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You can 11 00:00:38,000 --> 00:00:40,960 Speaker 1: also dm us on Instagram at Bachelor Happy Hour. 12 00:00:41,120 --> 00:00:45,280 Speaker 2: Okay, Susan, First things first, we have got to talk 13 00:00:45,640 --> 00:00:47,559 Speaker 2: about Monday's episode of Paradise. 14 00:00:47,760 --> 00:00:51,559 Speaker 1: Oh boy, don't judge me, fans, don't judge me for 15 00:00:51,680 --> 00:00:52,800 Speaker 1: the things I'm about. 16 00:00:53,159 --> 00:00:56,080 Speaker 2: So what's coming? Hi? Wait? Can I get in on 17 00:00:56,120 --> 00:00:58,520 Speaker 2: that too? Don't judge me? The book? Go ahead? You start? 18 00:00:58,720 --> 00:01:02,720 Speaker 1: Where should we start? We start with our girlfriend Faith, Yes, 19 00:01:03,120 --> 00:01:09,360 Speaker 1: when she said and that contest a sexy hooker. 20 00:01:08,880 --> 00:01:12,520 Speaker 2: And the question was, I can't believe you're bringing that up. 21 00:01:12,720 --> 00:01:17,240 Speaker 2: The question was what characters would you like to play 22 00:01:17,280 --> 00:01:20,480 Speaker 2: in the bedroom? And I saw that roleplay and I 23 00:01:20,640 --> 00:01:22,679 Speaker 2: was like, oh no, not going down that road. I 24 00:01:22,680 --> 00:01:25,480 Speaker 2: would even write nurse and doctor I wrote Mickey and 25 00:01:25,520 --> 00:01:26,080 Speaker 2: middy mouth. 26 00:01:26,360 --> 00:01:28,320 Speaker 1: I know, Kath, I know I saw. 27 00:01:29,600 --> 00:01:32,039 Speaker 2: And Faith wrote. What did she write again? 28 00:01:32,360 --> 00:01:33,240 Speaker 1: Sexy hooker? 29 00:01:34,440 --> 00:01:36,039 Speaker 2: Oh God, wouldn't you love to be a flan on 30 00:01:36,040 --> 00:01:36,760 Speaker 2: the wall in her bed? 31 00:01:36,800 --> 00:01:39,040 Speaker 1: I would like to try to act like a sexy hooker. 32 00:01:39,040 --> 00:01:40,360 Speaker 1: I don't think I could do it. 33 00:01:41,400 --> 00:01:46,840 Speaker 2: Okay, I don't know that I found that. The thing 34 00:01:46,920 --> 00:01:51,200 Speaker 2: I have to say about Faith and Kim in this episode, 35 00:01:51,240 --> 00:01:54,200 Speaker 2: two things I want to say. One is all that 36 00:01:54,480 --> 00:01:57,520 Speaker 2: seemed to go on. There was kissing. I'm like, where's 37 00:01:57,520 --> 00:01:59,120 Speaker 2: the conversation? Do you know what? 38 00:01:59,240 --> 00:01:59,840 Speaker 1: I noticed? 39 00:02:00,480 --> 00:02:00,600 Speaker 2: Like? 40 00:02:00,680 --> 00:02:02,800 Speaker 1: She didn't seem like she talked to any of you. 41 00:02:03,680 --> 00:02:06,560 Speaker 1: It's our Faith. We did a whole entire show with her. 42 00:02:06,720 --> 00:02:10,359 Speaker 1: She's our friend. Yet she seemed only focused on him. 43 00:02:10,360 --> 00:02:13,960 Speaker 1: And I'm only praying that when this show is over 44 00:02:14,080 --> 00:02:17,200 Speaker 1: that they're together, because if they're not, I'm going to 45 00:02:17,280 --> 00:02:20,799 Speaker 1: call you. You wanted to stay on the show. You 46 00:02:20,919 --> 00:02:23,520 Speaker 1: hoped on to somebody. Is that what it's about? I 47 00:02:23,560 --> 00:02:27,560 Speaker 1: mean some people do that well, Bath calling Faith, I 48 00:02:27,600 --> 00:02:30,160 Speaker 1: want to know if you're still with them. 49 00:02:30,720 --> 00:02:36,280 Speaker 2: I will say that I was really glad that they 50 00:02:36,400 --> 00:02:38,440 Speaker 2: said because I did say that that Keith and I 51 00:02:38,480 --> 00:02:40,400 Speaker 2: are good friends. That's really important. 52 00:02:40,720 --> 00:02:42,520 Speaker 1: And the young ones knew that because one of them 53 00:02:42,639 --> 00:02:44,880 Speaker 1: was voting one of you is off because they said 54 00:02:44,880 --> 00:02:49,480 Speaker 1: they're just friends, right, But you weren't a threat to 55 00:02:49,560 --> 00:02:50,560 Speaker 1: them to win that month. 56 00:02:50,680 --> 00:02:51,840 Speaker 2: Were you surprised? 57 00:02:52,160 --> 00:02:52,880 Speaker 1: Huh? 58 00:02:52,960 --> 00:02:55,720 Speaker 2: Were you surprised that Kim and Faith were voted off? 59 00:02:56,919 --> 00:03:00,799 Speaker 1: No? No, because a few of them call them, call 60 00:03:00,880 --> 00:03:03,120 Speaker 1: them on it. Not that not said it to them, 61 00:03:03,160 --> 00:03:06,040 Speaker 1: but they were thinking, you know, this is a lot. 62 00:03:07,040 --> 00:03:10,120 Speaker 2: Yeah. No, I was okay, we got that, so you know, 63 00:03:10,160 --> 00:03:12,680 Speaker 2: bye bye Faith and Kim. One more thing I have 64 00:03:12,720 --> 00:03:16,800 Speaker 2: to say. I have been getting shocker some hate mail 65 00:03:17,000 --> 00:03:22,320 Speaker 2: on social media that I'm jealous of Kim and Faith 66 00:03:22,720 --> 00:03:23,720 Speaker 2: their relationship. 67 00:03:24,000 --> 00:03:25,360 Speaker 1: Well because you said get a room. 68 00:03:26,480 --> 00:03:31,080 Speaker 2: Well, oh god, when he ever said bring in some oil, 69 00:03:31,120 --> 00:03:33,080 Speaker 2: I thought I was going to lose my lunch. But 70 00:03:33,480 --> 00:03:35,880 Speaker 2: let me just say, I am not jealous. There is 71 00:03:36,120 --> 00:03:39,000 Speaker 2: one little shred of jealousy. So just to put that 72 00:03:39,040 --> 00:03:45,960 Speaker 2: one to rest Faith and Kim. You yeah, not it 73 00:03:46,000 --> 00:03:49,560 Speaker 2: for me, not even a little bit. And I said 74 00:03:49,680 --> 00:03:54,000 Speaker 2: over and out when I saluted him, trust me. 75 00:03:56,760 --> 00:03:59,160 Speaker 1: But to me, the show was great, But the whole 76 00:03:59,200 --> 00:04:01,840 Speaker 1: show for me is. All I could think about was Brian. 77 00:04:02,240 --> 00:04:04,920 Speaker 1: And when Wells came out and made that statement, I 78 00:04:05,000 --> 00:04:08,320 Speaker 1: saluted Wells like, you are absolutely okay. 79 00:04:08,400 --> 00:04:11,240 Speaker 2: But so I'm watching this and I'm like, all I 80 00:04:11,240 --> 00:04:14,320 Speaker 2: could think of was that song from the sixties lies lies, 81 00:04:14,600 --> 00:04:17,159 Speaker 2: like if your mouth is moving your line, I mean, 82 00:04:18,800 --> 00:04:21,880 Speaker 2: here's the thing, the lies. I want you to go. Wait, Mi, 83 00:04:21,880 --> 00:04:24,920 Speaker 2: I missing something here because you were watching it back. 84 00:04:25,000 --> 00:04:29,039 Speaker 2: We know what they said, right, So Jeremy said he 85 00:04:29,200 --> 00:04:31,640 Speaker 2: never he swore he swore to. 86 00:04:31,600 --> 00:04:32,600 Speaker 1: Bailey that he did. 87 00:04:33,120 --> 00:04:35,960 Speaker 2: He never said he would propose to Zzusie and Leaf. Nope, 88 00:04:36,040 --> 00:04:40,559 Speaker 2: yeah he did. Check first lie. Bailey swore it wasn't 89 00:04:40,680 --> 00:04:42,720 Speaker 2: Brian who told her. 90 00:04:42,800 --> 00:04:44,760 Speaker 1: To because she didn't want to bury Brian. 91 00:04:44,880 --> 00:04:49,080 Speaker 2: I don't care. It's another lie. Brian lied about not 92 00:04:49,200 --> 00:04:52,560 Speaker 2: telling Bailey. I'm like, what is going on? And so 93 00:04:52,600 --> 00:04:55,880 Speaker 2: when Wells came on, who I absolutely adore anyway, I 94 00:04:55,960 --> 00:04:59,560 Speaker 2: love you Wells, I was like, finally somebody who's making 95 00:04:59,600 --> 00:05:03,640 Speaker 2: some s. Yes, when they're talking about broke code, what 96 00:05:03,839 --> 00:05:05,000 Speaker 2: broke code? 97 00:05:05,360 --> 00:05:07,599 Speaker 1: So that's what it's about. But if we're going to 98 00:05:07,680 --> 00:05:13,680 Speaker 1: say bro code code, the girls did know and they 99 00:05:13,800 --> 00:05:16,440 Speaker 1: told her they didn't. 100 00:05:16,000 --> 00:05:20,760 Speaker 2: So so I Okay, here's the thing. I think. I mean, 101 00:05:20,920 --> 00:05:27,840 Speaker 2: based on what we saw, the girls knew that. I 102 00:05:27,839 --> 00:05:32,480 Speaker 2: don't know. But as I'm watching it, I'm thinking, did 103 00:05:32,960 --> 00:05:36,400 Speaker 2: you know Alex who I adore so sweet, comforting Bailey? 