Speaker 1: Hello, bian Benidos is snippisodio to this episode of Cheese
Speaker 1: and Show. You guys. I hope you all are having
Speaker 1: a great week and having a great day, and just
Speaker 1: be careful if you're driving and listening to my podcast,
Speaker 1: but thank you for listening. If you're cleaning the house
Speaker 1: that be in. There's gonna be a fun one, you guys.
Speaker 1: This is gonna be a fun episode. People always ask
Speaker 1: me about my team, and I always say this my team.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't be able to do what I do without
Speaker 1: my team. I truly believe that it's something that I
Speaker 1: don't just say lightly. And with that talking about my team,
Speaker 1: people have been asking me a lot about my new assistant. Okay,
Speaker 1: and she is here today to talk with us, So
Speaker 1: welcome Kim. Her name is Kim Andel Gonzalez. Say hi,
Speaker 1: this is Kim. She's very nervous, you guys, very very nervous.
Speaker 1: But she's not being pressured to do this. Just FYI,
Speaker 1: I am not under dress, Yes she is not. So okay.
Speaker 1: So Kim became my assistant in the beginning of this year,
Speaker 1: right yes, January first. Basically we were already kind of
Speaker 1: talking in December and she's been around at some of
Speaker 1: my shows, and I was like, I like this girl.
Speaker 1: She's very quiet, she's very like efficient. I wasn't thinking
Speaker 1: during that time that you were going to be my assistant,
Speaker 1: but I was like, oh okay, when someone brought it up,
Speaker 1: I said, hey, that's actually not a bad idea. Thank
Speaker 1: you so much. I started off as being my mom's assistant,
Speaker 1: so I know what it is to be an assistant.
Speaker 1: We're going to get into that right now. But anyways,
Speaker 1: since I started my career, I've had one, two, three, four,
Speaker 1: five assistants. Yes, they've all been great. You're the fifth.
Speaker 1: You are the fifth.
Speaker 2: Johnny likes number five so many. Yes, it's good.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I have five siblings. Five is a very significant
Speaker 1: number in our lives. So five, yes, let me make
Speaker 1: sure five. She's a fifth. Okay. So anyways, Kim, how
Speaker 1: are you?
Speaker 2: You're my first?
Speaker 1: Oh? Nice that I love being people's first. But yes, okay,
Speaker 1: so talking about that. First of all, how are you, Kim?
Speaker 1: How are you feeling right now?
Speaker 2: I'm very nervous.
Speaker 1: You're very nervous. I'm be nervous. Your ears with chicky's
Speaker 1: and chill and let's just.
Speaker 2: I know I'm like, it's just like it's I know
Speaker 2: you guys.
Speaker 1: But yeah, yeah, the producers you know over.
Speaker 2: I don't like it when people saying happy birthday to
Speaker 2: me either.
Speaker 1: Oh you don't like to be like the center of
Speaker 1: attention and it drives you like it makes you feel.
Speaker 2: I just get really nervous.
Speaker 1: You get nervous.
Speaker 2: But okay, so I get that.
Speaker 1: Anyways, you're good, you're happy.
Speaker 2: You just described me as Kayarita is said thing. I'm
Speaker 2: not gonna correct you.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, I know. It's because she's not Kaylita. Actually,
Speaker 1: when she gets comfortable, she's so hilarious. I was like,
Speaker 1: I think you need to do stand up.
Speaker 2: I've been told by so many people, and like my
Speaker 2: friends at work, they're like, you should do stand up.
Speaker 2: And at the bar my friend goes to, they have
Speaker 2: open mic and I signed up once, but I didn't
Speaker 2: go because I can't remember why. But I'd probably get
Speaker 2: canceled honestly.
Speaker 1: Because she says them off the water shit. But I
Speaker 1: love it. She's just so straight out. So okay, wait
Speaker 1: before we get into like that, what were you doing?
Speaker 1: Because I think a lot of people want to know
Speaker 1: what were you doing before you became my assistant. I
Speaker 1: know the answer, but she's gonna share it with you guys.
Speaker 2: I was a stripper.
Speaker 1: I yes, she worked the streets. I'm just kidding.
Speaker 2: No apers, MA good of money, No.
Speaker 1: Do no no hate on that, don't whatever makes you happy.
Speaker 2: I was a labor and employment paralegal. I did litigation,
Speaker 2: I did trials. I did that for six years, but
Speaker 2: I worked my way up. Yeah, so I got my
Speaker 2: paralegal certificate and associates degree, and then from there I
Speaker 2: just started a small firm in Tustin, and then I
Speaker 2: went to a big firm. And then after that I
Speaker 2: went to really close to my house, to a firm
Speaker 2: with two badass partners where they just did trial work.
Speaker 2: They actually handled some cases with John L. Barber. If
Speaker 2: anybody knows law, they know who John L. Barber is.
Speaker 2: That was pretty cool. Nice. So I then then from
Speaker 2: that I came with you. But I'd been working with
Speaker 2: Richard because I'm Richard, because Richard manager. Right, So it's
Speaker 2: kind of like a earlier you said that you had
Speaker 2: worked with me and all that. It was kind of
Speaker 2: like a training course over the years.
Speaker 1: Yeah, because you you did some stuff in music, like
Speaker 1: you were working with Richard, with Richard and doing just
Speaker 1: a bunch of that I did on the.
Speaker 2: Side, right, So I helped Richard with booking. Actually I
Speaker 2: helped him with Puma before blew up, But I didn't
Speaker 2: actually get to help him with Pluma because by the
Speaker 2: time he blew up and he started touring over here
Speaker 2: in the US, it was too late.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, but so you've always been into like the
Speaker 1: music industry like you.
Speaker 2: I love music, yeah, and I love all kinds of
Speaker 2: music too, so yeah, And then I worked with him
Speaker 2: with because he has he does a lot of stuff. Yeah,
Speaker 2: And I've helped him with a lot of stuff. I've
Speaker 2: helped him with so much. So I got to meet
Speaker 2: a lot of people because I also went to the
Speaker 2: conferences Confidence that they have in Las Vegas, h four
Speaker 2: times a year. I met a lot of people there
Speaker 2: and I would go with him. I met a lot
Speaker 2: of people there, and I still like versus yeah, where
Speaker 2: I'm like around you and three people remember me from there.
Speaker 2: It happened to me with the guy from Live Nation.
Speaker 2: He was like, oh, you were at the Confidence.
Speaker 1: You have a unique look.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I did stand out because it's a bunch of
Speaker 2: men a lot of Mexican men is like a little
Speaker 2: wita right there. They don't always think of Mexican either.
Speaker 1: Yeah, talking about where are you from, I am.
