WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: The Wedding Photographer

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<v Speaker 1>second date update. Here's a question for everybody in the room.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it creepy to go take pictures of girls and

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<v Speaker 1>then ask them out on a date? Yes? How are

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<v Speaker 1>you even asking that? Maybe there's still maybe involved. I

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<v Speaker 1>think that's a great way to do it. And that's

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<v Speaker 1>how John, who's on the phone for a second date

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<v Speaker 1>update today, got his date just taking some pictures and

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<v Speaker 1>then asked the girl out and she said, yes, John,

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<v Speaker 1>I think you and I need to hang out occasionally.

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<v Speaker 1>Seems like our dating styles are similar. Well, hold on,

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<v Speaker 1>you're making me sound as creepy as you are, and

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<v Speaker 1>that's not how this is at all. What are you

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<v Speaker 1>talking about? Your email said that you were taking some

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<v Speaker 1>pictures and then you asked the girl out on a date. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>But you're doing it probably in a trench coat, sitting

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<v Speaker 1>in the corner on your phone. I'm a professional wedding photographer. Whatever, Tomato, Tomato,

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<v Speaker 1>it's your job. Who cares it's a little bit different.

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<v Speaker 1>You were still taking pictures of her and asked her out.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope it wasn't the bride. No, no, no, no no,

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<v Speaker 1>it is one of the bridesmaid. Okay, that's actually I

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<v Speaker 1>mean thinking about it. So you're a wedding photographer and

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<v Speaker 1>the girl that you want to call today, that's where

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<v Speaker 1>you met her was at one of the weddings that

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<v Speaker 1>you were shooting exactly. Okay, that's actually a good job

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<v Speaker 1>because they're there taking pictures a lot of single girls,

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of sad girls because they're not getting married,

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<v Speaker 1>perfect opportunity to pounce. I have dated a lot of photographers,

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<v Speaker 1>and there is something sexy about a man with a

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<v Speaker 1>camera in his hand. Well, first of all, thank you,

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<v Speaker 1>but I have never done this before. It's never happened.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I mean, I try and be professional when I

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<v Speaker 1>do it, but this one was just kind of different. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>what was different about her? She was just so cool.

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<v Speaker 1>Her name was Casey, And like I said, I always

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<v Speaker 1>try and be professional. But while the family was trying

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<v Speaker 1>to figure out what picture they wanted next, and they

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<v Speaker 1>were trying to get one of the grandparents and and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, getting everybody together. She and I were just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of chatting and I wasn't hitting on her. We

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<v Speaker 1>were just kind of talking about things and she was

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<v Speaker 1>just really really fun. So when did you ask her

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<v Speaker 1>out at the end of the wedding or Yeah, it

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<v Speaker 1>was at that very end. But the thing is, like

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<v Speaker 1>I was packing up my equipment, everything was kind of

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<v Speaker 1>shutting down, and she came over to say goodbye, and

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<v Speaker 1>since she approached me, I kind of took a deep

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<v Speaker 1>breath and I said, I don't know if this is

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<v Speaker 1>okay or you know, appropriate, but I would I would

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<v Speaker 1>really love to grab dinner with you. And she said definitely,

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<v Speaker 1>and we exchanged phone numbers and it seemed great. It

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<v Speaker 1>turns out that it's actually just a big ploy for

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<v Speaker 1>the bride to get a discount on her photos. How

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<v Speaker 1>did dinner go, Well, that's that's the issue. So we

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<v Speaker 1>talked about it that night, kind of said how about

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<v Speaker 1>next Saturday? And she said sure, and I said, I'll

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<v Speaker 1>text you a time and a place. So you actually

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<v Speaker 1>made plans to meet up at the wedding. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean we picked the day. We just didn't picked

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<v Speaker 1>the place because I didn't know where I was going

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<v Speaker 1>to be coming from I had some stuff to do

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<v Speaker 1>during the day, but I texted her on Friday and said, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>this restaurant at this time, I can't wait to see you.

