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Speaker 1: You are listening to the voice, Come on dig me now,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey got a radio shop. Trying to do something

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Speaker 1: with it too, man. Uh you know, um, I was

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Speaker 1: One of the things that was causing it was the

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Speaker 1: fact that they had made a list of things they

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Speaker 1: I just wanted to share this with you all this morning.

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Speaker 1: That one of the things about making a list about

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Speaker 1: I do it myself. I have people have dream boards,

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Speaker 1: Did you ask in any of this what was His

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Speaker 1: we oftentimes make our goals and set our goals up

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Speaker 1: But these mistakes are not failures. You know, when you

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Speaker 1: You could have done all that with the wrong person.

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Speaker 1: There's a blessing in not being married to the wrong person.

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Speaker 1: You're talking to somebody who can tell it to you.

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Speaker 1: have God's will? What does he want for you? Does

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Speaker 1: Man o, man o, man junior? What's on your mind today? Man? Well,

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Speaker 1: it's two things that I learned to do. I pray

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Speaker 1: Praying is talking to God. Meditating is listening to God.

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Speaker 1: And I learned this from Bishop Kenneth Oma in Los Angeles.

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Speaker 1: God's voice has no sin in it's it's sinless. God

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Speaker 1: That is not him. That's not his voice. His voice

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Speaker 1: Because all of your real purposes in life has something

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Speaker 1: But everything that has your purpose wrapped up into it

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Speaker 1: word day, Yeah, all right. Coming up at thirty two

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Speaker 1: Boomerang do that right. Moving on Mignon and uh Nasa,

423
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Speaker 1: she says, I met a man online and we went

424
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Speaker 1: up for dinner. We met up for dinner. He asked

425
00:25:32,240 --> 00:25:35,440
Speaker 1: for separate checks after dinner, speaking of check to see,

426
00:25:35,840 --> 00:25:38,480
Speaker 1: so I paid my bill and I went and sat

427
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Speaker 1: at the bar. Another man bought me a drink, and

428
00:25:41,280 --> 00:25:44,080
Speaker 1: the guy I had dinner with got mad. I didn't

429
00:25:44,080 --> 00:25:46,720
Speaker 1: consider dinner as a date since I paid for my food.

430
00:25:47,160 --> 00:25:50,639
Speaker 1: Was I wrong for leaving him at the table? Well?

431
00:25:50,800 --> 00:25:52,920
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, that's just a sign. I don't

432
00:25:53,000 --> 00:25:56,240
Speaker 1: know how being think now that you're not supposed to

433
00:25:56,320 --> 00:25:59,160
Speaker 1: pay for the food, you know. And all you women

434
00:25:59,240 --> 00:26:03,960
Speaker 1: that want to be uh you know or whatever independent

435
00:26:04,040 --> 00:26:07,359
Speaker 1: and want to be all, you know, bosses, what do

436
00:26:07,480 --> 00:26:12,200
Speaker 1: they call it? That's cool, you can be that. But

437
00:26:12,600 --> 00:26:15,359
Speaker 1: I would want to know if a man was willing

438
00:26:15,800 --> 00:26:18,800
Speaker 1: to do for me. I was wanting to know, and

439
00:26:19,040 --> 00:26:22,440
Speaker 1: you should expect that. And then if he doesn't pay

440
00:26:22,520 --> 00:26:24,680
Speaker 1: for your bill like you did, ain't gonna do like

441
00:26:24,760 --> 00:26:27,119
Speaker 1: you want to do because he ain't the one he

442
00:26:27,200 --> 00:26:29,639
Speaker 1: asked for. Separate check you can how the dude is

443
00:26:29,640 --> 00:26:33,800
Speaker 1: this man? A woman's time is value? What about my time?

444
00:26:33,960 --> 00:26:35,840
Speaker 1: Oh dog? You pass it out of their chance? You

445
00:26:35,960 --> 00:26:41,840
Speaker 1: get get up. She met him online and she just

446
00:26:41,960 --> 00:26:44,000
Speaker 1: wants to know. Was she wrong for leaving him at

447
00:26:44,040 --> 00:26:47,600
Speaker 1: the table? You say, no, clo as at the table,

448
00:26:47,640 --> 00:26:50,640
Speaker 1: you ain't going to say, this relationship ain't going nowhere? Right?

449
00:26:51,200 --> 00:26:53,920
Speaker 1: What else he want for free? And he got mad

450
00:26:54,040 --> 00:26:57,960
Speaker 1: because she left? Yeah, she got mad because he left.

451
00:26:58,040 --> 00:27:00,520
Speaker 1: And then somebody else bought her a drink because at

452
00:27:00,520 --> 00:27:05,080
Speaker 1: the bar he know what he got to do. That's right, Yeah,

453
00:27:05,600 --> 00:27:08,400
Speaker 1: all right, you did the right thing. Last one, Steve,

454
00:27:08,560 --> 00:27:12,359
Speaker 1: last one Deja and Baton Rouge says, I graduated from

455
00:27:12,440 --> 00:27:15,200
Speaker 1: college a year ago and I have a decent job

456
00:27:15,320 --> 00:27:18,840
Speaker 1: and an apartment. I am four months pregnant and when

457
00:27:18,880 --> 00:27:21,680
Speaker 1: I told my parents, they insisted that I moved back

458
00:27:21,760 --> 00:27:25,240
Speaker 1: home and dump my boyfriend. Will my parents resent me

459
00:27:26,560 --> 00:27:30,119
Speaker 1: if I don't do that? Well, I don't know if

460
00:27:30,160 --> 00:27:33,760
Speaker 1: you understand the difficulty that's coming your way, And I

461
00:27:33,880 --> 00:27:37,000
Speaker 1: think your parents do, and they realize you're gonna have

462
00:27:37,119 --> 00:27:42,359
Speaker 1: to have help and your boyfriend ain't gonna make a commitment.

463
00:27:43,320 --> 00:27:49,200
Speaker 1: That's obvious. And your parents are just being parents because

464
00:27:49,280 --> 00:27:51,320
Speaker 1: they know the road ahead for you. It's going to

465
00:27:51,440 --> 00:27:53,879
Speaker 1: be difficult. And if you live at home, you'll have

466
00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:56,840
Speaker 1: some help with the baby, yeah, you know. And if

467
00:27:56,880 --> 00:27:59,240
Speaker 1: you stay over there by yourself, it's gonna be hard

468
00:27:59,560 --> 00:28:05,160
Speaker 1: because he's not gonna help because if he was already

469
00:28:05,320 --> 00:28:09,359
Speaker 1: doing that already, right, he's not gonna help you. And

470
00:28:09,600 --> 00:28:11,200
Speaker 1: and it don't make him a bad He don't know

471
00:28:11,320 --> 00:28:15,280
Speaker 1: what to do. Yeah, yeah, they're young. They're young. He

472
00:28:15,600 --> 00:28:21,560
Speaker 1: doesn't know your parents know that. So you're telling her

473
00:28:21,600 --> 00:28:23,920
Speaker 1: to listen to her parents and go ahead and move back.

474
00:28:24,040 --> 00:28:27,240
Speaker 1: And well, are they gonna be resentful? Yeah? But I

475
00:28:27,320 --> 00:28:31,320
Speaker 1: think you are too, though. And I understand you got

476
00:28:31,400 --> 00:28:34,399
Speaker 1: a good job and you graduated in everything, but you know,

477
00:28:34,520 --> 00:28:36,760
Speaker 1: I don't think you understand what this pregnancy is now.

478
00:28:37,440 --> 00:28:40,000
Speaker 1: You can't know until you have the baby. And I've

479
00:28:40,080 --> 00:28:43,280
Speaker 1: heard women say that all the time, you can't know

480
00:28:43,480 --> 00:28:47,160
Speaker 1: what this is until that baby get hit. Ye, no idea,

481
00:28:47,880 --> 00:28:50,200
Speaker 1: because I didn't know what it was to mind got hire.

482
00:28:50,240 --> 00:28:52,880
Speaker 1: I wanted all the mind to go back, you know,

483
00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:58,160
Speaker 1: instructions to go back, and our parents didn't have instructions

484
00:29:00,160 --> 00:29:06,000
Speaker 1: ready for none of it. Some work. Yeah, so she

485
00:29:06,200 --> 00:29:09,080
Speaker 1: doesn't want her parents to resent her, but they're actually

486
00:29:09,160 --> 00:29:12,440
Speaker 1: trying if she you know, she doesn't move back home.

487
00:29:12,800 --> 00:29:15,560
Speaker 1: I mean, look, she can stay where you are, but

488
00:29:15,760 --> 00:29:19,160
Speaker 1: you go need some help, and help is back at

489
00:29:19,200 --> 00:29:21,360
Speaker 1: your parents house because you're gonna find out this boy

490
00:29:21,440 --> 00:29:25,280
Speaker 1: can't help. Yeah, all right, thank you, sa Hello. Coming

491
00:29:25,360 --> 00:29:27,000
Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour, we'll have some

492
00:29:27,200 --> 00:29:34,880
Speaker 1: entertainment news for you right after this. You're listening to show. Well,

493
00:29:34,960 --> 00:29:39,120
Speaker 1: Nia Long and Emi a Duca have they're they're over

494
00:29:39,880 --> 00:29:42,280
Speaker 1: his cheating scandal. Let's just put it like that. They've

495
00:29:42,360 --> 00:29:46,120
Speaker 1: broken up. Nia and emy have been together over a decade,

496
00:29:46,160 --> 00:29:50,000
Speaker 1: and according to People, Nia said the situation is unfortunate

497
00:29:50,160 --> 00:29:53,920
Speaker 1: and painful, and she plans to focus on her children

498
00:29:54,040 --> 00:29:57,400
Speaker 1: and rebuilding her life. Nia reportedly moved back to la

499
00:29:57,680 --> 00:30:01,960
Speaker 1: from their residence in Boston, but she and Emyu will

500
00:30:02,040 --> 00:30:06,440
Speaker 1: co parent their eleven year old son Kez. Wow. She mean, yeah,

501
00:30:07,280 --> 00:30:19,080
Speaker 1: what happened Junior? Junior? Nothing? Nothing inside voice, loudest hal

502
00:30:19,160 --> 00:30:26,840
Speaker 1: smooth ches, good stitches, Tommy god man, I'm sorry. Nothing,

503
00:30:26,880 --> 00:30:30,720
Speaker 1: you're sitting them by highly. I won't say nothing. I

504
00:30:30,840 --> 00:30:37,040
Speaker 1: speak very loud. Well, yeah, I'm glad she's getting her

505
00:30:37,120 --> 00:30:40,720
Speaker 1: life back together. Yeah yeah, that's love. You love you,

506
00:30:41,240 --> 00:30:45,360
Speaker 1: Yeah all right. Also in the entertainment news, Mariah Carey

507
00:30:45,440 --> 00:30:48,560
Speaker 1: wants her ex husband Nick Cannon to spend more time

508
00:30:48,680 --> 00:30:55,280
Speaker 1: with their eleven year old twins, Moroccan and Monroe. Had

509
00:30:58,000 --> 00:31:03,960
Speaker 1: to go ahead to get the zoom meeting plan put

510
00:31:04,000 --> 00:31:12,520
Speaker 1: on these kids computers. How many handy coming over today? Right? Yeah?

511
00:31:13,120 --> 00:31:16,720
Speaker 1: And twelve press the red button joint meeting will put

512
00:31:16,800 --> 00:31:21,040
Speaker 1: the video on so he can see you. Joy ain't

513
00:31:21,080 --> 00:31:23,560
Speaker 1: meeting with the video muted, so that all that noise

514
00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:26,080
Speaker 1: in the background. All y'all case say hid to him

515
00:31:26,120 --> 00:31:33,600
Speaker 1: at the same time, Daddy, daddy, daddy. Yeah. Nick thinks

516
00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:36,960
Speaker 1: it's crazy wonderful having all these kids. But how wonderful

517
00:31:37,280 --> 00:31:39,160
Speaker 1: can it be if you don't have time to spend

518
00:31:39,240 --> 00:31:42,920
Speaker 1: with them. You know, ye can talk, he can talk

519
00:31:43,040 --> 00:31:50,200
Speaker 1: all this mess, he won't. Children require time. Yes, it

520
00:31:50,280 --> 00:31:54,720
Speaker 1: ain't about the money. Yes, children are expensive, that's a gift.

