1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:04,880 Speaker 1: Today Show is pre recorded, y'all know what time. 2 00:00:05,120 --> 00:00:06,040 Speaker 2: Y'all don't know y'all. 3 00:00:09,320 --> 00:00:10,600 Speaker 1: At all at all, So. 4 00:00:12,720 --> 00:00:13,920 Speaker 3: Don't given them. 5 00:00:15,520 --> 00:00:38,640 Speaker 4: Black a million bus busy. Yeah, listening to to I 6 00:00:38,760 --> 00:00:54,400 Speaker 4: don't Joy? Well, yeah, Joy Show. 7 00:00:58,960 --> 00:00:59,880 Speaker 5: You got to use. 8 00:01:05,480 --> 00:01:05,520 Speaker 3: You. 9 00:01:10,520 --> 00:01:31,679 Speaker 6: You gonna turn. 10 00:01:29,840 --> 00:01:42,960 Speaker 7: You have to turn the mouth turn. 11 00:01:43,120 --> 00:01:47,280 Speaker 8: You probably got to turn the mouth out the water 12 00:01:47,520 --> 00:01:56,400 Speaker 8: the monica look me, come. 13 00:01:58,400 --> 00:01:59,760 Speaker 2: Come on, you'll think that. 14 00:02:01,200 --> 00:02:05,080 Speaker 9: Uh huh, I sure will come on to everybody. 15 00:02:05,200 --> 00:02:07,680 Speaker 2: You'll listen to the voice. Come on, dig me now, 16 00:02:08,160 --> 00:02:16,360 Speaker 2: one and only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Yep. Yeah. 17 00:02:16,720 --> 00:02:20,960 Speaker 9: Sometimes all I can say, help, man, how far I've 18 00:02:21,000 --> 00:02:24,040 Speaker 9: come is really unbelievable. But you know I finally figured 19 00:02:24,080 --> 00:02:24,359 Speaker 9: it out. 20 00:02:24,400 --> 00:02:24,640 Speaker 5: Man. 21 00:02:25,760 --> 00:02:32,200 Speaker 9: God allowed me to have the life I've had so 22 00:02:32,320 --> 00:02:36,360 Speaker 9: that I can become experienced at so many different things. 23 00:02:37,280 --> 00:02:40,360 Speaker 9: And in this experience, when I'm talking and sharing with people, 24 00:02:41,520 --> 00:02:43,280 Speaker 9: I will be able to relate to a lot of 25 00:02:43,639 --> 00:02:47,200 Speaker 9: different circumstances, not exact, but just the circumstances. 26 00:02:47,200 --> 00:02:47,400 Speaker 2: You know. 27 00:02:48,200 --> 00:02:50,440 Speaker 9: You know if a person comes to me and they say, man, 28 00:02:50,480 --> 00:02:52,440 Speaker 9: I've been down and out, Okay, well I know what 29 00:02:52,480 --> 00:02:52,840 Speaker 9: that is. 30 00:02:53,880 --> 00:02:56,839 Speaker 2: Man. I didn't I didn't have any direction, Okay, got 31 00:02:56,880 --> 00:02:57,520 Speaker 2: that been there. 32 00:02:58,919 --> 00:03:00,840 Speaker 9: Man at one point in time, Man, I just kept 33 00:03:00,880 --> 00:03:06,920 Speaker 9: piling mistake on top of mistakes. Okay, So you know, 34 00:03:08,360 --> 00:03:10,280 Speaker 9: I think what I'm trying to say to everybody is 35 00:03:10,280 --> 00:03:14,840 Speaker 9: when you're going through life and life is dealing the 36 00:03:14,880 --> 00:03:18,200 Speaker 9: cards that it deals, I want you to understand that 37 00:03:18,280 --> 00:03:24,919 Speaker 9: life deals everybody these cards. The disappointment card, the setback card, 38 00:03:25,960 --> 00:03:32,560 Speaker 9: the failure card, the mishap card, the unexpected misery card. 39 00:03:33,240 --> 00:03:37,440 Speaker 9: Everybody gonna get, the grief card, everybody gonna get, the 40 00:03:37,600 --> 00:03:42,800 Speaker 9: rash of bad decision card, everybody gonna get them. Understand 41 00:03:42,960 --> 00:03:49,480 Speaker 9: that going in that everybody is gonna get these cards 42 00:03:51,480 --> 00:03:55,200 Speaker 9: is how you play them, though, you know, from time 43 00:03:55,280 --> 00:03:58,080 Speaker 9: to time, one more time, it's how you play them. 44 00:03:58,440 --> 00:03:58,800 Speaker 2: Uh, you know. 45 00:03:58,880 --> 00:04:01,520 Speaker 9: From time to time when I'm watching TV, I love 46 00:04:01,600 --> 00:04:05,160 Speaker 9: to watch the World Series of Poker. I like watching 47 00:04:05,200 --> 00:04:11,160 Speaker 9: poker tournaments on TV because it's really weird. What's happened 48 00:04:11,200 --> 00:04:14,800 Speaker 9: to sport? To a poker they're actually trying to call 49 00:04:14,840 --> 00:04:17,839 Speaker 9: it a sport, you know, and as to everyday guide 50 00:04:17,960 --> 00:04:21,640 Speaker 9: that doesn't have to be athletically inclined to anything. Who 51 00:04:21,760 --> 00:04:25,880 Speaker 9: has a shot of winning a title if they play 52 00:04:25,960 --> 00:04:29,960 Speaker 9: their cards right, The best poker players in the world 53 00:04:30,760 --> 00:04:35,400 Speaker 9: don't have the best hands. They just make the best plays. 54 00:04:37,160 --> 00:04:39,839 Speaker 9: I've seen guys win a hand with nine to two 55 00:04:39,880 --> 00:04:43,760 Speaker 9: in they hand that's nothing, and win their hand because 56 00:04:43,800 --> 00:04:49,360 Speaker 9: they knew the bluff, they knew the odds, they calculated risks, 57 00:04:49,560 --> 00:04:52,839 Speaker 9: they made the stakes higher than the other person was 58 00:04:52,880 --> 00:04:56,560 Speaker 9: willing to pay. They gave off the illusion that they 59 00:04:56,680 --> 00:05:01,840 Speaker 9: had something when in actuality, they had nothing. So what 60 00:05:02,000 --> 00:05:05,880 Speaker 9: I enjoy about poker and watching it is that these people, 61 00:05:06,800 --> 00:05:11,640 Speaker 9: these people here, play the hand they dealt and it 62 00:05:11,680 --> 00:05:15,000 Speaker 9: ain't always a good hand. But it ain't whether your 63 00:05:15,080 --> 00:05:17,360 Speaker 9: hand is good. And it ain't whether you're gonna get 64 00:05:17,360 --> 00:05:19,680 Speaker 9: dealt bad cards or not, because you're gonna get dealt 65 00:05:19,760 --> 00:05:22,280 Speaker 9: some bad cars. Everybody ain't finna get two bullets in 66 00:05:22,320 --> 00:05:24,080 Speaker 9: their hand. You ain't finna get two aces when you 67 00:05:24,120 --> 00:05:24,599 Speaker 9: get dealt. 68 00:05:25,360 --> 00:05:25,720 Speaker 2: Uh. 69 00:05:25,839 --> 00:05:28,120 Speaker 9: You know, when you play a draw poker, some of 70 00:05:28,160 --> 00:05:30,839 Speaker 9: your cards gonna be nothing, But you gotta turn that 71 00:05:30,960 --> 00:05:34,040 Speaker 9: nothing into something. So when you get dealt these cards 72 00:05:34,040 --> 00:05:36,040 Speaker 9: in life, it ain't the fact that you getting to 73 00:05:36,320 --> 00:05:38,200 Speaker 9: keep getting them dealt. I was talking with a young 74 00:05:38,240 --> 00:05:42,039 Speaker 9: person yesterday and we were talking and we keep having 75 00:05:42,080 --> 00:05:45,040 Speaker 9: the same conversation over and over and over, and they 76 00:05:45,080 --> 00:05:48,279 Speaker 9: could not understand why they were not moving forward. But 77 00:05:48,400 --> 00:05:51,279 Speaker 9: I said, you don't understand. Every time we talk, we 78 00:05:51,400 --> 00:05:55,919 Speaker 9: have the exact same conversation. It is simply because you 79 00:05:56,200 --> 00:05:58,440 Speaker 9: keep getting your cards and. 80 00:05:58,320 --> 00:06:01,160 Speaker 2: You playing them the same way. See. 81 00:06:01,320 --> 00:06:06,120 Speaker 9: Until you make a conscience, the conscious decision to do 82 00:06:06,200 --> 00:06:09,640 Speaker 9: something different, the results will continue to be the same. 83 00:06:11,320 --> 00:06:16,400 Speaker 9: See here's here's here's the way this works. When you're 84 00:06:16,440 --> 00:06:20,320 Speaker 9: dealt to disappointments in life, it's how you handle the 85 00:06:20,400 --> 00:06:24,720 Speaker 9: disappointments that determine their outcome and who you are. Because 86 00:06:24,800 --> 00:06:27,960 Speaker 9: everybody gonna be disappointment, Everybody gonna lose a loved one, 87 00:06:28,000 --> 00:06:31,160 Speaker 9: everybody gonna make a bad decision, everybody gonna end wake 88 00:06:31,240 --> 00:06:34,640 Speaker 9: up one morning and have done something they regretted. Everybody 89 00:06:34,680 --> 00:06:39,040 Speaker 9: gonna get caught at the wrong time. Every everybody gonna 90 00:06:39,080 --> 00:06:39,880 Speaker 9: make a mistake. 91 00:06:39,920 --> 00:06:40,719 Speaker 2: It ain't just you. 92 00:06:40,960 --> 00:06:43,720 Speaker 9: That's how you play your cards when they get dealt 93 00:06:43,760 --> 00:06:46,599 Speaker 9: to you, that determine who you are. Now, how do 94 00:06:46,720 --> 00:06:50,040 Speaker 9: I play my cards better? First of all, it's a mindset. 95 00:06:50,720 --> 00:06:53,479 Speaker 9: Quit looking at everything as just the end when it 96 00:06:53,520 --> 00:06:54,320 Speaker 9: happens to you. 97 00:06:54,720 --> 00:06:56,400 Speaker 2: Oh lord, woe is me? 98 00:06:56,640 --> 00:07:01,200 Speaker 9: No everybody got your circinstances somewhere. 99 00:07:01,800 --> 00:07:04,599 Speaker 2: It ain't old woe as me. It's hold on, man. 100 00:07:04,480 --> 00:07:07,400 Speaker 9: Okay, let me play this out to see how God 101 00:07:07,520 --> 00:07:09,400 Speaker 9: done connected this to something else. 102 00:07:09,520 --> 00:07:09,760 Speaker 2: See. 103 00:07:09,880 --> 00:07:11,840 Speaker 9: Soon as a person have a setback, what's the first 104 00:07:11,840 --> 00:07:14,080 Speaker 9: thing A lot of people do, They go straight negative. 105 00:07:14,120 --> 00:07:16,520 Speaker 9: I can't see even get a break. I can't seem 106 00:07:16,520 --> 00:07:19,240 Speaker 9: to move forward. Hold on, man, do you realize this 107 00:07:19,280 --> 00:07:23,760 Speaker 9: could be connected to something? See you got to understand, man, 108 00:07:23,840 --> 00:07:26,239 Speaker 9: that this thing is all connected. That you not having 109 00:07:26,240 --> 00:07:29,880 Speaker 9: these mishaps and these spills and accidents and falls for 110 00:07:29,960 --> 00:07:33,360 Speaker 9: no reason. It's so you can become experienced at them. 111 00:07:33,400 --> 00:07:35,560 Speaker 9: So when he takes you to the next level, when 112 00:07:35,560 --> 00:07:37,720 Speaker 9: it happens again, you have no how and how. 113 00:07:37,640 --> 00:07:38,160 Speaker 2: To handle it. 114 00:07:38,360 --> 00:07:42,000 Speaker 9: If you keep throwing yourself off the cliff every time 115 00:07:42,160 --> 00:07:45,600 Speaker 9: something happened, you just gonna be a cliff divil man, 116 00:07:45,680 --> 00:07:49,239 Speaker 9: Stop tripping yourself out. I was talking to this young person, 117 00:07:49,280 --> 00:07:51,200 Speaker 9: I kept saying, and you know what, they tried to 118 00:07:51,240 --> 00:07:54,559 Speaker 9: tell me. I'm trying to stay positive. But to people 119 00:07:54,600 --> 00:07:57,880 Speaker 9: around here, they just killing that. Oh I see. 120 00:07:58,280 --> 00:07:59,560 Speaker 2: So when you learn. 121 00:07:59,480 --> 00:08:03,360 Speaker 9: Something and you know something, you don't take ownership of it. 122 00:08:03,920 --> 00:08:06,560 Speaker 9: You allow other people to come into what you know 123 00:08:07,080 --> 00:08:09,600 Speaker 9: and believe and shake it loose from you. I don't 124 00:08:09,600 --> 00:08:11,320 Speaker 9: care who you are. You not doing me like that. 125 00:08:11,920 --> 00:08:14,480 Speaker 9: Here's a deal. I have a gift that was given 126 00:08:14,520 --> 00:08:16,960 Speaker 9: to me from God. That is the gift of comedy. 127 00:08:17,040 --> 00:08:19,600 Speaker 9: That's what I've done. I've made the bulk of my 128 00:08:19,720 --> 00:08:24,000 Speaker 9: living on that skill set Right there. There are comedians 129 00:08:24,120 --> 00:08:26,840 Speaker 9: who are supposedly friends of mine, who I've worked with, 130 00:08:26,960 --> 00:08:30,120 Speaker 9: who get around in huddles with one another and they say, man, 131 00:08:30,200 --> 00:08:32,840 Speaker 9: Steve really ain't funny. I don't see what they be 132 00:08:32,920 --> 00:08:35,560 Speaker 9: laughing at. He ain't funny to me. He wasn't the 133 00:08:35,559 --> 00:08:40,319 Speaker 9: funniest king to me. Excuse me, you're irrelevant in this 134 00:08:40,360 --> 00:08:43,960 Speaker 9: conversation because irregardless as to how you feel about me, 135 00:08:44,240 --> 00:08:47,400 Speaker 9: there are people think that I'm knocked down kill over funny. 136 00:08:47,600 --> 00:08:51,600 Speaker 9: But more importantly, I own the gift that God gave 137 00:08:51,720 --> 00:08:55,080 Speaker 9: to me. I take ownership of his blessing. Cause you 138 00:08:55,200 --> 00:08:57,319 Speaker 9: don't think it's so. You ain't taking that from me. 139 00:08:58,000 --> 00:09:02,160 Speaker 9: Stop letting people steal your joy. Stop letting people take 140 00:09:02,240 --> 00:09:07,600 Speaker 9: what you're supposed to know. Look, I'm a kind person 141 00:09:07,640 --> 00:09:10,720 Speaker 9: at heart. Man, You ain't nothing, now you sitting here going, man, 142 00:09:10,760 --> 00:09:13,640 Speaker 9: I guess I ain't what's your tripping for? You are 143 00:09:13,720 --> 00:09:19,120 Speaker 9: a kind person, own that take ownership of it. Stop 144 00:09:19,360 --> 00:09:23,679 Speaker 9: letting things God has given you be taken away from others. 145 00:09:23,880 --> 00:09:26,080 Speaker 9: The devil is a cold player, and he got cold 146 00:09:26,080 --> 00:09:29,960 Speaker 9: players working for him, just shaking, just taking stuff from you. 147 00:09:29,960 --> 00:09:32,960 Speaker 9: You know, I'm a hard worker. I really am intelligent. 148 00:09:33,160 --> 00:09:36,360 Speaker 2: You stupid man. I thought I was a hard worker. 149 00:09:36,400 --> 00:09:36,559 Speaker 5: Man. 150 00:09:36,600 --> 00:09:38,480 Speaker 2: They came in here and said I was stupid. Man. 151 00:09:38,480 --> 00:09:42,000 Speaker 9: I don't know what I'm doing wrong. What excuse me? 152 00:09:42,400 --> 00:09:46,319 Speaker 9: You're a very bright person. Hey, y'all take ownership. When 153 00:09:46,360 --> 00:09:48,800 Speaker 9: God gives you something, blesses you with a gift, a talent, 154 00:09:49,160 --> 00:09:51,360 Speaker 9: a skill set, a mindset. 155 00:09:51,760 --> 00:09:52,240 Speaker 2: Own it. 156 00:09:52,440 --> 00:09:55,760 Speaker 9: Don't let people come in here and take it from you. Man, Okay, 157 00:09:55,800 --> 00:09:56,880 Speaker 9: I probably shouldn't have went that. 158 00:09:57,280 --> 00:10:02,360 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 159 00:10:03,720 --> 00:10:13,360 Speaker 9: Ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls, anybody working, unemployed, entrepreneur, retired, 160 00:10:14,480 --> 00:10:16,880 Speaker 9: haven't started to work for us yet. 161 00:10:17,240 --> 00:10:18,960 Speaker 2: I'm talking to you. 162 00:10:18,960 --> 00:10:26,360 Speaker 9: Your life can become immediately better if you resurrect, continue, 163 00:10:27,320 --> 00:10:31,080 Speaker 9: or begin a relationship with God Almighty. 164 00:10:31,520 --> 00:10:33,320 Speaker 2: Period. That's a fact. 165 00:10:34,559 --> 00:10:38,400 Speaker 9: Don't forget to pray, don't be ashamed to pray, and 166 00:10:38,440 --> 00:10:44,079 Speaker 9: don't ever be too proud to pray, because prayer changes things. 167 00:10:44,800 --> 00:10:45,240 Speaker 1: Facts. 168 00:10:46,600 --> 00:10:48,040 Speaker 2: That's all we need to say today. 169 00:10:48,360 --> 00:10:53,439 Speaker 9: How y'all doing Steve Harvey Morning Show, Shirley Strawberry, Colin Farrell, Mississippi, 170 00:10:53,440 --> 00:11:01,240 Speaker 9: Monica Junior, and the legend that is Nephew Tomas. Yeah. 171 00:11:01,280 --> 00:11:03,679 Speaker 9: I put it back because I could see that it 172 00:11:03,720 --> 00:11:05,559 Speaker 9: was just and then it was just too much that 173 00:11:06,480 --> 00:11:09,360 Speaker 9: people that wanted it off got scared, so I put 174 00:11:09,360 --> 00:11:09,720 Speaker 9: it back. 175 00:11:11,160 --> 00:11:17,720 Speaker 1: Really okay, well here. 176 00:11:17,640 --> 00:11:21,040 Speaker 10: Here people that said it ain't on the zoom. 177 00:11:21,280 --> 00:11:24,680 Speaker 11: You know, first of all time, you're just not legendary 178 00:11:24,720 --> 00:11:26,920 Speaker 11: to me. I ain't saying you ain't legendary, just nothing 179 00:11:27,080 --> 00:11:36,440 Speaker 11: to me of question, man, okayugus, Steve, why is Tommy legendary? 180 00:11:36,640 --> 00:11:41,559 Speaker 11: Just tell me you don't have asked the question that 181 00:11:41,920 --> 00:11:42,440 Speaker 11: my question. 182 00:11:42,640 --> 00:11:48,720 Speaker 9: Well, well, here's here's what my introduction entails. I started 183 00:11:48,760 --> 00:11:52,839 Speaker 9: with Shirley Strawberry because Shirley was the first person ever 184 00:11:53,320 --> 00:11:56,000 Speaker 9: to join this morning show. I had been on the 185 00:11:56,080 --> 00:12:00,199 Speaker 9: air three days. They had discovered I knew nothing thing 186 00:12:00,200 --> 00:12:07,000 Speaker 9: about radio, wasn't doing time checks, radio signal calls, id's weather, traffic. 187 00:12:07,520 --> 00:12:13,040 Speaker 2: Nothing. I was just on there giving it to the people. 188 00:12:14,720 --> 00:12:15,080 Speaker 6: Folk. 189 00:12:15,160 --> 00:12:22,080 Speaker 2: Pure hour was a stand up that I was taking faxes. 190 00:12:22,240 --> 00:12:24,640 Speaker 9: You could fax me, you know, were No, I don't 191 00:12:24,640 --> 00:12:26,199 Speaker 9: think it was an email back there yet? 192 00:12:26,360 --> 00:12:27,680 Speaker 1: Was it? 193 00:12:29,240 --> 00:12:30,959 Speaker 2: Facts? We got factors and that was it. 194 00:12:31,720 --> 00:12:34,160 Speaker 9: The next person was calling for Real because she became 195 00:12:34,280 --> 00:12:38,480 Speaker 9: incredibly important to the show as a music producer, connoisseur, 196 00:12:38,679 --> 00:12:40,040 Speaker 9: radio expert. 197 00:12:41,320 --> 00:12:44,520 Speaker 2: Then Monica Barnes joined the. 198 00:12:44,480 --> 00:12:49,000 Speaker 9: Show because she got two degrees and we needed somebody 199 00:12:49,000 --> 00:12:49,960 Speaker 9: from Mississippi. 200 00:12:52,080 --> 00:12:52,880 Speaker 2: And then. 201 00:12:54,360 --> 00:12:58,640 Speaker 9: I mentioned Junior because he was the last one to 202 00:12:58,720 --> 00:12:59,520 Speaker 9: come on the show. 203 00:13:00,760 --> 00:13:04,120 Speaker 2: The legend that is Nephew Tommy. 204 00:13:04,800 --> 00:13:11,160 Speaker 9: Came about because he is in the making of becoming 205 00:13:12,040 --> 00:13:19,040 Speaker 9: a legend. The legend is a statement that is means 206 00:13:19,120 --> 00:13:22,480 Speaker 9: to come, Nephew Tommy be there. 