WEBVTT - The Writing's on the Wall with Cindy Chupack (S2 E11 "Evolution") 

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<v Speaker 1>Hi, I'm Kristin Davis, and I want to know, are

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<v Speaker 1>you a Charlotte. You guys, it's an exciting day, and

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<v Speaker 1>are you a Charlotte because Cindy Schubreck is here. We

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<v Speaker 1>have been waiting so excited for you to come. Cindy

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<v Speaker 1>came to be on the show as a writer originally

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<v Speaker 1>she's gonna tell us all about it in nineteen ninety nine,

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<v Speaker 1>many years ago. And you and Jenny then in my mind,

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<v Speaker 1>became like this super powerhouse pair who really like took

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<v Speaker 1>the reins of the female voice. You know. People would

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes complain thinking we only had male writers because Darren

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<v Speaker 1>was so outfront and then Michael Patrick, but really we

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<v Speaker 1>always had you guys in my mind, you know, and

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<v Speaker 1>you really had such a really incredible input in terms

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<v Speaker 1>of like your own stories, and you know, like for Charlotte,

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<v Speaker 1>some of them were just like so important from both

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<v Speaker 1>you and Jenny, and like for me when I think

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<v Speaker 1>at the show that really, you know, it was the

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<v Speaker 1>heart and the soul and the foundation of like where

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<v Speaker 1>our characters got to go and deepen into. So we're super.

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<v Speaker 2>Excited to hear yes. I mean it's funny because Michael

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<v Speaker 2>to me and Michael could write anybody and anything, of course,

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<v Speaker 2>and I know you mean that, but yeah, Jenny was

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<v Speaker 2>actually a friend I had made before I came aboard

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<v Speaker 2>this show. I know this, and I was working on

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<v Speaker 2>every Boy Loves Raymond.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I didn't remember this theater.

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<v Speaker 2>This is a big thing because it was sort of

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<v Speaker 2>like I had an affair with Sex and the City

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<v Speaker 2>because I had been working with a writing partner for

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<v Speaker 2>like seven years, and on the side, I used to

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<v Speaker 2>write these columns like once a year, this thing about

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<v Speaker 2>dating for a glamor, and then I could never use

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<v Speaker 2>as a samples because when you're working with a partner,

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<v Speaker 2>you have to do things you did together, right, And

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<v Speaker 2>I was working she had kids already, so we had

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<v Speaker 2>been on all sorts of shows that weren't at all

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<v Speaker 2>about what I was living interesting, and we were finally

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<v Speaker 2>at a point where we were going to separate, and

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<v Speaker 2>wroteenthal who ran every Bay Loves Raymond, let us each

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<v Speaker 2>write an episode. So I had my own episode of

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<v Speaker 2>Everybody Loves Raymond, and then I was going to write

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<v Speaker 2>a spec and Sex and the City had just started.

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<v Speaker 2>It was in season one, and I knew Jenny was

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<v Speaker 2>working on it, and I told her I was gonna

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<v Speaker 2>write a spect and she's like, you should come in freelance,

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<v Speaker 2>Like you should come in and pitch. So that's what

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<v Speaker 2>Phil let me do. From everybody loves Raymond. I love Phil,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean me too. I don't think he I mean

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<v Speaker 2>I think he regrets it, maybe still, but which I

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<v Speaker 2>will want you.

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<v Speaker 1>Phil, I appreciate that. We all really appreciate that you

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<v Speaker 1>cheese everybody.

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<v Speaker 2>I know.

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<v Speaker 1>He's a good guy.

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<v Speaker 2>He's and these are great writers. Like that was a

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<v Speaker 2>great we were finally I was finally on a good

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<v Speaker 2>show that was going to last on Raymond. So my dad,

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<v Speaker 2>who was an accountant, was like, what are you doing?

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<v Speaker 2>But I from the minute I pitched to Michael and

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<v Speaker 2>Darren and Jenny encouraged me, which was so nice of

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<v Speaker 2>her to share that. Like so it was it was

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<v Speaker 2>like I was so excited to pitch because everything I

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<v Speaker 2>had written in a little journal of things I wanted

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<v Speaker 2>to write about our essays or a movie I might

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<v Speaker 2>want to write everything could work on that show. Because

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<v Speaker 2>I was the same age as you guys at that time.

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<v Speaker 2>It just felt like everything I talked to my friends

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<v Speaker 2>about and everything I wondered about and in fact, I

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<v Speaker 2>was at Everybody Loves This is such a long answer, so.

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<v Speaker 1>It was good a long answer.

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<v Speaker 2>I was at Everybody Loves Raymond and one of the

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<v Speaker 2>guys brought in a VCR. I remember that of Sex

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<v Speaker 2>and the City, and he's like, my wife loves this show.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't get it. It was at lunch it played. It

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<v Speaker 2>was the baby Shower episode, and I hadn't seen it,

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<v Speaker 2>and I remember all the boys slowly trickled out. It

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<v Speaker 2>was mostly met on the show, of course, and at Raymond,

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<v Speaker 2>and they all trickled out and went to lunch, and

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<v Speaker 2>I was sitting there and I was like crying by

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<v Speaker 2>the end of it. I couldn't believe how much it

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<v Speaker 2>spoke to about what I bought about, and like how

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<v Speaker 2>deep it was to me, and like the idea of

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<v Speaker 2>our you gonn advocate And then remember she had taken

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<v Speaker 2>your baby. Remember there was like such big laughs, but

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<v Speaker 2>there were also just to me, these really deep, meaningful conversations.

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<v Speaker 2>Absolutely I hadn't heard, and so I was like enamored

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<v Speaker 2>of the show. And so I went and pitched and

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<v Speaker 2>Mike clinn. So that's when I did the episode of

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<v Speaker 2>the Chicken dance as a freelancer, so I did not.

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<v Speaker 1>Realize you were a free lancer and you did like

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<v Speaker 1>a absolutely iconic episode. I mean, Cynthia and I just

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<v Speaker 1>talked about it last week and Cynthia said, because they

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<v Speaker 1>were asking me, where are you in the in the

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<v Speaker 1>rewatching and I told them and I said, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>Cindy couldn't come on for Chicken Dance, which is coming

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<v Speaker 1>on for the next one. And Cindy said, oh, I

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<v Speaker 1>recommend Chicken Dance to anyone who hasn't seen the show

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<v Speaker 1>or young people who want to see it for the

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<v Speaker 1>first time, because it's not particularly dirty, right, but it's

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<v Speaker 1>the gist of the four women characters.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh interesting, Yeah, And that was I thought that.

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<v Speaker 1>Was so smart because all I remembered about the Chicken

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<v Speaker 1>Dance was the difficult storyline that I have, which is,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, the groomsman's father groping me on the dance floor.

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<v Speaker 2>So you like it, and you had an entire relationship

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<v Speaker 2>during the wedding with what.

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<v Speaker 1>Also so bizarre start exactly. That's the which so much

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<v Speaker 1>fun about rewatching. There's so many great things. One is

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<v Speaker 1>that there are things I remember really vividly, and then

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<v Speaker 1>there's things where there's just nothing right, and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>I never know what I'm going to do, Like like

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<v Speaker 1>in the one that Jenny had written, the threesomeone where

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<v Speaker 1>I'm having a dream and it looks like I'm about

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<v Speaker 1>to have a threesome.

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<v Speaker 2>I was I'm gonna have a cent.

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<v Speaker 1>I remember that. Oh my god, how great of Charlotte,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. But no, no, no, it's

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<v Speaker 1>just a dream. I didn't have a three cent, but

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<v Speaker 1>I literally don't know. And also in the in the

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<v Speaker 1>Chicken Dance, I don't remember going up to the room

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<v Speaker 1>that I'm preparing for the bread and Room and having

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<v Speaker 1>sex there with that dude very at all, which obviously

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't really have something. But you know, I'm saying, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>pretty suppersive for Charlotte, and she does a lot of stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>But then we come down and he tells me that

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<v Speaker 1>I look like a whore in my beautiful dress, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, oh, but I think, and it's a good

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<v Speaker 1>example because I think what you do so brilliantly, and

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<v Speaker 1>really all of our writers, but when you came you

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<v Speaker 1>could get the embarrassment, the kind of going out on

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<v Speaker 1>a limb emotionally with the humor, with the depth, all

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<v Speaker 1>of those things, and that's the specialness of the show,

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<v Speaker 1>I think, and the writing is the reason for it well.

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<v Speaker 2>And then that you guys could carry off anything that

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<v Speaker 2>was so fun.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like, but you guys, you know, you don't

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<v Speaker 1>really have writing like that very often when it's really

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<v Speaker 1>asking you to fire on all cylinders.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you know, That's what I feel like I remember

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<v Speaker 2>about the show is just everybody was firing on all cylinders.

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<v Speaker 2>And I feel like I knew it at the time.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, part way in, I was thinking, this is

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<v Speaker 2>going to be the best job I ever have. And

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<v Speaker 2>that's either sad or just like amazing that I'm here

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<v Speaker 2>right now. But I felt like the actors of costume,

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<v Speaker 2>the directors, we were getting and you know, from the

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<v Speaker 2>moment of like nobody's heard of the show and somebody

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<v Speaker 2>brought it in on a tape to like I think

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<v Speaker 2>when I joined you guys, that was the first year

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<v Speaker 2>at the Golden Globes and we were like jumping out

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<v Speaker 2>in the kitchen and suddenly people were watching. And then

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<v Speaker 2>we'd walk around New York and you'd hear people talking

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<v Speaker 2>about it. Yeah, So not only did I love what

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<v Speaker 2>we were doing and who I was working with, but

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<v Speaker 2>people work. It was in the zeitgeist very yeah. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I felt like this is everybody lightning in a bottle.