Speaker 2: Jo I do I say that to everybody. I wasn't
Speaker 2: born there, but because I say I'm from their people,
Speaker 2: I think I was born there, But I was born
Speaker 2: in l A. Yeah, but I was born in l A.
Speaker 2: My mom from Paramount. I was born in Bellflower, and
Speaker 2: then I went to Mexico and then I came back
Speaker 2: third grade and I've been here since third grade, but
Speaker 2: I would go back and forth every years. Nice.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but she's a very proud Latina and I love that.
Speaker 1: We get along very well. And this job is very
Speaker 1: different from your previous job. It's very safe. It's safe
Speaker 1: to say. And I'll tell you guys now, Kim is
Speaker 1: very extremely smart. She's a very smart young lady. So
Speaker 1: when I first started having those conversations with her, I
Speaker 1: was like, dude, she's a paralegal. I was like, are
Speaker 1: you sure you want to do this job? Like it's
Speaker 1: like I was worried. I was like, I don't know
Speaker 1: if she's gonna like it, But she's like, no, I'm ready.
Speaker 1: I'm ready for a career change. So talk to us
Speaker 1: a little bit about how different it is from like,
Speaker 1: I mean, because you had an office job and now
Speaker 1: we're everywhere, right in every in every way, we're everywhere. Yeah,
Speaker 1: every day is different every day.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, I remember when you asked me, I was
Speaker 2: an ex expecting that because yet can I speak Spanish? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Of course.
Speaker 2: Everything that I did with Richard, like my my that
Speaker 2: was my side job. That's what I would do on
Speaker 2: the weekends or I would sometimes take time off, but
Speaker 2: that was like additional to my I had my permanent
Speaker 2: day job, my best job. But it was a little
Speaker 2: training course, helping you with the music videos.
Speaker 1: She came out and me, prolema, you guys go go
Speaker 1: check it out. Came and her daughter a problema and
Speaker 1: I and and this is all before she started working with.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I've been around, yes, yeah, And so I
Speaker 2: had a taste, a taste of it, and by the
Speaker 2: time you asked me, I just prayed on it. I
Speaker 2: was like, oh, this is weird because I had joked
Speaker 2: about it with Richard. I was like, hey, if she
Speaker 2: ever needs an assistant, I can't remember why. Oh, I think
Speaker 2: we were like on set and he was like, that's
Speaker 2: pretty cool. Ha and you were getting fanned and all
Speaker 2: the camera run and it was like beautiful. And I
Speaker 2: was like, honestly, like I would I would want that job.
Speaker 2: And I pointed at O me. Then I was like
Speaker 2: that that I am be hear more than because I
Speaker 2: don't like the tension.
Speaker 1: Yea, yeah, it's not cool.
Speaker 2: It's like I was like, I would want that job,
Speaker 2: and I kind of just put in easy ear. But
Speaker 2: I was just kidding, yeah, okay, I didn't think that
Speaker 2: it would come to fruition. Yeah, and so by the
Speaker 2: time you talk to me about it, I prayed on
Speaker 2: it and it felt right. So I go based off
Speaker 2: of feeling me too.
Speaker 1: That's how I am. But it is very different, Yeah
Speaker 1: it is.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it is very stressful. Huh So it's like a
Speaker 2: different kind of stressful. Yeah. But but I don't know
Speaker 2: if you remember, but the first month, I think you
Speaker 2: asked me how I was feeling, and I said, I
Speaker 2: feel like I was on vacation. I have to go
Speaker 2: back to work.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like when do I go back to work?
Speaker 2: I was like, Oh, they're gonna get mad at me
Speaker 2: because I haven't gone back to work. Like when do
Speaker 2: I go back to ask for too much time off.
Speaker 2: So that was weird.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that transition right, Yeah, because I always say this
Speaker 1: and I've said it many times. I had Omi on
Speaker 1: the podcast as well and everything, and I've shared that
Speaker 1: whole thing with you guys, which is why now Kim
Speaker 1: is here. Because some people might think, like, Gigi's why
Speaker 1: are you even sharing this or why are you sharing
Speaker 1: you know, why not? Because I started off as an assistant.
Speaker 1: I have shared so much with you guys on this podcast,
Speaker 1: so I want you guys to know. You know, it's
Speaker 1: not easy. I know it's not easy being an assistant.
Speaker 1: I was there, That's the way I started. I and
Speaker 1: will ask him right now. But I consider myself a
Speaker 1: pretty like chill boss, maybe sometimes a little too chill.
Speaker 1: And I've learned that sometimes some people, not everyone, takes
Speaker 1: your kindness for weakness and I've had to toughen up
Speaker 1: a little bit. But how are you feeling? And honestly,
Speaker 1: I wasn't even really planning. I have my notes here,
Speaker 1: but you guys know, I always just talk from the
Speaker 1: heart and I want to have a conversation with you.
Speaker 1: How are you feeling? Like? How you know? Especially that
Speaker 1: first day of the tour. It was tough. You guys.
Speaker 1: I've never felt that pressure any other tour ever in
Speaker 1: my life, I think because we've leveled up. So she
Speaker 1: came in and and she was kind of just thrown
Speaker 1: into it.
Speaker 2: M Yeah, when you said that, it made me feel
Speaker 2: a little bit like, all right, it's not just me,
Speaker 2: it's not just you, because I've been on tour with
Speaker 2: you before, well like not like the whole tour, but
Speaker 2: I've been to your shows and I've been to multiple
Speaker 2: shows in a weekend as well, so I've done that.
Speaker 2: But it was the pressure was real. There was just
Speaker 2: so much going on, and there were a lot of
Speaker 2: cameras there.
Speaker 1: Yeah, there was a lot going on. Yeah, there was
Speaker 1: had a docu there, then we had.
Speaker 2: And then Julio's filming, and then AMI's filming, and then
Speaker 2: Jennifer's like I need this video. There's just like there
Speaker 2: was and then there was that, and then there was
Speaker 2: the production going on where it's like getting this and
Speaker 2: this and that, and we're getting something mailed in today
Speaker 2: that didn't get there on time, and then just just
Speaker 2: a lot. It was. It was a lot, but I
Speaker 2: was already familiar with it. But The reason why I
Speaker 2: felt the pressure was because I want to do my
Speaker 2: job right. Yeah, and if something if something, thank you.
Speaker 2: If something doesn't go right, it's that's not me. Yeah,
Speaker 2: even if it wasn't something that I did. Sometimes you
Speaker 2: have to depend on other people doing their job, but
Speaker 2: it's still my job to make sure that they're doing
Speaker 2: their job or something. You know.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the thing.
