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Speaker 1: second date update. Here's a question for everybody in the room.
Speaker 1: Is it creepy to go take pictures of girls and
Speaker 1: then ask them out on a date? Yes? How are
Speaker 1: you even asking that? Maybe there's still maybe involved. I
Speaker 1: think that's a great way to do it. And that's
Speaker 1: how John, who's on the phone for a second date
Speaker 1: update today, got his date just taking some pictures and
Speaker 1: then asked the girl out and she said, yes, John,
Speaker 1: I think you and I need to hang out occasionally.
Speaker 1: Seems like our dating styles are similar. Well, hold on,
Speaker 1: you're making me sound as creepy as you are, and
Speaker 1: that's not how this is at all. What are you
Speaker 1: talking about? Your email said that you were taking some
Speaker 1: pictures and then you asked the girl out on a date. Right,
Speaker 1: But you're doing it probably in a trench coat, sitting
Speaker 1: in the corner on your phone. I'm a professional wedding photographer. Whatever, Tomato, Tomato,
Speaker 1: it's your job. Who cares it's a little bit different.
Speaker 1: You were still taking pictures of her and asked her out.
Speaker 1: I hope it wasn't the bride. No, no, no, no no,
Speaker 1: it is one of the bridesmaid. Okay, that's actually I
Speaker 1: mean thinking about it. So you're a wedding photographer and
Speaker 1: the girl that you want to call today, that's where
Speaker 1: you met her was at one of the weddings that
Speaker 1: you were shooting exactly. Okay, that's actually a good job
Speaker 1: because they're there taking pictures a lot of single girls,
Speaker 1: a lot of sad girls because they're not getting married,
Speaker 1: perfect opportunity to pounce. I have dated a lot of photographers,
Speaker 1: and there is something sexy about a man with a
Speaker 1: camera in his hand. Well, first of all, thank you,
Speaker 1: but I have never done this before. It's never happened.
Speaker 1: Like I mean, I try and be professional when I
Speaker 1: do it, but this one was just kind of different. Okay,
Speaker 1: what was different about her? She was just so cool.
Speaker 1: Her name was Casey, And like I said, I always
Speaker 1: try and be professional. But while the family was trying
Speaker 1: to figure out what picture they wanted next, and they
Speaker 1: were trying to get one of the grandparents and and
Speaker 1: you know, getting everybody together. She and I were just
Speaker 1: kind of chatting and I wasn't hitting on her. We
Speaker 1: were just kind of talking about things and she was
Speaker 1: just really really fun. So when did you ask her
Speaker 1: out at the end of the wedding or Yeah, it
Speaker 1: was at that very end. But the thing is, like
Speaker 1: I was packing up my equipment, everything was kind of
Speaker 1: shutting down, and she came over to say goodbye, and
Speaker 1: since she approached me, I kind of took a deep
Speaker 1: breath and I said, I don't know if this is
Speaker 1: okay or you know, appropriate, but I would I would
Speaker 1: really love to grab dinner with you. And she said definitely,
Speaker 1: and we exchanged phone numbers and it seemed great. It
Speaker 1: turns out that it's actually just a big ploy for
Speaker 1: the bride to get a discount on her photos. How
Speaker 1: did dinner go, Well, that's that's the issue. So we
Speaker 1: talked about it that night, kind of said how about
Speaker 1: next Saturday? And she said sure, and I said, I'll
Speaker 1: text you a time and a place. So you actually
Speaker 1: made plans to meet up at the wedding. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean we picked the day. We just didn't picked
Speaker 1: the place because I didn't know where I was going
Speaker 1: to be coming from I had some stuff to do
Speaker 1: during the day, but I texted her on Friday and said, Hey,
Speaker 1: this restaurant at this time, I can't wait to see you.
Speaker 1: And the thing is, she didn't text back, but I
Speaker 1: thought maybe she was busy or doing something. So I
Speaker 1: actually went to the restaurant the next day and she
Speaker 1: never showed up. Okay, so she stood you up? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Did you were you guys texting beforehand at all? Or
Speaker 1: you just were waiting acause I was just trying to
Speaker 1: be like casual about it, and I didn't want to
Speaker 1: start all this stuff like a high school girl and
Speaker 1: be like, hey, what are you thinking about? Yeah? I
Speaker 1: thought I'd wait till Saturday and I can go from there. Okay.
