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Speaker 2: The words of Will Smith, parents just don't understand that they.

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Speaker 1: Don't that they don't lost my cool playing some be

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Speaker 2: Slam dunk on that slam.

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Speaker 1: For pushing me to forgive my cheating X. I was

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Speaker 1: to be married in July. Two months ago. I came

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Speaker 1: in bed with my best friend forever sister Spicy Spicy.

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Speaker 1: I kicked him out, canceled the wedding, warned him I

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Speaker 1: ring who big moves. I blocked him everywhere, called the

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Speaker 1: his stuff away, banging on my door. Called him again

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Speaker 1: when he turned up at my workplace and made a scene,

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Speaker 1: in mass to plead his case.

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Speaker 2: Wow, that's a lot of police presence.

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Speaker 1: This is she's just got a whole squadron, and honestly

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Speaker 1: the priescinct might as well be outside her door because

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Speaker 1: all of them are just hanging around OPI at this point.

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Speaker 1: This comes from throwaway cow Life on the Best of

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Speaker 1: Reddit Updates subreddit. So I didn't go scorched earth on

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Speaker 1: the ex bff sister. I did tell her husband I

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Speaker 1: caught her in bed with my AX. Last I heard

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Speaker 1: living with her parents. Really quick check in from everyone

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Speaker 1: listening watching. Do you think that is justified to do

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Speaker 1: all of that? If you catch your friend and with

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Speaker 3: A world the time norm time, let's go worm time.

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Speaker 2: You should read the message.

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Speaker 1: Uh hello Alita, thanks for the five bucks. Hey, John

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Speaker 1: is your fam? Okay? After Helene Sarasota got hit pretty

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Speaker 1: hard and was worried. Listening to the stream from a

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Speaker 1: few days ago, we learned Riley's faan is okay, but

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Speaker 1: want to check on yours. I actually I am not sure,

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Speaker 1: but I think John hasn't updated me on anything, so

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Speaker 1: I think okay. Potentially but he's talking to his aunt

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Speaker 2: A good energy out there for John everybody.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we put on but that worm time was fun. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that was a good worm time. That was a great

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Speaker 1: word me me by surprise with the worm But Dakota,

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Speaker 1: do you think op did enough to cut off the

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Speaker 2: I think she definitely sent the message. I don't know

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Speaker 2: how legal it is to actually throw out somebody else's

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Speaker 2: stuff like that. I think that's a little dicey. But

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Speaker 2: I think he did.

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Speaker 1: But might be a little bit too much because it

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Speaker 1: could get you in trouble, Dakota said, with dumbing out

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Speaker 2: You don't want to get bit by when you call

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Speaker 1: You don't know what the police. Yeah, So the ex

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Speaker 1: to explain what no, then got angry at me for

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Speaker 1: So I kicked her to the curb too. I don't

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Speaker 1: my life. This encounter, no doubt simmered under my skin

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Speaker 2: Yeah, there's I would be full on boiling at this point.

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Speaker 1: I think I also feel like simmering is not the

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Speaker 2: Jovian's like, oh, she's only got enough left to be simmering.

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Speaker 1: There's nothing enough to boil over. The water has left

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Speaker 2: The witch convention's over.

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Speaker 1: So this encounter, no doubt, simmered under my skin until

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Speaker 1: We're going to find out. We're going to find out.

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Speaker 1: So last week I met my parents for dinner. I

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a spicy vocabulary, Wayley. I don't know if

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Speaker 1: I've never heard Wayle. I think the chat I.

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Speaker 2: Think Wayley is kind of like when you surprise, like

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Speaker 1: We're fully cooked. We're fully cooked. This generation is fully cooked. Uh,

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Speaker 2: All we can do is keep moving.

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Speaker 1: a little bit. So last week I met my parents

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Speaker 2: Yes, it is true. The parents were like, we're gonna

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Speaker 2: roast this girl, and then they're like, oh, we can't

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Speaker 1: Good date. My parents have been pressuring me to work

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Speaker 1: five minutes just to explain himself, like, oh, like she

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Speaker 2: Oh, babe, I'll cheat it on you. Yeah, yeah, forgive me,

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Speaker 2: I explained myself.

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Speaker 1: I thought BFFs do everything together. I thought this was

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Speaker 2: I just me, why are you women so complicated?

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Speaker 1: Get your break? So I owed him to talk to

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Speaker 1: meant nothing to him. He made a mistake. I'm cruel

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Speaker 1: They didn't deserve to be humiliated in that matter. He's

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Speaker 1: having in that manner, he's having a rough time. He's depressed.

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Speaker 1: Everybody is worried about him. He loves me, really loves me.

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Speaker 1: He's learned his lesson. It's time to grow up and

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Speaker 1: forgive him. I feel like Opie really painted the whole

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and why do they like this guy so much?

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Speaker 2: They're like, is he was he that perfect that? They're like, look,

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Speaker 2: you're never gonna get another shot at this guy. Guy

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Speaker 2: Keep around, Yeah, you don't want to let that guy go.

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Speaker 2: Oh you don't, because you do, He's just gonna cheat

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Speaker 2: if you let him freeze, gonna you know, just be

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Speaker 2: running trains on everybody. You just gotta you gotta hold

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Speaker 1: Him down, hold him down, Yeah, and then have him

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And then she'd be like, little pot, what are

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Speaker 1: No, my dad's presence didn't stop them from bringing it

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Ask my father if he expected me to give my

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Speaker 2: That moves like he does boo.

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Speaker 1: I asked my mother how turning a blind eye to

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Speaker 2: Who whoa whoa, whoa whoa?

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Speaker 1: Call it dad out.

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Speaker 2: Dad's catching strays, not even strays that was direct directed,

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Speaker 1: Is this true? Is this true? How does she hold

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Speaker 2: I think this is maybe like a it runs in

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Speaker 2: the family. Girl, You gotta be with the guy who

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Speaker 1: Know, because which like we read another story where it

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Speaker 2: That is sad, true, folks, not true.

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Speaker 1: You do not have to accept that. That is that

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, is that the kind of men? That

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, gosh, dude, she's going crazy or crazy?

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Speaker 2: She was pushed to this, she was pushing. Is nothing left?

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Speaker 1: I feels she got pushed to the limit. Pan is burning,

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Speaker 1: it is it is empty right, nothing there nothing, nothing

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Speaker 1: in that cauldron. Knowing work weekend was code for a

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Speaker 1: This is so sad. Stella Davis says, you don't have

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Speaker 1: It's a code of love. Is strong. Pixie loved us,

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Speaker 1: says my poor mom as a sister that doesn't talk

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Speaker 1: to her for leaving my cheating dad. I don't understand that.

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Speaker 2: Why are they all these people supporting the cheaters. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I don't get that. Never get that.

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Speaker 1: Discard the cheaters and put love for the people that

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Speaker 1: are being cheated on. Yes, some'n stinky, some stinky cheaters,

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Speaker 1: stinky eaters. I like that you've adopted the stinky stink stink.

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Speaker 1: Did they not know why it was that of their

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Speaker 1: to them. Do they not question why they were not

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Speaker 1: invited to my brother's wedding? I feel like this is

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Speaker 1: an interrogation. It's like Jerry, as you can see by

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Speaker 1: and that has shown up to this Jerry.

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Speaker 2: This apple fell really really really far from the tree.

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Speaker 1: These people are like, I don't want to be anywhere

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Speaker 2: Oh god, I could sing the song, I wan't the

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Speaker 2: what's the song? We'll get into that later.

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Speaker 1: Do they not question why they are not invited to

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Speaker 1: So it's like hard, like I understand why you did it.

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Speaker 2: It's like, especially with the parental units, oh you gotta

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Speaker 1: It seems like it was true.

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Speaker 2: They were just like, Oh, you're gonna put us on

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Speaker 1: maybe it's something that hasn't been addressed ever in like

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like the it's the open secret.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I would love to know what you guys would do.

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Speaker 2: Like, oh they were weeks. Oh they were weeks.

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Speaker 1: It was weeks. It was weeks.

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Speaker 2: That's better than me.

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Speaker 1: She gave him time. He didn't take it, not the

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Speaker 2: I would have right away started moving that stuff out

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Speaker 1: That's a good point, y'all. That's a good point.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, okay, okay, that's still bad. That's still bad,

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Speaker 1: Tyler says Ope's boundaries were disrespected. Some people cannot hear

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Speaker 1: to ask Melis six eight one five. OPI was justified.

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Speaker 1: I think what I might settle on, at least for me,

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I don't even think that she's the a hole.

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Speaker 2: It's just more like there was a cleaner way to

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Speaker 1: But we have an added update so edit. I've yet

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Speaker 1: I then informed him I wasn't serious and anyway, it

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Speaker 1: he could post bail. So there you go. He did

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Speaker 2: He was ready to swing right away. He is ready

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Speaker 1: He's a rider. You're back. I guess this is like,

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Speaker 1: My sister flew into be with me just days after

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Speaker 1: that found me, a guy that paid a fair price

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Speaker 2: I think you give it back.

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Speaker 1: I think you give it back.

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Speaker 2: I think you give it back, because that's almost more insulting. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: so like to like just take the money out of

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Speaker 2: it is like that's nice, but like to be like take.

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Speaker 1: This trash back. Yeah I don't want it, throw it

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Speaker 1: at him. I'd throw it, yeah, I feel it. Yeah yeah,

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Speaker 1: throw down a drains just to go like gravel for it.

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Speaker 1: Actually not suggesting that would be a little bit a

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Speaker 1: holy but yeah, let me know what you guys think.

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Speaker 2: I shouldn't have done that, shouldn't have cheated.

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Speaker 1: A friend that found me, a guy that paid a

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Speaker 1: et cetera because how they acted and what they were

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Speaker 1: pawned it. Someone said, depend on the state. Everyone's saying, pond.

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Speaker 2: It depends on this, It depends on the state. Is

440
00:21:42,800 --> 00:21:45,360
Speaker 2: a very tact tactical answer right there.

441
00:21:45,359 --> 00:21:48,560
Speaker 1: That person knows the law. But we got some comments

442
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Speaker 1: from the people of reddit before we have an up,

443
00:21:51,840 --> 00:21:54,240
Speaker 1: but we have an update six months later after these comments,

444
00:21:54,320 --> 00:21:56,800
Speaker 1: so we got an update comment, so just wait around.

445
00:21:56,840 --> 00:22:01,639
Speaker 1: So one quick comment, not so religious now says not

446
00:22:01,720 --> 00:22:03,640
Speaker 1: the a hole. Also, there is a response from op

447
00:22:03,760 --> 00:22:05,920
Speaker 1: on this comment. So many people say to be the

448
00:22:05,920 --> 00:22:09,160
Speaker 1: bigger person, but that's just straight up bs. They want

449
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Speaker 1: you to turn a blind eye to betrayal. But no,

450
00:22:11,480 --> 00:22:14,399
Speaker 1: some of us find that to be a complete deal breaker.

451
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Speaker 1: I'm with you one hundred percent. Cut them all out

452
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Speaker 1: of your life because what's more important is your mental

453
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Speaker 1: well being and not giving closure or forgiveness towards those

454
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Speaker 1: that hurt you. I do agree with that. I agree

455
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Speaker 1: with that cutting everyone off I think is a smart idea. Yeah,

456
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Speaker 1: real mental well being. As for your parents, they made

457
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Speaker 1: their choices and now they have to live with the

458
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Speaker 1: consequences of their crappy actions. Also, your date sounds like

459
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Speaker 1: a real good person. Regardless of itu. It turns out

460
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Speaker 1: he stood by you and gave you comfort food. That's

461
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Speaker 1: a big plus in my book. Opie responds, I could

462
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Speaker 1: maybe have been the bigger person if he got me

463
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Speaker 1: a burrito instead of a taco. I wanted cheating on

464
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Speaker 1: me in my apartment in my bed, f off, take

465
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Speaker 1: your filthy booty out with the other piece of trash.

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Speaker 1: And everyone says judgment, not the a whole dirt dirt.

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Speaker 2: I love dirt, You loves dirt in coming dirt. All right,

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Speaker 2: back to commentary, here we go. I think you definitely

469
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Speaker 2: cut off every single person who is in your It's

470
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Speaker 2: it's hard to cut off the parents because like there's

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Speaker 2: a lot of stuff tied up in I think over time,

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Speaker 2: as we grow and get older, like the dynamic with

473
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Speaker 2: the parents always changes. You just don't want to, like

474
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Speaker 2: I think, end up in a place where it's like,

475
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Speaker 2: you know, they die and you like lose that potential

476
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Speaker 2: connection forever without ever like having It's. It's just I've

477
00:23:37,960 --> 00:23:39,800
Speaker 2: heard that so many times of people who are like

478
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Speaker 2: I cut my parents off and then they died, and

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Speaker 2: I really kind of regret not being able to have

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Speaker 2: any closure.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and I think it's hard to a universal thing

482
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Speaker 1: that I've heard. So, but I think also that commenter

483
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Speaker 1: is right, like you should prioritize your mental well being

484
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Speaker 1: if you're noticing the like day to day interaction or

485
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Speaker 1: even like you know, week to week interactions are causing

486
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Speaker 1: your mental health to decline, then go low contact. Yeah, personally,

487
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Speaker 1: I don't think I would ever. I mean, I also

488
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Speaker 1: have a good relationship with my family, but I don't

489
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Speaker 1: know if I would ever go completely Yeah, no contact,

490
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Speaker 1: but I would go.

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Speaker 2: I think low low is the low, not no lo,

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Speaker 2: not no, not no.

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Speaker 1: Also, we got some donos and some new members KF

494
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Speaker 1: Welcome to the Nights. Mister Asano, Welcome to the Knights,

495
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Speaker 1: too strong names, BRender Tembo, thanks for being a member

496
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Speaker 1: for six months. Becoming an ACTS member. I hope you're

497
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Speaker 1: all having a great day. My day sucks so bad.

498
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Speaker 1: I'm sorry about that. So happy I get to spend

499
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Speaker 1: a little time with the OK fam. You always make

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Speaker 1: everything better. Yeah, I'm glad we can help.