Speaker 2: It's a lot of pressure.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and we all felt it. It's just you know,
Speaker 1: we have the responsibility of like now we have Live Nation,
Speaker 1: and it's just different. There's more production, and it's always
Speaker 1: the first show is always nerve wracking. And when I
Speaker 1: told you that, I was like, I really feel that
Speaker 1: I understand. But I'm very very patient because again I
Speaker 1: know what it is to be in your shoes, and
Speaker 1: I also, as a boss, have made mistakes in my
Speaker 1: past that I don't want to make, you know, and
Speaker 1: I want to learn from my mistakes and always be
Speaker 1: better every single day. So anyways, I think you are.
Speaker 2: You said you think you're a chill boss. I think
Speaker 2: you are. Yeah, I don't think I think you've sometimes
Speaker 2: said you know, I think you think that you're tough.
Speaker 2: Sometimes I don't think you are. I think you're just stern,
Speaker 2: just straight up You're like, Nope, we're not going to
Speaker 2: do it like that. And some people get like, you know,
Speaker 2: but I think I appreciate that more. Yeah, Like if
Speaker 2: you say this needs to be done like this, like
Speaker 2: I'll get that. I think I think we work well
Speaker 2: like that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so we have good communication for sure.
Speaker 2: And then I don't offend it either.
Speaker 1: And I've learned to like not also not to we
Speaker 1: can't get everything done in a day before it's like
Speaker 1: I want all of this to get done, and now
Speaker 1: I'm like, no, it's it's it's not even healthy. And
Speaker 1: I've learned to like even scale back with myself. And
Speaker 1: before I used to have money to do list and
Speaker 1: like I want to check it all off today. No,
Speaker 1: like I'm chill, Like I'm like, I can't put that
Speaker 1: pressure on her, and and I don't want for me.
Speaker 1: It's so important that anyone that works with me or
Speaker 1: works for me is happy doing their job. When they're not,
Speaker 1: it's just not going to work. And I feel it.
Speaker 2: I think we are because there have already been a
Speaker 2: few comments here and there, you know, when people say, oh,
Speaker 2: we like your vibe, like when we're in glam and
Speaker 2: there's like a little group of us. Yeah, I can't remember.
Speaker 2: I think Jennifer Neman said it once. He was like, oh,
Speaker 2: your guys, this vibe is so refreshing. And somebody else too.
Speaker 2: It's happened a few times, yeah, where they compliment I
Speaker 2: like our energy.
Speaker 1: Working together where it's like it feels peaceful like, and
Speaker 1: that's what I want. I want to be that in
Speaker 1: everyone's life getting wrong.
Speaker 2: And we're cracking jokes and we're laughing.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Is it safe to say though now that it
Speaker 1: does not feel like a vacation anymore like the No.
Speaker 2: It feels like working out. So I got my routine now, Okay,
Speaker 2: I have my roucine now and I'm doing Okay, I
Speaker 2: didn't answer your question. I'm sorry, I'm good. I feel
Speaker 2: better now. After the first show I felt a lot better, yes,
Speaker 2: and then I don't know if you can talk about
Speaker 2: the second show, but.
Speaker 1: Yeah we can. I mean a little bit. The second
Speaker 1: show that's when the miscarriage happened.
Speaker 2: Well, and then the first show, so I felt that
Speaker 2: pressure too because I already knew and then and so
Speaker 2: I was like watching out for that too. Yeah, And
Speaker 2: it's like you're going up the thing. And I was like,
Speaker 2: oh my god, she didn't fall. You tripped a little bit.
Speaker 2: I did almost, and I was right backstage that happened,
Speaker 2: and I was like, fuck, my head's oh sorry, I
Speaker 2: don't know if I could cut.
Speaker 1: You can say fuck are fine because I was.
Speaker 2: I was right behind you, and I saw when that happened,
Speaker 2: and I stuck my head up above the stage a
Speaker 2: little bit, and so I'm sure I don't know if
Speaker 2: people saw me like a little go over right, they're sticking.
Speaker 2: I was like, oh my god, because that scared me
Speaker 2: a little bit. No one no one knew.
Speaker 1: No yeah, the band that Richard, no one knew, and
Speaker 1: it was just Emilio Jess. I didn't even know my
Speaker 1: makeup artist. So it was a little nerve wracking. And
Speaker 1: I was like, oh god. I had the I'm never
Speaker 1: afraid to walk in heels, but that first show, I
Speaker 1: was like, oh my gosh. I was like, I can't fall.
Speaker 1: I can't fall. But I was like, I'm still gonna
Speaker 1: be a batty yeah, because I want to be that
Speaker 1: girl seven months pregnant with some big ass heels. Maybe yeah,
Speaker 1: I can see you know, Yeah, you know. So, so
Speaker 1: then the second show came along, because the first show
Speaker 1: was very stressful. The second one everything was so chill,
Speaker 1: Like I was, I felt so good. I was like, hey,
Speaker 1: are you feeling better? She said, Oh my god, I
Speaker 1: feel so much better.
Speaker 2: It was so much. It was so I was like, Okay,
Speaker 2: I think we needed to go through that first show.
Speaker 1: Yes, there's just a lot of people there.
Speaker 2: There's a lot of energy, there's a lot of it's
Speaker 2: a lot going on, right, So that by the second
Speaker 2: show we were like we got this and we didn't
Speaker 2: get it.
Speaker 1: We didn't get it. Yeah, yeah, but that's how it was.
Speaker 1: And we were like, okay, cool and then all of
Speaker 1: a sudden came the crams. Yeah, and then you know,
Speaker 1: it just went from there. But but AnyWho, I mean,
Speaker 1: I think, yeah, I think it was just the first show.
Speaker 1: What is a typical day with me? Actually, right, typical day?
Speaker 2: I think a lot. I think what people probably wouldn't
Speaker 2: like a typical day with you as your assistant. I
Speaker 2: don't think people really understand how much outside of the
Speaker 2: music stuff that needs to get done, like the house stuff,
Speaker 2: the business stuff. There's there are a lot of emails. Yeah,
Speaker 2: there's the I think my and then my favorite part
Speaker 2: really is Pancho and Ryo. Ye, like can you help
Speaker 2: with Yeah, like that's my favorite part. They're like my
Speaker 2: favorite coworkers. Yeah, they're as I'm my little and then
Speaker 2: they follow me around the house.
Speaker 1: Yeah, they love you so and I talked.
Speaker 2: To them all day and then I think I can't remember.
Speaker 2: I thinking it as Amelia, who was like who are
Speaker 2: you talking to? And I was like the dog's duh
Speaker 2: And he.
Speaker 1: Was like, okay, you keep things very interesting. I really
Speaker 1: enjoy my time with you, Like I I like having
Speaker 1: you around. When you're not around, I'm like, hey, I
Speaker 1: miss you. It's the weirdest thing because it's like I
Speaker 1: don't know, I have a lot of peace with you,
Speaker 1: and I love that. And also we've talked about it
Speaker 1: a few times. I'm like, hey, if this becomes too
Speaker 1: hard for you, if this is too much, let me know.
