1 00:00:00,400 --> 00:00:02,160 Speaker 1: Hi, this is Joel and Victoria. 2 00:00:02,240 --> 00:00:05,279 Speaker 2: Thanks for listening to our podcast and thanks for supporting 3 00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:05,920 Speaker 2: the ministry. 4 00:00:06,120 --> 00:00:08,440 Speaker 1: If you enjoy today's message, why don't you be a 5 00:00:08,480 --> 00:00:09,720 Speaker 1: blessing and share it with a. 6 00:00:09,680 --> 00:00:13,040 Speaker 2: Friend, reappreciate you, and pray for God's very best in 7 00:00:13,080 --> 00:00:13,760 Speaker 2: your life. 8 00:00:14,000 --> 00:00:16,400 Speaker 1: Well, God bless you. It's a joy to come into 9 00:00:16,400 --> 00:00:17,000 Speaker 1: your homes. 10 00:00:17,239 --> 00:00:19,680 Speaker 2: If you're ever in our area, please stop by and 11 00:00:19,720 --> 00:00:22,080 Speaker 2: be a part of one of our services. I'll promise 12 00:00:22,120 --> 00:00:24,759 Speaker 2: you we'll make you feel right at home. I like 13 00:00:24,840 --> 00:00:26,960 Speaker 2: to start with something funny, and I heard about this 14 00:00:27,120 --> 00:00:29,960 Speaker 2: lady that died, and she was at the pearly gates 15 00:00:30,000 --> 00:00:32,280 Speaker 2: and Saint Peter said, you can't come in yet. 16 00:00:32,640 --> 00:00:36,040 Speaker 1: You have to correctly spell a word. She said what word? 17 00:00:36,440 --> 00:00:39,320 Speaker 1: He said, any word, So she spelled the word love, 18 00:00:39,640 --> 00:00:43,520 Speaker 1: l ovee. He said, welcome to heaven. Then Peter asked 19 00:00:43,600 --> 00:00:46,440 Speaker 1: her if she would take his place for just a moment. 20 00:00:46,880 --> 00:00:48,800 Speaker 1: He instructed her if anybody came up. 21 00:00:48,720 --> 00:00:51,960 Speaker 2: Just to follow the same procedure. A few minutes, she 22 00:00:52,080 --> 00:00:55,760 Speaker 2: sees her ex husband walking up. She can't believe it, says, 23 00:00:55,760 --> 00:00:57,720 Speaker 2: what are you doing here? He said, I just had 24 00:00:57,720 --> 00:01:00,080 Speaker 2: a heart attack. Did I really make it to heaven. 25 00:01:00,320 --> 00:01:03,160 Speaker 2: She said, not yet. You have to spell a word correctly. 26 00:01:03,640 --> 00:01:06,480 Speaker 2: He said what word. There was a long pause, and 27 00:01:06,520 --> 00:01:12,000 Speaker 2: she said, Czechoslovakia. I want to talk to you today 28 00:01:12,040 --> 00:01:15,959 Speaker 2: about emptying out the negative. It's easy to go through 29 00:01:15,959 --> 00:01:18,600 Speaker 2: life holding on to things that are weighing us down. 30 00:01:19,280 --> 00:01:22,319 Speaker 1: Guilt, resentment, doubt, worry. 31 00:01:23,040 --> 00:01:26,520 Speaker 2: The problem is when we allow these things in, they're 32 00:01:26,560 --> 00:01:29,640 Speaker 2: taking up space for the good things that should be there. 33 00:01:30,520 --> 00:01:34,319 Speaker 2: Imagine your life is like a container. You were created 34 00:01:34,600 --> 00:01:39,280 Speaker 2: to be filled with joy, peace, confidence, creativity. But if 35 00:01:39,319 --> 00:01:43,360 Speaker 2: you allow worry in, it pushes out the peace. There's 36 00:01:43,400 --> 00:01:46,920 Speaker 2: not space for both. You can't go above one hundred percent. 37 00:01:47,360 --> 00:01:50,360 Speaker 2: You have a limited amount of room. If you allow 38 00:01:50,480 --> 00:01:54,080 Speaker 2: guilt to take up space, that's space that you don't 39 00:01:54,080 --> 00:01:57,320 Speaker 2: have for the confidence you need. And the reason some 40 00:01:57,360 --> 00:02:02,480 Speaker 2: people don't enjoy their lives is because their container, their heart, 41 00:02:02,840 --> 00:02:07,120 Speaker 2: is contaminated with so many things. They have ten percent worried, 42 00:02:07,400 --> 00:02:11,160 Speaker 2: stressed out over their job, twelve percent bitterness, mad at 43 00:02:11,160 --> 00:02:16,040 Speaker 2: their neighbor, twenty percent guilt beating themselves up for past mistakes, 44 00:02:16,320 --> 00:02:20,320 Speaker 2: nine percent jealousy their coworker is more beautiful they don't 45 00:02:20,360 --> 00:02:24,919 Speaker 2: realize seventy percent of their container is negative. They wonder 46 00:02:24,960 --> 00:02:28,640 Speaker 2: why they don't have joy, creativity, passion. They only have 47 00:02:28,800 --> 00:02:32,440 Speaker 2: room for thirty percent of what they should have. The 48 00:02:32,480 --> 00:02:36,400 Speaker 2: scripture says give no place to the enemy. It's not 49 00:02:36,560 --> 00:02:40,160 Speaker 2: just talking about forces of darkness. That means give no 50 00:02:40,280 --> 00:02:43,960 Speaker 2: place to guilt, give no place to worry, give no 51 00:02:44,040 --> 00:02:48,000 Speaker 2: place to bitterness. It can't come in and automatically take over. 52 00:02:48,639 --> 00:02:52,480 Speaker 2: You control what's in your container. You control what you 53 00:02:52,600 --> 00:02:54,880 Speaker 2: think about, what you choose to allow in. 54 00:02:55,760 --> 00:02:59,679 Speaker 1: And we all have negative emotions and negative feelings. You 55 00:02:59,800 --> 00:03:02,359 Speaker 1: have to make the choice. I'm not going to. 56 00:03:02,360 --> 00:03:07,880 Speaker 2: Give this jealousy, this bitterness, this anger valuable space and 57 00:03:07,960 --> 00:03:10,920 Speaker 2: let it poison my life. I'm going to protect what 58 00:03:11,040 --> 00:03:14,280 Speaker 2: I allow in me. And every morning when we wake up, 59 00:03:14,520 --> 00:03:17,200 Speaker 2: we need to empty out anything negative. 60 00:03:16,800 --> 00:03:17,639 Speaker 1: From the day before. 61 00:03:18,520 --> 00:03:21,560 Speaker 2: Somebody offended you at work, they didn't treat you right. 