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Speaker 1: I want two tickets to the super Bowl. My girlfriend's

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Speaker 1: very upset that I'm taking my brother and not her.

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Speaker 2: Super Bowl is a big deal.

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Speaker 1: Tickets, big, big old deal.

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Speaker 2: Big old deal. He always watched the Super Bowl for

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Speaker 2: the commercial.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I never actually watched. We never watched the game.

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Speaker 1: We left the room to go play Boulder Dash.

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Speaker 2: Is that they do that?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, at Alex's house, and then we came back for

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Speaker 1: the commercials because those are the oh and the halftime shows.

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Speaker 1: That's part Katie Perry halftime show I think was one

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Speaker 1: of the best halftime shows. Super Bowl tickets are currently.

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Speaker 2: Price eighty six thousand dollars eight six hundred dollars to

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Speaker 2: more than fifty thousand.

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Speaker 1: That's expensive.

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Speaker 2: That is.

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Speaker 1: I don't think I would ever pay more than one

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Speaker 1: hundred dollars.

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Speaker 2: On tickets, one hundred on any ticket.

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Speaker 1: No, her tickets are like six hundred to eight hundred dollars.

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Speaker 1: I will never be able.

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Speaker 2: To go ticket to Europe. I bet you paid for

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Speaker 2: one hundred dollars, you know, okay, I will.

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Speaker 1: I paid it was five hundred dollars. I will never

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Speaker 1: pay more than No, that's also a lot.

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Speaker 2: I will never pay go to London girl.

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Speaker 1: I didn't pay for that.

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Speaker 2: If no, no, no, I will make my brother pay for

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Speaker 2: anything over five hundred dollars.

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Speaker 1: I will never pay more than one hundred dollars to

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Speaker 1: go maybe one hundred and fifty dollars to go to

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Speaker 1: a concert and or play and or musical.

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Speaker 2: Okay, story tell.

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Speaker 1: So super Bowl throwaway one says, yeah, very on the ball,

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Speaker 1: on the point.

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Speaker 2: On points, that's funny. A couple of days did you

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Speaker 2: just say that's funny to yourself?

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Speaker 1: A couple of days ago, I won a trivia contest

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Speaker 1: that gave me an all expense paid trip for two

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Speaker 1: to the Super Bowl. WOA, nice job was the trivia?

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Speaker 1: As you could imagine, I was so yes, Nerd Tribua,

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Speaker 1: That's what I've been told. As you could imagine, I

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Speaker 1: was so excited. But it's gotten to the point where

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Speaker 1: I wish there was a way I could sell the

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Speaker 1: package and forget about it.

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Speaker 2: Oh.

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Speaker 1: My brother and I were together and decided to try

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Speaker 1: for tickets from this local contest. I was the official contestant,

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Speaker 1: but I actually ended up getting the answer I needed

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Speaker 1: from my brother. From that point, I never even thought

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Speaker 1: about who to take, since it was something we both did,

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Speaker 1: and he ended up actually giving me the answer. Of

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Speaker 1: course he was going to go.

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Speaker 2: Oh so he like his brother gave him the answer.

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Speaker 2: Oh I red. Yeah, he obviously deserves it. He was instrumental.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and they also talked about like doing it together.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I excitedly told my girlfriend, who didn't even know I

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Speaker 1: with my brother. She then got very upset that I

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Speaker 1: football fan, so it's clear she would love to go.

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Speaker 1: But my brother gave me the answer. How could he

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Yeah you Yeah, but he should have told her that

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Speaker 1: he was doing this. I think.

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Speaker 2: Trivia.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: But like, but like if you're at a raffle and

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Speaker 3: you're like, oh, I'm just gonna put in a dollar

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Speaker 3: and maybe I'll win five grand, Well they you have to.

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Speaker 2: I don't think it'll fly. You don't have to tell

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Speaker 1: No, but like she's a football fan, so maybe she

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Speaker 1: would have been right now. Yeah, after the fuck my

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Speaker 2: They want it together. Like I think if we were

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Speaker 2: we were playing like trivia together and it was like

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Speaker 2: would probably go together because we are we are both

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Speaker 2: entitled to the price.

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Speaker 1: I don't think it's a problem that he's taking his brother.

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Speaker 1: I think that's totally okay. I think maybe the fact

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Speaker 1: My brother said he would understand if I take her

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Speaker 1: and sees the problem that this is costing for me

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Speaker 1: and offered his ticket to her. That's really nice, but

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Speaker 1: I understand, No, no, that's my ticket. I gave you

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Speaker 2: Damn all right, where Sophia stands, I.