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<v Speaker 1>Amazing, yes, absolutely, and smart that you knew it. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I don't know that I really knew it until

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I knew it third season.

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<v Speaker 2>But maybe I probably didn't know it right away, right.

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<v Speaker 2>I just was happy to be there.

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<v Speaker 1>Joy of the actual experience is what was you know,

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<v Speaker 1>so amazing because you don't always have that, right. You

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<v Speaker 1>could be on an amazing show. Everybody loves Raymond's an

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<v Speaker 1>amazing show, but like you said, it wasn't necessarily what

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<v Speaker 1>you were thinking about in life, right, And that was

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<v Speaker 1>true for me also obviously with Sex and City, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a single, thirty five year old whatever, thirty foot why,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how old we were something thirty something, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know the things that you are already thinking

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<v Speaker 1>of and talking about and or curious about or whatever

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<v Speaker 1>is their story. It's crazy, right, like, so unusual and

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<v Speaker 1>obviously hadn't happened then, and I don't know really has

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<v Speaker 1>happened again, because I think we had kind of a

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<v Speaker 1>unique situation in terms of HBO allowing us, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>to do whatever we want.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and I think so much there's very little that's

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<v Speaker 2>not said anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, this is true.

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<v Speaker 2>When we were hot, right, there were still things to

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<v Speaker 2>be said that people hadn't said aloud. And now I

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<v Speaker 2>feel like very true, maybe even artly because of us.

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<v Speaker 2>Not to take credit for that, but I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>my friends who didn't used to talk about some of

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<v Speaker 2>those things that we talked about then would and men

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<v Speaker 2>would too. And so now everybody writes their own every

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<v Speaker 2>you know, everybody says everything absolutely right.

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<v Speaker 1>So tell us back. So you wrote the chicken nance

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<v Speaker 1>on spec. So for anyone listening who doesn't really know

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<v Speaker 1>what that means, tell us exactly what inspect means.

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<v Speaker 2>As a freelancer. So I came in and pitched, and

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<v Speaker 2>they listened to a few ideas. They liked that idea.

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<v Speaker 2>That was really what was happening in my life right then.

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<v Speaker 2>I had bought this house on my own, and somebody

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<v Speaker 2>everybody said like, as soon as you buy a place,

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<v Speaker 2>someone will propose. And then I had people hostitting and

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<v Speaker 2>they got engaged in my house and it's supposed to

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<v Speaker 2>be to me, and they had me write a poem

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<v Speaker 2>for their wedding, so everything oh the time.

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<v Speaker 1>For example, you don't.

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<v Speaker 3>Know he got them.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why you were right reading.

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<v Speaker 2>He didn't happen leave, but he had given me the

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<v Speaker 2>pink toothbrush head, which was like big to me.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow.

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<v Speaker 2>But then it's like they met, got engaged, were getting

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<v Speaker 2>married and he's just my date and as as far

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<v Speaker 2>as I got is like the pink toothbrushead. And so

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<v Speaker 2>I did start crying during the poem the poem, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>and I did kind of play it off as like

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<v Speaker 2>I was overcome by emotion, but really also.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god. The other thing that I love about

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<v Speaker 1>having a podcast and getting to discuss things like this

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<v Speaker 1>is that, you know, there was always this kind of

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<v Speaker 1>vague thought that the stories in the show were our actors' stories,

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<v Speaker 1>and we would always try to tell someone no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>they're not our stories because that'd be weird. They're you know,

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<v Speaker 1>ore writer stories, and they have an agreement that everything

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<v Speaker 1>is going to be either their story or once removed,

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<v Speaker 1>people know someone who's actually going through it, but to

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<v Speaker 1>hear you how close it was to your life.

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<v Speaker 2>And it wasn't always that a to B like right,

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<v Speaker 2>but we definitely yeah, but that one when I pitched it,

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<v Speaker 2>they loved that idea. So I got to write that one,

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<v Speaker 2>and then I got to come to New York and

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<v Speaker 2>be at the table read, which to me because I

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<v Speaker 2>had only seen you guys on television and even though

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<v Speaker 2>I worked in TV, I worked in you know, like

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<v Speaker 2>in front of an audience in four camera sitcoms ol sessions.

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<v Speaker 2>It comes right, and this was like, you know, you guys,

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<v Speaker 2>I think it was at ABC carpet during lunch when

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<v Speaker 2>you were filming something at Equinox or something already. It

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<v Speaker 2>felt really cool to me, but I was really intimidated.

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<v Speaker 2>And I also was intimidated because the script you were

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<v Speaker 2>reading like had come off my printer, like nobody changed

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<v Speaker 2>very much. Like I definitely got input when I was

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<v Speaker 2>breaking the story and all, but it was kind of

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<v Speaker 2>like getting your bluff called because writers always complain, you know, right,

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<v Speaker 2>so much got changed, but I was like, why did

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<v Speaker 2>no one all help me out?

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<v Speaker 1>This is bad?

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<v Speaker 2>This is just bad for me, Oh my.

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<v Speaker 1>God, But it was so good, That's why no one changed.

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<v Speaker 2>And it was quiet because you guys were like grown

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<v Speaker 2>ups and you'd have to laugh. So the so the

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<v Speaker 2>network knew it was funny, like we did on his sitcom, right,

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<v Speaker 2>so it's really quiet the whole time, the whole difference.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe everyone was very nice afterwards. And then after that

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<v Speaker 2>I asked my agent, like, do you think I could

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<v Speaker 2>go on there? And so he like asked, and I

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<v Speaker 2>got to go there. And then I think maybe they

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<v Speaker 2>regretted letting me do it from everybody else, right, But

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, I'm already in love with this whole process.

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<v Speaker 1>So then you left.

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<v Speaker 2>Everybody loves women always between seasons, so I just didn't reap,

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<v Speaker 2>but I think got it. Everybody thought it would because

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<v Speaker 2>it was finally a successful show and it was really

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<v Speaker 2>fun to write, and I wrote about my family, but

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<v Speaker 2>it wasn't like writing Sex and the City.

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<v Speaker 1>Of course, nothing is nothing was obviously for sure, And

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<v Speaker 1>we're just so thankful that you came to us.

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<v Speaker 2>My god, I am.

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<v Speaker 1>I did have a very weird conversation though, which kind

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<v Speaker 1>of now has some interesting backstory to it. One time

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<v Speaker 1>with Ray Ramono on television where he told me that

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<v Speaker 1>women weren't funny. Oh yeah, and I say interest, but

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<v Speaker 1>we were on television, so I couldn't.

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<v Speaker 2>Were you what was that?

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<v Speaker 1>Some kind of a was it Bill Maher used to

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<v Speaker 1>have a show that had more than one personal Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe that show. So it was like a guy based show.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think that was the only woman sitting there,

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<v Speaker 1>do you know what I mean? And I was kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like, and I think we knew you'd come from

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<v Speaker 1>there on some level at least I was like, wait,

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<v Speaker 1>is this guy?

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<v Speaker 2>So I feel like, okay, maybe he was overstating hopefully,

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<v Speaker 2>and I just did a thing that was like a

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<v Speaker 2>reunion of the Raymond writers. But I do remember like

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<v Speaker 2>I said something funny, and I remember them kind of

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<v Speaker 2>still looking surprised that I said all these years.

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<v Speaker 1>And you feel like that's a real thing in commedy.

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<v Speaker 2>Like happily, not surprised, like how could you, but just

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<v Speaker 2>surprise I said something.

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<v Speaker 1>I remember thinking that, like it's a holdover from like

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it's a sexist kind of a holdover that

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<v Speaker 1>we still need to get totally rid of, right, And

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<v Speaker 1>that was kind of the joy of our show is

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<v Speaker 1>that there were four of us and all of you

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<v Speaker 1>guys started writing and writing your own series or women writers,

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<v Speaker 1>and yes there was Darren and Michael Patrick of course,

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<v Speaker 1>but then like we got more and more, and we're gonna,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, obviously as we go on, we'll get everyone on,

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<v Speaker 1>hopefully because that would be really really fun. But you know,

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<v Speaker 1>just to be able to succeed without it being a

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<v Speaker 1>traditional sitcom, right, So I think women obviously had already

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<v Speaker 1>done great over there in regular sitcom land, right to

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<v Speaker 1>have it be kind of like a little almost like

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<v Speaker 1>an indie film, almost like a sitcom, oh, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like we it was very.

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<v Speaker 2>Different at the time, very different like whenever I pitched

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<v Speaker 2>a sort of a woman centric show, it was always like, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>but they they're dating, but what's their job or whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>It was never I could just see about friendship and

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<v Speaker 2>dating really in life, and in the right that was right.

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<v Speaker 2>So it was really fun. And also, yeah, it did

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<v Speaker 2>look very filmic. I remember people were really addicted kind

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<v Speaker 2>of to a laugh track. So there was a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of fear about like what single camera was, and there

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<v Speaker 2>was a lot of hybrid will be kind of single

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<v Speaker 2>camera but some kind of on right. But Second City

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<v Speaker 2>did such a good job of making it film and

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<v Speaker 2>I think using music, and it didn't feel quiet and

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<v Speaker 2>it was like.

