WEBVTT - Meet My New Assistant Kim

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, bian Benidos is snippisodio to this episode of Cheese

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<v Speaker 1>and Show. You guys. I hope you all are having

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<v Speaker 1>a great week and having a great day, and just

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<v Speaker 1>be careful if you're driving and listening to my podcast,

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<v Speaker 1>but thank you for listening. If you're cleaning the house

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<v Speaker 1>that be in. There's gonna be a fun one, you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>This is gonna be a fun episode. People always ask

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<v Speaker 1>me about my team, and I always say this my team.

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't be able to do what I do without

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<v Speaker 1>my team. I truly believe that it's something that I

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<v Speaker 1>don't just say lightly. And with that talking about my team,

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<v Speaker 1>people have been asking me a lot about my new assistant. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and she is here today to talk with us, So

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<v Speaker 1>welcome Kim. Her name is Kim Andel Gonzalez. Say hi,

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<v Speaker 1>this is Kim. She's very nervous, you guys, very very nervous.

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<v Speaker 1>But she's not being pressured to do this. Just FYI,

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<v Speaker 1>I am not under dress, Yes she is not. So okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So Kim became my assistant in the beginning of this year,

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<v Speaker 1>right yes, January first. Basically we were already kind of

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<v Speaker 1>talking in December and she's been around at some of

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<v Speaker 1>my shows, and I was like, I like this girl.

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<v Speaker 1>She's very quiet, she's very like efficient. I wasn't thinking

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<v Speaker 1>during that time that you were going to be my assistant,

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<v Speaker 1>but I was like, oh okay, when someone brought it up,

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<v Speaker 1>I said, hey, that's actually not a bad idea. Thank

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<v Speaker 1>you so much. I started off as being my mom's assistant,

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<v Speaker 1>so I know what it is to be an assistant.

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<v Speaker 1>We're going to get into that right now. But anyways,

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<v Speaker 1>since I started my career, I've had one, two, three, four,

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<v Speaker 1>five assistants. Yes, they've all been great. You're the fifth.

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<v Speaker 1>You are the fifth.

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<v Speaker 2>Johnny likes number five so many. Yes, it's good.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I have five siblings. Five is a very significant

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<v Speaker 1>number in our lives. So five, yes, let me make

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<v Speaker 1>sure five. She's a fifth. Okay. So anyways, Kim, how

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<v Speaker 1>are you?

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<v Speaker 2>You're my first?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh? Nice that I love being people's first. But yes, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so talking about that. First of all, how are you, Kim?

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<v Speaker 1>How are you feeling right now?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm very nervous.

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<v Speaker 1>You're very nervous. I'm be nervous. Your ears with chicky's

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<v Speaker 1>and chill and let's just.

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<v Speaker 2>I know I'm like, it's just like it's I know

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<v Speaker 2>you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, yeah, the producers you know over.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't like it when people saying happy birthday to

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<v Speaker 2>me either.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh you don't like to be like the center of

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<v Speaker 1>attention and it drives you like it makes you feel.

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<v Speaker 2>I just get really nervous.

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<v Speaker 1>You get nervous.

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<v Speaker 2>But okay, so I get that.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyways, you're good, you're happy.

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<v Speaker 2>You just described me as Kayarita is said thing. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not gonna correct you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I know, I know. It's because she's not Kaylita. Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>when she gets comfortable, she's so hilarious. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I think you need to do stand up.

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<v Speaker 2>I've been told by so many people, and like my

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<v Speaker 2>friends at work, they're like, you should do stand up.

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<v Speaker 2>And at the bar my friend goes to, they have

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<v Speaker 2>open mic and I signed up once, but I didn't

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<v Speaker 2>go because I can't remember why. But I'd probably get

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<v Speaker 2>canceled honestly.

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<v Speaker 1>Because she says them off the water shit. But I

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<v Speaker 1>love it. She's just so straight out. So okay, wait

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<v Speaker 1>before we get into like that, what were you doing?

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<v Speaker 1>Because I think a lot of people want to know

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<v Speaker 1>what were you doing before you became my assistant. I

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<v Speaker 1>know the answer, but she's gonna share it with you guys.

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<v Speaker 2>I was a stripper.

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<v Speaker 1>I yes, she worked the streets. I'm just kidding.

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<v Speaker 2>No apers, MA good of money, No.

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<v Speaker 1>Do no no hate on that, don't whatever makes you happy.

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<v Speaker 2>I was a labor and employment paralegal. I did litigation,

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<v Speaker 2>I did trials. I did that for six years, but

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<v Speaker 2>I worked my way up. Yeah, so I got my

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<v Speaker 2>paralegal certificate and associates degree, and then from there I

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<v Speaker 2>just started a small firm in Tustin, and then I

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<v Speaker 2>went to a big firm. And then after that I

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<v Speaker 2>went to really close to my house, to a firm

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<v Speaker 2>with two badass partners where they just did trial work.

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<v Speaker 2>They actually handled some cases with John L. Barber. If

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<v Speaker 2>anybody knows law, they know who John L. Barber is.

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<v Speaker 2>That was pretty cool. Nice. So I then then from

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<v Speaker 2>that I came with you. But I'd been working with

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<v Speaker 2>Richard because I'm Richard, because Richard manager. Right, So it's

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<v Speaker 2>kind of like a earlier you said that you had

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<v Speaker 2>worked with me and all that. It was kind of

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<v Speaker 2>like a training course over the years.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because you you did some stuff in music, like

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<v Speaker 1>you were working with Richard, with Richard and doing just

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<v Speaker 1>a bunch of that I did on the.

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<v Speaker 2>Side, right, So I helped Richard with booking. Actually I

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<v Speaker 2>helped him with Puma before blew up, But I didn't

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<v Speaker 2>actually get to help him with Pluma because by the

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<v Speaker 2>time he blew up and he started touring over here

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<v Speaker 2>in the US, it was too late.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, but so you've always been into like the

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<v Speaker 1>music industry like you.

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<v Speaker 2>I love music, yeah, and I love all kinds of

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<v Speaker 2>music too, so yeah, And then I worked with him

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<v Speaker 2>with because he has he does a lot of stuff. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>And I've helped him with a lot of stuff. I've

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<v Speaker 2>helped him with so much. So I got to meet

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of people because I also went to the

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<v Speaker 2>conferences Confidence that they have in Las Vegas, h four

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<v Speaker 2>times a year. I met a lot of people there

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<v Speaker 2>and I would go with him. I met a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of people there, and I still like versus yeah, where

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like around you and three people remember me from there.

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<v Speaker 2>It happened to me with the guy from Live Nation.

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<v Speaker 2>He was like, oh, you were at the Confidence.

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<v Speaker 1>You have a unique look.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I did stand out because it's a bunch of

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<v Speaker 2>men a lot of Mexican men is like a little

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<v Speaker 2>wita right there. They don't always think of Mexican either.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, talking about where are you from, I am.

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<v Speaker 2>Jo I do I say that to everybody. I wasn't

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<v Speaker 2>born there, but because I say I'm from their people,

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<v Speaker 2>I think I was born there, But I was born

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<v Speaker 2>in l A. Yeah, but I was born in l A.

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<v Speaker 2>My mom from Paramount. I was born in Bellflower, and

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<v Speaker 2>then I went to Mexico and then I came back

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<v Speaker 2>third grade and I've been here since third grade, but

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<v Speaker 2>I would go back and forth every years. Nice.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but she's a very proud Latina and I love that.

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<v Speaker 1>We get along very well. And this job is very

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<v Speaker 1>different from your previous job. It's very safe. It's safe

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<v Speaker 1>to say. And I'll tell you guys now, Kim is

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<v Speaker 1>very extremely smart. She's a very smart young lady. So

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<v Speaker 1>when I first started having those conversations with her, I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, dude, she's a paralegal. I was like, are

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<v Speaker 1>you sure you want to do this job? Like it's

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<v Speaker 1>like I was worried. I was like, I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>if she's gonna like it, But she's like, no, I'm ready.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm ready for a career change. So talk to us

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit about how different it is from like,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, because you had an office job and now

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<v Speaker 1>we're everywhere, right in every in every way, we're everywhere. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>every day is different every day.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Yeah, I remember when you asked me, I was

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<v Speaker 2>an ex expecting that because yet can I speak Spanish? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Of course.

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<v Speaker 2>Everything that I did with Richard, like my my that

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<v Speaker 2>was my side job. That's what I would do on

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<v Speaker 2>the weekends or I would sometimes take time off, but

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<v Speaker 2>that was like additional to my I had my permanent

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<v Speaker 2>day job, my best job. But it was a little

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<v Speaker 2>training course, helping you with the music videos.

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<v Speaker 1>She came out and me, prolema, you guys go go

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<v Speaker 1>check it out. Came and her daughter a problema and

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<v Speaker 1>I and and this is all before she started working with.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so I've been around, yes, yeah, And so I

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<v Speaker 2>had a taste, a taste of it, and by the

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<v Speaker 2>time you asked me, I just prayed on it. I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, oh, this is weird because I had joked

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<v Speaker 2>about it with Richard. I was like, hey, if she

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<v Speaker 2>ever needs an assistant, I can't remember why. Oh, I think

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<v Speaker 2>we were like on set and he was like, that's

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<v Speaker 2>pretty cool. Ha and you were getting fanned and all

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<v Speaker 2>the camera run and it was like beautiful. And I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, honestly, like I would I would want that job.

