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Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater Only on the Tuble Show.

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Speaker 2: Bethany is on the phone today for to Catch a

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Speaker 2: Cheater and she's been dating her boyfriend Dustin for two years,

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Speaker 2: but now she thinks something might be going on, so

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Speaker 2: we'll see if we can help her out. Bethany, sorry

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Speaker 2: you have to come on the show this way, But

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Speaker 2: what's up? Why do you think Dustin might be cheating

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Speaker 2: on you?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 4: Well, it's kind of a crazy story. So yeah, basically,

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Speaker 4: Dustin and I have been together for two years and

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Speaker 4: we've had like a pretty good relationship. I mean it's

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Speaker 4: been work, but like all relationships are worked, and I

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Speaker 4: don't ever really have any doubt that he loves me,

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Speaker 4: which is really important. Yeah, and there's just certain times

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Speaker 4: that I see him look at me or just you know,

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Speaker 4: little things he does that lets me know that he's

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Speaker 4: always thinking he look me.

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Speaker 3: And so you have a good foundation.

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Speaker 5: So even though there's no major problems about like a

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Speaker 5: year into our relationship, you know I did touch him cheating.

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Speaker 3: I saw messages. I will say that. You know. He

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Speaker 3: admitted it right then and there. He was like, yes,

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Speaker 3: you're right. I've been wanting to tell you and it

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Speaker 3: was it's done.

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Speaker 5: It was only one time, and so it did take

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Speaker 5: a while for me to trust him again.

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Speaker 3: And you know, that was like a year ago and

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Speaker 3: it's been pretty good ever since. But now there's like

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Speaker 3: this moment that happened and I am freaking.

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Speaker 6: Out kind of what happened.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So I just was like, like two days ago,

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Speaker 3: I was just you know, took care a man, and

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Speaker 3: as soon as I saw this, like, I just was like,

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Speaker 3: I need to call the show immediately because I don't

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Speaker 3: know how to handle this.

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Speaker 5: Basically, I was just mindlessly opening a letter and it

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Speaker 5: was addressed to Dustin because I just like opening our

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Speaker 5: mant like I handle you know, our bills and everything,

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Speaker 5: and my heart saying it's a court order for a fraternity.

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Speaker 6: Tex WHOA doesn't say who's asking for it?

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Speaker 5: Yes, the name was there, and I probably can't say

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Speaker 5: on the radio, I've never heard of this woman in

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Speaker 5: my life.

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Speaker 3: I even tried to look her up on Instagram and Facebook.

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Speaker 3: I couldn't really find anything.

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Speaker 1: I'm freaking did you So you haven't confronted him, have you?

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Speaker 3: No? I don't even know how to.

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Speaker 2: You don't have any clue that he might have a

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Speaker 2: kid out there or anything like that, like or that

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Speaker 2: he involved in a court thing at all.

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Speaker 3: No, I don't know.

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Speaker 5: What I can do other than going through his phone again,

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Speaker 5: and I really don't want to do that. I just

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Speaker 5: don't want to like retraumatize myself, and so I really

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Speaker 5: I just want like a different way to approach this,

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Speaker 5: because at the end of the day, it's like I

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Speaker 5: just want to know why, Like we've been through so

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Speaker 5: much we made it out to the other side, Like

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Speaker 5: if he did our rage when he cheated a year ago,

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Speaker 5: this person is pregnant or like I had a child,

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Speaker 5: like I need to.

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Speaker 3: I don't even know if this is the first person he.

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Speaker 5: Cheated on me with another girl, Like I'm so confused,

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Speaker 5: Like there are a one year old out there, Like.

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Speaker 3: What right happening?

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Speaker 1: There's I mean, there is definitely a chance that this

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Speaker 1: could be from that one girl, the one off quote unquote,

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Speaker 1: unless yeah, there were other ones. Something happens. So I

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Speaker 1: guess we have confirmation that he has cheated. We just

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Speaker 1: don't know, Yeah when or who.

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Speaker 2: We'll try to figure it out for you already told

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Speaker 2: us what grocery store. He's a rewards card member, at.

