WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Free And Cheap Date

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<v Speaker 1>Second dat up day. Dating can be very expensive. That's

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<v Speaker 1>why you shouldn't do it. No, but if you have

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<v Speaker 1>to date, you should find a way to do it

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<v Speaker 1>spending as little money as possible. And that's what Joseph did.

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<v Speaker 1>Who's on the phone for a second date up date today?

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<v Speaker 1>His email said that he found some awesome cheap date

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<v Speaker 1>ideas because he didn't want to spend a bunch of

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<v Speaker 1>cash on a first date. That's great, and it sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like it worked okay, except he's not getting a call back.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up, Joseph, how are you? I'm good? How are

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<v Speaker 1>you all right? Pretty good? So you came up with

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<v Speaker 1>a bunch of cheap date ideas. Yeah, I'm kind in

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<v Speaker 1>between jobs right now. So I'm just trying to say

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<v Speaker 1>about money, you know, because bill still happen. I think

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<v Speaker 1>that's fantastic. You don't need a lot of money to

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<v Speaker 1>woo a woman at all. Well, I mean, I think

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<v Speaker 1>it helps, but I got to it's never a bad

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<v Speaker 1>thing necessarily. What's the name of the girl that you

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<v Speaker 1>want to call today, Stephanie, Stephanie? And where'd you meet her? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't delete my dating app just because I was

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not working, and so she sent me a message

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<v Speaker 1>and she was really pretty and like the way her

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<v Speaker 1>hair framed her face. So I took a chance. And

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<v Speaker 1>you like the way that hair framed her face? Yeah? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it really makes her eyes pop. She's got these pretty

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<v Speaker 1>blue eyes. You are so cute or a hair stylist,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not sure. Yeah, not against hair stylist, but I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not that. But you've noticed that her hair framed her

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<v Speaker 1>face nightless? Is that was that your opening line? I'd

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<v Speaker 1>go for it, man, I'm sure I brought that up. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's fantastic. So I mean, what was your

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<v Speaker 1>cheap date idea? Well, I googled like free and cheap dates,

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<v Speaker 1>and as I read the things that came up, I

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<v Speaker 1>decided to come by in a few of them to

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<v Speaker 1>make it like one cool date. Okay, So I invited

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<v Speaker 1>her to like walk around this neighborhood, right, but not

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<v Speaker 1>like someplace that has a bunch of shops in places

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<v Speaker 1>she might want to go and spend money, but like houses,

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<v Speaker 1>like pretty houses and stuff. Wait, you like a residential

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<v Speaker 1>neighborhood totally like people, I mean rich people's yards, and

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<v Speaker 1>they're in their houses. Okay, So he walked around basically

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<v Speaker 1>casing rich people's homes in case you ever wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>rob them later. Yeah, you know, we would try car

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<v Speaker 1>door handles to see if they were open and see

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<v Speaker 1>what he said. No, I'm kidding, I'm kidding. We didn't

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<v Speaker 1>do that. She seemed to enjoy that. I thought she

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<v Speaker 1>was having a great time. She was smiling a lot

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<v Speaker 1>and laughing at I could feel like she was like

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<v Speaker 1>holding back her laughter because she didn't want to be

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<v Speaker 1>too excited. I don't know, but we had a really

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<v Speaker 1>good time. Wait wait, wait, so wait the date was

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<v Speaker 1>walking around rich people's houses. No, that was just the

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<v Speaker 1>first part, okay, because it just so happened that at

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<v Speaker 1>the end of the neighborhood walk, we came upon this

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<v Speaker 1>park where there were a free concert. Nice, and so

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<v Speaker 1>we listened to these old ladies were saying. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>they were probably professionals at some point, but they weren't

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<v Speaker 1>like famous or anything. They watched old people singing a park. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was mostly old people around or like families

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<v Speaker 1>with some kids, and it was pretty cool and like

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<v Speaker 1>nothing was by accident. You know, I planned all of this.

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<v Speaker 1>I knew exactly you went to start walking through the

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<v Speaker 1>neighborhood and when we would finish so that the concert

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<v Speaker 1>would be starting up. And I obviously acted like I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know. The free dates a lot more effort and

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<v Speaker 1>planning than when there you've just spend money and go

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<v Speaker 1>out to eat. Yeah, I mean, I mean it was

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<v Speaker 1>like a work of art, just as a free work

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<v Speaker 1>of art. It sounds like a lovely date. I thought,

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<v Speaker 1>So you guys do anything else? Or was that the

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<v Speaker 1>whole date? No? No, Well then there was a farmer's

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<v Speaker 1>market at the park. It's famous for having free sample Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so we's made the tour of the farmer's market and

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<v Speaker 1>got like a couple of plates for appetizers, an free everything. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it couldn't have been a better free date.