Speaker 1: Because the good thing is, I know you're gonna be
Speaker 1: fine because you have your job. Like I know everyone
Speaker 1: wants you back. Like when she first started working with me,
Speaker 1: one of her old bosses contacted her said, Hey, I'm
Speaker 1: starting my own firm. I left so and so, and
Speaker 1: I want you to come work with me, and she' said, hey,
Speaker 1: can you tell my new boss that.
Speaker 2: I was like can I On the phone, I was like,
Speaker 2: can you let her know how great I am?
Speaker 1: And he's right, he did. He's like, you're so lucky
Speaker 1: to have her. I'm like, I know, dude, things.
Speaker 2: She ended up not starting firm. He went to defense
Speaker 2: and he's cool. But yeah, a lot of my bosses.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, they want you back.
Speaker 2: So that makes me feel like I'm a good employee.
Speaker 1: That's why you really are. And that's the thing. That's
Speaker 1: what I was going to say. What I love about
Speaker 1: you is that and what also worries me at the
Speaker 1: same time, it's like you want to be so like
Speaker 1: you want to do everything perfectly, like you want to
Speaker 1: do your job well. And I love that even if
Speaker 1: you take a little bit longer to get something done,
Speaker 1: I know it's going to get done well. It's gonna
Speaker 1: be done. I don't have to remind you or say, hey,
Speaker 1: you didn't do this right. Like she's a fast learner.
Speaker 1: And I'm not worried. I'm not stressed. I'm like, Okay,
Speaker 1: Kim will handle it. It won't be right now maybe,
Speaker 1: and that's fine. It'll be but it'll get done and
Speaker 1: it always does. So you are definitely very good at
Speaker 1: what you do. What is the hardest part of your
Speaker 1: job do you feel?
Speaker 2: I think for me right now is kind of getting
Speaker 2: to know what to prioritize. And I've I mean, sometimes
Speaker 2: I want to ask you. Other times I don't want
Speaker 2: to bug you. Sometimes I even double triple make sure,
Speaker 2: even if like it's like you already told me, I
Speaker 2: just want to make sure. Yeah, but prioritizing, like do
Speaker 2: you think this is more important or this is more important?
Speaker 2: What do you want?
Speaker 1: Yeah, because I have like a list of them, like, hey,
Speaker 1: let's get this then, And I've learned also to communicate
Speaker 1: that like, hey, this is the priority list and that secondary, right,
Speaker 1: just so that she doesn't feel so pressured, because again,
Speaker 1: it's not just my music, it's the household, it's my
Speaker 1: personal calendar, my businesses. You know, it's a lot, all
Speaker 1: of them, all of them, all of my businesses. So yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean so okay, So yeah, I get that, and
Speaker 1: I want to get better at that as well, saying hey, Kim,
Speaker 1: like don't worry about this, this is secondary. Let's like
Speaker 1: focus on this. And I think we've been again. We're
Speaker 1: good at communicating, and I think that makes the biggest difference.
Speaker 2: Yes, I think. I think I'm getting better at it.
Speaker 1: I think, yeah, you are. Yeah, and that's why I'm like,
Speaker 1: it's gonna happen. It's only been six months, right.
Speaker 2: Oh shit, six months, that's half a year.
Speaker 1: Yeah, how do you feel? Are you? Are you?
Speaker 2: It doesn't feel like half a year. But also I
Speaker 2: feel like I can't really remember my life before.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like what did I do before?
Speaker 2: I can't remember?
Speaker 1: Yeah? Okay, So what's what's the coolest part of your job?
Speaker 1: An he like perks, anything that you feel like, oh,
Speaker 1: this is dope. This is what I like.
Speaker 2: Well, I mean I think there, I think this job
Speaker 2: is very, very demanding, but very rewarding. I like, I
Speaker 2: love my job because it's fun. I get to interact
Speaker 2: with people, all your people music. I think it's cool.
Speaker 1: There are times where she's randomly like She's like, I'm
Speaker 1: very happy, I'm happy to be here. I love my job,
Speaker 1: like I don't know where. She'll just say, and I'm like, oh,
Speaker 1: it makes me uppy.
Speaker 2: Thanks. Yeah. Because if we're doing something cool, like we
Speaker 2: went to New York City, I was like, I'm so
Speaker 2: fucking glad I'm here.
Speaker 1: Yeah, like, thanks for bringing me, get to travel and
Speaker 1: we do a lot of fun stuff. Yeah yeah, I mean,
Speaker 1: and I don't know if a lot of people know this,
Speaker 1: but Kim is also a mother. She's a mother beautiful girls.
Speaker 1: I hedot about that. Yeah, she's a mom Zelda and Leah.
Speaker 1: And that's one thing that worried me a little bit,
Speaker 1: was because I was like, dude, she's a mom, and
Speaker 1: but she's very You're a very present mom though, even
Speaker 1: though we're traveling and doing stuff, like you're always in
Speaker 1: contact with them. Your mom takes care of your girl,
Speaker 1: So that gives me peace.
Speaker 2: My mom came back to live with me to help
Speaker 2: me to take care of my girls. So I really
Speaker 2: appreciate her for that.
Speaker 1: And how do they feel about you working with me?
Speaker 1: You're girls?
Speaker 2: So I asked them, and Leah had already fallen in
Speaker 2: love with you from the problem when she came out.
Speaker 2: I remember, Yeah, so she's been following you since then
Speaker 2: and she's like your fan and all that she loves you,
Speaker 2: and yeah, but I asked them just to see what
Speaker 2: they would say, and Leah was like, oh my god, yes, Mom,
Speaker 2: you have to. She was like, you have to do
Speaker 2: that job. And then Zelda loves you too.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I love them. She gave me a little note yesterday.
Speaker 1: She's like, you were the best singer ever. Oh I
Speaker 1: love you.
Speaker 2: Yeah. They really wanted me to take the job. And
Speaker 2: then I think just recently these last couple of weeks,
Speaker 2: Zelda's very like emotional and communicative, and she's like, mom,
Speaker 2: I miss you, and I'm like, then text me back, yeah,
Speaker 2: text me back, because I call them and FaceTime them
Speaker 2: and I text them and sometimes I'm like look where
Speaker 2: I am and they're like, yeah, they don't care.
Speaker 1: Yeah, You're like I'm trying told the other day yeah.
Speaker 2: Because I was like, well look at this and they
Speaker 2: were just like okay, and I was like, okay, guys,
Speaker 2: please calm down. Yeah they don't care sometimes.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I always talked to them.
Speaker 2: And then I brought them yesterday. They were with me
Speaker 2: day with them yesterday, So I bring them when I
Speaker 2: can love them. Yeah, they're like coming around and they
Speaker 2: love you.