104 00:05:37,000 --> 00:05:40,560 Speaker 2: I don't think and I don't know, but this just 105 00:05:40,600 --> 00:05:43,680 Speaker 2: from watching the show, I'm not sure that all the 106 00:05:43,760 --> 00:05:48,600 Speaker 2: girls knew that Jeremy had said he would propose to 107 00:05:48,960 --> 00:05:51,960 Speaker 2: leave the show with her. I don't think they knew 108 00:05:52,000 --> 00:05:54,800 Speaker 2: that because I think if they'd known that, I think 109 00:05:54,839 --> 00:05:57,760 Speaker 2: they would have stepped up. I mean, you and I, 110 00:05:57,880 --> 00:06:01,400 Speaker 2: of course were older, we would have gone right to 111 00:06:01,440 --> 00:06:03,640 Speaker 2: the person said hey, girlfriend, because you don't. 112 00:06:03,480 --> 00:06:07,200 Speaker 1: Want your girlfriends to look like a fool, that's right. However, 113 00:06:07,640 --> 00:06:10,080 Speaker 1: he came clean and agreed that he did to and 114 00:06:10,120 --> 00:06:13,599 Speaker 1: he shouldn't have, and tried to make and there to 115 00:06:13,680 --> 00:06:14,440 Speaker 1: kill there again. 116 00:06:15,320 --> 00:06:18,719 Speaker 2: I think he felt pressure. You're saying, Brian, yes. 117 00:06:18,560 --> 00:06:24,479 Speaker 1: No, I think Brian felt no. Jeremy oh, I felt 118 00:06:24,480 --> 00:06:28,200 Speaker 1: bad for Brian. I think Brian hats off to you. 119 00:06:28,680 --> 00:06:30,400 Speaker 1: I know the guys are going to be pissed off 120 00:06:30,440 --> 00:06:32,640 Speaker 1: at you, no bro code or whatever it is, but 121 00:06:32,760 --> 00:06:37,279 Speaker 1: you actually care about Bailey, and I want her to 122 00:06:37,320 --> 00:06:41,600 Speaker 1: be taken for a fool and you great, how about Marissa? 123 00:06:41,680 --> 00:06:43,520 Speaker 1: While he was saying I'm going to go tell she 124 00:06:43,640 --> 00:06:45,880 Speaker 1: was looking She looked like a deer in headlights, like, 125 00:06:46,000 --> 00:06:46,640 Speaker 1: oh well. 126 00:06:46,440 --> 00:06:48,440 Speaker 2: I don't I mean, come on, she I don't think 127 00:06:48,480 --> 00:06:51,479 Speaker 2: Priest is a confrontational person. I don't think she wanted 128 00:06:51,760 --> 00:06:53,800 Speaker 2: to get in the middle of it. And by by 129 00:06:53,839 --> 00:06:57,440 Speaker 2: association with Brian, it was probably gonna happen. But here's 130 00:06:57,720 --> 00:07:00,599 Speaker 2: the one thing that I picked up, and I was 131 00:07:00,640 --> 00:07:03,840 Speaker 2: curious if you did. When Bailey goes in and wakes 132 00:07:03,920 --> 00:07:06,720 Speaker 2: Jeremy up, and by the way, Jeremy looked irritated as 133 00:07:06,920 --> 00:07:09,320 Speaker 2: all get out that he was being woken up. Get up, 134 00:07:09,400 --> 00:07:11,640 Speaker 2: Jeremy and talk to the girl that you professed cares 135 00:07:11,640 --> 00:07:14,000 Speaker 2: so much about that. I was thinking that I was. 136 00:07:13,960 --> 00:07:16,239 Speaker 1: Holding on to where though I was it was crying. 137 00:07:16,480 --> 00:07:24,160 Speaker 2: But and did you notice that Bailey was didn't wait 138 00:07:24,200 --> 00:07:27,600 Speaker 2: for answers. She's she wakes him up, She's saying, did 139 00:07:27,640 --> 00:07:29,440 Speaker 2: you do this? Did you do that? I can't believe 140 00:07:29,480 --> 00:07:33,160 Speaker 2: I thought she and she calls it scream crying. She says, 141 00:07:33,200 --> 00:07:36,320 Speaker 2: I was scream crying. She doesn't wait for his answers. 142 00:07:36,440 --> 00:07:41,160 Speaker 2: It's almost like she just wanted to vomit out yes 143 00:07:41,400 --> 00:07:44,320 Speaker 2: and not really hear his answers. And I was surprised 144 00:07:44,320 --> 00:07:44,680 Speaker 2: by that. 145 00:07:44,880 --> 00:07:48,560 Speaker 1: Why would you give him an opportunity to lie nobody 146 00:07:48,600 --> 00:07:52,680 Speaker 1: when you're found guilty, okay, and somebody's calling you on it, 147 00:07:52,760 --> 00:07:56,440 Speaker 1: and you know you're guilty. He was probably relieved that 148 00:07:56,520 --> 00:07:59,240 Speaker 1: she did the scream cry, but she did. 149 00:07:59,400 --> 00:08:02,600 Speaker 2: But I'm saying she didn't give him a chance to 150 00:08:02,640 --> 00:08:05,440 Speaker 2: say yes, I said it, and when she finally did, 151 00:08:05,480 --> 00:08:08,160 Speaker 2: he lied and said he didn't do those things, and 152 00:08:08,280 --> 00:08:10,200 Speaker 2: he said he was just trying to if I heard 153 00:08:10,240 --> 00:08:13,480 Speaker 2: the TV correctly, I'm sorry, Jeremy, I'm really kind of 154 00:08:13,560 --> 00:08:16,400 Speaker 2: like losing it here when you say I was just 155 00:08:16,440 --> 00:08:21,320 Speaker 2: trying to play paradise like what you're playing with people's 156 00:08:21,400 --> 00:08:22,960 Speaker 2: emotions exactly. 157 00:08:23,040 --> 00:08:25,360 Speaker 1: And I will give him, you know what, it was 158 00:08:25,480 --> 00:08:29,280 Speaker 1: early when she was there, tell the truth. You know, 159 00:08:29,440 --> 00:08:32,760 Speaker 1: I didn't know yet. I do like her, but I 160 00:08:32,800 --> 00:08:35,040 Speaker 1: didn't know how I was going to feel about you 161 00:08:35,320 --> 00:08:38,000 Speaker 1: now that we've come this far. That's all he had 162 00:08:38,040 --> 00:08:41,880 Speaker 1: to do, if that is the truth, because I'm second 163 00:08:41,920 --> 00:08:43,359 Speaker 1: guess and everything now. 164 00:08:43,120 --> 00:08:46,640 Speaker 2: That's right, and you know, if you if you lie 165 00:08:47,559 --> 00:08:50,480 Speaker 2: then it's very difficult to believe anything else that comes 166 00:08:50,480 --> 00:08:53,360 Speaker 2: out of your mouth. Once you've lied to me, then 167 00:08:53,440 --> 00:08:55,520 Speaker 2: I'm not I'm not believing much of what comes out 168 00:08:55,559 --> 00:08:55,640 Speaker 2: of it. 169 00:08:56,520 --> 00:08:59,839 Speaker 1: You come out here, wait to see what. But they 170 00:08:59,200 --> 00:09:00,440 Speaker 1: can't happy just. 171 00:09:00,360 --> 00:09:02,959 Speaker 2: Give a shout out to Keith? Can I just give 172 00:09:03,000 --> 00:09:05,320 Speaker 2: a shout? He told me I looked beautiful in my 173 00:09:05,400 --> 00:09:08,360 Speaker 2: red dress, and that made me feel so good. That 174 00:09:08,480 --> 00:09:11,040 Speaker 2: was I thank you, Keith, and I may he really 175 00:09:11,160 --> 00:09:13,360 Speaker 2: made me feel like a million bucks. The other thing 176 00:09:13,559 --> 00:09:17,400 Speaker 2: was I loved how Keith said there's no right choice 177 00:09:17,400 --> 00:09:20,280 Speaker 2: here who to send home. I think that is a 178 00:09:20,320 --> 00:09:23,720 Speaker 2: mature vision of no good answer. 179 00:09:24,040 --> 00:09:26,560 Speaker 1: It wasn't the possibility that you two could have left 180 00:09:27,920 --> 00:09:29,840 Speaker 1: polity absolute? 181 00:09:30,200 --> 00:09:35,600 Speaker 2: I mean, when when were you sur I was. I 182 00:09:35,640 --> 00:09:38,800 Speaker 2: was a little surprised. Although I had heard some mumblings about, 183 00:09:38,800 --> 00:09:41,320 Speaker 2: you know, the people talking about Kim's health with his 184 00:09:41,440 --> 00:09:43,800 Speaker 2: heart monitor, which you know. 185 00:09:44,000 --> 00:09:47,360 Speaker 1: And everybody assumed they were going to kick Brian off because. 186 00:09:47,720 --> 00:09:52,080 Speaker 2: I yeah, because they were mad with him. I was 187 00:09:52,120 --> 00:09:54,720 Speaker 2: a little surprised. I was grateful. I was so happy 188 00:09:54,720 --> 00:09:58,680 Speaker 2: to be there because Keith and I really have formed 189 00:09:59,000 --> 00:10:01,560 Speaker 2: a close friendship with the each other and the other 190 00:10:01,760 --> 00:10:05,400 Speaker 2: cast members really care and still do care about all 191 00:10:05,440 --> 00:10:09,920 Speaker 2: those young ones. I mean so so so, I don't know. 192 00:10:10,000 --> 00:10:11,679 Speaker 2: I think it's I think it's had. 193 00:10:11,600 --> 00:10:15,400 Speaker 1: Taken back about how everybody reacted to all of it. 194 00:10:16,240 --> 00:10:20,640 Speaker 1: And I'm sorry how everyone reacted to what Brian did. 195 00:10:22,120 --> 00:10:23,240 Speaker 2: Were you were surprised? 196 00:10:23,280 --> 00:10:25,679 Speaker 1: You saying that at the women? At the young women? 