna let you let it know,

1362
01:05:44,760 --> 01:05:46,760
Speaker 1: and we ain't about we ain't about to get into nothing.

1363
01:05:46,800 --> 01:05:49,280
Speaker 1: After we get into it, well, I think a Latino

1364
01:05:49,280 --> 01:05:51,400
Speaker 1: women gonna they gonna like argue and may get it.

1365
01:05:51,760 --> 01:05:54,480
Speaker 1: It might turn into like end of the night cool

1366
01:05:54,960 --> 01:05:57,600
Speaker 1: mm hmm. That's the only thing I don't know. I'm

1367
01:05:57,640 --> 01:06:01,400
Speaker 1: just maybe just guessing. That's the only thing I can

1368
01:06:01,560 --> 01:06:04,640
Speaker 1: explain for this situation. But other than that, I think

1369
01:06:05,280 --> 01:06:08,000
Speaker 1: gettle to me, whether it's black, white, it's all gettle

1370
01:06:08,040 --> 01:06:10,880
Speaker 1: to me. If you're doing the shit out in public, like,

1371
01:06:10,960 --> 01:06:12,000
Speaker 1: don't do that.

1372
01:06:12,320 --> 01:06:14,280
Speaker 2: We're not even talking about in public, we're talking about

1373
01:06:14,320 --> 01:06:18,080
Speaker 2: in general. I feel like women, black women get scrutinized

1374
01:06:18,320 --> 01:06:24,000
Speaker 2: and everything that we can't do nothing because it's gonna

1375
01:06:24,040 --> 01:06:26,920
Speaker 2: be judged as, oh, she's aggressive, she's angry, and I'm

1376
01:06:27,040 --> 01:06:29,000
Speaker 2: not gonna because people get mad when I speak as

1377
01:06:29,000 --> 01:06:29,600
Speaker 2: a black.

1378
01:06:29,480 --> 01:06:31,880
Speaker 3: Woman at funeral is judged differently.

1379
01:06:31,680 --> 01:06:34,640
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. I get that, and I feel like, again,

1380
01:06:34,680 --> 01:06:36,640
Speaker 2: people get mad when I speak as a black woman.

1381
01:06:36,680 --> 01:06:40,040
Speaker 2: I understand I'm not fully black, I'm mixed and I

1382
01:06:40,040 --> 01:06:41,520
Speaker 2: don't get always viewed as.

1383
01:06:41,360 --> 01:06:42,040
Speaker 4: A black woman.

1384
01:06:42,280 --> 01:06:43,360
Speaker 2: I get it.

1385
01:06:44,120 --> 01:06:46,160
Speaker 3: So whatever, Well you don't understand.

1386
01:06:46,240 --> 01:06:48,760
Speaker 1: Just like I said, black women and black men are

1387
01:06:48,880 --> 01:06:52,240
Speaker 1: viewed differently in society than all the other races. Where

1388
01:06:52,240 --> 01:06:54,520
Speaker 1: we can act the same as her, you can act

1389
01:06:54,560 --> 01:06:56,520
Speaker 1: the same as him, but they're gonna look at us

1390
01:06:56,640 --> 01:06:59,600
Speaker 1: different and look at it as something different. And that's

1391
01:06:59,680 --> 01:07:01,800
Speaker 1: just what it is. That's what we have to live with.

1392
01:07:02,240 --> 01:07:04,640
Speaker 1: Like people walk around black people and just get scared

1393
01:07:05,320 --> 01:07:07,400
Speaker 1: that black men and women they just go because us

1394
01:07:07,520 --> 01:07:10,920
Speaker 1: as a race are just judged that way. And it's unfair,

1395
01:07:11,880 --> 01:07:16,200
Speaker 1: very unfair. But that's just how we are as a society.

1396
01:07:18,120 --> 01:07:20,360
Speaker 1: And it's nothing we can do about it. You know,

1397
01:07:20,440 --> 01:07:21,200
Speaker 1: we're labeled.

