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Speaker 1: Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heart Radio podcast.

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Speaker 2: All right, so we are actually on location this week

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Speaker 2: in New York. A few reasons why we're here, but

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Speaker 2: obviously Catherine Christen are here, and then we also have Alan.

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Speaker 3: Hello appropriate, Alan is here.

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Speaker 2: I would like everyone to do a word count the

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Speaker 2: words they can get from Alan this episode that they

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Speaker 2: can understand. Oh, because I feel like so many people

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Speaker 2: are like use captions. When I try to put captions

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Speaker 2: on stories, the captions don't understand Alan.

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Speaker 3: My husband doesn't either.

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Speaker 4: You'd have to go through and listen and like edit

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Speaker 4: them yourself.

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Speaker 3: Oh, you can do that.

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Speaker 5: You can learn proper English if you want.

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Speaker 6: Alan's Feisty's checking everyone step that you're here in New York.

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Speaker 5: Of all the friends, you understand me the best, I think.

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Speaker 3: Oh do I okay?

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Speaker 5: Good?

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Speaker 3: Sarah has not a clue. Sarah's sweet Sarah. Yeah, she

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Speaker 3: blinks a lot, That's how you know. So we are well.

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Speaker 2: We came to New York for uh, for another podcast,

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Speaker 2: but we also are coming to New York because me

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Speaker 2: and the girls are going wedding dress shopping today.

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Speaker 7: UH.

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Speaker 2: A question for you girls, did you show your fiance's dresses.

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Speaker 3: No, No, I did already.

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Speaker 4: No, I haven't dress shopped yet.

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Speaker 2: I know what we looked at options of what you know,

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Speaker 2: because I also want to walk down the aisle to

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Speaker 2: something that he addressed that he like. I would show

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Speaker 2: on the one right, the one that I picked, But

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Speaker 2: there was about do you like this style?

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Speaker 3: Do you like that style?

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Speaker 2: Now I'm not saying I would if he if he

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Speaker 2: said he wanted the big ball gown, that would have

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Speaker 2: been tough because I don't really love that style. But

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Speaker 2: if that's something he would have loved, then I would

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Speaker 2: have maybe considered it.

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Speaker 3: Does that make sense? Yeah, but I disagree, okay, okay,

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Speaker 3: and this is why I love you.

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Speaker 6: Go Yeah, I just don't care respectfully what you like

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Speaker 6: because you like me, so you're marrying me and my taste.

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Speaker 6: And I can't wait to wear what I want to

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Speaker 6: wear to walk to you. And so that's all done.

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Speaker 6: That feels fair, okay, right?

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Speaker 3: Too simple? No, I wouldn't watch alrighty, very clear.

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Speaker 6: A moment of silence for Preston. Ever, I said that

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Speaker 6: I just feel like you're so stunning. Anything you wear

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Speaker 6: is going.

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Speaker 3: To be a magical.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, thank you, But I just also want

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Speaker 2: I don't know, I want him to have the vision

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Speaker 2: of what he also I would like coming down too

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Speaker 2: doesn't make sense.

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Speaker 6: You're interested in what that would look like without the dress,

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Speaker 6: and I think he scored it and he feels great

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Speaker 6: about his choice, and.

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Speaker 3: So we keep on rocking. I think both can be true,

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Speaker 3: Thank you, Catherine. I'd down the middle, KitKat.

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Speaker 1: Which is not usually me, but I'm gonna go down

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Speaker 1: the middle on this one. I can see both for sure.

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Speaker 1: I think that he does have fashion and he does

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Speaker 1: have an opinion, whereas like my husband doesn't right no

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Speaker 1: fashion or.

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Speaker 4: Have an opinion.

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Speaker 3: Well, I'm not saying right like that like that, it doesn't.

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Speaker 1: Probably wouldn't even you know it's true, but like I know,

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Speaker 1: I I hear what you're saying. Having said that, did

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Speaker 1: you like what he how?

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Speaker 4: He answered?

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Speaker 3: Good question?

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Speaker 2: So and I'm thinking about this now too, going okay,

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Speaker 2: why did I really do that? And I think you're right,

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Speaker 2: like Alan, you have great fashion obviously more fashion sense

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Speaker 2: than I do when it comes to you know, what

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Speaker 2: I wear. But I think for for you know, for

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Speaker 2: the for the dress situation is I I genuinely don't care.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if that, like, how do I say this?

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Speaker 2: And it's not because I've walked down the aisle before,

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Speaker 2: which I hate saying because I want this to be

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Speaker 2: the only time that I did. But I don't like

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Speaker 2: when it comes to even even with our house, I'd

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Speaker 2: be like, do you like this? Because I don't know

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Speaker 2: what I like. To be honest with you, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I don't have opinion because I don't know what interior

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Speaker 2: design is supposed to look like. So I just trust

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Speaker 2: the people that are doing it, and then I'll go

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Speaker 2: to you guys and go, hey, guys, is this look

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Speaker 2: good or no? Which is why I really wanted you

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Speaker 2: girls here, because I guess I don't have a strong

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Speaker 2: enough opinion one way or the other. So I really

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Speaker 2: wanted to lean on his opinion and now y'all's opinion,

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Speaker 2: because I don't know what looks good.

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Speaker 3: I don't.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, no, I hear you. I would neither.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I think you're right.

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Speaker 7: Justin I think I'm so attracted to tell her that

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Speaker 7: she could come down nail and whatever.

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Speaker 3: Well, she's going to be stunning, of course, And there's also.

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Speaker 5: A part of it that you know, roughly why.

