WEBVTT - Second Date Update: How Dare You Say I'm Sorry

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<v Speaker 1>The second, if you see a really good looking woman

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<v Speaker 1>at the club or at a bar, what's the best

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<v Speaker 1>way to start talking to her? That's an interesting strategy. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>are you okay?

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<v Speaker 2>Any compliment her.

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<v Speaker 3>That?

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<v Speaker 4>Don't go compliment girls because you a nice compliment.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, those are some nice ear lobes you got there.

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<v Speaker 2>If that's what you've noticed, that's what you've noticed that you.

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<v Speaker 1>Can always use the old finger come here motion from

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<v Speaker 1>across the room that's too classy for Brooks style. Or

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<v Speaker 1>there's my go to move that I used through my

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<v Speaker 1>early twenties. Recreate the entire dance scene from the movie Grease,

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<v Speaker 1>and she will be eating out of the palme of.

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<v Speaker 2>You're the one that I want.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what she's thinking. Okay, but apparently one of our listeners, Liam,

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<v Speaker 1>met a girl in a different way than any of

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<v Speaker 1>the ones that we just mentioned. So let's find out

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<v Speaker 1>how it worked. Liam. Welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 5>Hey, thanks for having me.

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<v Speaker 2>What was your route of approach, sir?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, yeah, so I take a different angle. You know,

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<v Speaker 5>if I see a girl who is definitely like out

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<v Speaker 5>of my leg clearly the hottest girl there, I just

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<v Speaker 5>act like she isn't not in a bad way, But like,

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<v Speaker 5>just I don't you don't just give them those compliments

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<v Speaker 5>that they're already hearing all the time, you know, you

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<v Speaker 5>just treat them like they're normal.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, it's only ugly girls that like compliments like me?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, So how do you treat a beautiful girl

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<v Speaker 1>like she's normal? Like, what did you do with the

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<v Speaker 1>girl that you met? And what's her name?

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<v Speaker 5>By the way, Well, her name was Sandy, just like Grease.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god? Anyway, sorry, go ahead, go ahead. How'd

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<v Speaker 1>you meet Sandy?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, so she was at the bar. I was with

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<v Speaker 5>my buddies, and we were actually having a similar conversation

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<v Speaker 5>about like what's your pickup line? What's your go to?

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<v Speaker 5>And I've seen her at the bar and I approached

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<v Speaker 5>her with my tactic of not really acknowledging her. So

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<v Speaker 5>the bartender comes.

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<v Speaker 6>Up, like, oh what you So you're standing at the

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<v Speaker 6>bar not acknowledging her.

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<v Speaker 5>Exactly right back to her, pretending like she's not there.

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<v Speaker 5>And I ordered my drink and then I just leaned

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<v Speaker 5>over to her and I just say, hey, can you

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<v Speaker 5>do me this favor. There's this really hot girl that

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<v Speaker 5>is stalking me tonight. And I just if you don't mind,

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<v Speaker 5>can you just pretend like you're my girlfriend just like

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<v Speaker 5>a minute, so that way, I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>Know, what do you think a good looking guy does

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<v Speaker 1>that to you in the bar?

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<v Speaker 2>I'll do whatever.

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<v Speaker 4>It's so easy to see through when you say a

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<v Speaker 4>really hot girl is stalking me.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, like that's the piece where Yeah, but I

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<v Speaker 5>did say that she was crazy, so that is kind

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<v Speaker 5>of really Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>What did Sandy say when you tried that on her?

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<v Speaker 5>She laughed, so I knew like it was working.

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<v Speaker 2>So she saw through it too. She thought you were joking.

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<v Speaker 5>She I don't know what she thought at first, but

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<v Speaker 5>she definitely found it funny. And then it was just

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<v Speaker 5>my inn and we kept talking and I ended up

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<v Speaker 5>confashioning to her. I was just like, listen, there's no

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<v Speaker 5>other girl here. I was just.

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<v Speaker 1>This because whether she believed you, she'll be relieved and

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<v Speaker 1>laugh or she'll be like, well, duh, dude, I knew.

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<v Speaker 2>What did she say?

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<v Speaker 5>She said? I kind of figured.

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<v Speaker 2>That's very cute.