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Speaker 1: Didn't even tell her that he made this offer because

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Speaker 1: I don't think that's the point. I think she's being

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Speaker 1: selfish and putting a damper on the entire experience. I

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Speaker 1: told her all this, but she is not backing down

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Speaker 1: and said that if you win a trip for two,

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Speaker 1: it should automatically go to your significant other. I disagree

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Speaker 1: with that. I do disagree with that. I mean, especially

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Speaker 1: because he gave me the answer. Yeah, and it sounds

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Speaker 1: like they might have been, you know, talking about the

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Speaker 1: trivia contest prior to winning, like it seems like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: it seems like they were.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I don't think she's a titled.

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Speaker 1: Yeah no, no, no. Maybe that's true if it were

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Speaker 1: a romantic getaway or cruise. But this is something my

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Speaker 1: brother and I did together, and he's the reason I won.

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Speaker 1: I think she's being selfish, and she thinks I'm being

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Speaker 1: inconsiderate of her. I don't know who's right or what

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Speaker 1: to do. I wish I never won these tickets, because

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Speaker 1: no matter what happens, the entire experience has been marred.

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Speaker 1: I thought of giving the tickets to my brother and

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Speaker 1: because I want the tickets under my name, it has

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Speaker 1: to be me. How should I handle this?

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Speaker 2: Go with your brother, Go with your brother, red flag, total,

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Speaker 2: red flag two for the for the the same of another, honestly,

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Speaker 2: go with your brother. Break up with your girlfriend.

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Speaker 1: Damn whoa I think I think if I think, maybe,

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Speaker 1: don't break up your face break I think you should

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Speaker 1: see how she reacts to this information, and if she

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Speaker 2: But yeah, I was exaggerating a little bit when I

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Speaker 2: said you should break up, but I think, like, I

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Speaker 2: especially because he gave the answer.

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Speaker 1: So yes, yeah, I think needs one of these.

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Speaker 2: I would go with my brother, my sister. Thank you.

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Speaker 4: Fun fact.

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Speaker 3: If anyone ever is interested in what Super Bowl it was,

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Speaker 3: it was twenty sixteen Carolina Panthers. That's my that's my

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Speaker 3: a big thing because because it was the halftime show,

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Speaker 3: super halftime show. Oh that's all that matters. Full play.

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Speaker 1: Oh I remember that one?

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Speaker 2: I don't remember.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I remember that one. That one's a good one,

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Speaker 1: I think, right, I think it was a good one. Well,

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Speaker 1: there as relevant comments before we get into any updates.

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Speaker 1: Pretty dirt Murder says, you didn't win the tickets. You

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Speaker 1: and your brother won the tickets. The other ticket is his,

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Speaker 1: not yours to do with. Tell her that I agree.

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Speaker 2: I agree. Agree.

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Speaker 1: Oh pieces, I wish I had this when I told her,

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Speaker 1: but I didn't think it would be an issue. I

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Speaker 1: don't think I could reframe it at this point without

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Speaker 1: her seeing through it. She already knows the story. Another

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Speaker 1: person says, what's there to see through? Give her the

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Speaker 1: play by play. This was pertinent information from the beginning,

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Speaker 1: being throughout being thorough means she gets all the information

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Speaker 1: and gets to a well informed analysis of the situation.

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Speaker 1: Knowledge is power. Opie says she knew from the start

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Speaker 1: my brother gave me the answer. She knows we did

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Speaker 1: it together. She knows I already invited my brother. She

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Speaker 1: that I could theoretically choose someone else, which is the

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Speaker 1: window she needed to make a.

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Speaker 2: Full that's even bigger red.

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Speaker 1: Flat yeah about how it should be her. I don't

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Speaker 1: think I could reason with someone who said, if your

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Speaker 1: brother wanted to go, he should have won them himself.

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Speaker 2: He did, He did win them, They won them together.

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Speaker 2: It's just the fact that it's literally the only thing

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Speaker 2: is his name, that's it. So his brother could have.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I could have signed up, and then she would

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Speaker 2: Dude, whack, your girlfriend is kind of whack right, break

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Speaker 2: up with her?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Duremi fan sub says rock in a hard Place.

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Speaker 1: Does your girlfriend even like football.

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Speaker 2: We do know that.