207 00:13:23,600 --> 00:13:25,360 Speaker 2: So that was the thinking behind the. 208 00:13:25,480 --> 00:13:30,160 Speaker 12: Junior explain the blood part. 209 00:13:30,720 --> 00:13:34,800 Speaker 2: You don't him no blood. We got to go to. 210 00:13:34,800 --> 00:13:39,600 Speaker 1: Break coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour. Well, 211 00:13:39,640 --> 00:13:43,240 Speaker 1: hear from the legend the Nephew Tommy says he runs 212 00:13:43,240 --> 00:13:44,719 Speaker 1: that brink back right after this. 213 00:13:45,400 --> 00:13:51,280 Speaker 13: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 214 00:13:52,400 --> 00:13:55,319 Speaker 1: Everybody knows what speed dating is, right, Well, if you're 215 00:13:55,360 --> 00:13:57,600 Speaker 1: the owner of a growing business. 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I'm I'm Christian's cousin. 236 00:15:01,920 --> 00:15:03,760 Speaker 14: Oh, okay, yeah, yeah. 237 00:15:03,560 --> 00:15:05,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, I wanted to reach out to you, i know, 238 00:15:05,440 --> 00:15:08,840 Speaker 3: the weddingness in the next two weeks, right, yeah, yeah, 239 00:15:10,520 --> 00:15:16,240 Speaker 3: yeah yeah, you ready for that? Yeah? Okay, Well, hey man, 240 00:15:16,520 --> 00:15:19,160 Speaker 3: I got a little bit of a problem that, uh, 241 00:15:19,760 --> 00:15:21,920 Speaker 3: we kind of wanted to call you about, you know, 242 00:15:21,960 --> 00:15:24,640 Speaker 3: because the family got together and had a little meeting 243 00:15:24,760 --> 00:15:27,880 Speaker 3: like and what the deal is is just here. I know, 244 00:15:28,080 --> 00:15:30,480 Speaker 3: I know you excited and want to marry my cousin 245 00:15:30,760 --> 00:15:33,280 Speaker 3: and she kind of excited too about the whole thing. 246 00:15:33,560 --> 00:15:36,000 Speaker 3: But you know, like the family members, we got together 247 00:15:36,080 --> 00:15:40,560 Speaker 3: and decided that for right now, I mean, right now, 248 00:15:40,800 --> 00:15:43,080 Speaker 3: we've been the call to wedd now for right now? 249 00:15:44,360 --> 00:15:45,160 Speaker 5: What you talking about? 250 00:15:45,400 --> 00:15:47,120 Speaker 14: What you talking about calling the wedding off? 251 00:15:47,320 --> 00:15:49,880 Speaker 3: You know, everybody think you cool and I and uh, 252 00:15:50,000 --> 00:15:53,280 Speaker 3: you know, we real real passionate man about you know, 253 00:15:53,360 --> 00:15:57,240 Speaker 3: people marrying into our family or whatever. Like oh Christin 254 00:15:57,240 --> 00:15:59,920 Speaker 3: ain't never told me like that about what about something 255 00:16:00,320 --> 00:16:02,720 Speaker 3: not getting no married? Okay, well see right here, like 256 00:16:02,760 --> 00:16:05,000 Speaker 3: I say, this is what the family done decided on. 257 00:16:05,800 --> 00:16:06,960 Speaker 14: What the family decided on. 258 00:16:07,080 --> 00:16:08,920 Speaker 3: Okay, you see, this is what I'm trying to tell you. See, 259 00:16:08,920 --> 00:16:11,880 Speaker 3: we're a real close knit family and it's like this here. See, 260 00:16:11,920 --> 00:16:13,440 Speaker 3: first of all, let me get you to understand is 261 00:16:13,480 --> 00:16:16,480 Speaker 3: here you're talking to Butcher right now? All right, here's 262 00:16:16,520 --> 00:16:19,120 Speaker 3: a deal. You know, we didn't decided that the wedding 263 00:16:19,160 --> 00:16:21,680 Speaker 3: name for in the appen in two weeks until like 264 00:16:21,760 --> 00:16:24,440 Speaker 3: when we had we had the pot up barbecue. Everybody 265 00:16:24,480 --> 00:16:26,920 Speaker 3: brings something. Why, you ain't brain nothing. 266 00:16:26,800 --> 00:16:27,760 Speaker 5: What you're talking about. 267 00:16:27,760 --> 00:16:30,560 Speaker 3: I'm paying for what? Oh oh oh, oh oh oh. 268 00:16:31,000 --> 00:16:32,480 Speaker 3: That's what you've been to throw up in our face 269 00:16:32,520 --> 00:16:33,760 Speaker 3: that you're paying for the weg. 270 00:16:33,680 --> 00:16:35,880 Speaker 14: Hell yeah, what's I'm supposed to bring? 271 00:16:35,960 --> 00:16:38,440 Speaker 3: Hey man, everybody brings something. We have a pot Look, 272 00:16:38,520 --> 00:16:41,600 Speaker 3: you know, everybody brings something contribute to to to the 273 00:16:41,640 --> 00:16:44,280 Speaker 3: function of the event that's going on, you know. And 274 00:16:44,360 --> 00:16:45,800 Speaker 3: for you to walk up in there and I have 275 00:16:46,040 --> 00:16:47,840 Speaker 3: nothing that let us know what kind of person you're 276 00:16:47,840 --> 00:16:51,200 Speaker 3: gonna be in the family, we can't have it this again. 277 00:16:51,640 --> 00:16:53,880 Speaker 3: This Butcher right here, I don't know, no Butcher. 278 00:16:54,240 --> 00:16:57,320 Speaker 14: Look, I came to the family gathering technique. I came 279 00:16:57,360 --> 00:16:59,720 Speaker 14: there and showed up, loving on all y'all, telling y'all 280 00:16:59,720 --> 00:17:01,600 Speaker 14: break this was gonna be. And now you're telling me 281 00:17:01,880 --> 00:17:03,640 Speaker 14: I can't marry Christmas. 282 00:17:03,440 --> 00:17:05,520 Speaker 3: Is that what telling me a man the family that 283 00:17:05,680 --> 00:17:08,480 Speaker 3: already voted. And when the family vote, dog, that's it. 284 00:17:08,800 --> 00:17:11,560 Speaker 3: I ain't marrying the family, you man. You married my 285 00:17:11,680 --> 00:17:14,119 Speaker 3: cousin Christian. That's what you're trying to do. And you 286 00:17:14,440 --> 00:17:15,520 Speaker 3: ain't fit the maryor house. 287 00:17:16,160 --> 00:17:19,560 Speaker 14: Look, i'ma calling up to my job talking to like this. 288 00:17:19,680 --> 00:17:22,360 Speaker 3: Do not come calling me with no vote. Hey man, 289 00:17:22,440 --> 00:17:24,920 Speaker 3: let me tell you this here until we can decide 290 00:17:24,960 --> 00:17:27,800 Speaker 3: that you good for Christian. Until we can decide that 291 00:17:28,040 --> 00:17:30,199 Speaker 3: you know you can handle being married to her, and 292 00:17:30,240 --> 00:17:32,760 Speaker 3: you come correct as a family member. And if you're 293 00:17:32,760 --> 00:17:35,280 Speaker 3: gonna come to potlust, then you bring a pot. You 294 00:17:35,280 --> 00:17:37,399 Speaker 3: ain't brain nothing, I ain't got a fear. 295 00:17:37,280 --> 00:17:39,240 Speaker 5: Ain't nothing. I'm paying for this wed and I don't 296 00:17:39,240 --> 00:17:40,040 Speaker 5: give watch. 297 00:17:40,000 --> 00:17:41,520 Speaker 14: Up there all that money out of the dropped for this. 298 00:17:41,880 --> 00:17:43,480 Speaker 14: How about two bottles of wine to it? 299 00:17:43,760 --> 00:17:46,439 Speaker 3: You bought when I ain't seen no wine. 300 00:17:46,840 --> 00:17:48,359 Speaker 14: I don't care if you got that wine or not. 301 00:17:48,480 --> 00:17:49,879 Speaker 14: I saw hermama drinking it. 302 00:17:49,920 --> 00:17:51,960 Speaker 3: Okay, well, I ain't getting no wine. I don't remember 303 00:17:52,000 --> 00:17:55,040 Speaker 3: nobody bringing no wine. See butcher and normally see everything 304 00:17:55,160 --> 00:17:56,760 Speaker 3: that go on, I got class. 305 00:17:56,800 --> 00:17:59,560 Speaker 14: I don't know what he's talking about. Butcher. Whatever I 306 00:17:59,680 --> 00:18:02,560 Speaker 14: bought wine, Mamma was drinking it. And I ain't playing 307 00:18:02,560 --> 00:18:05,119 Speaker 14: that this wedding going down. I didn't spend over twenty three. 308 00:18:05,000 --> 00:18:07,480 Speaker 3: Thousand dollars on that. Hey man, I didn't already told 309 00:18:07,520 --> 00:18:10,280 Speaker 3: you that. The family then voted on that the wedding. Naw, 310 00:18:10,400 --> 00:18:11,280 Speaker 3: I don't give up. 311 00:18:11,760 --> 00:18:12,600 Speaker 5: I do them pay for this. 312 00:18:13,119 --> 00:18:14,760 Speaker 14: I ain't heard nothing from Christian about this. 313 00:18:15,080 --> 00:18:17,680 Speaker 3: Christin might not know what we'vene voted on. We made 314 00:18:17,720 --> 00:18:23,160 Speaker 3: the decisions sometimes for everybody. You understand that, well, let 315 00:18:23,240 --> 00:18:26,120 Speaker 3: Christian know that we's gonna stop the web. We I'm 316 00:18:26,160 --> 00:18:28,440 Speaker 3: just calm to let you know before. I ain't tell 317 00:18:28,520 --> 00:18:29,240 Speaker 3: her what's up. 318 00:18:29,160 --> 00:18:29,840 Speaker 5: You're trying to tell me. 319 00:18:29,920 --> 00:18:31,160 Speaker 14: Christen don't even know now. 320 00:18:31,320 --> 00:18:33,159 Speaker 3: We ain't told her that we don't agree with you 321 00:18:33,280 --> 00:18:35,120 Speaker 3: yet and that we're gonna stop the wind. We ain't 322 00:18:35,160 --> 00:18:36,760 Speaker 3: told of it. Man, out of here. 323 00:18:36,760 --> 00:18:38,000 Speaker 14: I don't paid all this money for this. 324 00:18:38,080 --> 00:18:39,000 Speaker 5: Man, y'all ain't stopping. 325 00:18:39,520 --> 00:18:41,960 Speaker 3: Hey man, I done already told you what we're doing. 326 00:18:42,160 --> 00:18:44,119 Speaker 3: I ain't. I'm not finna continue to go back and 327 00:18:44,160 --> 00:18:44,720 Speaker 3: forth with you. 328 00:18:45,280 --> 00:18:47,439 Speaker 14: Better go off my alreadys and your voice at me. 329 00:18:47,680 --> 00:18:49,439 Speaker 3: I don't know to hell you I tell you what. 330 00:18:49,560 --> 00:18:51,199 Speaker 3: Let me say this to you. I don't care if 331 00:18:51,240 --> 00:18:53,480 Speaker 3: I got to bust up in that church and stop 332 00:18:53,560 --> 00:18:55,639 Speaker 3: this wedding because you the win. A guess what we 333 00:18:55,720 --> 00:18:58,480 Speaker 3: then said, whatever I got to do, I don't know 334 00:18:58,520 --> 00:19:01,440 Speaker 3: who you with. I wish y'all was try to stop 335 00:19:01,480 --> 00:19:03,920 Speaker 3: this wedding. Look we can handle it right now. 336 00:19:04,040 --> 00:19:04,840 Speaker 5: I can get off of work. 337 00:19:04,880 --> 00:19:07,399 Speaker 14: I'm already going through some books and I'm already on fire. 338 00:19:07,560 --> 00:19:09,280 Speaker 5: I will come there and bust. 339 00:19:09,080 --> 00:19:12,000 Speaker 3: Yo right now. I don't know see see see what 340 00:19:12,119 --> 00:19:14,840 Speaker 3: she was going with Nigel. See Nigel, ain't act like 341 00:19:14,920 --> 00:19:17,520 Speaker 3: you say oh what, I don't know. You didn't bring 342 00:19:17,560 --> 00:19:20,240 Speaker 3: that me and that doesn't already have don't even bring 343 00:19:20,280 --> 00:19:22,560 Speaker 3: that came up in me. Hey man, amen, I'm just 344 00:19:22,640 --> 00:19:24,960 Speaker 3: keeping it real with you. Nigel, ain't act like this 345 00:19:25,080 --> 00:19:27,440 Speaker 3: here that we don't have words. 346 00:19:27,440 --> 00:19:29,159 Speaker 14: And if that doesn't want to come and bust up 347 00:19:29,160 --> 00:19:31,040 Speaker 14: in that too, he get that with just like that. 348 00:19:31,040 --> 00:19:32,879 Speaker 3: Say man, all I'm just trying to say is the 349 00:19:32,920 --> 00:19:34,640 Speaker 3: home family a hundred. 350 00:19:34,640 --> 00:19:36,520 Speaker 5: I don't want to hear nothing about this no more. 351 00:19:36,720 --> 00:19:38,480 Speaker 14: Tell me where to be and we can deal with 352 00:19:38,520 --> 00:19:39,120 Speaker 14: this right now. 353 00:19:39,160 --> 00:19:41,960 Speaker 3: I'm just letting you know the family don't voted the 354 00:19:42,000 --> 00:19:45,040 Speaker 3: family and already no voting. Now what we'll do we'll 355 00:19:45,080 --> 00:19:47,879 Speaker 3: push the wed back and then give us time to 356 00:19:47,920 --> 00:19:50,560 Speaker 3: reevaluate you that we evaluate me. 357 00:19:50,880 --> 00:19:53,399 Speaker 14: I don't need no evaluation from y'all and me and 358 00:19:53,480 --> 00:19:54,320 Speaker 14: christ An getting married. 359 00:19:54,359 --> 00:19:55,520 Speaker 5: How do I put some money on this? 360 00:19:55,920 --> 00:19:57,760 Speaker 3: All I know is the wedding ain't happening. 361 00:19:58,000 --> 00:20:00,360 Speaker 14: That the weddings happening now I set them, Hey fall, 362 00:20:00,880 --> 00:20:04,800 Speaker 14: he saw some books you the family were gonna get 363 00:20:04,800 --> 00:20:07,200 Speaker 14: married in two and a half weeks. If yoah, y'all 364 00:20:07,200 --> 00:20:09,120 Speaker 14: don't come in. If y'all come up in that, y'all 365 00:20:09,160 --> 00:20:09,640 Speaker 14: gonna get. 366 00:20:09,520 --> 00:20:13,760 Speaker 3: Debt on that straight that I'm trying to say, Hey man, 367 00:20:13,840 --> 00:20:16,399 Speaker 3: I'm trying to tell you man, right now, the family 368 00:20:16,440 --> 00:20:19,520 Speaker 3: don't want you in the family right now. I don't 369 00:20:19,520 --> 00:20:20,320 Speaker 3: give it about y'all. 370 00:20:20,359 --> 00:20:21,320 Speaker 14: Ain't in love with y'all. 371 00:20:21,400 --> 00:20:23,399 Speaker 3: I'm married Christmas and I can give up if I. 372 00:20:23,400 --> 00:20:24,399 Speaker 14: See y'all ever again. 373 00:20:24,760 --> 00:20:27,080 Speaker 3: I'm gonna tell you this here, the family voted on 374 00:20:27,080 --> 00:20:28,720 Speaker 3: one more thing. You need to go on on. Know 375 00:20:28,840 --> 00:20:30,760 Speaker 3: then while we're at it, this ain't no democracy. 376 00:20:30,880 --> 00:20:31,639 Speaker 5: We getting married. 377 00:20:31,800 --> 00:20:34,480 Speaker 14: That is between hi and I and if y'all don't 378 00:20:34,520 --> 00:20:35,800 Speaker 14: want to be there, jump. 379 00:20:35,520 --> 00:20:38,720 Speaker 3: Off in the dish. Yeah, it's one more thing. We 380 00:20:38,760 --> 00:20:41,119 Speaker 3: done voted on what the helf. You don't voted off, 381 00:20:41,240 --> 00:20:44,639 Speaker 3: We voted on this. This is nephew Tommy from the 382 00:20:44,680 --> 00:20:48,879 Speaker 3: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Christians and Todd Family got me 383 00:20:49,000 --> 00:20:57,119 Speaker 3: the prank phone call you yo, I'm still come to 384 00:20:57,160 --> 00:21:04,240 Speaker 3: the wedding you Tobby. I don't put all that money 385 00:21:04,240 --> 00:21:08,080 Speaker 3: out like that. I was like, no, Sun, I got 386 00:21:08,080 --> 00:21:09,720 Speaker 3: one more thing. I got to ask you, dog, what 387 00:21:09,960 --> 00:21:12,560 Speaker 3: is what is the baddest and I mean the baddest 388 00:21:12,680 --> 00:21:14,760 Speaker 3: radio show in the lane. 389 00:21:15,880 --> 00:21:21,520 Speaker 14: Steve Harry Morning Show. Baby Tommy, I'm being real with you, man, somebody. 390 00:21:21,160 --> 00:21:22,440 Speaker 3: Gonna pack you up. 391 00:21:25,760 --> 00:21:28,920 Speaker 2: There. You have it, be back in the out Thank you. 392 00:21:29,000 --> 00:21:32,080 Speaker 1: Legend. Coming up next it is ask the CLO with 393 00:21:32,119 --> 00:21:35,360 Speaker 1: our Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey in the building. Right 394 00:21:35,400 --> 00:21:43,880 Speaker 1: after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show, Folks. 395 00:21:44,040 --> 00:21:46,960 Speaker 2: There are a lot of reasons to like Dais. 396 00:21:47,200 --> 00:21:50,920 Speaker 9: Hyundai's done a lot to support American consumers. I mean, 397 00:21:51,320 --> 00:21:54,879 Speaker 9: they announced their investment of twenty one billion dollars in 398 00:21:54,920 --> 00:21:57,440 Speaker 9: the United States over the next three years that will 399 00:21:57,440 --> 00:22:01,600 Speaker 9: expand manufacturing and create more job four Americans. 400 00:22:01,040 --> 00:22:03,679 Speaker 10: And they just announced that they will not be raising 401 00:22:03,880 --> 00:22:06,040 Speaker 10: MSRP through June second. 402 00:22:05,800 --> 00:22:06,439 Speaker 2: No matter what. 403 00:22:06,920 --> 00:22:10,359 Speaker 10: Call five six two three one four four six zero 404 00:22:10,480 --> 00:22:12,640 Speaker 10: three for more details. 405 00:22:12,520 --> 00:22:15,399 Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour. In entertainment news, 406 00:22:15,440 --> 00:22:19,679 Speaker 1: ASAP Roppie ASAP Rocky ruffled a lot of feathers with 407 00:22:19,760 --> 00:22:23,040 Speaker 1: his positive comments on Black Fathers. Now he made people 408 00:22:23,160 --> 00:22:26,880 Speaker 1: meant saying positive things about Black joh we'll talk about that. 409 00:22:27,840 --> 00:22:31,560 Speaker 1: And Rapper the Game has been ordered to sell his 410 00:22:31,680 --> 00:22:36,120 Speaker 1: mansion to settle a seven million dollar sexual lawsuit. That's 411 00:22:36,160 --> 00:22:38,920 Speaker 1: all coming up at the top of the hour. Right now, 412 00:22:38,920 --> 00:22:42,480 Speaker 1: it is time to ask the CLO our Chief Love Officer, 413 00:22:42,800 --> 00:22:47,800 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. All right, this is from Malcolm in Gainesville Colo. 414 00:22:48,200 --> 00:22:50,680 Speaker 1: Malcolm writes, my wife threw a pack of condoms at 415 00:22:50,720 --> 00:22:55,400 Speaker 1: me because I stayed out until midnight last Saturday. She said, 416 00:22:55,440 --> 00:22:58,520 Speaker 1: if I'm going to cheat, do it responsibly. She has 417 00:22:58,680 --> 00:23:02,680 Speaker 1: serious baggage. Married seven years. Will I have to deal 418 00:23:02,720 --> 00:23:03,920 Speaker 1: with this forever? 419 00:23:05,480 --> 00:23:09,760 Speaker 2: She has serious baggage. I don't know what that means. 420 00:23:10,080 --> 00:23:12,840 Speaker 9: I think you trying to lead us to think that 421 00:23:12,920 --> 00:23:15,960 Speaker 9: she's accusing me of something you haven't done, because you 422 00:23:16,080 --> 00:23:22,640 Speaker 9: stayed out till midnight. You've got to deal with that. Yeah, 423 00:23:22,760 --> 00:23:27,720 Speaker 9: midnight coming in here. No twelve, you're fifteen. We don't 424 00:23:27,720 --> 00:23:34,680 Speaker 9: do that. So yeah, man, Now, if you haven't done anything, 425 00:23:34,880 --> 00:23:37,280 Speaker 9: then you have a problem. If you've done something and 426 00:23:38,000 --> 00:23:40,119 Speaker 9: she throwed it. I don't know, man, I don't know. 427 00:23:40,400 --> 00:23:42,920 Speaker 9: Y'all gotta talk through this because if you're really saying 428 00:23:42,960 --> 00:23:46,159 Speaker 9: you haven't done anything, dog and she's just you know, 429 00:23:46,720 --> 00:23:49,960 Speaker 9: carrying some baggage from being cheated on before, that's gonna 430 00:23:50,000 --> 00:23:51,600 Speaker 9: be a problem. But I'm gonna have to sit down 431 00:23:51,600 --> 00:23:54,880 Speaker 9: and talk to somebody, go to some type of marital counseling, yep, 432 00:23:55,080 --> 00:23:57,680 Speaker 9: or just sit down and just put a tracker on 433 00:23:57,720 --> 00:24:02,840 Speaker 9: your own phone and just say here, this is where 434 00:24:02,840 --> 00:24:05,440 Speaker 9: I'm at. I told y'all gonna be over Stands house. 