1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:02,880 Speaker 1: One eight hundred d ui Away now offering free remote 2 00:00:02,880 --> 00:00:06,280 Speaker 1: consultations by phone or video conference for any criminal offense. 3 00:00:06,360 --> 00:00:09,000 Speaker 1: Trust Brooke, Jeffrey and Jose's friends with a free remote 4 00:00:09,000 --> 00:00:12,159 Speaker 1: consultation from Bradley Johnson Lawyers. Visit one eight hundred d 5 00:00:12,200 --> 00:00:16,800 Speaker 1: Uyowa dot com or call away. All right, it's time 6 00:00:16,800 --> 00:00:19,440 Speaker 1: for your phone tap and today. This sort of stuff 7 00:00:19,480 --> 00:00:21,959 Speaker 1: doesn't happen often, but a guy emailed us saying that 8 00:00:22,000 --> 00:00:24,439 Speaker 1: he got into an argument with his good friend Jerry 9 00:00:24,680 --> 00:00:28,120 Speaker 1: about something really stupid and he feels awful about it, 10 00:00:29,720 --> 00:00:31,880 Speaker 1: and the two of them have not made up yet. 11 00:00:32,320 --> 00:00:35,519 Speaker 1: But the way that he wants to reconcile is by 12 00:00:35,640 --> 00:00:38,080 Speaker 1: lightening the mood a little bit with one of our 13 00:00:38,120 --> 00:00:42,000 Speaker 1: prank calls. Okay, that's good. He asked us to call 14 00:00:42,120 --> 00:00:44,879 Speaker 1: him to try and help mend the friendship. So that's 15 00:00:44,920 --> 00:00:48,320 Speaker 1: what we attempt to do. Okay. Will it work out 16 00:00:48,600 --> 00:00:51,960 Speaker 1: or will it backfire and ruin the friendship? Right? I 17 00:00:52,040 --> 00:00:54,560 Speaker 1: say worth the risk. Let's do it. Let's see in 18 00:00:54,680 --> 00:01:05,560 Speaker 1: your brand new phone tap right now on the twenty five. Hello, Hi, 19 00:01:05,720 --> 00:01:10,679 Speaker 1: is this Jerry? The Hi Jerry. My name is Hilary 20 00:01:10,840 --> 00:01:18,000 Speaker 1: and I'm a life coach. Okay, you know Marcus is correct? Yeah, okay, great. 21 00:01:18,240 --> 00:01:20,840 Speaker 1: Well I've been working with Marcus for the last six months, 22 00:01:21,040 --> 00:01:23,800 Speaker 1: you know, trying to help him get more centered, more focused, 23 00:01:23,920 --> 00:01:26,720 Speaker 1: just help him on his path to even more success 24 00:01:26,760 --> 00:01:30,000 Speaker 1: than he's already had. I didn't know me at a 25 00:01:30,240 --> 00:01:33,680 Speaker 1: life coach. Oh, yes, that's what I need to speak 26 00:01:33,680 --> 00:01:38,040 Speaker 1: with you about me. Yes, I have a question for you. 27 00:01:38,280 --> 00:01:41,360 Speaker 1: Have you two known each other for long? Maybe like 28 00:01:41,800 --> 00:01:46,319 Speaker 1: nine or ten years? Wow? Good for you, just amazing. 29 00:01:46,840 --> 00:01:49,880 Speaker 1: That's a win in my book. Can I ask what's 30 00:01:49,920 --> 00:01:54,440 Speaker 1: this about? Absolutely? I love questions. So I wrote a 31 00:01:54,440 --> 00:01:58,120 Speaker 1: book called The Magic of Eleven. Have you heard of it? No? 32 00:01:58,600 --> 00:02:01,600 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I have. My theory behind it is that 33 00:02:01,720 --> 00:02:04,800 Speaker 1: as humans, we only need eleven of something to create 34 00:02:04,880 --> 00:02:11,960 Speaker 1: pure happiness. So eleven foods you eat, eleven articles of clothing, 35 00:02:12,200 --> 00:02:14,680 Speaker 1: eleven times you wash your hands in a day, not 36 00:02:14,840 --> 00:02:21,640 Speaker 1: one more, not one less, just eleven. Okay, that's interesting, 37 00:02:21,800 --> 00:02:25,160 Speaker 1: Oh it is. It is interesting. You are right, Jerry, 38 00:02:25,480 --> 00:02:29,799 Speaker 1: that is the great power to the number eleven. Okay, 39 00:02:30,840 --> 00:02:34,600 Speaker 1: but what does this have to do with me? Well, recently, 40 00:02:34,720 --> 00:02:37,280 Speaker 1: Marcus and I spoke about friendship in his life, and 41 00:02:38,120 --> 00:02:41,240 Speaker 1: I had him make some tough decisions on friends because 42 00:02:41,240 --> 00:02:44,640 Speaker 1: we needed to end up with eleven. What do you 43 00:02:44,680 --> 00:02:46,440 Speaker 1: mean you need to end up at eleven? What does 44 00:02:46,480 --> 00:02:49,000 Speaker 1: that mean? It's hard to totally understand if you haven't 45 00:02:49,040 --> 00:02:52,040 Speaker 1: read the book again, it's available on Amazon. It's that 46 00:02:52,160 --> 00:02:56,440 Speaker 1: magic number. And after a few agonizing and difficult sessions, 47 00:02:57,120 --> 00:03:01,840 Speaker 1: he wanted me to call you, okay and say you 48 00:03:01,880 --> 00:03:07,239 Speaker 1: came in at number fourteen. What. Yes, you're saying I'm 49 