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Speaker 2: I would like and that's like with the wedding dress,

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Speaker 2: though I would have not a clue, not a clue.

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Speaker 3: I think we could get I think I can help

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Speaker 3: gauge it. Well, I mean I did.

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Speaker 2: So this goes back to Catherine's question, is I was

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Speaker 2: actually surprised with what he did end up picking. You're

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Speaker 2: more on the traditional side. That's what my guess would be, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I And so now I'm like, oh, okay, I mean

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Speaker 2: it is definitely more traditional where I lean more on

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Speaker 2: the the opposite side of it.

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Speaker 7: It was still it's traditional, but it's it's still elegant

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Speaker 7: and nice, and it's like fashioning. You're not coming. She's

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Speaker 7: not come that nail like Queen Elizabeth.

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Speaker 6: Right right right, special place for that too. But with that, girls,

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Speaker 6: there's a certain look you get when I feel a

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Speaker 6: friendly fire.

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Speaker 3: Will you guys be my matron of honor? Do you?

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Speaker 3: Cather's not crying because she's already been one before, so

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Speaker 3: cry anyway, saying you guys like too much botox for this.

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Speaker 3: I'm not a pretty cry. It looks like a medical

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Speaker 3: and urgency.

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Speaker 6: Fine, everyone stand down, everyone, They're like, oh, we've got

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Speaker 6: there's something happening in the glass.

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Speaker 2: Door.

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Speaker 4: Yes, of course I would love to do I get

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Speaker 4: to make a speech.

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Speaker 3: Yes, Catherine, you are not getting it. I mean we

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Speaker 3: can make a collection.

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Speaker 4: You don't want me to the other sentence. It'll be

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Speaker 4: so awesome if we both have to do it, though

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Speaker 4: I have to go first. I don't follow her, okay,

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Speaker 4: because okay, you're good.

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Speaker 3: I'm not the person. Is that a yes?

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Speaker 6: Yes, I'm just like so overwhelmed. I didn't know what

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Speaker 6: was going to happen. I thought it was gonna be

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Speaker 6: an ambush about something.

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Speaker 4: I knew that was.

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Speaker 7: Did you know?

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Speaker 4: I mean I knew that when you said that. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: I figured it out. And then I also know this

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Speaker 4: is gonna happen.

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Speaker 6: Well, at least we all know our rules. Do we

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Speaker 6: get to make our dress? Because that's important to Yes?

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Speaker 4: What do you pick mine?

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Speaker 3: Because I don't know where.

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Speaker 2: Whatever you want, I don't care, like literally, whatever you want,

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Speaker 2: will you pick it up?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just you too.

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Speaker 4: Like we can have breakfast?

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Speaker 3: Of course, we can. We have breakfast everywhere. I love

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Speaker 3: everyone so much. I'm so overwhelmed, and I'm hot. I

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Speaker 3: got really hot. Oh you guys, Okay, for those.

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Speaker 6: Of you, this is my first time standing next to Jana.

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Speaker 6: Oh my god, Well does it matters you didn't stand

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Speaker 6: next to me either time. I mean, let's just take

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Speaker 6: it real for a second. I think I'm a good

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Speaker 6: luck charm.

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Speaker 3: You are, Okay.

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Speaker 2: So now that we've handled that, let's move on to

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Speaker 2: some pop culture we have. So we have pop culture

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Speaker 2: and then we also have I have two topics I

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Speaker 2: really want to discuss with you that involve Alan.

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Speaker 3: So I want to bring No, it's not wedding.

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Speaker 6: I know.

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Speaker 3: I was like, it's like May, but like you guys

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Speaker 3: are married. So it's a matron.

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Speaker 6: So a man should make it like an M A

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Speaker 3: It feels like I collaborated our world. Sweet.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So what should we start first with? The topic

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Speaker 2: with Alan? Or pop culture? M pop culture? Okay, that

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Speaker 2: funds good, Yes do, let's start with that one, all right.

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Speaker 2: So we're going to start with Cyrus family feud. So

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Speaker 2: sources that Tish stole husband dominic from her daughter Noah.

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Speaker 2: I'm going to repeat that Tish the mom stole husband

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Speaker 2: dominic from her daughter Noah. So here's kind of the backstory.

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Speaker 2: There's a new twist in the Cyrus family drama. While

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Speaker 2: fans recently zeroed in on a possible rift between Miley

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Speaker 2: him while accepting her first Grammys last month. That's interesting,

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Speaker 2: a source tells US Weekly. There's lingering bad blood between

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Speaker 2: Tish Cyrus and her youngest daughter, Noah, and all boils

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Speaker 2: down to a fight over Tish's new husband, husband Dominic Pursl.

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Speaker 2: On call her Daddy, Tish shared the fairy tale origin

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Speaker 2: story of her romance. She'd had a long time crush

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Speaker 2: on the actor, who she'd watch on prison break with

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Speaker 2: her two elder daughters, Brandon Miley. She even joked that

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Speaker 2: Perscell had been her hall passed throughout her twenty eight

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Speaker 2: year marriage to ex husband Billy Ray. It's another little

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Speaker 2: side topic I want to talk about. Tish added that

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Speaker 2: Percell had sent her a friendly dm Arry Allen style

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Speaker 2: in twenty twenty two, shortly after filing for divorce from

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Speaker 2: Billy Ray. That's interesting, but the source says that Noah

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Speaker 2: was romantically involved with him first Noah was seeing, so

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Speaker 2: her daughter was seeing Dominic, her now husband, when Tish

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Speaker 2: started pursuing him, who claims that Tish was aware of

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Speaker 2: the situation. So okay, there's a lot to unpack here.

