1 00:00:12,280 --> 00:00:13,640 Speaker 1: I don't know what to wear on dates. 2 00:00:13,640 --> 00:00:15,319 Speaker 2: Now I could tell you what to wear on dates 3 00:00:15,360 --> 00:00:19,239 Speaker 2: with emphasis, with confidence, with expertise. I cannot tell you 4 00:00:19,280 --> 00:00:21,920 Speaker 2: exactly what to do on dates because I don't think 5 00:00:21,960 --> 00:00:25,160 Speaker 2: that I am great at that. Lean into your feminine side, 6 00:00:25,239 --> 00:00:26,520 Speaker 2: be super flirty. 7 00:00:27,000 --> 00:00:27,400 Speaker 1: Okay. 8 00:00:28,000 --> 00:00:29,920 Speaker 2: I could do that for probably fifteen minutes of the date, 9 00:00:29,960 --> 00:00:31,640 Speaker 2: but the rest I'm going to just be myself and 10 00:00:31,840 --> 00:00:35,360 Speaker 2: probably scare off ninety eight percent of the men. I 11 00:00:35,400 --> 00:00:37,520 Speaker 2: could say, don't drink more than two drinks, but certainly 12 00:00:37,520 --> 00:00:39,400 Speaker 2: I've drunk four drinks on a date. I told a 13 00:00:39,400 --> 00:00:41,320 Speaker 2: guy last weekend, Hi, if you want to meet my 14 00:00:41,320 --> 00:00:43,640 Speaker 2: friend and I out, I'm about to overserve myself. 15 00:00:43,720 --> 00:00:45,000 Speaker 1: That was my opening line. 16 00:00:45,440 --> 00:00:47,680 Speaker 2: And he certainly came, and I didn't do anything I 17 00:00:47,720 --> 00:00:49,519 Speaker 2: was going to regret, and I didn't go anywhere I 18 00:00:49,520 --> 00:00:51,320 Speaker 2: didn't want to go, and I just hung out and 19 00:00:51,320 --> 00:00:53,280 Speaker 2: then went home. But I'm just letting you know that 20 00:00:53,280 --> 00:00:56,800 Speaker 2: that was my opening line. HI, about to overserve myself. 21 00:00:57,080 --> 00:01:00,240 Speaker 2: Come and get it. Like drink two drinks okay for 22 00:01:00,320 --> 00:01:03,120 Speaker 2: someone I generally don't because I don't want to be 23 00:01:03,120 --> 00:01:04,560 Speaker 2: in someone's house and I don't want them to be 24 00:01:04,600 --> 00:01:05,119 Speaker 2: in my house. 25 00:01:05,160 --> 00:01:08,160 Speaker 1: But I can tell you this. In my life, I have. 26 00:01:08,120 --> 00:01:11,720 Speaker 2: Not many times, but I have probably broken every rule 27 00:01:11,720 --> 00:01:13,080 Speaker 2: that I've ever made in my life. But I can 28 00:01:13,120 --> 00:01:16,000 Speaker 2: tell you what to wear on a date and what 29 00:01:16,120 --> 00:01:19,840 Speaker 2: not to wear, because so many people in this dating community, 30 00:01:20,560 --> 00:01:23,000 Speaker 2: men and women, have no fucking idea what to wear. 31 00:01:23,000 --> 00:01:25,480 Speaker 2: They are a mess and a disaster and they're clueless. 32 00:01:25,520 --> 00:01:29,839 Speaker 2: And the hair and the everything. Okay, men, we don't 33 00:01:29,959 --> 00:01:32,039 Speaker 2: need you to wear logos. 34 00:01:32,360 --> 00:01:33,840 Speaker 1: We don't need you to wear symbols. 35 00:01:33,880 --> 00:01:35,759 Speaker 2: We don't need you to wear the alphabet on your 36 00:01:35,840 --> 00:01:38,840 Speaker 2: apparel accessories. We do not want it, we do not 37 00:01:39,000 --> 00:01:41,400 Speaker 2: need it. Let's just start with that. I thought that 38 00:01:41,480 --> 00:01:44,080 Speaker 2: was clear, but evidently it's not. We don't need you 39 00:01:44,200 --> 00:01:46,199 Speaker 2: to label the brands that you're wearing. 40 00:01:46,280 --> 00:01:49,440 Speaker 1: We get it. Your car will suffice. Okay. 41 00:01:50,640 --> 00:01:53,080 Speaker 2: Men, you're not Mark Zuckerberg. You don't need to be 42 00:01:53,080 --> 00:01:53,840 Speaker 2: wearing a hoodie. 43 00:01:54,000 --> 00:01:54,360 Speaker 1: Okay. 44 00:01:55,280 --> 00:01:58,920 Speaker 2: Women don't dress every time with every fucking piece of 45 00:01:58,960 --> 00:02:02,919 Speaker 2: skin hanging out like women wear the tits, the arms, 46 00:02:02,960 --> 00:02:05,960 Speaker 2: the legs, everything. You have a triangle over the vagina. 47 00:02:06,000 --> 00:02:07,960 Speaker 2: That's what you've left the imagination. This is all that 48 00:02:08,000 --> 00:02:11,399 Speaker 2: we have, but don't cover yourself up. Please don't wear 49 00:02:11,400 --> 00:02:13,320 Speaker 2: something that says I'm closed for business. Please do not 50 00:02:13,400 --> 00:02:16,200 Speaker 2: wear like a long sleeve collared shirt. Please do not 51 00:02:16,240 --> 00:02:18,440 Speaker 2: wear a blazer with a collared shirt under it. Please 52 00:02:18,480 --> 00:02:22,240 Speaker 2: do not wear a turtleneck. I love turtlenecks as much 53 00:02:22,240 --> 00:02:24,520 Speaker 2: as anyone. Don't wear a turtleneck to a date. I 54 00:02:24,560 --> 00:02:26,480 Speaker 2: even have a sheer turtleneck like you could wear it 55 00:02:26,480 --> 00:02:28,520 Speaker 2: with like a body suit under It'd be so sexy. 56 00:02:28,840 --> 00:02:32,280 Speaker 2: But nothing screams closed for business like something up to 57 00:02:32,400 --> 00:02:35,760 Speaker 2: your chin on your neck. Okay, it's giving. Diane Keaton 58 00:02:36,160 --> 00:02:38,680 Speaker 2: in the movie Something's Gotta Give. You want to show 59 00:02:38,680 --> 00:02:41,680 Speaker 2: a hint to some cleavage, lovely, wear a long sleeve 60 00:02:42,160 --> 00:02:42,840 Speaker 2: or a short sleeve. 