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<v Speaker 2>And I pointed at O me. Then I was like

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<v Speaker 2>that that I am be hear more than because I

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<v Speaker 2>don't like the tension.

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<v Speaker 1>Yea, yeah, it's not cool.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like I was like, I would want that job,

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<v Speaker 2>and I kind of just put in easy ear. But

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<v Speaker 2>I was just kidding, yeah, okay, I didn't think that

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<v Speaker 2>it would come to fruition. Yeah, and so by the

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<v Speaker 2>time you talk to me about it, I prayed on

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<v Speaker 2>it and it felt right. So I go based off

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<v Speaker 2>of feeling me too.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how I am. But it is very different, Yeah

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<v Speaker 1>it is.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it is very stressful. Huh So it's like a

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<v Speaker 2>different kind of stressful. Yeah. But but I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>if you remember, but the first month, I think you

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<v Speaker 2>asked me how I was feeling, and I said, I

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<v Speaker 2>feel like I was on vacation. I have to go

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<v Speaker 2>back to work.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Like when do I go back to work?

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, Oh, they're gonna get mad at me

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<v Speaker 2>because I haven't gone back to work. Like when do

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<v Speaker 2>I go back to ask for too much time off.

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<v Speaker 2>So that was weird.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that transition right, Yeah, because I always say this

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<v Speaker 1>and I've said it many times. I had Omi on

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<v Speaker 1>the podcast as well and everything, and I've shared that

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<v Speaker 1>whole thing with you guys, which is why now Kim

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<v Speaker 1>is here. Because some people might think, like, Gigi's why

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<v Speaker 1>are you even sharing this or why are you sharing

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<v Speaker 1>you know, why not? Because I started off as an assistant.

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<v Speaker 1>I have shared so much with you guys on this podcast,

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<v Speaker 1>so I want you guys to know. You know, it's

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<v Speaker 1>not easy. I know it's not easy being an assistant.

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<v Speaker 1>I was there, That's the way I started. I and

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<v Speaker 1>will ask him right now. But I consider myself a

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<v Speaker 1>pretty like chill boss, maybe sometimes a little too chill.

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<v Speaker 1>And I've learned that sometimes some people, not everyone, takes

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<v Speaker 1>your kindness for weakness and I've had to toughen up

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit. But how are you feeling? And honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't even really planning. I have my notes here,

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<v Speaker 1>but you guys know, I always just talk from the

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<v Speaker 1>heart and I want to have a conversation with you.

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<v Speaker 1>How are you feeling? Like? How you know? Especially that

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<v Speaker 1>first day of the tour. It was tough. You guys.

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<v Speaker 1>I've never felt that pressure any other tour ever in

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<v Speaker 1>my life, I think because we've leveled up. So she

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<v Speaker 1>came in and and she was kind of just thrown

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<v Speaker 1>into it.

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<v Speaker 2>M Yeah, when you said that, it made me feel

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<v Speaker 2>a little bit like, all right, it's not just me,

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<v Speaker 2>it's not just you, because I've been on tour with

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<v Speaker 2>you before, well like not like the whole tour, but

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<v Speaker 2>I've been to your shows and I've been to multiple

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<v Speaker 2>shows in a weekend as well, so I've done that.

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<v Speaker 2>But it was the pressure was real. There was just

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<v Speaker 2>so much going on, and there were a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>cameras there.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, there was a lot going on. Yeah, there was

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<v Speaker 1>had a docu there, then we had.

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<v Speaker 2>And then Julio's filming, and then AMI's filming, and then

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<v Speaker 2>Jennifer's like I need this video. There's just like there

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<v Speaker 2>was and then there was that, and then there was

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<v Speaker 2>the production going on where it's like getting this and

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<v Speaker 2>this and that, and we're getting something mailed in today

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<v Speaker 2>that didn't get there on time, and then just just

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<v Speaker 2>a lot. It was. It was a lot, but I

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<v Speaker 2>was already familiar with it. But The reason why I

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<v Speaker 2>felt the pressure was because I want to do my

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<v Speaker 2>job right. Yeah, and if something if something, thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>If something doesn't go right, it's that's not me. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>even if it wasn't something that I did. Sometimes you

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<v Speaker 2>have to depend on other people doing their job, but

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<v Speaker 2>it's still my job to make sure that they're doing

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<v Speaker 2>their job or something. You know.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's the thing.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a lot of pressure.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and we all felt it. It's just you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we have the responsibility of like now we have Live Nation,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's just different. There's more production, and it's always

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<v Speaker 1>the first show is always nerve wracking. And when I

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<v Speaker 1>told you that, I was like, I really feel that

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<v Speaker 1>I understand. But I'm very very patient because again I

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<v Speaker 1>know what it is to be in your shoes, and

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<v Speaker 1>I also, as a boss, have made mistakes in my

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<v Speaker 1>past that I don't want to make, you know, and

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<v Speaker 1>I want to learn from my mistakes and always be

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<v Speaker 1>better every single day. So anyways, I think you are.

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<v Speaker 2>You said you think you're a chill boss. I think

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<v Speaker 2>you are. Yeah, I don't think I think you've sometimes

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<v Speaker 2>said you know, I think you think that you're tough.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes I don't think you are. I think you're just stern,

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<v Speaker 2>just straight up You're like, Nope, we're not going to

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<v Speaker 2>do it like that. And some people get like, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>but I think I appreciate that more. Yeah, Like if

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<v Speaker 2>you say this needs to be done like this, like

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<v Speaker 2>I'll get that. I think I think we work well

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<v Speaker 2>like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so we have good communication for sure.

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<v Speaker 2>And then I don't offend it either.

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<v Speaker 1>And I've learned to like not also not to we

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<v Speaker 1>can't get everything done in a day before it's like

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<v Speaker 1>I want all of this to get done, and now

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, no, it's it's it's not even healthy. And

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<v Speaker 1>I've learned to like even scale back with myself. And

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<v Speaker 1>before I used to have money to do list and

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<v Speaker 1>like I want to check it all off today. No,

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm chill, Like I'm like, I can't put that

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<v Speaker 1>pressure on her, and and I don't want for me.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so important that anyone that works with me or

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<v Speaker 1>works for me is happy doing their job. When they're not,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just not going to work. And I feel it.

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<v Speaker 2>I think we are because there have already been a

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<v Speaker 2>few comments here and there, you know, when people say, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>we like your vibe, like when we're in glam and

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<v Speaker 2>there's like a little group of us. Yeah, I can't remember.

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<v Speaker 2>I think Jennifer Neman said it once. He was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>your guys, this vibe is so refreshing. And somebody else too.

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<v Speaker 2>It's happened a few times, yeah, where they compliment I

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<v Speaker 2>like our energy.

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<v Speaker 1>Working together where it's like it feels peaceful like, and

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<v Speaker 1>that's what I want. I want to be that in

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<v Speaker 1>everyone's life getting wrong.

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<v Speaker 2>And we're cracking jokes and we're laughing.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Is it safe to say though now that it

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<v Speaker 1>does not feel like a vacation anymore like the No.

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<v Speaker 2>It feels like working out. So I got my routine now, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I have my roucine now and I'm doing Okay, I

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<v Speaker 2>didn't answer your question. I'm sorry, I'm good. I feel

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<v Speaker 2>better now. After the first show I felt a lot better, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>and then I don't know if you can talk about

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<v Speaker 2>the second show, but.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah we can. I mean a little bit. The second

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<v Speaker 1>show that's when the miscarriage happened.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, and then the first show, so I felt that

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<v Speaker 2>pressure too because I already knew and then and so

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<v Speaker 2>I was like watching out for that too. Yeah, And

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<v Speaker 2>it's like you're going up the thing. And I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh my god, she didn't fall. You tripped a little bit.

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<v Speaker 2>I did almost, and I was right backstage that happened,

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<v Speaker 2>and I was like, fuck, my head's oh sorry, I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know if I could cut.

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<v Speaker 1>You can say fuck are fine because I was.

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<v Speaker 2>I was right behind you, and I saw when that happened,

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<v Speaker 2>and I stuck my head up above the stage a

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<v Speaker 2>little bit, and so I'm sure I don't know if

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<v Speaker 2>people saw me like a little go over right, they're sticking.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, oh my god, because that scared me

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<v Speaker 2>a little bit. No one no one knew.

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<v Speaker 1>No yeah, the band that Richard, no one knew, and

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<v Speaker 1>it was just Emilio Jess. I didn't even know my

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<v Speaker 1>makeup artist. So it was a little nerve wracking. And

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh god. I had the I'm never

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<v Speaker 1>afraid to walk in heels, but that first show, I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, oh my gosh. I was like, I can't fall.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't fall. But I was like, I'm still gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be a batty yeah, because I want to be that

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<v Speaker 1>girl seven months pregnant with some big ass heels. Maybe yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I can see you know, Yeah, you know. So, so

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<v Speaker 1>then the second show came along, because the first show

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<v Speaker 1>was very stressful. The second one everything was so chill,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I was, I felt so good. I was like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>are you feeling better? She said, Oh my god, I

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<v Speaker 1>feel so much better.

