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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at Advocates law dot com.

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Speaker 2: Deacon is on the phone today for a first day

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Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Charlotte.

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Speaker 2: So in a few minutes we'll call her and see

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Speaker 2: if she's tell us why she's ghosting him, and maybe

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Speaker 2: get him another date. But first, Deacon, how long has

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Speaker 2: it been since you heard from Charlotte?

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Speaker 3: Dude, she's been ghosting me for two weeks.

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Speaker 2: Now, Oh, okay, that's a good amount of time.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, it's a long time. You know, we

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Speaker 4: had a really really great date. So I'm not one

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Speaker 4: hundred percent show what happened, but we had a bright

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Speaker 4: Saturday kayaking date on the river, perfect weather, you know,

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Speaker 4: glassy water, dragon flies skimming the surface, bird singing like

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Speaker 4: they had a soundtrack.

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Speaker 3: Deal. Yeah, it was. It was really great. It was

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Speaker 3: a great date.

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Speaker 1: So how did you got did you guys get to

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Speaker 1: like talk to each other? Did you feel like she

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Speaker 1: was into you? I mean it sounds like a picturesque date,

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Speaker 1: but like, what was the vibe?

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Speaker 3: I really liked her quick wit. She wracked this.

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Speaker 4: Great sun hat that was like the way she wore

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Speaker 3: She really looked model asque. She had an easy laugh.

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Speaker 4: She snapped these candid pictures of every heron we passed.

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Speaker 3: It was it was really nice. She was really really

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Speaker 3: enjoying herself.

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Speaker 1: Okay, did you guys take anything before that? Okay, so

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Speaker 1: after you guys were on the water, did you get like,

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Speaker 1: did you continue the date?

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Speaker 2: How did you end it?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: We were on the water for a little while, and

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Speaker 4: you know, there was one moment where my paddle pulled

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Speaker 4: some seaweed out of the lake. So I took that

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Speaker 4: piece of seaweed off.

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Speaker 3: The paddle and.

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Speaker 4: Sort of dangled it in Charlotte's face, pretending to be

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Speaker 4: the locktest monster. But she kind of seemed like she

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Speaker 4: kind of freaked out, and you know, I just wanted

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Speaker 4: to let her know I was playing around. But in hindsight,

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Speaker 4: I think that that might have been a stupid move

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Speaker 4: for a first date. Might have come off sort of

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Speaker 4: like a serial killery. Maybe.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you never want to come off that way on

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Speaker 2: a first date. You know.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I might be getting ghosted because of seaweed.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, I mean, well, how did she react after

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Speaker 2: all that?

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Speaker 4: I mean she seemed fine. I didn't get any vibes

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Speaker 4: that she wasn't enjoying herself at all.

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Speaker 3: It was an epic date. We had sunshine snacks. It

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Speaker 3: was like a postcard. It was really really amazing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean it sounds like everything was beautiful. But

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Speaker 1: did she like say that she wanted to see you again?

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Speaker 1: Was she acting a little bit different after you stuck

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Speaker 1: seaweed in her face?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 4: I mean there was a moment she seemed like it.

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Speaker 4: You know, it freaked her out. I could tell that

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Speaker 4: it freaked her out. So I felt bad about that.

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Speaker 4: But the still ended well and she said she had

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Speaker 4: a good time and we may hang out again. You know.

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Speaker 3: We talked about that on.

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Speaker 1: The way out, okay, and then no communication at all afterwards?

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Speaker 1: Or did you try to reach out?

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Speaker 4: I'm said some text called once more twice, maybe maybe

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Speaker 4: five times.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So that could also be a reason too. Maybe

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Speaker 2: you've called too many times, you think out.

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Speaker 4: I mean I didn't really think about that as an issue,

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Speaker 4: but maybe.