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<v Speaker 1>Not at all, yeah, not at all. But also to

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<v Speaker 1>me even when I look back, because it is I

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<v Speaker 1>am so able to be more objective now than you know,

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<v Speaker 1>because I only would ever watch it right when before

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<v Speaker 1>it came out on HBO. They would give us the

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<v Speaker 1>vhs and we take them home and watch them, and

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes there's still be like placeholders or whatever. It wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>be totally finished right, and then I would probably not

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<v Speaker 1>ever see it again, you know. So I'm rewatching and

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<v Speaker 1>so amazed by so many things and so many things.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, it is so good and I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>that I was able to feel that at the time,

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<v Speaker 1>like to really think in I knew it was special

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<v Speaker 1>and different, and I knew that our vibe when we

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<v Speaker 1>were doing it had that like faculty energy of something special,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. But then to see it now from all

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<v Speaker 1>these many years later, and see how the writing holds up,

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<v Speaker 1>how on point you guys are about so many things,

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<v Speaker 1>like the I think this is so this is our

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<v Speaker 1>episode that we're discussing today is Evolution, which you wrote

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<v Speaker 1>and Pam Thomas directs, who was great director, and I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know why we never had her back maybe you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, so great And it's got the incredible

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<v Speaker 1>Dan Futterman in it, which we're going to talk to

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<v Speaker 1>next week, which will be really fun. But the thing

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<v Speaker 1>that I'm wondering about, because I just watched this is

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<v Speaker 1>when we have the incredible episode where Brandon talks about

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<v Speaker 1>freezing her eggs.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I watched it last night too, right, the guy

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<v Speaker 2>with the hair.

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<v Speaker 1>Plus right, it's so good. But also that shot where

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<v Speaker 1>they're in the freezer and she and Gary says, right now,

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<v Speaker 1>there were no eggs in her freezer.

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<v Speaker 2>Thomas did that great, like from shot and also from

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<v Speaker 2>behind the medicine cabinet medicine so good.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, she was so visual, Pam Thomas was so visual.

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<v Speaker 1>But like, that's how new egg freezing was that. First

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<v Speaker 1>of all, this jerk on this date with her is

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<v Speaker 1>gonna you know, criticize the idea of you know, science, right,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, creating babies or whatever. Oh my god. And

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<v Speaker 1>then obviously he's just had hair blood, so she's just

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<v Speaker 1>like wait, you know, which is so well written and

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<v Speaker 1>so great. But also the fact that then she goes

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<v Speaker 1>into her freezer and there's vodka in there, and carry goes,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, for now there's no It's so funny funny.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's funny because I remember at the time eyeing

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<v Speaker 1>everyone was like, wait, what.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you mean? What how does I remember? Like and

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<v Speaker 2>should I do that?

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<v Speaker 3>That?

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<v Speaker 2>Smart?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you go?

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<v Speaker 2>The fertility savings account?

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<v Speaker 1>All of it was new. It's crazy to think about that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well, I mean because we did write a lot

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<v Speaker 2>from experience. But I remember when we did all the

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<v Speaker 2>infertility stuff for Charlotte, I hadn't had children yet and

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<v Speaker 2>like hadn't gone through that and then did afterward, and

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<v Speaker 2>I remember a lot of that I think came from

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<v Speaker 2>Michael Patrick King and his friends who had gone through

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<v Speaker 2>it right. So again, like the men could write the

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<v Speaker 2>hell out of it anything. But I felt like later

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<v Speaker 2>like wow, that we did kind of nail it. I

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<v Speaker 2>was kind of that was when of those things looking back,

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<v Speaker 2>I went, oh it did. I mean, I alway felt like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I could have added more because now I understand more.

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<v Speaker 1>But I thought the same thing with my acting. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like I couldn't.

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<v Speaker 2>I couldn't do more.

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<v Speaker 1>I could have done more a big time. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if that would have been needed necessarily, but like,

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<v Speaker 1>once you start to go through those actual things, there

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<v Speaker 1>is no high or low that is too high or

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<v Speaker 1>too low.

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<v Speaker 2>It's in that field. Oh yes, right, yeah, and.

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<v Speaker 1>The adoption too, you know, like it happens pretty pretty simply. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's not that simple, as we both know.

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, but.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I love that we did it, and maybe

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<v Speaker 1>we I don't even know if the show would have

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<v Speaker 1>benefited from more detail, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>No, it's more about the emotion, that's the thing. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>that's the thing. I sometimes I just think back, well,

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<v Speaker 2>I just looked at it kind of a nod that

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<v Speaker 2>like you did capture it, and it's somehow captured, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>close to what it was. But it's true, you feel

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<v Speaker 2>like I under like this is an odd thing to

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<v Speaker 2>stay on it. But I feel like I knew women

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<v Speaker 2>who had miscarriages when I was younger, but I didn't

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<v Speaker 2>really know what that meant exactly to them and what

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<v Speaker 2>kind of a loss that was.

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<v Speaker 1>Because I don't think people talked about it.

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<v Speaker 2>They didn't, which is sad, and so it really didn't

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<v Speaker 2>like there were some things you kind of do have

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<v Speaker 2>to go through to understand the depth of what it

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<v Speaker 2>feels like to the person. And even if you have

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<v Speaker 2>really good friends who went through it, it's just not

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<v Speaker 2>quite the same, So that's true.

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<v Speaker 1>I have to say, I think with the Charlotte miscarriage,

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<v Speaker 1>I think the writing was beautiful and I had enough.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to say lost, because that's not exactly

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<v Speaker 1>the right word, but I had enough understanding from my

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<v Speaker 1>friends and from just my own personal journey, not that

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<v Speaker 1>I had been through that then it definitely had it,

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<v Speaker 1>but you know, I had enough to draw on that,

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<v Speaker 1>I think. And again, this is one of those things

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<v Speaker 1>where like Hindsight is twenty twenty in some ways, but

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<v Speaker 1>then also like our show has the ability to have

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<v Speaker 1>the incredibly serious storylines but still be able to get out,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, to come to a place. So like had

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<v Speaker 1>we known more, had been able to get up off

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<v Speaker 1>the sofa, get herself dressed up and go to that party.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, well, I should say I think for you,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not going to speak for you because you're right here,

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<v Speaker 2>But for actors, maybe you're used to playing things you

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<v Speaker 2>haven't you don't you know how to draw on other things,

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<v Speaker 2>And I guess as a writer I did the same.

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<v Speaker 2>But just sometimes sometimes when you're writing and you know,

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<v Speaker 2>like something's going to be a real gut punch, you

0:19:26.720 --> 0:19:28.840
<v Speaker 2>can feel it in your gut. Yeah, you don't have

0:19:28.880 --> 0:19:30.640
<v Speaker 2>to have gone through it, but like I can feel like, oh,

0:19:30.680 --> 0:19:32.480
<v Speaker 2>this almost makes me cry to write it. And now

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<v Speaker 2>this is like something I feel like I kind of

0:19:36.160 --> 0:19:38.400
<v Speaker 2>would have had more of that feeling maybe, but.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how it turned out. And I think people talk

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<v Speaker 1>to me a lot about it now still, so you

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<v Speaker 1>know over time that that's something that people connect with

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<v Speaker 1>and isn't that the whole game? Right? So so yes,

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<v Speaker 1>we can.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I'm so and I'm so happy that it's I

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<v Speaker 2>do feel like we're probably I'm probably more critical, but

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<v Speaker 2>I'm so happy it holds up, like I feel like,

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<v Speaker 2>and that's because really the themes of it, the love,

0:20:04.560 --> 0:20:08.800
<v Speaker 2>the friendship, the loss, the longing, the like, loneliness, everything

0:20:09.240 --> 0:20:12.440
<v Speaker 2>was the universal thing that whether you're texting or you're

0:20:12.480 --> 0:20:14.480
<v Speaker 2>waiting for a phone call, it was kind of universal.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, And that's why I'm doing the podcast really because

0:20:17.119 --> 0:20:19.440
<v Speaker 1>all these new people discovered it. But being on Netflix,

0:20:19.560 --> 0:20:22.560
<v Speaker 1>right and then I really people had asked, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>since podcasts became a thing, and I just didn't feel

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<v Speaker 1>ready to look at it because we were all together

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<v Speaker 1>doing and just like that, I felt like I had

0:20:30.320 --> 0:20:33.160
<v Speaker 1>kind of a good advantage point of like, well, we're

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<v Speaker 1>here now and look at how we began, and also

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't watched them, and also I really wanted everyone's

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<v Speaker 1>stories to be told. This is the joy of podcasting, right, Yeah,

0:20:42.200 --> 0:20:44.159
<v Speaker 1>so all these people who've been our fans forever or

0:20:44.320 --> 0:20:46.520
<v Speaker 1>new people can hear about what it was like to

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<v Speaker 1>create it, and like you're saying, like, you know, the

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<v Speaker 1>feeling of being in New York in the beginning when

0:20:52.359 --> 0:20:54.159
<v Speaker 1>we didn't really know what it was going to be,

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<v Speaker 1>but it had that like sizzily feeling, you know, and

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<v Speaker 1>like that process of like walking around and having people

0:21:00.600 --> 0:21:02.280
<v Speaker 1>start to talk to us about it and all of that,

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<v Speaker 1>Like being there is incredible to think about. Yeah, it's amazing.

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<v Speaker 2>Was it was really exciting? Yeah, And it was just

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<v Speaker 2>I think even if it hadn't caught on, it was

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<v Speaker 2>really nice to be writing and doing something that felt

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<v Speaker 2>so relevant to what we were going through, what our

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<v Speaker 2>friends were going through.

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely absolutely, and I'm just going to have a little

0:21:20.160 --> 0:21:21.679
<v Speaker 1>just moment to talk about it and just like that,

0:21:21.720 --> 0:21:25.399
<v Speaker 1>you know, whether and just like that obviously never going

0:21:25.440 --> 0:21:27.240
<v Speaker 1>to be Sex and City. I don't ever think we

0:21:27.280 --> 0:21:28.840
<v Speaker 1>ever thought it was going to be Sex and City,

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<v Speaker 1>but again, we wanted to tell the stories of what

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<v Speaker 1>we're going through in our thirties.