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Speaker 2: There's also a week like we need a whiteboard and

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Speaker 2: org chart. Yes, things get a little murky. So well,

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Speaker 2: first of all, Dominic he was interested in Noah. So

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Speaker 2: he's he's fifty four, Noah's twenty four. That's a thirty

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Speaker 2: year age gap.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I wonder where the code has gone? Where is the

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Speaker 3: code gone for all of us?

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Speaker 4: I mean there's a code for friends. Surely there's a

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Speaker 4: code for a mom.

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Speaker 2: And as.

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Speaker 5: To begin with, Dominic hasn't her Yeah, which is the

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Speaker 5: FoST thing?

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Speaker 3: Yep?

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Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, they're married.

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Speaker 3: So that kind of shows his then character and.

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Speaker 4: That was obviously before him and Noah.

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Speaker 3: Right, yeah, so then he just went down the family tree.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so like they just happened to all be like

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Speaker 1: don't know, it's weird.

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Speaker 7: So the ex wife of yeah, Dominic's gets zero respectful

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Speaker 3: Absolutely, Yeah, romantically involved with a daughter. That's that's a

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Speaker 1: I mean, I understand that twenty four and fifty four

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Speaker 4: There what my hall passed? Because my daughter just hooked

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Speaker 3: This is all very past the gravy, like what is

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Speaker 4: Because it doesn't. That's the problem.

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Speaker 5: But.

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Speaker 3: Thank you Kristin. Yes, I mean I would go.

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Speaker 2: Okay, if someone can be interested in a twenty four

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Speaker 6: That's also the twenty four year old I get birth

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Speaker 2: I'm just I just I don't even think it's a

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm very likely to say a girl is prettier

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Speaker 7: You're not you're not in a marriage to think, okay,

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Speaker 2: And yeah, I just don't think I mean again, I

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Speaker 5: No, the whole situation's just.

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Speaker 3: That's wrong. Sorry. But she's married to him now, y'all.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well so yeah, they got married. They get married,

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Speaker 2: That's why Christen said, thanksgivings interesting Now yeah, going meanwhile, Okay,

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Speaker 2: well now we're going to go onto a topic with Alan.

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Speaker 2: So I want to talk about this because I find

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Speaker 3: There's a lot of paper I have a lot of paperwork.

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Speaker 3: I'm putting it down.

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Speaker 2: So when we were on vacation in Mexico, I got

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Speaker 2: Though when it comes to my mothering, right, I do

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Speaker 2: And then I get another one when another comment saying,

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Speaker 6: Why? Why are you never with him? And it's like,

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Speaker 2: But it also it goes to the thing where I don't.

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Speaker 1: It's like working parents are away. I was away way

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Speaker 1: So I can promise you I left Ramsey when she

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Speaker 6: I feel sorry for people that care this much. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: And I'm not just saying that. I mean it's true.

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Speaker 3: Like that makes me. It's sad to me.

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Speaker 6: They're neglecting something while they're watching you, whether it's themselves,

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Speaker 7: negatively on what you're doing or in your life. I mean,

444
00:21:14,040 --> 00:21:16,800
Speaker 7: it's because no one is interested and no one gives

445
00:21:16,840 --> 00:21:19,240
Speaker 7: a shit about her life, so therefore they have to

446
00:21:19,359 --> 00:21:24,720
Speaker 7: seek attention from somewhere else. So it's pathetic, okay. And

447
00:21:24,960 --> 00:21:27,400
Speaker 7: I don't know why you let pathetic people get under

448
00:21:27,440 --> 00:21:32,399
Speaker 7: your skin. I really, I really don't. There's there's no

449
00:21:33,080 --> 00:21:35,440
Speaker 7: why should you be interested in the opinion of some

450
00:21:35,640 --> 00:21:38,080
Speaker 7: doughnut women sitting in a house somewhere.

451
00:21:38,520 --> 00:21:40,960
Speaker 2: Because I actually have mom guilt when I do leave.

452
00:21:41,119 --> 00:21:44,280
Speaker 2: That is why it affects me. So I don't care

453
00:21:44,440 --> 00:21:46,960
Speaker 2: about Yeah, it hits it because I'm like I got again.

454
00:21:46,960 --> 00:21:48,560
Speaker 2: I don't care if people think about me, they think

455
00:21:48,560 --> 00:21:50,840
Speaker 2: I'm annoying thing, I'm stupid, like crazy whatever. I don't

456
00:21:50,880 --> 00:21:52,800
Speaker 2: care because I know my truth in that and I

457
00:21:52,920 --> 00:21:55,359
Speaker 2: know my truth in being a great mom. And I

458
00:21:55,520 --> 00:21:58,359
Speaker 2: have guilt that when I am away, like I don't

459
00:21:58,520 --> 00:22:01,760
Speaker 2: like being And I just again, are you romans only

460
00:22:02,000 --> 00:22:04,200
Speaker 2: these four months now? And so I just I still

461
00:22:04,640 --> 00:22:07,000
Speaker 2: have that guilt being away that maybe I shouldn't be

462
00:22:07,160 --> 00:22:11,080
Speaker 2: going away having said that I loved our Chicago trip.

463
00:22:11,240 --> 00:22:12,600
Speaker 2: I know I need we need to have one on

464
00:22:12,640 --> 00:22:14,159
Speaker 2: one time with Joli and Jace. I know that I

465
00:22:14,200 --> 00:22:15,520
Speaker 2: need to have one on one time with the kids.

