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Speaker 1: figure that out? But this is the answer the question

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Speaker 1: fifty one male have been dating my girlfriend Milly for

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Speaker 1: just over six months. There better not be a Bobby

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Speaker 1: Brown at the end of that name. My wife died,

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Speaker 1: My wife passed away four years ago, and this is

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Speaker 1: my longest relationship since. However, my daughter Bianca twenty one female, disapproves.

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Speaker 1: She has had a lot of issues with me and Milly,

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Speaker 1: hopefully not an age gap. But the main ones are

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Speaker 2: It is not too soon after the parent passed away.

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Speaker 2: I think that is an acceptable at all times. I

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Speaker 1: Wise, though, I think I would agree. In my defense,

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Speaker 1: Millie got into a dispute over our spare room, which

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Speaker 2: We do new music here.

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Speaker 1: I took Millie's side, my girlfriend, then she's going to

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Speaker 1: be here longer term. So Bianca sped up her plans

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Speaker 1: for forever. Maybe that's so true, true, right, that's so true? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: come on, now, last week I thought it would be

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Speaker 1: nice to treat Milly for her birthday, and she asked

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Speaker 1: a special occasion, this is for Millie's birthday. Yeah, Million,

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Speaker 1: So Millie the girlfriend is it wants to eat at

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Speaker 2: Presumably Million knows that Bianca.

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Speaker 1: Worked almost certainly, almost certainly. Diana says Milli is messy,

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Speaker 2: And also just the fact that the dad, after, as

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Speaker 1: Later, I called her and asked why she had behaved

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Speaker 1: Why did you behave like a child and not even

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Speaker 1: too busy engaging in private activities. There is literally nothing,

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Speaker 1: it's that, It's clear. There is no like misinterpretation or anything.

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Speaker 2: Wait, I'm sorry. Milly went to Bianca and told her

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Speaker 1: So literally, when OPI, her father goes to the bathroom, right, yeah,

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Speaker 1: Millie takes the opportunity, pulls Bianca over and is like,

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Speaker 2: Oh that's so icky.

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Speaker 1: That is bless you, so wicky.

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Speaker 1: That's right, she's allergic to you, Milly, So Bianca said.

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Speaker 1: I find it hard to believe Bianca OPI, because Milly

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Speaker 1: of manipulating others to get her way. Bianca then told

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Speaker 1: or me apart from at family gatherings. My family is

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Speaker 1: grieving her mother. Am I the a hole? I understand

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Speaker 1: that Bianca and Millie have their issues and Beanca misses

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Speaker 1: her mother, but Bianca was at work and I think

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Speaker 2: Oh boy, I love these.

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Speaker 1: This is all. These are just better read him literally

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Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, this is your daughter, dude. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: How could you do this the mom And it's like,

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Speaker 1: But this is crazy.

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Speaker 2: This is crazy. It doesn't even seem like Bianca's doing

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's it's I think it's really Millie's behavior. And maybe,

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Speaker 1: you know what, maybe I'll take Opi at his word

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Speaker 1: and say that maybe Bianca has had a history of

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Speaker 2: Maybe that's true.

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Speaker 1: Maybe that's true. But here's a question. Why is your

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Speaker 1: Millie and ask her this and confront her with this, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I'd be like, did you say this to my daughter?

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Speaker 2: I just want to like, you know, yeah, like conversation.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I think his first thing is to just jump

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Speaker 1: to conclusion, Oh, she's Beyoncas lying and she's like manipulating in.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't even try to ask her Like that

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Speaker 2: The immediate assumption shows that he really cares more for

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Speaker 1: Yes, and Denise asks how old are they? So Opie's

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Speaker 1: fifty one year old male, his daughter's twenty one female

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Speaker 1: I don't actually know that we know Millie's age.

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Speaker 2: We don't don't, but I am wondering if she's younger.

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Speaker 2: I think she with the high irony close to twenty one.

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Speaker 1: Dude, dude, this.

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Speaker 2: Is truly just stay up speculation.