61 00:02:42,840 --> 00:02:44,240 Speaker 1: You don't need a tank and the cleavage. 62 00:02:44,240 --> 00:02:46,960 Speaker 2: If you did the tank and the cleavage, the rest 63 00:02:47,320 --> 00:02:49,520 Speaker 2: has to be covered up. We must have long pants, 64 00:02:50,040 --> 00:02:52,040 Speaker 2: and we cannot have our stomach showing. You cannot if 65 00:02:52,040 --> 00:02:54,440 Speaker 2: you're gonna do, you cannot have your cleavage showing, your 66 00:02:54,520 --> 00:02:58,080 Speaker 2: arm showing, and your legs. Pick your spots, people, you 67 00:02:58,120 --> 00:03:00,720 Speaker 2: want to show your legs. I might even a last 68 00:03:00,760 --> 00:03:04,000 Speaker 2: some cleavage with some long sleeves, or that would be 69 00:03:04,000 --> 00:03:05,959 Speaker 2: the only caveat to the turtle, like it would be 70 00:03:06,000 --> 00:03:08,080 Speaker 2: a sleeveless turtle, like your arms would be showing and 71 00:03:08,080 --> 00:03:09,000 Speaker 2: your legs would be showing. 72 00:03:09,200 --> 00:03:12,840 Speaker 1: Just do not show everything at the same time. Next. 73 00:03:13,480 --> 00:03:15,520 Speaker 2: I broke this rule last night because I wore black 74 00:03:15,560 --> 00:03:18,160 Speaker 2: because it was chilly, and it's never cold in Florida, 75 00:03:18,160 --> 00:03:20,400 Speaker 2: and like, I wanted to wear something slightly wintry and 76 00:03:20,440 --> 00:03:24,239 Speaker 2: not so fucking florally, so I wore these black. Chloe 77 00:03:24,360 --> 00:03:27,480 Speaker 2: Kardashian and Morgan Stewart call them slacks, and I want 78 00:03:27,520 --> 00:03:30,160 Speaker 2: to slap the two of them because I don't like that. 79 00:03:30,240 --> 00:03:31,880 Speaker 2: I just use that word and it turns me up. 80 00:03:31,919 --> 00:03:34,040 Speaker 2: And I don't know why people have a problem with 81 00:03:34,080 --> 00:03:38,280 Speaker 2: the word moist, because the word slacks could put. 82 00:03:38,120 --> 00:03:39,600 Speaker 1: Me in an institution. 83 00:03:40,280 --> 00:03:45,000 Speaker 2: I'd say ointment and moist all day before I'd say slacks, 84 00:03:46,160 --> 00:03:51,600 Speaker 2: call a therapist. But I wore slacks last night. But 85 00:03:51,760 --> 00:03:56,760 Speaker 2: I did have a strapless like shirt that showed my arms, 86 00:03:56,800 --> 00:03:59,360 Speaker 2: but the rest was like black and sort of covered up, 87 00:03:59,400 --> 00:04:00,880 Speaker 2: and it was sex the only because you knew that 88 00:04:00,960 --> 00:04:03,440 Speaker 2: I had a decol of tae, but and you knew 89 00:04:03,440 --> 00:04:05,240 Speaker 2: that I had boobs and they weren't really popping up, 90 00:04:05,280 --> 00:04:08,200 Speaker 2: but like that was unusual for me, And even wearing 91 00:04:08,240 --> 00:04:11,280 Speaker 2: pants is a little like for me, it's a little hard, 92 00:04:11,360 --> 00:04:13,880 Speaker 2: and black is a little hard because I'm hard. So 93 00:04:13,960 --> 00:04:18,800 Speaker 2: I need to be wearing lighter, softer tones and fabrics 94 00:04:18,880 --> 00:04:26,920 Speaker 2: to counterbalance my aggressiveness, hostility, anger and being an entrepreneur 95 00:04:27,160 --> 00:04:30,160 Speaker 2: that has more money than ninety eight point nine percent 96 00:04:30,200 --> 00:04:31,920 Speaker 2: of the men that I am going to go out with. 97 00:04:32,120 --> 00:04:36,839 Speaker 2: So I should lean in with my femininity. Some ruffles, 98 00:04:36,920 --> 00:04:40,839 Speaker 2: some slip dress, and some dough I dumb, dumbness, but 99 00:04:41,240 --> 00:04:45,919 Speaker 2: lo and behold, I fuck up a lot. Now, be 100 00:04:46,040 --> 00:04:49,080 Speaker 2: flirty with your outfit, like I said, like a little 101 00:04:49,120 --> 00:04:52,839 Speaker 2: floral like, yes, show something like little skin wear the perfume, 102 00:04:53,040 --> 00:04:56,560 Speaker 2: like just like do the feminine thing, like, try to 103 00:04:56,560 --> 00:05:01,080 Speaker 2: do the feminine thing. The feminine floral, girly prince charming 104 00:05:01,200 --> 00:05:04,039 Speaker 2: is gonna rescue you damsel in distress, just like, do 105 00:05:04,160 --> 00:05:07,440 Speaker 2: it a little bit, just do it. There's such dopes 106 00:05:07,839 --> 00:05:09,920 Speaker 2: they think any dress that you have that is a 107 00:05:09,960 --> 00:05:13,240 Speaker 2: little bit figure flattering is like the greatest thing that 108 00:05:13,240 --> 00:05:15,599 Speaker 2: you ever did. They don't know anything. They wouldn't like 109 00:05:15,720 --> 00:05:19,240 Speaker 2: any of the dresses on the Oscar's carpet at the mechala. 