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Speaker 1: My boyfriend's cousin stole his credit card and robbed him blind.

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Speaker 2: But now I'm not sure that's true.

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Speaker 3: I feel like, have you ever seen that Mister Beasts

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Speaker 3: video where Mister Beast gives them the credit card and

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Speaker 3: they get to like spend it on like Gucci and Ubitan. Right,

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Speaker 3: maybe that's what happened. Maybe this story is actually about

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Speaker 3: mister Beast and it was totally fine and not a

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Speaker 1: Backstory, I twenty seven female, and my boyfriend thirty four male,

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Speaker 1: have been together for five years and have worked really hard.

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Speaker 2: To save for a house.

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Speaker 1: Nice two weeks ago, we fell in love with a

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Speaker 1: house and we put down an initial deposit on the property.

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Speaker 1: The house won't be built though, until the end of

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Speaker 1: twenty twenty two. Can't build up with that a strong foundation. No,

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Speaker 1: that's true, that's true. You know they say, don't build

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Speaker 1: a house on sands. This sounds like dirt, so solid dirt,

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Speaker 1: solid dirt. We've been in talks with the mortgage broker

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Speaker 1: and the builders and finance people, et cetera. But last

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Speaker 1: week we received some shocking news when my boyfriend's credit

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Speaker 1: card score came back as trashed.

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Speaker 3: What are we talking Are we talking like, you know,

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Speaker 3: a seven to fifty to like a six fifty?

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Speaker 1: I think we're talking in the gut? What is in

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Speaker 1: the gutter for a credit score? The gutter is I

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Speaker 1: mean probably, I don't think we ever know. But four

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Speaker 1: hundred or below? Oh, I mean that's bad, right, that's terrible.

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Speaker 1: But there are some activity on the credit card statement

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Speaker 1: that was one hundred percent not his, and a credit

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Speaker 1: card that had gone into default in the last six months.

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Speaker 1: This credit card was originally my boyfriend's, but he swears

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Speaker 1: he closed the account and canceled the card mid twenty nineteen.

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Speaker 1: Long story shorts. We have discovered that a family member

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Speaker 1: that was living with him a few years ago got

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Speaker 1: a hold of the card at some point and has

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Speaker 1: been using the card on and off since twenty nineteen.

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Speaker 3: No way that Wait, isn't there a point where, like,

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Speaker 3: you can't withdraw any more money?

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Speaker 1: There's a point like a credit card limit. Yeah, but

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Speaker 1: you will probably hit a limit. They defaulted on payments

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Speaker 1: in early twenty twenty, but paid this off, but then

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Speaker 1: defaulted again in December.

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Speaker 2: Of last year.

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Speaker 3: Wait, wait, they paid it off.

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Speaker 1: They paid it off, but then ran it up again

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Speaker 1: and then defaulted it. He then defaulted again in December

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Speaker 1: of last year, and the account was still in faults

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Speaker 1: and owed over five thousand dollars in charges and late fees.

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Speaker 1: These charges were for shopping, news agency, takeaway, food pubs, gambling,

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Speaker 1: et cetera. My boyfriend had zero knowledge of this and

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Speaker 1: hasn't had access to the account after he closed it

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Speaker 1: and hasn't been receiving statements or notices from the bank.

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Speaker 1: Family member has diverted all of the notices to their address.

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Speaker 1: Now we are unable to apply for a bank loan

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Speaker 1: for the house as they won't lend my boyfriend because

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Speaker 1: of his credit.

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Speaker 2: And that's where it.

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Speaker 3: Really is that cousin totally screwed them over.

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Speaker 1: Because the cousin is maybe like trashing his credit and

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Speaker 1: his credit is fine and he can go do whatever

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Speaker 1: he wants, you know. So now we have two options.