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Speaker 1: If not, why the hell does she want to go?

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Speaker 1: Best plan would be to give up your chicket and

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Speaker 1: have your brother and wife go Opie says, I stayed

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Speaker 1: at this in the post. She does like football, so

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Speaker 1: she'd have a great time. I actually would love to

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Speaker 1: give them the tickets. But to put the mess behind me. Oh,

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Speaker 1: to put this mess behind me. But the tickets are

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Speaker 1: non transferable. If I don't go, no one does. Parla

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Speaker 1: Raza says, If I don't go, no one does, then

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Speaker 1: go and have a great time with your brother. Your

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree, I agree.

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Speaker 1: But there is an update.

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Speaker 2: Okay, my conspiracy theory theory.

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Speaker 1: Can you am me? Riley? Can you have me my

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Speaker 1: new conspiracy theory have please? They suck? They suck?

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Speaker 4: No, Riley, I'm sorry. There's a lot of wires trip

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Speaker 2: Okay, So my conspiracy is that she's going to break

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I think it's the beginning of you know, like when

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Speaker 2: a magician pulls out like one of those flags from it.

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Speaker 1: Like yeah, and it keeps going And I don't know if.

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Speaker 2: There's something that keeps going. That's a first red flag

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Speaker 2: of many, and it's just going to keep keep coming

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Speaker 2: through that. But let's get back in reality and see

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Speaker 2: what actually does happen.

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Speaker 3: Fun fact, the update is February sixth of twenty sixteen.

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Speaker 3: The super Bowl took place February seventh.

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Speaker 1: Oh is a day before.

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Speaker 2: That is interesting?

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Speaker 1: Yes, so right, Thank you Riley Research, Riley back at It.

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Speaker 1: Thanks everyone for the advice. It was very helpful. This

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Speaker 1: was a very stressful and long few days. I'm just

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Speaker 1: glad there seems to be a resolution. I tried talking

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Speaker 1: that she was more disappointed than controlling and would come around. Unfortunately,

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Speaker 1: she was being unreasonable. She said I could go, but

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Speaker 1: that doing so would hurt her a great deal, and

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Speaker 1: that she would need some time to reevaluate pole.

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Speaker 2: Oh so she's thinking about was a conspiracizing way. Correctly,

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Speaker 2: I think I was to get that's a red us

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Speaker 1: To use breakup language about your significant other taking their sibling,

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Speaker 1: like not just a friend, dude, I'm.

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Speaker 2: Going to choose my sister over you every single time.

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Speaker 1: That's so sweet, Thank you. I would choose you too,

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Speaker 1: I think, no, no, no, I think if anyone had a

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Speaker 2: You know, yeah, running around leaving scars?

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Speaker 1: So true, let's continue. I should have just ended things

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I told my girlfriend what I did and that

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Speaker 2: I couldn't spiorize correctly. Let's go. I mean, I'm not

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Speaker 2: You know, this sucks, but I kind of am you. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's so not okay, that's so not okay. I

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Speaker 2: Which is that that is the the you can't fire

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, no exactly, Well, like, no, you're fired don't quit.

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Speaker 1: Always get fired.

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Speaker 2: Always get fired. Pop on your boss's desk.

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Speaker 1: Interesting advice from Sam.

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Speaker 4: I no idea where your desk is? I don't even

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Sam, trying to get fired. My brother immediately told

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Speaker 4: I really wish I was there to like see that moment.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, bro, bro, bro, and thanks for giving me the ticket.

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Speaker 1: My brother's wife was totally cool about me using her

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Speaker 2: Oh wait ah, so they did get to go after it.

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Speaker 1: So okay. The wife was like, yeah, no, you definitely

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Speaker 1: I possibly can. Thanks everyone.

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Speaker 2: Wow. So it ended up as it should have.

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Speaker 1: It ended as it's.

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Speaker 2: I wonder if the again the brother saw all the

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Speaker 2: red flags of the girlfriends like thank god, yeah that

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Speaker 2: you do things. Has there ever been anyone that I

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Speaker 1: No, I don't think anyone was like glareringly like, oh

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I would say there's people that like, you know, there's

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Speaker 1: there's partners that I've liked more that you.

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Speaker 2: Know, top tierless? What's your tierless?

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Speaker 1: Really like Sophie Sophie? I think, yeah, like Arianna was

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Speaker 2: Nice to me, you know, so Sophie's top Yeah. I

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Speaker 1: Who you're Arianna?