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<v Speaker 2>Right.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's an important point, right, is that like

0:21:36.280 --> 0:21:38.800
<v Speaker 1>here we were, it was COVID. You know, COVID had

0:21:38.840 --> 0:21:40.680
<v Speaker 1>just ended. We were just able to go back out,

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<v Speaker 1>and the thing that we had always been doing was

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<v Speaker 1>talking about what was happening for us in our lives

0:21:46.359 --> 0:21:50.080
<v Speaker 1>at this time, not necessarily my Christian story, but.

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<v Speaker 2>Like all the people we know and just like life

0:21:53.000 --> 0:21:56.919
<v Speaker 2>goes on, Yeah, and why wouldn't that be something?

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<v Speaker 1>But I think maybe we were a little bit overly

0:21:58.680 --> 0:22:04.840
<v Speaker 1>ambitious thinking that our fans. I'm gonna laugh, I shouldn't

0:22:04.880 --> 0:22:06.959
<v Speaker 1>really laugh, but it's kind of funny when I think

0:22:06.960 --> 0:22:09.239
<v Speaker 1>about it now, like how naive in a way at

0:22:09.280 --> 0:22:14.280
<v Speaker 1>least I was that our fans he has like you're

0:22:14.280 --> 0:22:18.800
<v Speaker 1>talking about death and cancer. Like we were like, yeah,

0:22:18.920 --> 0:22:21.680
<v Speaker 1>let's do it. And then everybody's like what are they doing?

0:22:22.480 --> 0:22:24.359
<v Speaker 1>You know what I mean? And now it's over, which

0:22:24.400 --> 0:22:26.120
<v Speaker 1>is sad. But I'm are you going to go there?

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<v Speaker 1>But you know I'm in denial. I'm in denial because

0:22:28.040 --> 0:22:41.680
<v Speaker 1>we've ended so many times. So let's talk a little.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm wanting hear more. So you said, your agent, I

0:22:43.680 --> 0:22:44.960
<v Speaker 1>want to go right on that show? Could I go

0:22:45.000 --> 0:22:46.600
<v Speaker 1>right on that show? He says, yes, he gets you

0:22:46.640 --> 0:22:49.520
<v Speaker 1>deal over there. You leave Raymond, You moved to New York. Yeah,

0:22:49.760 --> 0:22:53.199
<v Speaker 1>got it, Like we did half and half to me too, right,

0:22:53.280 --> 0:22:54.760
<v Speaker 1>We were all back and forth. So you kept your

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<v Speaker 1>house here, you went to New York and then where

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<v Speaker 1>you were, you and Jenny, you would have your own scripts. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>wid you at some point were you consulting producers and

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<v Speaker 1>then executive producers? What was that journey? Like, I can't remember.

0:23:08.520 --> 0:23:11.159
<v Speaker 2>I think I was already like a co executive producer

0:23:11.200 --> 0:23:13.800
<v Speaker 2>at Raymond, and I think I just came on as

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<v Speaker 2>a consulting producer because literally it was a big pay

0:23:17.800 --> 0:23:20.240
<v Speaker 2>cup from what I was doing. I was finally making money.

0:23:20.320 --> 0:23:22.080
<v Speaker 2>But I was like, I don't care what the title is,

0:23:22.119 --> 0:23:23.840
<v Speaker 2>and there were certain anyway, It's just that it was

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<v Speaker 2>like all work for whatever at the time, and then

0:23:27.119 --> 0:23:29.840
<v Speaker 2>as it was great, but I think it was just

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<v Speaker 2>like I don't care about the title. I just want

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<v Speaker 2>to be there. So I started as a consulting producer,

0:23:33.680 --> 0:23:36.480
<v Speaker 2>got it, and then yeah, eventually became a co executive

0:23:36.520 --> 0:23:37.200
<v Speaker 2>and Jenny both.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and did you were you together with Jenny in

0:23:40.680 --> 0:23:43.680
<v Speaker 1>terms of like we're a partnership co executive producer. That's

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<v Speaker 1>how I felt you guys were, huh, But I don't

0:23:45.640 --> 0:23:48.200
<v Speaker 1>think you technically were. No, we were just like Julian

0:23:48.200 --> 0:23:50.080
<v Speaker 1>and a Lisa are a technical partnership.

0:23:50.160 --> 0:23:51.879
<v Speaker 2>I think we just like were in sync a lot

0:23:51.920 --> 0:23:53.440
<v Speaker 2>of times. We were like the two girls and when

0:23:53.440 --> 0:23:54.639
<v Speaker 2>it was like Michael and Darren.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but yeah, she mean you to have your own scripts.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, we did. We collaborated on one, like the

0:24:00.200 --> 0:24:03.639
<v Speaker 2>last We collaborated on splat the very end, and that

0:24:03.800 --> 0:24:05.960
<v Speaker 2>was so fun to write with Jenny, so oh my god.

0:24:06.000 --> 0:24:07.840
<v Speaker 2>But I collaborated with Michael on a different one too,

0:24:07.880 --> 0:24:08.400
<v Speaker 2>so yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>But so it was like kind of a small group

0:24:11.600 --> 0:24:14.080
<v Speaker 1>of writers at that point, and you would collaborate and

0:24:14.240 --> 0:24:17.000
<v Speaker 1>or just be in the writer's room together, yeah, brainstorming,

0:24:17.000 --> 0:24:19.160
<v Speaker 1>and then on the set with us all the time,

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<v Speaker 1>which is the other thing people really don't realize. No,

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<v Speaker 1>And was that unusual for you at the time, Well.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it was my first single camera so I hadn't

0:24:26.119 --> 0:24:28.320
<v Speaker 2>even been on those kind of sets right out in

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<v Speaker 2>the world, right, But also even since then, like I've

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<v Speaker 2>done a lot and I haven't ever been on a

0:24:33.600 --> 0:24:35.760
<v Speaker 2>show where you're there that much and where even you're

0:24:35.760 --> 0:24:38.240
<v Speaker 2>doing the writing there like either in a restaurant nearby

0:24:38.359 --> 0:24:40.080
<v Speaker 2>or upstairs by the camera.

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<v Speaker 1>Set with your lapshop open on your lap which would

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<v Speaker 1>be Michael Patrick King.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you like to be there, and like not all

0:24:45.359 --> 0:24:47.680
<v Speaker 2>show runners want to be there for everything, and and

0:24:47.760 --> 0:24:49.560
<v Speaker 2>so we would just go along and while we were

0:24:49.560 --> 0:24:51.520
<v Speaker 2>still writing. But it was great because we got to

0:24:51.600 --> 0:24:52.600
<v Speaker 2>really like be the.

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<v Speaker 1>Process and I know, so it was great for us

0:24:55.280 --> 0:24:57.480
<v Speaker 1>because you know, if we had a question, we could

0:24:57.560 --> 0:24:59.560
<v Speaker 1>just go over to you and we didn't have to

0:24:59.600 --> 0:25:05.240
<v Speaker 1>worry if the director, we feel was like totally knowledgeable

0:25:05.240 --> 0:25:07.200
<v Speaker 1>about the characters or the storyline or whatever. We could

0:25:07.240 --> 0:25:09.160
<v Speaker 1>just check in with you guys, which was amazing.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes right, no, yes, no you could. I don't know

0:25:14.440 --> 0:25:15.639
<v Speaker 2>if all the directors loved that.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what.

0:25:17.880 --> 0:25:21.879
<v Speaker 2>On my very first on Chicken Dance, Yes, oh, I

0:25:21.880 --> 0:25:25.040
<v Speaker 2>think you asked me something which I answered because I

0:25:25.040 --> 0:25:27.520
<v Speaker 2>didn't know the protocol of all that. And then I

0:25:27.560 --> 0:25:30.360
<v Speaker 2>remember the director at the time who I saw recently

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<v Speaker 2>at a DJA, I think, and she's still angry with

0:25:32.480 --> 0:25:35.119
<v Speaker 2>me about this, and I was like, I didn't know.

0:25:35.280 --> 0:25:37.640
<v Speaker 2>But anyway, she said something at the time like, oh,

0:25:37.680 --> 0:25:39.160
<v Speaker 2>is that what we're gonna do? A good cup, bad cup?

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<v Speaker 2>And I was like, what, I don't even know what

0:25:40.280 --> 0:25:40.680
<v Speaker 2>I'm doing.

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<v Speaker 1>I just answer a question, but my god.

0:25:44.960 --> 0:25:49.040
<v Speaker 2>But anyway, that was unusual. Most of them totally appreciated

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<v Speaker 2>and I never came back. Please, if you're listening, Victoria,

0:25:53.760 --> 0:25:55.560
<v Speaker 2>I am sorry. I didn't know how it worked.

0:25:56.640 --> 0:25:57.280
<v Speaker 1>I was new.

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<v Speaker 2>I was just excited to be there.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but I'm sure I was just excited to ask

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<v Speaker 1>you a question and you should answer.

0:26:03.920 --> 0:26:06.560
<v Speaker 2>It's like how we're going to play it and come out.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know what I think that is about, and

0:26:08.440 --> 0:26:10.760
<v Speaker 1>I think it's interesting to think about it. That is

0:26:10.800 --> 0:26:13.680
<v Speaker 1>about the old school TV ways. Yeah, because there was

0:26:13.720 --> 0:26:15.160
<v Speaker 1>a hierarchy.