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Speaker 1: Number one, proceed with fraud investigations and charges to the

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Speaker 1: family member, allowing us to prove this is of no

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Speaker 1: fault of my boyfriends and successfully securing the loan. Or

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Speaker 1: Number two, boyfriend pays the debt and we wait at

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Speaker 1: least two years from the debt payoff dight or his

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Speaker 1: credit to regain after the loss two years. Two years,

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Speaker 1: so Opie says Option number two would set him back

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Speaker 1: at least three years for starting a family in their

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Speaker 1: lives as homew that's insane. This will also not allow

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Speaker 1: my boyfriend to secure a bank loan to start up

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Speaker 1: his own business, which he's been dreaming of starting for

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Speaker 1: a few years, and this was the year he had

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Speaker 1: planned on doing it. This has devastated us and put

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Speaker 1: a major delay in our plans. My boyfriend doesn't like

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Speaker 1: conflict and so he's going with option too. He isn't

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Speaker 1: even planning on mentioning anything to this family member. He

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Speaker 1: wants it to all go away and thinks the family

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Speaker 1: member is going through a rough time.

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Speaker 3: To that bro, I mean, like I understand not wanting

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Speaker 3: to maybe, like you know, put your cousin in prison. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: like they're gonna steal more your shit literally literally.

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Speaker 1: I want my boyfriend to proceed with the fraud charges

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Speaker 1: and investigation. He's worked too hard to not have our

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Speaker 1: dream house and him start his own business. So am

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Speaker 1: I the a hole for pushing my opinion on my boyfriend,

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Speaker 1: not the a.

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Speaker 3: Hole for pushing your opinion on your boyfriend, I think.

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Speaker 3: I mean, like you can like give it whatever advice

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Speaker 3: boyfriend's decision. But I mean I would at least say,

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Speaker 3: like Jesus my god, that is so non confrontational that

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Speaker 3: someone can tank his credit score, steal three years of

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Speaker 3: his life and he's still like, ah, Okay, they're a

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Speaker 3: rough batch. But the thing is, like, it's not a

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Speaker 3: rough patch man has been stealing.

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Speaker 2: For like y yeah three a three year? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, come on bro, but Sam, what job there?

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Speaker 2: Enough day?

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Speaker 1: I want to begin by thanking everyone for their advice.

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Speaker 1: There were some really constructive strategies and words of advice.

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Speaker 1: I spoke with my boyfriend about my concerns, and I

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Speaker 1: was honest with him that it seems like things he

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Speaker 1: were telling me didn't all make sense.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so that's why he's not wanting to count.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. He was adamant that he didn't know anything about

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Speaker 1: the credit card or the apparent inquiries on his credit

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Speaker 1: account about payday loans. My boyfriend is still refusing to

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Speaker 1: open any fraud investigations against his family member, and he

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Speaker 1: said that he will pay off all the debt himself,

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Speaker 1: but some other things did come out during our conversation that.

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Speaker 2: He was hiding from me.

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Speaker 1: Lying has been a big issue during our entire relationship.

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Speaker 1: In the past, I've forgiven him for his lies, but

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Speaker 1: I can't keep forgiving him for the same issue every

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Speaker 1: few months when he promises to change.

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Speaker 3: But we're in the.

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Speaker 1: Exact same spot every few months. And I'm not talking

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Speaker 1: little lies here. I'm talking big lies and even bigger

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Speaker 1: lies to cover him up. I know I'm stupid for

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Speaker 1: giving him the benefit of the doubt. Yes, yes, so

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Speaker 1: in saying this, my boyfriend is now my ex boyfriend.

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Speaker 3: Oh, thank you for listening to the signs my darling over.

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Speaker 1: When I spoke with my boyfriend about my concerns above,

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Speaker 1: he ended things by picking up his bag and driving away.

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Speaker 3: Oh so he had broke up with you. Yikes.

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Speaker 1: That was the last time I've seen him in person.

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Speaker 1: This is how this man dealt with issues in our

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Speaker 1: relationship for five years. We haven't spoke much since, but

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Speaker 1: I have definitely resigned to the fact that my relationship.

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Speaker 3: Oh.

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Speaker 1: I think he's expecting me to forgive him like all

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Speaker 1: of the previous times, But I've packed up his stuff

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Speaker 1: and I'm going to give it back to him after

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Speaker 1: our city comes out of lockdown. There is a good

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Speaker 1: ending to this story, though, Okay. I spoke with my

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Speaker 1: mortgage broker and the housing developers. I can't afford the

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Speaker 1: original townhouse I fell in love with, but a similar

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Speaker 1: townhouse that I also loved came available and I was

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Speaker 1: approved for it. I paid my deposit three days before

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Speaker 1: my birthday last month. I have just bought myself a house.