110 00:05:19,440 --> 00:05:21,760 Speaker 2: That is all a performance. They don't care about any 111 00:05:21,760 --> 00:05:23,520 Speaker 2: of that shit. They care about a little tight, a 112 00:05:23,520 --> 00:05:26,080 Speaker 2: little cleavage, what's going on under the hood. 113 00:05:26,440 --> 00:05:26,920 Speaker 1: That's it. 114 00:05:27,080 --> 00:05:29,159 Speaker 2: That's what you wear on a date. What you say 115 00:05:29,160 --> 00:05:30,800 Speaker 2: on a date is your own business, because you do 116 00:05:30,880 --> 00:05:35,640 Speaker 2: not ask me. Chelsea Handler did a presumably stoned post 117 00:05:35,720 --> 00:05:39,200 Speaker 2: saying that she's starting a dating service, even saying dating 118 00:05:39,240 --> 00:05:42,599 Speaker 2: service is really funny. She was like, any men DM me, 119 00:05:42,960 --> 00:05:46,440 Speaker 2: gay or straight men between the ages of forty and seventy, 120 00:05:46,560 --> 00:05:50,960 Speaker 2: DM me, Like, I have someone for you. It sounds insane, 121 00:05:51,080 --> 00:05:53,240 Speaker 2: Like what is she calling up people in her It's 122 00:05:53,279 --> 00:05:56,000 Speaker 2: insane unless she's really starting a dating membership community. 123 00:05:56,320 --> 00:05:57,520 Speaker 1: And what she said is true. 124 00:05:57,560 --> 00:06:00,320 Speaker 2: She says people always say there are no men, and 125 00:06:00,360 --> 00:06:01,839 Speaker 2: she's correct, there are tons. 126 00:06:01,520 --> 00:06:02,080 Speaker 1: Of great men. 127 00:06:02,400 --> 00:06:04,960 Speaker 2: So she's probably going into her own dumpster pile, like 128 00:06:05,040 --> 00:06:07,920 Speaker 2: I've got somebody for you, geyer straight, I'm dying. I 129 00:06:07,960 --> 00:06:10,240 Speaker 2: have a dating community. I don't know if she does, 130 00:06:10,279 --> 00:06:11,320 Speaker 2: but I'm here for it. 131 00:06:11,360 --> 00:06:11,800 Speaker 1: I love it. 132 00:06:11,839 --> 00:06:14,160 Speaker 2: She's correct, there are so many great men, but there 133 00:06:14,160 --> 00:06:16,279 Speaker 2: are so many great women. There are so many great people. 134 00:06:16,320 --> 00:06:20,960 Speaker 2: And here's the thing. Alignment alignment alignment. You could think 135 00:06:21,040 --> 00:06:22,880 Speaker 2: someone's a piece of shit because of the way they 136 00:06:22,960 --> 00:06:25,320 Speaker 2: interact with you, because they shouldn't have been going out 137 00:06:25,360 --> 00:06:27,599 Speaker 2: with you in the first place, and vice versa. Or 138 00:06:28,320 --> 00:06:34,760 Speaker 2: you could treat someone poorly, poorly, uncharacteristic of you, unbefitting 139 00:06:34,839 --> 00:06:39,560 Speaker 2: of your ethics, code and integrity, but because they weren't 140 00:06:39,720 --> 00:06:41,840 Speaker 2: aligned with you, and it's going to either trigger you 141 00:06:42,000 --> 00:06:44,839 Speaker 2: if you you don't respect them something and you're not 142 00:06:44,960 --> 00:06:47,240 Speaker 2: going to be your best. So the lack of alignment 143 00:06:47,360 --> 00:06:50,880 Speaker 2: will affect how you think of someone. So there's a 144 00:06:50,920 --> 00:06:52,320 Speaker 2: guy that I have right off the top of my 145 00:06:52,360 --> 00:06:55,360 Speaker 2: head that does not have a good reputation. Okay, he's 146 00:06:55,480 --> 00:06:59,800 Speaker 2: not a bad guy. He just chooses people that aren't 147 00:06:59,839 --> 00:07:03,120 Speaker 2: right for him and then acts badly. And yes, he 148 00:07:03,160 --> 00:07:05,160 Speaker 2: could kind of act badly with someone good for him, 149 00:07:05,160 --> 00:07:08,200 Speaker 2: but he's not a bad guy. He just isn't in 150 00:07:08,320 --> 00:07:12,040 Speaker 2: the right puzzle. It's very difficult. That's why you find players. 