435 00:24:05,520 --> 00:24:07,600 Speaker 9: This is why I woon. You know you could do that. 436 00:24:07,840 --> 00:24:09,520 Speaker 9: I don't know, but that's all I got for you. 437 00:24:09,560 --> 00:24:09,760 Speaker 2: Brother. 438 00:24:10,040 --> 00:24:12,040 Speaker 1: But she threw a pack of condoms at him. 439 00:24:12,080 --> 00:24:12,320 Speaker 2: Wow. 440 00:24:12,760 --> 00:24:16,480 Speaker 1: Okay, moving on to Sheila and Tulsa. 441 00:24:17,240 --> 00:24:19,080 Speaker 9: Now, if you throw a pack of condoms at me, 442 00:24:19,720 --> 00:24:21,280 Speaker 9: I've considered that consent. 443 00:24:24,960 --> 00:24:29,919 Speaker 2: I'm using all of them, the three or. 444 00:24:29,960 --> 00:24:35,480 Speaker 1: The twelve, all right, I know it's way t am, 445 00:24:35,520 --> 00:24:39,879 Speaker 1: I all right. Moving on to Sheila and Tulsa, Sheila writes, 446 00:24:39,920 --> 00:24:42,399 Speaker 1: my husband and I went to dinner with friends. I 447 00:24:42,440 --> 00:24:44,600 Speaker 1: was trying to tell a story from our past, and 448 00:24:44,640 --> 00:24:46,920 Speaker 1: he shut me down and said I had no sense 449 00:24:46,960 --> 00:24:49,919 Speaker 1: of humor, so he should finish the story. I have 450 00:24:50,040 --> 00:24:53,520 Speaker 1: ignored him since Friday. Why can't he see how hurtful 451 00:24:53,600 --> 00:24:56,840 Speaker 1: that was? He's not talking to him at all. 452 00:24:57,080 --> 00:24:59,080 Speaker 2: My wife can't tell a story either, dog, I know 453 00:24:59,280 --> 00:24:59,960 Speaker 2: exactly where. 454 00:25:01,400 --> 00:25:03,640 Speaker 1: But have you shut her down and said she has 455 00:25:03,680 --> 00:25:04,600 Speaker 1: no sense of humor? 456 00:25:05,280 --> 00:25:10,560 Speaker 9: Hell no, I didn't think there and listen to that 457 00:25:10,680 --> 00:25:14,880 Speaker 9: disorganized story, and she'd be laughing the whole time. She'd 458 00:25:14,880 --> 00:25:18,560 Speaker 9: be telling it, and people like her cause she's so nice, 459 00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:19,879 Speaker 9: so they be just going with it. 460 00:25:19,960 --> 00:25:27,320 Speaker 2: I'll be going, oh, lord, that ain't the order this goal. 461 00:25:27,440 --> 00:25:28,440 Speaker 2: You left this out. 462 00:25:29,200 --> 00:25:32,119 Speaker 9: Ooh, that ain't gonna be funny without this information you 463 00:25:32,240 --> 00:25:33,080 Speaker 9: left out. 464 00:25:33,080 --> 00:25:36,200 Speaker 15: A man, you're a professional storytelling you the kid? 465 00:25:36,280 --> 00:25:38,600 Speaker 9: Yeah, so you know it's kind of hard, But no, 466 00:25:38,640 --> 00:25:41,639 Speaker 9: I've never shut her down. Yeah, I've tapped on to 467 00:25:41,760 --> 00:25:44,239 Speaker 9: the table trying to get her to speed it up 468 00:25:44,240 --> 00:25:44,719 Speaker 9: a little bit. 469 00:25:44,800 --> 00:25:46,080 Speaker 2: She don't even know what that means. 470 00:25:49,440 --> 00:25:54,960 Speaker 1: Wrap this up, read the room. I'm trying to help, 471 00:25:57,400 --> 00:25:59,760 Speaker 1: but but she wants to know. She wants to know. 472 00:25:59,800 --> 00:26:02,440 Speaker 1: Why can't her husband see how hurtful that was to her? 473 00:26:02,800 --> 00:26:05,120 Speaker 1: For him doing that in front of all those people. 474 00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:08,320 Speaker 2: Well, it was either hurt you or watch the hurt 475 00:26:08,359 --> 00:26:09,399 Speaker 2: on they face. 476 00:26:09,200 --> 00:26:16,720 Speaker 9: Something more important, sacrifice of one for the good of 477 00:26:16,760 --> 00:26:17,280 Speaker 9: them all. 478 00:26:22,359 --> 00:26:25,159 Speaker 1: But it's silent in that house though she's not talking 479 00:26:25,160 --> 00:26:25,560 Speaker 1: to him. 480 00:26:26,119 --> 00:26:29,159 Speaker 2: Yeah, well he probably probably won't do it again. Yeah, 481 00:26:29,200 --> 00:26:30,360 Speaker 2: all right, it's. 482 00:26:30,240 --> 00:26:32,439 Speaker 9: Good, jun What's matter with you today? We got a 483 00:26:32,480 --> 00:26:34,760 Speaker 9: clo problem going on right here on the show. JUSI 484 00:26:34,800 --> 00:26:35,840 Speaker 9: what's wrong with you today? 485 00:26:36,760 --> 00:26:36,960 Speaker 10: Oh? 486 00:26:37,200 --> 00:26:38,159 Speaker 12: No, I'm married? 487 00:26:38,359 --> 00:26:42,680 Speaker 2: That's it what I thought. Okay, let's go okay, moving on? 488 00:26:42,960 --> 00:26:44,000 Speaker 2: Got it? Exactly? 489 00:26:44,000 --> 00:26:45,760 Speaker 1: What question? Quick answer? 490 00:26:46,200 --> 00:26:46,520 Speaker 2: Got it? 491 00:26:47,840 --> 00:26:52,320 Speaker 1: Moving on to Anna and Virginia Beach, Anna writes why 492 00:26:52,359 --> 00:26:55,760 Speaker 1: are all the good men smaller and less exciting? In bed? 493 00:26:56,160 --> 00:26:58,840 Speaker 1: I met a man that's six four and I had 494 00:26:58,840 --> 00:27:01,159 Speaker 1: hoped he came with a lot of benefits, if you 495 00:27:01,320 --> 00:27:04,320 Speaker 1: know what I mean. But he did not, and I 496 00:27:04,320 --> 00:27:06,480 Speaker 1: don't think I can keep dating him. How do I 497 00:27:06,560 --> 00:27:08,359 Speaker 1: let him down? Easily? Easy? 498 00:27:08,359 --> 00:27:08,719 Speaker 2: You know what? 499 00:27:08,880 --> 00:27:12,879 Speaker 9: Lady you know what, lady, lady, why are all the 500 00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:18,600 Speaker 9: men that's good man small down there? Have you ever 501 00:27:18,800 --> 00:27:24,600 Speaker 9: thought that maybe you should reduce your test pool? What 502 00:27:25,359 --> 00:27:29,160 Speaker 9: you should narrow down your scope of test pool? You're 503 00:27:29,160 --> 00:27:34,879 Speaker 9: trying too much? What about you? What about you? 504 00:27:35,480 --> 00:27:38,119 Speaker 1: What about us? This is not about It's about the 505 00:27:38,160 --> 00:27:38,880 Speaker 1: men in her lives? 506 00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:42,639 Speaker 9: No, no, no, what what are her redeeming qualities? I 507 00:27:42,680 --> 00:27:44,560 Speaker 9: get tired of people calling in and talking about a 508 00:27:44,600 --> 00:27:47,240 Speaker 9: man can't do this in bed and can't do that? 509 00:27:47,560 --> 00:27:48,560 Speaker 2: What do you do? 510 00:27:50,280 --> 00:27:54,120 Speaker 1: Well? Well, that's not her question, But that's not her. 511 00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:55,679 Speaker 2: Question, her question, that's my question. 512 00:27:56,440 --> 00:28:00,800 Speaker 1: Oh back, answer her question with a question, see l 513 00:28:01,359 --> 00:28:04,920 Speaker 1: oh a chief love officer. 514 00:28:05,680 --> 00:28:09,040 Speaker 9: See and all the time it's not the guys. You 515 00:28:09,080 --> 00:28:14,080 Speaker 9: know what, ma'am? Maybe you just too dog gone experienced. 516 00:28:15,080 --> 00:28:20,600 Speaker 9: Maybe you don't done way too much, You didn't done 517 00:28:20,600 --> 00:28:21,040 Speaker 9: the most? 518 00:28:21,119 --> 00:28:22,600 Speaker 2: Now can't nobody keep up with you? 519 00:28:22,680 --> 00:28:22,880 Speaker 5: Now? 520 00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:23,359 Speaker 2: You mad? 521 00:28:24,160 --> 00:28:26,080 Speaker 1: Okay? Can you answer her question? 522 00:28:26,160 --> 00:28:28,800 Speaker 2: Though I've answered the question? Maybe you too much? 523 00:28:29,160 --> 00:28:32,240 Speaker 9: You know what, if you can't find nobody to satisfy you, 524 00:28:32,960 --> 00:28:37,879 Speaker 9: then can you quench the thirst? Are you satisfyabol or 525 00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:42,080 Speaker 9: have you done so much that can't nobody live. 526 00:28:41,920 --> 00:28:47,440 Speaker 2: Up to what you need. Really, no, no, not for real? 527 00:28:48,120 --> 00:28:51,480 Speaker 1: Why are good men smaller and less exciting in bed? 528 00:28:52,040 --> 00:28:54,760 Speaker 9: And you gonna pass up on a good man because 529 00:28:54,760 --> 00:28:57,920 Speaker 9: he ain't exciting in bed? Now you're exciting in bed, 530 00:28:58,120 --> 00:29:02,320 Speaker 9: but you might not be a good woman. Hello, oh man, 531 00:29:03,920 --> 00:29:04,520 Speaker 9: you know that. 532 00:29:04,400 --> 00:29:05,200 Speaker 2: Can happen too. 533 00:29:06,640 --> 00:29:08,680 Speaker 1: She doesn't think she can keep dating him. 534 00:29:08,720 --> 00:29:11,640 Speaker 9: Feel oh okay, Well leave him and move on to 535 00:29:11,720 --> 00:29:15,200 Speaker 9: the next one, like you've done time and time again before. 536 00:29:15,720 --> 00:29:17,640 Speaker 9: But you're gonna keep You're gonna quit passing up on 537 00:29:17,680 --> 00:29:20,680 Speaker 9: these good men. Men are trainable, you know. But I'm 538 00:29:20,680 --> 00:29:23,000 Speaker 9: gonna tell you something right now. We don't care how 539 00:29:23,040 --> 00:29:26,240 Speaker 9: good you do it. Why we will leave you. Roll over, 540 00:29:27,120 --> 00:29:31,360 Speaker 9: We will leave you. We will leave you. 541 00:29:36,200 --> 00:29:38,480 Speaker 1: There'll be another you in a minute. 542 00:29:39,480 --> 00:29:43,360 Speaker 2: In a quick minute. Yeah, you'll be over there by 543 00:29:43,480 --> 00:29:44,520 Speaker 2: yourself again. 544 00:29:46,040 --> 00:29:50,880 Speaker 1: This is from Ron in Valdosta. Ron and Valdosta says, 545 00:29:51,360 --> 00:29:54,040 Speaker 1: my wife goes for a walk most evenings after work. 546 00:29:54,120 --> 00:29:55,960 Speaker 1: I rode by her on my way home and she 547 00:29:56,000 --> 00:29:58,320 Speaker 1: had stopped to talk on her phone. When she got home, 548 00:29:58,640 --> 00:30:01,240 Speaker 1: she swore she wasn't on the phon, she was singing. 549 00:30:01,560 --> 00:30:03,280 Speaker 1: Why would she lie about what I saw? 550 00:30:04,080 --> 00:30:10,200 Speaker 2: Wouldn't you. He ain't been saying. 551 00:30:11,520 --> 00:30:13,920 Speaker 9: You stopped to talk to a girl when you tell 552 00:30:13,960 --> 00:30:15,240 Speaker 9: her you were singing. 553 00:30:17,480 --> 00:30:19,920 Speaker 1: She's just walking. OK. 554 00:30:20,040 --> 00:30:23,720 Speaker 2: Right there you have it all right. Lucky you didn't 555 00:30:23,760 --> 00:30:25,400 Speaker 2: ask me, because I have told you how to be, 556 00:30:25,560 --> 00:30:26,160 Speaker 2: I was praying. 557 00:30:26,840 --> 00:30:28,800 Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, we'll have 558 00:30:28,840 --> 00:30:30,720 Speaker 1: some entertainment news for you. Thank you, Sie. 559 00:30:30,760 --> 00:30:30,960 Speaker 2: Hello. 560 00:30:31,200 --> 00:30:40,040 Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening hard morning show. The haters 561 00:30:40,040 --> 00:30:44,040 Speaker 1: are at it again, and this time Asap Rocky is 562 00:30:44,120 --> 00:30:47,600 Speaker 1: getting backlash for comments he made about black fathers during 563 00:30:47,600 --> 00:30:50,280 Speaker 1: an interview he had at the met gala on Monday. 564 00:30:50,600 --> 00:30:55,280 Speaker 1: The interviewer asked Asap to give advice to black fathers 565 00:30:55,320 --> 00:30:59,400 Speaker 1: about raising black children, and Rocky said, quote, I think 566 00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:01,960 Speaker 1: that is it's like a known thing that people don't 567 00:31:01,960 --> 00:31:06,320 Speaker 1: really talk about, which is black fathers are always present. 568 00:31:06,720 --> 00:31:10,600 Speaker 1: Mine was present, all my friend's dads were present. There 569 00:31:10,720 --> 00:31:14,320 Speaker 1: was this weird stereotype of just this weird stigma about 570 00:31:14,360 --> 00:31:17,480 Speaker 1: black men kind of leaving mothers to be single black mothers. 571 00:31:17,760 --> 00:31:20,280 Speaker 1: I would say that it was all a facade. It 572 00:31:20,360 --> 00:31:25,280 Speaker 1: was all a lie. Then Rocky addressed black fathers. He said, 573 00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:30,120 Speaker 1: continue being great to your kids, love them, unconditionally, no 574 00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:32,960 Speaker 1: matter what. And on top of that, get your dad 575 00:31:33,040 --> 00:31:36,680 Speaker 1: swag right, because I'm in my bag. 576 00:31:38,080 --> 00:31:41,360 Speaker 2: I don't understand. What's the pushback. What's the criticism? 577 00:31:41,640 --> 00:31:45,120 Speaker 1: Well, here we go. They lashed out, mostly people saying 578 00:31:45,560 --> 00:31:48,200 Speaker 1: just because he grew up without with his dad, there 579 00:31:48,200 --> 00:31:52,920 Speaker 1: are millions of absentee fathers, black fathers, so that's what 580 00:31:53,000 --> 00:31:56,760 Speaker 1: the pushback was. He's yeah, millions of absentee black fathers. 581 00:31:56,800 --> 00:32:03,240 Speaker 9: There's more white fathers or absentee white fathers. Y'all actually 582 00:32:03,560 --> 00:32:06,320 Speaker 9: listen to me. Tommy grew up with his dad. Junior 583 00:32:06,320 --> 00:32:08,560 Speaker 9: grew up with his dad. I grew up with my dad. 584 00:32:09,120 --> 00:32:12,200 Speaker 9: All my friends grew up with their dad. 585 00:32:11,480 --> 00:32:13,440 Speaker 1: You know, grew up with his dad. 586 00:32:17,000 --> 00:32:19,800 Speaker 2: Carlo's daughter is growing up with her dad. 587 00:32:20,240 --> 00:32:24,320 Speaker 9: You know, listen, man, what happens is and asap Rocky 588 00:32:24,400 --> 00:32:27,360 Speaker 9: is exactly right. They take the ones that miss it 589 00:32:27,360 --> 00:32:29,960 Speaker 9: and they make that the story and they. 590 00:32:29,880 --> 00:32:33,480 Speaker 2: Talk about the Yeah. 591 00:32:32,760 --> 00:32:36,520 Speaker 9: But there are millions and millions, intens of millions of 592 00:32:36,600 --> 00:32:42,080 Speaker 9: dads who are there doing their job. Yes, sir, you 593 00:32:42,120 --> 00:32:45,640 Speaker 9: know black people on welfare, there's more white people on welfare. 594 00:32:46,520 --> 00:32:49,680 Speaker 9: Black people commit the most crimes. White people commit the 595 00:32:49,680 --> 00:32:50,520 Speaker 9: most crimes. 596 00:32:51,560 --> 00:32:55,600 Speaker 1: There are more white people on this planet. Yes, so 597 00:32:55,720 --> 00:32:59,320 Speaker 1: it stands to reason, you know, I mean, do the math, 598 00:32:59,520 --> 00:33:00,560 Speaker 1: come on, you know? 599 00:33:00,760 --> 00:33:03,640 Speaker 9: So, No, man, I think asp Rocky is perfectly fine. 600 00:33:04,360 --> 00:33:07,000 Speaker 9: You just got so. You grew up with your father 601 00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:10,440 Speaker 9: with out millions who didn't. No, you the one who didn't. 602 00:33:10,920 --> 00:33:14,080 Speaker 9: Now you mad at Rocky because he did. Ye, Rocky 603 00:33:14,320 --> 00:33:17,520 Speaker 9: was making a statement just on behalf of the men 604 00:33:17,600 --> 00:33:20,240 Speaker 9: who are active and doing what they're supposed to do 605 00:33:20,240 --> 00:33:23,560 Speaker 9: in their children's lives, which is what you have to do. 606 00:33:23,920 --> 00:33:25,120 Speaker 9: That's all he was doing. 607 00:33:25,560 --> 00:33:25,960 Speaker 2: Yeah. 608 00:33:26,040 --> 00:33:27,800 Speaker 9: Now, if you didn't grow up without your daddy, we 609 00:33:27,920 --> 00:33:30,880 Speaker 9: understand that. We understand the pain it must have been 610 00:33:30,960 --> 00:33:33,880 Speaker 9: for you got that, Yeah, I got that. 611 00:33:34,080 --> 00:33:37,920 Speaker 15: But mine died. He didn't, Yeah, he passed away. My 612 00:33:38,040 --> 00:33:40,800 Speaker 15: father was I was one of those statistics. My father 613 00:33:41,000 --> 00:33:43,880 Speaker 15: was not there. But to your original point, at the 614 00:33:43,960 --> 00:33:47,000 Speaker 15: majority people on this show, my coworkers, I looked to 615 00:33:47,080 --> 00:33:49,840 Speaker 15: my left and right, their father was there. So it 616 00:33:50,080 --> 00:33:54,240 Speaker 15: kind of all that great the millions, what does that mean? 617 00:33:54,560 --> 00:33:57,760 Speaker 1: But stop with the stereotypes. That's what I don't like 618 00:33:57,920 --> 00:33:59,240 Speaker 1: is clapping. 619 00:33:59,000 --> 00:34:00,280 Speaker 2: Back on everything. 620 00:34:05,160 --> 00:34:09,080 Speaker 9: You know, Tommy, that's social media. It has given a 621 00:34:09,200 --> 00:34:13,280 Speaker 9: voice to the lane. You know how many lame people 622 00:34:13,360 --> 00:34:15,920 Speaker 9: got a voice now because of social media, I mean 623 00:34:16,080 --> 00:34:19,960 Speaker 9: completely lame people. You know how many people on Facebook Live, 624 00:34:20,200 --> 00:34:22,759 Speaker 9: I G Live. You know how many people got a 625 00:34:22,840 --> 00:34:27,000 Speaker 9: podcast that would have never ever qualified for a TV 626 00:34:27,120 --> 00:34:28,640 Speaker 9: show or a radio show. 627 00:34:30,520 --> 00:34:31,240 Speaker 2: I'm talking about. 628 00:34:31,239 --> 00:34:34,360 Speaker 9: There's no way they'd got out the green room pitching 629 00:34:34,400 --> 00:34:35,320 Speaker 9: that to anybody. 630 00:34:37,160 --> 00:34:38,880 Speaker 2: But here they Boy, they put up a mic and 631 00:34:38,960 --> 00:34:41,759 Speaker 2: here they come. Yeah. Now there are some good ones 632 00:34:41,800 --> 00:34:43,280 Speaker 2: out there who have some good. 633 00:34:43,120 --> 00:34:48,400 Speaker 1: Post for sure. For sure, Yeah we're one of Meanwhile, 634 00:34:48,640 --> 00:34:52,320 Speaker 1: not only today SAP Rocky and Rihanna announced they're expecting 635 00:34:52,320 --> 00:34:55,680 Speaker 1: their third child together. They both have new movies coming 636 00:34:55,719 --> 00:34:59,120 Speaker 1: out this summer. Rocky will start with Denzel in Highest 637 00:34:59,120 --> 00:35:02,719 Speaker 1: to Lowest, I said, he will start with Denzel in 638 00:35:02,840 --> 00:35:05,680 Speaker 1: highest to Lewis that's the movie. And Rihanna starts as 639 00:35:05,719 --> 00:35:10,560 Speaker 1: Smurf Fed in the Smurfs movie. I love it. Congratulations. 