1398
01:07:21,640 --> 01:07:24,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, I just want us as a society like, don't

1399
01:07:24,600 --> 01:07:30,240
Speaker 2: have those even as black, a black man, your your

1400
01:07:30,360 --> 01:07:32,720
Speaker 2: definition and why you agree. You should have just said

1401
01:07:32,720 --> 01:07:35,040
Speaker 2: it's not right. I'm not saying you agree. Well you're

1402
01:07:35,080 --> 01:07:38,040
Speaker 2: gonna say they're more sexual, Like, no, it's fucked up.

1403
01:07:38,080 --> 01:07:40,320
Speaker 3: People just said culturally they're known to be that.

1404
01:07:40,320 --> 01:07:40,720
Speaker 2: That's fine.

1405
01:07:40,760 --> 01:07:41,680
Speaker 3: I didn't say that.

1406
01:07:41,800 --> 01:07:46,360
Speaker 2: But regardless, it doesn't matter. The dialogue should be it

1407
01:07:46,400 --> 01:07:51,320
Speaker 2: shouldn't be that it's all it shouldn't be that like

1408
01:07:51,440 --> 01:07:56,600
Speaker 2: here you're point like it's not like every other race.

1409
01:07:56,640 --> 01:07:58,920
Speaker 2: It gets to like they get the grace and then

1410
01:07:58,960 --> 01:08:01,080
Speaker 2: the black women are like, oh, like I saw a

1411
01:08:01,120 --> 01:08:02,960
Speaker 2: thing of a white man was like, I'll never date

1412
01:08:03,000 --> 01:08:04,920
Speaker 2: a black woman because their add to and they're fucked

1413
01:08:04,960 --> 01:08:07,120
Speaker 2: up in their this. And it's like that's crazy because

1414
01:08:07,160 --> 01:08:08,840
Speaker 2: there's a lot of black women that will just hold

1415
01:08:08,880 --> 01:08:12,440
Speaker 2: their man down. And then this is another thing black

1416
01:08:12,560 --> 01:08:16,280
Speaker 2: women be going through it culturally. Black men be putting

1417
01:08:16,360 --> 01:08:20,000
Speaker 2: Black women through it so hard. We be going through

1418
01:08:20,040 --> 01:08:24,280
Speaker 2: the paint with y'all, going through so many ups and downs,

1419
01:08:24,520 --> 01:08:27,160
Speaker 2: so much shit, and we be right here and I

1420
01:08:27,200 --> 01:08:30,479
Speaker 2: feel like a lot of the time that doesn't look

1421
01:08:30,560 --> 01:08:31,240
Speaker 2: good looks at.

1422
01:08:31,120 --> 01:08:34,920
Speaker 1: This is what I will say about black women. Black

1423
01:08:35,000 --> 01:08:37,720
Speaker 1: women are the most loyal.

1424
01:08:37,640 --> 01:08:40,439
Speaker 4: Women statistically to their own rights, this.

1425
01:08:40,360 --> 01:08:43,479
Speaker 1: Is what I will say. But they're the most loyal

1426
01:08:43,520 --> 01:08:49,120
Speaker 1: women to their men. And we are judged unfairly as

1427
01:08:49,120 --> 01:08:51,360
Speaker 1: a race and that's just what it is.

1428
01:08:52,120 --> 01:08:54,639
Speaker 3: But as a whole, I feel like the Black women

1429
01:08:55,040 --> 01:08:57,840
Speaker 3: gonna hold you down period.

1430
01:08:58,800 --> 01:09:00,759
Speaker 4: I feel that holds you down.

1431
01:09:00,880 --> 01:09:07,200
Speaker 1: Like I will say that, so like that's why you know,

1432
01:09:07,320 --> 01:09:12,160
Speaker 1: it'd be an issue when we see black strong men

1433
01:09:12,320 --> 01:09:14,519
Speaker 1: dating out a race, and that's why they frowned. But

1434
01:09:14,560 --> 01:09:16,400
Speaker 1: that's why we are frowned upon when we date out

1435
01:09:16,400 --> 01:09:18,080
Speaker 1: a race, because it's like, damn.

1436
01:09:18,720 --> 01:09:21,320
Speaker 2: Well, I think what happens is with the frown uponteta race.