521
00:31:55,600 --> 00:31:59,040
Speaker 1: But what they need more than your money is your time. Yeah,

522
00:31:59,240 --> 00:32:02,840
Speaker 1: because what the two children. The two things that children

523
00:32:02,920 --> 00:32:07,840
Speaker 1: need require time, guidance, and love the two most important

524
00:32:07,880 --> 00:32:10,840
Speaker 1: things to give a child. Guidance and love and uk

525
00:32:11,120 --> 00:32:15,880
Speaker 1: guide a person over the phone. Yeah. Yeah. And Nick

526
00:32:15,920 --> 00:32:19,600
Speaker 1: Cannon is currently recovering from pneumonia. Remember he was. We

527
00:32:19,720 --> 00:32:22,280
Speaker 1: reported he was in the hospital last week. He has

528
00:32:22,360 --> 00:32:25,400
Speaker 1: to go split his time amongst his eleven children when

529
00:32:25,400 --> 00:32:27,800
Speaker 1: he gets out, and he still has to work. You know,

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00:32:28,120 --> 00:32:34,040
Speaker 1: I think, Well, he did say he needed he had

531
00:32:34,400 --> 00:32:37,040
Speaker 1: he needed rest. Yeah, he did say, and then he

532
00:32:37,160 --> 00:32:40,320
Speaker 1: already said enough. K y'all getting mad at me? Did

533
00:32:40,400 --> 00:32:44,120
Speaker 1: not Nick say he don't need no prayer, prayers and wishes.

534
00:32:44,200 --> 00:32:47,760
Speaker 1: He says, no prayers and well wishing. Cool. I ain't

535
00:32:47,760 --> 00:32:50,440
Speaker 1: got nothing for you. All I got now is these

536
00:32:50,560 --> 00:32:54,640
Speaker 1: damn jokes. Okay, So what's the holidays like in Nick house?

537
00:32:54,880 --> 00:32:58,720
Speaker 1: Are gonna be like? For Christmas? Oh Lord, have mercy.

538
00:32:59,400 --> 00:33:08,520
Speaker 1: First of all, he gonna forget somethbody horrible. I don't

539
00:33:08,560 --> 00:33:11,520
Speaker 1: forgot that, ain't. And then I'm gonna tell you something

540
00:33:11,600 --> 00:33:15,880
Speaker 1: right now. It's gonna be the wrong name on some boxes.

541
00:33:18,160 --> 00:33:26,080
Speaker 1: It's terrible, And it's gonna be some women expecting way mote. Yeah,

542
00:33:27,520 --> 00:33:34,800
Speaker 1: the baby mamas, you mean all of them come to Yeah? Yeah,

543
00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:41,719
Speaker 1: Now ain't none of his kids dry. That's a lot

544
00:33:41,760 --> 00:33:45,520
Speaker 1: of people, every last one of them kids. Damn me

545
00:33:45,680 --> 00:33:51,880
Speaker 1: in the cor sea, he said, dryway full, all these

546
00:33:52,040 --> 00:33:55,960
Speaker 1: corse kids. All these kids need help getting buckled in

547
00:33:56,160 --> 00:34:08,040
Speaker 1: all this something. Now one of them kids in junior

548
00:34:08,080 --> 00:34:16,960
Speaker 1: hate them all damn kids is in nurseries in elementary school. Yeah, man,

549
00:34:17,520 --> 00:34:22,120
Speaker 1: ain't now one of them doing more than colors in shape? No,

550
00:34:22,320 --> 00:34:32,400
Speaker 1: them colors shape out. Yeah. So our Mariah's kids the

551
00:34:32,560 --> 00:34:46,920
Speaker 1: oldest eleven years old? Whatever? Yeah, oh God, think of

552
00:34:47,040 --> 00:34:51,160
Speaker 1: your eleven year old hot dumb was dump I got one.

553
00:34:53,560 --> 00:34:58,160
Speaker 1: They ain't even teenagers yet. No, he can't teach now

554
00:34:58,320 --> 00:35:02,520
Speaker 1: one of them how to drive. He don't even know

555
00:35:03,320 --> 00:35:07,000
Speaker 1: no idea. See I see people coming. You know, Steve

556
00:35:07,080 --> 00:35:09,080
Speaker 1: how to do a better job with his kids. Hey man,

557
00:35:09,160 --> 00:35:12,480
Speaker 1: my kids grown, my kids off, making decisions on their own.

558
00:35:12,560 --> 00:35:16,879
Speaker 1: I can't stop my kids doing damn. Nah, you gonna

559
00:35:16,880 --> 00:35:22,879
Speaker 1: see though. Oh it's coming. M h hard to watch

560
00:35:23,160 --> 00:35:28,399
Speaker 1: leven of them. They can't even ride nowhere together. They

561
00:35:28,480 --> 00:35:34,040
Speaker 1: can't hell na caravan all the time. Yeah, which one

562
00:35:34,080 --> 00:35:37,440
Speaker 1: of them kids know how to drive a bus? The bus?

563
00:35:39,760 --> 00:35:41,520
Speaker 1: When they got gonna get their brothers and sisters. What

564
00:35:41,680 --> 00:35:44,360
Speaker 1: they can't from minute, Van ain't gonna cut it. You

565
00:35:44,480 --> 00:35:53,000
Speaker 1: need two sprunters. No, Tommy, Tommy, there's some people gotta

566
00:35:53,000 --> 00:35:56,680
Speaker 1: go with him. He needs to killy nanny huh oh,

567
00:35:57,080 --> 00:36:02,360
Speaker 1: teachers count or he need a need to play. He

568
00:36:02,520 --> 00:36:07,920
Speaker 1: need alright, he need all right, coming up with twenty

569
00:36:07,960 --> 00:36:17,840
Speaker 1: minutes after the hour, we'll have more. You're listening to

570
00:36:19,080 --> 00:36:21,759
Speaker 1: morning show. All right, it is time now for tell

571
00:36:21,840 --> 00:36:25,080
Speaker 1: me something good. Here's some good news. Music producer Metro

572
00:36:25,320 --> 00:36:30,239
Speaker 1: Booming uh huh partnered with the Stephen Marjorie Harvey Foundation

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00:36:31,239 --> 00:36:34,680
Speaker 1: UH to spotlight single moms. Metro purchased tickets for twenty

574
00:36:34,760 --> 00:36:37,759
Speaker 1: six single moms along with their children to attend the

575
00:36:37,800 --> 00:36:42,320
Speaker 1: Atlanta thousands in Pittsburgh Steelers game. However, TMZ reports that

576
00:36:42,440 --> 00:36:45,640
Speaker 1: Metro himself chose not to attend so the mothers would

577
00:36:45,680 --> 00:36:48,440
Speaker 1: be the focus of the event. The Mom's rock. Single

578
00:36:48,480 --> 00:36:51,760
Speaker 1: moms are the real superheroes. T shirts the Single Mothers

579
00:36:51,840 --> 00:36:55,360
Speaker 1: or Heroes initiative is a meaningful way for Metro to

580
00:36:55,480 --> 00:36:58,040
Speaker 1: give back to the community. It's also a way for

581
00:36:58,200 --> 00:37:02,160
Speaker 1: him to honor his late months, So Steve, the question

582
00:37:02,520 --> 00:37:05,080
Speaker 1: is why is it so important for your foundation to

583
00:37:05,239 --> 00:37:08,919
Speaker 1: partner with people wanting to make a difference in the community. Well,

584
00:37:09,000 --> 00:37:12,160
Speaker 1: I mean, our focus has always been single mothers, because

585
00:37:12,239 --> 00:37:15,280
Speaker 1: that's how I started my foundation off to help single

586
00:37:15,360 --> 00:37:18,279
Speaker 1: mothers who were raising boys by the self. That was

587
00:37:18,360 --> 00:37:23,080
Speaker 1: the core of it. Marjorie got on board and created

588
00:37:23,120 --> 00:37:27,520
Speaker 1: the Girls Program, which is quite different. You don't have

589
00:37:27,640 --> 00:37:29,840
Speaker 1: to be from single parent homes, none of that. Margie

590
00:37:29,920 --> 00:37:32,600
Speaker 1: just takes girls from all different walks of life and

591
00:37:32,840 --> 00:37:36,240
Speaker 1: change their lives. And we look for partnerships of people

592
00:37:36,280 --> 00:37:39,600
Speaker 1: who share the same values that we do and have

593
00:37:39,840 --> 00:37:42,600
Speaker 1: some of the same concerns because if my foundation can

594
00:37:42,680 --> 00:37:47,000
Speaker 1: chip in some money, you know, to help help make

595
00:37:47,120 --> 00:37:50,480
Speaker 1: some things happen. Like Metro got in there, man, great great,

596
00:37:50,640 --> 00:37:53,200
Speaker 1: great great brother you know, and wanted to do this

597
00:37:53,400 --> 00:37:55,880
Speaker 1: for single mothers. And then we find out about it

598
00:37:55,920 --> 00:37:57,879
Speaker 1: and say, hey, man, well we got a group over here.

599
00:37:58,400 --> 00:38:00,959
Speaker 1: Can we help and join in and then we form

600
00:38:01,040 --> 00:38:06,200
Speaker 1: these partnerships. It takes a village, you know. It's it's hard.

601
00:38:06,480 --> 00:38:08,600
Speaker 1: And you know I said this before because you know,

602
00:38:09,120 --> 00:38:12,239
Speaker 1: as I try to fund raise for this ranch that

603
00:38:12,400 --> 00:38:16,200
Speaker 1: I bought for these kids, it's hard because when you're

604
00:38:16,239 --> 00:38:20,560
Speaker 1: well off and you start soliciting funds. Everybody want to go,

605
00:38:20,680 --> 00:38:24,640
Speaker 1: wouldn't you just do it yourself? Well, that's that's crazy,

606
00:38:25,560 --> 00:38:28,080
Speaker 1: because you know, I don't. I don't know how much

607
00:38:28,120 --> 00:38:31,320
Speaker 1: money you think everybody got, but there's an illusion to

608
00:38:31,400 --> 00:38:33,960
Speaker 1: how much money people really have. And I don't know

609
00:38:34,120 --> 00:38:36,759
Speaker 1: nobody that can just go do anything they want to do.

610
00:38:37,080 --> 00:38:39,359
Speaker 1: I don't have that kind of money. There are people

611
00:38:39,400 --> 00:38:41,320
Speaker 1: who do, but then you got to look at what

612
00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:43,640
Speaker 1: they doing, Like the Bill Gates Foundation could come in

613
00:38:43,680 --> 00:38:46,000
Speaker 1: there and do the whole thing, but then they're doing

614
00:38:46,680 --> 00:38:49,560
Speaker 1: hundreds of millions of dollars around the world for stuff.

615
00:38:49,640 --> 00:38:55,040
Speaker 1: So yes, So we always look for partnerships to keep

616
00:38:55,120 --> 00:38:57,360
Speaker 1: the thing going, you know, because it's very hard to

617
00:38:57,440 --> 00:38:59,920
Speaker 1: solicit funds when you well off, because everybody think, will

618
00:39:00,040 --> 00:39:02,240
Speaker 1: don't you just do it? Well, they have no idea

619
00:39:02,320 --> 00:39:04,960
Speaker 1: what you've already done and what you up against even

620
00:39:05,040 --> 00:39:07,880
Speaker 1: make the thing run. So we look for partnerships and

621
00:39:08,080 --> 00:39:11,200
Speaker 1: guys like Metell great people to partner with. You know.

622
00:39:11,239 --> 00:39:14,640
Speaker 1: We have several partnerships, you know, and sometimes we partner

623
00:39:14,719 --> 00:39:16,640
Speaker 1: with people because we just help them with our money

624
00:39:17,120 --> 00:39:21,000
Speaker 1: to move they calls along. We're about the uplifted edification

625
00:39:21,080 --> 00:39:24,640
Speaker 1: of people. So, Steve, you've heard, why is he asking

626
00:39:24,760 --> 00:39:26,880
Speaker 1: us for money? He got money? You've heard, and I

627
00:39:27,000 --> 00:39:29,960
Speaker 1: hit it. I hit that all the time. If look,

628
00:39:30,000 --> 00:39:31,800
Speaker 1: if I had all the money, I just do it.