197 00:10:26,080 --> 00:10:29,400 Speaker 1: First of all, what does that say about somebody when 198 00:10:29,400 --> 00:10:32,520 Speaker 1: you're all angry and the guys too, they're angry because 199 00:10:32,559 --> 00:10:38,040 Speaker 1: Brian told the girl the truth? How can you be 200 00:10:38,320 --> 00:10:41,320 Speaker 1: angry at that? It's the truth. 201 00:10:42,600 --> 00:10:45,920 Speaker 2: I think when you're younger, sometimes you you know, you 202 00:10:45,960 --> 00:10:48,640 Speaker 2: want to stay in your lane and you figure they'll 203 00:10:48,679 --> 00:10:52,120 Speaker 2: work it out. I think Jeremy had said he was 204 00:10:52,160 --> 00:10:57,760 Speaker 2: going to tell her and he should have. Well, but 205 00:10:57,840 --> 00:10:59,840 Speaker 2: he only said he should have after he got caught 206 00:10:59,840 --> 00:11:03,800 Speaker 2: with pants down, no pun intended. Yes, I mean that's 207 00:11:03,840 --> 00:11:05,640 Speaker 2: when he told the truth, when he was forced when 208 00:11:05,679 --> 00:11:09,640 Speaker 2: you're forced into a corner, Hey did you call her? Yes? 209 00:11:09,920 --> 00:11:13,520 Speaker 2: But he still lied. He still said I didn't say 210 00:11:13,520 --> 00:11:13,720 Speaker 2: I was. 211 00:11:13,720 --> 00:11:17,280 Speaker 1: Gonna once you show to somebody like if you lied 212 00:11:17,320 --> 00:11:19,880 Speaker 1: to me, I don't know that I'll trust one hundred percent. 213 00:11:20,080 --> 00:11:22,800 Speaker 2: Ever again, well, that's what I just said you two 214 00:11:22,880 --> 00:11:25,200 Speaker 2: seconds ago that once you lie to me, I'm not 215 00:11:25,200 --> 00:11:27,360 Speaker 2: sure I can believe anything that comes out of your mouth. 216 00:11:27,760 --> 00:11:30,240 Speaker 2: So I think there was a lot of If we're 217 00:11:30,280 --> 00:11:33,760 Speaker 2: wrapping this one up, it's a lot of lies wrapped 218 00:11:33,840 --> 00:11:38,040 Speaker 2: up in a paradise bow. And thank you Wells for 219 00:11:38,080 --> 00:11:39,000 Speaker 2: shedding the truth. 220 00:11:39,080 --> 00:11:40,960 Speaker 1: Oh. I was so happy when he came out and 221 00:11:41,000 --> 00:11:43,400 Speaker 1: said that. I was screaming at the your day right. 222 00:11:44,200 --> 00:11:47,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was rough, but you know what, I can't 223 00:11:47,360 --> 00:11:51,040 Speaker 2: wait to see, uh what happens next week. Keith and 224 00:11:51,080 --> 00:11:54,599 Speaker 2: I are holding the torch now for the goldens and 225 00:11:55,880 --> 00:11:58,839 Speaker 2: glad to be there. And you know, I can't wait 226 00:11:58,880 --> 00:12:00,760 Speaker 2: for next Monday to see what happens. 227 00:12:00,440 --> 00:12:02,640 Speaker 1: Now, You and I both you and I both. 228 00:12:10,120 --> 00:12:15,000 Speaker 2: All right, It's time to get into today's episode, and 229 00:12:15,559 --> 00:12:18,080 Speaker 2: as always, we're going to start things off with the 230 00:12:18,200 --> 00:12:21,240 Speaker 2: question of the day. Okay, Susan, are you ready? Yes? 231 00:12:21,280 --> 00:12:25,520 Speaker 2: I am, Okay. Have you ever had a friend come 232 00:12:25,559 --> 00:12:30,480 Speaker 2: to you asking for advice and you've been totally stumped? 233 00:12:30,920 --> 00:12:34,440 Speaker 2: What was it like? What is your go to advice 234 00:12:34,760 --> 00:12:38,520 Speaker 2: when you're at a loss and there's no simple advice 235 00:12:38,600 --> 00:12:39,160 Speaker 2: to be given? 236 00:12:39,520 --> 00:12:45,240 Speaker 1: What says you oh baby surprise. Stumped. Yes, because I 237 00:12:45,360 --> 00:12:48,440 Speaker 1: felt like I couldn't tell them really how I felt. 238 00:12:49,360 --> 00:12:52,280 Speaker 1: Now today, if I was asked this and this happened, 239 00:12:52,320 --> 00:12:57,160 Speaker 1: I could, But back then, I because most likely it 240 00:12:57,200 --> 00:13:00,320 Speaker 1: was about a man that I disagreed and I thought 241 00:13:00,360 --> 00:13:02,240 Speaker 1: he was a piece of you know what and she 242 00:13:02,280 --> 00:13:04,800 Speaker 1: shouldn't be with him. But I didn't have the heart 243 00:13:04,840 --> 00:13:07,880 Speaker 1: when they're so in love, that's that's an uncomfortable So. 244 00:13:07,800 --> 00:13:11,480 Speaker 2: Wait a minute, Wait a minute, you're saying, now I 245 00:13:11,559 --> 00:13:15,520 Speaker 2: think we're about to disagree, folks. Oh boy er shocker. 246 00:13:15,760 --> 00:13:21,360 Speaker 2: Are you saying that if I came to you and 247 00:13:21,559 --> 00:13:25,240 Speaker 2: ask you for advice, you might say something that is 248 00:13:25,360 --> 00:13:27,560 Speaker 2: knowingly going to hurt me and make me feel badly. 249 00:13:29,600 --> 00:13:32,280 Speaker 1: I'm going to tell you the truth, and if that's 250 00:13:32,360 --> 00:13:35,920 Speaker 1: the case, I'll lighten it the best I can. But 251 00:13:35,960 --> 00:13:37,320 Speaker 1: I have to be real and honest. 252 00:13:37,440 --> 00:13:43,000 Speaker 2: Yes see, I'm telling you, folks, I used to be 253 00:13:43,120 --> 00:13:46,040 Speaker 2: that way. I used to be the girl that gave 254 00:13:46,360 --> 00:13:50,560 Speaker 2: one hundred percent honesty. Now I'm much more. You know, 255 00:13:50,679 --> 00:13:53,640 Speaker 2: our good friend Nancy taught me a lesson. She always says, 256 00:13:55,000 --> 00:13:59,280 Speaker 2: when something happens or people say things, think to yourself, 257 00:13:59,400 --> 00:14:02,320 Speaker 2: how would you feel so now. When someone asked me 258 00:14:02,360 --> 00:14:07,000 Speaker 2: for advice, oftentimes I think, how is my answer going 259 00:14:07,080 --> 00:14:10,200 Speaker 2: to make them feel? And if I know that it's 260 00:14:10,240 --> 00:14:12,800 Speaker 2: going to make them feel badly, I may not be 261 00:14:12,920 --> 00:14:17,000 Speaker 2: honest because, especially our age, Susan, let's face it, we're 262 00:14:17,000 --> 00:14:19,680 Speaker 2: not going to change. We can change on the margin, 263 00:14:20,840 --> 00:14:23,320 Speaker 2: but we're not like the young ones on Paradise. When 264 00:14:23,320 --> 00:14:26,360 Speaker 2: they ask me for advice, I was brutally real because 265 00:14:26,400 --> 00:14:29,640 Speaker 2: they're young enough to change, right, But I just don't 266 00:14:29,680 --> 00:14:31,600 Speaker 2: think people our age. 267 00:14:31,680 --> 00:14:35,120 Speaker 1: What if it was about a clothing option, you know 268 00:14:35,240 --> 00:14:37,680 Speaker 1: that they tried something on they felt really good about it. 269 00:14:37,720 --> 00:14:38,880 Speaker 1: Do you love this on me? 270 00:14:39,120 --> 00:14:41,400 Speaker 2: Like? Well, I don't think you would be totally stumped. 271 00:14:41,960 --> 00:14:43,480 Speaker 2: If I said you, Susan, what do you think of 272 00:14:43,480 --> 00:14:46,160 Speaker 2: the stress? You'd say that's the ugliest thing since I 273 00:14:45,920 --> 00:14:51,119 Speaker 2: say event a toast. But I think I think. 274 00:14:51,000 --> 00:14:55,840 Speaker 1: Now me something that I stump me, well. 275 00:14:55,720 --> 00:14:58,120 Speaker 2: I don't stump for me is the wrong word. I 276 00:14:58,200 --> 00:15:02,600 Speaker 2: think you might not know how to answer something. If 277 00:15:02,640 --> 00:15:05,360 Speaker 2: I said to you, Susan, if it was a dating question, 278 00:15:05,840 --> 00:15:07,680 Speaker 2: you might not know how to answer it. But the 279 00:15:07,840 --> 00:15:12,000 Speaker 2: answer that would come to your mind might be your truth. 