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Speaker 2: Not not to just add pylon things, you know, and

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Speaker 2: things on. But zerial killer vibes and then calling too

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Speaker 2: many times could be Is that that's stuck her vibes. Well,

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Speaker 2: if you had those before and then is calling a bunch,

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Speaker 2: then you know both those things hand and hand are

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Speaker 2: really not very good. But we'll see what we can

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Speaker 2: figure out. Deacon. Yeah, we'll play a song and then

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Speaker 2: call her and see if she'll tell us why she's

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Speaker 3: Okay, great, thanks guys.

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Speaker 2: All right, we get first day follow up next, so

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Speaker 2: you will show right in the middle of your first

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Speaker 2: day follow up. And if you're just joining us, Deacon

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Speaker 2: is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Charlotte.

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Speaker 2: So we're about to call her and so if she'll

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Speaker 2: tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him

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Speaker 2: a second date. But before we do that, Deacon, remind

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Speaker 2: us about your date real quick.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we had a great date. It was Saturday. We

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Speaker 4: did some kayaking, perfect weather, The water looked beautiful, the

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Speaker 4: dragonflies were beautiful. It was like there was a soundtrack

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Speaker 4: playing in the background with the birds. It was you know,

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Speaker 4: it was really, really a nice time until maybe I

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Speaker 1: You said you may have had serial killer vibes, right,

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Speaker 1: I don't.

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Speaker 4: Think that's usually the case, but maybe putting some seaweed

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Speaker 4: on my face might come off.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's a tough one to pull off. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: all right, are you ready for us to call her?

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Speaker 3: I think so?

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Speaker 2: Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, I'm asking to Charlotte. Please.

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Speaker 5: This is Charlotte who said, Hey.

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Speaker 2: Charlotte, how are you? This is a radio show. It's

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Speaker 2: called The Jewble Show. Hi, Charlotte, I'mnina. Hi, I'm Victoria

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Speaker 2: and my name's Jubell. What's up with you? Hi?

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Speaker 5: Okay? Can can I help you with?

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Speaker 2: Have you ever listened to the show before?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: I think I have, not that long ago either. This

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Speaker 5: is so weird, like did I win something?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 2: Well, I don't know. It depends how you look at it.

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Speaker 2: But we do do a segment on the show that's

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Speaker 2: called the first Date follow Up. That's where if you

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Speaker 2: go out on a date with somebody and end up

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Speaker 2: ghosting them, they can email us to call you and

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Speaker 2: find out while you're ghosting them. And so we got

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Speaker 2: an email about you from somebody.

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Speaker 6: Yeah wow, okay, yeah, I was not expecting that.

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Speaker 5: Okay, sure, who is I have a feeling I know

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Speaker 5: who it is.

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Speaker 2: Yes, Yeah, is it Deacon, Yes, it is Deacon. We

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Speaker 2: talked to Deacon about your date. He said he liked

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Speaker 2: you a lot, he thought it was great, and he's

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Speaker 2: confused why you haven't talked to him in two weeks?

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Speaker 2: Would you mind telling us?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, because he's a thirty year old frat boy, Like

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Speaker 6: all he wanted to do was be wasted and yell

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Speaker 6: like bro bro, bro, look bra bro.

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Speaker 5: And I'm not your broo. Okay, I mean the little

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Speaker 5: too Friday, that's not enough. I just like this guy.

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Speaker 5: I don't.

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Speaker 6: I don't know when the last time he went on

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Speaker 6: a date or hung out with another female. But it

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Speaker 6: was just us, like he just was like buddy, buddy,

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Speaker 6: and he was being so weird and like almost growth

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Speaker 6: at times, like I just I couldn't. He wasn't seeing that.

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Speaker 6: We were just not vibing whatsoever. Like it was just

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Speaker 6: like we were at we were like going to go

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Speaker 6: to a keg party after, like he was just prepping before.

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Speaker 5: I don't know, it just wasn't. It wasn't the right

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Speaker 5: vibe for me, you know. So you said he just

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Speaker 2: Was he getting wasted?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: The entire time, like it was just wanting to play

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Speaker 6: flip cup and beer pong and we're kayaking like it's weird, right.