640 00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:16,120 Speaker 1: So moving on, this is a bizarre turn of events 641 00:35:16,480 --> 00:35:20,959 Speaker 1: the game. The Rapper, of course lost his Calibalis Calabasas, 642 00:35:20,960 --> 00:35:25,320 Speaker 1: California mansion. This is all to satisfy as over seven 643 00:35:25,400 --> 00:35:30,520 Speaker 1: million dollar legal judgment against him after years he's been 644 00:35:30,560 --> 00:35:33,200 Speaker 1: in this battle for years and years a legal battle 645 00:35:33,200 --> 00:35:36,880 Speaker 1: with a former contestant from his twenty sixteen reality show 646 00:35:37,160 --> 00:35:41,120 Speaker 1: called She's Got Game. Priscilla Rainey, accused the Game of 647 00:35:41,200 --> 00:35:45,120 Speaker 1: inappropriately touching her during production, and she filed a sexual 648 00:35:45,160 --> 00:35:49,960 Speaker 1: assault lawsuit back in twenty sixteen. The Game was publicly 649 00:35:50,480 --> 00:35:53,960 Speaker 1: has publicly denied Rainey's accusations for years and has said 650 00:35:53,960 --> 00:35:56,360 Speaker 1: that Rainy came on the show with the intent to 651 00:35:56,400 --> 00:35:59,840 Speaker 1: file a boga's lawsuit to get money from him, but 652 00:36:00,200 --> 00:36:03,320 Speaker 1: in the end, Rainie won her case and was awarded 653 00:36:03,320 --> 00:36:06,640 Speaker 1: over seven million dollars in damages, and since Game has 654 00:36:06,680 --> 00:36:09,759 Speaker 1: refused to pay Rainy. At California judge ordered the Game 655 00:36:10,040 --> 00:36:13,080 Speaker 1: to sell his house to satisfy part of the debt. 656 00:36:13,400 --> 00:36:16,040 Speaker 1: His home is only valued at a little over three 657 00:36:16,080 --> 00:36:19,920 Speaker 1: million dollars, but Rainie said, hey, I'll take it. I'll 658 00:36:19,920 --> 00:36:26,200 Speaker 1: take it three million. But the debt the lawsuit is 659 00:36:26,239 --> 00:36:28,640 Speaker 1: over seven million that she won, and she said she'll 660 00:36:28,640 --> 00:36:40,000 Speaker 1: take the three She'll take the house. There you go, Yeah, wow, Yeah, 661 00:36:41,080 --> 00:36:43,080 Speaker 1: I didn't even know this. Yeah, I thought it had 662 00:36:43,120 --> 00:36:44,920 Speaker 1: been settled, this case. I didn't know that. 663 00:36:45,719 --> 00:36:47,160 Speaker 2: I never even knew it existed. 664 00:36:47,280 --> 00:36:52,920 Speaker 1: So yeah, well, he's gonna sell it. He's got to 665 00:36:52,960 --> 00:36:57,080 Speaker 1: sell his house now in Calabassa's and she says she'll 666 00:36:57,080 --> 00:36:58,800 Speaker 1: take it whatever it is. 667 00:36:58,840 --> 00:37:01,400 Speaker 10: Well, what happens if you don't like he has to 668 00:37:01,480 --> 00:37:02,399 Speaker 10: sold it all this time? 669 00:37:02,760 --> 00:37:05,520 Speaker 2: What happens they take it, They take it from him, 670 00:37:05,800 --> 00:37:09,600 Speaker 2: They'll put it in what's called receivership. 671 00:37:11,440 --> 00:37:15,640 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, coming up in twenty minutes after the hours, 672 00:37:15,680 --> 00:37:20,000 Speaker 1: Smokey Robinson said he is appalled by his sexual assault allegations. 673 00:37:20,000 --> 00:37:21,680 Speaker 1: We'll talk about that right after this. 674 00:37:22,400 --> 00:37:27,600 Speaker 13: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 675 00:37:29,719 --> 00:37:33,120 Speaker 2: Folks, there are a lot of reasons to like Hyundai. 676 00:37:33,440 --> 00:37:37,200 Speaker 9: Hyundai's done a lot to support American consumers. I mean, 677 00:37:37,560 --> 00:37:41,120 Speaker 9: they announced their investment of twenty one billion dollars in 678 00:37:41,160 --> 00:37:43,680 Speaker 9: the United States over the next three years that will 679 00:37:43,680 --> 00:37:47,279 Speaker 9: expand manufacturing and create more jobs for Americans. 680 00:37:47,320 --> 00:37:49,920 Speaker 10: And they just announced that they will not be raising 681 00:37:50,120 --> 00:37:54,040 Speaker 10: MSRP through June second, no matter what. Call five six 682 00:37:54,160 --> 00:37:58,320 Speaker 10: two three one four forty six zero three for more details. 683 00:37:58,800 --> 00:38:03,520 Speaker 1: Smokey Robinson was accused of sexual battery, assault, false imprisonment, 684 00:38:03,640 --> 00:38:07,640 Speaker 1: gender violence, and creating a hostile work environment. By four 685 00:38:07,719 --> 00:38:10,520 Speaker 1: Jane Does, who worked for Smokey and his wife Francis 686 00:38:10,880 --> 00:38:13,919 Speaker 1: for almost twenty years. The four Jane Doe accusers seek 687 00:38:13,920 --> 00:38:17,320 Speaker 1: a total of fifty million dollars in damages from eighty 688 00:38:17,320 --> 00:38:21,280 Speaker 1: five eighty five year old Smokey Robinson. The Daily Mail 689 00:38:21,400 --> 00:38:24,480 Speaker 1: put in a call to Smokey on Wednesday to address 690 00:38:24,480 --> 00:38:28,839 Speaker 1: the allegations, and Smokey replied, quote, I am appalled. I 691 00:38:28,880 --> 00:38:31,960 Speaker 1: can't speak about this right now. The reports of abuse 692 00:38:32,040 --> 00:38:36,560 Speaker 1: were very descriptive, and the accusers claimed that Smokey's wife Francis, 693 00:38:36,800 --> 00:38:40,920 Speaker 1: was aware of the sexual abuse over the years. So 694 00:38:41,000 --> 00:38:43,239 Speaker 1: we have to this story is still developing. We have 695 00:38:43,320 --> 00:38:49,239 Speaker 1: to wait to see what happened here. Yeah he's eighty five. Yeah, wow, 696 00:38:50,160 --> 00:38:52,719 Speaker 1: very disad they said. They said the Jane does were 697 00:38:52,760 --> 00:38:54,000 Speaker 1: afraid of losing their job. 698 00:38:55,040 --> 00:38:58,880 Speaker 9: See here's the climate that we live here. You can't 699 00:38:58,920 --> 00:39:02,400 Speaker 9: comment on the subject, You can't say anything that you 700 00:39:02,560 --> 00:39:06,400 Speaker 9: truly feel because you're just not allowed to because of 701 00:39:06,480 --> 00:39:12,439 Speaker 9: political correctness. So everyone on this show sides with the potential. 702 00:39:11,920 --> 00:39:14,680 Speaker 2: Victim, and you do it repeatedly. 703 00:39:15,760 --> 00:39:18,280 Speaker 9: And if you stand up and say for an instant, 704 00:39:18,840 --> 00:39:21,200 Speaker 9: I find that hard to believe, then all of a 705 00:39:21,280 --> 00:39:25,200 Speaker 9: sudden you get thrown into the category of saying that 706 00:39:25,920 --> 00:39:29,759 Speaker 9: the people who are accused us are lives. I've known 707 00:39:29,840 --> 00:39:32,239 Speaker 9: Smoky for a number of years, and I'm hoping it's 708 00:39:32,280 --> 00:39:36,320 Speaker 9: not true. That's what I'm saying. I'm hoping it's not true. 709 00:39:37,719 --> 00:39:40,480 Speaker 9: I've known the man. I've known the man for a 710 00:39:40,600 --> 00:39:44,040 Speaker 9: long time. I don't know, but even once again, I 711 00:39:44,080 --> 00:39:47,479 Speaker 9: don't know his private life. You know, I knew Bill 712 00:39:47,560 --> 00:39:52,719 Speaker 9: Cosby and I've had people come to me all the time. 713 00:39:52,719 --> 00:39:56,200 Speaker 9: How can you still be friends with him? Hey, look, man, 714 00:39:56,320 --> 00:40:00,000 Speaker 9: I can't erase the goodness this man has done towards 715 00:40:00,200 --> 00:40:03,320 Speaker 9: me and the things he's done for me and taught 716 00:40:03,320 --> 00:40:07,239 Speaker 9: me and set me down with her. Because he did 717 00:40:07,440 --> 00:40:14,080 Speaker 9: something obscure or something ratchet in his private life, how 718 00:40:14,080 --> 00:40:16,360 Speaker 9: could you still be friends? You ain't got no friends? 719 00:40:16,360 --> 00:40:17,279 Speaker 9: Done something messed up? 720 00:40:17,880 --> 00:40:18,160 Speaker 13: I do? 721 00:40:18,360 --> 00:40:19,480 Speaker 2: Do we all? 722 00:40:20,160 --> 00:40:21,440 Speaker 1: I think what it is to Steve. 723 00:40:21,480 --> 00:40:23,880 Speaker 15: It's like when you hear about sexual assault accusations, a 724 00:40:23,920 --> 00:40:26,920 Speaker 15: lot of times women the victim aren't not believed, and 725 00:40:27,040 --> 00:40:31,759 Speaker 15: because sometimes these accusers are famous, people take the celebrity 726 00:40:32,040 --> 00:40:37,520 Speaker 15: side all enriched automatically, and the victims are never heard. 727 00:40:37,600 --> 00:40:40,400 Speaker 15: So I think at this point people are saying you know, 728 00:40:40,440 --> 00:40:42,399 Speaker 15: you got to listen to what the victims are saying, 729 00:40:42,480 --> 00:40:48,120 Speaker 15: especially for serious allegations, and though sometimes the accusations are false, 730 00:40:48,160 --> 00:40:49,440 Speaker 15: sometimes they're true. 731 00:40:50,800 --> 00:40:52,799 Speaker 2: Here's I want to say. Something will be come back 732 00:40:52,840 --> 00:40:53,239 Speaker 2: about that? 733 00:40:53,360 --> 00:40:56,000 Speaker 1: All right, all right, we'll have more of a Steve 734 00:40:56,040 --> 00:40:59,920 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show right after this. What's going on? Greeting 735 00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:00,760 Speaker 1: inside you tections? 736 00:41:00,800 --> 00:41:01,200 Speaker 2: Everybody. 737 00:41:01,200 --> 00:41:03,719 Speaker 1: This is Neil Hi. My name is Carlos Miller and 738 00:41:03,760 --> 00:41:07,520 Speaker 1: I'm Chico Bean and I'm the fool with the tattoo. 739 00:41:08,080 --> 00:41:09,120 Speaker 12: Hey, what's up everybody? 740 00:41:09,120 --> 00:41:10,600 Speaker 1: This is your girl Candy. 741 00:41:10,800 --> 00:41:13,800 Speaker 2: This is Anthony Anderson, gots people. This is Kirk Franklin. 742 00:41:13,880 --> 00:41:15,600 Speaker 1: Hey, this is Seca Cohn. What's going on? 743 00:41:15,640 --> 00:41:17,720 Speaker 9: This is your boy Kevin Harten less up, It's DJ 744 00:41:17,920 --> 00:41:20,680 Speaker 9: Cavin and you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. 745 00:41:21,080 --> 00:41:23,799 Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 746 00:41:28,719 --> 00:41:29,080 Speaker 2: All right. 747 00:41:29,080 --> 00:41:31,799 Speaker 1: Before we went to break, Steve, we were talking about 748 00:41:31,800 --> 00:41:35,560 Speaker 1: the Smokey Robinson situation. Right now, he's accused of sexual 749 00:41:35,560 --> 00:41:39,680 Speaker 1: assault and how you know, many celebrities are accused. We 750 00:41:39,719 --> 00:41:42,040 Speaker 1: don't get to hear the victim side of it, and 751 00:41:42,120 --> 00:41:45,120 Speaker 1: you can't say anything because of political correctness and all 752 00:41:45,160 --> 00:41:47,400 Speaker 1: of that. You wanted to finish your thoughts. 753 00:41:47,080 --> 00:41:50,200 Speaker 9: And Carla was making a valid point in that what 754 00:41:50,360 --> 00:41:54,160 Speaker 9: happens with the victim is they oftentimes get accused of 755 00:41:54,800 --> 00:41:57,840 Speaker 9: not telling the truth, which prohibits a lot of women 756 00:41:57,880 --> 00:42:00,680 Speaker 9: from coming forward if they're not going to be believed 757 00:42:00,719 --> 00:42:03,560 Speaker 9: and can't get their truth out there. I agree with 758 00:42:03,719 --> 00:42:10,040 Speaker 9: all of that. Here's the part that troubles me. The 759 00:42:10,080 --> 00:42:17,080 Speaker 9: man that's accused, the celebrity loses everything immediately off the 760 00:42:17,239 --> 00:42:22,400 Speaker 9: accusation and the allegation. He gone, He got to step 761 00:42:22,440 --> 00:42:25,600 Speaker 9: off the air, he gets removed from his job, he 762 00:42:25,680 --> 00:42:32,239 Speaker 9: don't get paid, sponsors pulled then over then and there's 763 00:42:32,320 --> 00:42:36,719 Speaker 9: nothing he can do. Then the course comes out, and 764 00:42:36,760 --> 00:42:42,520 Speaker 9: then when it's found out nothing happened, then that person 765 00:42:43,080 --> 00:42:45,800 Speaker 9: gets to skip to the lou my dollar and go away. 766 00:42:45,840 --> 00:42:47,720 Speaker 9: Well I tried to get some money, but I didn't. 767 00:42:48,200 --> 00:42:52,640 Speaker 9: In the meantime, this guy or accused is left in 768 00:42:52,800 --> 00:42:54,560 Speaker 9: shambles trying to put his career. 769 00:42:54,320 --> 00:42:55,360 Speaker 2: Back together and. 770 00:42:58,320 --> 00:43:00,400 Speaker 1: Follow him throughout his career after this. 771 00:43:00,840 --> 00:43:02,280 Speaker 2: I mean, look at Shannon Sharp. 772 00:43:02,400 --> 00:43:07,279 Speaker 9: Right now, Shannon Sharp has stepped down from ESPN, all 773 00:43:07,360 --> 00:43:11,880 Speaker 9: of the sponsors have pulled from his podcast, all of them. 774 00:43:13,280 --> 00:43:14,479 Speaker 2: Jonathan Major is just. 775 00:43:14,400 --> 00:43:18,080 Speaker 1: Coming back, Jonathan Major, and it's because of the court 776 00:43:18,120 --> 00:43:22,080 Speaker 1: of public opinion and like you say, Steve's social media, social. 777 00:43:21,760 --> 00:43:27,000 Speaker 9: Media cause the company, the sponsorer has to air on 778 00:43:27,120 --> 00:43:31,880 Speaker 9: the side of the victim in case, and it doesn't 779 00:43:31,880 --> 00:43:36,360 Speaker 9: matter what it costs the person who's being accused, because 780 00:43:36,480 --> 00:43:41,080 Speaker 9: in Shannon's case, they've already released a lot of consensual 781 00:43:41,840 --> 00:43:45,880 Speaker 9: conversation between the two of them over two year period. 782 00:43:46,719 --> 00:43:49,960 Speaker 9: And then the woman comes out and says, well, that 783 00:43:50,160 --> 00:43:52,320 Speaker 9: was this time I was forced. Well, you got to 784 00:43:52,360 --> 00:43:55,879 Speaker 9: listen to that, because, as Carla has said before, no, 785 00:43:56,000 --> 00:44:01,439 Speaker 9: it's no now you can just all you can make 786 00:44:01,480 --> 00:44:02,680 Speaker 9: that up for some money. 787 00:44:03,200 --> 00:44:05,879 Speaker 2: So then you have to wait until it all bears out. 788 00:44:05,920 --> 00:44:09,080 Speaker 9: And then when it bears out, Shennon Shop is out 789 00:44:09,080 --> 00:44:10,000 Speaker 9: of work right now. 790 00:44:10,440 --> 00:44:13,720 Speaker 2: Michael Irvin was out of work and was clear. 791 00:44:14,480 --> 00:44:19,760 Speaker 9: Yeah, but for over year he was done and yeah, 792 00:44:19,920 --> 00:44:21,800 Speaker 9: Bro was and was done. 793 00:44:23,040 --> 00:44:28,200 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, I mean we you know, these stories are developing. 794 00:44:28,640 --> 00:44:31,360 Speaker 1: It seems like there's one every week now or something. 795 00:44:32,200 --> 00:44:34,120 Speaker 1: You know, you don't know if people are just out 796 00:44:35,200 --> 00:44:37,560 Speaker 1: after them for money or if it's true. We are 797 00:44:37,600 --> 00:44:40,400 Speaker 1: not there. We don't know what goes on. Behind closed doors. 798 00:44:40,600 --> 00:44:43,239 Speaker 1: The burden of proof is on them. And you know, 799 00:44:43,360 --> 00:44:46,520 Speaker 1: like you say, when it happens, no matter guilt or innocence, 800 00:44:46,680 --> 00:44:49,279 Speaker 1: it follows them throughout their career. That's the bad thing, 801 00:44:49,360 --> 00:44:50,920 Speaker 1: especially just the part I don't like. 802 00:44:51,160 --> 00:44:53,080 Speaker 9: Yeah, I think there has to be some type of 803 00:44:53,120 --> 00:44:57,960 Speaker 9: restitution when a man is cleared. You can't just go okay, 804 00:44:58,040 --> 00:45:01,879 Speaker 9: go ahead, start your life back over again. No, you 805 00:45:01,960 --> 00:45:05,799 Speaker 9: took from this man. You should reimburse him if he's 806 00:45:05,840 --> 00:45:06,680 Speaker 9: found innocent. 807 00:45:07,360 --> 00:45:09,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, because they. 808 00:45:09,200 --> 00:45:09,640 Speaker 2: Got that. 809 00:45:11,320 --> 00:45:15,960 Speaker 1: Guilty. He's guilty. Yeah, absolutely, absolutely. 810 00:45:16,400 --> 00:45:19,759 Speaker 9: Oh, something should happen to these people who make these 811 00:45:19,800 --> 00:45:22,960 Speaker 9: false accusations when you find out it is a shake down. 812 00:45:23,480 --> 00:45:27,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, and you know what, there's always a lawyer lurking 813 00:45:27,160 --> 00:45:31,960 Speaker 1: somewhere for with these people who do make these false allegations. 814 00:45:32,800 --> 00:45:35,680 Speaker 9: Surely I was listening to the lawyers that are defending 815 00:45:36,040 --> 00:45:39,719 Speaker 9: the women in the Smoky Robinson case, and wow, they 816 00:45:39,840 --> 00:45:44,120 Speaker 9: just I mean, if you listen to them, according to them, 817 00:45:44,160 --> 00:45:48,120 Speaker 9: he's guilty, no trial, no nothing. But see all that 818 00:45:48,160 --> 00:45:51,200 Speaker 9: gets put out in the news. Oh, them lawyers talking 819 00:45:51,200 --> 00:45:52,959 Speaker 9: about smoking Robinson like he just. 820 00:45:54,160 --> 00:45:56,560 Speaker 1: Know, Yeah, because they wanted out there for the court. 821 00:45:56,719 --> 00:46:02,160 Speaker 1: Like we said, of public opinion. Yeah, all right, all right, guys. 822 00:46:02,200 --> 00:46:04,600 Speaker 1: Coming up next, we'll have more of the Steve Harvey 823 00:46:04,600 --> 00:46:06,960 Speaker 1: Morning Show and the prank phone call coming up from 824 00:46:07,040 --> 00:46:13,160 Speaker 1: the nephew, the legend. You gotta stats you back this morning, 825 00:46:13,520 --> 00:46:17,920 Speaker 1: You gotta status back this morning, Julia I gave Julie. 826 00:46:18,040 --> 00:46:22,279 Speaker 1: Appreciate it as you mart me. You're listening to the 827 00:46:22,360 --> 00:46:30,040 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at about four minutes 828 00:46:30,120 --> 00:46:32,880 Speaker 1: after the hour. It's my strawberry letter for today, and 829 00:46:32,920 --> 00:46:36,920 Speaker 1: the subject is she watched and listened for weeks. She 830 00:46:37,120 --> 00:46:39,799 Speaker 1: watched and listened for weeks. We'll get into that in 831 00:46:39,960 --> 00:46:44,359 Speaker 1: just a few because right now the nephew is here 832 00:46:44,800 --> 00:46:46,399 Speaker 1: with today's prank phone call. 833 00:46:46,440 --> 00:46:48,759 Speaker 10: What you got for his neph This right here is 834 00:46:48,960 --> 00:46:52,640 Speaker 10: wash and fold, Shirley, Wash and fold. You know, I 835 00:46:52,640 --> 00:46:54,319 Speaker 10: think all of us done and send you close down 836 00:46:54,360 --> 00:46:56,600 Speaker 10: there they watch them and fold you for you. But 837 00:46:57,360 --> 00:47:00,640 Speaker 10: got the issue right here. That's just take a listen. 