501
00:24:44,160 --> 00:24:46,480
Speaker 2: We're glad we can make your day just a little bit.

502
00:24:46,359 --> 00:24:49,520
Speaker 1: Better, elaying the main pain. Thanks for the two bucks chat.

503
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Speaker 1: Do I send the risky texts? Yes? Maybe? Yes, I

504
00:24:53,320 --> 00:24:55,879
Speaker 1: still say yeah, do it, just do it. Life is

505
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Speaker 1: life is short, Beltan, Thanks for the six months of membership.

506
00:24:59,640 --> 00:25:04,800
Speaker 1: Congrat on your first win in the Great Belton Sandwich Race.

507
00:25:04,840 --> 00:25:07,040
Speaker 1: Where I eat a sandwich every Tuesday and see if

508
00:25:07,080 --> 00:25:08,600
Speaker 1: you start before I finish it or not.

509
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Speaker 2: That's so funny.

510
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Speaker 1: Can we get like a little video of that in

511
00:25:14,560 --> 00:25:15,840
Speaker 1: the discord? I think it'll be funny.

512
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Speaker 2: Yeah, that would be great. Ozzy Girl in our shop.

513
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Speaker 1: Thanks for the five gifted membership shout out you, Amy,

514
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Speaker 1: Thanks for the two Bukkeroonyes Team Sam's Bunny Tails Cardio Club, Amy.

515
00:25:26,680 --> 00:25:29,520
Speaker 1: I appreciate it. MJ Grow thanks for the two bucks, Dakota.

516
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Speaker 1: Would you kindly blow Stella a kiss please? Thanks for

517
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Speaker 1: the two bucks. Lily Xpelly, thanks for the five months.

518
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Speaker 1: If audio is cutting out, refresh the YouTube. App appreciate

519
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Speaker 1: that certifiably. Jen Welcome to the nights and we got

520
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Speaker 1: some donuts over on the dono link where YouTube doesn't

521
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Speaker 1: take thirty percent. So thanks for everyone there.

522
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Speaker 2: Turn Dacota into a warm you can turn to coda

523
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Speaker 2: in and you can turn me into a worm, which

524
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Speaker 2: I love every time, every time. And I love dirt

525
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Speaker 2: when I do it.

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Speaker 1: Lo Lolita, Heidi Vincent, thanks for the twenty five dollars USD.

527
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Speaker 1: This girl has no f's give, no fs to give haha.

528
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Speaker 1: I love it. Yeah, we kind of love it too.

529
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Speaker 2: I mean to be clear, I support I support this

530
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Speaker 2: girl in what she's done. I was only it's the

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Speaker 2: nuance of.

532
00:26:18,400 --> 00:26:21,560
Speaker 1: Like I think there's nuances happened, Like what everyone else

533
00:26:21,600 --> 00:26:24,720
Speaker 1: has done has been terrible, and I understand the response,

534
00:26:24,840 --> 00:26:27,679
Speaker 1: but I feel like sometimes being more tempered and how

535
00:26:27,720 --> 00:26:30,000
Speaker 1: we respond can lead to better long term outcomes.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, there's no question that she's not the a hole

537
00:26:31,880 --> 00:26:36,359
Speaker 2: in this situation, but yes, it's yeah, Ellie.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for the five bucks. Loving the Colorado shirt, best state.

539
00:26:39,640 --> 00:26:43,200
Speaker 2: Shout out Daniel who's in Colorado right now shadowed. I

540
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Speaker 2: don't know when you'll see this.

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Speaker 1: It's ritty, bitch. Thanks for the five usd like the

542
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Speaker 1: stream to get a wheelspin guys. Also, love you all

543
00:26:51,840 --> 00:26:54,200
Speaker 1: and love Dakota. Your vibes have been great for the stream.

544
00:26:54,320 --> 00:26:56,800
Speaker 1: You remind me of an anime character that's the goofball

545
00:26:56,840 --> 00:26:59,679
Speaker 1: of the group and I love it. Love you all, fam.

546
00:26:59,520 --> 00:27:02,520
Speaker 2: Best like my favorite kind of character trope. What this?

547
00:27:02,720 --> 00:27:05,720
Speaker 2: That was the best? Thank you? Brittany Beach? What the what?

548
00:27:06,320 --> 00:27:06,760
Speaker 1: Look at that?

549
00:27:06,800 --> 00:27:08,840
Speaker 2: I can't start smiling at all?

550
00:27:09,119 --> 00:27:15,399
Speaker 1: All Right, are you ready for the update? Six months later? Ooh,

551
00:27:15,840 --> 00:27:18,160
Speaker 1: so it's been a minute since I was here last.

552
00:27:18,480 --> 00:27:21,720
Speaker 1: Life has been busy, work has been busy, and updating

553
00:27:21,720 --> 00:27:24,119
Speaker 1: Reddit wasn't on my mind, but I guess it is

554
00:27:24,160 --> 00:27:29,639
Speaker 1: now because something happened. So apologies to all those that

555
00:27:29,680 --> 00:27:31,800
Speaker 1: continue to send messages asking for an update. I figure

556
00:27:31,840 --> 00:27:34,520
Speaker 1: better late than ever. So a quick recap. I lost

557
00:27:34,520 --> 00:27:36,760
Speaker 1: my temper with my parents when they tried to push

558
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Speaker 1: me to forgive and reconcile with my cheating X. Some

559
00:27:40,880 --> 00:27:44,359
Speaker 1: really hurtful and harsh truths were shared by me to

560
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Speaker 1: them in the moment. Afterwards, I felt tremendous guilt. The

561
00:27:49,040 --> 00:27:51,639
Speaker 1: regret started to eat at me, which is another side

562
00:27:52,240 --> 00:27:57,080
Speaker 1: uh uh, a deficit of maybe reacting in this way, right.

563
00:27:57,119 --> 00:27:59,359
Speaker 2: That's that's the thing is just like, oh, you're like,

564
00:27:59,640 --> 00:28:02,080
Speaker 2: dang I heard the people who raised me that kind

565
00:28:02,119 --> 00:28:07,040
Speaker 2: of yeah, even though they clearly have issues and going

566
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Speaker 2: about things the best way.

567
00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:11,560
Speaker 1: It provoked you, but like the best version of you

568
00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:12,639
Speaker 1: may may have not said that.

569
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Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's like you end up hurting yourself. Yeah,

570
00:28:15,280 --> 00:28:18,280
Speaker 2: So where to start first? Thank you to all who

571
00:28:18,320 --> 00:28:20,600
Speaker 2: replied to my post. I tried to read every comment,

572
00:28:20,640 --> 00:28:22,879
Speaker 2: and though I didn't post for the validation most of

573
00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:26,680
Speaker 2: you gave, receiving it did lighten the load a little bit.

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Speaker 2: It didn't take away from the guilt I carried, but

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00:28:29,040 --> 00:28:31,159
Speaker 2: I was able to work through that to see that

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00:28:31,200 --> 00:28:35,320
Speaker 2: although my timing was off, what I said was absolutely necessary.

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00:28:35,359 --> 00:28:38,480
Speaker 2: It's like everything she said was important to say, but

578
00:28:38,560 --> 00:28:40,440
Speaker 2: maybe not the way she said it at the time

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00:28:40,520 --> 00:28:42,800
Speaker 2: she said it. It's crazy if they hadn't heard that

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00:28:42,960 --> 00:28:45,280
Speaker 2: yet after all that time.

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Speaker 1: But dude, there's hello secrets with families, like everyone kind

582
00:28:48,480 --> 00:28:49,720
Speaker 1: of knows, but no one talks about it.

583
00:28:49,760 --> 00:28:51,440
Speaker 2: Cold water, sometimes you need that cold water.

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00:28:51,600 --> 00:28:55,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you too. To some of those that sent

585
00:28:55,200 --> 00:28:57,760
Speaker 1: me private messages rather than posting on the main thread.

586
00:28:58,040 --> 00:29:01,120
Speaker 1: Having read your own stories of a civil upbringing, conversing

587
00:29:01,160 --> 00:29:03,680
Speaker 1: with you has helped me to understand that my childhood

588
00:29:03,720 --> 00:29:07,600
Speaker 1: and teens were traumatic, that those years left wounds that

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00:29:07,720 --> 00:29:11,560
Speaker 1: I'd never addressed until this all came about. One more

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00:29:11,600 --> 00:29:14,720
Speaker 1: shout out to those that sent harassing messages about my choices,

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00:29:14,960 --> 00:29:18,800
Speaker 1: Those people that preached about the sanctity of marriage and

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Speaker 1: how men are basic creatures with basic needs. I never

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Speaker 1: get that that's crazy. Those that attempted to school me

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Speaker 1: and how to be a woman that needs to learn

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Speaker 1: to do my duty by allowing a man his vices,

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Speaker 1: and that it was really all my fault for not

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Speaker 1: supporting my ex in his time of need.

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00:29:39,760 --> 00:29:43,880
Speaker 2: This worm fully supports op in her time of need,

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00:29:44,920 --> 00:29:48,400
Speaker 2: even though, and it's good recognizing, hey, we have drama

600
00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:50,920
Speaker 2: where we need to work through here. Yeah, and it

601
00:29:50,960 --> 00:29:54,960
Speaker 2: maybe came out at the restaurant and made us feel

602
00:29:55,040 --> 00:29:56,400
Speaker 2: kind of bad and maybe there.

603
00:29:56,240 --> 00:29:58,200
Speaker 1: Are better ways to release this trauma.

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00:29:58,320 --> 00:30:00,280
Speaker 2: Yeah maybe, but it's you know, And now you can

605
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Speaker 2: do is move forward from here and be like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry, but I also spoke facts.

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00:30:06,400 --> 00:30:08,680
Speaker 1: So yeah, yeah, I'm sorry for saying the truth. Yeah,

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00:30:09,040 --> 00:30:14,080
Speaker 1: but I'm sorry for how aggressively I said it. Maybe perhaps, perhaps, baby,

609
00:30:14,480 --> 00:30:17,040
Speaker 1: maybe I'm a little grateful. Well, she is. She is guilt,

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00:30:17,120 --> 00:30:19,160
Speaker 1: she is feel guilty. It's a little bit, a little

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00:30:19,160 --> 00:30:24,080
Speaker 1: bit sad, but overall, again so special shout out to

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Speaker 1: the men that offered to teach me how to be

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Speaker 1: submissive and learn my place in this world. Yikes. And last,

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Speaker 1: but not least, the sweet little chicken nugget that told

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Speaker 1: me that my reaction was proof I'm a serial cheater

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Speaker 1: and my ex should have used a cattle prod on

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Speaker 1: my happy place.

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Speaker 2: Excuse.

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Speaker 1: It must have been tough for all of you when

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Speaker 1: you're women left. Big props to those ladies for escaping

621
00:30:46,280 --> 00:30:48,840
Speaker 1: a life of misery with you. Yeah, she's throw that

622
00:30:48,880 --> 00:30:52,400
Speaker 1: guy into the sun now, but not to basket it

623
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Speaker 1: like no, I mean into the.

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Speaker 2: Center of checked it, into the corona of the sun,

625
00:30:58,120 --> 00:31:02,240
Speaker 2: which is the outer layer, right right.

626
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Speaker 1: I love that you have all this space and volcano knowledge.

627
00:31:06,040 --> 00:31:07,120
Speaker 1: That's great, guys.

628
00:31:07,160 --> 00:31:10,160
Speaker 2: I am a I am a encyclopedia of weird the

629
00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:11,760
Speaker 2: other basically useless facts.

630
00:31:11,840 --> 00:31:13,720
Speaker 1: The Code and I were talking and he was just

631
00:31:13,760 --> 00:31:17,040
Speaker 1: giving me a bunch of a bunch of facts about

632
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Speaker 1: volcanoes and dormant volcanoes.

633
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Speaker 2: Oh my god, we got more worm time coming in?

634
00:31:21,240 --> 00:31:22,600
Speaker 1: Do we got worm time coming in?

635
00:31:22,720 --> 00:31:25,840
Speaker 2: Do we have any more volcano enthusiasts in the in

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Speaker 2: the chat any any any chat, Amanda Cay dirt dirt, dirt, dirt, dirt, dirt, dirt, dirt, dirt, Novitzky.

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Speaker 2: That's me. I'm the worm. I'm the greatest point guard

638
00:31:42,640 --> 00:31:45,040
Speaker 2: they who ever played for the Worm Dallas Mavericks. For

639
00:31:45,120 --> 00:31:49,200
Speaker 2: all my sports players out there, that was at least

640
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Speaker 2: tell me he played point guard. If I said the

641
00:31:50,800 --> 00:31:57,680
Speaker 2: wrong position, No, he played powerfuward. Oh no, oh, oh,

642
00:31:57,160 --> 00:32:01,000
Speaker 2: I'm cooked. I'm a fully cooked worm.

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Speaker 1: Dude, How to Eat fred Worms? Did you ever? Uh?

644
00:32:05,280 --> 00:32:06,640
Speaker 1: Did you ever? Do you?

645
00:32:06,760 --> 00:32:06,840
Speaker 3: Do?

646
00:32:06,880 --> 00:32:09,240
Speaker 1: You know that movie How Do You Eat fred Worms?

647
00:32:09,360 --> 00:32:10,560
Speaker 2: Wasn't it? Was it a book? It was a book

648
00:32:10,600 --> 00:32:11,960
Speaker 2: first it was a book, and then it was a movie.

649
00:32:12,200 --> 00:32:15,680
Speaker 2: It's like it's like dancing on like my memory. It

650
00:32:15,720 --> 00:32:18,600
Speaker 2: was great, it was I can almost remember, but I can't.

651
00:32:18,840 --> 00:32:19,840
Speaker 2: I just know it exists.

652
00:32:19,960 --> 00:32:24,360
Speaker 1: But we're gonna keep going. So now, for what has

653
00:32:24,480 --> 00:32:29,360
Speaker 1: happened since my mother left my father? Not long after

654
00:32:29,440 --> 00:32:30,000
Speaker 1: my post?

655
00:32:31,600 --> 00:32:34,959
Speaker 2: Yikes? Well, I mean yikes for the father, but like

656
00:32:35,080 --> 00:32:37,960
Speaker 2: probably good for good for the good for the mom.