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Speaker 1: But guys, you know what the best way to know

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Speaker 1: is by reading the next part. Opie's daughter posts the following,

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Speaker 1: Hey everyone, this is Beyonca talking after I saw the

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Speaker 1: Twitter thread made with my dad's post, and my roommate

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Speaker 1: and I am fine. What my dad says has grains

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Speaker 2: Liz Wentworth says, I bet Millie is ten years older

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Speaker 2: than Bianca. That's kind of where I was thinking. I

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Speaker 1: My mom passed away when I was seventeen, and me

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Speaker 1: and my dad were actually very close. He started dating

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Speaker 2: Oh wait, someone said that. Someone said, I I wonder

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Speaker 2: if Million oh he were friends before. Whoever said that

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Speaker 1: Oh my god? Whoever said that comment? Again? Because he's

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Speaker 1: a freaking out. That was that's an hall of fame.

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Speaker 1: I see you right there, all of fame.

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Speaker 2: I see you.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, wow, wow websie. And he was aware

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Speaker 1: I mean yes, He told her. Sorry. She told him

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Speaker 1: immediately like, yo, this is who this is. We we

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Speaker 2: That Yank is phrasing it sounds a little bit unclear

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Speaker 2: when she said emotional relationship, do you think that means

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Speaker 2: just friendship or relationship?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I wasn't even thinking about a relationship.

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Speaker 2: Just because of the wording. It could be either.

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Speaker 1: I think it is like a emotional friendship. Yeah, but

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Speaker 2: Also, Britney Jones was the one who called it.

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Speaker 1: Shout out you, Brittany, Brittany Joe to the high five

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Speaker 1: to Britney Jones, let's freaking go.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. And if there is the case, would you might

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Speaker 2: not be yes, that Bianca and Millie were in a relationship.

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Speaker 2: I think honestly could even if she was just a

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Speaker 1: Do you believe op when she said that Millie came

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Speaker 1: and like asked for the or said like you and

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Speaker 1: We still don't know her age, but she's the fact

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, agism, Wow.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry. I just got out of college.

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Speaker 1: No one was congratulations, congratulations Sophia for being agist.

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Speaker 1: You were buying friendships?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, late twenties to early like fifties.

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Speaker 1: There you go. I'd say that accounts op is voted,

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Speaker 2: I believe this might be the original opia, the original

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Speaker 1: She is playing this dad. She's playing this dad. And honestly,

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Speaker 1: We are going to read freaking more. And this next

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Speaker 2: I believe this is the original OPI again.

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Speaker 1: Yes, and we're back to the dad, the original OPI. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: If the daughter is gay, then Bianca and Millie might

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Speaker 1: Bianca does not get along with my now fiance, your

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Speaker 2: Dude, why would you your ex.

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Speaker 1: And your dad's evil fiance. Oh my god, you're evil, bro.

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Speaker 2: I think they were dating.

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Speaker 1: You could be right. Yeah, yeah, maybe like an entanglement,

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Speaker 1: Oh my goodness. Gracious Milly said that she would not

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Speaker 1: Efru came to me after dinner, said that Bianca was

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Speaker 2: I don't know what website this is. It says don't

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Speaker 2: Now red is an appropriate for similar reason, but instead

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Speaker 1: Oh the group, Yeah, yeah, sleevy toads coming in clutch.

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Speaker 2: Red means red means she slept with the bride, and

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, So she was disgusted by Millie's dress

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Speaker 1: because of it was red. Opie put like a bunch

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Speaker 1: Millie only mentioned her pregnancy because she was offered a

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Speaker 2: Cormos, you know what you could say, sorry, don't want cake.

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Speaker 1: No thanks, I'm good. Oh pee, get it through your

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Speaker 1: It only made a tiny scene, but I rushed her

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Speaker 1: the a hole? Oh?

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Speaker 2: Obviously the a hole. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 2: Milly wasn't invited, No knew she didn't feel well quote

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Speaker 1: What Yeah, Yeah, that's a great point. Why would Milly

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, the dad is so dumb.

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Speaker 1: Maybe maybe maybe he doesn't care.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like it's that there's like.

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Speaker 1: Being dumb you don't care if you hurt someone, and

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Speaker 2: This feels like he's dumb and also doesn't care about

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Speaker 1: You thought that that the dad couldn't couldn't dig it going,

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Speaker 2: But he's in creative mode.

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Speaker 1: That is a very very important detail, very suspicious. They

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Speaker 2: Explicitly she wasn't invited.

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Speaker 1: Oh you so. Bianca has only met her little sister

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Speaker 1: ex wife passed away, not lightwife, I kept her wedding ring,

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00:21:07,680 --> 00:21:10,879
Speaker 1: engagement ring, and other bits of jewelry. Put an icy

437
00:21:10,920 --> 00:21:12,520
Speaker 1: in the comments. I'm very afraid of what might happen.