466
00:22:15,560 --> 00:22:17,000
Speaker 2: I know that I need to work and provide and

467
00:22:17,040 --> 00:22:19,320
Speaker 2: pay child support and do everything, and you know, uphold

468
00:22:19,400 --> 00:22:21,720
Speaker 2: the house and everything. So I know I have to

469
00:22:21,840 --> 00:22:25,359
Speaker 2: do all that stuff. I just think it's for moms.

470
00:22:25,600 --> 00:22:28,040
Speaker 2: We have a harder time with that guilt of being away.

471
00:22:29,240 --> 00:22:32,639
Speaker 7: Yeah, I understand that because you grow this little thing

472
00:22:32,720 --> 00:22:36,200
Speaker 7: in your stomach for nine months and there's an attachment

473
00:22:36,280 --> 00:22:39,520
Speaker 7: now that no man will level understand. But this is

474
00:22:39,600 --> 00:22:42,040
Speaker 7: more about you having a question who you are as

475
00:22:42,080 --> 00:22:46,040
Speaker 7: a mother. This is about allowing mother's opinions to to

476
00:22:46,119 --> 00:22:48,520
Speaker 7: affect your Mothers are naturally going to get more guilt

477
00:22:48,680 --> 00:22:53,720
Speaker 7: with that. Naturally, you don't need to heighten that guilt

478
00:22:53,840 --> 00:22:58,399
Speaker 7: by allowing the opinion of some are relevant woman who

479
00:22:58,520 --> 00:23:02,680
Speaker 7: lives in Wisconsin somewhere about your life, because if she

480
00:23:02,720 --> 00:23:04,520
Speaker 7: could trade your life in her lissue would do it

481
00:23:04,560 --> 00:23:07,040
Speaker 7: in two seconds. And there's also the fact that when

482
00:23:07,080 --> 00:23:08,600
Speaker 7: you go away for two or three days, you go

483
00:23:08,800 --> 00:23:11,080
Speaker 7: we go back to the baby, and you're refreshed and

484
00:23:11,200 --> 00:23:13,639
Speaker 7: you're more present, and you can pay it better because

485
00:23:13,680 --> 00:23:16,760
Speaker 7: you're now in a better you. Now, these people will

486
00:23:16,800 --> 00:23:19,080
Speaker 7: be on a grind and a rat race of they'll

487
00:23:19,080 --> 00:23:22,720
Speaker 7: get to the point where they'll implode and become hippions

488
00:23:22,760 --> 00:23:25,359
Speaker 7: at some point because they don't have these breaks. So

489
00:23:25,400 --> 00:23:27,920
Speaker 7: I don't know why when other people can go and

490
00:23:28,000 --> 00:23:31,280
Speaker 7: get breaks and refresh their mind and then go back

491
00:23:31,320 --> 00:23:33,919
Speaker 7: to their kids, that they have an opinion.

492
00:23:34,000 --> 00:23:36,880
Speaker 2: It's just But also it's not when you say breaks. So, yeah,

493
00:23:36,920 --> 00:23:39,120
Speaker 2: we had that one vacation. I think all parents should

494
00:23:39,119 --> 00:23:41,920
Speaker 2: have that moment to if they you know, to have

495
00:23:42,160 --> 00:23:45,480
Speaker 2: a a second to have a break. But well, when

496
00:23:45,520 --> 00:23:47,080
Speaker 2: it comes to the movie, I don't I won't get

497
00:23:47,080 --> 00:23:49,000
Speaker 2: any breaks and I'm going to make sure. So it's

498
00:23:49,280 --> 00:23:51,159
Speaker 2: that's already feel that stress of Okay, I got to

499
00:23:51,160 --> 00:23:52,760
Speaker 2: make sure I see Roman enough while I'm working and

500
00:23:52,800 --> 00:23:54,440
Speaker 2: then have him come on set and then during my

501
00:23:54,480 --> 00:23:56,600
Speaker 2: breaks I see him. And so because we put that

502
00:23:56,680 --> 00:23:57,920
Speaker 2: pressure on ourselves.

503
00:23:58,440 --> 00:24:00,200
Speaker 1: Well, it's funny that you bring that up, because we've

504
00:24:00,240 --> 00:24:02,840
Speaker 1: talked about this when you did this with the other kids,

505
00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:06,560
Speaker 1: and how hard on you it actually is because not

506
00:24:06,760 --> 00:24:09,160
Speaker 1: just putting that pressure on you, but like you're trying

507
00:24:09,200 --> 00:24:12,200
Speaker 1: to memorize lines when you're not actually on camera and

508
00:24:12,320 --> 00:24:15,800
Speaker 1: you're literally but your top priority is seeing your children,

509
00:24:16,320 --> 00:24:19,200
Speaker 1: and it's a lot. I mean, it's our priority and

510
00:24:19,200 --> 00:24:23,359
Speaker 1: it's what we do. But also you need permission. You

511
00:24:23,480 --> 00:24:26,040
Speaker 1: need to know that it's okay for you to focus

512
00:24:26,119 --> 00:24:27,920
Speaker 1: on what you're working on at that moment so that

513
00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:29,560
Speaker 1: when you get back you can be a better mom

514
00:24:29,840 --> 00:24:32,240
Speaker 1: when you can't. I mean, like some people are cut

515
00:24:32,280 --> 00:24:33,840
Speaker 1: out to me stay at home mom, some aren't.

516
00:24:34,119 --> 00:24:34,639
Speaker 4: I tried it.