Speaker 1: Good kids.
Speaker 2: Fun Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And do you feel like, I mean, do you
Speaker 1: want to be in a relationship or.
Speaker 2: Are you No, you're my relationship?
Speaker 1: Okay? Nice? And you're happy with that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm going to give you a good solid year
Speaker 2: or two or whatever, and then maybe i'll I'll have
Speaker 2: a relationship depending on you know, how much money they
Speaker 2: have and all that.
Speaker 1: Yeah. So but right now you're totally like not emotionally available,
Speaker 1: like you're Is it by choice? Is it just like
Speaker 1: because of this job where you're just you're good right now?
Speaker 2: I think I'm good.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're chilling because I feel like right now, your
Speaker 1: priority from what I see is like your job, your girls,
Speaker 1: and that's it. Like sometimes I'm like, hey, Kim, you're
Speaker 1: you're off, go get your nails, and oh no, I'd
Speaker 1: rather sleep. I'd rather read a book.
Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, yeah, so like when I'm at the out,
Speaker 2: I could go do my nails, but then I'm just
Speaker 2: like that takes like what an hour or two?
Speaker 1: If I get a petty, Yeah, it does take a while.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And my mom's been taking the girls for me,
Speaker 2: so I don't have to take them.
Speaker 1: So they're good.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but yeah, i'd rather sleep. I have so many
Speaker 2: books to catch up on. But now that I feel
Speaker 2: like we're in got the tour stuff situated, I'm gonna
Speaker 2: start reading on them.
Speaker 1: I promise you it's gonna get easier from here. It is.
Speaker 1: It's just now that we're kind of getting into like
Speaker 1: the rhythm of things, it's gonna get easier.
Speaker 2: Once it's more like just like reflexive.
Speaker 1: Exactly exactly Like when I see O Me, she's just like, yeah,
Speaker 1: show me. Was with me for ten years, guys. So
Speaker 1: it's just you know, so I learned.
Speaker 2: I learned a lot from seeing her, like yeah.
Speaker 1: And they get along very well, which I love. He's
Speaker 1: my old assistant, you guys. She was on the podcast
Speaker 1: all right, what's something that most people don't know about me?
Speaker 1: That you would say, like something that you probably before
Speaker 1: you started working with me, didn't know. And it's like
Speaker 1: something that I don't know. It could be anything.
Speaker 2: Oh, she's hilarious.
Speaker 1: I am.
Speaker 2: She's actually really funny, but she's more like like the
Speaker 2: like I'm more like dead pan, like sarcastic.
Speaker 1: Love that type I love.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And you're more like like I love when you
Speaker 2: go on really only.
Speaker 1: I do.
Speaker 2: I'm funny, Oh my god, the most annoying part or
Speaker 2: when you go what else do you do when you go?
Speaker 2: I don't know, it's just you're rich very funny.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it could be funny, especially like if I'm
Speaker 1: like not stressed, I'm just like, oh very loose.
Speaker 2: Yeah, like you down there, but you've got you cracked
Speaker 2: me up sometimes.
Speaker 1: Good. That makes me happy. Okay, So is there any
Speaker 1: advice that you could give someone that would like because
Speaker 1: I get this a lot A lot of people like, oh,
Speaker 1: I want to work for you, cheeky's and stuff like that.
Speaker 1: I'm like, it's not as easy as you guys may think. Guys,
Speaker 1: is there any advice that you would give someone if
Speaker 1: they want to be like a celebrity assistant?
Speaker 2: The only I think the only reason I got this
Speaker 2: job is just knowing people.
Speaker 1: Mm hmmm.
Speaker 2: So I think more like, am I the most qualified assistant?
Speaker 2: Probably not. I'm sure there's somebody there out there somewhere
Speaker 2: who probably knows more or would do certain things better, right,
Speaker 2: But for me, it was just I knew someone so
Speaker 2: networking mm hmm. And also I think just more like
Speaker 2: our personalities flow.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I think we're like little puzzle piece. You're
Speaker 2: the AA, the beta. We're good like that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and it does fits nice.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like a little puzzle.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: But and then there. I've also had certain very specific
Speaker 2: life experiences that I think compliment yours, like also because well,
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't think somebody has to be Mexican
Speaker 2: to be your assistant, but I think that's a life
Speaker 2: experience that I bring with me that compliments your life experiences.
Speaker 2: And just like a lot of things. And then even
Speaker 2: like I think very like very specific things that I've
Speaker 2: also mentioned to you, like that I can apply to
Speaker 2: the situation. So I think my I'm very bad at
Speaker 2: answering questions. So if I don't answer a question, just let.
Speaker 1: Me know you're answering it perfectly.
Speaker 2: Actually, my feedback or advice would be network, right, like
Speaker 2: find something you like and network. Because when I met Richard,
Speaker 2: I met him through working at an event center. I
Speaker 2: started off like just selling tickets at the box office,
Speaker 2: and I would do that for fun because I would
Speaker 2: go sell tickets at the box office and I got
Speaker 2: to meet a lot of bandas and musicians and people
Speaker 2: because they would let us go backstage after the show.
Speaker 2: They would let us stay. I met like name you
Speaker 2: name it, all the main bandas I've seen them. Yeah,
Speaker 2: that's how I met Richard.
Speaker 1: It's like starstruck which is kind of cool too. I
Speaker 1: never have though, like I don't like yeah part of.
Speaker 2: Yeah though, like although I'd admire you and your music
Speaker 2: and like what you do and everything, I don't really
Speaker 2: like think like I don't fall into like the celebrity
Speaker 2: aspect of it with you or with anyone. Yeah, it'd
Speaker 2: be I think very few people who i'd be like
Speaker 2: amazed at meeting. And it's probably like, honestly, like my
Speaker 2: favorite journalists, not a musician, right, that makes sense, Yeah
Speaker 2: for sure. But yeah, so network. I remember for a
Speaker 2: long time when I would do the events, it would
Speaker 2: be like on my days off, and it'd be like
Speaker 2: eight am to two am type of thing. Oh damn,
Speaker 2: Like yeah, like I'd have to leave my house at
Speaker 2: eight and i'd get home, I get two three in
Speaker 2: the morning. I'd have to work the next day. But
Speaker 2: I pushed through it.
Speaker 1: Because you've always been so hard working.
Speaker 2: Oh thank you.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: And then and honestly I didn't that wasn't even a
Speaker 2: lot of money. But for me it was fun and
Speaker 2: I wasn't thinking like exerience the experience, and then I
Speaker 2: like people would tell me like, oh, you shouldn't go,
Speaker 2: like you shouldn't go do that. Why are you even
Speaker 2: doing that? And I would tell them, well, for me,
Speaker 2: it feels right, it's fun. I like it. And I'm
Speaker 2: just always putting myself out there. And I was always
Speaker 2: doing work outside of work. Yeah, so it was it
Speaker 2: wasn't just my day job. I was always either going
Speaker 2: to work and going to school or working at events
Speaker 2: or picking up stuff like I did a feew like
Speaker 2: brand ambassador things here and there with the music stuff.