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<v Speaker 1>So now the facade is broken and you guys are

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<v Speaker 1>just talking normal. How does the rest of the night go.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, so we exchanged numbers and then I went back

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<v Speaker 5>to my table of guys and they gave me like

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<v Speaker 5>a round of applause.

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<v Speaker 2>I love it. Wow, have you guys hung out since then?

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<v Speaker 5>So she was at the bar most of the night.

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<v Speaker 5>I was at the table. She was at the bar

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<v Speaker 5>with her friends, and we would just make eye contact,

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<v Speaker 5>maybe have a couple of words and passing, and it

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<v Speaker 5>was just kind of throughout the night. But it wasn't

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<v Speaker 5>really like hanging out the whole night.

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<v Speaker 2>But you're still flirting with her all night.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, Yeah, there's definitely good vibes between us. When I

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<v Speaker 5>passed by her once, I did say, hey, if you

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<v Speaker 5>see that hot, crazy girl, make sure you give me

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<v Speaker 5>heads up.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh what's great about this is you two already have

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<v Speaker 4>an inside joke.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah I love that. But I'm just picturing his buddies

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<v Speaker 1>at the table all trying this too, And now like

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<v Speaker 1>seven guys at the bar are all like, oh, there's

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<v Speaker 1>a crazy girl.

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<v Speaker 6>I walk up.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, hey, a really ugly girl. So yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>was kidding. So how long ago did this happen?

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<v Speaker 5>This was just last week?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, a week week?

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<v Speaker 1>You go?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, did she give you her real number?

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<v Speaker 5>I believe so, because after the night was over, We

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<v Speaker 5>actually were leaving at the same time, and she apparently

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<v Speaker 5>lives not too far from where we were, and I asked,

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<v Speaker 5>can I walk you home? And she was like sure,

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<v Speaker 5>so oh.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>So I walked her home, got to her entrance, and

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<v Speaker 5>we actually kissed started making out.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, just a recap. You made her laugh all night,

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<v Speaker 1>You walked her home like a gentleman, and then you

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<v Speaker 1>guys kissed.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait did you go up I mean that's what she wants, right, Like, dude,

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<v Speaker 4>If I'm asking a dude to walk me home, it's

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<v Speaker 4>because I want him to come over.

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<v Speaker 5>And I didn't go upstairs nothing. It was just you know,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not trying to be pushy. She didn't ask for

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<v Speaker 5>about Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, great, that's even better. You respected that.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay. So I mean, have you tried to contact her

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<v Speaker 1>or text her caller since this all happened.

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<v Speaker 5>I texted her the next day just kind of say

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<v Speaker 5>what's up? And it was great, meaning her and all that,

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<v Speaker 5>but just spend the radio, sir, and I haven't heard.

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<v Speaker 1>Anything, not even like I'm busy.

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<v Speaker 5>Wow, now she's using my tactic against me. I'm not

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<v Speaker 5>finding you funny.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I want to help you out but we have

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<v Speaker 1>to go real quick because there's a psycho girl that's

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<v Speaker 1>staring at me right now watching.

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<v Speaker 2>Us, Harry. We do this show every day.

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<v Speaker 1>Dude, she is obsessed with me. I need to get

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<v Speaker 1>away from her. But we're gonna play a song. We'll

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<v Speaker 1>come back, we'll call Sandy for you, and we'll try

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<v Speaker 1>and get you a second date up, Dade. Okay, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>look away, God obsessed with me. One of our listeners,

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<v Speaker 1>Liam is on the phone with us right now because

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<v Speaker 1>he had an interesting strategy to meet a beautiful woman

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<v Speaker 1>treat him normal. Weird, No, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Mean, honestly, his method was humor.

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<v Speaker 4>When you get down to the bottom of it, he's

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<v Speaker 4>just funny because.

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<v Speaker 1>What he ended up doing was he pretended like there

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<v Speaker 1>was a crazy, beautiful girl that was being obsessed with

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<v Speaker 1>him following him around the bar, and asked the girl

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<v Speaker 1>that he met, Sandy, if she would pretend to be

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<v Speaker 1>his girlfriend to help him protect him from the crazy

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<v Speaker 1>and it actually worked. It got them talking and they

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<v Speaker 1>ended up having a really nice night together.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>She was even able to walk her home to her

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<v Speaker 1>apartment at the end of the night and get a

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<v Speaker 1>nice little makeout in Yeah, I mean I love that

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<v Speaker 1>you got a little everything. But now it's been sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like over a week now, and she's not answering the

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<v Speaker 1>text or the voicemails that he's been leaving. So we're

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<v Speaker 1>going to call her right now and see what she

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<v Speaker 1>has to say. Liam, how are you feeling?