517
00:24:34,760 --> 00:24:37,000
Speaker 1: I wasn't cut out for it. But I'm better working

518
00:24:37,160 --> 00:24:39,360
Speaker 1: and then coming home. I'm better having a break from

519
00:24:39,359 --> 00:24:42,520
Speaker 1: the kids. Akay, having a break while I'm working and

520
00:24:42,600 --> 00:24:46,000
Speaker 1: coming back and that's okay. And some people are better

521
00:24:46,280 --> 00:24:48,200
Speaker 1: being home with their kids ninety nine percent.

522
00:24:48,040 --> 00:25:03,119
Speaker 3: Of the time. So we have a new member in

523
00:25:03,200 --> 00:25:07,680
Speaker 3: our family. What else is happening? This is a big

524
00:25:07,760 --> 00:25:08,320
Speaker 3: revealed day.

525
00:25:08,600 --> 00:25:09,680
Speaker 5: I mentioned this.

526
00:25:09,960 --> 00:25:15,800
Speaker 2: I'm mentioning this because for a few reasons this goes

527
00:25:16,320 --> 00:25:20,720
Speaker 2: about I think this is a very relationship thing to

528
00:25:20,840 --> 00:25:26,520
Speaker 2: bring up and also something that us women also need

529
00:25:26,600 --> 00:25:29,240
Speaker 2: to hear too, because it was an awakening for me,

530
00:25:30,240 --> 00:25:30,880
Speaker 2: it was a week.

531
00:25:31,119 --> 00:25:31,320
Speaker 5: It was.

532
00:25:31,440 --> 00:25:35,160
Speaker 3: It was very enlightening what happened. So how long ago

533
00:25:35,280 --> 00:25:35,480
Speaker 3: was this.

534
00:25:38,760 --> 00:25:39,760
Speaker 5: I actually arrived?

535
00:25:40,320 --> 00:25:44,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, has anyone has anyone noticed anything different in our garage?

536
00:25:44,840 --> 00:25:46,680
Speaker 3: I don't think I've gone through the garage last couple times.

537
00:25:46,720 --> 00:25:48,720
Speaker 4: We did that one time, but we sure did not

538
00:25:48,800 --> 00:25:49,480
Speaker 4: look at anything.

539
00:25:50,119 --> 00:25:51,720
Speaker 5: Well, it was right there in the middle of the

540
00:25:51,760 --> 00:25:53,040
Speaker 5: garage garage.

541
00:25:53,880 --> 00:25:54,680
Speaker 3: I didn't see anything.

542
00:25:54,920 --> 00:25:58,960
Speaker 2: So my longtime listeners of wind Down will know that

543
00:25:59,560 --> 00:26:02,760
Speaker 2: I've had had this discussion before about a motorcycle.

544
00:26:03,440 --> 00:26:07,200
Speaker 4: Oh my god, you did not.

545
00:26:08,600 --> 00:26:11,919
Speaker 2: I a long time ago we had this discussion about

546
00:26:12,560 --> 00:26:18,159
Speaker 2: my former person wanted a motorcycle and I was very against.

547
00:26:18,320 --> 00:26:22,240
Speaker 2: Absolutely not. It is dangerous. I don't like them. It

548
00:26:22,400 --> 00:26:25,720
Speaker 2: is something that I just was. It was just a

549
00:26:25,800 --> 00:26:27,600
Speaker 2: flat out. There was no discussion. It was a no.

550
00:26:29,119 --> 00:26:31,720
Speaker 2: So about a few months ago, Alan brought up the

551
00:26:31,800 --> 00:26:34,959
Speaker 2: fact that he wanted He's always wanted a motorcycle, right,

552
00:26:35,080 --> 00:26:36,360
Speaker 2: is that kind of yeah?

553
00:26:36,760 --> 00:26:37,520
Speaker 3: I don't want to miss.

554
00:26:37,400 --> 00:26:41,320
Speaker 7: Spak allowed to have on because in professional football you

555
00:26:41,440 --> 00:26:43,280
Speaker 7: can't legally, you can't have.

556
00:26:43,400 --> 00:26:49,560
Speaker 3: One because it's dangerous. Yes, so they've deemed it dangerous

557
00:26:49,720 --> 00:26:50,840
Speaker 3: enough you're.

558
00:26:50,720 --> 00:26:51,560
Speaker 1: Not allowed.

559
00:26:55,480 --> 00:26:57,320
Speaker 4: Its actually not okay, well we're going to go with that.

560
00:26:57,480 --> 00:27:01,400
Speaker 3: It's against the rules so different.

561
00:27:01,520 --> 00:27:03,280
Speaker 2: When he said that I had to, I took the

562
00:27:03,440 --> 00:27:08,119
Speaker 2: biggest swallow because again, I'm trying to do things different

563
00:27:08,160 --> 00:27:11,880
Speaker 2: in this relationship. It is not about always what I want.

564
00:27:12,760 --> 00:27:15,560
Speaker 2: It is there needs to be conversations and I cannot

565
00:27:15,600 --> 00:27:17,760
Speaker 2: control because I know at the end of the day,

566
00:27:17,880 --> 00:27:21,359
Speaker 2: the control doesn't do anything but affect a relationship and

567
00:27:21,760 --> 00:27:23,520
Speaker 2: people are gonna do what they're gonna want to do regardless.

568
00:27:23,920 --> 00:27:28,040
Speaker 2: You can have an opinion and from there it's up

569
00:27:28,080 --> 00:27:30,040
Speaker 2: to the person to make their own choices and decisions

570
00:27:30,320 --> 00:27:35,159
Speaker 2: and so right, it's kind of how I I.

571
00:27:35,920 --> 00:27:36,520
Speaker 3: I approached it.

572
00:27:36,600 --> 00:27:43,760
Speaker 5: I want to open to opinion and thoughts, but ultimately

573
00:27:43,840 --> 00:27:45,440
Speaker 5: it was my decision.