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<v Speaker 1>She couldn't ask for more. All right, Well, why do

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<v Speaker 1>you think she's not calling you back? Then? I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>This is what I think it is, she said. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't remember what she said because that wasn't but it

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<v Speaker 1>was something that made me laugh, and I said, I

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<v Speaker 1>love you. What wait, I thought this whole time we

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<v Speaker 1>were harper on the free date, because that's why you

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<v Speaker 1>thought she wasn't calling you back nothing. You dropped the elbow,

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<v Speaker 1>But I didn't mean it like that. I was just

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<v Speaker 1>like it just like came out of me because I

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<v Speaker 1>was enjoying her personality and her sense of humor. O

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<v Speaker 1>my god, what did you do? Were you backpedally like crazy? No,

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<v Speaker 1>because it's sort of like ended the conversation. Usually it

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<v Speaker 1>does if you're on a first date and you tell

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<v Speaker 1>somebody you love them anything about it or she didn't

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<v Speaker 1>like show any facial reaction, but we just kind of

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<v Speaker 1>moved on. Oh my god. I wanted to say some thing,

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<v Speaker 1>but I didn't want to. Also didn't like I want

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<v Speaker 1>to offend her, like make her feel bad, like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>just kidding, I actually don't have affection for you, because

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<v Speaker 1>I did, but it was what I wouldn't said, I

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<v Speaker 1>love you? Like what else could it be? That has

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<v Speaker 1>to be it? Right? I would hope not. But that's

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<v Speaker 1>all I can make of. Did you ever recover from it?

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<v Speaker 1>Or was how the how did everything end? The rest

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<v Speaker 1>of the day was Okay, it was great up until

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<v Speaker 1>that point. There was effort made after that, clearly, but

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't the same, right, okay, And you haven't heard

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<v Speaker 1>from her since your date. We've texted a little bit,

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<v Speaker 1>but it looks like it's not going at all, and

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<v Speaker 1>you haven't brought up the I love you a moment

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<v Speaker 1>at all. No, I haven't. Okay, Okay, tell her again

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<v Speaker 1>and just tell her that you meant it, ye, double down?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Well we'll play a song come back and

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<v Speaker 1>then call her and see if the fact that you

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<v Speaker 1>said I love you on your first date is the

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<v Speaker 1>reason you're not getting a call back. All right, thank you?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, get your second day update right after this,

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<v Speaker 1>looking jubil in the morning. Second if you're just joining

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<v Speaker 1>us for today's second date update. Joseph is on the phone,

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<v Speaker 1>and Joseph opened up his heart on his first date,

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<v Speaker 1>told his date that he loves her, and it was

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<v Speaker 1>just followed by silence. So the most hurt Joseph has

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<v Speaker 1>ever felt in his life. Can he recover and get

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<v Speaker 1>a second date? We're about to find out, Joe, you're

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<v Speaker 1>doing all right? Can I just first just clarify maybe

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't clear before that, I did not mean to

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<v Speaker 1>say I love her. Yeah, we got it. We got it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how love works sometimes, and loves a cold thing,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. I meant to say, like you have a

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<v Speaker 1>great sinse of humor, and what came out was I

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<v Speaker 1>love you. Joseph accidentally did say I love you, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>not like I painted the picture earlier, but he did

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<v Speaker 1>let that out, and he thinks that's why he's not

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<v Speaker 1>getting a callback. So we're about to call Stephanie, the

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<v Speaker 1>girl who went on a date with, and find out

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<v Speaker 1>if that was what did him in. I do think

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<v Speaker 1>where you went isn't the accidental I love you, it's

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<v Speaker 1>the never backtracking from it, because you tried to just

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<v Speaker 1>skip over it and move on and you've never broughten

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<v Speaker 1>it up. I was worried of putting my foot in

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<v Speaker 1>my mouth further and digging a deeper hole. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>but I think now we have to tell her like,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not what you meant, right I think? So? Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Well I'm gonna dollar phone of it right

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<v Speaker 1>now and see if we can figure it out. Here

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<v Speaker 1>we go, Hello, he all right, May I speak to Stephanie? Please?