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<v Speaker 2>It was so much. It was so I was like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I think we needed to go through that first show.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, there's just a lot of people there.

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<v Speaker 2>There's a lot of energy, there's a lot of it's

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<v Speaker 2>a lot going on, right, So that by the second

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<v Speaker 2>show we were like we got this and we didn't

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<v Speaker 2>get it.

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<v Speaker 1>We didn't get it. Yeah, yeah, but that's how it was.

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<v Speaker 1>And we were like, okay, cool and then all of

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<v Speaker 1>a sudden came the crams. Yeah, and then you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it just went from there. But but AnyWho, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I think, yeah, I think it was just the first show.

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<v Speaker 1>What is a typical day with me? Actually, right, typical day?

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<v Speaker 2>I think a lot. I think what people probably wouldn't

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<v Speaker 2>like a typical day with you as your assistant. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't think people really understand how much outside of the

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<v Speaker 2>music stuff that needs to get done, like the house stuff,

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<v Speaker 2>the business stuff. There's there are a lot of emails. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>there's the I think my and then my favorite part

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<v Speaker 2>really is Pancho and Ryo. Ye, like can you help

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<v Speaker 2>with Yeah, like that's my favorite part. They're like my

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<v Speaker 2>favorite coworkers. Yeah, they're as I'm my little and then

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<v Speaker 2>they follow me around the house.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, they love you so and I talked.

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<v Speaker 2>To them all day and then I think I can't remember.

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<v Speaker 2>I thinking it as Amelia, who was like who are

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<v Speaker 2>you talking to? And I was like the dog's duh

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<v Speaker 2>And he.

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<v Speaker 1>Was like, okay, you keep things very interesting. I really

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<v Speaker 1>enjoy my time with you, Like I I like having

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<v Speaker 1>you around. When you're not around, I'm like, hey, I

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<v Speaker 1>miss you. It's the weirdest thing because it's like I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, I have a lot of peace with you,

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<v Speaker 1>and I love that. And also we've talked about it

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<v Speaker 1>a few times. I'm like, hey, if this becomes too

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<v Speaker 1>hard for you, if this is too much, let me know.

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<v Speaker 1>Because the good thing is, I know you're gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>fine because you have your job. Like I know everyone

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<v Speaker 1>wants you back. Like when she first started working with me,

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<v Speaker 1>one of her old bosses contacted her said, Hey, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>starting my own firm. I left so and so, and

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<v Speaker 1>I want you to come work with me, and she' said, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>can you tell my new boss that.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like can I On the phone, I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>can you let her know how great I am?

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<v Speaker 1>And he's right, he did. He's like, you're so lucky

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<v Speaker 1>to have her. I'm like, I know, dude, things.

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<v Speaker 2>She ended up not starting firm. He went to defense

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<v Speaker 2>and he's cool. But yeah, a lot of my bosses.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, they want you back.

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<v Speaker 2>So that makes me feel like I'm a good employee.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why you really are. And that's the thing. That's

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<v Speaker 1>what I was going to say. What I love about

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<v Speaker 1>you is that and what also worries me at the

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<v Speaker 1>same time, it's like you want to be so like

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<v Speaker 1>you want to do everything perfectly, like you want to

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<v Speaker 1>do your job well. And I love that even if

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<v Speaker 1>you take a little bit longer to get something done,

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<v Speaker 1>I know it's going to get done well. It's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be done. I don't have to remind you or say, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't do this right. Like she's a fast learner.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm not worried. I'm not stressed. I'm like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Kim will handle it. It won't be right now maybe,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's fine. It'll be but it'll get done and

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<v Speaker 1>it always does. So you are definitely very good at

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<v Speaker 1>what you do. What is the hardest part of your

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<v Speaker 1>job do you feel?

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<v Speaker 2>I think for me right now is kind of getting

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<v Speaker 2>to know what to prioritize. And I've I mean, sometimes

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<v Speaker 2>I want to ask you. Other times I don't want

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<v Speaker 2>to bug you. Sometimes I even double triple make sure,

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<v Speaker 2>even if like it's like you already told me, I

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<v Speaker 2>just want to make sure. Yeah, but prioritizing, like do

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<v Speaker 2>you think this is more important or this is more important?

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<v Speaker 2>What do you want?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because I have like a list of them, like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>let's get this then, And I've learned also to communicate

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<v Speaker 1>that like, hey, this is the priority list and that secondary, right,

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<v Speaker 1>just so that she doesn't feel so pressured, because again,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not just my music, it's the household, it's my

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<v Speaker 1>personal calendar, my businesses. You know, it's a lot, all

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<v Speaker 1>of them, all of them, all of my businesses. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean so okay, So yeah, I get that, and

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<v Speaker 1>I want to get better at that as well, saying hey, Kim,

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<v Speaker 1>like don't worry about this, this is secondary. Let's like

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<v Speaker 1>focus on this. And I think we've been again. We're

0:18:44.000 --> 0:18:47.600
<v Speaker 1>good at communicating, and I think that makes the biggest difference.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I think. I think I'm getting better at it.

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<v Speaker 1>I think, yeah, you are. Yeah, and that's why I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>it's gonna happen. It's only been six months, right.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh shit, six months, that's half a year.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, how do you feel? Are you? Are you?

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<v Speaker 2>It doesn't feel like half a year. But also I

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<v Speaker 2>feel like I can't really remember my life before.

0:19:06.440 --> 0:19:07.720
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Like what did I do before?

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<v Speaker 2>I can't remember?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? Okay, So what's what's the coolest part of your job?

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<v Speaker 1>An he like perks, anything that you feel like, oh,

0:19:15.440 --> 0:19:16.600
<v Speaker 1>this is dope. This is what I like.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I mean I think there, I think this job

0:19:20.840 --> 0:19:25.959
<v Speaker 2>is very, very demanding, but very rewarding. I like, I

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<v Speaker 2>love my job because it's fun. I get to interact

0:19:28.000 --> 0:19:31.440
<v Speaker 2>with people, all your people music. I think it's cool.

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<v Speaker 1>There are times where she's randomly like She's like, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>very happy, I'm happy to be here. I love my job,

0:19:36.680 --> 0:19:38.359
<v Speaker 1>like I don't know where. She'll just say, and I'm like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>it makes me uppy.

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<v Speaker 2>Thanks. Yeah. Because if we're doing something cool, like we

0:19:42.280 --> 0:19:43.719
<v Speaker 2>went to New York City, I was like, I'm so

0:19:43.760 --> 0:19:44.560
<v Speaker 2>fucking glad I'm here.

0:19:44.760 --> 0:19:46.560
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, like, thanks for bringing me, get to travel and

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<v Speaker 1>we do a lot of fun stuff. Yeah yeah, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't know if a lot of people know this,

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<v Speaker 1>but Kim is also a mother. She's a mother beautiful girls.

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<v Speaker 1>I hedot about that. Yeah, she's a mom Zelda and Leah.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's one thing that worried me a little bit,

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<v Speaker 1>was because I was like, dude, she's a mom, and

0:20:07.240 --> 0:20:11.000
<v Speaker 1>but she's very You're a very present mom though, even

0:20:11.040 --> 0:20:13.960
<v Speaker 1>though we're traveling and doing stuff, like you're always in

0:20:14.040 --> 0:20:16.200
<v Speaker 1>contact with them. Your mom takes care of your girl,

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<v Speaker 1>So that gives me peace.

0:20:17.520 --> 0:20:19.080
<v Speaker 2>My mom came back to live with me to help

0:20:19.119 --> 0:20:20.680
<v Speaker 2>me to take care of my girls. So I really

0:20:20.680 --> 0:20:21.560
<v Speaker 2>appreciate her for that.

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<v Speaker 1>And how do they feel about you working with me?

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<v Speaker 1>You're girls?

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<v Speaker 2>So I asked them, and Leah had already fallen in

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<v Speaker 2>love with you from the problem when she came out.

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<v Speaker 2>I remember, Yeah, so she's been following you since then

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<v Speaker 2>and she's like your fan and all that she loves you,

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<v Speaker 2>and yeah, but I asked them just to see what

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<v Speaker 2>they would say, and Leah was like, oh my god, yes, Mom,

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<v Speaker 2>you have to. She was like, you have to do

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<v Speaker 2>that job. And then Zelda loves you too.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I love them. She gave me a little note yesterday.

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<v Speaker 1>She's like, you were the best singer ever. Oh I

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<v Speaker 1>love you.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. They really wanted me to take the job. And

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<v Speaker 2>then I think just recently these last couple of weeks,

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<v Speaker 2>Zelda's very like emotional and communicative, and she's like, mom,

0:21:02.920 --> 0:21:07.600
<v Speaker 2>I miss you, and I'm like, then text me back, yeah,

0:21:07.720 --> 0:21:09.720
<v Speaker 2>text me back, because I call them and FaceTime them

0:21:09.760 --> 0:21:11.360
<v Speaker 2>and I text them and sometimes I'm like look where

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<v Speaker 2>I am and they're like, yeah, they don't care.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, You're like I'm trying told the other day yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Because I was like, well look at this and they

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<v Speaker 2>were just like okay, and I was like, okay, guys,

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<v Speaker 2>please calm down. Yeah they don't care sometimes.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but I always talked to them.