574
00:27:45,200 --> 00:27:46,399
Speaker 2: And that's what I said to him. I was like,

575
00:27:46,480 --> 00:27:48,800
Speaker 2: I don't love the fact of you. I was like,

576
00:27:48,880 --> 00:27:53,159
Speaker 2: we have a family. It's I don't not trust you.

577
00:27:53,400 --> 00:27:57,000
Speaker 2: I don't trust other drivers. I think statistically they're dangerous.

578
00:27:57,200 --> 00:27:59,440
Speaker 2: I think you know, and I laid out everything I

579
00:27:59,520 --> 00:28:02,919
Speaker 2: thought of them. I don't like them, But if it's

580
00:28:02,960 --> 00:28:06,840
Speaker 2: something that you really need for you to have your moment,

581
00:28:07,160 --> 00:28:12,440
Speaker 2: your time, then you're gonna then you know, do what

582
00:28:12,560 --> 00:28:14,040
Speaker 2: you think is best in that situation.

583
00:28:14,359 --> 00:28:16,280
Speaker 3: And he said, sorry, I can't hear you. I was doing.

584
00:28:16,480 --> 00:28:17,760
Speaker 3: Really what did you say?

585
00:28:19,320 --> 00:28:22,000
Speaker 7: Well, ultimately, this this thing is it's more of a

586
00:28:23,840 --> 00:28:26,960
Speaker 7: it's more of a I'll use it for maybe thirty

587
00:28:27,040 --> 00:28:29,720
Speaker 7: forty minutes on a Saturday morning or a Sunday morning

588
00:28:29,920 --> 00:28:32,639
Speaker 7: on the country roads. I'll never want a freeway. It

589
00:28:32,720 --> 00:28:35,639
Speaker 7: will never be a daily thing. It'll just be okay,

590
00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:38,560
Speaker 7: I feel about stress, feel whatever. I'll go out in

591
00:28:38,600 --> 00:28:42,440
Speaker 7: the bike for thirty minutes just to escape. Not that

592
00:28:42,520 --> 00:28:47,200
Speaker 7: I need to escape anything. It just took that well,

593
00:28:47,960 --> 00:28:49,760
Speaker 7: like I don't I don't want to go and play

594
00:28:49,800 --> 00:28:52,760
Speaker 7: golf because it takes five hours to go on a golf.

595
00:28:52,600 --> 00:28:58,760
Speaker 3: Course, safer, five hours of solid safety.

596
00:28:59,160 --> 00:29:01,400
Speaker 5: Yeah, but if I can just take the thirty.

597
00:29:01,160 --> 00:29:05,080
Speaker 7: Minutes, thirty minutes on the on the country roads where

598
00:29:05,080 --> 00:29:09,360
Speaker 7: I think the limits are like forty affective. Anyway, I've

599
00:29:09,400 --> 00:29:10,920
Speaker 7: promised that I will never go in a freeway. But

600
00:29:10,960 --> 00:29:14,040
Speaker 7: it's just something that I wanted to. I'm used to

601
00:29:14,120 --> 00:29:18,800
Speaker 7: having sports cars and stuff. I don't want one, but

602
00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:20,880
Speaker 7: I thought, you know what, and that's point now. But

603
00:29:20,960 --> 00:29:24,520
Speaker 7: I'm not playing anymore. Always fancy the bike for a

604
00:29:24,680 --> 00:29:28,520
Speaker 7: leisurely social outing with myself?

605
00:29:30,880 --> 00:29:31,040
Speaker 2: Are you?

606
00:29:31,320 --> 00:29:32,760
Speaker 5: I'm going to get the back and I'm gonna and

607
00:29:32,800 --> 00:29:35,640
Speaker 5: I'm going to get one. So I'm sorry.

608
00:29:36,760 --> 00:29:40,080
Speaker 2: Well, in pulled a motorcycle into the garage a couple

609
00:29:40,120 --> 00:29:41,520
Speaker 2: of weeks. Maybe, no, actually it.

610
00:29:41,600 --> 00:29:43,000
Speaker 4: Was had he told you what?

611
00:29:43,120 --> 00:29:45,960
Speaker 3: He doesn't even know how to drive it. I don't

612
00:29:46,000 --> 00:29:48,200
Speaker 3: even again, you're just staring at it.

613
00:29:49,240 --> 00:29:53,880
Speaker 1: Doesn't drive Okay, So did y'all discuss the fact that

614
00:29:53,960 --> 00:29:55,080
Speaker 1: you decided you were getting it?

615
00:29:55,400 --> 00:29:55,440
Speaker 2: No?

616
00:29:55,760 --> 00:29:58,000
Speaker 1: Okay, so just showed up. I love that okay, And

617
00:29:58,040 --> 00:29:59,120
Speaker 1: you don't know how to ride it and you don't

618
00:29:59,160 --> 00:29:59,760
Speaker 1: have a license.

619
00:30:00,640 --> 00:30:02,240
Speaker 5: Cool, But the only way I can get a license

620
00:30:02,280 --> 00:30:02,640
Speaker 5: is very.

621
00:30:04,960 --> 00:30:07,640
Speaker 4: Do you get a permit? Is that how that works?

622
00:30:07,920 --> 00:30:08,760
Speaker 4: Like a teenager?

623
00:30:09,040 --> 00:30:11,640
Speaker 5: Well you can. You can ride it in your private

624
00:30:11,720 --> 00:30:14,360
Speaker 5: neighborhood practice every but.