657
00:32:38,240 --> 00:32:41,120
Speaker 2: You know, you don't stay in the toxic waste dump

658
00:32:41,240 --> 00:32:43,040
Speaker 2: relationship after.

659
00:32:43,120 --> 00:32:45,160
Speaker 1: Maybe this was the cold water. Yeah, you were talking

660
00:32:45,200 --> 00:32:47,920
Speaker 1: about the cold water. Maybe this is exactly what was needed.

661
00:32:48,560 --> 00:32:51,000
Speaker 1: So maybe a couple of weeks after she showed up

662
00:32:51,080 --> 00:32:54,680
Speaker 1: at my apartment one night with her luggage. I can't

663
00:32:54,680 --> 00:32:58,880
Speaker 1: explain how broken and pitiful she was. I brought her

664
00:32:58,920 --> 00:33:04,120
Speaker 1: inside hell her and my heart broke for her. I

665
00:33:04,200 --> 00:33:07,200
Speaker 1: realized then that she had no one she could turn to,

666
00:33:07,840 --> 00:33:11,880
Speaker 1: absolutely no one, no family, no friends. I cannot help,

667
00:33:11,920 --> 00:33:14,520
Speaker 1: but wonder if she had been all alone for all

668
00:33:14,560 --> 00:33:16,920
Speaker 1: the years of her marriage. And if me or one

669
00:33:16,960 --> 00:33:19,680
Speaker 1: of my siblings had said something sooner, would she have

670
00:33:19,920 --> 00:33:21,560
Speaker 1: had the courage to leave my father?

671
00:33:21,680 --> 00:33:21,840
Speaker 2: Then?

672
00:33:22,400 --> 00:33:25,040
Speaker 1: So it's like almost like this all coming out in

673
00:33:25,080 --> 00:33:27,680
Speaker 1: this way is actually what helped her do the right

674
00:33:27,720 --> 00:33:29,360
Speaker 1: thing for her.

675
00:33:29,840 --> 00:33:33,040
Speaker 2: I'm like, I can see it. It's good though, but

676
00:33:33,160 --> 00:33:35,920
Speaker 2: it's hurt. But it's good, but it hurts. Sometimes good

677
00:33:35,920 --> 00:33:40,800
Speaker 2: things really hurt. Guys. Man, life can be hard, but

678
00:33:40,960 --> 00:33:43,960
Speaker 2: it's beautiful too. Let's keep going. Let's keep going, let's

679
00:33:44,040 --> 00:33:46,560
Speaker 2: keep going. I want this redemption arc to be good.

680
00:33:47,040 --> 00:33:52,880
Speaker 2: So it Oh, and now we'll never know.

681
00:33:54,880 --> 00:33:57,680
Speaker 1: Here we go, here we go. All right. She showed

682
00:33:57,760 --> 00:33:59,720
Speaker 1: up in my apartment one night with her luggage. I

683
00:33:59,760 --> 00:34:02,880
Speaker 1: can't explain how broken and pitiful she was. I brought

684
00:34:02,920 --> 00:34:06,080
Speaker 1: her inside, held her, and my heart broke for her.

685
00:34:06,560 --> 00:34:09,480
Speaker 1: I realized then that she had no one she could

686
00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:13,640
Speaker 1: turn to, absolutely no one, no family, no friends. I

687
00:34:13,680 --> 00:34:17,520
Speaker 1: cannot help. But because all her friends were cheating on Oh.

688
00:34:17,320 --> 00:34:19,919
Speaker 2: My god, yeah, with the husband, I guess that's right.

689
00:34:20,200 --> 00:34:21,880
Speaker 1: Oh no, that sucks.

690
00:34:22,000 --> 00:34:24,960
Speaker 2: Friend enemies, straight up s enemies.

691
00:34:25,400 --> 00:34:28,160
Speaker 1: I cannot help. But wonder she had been alone for

692
00:34:28,239 --> 00:34:29,759
Speaker 1: all the years for marriage, and if me and one

693
00:34:29,760 --> 00:34:31,960
Speaker 1: of my siblings had said something sooner, would she have

694
00:34:32,000 --> 00:34:34,279
Speaker 1: had the courage to leave my father. Then I'd never

695
00:34:34,320 --> 00:34:38,000
Speaker 1: seen my mother. I'd never seen my mother usually so

696
00:34:38,200 --> 00:34:43,719
Speaker 1: dignified and a ruffled look, so broken. It shocked me

697
00:34:43,719 --> 00:34:46,560
Speaker 1: to see her that way. It worried me so much

698
00:34:46,640 --> 00:34:48,840
Speaker 1: that I made her sleep in my bed with me.

699
00:34:49,160 --> 00:34:50,920
Speaker 1: All that's cute. It's like, it's kind of like when

700
00:34:50,960 --> 00:34:53,200
Speaker 1: the scary monsters are there, and like.

701
00:34:53,200 --> 00:34:54,760
Speaker 2: But the script got flipped.

702
00:34:56,239 --> 00:34:57,799
Speaker 1: She's taking gear of her. Mom was.

703
00:34:59,760 --> 00:35:03,160
Speaker 2: Really emotional. Oh no, my heart's hurting.

704
00:35:03,480 --> 00:35:06,640
Speaker 1: I called my siblings and within days they all came

705
00:35:06,760 --> 00:35:11,120
Speaker 1: to show their love and support.

706
00:35:11,480 --> 00:35:16,959
Speaker 2: Oh god, it just again. Why honestly, thank god, because

707
00:35:16,960 --> 00:35:19,200
Speaker 2: if it, if it kept going, I'd probably be crying.

708
00:35:19,320 --> 00:35:27,120
Speaker 1: I now got so uh it uh. It shocked me

709
00:35:27,520 --> 00:35:29,359
Speaker 1: to see her that way. It worried me so much

710
00:35:29,440 --> 00:35:31,279
Speaker 1: that I made her sleep in my bed with me.

711
00:35:31,560 --> 00:35:33,600
Speaker 1: I called my siblings and within days they all came

712
00:35:33,640 --> 00:35:37,239
Speaker 1: to show support and love. Then it was me and

713
00:35:37,239 --> 00:35:40,239
Speaker 1: my mother and my sister sleeping in my bed. It

714
00:35:40,320 --> 00:35:43,800
Speaker 1: was good for her to see that her children still cared,

715
00:35:44,200 --> 00:35:47,799
Speaker 1: because we did care, We did love her. It was

716
00:35:47,840 --> 00:35:52,040
Speaker 1: the situation my siblings distanced themselves from. It wasn't the mom,

717
00:35:52,040 --> 00:35:55,399
Speaker 1: it's the situation. Situation was toxic Mike.

718
00:35:55,480 --> 00:35:59,440
Speaker 2: The situation from Jersey Shore is this person's dead.

719
00:36:01,160 --> 00:36:02,160
Speaker 1: And is a situation.

720
00:36:02,680 --> 00:36:05,359
Speaker 2: I had to make it cry. I'm sorry he didn't know.

721
00:36:05,719 --> 00:36:08,319
Speaker 1: What's the deal with Mike. The situation is, oh, he's

722
00:36:08,320 --> 00:36:09,840
Speaker 1: got abs. He's got abs.

723
00:36:09,880 --> 00:36:14,080
Speaker 2: But that's the situation. Is that suation? Yeah, that's what

724
00:36:14,280 --> 00:36:14,799
Speaker 2: draws him in.

725
00:36:15,000 --> 00:36:18,279
Speaker 1: Yeah. At first, my mother stayed with me. She was

726
00:36:18,440 --> 00:36:21,919
Speaker 1: having a hard time of it, years of humiliation, shame,

727
00:36:21,960 --> 00:36:24,120
Speaker 1: and gil ate at her. I was worried about her

728
00:36:24,120 --> 00:36:26,080
Speaker 1: state of mind and didn't like to leave her alone.

729
00:36:26,160 --> 00:36:27,759
Speaker 1: I couldn't take time off work to be with her

730
00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:29,759
Speaker 1: every second of the day. So I took her to

731
00:36:29,800 --> 00:36:34,120
Speaker 1: the shelter and we got it dog yay. That's cute

732
00:36:34,320 --> 00:36:39,160
Speaker 1: emotional support animal me thinking. My thinking was if she

733
00:36:39,280 --> 00:36:41,920
Speaker 1: had something to take care of, it would distract her

734
00:36:41,920 --> 00:36:44,640
Speaker 1: from the dark thoughts. I was hoping for a puppy

735
00:36:44,680 --> 00:36:47,000
Speaker 1: because they're playful and would keep her busy. But she

736
00:36:47,080 --> 00:36:50,640
Speaker 1: fell in love with a five year old mixed breed

737
00:36:51,080 --> 00:36:54,759
Speaker 1: and he fell right back. He's a goof. It's like

738
00:36:54,800 --> 00:36:58,000
Speaker 1: the coda. We don't know how it happened, but we

739
00:36:58,080 --> 00:37:01,160
Speaker 1: woke up one night to him how because he had

740
00:37:01,200 --> 00:37:05,880
Speaker 1: managed to wedge his head between the spindles of the stairs,

741
00:37:06,239 --> 00:37:08,480
Speaker 1: his whole head. We had to call the fire department

742
00:37:08,520 --> 00:37:11,239
Speaker 1: to rescue him. Of course, my mother didn't think he

743
00:37:11,440 --> 00:37:15,400
Speaker 1: was at fault and now refers to him as her baby.

744
00:37:15,719 --> 00:37:18,640
Speaker 1: He adores my mother, though my oldest brother Wait, wait,

745
00:37:19,120 --> 00:37:22,600
Speaker 1: the dog. The dog, Okay, the dog got stacked, all right,

746
00:37:22,640 --> 00:37:24,600
Speaker 1: not the oldest brother chat. You just use a little

747
00:37:24,600 --> 00:37:28,440
Speaker 1: butter and that's you. You get done. You get that

748
00:37:28,440 --> 00:37:29,880
Speaker 1: done at home with a little bit butter, or like

749
00:37:29,920 --> 00:37:31,839
Speaker 1: a little saw, like can you not saw it out?

750
00:37:31,880 --> 00:37:31,920
Speaker 2: Like?

751
00:37:31,920 --> 00:37:32,440
Speaker 1: Wouldn't they?

752
00:37:32,560 --> 00:37:34,319
Speaker 2: I would want to keep the power tools away from

753
00:37:34,320 --> 00:37:38,200
Speaker 2: the dog. Probably yeah the dogs had Yeah that could end. Yeah,

754
00:37:38,200 --> 00:37:39,160
Speaker 2: I don't want to do yeah.

755
00:37:40,120 --> 00:37:44,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, true, true. True. He adores my mother, though, of

756
00:37:44,480 --> 00:37:46,839
Speaker 1: course my mother didn't think he was at fault and

757
00:37:46,880 --> 00:37:50,440
Speaker 1: now refers to him as her baby. Cute. He adores

758
00:37:50,480 --> 00:37:53,200
Speaker 1: my mother, though my oldest brother moved some things around,

759
00:37:53,239 --> 00:37:55,839
Speaker 1: then moved her across the country to live with him

760
00:37:56,040 --> 00:37:58,319
Speaker 1: and his family. He thought she would do better if

761
00:37:58,360 --> 00:38:01,000
Speaker 1: there was no chance of her running into Dad or

762
00:38:01,040 --> 00:38:04,120
Speaker 1: one of his many women because they're they're still living

763
00:38:04,120 --> 00:38:04,759
Speaker 1: in the same area.

764
00:38:04,840 --> 00:38:07,680
Speaker 2: I guess their dad's just really cool, just got.

765
00:38:07,560 --> 00:38:11,560
Speaker 1: A whole situation as that's just attracting to him.

766
00:38:11,560 --> 00:38:14,480
Speaker 2: I guess to be clear, dad sucks.

767
00:38:14,560 --> 00:38:16,600
Speaker 1: That sucks, but he's got killer abs.

768
00:38:16,640 --> 00:38:19,719
Speaker 2: But he's got great abs. So I who can really sick?

769
00:38:19,840 --> 00:38:21,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you know, I guess. I guess we gotta

770
00:38:21,600 --> 00:38:24,040
Speaker 1: forgive him. He gets. He gets a pass for every

771
00:38:24,080 --> 00:38:27,640
Speaker 1: out there joking joking. No, of course, we actually read

772
00:38:27,640 --> 00:38:32,400
Speaker 1: a story about this where a story previously where someone's

773
00:38:32,400 --> 00:38:37,120
Speaker 1: fiance was in an affair with their mom and uh,

774
00:38:37,160 --> 00:38:39,600
Speaker 1: basically she just like was like, I need to leave

775
00:38:39,640 --> 00:38:43,480
Speaker 1: the country because this has totally destroyed any concept of

776
00:38:43,520 --> 00:38:47,160
Speaker 1: safety that I had within the vicinity of my whole nation,

777
00:38:47,600 --> 00:38:51,120
Speaker 1: and so left it justified And I think, honestly, when

778
00:38:51,200 --> 00:38:54,440
Speaker 1: something this ft up happens to you, it kind of

779
00:38:54,520 --> 00:38:57,239
Speaker 1: is a move to just completely change locations.

780
00:38:56,880 --> 00:38:58,880
Speaker 2: Just you know, move somewhere with free health care and

781
00:38:59,560 --> 00:39:00,680
Speaker 2: good news nature.

782
00:39:00,680 --> 00:39:01,200
Speaker 1: Good nature.

783
00:39:01,239 --> 00:39:03,759
Speaker 2: Switch land. It sounds good. It sounds good to me.

784
00:39:03,840 --> 00:39:06,640
Speaker 2: I like to snowboard. Yeah, dude, I'm a rider.

