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Speaker 1: Hey guys, Bobby Bones here. Thank you for listening to

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Speaker 1: the Bobby Bones Show podcast. It's the weekend, obviously, so

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Speaker 1: our podcasts from the Nashville Podcast Network. Then maybe you

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Speaker 1: haven't checked out yet. It's from Kaylee Shore. She's an artist.

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Speaker 1: She's you know, a millennial. It's called too Much to

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Speaker 1: Say because she definitely has a lot to say all

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Speaker 1: the time. In this episode, she's talking about the new

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Speaker 1: Britney Spears documentary on Hulu. She breaks down the whole thing.

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Speaker 1: It talks about what we can learn from how media

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Speaker 1: and its viewers treated Britney Spears, but also how it

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Speaker 1: applies to everyone else, not just celebrities. She's a pretty

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Speaker 1: get your podcasts. Just search too much to say with

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Speaker 1: Kaylee Shore. Here's the episode. Now, Hey guys, I'm Kaylee Shore,

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Speaker 1: and this is too much to say it out you, okay. So,

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Speaker 1: like the rest of the world, I spent this past

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Speaker 1: weekend watching Framing Britney, the documentary by The New York

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Speaker 1: Times that was on Hulu. Highly recommend. It's incredibly eye opening,

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Speaker 1: and I'm going to focus on just a couple different

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Speaker 1: parts of it. This whole episode isn't about Britney Spears,

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Speaker 1: but she is the perfect example of what the media

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Speaker 1: does two young women, whether they're famous or not. To

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Speaker 1: be completely honest, I was old enough to know what

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Speaker 1: was going on with Britney Spears from you know, the

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Speaker 1: kind of tumultuous time between two thousand and five and

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Speaker 1: really know how big of a deal it was that

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Speaker 1: really a poignant scene in the documentary where Britney is

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Speaker 1: a question on the Family Feud game show, and the

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Speaker 1: question is things Britney Spears has lost, and one of

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Speaker 1: them is her hair, one of them is her mind,

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Speaker 1: and one of them is her husband. And that was

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Speaker 1: a joke that the live audience was laughing at, as

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Speaker 1: if Britney Spears isn't a real person. And to be

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Speaker 1: completely honest, like watching this it felt like I was

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Speaker 1: watching a Black Mirror episode. But then I remember that

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Speaker 1: this was just a couple, you know, fifteen years ago,

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Speaker 1: not even There's crazy moments like where this interviewer who's

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Speaker 1: teenager and says everyone's talking about her breast, then wonders

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Speaker 1: host comes up with this subject. That's literally what the

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Speaker 1: massive sexist like interpretation of Brittany. And yes, like her

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Speaker 1: But also there's nothing wrong with wanting to be sexual

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Speaker 1: There's crazy moments with the paparazzi where you see them

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Speaker 1: can't imagine ever going through something like that. And paparazzi

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Speaker 1: It means that you can control your own narrative a

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Speaker 1: So it's like, you know, if the headline is like

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Speaker 1: And I remember getting a question on form spring that

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Speaker 1: I definitely have my guesses. I mean, it doesn't matter,

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Speaker 1: This is going to do something, This is going to

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Speaker 1: Kaylie Shore. I know that I had promised you last

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Speaker 1: week a very juicy episode this week, however, I had

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Speaker 1: Thank you guys so much. Big news coming soon. Also,

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