838 00:47:00,680 --> 00:47:01,920 Speaker 10: I don't even want to talk about this. Take a 839 00:47:01,960 --> 00:47:07,800 Speaker 10: list This right here is washing Folk cat Dog. Hello, Hello, 840 00:47:07,880 --> 00:47:10,960 Speaker 10: I'm trying to reach sam or Sammy. 841 00:47:11,320 --> 00:47:14,279 Speaker 5: I'm not this Sammy, This Sammy. What's up? 842 00:47:14,480 --> 00:47:16,960 Speaker 2: Hey Sammy? How are you? This is uh, this is Kevin. 843 00:47:17,000 --> 00:47:19,560 Speaker 10: I'm the uh the manager over here at Fresh and 844 00:47:19,600 --> 00:47:20,600 Speaker 10: Clean Washing Fold. 845 00:47:21,120 --> 00:47:22,400 Speaker 5: Yeah, well, what's going on? Okay? 846 00:47:23,040 --> 00:47:25,239 Speaker 10: You bring your clothes here pretty much on a on 847 00:47:25,280 --> 00:47:26,840 Speaker 10: a weekly basis, is that correct? 848 00:47:27,040 --> 00:47:27,279 Speaker 2: Yeah? 849 00:47:27,440 --> 00:47:28,920 Speaker 5: I stopped probably once a. 850 00:47:28,880 --> 00:47:31,279 Speaker 10: Week okay, and you're bringing you I mean you're pretty 851 00:47:31,360 --> 00:47:33,439 Speaker 10: much bringing a full load of clothes pretty much once 852 00:47:33,480 --> 00:47:33,799 Speaker 10: a week. 853 00:47:33,880 --> 00:47:37,440 Speaker 5: Right, Yeah, I just bring whatever I got Okay. 854 00:47:37,719 --> 00:47:40,120 Speaker 10: Uh, well, we got a bit of a problem talking 855 00:47:40,120 --> 00:47:42,160 Speaker 10: to my my employees here that have been. 856 00:47:44,320 --> 00:47:46,480 Speaker 5: What's going on? I mean you not get your money 857 00:47:46,600 --> 00:47:46,960 Speaker 5: or something? 858 00:47:47,080 --> 00:47:48,840 Speaker 2: Oh no, no, no, you you're we we have you 859 00:47:48,880 --> 00:47:49,200 Speaker 2: on file. 860 00:47:49,440 --> 00:47:51,480 Speaker 10: I mean your your your card goes through every week 861 00:47:51,520 --> 00:47:53,799 Speaker 10: when you when you bring your things. 862 00:47:53,840 --> 00:47:55,520 Speaker 2: So no, that's that's not the issue at all. 863 00:47:55,920 --> 00:47:58,520 Speaker 5: I'll write them. What kind of problem could we have? 864 00:47:59,120 --> 00:48:01,759 Speaker 10: Well, the ladies of watching the clothes or complaining that 865 00:48:01,840 --> 00:48:04,200 Speaker 10: when you bring your load in. I mean, I don't 866 00:48:04,200 --> 00:48:06,319 Speaker 10: know how to really tell you this, but you're saying 867 00:48:06,320 --> 00:48:07,880 Speaker 10: that your underwear is too dirty. 868 00:48:07,640 --> 00:48:08,520 Speaker 2: They don't want to wash it. 869 00:48:09,400 --> 00:48:11,759 Speaker 5: You know you playing right? 870 00:48:12,719 --> 00:48:13,960 Speaker 2: No, I'm dead serious. 871 00:48:14,320 --> 00:48:18,000 Speaker 5: What are you talking about? My underwear is dirty? I'm 872 00:48:18,040 --> 00:48:20,080 Speaker 5: not any more dirty than anybody else, Sir. 873 00:48:20,280 --> 00:48:22,279 Speaker 10: All I can tell you is we wash quite a 874 00:48:22,320 --> 00:48:25,920 Speaker 10: few people's clothes on daily basis, weekly basis. For my 875 00:48:26,280 --> 00:48:29,880 Speaker 10: employees to complain about your load, then I have to 876 00:48:29,920 --> 00:48:31,480 Speaker 10: give you a call and talk to you about it. 877 00:48:32,080 --> 00:48:34,400 Speaker 5: My man, I feel like you said about on my phone. 878 00:48:34,920 --> 00:48:37,280 Speaker 10: No, that's not what this is, bro. This is actually 879 00:48:37,320 --> 00:48:40,160 Speaker 10: a call. And you know we have we have two options. 880 00:48:40,840 --> 00:48:42,479 Speaker 5: Are you out there calling everybody else? 881 00:48:43,280 --> 00:48:45,600 Speaker 2: No, I don't have a I haven't had a complaint. 882 00:48:45,840 --> 00:48:47,920 Speaker 5: I know there's more dirty people than me going in 883 00:48:47,960 --> 00:48:49,080 Speaker 5: your spot because I see them. 884 00:48:50,280 --> 00:48:53,719 Speaker 10: Okay, here's a deal. We have two options here. You 885 00:48:53,760 --> 00:48:56,919 Speaker 10: can scrub your underwear before you bring it in. 886 00:48:57,360 --> 00:49:00,600 Speaker 5: First off, you over here raising your voice, What are 887 00:49:00,600 --> 00:49:03,560 Speaker 5: you talking about scrubbing my underwear? We clean, man, I'm clean. 888 00:49:03,680 --> 00:49:06,120 Speaker 5: I bring my sin, I drop it off, I pick 889 00:49:06,160 --> 00:49:06,480 Speaker 5: it up. 890 00:49:06,600 --> 00:49:09,359 Speaker 10: Okay, so here's a problem. Once again, I'll start this off. 891 00:49:09,680 --> 00:49:12,719 Speaker 10: You have two options, sir. You can bring in your 892 00:49:12,760 --> 00:49:16,560 Speaker 10: stuff scrubbed. Okay, when and when my ladies take a 893 00:49:16,560 --> 00:49:18,400 Speaker 10: look at it, if they're comfortable with cleaning it, so 894 00:49:18,480 --> 00:49:20,839 Speaker 10: be it. Or you know, we might not be able 895 00:49:20,880 --> 00:49:22,440 Speaker 10: to accept your your clothes anymore. 896 00:49:22,960 --> 00:49:24,600 Speaker 5: Man, I don't even got to go up there anymore. 897 00:49:24,600 --> 00:49:26,560 Speaker 5: Then if you if you really playing around on my 898 00:49:26,600 --> 00:49:28,560 Speaker 5: phone like this, I even got to go up in anymore. 899 00:49:29,920 --> 00:49:31,040 Speaker 5: Let me talk to your manager. 900 00:49:31,040 --> 00:49:34,080 Speaker 2: Man, I am the manager, Sir, I'm Kevin. 901 00:49:34,480 --> 00:49:37,000 Speaker 5: You don't sound like the manager. How are you? 902 00:49:38,040 --> 00:49:38,080 Speaker 10: What? 903 00:49:38,400 --> 00:49:40,520 Speaker 2: What does a manager sound like? Then? 904 00:49:40,840 --> 00:49:42,960 Speaker 5: Sammy, you know who owned the building. 905 00:49:43,000 --> 00:49:43,759 Speaker 3: Let me talk to him. 906 00:49:44,120 --> 00:49:46,360 Speaker 10: Okay, here's not here right now. I'm the manager and 907 00:49:46,400 --> 00:49:48,640 Speaker 10: I'm the one taking care of this problem. My ladies 908 00:49:48,680 --> 00:49:51,200 Speaker 10: have a problem with washing your underwear, and I'm calling 909 00:49:51,200 --> 00:49:52,560 Speaker 10: you to let you know there's a problem. 910 00:49:52,640 --> 00:49:53,279 Speaker 2: I'm letting you know. 911 00:49:53,320 --> 00:49:55,640 Speaker 10: The way to rectify the problem is you can scrub 912 00:49:55,680 --> 00:49:57,600 Speaker 10: them before you bring them in, and then we will 913 00:49:57,760 --> 00:49:58,200 Speaker 10: wash them. 914 00:49:58,360 --> 00:49:59,839 Speaker 2: If you do not want to do that, we will. 915 00:50:00,040 --> 00:50:02,680 Speaker 5: I be allowed to take you ain't got to rectify. 916 00:50:03,000 --> 00:50:04,840 Speaker 5: You just need to quit calling my phone on this boot. 917 00:50:05,160 --> 00:50:07,000 Speaker 5: I ain't gonna go up there no more. Then, that's fine. 918 00:50:07,000 --> 00:50:09,240 Speaker 5: I ain't got to come through your spot, that's fine. 919 00:50:09,600 --> 00:50:12,399 Speaker 10: Do you know how dirty, how funky your clothes got 920 00:50:12,400 --> 00:50:14,279 Speaker 10: to be? Man for my for my people to be 921 00:50:14,320 --> 00:50:16,040 Speaker 10: telling me they don't want to watch them in the morning. 922 00:50:15,920 --> 00:50:17,840 Speaker 2: You know, not how funky. That's got the beast Sammy? 923 00:50:18,640 --> 00:50:20,040 Speaker 3: Man? Who your people? 924 00:50:20,040 --> 00:50:22,239 Speaker 5: Who are your ladies? Man? I go up in there. 925 00:50:22,239 --> 00:50:24,520 Speaker 5: I ain't never had a problem with they. You know what, 926 00:50:24,560 --> 00:50:27,040 Speaker 5: I ain't never even seen yourself? And this mother? What 927 00:50:27,160 --> 00:50:29,640 Speaker 5: if you being at there now? It looks like I 928 00:50:29,680 --> 00:50:31,880 Speaker 5: got a problem with Kevin? Who is Kevin? 929 00:50:31,960 --> 00:50:32,160 Speaker 9: Man? 930 00:50:32,160 --> 00:50:34,799 Speaker 5: You say you the manager? You ain't never been there. 931 00:50:35,160 --> 00:50:37,120 Speaker 2: I'm here. I'm just not here when you're here? 932 00:50:37,360 --> 00:50:39,200 Speaker 5: Are you in the back washing those drugs? With the 933 00:50:39,480 --> 00:50:40,120 Speaker 5: going on with you? 934 00:50:40,200 --> 00:50:42,280 Speaker 10: Man, I'm not in I'm not in the back washing, 935 00:50:42,440 --> 00:50:45,040 Speaker 10: but I am. I am here periodically when I need 936 00:50:45,080 --> 00:50:47,080 Speaker 10: to be. Don't worry about when I'm. 937 00:50:46,840 --> 00:50:48,880 Speaker 5: At man, I ain't never seen your I ain't never 938 00:50:48,960 --> 00:50:49,919 Speaker 5: had a problem with your lady. 939 00:50:50,120 --> 00:50:52,640 Speaker 10: Hey, well, don't worry about when I'm at work. Worry 940 00:50:52,680 --> 00:50:56,320 Speaker 10: about how to scrub your underwear. That's what you worry about. 941 00:50:57,560 --> 00:51:01,320 Speaker 5: Man, I'm done with you. What do you on my phone? 942 00:51:01,360 --> 00:51:05,120 Speaker 5: Doing this for you? You know everybody at that month 943 00:51:05,600 --> 00:51:06,240 Speaker 5: washing phone? 944 00:51:06,239 --> 00:51:06,359 Speaker 10: Bro? 945 00:51:06,960 --> 00:51:07,680 Speaker 2: You know what? You know what. 946 00:51:07,719 --> 00:51:09,840 Speaker 10: I'm trying to be as professional as I can. But 947 00:51:09,920 --> 00:51:11,759 Speaker 10: the way that you're talking to me, you can wash 948 00:51:11,800 --> 00:51:14,719 Speaker 10: your close your own self, then that's what you can do. 949 00:51:15,400 --> 00:51:17,759 Speaker 5: That's fine, man, and you can keep on managing god 950 00:51:18,520 --> 00:51:20,920 Speaker 5: sqaundering man. Whatever are you doing with your life? 951 00:51:21,280 --> 00:51:23,440 Speaker 10: Okay, well, do whatever you're doing with your life, But 952 00:51:23,680 --> 00:51:26,680 Speaker 10: what do the world of favor and clean your draws? 953 00:51:27,160 --> 00:51:29,279 Speaker 5: Bro, I'm gonna come through and wash your You keep 954 00:51:29,320 --> 00:51:31,520 Speaker 5: talking around on my phone, hen. 955 00:51:31,320 --> 00:51:33,640 Speaker 10: How you want to do this. Here's what I'm gonna do. 956 00:51:33,840 --> 00:51:36,440 Speaker 10: I'm just letting you know. I'm gonna double charge your 957 00:51:36,440 --> 00:51:39,600 Speaker 10: credit card for the amount of work that my people had. 958 00:51:39,440 --> 00:51:40,760 Speaker 1: To do my clothes. 959 00:51:41,440 --> 00:51:44,000 Speaker 5: I'm putting a stop payment on my so if that 960 00:51:44,280 --> 00:51:46,719 Speaker 5: goes through on you're in. We're gonna have mon problem. 961 00:51:46,800 --> 00:51:48,360 Speaker 2: Well, I don't know how you're gonna put a stop 962 00:51:48,400 --> 00:51:48,640 Speaker 2: to it. 963 00:51:48,680 --> 00:51:51,319 Speaker 10: When I'm running your card right now, there's nothing you 964 00:51:51,360 --> 00:51:52,040 Speaker 10: can freaking do. 965 00:51:52,480 --> 00:51:54,799 Speaker 5: Okay, Okay, that's that's fine. I'm gonna I'm gonna show 966 00:51:54,840 --> 00:51:56,640 Speaker 5: up with the fresh and clean there. You're a manager, 967 00:51:56,680 --> 00:51:58,480 Speaker 5: you should be there fifty hours a week. Then I'm 968 00:51:58,480 --> 00:52:00,160 Speaker 5: gonna come meet your Kevin. 969 00:52:00,400 --> 00:52:02,319 Speaker 2: Okay, Well, that's that's fine with me. You know what, 970 00:52:02,360 --> 00:52:03,080 Speaker 2: I don't understand. 971 00:52:03,080 --> 00:52:05,000 Speaker 10: Why can't you just say, you know what, let me 972 00:52:05,040 --> 00:52:07,200 Speaker 10: do a better job at cleaning my underwear. 973 00:52:07,239 --> 00:52:07,799 Speaker 2: How about that? 974 00:52:08,560 --> 00:52:10,600 Speaker 5: I know, I know your life ain't that good. I 975 00:52:10,640 --> 00:52:14,640 Speaker 5: know you over there managing and now he's getting bored 976 00:52:14,640 --> 00:52:17,200 Speaker 5: of working. But don't be calling my phone playing around 977 00:52:17,280 --> 00:52:19,480 Speaker 5: this because I know you ain't doing this nobody else. 978 00:52:20,120 --> 00:52:21,960 Speaker 10: I'm exactly doing this or something. I'm not doing this 979 00:52:22,000 --> 00:52:23,400 Speaker 10: to anybody else. I don't have to do it anybody 980 00:52:23,400 --> 00:52:25,120 Speaker 10: else because nobody's bringing their clothes in like this. 981 00:52:26,120 --> 00:52:28,520 Speaker 5: Bro, I've been up there. Your employees are more dirty than. 982 00:52:28,480 --> 00:52:32,919 Speaker 10: My well, Sammy, evidently not. Evidently not your clothes. Why 983 00:52:32,920 --> 00:52:35,280 Speaker 10: are my employees complaining about you? 984 00:52:35,640 --> 00:52:38,160 Speaker 5: I don't know. I want your employees complaining about your too. 985 00:52:38,280 --> 00:52:42,200 Speaker 10: They're not complaining about my underwear, Sammy, You're the dirty guy. 986 00:52:42,840 --> 00:52:43,080 Speaker 14: Man. 987 00:52:43,160 --> 00:52:45,399 Speaker 5: You know what? I'm done with your You got any 988 00:52:45,480 --> 00:52:46,680 Speaker 5: other you want to talk about? 989 00:52:47,280 --> 00:52:48,520 Speaker 2: We can talk about Carlton. 990 00:52:49,120 --> 00:52:51,880 Speaker 5: What do you just Carlton? How do you know Carlton? 991 00:52:52,120 --> 00:52:53,719 Speaker 5: I know he doesn't bring it up there. 992 00:52:54,160 --> 00:52:56,200 Speaker 2: Oh you want to talk about your brother Carlton? You 993 00:52:56,200 --> 00:52:56,920 Speaker 2: want to talk about him? 994 00:52:56,960 --> 00:53:00,359 Speaker 5: My brother Carlton. You know if he's bringing it up there, 995 00:53:00,360 --> 00:53:03,120 Speaker 5: he just started. So, yeah, what we're gonna talk about Carlton? 996 00:53:03,160 --> 00:53:06,200 Speaker 10: What Carlton doing well, I'm gonna tell you what Carlton doing. 997 00:53:06,360 --> 00:53:09,479 Speaker 10: Carlton has been calling me nephew Tommy from the Steve 998 00:53:09,520 --> 00:53:11,280 Speaker 10: Harvey Morning Show to prank phone. 999 00:53:11,320 --> 00:53:13,000 Speaker 2: Call you, Sammy Day. 1000 00:53:13,320 --> 00:53:16,040 Speaker 10: You just got prank, baby, You just got branked by 1001 00:53:16,080 --> 00:53:18,000 Speaker 10: your brother Carlton and the nephew. 1002 00:53:18,080 --> 00:53:30,080 Speaker 5: Hey, man, you you ain't altle bit about some underwear, broed. 1003 00:53:30,640 --> 00:53:34,399 Speaker 2: We need a little washing scrub, baby, little washing scrub man. 1004 00:53:34,440 --> 00:53:35,279 Speaker 5: You you. 1005 00:53:38,320 --> 00:53:42,200 Speaker 10: You're good, all right, man, nobody's nobody. Your underwear is clean, Samon, 1006 00:53:42,239 --> 00:53:44,200 Speaker 10: your underwear is clean. Keep dropping them off at the 1007 00:53:44,239 --> 00:53:46,839 Speaker 10: washing phone. Don't quit, don't quit. Take your clothes up there. 1008 00:53:48,160 --> 00:53:48,719 Speaker 3: I'm good, man. 1009 00:53:48,760 --> 00:53:50,600 Speaker 5: I don't know about Carlton as it is, but I'm good, 1010 00:53:50,880 --> 00:53:51,200 Speaker 5: all right. 1011 00:53:51,280 --> 00:53:53,560 Speaker 10: Sammy d you gotta tell me what is the baddest 1012 00:53:53,560 --> 00:53:55,719 Speaker 10: and I mean the baddest radio show in. 1013 00:53:55,640 --> 00:54:00,759 Speaker 5: The land, The Steve Harvey Show with Nephew Tommy. 1014 00:54:01,480 --> 00:54:07,919 Speaker 10: You clean baby, little watching scrub, watching scrub. It's time 1015 00:54:07,960 --> 00:54:09,800 Speaker 10: for praise and worship, and right now I want to 1016 00:54:10,239 --> 00:54:14,560 Speaker 10: focus on junior. Praise and worship in the prank. Right now, 1017 00:54:14,600 --> 00:54:15,560 Speaker 10: that's all just junior. 1018 00:54:16,080 --> 00:54:16,480 Speaker 2: Yeah. 1019 00:54:16,920 --> 00:54:18,160 Speaker 1: Oh, we don't have to say anything. 1020 00:54:18,719 --> 00:54:20,920 Speaker 2: No, no, y'all. Don't y'all, don't say nothing right. 1021 00:54:21,040 --> 00:54:22,239 Speaker 12: We're gonna have dead air. 1022 00:54:26,040 --> 00:54:27,160 Speaker 1: I'm moment of solace. 1023 00:54:28,760 --> 00:54:29,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, if you're. 1024 00:54:29,680 --> 00:54:32,320 Speaker 12: Waiting on me, and it's gonna be some dead app. 1025 00:54:32,600 --> 00:54:35,719 Speaker 10: Don't want to recognize a little legend. That's all right, though, 1026 00:54:35,800 --> 00:54:36,520 Speaker 10: that's quite right. 1027 00:54:36,680 --> 00:54:39,200 Speaker 11: I just said I ain't saying you ain't legendary time. 1028 00:54:39,200 --> 00:54:40,799 Speaker 11: I'm saying you just ain't legendary to me. 1029 00:54:40,920 --> 00:54:42,839 Speaker 10: I worked with you and got it. I got I 1030 00:54:42,880 --> 00:54:44,600 Speaker 10: got it, I got it, I got it. I'm gonna 1031 00:54:44,600 --> 00:54:47,040 Speaker 10: hold on to it, all right. I'm over here to 1032 00:54:47,239 --> 00:54:48,000 Speaker 10: arbitrate this. 1033 00:54:48,040 --> 00:54:56,960 Speaker 2: If need I stand on stupid. Yes, yes, yes, that's hard. 1034 00:54:56,960 --> 00:55:00,880 Speaker 9: It's gonna be hard to get to legendary status. Junior's 1035 00:55:00,960 --> 00:55:05,240 Speaker 9: mind based on your key word being stupid. 1036 00:55:05,800 --> 00:55:10,240 Speaker 10: Okay, oh all right, well stupid will be in Louisville. Okay, 1037 00:55:10,360 --> 00:55:13,640 Speaker 10: all right, Memorial Weekend, Stupid will be there. There's folks 1038 00:55:13,640 --> 00:55:15,839 Speaker 10: buying tickets that I appreciate they coming to see they 1039 00:55:15,840 --> 00:55:19,959 Speaker 10: Boy June teen Comedy Celebration Dicky's Arena. That is June tenth, 1040 00:55:20,080 --> 00:55:24,400 Speaker 10: Thursday Night. Get ready, it is a Juneteenth comedy celebration. 1041 00:55:24,600 --> 00:55:30,080 Speaker 10: Buppa Dove Melanie Camacho Earthquake hosted by Yours truly, JJ 1042 00:55:30,160 --> 00:55:32,719 Speaker 10: Williamson's in the building. In the headliner one of the 1043 00:55:32,840 --> 00:55:37,000 Speaker 10: Kings d L. Hughley closing it out. That is a 1044 00:55:37,080 --> 00:55:40,680 Speaker 10: juneteen comedy celebration that you do not want to miss. 1045 00:55:40,719 --> 00:55:44,360 Speaker 1: Coming up now thinking of you. Strawberry Letters. She watched 1046 00:55:44,360 --> 00:55:46,960 Speaker 1: and listened for weeks is the subject. We'll get into 1047 00:55:47,000 --> 00:55:49,600 Speaker 1: it right after this. You've heard us talk about the 1048 00:55:49,640 --> 00:55:53,080 Speaker 1: benefits of Globe Life insurance. Globe Life has been protecting 1049 00:55:53,120 --> 00:55:56,719 Speaker 1: families for generations. Globe Life is easy to buy with 1050 00:55:56,920 --> 00:55:59,839 Speaker 1: rates starting as low as three dollars and forty nine 1051 00:56:00,080 --> 00:56:00,600 Speaker 1: and to month. 