629
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Speaker 1: I don't. That's just the reality of it. I'm sorry,

630
00:39:35,200 --> 00:39:39,000
Speaker 1: I don't. You know? All right? Coming up at thirty

631
00:39:39,040 --> 00:39:42,040
Speaker 1: four minutes after the hour, we'll check Steve's voicemail at

632
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Speaker 1: eight seven seven twenty nine, Steve. Right after this, you're

633
00:39:45,840 --> 00:39:50,840
Speaker 1: listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. It is time now to

634
00:39:51,000 --> 00:39:53,799
Speaker 1: check Steve's voicemail and listen. If you want to leave

635
00:39:53,840 --> 00:39:56,759
Speaker 1: Steve a message, call him eight seven seven twenty nine,

636
00:39:56,840 --> 00:39:59,840
Speaker 1: Steve eight seven seven twenty nine, Steve, you might just

637
00:40:00,120 --> 00:40:02,760
Speaker 1: hear your call on the air, uh, Steve. This caller

638
00:40:02,840 --> 00:40:05,040
Speaker 1: left to comment about the Strawberry letter the other day,

639
00:40:05,160 --> 00:40:09,560
Speaker 1: the subject my husband's assistant is very helpful. This letter

640
00:40:10,080 --> 00:40:12,760
Speaker 1: was about the married couple who were small business owners.

641
00:40:12,840 --> 00:40:16,600
Speaker 1: The wife used to help out and do payrolls. Yeah,

642
00:40:16,640 --> 00:40:18,640
Speaker 1: but it can't, you remember, but it can't. It came

643
00:40:18,719 --> 00:40:21,360
Speaker 1: too much for her, so they hired an assistant. The

644
00:40:21,480 --> 00:40:24,480
Speaker 1: assistant had the big legs and from the video interview,

645
00:40:24,560 --> 00:40:28,239
Speaker 1: she appear plaine and thin. But it turns out yep,

646
00:40:28,400 --> 00:40:30,920
Speaker 1: she had those big legs and eyelashes, and she and

647
00:40:31,000 --> 00:40:34,000
Speaker 1: her husband are eating lunch together, et cetera, et cetera.

648
00:40:34,120 --> 00:40:36,000
Speaker 1: So take a list and take a listen to this book.

649
00:40:36,040 --> 00:40:38,640
Speaker 1: I want to comment on the Strawberry letter. I feel

650
00:40:38,680 --> 00:40:41,640
Speaker 1: like the White Trust everybody could each other us jus

651
00:40:41,640 --> 00:40:44,200
Speaker 1: c are not? You know you can't control a man

652
00:40:44,520 --> 00:40:47,080
Speaker 1: must and over a woman. It's Nature's natural. When you

653
00:40:47,200 --> 00:40:49,799
Speaker 1: go outside DC all kind of giveful woman that eating

654
00:40:49,840 --> 00:40:52,880
Speaker 1: a must over again, it's nature, it's natural. But when

655
00:40:52,920 --> 00:40:55,839
Speaker 1: you come from my home inside my key, I don't

656
00:40:55,880 --> 00:40:58,279
Speaker 1: want no woman with no big legs up in my

657
00:40:58,440 --> 00:41:01,960
Speaker 1: home and my husband lusting over her. This is my

658
00:41:02,080 --> 00:41:05,480
Speaker 1: home where my fifa that she needs to go. Yeah,

659
00:41:05,840 --> 00:41:08,319
Speaker 1: I agree with you, but that ain't what's happening. Though

660
00:41:08,360 --> 00:41:13,040
Speaker 1: she hired and and and and she down at the office.

661
00:41:13,080 --> 00:41:15,800
Speaker 1: I'm sister, I ain't mad at you. I agree what

662
00:41:15,880 --> 00:41:17,880
Speaker 1: you said. You got every right to feel what you

663
00:41:18,000 --> 00:41:20,520
Speaker 1: want to feel. I have no disagreement what you're saying

664
00:41:20,600 --> 00:41:23,560
Speaker 1: at all. You have every right to problem is he

665
00:41:23,640 --> 00:41:27,279
Speaker 1: didn't hide the girl. Now, I think you should not

666
00:41:27,440 --> 00:41:31,959
Speaker 1: discriminate about hiring women because it got big legs. That's wrong.

667
00:41:34,760 --> 00:41:36,640
Speaker 1: That's what you're not fitting to do is get me

668
00:41:36,719 --> 00:41:39,480
Speaker 1: on that I didn't hire her because she got big legs.

669
00:41:39,760 --> 00:41:43,799
Speaker 1: You can't discriminate and gives big leg women with pretty eyelashes.

670
00:41:44,960 --> 00:41:52,359
Speaker 1: I can't stand all right, this collar just has love

671
00:41:52,440 --> 00:41:57,440
Speaker 1: for Steve Love. Good morning, Martine, and I listened to

672
00:41:57,680 --> 00:42:02,160
Speaker 1: the show every mor and y'all make my days. I

673
00:42:02,280 --> 00:42:06,080
Speaker 1: have bad days and turn on my radio and niffany, y'all,

674
00:42:06,160 --> 00:42:10,480
Speaker 1: I'll heat the work. Everything just so better. You thought inspiration.

675
00:42:11,760 --> 00:42:15,879
Speaker 1: You made somebody to day so much easier with things

676
00:42:15,960 --> 00:42:23,040
Speaker 1: you do. And I'm glad saying I'm glad, thank you.

677
00:42:23,200 --> 00:42:28,000
Speaker 1: I'm glad. I'm glad about thank you. Appreciate that. What

678
00:42:28,120 --> 00:42:31,080
Speaker 1: else you got? All right? Last color, uh see this

679
00:42:31,239 --> 00:42:34,960
Speaker 1: color is upset about some remarks you made about Kanye. Yes,

680
00:42:35,200 --> 00:42:39,320
Speaker 1: I was just listening to your show this morning. I

681
00:42:39,440 --> 00:42:43,000
Speaker 1: think it's really appalling that you guys call or would

682
00:42:43,040 --> 00:42:49,160
Speaker 1: consider a certified mental person stupid. Um. And I'm taking

683
00:42:49,239 --> 00:42:52,719
Speaker 1: up Kanye West, um, just to throw him under a

684
00:42:52,760 --> 00:42:55,919
Speaker 1: bus for a white bits basically the road every black

685
00:42:56,400 --> 00:43:02,319
Speaker 1: in America. UM. And I think it's really a well.

686
00:43:02,520 --> 00:43:06,279
Speaker 1: First of all, you don't know he certified nothing, So

687
00:43:06,719 --> 00:43:09,040
Speaker 1: you know, I ain't making no cause on it, you

688
00:43:09,080 --> 00:43:11,840
Speaker 1: know what? And here's what I get tired of, you know,

689
00:43:12,000 --> 00:43:16,400
Speaker 1: like right now, mental issue is a real issue around

690
00:43:16,480 --> 00:43:21,920
Speaker 1: this country, but not everybody. Every time somebody do something ignorant.

691
00:43:22,520 --> 00:43:24,759
Speaker 1: Every time somebody do something a paul, I don't know

692
00:43:24,840 --> 00:43:27,600
Speaker 1: what mental issue? Uh well, I don't know what mental

693
00:43:27,680 --> 00:43:30,200
Speaker 1: health has to do with you think a slavery was

694
00:43:30,239 --> 00:43:33,640
Speaker 1: an option? I don't think what you know? You wearing

695
00:43:33,680 --> 00:43:36,640
Speaker 1: a mega hat? I don't. I don't think you know

696
00:43:37,040 --> 00:43:40,160
Speaker 1: you wearing a T shirt say white Lives matter. I

697
00:43:40,280 --> 00:43:43,080
Speaker 1: don't know why you would go out and have discussed

698
00:43:43,160 --> 00:43:46,239
Speaker 1: the Holocaust. I don't know why Hitler would be your

699
00:43:46,320 --> 00:43:49,520
Speaker 1: favorite person. I don't. I don't know why. But that

700
00:43:49,640 --> 00:43:52,480
Speaker 1: don't sound like mental illness to me. And I'm not

701
00:43:52,640 --> 00:43:55,759
Speaker 1: messing the judgment about people who have mental illness, cause

702
00:43:55,920 --> 00:43:59,840
Speaker 1: it's real. But I don't set up here. You know

703
00:44:00,080 --> 00:44:03,520
Speaker 1: it kills me a wait minute, now, is he not

704
00:44:03,760 --> 00:44:09,319
Speaker 1: the same person who is a self proclaimed genius? Now?

705
00:44:09,440 --> 00:44:13,240
Speaker 1: To me, it's just me talking. I find it hard

706
00:44:13,360 --> 00:44:17,279
Speaker 1: to be a genius and keep doing stupid stuff now don't.

707
00:44:17,360 --> 00:44:21,640
Speaker 1: I don't know. That's just me. I just have to

708
00:44:21,680 --> 00:44:23,640
Speaker 1: struggled with that one right there. That's all I got

709
00:44:23,760 --> 00:44:26,960
Speaker 1: to say about it. Appreciate you calling, ma'am. I'm not

710
00:44:27,120 --> 00:44:30,520
Speaker 1: making a statement against mental illness, but you have no

711
00:44:30,719 --> 00:44:33,440
Speaker 1: right to certify him mentally ill, no more than I do.

712
00:44:34,200 --> 00:44:36,839
Speaker 1: But I do no stupid when I hid though. All right,

713
00:44:36,920 --> 00:44:40,759
Speaker 1: Coming up next the nephew and today's break phone call

714
00:44:40,920 --> 00:44:46,880
Speaker 1: right after this you're listening show coming up at the

715
00:44:46,960 --> 00:44:49,319
Speaker 1: top of the hour, right about four minutes after. It's

716
00:44:49,360 --> 00:44:52,480
Speaker 1: my strawberry letter for today and the subject is his

717
00:44:52,719 --> 00:44:58,279
Speaker 1: ex wife got a real Christmas tree. Oh hell, we'll

718
00:44:58,320 --> 00:45:04,600
Speaker 1: talk about that in a few hate. Yeah, looking into

719
00:45:04,719 --> 00:45:06,840
Speaker 1: that in just a few because right now the nephew

720
00:45:07,080 --> 00:45:09,440
Speaker 1: is here with today's prank phone call. What you got

721
00:45:09,480 --> 00:45:12,960
Speaker 1: for us today, nephew. Well, if you're gonna prank somebody,

722
00:45:13,040 --> 00:45:15,840
Speaker 1: prank them about their babies because they get real sensitive

723
00:45:15,880 --> 00:45:20,239
Speaker 1: about their babies. Well yeah, yes, yeah, yeah, you gotta

724
00:45:20,239 --> 00:45:23,480
Speaker 1: go at them hard about their babies. Your baby got

725
00:45:23,640 --> 00:45:27,480
Speaker 1: my baby's name. We can't have both of them same name,

726
00:45:27,719 --> 00:45:31,799
Speaker 1: same school. That ain't gonna work. Let's go cat though. Hello, Hello,

727
00:45:31,920 --> 00:45:36,400
Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach a Patricia. Patricia, who is it?

728
00:45:36,760 --> 00:45:39,360
Speaker 1: How you doing? Listen? Um, my name is Floyd Floyda.

729
00:45:39,800 --> 00:45:41,759
Speaker 1: I want to give you a call. Your your daughter,

730
00:45:41,840 --> 00:45:46,759
Speaker 1: she'll tends middle school. Right. What's your name again, Floyd? Okay?

731
00:45:46,760 --> 00:45:49,000
Speaker 1: What can I just fight you? Well, like I said,

732
00:45:49,040 --> 00:45:53,000
Speaker 1: your your daughter, she goes she do go to middle school, right, yeah, okay,

733
00:45:53,320 --> 00:45:55,880
Speaker 1: Now her name her name is Dereka. Why you need

734
00:45:55,960 --> 00:46:00,400
Speaker 1: to know that? Okay, Well, it's something wrong. It's something no, no, no,

735
00:46:00,600 --> 00:46:02,440
Speaker 1: nothing wrong. I mean I don't mean to alarm you're

736
00:46:02,440 --> 00:46:05,960
Speaker 1: nothing like that. But let me see what you call. Well,

737
00:46:06,640 --> 00:46:10,960
Speaker 1: here's the situation. My daughter actually goes to middle school

738
00:46:11,040 --> 00:46:15,960
Speaker 1: along along with with your daughter. Okay, and and it's

739
00:46:16,040 --> 00:46:17,799
Speaker 1: it's a bit of a problem that that that has

740
00:46:17,840 --> 00:46:20,440
Speaker 1: arisen that me and my wife just found out about. Okay,

741
00:46:21,200 --> 00:46:24,359
Speaker 1: some issues Derek and your baby in in some kind

742
00:46:24,440 --> 00:46:27,600
Speaker 1: of like trouble or something. No, no, no, no, no,

743
00:46:27,880 --> 00:46:31,320
Speaker 1: nothing like that. But I think with nobody at that school,

744
00:46:31,440 --> 00:46:33,960
Speaker 1: she don't mess with nobody. She owned the honor roll

745
00:46:34,000 --> 00:46:36,240
Speaker 1: and everything. I don't have no problems out of Dereka,

746
00:46:36,560 --> 00:46:41,040
Speaker 1: right like none. Okay, I no, call me, let me know.