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<v Speaker 1>And the thing is, she didn't text back, but I

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<v Speaker 1>thought maybe she was busy or doing something. So I

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<v Speaker 1>actually went to the restaurant the next day and she

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<v Speaker 1>never showed up. Okay, so she stood you up? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you were you guys texting beforehand at all? Or

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<v Speaker 1>you just were waiting acause I was just trying to

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<v Speaker 1>be like casual about it, and I didn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>start all this stuff like a high school girl and

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<v Speaker 1>be like, hey, what are you thinking about? Yeah? I

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<v Speaker 1>thought I'd wait till Saturday and I can go from there. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>And when she didn't show up to the restaurant, did

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<v Speaker 1>you try to get ahold of her then? Like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I thought we made plans. Well, no, because I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>want her to ask me if I actually showed up. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>so you didn't want her to know that you showed

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<v Speaker 1>up and waited for her like a little puppy dog. Exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you tried to contact her at all since then? No? Nothing, No,

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<v Speaker 1>Because like I said, if I like, I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>how to lead in with anything other than hey, what

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<v Speaker 1>happened on Saturday? Are you sure you how to date

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<v Speaker 1>with her? Yeah, I'm positive. I am positive. We exchange

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<v Speaker 1>numbers and we definitely had plans. She said she would

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<v Speaker 1>meet me there. I mean by the end of the wedding.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been a bridesmaid many times. I wouldn't have ever

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<v Speaker 1>called myself sober at the end of the night. Was

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<v Speaker 1>she just maybe too wasted and she didn't remember. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think so, because I even thought about that. But she,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, she seems fine. There were some other people

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<v Speaker 1>there that didn't seem fine. I think she was okay.

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<v Speaker 1>For her to approach you at the end of the

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<v Speaker 1>wedding and then start up a conversation sounds like she

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<v Speaker 1>actually liked you. It's weird that she's just blowing you

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<v Speaker 1>off and it hasn't said anything to you at all, exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I don't understand. Okay, So is it going

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<v Speaker 1>to be strange when we call her? Are you gonna

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<v Speaker 1>want to admit that you waited at the restaurant? Um?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it going to be strange? Absolutely? But I listen

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<v Speaker 1>to you guys all the time, and I'm like, you

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<v Speaker 1>know a lot. If it's gonna be weird, I'm at

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<v Speaker 1>least going to let my friends help me out. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>if it's gonna be weird, you might as well do

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<v Speaker 1>it here. It can't be weirder than some of the

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<v Speaker 1>stuff that we've heard. All right, well, we're gonna play

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<v Speaker 1>a song, but if I can request, I think Brooke

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<v Speaker 1>should do most of the talking because it'll be a

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<v Speaker 1>lot more smooth that way. Fans, I'm just saying, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna play a song. Come back, call her and

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<v Speaker 1>get your second date update. Okay, thanks so much. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>hang on rooking Jubil in the morning if you're just

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<v Speaker 1>joining us for the second date update. John is on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone. He's a wedding photographer. I was taking some

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<v Speaker 1>pictures at a wedding ended up striking up a conversation

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<v Speaker 1>with a beautiful young bridesmaid named Casey. They agreed to

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<v Speaker 1>go out the next week, and then the right before

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<v Speaker 1>he was like, hey, we're still meeting up at the restaurant.

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<v Speaker 1>Didn't hear anything back, so he actually decided to show

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<v Speaker 1>up to the restaurant that they agreed to go to,

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<v Speaker 1>and she never showed hasn't heard anything from her since. Hey, John, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>while I got you on the phone real quick, I

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<v Speaker 1>want to book you for a gig. I'm gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>doing a shoot in my bedroom at around three o'clock

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<v Speaker 1>this afternoon. I want to see if you got to

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<v Speaker 1>come take pictures of that. You probably do that kind

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<v Speaker 1>of work all the time, right, not for people like you.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, even photographers have to have standards. It'll be great.

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<v Speaker 1>It'll be just me and you, and then I'll pay

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<v Speaker 1>you by the minutecause I'm not gonna trew long. It's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna take me all right, man, We're about to call Casey.

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<v Speaker 1>You ready, any last thoughts before we dollar phone? Umber?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, I'm just I'm just nervous. I mean, this

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<v Speaker 1>is the first time you've ever hit on somebody at

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<v Speaker 1>a wedding. Yeah, yeah, all right, here we go, doll

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<v Speaker 1>the phone of right now. Well, hi' is Casey there.