Speaker 2: So that's what it's. Just put yourself out there. Don't
Speaker 2: be afraid to fail, because I mean did I wouldn't.
Speaker 2: I didn't succeed at everything, but I just put myself
Speaker 2: out there, network and you know, just chilling.
Speaker 1: Unnus, chilli on us. Yeah, that's the thing. You took
Speaker 1: a risk.
Speaker 2: Yeah, don't be afraid of failing, because.
Speaker 1: Yes, that's what I always say. Yeah, it's part of
Speaker 1: learning and growing and knowing and having that taste of failing.
Speaker 1: As weird as it sounds, it really helps you and
Speaker 1: makes you appreciate success even more so. You know, So,
Speaker 1: I truly believe that I know certain people in your
Speaker 1: life we're kind of worried about you taking this job
Speaker 1: because they said that it's not like a real job
Speaker 1: or something like that. How do you feel is it
Speaker 1: a real job? Is it a real job?
Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, it is a real job. It's a fine job.
Speaker 2: I think people are just jealous. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're not gonna say names.
Speaker 2: I was gonna say, do you want me to say who?
Speaker 1: No? No, no, no no, we're not going to say who.
Speaker 1: But I gess but some no no no, but some
Speaker 1: people did did did say that, And I was just
Speaker 1: kind of damn that that sucks, you know, because this
Speaker 1: is you know, I worry a lot because I'm like, damn, like,
Speaker 1: because I care about people that like, I really genuinely
Speaker 1: care for everyone that works with me. I want to
Speaker 1: make sure they're okay. I want to make sure she rests.
Speaker 1: I'm like, hey, please take some days off, like spend
Speaker 1: time with the girls, because I don't want her to
Speaker 1: feel so worked or what is it so overworked? Thank you?
Speaker 1: So overworked that she's just like if this and she
Speaker 1: starts resenting me, no, I wouldn't do it. But I
Speaker 1: just I think that if if we have open communication,
Speaker 1: I think everything will be fine. But it definitely is
Speaker 1: a real job and it's a fun job. I feel
Speaker 1: like it could be very fun, but it is stressful,
Speaker 1: and I understand, but I just want you to be
Speaker 1: happy more than anything.
Speaker 2: I am happy. I don't think it's stressful. I think
Speaker 2: it's there's a lot of pressure.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I think I think it's probably pressure that
Speaker 1: you put on yourself as I do. Yeah, I do.
Speaker 2: I do put that. I don't think i've ever I did.
Speaker 2: I'm not type A or perfectionists, but I do want
Speaker 2: to do a good job.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, but that's why everyone loves you or your employers.
Speaker 2: Well. Yeah, as an employee, I've I've always had they
Speaker 2: always want me back.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I never I've never left a job.
Speaker 2: Where they don't want me back because I always do
Speaker 2: more than what is needed.
Speaker 1: And even to do that, you're just.
Speaker 2: Having worked in labor and employment. Like I would knowing
Speaker 2: that I would like if I needed to take a
Speaker 2: call in the middle of the night, file something in
Speaker 2: the middle of the night on my vacation, respond to
Speaker 2: text messages, even though I know you're not technically supposed
Speaker 2: to do that, Like, that's just something I would do
Speaker 2: and I never held it against anyone, and I would
Speaker 2: just willingly do it or respond anyway, because that's how
Speaker 2: I am or work off the clock like I'm clocked out,
Speaker 2: but I need to do this, I'll just do it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's how I am. I love to over deliver
Speaker 1: and overexceed and I just love to do a good job.
Speaker 1: Like it's just I don't like to half ask anything.
Speaker 1: I think that's why we get along, Yes, because we're
Speaker 1: a lot alike in different things, and then we're so
Speaker 1: different so we balance each other out and I love that.
Speaker 1: But yeah, I mean, I think Kim, besides, my sister,
Speaker 1: was the other person I told when I got pregnant.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like just because you kind of had
Speaker 2: to wright because I'm with you every day.
Speaker 1: Yeah no, but I felt if I wouldn't have trusted
Speaker 1: you with the information, I wouldn't have told you, like
Speaker 1: no matter how like you know what I mean. But yes,
Speaker 1: it helps that I trust you, and it helps that
Speaker 1: you give me peace and that I knew you were
Speaker 1: going to give me the best advice. So because I
Speaker 1: and you've been pregnant twice. Yeah, so I was like, hey, dude,
Speaker 1: can I eat this? Man? I want this hot dog?
Speaker 1: You're like non hot dog. When I didn't know, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I didn't, I didn't know until I didn't know that wy. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: so I know we talked about like the first day
Speaker 1: of the tour and everything, like how stressful that was.
Speaker 1: But do you remember your very first day at work
Speaker 1: with me because it was at the house. Yeah, how
Speaker 1: was that.
Speaker 2: I think we went to Tequan on that day, right.
Speaker 1: Oh, that's right, we did. I think we did into
Speaker 1: TJ and that's how we started to start off with
Speaker 1: the bank.
Speaker 2: Yes, I just remember I started and that was the
Speaker 2: first day I met Pancho. That was the first day
Speaker 2: i'd gone to your house. Yeah, and I've gone to
Speaker 2: your house before and I met Pancho and we hit
Speaker 2: it off.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you guys did.
Speaker 2: And I love Pancho. And then so I just remember,
Speaker 2: but I think you were really good at measuring because
Speaker 2: you didn't like lay everything on me this first day.
Speaker 1: I'm not very good training. You gave me no but
Speaker 1: you didn't.
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying is that you were really good
Speaker 2: at not laying everything out on me. The first day.
Speaker 2: You gave me like these.
Speaker 1: Little by little thing I didn't want to overwhelm you
Speaker 1: add it on, yeah, right, because then I was kind
Speaker 1: of on a break in the beginning of the year,
Speaker 1: I was kind of like on a break. A lot
Speaker 1: of a lot was going on, but I wasn't working
Speaker 1: as much as we are now.
Speaker 2: There was a lot going on. You were on a break,
Speaker 2: but you had just had your surgery. Yeah, you were sober,
Speaker 2: like you were sober from a lot of stuff. So
Speaker 2: there's a lot of that going on. And then you
Speaker 2: were getting your house redecorated, and you're getting your shed
Speaker 2: built and your pool replastered.
Speaker 1: There was something going on. There was a lot going on.
Speaker 1: There was a lot going on.
Speaker 2: And then and then you were what is that thing
Speaker 2: called the harvesting your eggs?