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<v Speaker 5>That's so pretty good. I'm interested to see what happened.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, yeah, I mean you're still super into her, right, like?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>Absolutely?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, maybe she's just been busy. I mean it has

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<v Speaker 2>only been a week.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>Usually you make time for somebody that you like.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, Also, if you like him, you would say, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>it's been a crazy week. I can talk better this

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<v Speaker 1>time next.

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<v Speaker 4>Or or maybe she was really drunk when you were making

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<v Speaker 4>out and you didn't realize it.

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<v Speaker 1>Or maybe she ended up with the crazy hot girl

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<v Speaker 1>and out there to Jelly.

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<v Speaker 2>She was interesting twist. I like it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a possibility. So let's call her and see which

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<v Speaker 1>one of us is right, right? I hope so too.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's style this number and see what she has to say.

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<v Speaker 1>Here we go. Hello, Hi, I'm looking for Sandy.

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<v Speaker 3>This is she.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey Sandy, my name is Jeff from the radio show

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<v Speaker 1>Brook and Jeffrey in the morning, hoping you have a

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<v Speaker 1>second to talk with us.

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<v Speaker 3>Brooke and Jeffrey. I'm sorry, but it is just pertaining

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<v Speaker 3>to well, we're a.

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<v Speaker 1>Morning radio show. The whole team is here, there's Brooke.

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<v Speaker 1>We're not a very smart morning show.

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<v Speaker 2>No, we have maybe some fun news for you.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean I.

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<v Speaker 2>Would like it.

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<v Speaker 1>We're doing a segment about dating because one of our

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<v Speaker 1>listeners met you recently and had a really nice time

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<v Speaker 1>with you and is hoping to see you again. His

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<v Speaker 1>name's Liam. Do you remember Liam?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? I remember Liam.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that's great. So if you don't mind us asking

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<v Speaker 1>what was your first impression when he showed up for

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<v Speaker 1>the date and you got to meet him in real life?

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<v Speaker 3>Just like this quiet, confident type. You know, he held

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<v Speaker 3>his shoulders high and it was nice. I liked hanging

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<v Speaker 3>out with him.

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<v Speaker 4>Okami, Are you just like super busy and that's why

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<v Speaker 4>you haven't been able to get a hold of him

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<v Speaker 4>this last week?

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<v Speaker 3>No, I mean I have. I've left him a couple

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<v Speaker 3>of voicemails.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, okay, I don't think he's gotten those because

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<v Speaker 4>he called us and said that you hadn't called him.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I mean, he did text me, but I'm just

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<v Speaker 3>wanting to talk, you know, because if you don't know

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<v Speaker 3>someone very well, you can miss interpret a text.

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<v Speaker 1>So all you guys, what she just said, Like, talking

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone is one of the most intimate things

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<v Speaker 1>you can do nowadays.

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<v Speaker 2>I hate.

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<v Speaker 1>I do. But if you are actually talking on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone with someone, it's either your mom or dad or

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<v Speaker 1>someone you love.

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<v Speaker 4>Have you been disappointed that he didn't answer your calls

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<v Speaker 4>or return your call?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I mean, like my phone was acting weird, so

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<v Speaker 3>a call. He's in my roommate's landline, so maybe he

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<v Speaker 3>didn't get that it was.

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<v Speaker 4>Me your roommates land Would it also be your landline

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<v Speaker 4>because you'd be in the same house together, share the

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<v Speaker 4>same land.

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<v Speaker 3>It's her work line that she has set up in

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<v Speaker 3>her office, And my phone was in the battery was

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<v Speaker 3>almost dead, so I just kind of borrowed it real quick.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Okay, Yeah, maybe he didn't answer because you just

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<v Speaker 1>don't wreck you don't answer numbers you don't recognize. But

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<v Speaker 1>are you saying that like you'd be interested in maybe

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<v Speaker 1>seeing him again?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, yeah, I mean I didn't think he was because

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<v Speaker 3>I left a couple of messages and I didn't hear back,

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<v Speaker 3>so I just kind of thought he was blowing me off.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, we could just ask him if he got the voicemails,

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<v Speaker 1>because well, he at least uses it right now because

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<v Speaker 1>he's been on the other line listening this entire time, Sandy,

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<v Speaker 1>and he wants to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh I like it, Sandy.