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<v Speaker 1>This is Casey. Hey, Casey, how are you. This is

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<v Speaker 1>Jewil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning from the radio. Yes, sir,

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<v Speaker 1>from the radio. How you doing? No, one's not Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>that's Jose laughing over there. This is me. Oh it's weird, okay, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>You're the one that made it weird by not believing

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<v Speaker 1>it was me. Any idea why I'm calling you not

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<v Speaker 1>a clue? You recently scheduled a date with a guy

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<v Speaker 1>named John who you met at your friend's wedding. He

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<v Speaker 1>was taking pictures of it. Uh yeah, yeah. John emailed

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<v Speaker 1>us and told us all about meeting. You said, you

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<v Speaker 1>guys had a date scheduled for a Saturday at a restaurant,

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<v Speaker 1>and you never showed up. Oh my god, m is

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<v Speaker 1>there any particular reason why you blew him off? It

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<v Speaker 1>just wasn't what I thought. Well, how do you know

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<v Speaker 1>the date wasn't what you thought? If you didn't go

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<v Speaker 1>not to date so much as the situation thought? Do

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<v Speaker 1>you mean like he wasn't even paid to be a

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<v Speaker 1>photographer at your friend's wedding? He was just some creepers

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<v Speaker 1>showed up taking pictures? What? No, Like he wasn't he

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<v Speaker 1>was a photographer yet? Oh damn, I had made that

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<v Speaker 1>up in my head. I was gonna be so much better. No,

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<v Speaker 1>he was the photographer at my friend's wedding. Yet did

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<v Speaker 1>you not understand that he was like hitting on you

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<v Speaker 1>and it was going to be a date. No? He

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<v Speaker 1>did ask me out, and I did say, yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so you wanted to go out with him? I did.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a time, yes, what happened between you guys agreeing

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<v Speaker 1>to go out and then the actual day for your

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<v Speaker 1>guys date. So after he asked me out, I was

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<v Speaker 1>telling that you of my friends at the wedding that

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<v Speaker 1>the photographer had asked me out, yeah, and that I

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<v Speaker 1>had said that I would go. And one of the

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<v Speaker 1>bridesmaids said, are you serious because he asked me out too?

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<v Speaker 1>Shut up? So he asked he asked one of the

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<v Speaker 1>other bridesmaids out as well. Yeah, So did you get

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<v Speaker 1>the vibe that he was just that's what he does,

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<v Speaker 1>takes pictures and asks girls out. Well, that's what I

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<v Speaker 1>was wondering at that point. And I mean, like, if

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<v Speaker 1>if he's, you know, a photographer at weddings all the time,

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<v Speaker 1>is this just what he does? Did your friend go

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<v Speaker 1>out with him? I actually don't know what happened with him.

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<v Speaker 1>As soon as she told me that he had asked

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<v Speaker 1>her out, I got a weird vibe and I was

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<v Speaker 1>just I was done. So so he's just running around

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<v Speaker 1>the wedding asking every girl who possibly can out on

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<v Speaker 1>a date. I mean, that's what it seems like. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we talked to him about meeting you, and he said

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<v Speaker 1>that he never hits on girls at weddings. He made

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<v Speaker 1>it a point to say that, Yeah, well he's obviously

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<v Speaker 1>a liar. Are you sure this girl's telling you the truth?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think that you would have any reason to why. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think she was telling the truth. So I just

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't want to go out with him after that

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<v Speaker 1>because it's just kind of that's creepy. Yeah, i'd understand

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<v Speaker 1>that that turned me off too. So you didn't show

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<v Speaker 1>up for your date because you feel like John was

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<v Speaker 1>a creep Yeah? Perfect. This is when I should tell

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<v Speaker 1>you that John the creepy photographer guy is actually on

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<v Speaker 1>the other line listening to this conversation. Are you serious? Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>I am? Hold on, hold on. I wanted to try

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<v Speaker 1>and jump in when I heard you say I was

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<v Speaker 1>talking to another bribes maid, Like I don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>my phone wasn't on or whatever, but like, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what you're talking about. I didn't ask anybody else out.

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<v Speaker 1>Why would someone make that up? Then? Why would someone

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<v Speaker 1>tell me that I have no idea? I have no idea.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't even talk to that many people like you,

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<v Speaker 1>said another one of the bridesmaids. Yeah, Allison. Is she

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<v Speaker 1>the one that says she's a waitress? Yes, Okay, listen.