280 00:15:12,320 --> 00:15:16,320 Speaker 2: But for me, I might think, oh, I can't say 281 00:15:16,360 --> 00:15:19,800 Speaker 2: that to Susan what I really because it might hurt her. 282 00:15:20,280 --> 00:15:23,200 Speaker 2: And I used to be the girl that would say it. 283 00:15:23,960 --> 00:15:27,800 Speaker 2: I think my go to advice now is more like 284 00:15:27,840 --> 00:15:30,600 Speaker 2: what Nancy says, I don't know, Susan, how do you 285 00:15:30,680 --> 00:15:33,480 Speaker 2: feel about it? I sort of turn a mirror back 286 00:15:33,520 --> 00:15:34,520 Speaker 2: and say, how do you feel? 287 00:15:34,640 --> 00:15:36,440 Speaker 1: Because that's like therapy one. 288 00:15:37,800 --> 00:15:40,400 Speaker 2: So like if I said to you, okay, if you 289 00:15:40,520 --> 00:15:43,480 Speaker 2: said to me, Susan, should I break up because you 290 00:15:43,560 --> 00:15:46,160 Speaker 2: have one? Should I break up with my partner even 291 00:15:46,160 --> 00:15:48,960 Speaker 2: though I still love them? Or is it okay to 292 00:15:49,040 --> 00:15:52,200 Speaker 2: stay with Joe because he cheated on me? Do you 293 00:15:52,280 --> 00:15:56,760 Speaker 2: think I'm going to say to you, I'm not. I'm 294 00:15:56,760 --> 00:15:58,440 Speaker 2: going to say, I don't know, Susan, how do you 295 00:15:58,520 --> 00:15:59,480 Speaker 2: feel about it? 296 00:15:59,840 --> 00:16:03,240 Speaker 1: I'm living it right now with Frederick's daughter. 297 00:16:04,840 --> 00:16:08,160 Speaker 2: That's right, very and you think you and and and 298 00:16:08,200 --> 00:16:11,680 Speaker 2: what was? So for those of who my advice, what's 299 00:16:11,680 --> 00:16:12,160 Speaker 2: your advice? 300 00:16:13,280 --> 00:16:19,160 Speaker 1: If it was the first time, okay, the second time, No, that's. 301 00:16:19,440 --> 00:16:22,760 Speaker 2: Starters going through a cheating episode with her boyfriend. Just 302 00:16:22,800 --> 00:16:27,040 Speaker 2: so we're clear with everything. No, it's I did. 303 00:16:26,840 --> 00:16:29,520 Speaker 1: Say to her, but it's up to you. Your answering 304 00:16:29,720 --> 00:16:33,640 Speaker 1: my opinion, and my opinion is no way, no. 305 00:16:33,680 --> 00:16:36,000 Speaker 2: And what and what was her answer to you? Said 306 00:16:36,040 --> 00:16:40,240 Speaker 2: to me? She said I love him, So I would 307 00:16:40,240 --> 00:16:45,240 Speaker 2: say you have to do My answer always is what 308 00:16:45,400 --> 00:16:47,640 Speaker 2: do you have to do? What should you do? You 309 00:16:47,680 --> 00:16:50,720 Speaker 2: have to live with your decisions, think about it carefully, 310 00:16:50,760 --> 00:16:53,680 Speaker 2: and make the best decision for you. Because now, Susan, 311 00:16:53,760 --> 00:16:57,880 Speaker 2: what I've learned is it's not my life. It's not 312 00:16:58,120 --> 00:17:00,920 Speaker 2: my life to live with a cheater and say I 313 00:17:00,960 --> 00:17:02,680 Speaker 2: love him. I'm just using that example. 314 00:17:02,720 --> 00:17:04,600 Speaker 1: You can see it a third time. It's going to 315 00:17:04,680 --> 00:17:06,520 Speaker 1: happen and you're going to be in a better place. 316 00:17:06,560 --> 00:17:08,840 Speaker 1: Then you're going to waste another year of your life. 317 00:17:09,720 --> 00:17:12,119 Speaker 2: And the answer is a lot of people are, but 318 00:17:12,280 --> 00:17:16,040 Speaker 2: some point there is it's not our life. Yes, they 319 00:17:16,119 --> 00:17:18,960 Speaker 2: have to learn in their own time. So I but 320 00:17:19,040 --> 00:17:21,679 Speaker 2: I will say to you when I was younger, and 321 00:17:21,720 --> 00:17:23,919 Speaker 2: mind you, I still have lots of advice that and 322 00:17:24,000 --> 00:17:28,320 Speaker 2: sometimes it's unwanted, but remember what did Let's tell everybody 323 00:17:28,640 --> 00:17:30,360 Speaker 2: what was my New Year's resolutions? 324 00:17:30,560 --> 00:17:34,080 Speaker 1: And mine your business my own business. 325 00:17:33,840 --> 00:17:36,879 Speaker 2: And not give people advice. And I've I'm going to 326 00:17:36,880 --> 00:17:39,280 Speaker 2: give you myself an a minus. So far this year, 327 00:17:40,359 --> 00:17:41,200 Speaker 2: and believe I've. 328 00:17:41,080 --> 00:17:47,239 Speaker 1: Had kathy about this one. Yeah, I'm in love with 329 00:17:47,320 --> 00:17:51,359 Speaker 1: someone who is already in a relationship. What should I do? 330 00:17:52,440 --> 00:17:53,800 Speaker 1: That's easy to me? 331 00:17:54,720 --> 00:17:57,560 Speaker 2: Oh not not if you're in love with them. It's 332 00:17:57,600 --> 00:17:59,480 Speaker 2: the same thing as cheating if you're in love with 333 00:17:59,560 --> 00:18:03,280 Speaker 2: that first And love love is blind. It's not just 334 00:18:03,359 --> 00:18:06,639 Speaker 2: a TV show, it's an adage. Love is blind. 335 00:18:07,080 --> 00:18:10,760 Speaker 1: So what advice would you get if someone. 336 00:18:10,560 --> 00:18:13,520 Speaker 2: That I'm in love with someone who's in love with someone. 337 00:18:13,240 --> 00:18:16,119 Speaker 1: Else who's already in a relationship. 338 00:18:16,800 --> 00:18:20,320 Speaker 2: I would say, listen. If it were you, I'd say, Susan, 339 00:18:20,440 --> 00:18:24,080 Speaker 2: I love you to pieces and I'm you're crazy. I 340 00:18:24,080 --> 00:18:26,879 Speaker 2: would say, are you out of your mind? But I understand? 341 00:18:27,040 --> 00:18:29,880 Speaker 2: But you know what you do? You coin your phrase, 342 00:18:30,240 --> 00:18:32,560 Speaker 2: you have to do you. I wouldn't do it, That's 343 00:18:32,560 --> 00:18:34,800 Speaker 2: what I would say. I wouldn't do it. But it's 344 00:18:34,840 --> 00:18:37,479 Speaker 2: not my life, sweetie, it's your life. You have to 345 00:18:37,520 --> 00:18:42,000 Speaker 2: do what brings you happiness. And ultimately, people make their 346 00:18:42,040 --> 00:18:44,399 Speaker 2: own decisions. So I'm much more of a live and 347 00:18:44,480 --> 00:18:45,760 Speaker 2: let live girl than I used to. 348 00:18:46,040 --> 00:18:48,320 Speaker 1: And what if someone came and said, should I break 349 00:18:48,400 --> 00:18:51,240 Speaker 1: up with my partner? Even though I still love them. 350 00:18:51,520 --> 00:18:54,720 Speaker 2: We already we just talked about that about your your 351 00:18:54,840 --> 00:18:56,040 Speaker 2: your Frederick's daughter. 352 00:18:56,440 --> 00:18:58,760 Speaker 1: Yes, the answer is yes, but when. 353 00:18:58,720 --> 00:19:02,560 Speaker 2: No, young, answer is The answer is not telling someone 354 00:19:02,600 --> 00:19:03,040 Speaker 2: what to do. 355 00:19:03,119 --> 00:19:08,439 Speaker 1: The answer is asking you. If they ask you, what 356 00:19:08,560 --> 00:19:11,840 Speaker 1: would you do right? Or your advice, that is what 357 00:19:11,880 --> 00:19:12,359 Speaker 1: they're saying. 358 00:19:12,359 --> 00:19:16,720 Speaker 2: It's asking for your advice. And my advice always is now, 359 00:19:18,480 --> 00:19:21,920 Speaker 2: you have to do what brings you happiness and joy 360 00:19:22,000 --> 00:19:24,600 Speaker 2: and a decision that you can live with. It doesn't 361 00:19:24,680 --> 00:19:27,880 Speaker 2: matter what I would do, Susan, I'm not living your 362 00:19:27,960 --> 00:19:30,840 Speaker 2: life and that and that's me a long time to 363 00:19:30,840 --> 00:19:34,920 Speaker 2: get there, so you know, yeah, that's kind of where 364 00:19:34,960 --> 00:19:37,680 Speaker 2: I am. And I know it's hard. What's really hard 365 00:19:37,720 --> 00:19:41,280 Speaker 2: for me, Susan, And you know this is sitting back 366 00:19:41,720 --> 00:19:46,600 Speaker 2: and watching someone living. It's like watching a horror movie 367 00:19:46,640 --> 00:19:47,440 Speaker 2: in slow motion. 368 00:19:48,200 --> 00:19:50,399 Speaker 1: Kathy comes undone. 369 00:19:50,680 --> 00:19:52,800 Speaker 2: But you know what, I used to come undone and 370 00:19:52,840 --> 00:19:55,480 Speaker 2: say something. Now I just come undone, go pour myself 371 00:19:55,520 --> 00:19:57,240 Speaker 2: a drink and gets a bag of EM and M's 372 00:19:57,280 --> 00:19:59,280 Speaker 2: and wait for it to play out. 373 00:19:59,560 --> 00:20:02,280 Speaker 1: All right, let's get into our fan questions for today. 