0:26:14.760 --> 0:26:17.920
<v Speaker 2>Well and eniment. It's really still the director who's supposed

0:26:17.920 --> 0:26:18.560
<v Speaker 2>to talk to the actor.

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<v Speaker 1>It was very different. They don't even want the writer

0:26:20.720 --> 0:26:23.000
<v Speaker 1>to come. You should not go to a film set

0:26:23.000 --> 0:26:25.840
<v Speaker 1>if you're a writer, unless you're like an Oscar winning writer.

0:26:25.760 --> 0:26:30.080
<v Speaker 2>Right, And this is a better experience than that. I remember.

0:26:30.280 --> 0:26:33.200
<v Speaker 2>I know you had Allen Coulter on who I loved too.

0:26:34.240 --> 0:26:37.080
<v Speaker 2>I think I had written one. It still took me

0:26:37.080 --> 0:26:40.200
<v Speaker 2>a while to understand, like the rhythm of a film set,

0:26:40.240 --> 0:26:42.520
<v Speaker 2>because like you you know, we go, we see the

0:26:42.840 --> 0:26:44.560
<v Speaker 2>as soon as you finished filming one scene, you go

0:26:44.560 --> 0:26:46.679
<v Speaker 2>see the rehearsal of the next scene. Nobody's in costume

0:26:46.720 --> 0:26:48.439
<v Speaker 2>yet they haven't done their hair and makeup for that scene.

0:26:48.560 --> 0:26:52.720
<v Speaker 2>You see the rehearsal and then the director comes up,

0:26:52.760 --> 0:26:54.240
<v Speaker 2>they light. There's so much that happens.

0:26:54.440 --> 0:26:54.640
<v Speaker 1>Well.

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<v Speaker 2>The rehearsal to me was like the first time hearing

0:26:56.680 --> 0:26:58.880
<v Speaker 2>the actors read it, since like the table read maybe

0:26:59.800 --> 0:27:03.480
<v Speaker 2>or changes. Yeah, so I would be I remember with

0:27:03.520 --> 0:27:06.320
<v Speaker 2>Alan one time, I like had thoughts about it and

0:27:06.359 --> 0:27:08.639
<v Speaker 2>he goes Cindy, and this was nice of him to

0:27:08.640 --> 0:27:10.679
<v Speaker 2>tell me, and I remember it forever. He said, this

0:27:10.760 --> 0:27:13.080
<v Speaker 2>would be like me leaning over your shoulder while you're

0:27:13.080 --> 0:27:15.000
<v Speaker 2>writing a first draft, telling you, like what I think,

0:27:15.320 --> 0:27:17.240
<v Speaker 2>Like I'm going to work it out. The actors are

0:27:17.240 --> 0:27:19.440
<v Speaker 2>going to have thoughts and then when if you still

0:27:19.480 --> 0:27:21.840
<v Speaker 2>feel like right issues And he was right. And it

0:27:21.840 --> 0:27:23.480
<v Speaker 2>took me a while to just learn the rhythm of

0:27:23.520 --> 0:27:27.240
<v Speaker 2>like when it was okay to interject or good to interject,

0:27:27.480 --> 0:27:29.600
<v Speaker 2>because a lot of times, you guys would arrive at

0:27:29.640 --> 0:27:32.440
<v Speaker 2>whatever was bothering me from the very beginning work. Well,

0:27:32.480 --> 0:27:34.520
<v Speaker 2>that's good. It was only like once in a while

0:27:34.520 --> 0:27:37.160
<v Speaker 2>would never be something in the staging of the rehearsal

0:27:37.160 --> 0:27:39.000
<v Speaker 2>that you knew you needed to say something because it

0:27:39.040 --> 0:27:40.200
<v Speaker 2>was going to be too late. That we don't wit

0:27:40.359 --> 0:27:42.600
<v Speaker 2>for sure for sure, but it took we want to learn.

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<v Speaker 1>Sense because in your mind you have written the scene.

0:27:46.240 --> 0:27:49.199
<v Speaker 1>Therefore you have visualized the scene, right, And that's the

0:27:49.240 --> 0:27:52.399
<v Speaker 1>weird thing about writing, right, is like in our industry, writing,

0:27:52.400 --> 0:27:55.120
<v Speaker 1>of course is tremendously important, but then sometimes you guys

0:27:55.160 --> 0:27:57.840
<v Speaker 1>are kind of pushed to the side, like please be

0:27:57.960 --> 0:28:01.520
<v Speaker 1>quiet now, which is not really because it's a collaborative

0:28:01.840 --> 0:28:05.040
<v Speaker 1>art space that we don't we can't do our job

0:28:05.080 --> 0:28:07.080
<v Speaker 1>by ourselves, and you can't do your job and you

0:28:07.119 --> 0:28:08.480
<v Speaker 1>can write it, but then it's just going to be

0:28:08.560 --> 0:28:10.359
<v Speaker 1>on the page, you know what I mean. We could

0:28:10.400 --> 0:28:13.000
<v Speaker 1>act by ourselves like on the street or whatever, but

0:28:13.320 --> 0:28:15.480
<v Speaker 1>you know, we need each other. And then the director's

0:28:15.520 --> 0:28:16.960
<v Speaker 1>in the middle of it all, and in depending on

0:28:17.000 --> 0:28:20.520
<v Speaker 1>the director, they're either more open or less open or

0:28:20.640 --> 0:28:23.480
<v Speaker 1>you know whatnot. I mean, everyone's different and I also

0:28:23.520 --> 0:28:27.040
<v Speaker 1>think it's so interesting the vibe that's created. And one

0:28:27.040 --> 0:28:28.840
<v Speaker 1>of the things I love about the old show and

0:28:28.880 --> 0:28:30.919
<v Speaker 1>the new show, you know, is that it was always

0:28:30.920 --> 0:28:35.600
<v Speaker 1>a very creative, you know place where people like I

0:28:35.840 --> 0:28:39.880
<v Speaker 1>always felt, before we ever had a title or anything, right,

0:28:40.320 --> 0:28:44.760
<v Speaker 1>that I was very included in the process. In Charlotte's

0:28:45.080 --> 0:28:47.760
<v Speaker 1>trajectory and her arc. You know, Mike would always sit

0:28:47.840 --> 0:28:50.000
<v Speaker 1>us down at the beginning before we went to work

0:28:50.040 --> 0:28:52.160
<v Speaker 1>and say this is the plan, and then he would

0:28:52.240 --> 0:28:54.240
<v Speaker 1>call us if it was changing, or he'd come grab

0:28:54.280 --> 0:28:55.680
<v Speaker 1>us on the set and say can I talk to you?

0:28:55.760 --> 0:28:57.360
<v Speaker 1>And you know, then we would come to you, like

0:28:57.400 --> 0:28:59.600
<v Speaker 1>if we read something. I remember one time I had

0:28:59.640 --> 0:29:02.920
<v Speaker 1>one of those really long Charlotte monologues, you know, where

0:29:02.960 --> 0:29:04.800
<v Speaker 1>I just talked for like half a page or whatever,

0:29:05.240 --> 0:29:07.560
<v Speaker 1>and I'm upset about something, you know what I mean.

0:29:07.600 --> 0:29:09.320
<v Speaker 1>I think it was in the in the Tray era,

0:29:09.880 --> 0:29:12.280
<v Speaker 1>and I came to you in the hallway of Silver

0:29:12.320 --> 0:29:14.200
<v Speaker 1>Cup and I was like, Cindy, you know, I just

0:29:14.200 --> 0:29:16.080
<v Speaker 1>feel like, you know, it's just hard to because you

0:29:16.080 --> 0:29:17.560
<v Speaker 1>remember how we had to be word perfect.

0:29:17.800 --> 0:29:19.320
<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, it's comedy.

0:29:19.720 --> 0:29:23.600
<v Speaker 1>It's a comedy. It's exact right, it doesn't happen, don't know.

0:29:23.920 --> 0:29:25.920
<v Speaker 1>I mean that was the that was the president said,

0:29:25.960 --> 0:29:28.200
<v Speaker 1>and I think it's a good one because it wasn't.

0:29:28.400 --> 0:29:31.080
<v Speaker 1>We didn't have an audience there to tell a sip.

0:29:31.120 --> 0:29:33.520
<v Speaker 1>We were hitting the jokes right, So we had to

0:29:33.600 --> 0:29:35.800
<v Speaker 1>trust the writing, you know, we had to trust the

0:29:35.840 --> 0:29:38.160
<v Speaker 1>rhythms of the writing and the rhythms of the writing.

0:29:38.160 --> 0:29:39.760
<v Speaker 1>And let me tell you when we did. And just

0:29:39.760 --> 0:29:41.240
<v Speaker 1>like that, and we brought our new actors and I

0:29:41.240 --> 0:29:42.400
<v Speaker 1>mean they're still talking about how.

0:29:42.400 --> 0:29:42.880
<v Speaker 2>Hard it is.

0:29:42.920 --> 0:29:47.240
<v Speaker 1>Oh really, because it's very specific, you know, and each

0:29:47.360 --> 0:29:50.520
<v Speaker 1>character is also very specific from each other. And like

0:29:50.600 --> 0:29:53.360
<v Speaker 1>my rhythm up talking, my syntax is not the same

0:29:53.400 --> 0:29:56.719
<v Speaker 1>as charlotte syntax, right, And then sometimes depending on who

0:29:56.800 --> 0:29:59.360
<v Speaker 1>wrote what episode, you'd be like, oh, I just can't

0:29:59.360 --> 0:30:02.360
<v Speaker 1>say this. It can't get my mouth to form the words,

0:30:02.440 --> 0:30:03.680
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. And I came to it

0:30:03.720 --> 0:30:05.000
<v Speaker 1>and I was like, can we change it? And you

0:30:05.000 --> 0:30:08.400
<v Speaker 1>were like no, Oh my god, that's a rood of me.