62 00:03:21,840 --> 00:03:24,920 Speaker 2: It's easy to let that offense stay. It feels good 63 00:03:24,960 --> 00:03:27,880 Speaker 2: to carry around a grudge, so you have to be disciplined. 64 00:03:28,200 --> 00:03:31,360 Speaker 2: Say no, I am not giving this offense any room. 65 00:03:31,639 --> 00:03:33,600 Speaker 2: I Am not going to let it sour my day. 66 00:03:34,600 --> 00:03:38,040 Speaker 2: They hurt you once, don't let them continue to hurt 67 00:03:38,080 --> 00:03:41,960 Speaker 2: you by holding on to the offense. Being offended is 68 00:03:42,040 --> 00:03:45,920 Speaker 2: not harming them, it's harming you. It's taking up space 69 00:03:46,000 --> 00:03:48,640 Speaker 2: you need for the good things that move you towards 70 00:03:48,680 --> 00:03:51,720 Speaker 2: your destiny. Or you wake up in the morning and 71 00:03:51,800 --> 00:03:53,120 Speaker 2: thoughts of worry come. 72 00:03:53,640 --> 00:03:55,000 Speaker 1: How are you going to pay your bills? 73 00:03:55,360 --> 00:03:58,080 Speaker 2: What if the medical report's not good, You'll never get 74 00:03:58,120 --> 00:04:01,560 Speaker 2: out of this problem. Don't allow that in. Don't make 75 00:04:01,560 --> 00:04:04,160 Speaker 2: the mistake of dwelling on it. Just say no thanks. 76 00:04:04,320 --> 00:04:06,720 Speaker 2: I know God's in control. He's got me in the 77 00:04:06,760 --> 00:04:08,880 Speaker 2: palm of his hand. He'll get me to where I'm 78 00:04:08,920 --> 00:04:13,040 Speaker 2: supposed to be. Take inventory of what you're. 79 00:04:12,840 --> 00:04:13,760 Speaker 1: Giving space to. 80 00:04:14,680 --> 00:04:17,480 Speaker 2: Life is too short to go through it with negative 81 00:04:17,480 --> 00:04:18,919 Speaker 2: things holding us down. 82 00:04:19,839 --> 00:04:21,599 Speaker 1: David said in Psalm one three. 83 00:04:22,160 --> 00:04:25,640 Speaker 2: God fills my life with good things, so I stay 84 00:04:25,720 --> 00:04:26,960 Speaker 2: young and strong. 85 00:04:27,640 --> 00:04:29,360 Speaker 1: Now I've learned, if you'll empty. 86 00:04:29,080 --> 00:04:32,280 Speaker 2: Out the negative, if you'll make room, God will fill 87 00:04:32,320 --> 00:04:35,480 Speaker 2: you with good things. You empty out the worry, God 88 00:04:35,520 --> 00:04:39,000 Speaker 2: will fill you with peace. You empty out the insecurity, 89 00:04:39,560 --> 00:04:41,520 Speaker 2: negative things people have said about you. 90 00:04:41,880 --> 00:04:43,480 Speaker 1: God will fill you with confidence. 91 00:04:44,360 --> 00:04:47,720 Speaker 2: My question today is is God trying to fill you. 92 00:04:47,720 --> 00:04:50,160 Speaker 1: With good things? But there's no room. 93 00:04:50,520 --> 00:04:55,800 Speaker 2: Your container is full of worry. Regret, bitterness, jealousy. Why 94 00:04:55,800 --> 00:04:59,159 Speaker 2: don't you start emptying that out? Somebody did you wrong. 95 00:04:59,760 --> 00:05:02,640 Speaker 2: You could hold on to that bitterness. Instead, God, I 96 00:05:02,720 --> 00:05:03,400 Speaker 2: forgive them. 97 00:05:03,640 --> 00:05:07,000 Speaker 1: I let it go. You didn't just forgive. You made 98 00:05:07,160 --> 00:05:10,320 Speaker 1: room for God to fill you with good things. That's 99 00:05:10,400 --> 00:05:13,520 Speaker 1: when he'll give you beauty for ashes, joy for morning. 100 00:05:14,360 --> 00:05:17,520 Speaker 2: You're in a tough season. The medical report wasn't good. 101 00:05:18,000 --> 00:05:22,160 Speaker 2: You should be stressed worried. Instead, God, I trust you. 102 00:05:22,160 --> 00:05:25,240 Speaker 2: You said you would restore health back into me. You 103 00:05:25,440 --> 00:05:28,280 Speaker 2: just made room for God to fill you with healing. 104 00:05:28,800 --> 00:05:31,479 Speaker 2: You empty out the worry. God will give you peace 105 00:05:31,560 --> 00:05:32,640 Speaker 2: in the midst of the storm. 106 00:05:33,480 --> 00:05:36,520 Speaker 1: Perhaps a coworker got the promotion that you work so 107 00:05:36,640 --> 00:05:39,599 Speaker 1: hard for, envy, jealousy will come. 108 00:05:40,240 --> 00:05:42,760 Speaker 2: I wish that was me. I'm smarter than they are. 109 00:05:42,839 --> 00:05:47,039 Speaker 2: I don't understand that. Instead of letting that stay, God, 110 00:05:47,080 --> 00:05:48,120 Speaker 2: I know you're. 111 00:05:47,960 --> 00:05:49,359 Speaker 1: No respector of persons. 112 00:05:49,640 --> 00:05:51,560 Speaker 2: You did it for them, I know you can do 113 00:05:51,600 --> 00:05:54,920 Speaker 2: it for me. The good news is God doesn't run 114 00:05:54,960 --> 00:05:58,960 Speaker 2: out of favor. He doesn't have a limited supply. If 115 00:05:58,960 --> 00:06:01,960 Speaker 2: you will empty out the jealousy, then when it's your 116 00:06:02,000 --> 00:06:04,880 Speaker 2: time to be promoted, God will open doors that no 117 00:06:05,000 --> 00:06:09,120 Speaker 2: man can shout. If somebody what you wanted, that simply 118 00:06:09,200 --> 00:06:13,320 Speaker 2: means it wasn't supposed to be yours. If they got 119 00:06:13,320 --> 00:06:17,039 Speaker 2: the promotion, be happy for them. God has something better 120 00:06:17,080 --> 00:06:20,280 Speaker 2: for you. If they got the man you wanted to date, 121 00:06:20,680 --> 00:06:23,159 Speaker 2: let's make it real. If they got the girl you 122 00:06:23,200 --> 00:06:24,320 Speaker 2: were interested. 