438
00:21:12,840 --> 00:21:16,080
Speaker 1: Bianca immediately inherited some of the jewelry and I kept

439
00:21:16,240 --> 00:21:20,639
Speaker 1: others most important bits back, including the wedding and engagement rings,

440
00:21:20,800 --> 00:21:25,600
Speaker 1: without telling Bianca. When Millie was pregnant with Penny, I

441
00:21:25,680 --> 00:21:29,920
Speaker 1: revealed to Bianca that I had her mother's engagement ring

442
00:21:30,240 --> 00:21:33,920
Speaker 1: no and offered it to her if she would come

443
00:21:33,960 --> 00:21:36,000
Speaker 1: to the baby shower and participate in her family.

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00:21:36,000 --> 00:21:37,879
Speaker 2: Oh wait, wait, wait, okay, okay. I thought he was

445
00:21:37,880 --> 00:21:39,040
Speaker 2: going to give it to Milly.

446
00:21:39,280 --> 00:21:44,520
Speaker 1: Same but he's bribing her with it, which is, I

447
00:21:44,560 --> 00:21:48,320
Speaker 1: will say, at least not as horrid as giving it.

448
00:21:48,240 --> 00:21:53,080
Speaker 2: To one step above. But we're still in the base ring.

449
00:21:53,400 --> 00:21:58,640
Speaker 1: Honestly, we went from the basement to like there's stairs

450
00:21:58,800 --> 00:22:02,560
Speaker 1: to upstairs on one step. That's where we're standing right now.

451
00:22:02,720 --> 00:22:07,399
Speaker 1: This story is giving me terminal illness right now. I

452
00:22:07,440 --> 00:22:09,439
Speaker 1: revealed to Bianca I had her mother's engagement ring and

453
00:22:09,480 --> 00:22:10,800
Speaker 1: offered it to her if she would come to the

454
00:22:10,800 --> 00:22:13,679
Speaker 1: baby shower and she and she participate in our family.

455
00:22:13,840 --> 00:22:16,320
Speaker 1: She turned me down, refused to come to the shower,

456
00:22:16,840 --> 00:22:19,520
Speaker 1: and has never expressed any interest in her mother's other

457
00:22:19,600 --> 00:22:22,600
Speaker 1: jewelry since because she knows it's a bribe. I had

458
00:22:22,600 --> 00:22:25,480
Speaker 1: not directly told Bianca I had her mother's wedding ring,

459
00:22:25,680 --> 00:22:29,800
Speaker 1: but she also never asked, So I decided that since

460
00:22:29,880 --> 00:22:32,520
Speaker 1: Bianca had decided to turn down the promise of the

461
00:22:32,560 --> 00:22:35,640
Speaker 1: engagement ring, he wouldn't be too fussed about the other

462
00:22:35,800 --> 00:22:39,520
Speaker 1: jewelry my ex wife. The deceased wife's wedding ring was

463
00:22:39,640 --> 00:22:42,159
Speaker 1: very beautiful with a very distinctive stone, and I like

464
00:22:42,240 --> 00:22:46,760
Speaker 1: the symbolism of my former and future wives being connected.

465
00:22:46,920 --> 00:22:50,760
Speaker 1: So I asked Millie whether she would like to use

466
00:22:50,800 --> 00:22:54,480
Speaker 1: the and what do we think Millie's gonna say, ladies

467
00:22:54,520 --> 00:22:59,320
Speaker 1: and gentlemen. She was absolutely delighted as she loves the

468
00:22:59,440 --> 00:23:05,240
Speaker 1: ring and agreed. So I invited Beyonca to my wedding

469
00:23:05,280 --> 00:23:08,160
Speaker 1: and she eventually agreed. Was the promise of not being

470
00:23:08,160 --> 00:23:11,120
Speaker 1: in any family photos and not having to attend the reception.

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00:23:11,680 --> 00:23:13,960
Speaker 1: I thought this was a good compromise that would allow

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00:23:14,040 --> 00:23:17,280
Speaker 1: us to rebuild the relationship slowly. There was an argument

473
00:23:17,440 --> 00:23:21,679
Speaker 1: when Milly refused to invite Beyonca's wife as the wedding

474
00:23:21,720 --> 00:23:24,720
Speaker 1: is in a church. Maybe Milli never was in a

475
00:23:24,800 --> 00:23:26,040
Speaker 1: romantic relationship with It.