1437
01:09:21,360 --> 01:09:23,519
Speaker 2: I don't think there's a problem dating outside your race.

1438
01:09:23,560 --> 01:09:26,639
Speaker 2: I think the problem stems from dating outside your race

1439
01:09:26,920 --> 01:09:30,639
Speaker 2: while simultaneously putting Black women down and saying that black

1440
01:09:30,680 --> 01:09:32,800
Speaker 2: women are this and that and that's why you're with

1441
01:09:32,840 --> 01:09:36,400
Speaker 2: this girl. That's the issue. Or a lot of the time,

1442
01:09:36,600 --> 01:09:39,160
Speaker 2: we'll see a black man be with a black woman,

1443
01:09:39,280 --> 01:09:41,639
Speaker 2: put her through hell in high water, She's been loyal

1444
01:09:41,680 --> 01:09:43,400
Speaker 2: to you, and as soon as he gets successful, leave

1445
01:09:43,439 --> 01:09:45,880
Speaker 2: and get with another race. Those are the things that

1446
01:09:45,920 --> 01:09:49,120
Speaker 2: we see as black women. But I will say I'm

1447
01:09:49,200 --> 01:09:51,439
Speaker 2: all for interracial couples. I think if you want to

1448
01:09:51,439 --> 01:09:54,559
Speaker 2: be with another race, love is love, and I get it. Shit,

1449
01:09:55,120 --> 01:09:58,040
Speaker 2: I'm not even mad at it because me, yeah, like,

1450
01:09:58,240 --> 01:10:02,479
Speaker 2: get with another race, honey. At this point we put

1451
01:10:02,479 --> 01:10:04,439
Speaker 2: each other through, we'd be such a gender war. We

1452
01:10:04,479 --> 01:10:07,840
Speaker 2: hate each other. Black Damn, if you go somewhere else

1453
01:10:07,840 --> 01:10:09,559
Speaker 2: to be loved, to go somewhere else and be loved.

1454
01:10:09,560 --> 01:10:11,439
Speaker 4: At this point, I don't give a damn I did.

1455
01:10:12,280 --> 01:10:19,200
Speaker 2: Okay, So anyways, let's do some fan questions. Okay, So

1456
01:10:19,600 --> 01:10:22,800
Speaker 2: if your partner keeps following and liking thirst Traps but

1457
01:10:22,880 --> 01:10:26,320
Speaker 2: says it means nothing, should it be taken seriously or ignored?

1458
01:10:27,600 --> 01:10:29,560
Speaker 3: I think that should be taken seriously.

1459
01:10:29,920 --> 01:10:32,719
Speaker 1: Like if you're in a relationship, you shouldn't be liking.

1460
01:10:32,800 --> 01:10:35,439
Speaker 1: And then you look at the girl, she's looking cracking, like,

1461
01:10:35,600 --> 01:10:38,479
Speaker 1: damn you like that because if a girl did it, see,

1462
01:10:38,479 --> 01:10:39,760
Speaker 1: this is what we have to do. We have to

1463
01:10:39,800 --> 01:10:43,160
Speaker 1: look at it and put ourselves in the woman's shoes.

1464
01:10:43,280 --> 01:10:45,640
Speaker 1: Because if she liking the man and he on Instagram

1465
01:10:45,640 --> 01:10:48,280
Speaker 1: flexing this muscle and sheking that is like he not

1466
01:10:48,439 --> 01:10:52,519
Speaker 1: like that. It's like damn, Like men have to put

1467
01:10:52,560 --> 01:10:56,840
Speaker 1: ourselves in the women's shoes more, Like, seriously, man, we

1468
01:10:56,960 --> 01:10:59,519
Speaker 1: gotta be better at that. We can't be just liking.

1469
01:10:59,600 --> 01:11:01,160
Speaker 1: I was just like and just look at it, like

1470
01:11:01,200 --> 01:11:05,240
Speaker 1: it's just something that's like on the outside, it's just

1471
01:11:05,240 --> 01:11:08,880
Speaker 1: something that's just kind of like not real or just

1472
01:11:08,920 --> 01:11:12,360
Speaker 1: not like a thing like that's like, don't do that,

1473
01:11:12,600 --> 01:11:13,759
Speaker 1: Like I don't want to be scrolling.