123 00:06:23,920 --> 00:06:27,560 Speaker 1: In, don't be upset. God knows what he's doing. If 124 00:06:27,600 --> 00:06:30,040 Speaker 1: it worked out your way, it would be second best. 125 00:06:30,400 --> 00:06:33,520 Speaker 1: Bottom line, what has your name on it is not 126 00:06:33,560 --> 00:06:36,880 Speaker 1: going to go to anyone else. Don't go around bitter 127 00:06:37,200 --> 00:06:38,799 Speaker 1: with jealousy and self pity. 128 00:06:39,240 --> 00:06:43,320 Speaker 2: That will poison your life. Empty it out. God is 129 00:06:43,360 --> 00:06:47,279 Speaker 2: in control. He's directing your steps At the right time. 130 00:06:47,400 --> 00:06:49,480 Speaker 1: What has your name on it will show up. 131 00:06:50,200 --> 00:06:53,120 Speaker 2: God promises, if we will make room, he will not 132 00:06:53,240 --> 00:06:55,680 Speaker 2: only fill us with good things. 133 00:06:55,480 --> 00:06:57,720 Speaker 1: But he will keep us young and strong. 134 00:06:58,320 --> 00:07:01,160 Speaker 2: And the reason some people are not young and strong, 135 00:07:01,480 --> 00:07:04,120 Speaker 2: and I don't mean just young physically, but young in 136 00:07:04,160 --> 00:07:09,120 Speaker 2: their spirit, vibrant, passionate about life is because they're filled 137 00:07:09,120 --> 00:07:09,840 Speaker 2: with the negative. 138 00:07:10,560 --> 00:07:11,960 Speaker 1: Worry will make you weak. 139 00:07:12,920 --> 00:07:16,360 Speaker 2: Living stressed out will make you old, give you wrinkles, 140 00:07:16,600 --> 00:07:23,160 Speaker 2: Take your passion. Being bitter, angry, resentful will shorten your life. 141 00:07:23,600 --> 00:07:28,240 Speaker 2: Proverb says, A relaxed attitude lengthen's life. You can be 142 00:07:28,320 --> 00:07:32,120 Speaker 2: eighty years old and young at heart. Your spirit never ages. 143 00:07:32,800 --> 00:07:35,000 Speaker 2: I met a woman in the lobby a while back. 144 00:07:35,240 --> 00:07:38,840 Speaker 2: It was her one hundredth birthday. She was standing there, 145 00:07:38,920 --> 00:07:44,320 Speaker 2: dressed impeccably beautiful, hardly had any wrinkles, full of joy, 146 00:07:44,800 --> 00:07:47,920 Speaker 2: her mind was as sharp as can be. I ask 147 00:07:48,040 --> 00:07:53,200 Speaker 2: her what her secret was so I could tell Victoria. 148 00:07:53,320 --> 00:07:58,360 Speaker 2: She said, I don't worry. I let things go and 149 00:07:58,440 --> 00:08:02,640 Speaker 2: I laugh a lot. She's lived by this principle. You know, 150 00:08:02,920 --> 00:08:06,360 Speaker 2: in one hundred years, she's had trouble. People have hurt her, 151 00:08:07,160 --> 00:08:12,320 Speaker 2: She's made mistakes, life has happened, Offensives have come, but 152 00:08:12,360 --> 00:08:15,840 Speaker 2: she hasn't held on to them. She's kept emptying them 153 00:08:15,920 --> 00:08:19,480 Speaker 2: out and lot. God promised He's filled her life with 154 00:08:19,600 --> 00:08:23,120 Speaker 2: good things, kept her young and strong. I don't want 155 00:08:23,160 --> 00:08:26,000 Speaker 2: to get old, grouchy, grumpy, fall apart. I want to 156 00:08:26,040 --> 00:08:29,720 Speaker 2: stay young, strong, good looking, full of faith and joy 157 00:08:29,760 --> 00:08:34,760 Speaker 2: and energy. The way this happens is give no place 158 00:08:34,840 --> 00:08:38,200 Speaker 2: to the negative. Get in a habit of emptying out 159 00:08:38,200 --> 00:08:42,680 Speaker 2: the offenses, Empty out the worry you make a mistake, 160 00:08:42,840 --> 00:08:46,200 Speaker 2: empty out the guilt you didn't do your best. Empty 161 00:08:46,240 --> 00:08:50,080 Speaker 2: out the regret, do better next time. Nobody gave you credit. 162 00:08:50,320 --> 00:08:53,280 Speaker 2: Empty out the self pity. You had a bad break, 163 00:08:53,320 --> 00:08:56,040 Speaker 2: you don't understand it. Empty out the questions. 164 00:08:56,559 --> 00:08:59,880 Speaker 1: If you'll get good at emptying out the negative. 165 00:08:59,600 --> 00:09:03,840 Speaker 2: You'll be like this lady, strong, young, vibrant, full of faith, 166 00:09:04,080 --> 00:09:04,960 Speaker 2: and full of joy. 167 00:09:05,800 --> 00:09:09,520 Speaker 1: Jesus said, blessed are the pure in heart. They will 168 00:09:09,520 --> 00:09:13,720 Speaker 1: see God. That word pure, in the original language is 169 00:09:13,760 --> 00:09:18,840 Speaker 1: where we get our word cathartic. It means cleansing, releasing. 170 00:09:19,600 --> 00:09:22,840 Speaker 2: You have surgery, sometimes the doctor will put in a catheter, 171 00:09:23,320 --> 00:09:26,880 Speaker 2: same root word. It's a tube that drains out the 172 00:09:26,920 --> 00:09:30,280 Speaker 2: impurities of the body. You can't get up to use 173 00:09:30,280 --> 00:09:36,880 Speaker 2: the facility. That catheter automatically takes what's not beneficial, the toxins, 174 00:09:37,040 --> 00:09:40,800 Speaker 2: the infections, the waste, and flushes them out of the body. 175 00:09:41,600 --> 00:09:45,760 Speaker 2: The doctor knows there will be contaminants. He's not alarmed 176 00:09:45,800 --> 00:09:50,239 Speaker 2: that the body has waste and infection. He's only alarmed 177 00:09:50,559 --> 00:09:53,719 Speaker 2: when it's not being released, when we're holding on to 178 00:09:53,840 --> 00:09:57,720 Speaker 2: things that should be flushed out. When God says, blessed 179 00:09:57,800 --> 00:10:00,800 Speaker 2: are the pure in heart, he says, and you're going 180 00:10:00,880 --> 00:10:03,120 Speaker 2: to be blessed when you learn how. 181 00:10:02,960 --> 00:10:05,520 Speaker 1: To release the impurities of life. 182 00:10:06,080 --> 00:10:08,840 Speaker 2: When you get in a habit like this catheter of 183 00:10:09,040 --> 00:10:12,800 Speaker 2: empty and out things that will infect you. You know 184 00:10:12,840 --> 00:10:20,000 Speaker 2: what bitterness is to our spirit, It's infection. Guilt is infection. Worry, doubt, 185 00:10:20,200 --> 00:10:24,600 Speaker 2: self pity. These things are not unusual. Impurities come. 186 00:10:25,200 --> 00:10:26,760 Speaker 1: You have to push them out. 187 00:10:27,440 --> 00:10:30,800 Speaker 2: It's when we hold onto them that it contaminates our 188 00:10:30,840 --> 00:10:32,959 Speaker 2: spirit and causes us problems. 