625
00:30:14,560 --> 00:30:17,120
Speaker 2: Can we just so when we were discussing this last night,

626
00:30:17,840 --> 00:30:19,760
Speaker 2: he goes, can we just not air? Can we not

627
00:30:19,840 --> 00:30:20,800
Speaker 2: talk about the motorcycle?

628
00:30:20,800 --> 00:30:21,480
Speaker 3: And I go, well, why?

629
00:30:21,920 --> 00:30:28,600
Speaker 5: He goes, mhm, But because my my cousin had.

630
00:30:28,720 --> 00:30:32,920
Speaker 3: No Because my mom said, he said, because.

631
00:30:32,680 --> 00:30:35,680
Speaker 5: My mom, my cousin, my mom's niece.

632
00:30:36,040 --> 00:30:37,400
Speaker 3: She goes, I don't want my mom to know.

633
00:30:38,040 --> 00:30:38,400
Speaker 5: No, I did.

634
00:30:38,480 --> 00:30:41,520
Speaker 7: I would have a light to my mom that I

635
00:30:41,640 --> 00:30:44,560
Speaker 7: wanted to tell her and not I'll find out on

636
00:30:44,600 --> 00:30:45,680
Speaker 7: a podcast.

637
00:30:45,800 --> 00:30:46,520
Speaker 3: What you've got about.

638
00:30:46,600 --> 00:30:49,520
Speaker 5: Because she said she's a bad experience in the past.

639
00:30:49,400 --> 00:30:50,719
Speaker 3: And I was like, oh my gosh, I was like, what, well,

640
00:30:50,760 --> 00:30:51,240
Speaker 3: what happened?

641
00:30:52,360 --> 00:30:57,560
Speaker 5: Yeah, it was it was bad my cousin.

642
00:30:57,760 --> 00:31:03,840
Speaker 7: My cousin was serious endered and husband, but they were like,

643
00:31:04,720 --> 00:31:06,720
Speaker 7: he was like a motorbike guy every day, didn't have

644
00:31:06,800 --> 00:31:11,200
Speaker 7: a car, he just used these motorbike. So the plus

645
00:31:11,240 --> 00:31:13,280
Speaker 7: cent is using chances of something like that happened I

646
00:31:13,400 --> 00:31:15,920
Speaker 7: significantly significantly increased.

647
00:31:17,000 --> 00:31:21,280
Speaker 5: Okay, I'm using it definitely. I'm not saying it's not dangerous,

648
00:31:21,520 --> 00:31:22,360
Speaker 5: especially because.

649
00:31:22,160 --> 00:31:22,960
Speaker 3: You don't know how to ride it.

650
00:31:24,120 --> 00:31:24,640
Speaker 4: He'll get there.

651
00:31:24,880 --> 00:31:25,840
Speaker 3: Do you have training wheels?

652
00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:27,640
Speaker 5: Do we do like a yeah, I'll have to go

653
00:31:27,680 --> 00:31:28,160
Speaker 5: and do a course.

654
00:31:28,200 --> 00:31:29,760
Speaker 7: It will be months before I get my license, so

655
00:31:29,760 --> 00:31:31,160
Speaker 7: I have to go and do courses and all that

656
00:31:31,400 --> 00:31:32,000
Speaker 7: type of stuff.

657
00:31:33,160 --> 00:31:36,080
Speaker 1: Well, I do have to say that I'm very proud

658
00:31:36,080 --> 00:31:40,000
Speaker 1: of you, Janna, thank you for letting him make that decision.

659
00:31:41,920 --> 00:31:44,960
Speaker 6: My pride for you is not diminished by the fact

660
00:31:45,000 --> 00:31:46,560
Speaker 6: that Alan still went ahead and did it.

661
00:31:46,840 --> 00:31:50,480
Speaker 3: And I don't like it. I don't like it.

662
00:31:50,960 --> 00:31:53,080
Speaker 6: I don't like it because I like you. I like

663
00:31:53,160 --> 00:31:54,960
Speaker 6: you alive, and I don't want you on the country

664
00:31:55,040 --> 00:31:59,640
Speaker 6: road or or downtown or anywhere.

665
00:31:59,720 --> 00:32:00,360
Speaker 3: And I'm totorbike?

666
00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:01,600
Speaker 4: Can we not tell my husband?

667
00:32:02,040 --> 00:32:04,440
Speaker 3: So Preston would say, no, this is some sort of motorcycle.

668
00:32:04,840 --> 00:32:07,040
Speaker 3: You guys are just started.

669
00:32:08,320 --> 00:32:11,720
Speaker 4: It would be that a saturday on our country road.

670
00:32:12,440 --> 00:32:15,600
Speaker 4: But myself, hair, you know.

671
00:32:16,200 --> 00:32:17,960
Speaker 2: But it made me think, and this was the topic

672
00:32:18,040 --> 00:32:21,000
Speaker 2: that I really wanted to circle around to with the

673
00:32:21,080 --> 00:32:23,040
Speaker 2: point of it is when it came, I was like,

674
00:32:23,440 --> 00:32:31,040
Speaker 2: I'm jealous of that because I want to be able

675
00:32:31,080 --> 00:32:35,400
Speaker 2: to have the freedom to do something like that where

676
00:32:35,640 --> 00:32:39,600
Speaker 2: I think too much of consequences or circumstances or oh

677
00:32:39,760 --> 00:32:41,560
Speaker 2: I don't want to spend spend the money, or it's

678
00:32:41,680 --> 00:32:43,320
Speaker 2: it's like he's doing something for himself.