747
00:46:41,200 --> 00:46:43,560
Speaker 1: Let me tell you, miss miss Patricia, what the problem is. See,

748
00:46:44,040 --> 00:46:49,000
Speaker 1: my daughter name is Dereka. Okay, so, and and it

749
00:46:49,160 --> 00:46:51,040
Speaker 1: just blew me and my wife away that it was

750
00:46:51,080 --> 00:46:55,520
Speaker 1: another Dereca that went to school. Okay, all right, I

751
00:46:55,560 --> 00:46:58,600
Speaker 1: don't know too many Derecas. That's a unique name. That's cute, okay,

752
00:46:59,200 --> 00:47:03,120
Speaker 1: right right right, Well here's the problem me and my wife. Actually,

753
00:47:03,280 --> 00:47:05,080
Speaker 1: you know, when it was time to name my child,

754
00:47:05,160 --> 00:47:07,520
Speaker 1: we thought we was really picking a name that nobody

755
00:47:08,280 --> 00:47:10,800
Speaker 1: would have a tick out for their daughter. And to

756
00:47:10,960 --> 00:47:13,520
Speaker 1: have another Dereca in the school that blew us away.

757
00:47:13,880 --> 00:47:16,600
Speaker 1: And I guess the real reason why I'm trying to

758
00:47:16,600 --> 00:47:19,680
Speaker 1: call you, miss Patricians. See if if, if there's something

759
00:47:19,760 --> 00:47:22,960
Speaker 1: maybe we can work out, you know, maybe uh like

760
00:47:23,120 --> 00:47:27,520
Speaker 1: your Dereka does middle name or nickname she can be

761
00:47:27,680 --> 00:47:31,240
Speaker 1: called by in opposed to both of them being Dereka.

762
00:47:31,360 --> 00:47:33,839
Speaker 1: You really want our child to be the only one

763
00:47:33,880 --> 00:47:37,279
Speaker 1: with this name. Okay, wait wait wait wait now you

764
00:47:37,480 --> 00:47:41,120
Speaker 1: calling me? Are you asking me to change my baby's name? Well,

765
00:47:41,120 --> 00:47:43,560
Speaker 1: I mean you you ain't really gotta legally change I mean,

766
00:47:43,640 --> 00:47:46,239
Speaker 1: but just start calling us something else, you know. No, No,

767
00:47:46,480 --> 00:47:49,920
Speaker 1: wait a minute, so what you naming police or something.

768
00:47:50,280 --> 00:47:53,839
Speaker 1: Do you know how many and Louis and Patricia's out there?

769
00:47:54,040 --> 00:47:56,840
Speaker 1: What if I ask everybody in the United States to

770
00:47:56,960 --> 00:47:59,680
Speaker 1: change their name from Patricia? You know how crazy that is.

771
00:48:00,040 --> 00:48:02,640
Speaker 1: And I understand that you must be all drugs. Not.

772
00:48:02,880 --> 00:48:05,200
Speaker 1: What I'm trying to say is you know this, this

773
00:48:05,400 --> 00:48:07,480
Speaker 1: is something that we really have. Our baby girl was

774
00:48:07,560 --> 00:48:09,440
Speaker 1: this name and we didn't want nobody else to have this.

775
00:48:09,800 --> 00:48:13,080
Speaker 1: So does your Derek grab my middle name she can use. No,

776
00:48:13,560 --> 00:48:16,080
Speaker 1: we're gonna call her Dereka like we've been calling your name,

777
00:48:16,160 --> 00:48:18,600
Speaker 1: your baby d D. Let's call your baby d D.

778
00:48:18,760 --> 00:48:21,279
Speaker 1: Did you change y'all? Y'all change y'all baby name at

779
00:48:21,320 --> 00:48:23,960
Speaker 1: the school. I'm not calling I'm not calling my only name.

780
00:48:24,280 --> 00:48:25,879
Speaker 1: I don't give me what you call it, but I'm

781
00:48:25,920 --> 00:48:29,040
Speaker 1: not changing my baby name. Hey, listen, Okay, look, I'm

782
00:48:29,080 --> 00:48:31,719
Speaker 1: trying to call you and handle us like adults, you know,

783
00:48:32,000 --> 00:48:33,799
Speaker 1: but you've seen to see you're gonna push my front

784
00:48:33,880 --> 00:48:36,120
Speaker 1: to take me to another level. Obviously you ain't calling

785
00:48:36,200 --> 00:48:38,000
Speaker 1: me trying to handle us. He does ask me to

786
00:48:38,120 --> 00:48:41,040
Speaker 1: change my baby name, call my baby something else at

787
00:48:41,080 --> 00:48:43,439
Speaker 1: the schoolcause y'all want your baby name to be Derek

788
00:48:43,520 --> 00:48:45,640
Speaker 1: and the only Derek in the school. Hey, you know

789
00:48:45,760 --> 00:48:48,200
Speaker 1: many other kids at the damn school got the same name.

790
00:48:48,760 --> 00:48:51,400
Speaker 1: I understand that, but from my baby girl, and it

791
00:48:51,400 --> 00:48:54,799
Speaker 1: ain't schools to be like that. I'm sorry. I'm stay

792
00:48:54,880 --> 00:48:57,440
Speaker 1: up to that baby girl and your wife, but you

793
00:48:57,520 --> 00:49:00,680
Speaker 1: know I'm not changing my baby damn name. Now call

794
00:49:00,840 --> 00:49:02,920
Speaker 1: your baby. Do you know what I'm trying to do

795
00:49:03,280 --> 00:49:06,319
Speaker 1: is get it rectified that we can call you? Get

796
00:49:06,400 --> 00:49:08,880
Speaker 1: my phone number. I'm not a school. Ain't good you

797
00:49:09,000 --> 00:49:11,440
Speaker 1: my number? I got your number. Don't worry about how

798
00:49:11,480 --> 00:49:13,319
Speaker 1: I got it. The problem is that what we're talking

799
00:49:13,360 --> 00:49:15,439
Speaker 1: about right now? If can we what can we start

800
00:49:15,520 --> 00:49:18,400
Speaker 1: calling your child? I don't give it. I know that

801
00:49:18,520 --> 00:49:22,560
Speaker 1: school ain't called your number. Listen, man, all I'm trying

802
00:49:22,600 --> 00:49:24,520
Speaker 1: to do is figure out what can we start calling

803
00:49:24,600 --> 00:49:27,600
Speaker 1: your daughter? Don't the cut less she's been doing. Call

804
00:49:28,080 --> 00:49:29,840
Speaker 1: you and your wife down. Need to go out to

805
00:49:29,920 --> 00:49:33,040
Speaker 1: the statistics office and get your day of the name.

806
00:49:33,239 --> 00:49:34,719
Speaker 1: I kind you have to sum out to kind of

807
00:49:35,239 --> 00:49:38,799
Speaker 1: name beha, but my days keep the same day our name.

808
00:49:39,040 --> 00:49:40,840
Speaker 1: Let me explain something to you. I've been trying to

809
00:49:40,880 --> 00:49:43,120
Speaker 1: be calm with you even now. Shall but if you

810
00:49:43,200 --> 00:49:45,320
Speaker 1: anna find something else to call on, and I'm gonna go.

811
00:49:45,360 --> 00:49:47,920
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get all that you know, dumb number, how

812
00:49:47,960 --> 00:49:50,279
Speaker 1: do you get? No, don't worry about how I got

813
00:49:50,320 --> 00:49:52,360
Speaker 1: the number. Listen to what I'm trying to tell you.

814
00:49:52,600 --> 00:49:55,359
Speaker 1: If you don't find another name, I'm gonna start getting

815
00:49:55,400 --> 00:49:57,880
Speaker 1: the kids to call your daughter something else. You're getting

816
00:49:57,920 --> 00:50:02,279
Speaker 1: to call my daddy studding. I'm with an everybody who

817
00:50:02,400 --> 00:50:04,560
Speaker 1: called my buddy stop. Next, you're going to change your

818
00:50:04,640 --> 00:50:06,880
Speaker 1: baby names. I want my baby name to beat the

819
00:50:07,040 --> 00:50:13,279
Speaker 1: Derek John Ye give him, it's try. My princess is

820
00:50:13,280 --> 00:50:15,800
Speaker 1: supposed to be the only one named Derek had a

821
00:50:15,920 --> 00:50:18,640
Speaker 1: chain calling your baby stopping else at the school. I'm

822
00:50:18,680 --> 00:50:22,240
Speaker 1: going out of these kids starting tomorrow at school calling

823
00:50:22,320 --> 00:50:24,400
Speaker 1: your daughter. I'm going else. I'm not standing. I'm just

824
00:50:24,520 --> 00:50:26,880
Speaker 1: start with you like this number. Gang him off my

825
00:50:27,000 --> 00:50:29,279
Speaker 1: phone and don't come. Let me tell you something. I

826
00:50:29,600 --> 00:50:31,080
Speaker 1: got one more thing I need to say to you.

827
00:50:31,239 --> 00:50:34,600
Speaker 1: You listen to me? What are you listening to me?

828
00:50:35,160 --> 00:50:39,120
Speaker 1: I'm listening to do what this is Nephew Tommy from

829
00:50:39,160 --> 00:50:41,800
Speaker 1: the Steve Harby Morning to show you just got franked

830
00:50:41,840 --> 00:50:51,640
Speaker 1: by your girlfriend. I would get huh wait oh that

831
00:50:51,880 --> 00:50:57,799
Speaker 1: little Oh yeah, girl, ain't brank me on this. I'm

832
00:50:57,880 --> 00:51:03,520
Speaker 1: so sorry. So you solid Yes, I'm gonna give her.

833
00:51:05,400 --> 00:51:10,440
Speaker 1: I'na that is oh, I have so star. You got

834
00:51:10,480 --> 00:51:13,239
Speaker 1: my nerves bad this morning. Lord have mercy. Lord, I

835
00:51:13,280 --> 00:51:15,759
Speaker 1: gotta kiss my brain. I got one more thing. I

836
00:51:15,880 --> 00:51:18,880
Speaker 1: gotta ask you, darling, what is What is the baddest

837
00:51:18,920 --> 00:51:21,480
Speaker 1: I'm talking about the baddest radio show in the land,

838
00:51:22,080 --> 00:51:25,360
Speaker 1: Steve Hart the Morning Show. I listen to y'all every

839
00:51:25,600 --> 00:51:31,000
Speaker 1: morning crazy, y'all crazy and not have mercy. Y'all got

840
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Speaker 1: my blood pressure this, but I love y'all. I listen

841
00:51:33,760 --> 00:51:39,160
Speaker 1: to y'all show every morning. Well, I didn't. I don't

842
00:51:39,200 --> 00:51:41,879
Speaker 1: want to do it, but it's it's praising Frank time

843
00:51:42,000 --> 00:51:44,799
Speaker 1: right now. It's praising Frank time right now. I don't

844
00:51:44,840 --> 00:51:46,880
Speaker 1: want to do it, but I gotta do it. It's praise.

845
00:51:46,960 --> 00:51:50,960
Speaker 1: I want to do it. That state I don't want

846
00:51:51,000 --> 00:51:54,719
Speaker 1: to do. But if you're in your car right now,

847
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Speaker 1: blow your horn because that boy prank right that didn't

848
00:51:57,120 --> 00:51:59,759
Speaker 1: Did you do that thing? That boy pranked that thing

849
00:52:00,080 --> 00:52:03,799
Speaker 1: right there? Praise and Frank worship right now, Praise and Frank, Well,

850
00:52:04,000 --> 00:52:06,440
Speaker 1: who up? I had some prank and praise music right now.

851
00:52:06,480 --> 00:52:10,080
Speaker 1: I could cut up it now. I'm collected on offering

852
00:52:10,239 --> 00:52:13,960
Speaker 1: right now time. What I'm doing that is that is

853
00:52:14,680 --> 00:52:16,600
Speaker 1: matter of fact. We don't even We're not gonna pass

854
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Speaker 1: to play. Everybody walk around and drop it off like

855
00:52:19,320 --> 00:52:23,440
Speaker 1: they used to come on around this road and when

856
00:52:23,480 --> 00:52:25,719
Speaker 1: that road get through your road come That's how we're

857
00:52:25,719 --> 00:52:28,680
Speaker 1: gonna do it. That's how you keep it stupid. Greenville,

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Speaker 1: North Carolina, Stupidest coming to town one more time, Greenville,

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Speaker 1: North Cara Lina at the Greenville Convention Center. That is

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Speaker 1: decent of the twenty second on the Thursday night. Tickets

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Speaker 1: on sale right now and you can get those tickets

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Speaker 1: at Thomas Miles dot com. There is a Greenville button.

