Speaker 1: The second date of DAT. We're always talking about how
Speaker 1: much trouble guys have standing out on the dating apps. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we never really discussed the ladies and their struggles when
Speaker 1: they're online. They don't have struggles.
Speaker 2: Yeah, of course they do.
Speaker 3: They have to deal with you.
Speaker 2: Yeah, what I say, I.
Speaker 4: Don't see that.
Speaker 2: It's way worse.
Speaker 1: From one of our listeners, Jossy says that she's been
Speaker 1: trying for a bit till she finally figured out a
Speaker 1: dating hack that's worked for her, like a.
Speaker 3: Charm oh where she actually found like a quality person.
Speaker 1: Online that's also different, maybe somebody looking for actual love. Well,
Speaker 1: she's gonna tell us about it so that Alexis can
Speaker 1: steal all the men. Welcome to the show.
Speaker 5: Hey, guys, what's going on?
Speaker 2: Oh, we're interested in what's going on with you.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we have our notepads out so we can figure
Speaker 1: out what this hack is. But I guess maybe you
Speaker 1: should start with the guy that it worked on. What's
Speaker 1: his name?
Speaker 5: His name is Sean?
Speaker 1: Okay, okay?
Speaker 2: And so what's I mean? What is your problem with
Speaker 2: dating apps?
Speaker 4: Like?
Speaker 2: What do you struggle with.
Speaker 5: I've been on dating apps for about six months, and
Speaker 5: I've heard of all these girls getting like hundreds of
Speaker 5: messages and Onfortunately, I am definitely not one of those women.
Speaker 5: And I don't know why. You know, like, I'm not
Speaker 5: bad looking.
Speaker 1: Well, I can help with that. Why don't you just
Speaker 1: she wasn't fishing for anything there? I think she could
Speaker 1: tell her may be part of the.
Speaker 6: Problem, But it does feel like maybe there's something about
Speaker 6: your profile that isn't clicking right for people, right?
Speaker 3: Is that what you were thinking?
Speaker 5: Yeah, there has to be something, because again, I don't
Speaker 5: think I'm like crazy bad looking or anything like I
Speaker 5: do all the regular things. I put like what I
Speaker 5: like in my bio and everything.
Speaker 1: See, I can already see where you're messing up.
Speaker 2: Is that what you're saying?
Speaker 1: Yeah, guys want someone that seems like they're really at
Speaker 1: a low point in their life, struggling. This girl is
Speaker 1: hot and desperate. I can fix her.
Speaker 2: No, No, what did you change?
Speaker 6: You didn't add more dusk opiration to your profile?
Speaker 2: Did you?
Speaker 4: So?
Speaker 5: I don't think?
Speaker 1: So, okay, God, what's your strategy?
Speaker 4: Then?
Speaker 5: So I actually added to my profile my credit score.
Speaker 2: Oh that's funny thing right now?
Speaker 1: Really is really?
Speaker 5: Yeah? It's eight oh four.
Speaker 1: Dang girl, that's your credit score, girl, we're buying a house.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I thought it.
Speaker 2: Was out of eight hundred. What is a credit score
Speaker 2: out of it?
Speaker 1: I think it's like eight twenty.
Speaker 2: You're right, we're not the most funny.
Speaker 6: Actually, I'm guessing that Alexis doesn't put her credit score
Speaker 6: on her I don't know where to find mine.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, so what you You put eight o four
Speaker 1: in your profile? That's just what you said.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I put eight O four and then I put
Speaker 5: gold Digger instead of gold Digger, like, g oh ah,
Speaker 5: that's bigger.
Speaker 1: That's funny. Yeah.
Speaker 5: I guess people thought it was clever because, you know,
Speaker 5: after that, it worked and I got tons of messages
Speaker 5: from all these guys who were literally right to like,
Speaker 5: marry me.
Speaker 2: I feel like you seem like.
Speaker 1: You're immediately smart and.
Speaker 6: Driven, and despite what you two say, men do read
Speaker 6: you know.
Speaker 1: So it sounds like Sean was one of the guys
Speaker 1: that reached out to you.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 5: So he reached out to me and we were just
Speaker 5: chatting like it was super fun, you know, and we
Speaker 5: did talk about my credit score and he made a
Speaker 5: cute joke about it and he was like, well, I said,
Speaker 5: you know, I hope just because I have an eight
Speaker 5: or four credit score. You're not assuming I'm paying for
Speaker 5: the date, are you?
Speaker 1: Okay?
Speaker 5: And he's like, no, you're paying for the first three Oh.
Speaker 6: That's funny, Okay.
Speaker 4: I like this. Yeah.