1474
01:11:13,800 --> 01:11:15,680
Speaker 3: I was like, oh, she liked this. He over here.

1475
01:11:16,280 --> 01:11:18,440
Speaker 3: He ain't like that, you know, he over inflexing.

1476
01:11:19,439 --> 01:11:21,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's crazy gat.

1477
01:11:21,840 --> 01:11:24,679
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I'm not like that. I'm out of shape.

1478
01:11:25,080 --> 01:11:27,479
Speaker 1: I'm doing this, And she's liking this musculer that's that

1479
01:11:27,640 --> 01:11:30,439
Speaker 1: mustling she liked, like, don't we have to be better

1480
01:11:30,479 --> 01:11:33,840
Speaker 1: at putting ourselves in and y'all shoes as women liked like,

1481
01:11:33,960 --> 01:11:38,160
Speaker 1: men don't just be don't do that. That's disrespectful, truthful,

1482
01:11:38,600 --> 01:11:40,080
Speaker 1: that's really disrespectful.

1483
01:11:40,120 --> 01:11:41,760
Speaker 3: So we have to be better at that. I don't

1484
01:11:41,880 --> 01:11:44,519
Speaker 3: like that. No, that's not good.

1485
01:11:45,080 --> 01:11:45,439
Speaker 4: Okay.

1486
01:11:46,439 --> 01:11:49,639
Speaker 2: How do you know the difference between a rough season

1487
01:11:50,200 --> 01:11:52,360
Speaker 2: in a relationship and the wrong person?

1488
01:11:54,720 --> 01:11:55,280
Speaker 3: How do you know?

1489
01:11:55,439 --> 01:11:59,400
Speaker 1: Well, you have to start lay looking at the red flags,

1490
01:11:59,439 --> 01:12:02,400
Speaker 1: Like the red flass are gonna tell you everything.

1491
01:12:03,120 --> 01:12:06,479
Speaker 3: Like a rough season is like damn, we went through it,

1492
01:12:06,600 --> 01:12:09,719
Speaker 3: and you know it's an isolated incident. But if it's

1493
01:12:09,800 --> 01:12:14,040
Speaker 3: always going on, Yeah, like come on, man, you gotta

1494
01:12:14,120 --> 01:12:16,880
Speaker 3: know the difference, Like you can't be blinded to the

1495
01:12:16,960 --> 01:12:21,120
Speaker 3: fact that them he keep making the same mistakes or

1496
01:12:21,200 --> 01:12:23,800
Speaker 3: she keep making the same mistakes and we blinded by

1497
01:12:23,840 --> 01:12:26,679
Speaker 3: love or we blinded by the sex or we blinded

1498
01:12:26,720 --> 01:12:30,400
Speaker 3: by whatever it is that we love the person for.

1499
01:12:31,160 --> 01:12:32,360
Speaker 3: You have to understand, like.

1500
01:12:34,080 --> 01:12:37,120
Speaker 1: What this is the thing we have to understand what's

1501
01:12:37,160 --> 01:12:40,519
Speaker 1: the difference between love and lust? Because there's a lot

1502
01:12:40,520 --> 01:12:43,360
Speaker 1: of relationships that's built on lust.

1503
01:12:43,640 --> 01:12:44,400
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.

1504
01:12:44,600 --> 01:12:49,080
Speaker 1: It's like, dude, we like we love each other because

1505
01:12:49,080 --> 01:12:51,680
Speaker 1: it's sexual. But like you know, at the end of

1506
01:12:51,680 --> 01:12:55,040
Speaker 1: the day that you look at like the values of

1507
01:12:55,200 --> 01:12:58,280
Speaker 1: the morals we have for one another, the like the

1508
01:12:58,520 --> 01:13:04,960
Speaker 1: real shit that's matters, you know what I'm saying, Like

1509
01:13:05,200 --> 01:13:07,639
Speaker 1: you have to start looking at it, like what really matters?