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<v Speaker 2>And then I brought them yesterday. They were with me

0:21:27.920 --> 0:21:30.280
<v Speaker 2>day with them yesterday, So I bring them when I

0:21:30.320 --> 0:21:32.600
<v Speaker 2>can love them. Yeah, they're like coming around and they

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<v Speaker 2>love you.

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<v Speaker 1>Good kids.

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<v Speaker 2>Fun Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And do you feel like, I mean, do you

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<v Speaker 1>want to be in a relationship or.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you No, you're my relationship?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay? Nice? And you're happy with that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm going to give you a good solid year

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<v Speaker 2>or two or whatever, and then maybe i'll I'll have

0:21:48.640 --> 0:21:51.239
<v Speaker 2>a relationship depending on you know, how much money they

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<v Speaker 2>have and all that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. So but right now you're totally like not emotionally available,

0:21:56.320 --> 0:21:58.719
<v Speaker 1>like you're Is it by choice? Is it just like

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<v Speaker 1>because of this job where you're just you're good right now?

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<v Speaker 2>I think I'm good.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you're chilling because I feel like right now, your

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<v Speaker 1>priority from what I see is like your job, your girls,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's it. Like sometimes I'm like, hey, Kim, you're

0:22:08.800 --> 0:22:10.640
<v Speaker 1>you're off, go get your nails, and oh no, I'd

0:22:10.680 --> 0:22:11.840
<v Speaker 1>rather sleep. I'd rather read a book.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, okay, yeah, so like when I'm at the out,

0:22:13.760 --> 0:22:15.719
<v Speaker 2>I could go do my nails, but then I'm just

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<v Speaker 2>like that takes like what an hour or two?

0:22:18.480 --> 0:22:20.840
<v Speaker 1>If I get a petty, Yeah, it does take a while.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And my mom's been taking the girls for me,

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<v Speaker 2>so I don't have to take them.

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<v Speaker 1>So they're good.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but yeah, i'd rather sleep. I have so many

0:22:27.720 --> 0:22:30.000
<v Speaker 2>books to catch up on. But now that I feel

0:22:30.000 --> 0:22:34.080
<v Speaker 2>like we're in got the tour stuff situated, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 2>start reading on them.

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<v Speaker 1>I promise you it's gonna get easier from here. It is.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just now that we're kind of getting into like

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<v Speaker 1>the rhythm of things, it's gonna get easier.

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<v Speaker 2>Once it's more like just like reflexive.

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<v Speaker 1>Exactly exactly Like when I see O Me, she's just like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>show me. Was with me for ten years, guys. So

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<v Speaker 1>it's just you know, so I learned.

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<v Speaker 2>I learned a lot from seeing her, like yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And they get along very well, which I love. He's

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<v Speaker 1>my old assistant, you guys. She was on the podcast

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<v Speaker 1>all right, what's something that most people don't know about me?

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<v Speaker 1>That you would say, like something that you probably before

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<v Speaker 1>you started working with me, didn't know. And it's like

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<v Speaker 1>something that I don't know. It could be anything.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, she's hilarious.

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<v Speaker 1>I am.

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<v Speaker 2>She's actually really funny, but she's more like like the

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<v Speaker 2>like I'm more like dead pan, like sarcastic.

0:23:17.720 --> 0:23:18.960
<v Speaker 1>Love that type I love.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And you're more like like I love when you

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<v Speaker 2>go on really only.

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<v Speaker 1>I do.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm funny, Oh my god, the most annoying part or

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<v Speaker 2>when you go what else do you do when you go?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, it's just you're rich very funny.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, it could be funny, especially like if I'm

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<v Speaker 1>like not stressed, I'm just like, oh very loose.

0:23:42.680 --> 0:23:45.280
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like you down there, but you've got you cracked

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<v Speaker 2>me up sometimes.

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<v Speaker 1>Good. That makes me happy. Okay, So is there any

0:23:50.000 --> 0:23:52.240
<v Speaker 1>advice that you could give someone that would like because

0:23:52.240 --> 0:23:54.080
<v Speaker 1>I get this a lot A lot of people like, oh,

0:23:54.119 --> 0:23:55.840
<v Speaker 1>I want to work for you, cheeky's and stuff like that.

0:23:55.880 --> 0:23:58.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, it's not as easy as you guys may think. Guys,

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<v Speaker 1>is there any advice that you would give someone if

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<v Speaker 1>they want to be like a celebrity assistant?

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<v Speaker 2>The only I think the only reason I got this

0:24:07.359 --> 0:24:08.359
<v Speaker 2>job is just knowing people.

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<v Speaker 1>Mm hmmm.

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<v Speaker 2>So I think more like, am I the most qualified assistant?

0:24:14.320 --> 0:24:17.480
<v Speaker 2>Probably not. I'm sure there's somebody there out there somewhere

0:24:17.520 --> 0:24:22.080
<v Speaker 2>who probably knows more or would do certain things better, right,

0:24:22.720 --> 0:24:25.919
<v Speaker 2>But for me, it was just I knew someone so

0:24:26.119 --> 0:24:30.959
<v Speaker 2>networking mm hmm. And also I think just more like

0:24:31.280 --> 0:24:32.480
<v Speaker 2>our personalities flow.

0:24:32.880 --> 0:24:33.080
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so I think we're like little puzzle piece. You're

0:24:35.280 --> 0:24:37.800
<v Speaker 2>the AA, the beta. We're good like that.

0:24:38.119 --> 0:24:40.240
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and it does fits nice.

0:24:40.400 --> 0:24:41.720
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's like a little puzzle.

0:24:42.160 --> 0:24:42.520
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>But and then there. I've also had certain very specific

0:24:46.000 --> 0:24:50.600
<v Speaker 2>life experiences that I think compliment yours, like also because well,

0:24:50.600 --> 0:24:52.639
<v Speaker 2>I mean, I don't think somebody has to be Mexican

0:24:52.960 --> 0:24:54.840
<v Speaker 2>to be your assistant, but I think that's a life

0:24:54.840 --> 0:24:58.480
<v Speaker 2>experience that I bring with me that compliments your life experiences.

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<v Speaker 2>And just like a lot of things. And then even

0:25:01.240 --> 0:25:03.760
<v Speaker 2>like I think very like very specific things that I've

0:25:03.760 --> 0:25:07.800
<v Speaker 2>also mentioned to you, like that I can apply to

0:25:08.000 --> 0:25:12.399
<v Speaker 2>the situation. So I think my I'm very bad at

0:25:12.440 --> 0:25:14.760
<v Speaker 2>answering questions. So if I don't answer a question, just let.

0:25:14.600 --> 0:25:16.040
<v Speaker 1>Me know you're answering it perfectly.

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<v Speaker 2>Actually, my feedback or advice would be network, right, like

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<v Speaker 2>find something you like and network. Because when I met Richard,

0:25:27.160 --> 0:25:31.199
<v Speaker 2>I met him through working at an event center. I

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<v Speaker 2>started off like just selling tickets at the box office,

0:25:33.920 --> 0:25:38.399
<v Speaker 2>and I would do that for fun because I would

0:25:38.400 --> 0:25:41.160
<v Speaker 2>go sell tickets at the box office and I got

0:25:41.160 --> 0:25:43.760
<v Speaker 2>to meet a lot of bandas and musicians and people

0:25:44.000 --> 0:25:46.600
<v Speaker 2>because they would let us go backstage after the show.

0:25:46.600 --> 0:25:49.240
<v Speaker 2>They would let us stay. I met like name you

0:25:49.359 --> 0:25:52.160
<v Speaker 2>name it, all the main bandas I've seen them. Yeah,

0:25:53.000 --> 0:25:54.040
<v Speaker 2>that's how I met Richard.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like starstruck which is kind of cool too. I

0:25:57.040 --> 0:25:59.520
<v Speaker 1>never have though, like I don't like yeah part of.

0:25:59.720 --> 0:26:03.240
<v Speaker 2>Yeah though, like although I'd admire you and your music

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<v Speaker 2>and like what you do and everything, I don't really

0:26:05.800 --> 0:26:09.520
<v Speaker 2>like think like I don't fall into like the celebrity

0:26:09.560 --> 0:26:12.040
<v Speaker 2>aspect of it with you or with anyone. Yeah, it'd

0:26:12.080 --> 0:26:13.879
<v Speaker 2>be I think very few people who i'd be like

0:26:15.240 --> 0:26:17.800
<v Speaker 2>amazed at meeting. And it's probably like, honestly, like my

0:26:17.800 --> 0:26:21.960
<v Speaker 2>favorite journalists, not a musician, right, that makes sense, Yeah

0:26:22.000 --> 0:26:25.520
<v Speaker 2>for sure. But yeah, so network. I remember for a

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<v Speaker 2>long time when I would do the events, it would

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<v Speaker 2>be like on my days off, and it'd be like

0:26:30.960 --> 0:26:34.240
<v Speaker 2>eight am to two am type of thing. Oh damn,

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<v Speaker 2>Like yeah, like I'd have to leave my house at

0:26:36.320 --> 0:26:37.639
<v Speaker 2>eight and i'd get home, I get two three in

0:26:37.640 --> 0:26:39.639
<v Speaker 2>the morning. I'd have to work the next day. But

0:26:39.720 --> 0:26:40.600
<v Speaker 2>I pushed through it.