Speaker 5: Right, So he seems like clever and cute, so I'm like,
Speaker 5: why not go to drinks with him?
Speaker 1: All right?
Speaker 2: What was it like when you met up with him?
Speaker 5: So I showed up a little late, I'm not gonna lie,
Speaker 5: which might have been, you know, not the best. But
Speaker 5: like once I got there, it was so nice and
Speaker 5: he was great, and we were getting along really well.
Speaker 6: Okay, he didn't seem put off by you being late,
Speaker 6: like what like fifteen twenty minutes.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's like fifteen minutes.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 5: He didn't seem like mad or anything at me.
Speaker 6: Okay.
Speaker 5: But the only thing was that, like we weren't as
Speaker 5: thirty as I was hoping, and like we did end
Speaker 5: up talking about like a lot of like budgeting, and like, oh,
Speaker 5: it's like.
Speaker 1: The opposite problem.
Speaker 2: Where did he come to me financial advice? Because you
Speaker 2: have your stuff together?
Speaker 6: No?
Speaker 5: Literally, that's what I felt like. And then I gave
Speaker 5: him a recommendation for a tax person. He was so excited.
Speaker 1: Oh God, all the hosts in the room around me
Speaker 1: are coming off like this is a bad thing. I
Speaker 1: think it's sexy.
Speaker 2: I didn't even think it was hot.
Speaker 5: Well we didn't kiss, so you know that also just
Speaker 5: kind of threw me off. And stead, you know, I
Speaker 5: just kind of gave him the tax guy's number, and
Speaker 5: it was like, can I okay? Thanks?
Speaker 1: So this guy said you thought you were like a
Speaker 1: financial advice.
Speaker 5: But like I feel like there could have been a
Speaker 5: spark if like we did change it up. Yeah, moved on.
Speaker 6: I mean, you can get stuck on the subjects, you know,
Speaker 6: Like that's easy.
Speaker 1: I mean, I can't stop thinking about my credit score
Speaker 1: right now too, now that we've brought it up. But
Speaker 1: is it possible that we may do you think maybe
Speaker 1: he like had the wrong intentions when he came into
Speaker 1: the date and just wanted that, and maybe he's not
Speaker 1: the right guy for you.
Speaker 5: I'm wondering because I texted him. I was like, had
Speaker 5: so much fun, like just like a follow up text,
Speaker 5: and now he's not even responding and it's been a
Speaker 5: week and a half.
Speaker 6: Have you talked to your tax person, has he responded
Speaker 6: to him or I.
Speaker 5: Didn't check it on that, but I definitely should. That's
Speaker 5: a good call.
Speaker 1: Now that you've fixed him financially, we just have to
Speaker 1: fix him romantically and get you guys on a second day. Okay,
Speaker 1: guys love to be fixed, that's what I yes.
Speaker 2: Oh god, I don't taking notes.
Speaker 1: It's the perfect circle. We're gonna complete it when we
Speaker 1: do your second date update, next second update. Do you
Speaker 1: find financial talk arousing? What?
Speaker 2: Oh my god, my mom is so excited right now.
Speaker 1: Oh no, my depreciating asset is in a class stock?
Speaker 1: Am I able to transfer the interest it incurs overseas? Oh?
Speaker 2: Is compound penalty?
Speaker 6: Po He took a different economy economics class than I did.
Speaker 4: I think?
Speaker 1: Or are you more like Jose where every time he
Speaker 1: opens up his wallet it's like an onion and it
Speaker 1: makes him cry.
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Wow, I'm still going very depressing inside of that wallet.
Speaker 2: I will say when I opened.
Speaker 1: My portfolio, I do cry like that.
Speaker 6: It is.
Speaker 1: But one of our listeners is wondering if she was
Speaker 1: used for her financial expertise because she posted her excellent
Speaker 1: credit score right there on her dating.
Speaker 3: App and it worked.
Speaker 2: He got so many messages.
Speaker 1: Got her matched up with Sean, but instead of getting
Speaker 1: a kiss at the end of their date, she ended
Speaker 1: up just giving him the contact info to her tax guy,
Speaker 1: which I mean, great for him, not quite as sexy
Speaker 1: and good for her. Yeah, but she's not giving up.
Speaker 1: That's the good news.
Speaker 2: No, that is good.
Speaker 6: And I was just wondering, did you end up paying
Speaker 6: for the date or did he because he made the joke.
Speaker 2: He made the joke that you were going to pay.
Speaker 6: Because your credit score was so high, we split it.
Speaker 6: That's also not a sexy move.
Speaker 1: I mean, financially responsible but not hot, you know it.
Speaker 5: Was it was okay with me. I handle my business.
Speaker 6: So it's just like after the joke, and then to
Speaker 6: still split it, you know.