151 00:07:12,040 --> 00:07:14,840 Speaker 2: That's why George Clooney, Warren Batty. There are plenty of 152 00:07:14,840 --> 00:07:17,920 Speaker 2: women that thought Warren Batty and George Clooney were total 153 00:07:17,960 --> 00:07:21,560 Speaker 2: pieces of shit, But in Nette Benning and Amal Clooney 154 00:07:21,640 --> 00:07:24,120 Speaker 2: are not those women because those are the women that 155 00:07:24,160 --> 00:07:26,840 Speaker 2: were properly aligned with them, which is why they think 156 00:07:26,840 --> 00:07:42,040 Speaker 2: they're great men. I'm sure there are many women that 157 00:07:42,080 --> 00:07:44,160 Speaker 2: would say that the Jonas kid is a piece of 158 00:07:44,160 --> 00:07:47,160 Speaker 2: ship of Priunka thinks he's a king. Because it's about 159 00:07:47,160 --> 00:07:49,880 Speaker 2: who you're connected with. There are bad guys, but there 160 00:07:49,880 --> 00:07:53,120 Speaker 2: are so many great people. And if they're not connected 161 00:07:53,120 --> 00:07:56,400 Speaker 2: with the right people, then they're not aligned and they're 162 00:07:56,440 --> 00:07:58,960 Speaker 2: not set up for sex and success. That's what I 163 00:07:59,000 --> 00:08:03,440 Speaker 2: have to say about that is critical. Alignment is critical, 164 00:08:03,480 --> 00:08:07,040 Speaker 2: and alignment could come in different packages. So I met 165 00:08:07,080 --> 00:08:09,680 Speaker 2: one person that is so aligned with me because they 166 00:08:09,800 --> 00:08:12,320 Speaker 2: are me. It is me and a man. Now, I 167 00:08:12,480 --> 00:08:16,240 Speaker 2: don't know if that's good. Okay, imagine it. This person 168 00:08:16,440 --> 00:08:19,920 Speaker 2: thinks highly of themselves, is funny, is entertaining, is alive, 169 00:08:20,120 --> 00:08:22,800 Speaker 2: is confident. It says what's on their mind is live 170 00:08:22,840 --> 00:08:26,800 Speaker 2: and direct, is entrepreneurial. Other people that are aligned well 171 00:08:26,800 --> 00:08:30,320 Speaker 2: with me, it may be the opposite side the yin 172 00:08:30,440 --> 00:08:33,400 Speaker 2: and yang. It's the heads and tails. It's that they 173 00:08:33,520 --> 00:08:37,480 Speaker 2: are extremely into organization and order and lack of clutter 174 00:08:37,520 --> 00:08:39,480 Speaker 2: and simplicity. So we're aligned in the way that we 175 00:08:39,520 --> 00:08:42,640 Speaker 2: would live together. But their personality is super under the radar, 176 00:08:42,960 --> 00:08:46,680 Speaker 2: super not in your face. They're very conservative across the board. 177 00:08:46,960 --> 00:08:51,200 Speaker 2: I never go out with and am never attracted to, 178 00:08:52,200 --> 00:08:55,760 Speaker 2: never even connect with, never having any interaction with anyone 179 00:08:56,080 --> 00:08:59,960 Speaker 2: who has any version of a public profile. 180 00:09:00,720 --> 00:09:02,079 Speaker 1: Zero. It's the craziest thing. 181 00:09:02,120 --> 00:09:03,720 Speaker 2: Like I don't believe that there are people that have 182 00:09:03,760 --> 00:09:06,760 Speaker 2: public profiles, because it's shocking how many men do. 183 00:09:06,840 --> 00:09:08,720 Speaker 1: But they don't even come on my radar. 184 00:09:09,080 --> 00:09:11,000 Speaker 2: So like if you're looking at famous people, like you're 185 00:09:11,040 --> 00:09:14,160 Speaker 2: looking at Kim Kardashian with a new race car driver, 186 00:09:14,280 --> 00:09:16,280 Speaker 2: like he has a public profile. She was with Pete 187 00:09:16,360 --> 00:09:18,599 Speaker 2: Davidson before she was with Kanye, Like these people have 188 00:09:18,679 --> 00:09:22,120 Speaker 2: public profiles. She's a public person. I don't know how 189 00:09:22,160 --> 00:09:24,400 Speaker 2: you could have a connection with someone who else has 190 00:09:24,400 --> 00:09:25,240 Speaker 2: a public profile. 191 00:09:25,440 --> 00:09:26,360 Speaker 1: Take Paris Hilton. 192 00:09:26,600 --> 00:09:29,960 Speaker 2: Her husband probably has Instagram because he helps her, But 193 00:09:30,040 --> 00:09:33,200 Speaker 2: like I don't think it's his identity or personality, Nicki Hilton, 194 00:09:33,280 --> 00:09:37,520 Speaker 2: James Rothschild, even right Kyle was with Mauricio, he had 195 00:09:37,520 --> 00:09:40,360 Speaker 2: a public profile as a result of her giving him one. 196 00:09:40,360 --> 00:09:43,760 Speaker 2: But still like I don't get it. I don't like it. 197 00:09:43,760 --> 00:09:46,560 Speaker 2: It's a double standard, Like I do this for work. 198 00:09:46,679 --> 00:09:50,920 Speaker 2: I don't want someone who's doing this a for work. 199 00:09:50,920 --> 00:09:53,920 Speaker 2: I'm not dating an influencer or someone who's gonna constantly post, 200 00:09:53,960 --> 00:09:56,680 Speaker 2: because what a turnoff, What a turnoff, and what a 201 00:09:56,720 --> 00:10:00,360 Speaker 2: double standard, what a hypocrite. I did not necessarily asked 202 00:10:00,360 --> 00:10:03,319 Speaker 2: for this particular life. I just ended up in this 203 00:10:03,360 --> 00:10:06,400 Speaker 2: particular like influencer life. Like this is so extreme for 204 00:10:06,480 --> 00:10:09,520 Speaker 2: me because I don't like stuff and I don't like clutter. 