1510
01:13:07,680 --> 01:13:10,320
Speaker 1: Like what does he do to make me feel like

1511
01:13:11,600 --> 01:13:16,360
Speaker 1: I'm that girl or I'm that guy? Like if I'm

1512
01:13:16,400 --> 01:13:17,879
Speaker 1: on my deathbed or I'm.

1513
01:13:17,720 --> 01:13:18,479
Speaker 3: Going through it?

1514
01:13:18,640 --> 01:13:21,200
Speaker 1: How do they You have to look at those signs,

1515
01:13:21,800 --> 01:13:25,280
Speaker 1: like when we're going through it, how does he treat me?

1516
01:13:25,800 --> 01:13:29,320
Speaker 1: Like when we're dealing with a situation and a man

1517
01:13:29,360 --> 01:13:31,880
Speaker 1: who always he fuck up, he getting mad all.

1518
01:13:31,800 --> 01:13:34,519
Speaker 3: The time, it's like, like, why are you mad?

1519
01:13:35,040 --> 01:13:35,760
Speaker 4: I can't, I can't.

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01:13:36,080 --> 01:13:36,680
Speaker 3: Why are you mad?

1521
01:13:36,720 --> 01:13:39,600
Speaker 2: When someone is mad when they fucked up? That blows me.

1522
01:13:39,760 --> 01:13:44,719
Speaker 2: And that's my biggest thing about like you're bad because

1523
01:13:44,840 --> 01:13:48,439
Speaker 2: I'm hurt, like you did some shit to me that

1524
01:13:48,600 --> 01:13:51,280
Speaker 2: I'm trying to work through, Like that's gonna blow.

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01:13:51,120 --> 01:13:56,080
Speaker 1: Me, Like little things like that, and then you don't

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01:13:56,120 --> 01:14:01,160
Speaker 1: see the signs for real, like like like come on,

1527
01:14:01,800 --> 01:14:05,479
Speaker 1: like like I've seen some stuff on social media to wear.

1528
01:14:05,520 --> 01:14:07,479
Speaker 3: A dude called his girl and she was like what

1529
01:14:07,560 --> 01:14:10,680
Speaker 3: like got mad at him, Like wait, you you fucked up?

1530
01:14:12,320 --> 01:14:14,280
Speaker 3: Mad at she?

1531
01:14:14,360 --> 01:14:14,559
Speaker 2: Don't?

1532
01:14:14,800 --> 01:14:17,000
Speaker 1: She don't mess with you, though. You need to end

1533
01:14:17,040 --> 01:14:18,920
Speaker 1: it right there if you come back and you take

1534
01:14:18,920 --> 01:14:23,800
Speaker 1: her back like you you fucked up? Yeah, that ain't it.

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01:14:24,200 --> 01:14:24,599
Speaker 4: Okay.

1536
01:14:25,400 --> 01:14:27,639
Speaker 2: I'm dating a man and he says he's not ready

1537
01:14:27,640 --> 01:14:30,280
Speaker 2: for a relationship, but he still acts like my boyfriend,

1538
01:14:30,800 --> 01:14:32,160
Speaker 2: should I stay or leave?

1539
01:14:32,320 --> 01:14:32,639
Speaker 5: Leave?

1540
01:14:33,040 --> 01:14:35,120
Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you to leave a million times, Like what.

1541
01:14:35,120 --> 01:14:39,200
Speaker 1: You really want, you won't longevity, You just want something

1542
01:14:39,320 --> 01:14:42,000
Speaker 1: just to pass you by, or something that's just gonna

1543
01:14:42,040 --> 01:14:47,280
Speaker 1: be not permanent. Yeah no, no, no, like no, If

1544
01:14:47,360 --> 01:14:49,680
Speaker 1: that's what you won't get what you want, girl, move on.

1545
01:14:51,360 --> 01:14:52,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, I agree with that. I agree with that.

1546
01:14:55,160 --> 01:14:58,280
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, thank you guys so much for joining us

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Speaker 2: Paul got the feed out today, I got the hookahs vibes.

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1561
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01:15:54,680 --> 01:15:56,160
Speaker 3: This is the taking over the game.

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Speaker 1: All right, everybody, welcome to Truth after Dark.

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Speaker 2: Do you think that men or women are more toxic