189 00:10:33,880 --> 00:10:40,240 Speaker 1: You weren't created to carry around guilt, regret, bitterness, anger. 190 00:10:40,280 --> 00:10:43,760 Speaker 2: That poisons your life. Well, Joel, I'm bitter because I 191 00:10:43,760 --> 00:10:47,040 Speaker 2: had a bad break. I'm sour because somebody walked out 192 00:10:47,040 --> 00:10:51,760 Speaker 2: on me. I say this respectfully. That's simply an impurity. 193 00:10:52,520 --> 00:10:55,560 Speaker 2: Why don't you release it so it doesn't infect the 194 00:10:55,559 --> 00:10:59,800 Speaker 2: rest of your life. Don't let a disappointment, a divorce, 195 00:11:00,120 --> 00:11:04,679 Speaker 2: a layoff, a loss poison your future. Well, Joel, I'm 196 00:11:04,720 --> 00:11:08,240 Speaker 2: worried about my health, worried about my finances, worried about 197 00:11:08,280 --> 00:11:12,000 Speaker 2: my children. Worry is a part of life. Those thoughts 198 00:11:12,040 --> 00:11:15,520 Speaker 2: come to us. All The key is to not hold 199 00:11:15,559 --> 00:11:20,080 Speaker 2: on to them. Recognize they're not beneficial, they're not moving 200 00:11:20,120 --> 00:11:24,160 Speaker 2: you forward. That's an impurity that wasn't meant to stay. 201 00:11:24,920 --> 00:11:26,040 Speaker 1: You have to release it. 202 00:11:26,440 --> 00:11:28,559 Speaker 2: God, I don't see a way, but I know you're 203 00:11:28,600 --> 00:11:31,480 Speaker 2: still on the throne. I know you're bigger than this problem. 204 00:11:31,640 --> 00:11:33,480 Speaker 2: I know you're supplying all of my needs. 205 00:11:33,720 --> 00:11:38,880 Speaker 1: You just released the toxin. Are you holding on to infection, 206 00:11:39,600 --> 00:11:45,200 Speaker 1: to impurities? Angry? Jealous, worried, discouraged? Maybe you had a disappointment, 207 00:11:45,520 --> 00:11:50,559 Speaker 1: something didn't work out. Imagine there's an angel that has 208 00:11:50,600 --> 00:11:54,640 Speaker 1: a delivery with your name on it. It says beauty 209 00:11:54,640 --> 00:11:59,920 Speaker 1: for ashes, new beginning, new opportunities, new friendships. He's in 210 00:12:00,679 --> 00:12:04,440 Speaker 1: with one of those good things. The problem is, if. 211 00:12:04,320 --> 00:12:07,400 Speaker 2: You're holding on to the old, there's no place for 212 00:12:07,520 --> 00:12:11,199 Speaker 2: him to deliver it. I wonder how many things are 213 00:12:11,320 --> 00:12:12,400 Speaker 2: en route right now. 214 00:12:13,000 --> 00:12:14,679 Speaker 1: The angel is standing. 215 00:12:14,280 --> 00:12:17,880 Speaker 2: By with our joy, our peace, our confidence, our creativity, 216 00:12:17,920 --> 00:12:21,719 Speaker 2: our spouse. But because there's no room, because we're not 217 00:12:21,800 --> 00:12:25,720 Speaker 2: releasing the toxins, the anger, the bitterness, the jealousy, the worry, 218 00:12:26,320 --> 00:12:30,280 Speaker 2: then he can't deliver those good things. Instead of living blessed, 219 00:12:30,679 --> 00:12:31,720 Speaker 2: excited about our. 220 00:12:31,640 --> 00:12:36,400 Speaker 1: Future, we become infected. The good news is you can 221 00:12:36,440 --> 00:12:39,520 Speaker 1: get rid of that infection. It is not permanent. 222 00:12:39,840 --> 00:12:44,479 Speaker 2: If you'll start releasing the regret, the worry, the bitterness, 223 00:12:44,720 --> 00:12:48,360 Speaker 2: the anger. Then it's just a matter of time before. 224 00:12:48,080 --> 00:12:50,199 Speaker 1: That angel shows up with your delivery. 225 00:12:50,640 --> 00:12:54,880 Speaker 2: When you make room, God promises he will fill your life. 226 00:12:54,760 --> 00:12:57,680 Speaker 1: With good things. This is what David did. 227 00:12:58,559 --> 00:13:01,959 Speaker 2: He was an expert at emptying out the negative. His 228 00:13:02,080 --> 00:13:05,040 Speaker 2: family looked down on him, treated him like he was 229 00:13:05,120 --> 00:13:05,960 Speaker 2: second class. 230 00:13:06,520 --> 00:13:07,680 Speaker 1: He could have let that. 231 00:13:07,559 --> 00:13:12,240 Speaker 2: Infection take root, lived insecure. Instead, he let it go 232 00:13:12,360 --> 00:13:15,199 Speaker 2: in one ear and out the other. He knew if 233 00:13:15,240 --> 00:13:17,480 Speaker 2: he held on to it, it would keep him from 234 00:13:17,480 --> 00:13:22,680 Speaker 2: his destiny. David went to the palace served faithfully King Saul. 235 00:13:23,360 --> 00:13:26,040 Speaker 1: He would play the harp when Saul was sick to 236 00:13:26,120 --> 00:13:30,559 Speaker 1: make him feel better. In return, Saul tried to kill him. 237 00:13:30,920 --> 00:13:32,439 Speaker 1: Saul was jealous. 238 00:13:32,040 --> 00:13:34,880 Speaker 2: Of David and chased him through the desert, made him 239 00:13:34,880 --> 00:13:38,960 Speaker 2: his life miserable. David could have become bitter, thought what's 240 00:13:39,000 --> 00:13:40,880 Speaker 2: the use everybody's against me? 241 00:13:41,120 --> 00:13:42,160 Speaker 1: Life is not fair. 242 00:13:43,040 --> 00:13:46,400 Speaker 2: Instead, he kept his heart pure and emptied out the 243 00:13:46,440 --> 00:13:52,520 Speaker 2: self pity. Like David, we all have impurities, infections that calm. 244 00:13:52,600 --> 00:13:56,240 Speaker 2: People come against us. Our plans don't always work out. 245 00:13:56,920 --> 00:13:59,080 Speaker 2: It's easy to think, why is this happening? 246 00:13:59,559 --> 00:14:00,560 Speaker 1: It's just life. 247 00:14:01,200 --> 00:14:05,400 Speaker 2: The scripture says offenses will come. They're not a problem 248 00:14:05,679 --> 00:14:08,640 Speaker 2: unless you don't know what to do with them. Too 249 00:14:08,640 --> 00:14:10,880 Speaker 2: many people make the mistake of hold. 250 00:14:10,640 --> 00:14:11,200 Speaker 1: On to them. 251 00:14:11,800 --> 00:14:15,600 Speaker 2: They get bitter, live guilty with the chip on their shoulder. 