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<v Speaker 1>Because you've always been so hard working.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh thank you.

0:26:43.280 --> 0:26:43.720
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>And then and honestly I didn't that wasn't even a

0:26:45.920 --> 0:26:48.080
<v Speaker 2>lot of money. But for me it was fun and

0:26:48.119 --> 0:26:52.760
<v Speaker 2>I wasn't thinking like exerience the experience, and then I

0:26:53.040 --> 0:26:55.280
<v Speaker 2>like people would tell me like, oh, you shouldn't go,

0:26:55.560 --> 0:26:57.000
<v Speaker 2>like you shouldn't go do that. Why are you even

0:26:57.040 --> 0:26:58.760
<v Speaker 2>doing that? And I would tell them, well, for me,

0:26:58.800 --> 0:27:00.920
<v Speaker 2>it feels right, it's fun. I like it. And I'm

0:27:00.920 --> 0:27:02.639
<v Speaker 2>just always putting myself out there. And I was always

0:27:02.640 --> 0:27:06.679
<v Speaker 2>doing work outside of work. Yeah, so it was it

0:27:06.720 --> 0:27:08.920
<v Speaker 2>wasn't just my day job. I was always either going

0:27:09.000 --> 0:27:12.080
<v Speaker 2>to work and going to school or working at events

0:27:12.160 --> 0:27:14.720
<v Speaker 2>or picking up stuff like I did a feew like

0:27:14.800 --> 0:27:18.960
<v Speaker 2>brand ambassador things here and there with the music stuff.

0:27:19.600 --> 0:27:23.359
<v Speaker 2>So that's what it's. Just put yourself out there. Don't

0:27:23.359 --> 0:27:25.560
<v Speaker 2>be afraid to fail, because I mean did I wouldn't.

0:27:25.600 --> 0:27:28.080
<v Speaker 2>I didn't succeed at everything, but I just put myself

0:27:28.119 --> 0:27:32.800
<v Speaker 2>out there, network and you know, just chilling.

0:27:32.640 --> 0:27:36.040
<v Speaker 1>Unnus, chilli on us. Yeah, that's the thing. You took

0:27:36.080 --> 0:27:36.440
<v Speaker 1>a risk.

0:27:36.520 --> 0:27:39.440
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, don't be afraid of failing, because.

0:27:39.280 --> 0:27:42.119
<v Speaker 1>Yes, that's what I always say. Yeah, it's part of

0:27:42.840 --> 0:27:47.800
<v Speaker 1>learning and growing and knowing and having that taste of failing.

0:27:47.920 --> 0:27:51.600
<v Speaker 1>As weird as it sounds, it really helps you and

0:27:51.680 --> 0:27:54.960
<v Speaker 1>makes you appreciate success even more so. You know, So,

0:27:55.200 --> 0:28:04.520
<v Speaker 1>I truly believe that I know certain people in your

0:28:04.520 --> 0:28:06.920
<v Speaker 1>life we're kind of worried about you taking this job

0:28:07.880 --> 0:28:09.680
<v Speaker 1>because they said that it's not like a real job

0:28:09.760 --> 0:28:12.320
<v Speaker 1>or something like that. How do you feel is it

0:28:12.359 --> 0:28:15.520
<v Speaker 1>a real job? Is it a real job?

0:28:15.760 --> 0:28:19.880
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yes, it is a real job. It's a fine job.

0:28:20.000 --> 0:28:22.400
<v Speaker 2>I think people are just jealous. Yeah.

0:28:22.680 --> 0:28:23.720
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we're not gonna say names.

0:28:23.760 --> 0:28:24.919
<v Speaker 2>I was gonna say, do you want me to say who?

0:28:25.200 --> 0:28:27.320
<v Speaker 1>No? No, no, no no, we're not going to say who.

0:28:27.920 --> 0:28:30.720
<v Speaker 1>But I gess but some no no no, but some

0:28:30.760 --> 0:28:33.919
<v Speaker 1>people did did did say that, And I was just

0:28:33.960 --> 0:28:35.960
<v Speaker 1>kind of damn that that sucks, you know, because this

0:28:36.119 --> 0:28:38.760
<v Speaker 1>is you know, I worry a lot because I'm like, damn, like,

0:28:38.760 --> 0:28:41.320
<v Speaker 1>because I care about people that like, I really genuinely

0:28:41.400 --> 0:28:43.800
<v Speaker 1>care for everyone that works with me. I want to

0:28:43.800 --> 0:28:46.280
<v Speaker 1>make sure they're okay. I want to make sure she rests.

0:28:46.480 --> 0:28:49.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, hey, please take some days off, like spend

0:28:49.160 --> 0:28:50.720
<v Speaker 1>time with the girls, because I don't want her to

0:28:50.720 --> 0:28:55.440
<v Speaker 1>feel so worked or what is it so overworked? Thank you?

0:28:55.480 --> 0:28:57.680
<v Speaker 1>So overworked that she's just like if this and she

0:28:57.760 --> 0:29:00.440
<v Speaker 1>starts resenting me, no, I wouldn't do it. But I

0:29:00.800 --> 0:29:03.600
<v Speaker 1>just I think that if if we have open communication,

0:29:04.280 --> 0:29:06.920
<v Speaker 1>I think everything will be fine. But it definitely is

0:29:06.920 --> 0:29:09.320
<v Speaker 1>a real job and it's a fun job. I feel

0:29:09.360 --> 0:29:10.960
<v Speaker 1>like it could be very fun, but it is stressful,

0:29:11.000 --> 0:29:13.520
<v Speaker 1>and I understand, but I just want you to be

0:29:13.520 --> 0:29:14.440
<v Speaker 1>happy more than anything.

0:29:14.840 --> 0:29:16.959
<v Speaker 2>I am happy. I don't think it's stressful. I think

0:29:17.040 --> 0:29:18.320
<v Speaker 2>it's there's a lot of pressure.

0:29:18.680 --> 0:29:20.760
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and I think I think it's probably pressure that

0:29:20.800 --> 0:29:24.520
<v Speaker 1>you put on yourself as I do. Yeah, I do.

0:29:24.600 --> 0:29:26.920
<v Speaker 2>I do put that. I don't think i've ever I did.

0:29:27.080 --> 0:29:29.000
<v Speaker 2>I'm not type A or perfectionists, but I do want

0:29:29.000 --> 0:29:29.640
<v Speaker 2>to do a good job.

0:29:29.840 --> 0:29:33.200
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Yeah, but that's why everyone loves you or your employers.

0:29:33.720 --> 0:29:36.360
<v Speaker 2>Well. Yeah, as an employee, I've I've always had they

0:29:36.360 --> 0:29:37.200
<v Speaker 2>always want me back.

0:29:37.560 --> 0:29:40.120
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I never I've never left a job.

0:29:40.040 --> 0:29:41.720
<v Speaker 2>Where they don't want me back because I always do

0:29:41.800 --> 0:29:43.040
<v Speaker 2>more than what is needed.

0:29:43.280 --> 0:29:44.960
<v Speaker 1>And even to do that, you're just.

0:29:44.920 --> 0:29:48.040
<v Speaker 2>Having worked in labor and employment. Like I would knowing

0:29:48.280 --> 0:29:50.160
<v Speaker 2>that I would like if I needed to take a

0:29:50.160 --> 0:29:52.000
<v Speaker 2>call in the middle of the night, file something in

0:29:52.000 --> 0:29:54.400
<v Speaker 2>the middle of the night on my vacation, respond to

0:29:54.440 --> 0:29:56.719
<v Speaker 2>text messages, even though I know you're not technically supposed

0:29:56.720 --> 0:29:58.600
<v Speaker 2>to do that, Like, that's just something I would do

0:29:58.960 --> 0:30:00.960
<v Speaker 2>and I never held it against anyone, and I would

0:30:01.000 --> 0:30:03.920
<v Speaker 2>just willingly do it or respond anyway, because that's how

0:30:03.960 --> 0:30:07.160
<v Speaker 2>I am or work off the clock like I'm clocked out,

0:30:07.160 --> 0:30:08.479
<v Speaker 2>but I need to do this, I'll just do it.

0:30:08.680 --> 0:30:10.560
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's how I am. I love to over deliver

0:30:10.640 --> 0:30:12.760
<v Speaker 1>and overexceed and I just love to do a good job.

0:30:12.920 --> 0:30:15.080
<v Speaker 1>Like it's just I don't like to half ask anything.

0:30:15.120 --> 0:30:17.880
<v Speaker 1>I think that's why we get along, Yes, because we're

0:30:18.080 --> 0:30:19.840
<v Speaker 1>a lot alike in different things, and then we're so

0:30:19.920 --> 0:30:23.080
<v Speaker 1>different so we balance each other out and I love that.

0:30:24.480 --> 0:30:27.280
<v Speaker 1>But yeah, I mean, I think Kim, besides, my sister,

0:30:27.360 --> 0:30:29.880
<v Speaker 1>was the other person I told when I got pregnant.