205 00:10:10,480 --> 00:10:12,800 Speaker 1: And I don't really and I'm really private. 206 00:10:13,200 --> 00:10:18,079 Speaker 2: I'm really really private, like really private, and it's shocking 207 00:10:18,120 --> 00:10:20,839 Speaker 2: because I don't seem private at all, but I really am. 208 00:10:20,840 --> 00:10:23,240 Speaker 2: There's so much I don't tell people, and it's kind 209 00:10:23,280 --> 00:10:26,520 Speaker 2: of like a show. Ellen DeGeneres was a very private 210 00:10:26,559 --> 00:10:30,160 Speaker 2: person and her public and her personal lives were very different. 211 00:10:30,160 --> 00:10:32,040 Speaker 2: And it didn't mean that it was fraudulent. It meant 212 00:10:32,040 --> 00:10:33,400 Speaker 2: that she went out and she had to perform like 213 00:10:33,440 --> 00:10:36,600 Speaker 2: a fucking circus clown every day for decades. I don't 214 00:10:36,640 --> 00:10:38,720 Speaker 2: know how long. It was, right over a decade, certainly, 215 00:10:39,400 --> 00:10:42,480 Speaker 2: and her life was different. She'd walk in the back 216 00:10:42,480 --> 00:10:45,920 Speaker 2: of a restaurant for privacy, like she was in a committed, 217 00:10:46,320 --> 00:10:49,960 Speaker 2: calm relationship, like she had her celeb friends and her 218 00:10:49,960 --> 00:10:52,920 Speaker 2: beautiful homes, and she like had an insular aspect to her. 219 00:10:53,080 --> 00:10:55,560 Speaker 2: It would be insustainable for her to do both and 220 00:10:55,679 --> 00:10:58,000 Speaker 2: even her social media as someone else was mostly doing 221 00:10:58,040 --> 00:10:59,520 Speaker 2: so she didn't have to be that exposed. 222 00:10:59,520 --> 00:11:03,800 Speaker 1: She does some, but like you want to have a 223 00:11:03,840 --> 00:11:04,600 Speaker 1: private life. 224 00:11:05,040 --> 00:11:06,880 Speaker 2: I'm sure it's hurt me a lot in dating that 225 00:11:06,920 --> 00:11:08,839 Speaker 2: people think, like, my whole life is going to be 226 00:11:08,880 --> 00:11:12,439 Speaker 2: on Instagram or TikTok and it's not. It's not, and 227 00:11:12,760 --> 00:11:15,800 Speaker 2: they definitely won't and I'm sure, like it's Chelsea Handler 228 00:11:15,840 --> 00:11:18,120 Speaker 2: goes through this. She's opining and talking and she's dating 229 00:11:18,160 --> 00:11:20,440 Speaker 2: guys like sort of in secret on the DL because 230 00:11:20,480 --> 00:11:23,240 Speaker 2: she doesn't want someone in the forefront. She's done it. 231 00:11:23,320 --> 00:11:26,199 Speaker 2: She did it with fifty cent and Joe Coy is 232 00:11:26,240 --> 00:11:26,720 Speaker 2: that his name? 233 00:11:27,000 --> 00:11:27,520 Speaker 1: I don't know. 234 00:11:27,559 --> 00:11:30,839 Speaker 2: Like it's just not interesting, it's not good. There should 235 00:11:30,840 --> 00:11:34,840 Speaker 2: be one peacock. So alignment comes in many different ways. 236 00:11:35,760 --> 00:11:39,520 Speaker 2: Please don't gaslight yourself with dates. Do not gaslight yourself 237 00:11:39,520 --> 00:11:43,520 Speaker 2: with dates or people that really like you or love you, 238 00:11:44,000 --> 00:11:47,600 Speaker 2: or pursue you, or are obsessed with you, or are 239 00:11:47,640 --> 00:11:50,600 Speaker 2: good on paper, or are rich, or spoil you with gifts, 240 00:11:50,880 --> 00:11:52,760 Speaker 2: or treat you like a queen, or tell you how 241 00:11:52,800 --> 00:11:55,920 Speaker 2: amazing you are, or say everything you want to hear, 242 00:11:56,480 --> 00:12:00,720 Speaker 2: or hold back and don't push and just doore you 243 00:12:00,800 --> 00:12:04,440 Speaker 2: and worship you and are amazing and every other woman 244 00:12:04,480 --> 00:12:08,920 Speaker 2: would die to be with them. If you are not 245 00:12:09,240 --> 00:12:13,439 Speaker 2: one of those women, it's not going to happen. If 246 00:12:13,480 --> 00:12:18,560 Speaker 2: you've noodled it, molded it, twisted it, turned it, reubix 247 00:12:18,600 --> 00:12:22,840 Speaker 2: cubed it. If you need a life partner to support you, 248 00:12:23,040 --> 00:12:25,840 Speaker 2: and you're on Bridgerton, then I guess you can noodle 249 00:12:25,880 --> 00:12:27,880 Speaker 2: it and do all of that. But short of that, 250 00:12:28,559 --> 00:12:30,880 Speaker 2: like if you need a man to like, you know, 251 00:12:31,240 --> 00:12:33,600 Speaker 2: treat you nicely and take care of your family, because 252 00:12:33,600 --> 00:12:35,880 Speaker 2: you don't have a dowry, Like I can't speak to 253 00:12:35,920 --> 00:12:38,120 Speaker 2: that because I have a dowry, which is why I 254 00:12:38,160 --> 00:12:40,120 Speaker 2: have a dowry, so I don't have to do that, 255 00:12:40,160 --> 00:12:42,600 Speaker 2: Which is why when people get up and say, like 256 00:12:42,679 --> 00:12:45,120 Speaker 2: stay at home moms, like is the only way to 257 00:12:45,200 --> 00:12:46,120 Speaker 2: do it, I get it. 258 00:12:46,120 --> 00:12:48,319 Speaker 1: It's the hardest job. It's not the only way to 259 00:12:48,400 --> 00:12:48,640 Speaker 1: do it. 260 00:12:48,679 --> 00:12:50,800 Speaker 2: Because you can be a stay at home mom, you 261 00:12:51,000 --> 00:12:54,920 Speaker 2: are taking a risk and not working and not having 262 00:12:54,920 --> 00:12:57,280 Speaker 2: a skill set and not honing that skill set, because 263 00:12:57,360 --> 00:13:00,040 Speaker 2: one day you may have to be with someone you 264 00:13:00,080 --> 00:13:01,880 Speaker 2: don't want to be with. You may have to stay 265 00:13:01,880 --> 00:13:03,600 Speaker 2: with someone you don't want to stay with. You may 266 00:13:03,640 --> 00:13:05,720 Speaker 2: have to do something you don't want to do. You 267 00:13:05,720 --> 00:13:07,280 Speaker 2: may have to live in a house you don't want 268 00:13:07,280 --> 00:13:12,599 Speaker 2: to live in because you have no financial freedom and resources. 269 00:13:12,640 --> 00:13:13,720 Speaker 1: So park that. 270 00:13:14,360 --> 00:13:17,200 Speaker 2: Barring that that you are in Bridgerton and you need 271 00:13:17,320 --> 00:13:20,760 Speaker 2: a man to provide you with a nice lifestyle, treat 272 00:13:20,800 --> 00:13:24,400 Speaker 2: you nicely, and you're in the eighteen hundreds. Don't go 273 00:13:24,600 --> 00:13:27,200 Speaker 2: out with people that you're not excited about. Don't go 274 00:13:27,280 --> 00:13:30,360 Speaker 2: out again with someone that you aren't excited about. Like, yes, 275 00:13:30,440 --> 00:13:32,800 Speaker 2: there are rare exceptions you didn't like someone at first, 276 00:13:32,840 --> 00:13:35,400 Speaker 2: et cetera. But like, if you've beaten this fucking drum, 277 00:13:35,800 --> 00:13:38,240 Speaker 2: you know you're not interested in them. They're twenty years 278 00:13:38,240 --> 00:13:40,920 Speaker 2: older than you. You don't like something about them. 279 00:13:41,000 --> 00:13:41,840 Speaker 1: You are turned off. 280 00:13:41,840 --> 00:13:43,960 Speaker 2: You got the ick someone's in love with you, You're not 281 00:13:43,960 --> 00:13:44,560 Speaker 2: in love with them. 282 00:13:44,760 --> 00:13:46,320 Speaker 1: It's not going to change. Stop. 283 00:13:47,160 --> 00:13:49,679 Speaker 2: I've done this so many times. I try to do this. 284 00:13:49,720 --> 00:13:52,160 Speaker 2: I want to do this now. A man on an 285 00:13:52,200 --> 00:13:55,520 Speaker 2: app said, how is your dating going? And I said, 286 00:13:55,600 --> 00:13:58,480 Speaker 2: it's going well because I'm not doing it that much, 287 00:13:58,520 --> 00:14:04,559 Speaker 2: because it's a quality versus quantity model, because I only 288 00:14:04,640 --> 00:14:07,600 Speaker 2: go out when I'm leaping out the door to wear 289 00:14:07,640 --> 00:14:11,840 Speaker 2: my best outfit, look amazing, smell grate, get excited, and 290 00:14:11,920 --> 00:14:15,800 Speaker 2: I'm leaping out the door. I'm motivated, or I want 291 00:14:15,800 --> 00:14:20,040 Speaker 2: to go the prospect is good, or I'm bored and 292 00:14:20,080 --> 00:14:22,080 Speaker 2: I need to check a box. And this person seemed 293 00:14:22,160 --> 00:14:24,480 Speaker 2: nice enough, and they seem like they could be a friend, 294 00:14:24,800 --> 00:14:26,560 Speaker 2: or I could put them in the core if they're 295 00:14:26,600 --> 00:14:28,800 Speaker 2: not for me, and like I'm in the mood to 296 00:14:28,880 --> 00:14:31,040 Speaker 2: go somewhere, I want to get the fuck out of 297 00:14:31,040 --> 00:14:32,800 Speaker 2: my house, put some makeup on it, go somewhere, and 298 00:14:32,880 --> 00:14:35,360 Speaker 2: I'm in the mood to go. That's another decent reason. 299 00:14:35,720 --> 00:14:39,360 Speaker 2: But if you're not motivated, excited and leaping out the 300 00:14:39,480 --> 00:14:43,000 Speaker 2: door to go, don't go. And if you're not motivated 301 00:14:43,040 --> 00:14:46,640 Speaker 2: and leaping to be with this person, I don't mean 302 00:14:46,720 --> 00:14:49,880 Speaker 2: after three years when you can't stand them and the 303 00:14:49,920 --> 00:14:52,600 Speaker 2: side of their face and breath makes you want to vomit. 304 00:14:53,080 --> 00:14:57,320 Speaker 2: I mean in the beginning, when you are supposed to 305 00:14:57,320 --> 00:15:13,400 Speaker 2: be excited, if someone's madly in love with you and 306 00:15:13,480 --> 00:15:16,520 Speaker 2: you are trying to convince yourself. But every time you do, 307 00:15:16,920 --> 00:15:19,240 Speaker 2: and every time you go and every time you talk 308 00:15:19,280 --> 00:15:21,240 Speaker 2: to him, you don't vibe it. 309 00:15:21,240 --> 00:15:25,640 Speaker 1: It's not vibing, it's not happening. Don't do it. The 310 00:15:25,680 --> 00:15:28,480 Speaker 1: opposite of Nike. Do not do it. 311 00:15:29,160 --> 00:15:31,600 Speaker 2: Just do not do it. It's the opposite of the 312 00:15:31,680 --> 00:15:32,360 Speaker 2: Nike model. 