679
00:32:43,760 --> 00:32:45,640
Speaker 3: When do we ever do something for ourselves that we

680
00:32:45,760 --> 00:32:48,000
Speaker 3: want or that we get that we want. I just

681
00:32:48,080 --> 00:32:49,360
Speaker 3: talked to her about this on the plane.

682
00:32:49,560 --> 00:32:54,160
Speaker 6: I was like, I am when when do I have joy,

683
00:32:54,800 --> 00:32:58,320
Speaker 6: real joy that doesn't come with anything in the background,

684
00:32:58,400 --> 00:33:02,280
Speaker 6: going what if this happened? Like I can memorize every

685
00:33:02,360 --> 00:33:04,560
Speaker 6: dateline episode I've ever heard. I can even read a headline.

686
00:33:04,600 --> 00:33:07,520
Speaker 6: It's banked, like you shouldn't drink out of that cup,

687
00:33:07,560 --> 00:33:10,320
Speaker 6: what if it's broken? And you like it's like psychopathic,

688
00:33:11,760 --> 00:33:14,520
Speaker 6: tiny tiny chances, little ratios, but not.

689
00:33:14,600 --> 00:33:16,000
Speaker 3: Even like I'm the death defying thing.

690
00:33:16,120 --> 00:33:19,000
Speaker 2: Like, but I just remember looking at it going and

691
00:33:19,360 --> 00:33:22,480
Speaker 2: I got a little internally sad because it was just

692
00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:24,160
Speaker 2: and he's like, I'm sorry. I'm like, no, no, it

693
00:33:24,200 --> 00:33:26,840
Speaker 2: has actually nothing to do with you. It has nothing

694
00:33:26,920 --> 00:33:29,080
Speaker 2: to do about I was like, I hate the fact

695
00:33:29,080 --> 00:33:31,320
Speaker 2: that I don't feel and not because you don't make

696
00:33:31,360 --> 00:33:33,920
Speaker 2: me feel that way. I made my I make myself

697
00:33:33,960 --> 00:33:36,760
Speaker 2: feel like I can't do anything for myself or I

698
00:33:36,800 --> 00:33:40,280
Speaker 2: can't buy something for myself that I want. And I

699
00:33:40,320 --> 00:33:42,960
Speaker 2: don't even know what I would want right, you know,

700
00:33:43,120 --> 00:33:45,240
Speaker 2: because I'm just so like what does everybody else want?

701
00:33:45,760 --> 00:33:46,200
Speaker 3: So I'm like.

702
00:33:46,880 --> 00:33:50,400
Speaker 6: Correct, and I just can't relax enough, I think, to enjoy,

703
00:33:50,720 --> 00:33:53,520
Speaker 6: like I just maybe it's postpartum for right now, Like

704
00:33:53,600 --> 00:33:55,480
Speaker 6: I can't really just get to a level where I'm.

705
00:33:55,360 --> 00:33:58,280
Speaker 3: Like I'm having the time of my life. Who's with me?

706
00:33:58,880 --> 00:34:01,280
Speaker 3: The winds in my air, the back road, the country.

707
00:34:01,080 --> 00:34:03,880
Speaker 1: Road, if there was something I could think of, I

708
00:34:03,880 --> 00:34:06,600
Speaker 1: would I would do it. Yeah, Nick's more like you

709
00:34:06,920 --> 00:34:08,839
Speaker 1: where he wishes that he could. There's lots of things

710
00:34:08,880 --> 00:34:10,480
Speaker 1: he can think of, but like he thinks about the

711
00:34:10,520 --> 00:34:12,959
Speaker 1: money or this or that. But if there was something

712
00:34:13,000 --> 00:34:17,520
Speaker 1: that I wanted like that, I'd probably I'd probably do it.

713
00:34:17,760 --> 00:34:19,640
Speaker 2: I'm excited for you, and that was it was more

714
00:34:19,920 --> 00:34:22,080
Speaker 2: I was excited. I'm still scared of it. I don't

715
00:34:22,120 --> 00:34:24,680
Speaker 2: love it when you learn how to drive it. I

716
00:34:24,680 --> 00:34:25,719
Speaker 2: would like to go on the back of it. I

717
00:34:25,760 --> 00:34:26,399
Speaker 2: think it'd be fun.

718
00:34:26,640 --> 00:34:31,759
Speaker 4: No, no, oh, well this is interesting because.

719
00:34:31,520 --> 00:34:34,520
Speaker 5: Then if something does happen, both of us are in trouble.

720
00:34:35,520 --> 00:34:39,200
Speaker 4: True, probably both of y'all shouldn't be at the same time.

721
00:34:39,280 --> 00:34:42,799
Speaker 3: Right, that's true, kath Christens, Like correct it when you.

722
00:34:42,800 --> 00:34:45,400
Speaker 1: Get the pilot's license and everybody goes in the in

723
00:34:45,480 --> 00:34:47,319
Speaker 1: the plane like it's okay.

724
00:34:47,280 --> 00:34:50,200
Speaker 3: Where as we leave around a plane, yes today, both

725
00:34:50,239 --> 00:34:50,520
Speaker 3: of us.

726
00:34:50,960 --> 00:34:53,600
Speaker 4: All right, I'm not driving this small one pilots.

727
00:34:53,840 --> 00:34:57,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, Well, I love you guys. Let's go

728
00:34:57,239 --> 00:34:59,080
Speaker 2: pick out a wedding dress. What do you guys say?

729
00:34:59,719 --> 00:35:00,239
Speaker 4: Let's do it.

730
00:35:01,040 --> 00:35:05,640
Speaker 3: I am just so excited, mate, start working on your

731
00:35:05,640 --> 00:35:18,840
Speaker 3: speech him,