252 00:14:16,280 --> 00:14:19,960 Speaker 2: That's going to poison your future. You have to release 253 00:14:20,240 --> 00:14:23,440 Speaker 2: the toxins of life. You may not be able to 254 00:14:23,520 --> 00:14:25,200 Speaker 2: keep them from coming, but. 255 00:14:25,160 --> 00:14:29,040 Speaker 1: You can keep them from staying. David had a pure heart. 256 00:14:29,720 --> 00:14:33,560 Speaker 2: That means he kept the infections out. It doesn't mean 257 00:14:33,720 --> 00:14:34,720 Speaker 2: that he was perfect. 258 00:14:35,400 --> 00:14:36,560 Speaker 1: David made mistakes. 259 00:14:37,120 --> 00:14:40,960 Speaker 2: One time, he committed adultern had the lady's husband killed. 260 00:14:41,480 --> 00:14:44,360 Speaker 2: For one year, he tried to cover it up, swept 261 00:14:44,400 --> 00:14:48,240 Speaker 2: it under a rug. He was so overwhelmed with guilt 262 00:14:48,600 --> 00:14:53,680 Speaker 2: condemnation that he became sick and weak that poison started 263 00:14:53,720 --> 00:14:58,600 Speaker 2: to infect his life. He finally admitted his mistake, He repented, 264 00:14:58,720 --> 00:15:01,960 Speaker 2: asked God to forgive him, and things begin to turn around. 265 00:15:02,280 --> 00:15:06,920 Speaker 2: Once he got the infection out, then his health was restored. 266 00:15:07,760 --> 00:15:10,480 Speaker 2: When you make a mistake, and we all do, don't 267 00:15:10,560 --> 00:15:11,640 Speaker 2: run away from God. 268 00:15:11,760 --> 00:15:15,040 Speaker 1: Don't try to hide it, go to God. Repent. 269 00:15:15,240 --> 00:15:17,680 Speaker 2: That means don't keep doing the same thing, and then 270 00:15:18,000 --> 00:15:21,360 Speaker 2: ask for forgiveness and here's the key you have to 271 00:15:21,480 --> 00:15:26,280 Speaker 2: receive God's mercy. The enemy is called the accuser of 272 00:15:26,320 --> 00:15:30,280 Speaker 2: the brethren. He'll remind you of every mistake you've made for. 273 00:15:30,200 --> 00:15:31,640 Speaker 1: The last thirty years. 274 00:15:32,040 --> 00:15:35,880 Speaker 2: And it's easy to live life in regrets, thinking about 275 00:15:35,880 --> 00:15:38,280 Speaker 2: what you should have done differently. And I should have 276 00:15:38,360 --> 00:15:41,160 Speaker 2: raised my children better, should have been more faithful in 277 00:15:41,200 --> 00:15:43,360 Speaker 2: my marriage, I should have finished college. 278 00:15:44,000 --> 00:15:46,880 Speaker 1: Don't go through life looking in the rear view mirror, 279 00:15:47,400 --> 00:15:50,800 Speaker 1: down on your self, living in regrets. You can't do 280 00:15:50,840 --> 00:15:54,280 Speaker 1: anything about the past, but you can do something about 281 00:15:54,360 --> 00:15:58,360 Speaker 1: right now. Being against yourself doesn't help you do better. 282 00:15:58,880 --> 00:15:59,960 Speaker 1: It pushes you down. 283 00:16:00,880 --> 00:16:04,640 Speaker 2: The moment you ask God to forgive you, he forgave you. 284 00:16:05,480 --> 00:16:08,840 Speaker 1: Why don't you forgive yourself. Why don't you empty out 285 00:16:08,840 --> 00:16:12,520 Speaker 1: the guilt? Why don't you turn off the accusing voices? 286 00:16:12,920 --> 00:16:17,280 Speaker 2: God doesn't remember your mistakes anymore. If someone is bringing 287 00:16:17,360 --> 00:16:20,200 Speaker 2: up the negative things of your past, it's not God. 288 00:16:20,560 --> 00:16:24,400 Speaker 2: That's the accuser trying to deceive you into living condemned. 289 00:16:25,440 --> 00:16:28,920 Speaker 1: How much space are you given to guilt, to shame, 290 00:16:29,400 --> 00:16:33,680 Speaker 1: to regret, to being against yourself, whatever it is, it's 291 00:16:33,760 --> 00:16:38,000 Speaker 1: too much. You need that space for the good things. 292 00:16:38,040 --> 00:16:41,480 Speaker 2: God has to move you toward your destiny. If you're 293 00:16:41,520 --> 00:16:45,200 Speaker 2: giving space to guilt, you will not have the confidence 294 00:16:45,240 --> 00:16:48,520 Speaker 2: you need to move forward. That will cause you to 295 00:16:48,560 --> 00:16:52,520 Speaker 2: fail again. It's a negative cycle. The only way you 296 00:16:52,560 --> 00:16:55,520 Speaker 2: can break it is to rise up and say that's it. 297 00:16:55,800 --> 00:16:59,400 Speaker 1: I am done living in the past, focused on my mistakes, 298 00:16:59,680 --> 00:17:03,040 Speaker 1: really living my failures, beating myself up. This is a 299 00:17:03,080 --> 00:17:03,600 Speaker 1: new day. 300 00:17:04,119 --> 00:17:09,120 Speaker 2: I'm emptying out all that infection. I'm gonna receive God's mercy. 301 00:17:09,320 --> 00:17:13,280 Speaker 2: You have to do this by fae, because every voice 302 00:17:13,320 --> 00:17:15,080 Speaker 2: will tell you you're a hypocrite. 303 00:17:15,480 --> 00:17:16,920 Speaker 1: God's not gonna forgive you. 304 00:17:17,160 --> 00:17:20,159 Speaker 2: Look what you've done doesn't have anything to do with 305 00:17:20,240 --> 00:17:22,800 Speaker 2: what you have or haven't done. It has to do 306 00:17:23,000 --> 00:17:25,560 Speaker 2: with what Jesus has already done. 307 00:17:26,280 --> 00:17:28,080 Speaker 1: But Joel, I made a lot of mistakes. 308 00:17:28,080 --> 00:17:31,440 Speaker 2: I don't deserve to be blessed. None of us deserve it. 309 00:17:32,119 --> 00:17:34,960 Speaker 2: This is what mercy is all about. That's why it's 310 00:17:35,000 --> 00:17:39,000 Speaker 2: called the good news. Your sins have already been forgiven. 311 00:17:39,560 --> 00:17:41,960 Speaker 2: You don't have to pay God back for your mistakes. 