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Speaker 2: Who's there three?

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Speaker 4: I don't remember, damn what about you? But hear them

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Speaker 4: I didn't like Patience.

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Speaker 1: You didn't like Pai patients, and I was proven right,

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Speaker 2: But you also like, wait why not?

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Speaker 1: I think we did different values?

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Speaker 2: Interesting?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, different values? I think what I don't.

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Speaker 2: Know what was there a reason why?

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Speaker 1: I just I don't know. It wasn't It wasn't like

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Speaker 1: I didn't like her, I like hated her and just

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Speaker 2: Wow bad as what? I like that? Okay, I like

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Speaker 2: that you didn't like one of our girlfriends.

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Speaker 1: Why.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I just because it kind of like

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Speaker 1: Yeah, oh, I mean for the most part, I did. Like,

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Speaker 1: I don't think any of your girlfriends were ever rude

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Speaker 1: And Patients was very respectful, like she always you know,

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Speaker 1: she took an effort with me. I just I think

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Speaker 2: Well now she's married to a fifty year married.

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Speaker 1: To a fifty year old, but you know, I think

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Speaker 1: Sophia yeah yeah, and Arianna was always always.

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Speaker 2: Very very thoughtful. Yes, ran her this morning.

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Speaker 1: Yeah no, no, she's like I think Ariana and Sophia,

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Speaker 1: like she sent me a very nice to text.

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Speaker 2: Mm hmm.

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Speaker 4: This is just yeah, she's very thoughtful girly text.

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Speaker 1: No, I was actually I changed my ranking for both

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Speaker 1: the fine Sophie and arian type.

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Speaker 4: You know what, I'm tied up about.

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Speaker 3: This next doory know what this next call?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Is anyone going to pick up at six thirty?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: Right, So my story is called today I've stumped by

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Speaker 6: going on a date with a guy who got arrested

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Speaker 1: During the date, I want I want that in Nashville, Tennessee.

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Speaker 1: So obviously that's why.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, all, yeah, yeah, I know exactly what happens in.

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Speaker 1: The jungle, the money jungle, the line.

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Speaker 2: Jeep, donight we move? We move? Hey, this is Sam

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Speaker 2: and Sophia from OKOP Can you hear us?

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Speaker 6: God?

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Speaker 2: How's the going.

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Speaker 6: A lot better? Now?

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Speaker 2: What have you been up to today?

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Speaker 6: I was at work for most of the day, and

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Speaker 6: I work at four tomorrow mornings, so I was trying

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Speaker 1: But oh so.

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Speaker 2: Sorry, sorry we woke you up or intruded on your slumber.

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Speaker 6: I was not actually asleep yet.

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Speaker 2: Okay, good, Well, we're gonna bother you some more because

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Speaker 2: we heard you have a story for us about a

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Speaker 6: Yeah, he just disappeared and never came back.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I want to I want to hear what actually happened.

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Speaker 2: But what was your name? Really quick?

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Speaker 6: My name's Natalie.

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Speaker 2: Natalie. Nice to meet you, Natalie. Okay, so tell me

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Speaker 6: So I actually met him at one of the like

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Speaker 6: karaoke night, okay. And he's staring me down this whole time,

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Speaker 6: and he's like whooping and hollering after I get done singing.

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Speaker 6: So I'm like, okay, he's interested. I walk over to him.

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Speaker 6: I started conversation.

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Speaker 5: Up.

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Speaker 2: Was he charming?

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Speaker 6: He was something? He's got a little bit of that

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Speaker 6: Southern charm? What can I say?

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Speaker 2: Okay, Big Protein is with us too, and he's been

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Speaker 6: Riley, I need to say, I am in love with you.

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Speaker 6: You can have my numbers.

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Speaker 4: Boy, I already got it.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, true, you got it?

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Speaker 2: Okay, So you he was hooping and hollering and what

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Speaker 2: happens from there?

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Speaker 6: Belligerently drunk at this point. But I was actually on

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Speaker 6: like another guy was coming to meet me or a

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Speaker 2: Met on the popular Okay, Okay, I.

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Speaker 6: Say that didn't work really, but we lost Wi Fi

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Speaker 6: Wi Fi for a week. We just got it back today. Actually, yeah,

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Speaker 6: I've been downloading Okay ope on on my phone to that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I love the dedication. Wait, so with this guy

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Speaker 2: that you that that was at karaoke, did you guys

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Speaker 6: So he texted me about a week after that night

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Speaker 6: and he says, all of my friends are down at

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Speaker 6: watching the ball. They're giving me nooners, giving you what neons? Highnons?