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Speaker 1: Click on that thing and get yourselves some tickets and

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Speaker 1: come on out and get your laugh on before Christmas, Greenville,

865
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Speaker 1: North Carolina. If you in South Carolina, come on up

866
00:52:54,160 --> 00:52:57,400
Speaker 1: and kick it with the Greenville folks in North Carolina

867
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Speaker 1: and we will give it to you. That's Nephew, Timmy

868
00:53:00,360 --> 00:53:03,960
Speaker 1: and friends. Ignorance at its best. Back to praise and

869
00:53:04,080 --> 00:53:07,800
Speaker 1: prank worship. I will be pranking again tomorrow. Please tune in,

870
00:53:08,000 --> 00:53:10,640
Speaker 1: don't miss me. I would be dropping off two more

871
00:53:10,719 --> 00:53:13,040
Speaker 1: pranks off If you miss this one today and you

872
00:53:13,200 --> 00:53:15,200
Speaker 1: just not tune it in, I'm gonna give it to

873
00:53:15,280 --> 00:53:18,640
Speaker 1: you again tomorrow and then another one. All right, Pranks

874
00:53:18,680 --> 00:53:22,680
Speaker 1: and praising prank worship is not closed. That is. That

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Speaker 1: might be one today, Thank you, might be one today.

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00:53:26,880 --> 00:53:31,520
Speaker 1: Candidate for stupid, I just play want to do it experience. Yeah,

877
00:53:31,600 --> 00:53:33,080
Speaker 1: but he didn't want to do it. He didn't want

878
00:53:33,120 --> 00:53:39,360
Speaker 1: to do it right right. He's different when you're stupid

879
00:53:39,400 --> 00:53:41,480
Speaker 1: with a purpose, you know what I'm saying. When you stupid,

880
00:53:44,920 --> 00:53:53,960
Speaker 1: please stand the big church. Coming up back Strawberry Letters

881
00:53:54,000 --> 00:53:56,920
Speaker 1: subject his ex wife got a real Christmas tree. We'll

882
00:53:56,960 --> 00:54:00,840
Speaker 1: get into that right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey

883
00:54:00,920 --> 00:54:05,719
Speaker 1: Morning Show. It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter.

884
00:54:05,760 --> 00:54:09,640
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885
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887
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Speaker 1: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're

888
00:54:19,360 --> 00:54:22,320
Speaker 1: gonna read this one right here right now. You never know,

889
00:54:22,400 --> 00:54:27,759
Speaker 1: it could be yours. All right, everyboddy, buck up and

890
00:54:27,800 --> 00:54:29,680
Speaker 1: hold on tight. It's time for to Strawberry Little my

891
00:54:29,760 --> 00:54:36,279
Speaker 1: friend Shirley Strawberry, thank you, my friend Junior. Subject what

892
00:54:36,480 --> 00:54:39,719
Speaker 1: happened his ex wife got a real Christmas tree is

893
00:54:39,719 --> 00:54:43,280
Speaker 1: the subject of this letter for today. Dear Stephen Shirley,

894
00:54:44,239 --> 00:54:46,640
Speaker 1: I'm on my second marriage and there's an issue in

895
00:54:46,840 --> 00:54:49,960
Speaker 1: my marriage. My husband was married for eighteen years and

896
00:54:50,040 --> 00:54:53,160
Speaker 1: he's got two daughters and joint custody of them. I

897
00:54:53,280 --> 00:54:55,880
Speaker 1: have a daughter that lives with us. We've blended the

898
00:54:55,920 --> 00:54:59,000
Speaker 1: family nicely, and his daughters was sweet to my daughter,

899
00:54:59,440 --> 00:55:02,160
Speaker 1: but they like to remind her that their father is

900
00:55:02,239 --> 00:55:05,320
Speaker 1: not her father. My husband is not good at setting

901
00:55:05,400 --> 00:55:09,000
Speaker 1: boundaries for his ex wife. When we started dating, he

902
00:55:09,200 --> 00:55:11,640
Speaker 1: let me know that he and his are friends and

903
00:55:11,760 --> 00:55:14,960
Speaker 1: whatever he does for her is for his daughters. I

904
00:55:15,080 --> 00:55:17,680
Speaker 1: can accept that, but when it gets to be too much,

905
00:55:17,840 --> 00:55:21,279
Speaker 1: I step in to help him set boundaries. The other day,

906
00:55:21,640 --> 00:55:24,320
Speaker 1: he told me that since his ex wife and the

907
00:55:24,400 --> 00:55:26,960
Speaker 1: girls moved into a new house, he wanted to buy

908
00:55:27,080 --> 00:55:30,920
Speaker 1: his daughters a nice Christmas tree. I was against it,

909
00:55:31,280 --> 00:55:35,840
Speaker 1: but then I realized his daughter's feelings. Ben I considered

910
00:55:35,920 --> 00:55:38,680
Speaker 1: his daughter's feelings and I agreed to it. We got

911
00:55:38,680 --> 00:55:41,759
Speaker 1: a little seven foot artificial tree out of the storage room,

912
00:55:41,800 --> 00:55:45,680
Speaker 1: and I went and bought new ornaments. Saturday, he told

913
00:55:45,760 --> 00:55:48,120
Speaker 1: me he was picking up his daughters to get a tree,

914
00:55:48,719 --> 00:55:51,960
Speaker 1: and he took my daughter with them. I wasn't invited.

915
00:55:52,440 --> 00:55:55,440
Speaker 1: Two hours after they left, my daughter posted a video

916
00:55:55,520 --> 00:55:58,759
Speaker 1: in her Instagram story and they were shopping for a

917
00:55:58,920 --> 00:56:03,440
Speaker 1: real tree. They picked a giant, beautiful, real, fluffy tree.

918
00:56:03,880 --> 00:56:06,279
Speaker 1: I had assumed they would go to Walmart and buy

919
00:56:06,320 --> 00:56:09,399
Speaker 1: an artificial tree. My daughter said they took the tree

920
00:56:09,520 --> 00:56:12,120
Speaker 1: to his ex wife hows and he set it up

921
00:56:12,200 --> 00:56:13,680
Speaker 1: for them. He set it up for them and they

922
00:56:13,760 --> 00:56:17,560
Speaker 1: decorated it together. I was crushed because I decorated our

923
00:56:17,600 --> 00:56:21,320
Speaker 1: fake tree alone while they were gone. My husband always

924
00:56:21,440 --> 00:56:24,840
Speaker 1: justifies things by saying that his daughters shouldn't suffer because

925
00:56:24,960 --> 00:56:27,920
Speaker 1: he left their mother. Does he do it out of guilt?

926
00:56:28,160 --> 00:56:33,279
Speaker 1: Will his ex wife be forever a part of our family? Well? Yeah,

927
00:56:33,480 --> 00:56:36,000
Speaker 1: in a sense. She may not be a part of

928
00:56:36,040 --> 00:56:39,120
Speaker 1: your family, okay, but she is a mother of your

929
00:56:39,200 --> 00:56:43,600
Speaker 1: husband's daughters, and those are your stepdaughters. So the x

930
00:56:43,680 --> 00:56:46,719
Speaker 1: will always be in your life somehow, Okay, as long

931
00:56:46,800 --> 00:56:51,520
Speaker 1: as you know she's got the daughters in everything, you know,

932
00:56:51,800 --> 00:56:53,960
Speaker 1: My issue is with you though, really, I mean, this

933
00:56:54,160 --> 00:56:56,920
Speaker 1: is kind of petty. You're worried about a Christmas tree here.

934
00:56:57,520 --> 00:56:59,719
Speaker 1: I think you're saying it's about that, but what it

935
00:56:59,800 --> 00:57:02,279
Speaker 1: really is is that you don't want your man over there,

936
00:57:02,560 --> 00:57:04,560
Speaker 1: and you don't want him over there doing stuff for

937
00:57:04,640 --> 00:57:07,440
Speaker 1: them like putting up the tree. As a family. I

938
00:57:07,520 --> 00:57:12,160
Speaker 1: think you're jealous where this is concerned, But I'm telling

939
00:57:12,200 --> 00:57:14,919
Speaker 1: you don't be insecure. Because he still wants to spend

940
00:57:15,000 --> 00:57:18,240
Speaker 1: time with his daughters. That means he's a good dad. Okay,

941
00:57:18,600 --> 00:57:21,880
Speaker 1: He's right. He left their mom, not his kids, so

942
00:57:22,080 --> 00:57:24,479
Speaker 1: he wants to continue to show up in their life

943
00:57:24,520 --> 00:57:28,080
Speaker 1: for them as their father. He and the ex don't

944
00:57:28,120 --> 00:57:31,280
Speaker 1: have anything going on. I mean, if you guys can't

945
00:57:31,320 --> 00:57:34,160
Speaker 1: afford it, why don't you You know, if there's something

946
00:57:34,240 --> 00:57:37,040
Speaker 1: wrong with your tree, why don't you and your husband

947
00:57:37,080 --> 00:57:39,120
Speaker 1: and the girls go out and get a tree. You

948
00:57:39,200 --> 00:57:41,760
Speaker 1: didn't have to stay there and decorate the tree by yourself.

949
00:57:42,000 --> 00:57:44,320
Speaker 1: You could have waited until they came home and you

950
00:57:44,400 --> 00:57:47,720
Speaker 1: guys could have done it together. You know, he just

951
00:57:47,880 --> 00:57:50,120
Speaker 1: went with the girls to get a new tree. You

952
00:57:50,240 --> 00:57:52,040
Speaker 1: need to talk to him if you have a problem

953
00:57:52,120 --> 00:57:54,400
Speaker 1: with how he's moving right now, but he sounds like

954
00:57:54,480 --> 00:57:56,360
Speaker 1: a father who's just trying to do the right thing

955
00:57:56,520 --> 00:58:00,280
Speaker 1: to me. As crazy as that all seems, it sounds. Yeah,

956
00:58:00,280 --> 00:58:05,240
Speaker 1: I don't have a problem with this, Steve. Well, it's

957
00:58:05,240 --> 00:58:09,480
Speaker 1: a twofold situation. In my eyes. He's being a good

958
00:58:09,600 --> 00:58:13,160
Speaker 1: dad and he's being punished for that. But he's doing it,

959
00:58:13,400 --> 00:58:15,880
Speaker 1: and he's making a couple of mistakes the way he's

960
00:58:15,960 --> 00:58:21,200
Speaker 1: doing it. You know, first of all, when y'all this

961
00:58:21,320 --> 00:58:25,000
Speaker 1: is both of y'all second marriage, he set this whole

962
00:58:25,120 --> 00:58:31,640
Speaker 1: thing up by telling you that, you know, look, well,

963
00:58:31,680 --> 00:58:35,640
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do stuff with a daughter, and I'm gonna

964
00:58:35,640 --> 00:58:37,520
Speaker 1: do stuff for my daughter, and I'm gonna do stuff

965
00:58:37,560 --> 00:58:39,480
Speaker 1: for her, but the reason I'm doing it for her

966
00:58:39,600 --> 00:58:42,440
Speaker 1: is for my daughter. He said all of this up

967
00:58:42,520 --> 00:58:45,600
Speaker 1: with you in the beginning because he's active in that

968
00:58:45,760 --> 00:58:48,960
Speaker 1: life as he should be. Now you all say, you

969
00:58:49,040 --> 00:58:51,760
Speaker 1: all have blended the family together nicely, But the daughters

970
00:58:51,760 --> 00:58:53,760
Speaker 1: are sweet to your daughter, but they always remind her

971
00:58:53,800 --> 00:58:56,880
Speaker 1: that ain't your daddy. They do that. Kids gonna be kids.