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Speaker 1: Yeah that's awesome. Okay, that's the condable loser boyfriend. And

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Speaker 1: by yourself a house, Ladies, Hey, you can do it

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Speaker 1: all by yourself.

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Speaker 3: We love a queen glowing up. Yeah, we love an

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Speaker 3: empowered queen.

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Speaker 2: Yeah we do.

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Speaker 1: I will never split the bill with my husband at

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Speaker 1: a restaurant, am I they hole?

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Speaker 3: Okayop, this is okay. OP. I'm Samuel Letter and I'm

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Speaker 3: John frow Starters on the internet.

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Speaker 1: So Sam I personally have a strong opinion on this,

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Speaker 1: or decently strong.

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Speaker 3: That strong opinion. Schwartzeneggertve opinions. Say again, Arnold Schwartzenegger of opinions,

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Speaker 3: because he's so strong.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I actually have to pause now because I do

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Speaker 1: have a story that you made me just think of

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Speaker 1: very quickly. I moved to LA and I wanted to

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Speaker 1: run into famous people casually. Casually. I don't want to

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Speaker 3: I want to be like I'm getting my coffee exactly.

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Speaker 1: Is so I hadn't seen really like a famous person

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Speaker 1: I was doing my my morning bikes ago a few

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Speaker 1: days ago, my first sighting, I was biking. I basically

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Speaker 1: But I didn't see who are what they were filming.

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Speaker 1: So I like saw at the beginning left my mind.

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Speaker 1: And you have to also keep in mind my my

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Speaker 1: morning bike rides, I literally blast like Kanye and other

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Speaker 3: And I'm very into the playlist. It's sick.

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Speaker 1: I'm very audibly wrapping it out loud, like very odd,

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Speaker 1: like I've been. It's basically like a like a like

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Speaker 1: good morning, like, I'm like, what what not? You know,

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Speaker 1: I'm not, I don't. I don't think I'm really disturbing

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Speaker 3: You're rocking out.

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Speaker 1: So I'm leaving Venice Beach right, and then uh, some

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Speaker 1: the middle of wrapping a conye lyric and then I

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Speaker 3: Give me like Arnold Schzenegger.

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Speaker 2: It was Arnold Szenegger.

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Speaker 3: Bro, I have seen Arnold Scharzenegger on that same bike path. Really,

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Speaker 3: he goes at like the same time. I've seen him

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Speaker 3: with some weekends. He I don't know if you saw

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Speaker 3: the he has, like the people biking with him or

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Speaker 3: his bodyguards. He usually either has people running around him

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they were filming him.

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Speaker 1: Though they were filming they had a whole like it

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Speaker 1: was this big like rectangle looking vehicle thing with like interest,

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Speaker 1: the boom mic, the cameras like everything.

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Speaker 3: And what's it like a documentary? So he was literally shotting.

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Speaker 1: He was literally riding a bike. Bro, like there was

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Speaker 1: nothing exceptional or special about he was just riding a bike.

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Speaker 3: But we always being filmed.

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Speaker 2: We locked, we had eye contact.

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Speaker 3: Hey, Arnold Brook.

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Speaker 2: I was so stunned.

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Speaker 1: I was just like and I was just stunned, like

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Speaker 1: I hadn't seen the famous person yet.

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Speaker 3: I was like, wait, this is the first did You've

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Speaker 3: been living in LA for like years? I know I'm

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Speaker 3: there first time?

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Speaker 2: That was my first time. I'm so pissed through. I'm

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Speaker 2: so pissed it.

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Speaker 1: I basically moved here right before COVID, so it's been

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Speaker 1: like two years essentially, And like, yeah, but.

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Speaker 3: But dude, Arnold artist a great one.

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Speaker 2: That's a big one.

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Speaker 3: That's also like a really nice guy too. Oh really yeah,

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Speaker 3: like now he is apparently I don't think he was nice,

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Speaker 3: like to his estranged children.