0:30:30.400 --> 0:30:33.320
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I feel like just because you kind of had

0:30:33.320 --> 0:30:35.240
<v Speaker 2>to wright because I'm with you every day.

0:30:35.560 --> 0:30:38.200
<v Speaker 1>Yeah no, but I felt if I wouldn't have trusted

0:30:38.200 --> 0:30:41.000
<v Speaker 1>you with the information, I wouldn't have told you, like

0:30:41.040 --> 0:30:43.040
<v Speaker 1>no matter how like you know what I mean. But yes,

0:30:43.080 --> 0:30:44.800
<v Speaker 1>it helps that I trust you, and it helps that

0:30:44.840 --> 0:30:46.160
<v Speaker 1>you give me peace and that I knew you were

0:30:46.200 --> 0:30:48.480
<v Speaker 1>going to give me the best advice. So because I

0:30:49.520 --> 0:30:51.560
<v Speaker 1>and you've been pregnant twice. Yeah, so I was like, hey, dude,

0:30:51.600 --> 0:30:53.200
<v Speaker 1>can I eat this? Man? I want this hot dog?

0:30:54.480 --> 0:30:57.280
<v Speaker 1>You're like non hot dog. When I didn't know, Yeah,

0:30:57.320 --> 0:31:00.200
<v Speaker 1>I didn't, I didn't know until I didn't know that wy. Yeah, okay,

0:31:00.240 --> 0:31:01.520
<v Speaker 1>so I know we talked about like the first day

0:31:01.520 --> 0:31:03.560
<v Speaker 1>of the tour and everything, like how stressful that was.

0:31:03.600 --> 0:31:06.840
<v Speaker 1>But do you remember your very first day at work

0:31:06.840 --> 0:31:10.080
<v Speaker 1>with me because it was at the house. Yeah, how

0:31:10.200 --> 0:31:10.440
<v Speaker 1>was that.

0:31:10.760 --> 0:31:13.400
<v Speaker 2>I think we went to Tequan on that day, right.

0:31:13.360 --> 0:31:16.160
<v Speaker 1>Oh, that's right, we did. I think we did into

0:31:16.160 --> 0:31:17.880
<v Speaker 1>TJ and that's how we started to start off with

0:31:17.920 --> 0:31:18.200
<v Speaker 1>the bank.

0:31:18.520 --> 0:31:21.400
<v Speaker 2>Yes, I just remember I started and that was the

0:31:21.440 --> 0:31:23.800
<v Speaker 2>first day I met Pancho. That was the first day

0:31:23.800 --> 0:31:25.360
<v Speaker 2>i'd gone to your house. Yeah, and I've gone to

0:31:25.400 --> 0:31:28.640
<v Speaker 2>your house before and I met Pancho and we hit

0:31:28.680 --> 0:31:29.000
<v Speaker 2>it off.

0:31:29.280 --> 0:31:30.400
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you guys did.

0:31:30.480 --> 0:31:33.400
<v Speaker 2>And I love Pancho. And then so I just remember,

0:31:33.880 --> 0:31:37.160
<v Speaker 2>but I think you were really good at measuring because

0:31:37.200 --> 0:31:39.840
<v Speaker 2>you didn't like lay everything on me this first day.

0:31:40.080 --> 0:31:43.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm not very good training. You gave me no but

0:31:43.120 --> 0:31:43.480
<v Speaker 1>you didn't.

0:31:43.520 --> 0:31:45.160
<v Speaker 2>That's what I'm saying is that you were really good

0:31:45.200 --> 0:31:47.760
<v Speaker 2>at not laying everything out on me. The first day.

0:31:47.880 --> 0:31:49.040
<v Speaker 2>You gave me like these.

0:31:49.000 --> 0:31:50.840
<v Speaker 1>Little by little thing I didn't want to overwhelm you

0:31:50.880 --> 0:31:53.720
<v Speaker 1>add it on, yeah, right, because then I was kind

0:31:53.720 --> 0:31:55.600
<v Speaker 1>of on a break in the beginning of the year,

0:31:55.680 --> 0:31:57.040
<v Speaker 1>I was kind of like on a break. A lot

0:31:57.080 --> 0:31:58.800
<v Speaker 1>of a lot was going on, but I wasn't working

0:31:58.800 --> 0:32:00.120
<v Speaker 1>as much as we are now.

0:32:00.240 --> 0:32:02.480
<v Speaker 2>There was a lot going on. You were on a break,

0:32:02.960 --> 0:32:06.240
<v Speaker 2>but you had just had your surgery. Yeah, you were sober,

0:32:07.080 --> 0:32:09.000
<v Speaker 2>like you were sober from a lot of stuff. So

0:32:09.000 --> 0:32:11.200
<v Speaker 2>there's a lot of that going on. And then you

0:32:11.240 --> 0:32:14.240
<v Speaker 2>were getting your house redecorated, and you're getting your shed

0:32:14.280 --> 0:32:16.840
<v Speaker 2>built and your pool replastered.

0:32:16.920 --> 0:32:18.880
<v Speaker 1>There was something going on. There was a lot going on.

0:32:19.400 --> 0:32:20.200
<v Speaker 1>There was a lot going on.

0:32:20.360 --> 0:32:22.719
<v Speaker 2>And then and then you were what is that thing

0:32:22.840 --> 0:32:24.719
<v Speaker 2>called the harvesting your eggs?

0:32:24.840 --> 0:32:26.080
<v Speaker 1>Oh, yes, I was IVF.

0:32:26.360 --> 0:32:30.560
<v Speaker 2>You were going through the IVF also recording your album,

0:32:31.080 --> 0:32:33.000
<v Speaker 2>and you were still doing your business aside. So I

0:32:33.040 --> 0:32:35.920
<v Speaker 2>really I think the first month I really got acclimated

0:32:35.920 --> 0:32:38.760
<v Speaker 2>to your businesses. I was like, Okay, those are your businesses,

0:32:39.040 --> 0:32:41.760
<v Speaker 2>these are your business partners, these are all your people.

0:32:41.840 --> 0:32:43.720
<v Speaker 2>I met a lot of your people.

0:32:43.880 --> 0:32:47.760
<v Speaker 1>My friends and my business partners. And yeah, because it

0:32:47.800 --> 0:32:50.000
<v Speaker 1>wasn't like I trained her and I said, hey, like

0:32:50.040 --> 0:32:52.360
<v Speaker 1>this is how it's going to be. From my last

0:32:52.360 --> 0:32:54.480
<v Speaker 1>assistant too, I don't think we ever had on the

0:32:54.560 --> 0:32:59.680
<v Speaker 1>pod but she she kind of just transferred everything to you, like, hey,

0:32:59.720 --> 0:33:01.200
<v Speaker 1>these are the passwords, is what you need to know.

0:33:01.400 --> 0:33:03.920
<v Speaker 1>But there's not like a training Like I'm like, I

0:33:04.000 --> 0:33:06.320
<v Speaker 1>just kind of like threw you in there, like can

0:33:06.360 --> 0:33:07.800
<v Speaker 1>you do this for me? Yeah? Yeah, And there's like

0:33:07.880 --> 0:33:09.120
<v Speaker 1>kind of a little by little I'm like, Okay, I'm

0:33:09.120 --> 0:33:10.520
<v Speaker 1>not gonna overwhelm her, but this is.

0:33:10.560 --> 0:33:12.760
<v Speaker 2>And you still you do you always like instead of

0:33:12.800 --> 0:33:14.480
<v Speaker 2>asking me to do something, you always say can you

0:33:14.520 --> 0:33:16.600
<v Speaker 2>please with me your favor? And then you tell me

0:33:16.640 --> 0:33:17.160
<v Speaker 2>can you do this?

0:33:17.240 --> 0:33:19.600
<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, yeah, my job kind yeah, You're like, hey,

0:33:19.600 --> 0:33:21.480
<v Speaker 1>that's my job. Yeah, because I'm not that kind of

0:33:21.600 --> 0:33:24.000
<v Speaker 1>person where I'm just like you have to do what

0:33:24.040 --> 0:33:25.680
<v Speaker 1>I say. And I'm like, I don't like I like

0:33:25.760 --> 0:33:29.200
<v Speaker 1>treating people like people, like humans. It doesn't matter if

0:33:30.000 --> 0:33:32.680
<v Speaker 1>you're my assistant, doesn't like I don't know. I like

0:33:32.720 --> 0:33:35.080
<v Speaker 1>to treat people the way like I want to be treated.

0:33:35.240 --> 0:33:37.000
<v Speaker 1>So I always say please and I say thank you.

0:33:37.040 --> 0:33:38.640
<v Speaker 1>And sometimes if even if I'm rude, I'm like, can't

0:33:38.640 --> 0:33:41.760
<v Speaker 1>I apologize I'm in a bad mood today, Like I don't.

0:33:41.640 --> 0:33:43.719
<v Speaker 2>Think you've been I don't think you've been rude to me. Now,

0:33:43.840 --> 0:33:45.280
<v Speaker 2>I think I'm good with giving you your space.

0:33:45.520 --> 0:33:47.680
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you're you're very good at reading the room.