0:30:08.920 --> 0:30:10.800
<v Speaker 2>Well, since Sex and See, I feel like I've worked

0:30:10.840 --> 0:30:13.120
<v Speaker 2>on and when I directed a movie, I really wanted

0:30:13.160 --> 0:30:15.000
<v Speaker 2>it to be a bit more playful and have more

0:30:15.080 --> 0:30:17.840
<v Speaker 2>room for that, like I think, but I have noticed

0:30:17.840 --> 0:30:19.520
<v Speaker 2>because I've now worked on some dramas and I don't

0:30:19.560 --> 0:30:21.200
<v Speaker 2>know why, because I love comedy so much so I

0:30:21.240 --> 0:30:23.480
<v Speaker 2>feel like I should be just But I've worked on

0:30:23.560 --> 0:30:26.880
<v Speaker 2>dramas and I feel like it's somehow less precise. And

0:30:27.000 --> 0:30:29.240
<v Speaker 2>it can be because it's very much the feeling and

0:30:29.280 --> 0:30:32.360
<v Speaker 2>the plot and like you want the but comedy sometimes

0:30:32.440 --> 0:30:34.200
<v Speaker 2>it's just like it's not funny one way, and it

0:30:34.240 --> 0:30:34.680
<v Speaker 2>is funny.

0:30:35.360 --> 0:30:37.240
<v Speaker 1>I think it's the rhythm of the words. You know,

0:30:37.320 --> 0:30:40.600
<v Speaker 1>the rhythm of the words is super duper important. And

0:30:40.680 --> 0:30:42.920
<v Speaker 1>I think the rhythm of the actors is also important,

0:30:42.920 --> 0:30:46.200
<v Speaker 1>because you can't really teach comic timing. But I think

0:30:46.240 --> 0:30:49.240
<v Speaker 1>that they have to work together right, and so sometimes

0:30:49.280 --> 0:30:51.280
<v Speaker 1>you guys would change stuff, and I remember thinking that

0:30:52.120 --> 0:30:54.160
<v Speaker 1>at the time, I don't know what was true, but

0:30:54.200 --> 0:30:57.400
<v Speaker 1>I remember thinking I probably waited too long, because you know,

0:30:57.480 --> 0:31:00.200
<v Speaker 1>there'd be like right after the table read, different people

0:31:00.240 --> 0:31:02.240
<v Speaker 1>would request changes. And do you know what I mean,

0:31:02.280 --> 0:31:04.040
<v Speaker 1>I waited till the hallway.

0:31:04.120 --> 0:31:05.760
<v Speaker 2>So you're the same as me on the set, like

0:31:05.760 --> 0:31:09.480
<v Speaker 2>when exactly do I enter right early but not too late.

0:31:09.560 --> 0:31:11.320
<v Speaker 1>I also think for so long I never asked for

0:31:11.360 --> 0:31:14.560
<v Speaker 1>anything because I was just so happy storyline right, Yeah,

0:31:14.600 --> 0:31:16.040
<v Speaker 1>And so it was getting to word like I had

0:31:16.040 --> 0:31:18.200
<v Speaker 1>a lot more because of Trey and I had these long,

0:31:18.360 --> 0:31:21.360
<v Speaker 1>like emotional things rather than because in the beginning. At

0:31:21.400 --> 0:31:23.840
<v Speaker 1>a certain point I have my like didactic like I'm

0:31:23.840 --> 0:31:25.440
<v Speaker 1>going to get married and I've got this book and

0:31:25.480 --> 0:31:29.440
<v Speaker 1>this book says done, which I haven't really gotten to yet,

0:31:29.440 --> 0:31:31.840
<v Speaker 1>which I thought was first season. But first season, I'm

0:31:31.880 --> 0:31:34.680
<v Speaker 1>just kind of there, like, you know, not quite one

0:31:34.760 --> 0:31:36.720
<v Speaker 1>hundred percent knowing what to do or whatever.

0:31:37.320 --> 0:31:38.320
<v Speaker 2>I can't tell at all.

0:31:38.520 --> 0:31:40.880
<v Speaker 1>Thank you so much. When I look, that's what I see.

0:31:40.960 --> 0:31:44.360
<v Speaker 1>I see me underneath a layer of like pretend calm,

0:31:44.680 --> 0:31:46.840
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean, which obviously all of us

0:31:46.880 --> 0:31:47.680
<v Speaker 1>feel at some point.

0:31:47.920 --> 0:31:50.200
<v Speaker 2>But I feel like I knew Charlotte right from the

0:31:50.200 --> 0:31:52.760
<v Speaker 2>baby floor, from the baby shower. For my first episode

0:31:52.800 --> 0:31:53.880
<v Speaker 2>I watched, which You're.

0:31:54.040 --> 0:31:57.880
<v Speaker 1>Very Charlotte, which I remember, like Jenny also Upper Eastside,

0:31:58.120 --> 0:32:00.240
<v Speaker 1>you know, like once you guys came, I was like, oh,

0:32:00.280 --> 0:32:02.880
<v Speaker 1>thank god, Oh thank god, I'm going to get some

0:32:02.920 --> 0:32:05.960
<v Speaker 1>good storylines. They get me, they get me, I mean me,

0:32:06.160 --> 0:32:07.040
<v Speaker 1>but also Charlotte.

0:32:07.080 --> 0:32:08.960
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, what I'm saying a romantic I mean, I think

0:32:08.960 --> 0:32:10.320
<v Speaker 2>of it just like the romantic side of it.

0:32:10.440 --> 0:32:13.120
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean you got married with a white horse.

0:32:13.240 --> 0:32:19.320
<v Speaker 2>I mean yeah, yeah.

0:32:20.240 --> 0:32:23.680
<v Speaker 1>You know, all of us have our you know, our visions,

0:32:23.680 --> 0:32:26.239
<v Speaker 1>and we try to make them come true, right, and

0:32:26.240 --> 0:32:27.440
<v Speaker 1>that's kind of glorious.

0:32:27.560 --> 0:32:30.080
<v Speaker 2>No, it is do your beauty of Charlotte. I think

0:32:30.320 --> 0:32:32.080
<v Speaker 2>it was like very optimistic.

0:32:33.280 --> 0:32:36.000
<v Speaker 1>She was also like, you know, she was gonna work hard,

0:32:36.080 --> 0:32:38.000
<v Speaker 1>She's going to do what it took. She was not

0:32:38.040 --> 0:32:40.040
<v Speaker 1>going to give up. You know. You gotta love that.

0:32:40.360 --> 0:32:52.720
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, all right, shall we talk about this particularly so

0:32:53.840 --> 0:32:56.480
<v Speaker 3>this is evolution, which is also like such a great

0:32:56.520 --> 0:32:59.440
<v Speaker 3>I don't really I'm just rediscovering all of it when

0:32:59.440 --> 0:33:03.440
<v Speaker 3>I watch it because I don't really remember it exactly, you.

0:33:03.360 --> 0:33:05.560
<v Speaker 2>Know, and I thought I did, and then when I rewatched,

0:33:05.600 --> 0:33:07.400
<v Speaker 2>I was like, oh, I forgot that storyline. I forgot

0:33:07.400 --> 0:33:10.680
<v Speaker 2>the fertility, like the me too, freezing your eggs was

0:33:10.680 --> 0:33:14.360
<v Speaker 2>in there, me too. I forgot the Samantha story, which

0:33:14.440 --> 0:33:17.080
<v Speaker 2>is like I love that moment. There's a moment where

0:33:17.280 --> 0:33:20.880
<v Speaker 2>Charlotte is like, like, Samantha getting her heartbroken was more

0:33:20.960 --> 0:33:23.600
<v Speaker 2>confusing to Charlotte than a kiss from a gay man.

0:33:24.720 --> 0:33:28.120
<v Speaker 2>And you're like, you're just bewilderment and everything in this

0:33:28.160 --> 0:33:28.920
<v Speaker 2>episode I love.

0:33:31.200 --> 0:33:34.120
<v Speaker 1>I really enjoyed it. So I totally forgot John Chay,

0:33:34.480 --> 0:33:36.640
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, was in our show. How did I not

0:33:36.840 --> 0:33:38.560
<v Speaker 1>remember this? I was like, oh my god, what am

0:33:38.600 --> 0:33:39.120
<v Speaker 1>I watching?

0:33:39.960 --> 0:33:40.400
<v Speaker 2>Watching?