785
00:39:06,760 --> 00:39:11,560
Speaker 1: Sick. Yeah, I hit, I shred the nar He thought

786
00:39:11,600 --> 00:39:13,160
Speaker 1: we would do better if there's no chance of her

787
00:39:13,200 --> 00:39:15,480
Speaker 1: running into one of his many women. He found her

788
00:39:15,520 --> 00:39:18,360
Speaker 1: a therapist that seems to be working. She is loving

789
00:39:18,480 --> 00:39:22,319
Speaker 1: being grandmother, and all reports are that she is an

790
00:39:22,400 --> 00:39:25,319
Speaker 1: indulgent one. She has a separate in law suite, so

791
00:39:25,360 --> 00:39:27,720
Speaker 1: she gets to see them every day. My brother tells

792
00:39:27,760 --> 00:39:29,960
Speaker 1: me when the kids go missing, they can now be

793
00:39:30,040 --> 00:39:33,920
Speaker 1: found at grandma's. Ah, the kids go over to grandma's

794
00:39:33,920 --> 00:39:34,760
Speaker 1: in law suite.

795
00:39:35,000 --> 00:39:38,080
Speaker 2: This is good, This is good, This is good good.

796
00:39:39,040 --> 00:39:41,399
Speaker 1: I think everything is kind of working out, but there

797
00:39:41,480 --> 00:39:43,520
Speaker 1: is a lot more to the story. So I hope

798
00:39:43,680 --> 00:39:46,040
Speaker 1: there's not a wrench that is thrown in.

799
00:39:46,239 --> 00:39:48,920
Speaker 2: Oh no, his dad about to his dad gonna be like.

800
00:39:48,920 --> 00:39:50,600
Speaker 1: You're the one for me.

801
00:39:50,760 --> 00:39:53,279
Speaker 2: I just deduke me all this time to figure it out.

802
00:39:54,080 --> 00:39:57,680
Speaker 1: Oh now, y abs. Okay, well there we are. We are

803
00:39:57,800 --> 00:40:01,960
Speaker 1: going to get into the dad situation. The situation, the dad.

804
00:40:02,520 --> 00:40:08,920
Speaker 1: Oh god, so uh, my dad is my dad. He

805
00:40:08,960 --> 00:40:12,360
Speaker 1: doesn't lack for company. Wow, because he's so cool. He's

806
00:40:12,400 --> 00:40:14,959
Speaker 1: so cool. He had so many abs. I had dinner

807
00:40:15,000 --> 00:40:17,800
Speaker 1: with him. Not long after my mother moved across the country.

808
00:40:17,880 --> 00:40:20,760
Speaker 1: Where he introduced me to the new woman in his life.

809
00:40:21,160 --> 00:40:23,920
Speaker 1: I reminded them both that I knew exactly who she

810
00:40:24,080 --> 00:40:28,839
Speaker 1: was considering who she was. Oh, I reminded them both

811
00:40:28,840 --> 00:40:32,640
Speaker 1: that I knew exactly who she was since she called

812
00:40:32,680 --> 00:40:37,839
Speaker 1: my mother her best friend all my life. Dude, the

813
00:40:37,880 --> 00:40:40,920
Speaker 1: best friend was a person is stinky.

814
00:40:41,040 --> 00:40:44,640
Speaker 2: This poor woman was surrounded by enemies, beset on all

815
00:40:44,719 --> 00:40:47,160
Speaker 2: surrounded by She didn't she couldn't escape.

816
00:40:47,200 --> 00:40:51,800
Speaker 1: She couldn't escape until across the country cold water. Cue

817
00:40:51,800 --> 00:40:54,440
Speaker 1: another awkward dinner. My dad tried to make it as

818
00:40:54,560 --> 00:40:56,799
Speaker 1: pleasant as he could, but whenever she spoke to me,

819
00:40:57,200 --> 00:40:59,120
Speaker 1: But whenever she spoke to me, I would bring up

820
00:40:59,120 --> 00:41:01,720
Speaker 1: a memory from my child childhood of her spending time

821
00:41:01,800 --> 00:41:04,279
Speaker 1: with our family and asked if she was sleeping with

822
00:41:04,320 --> 00:41:06,400
Speaker 1: my father all the way back then.

823
00:41:07,280 --> 00:41:09,480
Speaker 2: Wow, I love the way that she's going about this.

824
00:41:09,480 --> 00:41:11,520
Speaker 2: It's just like, just bring it all out.

825
00:41:11,560 --> 00:41:13,200
Speaker 1: She's like, let's cut to the chase. Let's cut to

826
00:41:13,239 --> 00:41:15,319
Speaker 1: the chase. You were sleeping with my dad the whole time?

827
00:41:15,400 --> 00:41:17,920
Speaker 2: Have you been a homewrecker since I knew you?

828
00:41:18,080 --> 00:41:20,800
Speaker 1: Yeah? Remember when we were all hanging out the lake,

829
00:41:20,960 --> 00:41:23,520
Speaker 1: We're eating hot dogs and you were also eating my

830
00:41:23,680 --> 00:41:30,960
Speaker 1: dad's hot dogs, because I remember I remember Pempervidge Farm remembers.

831
00:41:31,480 --> 00:41:34,400
Speaker 1: The next day, he got to tell me how disappointed

832
00:41:34,440 --> 00:41:36,680
Speaker 1: he was with me. I don't think you could be

833
00:41:36,719 --> 00:41:40,080
Speaker 1: saying that dogs. Yeah, come on, man, I felt it

834
00:41:40,160 --> 00:41:42,920
Speaker 1: only fair to share my own disappointments. We argued for

835
00:41:42,960 --> 00:41:44,919
Speaker 1: a bit. He tried to downplay all he had done

836
00:41:44,960 --> 00:41:47,360
Speaker 1: over the years, tried to play the victim of his

837
00:41:47,400 --> 00:41:51,200
Speaker 1: own actions. I ended up cutting the conversation short and

838
00:41:51,480 --> 00:41:55,000
Speaker 1: blocking him. How it was just over a month ago

839
00:41:55,080 --> 00:41:57,440
Speaker 1: when he showed up at my door. I wouldn't let

840
00:41:57,480 --> 00:42:00,120
Speaker 1: him in, and I'm sure that rattled him some. He

841
00:42:00,160 --> 00:42:02,280
Speaker 1: told me he didn't want to lose me too. Should

842
00:42:02,280 --> 00:42:05,000
Speaker 1: have thought of that before you started cheating your whole life.

843
00:42:04,880 --> 00:42:06,640
Speaker 2: Dude, should have thought about that before you literally lost

844
00:42:06,719 --> 00:42:07,440
Speaker 2: the entire family.

845
00:42:07,480 --> 00:42:09,759
Speaker 1: Bro, say what you want about him, but he is

846
00:42:09,800 --> 00:42:14,719
Speaker 1: my dad. Question low contact or no contact? There's more

847
00:42:14,719 --> 00:42:15,880
Speaker 1: to this story, by the way.

848
00:42:15,719 --> 00:42:19,759
Speaker 2: But I still think it's like definitely low contact. But

849
00:42:19,840 --> 00:42:22,279
Speaker 2: like for now, it's like you're just like Dad, get away.

850
00:42:22,400 --> 00:42:23,839
Speaker 2: I don't want anything to do with you right now.

851
00:42:24,840 --> 00:42:26,560
Speaker 2: You're still processing this whole thing.

852
00:42:26,680 --> 00:42:28,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's like, hey, like you could even say

853
00:42:28,760 --> 00:42:30,560
Speaker 1: I'm not going to cut you off for like forever,

854
00:42:30,680 --> 00:42:34,120
Speaker 1: but just know you've repulsed me beyond belief and I

855
00:42:34,160 --> 00:42:34,560
Speaker 1: need time.

856
00:42:34,600 --> 00:42:36,919
Speaker 2: I'm disgusted and no matter how good your abs are,

857
00:42:37,120 --> 00:42:37,920
Speaker 2: I need time.

858
00:42:38,000 --> 00:42:38,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, I need time.

859
00:42:38,840 --> 00:42:42,360
Speaker 2: I need time unless unless they like just become crazy.

860
00:42:42,600 --> 00:42:44,880
Speaker 1: Just flash me. Do you have a twelve pack? You

861
00:42:44,920 --> 00:42:46,560
Speaker 1: have a twelve pact that we could talk? You know,

862
00:42:46,600 --> 00:42:48,080
Speaker 1: I do want you to take care of your health.

863
00:42:49,480 --> 00:42:51,480
Speaker 1: I love him. I don't want to lose him either.

864
00:42:51,560 --> 00:42:54,279
Speaker 1: He promised he wouldn't force me to interact with any

865
00:42:54,320 --> 00:42:57,240
Speaker 1: of his women. He has so many, this is crazy.

866
00:42:57,640 --> 00:43:00,719
Speaker 1: So far, we have had a couple of pleasant outings

867
00:43:01,040 --> 00:43:03,880
Speaker 1: that have gone well. So far, I am cautiously hopeful

868
00:43:03,880 --> 00:43:05,560
Speaker 1: that we can eat to be in each other's lives. Okay,

869
00:43:05,600 --> 00:43:07,080
Speaker 1: I think op is like taking the right place.

870
00:43:07,320 --> 00:43:10,759
Speaker 2: I think cautiously is like you gotta you gotta have

871
00:43:10,840 --> 00:43:13,000
Speaker 2: something right or it's just gonna eat at you, and

872
00:43:13,040 --> 00:43:15,479
Speaker 2: then the only person really suffering from that is you.

873
00:43:15,800 --> 00:43:18,960
Speaker 1: Right? Could we put up a poll full contact or

874
00:43:19,000 --> 00:43:25,720
Speaker 1: no contact? Oh? There were riley way As for me, well,

875
00:43:25,880 --> 00:43:28,480
Speaker 1: I took that advice that some of you gave and

876
00:43:28,520 --> 00:43:31,000
Speaker 1: I'm in therapy. It is humbling to come to the

877
00:43:31,040 --> 00:43:34,040
Speaker 1: realization that though you may think you're fine, you are

878
00:43:34,080 --> 00:43:38,520
Speaker 1: actually not. It has been almost unbearable to face all

879
00:43:38,520 --> 00:43:42,160
Speaker 1: that history and excruciatingly painful to dig through it all.

880
00:43:42,520 --> 00:43:44,440
Speaker 1: At the end of some sessions, all I want to

881
00:43:44,440 --> 00:43:47,560
Speaker 1: do is head to the nearest bar and drink until

882
00:43:47,560 --> 00:43:50,239
Speaker 1: I forget all about what I just went through to

883
00:43:50,280 --> 00:43:53,040
Speaker 1: find out where it all started and why I am

884
00:43:53,239 --> 00:43:56,560
Speaker 1: the way I am. Therapy is better than the TETs, Right, that's.

885
00:43:56,800 --> 00:43:59,719
Speaker 2: That's not a very healthy coping mechanism. Nope, we got

886
00:43:59,719 --> 00:44:02,960
Speaker 2: a right recognize that that is not sustainable. Nope, and

887
00:44:03,040 --> 00:44:05,960
Speaker 2: continue with the therapy because we love therapy and therapy

888
00:44:06,040 --> 00:44:06,359
Speaker 2: is good.

889
00:44:06,480 --> 00:44:09,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, and maybe like chill out on the drink it all.

890
00:44:08,960 --> 00:44:11,000
Speaker 2: Talk to your therapist maybe about that desire.

891
00:44:11,160 --> 00:44:13,560
Speaker 1: Yeah. I think therapy is one of the most difficult

892
00:44:13,560 --> 00:44:15,840
Speaker 1: things I've ever done. I don't know how some of

893
00:44:15,880 --> 00:44:17,560
Speaker 1: you have been doing it as long as you have.

894
00:44:17,960 --> 00:44:20,520
Speaker 1: I also don't know why you do it so willingly.

895
00:44:20,920 --> 00:44:23,160
Speaker 1: I'm a crazy nutter for listening to all you nutters

896
00:44:23,200 --> 00:44:27,200
Speaker 1: in the first place, but it is helping. Now for

897
00:44:27,280 --> 00:44:30,080
Speaker 1: the update, most of you want. I cannot even tell

898
00:44:30,120 --> 00:44:32,080
Speaker 1: you how many messages I continue to receive from people

899
00:44:32,080 --> 00:44:37,000
Speaker 1: wanting to know about him, the man, the myth, the legend,

900
00:44:37,400 --> 00:44:40,800
Speaker 1: the abs, not the situation, but her, the new abs

901
00:44:40,840 --> 00:44:41,480
Speaker 1: in her life.

902
00:44:41,920 --> 00:44:45,359
Speaker 2: Oh boyfriend, Well sorry, I'm just so I'm just.

903
00:44:45,280 --> 00:44:49,400
Speaker 1: So so lost in the situation. It's always attracts to it.

904
00:44:49,400 --> 00:44:51,160
Speaker 1: It's like a little little magnet.

905
00:44:52,160 --> 00:44:53,799
Speaker 2: But that is yes, I would like to know about

906
00:44:53,840 --> 00:44:57,760
Speaker 2: DoorDash boyfriend.

907
00:44:58,360 --> 00:45:01,000
Speaker 1: So it was almost like you all were saying, girl,

908
00:45:01,320 --> 00:45:03,840
Speaker 1: we don't care about whatever life prices you're going through,

909
00:45:04,160 --> 00:45:06,520
Speaker 1: just tell us about the date. Well, I haven't replied

910
00:45:06,520 --> 00:45:08,960
Speaker 1: to any of those queries because my post wasn't about him.

911
00:45:09,320 --> 00:45:11,160
Speaker 1: Now I figure in around about way, I owe you

912
00:45:11,200 --> 00:45:14,440
Speaker 1: something because you all played a part and where we

913
00:45:14,480 --> 00:45:17,640
Speaker 1: are today. I will give a rundown of everything that

914
00:45:17,680 --> 00:45:19,440
Speaker 1: has happened between us, but I will give you a

915
00:45:19,480 --> 00:45:23,800
Speaker 1: few things. He contacted me after seeing a podcast on YouTube.

916
00:45:24,120 --> 00:45:26,080
Speaker 1: He sent me a link with a query, is this you?

917
00:45:26,440 --> 00:45:28,320
Speaker 1: It would be an understatement to say I was mortified.

918
00:45:28,320 --> 00:45:30,759
Speaker 1: My mortification kept me from applying to him. I was

919
00:45:30,800 --> 00:45:33,480
Speaker 1: so deep in my embarrassment that I didn't even bother

920
00:45:33,760 --> 00:45:35,799
Speaker 1: to read the messages he sent me over the next

921
00:45:35,840 --> 00:45:38,520
Speaker 1: couple of weeks. When I finally did read them, it

922
00:45:38,600 --> 00:45:41,440
Speaker 1: was to find a whole heap of screenshots of people's comments.