374 00:20:02,440 --> 00:20:06,520 Speaker 1: I'll start yourself with the first one. Okay, okay, Sydney writes, 375 00:20:07,000 --> 00:20:09,520 Speaker 1: my husband and I are trying to have a baby. 376 00:20:10,240 --> 00:20:15,840 Speaker 1: This would be our first. However, I have PCOS, so 377 00:20:15,880 --> 00:20:20,000 Speaker 1: I'm taking medication to help us, and it is amping 378 00:20:20,119 --> 00:20:24,400 Speaker 1: up my hormones and challenging my mental health. I don't 379 00:20:24,440 --> 00:20:27,920 Speaker 1: feel like I have much of a support system. I 380 00:20:28,000 --> 00:20:31,560 Speaker 1: feel like lately I can't even explain to my friends 381 00:20:31,920 --> 00:20:34,919 Speaker 1: about what's going on because I noticed they're not reaching 382 00:20:34,920 --> 00:20:38,679 Speaker 1: out to me, or if I try to approach the topic, 383 00:20:39,200 --> 00:20:43,520 Speaker 1: it quickly changed. I should mention none of my friends 384 00:20:43,560 --> 00:20:46,880 Speaker 1: are married, nor do they have kids, and the advice 385 00:20:46,920 --> 00:20:49,720 Speaker 1: for how to navigate this difficult and exciting time. 386 00:20:49,960 --> 00:20:53,760 Speaker 2: Okay, So for those of you who don't know PCOS 387 00:20:53,920 --> 00:20:58,520 Speaker 2: is polycystic ovarian syndrome. It's painful, it's not fun. There's 388 00:20:58,600 --> 00:21:02,520 Speaker 2: lots of side effects, care loss, screwing with your hormones. 389 00:21:02,880 --> 00:21:06,480 Speaker 2: It's a thing. But here's what I would say to you, said, Naith, 390 00:21:07,840 --> 00:21:12,280 Speaker 2: it doesn't matter in my opinion that your friends don't 391 00:21:12,320 --> 00:21:16,800 Speaker 2: have kids or aren't married. I think your situation you 392 00:21:16,880 --> 00:21:19,159 Speaker 2: need a support group. That's what I would say to you. 393 00:21:19,600 --> 00:21:23,359 Speaker 2: Ask your doctor where you can find a support group 394 00:21:23,600 --> 00:21:25,720 Speaker 2: for people who are going through what you're going through, 395 00:21:25,760 --> 00:21:29,200 Speaker 2: and online support group. Listen, you can find a group 396 00:21:29,240 --> 00:21:33,119 Speaker 2: for everything online and that would be a way to 397 00:21:33,200 --> 00:21:36,840 Speaker 2: help you. It's not a fun situation to be in, 398 00:21:38,119 --> 00:21:42,600 Speaker 2: and I love the fact that you say it is 399 00:21:42,640 --> 00:21:45,000 Speaker 2: an exciting time because you are trying to have a baby, 400 00:21:45,040 --> 00:21:47,520 Speaker 2: and of course you want to focus on that, but 401 00:21:47,640 --> 00:21:50,040 Speaker 2: you've got a tough road to navigate and you need 402 00:21:50,119 --> 00:21:53,520 Speaker 2: people to support you. And sometimes the people that support 403 00:21:53,640 --> 00:21:58,160 Speaker 2: us aren't necessarily our closest friends or our families when 404 00:21:58,200 --> 00:22:01,800 Speaker 2: we have a specific condition. What do you think is also. 405 00:22:02,200 --> 00:22:04,720 Speaker 1: Your hormones are all over the place and the medication 406 00:22:04,840 --> 00:22:08,560 Speaker 1: you're taking is making it even worse. But don't be 407 00:22:08,680 --> 00:22:12,000 Speaker 1: upset with your friends. Maybe they don't understand it right 408 00:22:12,400 --> 00:22:16,640 Speaker 1: so they avoid the subject. That's nothing against you. As 409 00:22:16,720 --> 00:22:21,119 Speaker 1: Cassy said, you do need someone to talk to. Sometimes 410 00:22:21,200 --> 00:22:23,720 Speaker 1: it is your spouse or your other half. Maybe he's 411 00:22:23,920 --> 00:22:26,200 Speaker 1: understanding a little more because. 412 00:22:26,320 --> 00:22:29,879 Speaker 2: And somebody sometimes it isn't. And sometimes you know, my 413 00:22:30,080 --> 00:22:34,359 Speaker 2: daughter when she first moved to Austin after grad school, 414 00:22:34,560 --> 00:22:39,200 Speaker 2: she went on Facebook for to find friends. Facebook has 415 00:22:39,240 --> 00:22:43,080 Speaker 2: groups for everything, so Sydney, I would encourage you get online. 416 00:22:43,119 --> 00:22:46,879 Speaker 2: Go to Facebook, see if you can find a support group. 417 00:22:47,160 --> 00:22:49,680 Speaker 2: And if nothing else, it's going to be a great 418 00:22:49,720 --> 00:22:51,199 Speaker 2: place to meet new friends. 419 00:22:51,600 --> 00:22:57,000 Speaker 3: My daughter, I'm wishing you, we're wishing you that this 420 00:22:57,080 --> 00:23:01,560 Speaker 3: situation resolves and that you get pregnant, because there's it's 421 00:23:01,600 --> 00:23:03,320 Speaker 3: it's a great it's a great time. 422 00:23:03,440 --> 00:23:07,359 Speaker 1: But I agree with Katy about the face group Facebook 423 00:23:07,400 --> 00:23:09,800 Speaker 1: group because my daughter, when she was having problem with 424 00:23:09,840 --> 00:23:13,760 Speaker 1: the implants like she's like ahead of she has so 425 00:23:13,960 --> 00:23:17,160 Speaker 1: many people that she talks to, she had hers taken out. 426 00:23:17,200 --> 00:23:19,600 Speaker 1: She was sick for three years and didn't know why. 427 00:23:19,800 --> 00:23:22,600 Speaker 1: So you're exactly right, Kathy. I think i'd start there 428 00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:24,160 Speaker 1: or therapy, you know. 429 00:23:24,960 --> 00:23:30,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean Facebook, online platforms. Ask your doctor and 430 00:23:30,119 --> 00:23:32,080 Speaker 2: we wish you all the best in deals with this 431 00:23:32,160 --> 00:23:35,199 Speaker 2: a really tough situation. Okay, you're ready to move on, 432 00:23:35,280 --> 00:23:36,200 Speaker 2: here's the next one. 433 00:23:36,359 --> 00:23:36,719 Speaker 1: Okay. 434 00:23:37,280 --> 00:23:39,440 Speaker 2: And by the way, Sidney, let us know we hope 435 00:23:39,440 --> 00:23:43,479 Speaker 2: that you get pregnant and we hope this situation resolves itself. Okay. 436 00:23:43,920 --> 00:23:48,520 Speaker 2: Anonymous rights, Hi, Kathy and Susan. I love your podcast. 437 00:23:48,960 --> 00:23:52,320 Speaker 2: I have never missed an episode. Well, wow, Anonymous, thank 438 00:23:52,359 --> 00:23:56,639 Speaker 2: you so much. I Oh, I know you have covered 439 00:23:56,720 --> 00:23:59,520 Speaker 2: issues with in laws in the past, and I'm having 440 00:23:59,560 --> 00:24:02,879 Speaker 2: some issue shoes with mine. My mother in law is 441 00:24:02,920 --> 00:24:06,080 Speaker 2: a pretty good grandmother to my children, but she isn't 442 00:24:06,119 --> 00:24:09,320 Speaker 2: so nice to me. For example, she has called a 443 00:24:09,440 --> 00:24:14,720 Speaker 2: shirt I wore hideous and joked that she wants to 444 00:24:14,880 --> 00:24:18,399 Speaker 2: murder my family and me. That's not a joke, okay, 445 00:24:19,000 --> 00:24:21,680 Speaker 2: said my baby's name is stupid in front of all 446 00:24:21,760 --> 00:24:24,840 Speaker 2: my guests at my baby shower. The list goes on 447 00:24:25,280 --> 00:24:28,080 Speaker 2: and on. My question to you, ladies is what do 448 00:24:28,119 --> 00:24:31,240 Speaker 2: I do going forward. I have tried every approach I 449 00:24:31,240 --> 00:24:33,720 Speaker 2: can think of. I have tried taking the high road. 450 00:24:34,160 --> 00:24:37,240 Speaker 2: I have tried simply defending myself and calling her out 451 00:24:37,280 --> 00:24:41,840 Speaker 2: on her bs. Nothing works. My husband said she has 452 00:24:41,880 --> 00:24:44,919 Speaker 2: had a difficult upbringing which causes her to have a 453 00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:48,480 Speaker 2: lack of social skills and there is no changing her. 454 00:24:48,800 --> 00:24:51,640 Speaker 2: He has tried talking to her as well. I'm at 455 00:24:51,640 --> 00:24:54,840 Speaker 2: a loss help. I wish one of you was my 456 00:24:54,920 --> 00:24:58,040 Speaker 2: mother in law. Love you gals, we do too. 457 00:24:58,240 --> 00:24:58,679 Speaker 1: Trust me. 458 00:24:58,800 --> 00:25:02,040 Speaker 2: WO take you on tomorrow. You can be mine? 459 00:25:02,440 --> 00:25:03,320 Speaker 1: So you trust me? 460 00:25:03,359 --> 00:25:07,000 Speaker 2: You're right. I had the mother in law and father 461 00:25:07,080 --> 00:25:10,600 Speaker 2: in law from hell and very similar story to you. 462 00:25:11,320 --> 00:25:15,800 Speaker 2: They loved my children, did not love me, and it 463 00:25:15,880 --> 00:25:18,439 Speaker 2: reallyps as Susan, and I told you it was really 464 00:25:18,440 --> 00:25:24,919 Speaker 2: difficult between my husband and me. My advice is try, 465 00:25:25,520 --> 00:25:27,920 Speaker 2: but you know what, if she's not going to change, 466 00:25:27,920 --> 00:25:30,640 Speaker 2: she's not going to change. Let your husband spend time 467 00:25:30,680 --> 00:25:34,080 Speaker 2: with her, drop the grandkids off, limit your time with her. 468 00:25:34,359 --> 00:25:38,119 Speaker 1: As she said, she tried taking the high road. Ye, 469 00:25:38,320 --> 00:25:43,560 Speaker 1: and she's tried defending herself and calling her out on 470 00:25:43,760 --> 00:25:47,919 Speaker 1: her bs. What about like at the baby shower and 471 00:25:47,960 --> 00:25:51,240 Speaker 1: she said it's stupid, And you say something like, well, 472 00:25:51,440 --> 00:25:55,560 Speaker 1: you're entitled to your opinion, keep it to yourself. We 473 00:25:55,640 --> 00:25:57,000 Speaker 1: don't care what you think. 