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Speaker 7: Oh?

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Speaker 2: No urs? Okay highnons?

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Speaker 5: Yes, yes, yeah, And about half of his friends leave

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Speaker 5: and he says, I'll walk you out to the uber,

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Speaker 5: and he like grabs me by the waist says I

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Speaker 6: Thirty minutes later, he is not back. I say to

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Speaker 6: when they went? Oh? I have no idea.

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Speaker 2: He's just lost.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, just gone. And then after again, like half an hour,

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Speaker 6: I'm like, okay, no, not sticking around. I got ghosted.

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Speaker 6: I go back to my bar for karaoke the next week.

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Speaker 2: Oh wait, this is the same karaoke bar that you

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Speaker 6: It it's a diferent one.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Oh you got all the carryo.

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Speaker 6: Okay, Like I got a text at like two in

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Speaker 6: the morning, like, oh, I didn't mean to leave you

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Speaker 6: by yourself for you, Okay, I got arrested for a

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Speaker 6: hot minute.

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Speaker 1: Whoa, I would not tell that person.

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Speaker 2: Is that a red flag to you?

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Speaker 6: I will tell you what he is ex army red

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Speaker 6: flag ten years older than me. Oh, gets arrested on

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Speaker 6: a first date.

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Speaker 2: We're I don't know, you can't see us right now,

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Speaker 2: but we are seriously waving our red flags right now.

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Speaker 1: Yes, did he tell you why he got arrested?

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Speaker 6: I'm still waiting. It's been like, what that was Saturday,

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Speaker 6: today's Tuesday. That's been like four days.

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Speaker 2: But oh, my goodness, this is fresh. Yeah, my goodness. Okay,

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Speaker 2: So question, is there anything that he could say that

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Speaker 2: would be like, okay, red flags or some of the

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Speaker 2: red flags erase will go on a second date, like

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Speaker 2: he was like protesting a puppy getting run over or something,

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Speaker 2: or like trying to save a dog from the slaughter

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Speaker 2: of a doghouse or what are they called shelter, pet shelter.

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Speaker 6: I guess if it was something like that is excusable,

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Speaker 6: But no, I don't have him blocked yet, simply because

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Speaker 6: I want to know what he did.

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Speaker 1: I want to know it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, don't don't block him yet, just so you

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Speaker 2: can give us an update to this story.

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Speaker 6: If he calls back, I will, I will call back in.

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Speaker 2: Yes, please do, Natalie, Thank you so much for calling

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Speaker 2: it your story. This is wild.

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Speaker 6: Your problem. Well what just happened? I do I knew

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Speaker 6: I had to call it.

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Speaker 1: Yes, it's perfect.

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Speaker 2: We appreciate. We want to know the intimate, crazy deals

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Speaker 2: details of your life. And thank you for picking up

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Speaker 2: even though you were about to go to sleep. Really

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Speaker 2: get yeah, please get some reds.

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Speaker 6: I will all.

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Speaker 2: Right, Thanks, Natalie, have a good one. Bye bye. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: If that isn't like a bowl of red flag.

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Speaker 1: A hot bowl of red red flag.

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Speaker 2: Let's go. Well, if you want to share your red

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Speaker 2: flag dating stories, you should call us at four four

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Speaker 1: Or if you want to call in just to so

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Speaker 1: Riley has your number.

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Speaker 2: The amount of text from you guys, Riley is getting

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Speaker 2: aggressively hit on. So yeah, if you want to hit

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Speaker 2: on Riley, just call us, yeah, and we'll we'll look.

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Speaker 1: At well, look at the options.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we love hearing your stories. If you love us,

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Speaker 2: This is an episode from Deep within the Archives.

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Speaker 7: Time for okop rewlash.

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Speaker 2: Am I the a hole for telling my sister that

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Speaker 2: she could find somewhere else to stay if she can't

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Speaker 2: stand being with my daughter? What are you doing? I?

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Speaker 2: Twenty seven female, have a five year old foster daughter

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Speaker 2: named May. She has been with me for about eight

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Speaker 2: months now, and I love her to pieces. I'm considering

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Speaker 2: adopting her even That is the most adorable thing ever.