972
00:58:57,000 --> 00:59:01,240
Speaker 1: They're gonna jockey for a position. Husband is not good

973
00:59:01,320 --> 00:59:04,560
Speaker 1: with setting boundaries for his ex wife and his ex

974
00:59:04,760 --> 00:59:10,160
Speaker 1: wife is flexing because she has two kids with him,

975
00:59:11,000 --> 00:59:14,080
Speaker 1: and she's taking advantage of it. Now, let's get to

976
00:59:14,160 --> 00:59:16,760
Speaker 1: the whole thing about what this letter is about. His

977
00:59:16,920 --> 00:59:20,800
Speaker 1: ex got a real Christmas tree. First of all, when

978
00:59:20,880 --> 00:59:24,160
Speaker 1: he picked up the daughter, when he picked up his

979
00:59:24,280 --> 00:59:30,320
Speaker 1: two daughters, and he took your daughter. He took your daughter,

980
00:59:30,600 --> 00:59:35,280
Speaker 1: which is his daughter, which is to with his biological daughters,

981
00:59:36,440 --> 00:59:38,920
Speaker 1: because he wanted to get them a tree because they

982
00:59:38,960 --> 00:59:44,600
Speaker 1: had moved into a new house. Well, now he's the

983
00:59:44,680 --> 00:59:50,520
Speaker 1: problem you made, dog when you took your daughter from

984
00:59:50,600 --> 00:59:53,880
Speaker 1: your new wife with you, and she posted it on

985
00:59:54,040 --> 00:59:58,920
Speaker 1: a story. So I'm assuming that these much these might

986
00:59:59,000 --> 01:00:02,440
Speaker 1: be teenage if they can post on stories and stuff.

987
01:00:02,880 --> 01:00:05,680
Speaker 1: Wait a minute, what did you say? Wait, say that

988
01:00:05,800 --> 01:00:12,200
Speaker 1: one more time, Steve, about the daughters. What just I

989
01:00:12,320 --> 01:00:13,920
Speaker 1: just wanted you to say that one more time? What

990
01:00:14,000 --> 01:00:16,640
Speaker 1: you said about the daughters. He has two daughters with

991
01:00:16,800 --> 01:00:19,360
Speaker 1: his ex. He has two daughters with his ex, and

992
01:00:19,440 --> 01:00:21,680
Speaker 1: then the wife had a daughter. The new wife has

993
01:00:21,720 --> 01:00:24,880
Speaker 1: a second wife has a daughter. Okay, well see that's

994
01:00:25,000 --> 01:00:30,120
Speaker 1: his daughter. Oh he has three daughters. Now, yeah, right,

995
01:00:30,320 --> 01:00:33,560
Speaker 1: separate them. If you separate them, they will help you

996
01:00:33,680 --> 01:00:36,720
Speaker 1: separate that. Yeah, Yeah, that's what the deal is. When

997
01:00:36,760 --> 01:00:38,720
Speaker 1: I come back, I'm gonna tell you the mistake he's

998
01:00:38,880 --> 01:00:41,360
Speaker 1: making with them. He's a great dad, but he's making

999
01:00:41,400 --> 01:00:45,439
Speaker 1: all right. We'll have part two of Steve's response coming

1000
01:00:45,520 --> 01:00:48,880
Speaker 1: up at twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry

1001
01:00:48,960 --> 01:00:52,200
Speaker 1: Letters subject is his ex wife got a real Christmas tree.

1002
01:00:52,360 --> 01:00:55,320
Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening,

1003
01:00:58,040 --> 01:01:00,720
Speaker 1: all right, Steve, Come on, let's recap today Strawberry letter.

1004
01:01:00,880 --> 01:01:04,440
Speaker 1: The subject his ex wife got a real Christmas tree. Okay,

1005
01:01:04,480 --> 01:01:07,280
Speaker 1: So on the break, I read this letter again. This marriage.

1006
01:01:07,320 --> 01:01:09,480
Speaker 1: This man was married to this woman for eighteen years

1007
01:01:09,520 --> 01:01:12,200
Speaker 1: and they got two daughters. His ex wife were married

1008
01:01:12,240 --> 01:01:14,280
Speaker 1: eighteen years and they got two daughters. So I'm going

1009
01:01:14,360 --> 01:01:17,720
Speaker 1: to assume that these two daughters a teenager because they

1010
01:01:17,840 --> 01:01:22,600
Speaker 1: got an Instagram and they posted story. She the woman

1011
01:01:22,680 --> 01:01:25,680
Speaker 1: he's married to now, who's writing this letter, she has

1012
01:01:25,720 --> 01:01:29,120
Speaker 1: a daughter from her previous marriage. I don't know how

1013
01:01:29,200 --> 01:01:33,120
Speaker 1: old she is. But they treat her nicely, but they

1014
01:01:33,200 --> 01:01:36,800
Speaker 1: do remind her that he's not your real daddy. That's

1015
01:01:36,920 --> 01:01:40,040
Speaker 1: our real daddy. But they treated nicely. And you all

1016
01:01:40,080 --> 01:01:42,520
Speaker 1: have blended and they're sweet to the girl. Okay, cool,

1017
01:01:42,760 --> 01:01:45,560
Speaker 1: So we got that out the way. Now the man

1018
01:01:45,760 --> 01:01:48,320
Speaker 1: set this up by telling you, listen, I'm gonna do

1019
01:01:48,480 --> 01:01:51,440
Speaker 1: some things for my wife, my ex wife, because we're friends.

1020
01:01:51,840 --> 01:01:54,040
Speaker 1: But everything I do for is because of the daughter.

1021
01:01:54,480 --> 01:01:57,240
Speaker 1: You're okay with that. Now let's get to what the

1022
01:01:57,320 --> 01:02:01,880
Speaker 1: problem is. It's a Christmas tree. He the ex wife

1023
01:02:02,280 --> 01:02:04,560
Speaker 1: and the two daughters that moved into a new house.

1024
01:02:05,160 --> 01:02:07,360
Speaker 1: He wants to get them a nice tree for their

1025
01:02:07,440 --> 01:02:13,240
Speaker 1: house for Christmas. Okay, So he takes your daughter, which

1026
01:02:13,400 --> 01:02:19,440
Speaker 1: is his daughter from this marriage, Christmas tree shopping with

1027
01:02:19,680 --> 01:02:22,800
Speaker 1: his daughters from his previous marriage, and he goes and

1028
01:02:22,960 --> 01:02:27,800
Speaker 1: buys them a real Christmas tree, big old fluffy tree.

1029
01:02:28,680 --> 01:02:30,840
Speaker 1: You then went to the storage room and went out

1030
01:02:30,840 --> 01:02:34,560
Speaker 1: and got that little ragged ass see his tree. See

1031
01:02:35,680 --> 01:02:40,280
Speaker 1: the box that's in the box you've been putting up

1032
01:02:40,320 --> 01:02:48,200
Speaker 1: for years. And so now you bought some ornaments for

1033
01:02:48,400 --> 01:02:52,480
Speaker 1: the treat, some new ornaments. They went tree shopping. You

1034
01:02:52,640 --> 01:02:57,840
Speaker 1: look on the Instagram you're daughter and posted they bought

1035
01:02:57,880 --> 01:03:01,360
Speaker 1: a tree. They take the tree to his ex wife's

1036
01:03:01,400 --> 01:03:04,720
Speaker 1: house where his daughters live. They set the tree up

1037
01:03:05,080 --> 01:03:08,680
Speaker 1: and they all decorated. Now you said earlier they went

1038
01:03:08,840 --> 01:03:12,440
Speaker 1: Christmas tree shopping and you weren't invited. Okay, it was

1039
01:03:12,480 --> 01:03:15,600
Speaker 1: just him and the girls. So that's cool because the

1040
01:03:15,680 --> 01:03:18,080
Speaker 1: tree is for the girls. But it's at the ex

1041
01:03:18,120 --> 01:03:23,080
Speaker 1: wife's house. I mean that's where the Yeah, so in

1042
01:03:23,160 --> 01:03:26,680
Speaker 1: a way, this would be cool. Here's the mistake he's made.

1043
01:03:28,000 --> 01:03:34,240
Speaker 1: You've gotten to not make them kids feel and see

1044
01:03:34,680 --> 01:03:39,400
Speaker 1: a difference. You've got to go above and beyond in

1045
01:03:39,520 --> 01:03:44,160
Speaker 1: treating them the same and eat This is not your stepdaughter,

1046
01:03:44,520 --> 01:03:48,240
Speaker 1: this is your daughter. If if the daughters get a

1047
01:03:48,320 --> 01:03:51,760
Speaker 1: real tree, everybody get a real tree. Yeah. See, he

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Speaker 1: should have bought two real trees. What he should have

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Speaker 1: because you can't make the quote unquote step daughter feel

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01:04:01,480 --> 01:04:04,680
Speaker 1: step See. The reason we never used the word step

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01:04:04,800 --> 01:04:08,120
Speaker 1: in our family was because when you say step child,

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01:04:08,600 --> 01:04:13,760
Speaker 1: it's usually like a step down, and it's like a

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01:04:14,000 --> 01:04:16,600
Speaker 1: step down from the level that the regular children. And

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01:04:16,680 --> 01:04:19,240
Speaker 1: that's why we never used that term. So now, but

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01:04:19,360 --> 01:04:22,840
Speaker 1: you can't let him see or feel a difference. Now,

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01:04:22,960 --> 01:04:25,880
Speaker 1: if his daughter's got a big fluffy Christmas tree, he

1057
01:04:25,920 --> 01:04:28,120
Speaker 1: should have got a big Christmas tree at his house too.

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01:04:29,360 --> 01:04:33,480
Speaker 1: That's the mistake, key man. Yes, that would that that

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01:04:33,560 --> 01:04:36,560
Speaker 1: would have cleaned this whole thing up. And bro, that's

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01:04:36,600 --> 01:04:39,440
Speaker 1: all you got to do. Everybody got to get equal

1061
01:04:39,720 --> 01:04:44,040
Speaker 1: and light treat the period. And you can't have your

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01:04:44,120 --> 01:04:46,560
Speaker 1: new wife feeling some kind of way because you're doing

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01:04:46,600 --> 01:04:49,200
Speaker 1: all this extra stuff for your ex wife, because that's

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01:04:49,240 --> 01:04:51,640
Speaker 1: how she's looking at that too. Oh she got a

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01:04:51,720 --> 01:04:55,080
Speaker 1: treat and y'all all decorated tree together. I didn't know

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Speaker 1: you was gonna go over there and put it up

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Speaker 1: and decorated together. I wanted to surprise y'all when you

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01:04:59,400 --> 01:05:02,400
Speaker 1: came home. Y'all come home late. I wouldn't decorated the

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Speaker 1: tree by myself, and y'all ass was over there having

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01:05:05,760 --> 01:05:09,600
Speaker 1: family time. Right, You see why she said. When you

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01:05:09,880 --> 01:05:12,160
Speaker 1: see now, she's gonna be upset about that dog. And

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01:05:12,240 --> 01:05:15,360
Speaker 1: this is your fault because you gotta do everything equal.

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01:05:15,440 --> 01:05:17,520
Speaker 1: If you're over there having hot chocolate, you got to

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01:05:17,520 --> 01:05:23,120
Speaker 1: come home have hot chocolate. You don't bought the Voca

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01:05:23,240 --> 01:05:26,480
Speaker 1: pound cake from Nemon Marcus over there. You got to

1076
01:05:26,480 --> 01:05:29,760
Speaker 1: come in your house with the Vaca pound cake. Okay,

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01:05:30,720 --> 01:05:33,560
Speaker 1: you don't see. That's what you gotta do now, Bro,

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01:05:33,720 --> 01:05:36,920
Speaker 1: that's the mistake you make, and you've got to set

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01:05:37,000 --> 01:05:40,600
Speaker 1: your husband down and say, hey, listen, we can't feel

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01:05:41,640 --> 01:05:45,560
Speaker 1: like with second class citizens when it comes to special evince,

1081
01:05:45,960 --> 01:05:50,280
Speaker 1: while your ex and your biological children get all the perks.

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01:05:51,640 --> 01:05:54,160
Speaker 1: So I think that's unfair. So you can do whatever

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01:05:54,200 --> 01:05:56,000
Speaker 1: you want to do for them. I'm not stopping you,

1084
01:05:56,520 --> 01:05:59,000
Speaker 1: but you needed to start doing the same thing over here.

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01:05:59,320 --> 01:06:02,000
Speaker 1: See that real big fluffy treat that was beautiful, but

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01:06:02,040 --> 01:06:04,600
Speaker 1: that would look good in this house too. Yeah, they

1087
01:06:04,720 --> 01:06:07,680
Speaker 1: should go get one, see because they had a new house.