476
00:23:25,960 --> 00:23:29,840
Speaker 2: Could have been like a pining thing where Millie might

477
00:23:29,840 --> 00:23:31,520
Speaker 2: have even let her on or something.

478
00:23:31,640 --> 00:23:35,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, or maybe Millie it's it's a like self hate, yeah,

479
00:23:35,680 --> 00:23:38,359
Speaker 1: homophobia that yeah.

480
00:23:37,800 --> 00:23:39,960
Speaker 2: Well yeah, there's a lot of things. She could still

481
00:23:39,960 --> 00:23:41,719
Speaker 2: be queer and then just be like, oh, well it's

482
00:23:41,760 --> 00:23:43,639
Speaker 2: in a Caolic church, so you can't come and just

483
00:23:43,720 --> 00:23:44,480
Speaker 2: using out as it is.

484
00:23:44,600 --> 00:23:47,880
Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, but I calmed Bianca down. Milly was absolutely

485
00:23:47,880 --> 00:23:50,640
Speaker 1: delighted that Bianca agreed to come, as she really wanted

486
00:23:50,680 --> 00:23:53,280
Speaker 1: to start to build bridges and reconcile. No, she wanted

487
00:23:53,280 --> 00:23:54,639
Speaker 1: to be close to her street Kit so she can

488
00:23:54,680 --> 00:23:56,359
Speaker 1: stab her in the back of her in the back.

489
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Speaker 1: Beyonca attended the wedding and all went well into n

490
00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:02,280
Speaker 1: till it came to the exchange of the rings. As

491
00:24:02,320 --> 00:24:06,359
Speaker 1: the rings were presented, Bianca must have recognized and simply

492
00:24:06,359 --> 00:24:09,159
Speaker 1: stood up and walked out of the church. You didn't

493
00:24:09,200 --> 00:24:12,000
Speaker 1: tell her, You didn't tell her? Oh my god, Oh

494
00:24:12,080 --> 00:24:15,560
Speaker 1: she knows? Are you kidding me? Bro? We did not

495
00:24:15,600 --> 00:24:18,080
Speaker 1: realize she had left until after the ceremony, and Millie

496
00:24:18,119 --> 00:24:20,679
Speaker 1: was absolutely beside herself completely within the ceremony. She was

497
00:24:20,680 --> 00:24:23,639
Speaker 1: wasted and cried the entire night. She became extremely depressed

498
00:24:23,640 --> 00:24:26,399
Speaker 1: and does nothing relye on the sofa. What did you?

499
00:24:26,480 --> 00:24:30,000
Speaker 1: What did she suck? How do would you think that

500
00:24:30,160 --> 00:24:33,440
Speaker 1: Beanca would react when she doesn't know that the ring

501
00:24:33,600 --> 00:24:35,639
Speaker 1: was going to be given to you and sees the

502
00:24:35,760 --> 00:24:38,560
Speaker 1: ring being given to you. How how do you think

503
00:24:38,600 --> 00:24:39,280
Speaker 1: she would react?

504
00:24:39,359 --> 00:24:41,359
Speaker 2: Yeah? The fact that Ellie's like, I don't know, making

505
00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:45,360
Speaker 2: everything about herself and making her like she is in

506
00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:48,800
Speaker 2: this scenario. She is like the focus of the wedding,

507
00:24:49,320 --> 00:24:54,080
Speaker 2: but to like make Beyanca's feelings about herself.

508
00:24:53,760 --> 00:24:57,000
Speaker 1: To let that ruin the wedding night with what is

509
00:24:57,040 --> 00:25:00,479
Speaker 1: supposed to be your partner for life. Yeah, of that

510
00:25:00,520 --> 00:25:03,720
Speaker 1: one thing, obviously, I understand, like if someone walked out

511
00:25:03,720 --> 00:25:06,119
Speaker 1: for an actually legitimate reason, yes, that is very that

512
00:25:06,160 --> 00:25:08,080
Speaker 1: would make one distraught for sure.