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<v Speaker 1>This is Stephanie. Hey, Stephanie. How are you? This is

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<v Speaker 1>Jewbil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Hello, Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>Hi Stephanie, how are you? Um? What is Brooke and

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<v Speaker 1>jew BWL. It's a radio show. It's called Brook and

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<v Speaker 1>Jewel in the Morning. Okay, okay, And I'm calling you

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<v Speaker 1>today because we have a listener who sent us an

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<v Speaker 1>email asking if we could get you on the phone. What. Ye,

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<v Speaker 1>his name is Joseph and no no, no, no no, no

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<v Speaker 1>no no, yeah yeah yeah, yeah yeah Joseph and you

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<v Speaker 1>guys went on a date a little while ago. Yes, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so Joseph email. That's because he says that it's obvious

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<v Speaker 1>after your date that you don't want to see him again. Yeah. Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>it's all true. God, did you I mean, did you

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<v Speaker 1>like Joseph? I mean maybe feel really pretty? Uh went

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<v Speaker 1>to a little farmer's market, which was cute. Um, but

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<v Speaker 1>that um, like pretty much out of nowhere. He was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I love you. Yeah. He told us that that sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like it was a super awkward moment. Yeah. I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>just the rest of the day it was really tense awkward.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it because you love him too? Oh my god? No,

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<v Speaker 1>he said he meant it like I mean, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you've been in that moment where you like laughing, You're like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, I love you, like you're so funny.

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<v Speaker 1>Like that's how he meant it. At the time. I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't really he was so upset, Like he honestly started

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<v Speaker 1>like muttering to himself. Um, and he just it was

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<v Speaker 1>so sad. I don't know. Wait, and like after he

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<v Speaker 1>said I love you, he started talking to himself. He

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<v Speaker 1>would just like, come on, Joseph, I don't know, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't it was it was fun. But then the next

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<v Speaker 1>day he texted me and he said that the day

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<v Speaker 1>was really nice, which was great. Um. And then you know,

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<v Speaker 1>he told me that he brought up that he was

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<v Speaker 1>between jobs. Yeah, he said, he told you that actually

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<v Speaker 1>where you guys were out. Yeah, and I didn't, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't really mind because I know this stuff happened.

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<v Speaker 1>But he told me that things got really tough. And

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<v Speaker 1>then he texted me asking if he could move in

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<v Speaker 1>what who He said, I love you on accident, but

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<v Speaker 1>he asked you to move in on and he was

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<v Speaker 1>serious about that. Uh. I think he thought we had

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<v Speaker 1>some a special connection. Oh my god. I think he

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<v Speaker 1>was like tired of couch surfing, and um, this was it.

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<v Speaker 1>He did not tell us any of this. Great, but

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<v Speaker 1>you can understand why I wouldn't want to go out

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<v Speaker 1>with him, right. Did you even respond to him after

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<v Speaker 1>he asked to move in? No, wouldn't either. That's crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>We are so yeah, I was guessing you said no,

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<v Speaker 1>since we're calling you for a second date. Update. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think I'm a bad person. I just don't

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<v Speaker 1>need like another roommate. Oh my god. And I now

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even believe him when he said that he

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<v Speaker 1>was joking when I said I love you, Now I

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<v Speaker 1>think that he was like really serious. Oh no, he

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<v Speaker 1>like loved my hair and he it was just a

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<v Speaker 1>little creepy now that I think about it. Um, it

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<v Speaker 1>was just like so into me. Did he give you

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<v Speaker 1>a reason why he wanted to move in? Well, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he was telling me about how he's like in between

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<v Speaker 1>jobs and he's having a really hard time finding another one.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's like if it's already, if he's already but

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<v Speaker 1>play for so many months, like how long will he

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<v Speaker 1>need to live with me? We can find it out

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<v Speaker 1>right now because he's actually on the other line listening

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<v Speaker 1>and wants to talk to you. What do you mean?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean he's listening to this conversation and wants to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to you, maybe about moving in again. I don't know. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna say anything different. Okay, but he is here.

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<v Speaker 1>I think he's still listening. Joseph. Are you there? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm here, Joseph. You didn't tell us that you asked

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<v Speaker 1>her to move in? Yeah? Why would not? I TechEd

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<v Speaker 1>her like how is she doing? And she was like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh fine, how are you? And I say, oh, looking,

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<v Speaker 1>kind of need a place to stay for a few days.

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<v Speaker 1>So you asked her I'm moving in And she wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>the only person who got that text. What I mean

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<v Speaker 1>you asked me to move in? It kind of sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like you want to move in with me. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I could. I see how you could jump

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<v Speaker 1>to that conclusion, but maybe you should have sought clarification

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<v Speaker 1>before you did. Dude, our date even wasn't that good.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. It's like I could have don't ask

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<v Speaker 1>a girl to move in after one date. Stop saying

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<v Speaker 1>I asked to move in? I didn't, Yeah, and you

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<v Speaker 1>just blamed her like, well, you should have asked for clarification.