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<v Speaker 5>Hey, I I had no idea that you called me.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah I did.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh well, I just I gotta say something. And you know,

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<v Speaker 5>just hearing your voice and hearing the way you talk

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<v Speaker 5>about me, it's just it's really nice, and I gotta

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<v Speaker 5>come clean. I really like you.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh wow, Okay, I think it's like, why do you

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<v Speaker 3>say that? Why are you saying all this?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, because I do like you, and I finally got

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<v Speaker 5>a chance to tell you. I mean, I haven't been

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<v Speaker 5>able to get hold of you.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh okay, what's happening here? He's trying so hard. It's

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<v Speaker 3>too hard. You guys hear this in.

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<v Speaker 1>His Well, I think you just heard you say some

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<v Speaker 1>really nice things about him, So he probably just wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to reciprocate.

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<v Speaker 5>I just I felt like I needed to say that.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I'm sorry I didn't check my voicemails. I

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<v Speaker 5>don't know. Yes, I'm sorry, I'm just kind of bringing

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<v Speaker 5>this wrong.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, can you just stop right there saying sorry, sorry, sorry,

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<v Speaker 3>it's pathetic.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh oh, this is a dude. You just left multiple

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<v Speaker 2>voicemails for to get a hold of him.

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<v Speaker 3>First of all, I left two voicemails, not multiple. And

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<v Speaker 3>I wasn't gonna sit around and wait for mister wishy

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<v Speaker 3>watching he's like Charlie Brown.

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<v Speaker 1>I think he's just trying to say he had a

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<v Speaker 1>nice time with you.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, you know what, that's too much.

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<v Speaker 2>Listen.

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<v Speaker 3>He doesn't even know who I am.

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<v Speaker 2>Listen.

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<v Speaker 4>He was just nervous. He came on the show for

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<v Speaker 4>our help because he couldn't get a hold of you. You

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<v Speaker 4>wouldn't text, and he did not expect you to say

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<v Speaker 4>that this.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it takes a lot of bravery to come on

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<v Speaker 1>the radio and put this all out there. So, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>Leo confidently keep talking to her.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it's just I'm you guys, are I mean, I'm

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<v Speaker 5>on the radio. It's a little nerve wracking, and I

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<v Speaker 5>didn't think that they'd actually get you on the phone.

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<v Speaker 5>And I just I don't know, I just I guess.

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<v Speaker 3>You just what.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm scared.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know, maybe like why don't you just go

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<v Speaker 5>out with me this weekend?

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<v Speaker 2>That was that was confidence?

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<v Speaker 5>Or maybe if you don't, I'll just ghost you forever?

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<v Speaker 2>WHOA is that what you want? Sandy?

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<v Speaker 3>You want to did you just give me an ultimatum?

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<v Speaker 3>Because I don't think you really know how to be

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<v Speaker 3>a strong, confident night guy. You're just you're just kind

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<v Speaker 3>of falling apart here, buddy, what do.

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<v Speaker 5>You want from me? Like I say I'm sorry for

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<v Speaker 5>missing your voicemails? Then you start like being kind of rude,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, and then you just then you want confident,

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<v Speaker 5>you don't want you apologize, and then now I'm too

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<v Speaker 5>confident just like maybe your mind.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, welcome to dating man. Congratulations. They never know what

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<v Speaker 1>they want.

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<v Speaker 2>Honestly, Sandy, you're being really like kind of mean.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I'm not trying to say it in a

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<v Speaker 3>weird way, but when I go out, I do attract

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<v Speaker 3>a lot of guys, and I have a type. I

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<v Speaker 3>have a type that I like, and I think everybody

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<v Speaker 3>has a type that they like. There's nothing wrong with that.

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<v Speaker 3>And Liam presented himself as that type the other night.

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<v Speaker 3>But get him on the phone and you really get

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<v Speaker 3>to know him in the daylight. He's just the opposite.

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<v Speaker 3>So why am I mean because he's not my type?

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<v Speaker 4>Because it sounds like you're not his I mean like

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<v Speaker 4>you're not the person he described either.