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Speaker 2: So we'll do the usual and call him and pretend

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Speaker 2: to be from the grocery store and say that he's

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Speaker 2: this month's lucky winner of free flowers delivered from our

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Speaker 2: floral department, and we'll see if he sends those to

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Speaker 2: you or somebody else.

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Speaker 6: Okay, okay, thank you so much. Pleas I'll come back

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Speaker 6: and get your to catch cheater next, it's time.

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Speaker 4: To catch a Cheater only on the Jubile Show.

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Speaker 2: If you're just joining us for today's to Catch a Cheater,

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Speaker 2: it's a big one. Bethany is on the phone and

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Speaker 2: she thinks that her boyfriend of two years named Dustin

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Speaker 2: might be cheating. So we're about to call him and

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Speaker 2: pretend to be from the grocery store that he's a

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Speaker 2: rewards member at, and say that every single month, we

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Speaker 2: choose one lucky rewards member who gets a free gift

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Speaker 2: from our store just for being a loyal customer, and

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Speaker 2: it's flowers delivered from our Florida department to anybody that

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Speaker 2: they want, and we'll see if he sends those to

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Speaker 2: his girlfriend, Bethany or to somebody else. But before we

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Speaker 2: do that, Bethany, why don't you run down your situation

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Speaker 2: for us again.

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Speaker 7: Real quick.

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Speaker 3: My boyfriend I've been together for two years. A year ago,

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Speaker 3: he did cheat on me.

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Speaker 5: We were very responsible about you know how we handled

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Speaker 5: it with therapy and we've been great. But two days ago,

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Speaker 5: I was going through our mayor and I see a

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Speaker 5: court ordered eternity cast and I'm I'm freaking out. It

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Speaker 5: was addressed in him and I just want to know. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: I just want to know what the truth is.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well, are you ready for us to call him?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: Okay, here we go.

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Speaker 2: Hello, Hey, this is Corbett calling for there's I was

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Speaker 2: looking for our rewards card member named Dustin.

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Speaker 7: H Yes, yes, that's that's me.

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Speaker 6: Hi, Dustin. Please don't hang up. This is not a

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Speaker 6: marketing phone call.

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Speaker 2: I'm actually calling with a big congratulations and thank you

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Speaker 2: for shopping with us here.

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Speaker 6: This month's winter.

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Speaker 7: Okay I won something?

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Speaker 6: Yeah the flowers.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, flowers.

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Speaker 7: That's that's that's pretty cool.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I guess, yeah, thank you.

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Speaker 5: I guess.

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Speaker 2: I'm not sure if you know this is not but

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Speaker 2: every single month, we choose one rewards card member who

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Speaker 2: gets a free gift from us just for being such

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Speaker 2: a valued and loyal customer. It's our way of saying

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Speaker 2: thank you for shopping. You've won thirty six long stem

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Speaker 2: red roses, a box of candy or chocolate, and a

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Speaker 2: card to be delivered to anybody that you want within

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Speaker 2: the fifteen United States. Absolutely free. It's actually a three

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Speaker 2: hundred and sixteen dollars value.

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Speaker 6: Wow, I'm with it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, congratulations, and again thank you for shopping with us.

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Speaker 2: And it is all free. And the first thing I

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Speaker 2: would need will be the name of the person and

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Speaker 2: then if you want to put anything on a card,

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Speaker 2: and then we'll get the address and you'll be off

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Speaker 2: the phone and they'll get you getting flowers.

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Speaker 7: Okay. So the person that's receiving the roses, her name

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Speaker 7: is best in.

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Speaker 6: Me and the last name on that got you. Okay,

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Speaker 6: And would you like a card included with that?

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Speaker 7: Ah? Yes, yes, okay, No matter what, it's always you

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Speaker 7: and me, always great.

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Speaker 2: Got that down. And at this point I'll let you

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Speaker 2: know it's not a grocery store at all. On the phone,

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Speaker 2: Hey what Yeah, this is actually a radio show. It's

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Speaker 2: called the Jewbel Show.

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Speaker 1: Hi.

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Speaker 6: I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victorian and my name is Jewbel.