0:33:40.640 --> 0:33:42.080
<v Speaker 1>And he said that we had so many I mean,

0:33:42.120 --> 0:33:44.560
<v Speaker 1>and right now is when like it's really kicking in

0:33:44.640 --> 0:33:47.120
<v Speaker 1>because people know what the show is now. The third

0:33:47.160 --> 0:33:49.760
<v Speaker 1>season is going to be you know, next level, right,

0:33:49.840 --> 0:33:52.280
<v Speaker 1>but like now is when we're really getting all the

0:33:52.320 --> 0:33:54.800
<v Speaker 1>good people and writing all the good storylines. And it

0:33:54.880 --> 0:33:57.880
<v Speaker 1>was so sad for Samantha. I felt really bad. I

0:33:57.920 --> 0:34:01.720
<v Speaker 1>didn't remember this at all, this whole plan that she's

0:34:01.840 --> 0:34:04.520
<v Speaker 1>basically this man John o'sha is he's almost like a

0:34:04.560 --> 0:34:07.200
<v Speaker 1>different version of mister Big in a way right where

0:34:07.560 --> 0:34:09.600
<v Speaker 1>she dated him when he was you know, a big

0:34:09.640 --> 0:34:12.080
<v Speaker 1>deal and then he dropped her for a model that

0:34:12.160 --> 0:34:14.360
<v Speaker 1>he married, and then they broke up and it was

0:34:14.360 --> 0:34:17.239
<v Speaker 1>an ugly divorce and he had fallen in stature, which

0:34:17.360 --> 0:34:19.000
<v Speaker 1>kind of made me laugh because now, if you're having

0:34:19.000 --> 0:34:21.680
<v Speaker 1>an ugly divorce, I don't really think it affects the men,

0:34:21.880 --> 0:34:23.720
<v Speaker 1>do you know what I mean? Doesn't know might affect

0:34:23.760 --> 0:34:27.960
<v Speaker 1>the women, might not. I don't know, it's like everyone's

0:34:28.000 --> 0:34:32.560
<v Speaker 1>having an ugly divorce basically, but whatever, that was interesting.

0:34:31.640 --> 0:34:34.040
<v Speaker 2>Like you fell from the cover of Fortune to like page.

0:34:33.760 --> 0:34:38.239
<v Speaker 1>Six exactly, exactly exactly. But so then she has a

0:34:38.280 --> 0:34:42.440
<v Speaker 1>whole plan, and I love the way that you created

0:34:42.440 --> 0:34:44.560
<v Speaker 1>this storyline for her because it makes total sense and

0:34:44.640 --> 0:34:47.080
<v Speaker 1>you don't really see it coming that. It's not going

0:34:47.160 --> 0:34:50.279
<v Speaker 1>to be like a kind of regular Samantha storyline, right yea,

0:34:50.440 --> 0:34:52.880
<v Speaker 1>there's a whole plan that she's going to date this

0:34:52.920 --> 0:34:55.840
<v Speaker 1>man again, even though Carry's like what are you doing?

0:34:55.960 --> 0:34:57.919
<v Speaker 1>You really hurt you and we're all like huh what,

0:34:58.000 --> 0:34:58.359
<v Speaker 1>oh what?

0:34:58.480 --> 0:35:00.239
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Car said like he is the man who broke

0:35:00.239 --> 0:35:02.960
<v Speaker 2>her heart and you're just like what And you know

0:35:03.080 --> 0:35:06.600
<v Speaker 2>that was a possible story then got hurt.

0:35:06.560 --> 0:35:10.120
<v Speaker 1>Which is pretty cool, and she seems you see that

0:35:10.239 --> 0:35:12.480
<v Speaker 1>in her performance where she's like, well, I have a

0:35:12.480 --> 0:35:14.359
<v Speaker 1>plan and I'm going to leave him before he does

0:35:14.360 --> 0:35:16.600
<v Speaker 1>it to me. But then it doesn't go to plan.

0:35:16.800 --> 0:35:18.919
<v Speaker 2>I think her plan was like right before they even

0:35:18.960 --> 0:35:20.680
<v Speaker 2>have sex, she was going to be like right by

0:35:20.880 --> 0:35:25.160
<v Speaker 2>then she's like, well maybe after sex, and then maybe.

0:35:24.000 --> 0:35:27.759
<v Speaker 1>She thought she wouldn't have feelings because if you think

0:35:27.760 --> 0:35:30.560
<v Speaker 1>about the very first pilot episode, she's like, I'm going

0:35:30.600 --> 0:35:33.239
<v Speaker 1>to have a sex like a man without feelings, right, yea,

0:35:33.400 --> 0:35:36.200
<v Speaker 1>so it makes total perfect sense. But she wasn't born

0:35:36.320 --> 0:35:38.879
<v Speaker 1>like that, right, She went through things to get there.

0:35:38.920 --> 0:35:42.960
<v Speaker 1>So it's kind of an interesting like backstory that we

0:35:43.160 --> 0:35:46.760
<v Speaker 1>kind of don't ever really get. Also, I literally mentioned

0:35:46.760 --> 0:35:49.000
<v Speaker 1>my parents. I think at one point I'm like, what

0:35:51.400 --> 0:35:54.520
<v Speaker 1>you guys, they're in Connecticut. I think we knew that part.

0:35:54.880 --> 0:35:58.200
<v Speaker 1>But and then I think also previously in a Jenny episode,

0:35:58.239 --> 0:36:00.239
<v Speaker 1>I say, oh, we don't talk about feelings and we

0:36:00.320 --> 0:36:01.560
<v Speaker 1>just are very good at tennis.

0:36:03.440 --> 0:36:06.480
<v Speaker 2>And which episode I can't even remember which episode, but

0:36:06.800 --> 0:36:08.200
<v Speaker 2>the one where you're in the spawn You're like, I

0:36:08.200 --> 0:36:09.480
<v Speaker 2>didn't grow up in a naked house?

0:36:09.880 --> 0:36:10.719
<v Speaker 1>Was up?

0:36:10.920 --> 0:36:13.640
<v Speaker 2>I forgot? I think we wouldn't know that.

0:36:13.719 --> 0:36:17.799
<v Speaker 1>I mean little tidbits, little tidbits where if we collected

0:36:17.800 --> 0:36:20.120
<v Speaker 1>them all, they make a pretty good picture. But I

0:36:20.160 --> 0:36:22.360
<v Speaker 1>love the whole that we don't spend time on the

0:36:22.400 --> 0:36:25.799
<v Speaker 1>backstory generally speaking. But okay, so we have we have this.

0:36:25.920 --> 0:36:27.439
<v Speaker 1>Let's just talk about our guest starts for a second

0:36:27.440 --> 0:36:29.960
<v Speaker 1>because they're so great. So we've got John Shay as

0:36:30.040 --> 0:36:32.520
<v Speaker 1>Dominic who's the smith's drill, and we've got Dan Futterman

0:36:34.719 --> 0:36:35.799
<v Speaker 1>just to dream.

0:36:35.880 --> 0:36:40.440
<v Speaker 2>Dreamy, I mean in every way because in the episode

0:36:40.719 --> 0:36:43.240
<v Speaker 2>we're not sure Charlotte like if he's gay or straight,

0:36:43.480 --> 0:36:45.120
<v Speaker 2>goes on a date with them, like says, I didn't

0:36:45.239 --> 0:36:47.319
<v Speaker 2>watch my hair, I wore last like it wasn't a date.

0:36:47.960 --> 0:36:50.520
<v Speaker 2>He kisses her. This amazing and it's good. So when

0:36:50.520 --> 0:36:53.920
<v Speaker 2>we cast that, when we were casting, when Dan Fetterman,

0:36:54.480 --> 0:36:55.959
<v Speaker 2>I can't even believe he came in to read because

0:36:56.000 --> 0:36:57.600
<v Speaker 2>he's like a big actor. I would we even know,

0:36:57.840 --> 0:37:01.000
<v Speaker 2>But anyway he did, and both Jenny and I were enamored,

0:37:01.040 --> 0:37:04.160
<v Speaker 2>and Darren and Michael were enamored. Every it's perfect. Everybody

0:37:04.280 --> 0:37:04.680
<v Speaker 2>loves him.

0:37:04.920 --> 0:37:07.520
<v Speaker 1>Yes, now, let me ask you this about this storyline,

0:37:07.520 --> 0:37:09.200
<v Speaker 1>because this is one of the storylines. When I thought

0:37:09.280 --> 0:37:12.200
<v Speaker 1>back on it, because it's Butterman, all we remember is Bututterman, right,

0:37:12.360 --> 0:37:14.239
<v Speaker 1>But then I did remember that there was some kind

0:37:14.280 --> 0:37:17.200
<v Speaker 1>of a metrosexual conversation, which was a word at the time.

0:37:17.640 --> 0:37:18.880
<v Speaker 1>It's not a word anymore.

0:37:19.080 --> 0:37:22.200
<v Speaker 2>No, I mean, I don't know if that's when ages that. Well,

0:37:22.239 --> 0:37:25.040
<v Speaker 2>the discussion of gay street manastery gay men like this

0:37:25.080 --> 0:37:26.400
<v Speaker 2>is one of those things where I look back and

0:37:26.440 --> 0:37:29.359
<v Speaker 2>I think, well, at the time, it seemed hilarious and

0:37:29.400 --> 0:37:32.200
<v Speaker 2>forward thinking, and now it feels like very binary, and

0:37:32.200 --> 0:37:34.560
<v Speaker 2>like I'm embarrassed that that was how we talked about it.

0:37:34.600 --> 0:37:36.640
<v Speaker 2>But you kind of I don't know if you can

0:37:36.800 --> 0:37:41.080
<v Speaker 2>judge like you then n we're right now that we

0:37:41.120 --> 0:37:41.879
<v Speaker 2>would write it that way.

0:37:41.920 --> 0:37:43.279
<v Speaker 1>No, of course we wouldn't write it that way. But

0:37:43.360 --> 0:37:46.439
<v Speaker 1>I also thought, because I had Benito Skinner on last week,

0:37:46.680 --> 0:37:49.439
<v Speaker 1>huh have you watched his show over Compensating? Oh my god,

0:37:49.480 --> 0:37:51.160
<v Speaker 1>it's so good to be Okay, not only is it

0:37:51.200 --> 0:37:53.840
<v Speaker 1>so good, you quote Charlotte often, which is adorable on

0:37:53.880 --> 0:37:56.279
<v Speaker 1>his podcast, not in the show. And he told me

0:37:56.320 --> 0:37:58.160
<v Speaker 1>when he came on the pod that when he so

0:37:58.280 --> 0:38:02.200
<v Speaker 1>he created videos for Instagram during the pandemic and then

0:38:02.200 --> 0:38:04.600
<v Speaker 1>put them on YouTube. This is how he became successful.