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Speaker 2: Everyone's like, yeah's cool.

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Speaker 1: Well anyway, is that completely derailed? My my?

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Speaker 2: Oh but I'll quick I'll quickly do it. What's your

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Speaker 2: what's your opinion on splitting the bill? Sam? How do

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Speaker 3: I think unless you're like taking someone out, just split

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Speaker 2: I I like.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it's it's it just makes perfect sense to me,

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Speaker 3: Hit the road. Hit the road, yeah the road, jack

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Speaker 3: and don't come back.

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Speaker 1: No no, no mo no ma. But you know what,

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Speaker 1: we do have more of this freaking story. I'm about

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Speaker 1: your d here we go. I will never split the

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Speaker 2: Am I vay hole?

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Speaker 3: Sounds like it sounds like it sounds like it. Let

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Speaker 1: Let's let the people of the internets decide your fate. Yes,

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Speaker 1: that title sounds bad, Yeah I know, but I'll let

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Speaker 1: you decide who is in the wrong here, okay, Oki

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Speaker 1: to begin with, my husband and I do not share finances.

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Speaker 1: It's been like this for three years of our marriage,

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Speaker 1: He'd sometimes try to get me to pay for him,

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Speaker 1: but I do it only when I want to do

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Speaker 1: a nice thing for him, say, invite him to a restaurant.

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Speaker 2: This past week, he got a bonus at work.

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Speaker 3: Oh baby, yeh money, No baby.

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Speaker 2: That's right.

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Speaker 1: He was overjoyed, and he informed his entire family and

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Speaker 1: He picked the restaurant, meals, drinks, et cetera. I naturally

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Speaker 3: Yeah, bro, that's the point of the money. If you're

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Speaker 1: Fam exactly, like exactly. I mean, it only made sense.

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Speaker 3: And it was just us didn't didn't didn't didn't even

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Speaker 3: you're gonna buy me a drink and just raised like

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Speaker 3: twenty million bucks.

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Speaker 1: No, you can't affords seventeen.

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Speaker 3: It's fine, you know, you know, we split the bill.

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Speaker 3: That's what we do. I'm not salty about it. I'm salty.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, why would we do I'd be like, damn it, no,

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Speaker 1: you're paying for this motherfucker. But it turns out I

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Speaker 2: Care of it.

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Speaker 3: Okay, that's ridiculous. That's ridiculous. You got the bonus, you

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Speaker 3: got the bonus. You're asking your wife to take care

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Speaker 2: And you plan the whole thing.

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Speaker 1: It'll be one thing if like the wife is like,

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Speaker 1: you just got a bonus. I'm organizing an entire party.

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Speaker 1: I'm inviting everyone planning, then it's like a little bit

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Speaker 3: But nah, dude, you can't plan a whole party and

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Speaker 1: Invited to pay for pay the bill. No, that's not

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Speaker 1: how it. I said, why, yeah, exactly why. It's his celebration,

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Speaker 3: What does that mean that? It sounds like you don't

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Speaker 3: have an explanation. Man. That sounds like you're trying to

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Speaker 3: come up desperately.

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Speaker 1: You're buying some time there. You're moving your court day

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Speaker 1: back a little bit. I refused and demanded an explanation.

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Speaker 1: He said that while yes, he is the one who

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Speaker 3: It doesn't make any sense. My man got money, my

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Speaker 3: man got money, he got richer.

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Speaker 2: The whole point was you having more money.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, so we're gonna celebrate you having more money

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Speaker 3: by me spending that money and having less money.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. This isn't your birthday.

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Speaker 1: This isn't like you just accomplish some goal, like no

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Speaker 3: Yeah, come on, climb a rock or something. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: When I talked about how ridiculous it was of him

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Speaker 1: family's meal, family's meal, his family's meals, dude, that's like

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Speaker 3: Bro, play for your own ship.

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Speaker 1: Pay for your food, my guy, or have everyone pay

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Speaker 1: for their own stuff, like here we go, that's fine, too.