1052 00:56:00,680 --> 00:56:01,160 Speaker 2: There is no. 1053 00:56:01,200 --> 00:56:05,520 Speaker 1: Medical exam, just a simple application. Call Globelife today at 1054 00:56:05,560 --> 00:56:08,520 Speaker 1: one eight hundred two five one fifty four hundred, or 1055 00:56:08,640 --> 00:56:12,160 Speaker 1: visit Globelife radio dot com again. That's one eight hundred 1056 00:56:12,280 --> 00:56:16,240 Speaker 1: two five one fifty four hundred or Globelife radio dot com. 1057 00:56:16,680 --> 00:56:21,839 Speaker 13: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1058 00:56:24,000 --> 00:56:26,799 Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if 1059 00:56:26,840 --> 00:56:31,040 Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, works, seks, parenting and more, 1060 00:56:31,520 --> 00:56:35,279 Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter to STEVEARBFM dot com and 1061 00:56:35,440 --> 00:56:38,480 Speaker 1: click the Mitch Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your 1062 00:56:38,560 --> 00:56:41,279 Speaker 1: letter live on the air, just like we're going to 1063 00:56:41,360 --> 00:56:43,960 Speaker 1: read this one right here, right now. Never know it 1064 00:56:43,960 --> 00:56:44,680 Speaker 1: could be yours. 1065 00:56:45,239 --> 00:56:47,359 Speaker 10: It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on tight. 1066 00:56:47,440 --> 00:56:50,200 Speaker 10: We guide it for you. Here it is Strawberry letter. 1067 00:56:50,880 --> 00:56:54,200 Speaker 1: All right, nephew, thank you. Subjects. She watched and listened 1068 00:56:54,239 --> 00:56:58,080 Speaker 1: for weeks. Dear Stephen Shirley, I've been with my boyfriend 1069 00:56:58,160 --> 00:57:00,839 Speaker 1: for five months. He moved in with his dad and 1070 00:57:00,920 --> 00:57:03,960 Speaker 1: his stepmom right after we started dating. They have an 1071 00:57:04,000 --> 00:57:06,960 Speaker 1: apartment in the basement and he has his own entrance. 1072 00:57:07,360 --> 00:57:09,920 Speaker 1: I love his dad, but I never get a warm 1073 00:57:10,200 --> 00:57:12,799 Speaker 1: never got a warm and friendly vibe from his stepmom. 1074 00:57:12,840 --> 00:57:16,640 Speaker 1: And now I know why my boyfriend and I didn't 1075 00:57:17,280 --> 00:57:19,439 Speaker 1: have to go out of my way to be nice. 1076 00:57:19,560 --> 00:57:21,240 Speaker 1: My boyfriend said I didn't have to go out of 1077 00:57:21,240 --> 00:57:23,200 Speaker 1: my way to be nice to her. I stay at 1078 00:57:23,240 --> 00:57:27,120 Speaker 1: his place a lot, and we've had sex all over 1079 00:57:27,160 --> 00:57:30,520 Speaker 1: his tiny apartment. The first couple of times we were intimate, 1080 00:57:30,640 --> 00:57:33,800 Speaker 1: I told him that I felt like someone was watching us. 1081 00:57:34,120 --> 00:57:36,960 Speaker 1: My boyfriend laughed it off and told me that all 1082 00:57:37,000 --> 00:57:41,000 Speaker 1: of the cameras were outside around the property. Boy was 1083 00:57:41,080 --> 00:57:43,960 Speaker 1: he wrong. There has always been a camera in his 1084 00:57:44,000 --> 00:57:48,240 Speaker 1: bedroom closet because that's where his dad kept us safe. 1085 00:57:48,480 --> 00:57:52,200 Speaker 1: For years. We had been having sex with the closet 1086 00:57:52,240 --> 00:57:55,120 Speaker 1: door open. So when my boyfriend discovered the camera and 1087 00:57:55,200 --> 00:57:58,560 Speaker 1: saw that it was recording, our stomachs were in knots. 1088 00:57:58,760 --> 00:58:00,960 Speaker 1: We got up the nerve to ask his dad and 1089 00:58:01,000 --> 00:58:04,520 Speaker 1: stepmom about the camera. His dad said that he doesn't 1090 00:58:04,600 --> 00:58:08,040 Speaker 1: ever check that camera, but his wife does. The step 1091 00:58:08,040 --> 00:58:10,800 Speaker 1: mom admitted that she checks the camera and she's seen 1092 00:58:11,120 --> 00:58:14,560 Speaker 1: several different intimate moments over a three week time frame. 1093 00:58:15,000 --> 00:58:17,560 Speaker 1: She showed us the camera app on her phone and 1094 00:58:17,600 --> 00:58:20,000 Speaker 1: we pulled up THEO pulled up a video of meat 1095 00:58:20,040 --> 00:58:24,240 Speaker 1: wearing a cowboy hat and denim shorts with nothing on top. 1096 00:58:25,000 --> 00:58:27,840 Speaker 1: We were beyond shocked, and at first I wanted to 1097 00:58:27,920 --> 00:58:30,680 Speaker 1: report his step mom. I think his step mom wants 1098 00:58:30,760 --> 00:58:33,760 Speaker 1: him or something, because why else would she watch us 1099 00:58:33,800 --> 00:58:36,720 Speaker 1: and then admit it. What kind of creep would do that? 1100 00:58:37,080 --> 00:58:39,920 Speaker 1: My boyfriend has moved past this like it was nothing. 1101 00:58:40,200 --> 00:58:43,760 Speaker 1: Should I let it go to? Well, you know, if 1102 00:58:43,760 --> 00:58:46,400 Speaker 1: it's making you uncomfortable, and I can see how it 1103 00:58:46,440 --> 00:58:48,920 Speaker 1: would be, the first thing you should do is make 1104 00:58:48,960 --> 00:58:52,000 Speaker 1: sure the closet door is closed when you're over there. 1105 00:58:52,240 --> 00:58:54,720 Speaker 1: Because this is weird. I mean, this is weird to me. 1106 00:58:54,760 --> 00:58:57,640 Speaker 1: It's hard to say exactly what she's up to, but 1107 00:58:57,800 --> 00:59:01,600 Speaker 1: she evidently was intrigued by what she saw. Because it's 1108 00:59:01,640 --> 00:59:04,360 Speaker 1: one thing to watch the tapes to get information, like 1109 00:59:04,400 --> 00:59:06,840 Speaker 1: if someone is trying to break in the house or something, 1110 00:59:06,960 --> 00:59:09,760 Speaker 1: or the safe down there. But why would she just 1111 00:59:09,880 --> 00:59:13,880 Speaker 1: watch I don't understand that either. It could be because 1112 00:59:14,000 --> 00:59:17,720 Speaker 1: I don't know, maybe she's using it for something entertainment purposes. 1113 00:59:18,400 --> 00:59:21,400 Speaker 1: She admitted watching the videos, which should have let you 1114 00:59:21,400 --> 00:59:23,960 Speaker 1: guys know that she is very aware of what's going 1115 00:59:24,360 --> 00:59:27,480 Speaker 1: on in her house and your apartment. Even though your 1116 00:59:27,480 --> 00:59:30,680 Speaker 1: boyfriend is let it go. I gotta ask, do you 1117 00:59:30,920 --> 00:59:32,920 Speaker 1: have a place, and maybe it's time for you and 1118 00:59:32,960 --> 00:59:37,640 Speaker 1: your boyfriend to go elsewhere for intimacy. Until then, like 1119 00:59:37,720 --> 00:59:43,760 Speaker 1: I said earlier, keep that closet door closed, Steve, I. 1120 00:59:43,680 --> 00:59:46,280 Speaker 9: Don't really know why she wrote the letter to us. 1121 00:59:46,360 --> 00:59:48,840 Speaker 9: I really really don't. I'm confused. Let me just tell 1122 00:59:48,880 --> 00:59:52,040 Speaker 9: you why it's weird. The end of the letter says, 1123 00:59:52,360 --> 00:59:57,280 Speaker 9: oh oh. She says in the letter, I want to 1124 00:59:57,320 --> 01:00:05,360 Speaker 9: report her to who that's that's that's you know, you know, 1125 01:00:05,440 --> 01:00:08,360 Speaker 9: you know. Once we got to that part, I was 1126 01:00:08,400 --> 01:00:13,320 Speaker 9: so dog gonna confuse. I wanted to report his step 1127 01:00:13,360 --> 01:00:17,880 Speaker 9: mom too. What the report gonna say? She was looking 1128 01:00:17,880 --> 01:00:21,520 Speaker 9: at her phone app that she has cameras in her 1129 01:00:21,600 --> 01:00:26,720 Speaker 9: house that's downstairs to watch the safe and y'alls having 1130 01:00:26,760 --> 01:00:29,920 Speaker 9: sex with the door open, and she saw it on 1131 01:00:29,960 --> 01:00:30,520 Speaker 9: her app. 1132 01:00:32,440 --> 01:00:34,440 Speaker 1: But what a crime? 1133 01:00:35,640 --> 01:00:36,880 Speaker 2: What does she do wrong? 1134 01:00:38,960 --> 01:00:39,120 Speaker 3: Now? 1135 01:00:39,200 --> 01:00:41,560 Speaker 9: Once I heard that in the letter, which was much 1136 01:00:41,680 --> 01:00:45,200 Speaker 9: later in the letter, it now negated the rest of 1137 01:00:45,240 --> 01:00:48,120 Speaker 9: the letter because you and they house. 1138 01:00:49,320 --> 01:00:51,080 Speaker 2: I've been my boyfriend in five months. 1139 01:00:51,080 --> 01:00:53,200 Speaker 9: He moved here with his dad and step mom right 1140 01:00:53,240 --> 01:00:54,400 Speaker 9: after we started dating. 1141 01:00:55,480 --> 01:01:00,520 Speaker 2: Why why why your boyfriend had to go back home live. 1142 01:01:00,400 --> 01:01:03,600 Speaker 9: With his mom and daddy, And that ain't in the letter. 1143 01:01:04,920 --> 01:01:07,080 Speaker 9: They have an apartment in the basement and he got 1144 01:01:07,120 --> 01:01:12,680 Speaker 9: his own interest. Okay, Entrance, I love his dad. I 1145 01:01:12,760 --> 01:01:15,680 Speaker 9: never got a woman friendly vibe from his stepmom, and 1146 01:01:15,720 --> 01:01:20,360 Speaker 9: now I know why. Well, maybe the step mom know 1147 01:01:20,480 --> 01:01:24,520 Speaker 9: she barely in there. Too hard to welcome in the 1148 01:01:24,600 --> 01:01:29,440 Speaker 9: new girl when you just got in yourself, and then 1149 01:01:29,480 --> 01:01:32,000 Speaker 9: your boyfriend told her this, how this is how she 1150 01:01:32,120 --> 01:01:34,640 Speaker 9: know you? And she ain't in real tight your boyfriend 1151 01:01:34,720 --> 01:01:36,360 Speaker 9: told her you ain't have to go out your way 1152 01:01:36,360 --> 01:01:41,760 Speaker 9: to be nice to her. I stay at his place 1153 01:01:41,800 --> 01:01:45,040 Speaker 9: a lot. We've had sex all over his tiny apartment. 1154 01:01:46,280 --> 01:01:48,200 Speaker 9: First couple of times we were in him, I told 1155 01:01:48,280 --> 01:01:50,560 Speaker 9: him I felt like somebody watching us. He laughed it 1156 01:01:50,640 --> 01:01:53,400 Speaker 9: off and told me all the cameras was outside the 1157 01:01:53,560 --> 01:01:58,360 Speaker 9: boy Was he wrong. There's always been a camera in 1158 01:01:58,400 --> 01:02:01,280 Speaker 9: his bedroom closet because that's where his dad kept us safe. 1159 01:02:02,000 --> 01:02:03,920 Speaker 2: We've been having sex with the closet of dope. 1160 01:02:04,000 --> 01:02:06,560 Speaker 9: And so when my boyfriend discovered the camera so I 1161 01:02:06,720 --> 01:02:08,800 Speaker 9: was recording, our stomachs. 1162 01:02:08,440 --> 01:02:14,840 Speaker 2: Were in knots. So then y'all got the nerve up. 1163 01:02:14,880 --> 01:02:18,480 Speaker 9: Whenning the and asked his daddy and step mom about 1164 01:02:18,480 --> 01:02:21,320 Speaker 9: the camp, Daddy said, I don't even checking him. 1165 01:02:21,440 --> 01:02:22,800 Speaker 2: I ain't there can yet. 1166 01:02:23,720 --> 01:02:26,520 Speaker 9: What no knew at I ain't I ain't checking that 1167 01:02:26,640 --> 01:02:28,560 Speaker 9: cam down there that will beat me and the wain't 1168 01:02:28,560 --> 01:02:31,320 Speaker 9: here that came on came on in year. 1169 01:02:31,400 --> 01:02:33,520 Speaker 2: I don't even know where I forgot it. What that 1170 01:02:33,680 --> 01:02:34,560 Speaker 2: it is down there? 1171 01:02:35,000 --> 01:02:39,880 Speaker 9: There's a camera down there. Then the mother in law said, yes, 1172 01:02:40,080 --> 01:02:40,800 Speaker 9: is down. 1173 01:02:40,680 --> 01:02:48,000 Speaker 2: There because I got the application on my phone. MM, well, 1174 01:02:48,000 --> 01:02:48,840 Speaker 2: what they do then? 1175 01:02:49,200 --> 01:02:54,560 Speaker 9: Oh the cold. He keep a record everything going on 1176 01:02:54,680 --> 01:02:55,160 Speaker 9: down there. 1177 01:02:55,200 --> 01:02:56,480 Speaker 2: That that why they ever be. 1178 01:02:56,560 --> 01:02:58,760 Speaker 9: Talking to it, because we done see some things. All 1179 01:02:59,120 --> 01:03:00,440 Speaker 9: what did we see? 1180 01:03:00,680 --> 01:03:04,200 Speaker 1: Heng on, we'll have part two of Steve's response pog 1181 01:03:04,680 --> 01:03:10,440 Speaker 1: coming Backel at twenty three minutes after today's strawberry She 1182 01:03:10,560 --> 01:03:13,640 Speaker 1: watched and listened for weeks. We'll get back into it 1183 01:03:13,800 --> 01:03:14,520 Speaker 1: right after this. 1184 01:03:14,920 --> 01:03:15,200 Speaker 2: Girl. 1185 01:03:15,640 --> 01:03:21,040 Speaker 13: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1186 01:03:23,400 --> 01:03:26,360 Speaker 1: You've heard us talk about the benefits of Globe Life insurance. 1187 01:03:26,440 --> 01:03:30,240 Speaker 1: Globe Life has been protecting families for generations. Globe Life 1188 01:03:30,320 --> 01:03:33,400 Speaker 1: is easy to buy, with rates starting as low as 1189 01:03:33,440 --> 01:03:35,880 Speaker 1: three dollars and forty nine cents a month. There is 1190 01:03:35,920 --> 01:03:39,840 Speaker 1: no medical exam, just a simple application called globe Life 1191 01:03:39,840 --> 01:03:43,200 Speaker 1: Today at one eight hundred two five one fifty four hundred, 1192 01:03:43,360 --> 01:03:46,720 Speaker 1: or visit Globelife radio dot com again. That's one eight 1193 01:03:46,800 --> 01:03:51,720 Speaker 1: hundred two five one fifty four hundred or globelifradio dot com. 1194 01:03:51,760 --> 01:03:55,560 Speaker 1: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter. 1195 01:03:55,640 --> 01:03:59,160 Speaker 1: The subject is she watched and listened for weeks. 1196 01:04:00,680 --> 01:04:00,960 Speaker 2: Yeah. 1197 01:04:01,080 --> 01:04:03,120 Speaker 9: Yeah, This is the story about a lady that got 1198 01:04:03,240 --> 01:04:06,840 Speaker 9: with her boyfriend. They've been dating for five months and 1199 01:04:06,960 --> 01:04:09,160 Speaker 9: he moved in with his mom and daddy right after 1200 01:04:09,200 --> 01:04:11,480 Speaker 9: they started dating. She ain't got no problem with that. 1201 01:04:11,480 --> 01:04:15,240 Speaker 9: That ain't even question about the letter. My question is why. 1202 01:04:15,840 --> 01:04:16,360 Speaker 2: And then. 1203 01:04:18,800 --> 01:04:21,920 Speaker 9: She's never got a warm reaction from the stepmom, but 1204 01:04:21,960 --> 01:04:23,520 Speaker 9: the dad is always friendly. 1205 01:04:25,000 --> 01:04:27,200 Speaker 2: And the boyfriend told her. 1206 01:04:27,080 --> 01:04:28,480 Speaker 9: You ain't got to go out your way to be 1207 01:04:28,560 --> 01:04:30,480 Speaker 9: nice to her because I got this separate interest. You 1208 01:04:30,480 --> 01:04:32,080 Speaker 9: ain't got to worry about that. I stayed in his 1209 01:04:32,120 --> 01:04:34,680 Speaker 9: place a lot. We have sex all over the little 1210 01:04:34,720 --> 01:04:39,160 Speaker 9: tiny apartment. First couple of times they was in there 1211 01:04:39,160 --> 01:04:42,040 Speaker 9: me she told him, I think somebody's watching us. He 1212 01:04:42,120 --> 01:04:44,560 Speaker 9: laughed and off told her all the cameras was outside. 1213 01:04:44,880 --> 01:04:47,520 Speaker 9: But old boy, was he wrong. There's a camera in 1214 01:04:47,560 --> 01:04:50,120 Speaker 9: the closet aimed at the safe that his daddy had 1215 01:04:50,200 --> 01:04:54,200 Speaker 9: down now and they dodne have intimate reactions, intimate moments 1216 01:04:54,280 --> 01:04:57,600 Speaker 9: with the dope to the closet opened where the safe is, 1217 01:04:58,320 --> 01:05:02,920 Speaker 9: which now means that camera was showing whoever opened that door. 1218 01:05:03,840 --> 01:05:04,960 Speaker 2: Well, they opened the door. 1219 01:05:05,960 --> 01:05:08,560 Speaker 9: Then when y'all discovered that there was a camera and 1220 01:05:08,600 --> 01:05:11,880 Speaker 9: you saw that it was recording, y'all stomach was in knocks. 1221 01:05:12,320 --> 01:05:14,840 Speaker 9: Y'all decided to go up, says and confront the daddy 1222 01:05:14,880 --> 01:05:17,880 Speaker 9: end the step mama. Daddy said, what camera you talking about? 1223 01:05:17,880 --> 01:05:19,280 Speaker 9: I don't even remember that? 1224 01:05:20,560 --> 01:05:23,000 Speaker 2: What is whoa? 1225 01:05:23,080 --> 01:05:23,320 Speaker 3: Whoa? 1226 01:05:23,520 --> 01:05:24,360 Speaker 2: What is kim? 1227 01:05:26,000 --> 01:05:26,800 Speaker 1: Where did you get that? 1228 01:05:26,960 --> 01:05:27,560 Speaker 3: Boy? 1229 01:05:27,920 --> 01:05:29,960 Speaker 9: Cause you know that's how old old people when they 1230 01:05:29,960 --> 01:05:32,280 Speaker 9: don't know nothing, they they voice, get a little high 1231 01:05:32,320 --> 01:05:33,160 Speaker 9: and get it quizzing. 1232 01:05:34,120 --> 01:05:38,000 Speaker 1: Poa what is cam? 1233 01:05:38,240 --> 01:05:38,840 Speaker 2: Camera? Twan? 1234 01:05:40,160 --> 01:05:42,680 Speaker 9: Now, good boy, I forgot all about that cam. I 1235 01:05:42,680 --> 01:05:44,320 Speaker 9: ain't seen it that that camera? 1236 01:05:45,160 --> 01:05:45,720 Speaker 2: What is on? 1237 01:05:47,240 --> 01:05:49,960 Speaker 9: And then the lady said, I got the application on 1238 01:05:50,000 --> 01:05:55,080 Speaker 9: my phone. I'dn't seen them down that neckad doing all 1239 01:05:55,160 --> 01:06:03,520 Speaker 9: kind of nasty dangs. Oh lord, step mom admitted she 1240 01:06:03,600 --> 01:06:07,360 Speaker 9: checked the camera. She sings several different intimate moments over 1241 01:06:07,480 --> 01:06:08,400 Speaker 9: three week period. 1242 01:06:08,840 --> 01:06:10,800 Speaker 2: She showed us the camera app on her phone. 1243 01:06:10,880 --> 01:06:13,760 Speaker 9: We pulled up a video or me when the cowboy 1244 01:06:13,800 --> 01:06:15,680 Speaker 9: had denim short said nothing on top? 1245 01:06:16,320 --> 01:06:18,600 Speaker 2: Oh now you're just down there, cowboy carter. 1246 01:06:18,400 --> 01:06:25,200 Speaker 9: Her where my clothes and where am I top? 1247 01:06:25,280 --> 01:06:25,760 Speaker 1: Had? 1248 01:06:27,120 --> 01:06:27,160 Speaker 13: No? 1249 01:06:27,520 --> 01:06:31,320 Speaker 2: God, all my things hanging hat all right? 1250 01:06:31,440 --> 01:06:35,720 Speaker 9: Now we were beyond shock, and at first I wanted 1251 01:06:35,760 --> 01:06:36,840 Speaker 9: to report. 