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<v Speaker 2>You were like laughing and fun loving and now you're Ye.

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<v Speaker 3>Look, you know, I was having fun with a nice, strong,

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<v Speaker 3>confident man and it was a great time. But you know,

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<v Speaker 3>I had my beer goggles on. What do you want

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<v Speaker 3>me to say?

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<v Speaker 5>Whoa that?

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<v Speaker 2>I wanted to hear that.

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<v Speaker 1>Literally minutes ago when we were talking to you, you

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<v Speaker 1>told us that you had a great time with him,

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<v Speaker 1>you thought he was a really nice, cool guy, and

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<v Speaker 1>hearing you answer the phone, he was saying the same

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<v Speaker 1>exact thing to us. You guys both wanted to go

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<v Speaker 1>out with each other, and in the course of a

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<v Speaker 1>few minutes now you both have changed your minds.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I haven't changed my mind. I mean I'd

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<v Speaker 5>still love to go out with you, and I mean

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<v Speaker 5>I I'll even buy you a gift.

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<v Speaker 2>What No, don't forget it.

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<v Speaker 3>No is exactly right. That's pathetic and needy. Don't buy

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<v Speaker 3>me gifts? Why would you do that?

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<v Speaker 1>You need to channel the person that met her the first.

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<v Speaker 4>Time and be angry that she said all those mean

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<v Speaker 4>things about you.

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<v Speaker 2>You're worth more than that man, And if.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not going to be a man here, then I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to be a man and I'll ask her for you.

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<v Speaker 2>And as.

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<v Speaker 1>Sandy, you better go out on a date with Liam.

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<v Speaker 1>And we're gonna pay for that date whether you like

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<v Speaker 1>it or not. But you better like it because that's

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<v Speaker 1>the only way that is going to happen.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh wait, let me get my fan I'm swooning you

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<v Speaker 3>start talking mind back.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait, I think she's being sarcastic that yes, we do

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<v Speaker 4>honestly want to send you out on another date.

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<v Speaker 3>Though seriously, well, I'll go on another date, just not

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<v Speaker 3>with Liam.

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<v Speaker 2>No, that's not how it works. It's a Liam only date.

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<v Speaker 1>Liam. Do you want to save this?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I'll buy you two gifts.

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<v Speaker 1>Now a free date.

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<v Speaker 3>Come on, Sam, that's a big and no, I'm not

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<v Speaker 3>doing it. I can't be the only one here. And

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<v Speaker 3>how pathetic this guy is.

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<v Speaker 1>Liam offer her your car. You're gonna have to go

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<v Speaker 1>big now.

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<v Speaker 2>Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>To me, that just goes to show hot women are

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<v Speaker 1>impossible to please.

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<v Speaker 2>That's not true.

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<v Speaker 4>Terrible women are impossible to please. It has nothing to

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<v Speaker 4>do with her looks. I have plenty of friends who

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<v Speaker 4>are super hot and also lovely people.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but I feel like the more attractive they are,

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<v Speaker 1>you basically need to be confident every moment for the

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<v Speaker 1>rest of your life. Like if a family member dies,

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<v Speaker 1>don't cry, and you're the hot girl, just pick up

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<v Speaker 1>a shovel and dig through the pain.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, if we're gonna go deep. I think that

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<v Speaker 4>she just has a hard time loving herself. That's why

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<v Speaker 4>she does want people to love her.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, she's ugly on the inside.

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<v Speaker 2>Good it would do. It's all good.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if that's ever happened on our show though,

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<v Speaker 1>where two people were both interested in each other. One

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<v Speaker 1>was leaving voicemails, one was texting they do want to

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<v Speaker 1>go out right up until the moment they actually speak

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone. Yeah, Like, is hanging out in the

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<v Speaker 1>bar different than being in the studio with us?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean yeah, Is it fault that they didn't go out?

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<v Speaker 3>Like?

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<v Speaker 1>Did we give off a bad atmosphere? Did Brooks negative

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<v Speaker 1>vibes get to them and break them up?

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<v Speaker 3>She does?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, she's never going to be happy.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what she's looking for. Okay, if you ever.

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<v Speaker 1>Want a second date update, you can always email the show.

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<v Speaker 1>Hopefully we're in a better mood on that day, but

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<v Speaker 1>you will call the person who wasn't calling your back

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<v Speaker 5>Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.