00:03:07,320 --> 00:03:10,960 Speaker 1: not in his eleven group of friends. Well, I'm not 50 00:03:11,040 --> 00:03:14,000 Speaker 1: saying it. He is, and so is the number. You know, 51 00:03:14,040 --> 00:03:16,240 Speaker 1: it was a tough decision for him. It wasn't. I 52 00:03:16,240 --> 00:03:20,200 Speaker 1: don't know what to do. This just sounds crazy to me. Yeah, 53 00:03:20,240 --> 00:03:22,120 Speaker 1: that's why he had me call. He knew you wouldn't 54 00:03:22,160 --> 00:03:25,560 Speaker 1: take this news very well. So if you feel emotional 55 00:03:25,680 --> 00:03:28,280 Speaker 1: right now, it's okay to let it out. I'm a 56 00:03:28,360 --> 00:03:32,400 Speaker 1: life coach. No, No, I just think it's dumb he 57 00:03:32,440 --> 00:03:35,400 Speaker 1: would limit himself to eleven friends. It's not dumb, it's 58 00:03:35,400 --> 00:03:38,600 Speaker 1: actually smart because he's going towards happiness. That's what the 59 00:03:38,680 --> 00:03:41,120 Speaker 1: magic of eleven is, and you just don't fit into 60 00:03:41,160 --> 00:03:46,200 Speaker 1: that equation. Whatever, Okay, I hear your frustration. I'm a 61 00:03:46,240 --> 00:03:48,640 Speaker 1: life coach. But the good news is is that you're 62 00:03:48,680 --> 00:03:51,800 Speaker 1: not leaving his life forever. You've just been downgraded from 63 00:03:51,840 --> 00:03:57,160 Speaker 1: friend to acquaintance. Acquaintance that one that would be true 64 00:03:57,160 --> 00:04:00,440 Speaker 1: if you use past tense. No, you don't get it. Aside, 65 00:04:00,440 --> 00:04:02,960 Speaker 1: if Marcus and I are friends, Okay, Market and I 66 00:04:02,960 --> 00:04:06,640 Speaker 1: can discuss this like adults. Okay, yeah, again, it's it's 67 00:04:06,640 --> 00:04:09,720 Speaker 1: not friend, it's acquaintance. And we do need to set 68 00:04:09,720 --> 00:04:12,119 Speaker 1: some boundaries here. So if you see him out, maybe 69 00:04:12,160 --> 00:04:15,040 Speaker 1: at a friend's party or wherever, I just remember no 70 00:04:15,200 --> 00:04:19,719 Speaker 1: hugging or talking a simple waveful spice. No you have 71 00:04:19,920 --> 00:04:22,880 Speaker 1: any more stupid information to give me because I need 72 00:04:22,920 --> 00:04:25,559 Speaker 1: to get off the phone and call Market. Okay again, 73 00:04:25,839 --> 00:04:27,960 Speaker 1: that's one thing that's not allowed. But while I do 74 00:04:28,080 --> 00:04:31,360 Speaker 1: have you on the phone, can you give me Blake's number? Blake? 75 00:04:31,680 --> 00:04:34,080 Speaker 1: You're saying Blake's been downgraded and he's not in the 76 00:04:34,120 --> 00:04:37,120 Speaker 1: eleven either, that's why you need Blake's number. No, No, actually, 77 00:04:37,400 --> 00:04:39,520 Speaker 1: Blake made the magic eleven. I need to tell him 78 00:04:39,520 --> 00:04:43,200 Speaker 1: the good news. This is so dumb. I don't even 79 00:04:43,200 --> 00:04:46,040 Speaker 1: know what to say right now. This is so unbelievably 80 00:04:46,080 --> 00:04:49,200 Speaker 1: mega I hear you, and I hear that you're hurting, 81 00:04:49,279 --> 00:04:51,440 Speaker 1: and I'm looking at my calendar right now. I have 82 00:04:51,520 --> 00:04:54,279 Speaker 1: next Tuesday available, So let's put you on the books 83 00:04:54,279 --> 00:04:57,320 Speaker 1: and I take Visa Moor MasterCard. You're crazy if you 84 00:04:57,360 --> 00:04:59,680 Speaker 1: think I'm gonna pay you for anything? Is that a no? 85 00:05:00,160 --> 00:05:03,760 Speaker 1: You make money doing that? I mean I do, but 86 00:05:03,839 --> 00:05:06,120 Speaker 1: not for that reason. This is actually broke from Brooke 87 00:05:06,160 --> 00:05:08,760 Speaker 1: and Jeffrey in the morning. It's actually a prank phone call. 88 00:05:15,400 --> 00:05:20,840 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, we're doing a phone tap on you. It's 89 00:05:20,880 --> 00:05:23,200 Speaker 1: a joke. Your friend Bark has set you up because 90 00:05:23,240 --> 00:05:25,120 Speaker 1: he said you guys got into some argument and he 91 00:05:25,160 --> 00:05:27,719 Speaker 1: felt bad about it, and so we wanted to say 92 00:05:27,760 --> 00:05:30,440 Speaker 1: sorry with a phone tap. Oh my god, that guy. 93 00:05:30,560 --> 00:05:35,880 Speaker 1: Oh Mark, oh gee, dude, you got really mad at 94 00:05:35,880 --> 00:05:41,400 Speaker 1: a lifeboach Jerry when you were saying, like, eleven articles 95 00:05:41,440 --> 00:05:48,240 Speaker 1: of clothing of It's not just the number eleven, it's 96 00:05:48,279 --> 00:05:54,359 Speaker 1: the magic of eleven Jerry. The week of every morning 97 00:05:54,400 --> 00:05:56,559 Speaker 1: with phone tap weekdays on the twenti