513
00:25:08,320 --> 00:25:10,320
Speaker 2: Well, but the thing is that it feels like Milly

514
00:25:10,640 --> 00:25:14,040
Speaker 2: is trying to make Beyonca look like the bad guy,

515
00:25:14,160 --> 00:25:17,160
Speaker 2: Like she's playing up all of these emotions like, oh,

516
00:25:17,359 --> 00:25:20,520
Speaker 2: you know, this is Beyonca's fault. Look at what Beyonca

517
00:25:20,560 --> 00:25:22,320
Speaker 2: did to Milli on her wedding day.

518
00:25:22,920 --> 00:25:26,399
Speaker 1: One thousand percent, one thousand percent. I tried to contact

519
00:25:26,440 --> 00:25:29,320
Speaker 1: Beianca that night and managed to get through to her wife.

520
00:25:29,720 --> 00:25:32,600
Speaker 1: She called Milly a b word and a manipulator who

521
00:25:33,040 --> 00:25:37,159
Speaker 1: stole Beyonca's heirloom. Opie says. The dad says, that is

522
00:25:37,200 --> 00:25:40,439
Speaker 1: not true. I have since been blocked by Bianca and

523
00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:42,520
Speaker 1: her wife and this has completely ruined the memory of

524
00:25:42,560 --> 00:25:44,760
Speaker 1: our special day. I do plan to check on beyonc

525
00:25:44,760 --> 00:25:46,760
Speaker 1: as well, being at some point in the meantime. Was

526
00:25:46,800 --> 00:25:51,960
Speaker 1: I wrong? Of course, You're freaking wrong. Josephine said, she's

527
00:25:52,040 --> 00:25:56,159
Speaker 1: literally a Disney villain, Like a Disney villain doing a

528
00:25:56,359 --> 00:25:59,399
Speaker 1: like adult villain thing, like if it was rated, r

529
00:25:59,520 --> 00:26:02,880
Speaker 1: if those Thosesney films are ratedar give it to Bianca,

530
00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:05,679
Speaker 1: Like how meaningful she had She had to grieve the

531
00:26:05,720 --> 00:26:08,720
Speaker 1: loss of her mother. A pretty young I'm sorry, but

532
00:26:08,720 --> 00:26:11,000
Speaker 1: twenty one is still pretty young to lose your to

533
00:26:11,040 --> 00:26:14,320
Speaker 1: lose your mom, Oh absolutely, and like that is a

534
00:26:14,359 --> 00:26:17,919
Speaker 1: big process and what a full circle moment to commemorate

535
00:26:17,960 --> 00:26:20,800
Speaker 1: her passing than to have her daughter give the ring

536
00:26:20,840 --> 00:26:22,840
Speaker 1: to the love of her life. Yeah, you know what

537
00:26:22,880 --> 00:26:25,280
Speaker 1: I mean that that would have been beautiful.

538
00:26:25,080 --> 00:26:27,240
Speaker 2: And for him to say, oh, well, she said she

539
00:26:27,240 --> 00:26:29,920
Speaker 2: didn't want it. No, she didn't want the strings attached

540
00:26:29,960 --> 00:26:30,159
Speaker 2: with it.

541
00:26:30,400 --> 00:26:33,640
Speaker 1: Yes, yes she didn't. She didn't want you to have

542
00:26:33,800 --> 00:26:36,920
Speaker 1: any more control over her and be able to use

543
00:26:36,960 --> 00:26:39,840
Speaker 1: it as leverage. She she made a very I bet

544
00:26:39,880 --> 00:26:43,440
Speaker 1: you she probably really wanted that ring. Yeah, but she

545
00:26:43,440 --> 00:26:45,680
Speaker 1: she was like, I do not want exactly said the

546
00:26:46,200 --> 00:26:48,840
Speaker 1: emotional strings attached. Oh oh, I'm sorry. The daughter was

547
00:26:48,840 --> 00:26:51,600
Speaker 1: only seventeen when her mom passed. Thank you, Hannah, Thank

548
00:26:51,600 --> 00:26:52,320
Speaker 1: you Hannah.

549
00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:56,960
Speaker 2: Hanh Yeah, yeah, yeah, she's twenty one, she's twenty Yeah,

550
00:26:57,000 --> 00:26:59,480
Speaker 2: she's like twenty four now yeah, twenty three tour.

551
00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:04,080
Speaker 1: Oh my god, dude, oh yeah, you are so like

552
00:27:04,119 --> 00:27:08,160
Speaker 1: And honestly, the dad went from being we were like, Okay,

553
00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:10,360
Speaker 1: he's just like stupid and doesn't know what he's doing.