313 00:15:32,560 --> 00:15:33,000 Speaker 1: Okay. 314 00:15:34,000 --> 00:15:38,240 Speaker 2: Also, chat GBT is an amazing dating therapist. Ask it 315 00:15:38,320 --> 00:15:42,600 Speaker 2: the questions and lead the witness tell the chat GBT. 316 00:15:43,280 --> 00:15:46,200 Speaker 1: I went out with a person three times. We made out. 317 00:15:46,720 --> 00:15:47,640 Speaker 1: We talked about this. 318 00:15:47,760 --> 00:15:50,160 Speaker 2: He said this, he sent this, he messaged this, he 319 00:15:50,200 --> 00:15:52,480 Speaker 2: texted me this, he emailed me this, he carried pigeon 320 00:15:52,560 --> 00:15:55,600 Speaker 2: me this. Whatever. Then we went out once and we 321 00:15:55,640 --> 00:15:57,800 Speaker 2: did this. We slept together. The second time we went out, 322 00:15:57,800 --> 00:16:00,000 Speaker 2: we went out for an amazing dinner. We spent twelve hours, 323 00:16:00,000 --> 00:16:03,480 Speaker 2: always together. Whatever. Then he did this. 324 00:16:04,520 --> 00:16:06,360 Speaker 1: It will tell you the truth. 325 00:16:07,200 --> 00:16:10,720 Speaker 2: Like I have thought that someone is doing amazing things 326 00:16:10,760 --> 00:16:13,440 Speaker 2: and saying amazing things and making an effort, and CHAT 327 00:16:13,440 --> 00:16:18,680 Speaker 2: will tell me, yeah, that's lovely. That is lovely, but 328 00:16:18,760 --> 00:16:22,840 Speaker 2: it's low lift. It's not big effort. It doesn't scream 329 00:16:22,920 --> 00:16:25,840 Speaker 2: I'm dying to see you. Somebody didn't put a date 330 00:16:25,920 --> 00:16:30,000 Speaker 2: on the board, so that says everything. Oh, they're involved 331 00:16:30,000 --> 00:16:32,160 Speaker 2: in a big work deal. A big work deal is 332 00:16:32,200 --> 00:16:35,360 Speaker 2: going on. Okay, they don't have telephones and fucking bedrock 333 00:16:35,480 --> 00:16:38,120 Speaker 2: at your big private equity firm like, or a VC 334 00:16:38,320 --> 00:16:40,360 Speaker 2: firm or a hedge fund firm or real. 335 00:16:40,280 --> 00:16:42,640 Speaker 1: Estate firm like. Yes they do. 336 00:16:43,240 --> 00:16:46,160 Speaker 2: So you can do two things at once. I run 337 00:16:46,200 --> 00:16:49,360 Speaker 2: a massive empire. I'm still able to go upstairs and 338 00:16:49,400 --> 00:16:52,040 Speaker 2: purge my closet, obsess over what I'm going to cook 339 00:16:52,080 --> 00:16:55,920 Speaker 2: for dinner, be a good mom, scroll, understand what's going 340 00:16:55,960 --> 00:16:58,640 Speaker 2: on with other people's lives, make a date, go on 341 00:16:58,680 --> 00:17:01,760 Speaker 2: a date, be, do it all, mention it all. Guess 342 00:17:01,760 --> 00:17:04,560 Speaker 2: what if someone is not putting another date on the board. 343 00:17:04,880 --> 00:17:07,920 Speaker 2: To see you in not general terms, not like hey, 344 00:17:08,000 --> 00:17:10,720 Speaker 2: yeah it was an amazing time, hope to see you 345 00:17:10,760 --> 00:17:15,800 Speaker 2: again when in your fucking dreams at the farmer's market. No, 346 00:17:16,840 --> 00:17:19,359 Speaker 2: people need to be intentional and chat will tell you. 347 00:17:19,640 --> 00:17:21,320 Speaker 2: And it doesn't even you have to burn the house down, 348 00:17:21,320 --> 00:17:23,240 Speaker 2: because you could still capture the bird if. 349 00:17:23,160 --> 00:17:24,320 Speaker 1: You want it. 350 00:17:24,320 --> 00:17:26,600 Speaker 2: It means that you have to play it differently, so 351 00:17:26,720 --> 00:17:28,960 Speaker 2: you'd be like, great, no problem, if that's what you're 352 00:17:28,960 --> 00:17:33,880 Speaker 2: interested in. When you're free, reach out like there are 353 00:17:34,040 --> 00:17:37,879 Speaker 2: ways to talk to chat and figure it out. But 354 00:17:37,960 --> 00:17:40,000 Speaker 2: don't be a doormat. Also, you go out with someone 355 00:17:40,119 --> 00:17:43,800 Speaker 2: once on a date twice, they're a stranger. 356 00:17:44,080 --> 00:17:45,000 Speaker 1: Please don't forget that. 357 00:17:45,560 --> 00:17:49,680 Speaker 2: I know you're picking out China wedding patterns and bridesmaid's 358 00:17:49,760 --> 00:17:52,000 Speaker 2: dresses and your veil and who you're going to pick 359 00:17:52,000 --> 00:17:53,760 Speaker 2: as your maid of honor and where the venue is 360 00:17:53,840 --> 00:17:56,159 Speaker 2: and where your vacation is going to be in what 361 00:17:56,320 --> 00:17:58,600 Speaker 2: size ring you want and is it cushion and is 362 00:17:58,600 --> 00:17:59,919 Speaker 2: it oval and is it marquee? 