923
00:45:41,640 --> 00:45:43,600
Speaker 1: I'm going out on a lim to say, you don't

924
00:45:43,640 --> 00:45:47,040
Speaker 1: need me to tell you the contents of the comments

925
00:45:47,200 --> 00:45:49,560
Speaker 1: he was sending me. I eventually got back to him.

926
00:45:49,840 --> 00:45:51,640
Speaker 1: It was difficult for us to make time to see

927
00:45:51,640 --> 00:45:53,520
Speaker 1: each other. As I stated earlier, in my life, both

928
00:45:53,560 --> 00:45:57,440
Speaker 1: personal and professional, has been busy, busy, busy. He also

929
00:45:57,680 --> 00:45:59,640
Speaker 1: has a life and work. We were only able to

930
00:45:59,640 --> 00:46:01,839
Speaker 1: meet up for coffee a couple times. I didn't think

931
00:46:01,880 --> 00:46:03,600
Speaker 1: we were going to be able to grow a friendship,

932
00:46:03,680 --> 00:46:06,400
Speaker 1: let alone anything beyond that. No, I've since learned that

933
00:46:06,440 --> 00:46:09,120
Speaker 1: he is tenacious and persistent, like a dog with a bone.

934
00:46:09,200 --> 00:46:09,399
Speaker 2: Ooh.

935
00:46:09,719 --> 00:46:11,719
Speaker 1: He kept at it until we found time. Do you

936
00:46:11,760 --> 00:46:15,759
Speaker 1: go on a second date? Okay, chudhing. That date went

937
00:46:15,800 --> 00:46:19,560
Speaker 1: well and led to another, then another. Then he introduced

938
00:46:19,600 --> 00:46:21,399
Speaker 1: me to the two most important people in his life,

939
00:46:21,440 --> 00:46:25,560
Speaker 1: his grandparents. His grandfather cars little wooden figurines. That's cute,

940
00:46:25,920 --> 00:46:28,280
Speaker 1: and I have since acquired a flock of wooden birds.

941
00:46:28,640 --> 00:46:32,080
Speaker 2: Okay, that's awesome. We love that's grandparent behavior for sure.

942
00:46:32,320 --> 00:46:34,880
Speaker 1: His grandmother thinks I'm too skinny. She feeds me whenever

943
00:46:34,960 --> 00:46:37,440
Speaker 1: I see her and usually sends me home with food.

944
00:46:37,880 --> 00:46:42,880
Speaker 1: W Yes, he gets along with my sisters and my brothers.

945
00:46:43,320 --> 00:46:46,560
Speaker 1: He came to visit my mother on her birthday and

946
00:46:46,680 --> 00:46:49,680
Speaker 1: met them all. He was very gracious with her. I

947
00:46:49,800 --> 00:46:52,480
Speaker 1: had him saved in my phone as cheeseburger. Oh. He

948
00:46:52,520 --> 00:46:55,600
Speaker 1: took issue with that because he thought because he bought

949
00:46:55,600 --> 00:46:57,640
Speaker 1: me a double cheeseburger, so I want to.

950
00:46:57,680 --> 00:46:59,080
Speaker 2: Be He's got a good memory.

951
00:46:59,160 --> 00:47:02,319
Speaker 1: Ew So I started calling him a double cheese and

952
00:47:02,360 --> 00:47:05,440
Speaker 1: then shortened it to DC. He is still saved in

953
00:47:05,480 --> 00:47:08,880
Speaker 1: my phone as cheeseburger. He's an undercover Swift ye, and

954
00:47:08,960 --> 00:47:11,040
Speaker 1: I don't know what to do with that. I don't

955
00:47:11,040 --> 00:47:13,719
Speaker 1: have anything against Taylor Swift, but I'm sure didn't pick

956
00:47:13,800 --> 00:47:16,800
Speaker 1: him to love her. He did use his little sister

957
00:47:16,880 --> 00:47:20,080
Speaker 1: and niece as cover for Taylor Swift love. Now he

958
00:47:20,200 --> 00:47:22,640
Speaker 1: uses me. I am fine with being used.

959
00:47:22,960 --> 00:47:26,520
Speaker 2: Ooh, I like greshen, I like it.

960
00:47:26,600 --> 00:47:28,840
Speaker 1: But that's where the story ends. Op seems to be

961
00:47:28,880 --> 00:47:30,760
Speaker 1: in a lot better place, doing all the right things,

962
00:47:30,800 --> 00:47:34,160
Speaker 1: doing therapy, going low contact with the dad, even though

963
00:47:34,160 --> 00:47:36,799
Speaker 1: He's a total there's a total situation there, both with

964
00:47:36,840 --> 00:47:38,400
Speaker 1: the apps and as the relationships, his.

965
00:47:38,440 --> 00:47:40,120
Speaker 2: Own therapy to go to, for sure.

966
00:47:40,280 --> 00:47:43,000
Speaker 1: But I think she's doing everything in the right way.

967
00:47:43,040 --> 00:47:46,040
Speaker 1: I feel like we ended on a lot less scorched

968
00:47:46,080 --> 00:47:49,080
Speaker 1: earth note, which I think is better long term for

969
00:47:49,120 --> 00:47:52,040
Speaker 1: the happiness and health of all the relationships and Ope's life.

970
00:47:52,040 --> 00:47:56,719
Speaker 2: Mom's thriving, thriving, got a dog, got a great little dog,

971
00:47:56,800 --> 00:47:59,520
Speaker 2: got his head stuck in the banisters. She said he

972
00:47:59,520 --> 00:47:59,920
Speaker 2: didn't do it.

973
00:48:00,600 --> 00:48:03,600
Speaker 1: Dad's it was the too, I guess, but in his

974
00:48:03,640 --> 00:48:04,799
Speaker 1: own sick, twisted way.

975
00:48:04,920 --> 00:48:08,959
Speaker 2: Dads like Miami Bachelor with his abs out. He's got

976
00:48:09,000 --> 00:48:12,440
Speaker 2: like six different girlfriends anyway, and he's like, I promise

977
00:48:12,480 --> 00:48:14,560
Speaker 2: you don't have to meet all my girlfriends. I just

978
00:48:14,600 --> 00:48:16,600
Speaker 2: I just want to hang out with you. I just

979
00:48:16,600 --> 00:48:17,440
Speaker 2: want to hang out with you.

980
00:48:17,560 --> 00:48:20,120
Speaker 1: I love all the Dad was like trying to have

981
00:48:20,200 --> 00:48:21,719
Speaker 1: OP meet all the girlfriends, Like.

982
00:48:21,640 --> 00:48:22,440
Speaker 2: Who is time for that?

983
00:48:22,719 --> 00:48:25,960
Speaker 4: No, Dad, I cannot meet your girlfriends. And I cannot

984
00:48:26,000 --> 00:48:28,360
Speaker 4: hear one more thing about your abs. I know, just

985
00:48:28,400 --> 00:48:32,680
Speaker 4: please please, I know you don't have to show they

986
00:48:33,040 --> 00:48:34,759
Speaker 4: always shiny, They're shiny every time.

987
00:48:34,840 --> 00:48:36,919
Speaker 1: Why do you have a cutout for them and every show.

988
00:48:37,000 --> 00:48:40,040
Speaker 2: This guy's just in a rangutank and he's.

989
00:48:39,920 --> 00:48:43,279
Speaker 1: Like those monkeys that have alopecia and are just like

990
00:48:43,520 --> 00:48:44,840
Speaker 1: fucking yoked.

991
00:48:45,160 --> 00:48:47,960
Speaker 2: Just oh yeah, he like chimps with like no hair.

992
00:48:48,080 --> 00:48:52,480
Speaker 1: Chimp with alopecia has hairless. Scary dude, scary hair some

993
00:48:52,640 --> 00:48:54,080
Speaker 1: buff they are. They're huge.

994
00:48:54,320 --> 00:48:57,719
Speaker 2: So fun fact about arangutangs. Yeah, they actually they're like

995
00:48:57,840 --> 00:49:00,319
Speaker 2: mating their mating system or whatever. It's like how we

996
00:49:00,400 --> 00:49:02,680
Speaker 2: have like, you know, like a partner, Like how an

997
00:49:02,719 --> 00:49:05,719
Speaker 2: albatross has like one partner for its entire life. Orangutangs

998
00:49:05,760 --> 00:49:10,880
Speaker 2: literally roll like as harems orangu tangs have multiple different partners.

999
00:49:11,600 --> 00:49:12,879
Speaker 1: Oh look at that guy.

1000
00:49:12,920 --> 00:49:17,879
Speaker 2: Is that Joe Rogan? I wouldn't fight that guy? Holy shit,

1001
00:49:18,040 --> 00:49:21,719
Speaker 2: I would not. WHOA that looks like a statue was

1002
00:49:21,800 --> 00:49:27,319
Speaker 2: ca it's carved. They feel like like metal. They feel

1003
00:49:27,320 --> 00:49:30,120
Speaker 2: like wood like when you touch because the muscles are

1004
00:49:30,200 --> 00:49:34,000
Speaker 2: so dense that it's just it's like, I mean, it's.

1005
00:49:33,920 --> 00:49:36,080
Speaker 1: Wait, so tell me about the sex lives or orangutangs.

1006
00:49:36,239 --> 00:49:40,799
Speaker 2: So yes, I learned this in a uh evolutionary anthropology

1007
00:49:40,800 --> 00:49:44,239
Speaker 2: class I took a community college shout out to the

1008
00:49:44,239 --> 00:49:46,279
Speaker 2: teacher whose name I don't remember. You were cool, I

1009
00:49:46,320 --> 00:49:50,719
Speaker 2: just don't remember your name. So orangutangs they have like

1010
00:49:51,200 --> 00:49:54,360
Speaker 2: a harem essentially right like they do not they're non committal.

1011
00:49:54,400 --> 00:49:58,480
Speaker 2: They don't have the same partner over their entire lives,

1012
00:49:58,920 --> 00:50:01,680
Speaker 2: and they don't really stake admitted to a partner. They're

1013
00:50:01,680 --> 00:50:04,279
Speaker 2: always kind of because they move around a lot, and

1014
00:50:04,320 --> 00:50:07,399
Speaker 2: they're kind of independent, you know, like they don't roll

1015
00:50:07,440 --> 00:50:09,560
Speaker 2: with like a group. Sometimes they'll just roll through like

1016
00:50:09,800 --> 00:50:11,400
Speaker 2: what you know. The big male will come through and

1017
00:50:11,440 --> 00:50:14,200
Speaker 2: be like sup, ladies, and the ladies will be like, hey,

1018
00:50:15,480 --> 00:50:19,520
Speaker 2: the situation's back. Okay, we're gonna have a good week

1019
00:50:19,560 --> 00:50:23,000
Speaker 2: and a half. And then he's out and then he's

1020
00:50:23,000 --> 00:50:25,880
Speaker 2: gone just a weekend and then he's and then he's gone,

1021
00:50:26,200 --> 00:50:28,719
Speaker 2: but then he'll be back maybe maybe not, you don't know.

1022
00:50:29,080 --> 00:50:31,239
Speaker 1: It's so they're kind of like solo creatures. They're all

1023
00:50:31,280 --> 00:50:33,000
Speaker 1: like one, like one at a time.

1024
00:50:33,080 --> 00:50:34,600
Speaker 2: They're wandering. They have wanderlust.

1025
00:50:35,120 --> 00:50:38,600
Speaker 1: That's cute. I got the travel bug. Yeah, and for

1026
00:50:38,640 --> 00:50:41,200
Speaker 1: a little bit, have a spiritual awakenings.

1027
00:50:41,280 --> 00:50:43,520
Speaker 2: Wish they had abs as good as Ope's dad.

1028
00:50:44,280 --> 00:50:45,560
Speaker 1: One can only hope.

1029
00:50:45,719 --> 00:50:49,480
Speaker 2: And that's the last ab comment I make about Ope's

1030
00:50:49,560 --> 00:50:51,360
Speaker 2: dad before I have to find him myself.

1031
00:50:51,480 --> 00:50:52,440
Speaker 1: That's that's a lie.

1032
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Speaker 2: You're right, I just I just did it right there?

1033
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1034
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1035
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1037
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1041
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1044
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1046
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Speaker 1: paid subscription. We appreciate you. We love that you have

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Speaker 1: Jeez in the chat and listen Monday. Thanks for the

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Speaker 1: member for one months. We appreciate you.

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00:53:34,320 --> 00:53:36,200
Speaker 2: And thanks to you, and thanks to everybody in the

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00:53:36,200 --> 00:53:38,880
Speaker 2: stream who's watching. Any new people who are watching, thank you,

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00:53:38,920 --> 00:53:42,960
Speaker 2: We love you. Please continue to watch and maybe one

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00:53:43,040 --> 00:53:45,680
Speaker 2: day you'll get to see a picture of those abs.

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Speaker 1: We can only hope.

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Speaker 2: We can only hope listening like a like a nice

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Speaker 2: set of abs. What can I say?

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Speaker 1: Also, if y'all haven't seen, we did a new format.

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Speaker 1: We're still trying to get it working. We did a

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00:54:03,719 --> 00:54:06,920
Speaker 1: game show that we released yesterday. I would love to

1096
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Speaker 1: know what you guys think, so maybe like queue it

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Speaker 1: up to watch after this if you haven't seen it.

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00:54:12,640 --> 00:54:15,000
Speaker 1: Some people said that it was a little bit confusing

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Speaker 1: at times. We're looking for feedback because we want to

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Speaker 1: incorporate your stories directly on the show and have you

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Speaker 1: on the show. But I think like we still have

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Speaker 1: some tweaks. I think it's better than the first one,

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Speaker 1: but yeah, let us know your thoughts. We want to improve.

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Speaker 1: We appreciate you.

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00:54:30,719 --> 00:54:33,080
Speaker 2: Thoughts, questions, comments and concerns.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and put on the video so we can like

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Speaker 1: go through it and like figure out what to change.