1252 01:06:36,440 --> 01:06:37,240 Speaker 2: His step mom. 1253 01:06:37,680 --> 01:06:41,240 Speaker 9: Now this is where I lost all credibility and respect 1254 01:06:41,320 --> 01:06:45,440 Speaker 9: for your letter. You gonna report her step mom to 1255 01:06:45,760 --> 01:06:50,800 Speaker 9: who And you're gonna report her step mom for what? 1256 01:06:53,200 --> 01:06:55,960 Speaker 9: You don't get to go to nobody house where they 1257 01:06:56,000 --> 01:06:57,200 Speaker 9: got a camera. 1258 01:06:57,240 --> 01:06:59,760 Speaker 2: And do something and then report him. 1259 01:07:00,920 --> 01:07:04,520 Speaker 9: I think his stepmam wants him or something, because why 1260 01:07:04,560 --> 01:07:05,840 Speaker 9: else will she watch us. 1261 01:07:05,800 --> 01:07:08,440 Speaker 2: And then admit it? What difference would it? A maiden? 1262 01:07:08,520 --> 01:07:12,120 Speaker 9: She said, I ain't even seen that camera. Nothing says 1263 01:07:12,200 --> 01:07:16,000 Speaker 9: she wants him. She just don't like you because you're 1264 01:07:16,040 --> 01:07:17,200 Speaker 9: over there doing some things. 1265 01:07:17,240 --> 01:07:20,200 Speaker 2: Girl, who who you in? That clown? 1266 01:07:21,920 --> 01:07:26,040 Speaker 9: That's what's wrong. Her little fast tail just in here 1267 01:07:26,160 --> 01:07:29,400 Speaker 9: got it all. She just turned in herself every which 1268 01:07:29,360 --> 01:07:34,840 Speaker 9: your way? Look at her hand now making that boy 1269 01:07:35,960 --> 01:07:41,360 Speaker 9: he dead in the morning. This is the mama watching 1270 01:07:41,440 --> 01:07:44,320 Speaker 9: the video. Look at him in there, over and over 1271 01:07:44,480 --> 01:07:45,960 Speaker 9: in there, just over there. 1272 01:07:45,920 --> 01:07:49,640 Speaker 2: Just doing that. Look at her turning every what your way? 1273 01:07:49,720 --> 01:07:50,440 Speaker 1: Look and what is he? 1274 01:07:50,800 --> 01:07:57,920 Speaker 9: And now look lord, great day in the morning. 1275 01:07:58,600 --> 01:07:59,880 Speaker 1: Hin the well. 1276 01:08:01,680 --> 01:08:05,920 Speaker 2: He got her foot? Is got her foot? How is 1277 01:08:06,000 --> 01:08:06,919 Speaker 2: they doing? Now? 1278 01:08:07,360 --> 01:08:08,960 Speaker 1: She's watching it for entertainment? 1279 01:08:09,600 --> 01:08:17,040 Speaker 9: He Look at where is wine come from? 1280 01:08:17,520 --> 01:08:17,840 Speaker 4: Girl? 1281 01:08:18,400 --> 01:08:18,680 Speaker 2: You know? 1282 01:08:18,840 --> 01:08:20,960 Speaker 9: And and and and and now she done took it 1283 01:08:21,000 --> 01:08:25,599 Speaker 9: to her friends over at bingo. Girl watches here watch it. 1284 01:08:25,640 --> 01:08:28,519 Speaker 9: Look look Look look at it. God, where you get 1285 01:08:28,520 --> 01:08:31,920 Speaker 9: it from? That's uh, that's that's herman baby downstairs? 1286 01:08:32,320 --> 01:08:34,040 Speaker 2: Who this girl? I don't know who this health is? 1287 01:08:34,080 --> 01:08:34,639 Speaker 2: She get fast? 1288 01:08:34,680 --> 01:08:38,840 Speaker 9: Watches here now look at that watch it now, get 1289 01:08:38,840 --> 01:08:41,160 Speaker 9: ready to get ready. Here come the monkey. Watch his here? 1290 01:08:41,320 --> 01:08:46,120 Speaker 2: Why watch when the monkey come in here? Look at 1291 01:08:46,160 --> 01:08:46,639 Speaker 2: that monkey? 1292 01:08:46,720 --> 01:08:48,160 Speaker 1: How he how he know what. 1293 01:08:50,360 --> 01:08:52,960 Speaker 2: He helped? Look out that mornkey hole in that camera. 1294 01:08:53,240 --> 01:08:55,680 Speaker 2: Girl is crazy. 1295 01:08:56,520 --> 01:09:04,599 Speaker 1: Ye oh. 1296 01:09:04,200 --> 01:09:08,439 Speaker 9: Well, I'm gonna tell you something. He's something else. I'm 1297 01:09:08,479 --> 01:09:11,040 Speaker 9: just gonna tell you that right now. He's something else. 1298 01:09:12,360 --> 01:09:13,960 Speaker 9: I don't know where he got it from. She ain't 1299 01:09:13,960 --> 01:09:15,920 Speaker 9: getting from it, daddy, though. I tell you that right now. 1300 01:09:17,720 --> 01:09:20,040 Speaker 9: He's none of it from me, daddy, because his daddy 1301 01:09:20,040 --> 01:09:23,519 Speaker 9: ain't doing half, did he? I mean he he might 1302 01:09:23,560 --> 01:09:25,360 Speaker 9: have done it in before, but he not doing it 1303 01:09:25,439 --> 01:09:25,800 Speaker 9: no more. 1304 01:09:26,560 --> 01:09:26,760 Speaker 13: You know. 1305 01:09:26,800 --> 01:09:27,679 Speaker 2: I'm just step mama. 1306 01:09:28,680 --> 01:09:30,799 Speaker 1: What are they saying? Her friends at Bingo? 1307 01:09:30,920 --> 01:09:31,599 Speaker 2: They doing? Now? 1308 01:09:32,560 --> 01:09:32,680 Speaker 3: Oh? 1309 01:09:34,240 --> 01:09:38,720 Speaker 2: Well, that being go to me. I know one thing 1310 01:09:38,840 --> 01:09:44,000 Speaker 2: I'll be hollering bingo, All right, Bingo. 1311 01:09:45,400 --> 01:09:56,360 Speaker 1: Today's Strawberry lettering Facebook Worry Defoe got it? Also check 1312 01:09:56,400 --> 01:09:59,960 Speaker 1: out the Strawberry Letter podcast on the Free I Heeart 1313 01:10:00,240 --> 01:10:04,639 Speaker 1: rading Old nine oh Ford, where free never sounded so good. 1314 01:10:05,560 --> 01:10:09,400 Speaker 1: Coming up next, it is Junior and Sports Talk. Are 1315 01:10:09,439 --> 01:10:10,200 Speaker 1: you quite done? 1316 01:10:10,880 --> 01:10:11,519 Speaker 10: Be out. 1317 01:10:13,240 --> 01:10:14,160 Speaker 3: Junior dot. 1318 01:10:15,560 --> 01:10:18,000 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1319 01:10:22,080 --> 01:10:25,479 Speaker 15: This broadcast is sponsored by PayPal. 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Which 1330 01:10:55,760 --> 01:10:56,479 Speaker 1: you got Junior? 1331 01:10:56,880 --> 01:10:57,040 Speaker 10: Oh? 1332 01:10:57,200 --> 01:10:59,360 Speaker 12: Sure, I got something? I'll tell you right now. It's 1333 01:10:59,400 --> 01:11:00,280 Speaker 12: two days away. 1334 01:11:00,360 --> 01:11:05,280 Speaker 11: Shirley Jacksonville, Jacksonville flaughter, Mother's Day, Terry did it? 1335 01:11:06,000 --> 01:11:06,559 Speaker 2: Shun hunder? 1336 01:11:06,640 --> 01:11:07,160 Speaker 12: Would me? 1337 01:11:07,560 --> 01:11:08,200 Speaker 1: Ain't trained? 1338 01:11:08,520 --> 01:11:11,519 Speaker 12: Skate cardim man? It's gonna be crazy, that's all I know. 1339 01:11:11,880 --> 01:11:14,479 Speaker 12: It's Mother's Day and it Happy Mother's Day to you ladies. 1340 01:11:14,880 --> 01:11:17,439 Speaker 2: You know Carlos, thank you, thank you. 1341 01:11:17,520 --> 01:11:20,240 Speaker 12: Do you know I watched should grow up it's like 1342 01:11:21,200 --> 01:11:22,200 Speaker 12: I've seen everything. 1343 01:11:23,000 --> 01:11:27,760 Speaker 15: Yeah, yeah, and seventeen years I've been the mother best 1344 01:11:27,880 --> 01:11:29,200 Speaker 15: job in the world, motherhood. 1345 01:11:30,840 --> 01:11:34,600 Speaker 11: I will say that, thank you, that's all, you know what, 1346 01:11:34,840 --> 01:11:37,200 Speaker 11: and then tell me I owe you an apology, Timmy. 1347 01:11:38,720 --> 01:11:41,720 Speaker 11: So we got to do with sports. I just gotta apologize. 1348 01:11:41,800 --> 01:11:42,960 Speaker 11: Maybe you legendary. 1349 01:11:43,160 --> 01:11:45,640 Speaker 12: I just I just remember a time when I had 1350 01:11:45,720 --> 01:11:47,040 Speaker 12: walked in on you had a helmet on. 1351 01:11:48,040 --> 01:11:49,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, where was this? 1352 01:11:50,040 --> 01:11:52,000 Speaker 11: I used to room with Tommy and he had a 1353 01:11:52,080 --> 01:11:55,559 Speaker 11: helmet on, and I just know you stupid, That's all 1354 01:11:55,640 --> 01:11:55,840 Speaker 11: I know. 1355 01:11:56,040 --> 01:12:01,640 Speaker 1: And I can't see it change your heart from an 1356 01:12:01,720 --> 01:12:07,680 Speaker 1: hour because yeah I didn't. I ain't saying him to me. 1357 01:12:07,760 --> 01:12:09,000 Speaker 11: But then I thought about it. I was like, you 1358 01:12:09,080 --> 01:12:11,320 Speaker 11: know what he is because ain't nobody else could do that? 1359 01:12:11,680 --> 01:12:13,200 Speaker 11: Like he got a lady in the room I walked in. 1360 01:12:13,280 --> 01:12:15,439 Speaker 11: He was putting a helmet on, a football helmet. 1361 01:12:17,920 --> 01:12:20,439 Speaker 1: I hope you turned around and left close I did. 1362 01:12:20,920 --> 01:12:24,560 Speaker 11: I can't understand it, so I know, but don't know. 1363 01:12:24,920 --> 01:12:26,640 Speaker 11: That's why I can't see him as legendary. 1364 01:12:26,920 --> 01:12:31,040 Speaker 1: Okay, gotcha, gotcha. You're making ballad points, Junior. So now 1365 01:12:31,560 --> 01:12:32,080 Speaker 1: so now. 1366 01:12:32,000 --> 01:12:35,600 Speaker 10: Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, that's a whole sketch of 1367 01:12:35,760 --> 01:12:37,680 Speaker 10: me and Terry j Vonn with a helmet on. 1368 01:12:37,840 --> 01:12:38,920 Speaker 2: That's what you're talking about. 1369 01:12:39,080 --> 01:12:41,240 Speaker 15: Yes, I've seen it. 1370 01:12:44,720 --> 01:12:44,880 Speaker 3: Right. 1371 01:12:45,880 --> 01:12:48,400 Speaker 1: I can't see him the way y'all see stead he 1372 01:12:48,520 --> 01:12:55,160 Speaker 1: stands girl. Yeah, Jackie Rock, Yeah, I love her. 1373 01:12:56,320 --> 01:13:00,920 Speaker 11: Doing her thing saying it's hall me except but I 1374 01:13:01,040 --> 01:13:04,080 Speaker 11: have to you is legendary and I love you man. 1375 01:13:04,160 --> 01:13:07,040 Speaker 2: I'm sorry god man. 1376 01:13:07,120 --> 01:13:11,640 Speaker 1: Just reinstated as legendary. 1377 01:13:11,920 --> 01:13:14,400 Speaker 12: You had the helmet, you had to helm it on though. 1378 01:13:14,360 --> 01:13:17,680 Speaker 2: I did, I did, I did. Do you have a 1379 01:13:17,760 --> 01:13:22,920 Speaker 2: picture of that och? 1380 01:13:23,240 --> 01:13:26,960 Speaker 12: Oh my gosh, we need to post it on that 1381 01:13:27,600 --> 01:13:29,120 Speaker 12: legendary that was? 1382 01:13:29,560 --> 01:13:29,840 Speaker 2: That was? 1383 01:13:30,120 --> 01:13:30,400 Speaker 3: That was? 1384 01:13:30,479 --> 01:13:32,360 Speaker 1: So now we get it, Junior. 1385 01:13:32,479 --> 01:13:35,600 Speaker 2: Now we get it. And surely and and and the 1386 01:13:35,680 --> 01:13:37,559 Speaker 2: helmet is stuck. I can't get it off. 1387 01:13:37,720 --> 01:13:38,120 Speaker 12: He can't. 1388 01:13:45,560 --> 01:13:45,800 Speaker 11: Wow. 1389 01:13:46,439 --> 01:13:49,800 Speaker 1: Well, Junior, thanks for enlightening us. Now now we get it. Okay, 1390 01:13:51,120 --> 01:13:53,200 Speaker 1: all right, that's. 1391 01:13:55,439 --> 01:13:57,400 Speaker 2: I don't care about games. Thank you. 1392 01:13:59,000 --> 01:14:00,679 Speaker 1: Coming up on the top of the we are Steve. 1393 01:14:01,080 --> 01:14:04,360 Speaker 1: Diva from Savannah needs some advice about her boyfriend. Should 1394 01:14:04,360 --> 01:14:07,320 Speaker 1: she hang in there? Right after this, you're listening to 1395 01:14:07,439 --> 01:14:14,040 Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve, this is 1396 01:14:14,080 --> 01:14:17,719 Speaker 1: from Diva in Savannah. Diva says, I wash and fold 1397 01:14:17,800 --> 01:14:20,400 Speaker 1: my boyfriend's clothes and take them to his house weekly. 1398 01:14:20,720 --> 01:14:23,280 Speaker 1: I also have dinner ready for him most evenings, or 1399 01:14:23,320 --> 01:14:25,800 Speaker 1: I meet him out for dinner. We're either at his 1400 01:14:26,000 --> 01:14:29,160 Speaker 1: house or mine after dinner, and we either go for 1401 01:14:29,280 --> 01:14:31,760 Speaker 1: a walk, have wine, watch a movie, or just sit 1402 01:14:31,960 --> 01:14:34,680 Speaker 1: and talk. Sex isn't a big thing to him, so 1403 01:14:34,880 --> 01:14:38,040 Speaker 1: sometimes we only have sex once a week, no matter what. 1404 01:14:38,520 --> 01:14:42,240 Speaker 1: Every night, around eleven PM, he gets up to go home. 1405 01:14:42,600 --> 01:14:45,160 Speaker 1: If I'm at his house, he starts hinting that it's 1406 01:14:45,200 --> 01:14:47,639 Speaker 1: getting late and time for him to go to bed. 1407 01:14:48,000 --> 01:14:50,439 Speaker 1: He will follow me all the way home and then 1408 01:14:50,680 --> 01:14:53,240 Speaker 1: go back to his house. This has been going on 1409 01:14:53,400 --> 01:14:55,960 Speaker 1: for almost a year. Am I supposed to go along 1410 01:14:56,040 --> 01:15:00,559 Speaker 1: with this and pretend to like it? That's what Diva 1411 01:15:00,640 --> 01:15:01,080 Speaker 1: wants to know. 1412 01:15:01,680 --> 01:15:02,719 Speaker 2: Well, it's eleven o'clock. 1413 01:15:03,640 --> 01:15:04,559 Speaker 1: It's eleven o'clock. 1414 01:15:06,760 --> 01:15:10,519 Speaker 2: It's leven. It's level, it's level. You see what's happening? 1415 01:15:11,080 --> 01:15:11,639 Speaker 2: It's leven? 1416 01:15:13,200 --> 01:15:15,320 Speaker 9: Why are you asking me about this right now? It 1417 01:15:15,439 --> 01:15:20,080 Speaker 9: ain't It always been eleven. Either I got to go 1418 01:15:21,000 --> 01:15:23,760 Speaker 9: m either I got to go home, or you got 1419 01:15:23,800 --> 01:15:24,280 Speaker 9: to go home. 1420 01:15:24,439 --> 01:15:28,720 Speaker 2: But it's leven. What's happening at the level. 1421 01:15:28,840 --> 01:15:35,599 Speaker 1: Yeah, what do you mean the wife comes home? Yeah? 1422 01:15:36,000 --> 01:15:38,439 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, she don't come home. 1423 01:15:38,520 --> 01:15:40,760 Speaker 9: Because you can't hide a woman been at your house 1424 01:15:40,840 --> 01:15:44,640 Speaker 9: for the house day. You cannot hide a woman been 1425 01:15:44,680 --> 01:15:47,080 Speaker 9: at your house for a year, not from no woman. 1426 01:15:49,080 --> 01:15:50,200 Speaker 1: That's cutting it close. 1427 01:15:52,080 --> 01:15:54,880 Speaker 9: What is just dip in this couch over on this side? 1428 01:15:54,960 --> 01:15:57,439 Speaker 9: For what you always sit on that side over there? 1429 01:15:57,760 --> 01:15:58,920 Speaker 9: And why it dips small? 1430 01:16:00,200 --> 01:16:00,320 Speaker 6: Uh? 1431 01:16:01,520 --> 01:16:03,840 Speaker 9: Because it ain't my butt print. My buttprint doesn't even 1432 01:16:03,880 --> 01:16:06,120 Speaker 9: fit in here. Well, what had you been in here doing? 1433 01:16:06,880 --> 01:16:06,920 Speaker 13: So? 1434 01:16:07,240 --> 01:16:11,200 Speaker 9: The eleven o'clock, I think is he turns into what 1435 01:16:11,640 --> 01:16:17,840 Speaker 9: he's not married, but he could be seen someone else. 1436 01:16:19,479 --> 01:16:24,200 Speaker 9: And she got hours too. Everybody got hours. It's a 1437 01:16:24,320 --> 01:16:30,760 Speaker 9: shift and you got you got the afternoon shift, the 1438 01:16:31,200 --> 01:16:32,120 Speaker 9: four to eleven. 1439 01:16:32,680 --> 01:16:34,720 Speaker 2: Does the sex once a week kind of give you 1440 01:16:34,800 --> 01:16:36,200 Speaker 2: a hand? Yeah? 1441 01:16:36,920 --> 01:16:39,560 Speaker 9: Yeah, and you and if you can, if you know 1442 01:16:39,760 --> 01:16:43,880 Speaker 9: the day that you're getting it on, that's do you 1443 01:16:44,000 --> 01:16:44,679 Speaker 9: on the schedule? 1444 01:16:46,320 --> 01:16:47,320 Speaker 1: E tay? 1445 01:16:47,479 --> 01:16:55,160 Speaker 2: Like if it's Wednesday, Yeah, that's it. It's just Wednesday. Yeah, 1446 01:16:55,200 --> 01:16:57,639 Speaker 2: that's it. Ain't ain't nothing you can do back, all. 1447 01:17:00,360 --> 01:17:02,439 Speaker 1: Right, we have time for another one, Steve. This is 1448 01:17:02,479 --> 01:17:06,040 Speaker 1: from Ashley in Chicago. Ashley says, my husband and his 1449 01:17:06,240 --> 01:17:09,599 Speaker 1: former best friend had a nasty argument and it almost 1450 01:17:09,680 --> 01:17:13,000 Speaker 1: turned into a fist fight, all because of me. Apparently 1451 01:17:13,120 --> 01:17:16,240 Speaker 1: they all planned to rent an airbnb and have dancers 1452 01:17:16,280 --> 01:17:18,880 Speaker 1: come over for a bachelor party for one of their friends. 1453 01:17:19,200 --> 01:17:21,599 Speaker 1: My husband said he wasn't going, and they called him 1454 01:17:21,640 --> 01:17:25,639 Speaker 1: soft and soft and impact. My husband made his own decision. 1455 01:17:26,000 --> 01:17:29,719 Speaker 1: Why are grown men still behaving like children? 1456 01:17:30,080 --> 01:17:31,439 Speaker 2: See, this ain't your business. 1457 01:17:32,479 --> 01:17:35,479 Speaker 9: Your husband ain't telling you the whole story. They ain't 1458 01:17:35,520 --> 01:17:38,040 Speaker 9: get an almost fist fight because he ain't coming. 1459 01:17:38,720 --> 01:17:40,519 Speaker 1: Oh what was the fight about? 1460 01:17:41,040 --> 01:17:44,920 Speaker 2: Well, see they all was supposed to split this a. 1461 01:17:45,120 --> 01:17:48,280 Speaker 1: Strip of money and making it rain money. 1462 01:17:49,080 --> 01:17:51,280 Speaker 9: Naw, he done came out talking about he ain't going, 1463 01:17:51,360 --> 01:17:54,400 Speaker 9: and everybody had they two hundred. Now since he out, 1464 01:17:54,479 --> 01:17:57,240 Speaker 9: now everybody got put here five fifty. Thatfdn't be a problem. 1465 01:17:58,400 --> 01:18:00,439 Speaker 1: But you wouldn't be mad if someone called you soft 1466 01:18:00,479 --> 01:18:02,800 Speaker 1: story impact. That would make you mad. 1467 01:18:03,160 --> 01:18:06,599 Speaker 9: That ain't that ain't why they that that's it's it's 1468 01:18:06,680 --> 01:18:09,680 Speaker 9: a there is a gap in this story that the 1469 01:18:09,800 --> 01:18:14,360 Speaker 9: lady don't know about. Trust me, they real good friends. 1470 01:18:14,520 --> 01:18:18,360 Speaker 9: They're not fighting over that. It's some other words in 1471 01:18:18,439 --> 01:18:20,639 Speaker 9: there that you don't know about. It's a deal got 1472 01:18:20,760 --> 01:18:24,640 Speaker 9: cut that you are unaware and he ain't gonna keep 1473 01:18:24,720 --> 01:18:27,760 Speaker 9: up his ends of the deal. Then they started arguing, oh, 1474 01:18:27,800 --> 01:18:30,920 Speaker 9: he got called soft and everything, but he's way more 1475 01:18:31,000 --> 01:18:34,599 Speaker 9: to the story than that, lady, way more. We ain't 1476 01:18:34,600 --> 01:18:36,919 Speaker 9: gonna fall out, but I ain't coming to the stripples. 1477 01:18:37,120 --> 01:18:38,200 Speaker 9: That ain't why we fighting. 