Speaker 1: Oh, yes, I was IVF.
Speaker 2: You were going through the IVF also recording your album,
Speaker 2: and you were still doing your business aside. So I
Speaker 2: really I think the first month I really got acclimated
Speaker 2: to your businesses. I was like, Okay, those are your businesses,
Speaker 2: these are your business partners, these are all your people.
Speaker 2: I met a lot of your people.
Speaker 1: My friends and my business partners. And yeah, because it
Speaker 1: wasn't like I trained her and I said, hey, like
Speaker 1: this is how it's going to be. From my last
Speaker 1: assistant too, I don't think we ever had on the
Speaker 1: pod but she she kind of just transferred everything to you, like, hey,
Speaker 1: these are the passwords, is what you need to know.
Speaker 1: But there's not like a training Like I'm like, I
Speaker 1: just kind of like threw you in there, like can
Speaker 1: you do this for me? Yeah? Yeah, And there's like
Speaker 1: kind of a little by little I'm like, Okay, I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna overwhelm her, but this is.
Speaker 2: And you still you do you always like instead of
Speaker 2: asking me to do something, you always say can you
Speaker 2: please with me your favor? And then you tell me
Speaker 2: can you do this?
Speaker 1: And I'm like, yeah, my job kind yeah, You're like, hey,
Speaker 1: that's my job. Yeah, because I'm not that kind of
Speaker 1: person where I'm just like you have to do what
Speaker 1: I say. And I'm like, I don't like I like
Speaker 1: treating people like people, like humans. It doesn't matter if
Speaker 1: you're my assistant, doesn't like I don't know. I like
Speaker 1: to treat people the way like I want to be treated.
Speaker 1: So I always say please and I say thank you.
Speaker 1: And sometimes if even if I'm rude, I'm like, can't
Speaker 1: I apologize I'm in a bad mood today, Like I don't.
Speaker 2: Think you've been I don't think you've been rude to me. Now,
Speaker 2: I think I'm good with giving you your space.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're you're very good at reading the room.
Speaker 2: Right and right like, yeah, so I won't ask questions,
Speaker 2: I won't just like sending them back.
Speaker 1: Yeah, like you're chilling.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I'm also eager to please. Yeah, and I'm
Speaker 2: a little bit socially awkward. So I think that's like
Speaker 2: getting a little getting used to that a little bit.
Speaker 1: I love it. I enjoy it. I'm socially awkward. I
Speaker 1: don't think you're I think you're I mean, I don't know.
Speaker 1: Everyone around me loves you. They think you're so hilarious.
Speaker 1: Oh thanks, yeah everyone really that's true. Yeah, that's the truth.
Speaker 1: That is the truth. I swear it's the truth. People
Speaker 1: like you, people like I've gotten a lot of great
Speaker 1: comments that you're just you're very efficient and you get
Speaker 1: shit done. And I like that you're not out there
Speaker 1: trying to be people's friends, like you're cool, you're polite.
Speaker 1: But it's like, this is my job. I'm going to
Speaker 1: get it into I need that in my life. I
Speaker 1: had it before. It was just like people trying to
Speaker 1: be friends and then things were being said. I can't
Speaker 1: with that.
Speaker 2: I have had a few people like like, hey, let's
Speaker 2: go get a coffee, and it's like they're not even
Speaker 2: in your immediate circle. They're like around you, and I'm
Speaker 2: just like, yeah, of course, And then I.
Speaker 1: Just like, yeah, is it dudes?
Speaker 2: No? Not, okay, okay, I haven't get hit on. I
Speaker 2: actually don't get hit on a lot.
Speaker 1: That's ridiculous.
Speaker 2: I really don't.
Speaker 1: That's one thing I told my banda though I do not,
Speaker 1: she is completely off limits. We're not and she would never.
Speaker 1: But I'm just thinking them because they're dudes. You know,
Speaker 1: a lot of them are married, a lot of them aren't.
Speaker 1: But it's I don't get horny, we're not doing this.
Speaker 2: But they I don't think even before that, since I've
Speaker 2: been around and I've already met them, Yeah, knowing them
Speaker 2: for a while, they're very respectful, but it's they've I mean,
Speaker 2: I don't really like.
Speaker 1: If anyone's ever disrespectful to you, let me know. Oh,
Speaker 1: I will handle it.
Speaker 2: I think I have where I'm like, well, this person
Speaker 2: said it like this, and I just put it out there.
Speaker 2: Oh no, just you know, yeah, do not.
Speaker 1: I will freaking I feel very overprotective of you already,
Speaker 1: which is the whole thing I do. I feel like
Speaker 1: I need to protect you. I gotta you know, I
Speaker 1: want to make sure you're okay because I don't want
Speaker 1: people take advantage.
Speaker 2: I feel like that too. Yeah, I'm not a pushover,
Speaker 2: but I'm just like very like I just let shit slide.
Speaker 2: But when I do need to stand up, like when
Speaker 2: I did this last weekend, when like when I need
Speaker 2: to say like, yeah, that wasn't okay, Like I'm really
Speaker 2: good at that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, what's our thing that we talked about. We have
Speaker 1: to be gracefully gracefully assertive, gracefully assertive. It's like there's
Speaker 1: and I say this on the podcast all the time,
Speaker 1: there's nothing wrong with being People like, oh, you sugarcoat things.
Speaker 1: I don't sugarcoat what it is is. I'm very stern.
Speaker 1: I'm very direct. I don't have to be a bitch
Speaker 1: to be like to try to get someone to do something.
Speaker 1: It's just like, hey, this bothered me, and some people
Speaker 1: don't like it when I say something, they get so offended.
Speaker 1: I'm like, I wasn't even mean about it, but you're
Speaker 1: just not used to me saying something.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're the same in that where like people call
Speaker 2: me a bitch and I'm not a bitch. Yeah, Like
Speaker 2: I don't have a bitch demeanor. I don't have a
Speaker 2: bitch personality and not like you because I say things
Speaker 2: like no, that's not okay and like don't do that again,
Speaker 2: and they're like, oh, you're a bitch, and I'm like, no,
Speaker 2: I'm not. I'm just telling you how.
Speaker 1: I just don't like that. I'm actually speaking up right.
Speaker 2: And I'm very honest and like rip the band aid,
Speaker 2: Like you're like that too, where you say that that's
Speaker 2: not okay, or like if you have something to say
Speaker 2: to somebody, you'll say it right then and there before you.
Speaker 1: I can't. Yeah, I cannot, Like no matter what I'm doing,
Speaker 1: I need to tell the person you do, because then
Speaker 1: it just I harbor it and it just becomes like
Speaker 1: something just nasty and toxic in my body. So I'm
Speaker 1: just like I'm just gonna say it. Yeah, And I
Speaker 1: love sending voice notes.