Speaker 1: And then have him pay he should have bankrolled him
Speaker 1: for a year and paid in bitcoming. But let's get
Speaker 1: right into this call. I'm gonna Sean right now. We'll
Speaker 1: see what he has to say.
Speaker 3: Here we go, Hello, Sean, Are you in the bathroom?
Speaker 1: Is the Sean?
Speaker 4: Yes? It is?
Speaker 3: Are you mining right now?
Speaker 1: Your phone is a little bit echoey, Sean. But we're
Speaker 1: a radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 4: Does it sound better?
Speaker 1: Yeah, that sounds a little bit better.
Speaker 4: Okay, so I was on my lunch break.
Speaker 3: Oh well, I got that.
Speaker 1: I hate to interrupt you on your lunch break, Sean,
Speaker 1: but we do have some important business to discuss with
Speaker 1: you regarding a woman that you went out with recently,
Speaker 1: named Jossy a woman.
Speaker 4: Wait wait, you women?
Speaker 1: You know they're like men but with different parts.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm familiar with women.
Speaker 1: Okay, confused when I said woman. So I'm just clarifying.
Speaker 2: Do you remember your date with Jossy? You guys went
Speaker 2: to drinks?
Speaker 4: Yes, yes, I do.
Speaker 2: Okay, cool.
Speaker 1: Well, news flash, she is a woman and other news flash,
Speaker 1: she really liked you.
Speaker 2: It wants to see it.
Speaker 4: Oh oh that's that's really sweet of her.
Speaker 2: Okay, so that's a positive. Due did you not think
Speaker 2: that already?
Speaker 4: I mean, was a vibe, you know, it just was
Speaker 4: a little not a It wasn't a typical date. Our
Speaker 4: topic of discussion wasn't you know how you get to
Speaker 4: know someone? It wasn't like that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, well I think she wanted it to be.
Speaker 1: I'll be honest. We heard a little bit about your
Speaker 1: date from Jossy and she mentioned that the talk went
Speaker 1: into like finances.
Speaker 6: She said it was a little stiff and a little
Speaker 6: bit too much financial Yeah, she was.
Speaker 4: Really money oriented.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, but I don't I thought you were the
Speaker 1: one asking her some of the questions about how she
Speaker 1: got her credit score so good.
Speaker 4: That was on her dating profile. So you know, you
Speaker 4: want to pick it off with something in their bio,
Speaker 4: right right.
Speaker 6: I know it sounds like she got stuck in talking
Speaker 6: about it and she felt like, you guys never got
Speaker 6: to be flirty.
Speaker 2: With each other.
Speaker 4: Well, okay, so she was fifteen minutes late to the
Speaker 4: day because she was trying to find like the cheapest gas,
Speaker 4: Like there was some gas that was something cents less
Speaker 4: than all the other gas stations, and so she had
Speaker 4: to have that gas.
Speaker 1: Someone like that got out of their way to save
Speaker 1: a couple of bucks.
Speaker 2: She said, you weren't bothered by her being late.
Speaker 4: I wasn't bothered about her being late. It was the
Speaker 4: reason why she was late. And then she she stopped
Speaker 4: at the dollar store because they had the best paper
Speaker 4: towel at the best price.
Speaker 1: She had to get that done before she met up
Speaker 1: with you. In her defense, those paper towels can be
Speaker 1: pretty expensively.
Speaker 3: Yeah, they had one more layers.
Speaker 1: Especially doing the friendly kind.
Speaker 6: You guys, why were you asking her about this?
Speaker 4: She was the one that brought it up, Like she said,
Speaker 4: I was doing this, and I was doing that.
Speaker 6: Okay, sight cheap gas and buying dollar store paper towels.
Speaker 1: All right, so she's thrifty and you don't you don't
Speaker 1: like that, man.
Speaker 4: She could be thrifty all she wants, Okay, okay, But
Speaker 4: if we were in a relationship, I will not be
Speaker 4: chastised about paying an extra seventy five cents for some ranch? Wait?
Speaker 2: What wait?
Speaker 1: What is that example?
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's not a hypothetical.
Speaker 4: You're saying, no, No, that happened. That's not a hypothetical.
Speaker 2: What do you mean with chastise?
Speaker 1: You what happened?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 2: What does chastise even mean?
Speaker 4: I arned some French fries and I wanted to side
Speaker 4: a ranch.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, you're speaking my language.
Speaker 4: And the waitress said it'd be seventy five cents. Okay, okay,
Speaker 4: and she was like seventy five then canceled a ranch.
Speaker 4: He doesn't need it.
Speaker 1: Okay, canled? That might cross a line?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Wait, did you have to eat dry fries.