312 00:17:42,240 --> 00:17:45,640 Speaker 2: The price has already been paid. When you fall down, 313 00:17:45,680 --> 00:17:48,960 Speaker 2: don't stay down, get back up again. When you accuse 314 00:17:49,080 --> 00:17:51,640 Speaker 2: or whispers, look at you. You blew it again, You'll 315 00:17:51,640 --> 00:17:54,359 Speaker 2: never get it right. Just answer back. Yes, I know 316 00:17:54,480 --> 00:17:57,760 Speaker 2: I'm not perfect, but I am forgiven. I may not 317 00:17:57,880 --> 00:18:00,560 Speaker 2: be where I should be, but I'm making progress. I'm 318 00:18:00,560 --> 00:18:03,359 Speaker 2: moving forward. I'm not where I used to be. Don't 319 00:18:03,440 --> 00:18:08,480 Speaker 2: let guilt poison your future. Empty it out. Sometimes it's 320 00:18:08,520 --> 00:18:11,800 Speaker 2: hard to empty out the negative. When a person does 321 00:18:11,880 --> 00:18:15,200 Speaker 2: us wrong. Human nature wants to hold on to the hurt, 322 00:18:15,680 --> 00:18:18,920 Speaker 2: become bitter, carry around a grudge who we think. 323 00:18:19,040 --> 00:18:21,320 Speaker 1: I'm not going to forgive them. They don't deserve it. 324 00:18:22,119 --> 00:18:26,320 Speaker 1: You're not forgiving for their sake. You're forgiving for your sake. 325 00:18:27,040 --> 00:18:30,000 Speaker 2: As long as you hold on to the hurt, the anger, 326 00:18:30,440 --> 00:18:36,960 Speaker 2: the bitterness, it's not affecting them, it's infecting you. Unforgiveness 327 00:18:37,040 --> 00:18:40,520 Speaker 2: is like a poisonous toxin. May feel good to hold 328 00:18:40,520 --> 00:18:41,440 Speaker 2: on to it, but it. 329 00:18:41,400 --> 00:18:44,520 Speaker 1: Will contaminate your life. Now. A lot of times, the 330 00:18:44,600 --> 00:18:48,240 Speaker 1: reason we don't forgive is because what the other person 331 00:18:48,320 --> 00:18:49,200 Speaker 1: does was wrong. 332 00:18:49,840 --> 00:18:53,800 Speaker 2: They were clearly at fault. But when you forgive, you're 333 00:18:53,800 --> 00:18:58,560 Speaker 2: not excusing their behavior. You're not lessening the offense. You're 334 00:18:58,600 --> 00:19:02,760 Speaker 2: simply getting the out of you. You have to forgive 335 00:19:03,200 --> 00:19:06,159 Speaker 2: so you can be free. Quit looking at it like 336 00:19:06,200 --> 00:19:07,280 Speaker 2: you're doing them a favor. 337 00:19:07,560 --> 00:19:10,600 Speaker 1: You're doing yourself a favor. See, it takes a lot 338 00:19:10,640 --> 00:19:15,320 Speaker 1: of emotional energy to hold a grudge, to live with unforgiveness. 339 00:19:16,000 --> 00:19:18,399 Speaker 2: You wake up, it's always on your mind thinking about 340 00:19:18,400 --> 00:19:21,679 Speaker 2: how they did you wrong. You may not realize you 341 00:19:21,720 --> 00:19:25,680 Speaker 2: are spending emotional energy that you need. 342 00:19:25,560 --> 00:19:29,000 Speaker 1: For your dreams, for your goals, for your children. You 343 00:19:29,040 --> 00:19:32,000 Speaker 1: won't become all you were created to be if you 344 00:19:32,040 --> 00:19:36,760 Speaker 1: are wasting emotional energy on things that don't matter. That 345 00:19:36,920 --> 00:19:40,760 Speaker 1: unforgiveness is an impurity. Yes, what they did was wrong, 346 00:19:41,040 --> 00:19:43,600 Speaker 1: but you have to let it pass. You have to 347 00:19:43,680 --> 00:19:47,399 Speaker 1: release it. When you do, you'll not only feel a 348 00:19:47,440 --> 00:19:51,520 Speaker 1: new freedom, not only have more energy, but God will 349 00:19:51,560 --> 00:19:52,600 Speaker 1: be your vindicator. 350 00:19:53,280 --> 00:19:55,919 Speaker 2: He will make your wrongs right. You don't have to 351 00:19:55,960 --> 00:19:58,200 Speaker 2: pay people back. You're not the judge. 352 00:19:58,320 --> 00:20:01,360 Speaker 1: God is. Leave it up to him and he'll vindicate 353 00:20:01,440 --> 00:20:04,240 Speaker 1: you better than you could vindicate yourself. 354 00:20:04,960 --> 00:20:07,960 Speaker 2: This is what a lady did named Mary Johnson. She 355 00:20:08,119 --> 00:20:11,080 Speaker 2: was the single mother of one son. When he was 356 00:20:11,080 --> 00:20:14,040 Speaker 2: twenty years old, he was out late one night at 357 00:20:14,040 --> 00:20:16,800 Speaker 2: a party. This young man came up that he had 358 00:20:16,840 --> 00:20:20,320 Speaker 2: never met. His name was oh Sheh He was sixteen 359 00:20:20,440 --> 00:20:22,320 Speaker 2: years old and had been drinking. 360 00:20:22,880 --> 00:20:26,000 Speaker 1: There was an altercation. In the heat of the moment, Oh, 361 00:20:26,000 --> 00:20:29,280 Speaker 1: she pulled out a gun and shot Mary's only son. 362 00:20:29,760 --> 00:20:31,080 Speaker 1: He was instantly killed. 363 00:20:31,840 --> 00:20:35,879 Speaker 2: Mary was so filled with anger and hatred. She told 364 00:20:35,880 --> 00:20:39,640 Speaker 2: the judge that sixteen year old boy was an animal. 365 00:20:39,440 --> 00:20:40,920 Speaker 1: And he needed to be caged. 366 00:20:41,680 --> 00:20:45,320 Speaker 2: When he was only charged with second degree murder, Mary 367 00:20:45,720 --> 00:20:49,760 Speaker 2: was even more angry. She became a recluse, stayed in 368 00:20:49,840 --> 00:20:53,920 Speaker 2: her house, wouldn't look at her son's picture. Ten years passed, 369 00:20:54,400 --> 00:20:57,640 Speaker 2: she knew it was time to forgive. She could hear 370 00:20:57,880 --> 00:21:00,640 Speaker 2: the still small voice telling her to let it go. 371 00:21:01,480 --> 00:21:04,800 Speaker 1: She contacted the prison to see if she could visit Osh. 372 00:21:05,240 --> 00:21:08,640 Speaker 1: They said yes, but Oh, she said no, he wouldn't 373 00:21:08,640 --> 00:21:12,600 Speaker 1: do it. She kept asking and asking. Finally he agreed. 