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Speaker 2: MJ grow two dollars so lava dispenser, which I think, honestly,

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Speaker 2: that's the best way to do. Excreetor sounds a little gross, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: it sounds a little little dispenser, sounds like a like

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Speaker 2: a Pezzan dispenser.

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Speaker 1: But we've got another story for y'all. Yeah, tell me

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Speaker 1: about it. What what? My sister's boyfriend refused to eat

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Speaker 1: the meal I cooked, so I.

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Speaker 2: Kicked him out get out of it. So here's what happened.

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Speaker 1: I twenty eight female, invited my sister twenty five female,

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Speaker 1: and her boyfriend twenty six male over for dinner. I

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Speaker 1: love cooking, and it's spent hours preparing this fancy meal,

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Speaker 1: homemade pasta, a sloke, cooked rag goo, a salad, and

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Speaker 1: tira massou for dessert. I was really proud of it

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Speaker 1: and excited to have them over.

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Speaker 2: Oh boy, oh boy. Yeah, nothing expectations. Hey, nothing goes

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Speaker 2: wrong when we have high expectations.

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Speaker 1: Right. Also, this comes from Pixies Love Petals on the

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Speaker 1: best Reddered updates. So when they arrived, everything was fine.

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Speaker 1: At first. We sat down and I started serving the food.

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Speaker 1: Her boyfriend, let's call him Steve, stared at the pasta

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Speaker 1: for a moment, then looked at me and said, I

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Speaker 1: don't eat carbs.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a real Steve move to me, Steve, Steve.

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Speaker 1: Wait, why do you eat carbs?

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Speaker 2: Carble with Steve? That's his thing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. At first I thought he was joking, but nope,

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Speaker 1: he was dead serious. He goes on about how he's

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Speaker 1: up into keto and carbs are the enemy. Oh he's

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Speaker 1: a cool bro, which okay, Like really, PAUSI really quick

1137
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Speaker 1: right here. There's more to this story. But like, I

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Speaker 1: don't think is the worst thing. You know, people are pescatarians,

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00:56:12,560 --> 00:56:14,520
Speaker 1: people are vegetarians, people are began Like, you don't have

1140
00:56:14,560 --> 00:56:15,960
Speaker 1: to force someone to eat anything.

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00:56:16,160 --> 00:56:18,120
Speaker 2: You can have a dietary restriction.

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Speaker 1: That's allowed, that's allowed. We need people to do that.

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Speaker 2: We can also kind of make fun of it a little.

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00:56:21,600 --> 00:56:23,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, we will make fun of you, but like but

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00:56:23,760 --> 00:56:25,319
Speaker 1: like in a way that it's like, oh, we love

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Speaker 1: you too.

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00:56:25,800 --> 00:56:27,960
Speaker 2: Right, Not in a way that's yeah, that's.

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00:56:27,760 --> 00:56:29,920
Speaker 1: Super mean, Like we're not gonna ostracize you. Keto's a

1149
00:56:29,920 --> 00:56:32,160
Speaker 1: great way to get abs. It is it is, dude,

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Speaker 1: I mean the situation. Yeah, okay, so okay, fine, that's

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Speaker 1: his choice. But when I offered to make him a

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Speaker 1: salad or something else on the spot, he refused and

1153
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Speaker 1: said that I should have known about his diet beforehand. Okay,

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00:56:48,520 --> 00:56:50,279
Speaker 1: that's a little that's a little weird. That's what's weird.

1155
00:56:50,600 --> 00:56:52,600
Speaker 1: A weird territory, weird territory. Let me know what you

1156
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Speaker 1: guys think. But I think it's a little weird. This

1157
00:56:54,600 --> 00:56:57,040
Speaker 1: is where it gets weird. He then pulls out a

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Speaker 1: small top aware container from his bag filled with what

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Speaker 1: looked like boiled chicken and broccoli and starts to eat

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Speaker 1: it at my dinner table while the rest of us

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Speaker 1: are trying to enjoy the meal I spent hours making.

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Speaker 1: I was stunned and honestly kind of insulted. For all

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Speaker 1: the Jim bros out there, is this a social faux pa?

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Speaker 1: What do you think.

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00:57:19,040 --> 00:57:22,040
Speaker 2: I think this is a weird cocktail of stuff because

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Speaker 2: it's like she's offended. Why was he annoyed? Where it's

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Speaker 2: like you should have already known, but also I have

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Speaker 2: a bag of boiled chicken and broccoli, just like he

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Speaker 2: didn't even have to make it anything, and she should

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Speaker 2: also be like, I mean, okay, if you're the kind

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Speaker 2: of guy who eats a bag of chicken and broccoli,

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Speaker 2: I guess I was unprepared for your presence.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I don't feel like he does. Didn't make

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Speaker 1: his his preference known. Yeah, either, it sounds like beforehand.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, this is like can't we all just get along? Type?

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Speaker 1: I do understand, like, you know, the Jim bros wanted

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Speaker 1: to track their macros and micros to the to the

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Speaker 1: to the tea. I know, but if we're going to

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Speaker 1: dinner with someone, I feel like you have to eat dinner.

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Speaker 2: You could have been a little more tactful about it, yeah,

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Speaker 2: instead of just pulling out the fight bag.

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00:58:13,000 --> 00:58:16,080
Speaker 1: Of or eat your stuff beforehand and like just like

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Speaker 1: like you know, a noodle around with the salad.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, but that would have been outside them on

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00:58:20,400 --> 00:58:23,880
Speaker 2: metabolic windows, bro, that would have been outs on metaball

1186
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Speaker 2: trying to.

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Speaker 1: Have games, like serious games. I never take that seriously.

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Speaker 1: Come yeah, he wouldn't expect the huge human like you

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Speaker 1: to understand. You don't got this situation. You don't got

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Speaker 1: these glistening abs that go all the way down your toes.

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Speaker 1: They spill it and fork my legs and go all

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Speaker 1: the way down.

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Speaker 2: That's terrific. Get it out of my head. I can't

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Speaker 2: get see it.

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Speaker 1: Make it go way thirty six abs, I am a hug.

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Speaker 1: I was stunned, and honestly kind of insults it. I

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Speaker 1: told him it was rude to bring his own food

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Speaker 1: without mentioning it to me beforehand. I think, so let

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Speaker 1: me know what y'all think. Uh, And he should have

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Speaker 1: at least given me a heads up. And then he

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Speaker 1: goes off about how people need to respect his dietary choices,

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Speaker 1: and then I was being controlling by not accommodating his needs.

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Speaker 2: She's not your mom, bro, Yeah, what are you talking about?

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Speaker 1: You don't need no mom. It's ridiculous trying to go

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Speaker 1: to the gym so people call you daddy, you know. Yeah,

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00:59:23,200 --> 00:59:27,200
Speaker 1: people all touch in your situation. You're thirty six abs

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Speaker 1: going down your legs.

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Speaker 3: Oh, God, No, I'm just adding to this disgusting nightmares tonight.

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Speaker 1: At this point I had enough. I told him, if

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Speaker 1: you can't eat what's served and won't even let me

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Speaker 1: make you something else, then maybe you should just get out.

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Speaker 1: He sat up and something and said something like I'm

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Speaker 1: just trying to be healthy. I'm just up aware, and

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Speaker 1: walked out. My sister stayed for a bit but eventually

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00:59:59,800 --> 01:00:04,920
Speaker 1: left to saying I over reacted. I think there's a

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Speaker 1: little bit of overreaction on both sides here. Would love

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Speaker 1: to know what you guys think. But I'm gonna I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna keep reading and then we can discuss. There is

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Speaker 1: a big, fat, juicy update and hope you responded to

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Speaker 1: some comments, so we'll get into that too. But now

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Speaker 1: my sister's mad at me, saying I embarrassed her boyfriend

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Speaker 1: and made them feel both unwelcome. My mom thinks I

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Speaker 1: should apologize, but my friends are on my side, saying

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Speaker 1: Steve was incredibly rude. Am I the a hole for

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Speaker 1: telling him to get out? Chat? What do you think, Dakota?

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Speaker 1: What do you think?

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Speaker 2: I think this is a textbook scenario of like if

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Speaker 2: y'all would have just communicated this differently then, I don't

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Speaker 2: even think there's an issue. Like I think, like you said,

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Speaker 2: if he would have just like taken her aside and

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Speaker 2: been like, hey, I don't think I can eat any

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Speaker 2: of the stuff that you've made, even though I mean,

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Speaker 2: I'm sure it's great. I have like my own kind

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Speaker 2: of restrictions going on, like.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm trying if I try to grow another app.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm trying to. I'm trying to become the next

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Speaker 2: species of human and evolution, and.

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Speaker 1: The best species is the one with more apps.

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Speaker 2: And I'm gonna have to grow that with with with

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Speaker 2: chicken and broccoli.

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01:01:06,080 --> 01:01:08,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I can't grow with the beauty human.

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Speaker 2: You can't. I can't with your delicious carbs, that delicious

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01:01:13,840 --> 01:01:17,960
Speaker 2: leg abs. So yeah, if you were have said that

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Speaker 2: like as an aside, I think, you know, I think

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Speaker 2: she was kind of blindsided by because it's a I

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Speaker 2: can It's it's a hard thing to be like I

1247
01:01:25,360 --> 01:01:27,840
Speaker 2: made this beautiful meal and you took out boiled chicken

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Speaker 2: and broccoli.

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Speaker 1: Like my It's just I think it's disrespectful on his

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Speaker 1: part to not give her a heads up. I think

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01:01:34,560 --> 01:01:38,480
Speaker 1: she went a little bit too far, Like if someone

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Speaker 1: was like, hey, I can't eat this because let's say

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Speaker 1: someone didn't tell me they were vegan, which is a

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01:01:43,880 --> 01:01:47,320
Speaker 1: different scenario, but hey, like I'm vegan, can't eat this

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Speaker 1: and brought their own tupper with me, I'll be like whatever, Like.

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Speaker 2: If they were gluten free. Yeah, I mean, it's it's

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Speaker 2: just you know, I think there it just kept escalating.

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Speaker 2: We did it.

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Speaker 1: I made cookies with this girl yesterday that we're gluten

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Speaker 1: Fredi's referencing that anyway.

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Speaker 2: Ah, yes, yeah, that's uh, it's I think it just

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01:02:14,800 --> 01:02:17,760
Speaker 2: there was never a moment, like at any point where

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Speaker 2: it could have de escalated. They chose escalation.

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01:02:21,040 --> 01:02:24,959
Speaker 1: Yeah, and so I think everyone's the a hole here

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01:02:25,560 --> 01:02:27,760
Speaker 1: because of the escalation.

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Speaker 2: You gotta you gotta you gotta be like I can't

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Speaker 2: eat this, get it heads up. And you also can

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01:02:33,960 --> 01:02:37,320
Speaker 2: just be like, all right, this freak is eating boiled

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01:02:37,400 --> 01:02:39,760
Speaker 2: chicken and broccoli at the table. I'm just going to

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna just ignore this and then talk about it

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01:02:42,920 --> 01:02:46,040
Speaker 2: with my friends later and like and instead of being like,

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Speaker 2: get out, I.

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Speaker 1: Would have said that was weird. But yeah, I would

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Speaker 1: have been like, oh, get out of my house. Yeah,

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01:02:52,960 --> 01:02:56,400
Speaker 1: this is ug, says everyone's the a hole. I wouldn't

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01:02:56,440 --> 01:02:58,320
Speaker 1: care if someone brought their own food to my house

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01:02:58,400 --> 01:03:00,440
Speaker 1: more for me, but you ain't gonna talk crazy to

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01:03:00,520 --> 01:03:03,320
Speaker 1: me in my house. Cow about as God though says

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Speaker 1: not the a whole. I would have kicked him out

1280
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Speaker 1: for his own entitlement and just respected me like that.

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01:03:07,000 --> 01:03:09,960
Speaker 1: He would never get invited back. Yeah, I think I

1282
01:03:10,120 --> 01:03:13,320
Speaker 1: For me, I probably would have just like, thought that's weird.

1283
01:03:13,480 --> 01:03:15,920
Speaker 1: Talk to him about it. Everyone like talked it about,

1284
01:03:16,080 --> 01:03:19,520
Speaker 1: talked to it about that situation, talk about that situation

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01:03:19,600 --> 01:03:20,880
Speaker 1: to everyone afterwards.

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01:03:20,920 --> 01:03:23,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, like, so that was definitely weird. Without

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Speaker 2: a gallon ziploc bag full of chicken and broccoli, right,

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01:03:26,760 --> 01:03:27,240
Speaker 2: I wouldn't have.

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01:03:27,200 --> 01:03:29,360
Speaker 1: Told him get out. I think that's a little bit

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01:03:29,440 --> 01:03:31,400
Speaker 1: on the a hole side. But he was also being

1291
01:03:31,440 --> 01:03:34,760
Speaker 1: an a hole. So but Opie has a response comment

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Speaker 1: to your sister didn't give you a heads up about

1293
01:03:36,400 --> 01:03:39,400
Speaker 1: his diet? Opie responds, honestly, no, she didn't. I'm not

1294
01:03:39,400 --> 01:03:41,800
Speaker 1: sure if she even knew how serious he was about

1295
01:03:41,800 --> 01:03:44,360
Speaker 1: the whole keto thing, because she never mentioned it. She

1296
01:03:44,480 --> 01:03:48,880
Speaker 1: eats pretty much anything, so I assumed he was the same.

1297
01:03:48,960 --> 01:03:50,760
Speaker 1: But even if he had, I feel like it still

1298
01:03:50,760 --> 01:03:52,360
Speaker 1: would have been a polite for him to at least

1299
01:03:52,360 --> 01:03:55,080
Speaker 1: say something beforehand, true, instead of just showing up with

1300
01:03:55,120 --> 01:03:57,400
Speaker 1: his own meal. I would have happily made something Keuto

1301
01:03:57,440 --> 01:04:01,320
Speaker 1: friendly if I had known. Comments all say, not the

1302
01:04:01,320 --> 01:04:03,760
Speaker 1: a hole. But we do have an update six days later, oh,

1303
01:04:04,480 --> 01:04:07,680
Speaker 1: which things escalate. He's got a new AB. Now he's

1304
01:04:07,720 --> 01:04:09,360
Speaker 1: got a new AB. I mean it's because he's stuck

1305
01:04:09,360 --> 01:04:10,000
Speaker 1: to his diet.