Speaker 4: Up on the table?
Speaker 1: I feel like Joss has some spleining to do and
Speaker 1: she can do that right now.
Speaker 2: She owes he think he comes back from this.
Speaker 1: I don't think so I need to let you know, Sean,
Speaker 1: Johnsy's been on the other line listening, wanting to talk
Speaker 1: to you.
Speaker 4: What she's listening.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's how the.
Speaker 5: Second works, Jos Joss there, Yes, I'm there. Oh it
Speaker 5: was it was seventy five cents. Like I couldn't make
Speaker 5: a whole bottle for seventy five cents. I thought, you know,
Speaker 5: I was doing a paper. I wanted to make sure
Speaker 5: he was taken care of.
Speaker 2: A bottle of ranch or however, it's I don't buy
Speaker 2: the packets.
Speaker 1: I mean, you're on the date and they say this
Speaker 1: is how much something costs you pay that that's yeah, that's.
Speaker 2: Not even exactly. It was one thing.
Speaker 1: It was like this steak is fished, but.
Speaker 2: Said you guys, she thought she was helping, okay, right.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah yeah, And I don't know why, so I
Speaker 5: guess she was up. He was upset out six minutes late.
Speaker 4: It's not because you were late, it was why you
Speaker 4: were late.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 5: Wait, did any longer I would have been out of
Speaker 5: the paper towels at the dollar store I.
Speaker 2: Bet they know that. Yeah.
Speaker 5: Yeah, they run out by six every single week, and
Speaker 5: I was on my last role. I needed to stop there.
Speaker 5: There's nothing I could have done.
Speaker 2: Okay, shut shut, You can look past that.
Speaker 4: You know she should have did she should have taken
Speaker 4: the napkins from the restaurant. I'm surprised.
Speaker 1: Who's the financial expert now, Josh, you guys gonna just
Speaker 1: be stealing napkins? You see her like a dynamic duel.
Speaker 5: Do that. That's honestly not a bad idea.
Speaker 1: I was take Now you piqued her interest, Sean, Is
Speaker 1: she joking?
Speaker 4: I don't think she's joking. Actually, I don't think she jokes.
Speaker 2: You guys probably keep the ketchup packets too time.
Speaker 6: Usually at the grocery stores you can get the ranch
Speaker 6: dip behind the counter as well for free, where the
Speaker 6: chicken strips are.
Speaker 1: Okay, the problem, we're getting to the same problem that
Speaker 1: they did, where we're getting too deep into the financial
Speaker 1: Let's pull it back and talk to Sean for a second.
Speaker 1: Because Sean, what you don't know is that before we
Speaker 1: called you, she was telling us how strong of connection
Speaker 1: she felt the two of you had.
Speaker 6: Yeah, and how she wanted to redo because she didn't
Speaker 6: feel like it went great the first time.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm just hoping that Jossi still feels the same
Speaker 1: way as she did before and is still into him. Jossy,
Speaker 1: are you still up for going out with him one
Speaker 1: more time on our dime? That's a smart financial decision
Speaker 1: right there.
Speaker 4: It's free.
Speaker 5: I mean that does sweeten the deal, but honestly, like,
Speaker 5: I want someone that looks at my strategizing with my
Speaker 5: money and and thinks that that's a great thing instead
Speaker 5: of thinking I'm cheap man.
Speaker 1: That's understandable.
Speaker 5: I bet he doesn't even hire his and Heie says
Speaker 5: her nephews to landscape the house so he can write
Speaker 5: it off like I do. It saves me seventy dollars
Speaker 5: a year.
Speaker 4: Oh are you kidding?
Speaker 1: Another financial gem from Jossy.
Speaker 4: She is out of control, dude.
Speaker 2: Ah four, that's what her credit score is a oh four?
Speaker 5: Yeah, I have to have to plan the thing.
Speaker 1: Okay, worth it? I don't think so. For a couple bucks.
Speaker 1: From what I'm here, it sounds like you guys aren't
Speaker 1: going to match up and meet up one more time?
Speaker 4: No? So uh negative?
Speaker 6: Yeah, whatever, Jossie, I'm telling you you're gonna see him
Speaker 6: at that dollar store trying to get those paper towels
Speaker 6: from you next week.
Speaker 5: Ya, you better get there because I'm blocking him out
Speaker 5: if he's there.
Speaker 6: Day. Actually, that's all the dollar to the regular store,
Speaker 6: like regular people pay more.
Speaker 1: Okay, because it is convenient, we're going to the ranch
Speaker 1: factory instead. You don't agree on the ranch factory, right,
Speaker 1: bring your cupskins
Speaker 6: Freaking Jeffrey in the morning.