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<v Speaker 1>I think you're the one in the wrong here, Joseph. Whatever, Look,

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<v Speaker 1>the point is I didn't want to move in with her,

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<v Speaker 1>and I found a place to stay with somebody else

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<v Speaker 1>that I used to date, and I stopped on the

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<v Speaker 1>couch and we didn't have sex. And why are you

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<v Speaker 1>explaining all that one bad date? Yeah? Why are you

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<v Speaker 1>talking about other girlfriends right now? I mean, I just

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<v Speaker 1>don't know understand why you're making such a big deal

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<v Speaker 1>about just putting feelers out to see if maybe I

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<v Speaker 1>could crash there for a few days. Maybe because you'd

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<v Speaker 1>gone on one date with her and it didn't even

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<v Speaker 1>go that well. I don't really know her. We didn't

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<v Speaker 1>go well, it went great. She said she had a

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<v Speaker 1>good time. I had a really good time. Everybody had

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<v Speaker 1>a good time. So I understand. Yeah, So why wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>you be living in together? Yeah? Yeah, because if you

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<v Speaker 1>already told me that you loved me, and then the

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<v Speaker 1>next day you asked to move in, it's just too

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<v Speaker 1>weird for me. But it's just two times when I

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<v Speaker 1>meant one thing and you took it as meaning something else.

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<v Speaker 1>What did you mean if you didn't mean I love you?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, like I love you like I love the

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<v Speaker 1>way you just told that joke that was funny and

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<v Speaker 1>match my sense of humor. And then you were quiet

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<v Speaker 1>for like half an hour after that. I got I

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<v Speaker 1>got nervous. I knew I had said somebody well, I

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<v Speaker 1>knew that. I confused, and and then I got I

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<v Speaker 1>was okay. I don't know. Wait, Joseph, are you even

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<v Speaker 1>going out with people to like date them or are

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<v Speaker 1>you just looking for random places to stay? This this

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<v Speaker 1>was not that it didn't date her, just because I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted someplace to stay. And yes, like I've been in

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<v Speaker 1>the situation before, so I have places that I can stay,

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<v Speaker 1>Like it's not a big deal. I'm just waiting for

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<v Speaker 1>the right job so that has the flexibility so I

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<v Speaker 1>can do the music and whatever. I don't know, Just

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<v Speaker 1>the more I think about it, like you put so

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<v Speaker 1>much effort into that date and then you said I

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<v Speaker 1>love you and then you asked me to move in,

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<v Speaker 1>it just doesn't seem like you care about me so

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<v Speaker 1>much as you care about my couch. I crash, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>So I understand how you could from all that make

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<v Speaker 1>that make that conclusion. And I just think that if

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<v Speaker 1>you still want to consider that we could go out

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<v Speaker 1>again and it might not be a bad thing for

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<v Speaker 1>you if I stayed with you. I cook a clean

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a person to have a round and h you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not like I'm not dead weight. Well, you just

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<v Speaker 1>told me you're staying with an ex girlfriend. Are you

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<v Speaker 1>seriously asking me to move in again? First, she's not

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<v Speaker 1>my eth girlfriend. We just dated once and then that's it.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, you called her your girlfriend. I don't,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm not asking to move in with you. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>saying that it might be beneficial to you if Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, what do you think, Stephanie, would you like

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<v Speaker 1>to go on a second date with Joseph? We will

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<v Speaker 1>pay for it. New roommate. He does the dishes. I

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<v Speaker 1>do you do laundry? Joseph? Yeah, and I know how

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<v Speaker 1>to separate everything. I will say a roommate is hard

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<v Speaker 1>to come by, one that pulls their own weight. What

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<v Speaker 1>do you think, Stephanie, Will you go off on a

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<v Speaker 1>second date with Joseph? Will pay for it? No, I've

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<v Speaker 1>got roommates. No, thank you. Yeah, that is not shocking.

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<v Speaker 1>Your roommates want to go on a date. I hope

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<v Speaker 1>you're joking right now. I don't think he is. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't feel so forget about it. It It wasn't gonna

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<v Speaker 1>work anyway, Sorry, Bark, wasn't there got a couch to

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<v Speaker 1>sleep on anyway. I'm sorry, Joseph. No second date for you,

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<v Speaker 1>no place to crash. That's okay, I'll be fine. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure. God loves me and God loves you too.

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<v Speaker 1>The person listening that's the most sad to this is

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<v Speaker 1>the person he's living with currently. She thought, he's fine,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna leave broken jewel in the morning, talking