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Speaker 7: I'm on the radio right now.

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Speaker 2: Yes, we do a segment on our show that's called

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Speaker 2: to Catch a Cheater, where if you think your significant

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Speaker 2: other might be messing around, you see they send flowers too,

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Speaker 2: and your girlfriend Bethany is actually on the phone, and

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Speaker 2: I think still has some question.

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Speaker 7: Oh okay, hi.

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Speaker 4: Wow, it's so.

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Speaker 7: Okay. You you saw the paternity ordered in.

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Speaker 5: You Yeah, buddy, I did. Okay, So so you knew

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I haven't even shown you the mail.

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Speaker 7: But I've known about it for for about a month.

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Speaker 7: It's it's it's from from that that same girl that

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Speaker 7: we talked about before. It might actually be be true.

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Speaker 4: It might.

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Speaker 7: Her names a Alicia. I'm sorry, I'm sorry for I'm

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Speaker 5: Okay, I'm so confused because you told me this was

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Speaker 3: I mean, it's so for example, okay, that's pretty rare

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Speaker 5: Was oculating, Like this is crazy. Even worse than that,

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Speaker 5: it's like you shouldn't have kept this for me, you know.

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Speaker 7: I know, and I I'm so sorry about this. I

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Speaker 7: didn't mean to keep it from you or anything like that.

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Speaker 7: I was just trying to ignore it because it just

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Speaker 5: It just.

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Speaker 3: Y, you don't know what to do. I don't know

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Speaker 6: Did you cheat?

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Speaker 7: It was a year ago, and we talked about it.

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Speaker 7: It was one time, and it was we We've been

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Speaker 7: through it and everything like that. But it just keeps

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Speaker 7: coming back now with with this eternity test. And here's

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Speaker 7: here's the thing, Bestiny, I don't think it's mine. I

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Speaker 7: really don't think it's mine because I've seen pictures of

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Speaker 3: First of all, I don't know why you're calling it

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Speaker 3: an It's a child very likely to be yours. And like,

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Speaker 3: how is her life going to change if you're like

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Speaker 7: I don't know, And I'm so sorry about this. I

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Speaker 7: don't want this to mess us up. I don't want

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Speaker 7: that paternity test because she's definitely starting to come after

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Speaker 7: me for money to abe. She wants that paternity test

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Speaker 7: because she's gonna want some child support.

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Speaker 3: I just don't know. Like, of course she would like

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Speaker 3: if she have a child from you, I would also

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Speaker 3: like I would also want a child to port it

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Speaker 3: like like, this is your responsibility, don't put it on her.

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Speaker 6: Bethany do you think you could stay if it is his?

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Speaker 1: Would you be willing to raise somebody else's kid with

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Speaker 1: him like spending?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, definitely. I promise you that this It was the

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Speaker 7: don't I did not want to go down that road again,

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Speaker 7: and I didn't go down that road again. I've been

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Speaker 7: spending this whole time making up for that one mistake,

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Speaker 7: and now because of that one mistake, I'm probably going

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Speaker 7: to lose you anyway, and I don't want that. I

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Speaker 7: don't want to lose you. Okay, Please just believe me

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Speaker 7: on that, and please just just just hear me out

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Speaker 7: and just work with me with this. Please, I'm begging you.

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Speaker 7: You can even come with me to take the test.

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Speaker 7: We can find out at the same time together. I'm

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Speaker 7: not trying to hide this from you. I don't know

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Speaker 7: why I didn't tell you about it before, but I

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Speaker 7: don't want to hide it from you.

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Speaker 6: Obviously, you guys had a lot to talk about.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I guess first things first, right, just find

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Speaker 1: out what's going on with the fraternity, and then you

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Speaker 1: guys can take it from there.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I have a lot of thinking to you, doesn't

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Speaker 2: sound like he has cheated since the time that you

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Speaker 2: knew about, but obviously there's a lot so yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: give us an update and let us know how you

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Speaker 2: guys are doing well.

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Speaker 4: Thank you so much, you guys, good luck.

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Speaker 6: The Jubile shows to catch a cheater