Speaker 1: And when she didn't show up to the restaurant, did
Speaker 1: you try to get ahold of her then? Like, hey,
Speaker 1: I thought we made plans. Well, no, because I didn't
Speaker 1: want her to ask me if I actually showed up. Oh,
Speaker 1: so you didn't want her to know that you showed
Speaker 1: up and waited for her like a little puppy dog. Exactly.
Speaker 1: Have you tried to contact her at all since then? No? Nothing, No,
Speaker 1: Because like I said, if I like, I don't know
Speaker 1: how to lead in with anything other than hey, what
Speaker 1: happened on Saturday? Are you sure you how to date
Speaker 1: with her? Yeah, I'm positive. I am positive. We exchange
Speaker 1: numbers and we definitely had plans. She said she would
Speaker 1: meet me there. I mean by the end of the wedding.
Speaker 1: I've been a bridesmaid many times. I wouldn't have ever
Speaker 1: called myself sober at the end of the night. Was
Speaker 1: she just maybe too wasted and she didn't remember. I
Speaker 1: don't think so, because I even thought about that. But she,
Speaker 1: I mean, she seems fine. There were some other people
Speaker 1: there that didn't seem fine. I think she was okay.
Speaker 1: For her to approach you at the end of the
Speaker 1: wedding and then start up a conversation sounds like she
Speaker 1: actually liked you. It's weird that she's just blowing you
Speaker 1: off and it hasn't said anything to you at all, exactly.
Speaker 1: That's what I don't understand. Okay, So is it going
Speaker 1: to be strange when we call her? Are you gonna
Speaker 1: want to admit that you waited at the restaurant? Um?
Speaker 1: Is it going to be strange? Absolutely? But I listen
Speaker 1: to you guys all the time, and I'm like, you
Speaker 1: know a lot. If it's gonna be weird, I'm at
Speaker 1: least going to let my friends help me out. Yeah,
Speaker 1: if it's gonna be weird, you might as well do
Speaker 1: it here. It can't be weirder than some of the
Speaker 1: stuff that we've heard. All right, well, we're gonna play
Speaker 1: a song, but if I can request, I think Brooke
Speaker 1: should do most of the talking because it'll be a
Speaker 1: lot more smooth that way. Fans, I'm just saying, all right,
Speaker 1: we're gonna play a song. Come back, call her and
Speaker 1: get your second date update. Okay, thanks so much. All right,
Speaker 1: hang on rooking Jubil in the morning if you're just
Speaker 1: joining us for the second date update. John is on
Speaker 1: the phone. He's a wedding photographer. I was taking some
Speaker 1: pictures at a wedding ended up striking up a conversation
Speaker 1: with a beautiful young bridesmaid named Casey. They agreed to
Speaker 1: go out the next week, and then the right before
Speaker 1: he was like, hey, we're still meeting up at the restaurant.
Speaker 1: Didn't hear anything back, so he actually decided to show
Speaker 1: up to the restaurant that they agreed to go to,
Speaker 1: and she never showed hasn't heard anything from her since. Hey, John, Hey,
Speaker 1: while I got you on the phone real quick, I
Speaker 1: want to book you for a gig. I'm gonna be
Speaker 1: doing a shoot in my bedroom at around three o'clock
Speaker 1: this afternoon. I want to see if you got to
Speaker 1: come take pictures of that. You probably do that kind
Speaker 1: of work all the time, right, not for people like you.
Speaker 1: You know, even photographers have to have standards. It'll be great.
Speaker 1: It'll be just me and you, and then I'll pay
Speaker 1: you by the minutecause I'm not gonna trew long. It's
Speaker 1: gonna take me all right, man, We're about to call Casey.
Speaker 1: You ready, any last thoughts before we dollar phone? Umber?
Speaker 1: Oh no, I'm just I'm just nervous. I mean, this
Speaker 1: is the first time you've ever hit on somebody at
Speaker 1: a wedding. Yeah, yeah, all right, here we go, doll
Speaker 1: the phone of right now. Well, hi' is Casey there.