374 00:21:13,240 --> 00:21:16,200 Speaker 1: She showed up at the prison. When she saw Osh, 375 00:21:16,800 --> 00:21:20,320 Speaker 1: he came around and gave her a big hug and 376 00:21:20,400 --> 00:21:24,200 Speaker 1: held on to her. They wept and wept. Mary said, 377 00:21:24,840 --> 00:21:28,960 Speaker 1: as I was embracing oshe, I could feel hatred and 378 00:21:29,080 --> 00:21:32,679 Speaker 1: bitterness rising up out of me and leaving my body. 379 00:21:33,720 --> 00:21:36,879 Speaker 1: It was so strong that she fell over. Oh. She 380 00:21:37,480 --> 00:21:38,440 Speaker 1: had to hold her up. 381 00:21:39,000 --> 00:21:44,280 Speaker 2: That day, Mary not only emptied out the unforgiveness, but 382 00:21:44,400 --> 00:21:45,680 Speaker 2: she found a new son. 383 00:21:46,400 --> 00:21:49,760 Speaker 1: Seven years later. Oh she was released on parole. Didn't 384 00:21:49,800 --> 00:21:50,760 Speaker 1: have any place to live. 385 00:21:51,080 --> 00:21:53,840 Speaker 2: Mary said, you can live next door to me. She 386 00:21:54,040 --> 00:21:59,600 Speaker 2: calls him her spiritual son. Mary started an organization called 387 00:21:59,600 --> 00:22:03,359 Speaker 2: from Death to Life to help mothers who have lost 388 00:22:03,440 --> 00:22:06,760 Speaker 2: children to violence. Now she and Moshi go out and 389 00:22:06,840 --> 00:22:12,200 Speaker 2: speak at conferences in schools about unforgiveness and overcoming lass. 390 00:22:12,920 --> 00:22:17,080 Speaker 2: Mary said what really helped her decide to forgive was 391 00:22:17,119 --> 00:22:21,199 Speaker 2: a poem she heard about two mothers in heaven that 392 00:22:21,320 --> 00:22:22,680 Speaker 2: had just become friends. 393 00:22:23,280 --> 00:22:27,160 Speaker 1: One mother asked the other, who is your son? She said, 394 00:22:27,240 --> 00:22:31,439 Speaker 1: my son is Jesus. I'm Mary. Mary asked who is 395 00:22:31,480 --> 00:22:34,440 Speaker 1: your son? She said, my son is Judas. 396 00:22:35,440 --> 00:22:39,520 Speaker 2: When Mary Johnson heard how in this poem Mary, the 397 00:22:39,600 --> 00:22:43,960 Speaker 2: mother of Christ had befriended the mother of Judas, she 398 00:22:44,119 --> 00:22:46,440 Speaker 2: knew she had to reach out to that other family. 399 00:22:46,840 --> 00:22:50,040 Speaker 2: Now she helps other mothers do the same thing. Out 400 00:22:50,080 --> 00:22:53,080 Speaker 2: of your pain can come your purpose. I saw a 401 00:22:53,160 --> 00:22:57,280 Speaker 2: lady on television recently. Several years earlier, her son had 402 00:22:57,320 --> 00:22:58,680 Speaker 2: been killed in an accident. 403 00:22:59,280 --> 00:23:01,119 Speaker 1: They asked her how she was doing it. 404 00:23:01,600 --> 00:23:05,160 Speaker 2: She made the statement, you never really get over it, 405 00:23:05,640 --> 00:23:07,320 Speaker 2: but you can get past it. 406 00:23:08,160 --> 00:23:11,320 Speaker 1: She was saying, Yes, it's difficult, Yes. 407 00:23:11,200 --> 00:23:13,800 Speaker 2: There was a season of mourning, but you don't have 408 00:23:13,880 --> 00:23:14,840 Speaker 2: to stay in mourning. 409 00:23:15,359 --> 00:23:17,679 Speaker 1: You don't have to live bitter. You don't have to 410 00:23:17,720 --> 00:23:21,359 Speaker 1: get stuck in grief, in depression. You can move forward. 411 00:23:22,359 --> 00:23:25,800 Speaker 2: When you go through a loss, things happen you don't understand. 412 00:23:25,920 --> 00:23:28,320 Speaker 2: It's easy to think I just need to get over this, 413 00:23:28,960 --> 00:23:32,560 Speaker 2: but sometimes that's too strong. It can put more pressure 414 00:23:32,600 --> 00:23:34,840 Speaker 2: on us. We think, why do I feel this way. 415 00:23:35,000 --> 00:23:37,960 Speaker 2: I must be doing something wrong. Take the pressure off. 416 00:23:38,520 --> 00:23:39,600 Speaker 2: You don't have to get. 417 00:23:39,440 --> 00:23:41,520 Speaker 1: Over it, just get past it. 418 00:23:42,200 --> 00:23:45,639 Speaker 2: Just keep moving forward, taking it one day at a time. 419 00:23:46,160 --> 00:23:48,760 Speaker 2: God said he will never give you something that you 420 00:23:48,840 --> 00:23:53,199 Speaker 2: cannot handle. You may not understand why it happened, but 421 00:23:53,320 --> 00:23:56,960 Speaker 2: the scripture says God will give us a peace that 422 00:23:57,160 --> 00:23:58,520 Speaker 2: passes understanding. 423 00:23:59,160 --> 00:24:02,240 Speaker 1: You're not going to fit bigger everything out. If you'll 424 00:24:02,320 --> 00:24:04,160 Speaker 1: let go of the questions of. 425 00:24:04,119 --> 00:24:07,760 Speaker 2: Life, you will have a peace that goes beyond what 426 00:24:07,920 --> 00:24:12,040 Speaker 2: you can understand. Toward the end of Jesus' life, he'd 427 00:24:12,080 --> 00:24:16,639 Speaker 2: been betrayed by a disciple, mocked by the soldiers, falsely accused. 428 00:24:16,960 --> 00:24:19,960 Speaker 2: Now he was hanging on the cross, wearing a crown 429 00:24:20,000 --> 00:24:23,720 Speaker 2: of thorns, about to breathe his last breath, he did 430 00:24:23,760 --> 00:24:24,920 Speaker 2: something significant. 431 00:24:25,320 --> 00:24:27,120 Speaker 1: He could have just died and went on to heaven. 432 00:24:27,200 --> 00:24:30,840 Speaker 2: That was it, but he said, Father, before I go, 433 00:24:31,480 --> 00:24:33,520 Speaker 2: I need to take care of one last thing. 434 00:24:34,200 --> 00:24:37,959 Speaker 1: Forgive them, for they know not what they do. They 435 00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:42,119 Speaker 1: didn't ask for forgiveness, they didn't deserve it. Jesus was saying, 436 00:24:42,160 --> 00:24:44,840 Speaker 1: in effect, I'm not going to lead this earth with 437 00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:48,280 Speaker 1: anything negative in me. He was showing us by example 438 00:24:48,480 --> 00:24:53,239 Speaker 1: how we should release the toxins, release the impurities. I 439 00:24:53,320 --> 00:24:57,800 Speaker 1: read where Leonardo da Vinci was painting a portrait of Christ. 