474 00:25:57,480 --> 00:25:59,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, but you can't say that a baby shower. And 475 00:25:59,800 --> 00:26:02,239 Speaker 2: I tried those things with my mother in law and 476 00:26:02,280 --> 00:26:04,920 Speaker 2: it never worked. But I will say to you, I 477 00:26:04,960 --> 00:26:06,760 Speaker 2: have to take issue with something I. 478 00:26:06,680 --> 00:26:08,640 Speaker 1: Would her husband. 479 00:26:09,400 --> 00:26:11,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, you say that, Susan, Come on the girl. 480 00:26:11,480 --> 00:26:14,480 Speaker 1: She's going to be rude and embarrass me. Then you're 481 00:26:14,520 --> 00:26:16,320 Speaker 1: not welcome here. I'm sorry. 482 00:26:16,320 --> 00:26:19,800 Speaker 2: You want to years old, you're not you want to. 483 00:26:19,720 --> 00:26:23,760 Speaker 1: Go visit with your mom? She's not welcome here, not 484 00:26:23,920 --> 00:26:26,200 Speaker 1: if she's going to continue to embarrass her. 485 00:26:26,920 --> 00:26:29,920 Speaker 2: Well, here's what I'm going to say. It didn't work 486 00:26:29,920 --> 00:26:32,119 Speaker 2: that way for me, and it was too disruptive and 487 00:26:32,280 --> 00:26:35,240 Speaker 2: hard for my husband, even though it was an issue 488 00:26:35,240 --> 00:26:42,200 Speaker 2: between us. Here's what I will say. I don't buy 489 00:26:42,600 --> 00:26:46,760 Speaker 2: into you, hear me, I'm emphasizing this. You know, Susan, 490 00:26:47,560 --> 00:26:51,800 Speaker 2: I had a really tough upbringing. I was an abuse child. 491 00:26:52,440 --> 00:26:56,399 Speaker 2: I had no modeling to be a parent until I 492 00:26:56,440 --> 00:26:59,520 Speaker 2: moved in with my step mom and my dad. I 493 00:26:59,560 --> 00:27:02,800 Speaker 2: didn't know what was up. When I had children. It 494 00:27:02,960 --> 00:27:07,000 Speaker 2: was like WHOA. I could have been abusive and horrible 495 00:27:07,119 --> 00:27:09,479 Speaker 2: like my mother. But you know what I did. I 496 00:27:09,680 --> 00:27:14,840 Speaker 2: sat there and got therapy and made friends and spent 497 00:27:14,920 --> 00:27:17,480 Speaker 2: my life's work to be the best mom. Did I 498 00:27:17,520 --> 00:27:20,960 Speaker 2: make mistakes? Yes, So Anonymous, you need to tell your 499 00:27:21,080 --> 00:27:26,320 Speaker 2: husband from me. Just blame on me, Anonymous. Having a 500 00:27:26,440 --> 00:27:33,040 Speaker 2: tough upbringing blah blah blah is not an excuse. And 501 00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:36,879 Speaker 2: she has a lack of social skills. Perhaps your husband 502 00:27:37,000 --> 00:27:41,680 Speaker 2: might suggest that she gets some social skills. 503 00:27:41,960 --> 00:27:43,760 Speaker 1: He helped talking to her as well. 504 00:27:43,880 --> 00:27:47,440 Speaker 2: Yes, but otherwise otherwise you're going to end up where 505 00:27:47,440 --> 00:27:50,920 Speaker 2: I ended up. My husband took my mother in law 506 00:27:50,960 --> 00:27:53,920 Speaker 2: for lunch. He would go over there. I saw her 507 00:27:53,960 --> 00:27:54,600 Speaker 2: exactly what. 508 00:27:54,680 --> 00:27:57,359 Speaker 1: I said, Kathy let him go visit his mother and you, 509 00:27:57,480 --> 00:27:58,560 Speaker 1: but you can't. 510 00:27:58,240 --> 00:28:00,440 Speaker 2: Say at the baby shower, get out. 511 00:28:00,359 --> 00:28:03,199 Speaker 1: Of my baby shower. But if she tells me the 512 00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:08,040 Speaker 1: name I'm choosing is dam or stupid f you who 513 00:28:08,080 --> 00:28:09,520 Speaker 1: asked you, it's not your child. 514 00:28:10,040 --> 00:28:12,480 Speaker 2: Okay, I want to be at the baby shower, Susan 515 00:28:12,560 --> 00:28:15,680 Speaker 2: where at twenty dollars? Stay where? You say to your 516 00:28:15,680 --> 00:28:19,440 Speaker 2: mother in law if you the name is Jeremiah, whether 517 00:28:19,480 --> 00:28:21,760 Speaker 2: you like it or not, I want to be there. 518 00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:23,040 Speaker 2: I want to be there. 519 00:28:23,160 --> 00:28:28,080 Speaker 1: You're entitled to your opinion, dear, Now zip it there. 520 00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:31,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, listen, I'm the zip A queen. And I wouldn't 521 00:28:31,920 --> 00:28:33,600 Speaker 2: have said that to my mother in law. I just 522 00:28:33,720 --> 00:28:36,080 Speaker 2: chose to stay away. 523 00:28:36,440 --> 00:28:38,680 Speaker 1: And you know, me and Kathy would be your mother 524 00:28:38,720 --> 00:28:40,040 Speaker 1: in Law's easy, we'd be fine. 525 00:28:40,040 --> 00:28:42,920 Speaker 2: I will, Anonymous. I'm going to say one thing to you. 526 00:28:43,760 --> 00:28:47,320 Speaker 2: Do you know who the big loser hair is? Anonymous? 527 00:28:47,760 --> 00:28:52,120 Speaker 2: Your mother in law. She might be a great grandmother, 528 00:28:52,760 --> 00:28:56,720 Speaker 2: but your kids will sense that it's unfortunate. But you 529 00:28:56,760 --> 00:28:58,680 Speaker 2: know what you can only change in life what you 530 00:28:58,720 --> 00:29:01,640 Speaker 2: can change. Yes, So I'm sorry for you and Anonymous. 531 00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:03,840 Speaker 2: If things get really tough, you reach out to me. 532 00:29:03,920 --> 00:29:06,840 Speaker 2: I will be your mother in law, my son and 533 00:29:06,920 --> 00:29:09,600 Speaker 2: daughter in law. Sorry, my son in law and my 534 00:29:09,720 --> 00:29:11,480 Speaker 2: daughter in law say I'm the best, and I think 535 00:29:11,520 --> 00:29:13,080 Speaker 2: yours think the same with you too, Susan. 536 00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:15,320 Speaker 1: I wish you a lot, a lot of luck, and 537 00:29:15,360 --> 00:29:16,880 Speaker 1: you know what you're going to be on my mind. 538 00:29:17,200 --> 00:29:21,280 Speaker 1: I wish you patience and to be able to speak 539 00:29:21,320 --> 00:29:22,520 Speaker 1: your mind when you have to. 540 00:29:23,880 --> 00:29:26,840 Speaker 2: And I hope that you find a way to limit 541 00:29:26,880 --> 00:29:38,600 Speaker 2: your exposure to her, because you're not going to change her. Now, Okay, Susan, 542 00:29:39,320 --> 00:29:42,960 Speaker 2: Today we're going to be playing one of my favorites, 543 00:29:43,520 --> 00:29:48,760 Speaker 2: Truth or DRIC Paradise edition. We're going to switch off 544 00:29:49,040 --> 00:29:52,040 Speaker 2: reading the bats we're in Paradise prompt and we'll both 545 00:29:52,080 --> 00:29:55,320 Speaker 2: either answer or take a drink if we don't want 546 00:29:55,360 --> 00:29:57,880 Speaker 2: to answer, and I might take a drink even if 547 00:29:57,920 --> 00:30:01,280 Speaker 2: I do answer. Okay, I'm going to read the first one. 548 00:30:02,200 --> 00:30:06,640 Speaker 2: Who do you think went home too early and deserve 549 00:30:06,800 --> 00:30:08,600 Speaker 2: to come back to the beach? And I think we 550 00:30:08,640 --> 00:30:15,200 Speaker 2: could answer this in unison Nancy two three, Nancy absolutely, 551 00:30:15,760 --> 00:30:19,400 Speaker 2: I mean she was there so short twenty four hours. 