0:33:47.600 --> 0:33:50.320
<v Speaker 2>Right and right like, yeah, so I won't ask questions,

0:33:50.320 --> 0:33:51.640
<v Speaker 2>I won't just like sending them back.

0:33:51.880 --> 0:33:52.840
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, like you're chilling.

0:33:53.120 --> 0:33:56.280
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but I'm also eager to please. Yeah, and I'm

0:33:56.280 --> 0:33:59.120
<v Speaker 2>a little bit socially awkward. So I think that's like

0:33:59.160 --> 0:34:01.440
<v Speaker 2>getting a little getting used to that a little bit.

0:34:01.840 --> 0:34:05.240
<v Speaker 1>I love it. I enjoy it. I'm socially awkward. I

0:34:05.280 --> 0:34:07.160
<v Speaker 1>don't think you're I think you're I mean, I don't know.

0:34:07.240 --> 0:34:10.160
<v Speaker 1>Everyone around me loves you. They think you're so hilarious.

0:34:10.320 --> 0:34:13.160
<v Speaker 1>Oh thanks, yeah everyone really that's true. Yeah, that's the truth.

0:34:13.360 --> 0:34:15.680
<v Speaker 1>That is the truth. I swear it's the truth. People

0:34:15.719 --> 0:34:17.879
<v Speaker 1>like you, people like I've gotten a lot of great

0:34:17.920 --> 0:34:21.560
<v Speaker 1>comments that you're just you're very efficient and you get

0:34:21.560 --> 0:34:23.960
<v Speaker 1>shit done. And I like that you're not out there

0:34:23.960 --> 0:34:26.040
<v Speaker 1>trying to be people's friends, like you're cool, you're polite.

0:34:26.080 --> 0:34:27.440
<v Speaker 1>But it's like, this is my job. I'm going to

0:34:27.480 --> 0:34:29.200
<v Speaker 1>get it into I need that in my life. I

0:34:29.239 --> 0:34:30.719
<v Speaker 1>had it before. It was just like people trying to

0:34:30.719 --> 0:34:32.919
<v Speaker 1>be friends and then things were being said. I can't

0:34:32.920 --> 0:34:33.120
<v Speaker 1>with that.

0:34:33.520 --> 0:34:36.040
<v Speaker 2>I have had a few people like like, hey, let's

0:34:36.040 --> 0:34:39.000
<v Speaker 2>go get a coffee, and it's like they're not even

0:34:39.040 --> 0:34:41.000
<v Speaker 2>in your immediate circle. They're like around you, and I'm

0:34:41.040 --> 0:34:42.440
<v Speaker 2>just like, yeah, of course, And then I.

0:34:42.440 --> 0:34:44.680
<v Speaker 1>Just like, yeah, is it dudes?

0:34:45.960 --> 0:34:48.440
<v Speaker 2>No? Not, okay, okay, I haven't get hit on. I

0:34:48.480 --> 0:34:49.759
<v Speaker 2>actually don't get hit on a lot.

0:34:50.120 --> 0:34:51.040
<v Speaker 1>That's ridiculous.

0:34:51.120 --> 0:34:51.680
<v Speaker 2>I really don't.

0:34:51.880 --> 0:34:54.319
<v Speaker 1>That's one thing I told my banda though I do not,

0:34:55.600 --> 0:34:58.160
<v Speaker 1>she is completely off limits. We're not and she would never.

0:34:58.280 --> 0:34:59.920
<v Speaker 1>But I'm just thinking them because they're dudes. You know,

0:35:00.400 --> 0:35:01.840
<v Speaker 1>a lot of them are married, a lot of them aren't.

0:35:01.840 --> 0:35:04.480
<v Speaker 1>But it's I don't get horny, we're not doing this.

0:35:04.520 --> 0:35:06.719
<v Speaker 2>But they I don't think even before that, since I've

0:35:06.760 --> 0:35:09.560
<v Speaker 2>been around and I've already met them, Yeah, knowing them

0:35:09.560 --> 0:35:12.960
<v Speaker 2>for a while, they're very respectful, but it's they've I mean,

0:35:13.000 --> 0:35:13.680
<v Speaker 2>I don't really like.

0:35:13.719 --> 0:35:16.319
<v Speaker 1>If anyone's ever disrespectful to you, let me know. Oh,

0:35:16.360 --> 0:35:17.040
<v Speaker 1>I will handle it.

0:35:17.080 --> 0:35:19.560
<v Speaker 2>I think I have where I'm like, well, this person

0:35:19.600 --> 0:35:21.239
<v Speaker 2>said it like this, and I just put it out there.

0:35:21.280 --> 0:35:25.279
<v Speaker 2>Oh no, just you know, yeah, do not.

0:35:26.040 --> 0:35:28.800
<v Speaker 1>I will freaking I feel very overprotective of you already,

0:35:28.800 --> 0:35:30.239
<v Speaker 1>which is the whole thing I do. I feel like

0:35:30.239 --> 0:35:31.759
<v Speaker 1>I need to protect you. I gotta you know, I

0:35:31.800 --> 0:35:33.279
<v Speaker 1>want to make sure you're okay because I don't want

0:35:33.280 --> 0:35:34.560
<v Speaker 1>people take advantage.

0:35:34.640 --> 0:35:37.120
<v Speaker 2>I feel like that too. Yeah, I'm not a pushover,

0:35:37.239 --> 0:35:41.560
<v Speaker 2>but I'm just like very like I just let shit slide.

0:35:41.960 --> 0:35:43.960
<v Speaker 2>But when I do need to stand up, like when

0:35:43.960 --> 0:35:46.160
<v Speaker 2>I did this last weekend, when like when I need

0:35:46.200 --> 0:35:47.959
<v Speaker 2>to say like, yeah, that wasn't okay, Like I'm really

0:35:47.960 --> 0:35:48.440
<v Speaker 2>good at that.

0:35:48.560 --> 0:35:50.680
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, what's our thing that we talked about. We have

0:35:50.760 --> 0:35:54.680
<v Speaker 1>to be gracefully gracefully assertive, gracefully assertive. It's like there's

0:35:55.200 --> 0:35:56.839
<v Speaker 1>and I say this on the podcast all the time,

0:35:56.840 --> 0:35:59.279
<v Speaker 1>there's nothing wrong with being People like, oh, you sugarcoat things.

0:35:59.320 --> 0:36:02.560
<v Speaker 1>I don't sugarcoat what it is is. I'm very stern.

0:36:02.840 --> 0:36:05.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm very direct. I don't have to be a bitch

0:36:05.160 --> 0:36:06.839
<v Speaker 1>to be like to try to get someone to do something.

0:36:06.840 --> 0:36:10.200
<v Speaker 1>It's just like, hey, this bothered me, and some people

0:36:10.280 --> 0:36:12.760
<v Speaker 1>don't like it when I say something, they get so offended.

0:36:12.800 --> 0:36:15.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I wasn't even mean about it, but you're

0:36:15.200 --> 0:36:16.440
<v Speaker 1>just not used to me saying something.

0:36:16.520 --> 0:36:19.200
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we're the same in that where like people call

0:36:19.239 --> 0:36:21.239
<v Speaker 2>me a bitch and I'm not a bitch. Yeah, Like

0:36:21.280 --> 0:36:23.160
<v Speaker 2>I don't have a bitch demeanor. I don't have a

0:36:23.160 --> 0:36:25.680
<v Speaker 2>bitch personality and not like you because I say things

0:36:25.719 --> 0:36:28.080
<v Speaker 2>like no, that's not okay and like don't do that again,

0:36:28.480 --> 0:36:30.160
<v Speaker 2>and they're like, oh, you're a bitch, and I'm like, no,

0:36:30.200 --> 0:36:31.759
<v Speaker 2>I'm not. I'm just telling you how.

0:36:31.800 --> 0:36:34.439
<v Speaker 1>I just don't like that. I'm actually speaking up right.

0:36:34.480 --> 0:36:36.759
<v Speaker 2>And I'm very honest and like rip the band aid,

0:36:36.800 --> 0:36:39.479
<v Speaker 2>Like you're like that too, where you say that that's

0:36:39.520 --> 0:36:41.919
<v Speaker 2>not okay, or like if you have something to say

0:36:41.920 --> 0:36:44.160
<v Speaker 2>to somebody, you'll say it right then and there before you.

0:36:44.280 --> 0:36:47.120
<v Speaker 1>I can't. Yeah, I cannot, Like no matter what I'm doing,

0:36:47.200 --> 0:36:49.160
<v Speaker 1>I need to tell the person you do, because then

0:36:49.160 --> 0:36:51.120
<v Speaker 1>it just I harbor it and it just becomes like

0:36:51.200 --> 0:36:53.160
<v Speaker 1>something just nasty and toxic in my body. So I'm

0:36:53.160 --> 0:36:54.360
<v Speaker 1>just like I'm just gonna say it. Yeah, And I

0:36:54.400 --> 0:36:55.480
<v Speaker 1>love sending voice notes.

0:36:55.840 --> 0:36:57.759
<v Speaker 2>I harbor this. I need to be more like you

0:36:57.800 --> 0:36:58.360
<v Speaker 2>and that.