Speaker 1: This is Casey. Hey, Casey, how are you. This is
Speaker 1: Jewil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning from the radio. Yes, sir,
Speaker 1: from the radio. How you doing? No, one's not Yes,
Speaker 1: that's Jose laughing over there. This is me. Oh it's weird, okay, Hi,
Speaker 1: You're the one that made it weird by not believing
Speaker 1: it was me. Any idea why I'm calling you not
Speaker 1: a clue? You recently scheduled a date with a guy
Speaker 1: named John who you met at your friend's wedding. He
Speaker 1: was taking pictures of it. Uh yeah, yeah. John emailed
Speaker 1: us and told us all about meeting. You said, you
Speaker 1: guys had a date scheduled for a Saturday at a restaurant,
Speaker 1: and you never showed up. Oh my god, m is
Speaker 1: there any particular reason why you blew him off? It
Speaker 1: just wasn't what I thought. Well, how do you know
Speaker 1: the date wasn't what you thought? If you didn't go
Speaker 1: not to date so much as the situation thought? Do
Speaker 1: you mean like he wasn't even paid to be a
Speaker 1: photographer at your friend's wedding? He was just some creepers
Speaker 1: showed up taking pictures? What? No, Like he wasn't he
Speaker 1: was a photographer yet? Oh damn, I had made that
Speaker 1: up in my head. I was gonna be so much better. No,
Speaker 1: he was the photographer at my friend's wedding. Yet did
Speaker 1: you not understand that he was like hitting on you
Speaker 1: and it was going to be a date. No? He
Speaker 1: did ask me out, and I did say, yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: so you wanted to go out with him? I did.
Speaker 1: It's a time, yes, what happened between you guys agreeing
Speaker 1: to go out and then the actual day for your
Speaker 1: guys date. So after he asked me out, I was
Speaker 1: telling that you of my friends at the wedding that
Speaker 1: the photographer had asked me out, yeah, and that I
Speaker 1: had said that I would go. And one of the
Speaker 1: bridesmaids said, are you serious because he asked me out too?
Speaker 1: Shut up? So he asked he asked one of the
Speaker 1: other bridesmaids out as well. Yeah, So did you get
Speaker 1: the vibe that he was just that's what he does,
Speaker 1: takes pictures and asks girls out. Well, that's what I
Speaker 1: was wondering at that point. And I mean, like, if
Speaker 1: if he's, you know, a photographer at weddings all the time,
Speaker 1: is this just what he does? Did your friend go
Speaker 1: out with him? I actually don't know what happened with him.
Speaker 1: As soon as she told me that he had asked
Speaker 1: her out, I got a weird vibe and I was
Speaker 1: just I was done. So so he's just running around
Speaker 1: the wedding asking every girl who possibly can out on
Speaker 1: a date. I mean, that's what it seems like. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we talked to him about meeting you, and he said
Speaker 1: that he never hits on girls at weddings. He made
Speaker 1: it a point to say that, Yeah, well he's obviously
Speaker 1: a liar. Are you sure this girl's telling you the truth?
Speaker 1: I don't think that you would have any reason to why. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I think she was telling the truth. So I just
Speaker 1: I didn't want to go out with him after that
Speaker 1: because it's just kind of that's creepy. Yeah, i'd understand
Speaker 1: that that turned me off too. So you didn't show
Speaker 1: up for your date because you feel like John was
Speaker 1: a creep Yeah? Perfect. This is when I should tell
Speaker 1: you that John the creepy photographer guy is actually on
Speaker 1: the other line listening to this conversation. Are you serious? Yes?
Speaker 1: I am? Hold on, hold on. I wanted to try
Speaker 1: and jump in when I heard you say I was
Speaker 1: talking to another bribes maid, Like I don't know if
Speaker 1: my phone wasn't on or whatever, but like, I don't
Speaker 1: know what you're talking about. I didn't ask anybody else out.
Speaker 1: Why would someone make that up? Then? Why would someone
Speaker 1: tell me that I have no idea? I have no idea.
Speaker 1: I didn't even talk to that many people like you,
Speaker 1: said another one of the bridesmaids. Yeah, Allison. Is she
Speaker 1: the one that says she's a waitress? Yes, Okay, listen.