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Speaker 2: I don't even know how you do that. I mean,

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Speaker 2: it'd be really hard, right. Okay, Well, thank you for

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Speaker 2: telling us why you're ghosting. I appreciate that. Sure, And uh, Charlotte,

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Speaker 2: I'll let you know that Deacon is actually on the

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Speaker 2: phone and has been listening and wants to talk to you.

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Speaker 4: Okay, wow, wow, bro, what's that all about?

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Speaker 5: Deacon?

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Speaker 1: Hi?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, but do I need I mean, I don't know

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Speaker 6: what to say, but you you brought us flasking gummies

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Speaker 6: and you kept trying to get me to party while

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Speaker 6: we were literally in the middle of a lake, and

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Speaker 6: I told you I'm not the strongest swimmer, and then

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Speaker 5: I just felt like you were just making bad life choices.

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Speaker 2: That's it.

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Speaker 4: Nothing, But I knew. I just knew you were nervous.

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Speaker 4: I was just trying to like loosen you up, take

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Speaker 4: the edge off. It's like you wanted to be stressed out.

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Speaker 4: Is that your normal state? Just being stressed all the time?

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Speaker 4: Is that how you like to live? Stressed out?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Exactly why I think the gummies.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, normal straight Okay, well, look, at least I didn't

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Speaker 6: like nearly sword fight a duck with a paddle like

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Speaker 4: Not a good coming straight at me. That duck was

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Speaker 4: coming straight. Thing you were coming at me? So you

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Speaker 4: wore socks with bows on them. I mean, that's the

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Speaker 4: come on, the tiny bows on your socks.

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Speaker 5: Okay? Have you seen your hair? Have you seen your hair? Like?

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Speaker 6: You walked out of the house looking like you got

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Speaker 6: hit by a tornado, and like, yeah, at first I

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Speaker 5: You're a mess.

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Speaker 4: My hair is my best is the best attribute I have.

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Speaker 3: So how dare you you know.

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Speaker 4: You're you brought enough sunbscreen to coat a small yacht?

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Speaker 4: Why did you need that much sunscreen?

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Speaker 3: Right?

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Speaker 4: And by the way, I wasn't wasted. I can drink

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Speaker 4: so much more than that.

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Speaker 5: Wow, okay, at least twice as much if you.

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Speaker 6: Think great, I'm just like this big ball of dressed

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Speaker 5: Like, why are you trying for a second date? Deacon? Why?

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Speaker 3: Because I want to help you. I want to help

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Speaker 3: you be better.

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Speaker 2: I think I get it now. You want to help

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Speaker 2: her be better?

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Speaker 3: What?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, get rid of all that stressed and sunscreen?

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Speaker 2: Yeah you know, Charlotte. Would you like to go on

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Speaker 2: another date with Deacon? We'll pay for it.

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Speaker 5: I mean look, no, I mean.

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Speaker 6: No, no, I'm just not gonna chance like a Lake

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Speaker 6: Rager part two.

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Speaker 5: I'm not.

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Speaker 4: Oh, come on, Charlotte, you are so hot.

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Speaker 3: You're so hot. I want to go out with you again.

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Speaker 5: I'm sorry, there's too many gummies. Deacon. Bye, I'm sorry

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Speaker 5: you had.

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Speaker 4: The great freckles the sun hat the way you just

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Speaker 4: now I did. And you know what it socks before

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Speaker 3: I like those socks the bows.

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Speaker 4: Take it back, I was I was mean, I was

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Speaker 4: out of line, But you are a ball stressed. You

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Speaker 4: know what, Charlotte, I guess you're just not gonna have

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Speaker 4: a chance to take a ride on the deep train.

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Speaker 2: Deep train.

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Speaker 3: Shoot choo, yeah google it. Jules First Date follow up