1088
01:06:07,760 --> 01:06:10,680
Speaker 1: He feels like they should get a new treat. Well, well, well,

1089
01:06:10,720 --> 01:06:12,240
Speaker 1: and you got to get to everybody else a new

1090
01:06:12,280 --> 01:06:15,240
Speaker 1: tree dog. Someday a thought came to my head because

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01:06:15,280 --> 01:06:18,040
Speaker 1: a lot of mothers have mom guilt? Do dads have

1092
01:06:18,280 --> 01:06:21,400
Speaker 1: dad guilt as well? Is that what he's dealing with?

1093
01:06:21,720 --> 01:06:27,000
Speaker 1: Dad guilt as well? Yeah, because he said in the

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01:06:27,160 --> 01:06:31,880
Speaker 1: letter they can't pay because I left their mother right right,

1095
01:06:32,480 --> 01:06:36,040
Speaker 1: and left their mother, not them m see. But then

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01:06:36,200 --> 01:06:40,400
Speaker 1: also now you gotta be careful of the Disney dad

1097
01:06:40,600 --> 01:06:44,200
Speaker 1: syndrome too, Yeah, exactly. See, when you do see the kids,

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01:06:44,240 --> 01:06:47,000
Speaker 1: you can't be Disney Dad. And then all of a sudden,

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01:06:47,000 --> 01:06:51,080
Speaker 1: when you go home to your family, ain't no Disney, right,

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01:06:51,640 --> 01:06:56,520
Speaker 1: it's just the old tree. Oh man, you got Disney

1101
01:06:56,640 --> 01:06:59,360
Speaker 1: Dad mowed all the way around board. Bro. All right,

1102
01:06:59,440 --> 01:07:01,800
Speaker 1: post your I'm in some Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve

1103
01:07:01,920 --> 01:07:05,520
Speaker 1: RVFM on Instagram and Facebook, and check out the Strawberry

1104
01:07:05,600 --> 01:07:08,440
Speaker 1: Letter podcasts. John Demand now coming up at forty six

1105
01:07:08,520 --> 01:07:11,280
Speaker 1: minutes after the hour, we got Junior with Sports Talk

1106
01:07:11,520 --> 01:07:17,080
Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening, It is time now for

1107
01:07:17,240 --> 01:07:21,280
Speaker 1: Sports Talk with Junior, which you got Junior. Okay, Shirley,

1108
01:07:21,360 --> 01:07:23,560
Speaker 1: for the last time it hit the barbershops. This is

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01:07:23,640 --> 01:07:25,560
Speaker 1: one of the hottest topics that's going on, and I

1110
01:07:25,680 --> 01:07:27,720
Speaker 1: just want to make sure we clear on this show

1111
01:07:27,840 --> 01:07:31,960
Speaker 1: how we feel. But they're now saying that Dion Sanders

1112
01:07:32,280 --> 01:07:35,240
Speaker 1: is a sellout, and I can't let that ride like that.

1113
01:07:36,400 --> 01:07:40,440
Speaker 1: They are really upset. Tobody. He never understood HBCUs and

1114
01:07:40,520 --> 01:07:44,080
Speaker 1: he never cared about HBCUs because if he did, he

1115
01:07:44,240 --> 01:07:47,680
Speaker 1: never would have left. That is the issue they're having

1116
01:07:47,840 --> 01:07:50,160
Speaker 1: because you can you say if he said in his

1117
01:07:50,280 --> 01:07:53,480
Speaker 1: interview when he first got the job that HBCUs HBCUs

1118
01:07:53,480 --> 01:07:56,360
Speaker 1: were great places to play football, and then he takes

1119
01:07:56,360 --> 01:08:00,280
Speaker 1: a job at Colorado, he's still not for HBCUs. Let's

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Speaker 1: just quit saying this. This is this is crazy. He's

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01:08:03,880 --> 01:08:06,200
Speaker 1: not a sellout for one to better his family. I

1122
01:08:06,240 --> 01:08:09,200
Speaker 1: don't understand how people are mad about Dion saying is

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01:08:09,200 --> 01:08:12,320
Speaker 1: taking this job in Colorado. That is not the issue.

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01:08:12,560 --> 01:08:14,960
Speaker 1: The man did everything he could to put the spotlight

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01:08:15,040 --> 01:08:19,000
Speaker 1: on HBCU, but he just won. Man, Can anybody tell

1126
01:08:19,120 --> 01:08:22,639
Speaker 1: me who the coach was before Dan Stands at Jackson State?

1127
01:08:22,720 --> 01:08:29,560
Speaker 1: Other people at Jackson State, anybody, I'm waiting anybody, come on,

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01:08:29,680 --> 01:08:32,920
Speaker 1: So y'all gotta have a name. Why y'all mad at Dion?

1129
01:08:34,680 --> 01:08:39,280
Speaker 1: Are all of the other great NFL players that could

1130
01:08:39,439 --> 01:08:42,639
Speaker 1: go to HBCUs and pick up some of these jobs.

1131
01:08:43,000 --> 01:08:46,360
Speaker 1: Eddie George did it, you know, the greatest coach of

1132
01:08:46,560 --> 01:08:50,479
Speaker 1: all time, coach Eddie Robinson at Grammer spent his entire

1133
01:08:50,600 --> 01:08:54,960
Speaker 1: coaching career that. But that was his calling. That's not

1134
01:08:55,280 --> 01:08:58,600
Speaker 1: Deon's calling. See, y'all want people to be what you

1135
01:08:58,680 --> 01:09:01,640
Speaker 1: want to fit into your par You don't know what

1136
01:09:01,960 --> 01:09:05,120
Speaker 1: Dion is called to do. Deon didn't say he was

1137
01:09:05,120 --> 01:09:08,839
Speaker 1: gonna be a Jackson State forever, nor should he a season?

1138
01:09:09,439 --> 01:09:12,439
Speaker 1: And y'all talking about here sellout y'all miss me that

1139
01:09:12,960 --> 01:09:16,160
Speaker 1: every last one of y'all would have took five million

1140
01:09:16,240 --> 01:09:19,960
Speaker 1: dollars versus three hundred thousand dollars. Steve Harvey, You're never

1141
01:09:20,080 --> 01:09:23,960
Speaker 1: lied right now, let me help you understand something. I

1142
01:09:24,320 --> 01:09:28,960
Speaker 1: love the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Who is the Steve

1143
01:09:29,120 --> 01:09:32,920
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show? If I ain't the Steve Harvey Morning Show,

1144
01:09:33,200 --> 01:09:38,479
Speaker 1: who is the Steve Harvey Show? Now you let Siri

1145
01:09:38,720 --> 01:09:41,200
Speaker 1: come up and tell me we're gonna get you fifty

1146
01:09:41,240 --> 01:09:46,439
Speaker 1: million dollars a year. Man, Bye bye, get your ask

1147
01:09:46,520 --> 01:09:54,000
Speaker 1: for serious subscription, not a seller. Go ahead. I just

1148
01:09:54,160 --> 01:09:57,800
Speaker 1: want that same energy for Brett Farr, who stole from

1149
01:09:57,880 --> 01:10:03,400
Speaker 1: the state. I want that black people are the only

1150
01:10:03,560 --> 01:10:06,719
Speaker 1: race of people that's responsible for the actions of others,

1151
01:10:07,520 --> 01:10:12,040
Speaker 1: and people are responsible for white people. All got to

1152
01:10:12,120 --> 01:10:17,040
Speaker 1: stay at Jackson. So y'all, man, y'all stupid? All right?

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01:10:17,160 --> 01:10:19,240
Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, a guy

1154
01:10:19,320 --> 01:10:21,920
Speaker 1: on social media needs your help Steve about lending money.

1155
01:10:21,960 --> 01:10:24,760
Speaker 1: We'll talk about it right after this. You're listening to

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Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Well, great news, what a

1157
01:10:30,240 --> 01:10:34,240
Speaker 1: Christmas present? This is w NC A star. Britney Griner

1158
01:10:34,400 --> 01:10:41,160
Speaker 1: has been released from Russian pop. Yes, yes, yes, thank

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01:10:41,240 --> 01:10:45,960
Speaker 1: you Lord, thank you. Yes. She was swapped for convicted

1160
01:10:46,040 --> 01:10:51,240
Speaker 1: Russian arms dealer. Victor bout About, nicknamed the Merchant of Death,

1161
01:10:51,479 --> 01:10:55,599
Speaker 1: is a former Soviet military officers serving a twenty five

1162
01:10:55,680 --> 01:10:58,320
Speaker 1: year prison sentence in the United States on charges of

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01:10:58,479 --> 01:11:04,040
Speaker 1: conspiring to kill Americains, acquire an export anti aircraft missiles,

1164
01:11:04,200 --> 01:11:08,320
Speaker 1: and provide material support to a terrorist organization. Wow, but

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01:11:08,640 --> 01:11:11,439
Speaker 1: the good news is Britney Griner is now in the

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01:11:11,560 --> 01:11:16,600
Speaker 1: custody of American officials. She is there, yeah, she she,

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Speaker 1: I mean, this is just wonderful news. We were wondering

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Speaker 1: because she had a nine years sentence over there. Nine years. Yeah, yeah,

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01:11:25,240 --> 01:11:32,800
Speaker 1: isn't it a blessing seas Chris, really really excessive sentencing

1170
01:11:32,960 --> 01:11:35,240
Speaker 1: for that, But they were trying to prove a point.

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01:11:35,320 --> 01:11:38,280
Speaker 1: But also there's a lesson to be learned from all

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Speaker 1: of us. When we're traveling, pay very very close attention

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01:11:41,280 --> 01:11:44,080
Speaker 1: to what you have because, jess, cause it's legal over here.

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01:11:44,120 --> 01:11:48,160
Speaker 1: They they got some rules overseas man. Yeah, yeah, so

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01:11:48,320 --> 01:11:52,120
Speaker 1: we have to be very very conscious when traveling. She

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01:11:52,240 --> 01:11:55,240
Speaker 1: had been detained since February, when she was arrested on

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01:11:55,360 --> 01:11:59,120
Speaker 1: drug smuggling charges at an airport in the Moscow region,

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01:11:59,640 --> 01:12:03,519
Speaker 1: despite her testimony that she had inadvertently packed the cannabis

1179
01:12:03,600 --> 01:12:06,559
Speaker 1: oil found in her luggage. She was sentenced, like we said,

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01:12:06,600 --> 01:12:09,639
Speaker 1: to nine years in prison. That was in early August.

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01:12:09,720 --> 01:12:13,599
Speaker 1: She was moved to a penal colony uh in Russia.

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01:12:14,200 --> 01:12:19,040
Speaker 1: And we you know, it looked pretty hopeless for a minute,

1183
01:12:19,160 --> 01:12:22,000
Speaker 1: you know, because it kept giving her time and all

1184
01:12:22,040 --> 01:12:24,840
Speaker 1: of that. But look at look at God, look at

1185
01:12:24,920 --> 01:12:31,080
Speaker 1: look at God. Yes, yes, yes, everybody did not give

1186
01:12:31,200 --> 01:12:34,840
Speaker 1: up and kept you know, bringing awareness about this or not. Yes,

1187
01:12:35,040 --> 01:12:39,040
Speaker 1: the custody of US of American officials. Yes, love it,

1188
01:12:39,439 --> 01:12:42,400
Speaker 1: love it come home. Yeah. Now, this swap did not

1189
01:12:42,520 --> 01:12:46,280
Speaker 1: include another American that the State Department has declared wrongfully

1190
01:12:46,360 --> 01:12:49,599
Speaker 1: detained as well. His name was Paul Wheeland. But Brittany

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01:12:49,640 --> 01:12:53,360
Speaker 1: Griner is coming home. She is in the custody of

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Speaker 1: US American officials. And we're just happy. This is right

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Speaker 1: before Christmas, right before Christmas. Has been there since February. Greatness,

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01:13:04,080 --> 01:13:09,559
Speaker 1: its great news. Yeah yeah, yeah. She played for years

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01:13:09,720 --> 01:13:13,479
Speaker 1: in the offseason for a Russian women's basketball team. Yeah,

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01:13:16,800 --> 01:13:19,840
Speaker 1: anybody doing that. I believe I ain't going back over

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01:13:19,920 --> 01:13:24,320
Speaker 1: there ever. Ever. Ever, Russian team will get ready to

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01:13:24,360 --> 01:13:27,200
Speaker 1: lose because she ain't coming back. No. Yeah, ever, And

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Speaker 1: and hats off to the you know, the president, the administration. Y, Yes,

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Speaker 1: state officials, the State Department. They didn't give up. Now

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01:13:37,640 --> 01:13:41,800
Speaker 1: you do know, you do know what they're going to

1202
01:13:42,320 --> 01:13:45,800
Speaker 1: backtrack on all of this. And you know, Fox, it's

1203
01:13:45,840 --> 01:13:49,840
Speaker 1: going in exchange for this arms dealer murder. Yeah, you're right,

1204
01:13:51,160 --> 01:13:55,040
Speaker 1: we don't care, we don't care what. Yeah, but you're

1205
01:13:55,120 --> 01:13:57,960
Speaker 1: right that's going to be an issue, you know, especially

1206
01:13:58,000 --> 01:14:00,599
Speaker 1: if he decides to run in twenty twenty or all

1207
01:14:00,680 --> 01:14:05,320
Speaker 1: of that. You know, you're absolutely right about that. Yeah.