1478 01:18:38,640 --> 01:18:41,479 Speaker 2: Okay, you just go to break show. 1479 01:18:49,960 --> 01:18:53,400 Speaker 1: Coming twenty minutes after. We'll have more of Steve Harvey 1480 01:18:53,479 --> 01:18:58,400 Speaker 1: Morning Show. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1481 01:19:02,400 --> 01:19:03,960 Speaker 1: All right, Carla, what you got girl? 1482 01:19:04,600 --> 01:19:07,760 Speaker 15: Well check this out. What's up Steve Harvey Nation. This 1483 01:19:08,040 --> 01:19:10,160 Speaker 15: message is sponsored by PayPal. 1484 01:19:10,320 --> 01:19:11,000 Speaker 1: Now check this out. 1485 01:19:11,040 --> 01:19:12,720 Speaker 15: I want to put you on something that I just 1486 01:19:12,880 --> 01:19:16,160 Speaker 15: learned about. 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Yes, he 1513 01:20:39,000 --> 01:20:42,120 Speaker 1: are all right. We'll have more of the Steve Harvey 1514 01:20:42,160 --> 01:20:45,040 Speaker 1: Morning Show coming up. Would you rather right after this? 1515 01:20:45,520 --> 01:20:48,000 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1516 01:20:53,000 --> 01:20:56,479 Speaker 2: Folks, there are a lot of reasons to like Dais. 1517 01:20:56,720 --> 01:20:59,920 Speaker 9: Hyundai's done a lot to support American consumers. 1518 01:21:00,120 --> 01:21:03,040 Speaker 2: I mean, they announced their investment. 1519 01:21:02,760 --> 01:21:05,519 Speaker 9: Of twenty one billion dollars in the United States over 1520 01:21:05,560 --> 01:21:08,799 Speaker 9: the next three years that will expand manufacturing and create 1521 01:21:08,960 --> 01:21:10,440 Speaker 9: more jobs for Americans. 1522 01:21:10,560 --> 01:21:13,160 Speaker 10: And they just announced that they will not be raising 1523 01:21:13,360 --> 01:21:15,200 Speaker 10: MSRP through June second. 1524 01:21:15,320 --> 01:21:18,360 Speaker 2: No matter what, call five six two three one. 1525 01:21:18,320 --> 01:21:22,479 Speaker 1: Four four six zero three for more details. It's time 1526 01:21:22,560 --> 01:21:25,680 Speaker 1: now for a round of would you rather would you 1527 01:21:25,800 --> 01:21:28,680 Speaker 1: rather always answer the phone on speaker or would you 1528 01:21:28,800 --> 01:21:30,960 Speaker 1: rather remove your past code? 1529 01:21:31,720 --> 01:21:33,960 Speaker 2: We're not going to this speaker all. 1530 01:21:35,680 --> 01:21:37,519 Speaker 1: Oh really? Why not? 1531 01:21:39,000 --> 01:21:41,880 Speaker 2: Speaker man? My phone almost came on in my car 1532 01:21:42,000 --> 01:21:43,360 Speaker 2: through that I have the window man. 1533 01:21:50,200 --> 01:21:53,920 Speaker 1: Team. We're speaking or we're going to answer the phone 1534 01:21:53,960 --> 01:21:57,519 Speaker 1: on speaker? Oh you can, okay, yeah, because. 1535 01:21:57,800 --> 01:22:01,240 Speaker 9: First of all, anybody calling me, I just I ain't 1536 01:22:01,320 --> 01:22:05,080 Speaker 9: got that no more. Now, twenty years ago, my phone 1537 01:22:05,200 --> 01:22:09,600 Speaker 9: was read. If it rained and anybody was close, it disintegrated. 1538 01:22:09,000 --> 01:22:10,080 Speaker 2: Like on Michigan. 1539 01:22:11,920 --> 01:22:13,040 Speaker 12: Start coming out. 1540 01:22:15,280 --> 01:22:17,200 Speaker 2: I can't tell you how many phones I had to have. 1541 01:22:18,760 --> 01:22:21,360 Speaker 1: All right, would you rather cook everything on a George 1542 01:22:21,400 --> 01:22:23,560 Speaker 1: Foreman grill or would you rather cook it in a 1543 01:22:23,640 --> 01:22:24,160 Speaker 1: crock pot? 1544 01:22:24,680 --> 01:22:27,960 Speaker 9: Well, Charley, let's let's let's let you answer that question. 1545 01:22:28,840 --> 01:22:29,960 Speaker 9: You the one can't cook. 1546 01:22:30,439 --> 01:22:31,640 Speaker 1: It's the crock pot for me. 1547 01:22:31,960 --> 01:22:34,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, even Walliams burnt. 1548 01:22:35,240 --> 01:22:37,639 Speaker 9: Well, you know, Shirley, I remember a story you had 1549 01:22:38,240 --> 01:22:41,560 Speaker 9: h cook it in a crock pot. You cooked the 1550 01:22:41,720 --> 01:22:44,880 Speaker 9: steak and rice in the crock pot together. You put 1551 01:22:44,920 --> 01:22:48,439 Speaker 9: a raw piece of meat in a pot with some 1552 01:22:48,720 --> 01:22:51,200 Speaker 9: rice and cooked it in the crock pot. 1553 01:22:51,680 --> 01:22:55,599 Speaker 1: What is a gab god? Raw meat? 1554 01:22:57,640 --> 01:22:57,760 Speaker 5: Now? 1555 01:22:57,880 --> 01:22:58,040 Speaker 1: Long? 1556 01:22:58,160 --> 01:22:59,479 Speaker 2: That thing gotta be in the crock. 1557 01:22:59,680 --> 01:23:03,240 Speaker 1: It was great idea at the tent rockbox cooker, but 1558 01:23:03,640 --> 01:23:09,360 Speaker 1: I hurried. I didn't want to cook anyway, shoots. 1559 01:23:10,960 --> 01:23:11,320 Speaker 2: All right? 1560 01:23:11,520 --> 01:23:15,240 Speaker 1: Next, would you rather take your wife to dinner for 1561 01:23:15,400 --> 01:23:17,840 Speaker 1: Mother's Day? Or would you rather cook for her? You 1562 01:23:18,040 --> 01:23:18,640 Speaker 1: cook for her? 1563 01:23:19,080 --> 01:23:20,640 Speaker 2: You ain't got no choice. Got to do all that, 1564 01:23:21,400 --> 01:23:24,400 Speaker 2: either one of them. I'll do that for Junior. 1565 01:23:25,240 --> 01:23:27,200 Speaker 11: Go ask me, because either move I make you gonna 1566 01:23:27,200 --> 01:23:29,439 Speaker 11: be the wrong one ching like the restaurant or what 1567 01:23:29,600 --> 01:23:30,000 Speaker 11: I cooked. 1568 01:23:30,080 --> 01:23:30,559 Speaker 2: I don't. 1569 01:23:32,479 --> 01:23:40,439 Speaker 9: Because you listened to Tommy, You sitting up here talking 1570 01:23:40,439 --> 01:23:42,840 Speaker 9: about you be talking about Will need to call him? 1571 01:23:42,880 --> 01:23:50,639 Speaker 2: No legend? What's your fathering for? I'm cooking for my wife? 1572 01:23:52,840 --> 01:23:57,200 Speaker 10: Oh to that? All right? 1573 01:23:57,240 --> 01:23:59,920 Speaker 1: Would you rather shower one minute in? One minute of 1574 01:24:00,080 --> 01:24:04,160 Speaker 1: hot water? Which you rather bathe in? Very very hot water. 1575 01:24:04,320 --> 01:24:06,960 Speaker 1: Shower for a minute of hot water. A bathe in 1576 01:24:07,160 --> 01:24:11,840 Speaker 1: very hot water. Just a minute shower with one minute 1577 01:24:11,920 --> 01:24:12,479 Speaker 1: of hot water. 1578 01:24:12,560 --> 01:24:14,559 Speaker 2: I'm a bathing that. I'm a bathing at the real 1579 01:24:14,600 --> 01:24:15,080 Speaker 2: high water. 1580 01:24:17,320 --> 01:24:21,680 Speaker 1: A shower shower. Take sixty seconds. Yeah, in and out? 1581 01:24:22,760 --> 01:24:28,840 Speaker 2: What are you doing? Yeah? He gonna do sixty Yeah, 1582 01:24:28,880 --> 01:24:32,320 Speaker 2: all right, I ain't got two clear areas. I got 1583 01:24:32,400 --> 01:24:32,680 Speaker 2: to hit it. 1584 01:24:36,920 --> 01:24:39,080 Speaker 1: Coming up next, last week of the day. We'll close 1585 01:24:39,160 --> 01:24:42,160 Speaker 1: out the show with the one and only. Now this 1586 01:24:42,360 --> 01:24:43,920 Speaker 1: is a real legend, Steve Harvey. 1587 01:24:44,080 --> 01:24:48,320 Speaker 15: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1588 01:24:52,400 --> 01:24:55,559 Speaker 15: This broadcast is sponsored by PayPal. I want to take 1589 01:24:55,600 --> 01:24:57,800 Speaker 15: a second to talk to you about something I think 1590 01:24:57,880 --> 01:24:58,679 Speaker 15: it's pretty cool. 1591 01:24:58,960 --> 01:25:02,000 Speaker 1: Pay Pal let's you pay your own way with just 1592 01:25:02,120 --> 01:25:02,519 Speaker 1: a click. 1593 01:25:02,720 --> 01:25:06,720 Speaker 15: PayPal offers people flexibility on how they can pay. Once 1594 01:25:06,800 --> 01:25:09,560 Speaker 15: you click the PayPal button, you can choose from a 1595 01:25:09,720 --> 01:25:13,320 Speaker 15: bunch of payment options like paying later with PayPal at 1596 01:25:13,439 --> 01:25:18,639 Speaker 15: millions of online stores, pay in store, pay online, pay overtime. 1597 01:25:18,280 --> 01:25:22,160 Speaker 1: Don't just pay PayPal. Learn more at PayPal dot com. 1598 01:25:22,840 --> 01:25:24,920 Speaker 1: Here we are, guys, our last break of the day 1599 01:25:25,040 --> 01:25:28,880 Speaker 1: on this Mother's Day weekend. Now happy Mother's Day. Everybody. 1600 01:25:28,960 --> 01:25:32,280 Speaker 1: Happy Mother's Day, Carl, thank you. 1601 01:25:33,120 --> 01:25:40,040 Speaker 15: Thank you, and to all the mothers out there, that's 1602 01:25:40,080 --> 01:25:41,200 Speaker 15: happy Mother's Day. 1603 01:25:41,640 --> 01:25:42,920 Speaker 1: We appreciate and love you. 1604 01:25:43,640 --> 01:25:51,439 Speaker 9: Knowing sad to say, there are people who have mothers 1605 01:25:51,640 --> 01:25:56,280 Speaker 9: that they don't have a good relationship with, and I 1606 01:25:56,400 --> 01:26:00,880 Speaker 9: want to employ you to change that. I know a 1607 01:26:01,000 --> 01:26:05,839 Speaker 9: very famous guy when I won my first Image Award 1608 01:26:07,560 --> 01:26:12,400 Speaker 9: and I had thanked my mother, and I think I 1609 01:26:12,520 --> 01:26:16,280 Speaker 9: said something to the fact that I wish she was here. 1610 01:26:17,680 --> 01:26:20,479 Speaker 9: I remember saying something, and as I walked off stage, 1611 01:26:21,680 --> 01:26:24,080 Speaker 9: this very famous guy said to me, I wish I 1612 01:26:24,160 --> 01:26:26,280 Speaker 9: felt that way about my mama, but I ain't spoke 1613 01:26:26,360 --> 01:26:31,439 Speaker 9: to her in ten years. And I stopped and I said, bro, 1614 01:26:31,600 --> 01:26:34,439 Speaker 9: you need to fix that. He said, Now, you don't 1615 01:26:34,520 --> 01:26:38,640 Speaker 9: understand what happened. I said, I may not, but you 1616 01:26:38,800 --> 01:26:44,679 Speaker 9: need to fix that. I don't know what happens between 1617 01:26:44,840 --> 01:26:47,360 Speaker 9: a child and their mother where they don't speak. I've 1618 01:26:47,439 --> 01:26:51,200 Speaker 9: seen it happen up close before, and it's alarming to 1619 01:26:51,320 --> 01:26:56,280 Speaker 9: me because there's a scripture that says, honor thy mother 1620 01:26:56,360 --> 01:26:58,760 Speaker 9: and our father and that days on this earth will 1621 01:26:58,800 --> 01:27:08,679 Speaker 9: be long. Also, I just don't understand how it gets 1622 01:27:08,760 --> 01:27:10,639 Speaker 9: to that point. But if it's gotten to that point 1623 01:27:10,680 --> 01:27:13,200 Speaker 9: for whatever reason, let me say something to you. You 1624 01:27:13,280 --> 01:27:16,479 Speaker 9: need to fix this because let me explain something to you. 1625 01:27:17,640 --> 01:27:21,120 Speaker 9: Whatever mistake your mother has made, whatever you think, you 1626 01:27:21,280 --> 01:27:23,840 Speaker 9: gotta remember, she's also not only your mother. She is 1627 01:27:23,880 --> 01:27:28,840 Speaker 9: a human being, and human beings make mistakes. They do 1628 01:27:28,960 --> 01:27:33,080 Speaker 9: it all the time. Nobody is exempt from that. But 1629 01:27:33,200 --> 01:27:35,560 Speaker 9: the fact that you've managed to hold it for so 1630 01:27:35,840 --> 01:27:39,839 Speaker 9: long it will serve you no good in the event 1631 01:27:40,000 --> 01:27:44,200 Speaker 9: of her demise. I know another person who didn't have 1632 01:27:44,240 --> 01:27:46,599 Speaker 9: a relationship with their mother and then their mother passed. 1633 01:27:47,920 --> 01:27:52,120 Speaker 9: And man, this boy right here, he was crushed on 1634 01:27:52,479 --> 01:27:55,760 Speaker 9: so many levels. And I had told him, I said, man, 1635 01:27:55,800 --> 01:27:59,040 Speaker 9: you need to clean this up for something happened. Naw, Man, 1636 01:27:59,120 --> 01:28:02,000 Speaker 9: it's cool the way is, but that will come a 1637 01:28:02,080 --> 01:28:05,760 Speaker 9: day when you will lose this person who gave you life. 1638 01:28:06,640 --> 01:28:09,880 Speaker 9: And I'm gonna tell you something. There will be no 1639 01:28:10,000 --> 01:28:13,280 Speaker 9: words for you, that will be no comfort for you. 1640 01:28:14,160 --> 01:28:17,559 Speaker 9: There ain't nothing nobody can say to you. You're gonna 1641 01:28:17,600 --> 01:28:21,360 Speaker 9: wear this one Onie. You're gonna wear this one whether 1642 01:28:21,439 --> 01:28:25,519 Speaker 9: you want to or not, because theres several of us 1643 01:28:25,600 --> 01:28:28,640 Speaker 9: on this show have lost her. And I'm telling you 1644 01:28:30,000 --> 01:28:33,280 Speaker 9: it is a major, major loss. And I don't care 1645 01:28:33,320 --> 01:28:35,559 Speaker 9: if you've been cool with her, hung out with her, 1646 01:28:35,680 --> 01:28:38,760 Speaker 9: love to cherish her, or you had disagreement with her. 1647 01:28:39,160 --> 01:28:42,000 Speaker 9: If I was you, I would fix that because they 1648 01:28:42,080 --> 01:28:44,639 Speaker 9: are the one person that brought you into this world 1649 01:28:46,000 --> 01:28:47,519 Speaker 9: and you owe them for that. 1650 01:28:48,360 --> 01:28:48,920 Speaker 2: You just do. 1651 01:28:49,439 --> 01:28:49,559 Speaker 10: Now. 1652 01:28:49,600 --> 01:28:51,679 Speaker 9: I know that's people that's gonna disagree with me, because 1653 01:28:51,720 --> 01:28:53,040 Speaker 9: social media is just that way. 1654 01:28:53,640 --> 01:28:53,800 Speaker 10: You know. 1655 01:28:53,880 --> 01:28:56,400 Speaker 9: I get trolled all the time of our comments I make. 1656 01:28:56,720 --> 01:28:58,559 Speaker 9: But I have the right to have my own opinion 1657 01:28:58,640 --> 01:29:01,639 Speaker 9: about something. What I'm giving you is what I think 1658 01:29:01,720 --> 01:29:04,280 Speaker 9: and feel. What I'm giving you is what I have 1659 01:29:04,439 --> 01:29:09,720 Speaker 9: seen happen repeatedly. You have got to clean up this 1660 01:29:09,840 --> 01:29:13,960 Speaker 9: relationship with your mom because she's vital, she's important. 1661 01:29:14,760 --> 01:29:15,040 Speaker 15: You know what. 1662 01:29:15,240 --> 01:29:18,120 Speaker 9: You're probably old enough now to be able to say, 1663 01:29:18,160 --> 01:29:24,000 Speaker 9: you know what, I'm sorry, let's start over. You're probably 1664 01:29:24,160 --> 01:29:27,080 Speaker 9: old enough now to say, you know what, I forgive 1665 01:29:27,200 --> 01:29:31,840 Speaker 9: you for whatever happened. I don't want us to spend 1666 01:29:31,920 --> 01:29:36,000 Speaker 9: another Mother's Day without communicating with another because one day 1667 01:29:36,040 --> 01:29:39,559 Speaker 9: we're not going to be here for each other. It's 1668 01:29:39,680 --> 01:29:43,160 Speaker 9: just an important relationship. And you got to remember something 1669 01:29:43,200 --> 01:29:46,640 Speaker 9: that I've had to learn about forgiveness. Forgiveness is not 1670 01:29:46,880 --> 01:29:52,800 Speaker 9: for the other person. It's for you, because every time 1671 01:29:52,960 --> 01:29:56,920 Speaker 9: you think about her and what happened and what caused 1672 01:29:57,000 --> 01:30:01,040 Speaker 9: the rift or what you're blaming her for, it conjures 1673 01:30:01,160 --> 01:30:07,240 Speaker 9: up something in you. Bishop Jake said it best. He said, 1674 01:30:07,320 --> 01:30:10,880 Speaker 9: not forgiving a person is like you drinking the poison, 1675 01:30:11,000 --> 01:30:14,880 Speaker 9: waiting on them to die. That's really what it's like. 1676 01:30:15,760 --> 01:30:19,639 Speaker 9: I had to forgive somebody this year who had done 1677 01:30:19,720 --> 01:30:23,479 Speaker 9: me ohso wrong, and I had to forgive him this year. 1678 01:30:25,000 --> 01:30:27,280 Speaker 9: And you know what, I felt better after I did it. 1679 01:30:28,920 --> 01:30:31,479 Speaker 9: And you know why, because now when I think of him, 1680 01:30:32,520 --> 01:30:34,960 Speaker 9: it don't conjure up those thoughts because I've let it go. 1681 01:30:36,760 --> 01:30:40,479 Speaker 9: Now You're not gonna get me again. I'm not gonna 1682 01:30:40,520 --> 01:30:44,840 Speaker 9: forget it, but I have forgiven you for it. This 1683 01:30:45,080 --> 01:30:48,280 Speaker 9: is a time to make it right with somebody who 1684 01:30:48,360 --> 01:30:51,840 Speaker 9: gave you life. This is the time to consider, just 1685 01:30:51,960 --> 01:30:55,160 Speaker 9: for a moment, that this person that you are holding 1686 01:30:55,240 --> 01:31:00,000 Speaker 9: accountable for whatever happened, is a member of the huge 1687 01:31:00,040 --> 01:31:06,719 Speaker 9: Huan race. And there's none perfect, no, not one. Even 1688 01:31:06,800 --> 01:31:10,360 Speaker 9: my mother wasn't perfect, and I thought she was. I 1689 01:31:10,720 --> 01:31:15,240 Speaker 9: never saw my mother do nothing wrong. I never heard 1690 01:31:15,320 --> 01:31:20,040 Speaker 9: my mama cuss nothing, but I'm pretty sure my mother 1691 01:31:20,160 --> 01:31:23,560 Speaker 9: did something wrong. But the thing I'm great about, the 1692 01:31:23,680 --> 01:31:27,519 Speaker 9: thing I'm grateful for is I honored her and my 1693 01:31:27,720 --> 01:31:30,559 Speaker 9: father until they left this world, and I honored them 1694 01:31:30,600 --> 01:31:33,360 Speaker 9: to this day. Because you can't say nothing about ILOs 1695 01:31:33,400 --> 01:31:36,880 Speaker 9: Villa Harvey, not to me and not to my brothers. 1696 01:31:36,960 --> 01:31:39,080 Speaker 9: You can't open your mouth about it, and she been 1697 01:31:39,200 --> 01:31:43,840 Speaker 9: gone twenty eight years. Say somebody and see what happened. 1698 01:31:45,439 --> 01:31:48,080 Speaker 2: In the words of all the young people on site, 1699 01:31:49,400 --> 01:31:52,160 Speaker 2: on site, make it right with your mother. 1700 01:31:52,400 --> 01:31:54,800 Speaker 9: Happy Mother's Day, all the mother's out there, and we 1701 01:31:54,920 --> 01:31:57,920 Speaker 9: all he owe all of you our life and thank 1702 01:31:57,960 --> 01:32:01,200 Speaker 9: you for giving it to us. Those our clothes remarks today. Hey, 1703 01:32:01,280 --> 01:32:03,360 Speaker 9: y'all talk to God today. I'd absolutely love to. 1704 01:32:03,360 --> 01:32:03,760 Speaker 2: Hear from you. 1705 01:32:03,840 --> 01:32:07,000 Speaker 1: Okay, you're prohibited. Participants must be legal US residents at 1706 01:32:07,120 --> 01:32:11,200 Speaker 1: least eighteen years old, unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, 1707 01:32:11,320 --> 01:32:14,920 Speaker 1: visit Steve Harvey FM dot com. 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