1306
01:04:09,840 --> 01:04:12,960
Speaker 2: AB number thirty seven. Do you remember.

1307
01:04:13,560 --> 01:04:17,040
Speaker 1: The twenty second?

1308
01:04:18,480 --> 01:04:24,680
Speaker 2: Look at the date, it's the twenty first on the update.

1309
01:04:25,160 --> 01:04:29,440
Speaker 1: Oh, this comes from September twenty first, twenty twenty.

1310
01:04:29,200 --> 01:04:32,720
Speaker 2: Four, six days later, len a September.

1311
01:04:33,680 --> 01:04:37,640
Speaker 1: Well, y'all buggle up, because things have escalated in a

1312
01:04:37,640 --> 01:04:41,400
Speaker 1: way I have never expected. After my initial posts, I

1313
01:04:41,440 --> 01:04:43,400
Speaker 1: figured things would come down once my sister had time

1314
01:04:43,440 --> 01:04:47,960
Speaker 1: to cool off. Spoiler alert, they did not. So the

1315
01:04:48,040 --> 01:04:50,960
Speaker 1: day after I told Steve to leave, my sister texts

1316
01:04:50,960 --> 01:04:54,480
Speaker 1: me saying they want to talk things through at a

1317
01:04:54,480 --> 01:04:55,960
Speaker 1: family dinner.

1318
01:04:57,320 --> 01:05:00,800
Speaker 2: This all seems like too much over I feel such

1319
01:05:00,840 --> 01:05:01,480
Speaker 2: a like.

1320
01:05:01,440 --> 01:05:03,280
Speaker 1: Everyone has has done too much.

1321
01:05:03,320 --> 01:05:05,800
Speaker 2: It was just a faux pas, and now it's turning

1322
01:05:05,800 --> 01:05:07,560
Speaker 2: into we need to have a family discussion.

1323
01:05:08,000 --> 01:05:12,360
Speaker 1: I'm it needs this sallments to happen, but I assume

1324
01:05:12,400 --> 01:05:14,920
Speaker 1: it would be just the three of us, maybe at

1325
01:05:14,960 --> 01:05:19,080
Speaker 1: a neutral restaurant where we could hash it out like adults. Nope,

1326
01:05:19,680 --> 01:05:21,880
Speaker 1: and said, my sister invites my parents, my brother, and

1327
01:05:22,000 --> 01:05:25,520
Speaker 1: Steve's parents to this dinner at my parents' house, turning

1328
01:05:25,560 --> 01:05:28,280
Speaker 1: it into some kind of weird intervention. I show up

1329
01:05:28,320 --> 01:05:31,520
Speaker 1: thinking it's a casual conversation, but the moment I walk in,

1330
01:05:31,560 --> 01:05:34,640
Speaker 1: Steve's mom, let's call her, Carol, is already going off

1331
01:05:34,680 --> 01:05:39,360
Speaker 1: about how Steve has always had special dietary needs and

1332
01:05:39,400 --> 01:05:42,480
Speaker 1: how people who care about him should respect his boundaries.

1333
01:05:42,520 --> 01:05:45,560
Speaker 1: You know, this guy called his mom for backup man

1334
01:05:46,280 --> 01:05:47,720
Speaker 1: explain that himself.

1335
01:05:48,000 --> 01:05:50,160
Speaker 2: Come on, this is ridiculous.

1336
01:05:50,280 --> 01:05:53,280
Speaker 1: The woman acts like this guy has life threatening allergies,

1337
01:05:53,320 --> 01:05:56,160
Speaker 1: not a trendy diet. My mom is sitting there looking

1338
01:05:56,160 --> 01:05:59,280
Speaker 1: super uncomfortable, while my dad just quietly is sipping his

1339
01:05:59,400 --> 01:06:03,400
Speaker 1: beer clear wishing you were anywhere else at w So,

1340
01:06:03,560 --> 01:06:07,200
Speaker 1: Carol starts listing off Steve's dietary restrictions, and she's acting

1341
01:06:07,320 --> 01:06:12,360
Speaker 1: like I personally offended the whole keto community by serving pasta.

1342
01:06:12,840 --> 01:06:16,800
Speaker 1: Then embrace yourself Carol pulls out a folder, yes, a

1343
01:06:16,840 --> 01:06:20,600
Speaker 1: literal folder with printouts. She hands one to me, one

1344
01:06:20,640 --> 01:06:23,040
Speaker 1: to my mom, and one to my dad. I'm flipping

1345
01:06:23,080 --> 01:06:28,120
Speaker 1: through this thing and it's full of Steve's dietary guidelines,

1346
01:06:28,320 --> 01:06:31,680
Speaker 1: suggested meal plans, and even a list of keto friendly

1347
01:06:31,880 --> 01:06:33,920
Speaker 1: restaurants we could go to in the future.

1348
01:06:34,120 --> 01:06:38,080
Speaker 2: This road research, this is what's what's the step above

1349
01:06:38,120 --> 01:06:42,439
Speaker 2: a helicopter parent, like a helicopter carrying a helicopter, cock,

1350
01:06:42,560 --> 01:06:45,680
Speaker 2: helicopter whatever, the one with the two roads at the

1351
01:06:45,720 --> 01:06:49,320
Speaker 2: same time. You're the You're the helicopter that carries other helicopters.

1352
01:06:49,400 --> 01:06:50,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, the one where it's like pregnant with.

1353
01:06:50,840 --> 01:06:52,760
Speaker 2: The chin it's the chinook.

1354
01:06:52,880 --> 01:07:00,320
Speaker 1: How do you write that? So, yeah, that's ridiculous at

1355
01:07:00,320 --> 01:07:02,720
Speaker 1: this point. Honestly, I feel like that would be a

1356
01:07:02,840 --> 01:07:06,120
Speaker 1: huge ick for the sister. Would it not like to

1357
01:07:06,200 --> 01:07:09,160
Speaker 1: have his mom having to go tom.

1358
01:07:08,880 --> 01:07:11,600
Speaker 2: No, Like mom calling in mom for backup on your

1359
01:07:11,680 --> 01:07:14,040
Speaker 2: diet is absurd behavior.

1360
01:07:14,160 --> 01:07:14,480
Speaker 1: Whack.

1361
01:07:14,960 --> 01:07:16,840
Speaker 2: And I gotta say, if I was oping I walked

1362
01:07:16,880 --> 01:07:19,560
Speaker 2: in there, I would probably just laugh. I would be here,

1363
01:07:19,920 --> 01:07:21,560
Speaker 2: I'd be like, this is crazy.

1364
01:07:22,280 --> 01:07:25,160
Speaker 1: All those abs and you still can't defend yourself you know,

1365
01:07:26,720 --> 01:07:28,760
Speaker 1: what's the point of having all those muscles if you

1366
01:07:28,800 --> 01:07:30,360
Speaker 1: still have to call back up from mommy.

1367
01:07:30,680 --> 01:07:33,120
Speaker 2: Stephen has had a crazy number of abs for his

1368
01:07:33,280 --> 01:07:35,200
Speaker 2: entire life, and we've always had to cater to him

1369
01:07:35,400 --> 01:07:35,920
Speaker 2: because of it.

1370
01:07:35,960 --> 01:07:39,200
Speaker 1: Okay, I don't understand how hard it is to have

1371
01:07:39,280 --> 01:07:41,000
Speaker 1: each of these abs and maintain it.

1372
01:07:41,040 --> 01:07:42,360
Speaker 2: Do you know how hard it is to have abs

1373
01:07:42,360 --> 01:07:43,800
Speaker 2: that go all the way up and down your legs?

1374
01:07:44,000 --> 01:07:45,520
Speaker 1: Do you know how much I have to spot Stephen

1375
01:07:46,160 --> 01:07:50,600
Speaker 1: every waking day. It's horrific, horrific. He is a monster,

1376
01:07:51,000 --> 01:07:56,000
Speaker 1: but he's our little monster. Oh, she's little monsters. For

1377
01:07:56,040 --> 01:08:01,800
Speaker 1: another another thirty yas I'm on the clock. We appreciate you.

1378
01:08:01,840 --> 01:08:04,760
Speaker 1: We're gonna read those shows and sick, but thank y'all

1379
01:08:04,800 --> 01:08:09,600
Speaker 1: forgetting us to another thirty minutes. But at this point,

1380
01:08:09,640 --> 01:08:12,880
Speaker 1: I'm doing everything I can not to laugh. But it

1381
01:08:12,920 --> 01:08:18,200
Speaker 1: gets worse. Steve pipes up and says he's willing to

1382
01:08:18,280 --> 01:08:22,240
Speaker 1: forgive me for disrespecting his lifestyle if I agree to

1383
01:08:22,320 --> 01:08:25,960
Speaker 1: host I read you dinner where I follow his dietary

1384
01:08:26,000 --> 01:08:28,719
Speaker 1: restrictions to the letter.

1385
01:08:28,880 --> 01:08:30,479
Speaker 2: Oh Steve is so cool.

1386
01:08:30,880 --> 01:08:32,920
Speaker 1: He's cool, He's so chilling, easy going.

1387
01:08:33,000 --> 01:08:34,960
Speaker 2: What a nice thing for Steve to do, to give

1388
01:08:34,960 --> 01:08:38,240
Speaker 2: her the opportunity to redeem herself. All right.

1389
01:08:38,400 --> 01:08:40,920
Speaker 1: Also, I feel like I'm seeing through the smoke. Steve

1390
01:08:41,040 --> 01:08:46,880
Speaker 1: must be hot this much stuff like the sister, like

1391
01:08:46,920 --> 01:08:49,639
Speaker 1: the cit Like, I can't imagine the sisters looking at

1392
01:08:49,640 --> 01:08:52,720
Speaker 1: this and not having the hot fog on her.

1393
01:08:52,800 --> 01:08:58,080
Speaker 2: You know those those keto those Keto those folks are usually.

1394
01:08:57,280 --> 01:09:04,280
Speaker 3: They're pretty slim, pretty be built a little.

1395
01:09:04,960 --> 01:09:05,720
Speaker 1: I think like that.

1396
01:09:06,120 --> 01:09:07,280
Speaker 2: I think I just got a new AB.

1397
01:09:07,439 --> 01:09:10,120
Speaker 1: I think I think I got something hard on my body,

1398
01:09:11,200 --> 01:09:15,800
Speaker 1: or to one AB, I have one large better than

1399
01:09:16,080 --> 01:09:18,720
Speaker 1: multiple abs.

1400
01:09:17,640 --> 01:09:20,280
Speaker 2: Like a plate plate of ABB.

1401
01:09:20,439 --> 01:09:22,880
Speaker 1: It's like it's like, you know, all the districts are

1402
01:09:23,040 --> 01:09:27,559
Speaker 1: split together to like keep the people segregated. Yeah, Hunger Games,

1403
01:09:27,800 --> 01:09:29,800
Speaker 1: but if we united, it would be a stronger pan

1404
01:09:29,840 --> 01:09:32,519
Speaker 1: am yeah exactly, which is what Catinus is trying to

1405
01:09:32,520 --> 01:09:35,559
Speaker 1: do the whole I am this AB is president president

1406
01:09:35,760 --> 01:09:37,080
Speaker 1: snow if he was, if.

1407
01:09:37,280 --> 01:09:39,280
Speaker 2: We all see the New Hunger Games where it turned

1408
01:09:39,280 --> 01:09:42,120
Speaker 2: out he was just like a girl was like, ah no,

1409
01:09:42,280 --> 01:09:44,040
Speaker 2: I don't like you anymore, and he's like, fine, I

1410
01:09:44,040 --> 01:09:46,400
Speaker 2: guess I'll just murder everyone in the country and does

1411
01:09:46,800 --> 01:09:47,439
Speaker 2: and then he did it.

1412
01:09:47,560 --> 01:09:49,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know that. I feel like that shows the

1413
01:09:49,880 --> 01:09:53,080
Speaker 1: power of like getting rejected, you know, turn that stuff

1414
01:09:53,120 --> 01:09:53,960
Speaker 1: into dark energy.

1415
01:09:54,080 --> 01:09:57,120
Speaker 2: Yeah. Remember, girls, when you reject a man, you could

1416
01:09:57,200 --> 01:10:00,000
Speaker 2: be creating a dystopian future and if all your faults.

1417
01:10:00,200 --> 01:10:04,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, dude, every man that's ever created anything has been

1418
01:10:04,400 --> 01:10:09,200
Speaker 1: rejected in some way. Steve Jobs by his parents, Mark

1419
01:10:09,280 --> 01:10:10,599
Speaker 1: Zuckerberg by his parents.

1420
01:10:10,960 --> 01:10:14,479
Speaker 2: No girl, uh uh oh yeah. Mark Zuckerberg started all

1421
01:10:14,520 --> 01:10:16,479
Speaker 2: that because he was like, I'm trying to make this

1422
01:10:16,560 --> 01:10:19,280
Speaker 2: girl feel bad. Yeah, and now social media makes us

1423
01:10:19,320 --> 01:10:25,080
Speaker 2: all feel bad. Thanks Mars. So he says he will

1424
01:10:25,120 --> 01:10:29,000
Speaker 2: prove I'm serious about making amends and respecting his needs

1425
01:10:29,040 --> 01:10:31,439
Speaker 2: going forward. I thought he was joking, but no, he

1426
01:10:31,520 --> 01:10:33,360
Speaker 2: was dead serious. He even pulled out his phone to

1427
01:10:33,360 --> 01:10:36,120
Speaker 2: show me some Keuto recipe apps that I might find

1428
01:10:36,720 --> 01:10:38,120
Speaker 2: useful and helpful.