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Speaker 2: That's so cute. Adopt more, y'all? Yeah, My sister, thirty

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Speaker 2: one female Kate, recently suffered a miscarriage and it took

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Speaker 2: a real toll on her marriage. She's getting divorced from

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Speaker 2: her husband.

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Speaker 1: And it has been so yikes that seeks.

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Speaker 2: And it's been staying with me because she can't bear

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Speaker 2: to live with him right now? Why do you do something?

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Speaker 2: I don't know? Kate, however, has been a horrible guest

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Speaker 2: to May. Every time May asks hers for something or

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Speaker 2: talks to her, Kate just bursts into tears or yells

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Speaker 2: at her. Oh sounds like she would be a bad mom.

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Speaker 2: Sh miscarriage, blessing in disguise. Okay, no, Kate, it is

505
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Speaker 2: a great sister to be. I understand that she's grieving,

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Speaker 2: but that doesn't mean she can lash out at May

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Speaker 2: for simply existing facts. I've told her off multiple times

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Speaker 2: for yelling at May. But it all came to a

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Speaker 2: head when I confronted her this morning. May had asked

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Speaker 2: Kate if she could move so she could get to

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Speaker 2: the snack cabinet. Kate snapped at her to wait for

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Speaker 2: a day. Imn second a little brat. I overheard from

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Speaker 2: the living room and made Kate move out of the

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Speaker 2: way and told her to apologize to me. Kate burst

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Speaker 2: into tears, saying that she couldn't take having May here

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Speaker 2: as a reminder of what she's lost. What do you

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Speaker 2: mean stop, You've lost the ability to be a good mother.

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Speaker 7: So that also means she just goes outside and she

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Speaker 7: just sees a child, and then it's just just like, oh,

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Speaker 7: like everyone there, everyone in the world should delete their

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Speaker 7: children because she couldn't have one. Dude, I mean, I

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Speaker 7: get you went through it a terrible thing, but it sucks.

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Speaker 7: You can't take it out on an innocent.

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Speaker 2: Child and heart of being a good mother is being

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Speaker 2: good to children and general. Yes, so it's like you're

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Speaker 2: kind of doing the opposite of what you should do.

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Speaker 2: I told her she's a grown ass adult and she

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Speaker 2: should know better than the bully a child for her

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Speaker 2: own problems. True. I told me to go to her

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Speaker 2: room real quick, and Kate and I got into a

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Speaker 2: huge argument, and I ended up telling her if she

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Speaker 2: couldn't take seeing my foster daughter, she could find somewhere

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Speaker 2: else to stay. Yes, facts, I mean what it is.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if there's there's not really another option.

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Speaker 7: What, No, you can't. You can't live in my home

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Speaker 7: if you're going to do that. She left her parents'

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Speaker 7: house and told them everything. And I've been getting massages

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Speaker 7: from her all day now ooh so oiled.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I imagine uh op meant to say messages, yes,

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Speaker 2: but it would be great at the it just like.

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Speaker 7: You know, I'm so tired of you, but I need

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Speaker 7: to just work these.

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Speaker 2: Or it's like I realized what I did wrong. Massage

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Speaker 2: is on me.

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Speaker 3: Here we go.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, massage at all of branch, massage maybe with some

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Speaker 2: all of them oil stepsister. I've been getting messages. I'm

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Speaker 2: assuming I've been getting messages from her all day now.

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Speaker 2: She tells me I am a horrible sister and said

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Speaker 2: that she was grieving and asked how I could put

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Speaker 2: someone else's kid over hers? What kid terrible? Which I

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Speaker 2: think is a disgusting thing to send to anyone personally.

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Speaker 2: I think she's being insensitive to me and my daughter's relationship. True. Yes,

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Speaker 2: according to my mom, she's been crying for hours and

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Speaker 2: won't stop talking about how I'm such a monster for

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Speaker 2: not thinking about her feelings. Am I the a hole?

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Speaker 2: I just don't think she has the right to yell

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Speaker 2: at my kid because she's lost hers.

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Speaker 7: That is absolutely correct, And I think the solution here

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Speaker 7: is to tie her to the bed and let may

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Speaker 7: just boom boom boom, throw some hair, throw some punches,

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Speaker 7: get some anger. Watch out, Auntie, can you catch these hands?

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Speaker 2: Also, why does it just like, why doesn't the sister

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Speaker 2: adopt that's another idea, a solution. Come on, come on,

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Speaker 2: we just we just we're just hitting you with those solutions.

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Speaker 7: Good gravy

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