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Speaker 1: Split it just split the bill. It's called Venmo buddy,

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Speaker 1: hashtag Venmo sponsorous. He then said he's yet to receive

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Speaker 3: Might also is this happening at the dinner table? Like

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Speaker 3: like the check coms like, baby, you're paying for this, right,

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Speaker 3: Dude's like, uh no, it's.

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Speaker 1: Like please please pay for It's like, nah, bro, that

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Speaker 1: poor waiter, Like that's way worse than the fight to

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Speaker 1: pay for it. Oh my god, infinite I refused and

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Speaker 1: only paid for what I consumed. Him and his family

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Speaker 1: started talking about how inappropriate I was acting.

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Speaker 3: This baffles me. This baffles me.

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Speaker 1: I took my purse and went home afterwards because they're

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Speaker 1: there was so much commotion. Oh dude, Op just left,

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Speaker 1: just up and the daddled because there was so much

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Speaker 1: commotion when they started arguing over who's going to cover

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Speaker 1: the bill? Oh my god, So now she leaves and

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Speaker 1: then everyone else is like, all right, now, who's gonna

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Speaker 3: Dude? This is so dysfunctional.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: His mom spam called me for hours. He went off

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Speaker 1: on He went off on me at home. Saying that

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Speaker 1: especially considering I had enough money to cover the bill right.

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Speaker 3: Then and there, Dude, I sent a divorce coming for real.

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Speaker 1: I said it was not my obligation and he was

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Speaker 1: argued that if the roles were reversed and I got

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Speaker 3: Yeah right, bro, Yeah, I don't believe that in the

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Speaker 3: slightest not no, no, not not.

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Speaker 1: It would be like, nice bonus, you have enough money

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Speaker 1: to pay for but next time, you cover me when

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Speaker 1: I get money. But if you get money, you cover us.

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Speaker 1: That's that's I casually said, Well, that's just you, not me.

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Speaker 1: He got even more pissed and said that he had

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Speaker 3: Juvenile antics, Are you kidding me? You're the one being

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Speaker 3: a child for your own ship. God, I'm gonna buy

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna buy you some diapers. Yeah, don't worry. I'll

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Speaker 3: cover the diapers.

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Speaker 2: Ye, I will.

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Speaker 3: I don't have to split the diapers. I will buy

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Speaker 3: it one hundred for you.

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Speaker 1: I'm pulling up with it depends. At this point, he's

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Speaker 1: been upset with me four days and there is an update.

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Speaker 3: Oh, what's the update? Divorce?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, the divorce divorce. Wow.

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Speaker 1: Too many responses here from you guys, And I'm seeing

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Speaker 1: a variety of judgments, really a variety.

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Speaker 2: A variety. I guess some people are on a side.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what.

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Speaker 1: Just so you know, my husband just got home and

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Speaker 1: I'm going to show him these responses right now.

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Speaker 2: I'll update with an opinion soon.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, Wait, what's the husband?

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Speaker 1: Good?

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Speaker 2: Is that second updates?

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Speaker 3: Oh? God, surprise?

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Speaker 2: We just got into an argument.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no, no surprise there.

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Speaker 1: I showed him what I posted, and he lost it

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Speaker 1: on me. I accept what everyone said about me, but

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Speaker 1: he will not. He said, and I quote, these people

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Speaker 1: have no idea and said that I should have mentioned

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Speaker 1: that I make more money than him, not that much more.

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Speaker 2: And I don't think it justifies it.

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Speaker 1: It doesn't, and that he had paid the bill for

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Speaker 1: me in the past when I forgot my wallet, but.

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Speaker 2: I paid him back. That doesn't count.

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Speaker 3: Bro doesn't count at all.

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Speaker 1: He's pretty pissed right now, though he kept laughing sarcastically

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Speaker 1: when reading some of the comments. He just walked out

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Speaker 1: of the kitchen to make a phone call and said

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Speaker 1: he'd be right back. I'm still here with the dog,

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Speaker 1: waiting to see how this goes. Update if anything else happens.

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Speaker 3: Yo Opie's husband sucks.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, this guy's this guy.

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Speaker 3: This guy's trash, big trash, big trash, big trash. But

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