440 00:24:58,200 --> 00:25:00,560 Speaker 1: He let some small children in the room to watch 441 00:25:00,640 --> 00:25:04,440 Speaker 1: him paint. One of them accidentally knocked over the easel. 442 00:25:04,960 --> 00:25:08,200 Speaker 1: He became very upset and ushered them out of the room. 443 00:25:08,600 --> 00:25:11,960 Speaker 1: He sat back down to finish, but he said he 444 00:25:12,000 --> 00:25:15,480 Speaker 1: could not paint the face of Christ with anger in 445 00:25:15,520 --> 00:25:19,440 Speaker 1: his heart. That's what happens when we hold onto the negative. 446 00:25:19,720 --> 00:25:23,200 Speaker 1: It stifles our creativity. We don't do our best work. 447 00:25:23,520 --> 00:25:27,679 Speaker 1: It's because there's infection that's slowing us down. Are you 448 00:25:27,760 --> 00:25:32,199 Speaker 1: allowing negative things in your container to reach the fullness 449 00:25:32,240 --> 00:25:36,280 Speaker 1: of your destiny? You need to operate at your maximum potential. 450 00:25:37,040 --> 00:25:40,119 Speaker 2: If you have a little bitterness, a little guilt, a 451 00:25:40,160 --> 00:25:42,080 Speaker 2: little jealousy, a little worry. 452 00:25:42,720 --> 00:25:45,920 Speaker 1: If you add up all the space the little is taking. 453 00:25:46,080 --> 00:25:49,520 Speaker 2: You're only operating at a fraction of what you could. 454 00:25:49,960 --> 00:25:53,320 Speaker 2: I'm asking you to empty all that out. God is 455 00:25:53,400 --> 00:25:55,080 Speaker 2: ready to fill your life. 456 00:25:54,840 --> 00:25:58,240 Speaker 1: With good things. He wants to keep you young and strong. 457 00:25:58,560 --> 00:26:01,800 Speaker 1: Do your part and make groom for him. Every morning. 458 00:26:01,840 --> 00:26:04,760 Speaker 1: Empty out the guilt, empty out the worry, empty out 459 00:26:04,760 --> 00:26:09,720 Speaker 1: the discouragement. And when the impurities come, when the infection come, 460 00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:12,760 Speaker 1: don't let it stay. Let it pass on through. Keep 461 00:26:12,760 --> 00:26:13,560 Speaker 1: your heart pure. 462 00:26:13,960 --> 00:26:16,880 Speaker 2: If you do this, I believe and declare you're going 463 00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:19,840 Speaker 2: to step up to a new level with more joy, 464 00:26:20,080 --> 00:26:24,240 Speaker 2: more peace, more favor, healing, holness, the fulness of your destiny. 465 00:26:24,600 --> 00:26:27,159 Speaker 1: In Jesus' name, I'd like. 466 00:26:27,200 --> 00:26:29,800 Speaker 2: To give you an opportunity to make Jesus the lord 467 00:26:29,840 --> 00:26:34,080 Speaker 2: of your life. Would you pray with me, just say, Lord, Jesus, 468 00:26:35,200 --> 00:26:40,000 Speaker 2: I repent of my sins. Come into my heart. I 469 00:26:40,119 --> 00:26:43,840 Speaker 2: make you my Lord and savior. If you prayed that 470 00:26:43,920 --> 00:26:47,199 Speaker 2: simple prayer, we believe you got born again. Get in 471 00:26:47,240 --> 00:26:51,320 Speaker 2: a good Bible based church, and keep God first. Place, Victorian, 472 00:26:51,320 --> 00:26:53,920 Speaker 2: I'll be right back to speak a blessing over you. 473 00:26:55,119 --> 00:27:00,359 Speaker 3: Life throws so much at us disappointments, failures, challenges. We 474 00:27:00,440 --> 00:27:03,080 Speaker 3: can feel so out of touch that we no longer 475 00:27:03,160 --> 00:27:04,320 Speaker 3: recognize ourselves. 476 00:27:05,119 --> 00:27:06,800 Speaker 1: Life has a way of changing us. 477 00:27:07,080 --> 00:27:10,280 Speaker 2: At one time we were outgoing and excited about our dreams. 478 00:27:10,640 --> 00:27:13,600 Speaker 2: But when we go through disappointments and people do us wrong, 479 00:27:13,920 --> 00:27:15,240 Speaker 2: it's easy to lose. 480 00:27:15,000 --> 00:27:18,679 Speaker 1: That positive, passionate person that we used to be. In 481 00:27:18,760 --> 00:27:22,320 Speaker 1: my new book, Rediscovering the Forgotten You, I'll help you 482 00:27:22,359 --> 00:27:25,040 Speaker 1: get back to who you really are, the joyful you, 483 00:27:25,280 --> 00:27:28,720 Speaker 1: the confident you, the talented you. It's not too late. 484 00:27:29,080 --> 00:27:30,520 Speaker 1: You haven't been through too much. 485 00:27:30,920 --> 00:27:33,160 Speaker 2: You may have lost part of yourself, but you can 486 00:27:33,240 --> 00:27:34,200 Speaker 2: find yourself. 487 00:27:34,640 --> 00:27:37,480 Speaker 1: God is in the business of restoring what was lost, 488 00:27:37,800 --> 00:27:41,080 Speaker 1: healing what was broken. You haven't seen the best version 489 00:27:41,200 --> 00:27:43,720 Speaker 1: of you, yet it's still in front of you. 490 00:27:44,280 --> 00:27:46,560 Speaker 3: As our way of saying thank you for your gift 491 00:27:46,600 --> 00:27:48,879 Speaker 3: of any amount, we would like to send you a 492 00:27:48,920 --> 00:27:52,879 Speaker 3: copy of Joel's brand new book, Rediscovering the Forgotten You. 493 00:27:53,560 --> 00:27:57,280 Speaker 3: Take back your passion, reignite your dreams, and embrace the 494 00:27:57,359 --> 00:28:01,280 Speaker 3: life you were created to live. This book shares uplifting 495 00:28:01,320 --> 00:28:05,880 Speaker 3: scripture and personal stories that will help you release bitterness, silence, 496 00:28:05,920 --> 00:28:09,679 Speaker 3: self defeating thoughts, and embrace by faith the vision of 497 00:28:09,720 --> 00:28:13,320 Speaker 3: the life God designed for you. 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