0:36:58.719 --> 0:37:03.319
<v Speaker 1>And I just like because it makes yeah, yeah, put

0:37:03.320 --> 0:37:04.560
<v Speaker 1>in my pocket. No, you got to take that shit

0:37:04.600 --> 0:37:07.279
<v Speaker 1>out because and it starts weighing and become rocks. They

0:37:07.280 --> 0:37:09.919
<v Speaker 1>become rocks. So anyways, we'll work on that. But we're

0:37:09.960 --> 0:37:13.360
<v Speaker 1>gracefully assertive and we're good. And my whole thing is

0:37:13.400 --> 0:37:13.960
<v Speaker 1>are you happy?

0:37:14.280 --> 0:37:14.480
<v Speaker 2>Yes?

0:37:14.520 --> 0:37:16.160
<v Speaker 1>I am okay good? Are you sure?

0:37:16.239 --> 0:37:17.279
<v Speaker 2>I am happy to be all right?

0:37:17.360 --> 0:37:17.560
<v Speaker 1>Cool?

0:37:17.640 --> 0:37:18.359
<v Speaker 2>I love my job.

0:37:19.480 --> 0:37:20.000
<v Speaker 1>We love you.

0:37:20.400 --> 0:37:21.520
<v Speaker 2>Are you happy that I'm here?

0:37:21.600 --> 0:37:22.480
<v Speaker 1>I am very happy?

0:37:22.600 --> 0:37:22.839
<v Speaker 2>Yes?

0:37:22.960 --> 0:37:24.759
<v Speaker 1>And Melio and I really like you very much. We

0:37:24.800 --> 0:37:28.680
<v Speaker 1>love you, Amilia loves you. He's great, he goes. He's

0:37:28.800 --> 0:37:31.480
<v Speaker 1>a man of very few words, so when he says something,

0:37:32.120 --> 0:37:37.080
<v Speaker 1>I listen because he's usually always right. Yeah, very and

0:37:37.120 --> 0:37:39.680
<v Speaker 1>I've learned that, and I'm like, I don't even argue

0:37:39.719 --> 0:37:41.359
<v Speaker 1>at this point anymore. He's like, I don't know about

0:37:41.360 --> 0:37:44.440
<v Speaker 1>this person. Maybe gotta be careful and he's always right always,

0:37:44.480 --> 0:37:46.560
<v Speaker 1>and with you, I'm not just trying to like you know,

0:37:46.600 --> 0:37:48.920
<v Speaker 1>you guys joke around a lot, but like he's like,

0:37:48.960 --> 0:37:51.399
<v Speaker 1>I really like him, Like I enjoy having her around.

0:37:51.400 --> 0:37:52.920
<v Speaker 1>She doesn't bother me and that makes me happy.

0:37:52.960 --> 0:37:56.040
<v Speaker 2>Oh that's good, yeah, because he because we get our

0:37:56.080 --> 0:37:56.720
<v Speaker 2>sense of humor.

0:37:56.840 --> 0:37:58.440
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you guys, you guys have the same.

0:37:58.719 --> 0:38:00.920
<v Speaker 2>If I can't off, he's like, you just cut me

0:38:00.920 --> 0:38:02.440
<v Speaker 2>off to don't do that again. And I'm just like

0:38:02.520 --> 0:38:05.120
<v Speaker 2>cracking up. He's like, I'm serious but he's joking.

0:38:05.239 --> 0:38:07.440
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm like that, Yeah, you guys get a long

0:38:07.440 --> 0:38:11.360
<v Speaker 1>great thanks. Yeah. And people have asked me, you guys, honestly,

0:38:11.400 --> 0:38:13.560
<v Speaker 1>they've asked me like, it doesn't worry you that you

0:38:13.680 --> 0:38:17.960
<v Speaker 1>have a young, pretty assistant around your man. Yes, you're beautiful,

0:38:18.120 --> 0:38:20.920
<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, no, I trust you. You way harder

0:38:21.000 --> 0:38:23.919
<v Speaker 1>than me. Oh my gosh, Kim nobody in their.

0:38:23.880 --> 0:38:25.400
<v Speaker 2>Right mind whatever, you're.

0:38:25.239 --> 0:38:28.160
<v Speaker 1>Freaking insane, like you're so hot. Yes, people have asked

0:38:28.160 --> 0:38:29.560
<v Speaker 1>me that. I swear, There's been two people that have

0:38:29.600 --> 0:38:32.680
<v Speaker 1>asked me, and I'm like, I leave my house tell me. Yeah, yeah,

0:38:32.680 --> 0:38:35.040
<v Speaker 1>I'll tell you later. But I'm at I leave my

0:38:35.080 --> 0:38:37.280
<v Speaker 1>house and you guys are there alone. I don't worry.

0:38:37.400 --> 0:38:39.600
<v Speaker 1>I would not have you as an assistant and I

0:38:39.600 --> 0:38:42.560
<v Speaker 1>would not be marrying him. If I felt that I

0:38:42.600 --> 0:38:44.360
<v Speaker 1>can't trust you and I didn't tust you guys, you

0:38:44.360 --> 0:38:46.279
<v Speaker 1>wouldn't be in my house. I would not be with him.

0:38:46.520 --> 0:38:48.239
<v Speaker 1>Why am I going to fucking torment myself? Like ye,

0:38:49.080 --> 0:38:51.360
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, no, he knows what he needs to be respectful.

0:38:51.360 --> 0:38:53.759
<v Speaker 1>You're very respectful and that's it. So it's not a

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<v Speaker 1>I don't. I'm not intimidated by other women's beauty. You know.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, oh, you think you're beautiful and you're intel,

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<v Speaker 1>and any guy would be freaking, freaking honestly blessed to

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<v Speaker 1>have you as a girlfriend. And I know that'll come,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and I'm going to make sure that they

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<v Speaker 1>come through me first. I'm like, hey, what do you do?

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<v Speaker 1>How are you? Because I'm not gonna let anyone hurt

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<v Speaker 1>you as long as I'm in your life. Oh you

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<v Speaker 1>know how, you already know how I am.

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<v Speaker 2>Yep.

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<v Speaker 1>So we're gonna say anything else you can.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't mind if you want to say something. How

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<v Speaker 2>much time do you have you can? I don't mind.

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<v Speaker 2>But I was gonna say, like, so I've had like

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<v Speaker 2>how you say, like you don't mind me hanging out

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<v Speaker 2>with your boyfriend. I've had friends taught me that since

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<v Speaker 2>high school. Like I've always been like that where I'm

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<v Speaker 2>cool with my friends guys and I've never done anything.

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<v Speaker 2>But I've had my friend one time she said it

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<v Speaker 2>never escapes me. But I had a friend in high

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<v Speaker 2>school and I remember She's like, dude, I dreamt that

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<v Speaker 2>you went to a bar with my man and I

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<v Speaker 2>was just cool with it and you guys were just

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<v Speaker 2>chilling out a bar and I was like, that's a

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<v Speaker 2>funny dream. But it's stuck with me. And then like

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<v Speaker 2>now I have my friend like with her husband. Sometimes

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<v Speaker 2>we send each other memes.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and she like, oh, are you texting?

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<v Speaker 2>No, Like, I'll just send her game and she's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>like look at what I sent him, And she's like,

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<v Speaker 2>I love that you guys are friends.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because you you're Yeah, I mean, I get it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why I wouldn't. I don't. I don't mind because

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, let me just I just came to

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<v Speaker 1>my mind now because some people said it. But honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>like I always because.

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<v Speaker 2>Like Allmi's always like throwing herself at Ali.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, She's always like she is, oh my god when

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<v Speaker 1>people watch the first episode of the freaking docu that

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<v Speaker 1>we're doing, Oh my god, you guys, you guys are

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<v Speaker 1>gonna see what we're talking about when it comes to

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<v Speaker 1>open enemio, because she's always just saying, oh wow today

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<v Speaker 1>like that, Yeah, it's funny, it's hilarious.

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<v Speaker 2>It's hilarious. I love that. I wouldn't joke like that

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<v Speaker 2>just because that's not my personality. But when she does it,

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<v Speaker 2>it's it's.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well there you guys, there it is.

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<v Speaker 2>You.

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<v Speaker 1>Guys have asked about Kim a lot through my dms

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<v Speaker 1>and even at shows, like oh, I haven't met your

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<v Speaker 1>new assistant? Is she gonna be nice to us? Like fans?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, of course she is. There are just certain

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<v Speaker 1>things and boundaries now that we're setting for my life

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<v Speaker 1>and stuff that wasn't necessarily respected before, not necessarily by

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<v Speaker 1>like my boss bees, but other people that work for

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<v Speaker 1>me that I just want. Things are changing, but for

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<v Speaker 1>the better. I feel so all right, guys, thank you

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<v Speaker 1>so much. Thank you for being a part of this podcast,

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<v Speaker 1>for listening, for always coming week after week. I hope

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<v Speaker 1>that you guys grow and learn through my podcast. And yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>this one was for the fans because they kept asking,

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<v Speaker 1>and yeah, thank you guys so much, and I'll catch

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<v Speaker 1>you on the next episode of Cheeky's and Chill Piecers say.

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<v Speaker 2>Bye and embarrass you.

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<v Speaker 1>Did I know you didn't say bye to everyone? No,

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<v Speaker 1>she did not embarrass me.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought we were done. I'm sorry.

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