363 00:18:00,080 --> 00:18:02,200 Speaker 1: And is it emerald? And is it step cut? 364 00:18:02,359 --> 00:18:05,040 Speaker 2: And is it a trapezoid or is it lab grown 365 00:18:05,640 --> 00:18:10,320 Speaker 2: or is it de flawless. I know they're a fucking stranger, 366 00:18:10,760 --> 00:18:14,040 Speaker 2: So put your diaper on and stop shitting your pants 367 00:18:14,119 --> 00:18:17,480 Speaker 2: cause you don't know this person. So have no expectations, 368 00:18:17,720 --> 00:18:21,200 Speaker 2: be realistic and get back on the board or join 369 00:18:21,280 --> 00:18:25,240 Speaker 2: the core. Join the core. That's always an option. That 370 00:18:25,359 --> 00:18:31,480 Speaker 2: is always an option. Can we please discuss Kerry Washington? 371 00:18:32,720 --> 00:18:35,639 Speaker 2: Oh my god, she was on call her daddy. I 372 00:18:35,640 --> 00:18:37,320 Speaker 2: don't know when this was. It could have been ten 373 00:18:37,400 --> 00:18:39,080 Speaker 2: years old, It could have been ten seconds old. She 374 00:18:39,119 --> 00:18:41,760 Speaker 2: had long, gorgeous like her hair. I've never seen her 375 00:18:41,800 --> 00:18:44,200 Speaker 2: hair like a long, gorgeous, wavy, beautiful hair and a 376 00:18:44,280 --> 00:18:50,639 Speaker 2: jean outfit. Sitting crisscross Apple Sauce and Alex Cooper asked 377 00:18:50,640 --> 00:18:54,399 Speaker 2: her what the most sexy scene that she and Tony 378 00:18:54,960 --> 00:18:58,280 Speaker 2: Goldwin ever had? And I think she might have said 379 00:18:58,280 --> 00:19:01,760 Speaker 2: to call him, But either way, Carrie called his voice. 380 00:19:02,680 --> 00:19:05,800 Speaker 2: He was telling her what he thinks their sexiest scene was. 381 00:19:05,840 --> 00:19:07,800 Speaker 1: Now, mind you. She was telling us too. It didn't matter. 382 00:19:07,800 --> 00:19:10,359 Speaker 1: I couldn't hear anything she was saying. It didn't matter. 383 00:19:10,480 --> 00:19:10,800 Speaker 1: I didn't. 384 00:19:10,840 --> 00:19:14,520 Speaker 2: Her voice wasn't his voice. When I tell you, I 385 00:19:14,560 --> 00:19:17,199 Speaker 2: wanted to have sex with my telephone. I wanted to 386 00:19:18,040 --> 00:19:22,760 Speaker 2: go to Tony's house tell him to leave his wife. Sorry, wife, 387 00:19:22,840 --> 00:19:26,400 Speaker 2: I am not a homewrecker at all. Desperate times lead 388 00:19:26,440 --> 00:19:30,119 Speaker 2: to desperate measures. Okay, when I saw John Hamm and 389 00:19:30,600 --> 00:19:34,400 Speaker 2: saw his wife, this is unfortunate for you because you're 390 00:19:34,480 --> 00:19:40,760 Speaker 2: coming home with me. Like some people require desperate, unethical steps. 391 00:19:41,119 --> 00:19:44,720 Speaker 2: Tony Goldwyn's voice on call her Daddy, I had sex 392 00:19:44,760 --> 00:19:49,000 Speaker 2: with him. I feel like we've had a sexual encounter together. 393 00:19:49,400 --> 00:19:52,560 Speaker 2: I felt wrong listening like I felt like I was 394 00:19:52,680 --> 00:19:57,520 Speaker 2: in porn the way he told I wouldn't even botch it. 395 00:19:58,000 --> 00:19:59,720 Speaker 2: I wouldn't even all he was doing he was with 396 00:19:59,720 --> 00:20:02,440 Speaker 2: his it's on a trip to DC. Sorry to the family, 397 00:20:02,520 --> 00:20:05,199 Speaker 2: it's disrespectful at best, but all he was doing, he 398 00:20:05,240 --> 00:20:06,640 Speaker 2: was on a trip to d C with his kids, 399 00:20:06,680 --> 00:20:08,160 Speaker 2: and he just is like this scene and I'm like, 400 00:20:08,359 --> 00:20:10,199 Speaker 2: are you out of your fucking mind? 401 00:20:11,440 --> 00:20:15,040 Speaker 1: Stop? Just stop it right now? What happened? 402 00:20:15,080 --> 00:20:18,959 Speaker 2: Like, let's just do people's most sexiest voices alive? 403 00:20:19,880 --> 00:20:21,879 Speaker 1: Can like ihearder, someone. 404 00:20:21,720 --> 00:20:25,960 Speaker 2: Just do the most sexiest voices alive because Tony Goldwyn 405 00:20:26,040 --> 00:20:28,119 Speaker 2: needs to be up there. George Clooney might be up 406 00:20:28,160 --> 00:20:30,080 Speaker 2: there too. I don't know who's the other person I 407 00:20:30,160 --> 00:20:32,400 Speaker 2: just said. I wanted to have said, John Hamm, there's 408 00:20:32,400 --> 00:20:35,520 Speaker 2: a correlation, Ryan Gosling, Maybe there's a correlation. Is there 409 00:20:35,560 --> 00:20:40,439 Speaker 2: a correlation to hotness and voice? Someone weigh in? Jesus 410 00:20:40,560 --> 00:20:58,480 Speaker 2: Christ Denzel, I mean, I can't do this right now. 411 00:21:01,240 --> 00:21:03,760 Speaker 2: Tell to BEFO to do to the best of the