552 00:30:19,440 --> 00:30:23,320 Speaker 1: Out of all the current couples, do you think anyone 553 00:30:23,400 --> 00:30:29,200 Speaker 1: is faking a physical connection? If yes, who, I don't 554 00:30:29,200 --> 00:30:31,040 Speaker 1: know what do you think, Well, I think since they 555 00:30:31,080 --> 00:30:37,400 Speaker 1: had added money to the game, quite possibly. I think 556 00:30:38,080 --> 00:30:42,480 Speaker 1: only half of a couple might be Come on, spit out, 557 00:30:42,520 --> 00:30:48,640 Speaker 1: give me names or drink Jeremy Well, Jeremy said, I 558 00:30:48,680 --> 00:30:51,959 Speaker 1: think Brian and Jeremy are both after the money I did. 559 00:30:53,280 --> 00:30:58,360 Speaker 1: But are they faking a physical connection? I think Brian maybe, Yeah, 560 00:30:58,400 --> 00:30:59,320 Speaker 1: he doesn't. 561 00:31:00,280 --> 00:31:01,240 Speaker 2: You're not your boat? 562 00:31:01,560 --> 00:31:03,080 Speaker 1: No, I guess what is that? 563 00:31:03,120 --> 00:31:08,560 Speaker 2: Truth? What about? What about drink? What? Any? Do you 564 00:31:08,560 --> 00:31:12,640 Speaker 2: think any Goldens are faking it? I mean, remember, I'm 565 00:31:12,680 --> 00:31:14,840 Speaker 2: not faking it because Keith and I have said from 566 00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:20,440 Speaker 2: the beginning, is anybody faking any of the Goldens faking it? 567 00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:23,720 Speaker 1: I don't think any of the Goldens are really. 568 00:31:25,120 --> 00:31:25,360 Speaker 2: Well. 569 00:31:25,440 --> 00:31:28,640 Speaker 1: Faith was making it a lot. I don't know. I 570 00:31:28,640 --> 00:31:29,080 Speaker 1: don't mind. 571 00:31:29,400 --> 00:31:36,160 Speaker 2: That's the next one here. If you could bring one 572 00:31:36,240 --> 00:31:41,160 Speaker 2: more bonus person to the beach to shake things up 573 00:31:42,040 --> 00:31:45,800 Speaker 2: that has not been on the season, who would you bring? 574 00:31:46,440 --> 00:31:46,800 Speaker 1: Hmmm? 575 00:31:51,320 --> 00:31:53,040 Speaker 2: Oh, how about. 576 00:31:55,000 --> 00:31:58,760 Speaker 1: Jordan's Jordans? 577 00:32:00,720 --> 00:32:02,240 Speaker 2: You mean for the Goldens? 578 00:32:02,480 --> 00:32:03,280 Speaker 1: Yeah? 579 00:32:03,400 --> 00:32:04,360 Speaker 2: Why do you say that? 580 00:32:05,120 --> 00:32:08,000 Speaker 1: Because I think he was a hot commodity and I 581 00:32:08,040 --> 00:32:11,480 Speaker 1: think Leslie would dump Gary. 582 00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:13,840 Speaker 2: Well, you know what I'm going to bring to that 583 00:32:14,080 --> 00:32:15,880 Speaker 2: let's let's see what we really think here. 584 00:32:16,440 --> 00:32:17,080 Speaker 1: How about you? 585 00:32:18,520 --> 00:32:21,920 Speaker 2: Well, I didn't think about the Goldens because so many 586 00:32:21,960 --> 00:32:26,000 Speaker 2: of them, you know, that's all. I also think they 587 00:32:26,000 --> 00:32:27,720 Speaker 2: should bring c K back. By the way, I think 588 00:32:27,720 --> 00:32:29,600 Speaker 2: he had two short a time on the beach, just 589 00:32:29,640 --> 00:32:31,840 Speaker 2: saying yeah, he's a bad one. I don't know one 590 00:32:31,880 --> 00:32:34,480 Speaker 2: bonus person. I think any of the young ones would 591 00:32:34,520 --> 00:32:39,960 Speaker 2: have been fun to stir things up. So really, any 592 00:32:40,240 --> 00:32:43,440 Speaker 2: any any of the young ones that got close? Oh 593 00:32:43,480 --> 00:32:49,680 Speaker 2: I know, ready, yeah, Maria from Joey's season, she would 594 00:32:49,680 --> 00:32:51,720 Speaker 2: have been great. I would want to spend. 595 00:32:53,720 --> 00:32:56,400 Speaker 1: Everyone that hit the beach this summer. Who do you 596 00:32:56,440 --> 00:32:58,040 Speaker 1: think came for the wrong reasons? 597 00:33:00,480 --> 00:33:03,479 Speaker 2: Well, clearly Jeremy and Brian, because they're in it just 598 00:33:03,480 --> 00:33:06,640 Speaker 2: for the money. I mean the minute that money was 599 00:33:06,680 --> 00:33:09,920 Speaker 2: mentioned and they were in it. I don't think I 600 00:33:09,960 --> 00:33:13,320 Speaker 2: think all of the Goldens, including myself, came for the 601 00:33:13,400 --> 00:33:17,720 Speaker 2: right reasons. We were all hoping to find love. But 602 00:33:17,800 --> 00:33:23,360 Speaker 2: I think based on what we're seeing on the TV, Jeremy. 603 00:33:22,840 --> 00:33:24,720 Speaker 1: Looked like they're ready to fall in love. I mean, 604 00:33:24,720 --> 00:33:27,440 Speaker 1: they're just in it to win it. And like I said, 605 00:33:27,480 --> 00:33:29,600 Speaker 1: since they added the money, it's a whole new ball game. 606 00:33:30,160 --> 00:33:31,840 Speaker 2: Do you do you think do you think Gary came 607 00:33:31,840 --> 00:33:32,280 Speaker 2: for love? 608 00:33:34,320 --> 00:33:37,800 Speaker 1: I would wanted to think that, yes, but now after 609 00:33:37,880 --> 00:33:40,760 Speaker 1: I've seen him play with all these women, I'm not 610 00:33:40,840 --> 00:33:43,360 Speaker 1: so sure. Yeah, I don't know. 611 00:33:43,640 --> 00:33:50,360 Speaker 2: Okay, who do you think had the worst luck in Paradise? 612 00:33:52,360 --> 00:33:53,720 Speaker 2: I can tell you how about me. 613 00:33:56,520 --> 00:34:03,400 Speaker 1: You will just find Kathys luck. Who are still in 614 00:34:03,400 --> 00:34:05,920 Speaker 1: a relationship that I don't think are going to make it? 615 00:34:07,040 --> 00:34:11,880 Speaker 2: Okay, Well that's that. Get like who Jeremy and Bailey. 616 00:34:11,600 --> 00:34:14,840 Speaker 1: Yes, you married? About Cat and Dale? 617 00:34:15,280 --> 00:34:18,440 Speaker 2: Cat and Dale? Yeah? I like them too. I don't know. 618 00:34:18,160 --> 00:34:20,720 Speaker 2: I'll tell you who I feel like had the worst 619 00:34:20,800 --> 00:34:26,560 Speaker 2: luck was Jill and Leah. Everybody put them in the 620 00:34:26,600 --> 00:34:29,760 Speaker 2: friend zone. Jonathan had the chance to have a relationship 621 00:34:29,800 --> 00:34:33,120 Speaker 2: with him and he kept, you know, not finding the one. 622 00:34:33,160 --> 00:34:35,920 Speaker 2: But Jill when she left saying I'm so tired of 623 00:34:35,960 --> 00:34:38,160 Speaker 2: being in the friend zone, my heart went out. 624 00:34:38,000 --> 00:34:41,239 Speaker 1: To her for her to what was the most shocking 625 00:34:41,320 --> 00:34:42,320 Speaker 1: moment thus. 626 00:34:42,120 --> 00:34:48,880 Speaker 2: Far, Oh that's easy, go ahead, when Jeremy said I 627 00:34:48,880 --> 00:34:52,040 Speaker 2: don't care about those golden send them home. Jeremy, I'm 628 00:34:52,080 --> 00:34:54,480 Speaker 2: coming for you, buddy. I know where you live, and 629 00:34:54,520 --> 00:34:56,640 Speaker 2: I am coming for you. 630 00:34:56,760 --> 00:35:00,239 Speaker 1: What did you think was a shocking moment? Actually, I'm 631 00:35:00,239 --> 00:35:05,360 Speaker 1: not shocked. But when April smelled the underwear, Oh god, oh. 632 00:35:05,280 --> 00:35:09,440 Speaker 2: I forgot that. Wait, April, what were you thinking? Not 633 00:35:09,480 --> 00:35:12,759 Speaker 2: only did you sniff his underwear, you stuck it in 634 00:35:12,800 --> 00:35:16,320 Speaker 2: your bra. Come on, April, Goldens have more class than that. 635 00:35:16,640 --> 00:35:18,120 Speaker 2: Good god, I'd forgotten that. 636 00:35:18,280 --> 00:35:21,040 Speaker 1: Oh my god. So, Kathy, who do you think has 637 00:35:21,080 --> 00:35:25,160 Speaker 1: displayed the biggest red flag thus far in this season? 638 00:35:26,640 --> 00:35:29,120 Speaker 2: You know, I hate to keep picking on Brian and Jeremy, 639 00:35:29,160 --> 00:35:33,640 Speaker 2: but I'm going to keep picking on him because I 640 00:35:33,719 --> 00:35:39,480 Speaker 2: think I just I feel like they're not there. Jeremy, 641 00:35:39,760 --> 00:35:43,239 Speaker 2: when you say you're there for money, but you but 642 00:35:43,320 --> 00:35:47,120 Speaker 2: you look like you're there for love, that's a problem. 643 00:35:47,560 --> 00:35:51,439 Speaker 2: I think. I think Kat and Dale I saw I'm 644 00:35:51,480 --> 00:35:59,440 Speaker 2: definitely looking for love. I think Alicia Alicia, I love her. 645 00:35:59,760 --> 00:36:01,799 Speaker 2: But it's a little bit of a red flag to me. 646 00:36:02,360 --> 00:36:07,000 Speaker 2: When you say I really want Dale, I want Dale, 647 00:36:07,200 --> 00:36:09,719 Speaker 2: and then he doesn't choose you, and then you say 648 00:36:09,880 --> 00:36:13,400 Speaker 2: I'm okay with losing Dale, I also cannot. I mean, 649 00:36:13,440 --> 00:36:15,120 Speaker 2: I got a lot of red flags waving around here, 650 00:36:15,160 --> 00:36:24,200 Speaker 2: don't I What about what about Jeremy saying that red 651 00:36:24,239 --> 00:36:27,240 Speaker 2: flag man. That is ten red flags and Crimson waving. 