554
00:27:10,359 --> 00:27:14,080
Speaker 1: He's an idiot too, you don't care, you're not being

555
00:27:14,119 --> 00:27:18,080
Speaker 1: intentional or whatever. But now I think he's intentionally trying

556
00:27:18,080 --> 00:27:21,560
Speaker 1: to hurt her and being sneaky about it. The next

557
00:27:21,640 --> 00:27:24,359
Speaker 1: level above. Yes, so he's like, he's like, oh, I

558
00:27:24,520 --> 00:27:26,479
Speaker 1: tried to give for the ring. I wanted her to

559
00:27:26,520 --> 00:27:28,199
Speaker 1: have it, you know, I offered it to her if

560
00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:29,680
Speaker 1: she would come to the bridal part and you just

561
00:27:29,720 --> 00:27:31,399
Speaker 1: you know, be a part of the family. It's like, no,

562
00:27:31,520 --> 00:27:34,080
Speaker 1: you were you were using that as a manipulation tactic.

563
00:27:34,480 --> 00:27:37,400
Speaker 1: You're the manipulator. Yeah, it zero manipulating.

564
00:27:37,560 --> 00:27:40,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I was just saying. Also, Sam likes to say, like,

565
00:27:40,720 --> 00:27:43,320
Speaker 2: how do people write out this entire thing and then

566
00:27:43,359 --> 00:27:44,840
Speaker 2: still think they're in the right.

567
00:27:45,160 --> 00:27:47,800
Speaker 1: Yes, this is very true for this Guyane write all

568
00:27:47,840 --> 00:27:50,400
Speaker 1: this out and Bro has had multiple updates, He has

569
00:27:50,520 --> 00:27:54,560
Speaker 1: multiple updates. He has seen the responses of people, and

570
00:27:54,600 --> 00:27:57,680
Speaker 1: he still persists and oh but Milly, I will say,

571
00:27:57,680 --> 00:27:59,959
Speaker 1: Millie is definitely the evil imprint.

572
00:28:00,240 --> 00:28:03,159
Speaker 2: Op is the I feel like he's the real villain

573
00:28:03,200 --> 00:28:06,800
Speaker 2: of this story because he's tied to be Like to Bianca,

574
00:28:07,000 --> 00:28:10,639
Speaker 2: Milli is so obviously the villain. Yes, yeah, she's like

575
00:28:10,680 --> 00:28:13,199
Speaker 2: the ahole, we know it. But the dad because he

576
00:28:13,240 --> 00:28:14,280
Speaker 2: has that relationship.

577
00:28:14,480 --> 00:28:16,919
Speaker 1: Yeah, nahka, it hurts so much more. Yeah, he support like,

578
00:28:17,040 --> 00:28:19,800
Speaker 1: this is your father who should be consoling you and

579
00:28:19,840 --> 00:28:22,000
Speaker 1: helping you through this grieving process which is probably I

580
00:28:22,040 --> 00:28:26,000
Speaker 1: mean lifelong for sure. And you know your your child

581
00:28:26,560 --> 00:28:28,479
Speaker 1: had to go through the loss of their mother at

582
00:28:28,520 --> 00:28:32,480
Speaker 1: seventeen years old. Ye, very hard thing to do, very challenging.

583
00:28:32,960 --> 00:28:35,359
Speaker 1: Bianca didn't. She said she didn't have a problem with

584
00:28:35,440 --> 00:28:38,800
Speaker 1: him dating. It was literally only when Millie came in

585
00:28:38,800 --> 00:28:39,160
Speaker 1: the picture.

586
00:28:39,200 --> 00:28:41,920
Speaker 2: And also she said you can date Milly, just.

587
00:28:41,920 --> 00:28:45,600
Speaker 1: Like she did not want him to date her. Initially yes,

588
00:28:45,880 --> 00:28:49,360
Speaker 1: but like then she was like okay, she ultimately agree. Yeah, yes, wow,

589
00:28:49,400 --> 00:28:52,560
Speaker 1: what a story. Great, great story, find Sophia. There we

590
00:28:52,640 --> 00:28:53,960
Speaker 1: have it. That concludes a story.

591
00:28:54,000 --> 00:28:55,840
Speaker 2: But this she ain't over