1208
01:14:06,000 --> 01:14:08,320
Speaker 1: But he did the right thing. The President did the

1209
01:14:08,439 --> 01:14:12,160
Speaker 1: right thing in this situation and brought home I mean,

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01:14:12,360 --> 01:14:14,800
Speaker 1: you know, when you think about it, he's really been

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01:14:14,840 --> 01:14:17,400
Speaker 1: a champion for black women. I mean, we have the

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Speaker 1: first black UH Vice president, female, the first black United

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Speaker 1: States Supreme Court justice. Now he's doing this for Brittany Grimes.

1214
01:14:27,479 --> 01:14:30,160
Speaker 1: You know, I'm gonna tell you something else too, And

1215
01:14:30,479 --> 01:14:35,880
Speaker 1: how really important this Warnock decision was. It gave him

1216
01:14:36,280 --> 01:14:40,400
Speaker 1: complete control of the Senate without need from tiebreaker and

1217
01:14:40,479 --> 01:14:43,000
Speaker 1: all like that. Now, of course, you got Joe Manchin,

1218
01:14:43,080 --> 01:14:46,200
Speaker 1: you had to contend with him and that, uh, that

1219
01:14:46,800 --> 01:14:51,320
Speaker 1: one one other some lady. That's Democrats. But what this

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Speaker 1: does is this sets him up. He may run again. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I think he may run again. Yeah, because if he

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01:15:00,000 --> 01:15:03,680
Speaker 1: does it, run who do we have? That's right? All right,

1223
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Speaker 1: great news, Britney Grinder has been released, and we'll be

1224
01:15:07,160 --> 01:15:09,640
Speaker 1: back with more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right

1225
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Speaker 1: after this. You're listening to the Steven Show. A jury

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01:15:16,080 --> 01:15:19,000
Speaker 1: in New York has found the Trump Organization guilty on

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01:15:19,280 --> 01:15:24,880
Speaker 1: seventeen counts. I said, seventeen counts of tax fraud and

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01:15:25,120 --> 01:15:29,200
Speaker 1: investigation of business practices over fifteen years turned up multiple

1229
01:15:29,360 --> 01:15:33,280
Speaker 1: instances of the company offering employees perks such as free

1230
01:15:33,360 --> 01:15:38,120
Speaker 1: cars and free apartments to avoid paying them taxable income.

1231
01:15:38,680 --> 01:15:43,280
Speaker 1: CFO Alan Weisselberg, who had already pleaded guilty to fifteen counts,

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Speaker 1: was the prosecutor's star witness. Prosecution star witness. Lawyers for

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01:15:48,160 --> 01:15:51,599
Speaker 1: the defense argued that he had acted on his own

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01:15:51,960 --> 01:15:55,320
Speaker 1: and that the company was otherwise uninvolved in the scheme.

1235
01:15:55,680 --> 01:15:58,760
Speaker 1: The company faces finds of up to one point six

1236
01:15:58,880 --> 01:16:02,680
Speaker 1: million dollars in sentencing. Donald Trump was not named as

1237
01:16:02,720 --> 01:16:06,479
Speaker 1: a defendant in the suit, so he's not personally liable

1238
01:16:07,080 --> 01:16:10,439
Speaker 1: and they say they will appeal. Oh you're in trouble,

1239
01:16:12,320 --> 01:16:15,280
Speaker 1: but but see but see listen, this is why he

1240
01:16:15,439 --> 01:16:20,120
Speaker 1: doesn't want these tax forms showing up what the Chris

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01:16:20,320 --> 01:16:26,000
Speaker 1: Leaves were found guilty of exacting, Donald Trump is doing.

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01:16:26,000 --> 01:16:30,840
Speaker 1: It's the exact same thing. He's borrowing money using it

1243
01:16:30,960 --> 01:16:35,599
Speaker 1: for his lifestyle. And since borrowed money is not taxable income.

1244
01:16:36,000 --> 01:16:38,960
Speaker 1: But if you're using it for your lifestyle, and that's

1245
01:16:39,040 --> 01:16:42,760
Speaker 1: tax evasion. So if you take money and you buy

1246
01:16:42,840 --> 01:16:45,960
Speaker 1: a car with it at an apartment and you borrow

1247
01:16:46,080 --> 01:16:49,920
Speaker 1: the money to do that, that's not taxable income because

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01:16:50,000 --> 01:16:54,400
Speaker 1: you borrow money. All right, all right, coming up at

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01:16:54,400 --> 01:16:56,559
Speaker 1: thirty three minutes after, we'll play a round of would

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01:16:56,600 --> 01:17:02,679
Speaker 1: you rather? Right after this you're listening, it is time

1251
01:17:02,720 --> 01:17:05,240
Speaker 1: now for a round of would you rather? Would you

1252
01:17:05,400 --> 01:17:09,680
Speaker 1: rather wrap all the Christmas presents for your family or

1253
01:17:09,720 --> 01:17:14,679
Speaker 1: would you rather pack away all the decorations after Christmas? Hmm?

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Speaker 1: Oh man, uh, I'm packty decorations. I just packed really

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Speaker 1: see your get yeah? Correct? You don't want to put

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Speaker 1: on lights in the ornament, take your stuff, downds. You

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Speaker 1: ain't gonna be musing decoration next year, I want to man. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's it's a meticulous job, taking for shaking the directorations,

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Speaker 1: the decorations down. All right? Would you rather be the

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Speaker 1: lead singer? Now, Steve, this one's for you. Would you

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Speaker 1: rather be the lead singer on a popular, popular Christmas song?

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Speaker 1: Or would you rather be the star and a popular

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Speaker 1: holiday movie? I ain't gonna be dough that holiday, but

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Speaker 1: I ain't, but you know, hang on, Yeah, I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: god to know your bad this convism and as we

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Speaker 1: look around your time, boy, he are you temptations? I'm

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Speaker 1: not gonna get over ignorant as Christmas movie, but you

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Speaker 1: may be least singing. Yeah, my mind so hard in

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Speaker 1: my mind? Oh yeah, Junior, what you got? I went on?

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Speaker 1: I love to be at least singing like you cain't saying.

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Speaker 1: But the way he made it feel to see? What

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Speaker 1: about jealousy Christmas album? Take my money, take my mone'm

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Speaker 1: my house and my cap. I hit up you this chrisma?

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Speaker 1: All right, yeah, I feel Would you rather eat only

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Speaker 1: fruitcake for holiday dessert or just not have any dessert

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Speaker 1: at all? I'm not gonna have none at all? That nothing,

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Speaker 1: that green stuff in it. I still ain't nobody still

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Speaker 1: ain't exprain give me a little okay, stand fruitcake dragon

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Speaker 1: as but fruitcake? So no dessert at all? But none? No, No,

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Speaker 1: I'm not fruitcake all holiday long? Not how long it

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Speaker 1: take to pick that green and red stuff out of there?

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Speaker 1: And we don't know what it? Yeah, I don't like

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Speaker 1: biting in the stuff and I'm not sure what is it?

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Speaker 1: Not sitting here, let sponge your ass. So all right,

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Speaker 1: that's today's rounded. Would you rather? Thank you white people

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Speaker 1: have been in fruitcake? Coming up after the hour, we'll

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Speaker 1: have our last break of the day and some closing

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Speaker 1: remarks from the one and only the Man the Legend,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. Right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: All right, guys, here we are our last break of

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Speaker 1: the day on this Thursday. Yes, in my mind, what

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Speaker 1: you're doing, I don't know. I'm just doing Just do it.

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Speaker 1: I just go ahead, don't quit do it again though, No,

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Speaker 1: you know, I'm just trying to you know, what, what

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Speaker 1: would you do? Would you rather? Was? Would you rather

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Speaker 1: be lead saying on Christmas? Or the lead in the

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Speaker 1: Christmas movie? I don't even really know. No, Christmas movie.

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Speaker 1: But I can't beat that, y'all for Rutolf, you know,

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Speaker 1: warding like that was on the other night. I don't

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Speaker 1: even know what they be, do you know? I had

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Speaker 1: to watch it when it came out. But I never

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Speaker 1: really enjoyed The Wizard Olls. You know, I just really

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Speaker 1: my favorite all time, one of your favorite movies of

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Speaker 1: all of all time. I know how you got to

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Speaker 1: be mentally to like the Wizard of Alls favorite movies

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Speaker 1: of all kind of depressed ass yow, you had a

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Speaker 1: beautiful childhood and it got bad and Lollipop. Yes, that

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Speaker 1: Munchkins is too much in the movie that I can't

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Speaker 1: talk about. Which, well, well, I like the Whiz, let's

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Speaker 1: go with that. I was never that it wasn't much

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Speaker 1: of an old movie. Guy, I just didn't. But you

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Speaker 1: do love old songs, you know. My focus was somewhere

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Speaker 1: else because when I was growing up, man, Yeah, my

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Speaker 1: focus I was thinking of I kept trying to figure

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Speaker 1: it out. Man. I didn't know that I could have

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Speaker 1: prayed about it and made it a lot easier for myself.

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Speaker 1: So I was spending all my time thinking about it.

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Speaker 1: We're about it. But you had a praying mother, though Steve.

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Speaker 1: You know that I'm telling you right now. I'm the

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Speaker 1: result of her prayer because how I made it through

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Speaker 1: Sometimes I don't even know because this show wasn't me.

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Speaker 1: I was dandy making a series of dumbass to see

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Speaker 1: if people do that when they're young. You know, that's

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Speaker 1: what you do when you figure it out, you make it.

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Speaker 1: I mean back to back to back to back, because

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Speaker 1: we weren't listening to anything our parents told us. Look

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Speaker 1: where you at now you did it? Yeah, and you

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Speaker 1: keep on You're gonna be somebody one day, Keep on,

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Speaker 1: keep on say that all the time. Yeah, and I

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Speaker 1: believe you will, Steve, you come make But if you

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Speaker 1: wouldn't stand the monk, I believe you would have been

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Speaker 1: leasing in a group though. I mean if you was

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Speaker 1: doing like a Christmas special, just you singing, what would

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Speaker 1: your outphit look like? And you come out and hit

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Speaker 1: them notes? What would you look like? Ah? Dog? I

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Speaker 1: have a red sequence jacket, green sequence pants. Got the visual.

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Speaker 1: I got the patent leather boots, white shirt okay with

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Speaker 1: green and red sparkly ruffles on it. Yeah, with the

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Speaker 1: cuff sticking out under the jacket trimmed in green glittle

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Speaker 1: sounds like tall elf? Or you have a hat? I

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Speaker 1: dreaming wide christ must I? Who oh they told to

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Speaker 1: me by rapper Bump bum and my Droobe FEROUSI the

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Speaker 1: album fine, the nine is cold and oh oh he's

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Speaker 1: Brad Speed Dusty. Yes, no what gross old and open fire?

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Speaker 1: Get your boy Jack Frost, Jack Frost nipping at your nose.

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Speaker 1: You time cows being stung? Babe that dressed up like skimo.

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Speaker 1: Oh every body know who I don't know about Christmas boy.

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Speaker 1: This boy ain't through. He ain't what you're saying the

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Speaker 1: first noel S Brooks Britton. Soon it will be Christmas nine.

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Speaker 1: Whoa hello? Give me still, give me another? Jingle bell

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Speaker 1: jangle jangle bam oh jing all in the way, all

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Speaker 1: the way ah and oh what fun but fun we

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Speaker 1: have it y with a hood back on a one horse,

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Speaker 1: open sleeve, joined to the world, to the world the Lord,

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Speaker 1: it's cold. Let her yeah, come over, receive come on

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Speaker 1: now kay called he here Now, I said he here?

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Speaker 1: Now that's what at all about? Hey, y'all have a

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Speaker 1: great fun to day closed revols. I was old war,

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Speaker 1: but I feel better now for all. Steve Harvey contests

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