0:38:04.840 --> 0:38:09.560
<v Speaker 1>It's incredible, right, He's incredibly inspiring and awesome. So when

0:38:09.600 --> 0:38:11.680
<v Speaker 1>he got his show picked up at Amazon Prime, it's

0:38:11.719 --> 0:38:13.960
<v Speaker 1>called overcompensating, and it's about kind of pretending that he

0:38:14.040 --> 0:38:17.200
<v Speaker 1>wasn't gay and overcompensating so that no one would notice

0:38:17.239 --> 0:38:19.759
<v Speaker 1>that he was, in fact gay. And the journey to

0:38:20.000 --> 0:38:24.400
<v Speaker 1>in college coming out right. It's a very funny and

0:38:24.480 --> 0:38:27.400
<v Speaker 1>adorable show and very reminiscent of early day sex in

0:38:27.440 --> 0:38:28.920
<v Speaker 1>the city. He told me when he came on the

0:38:28.960 --> 0:38:31.200
<v Speaker 1>pod that he once he got the show picked up,

0:38:31.239 --> 0:38:33.080
<v Speaker 1>he was like, oh my god, what do I do now?

0:38:33.320 --> 0:38:37.080
<v Speaker 1>And he watched the show throughout the whole show three

0:38:37.160 --> 0:38:39.400
<v Speaker 1>times to study the structure.

0:38:39.600 --> 0:38:42.480
<v Speaker 2>Wo isn't that cool? I mean, I think that's the

0:38:42.560 --> 0:38:45.279
<v Speaker 2>thing is that there's still very individual stories. There's still

0:38:45.400 --> 0:38:47.240
<v Speaker 2>men of a lot of trouble coming out. There's still

0:38:47.480 --> 0:38:50.239
<v Speaker 2>women who are confused whether if someone's gay or not,

0:38:50.640 --> 0:38:51.240
<v Speaker 2>people who.

0:38:51.080 --> 0:38:56.040
<v Speaker 1>Are like it's all very fluid, Like he wasn't inside confused,

0:38:56.040 --> 0:38:58.080
<v Speaker 1>but he was presenting you so like he has a

0:38:58.120 --> 0:39:00.880
<v Speaker 1>best friend that he tries to date. Yeah, but they

0:39:00.920 --> 0:39:03.680
<v Speaker 1>don't have sex because he's actually gay, and he kind

0:39:03.680 --> 0:39:05.680
<v Speaker 1>of knows he's gay, but he doesn't want anyone else

0:39:05.719 --> 0:39:07.920
<v Speaker 1>to know. So then he rags to the frat boys

0:39:08.000 --> 0:39:13.520
<v Speaker 1>that he I can't repeat it. It involves sex wherever

0:39:13.920 --> 0:39:16.040
<v Speaker 1>he rags, and then she finds out, and then they

0:39:16.040 --> 0:39:17.839
<v Speaker 1>have a fight and then they make up and they're

0:39:17.880 --> 0:39:19.880
<v Speaker 1>best friends. Right, And so he what he said to

0:39:19.880 --> 0:39:23.840
<v Speaker 1>me is like the healing of having you know, gay friends,

0:39:23.840 --> 0:39:27.200
<v Speaker 1>gay male whatever with women friends, like there's a healing

0:39:27.360 --> 0:39:30.279
<v Speaker 1>in it, you know, and they can rely on each other.

0:39:30.360 --> 0:39:32.440
<v Speaker 1>And I thought that was just so great.

0:39:32.880 --> 0:39:35.799
<v Speaker 2>I think for me, the lesson is, like you can

0:39:35.840 --> 0:39:40.480
<v Speaker 2>tell any individual story that's true and that's true to you.

0:39:40.560 --> 0:39:43.880
<v Speaker 2>Like if that's so, I think that's a defense you

0:39:43.920 --> 0:39:45.799
<v Speaker 2>can still use, and it can be as specific and

0:39:45.840 --> 0:39:47.960
<v Speaker 2>it can I think what was fun about section in

0:39:48.000 --> 0:39:49.359
<v Speaker 2>the day at the time is that we could make

0:39:49.360 --> 0:39:53.040
<v Speaker 2>these pronouncements that felt real and like in the Zeitgeisten

0:39:53.120 --> 0:39:55.640
<v Speaker 2>did start conversations and we're fun, but they were kind

0:39:55.680 --> 0:39:58.960
<v Speaker 2>of generalizing about men or women or gay you know.

0:39:59.360 --> 0:40:01.719
<v Speaker 2>So at the time it seem hilarious that we were

0:40:01.719 --> 0:40:04.720
<v Speaker 2>capturing something that seemed true. But I think maybe because

0:40:04.719 --> 0:40:07.239
<v Speaker 2>it was trying to be generalizing that made it like

0:40:07.440 --> 0:40:09.239
<v Speaker 2>when you look back, maybe we were.

0:40:09.320 --> 0:40:12.120
<v Speaker 1>I also think at the time, I believe that we

0:40:12.120 --> 0:40:14.640
<v Speaker 1>were all going around talking about metrosexual and they were

0:40:14.640 --> 0:40:18.239
<v Speaker 1>all writing magazines about metrosexual, which I think if I

0:40:18.520 --> 0:40:20.759
<v Speaker 1>don't know if I'm right, but it was basically like

0:40:20.920 --> 0:40:26.640
<v Speaker 1>a straight man theoretically who grooms themselves like a gay man?

0:40:26.960 --> 0:40:31.960
<v Speaker 2>Right, and culturally, we thought, yeah, we have culture things

0:40:31.960 --> 0:40:36.080
<v Speaker 2>that we thought were gay, right, which not necessarily but

0:40:36.200 --> 0:40:39.920
<v Speaker 2>like great style, great culture or references. Right, Yeah, but

0:40:40.000 --> 0:40:40.520
<v Speaker 2>we don't.

0:40:40.360 --> 0:40:42.759
<v Speaker 1>Ever use the word metrosexual in the episode, which I

0:40:42.800 --> 0:40:44.319
<v Speaker 1>thought we did, but we don't. We do we talk

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<v Speaker 1>about gay straight men and gay straight gay men or whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>which also like I was like, I don't even know

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<v Speaker 1>what the heck we're saying, but whatever, it's super interesting, right,

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<v Speaker 1>But basically I do ask him have you ever been

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<v Speaker 1>with a man? And then he asked me if I've

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<v Speaker 1>ever been with a woman? And I don't answer, which

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<v Speaker 1>I find weird also, right, and then this is where

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<v Speaker 1>I thought was also interesting because I couldn't remember the details.

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<v Speaker 1>I just knew it was like a questionable storyline, right,

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<v Speaker 1>But it's also Dan Futterman, So yeah, we love it.

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<v Speaker 2>I love it still, Like I stand by it. I

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<v Speaker 2>just think like some of those things don't diet an

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<v Speaker 2>age as well. But I still love the storyline and

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<v Speaker 2>like you trying to make sense of like.

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<v Speaker 1>What is happening? Yeah, yeah, And then at the end

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<v Speaker 1>when the mouse is there and he jumps on the

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<v Speaker 1>chair and kind of squeals, and then the voiceover says

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<v Speaker 1>something to the effect of Charlotte wasn't well enough developed

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<v Speaker 1>in her masculine side to be with someone who was

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<v Speaker 1>so well developed in their feminine side. Yeah, something like that,

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<v Speaker 1>which is a very deep statement. And that's fine to say,

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<v Speaker 1>isn't it.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I think it. I mean, I think it. I

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<v Speaker 2>mean I love that whole. As someone who's been confused

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<v Speaker 2>myself and married someone who realized he was gay after

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<v Speaker 2>being married, I feel uniquely qualified to say that it's

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<v Speaker 2>confusing sometimes.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, it is confusing, and.

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<v Speaker 2>You do kind of want some clarity sometimes just because

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<v Speaker 2>you need to. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't do anything wrong with one in clarity.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And so I love that in that scene when

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<v Speaker 2>when you ask him in bed and he says like,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm a pastry chef who lives in Chelsea. If I

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<v Speaker 2>were gay, I would be gay totally, like, which was

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<v Speaker 2>really smart.

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<v Speaker 1>At that time.

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<v Speaker 2>It's true, like he wouldn't he could.

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<v Speaker 1>Wouldn't you just be You'd be doing great? He would be, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean very busy. Your schedule would be booked and

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<v Speaker 1>you're adorable.

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<v Speaker 2>But I also love in this from this scene where

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<v Speaker 2>you bring Carrie and Stanford to the place for the

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<v Speaker 2>pastries just to decide yes.

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<v Speaker 1>And it must have been like the casting of of Futterman,

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<v Speaker 1>because literally everyone at the table likes him. Yeah right,

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<v Speaker 1>like every like Willie says, Stanford says will I'm attracted

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<v Speaker 1>to him, so he must be straight, which is so funny.

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<v Speaker 2>And all the good ones are straight, even the gay ones.

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<v Speaker 2>It was really, really, God Willy, I know.

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<v Speaker 3>It was.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a fun one to rewatch though, of him. So fun.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, you guys, it is too much fun to

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<v Speaker 1>have Cindy Schuback here. So we are going to come

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<v Speaker 1>back for part two later in the week. Please join

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<v Speaker 1>us on Are You a Charlotte