Speaker 1: She said where she worked, and I said, oh, I said,
Speaker 1: I've heard of that place, and that's all I said.
Speaker 1: I don't know if she thinks that means a date.
Speaker 1: I was just making small talk because I'm at a
Speaker 1: wedding for three hours. Are you light? Are you being
Speaker 1: serious right now? John? No, I promise you, I promise you.
Speaker 1: It was just conversation. You know, we're just standing there.
Speaker 1: You know, why would she say specifically that you asked
Speaker 1: her out like I know her, like she doesn't like
Speaker 1: misunderstand things like that. Okay, if the only thing I
Speaker 1: can think of is this, I said, if I go there,
Speaker 1: I can have a drink. But I did not say
Speaker 1: we will have a drink, like we implies that we
Speaker 1: will be together. Sometimes it's dad and I bring by myself. Casey,
Speaker 1: Let me ask you this, your friend. Is she There
Speaker 1: are girls like this? There are guys like this too,
Speaker 1: that whenever somebody in the opposite sex talks to them
Speaker 1: and ask him anything about what they do. They're like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, he's hitting on me. Is she one
Speaker 1: of those type of girls? Or is John a purbet?
Speaker 1: She's not so Jo? Do you have her phone number? Like?
Speaker 1: Could you call the Alison girl right now? No? I
Speaker 1: don't even I don't know her last name. Honestly, I
Speaker 1: didn't even remember who she was until you said her name.
Speaker 1: Do you believe in Casey? I don't know. I but
Speaker 1: I don't know when we were talking. Did I have
Speaker 1: a good time when we were talking? Yeah? Yes, sure,
Speaker 1: it was a nice conversation. Of course, I wouldn't have
Speaker 1: say yes to the date if I didn't have a
Speaker 1: good time when we were talking. Did all the other
Speaker 1: girls that you were talking to have a good time? To? John?
Speaker 1: Exactly right? Didn't I say? Didn't? I say? Brook was
Speaker 1: supposed to do all the things, Casey, would you like
Speaker 1: to go on a second date with John? We will
Speaker 1: pay for it. I think I want to check in
Speaker 1: with Alison and talk to her about this before I
Speaker 1: say yes. I think that's a bad idea. John, Are
Speaker 1: you okay with that? If Casey checks in with her
Speaker 1: friend to make sure that you're not being a pervert? Um,
Speaker 1: I'm not okay with you calling me a perf again
Speaker 1: and again. I think I'm okay with her talking to Alison.
Speaker 1: I just hope Alison like like it's honest with her
Speaker 1: and and you know, remembers, the truth remembers. So you're
Speaker 1: already setting it up to call Alison a liar. Yeah,
Speaker 1: realize that, john No, I just like I said, I mean,
Speaker 1: people at wedding reception. Wedding receptions drink, and I think
Speaker 1: she might have saw something that wasn't there. But like
Speaker 1: I said, now, it sounds like you're backpedalings. It sounds
Speaker 1: like you're backpedaling so hard, like if she tells the
Speaker 1: truth number, I don't have her phone number, like I didn't,
Speaker 1: I didn't try and like established more communication. That's where
Speaker 1: I'm at. Okay, Okay, that's a no for men. It
Speaker 1: sounds like you're trying to cover up a lie or
Speaker 1: do you try to like, you know, cover your ass.
Speaker 1: I mean like it's no, it's a no. Oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: Johnny just talked yourself out of a day. Yeah, what happened, buddy, Casey?
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, if we sat and talked, we would
Speaker 1: have a good time. And I felt something when we
Speaker 1: were talking before, and I promise you I would love
Speaker 1: to get to know you better and not anyone else.
Speaker 1: But I really don't think you need to talk to
Speaker 1: Alison about it. Yeah, of course, not because you asked
Speaker 1: Allison out. Oh my gosh, own it, John, No, it's
Speaker 1: it's not that I'm telling you. I think she saw
Speaker 1: what she wanted to see and it just wasn't there. Yeah, sure, John,
Speaker 1: wasn't there because she said no when you asked her out.
Speaker 1: She didn't say no, so she said yes, John. No,
Speaker 1: she didn't say anything. There was no question, no question
Speaker 1: at all. In the morning,