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<v Speaker 1>She said where she worked, and I said, oh, I said,

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<v Speaker 1>I've heard of that place, and that's all I said.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if she thinks that means a date.

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<v Speaker 1>I was just making small talk because I'm at a

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<v Speaker 1>wedding for three hours. Are you light? Are you being

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<v Speaker 1>serious right now? John? No, I promise you, I promise you.

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<v Speaker 1>It was just conversation. You know, we're just standing there.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, why would she say specifically that you asked

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<v Speaker 1>her out like I know her, like she doesn't like

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<v Speaker 1>misunderstand things like that. Okay, if the only thing I

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<v Speaker 1>can think of is this, I said, if I go there,

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<v Speaker 1>I can have a drink. But I did not say

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<v Speaker 1>we will have a drink, like we implies that we

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<v Speaker 1>will be together. Sometimes it's dad and I bring by myself. Casey,

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<v Speaker 1>Let me ask you this, your friend. Is she There

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<v Speaker 1>are girls like this? There are guys like this too,

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<v Speaker 1>that whenever somebody in the opposite sex talks to them

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<v Speaker 1>and ask him anything about what they do. They're like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, he's hitting on me. Is she one

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<v Speaker 1>of those type of girls? Or is John a purbet?

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<v Speaker 1>She's not so Jo? Do you have her phone number? Like?

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<v Speaker 1>Could you call the Alison girl right now? No? I

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<v Speaker 1>don't even I don't know her last name. Honestly, I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't even remember who she was until you said her name.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you believe in Casey? I don't know. I but

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know when we were talking. Did I have

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<v Speaker 1>a good time when we were talking? Yeah? Yes, sure,

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<v Speaker 1>it was a nice conversation. Of course, I wouldn't have

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<v Speaker 1>say yes to the date if I didn't have a

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<v Speaker 1>good time when we were talking. Did all the other

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<v Speaker 1>girls that you were talking to have a good time? To? John?

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<v Speaker 1>Exactly right? Didn't I say? Didn't? I say? Brook was

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to do all the things, Casey, would you like

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<v Speaker 1>to go on a second date with John? We will

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<v Speaker 1>pay for it. I think I want to check in

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<v Speaker 1>with Alison and talk to her about this before I

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<v Speaker 1>say yes. I think that's a bad idea. John, Are

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<v Speaker 1>you okay with that? If Casey checks in with her

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<v Speaker 1>friend to make sure that you're not being a pervert? Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not okay with you calling me a perf again

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<v Speaker 1>and again. I think I'm okay with her talking to Alison.

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<v Speaker 1>I just hope Alison like like it's honest with her

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<v Speaker 1>and and you know, remembers, the truth remembers. So you're

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<v Speaker 1>already setting it up to call Alison a liar. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>realize that, john No, I just like I said, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>people at wedding reception. Wedding receptions drink, and I think

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<v Speaker 1>she might have saw something that wasn't there. But like

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<v Speaker 1>I said, now, it sounds like you're backpedalings. It sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like you're backpedaling so hard, like if she tells the

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<v Speaker 1>truth number, I don't have her phone number, like I didn't,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't try and like established more communication. That's where

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<v Speaker 1>I'm at. Okay, Okay, that's a no for men. It

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like you're trying to cover up a lie or

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<v Speaker 1>do you try to like, you know, cover your ass.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean like it's no, it's a no. Oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 1>Johnny just talked yourself out of a day. Yeah, what happened, buddy, Casey?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm telling you, if we sat and talked, we would

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<v Speaker 1>have a good time. And I felt something when we

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<v Speaker 1>were talking before, and I promise you I would love

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<v Speaker 1>to get to know you better and not anyone else.

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<v Speaker 1>But I really don't think you need to talk to

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<v Speaker 1>Alison about it. Yeah, of course, not because you asked

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<v Speaker 1>Allison out. Oh my gosh, own it, John, No, it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's not that I'm telling you. I think she saw

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<v Speaker 1>what she wanted to see and it just wasn't there. Yeah, sure, John,

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't there because she said no when you asked her out.

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<v Speaker 1>She didn't say no, so she said yes, John. No,

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<v Speaker 1>she didn't say anything. There was no question, no question

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<v Speaker 1>at all. In the morning,