Speaker 2: I harbor this. I need to be more like you
Speaker 2: and that.
Speaker 1: And I just like because it makes yeah, yeah, put
Speaker 1: in my pocket. No, you got to take that shit
Speaker 1: out because and it starts weighing and become rocks. They
Speaker 1: become rocks. So anyways, we'll work on that. But we're
Speaker 1: gracefully assertive and we're good. And my whole thing is
Speaker 1: are you happy?
Speaker 2: Yes?
Speaker 1: I am okay good? Are you sure?
Speaker 2: I am happy to be all right?
Speaker 1: Cool?
Speaker 2: I love my job.
Speaker 1: We love you.
Speaker 2: Are you happy that I'm here?
Speaker 1: I am very happy?
Speaker 2: Yes?
Speaker 1: And Melio and I really like you very much. We
Speaker 1: love you, Amilia loves you. He's great, he goes. He's
Speaker 1: a man of very few words, so when he says something,
Speaker 1: I listen because he's usually always right. Yeah, very and
Speaker 1: I've learned that, and I'm like, I don't even argue
Speaker 1: at this point anymore. He's like, I don't know about
Speaker 1: this person. Maybe gotta be careful and he's always right always,
Speaker 1: and with you, I'm not just trying to like you know,
Speaker 1: you guys joke around a lot, but like he's like,
Speaker 1: I really like him, Like I enjoy having her around.
Speaker 1: She doesn't bother me and that makes me happy.
Speaker 2: Oh that's good, yeah, because he because we get our
Speaker 2: sense of humor.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you guys, you guys have the same.
Speaker 2: If I can't off, he's like, you just cut me
Speaker 2: off to don't do that again. And I'm just like
Speaker 2: cracking up. He's like, I'm serious but he's joking.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm like that, Yeah, you guys get a long
Speaker 1: great thanks. Yeah. And people have asked me, you guys, honestly,
Speaker 1: they've asked me like, it doesn't worry you that you
Speaker 1: have a young, pretty assistant around your man. Yes, you're beautiful,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, no, I trust you. You way harder
Speaker 1: than me. Oh my gosh, Kim nobody in their.
Speaker 2: Right mind whatever, you're.
Speaker 1: Freaking insane, like you're so hot. Yes, people have asked
Speaker 1: me that. I swear, There's been two people that have
Speaker 1: asked me, and I'm like, I leave my house tell me. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'll tell you later. But I'm at I leave my
Speaker 1: house and you guys are there alone. I don't worry.
Speaker 1: I would not have you as an assistant and I
Speaker 1: would not be marrying him. If I felt that I
Speaker 1: can't trust you and I didn't tust you guys, you
Speaker 1: wouldn't be in my house. I would not be with him.
Speaker 1: Why am I going to fucking torment myself? Like ye,
Speaker 1: I'm like, no, he knows what he needs to be respectful.
Speaker 1: You're very respectful and that's it. So it's not a
Speaker 1: I don't. I'm not intimidated by other women's beauty. You know.
Speaker 1: It's like, oh, you think you're beautiful and you're intel,
Speaker 1: and any guy would be freaking, freaking honestly blessed to
Speaker 1: have you as a girlfriend. And I know that'll come,
Speaker 1: you know, and I'm going to make sure that they
Speaker 1: come through me first. I'm like, hey, what do you do?
Speaker 1: How are you? Because I'm not gonna let anyone hurt
Speaker 1: you as long as I'm in your life. Oh you
Speaker 1: know how, you already know how I am.
Speaker 2: Yep.
Speaker 1: So we're gonna say anything else you can.
Speaker 2: I don't mind if you want to say something. How
Speaker 2: much time do you have you can? I don't mind.
Speaker 2: But I was gonna say, like, so I've had like
Speaker 2: how you say, like you don't mind me hanging out
Speaker 2: with your boyfriend. I've had friends taught me that since
Speaker 2: high school. Like I've always been like that where I'm
Speaker 2: cool with my friends guys and I've never done anything.
Speaker 2: But I've had my friend one time she said it
Speaker 2: never escapes me. But I had a friend in high
Speaker 2: school and I remember She's like, dude, I dreamt that
Speaker 2: you went to a bar with my man and I
Speaker 2: was just cool with it and you guys were just
Speaker 2: chilling out a bar and I was like, that's a
Speaker 2: funny dream. But it's stuck with me. And then like
Speaker 2: now I have my friend like with her husband. Sometimes
Speaker 2: we send each other memes.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and she like, oh, are you texting?
Speaker 2: No, Like, I'll just send her game and she's like, oh,
Speaker 2: like look at what I sent him, And she's like,
Speaker 2: I love that you guys are friends.
Speaker 1: Yeah, because you you're Yeah, I mean, I get it.
Speaker 1: That's why I wouldn't. I don't. I don't mind because
Speaker 1: I was like, let me just I just came to
Speaker 1: my mind now because some people said it. But honestly,
Speaker 1: like I always because.
Speaker 2: Like Allmi's always like throwing herself at Ali.
Speaker 1: Yes, She's always like she is, oh my god when
Speaker 1: people watch the first episode of the freaking docu that
Speaker 1: we're doing, Oh my god, you guys, you guys are
Speaker 1: gonna see what we're talking about when it comes to
Speaker 1: open enemio, because she's always just saying, oh wow today
Speaker 1: like that, Yeah, it's funny, it's hilarious.
Speaker 2: It's hilarious. I love that. I wouldn't joke like that
Speaker 2: just because that's not my personality. But when she does it,
Speaker 2: it's it's.
Speaker 1: Yeah, well there you guys, there it is.
Speaker 2: You.
Speaker 1: Guys have asked about Kim a lot through my dms
Speaker 1: and even at shows, like oh, I haven't met your
Speaker 1: new assistant? Is she gonna be nice to us? Like fans?
Speaker 1: I'm like, of course she is. There are just certain
Speaker 1: things and boundaries now that we're setting for my life
Speaker 1: and stuff that wasn't necessarily respected before, not necessarily by
Speaker 1: like my boss bees, but other people that work for
Speaker 1: me that I just want. Things are changing, but for
Speaker 1: the better. I feel so all right, guys, thank you
Speaker 1: so much. Thank you for being a part of this podcast,
Speaker 1: for listening, for always coming week after week. I hope
Speaker 1: that you guys grow and learn through my podcast. And yeah,
Speaker 1: this one was for the fans because they kept asking,
Speaker 1: and yeah, thank you guys so much, and I'll catch
Speaker 1: you on the next episode of Cheeky's and Chill Piecers say.
Speaker 2: Bye and embarrass you.
Speaker 1: Did I know you didn't say bye to everyone? No,
Speaker 1: she did not embarrass me.
Speaker 2: I thought we were done. I'm sorry.
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