652 00:36:27,600 --> 00:36:30,000 Speaker 2: When he says he wished Susie came back, you would 653 00:36:30,000 --> 00:36:32,400 Speaker 2: have gotten on one knee and proposed to her, Bailey, 654 00:36:32,800 --> 00:36:35,400 Speaker 2: that is a red flag. Yes. 655 00:36:36,360 --> 00:36:41,120 Speaker 1: Do you think any of the couples are settling? What 656 00:36:41,160 --> 00:36:43,640 Speaker 1: do you think just to be together to stay on 657 00:36:43,680 --> 00:36:44,040 Speaker 1: the show? 658 00:36:44,640 --> 00:36:45,600 Speaker 2: Yes? What do you think? 659 00:36:45,760 --> 00:36:49,000 Speaker 1: I do who I do? And I once again, I 660 00:36:49,040 --> 00:36:51,720 Speaker 1: don't think it's a mutual thing. I think it's only 661 00:36:51,880 --> 00:36:58,760 Speaker 1: half because I feel like Jeremy is there to play 662 00:36:58,760 --> 00:37:02,480 Speaker 1: the game. I don't feel like after this is all over, 663 00:37:02,520 --> 00:37:04,640 Speaker 1: I think Bally's going to be crushed. But I don't 664 00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:09,279 Speaker 1: know anybody else. Kat and Dale, I don't know that 665 00:37:09,360 --> 00:37:12,440 Speaker 1: I trust it, although I do like them together. 666 00:37:12,840 --> 00:37:15,680 Speaker 2: Dale and Kat, Yeah, I like them together too. I 667 00:37:15,680 --> 00:37:19,319 Speaker 2: think Kat's got a little bit of you know, so far, 668 00:37:19,480 --> 00:37:24,240 Speaker 2: she seems like she's struggling to trust it and open 669 00:37:24,320 --> 00:37:26,040 Speaker 2: up right she doesn't. I think if she can get 670 00:37:26,080 --> 00:37:31,600 Speaker 2: past that, maybe YE do have a chance. I'm trying 671 00:37:31,600 --> 00:37:34,240 Speaker 2: to think cool. Do you think Getting the Goldens are selling? 672 00:37:36,120 --> 00:37:39,799 Speaker 1: Well? You couldn't really say settling now because you and 673 00:37:39,920 --> 00:37:42,880 Speaker 1: Teith it's not a love romance. It's a friendship, so 674 00:37:42,920 --> 00:37:44,080 Speaker 1: that doesn't even count. 675 00:37:44,160 --> 00:37:45,920 Speaker 2: What do you think about Leslie and Gary? 676 00:37:46,120 --> 00:37:49,040 Speaker 1: Leslie and Gary? I think Leslie would be in it 677 00:37:49,080 --> 00:37:53,040 Speaker 1: to win it, I really do, and no, no, no, 678 00:37:53,200 --> 00:37:57,200 Speaker 1: in a relationship. I think she would definitely want to 679 00:37:57,400 --> 00:38:00,560 Speaker 1: develop a relationship with him, although I don't think is 680 00:38:01,520 --> 00:38:02,879 Speaker 1: really true. I don't. 681 00:38:03,000 --> 00:38:05,120 Speaker 2: What do you think about Kim and Faith. 682 00:38:05,440 --> 00:38:09,600 Speaker 1: I think Kim's going to be crushed because Faith is 683 00:38:09,680 --> 00:38:13,560 Speaker 1: in it right now that I see, especially after the 684 00:38:13,600 --> 00:38:17,120 Speaker 1: other night's episode, because they talked about things that were 685 00:38:17,160 --> 00:38:21,680 Speaker 1: really important and they felt each other. I'll never forget 686 00:38:21,680 --> 00:38:25,040 Speaker 1: when Nancy when they who was it that shared with 687 00:38:25,160 --> 00:38:29,760 Speaker 1: Nancy about the death of his wife and how upset 688 00:38:29,840 --> 00:38:31,720 Speaker 1: she became. She really paid attention. 689 00:38:33,760 --> 00:38:34,600 Speaker 2: I can't remember. 690 00:38:34,840 --> 00:38:36,399 Speaker 1: I don't know who she was talking with. 691 00:38:37,880 --> 00:38:41,960 Speaker 2: It was really and oh do you mean wait, are 692 00:38:42,000 --> 00:38:46,160 Speaker 2: you talking about Kim? Kim lost Kim? Okay, yes, yes, 693 00:38:46,360 --> 00:38:50,239 Speaker 2: Nancy was talking to Kim. But here's the thing. Is 694 00:38:50,360 --> 00:38:55,280 Speaker 2: Kim settling or is Faith settling? Because remember Kim wrote 695 00:38:55,280 --> 00:38:57,799 Speaker 2: a poem for Leslie and that didn't work out so 696 00:38:57,920 --> 00:38:58,719 Speaker 2: well and. 697 00:38:58,640 --> 00:39:01,319 Speaker 1: Then he was fine love and if this one, don't worry, 698 00:39:01,360 --> 00:39:02,760 Speaker 1: So that settling. 699 00:39:02,440 --> 00:39:04,120 Speaker 2: Just settling for anyone who will take you. 700 00:39:04,280 --> 00:39:07,080 Speaker 1: I mean, not only to me, means they're together and 701 00:39:08,840 --> 00:39:11,759 Speaker 1: it wasn't really what they wanted, but they'll settle for this. 702 00:39:11,960 --> 00:39:15,839 Speaker 2: It's not or or does it mean that nobody wants 703 00:39:15,880 --> 00:39:17,239 Speaker 2: me and I'll take anybody you want? 704 00:39:17,320 --> 00:39:23,000 Speaker 1: It could whatever, tells Kim. When Jeremy said he didn't 705 00:39:23,440 --> 00:39:27,640 Speaker 1: like the Goldens being in Paradise, mine literally dropped. 706 00:39:28,840 --> 00:39:32,160 Speaker 2: Hey, your mouth. I spent a lot of time with him. 707 00:39:32,239 --> 00:39:35,239 Speaker 2: I told you I had to rewind the TV, like, 708 00:39:35,360 --> 00:39:37,839 Speaker 2: I don't care if the Goldens go home. I don't, 709 00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:39,480 Speaker 2: you know, I don't. I don't like them. Bean here, 710 00:39:39,480 --> 00:39:43,200 Speaker 2: I don't care like Jeremy. Let me just tell you something. 711 00:39:44,200 --> 00:39:46,799 Speaker 2: When you open your mouth and say things like that, 712 00:39:47,280 --> 00:39:50,160 Speaker 2: there are a lot of us Goldens who are not happy. 713 00:39:50,760 --> 00:39:53,279 Speaker 1: And it's not one to tell you the truth because 714 00:39:53,280 --> 00:39:57,320 Speaker 1: I'm on the outside looking in. Okay, when the show started, 715 00:39:57,360 --> 00:40:01,040 Speaker 1: I watched okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, And when the gold arrived, 716 00:40:01,239 --> 00:40:04,040 Speaker 1: it changed that. It brought life to the show. It 717 00:40:04,160 --> 00:40:09,239 Speaker 1: was exciting meeting and seeing everybody like yeah, so shut. 718 00:40:09,000 --> 00:40:12,399 Speaker 2: Your mouth, yeah, Jeremy, thank you. I mean you heard 719 00:40:12,440 --> 00:40:14,960 Speaker 2: it from Susan and everything that comes out of Susan's mouth. 720 00:40:15,000 --> 00:40:15,960 Speaker 2: It's worth listening to. 721 00:40:16,239 --> 00:40:17,480 Speaker 1: Hello Jeremy. 722 00:40:17,640 --> 00:40:22,319 Speaker 2: Hey Susan, listening to Jeremy shut into your mouth, tell 723 00:40:22,400 --> 00:40:27,560 Speaker 2: him zip at Jeremy, you have it. I told you. 724 00:40:27,880 --> 00:40:29,880 Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, that was so much fun. Thank you 725 00:40:30,000 --> 00:40:33,520 Speaker 1: to all our listeners for joining us today, and. 726 00:40:33,560 --> 00:40:36,520 Speaker 2: Be sure to follow Bachelor Happy Hour because we do 727 00:40:36,560 --> 00:40:40,240 Speaker 2: have new episode episodes coming out every week. You won't 728 00:40:40,239 --> 00:40:43,080 Speaker 2: want to miss it. This would be ripped on Jeremy 729 00:40:43,080 --> 00:40:45,560 Speaker 2: and Brian next week who knows? Who knows. 730 00:40:45,960 --> 00:40:48,719 Speaker 1: Make sure you keep submitting your questions to us. You 731 00:40:48,760 --> 00:40:51,160 Speaker 1: know how to do it. Go to Bachelor Nation dot com, 732 00:40:51,160 --> 00:40:55,600 Speaker 1: Slash Golden Hour, or DMS or Instagram at Bachelor Happy Hour. 733 00:40:56,200 --> 00:40:59,879 Speaker 2: Listen to Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour on the iHeartRadio 734 00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:03,759 Speaker 2: app or wherever you listen to your podcasts until next week. 735 00:41:04,080 --> 00:41:07,120 Speaker 2: I have a great guy. 736 00:41:09,280 --> 00:41:09,680 Speaker 3: Mm hmm