1429
01:10:38,680 --> 01:10:40,320
Speaker 1: I was a total shock. My sister, by the way,

1430
01:10:40,320 --> 01:10:42,799
Speaker 1: he said absolutely nothing during all of this, just staring

1431
01:10:42,920 --> 01:10:45,800
Speaker 1: at her plate like she wanted to disappear. My mom,

1432
01:10:45,880 --> 01:10:48,080
Speaker 1: bless her, tries to smooth things over by suggesting we

1433
01:10:48,120 --> 01:10:50,920
Speaker 1: all just eat whatever we want when we're together, but

1434
01:10:51,000 --> 01:10:53,280
Speaker 1: Carol snaps, it's not that simple.

1435
01:10:53,439 --> 01:10:54,920
Speaker 2: It's not that simple.

1436
01:10:55,080 --> 01:10:56,080
Speaker 1: Look at his apps.

1437
01:10:56,320 --> 01:10:58,160
Speaker 2: Look at all those times said you tell me it's simple.

1438
01:10:59,520 --> 01:11:01,639
Speaker 2: You know, I know it's not. It's not a simple carb.

1439
01:11:02,600 --> 01:11:05,120
Speaker 2: I know that unacceptable.

1440
01:11:05,280 --> 01:11:09,960
Speaker 1: Unacceptable. She says that in her family they all follow

1441
01:11:10,080 --> 01:11:12,760
Speaker 1: keto together to the point of the keto cult. Yeah,

1442
01:11:12,840 --> 01:11:15,400
Speaker 1: it was a cult here. Yeah, this is like Midsummer

1443
01:11:15,479 --> 01:11:19,280
Speaker 1: for keto. And that's why Steve is so passionate about it.

1444
01:11:19,840 --> 01:11:22,160
Speaker 1: At this point, I've had enough. I set up and said, look,

1445
01:11:22,360 --> 01:11:24,800
Speaker 1: I'm not redoing the dinner. I'm not making anyone a

1446
01:11:24,840 --> 01:11:28,880
Speaker 1: special Keto piece. You can't eat when I cook, that's fine,

1447
01:11:29,120 --> 01:11:31,400
Speaker 1: But bringing his own meal to my dinner without even

1448
01:11:31,439 --> 01:11:34,519
Speaker 1: telling me was disrespectful. And I'm not apologizing for feeling

1449
01:11:34,600 --> 01:11:38,479
Speaker 1: that way. And then this is where it gets absolutely bonkers,

1450
01:11:38,880 --> 01:11:42,160
Speaker 1: as if what has happened before it's not enough.

1451
01:11:42,240 --> 01:11:45,120
Speaker 2: This is completely in Bonkerville territory.

1452
01:11:45,320 --> 01:11:49,360
Speaker 1: We are deep into Bonkerville. We're like the deep Bonkerville country.

1453
01:11:49,400 --> 01:11:52,240
Speaker 2: Bought several pieces of property on Bonkerton Lane.

1454
01:11:52,320 --> 01:11:55,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, you have gotten bonked all the way on your

1455
01:11:55,360 --> 01:11:57,519
Speaker 1: your your way to the big club that's gonna give

1456
01:11:57,560 --> 01:11:58,519
Speaker 1: you your final bonk.

1457
01:11:58,640 --> 01:12:00,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're going to bonkers tonight.

1458
01:12:00,080 --> 01:12:02,960
Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, yeah, you are. You're going to get a

1459
01:12:02,960 --> 01:12:09,720
Speaker 1: bunk bunk bed box when you're yeah, that's the bonk bed.

1460
01:12:09,720 --> 01:12:11,519
Speaker 1: That's a bed. There's a guy said, you're on the

1461
01:12:11,520 --> 01:12:13,360
Speaker 1: bottom level. There's a guy in the top level. There's

1462
01:12:14,200 --> 01:12:16,240
Speaker 1: all right, Riley's cutting it off. Riley's cutting it off.

1463
01:12:16,760 --> 01:12:18,640
Speaker 2: Bonkers connecting to it.

1464
01:12:20,439 --> 01:12:25,160
Speaker 1: You continued it. Steve Dad stands up, points at me

1465
01:12:25,360 --> 01:12:28,040
Speaker 1: and says that this is exactly why Steve doesn't trust

1466
01:12:28,080 --> 01:12:32,520
Speaker 1: women to understand whoa whoa?

1467
01:12:34,000 --> 01:12:34,800
Speaker 2: You a woman too?

1468
01:12:35,160 --> 01:12:38,479
Speaker 1: The one thing I did well, but it's like, like, dad, mom,

1469
01:12:38,560 --> 01:12:39,640
Speaker 1: is that Steve's.

1470
01:12:39,439 --> 01:12:42,320
Speaker 2: Steve's dad stood up and was like, oh, dads, and

1471
01:12:42,400 --> 01:12:45,000
Speaker 2: why Steve doesn't trust women?

1472
01:12:45,360 --> 01:12:48,200
Speaker 1: Honestly, the big problem with women these days is just

1473
01:12:48,240 --> 01:12:51,280
Speaker 1: they don't understand the keto yeah about abs.

1474
01:12:51,560 --> 01:12:55,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, is that the keto ab relations with women is

1475
01:12:55,360 --> 01:12:56,760
Speaker 2: they're not all about Steve all the time.

1476
01:12:56,960 --> 01:12:59,559
Speaker 1: Yeah, dude, If women were about I think Steve wouldn't

1477
01:12:59,560 --> 01:13:03,559
Speaker 1: have any problem. Like what legit bonkers, legit bonkers. This

1478
01:13:03,640 --> 01:13:06,240
Speaker 1: is exactly why Steve doesn't trust women. They always make

1479
01:13:06,280 --> 01:13:09,599
Speaker 1: it about themselves. The whole room went silent. My dad

1480
01:13:09,640 --> 01:13:12,639
Speaker 1: finally spoke up, saying, I think it's time for you

1481
01:13:12,840 --> 01:13:16,519
Speaker 1: all to leave, and started walking toward the door, basically

1482
01:13:16,720 --> 01:13:20,120
Speaker 1: escorting Steve's parents out. Steve and my sister stayed behind,

1483
01:13:20,280 --> 01:13:23,280
Speaker 1: but Steve was furious. He started yelling about how family

1484
01:13:23,439 --> 01:13:25,840
Speaker 1: should support each other and then accuse me of trying

1485
01:13:25,840 --> 01:13:29,479
Speaker 1: to sabotage the relationship because I'm jealous of what they have.

1486
01:13:30,080 --> 01:13:33,719
Speaker 1: I can't imagine OPI is at all jealous of Steve.

1487
01:13:33,760 --> 01:13:35,719
Speaker 1: Little Mama boy Keto ab man.

1488
01:13:35,640 --> 01:13:38,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, this is this, this is We're fully off the

1489
01:13:38,320 --> 01:13:39,519
Speaker 2: deep end of I would.

1490
01:13:39,400 --> 01:13:42,000
Speaker 1: Be like, my god, I want as far of a

1491
01:13:42,080 --> 01:13:44,200
Speaker 1: distance away from Steve as possible, and I want to

1492
01:13:44,240 --> 01:13:46,920
Speaker 1: leave him a bonker bill in that back bed and

1493
01:13:47,240 --> 01:13:49,080
Speaker 1: leave town and go to Satonville.

1494
01:13:49,200 --> 01:13:51,280
Speaker 2: You guys, the dad is and the dad was right

1495
01:13:51,320 --> 01:13:54,439
Speaker 2: on cue. He's just like and now I've officially have

1496
01:13:54,840 --> 01:13:56,800
Speaker 2: had enough this. I can't do this anywhere. You guys

1497
01:13:56,840 --> 01:13:57,719
Speaker 2: are leaving my house.

1498
01:13:58,160 --> 01:13:58,479
Speaker 1: Leave.

1499
01:13:58,680 --> 01:14:04,120
Speaker 2: I've been sipping beer. I feel like ignoring done. Now

1500
01:14:04,160 --> 01:14:07,960
Speaker 2: you say my daughter is the reason your son can't

1501
01:14:07,960 --> 01:14:08,599
Speaker 2: trust women.

1502
01:14:08,760 --> 01:14:11,639
Speaker 1: You're out of the house, dude, You're going get erect.

1503
01:14:13,240 --> 01:14:14,960
Speaker 1: At that point, I just walked out and left the

1504
01:14:14,960 --> 01:14:18,320
Speaker 1: whole mess behind. Here's the kicker. Though, there's a kicker.

1505
01:14:18,479 --> 01:14:22,720
Speaker 1: There's still here's the kicker though. A couple of days later,

1506
01:14:22,760 --> 01:14:24,639
Speaker 1: my sister called me and told me she and Steve

1507
01:14:24,680 --> 01:14:27,160
Speaker 1: were taking a break because she needed time to think.

1508
01:14:27,320 --> 01:14:30,920
Speaker 1: You should break up, you should make that break permanent. Apparently,

1509
01:14:31,200 --> 01:14:34,320
Speaker 1: this whole keto fiasco was the last straw in a

1510
01:14:34,360 --> 01:14:37,200
Speaker 1: long list of controlling behavior from Steve. She didn't realize

1511
01:14:37,240 --> 01:14:39,240
Speaker 1: just how bad it was until the whole family saw

1512
01:14:39,280 --> 01:14:41,280
Speaker 1: it play out at dinner. She even told me that

1513
01:14:41,320 --> 01:14:43,519
Speaker 1: Steve had been trying to get her to follow his

1514
01:14:43,800 --> 01:14:47,280
Speaker 1: diet cults for months, but she was hiding snacks in

1515
01:14:47,320 --> 01:14:49,360
Speaker 1: her car just to get a break from all the

1516
01:14:49,400 --> 01:14:52,640
Speaker 1: keto madness. So now Steve's gone full radio silent. My

1517
01:14:52,720 --> 01:14:54,800
Speaker 1: sister is staying with me for the time being, and

1518
01:14:54,880 --> 01:14:59,280
Speaker 1: I'm still getting passive aggressive texts from Carol about how

1519
01:14:59,520 --> 01:15:03,120
Speaker 1: hurts Steve is and how he's just a misunderstood keto boy.

1520
01:15:03,200 --> 01:15:07,800
Speaker 2: See, Mom's still coming in with the assist, the breakup assist.

1521
01:15:07,560 --> 01:15:10,679
Speaker 1: Because that's the helicopter pregnant attack.

1522
01:15:11,400 --> 01:15:14,639
Speaker 2: She's a Keto, She's a she's a keto diet chinook.

1523
01:15:16,600 --> 01:15:20,719
Speaker 2: Not letting her son do anything. He is fully chained

1524
01:15:20,920 --> 01:15:24,439
Speaker 2: to the underside of this helicopter parent and he can

1525
01:15:24,680 --> 01:15:27,599
Speaker 2: not have any cards while he's down there, no carbs.

1526
01:15:27,680 --> 01:15:30,679
Speaker 1: Honestly, I'm just glad my sister is finally seeing how

1527
01:15:30,760 --> 01:15:35,479
Speaker 1: controlling this guy was. And that is where it ends.

1528
01:15:35,479 --> 01:15:38,800
Speaker 1: So in conclusion, his OP thea hol did OP overreacted

1529
01:15:38,840 --> 01:15:42,040
Speaker 1: Op do anything wrong to Keto abs Steve.

1530
01:15:43,040 --> 01:15:46,240
Speaker 2: Know, honestly not at all, not not even for one second,

1531
01:15:46,240 --> 01:15:49,000
Speaker 2: because after all that now I can almost see in

1532
01:15:49,040 --> 01:15:51,840
Speaker 2: my head how he was acting to at the dinner,

1533
01:15:52,120 --> 01:15:54,280
Speaker 2: so like she did nothing wrong because I'm sure he

1534
01:15:54,360 --> 01:15:57,679
Speaker 2: was unbelievably disrespectful like the entire time.

1535
01:15:57,880 --> 01:16:01,599
Speaker 1: Yeah, and also like shout out to Ope for helping

1536
01:16:01,720 --> 01:16:04,640
Speaker 1: expose to the sister how bonkers this guy was.

1537
01:16:04,760 --> 01:16:08,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're dating this guy's mom. Yeah, it really sounds

1538
01:16:08,040 --> 01:16:09,519
Speaker 2: like you're dating this guy's mom, which.

1539
01:16:09,320 --> 01:16:11,519
Speaker 1: You know, maybe could be fun if you're into that

1540
01:16:11,520 --> 01:16:13,120
Speaker 1: sort of thing, but most likely not.

1541
01:16:13,560 --> 01:16:14,840
Speaker 2: It's only fun if you're keto.

1542
01:16:15,200 --> 01:16:17,479
Speaker 1: It's only fun of your keto. He only lets you

1543
01:16:17,520 --> 01:16:18,240
Speaker 1: out of your Keto.

1544
01:16:18,400 --> 01:16:18,599
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1545
01:16:18,800 --> 01:16:21,599
Speaker 1: As many abs as her son, then she's then she's

1546
01:16:21,600 --> 01:16:22,000
Speaker 1: into it.

1547
01:16:22,040 --> 01:16:24,800
Speaker 2: Maybe maybe when the sun loses some ABS you know,

1548
01:16:24,840 --> 01:16:27,080
Speaker 2: he'll come back down to earth. He's just got so much,

1549
01:16:27,320 --> 01:16:31,360
Speaker 2: so much keto testosterone flying through his abdominal muscles that

1550
01:16:31,439 --> 01:16:34,920
Speaker 2: have migrated all over his body that he came up

1551
01:16:35,479 --> 01:16:37,360
Speaker 2: up from down right again.

1552
01:16:37,400 --> 01:16:38,960
Speaker 1: When you have that many abs, I feel like you

1553
01:16:38,960 --> 01:16:41,720
Speaker 1: don't have the distinction between the different body parts. Yeah,

1554
01:16:41,720 --> 01:16:45,479
Speaker 1: it's just a one giant abb Yeah we're gonna stay

1555
01:16:45,479 --> 01:16:49,280
Speaker 1: on that. But that's where that story ends. Let me

1556
01:16:49,360 --> 01:16:52,559
Speaker 1: know what you think. Uh, did Op do the right thing?

1557
01:16:53,120 --> 01:16:57,120
Speaker 1: Should Steve have been left in the dust like he was?

1558
01:16:57,720 --> 01:16:58,120
Speaker 1: Let us know