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Speaker 1: Second dat up day. Dating can be very expensive. That's

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Speaker 1: why you shouldn't do it. No, but if you have

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Speaker 1: to date, you should find a way to do it

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Speaker 1: spending as little money as possible. And that's what Joseph did.

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Speaker 1: Who's on the phone for a second date up date today?

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Speaker 1: His email said that he found some awesome cheap date

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Speaker 1: cash on a first date. That's great, and it sounds

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Speaker 1: What's up, Joseph, how are you? I'm good? How are

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Speaker 1: you all right? Pretty good? So you came up with

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Speaker 1: a bunch of cheap date ideas. Yeah, I'm kind in

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Speaker 1: that's fantastic. You don't need a lot of money to

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Speaker 1: want to call today, Stephanie, Stephanie? And where'd you meet her? Well,

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Speaker 1: I think it's fantastic. So I mean, what was your

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Speaker 1: cheap date idea? Well, I googled like free and cheap dates,

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Speaker 1: and as I read the things that came up, I

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Speaker 1: her to like walk around this neighborhood, right, but not

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Speaker 1: walking around rich people's houses. No, that was just the

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Speaker 1: we go, Hello, he all right, May I speak to Stephanie? Please?

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Speaker 1: This is Stephanie. Hey, Stephanie. How are you? This is

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Speaker 1: Jewbil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Hello, Hello,

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Speaker 1: Hi Stephanie, how are you? Um? What is Brooke and

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Speaker 1: Jewel in the Morning. Okay, okay, And I'm calling you

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Speaker 1: what who He said, I love you on accident, but

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Speaker 1: he asked to move in? No, wouldn't either. That's crazy.

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Speaker 1: I think he's still listening. Joseph. Are you there? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm here, Joseph. You didn't tell us that you asked

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Speaker 1: her like how is she doing? And she was like,

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Speaker 1: So you asked her I'm moving in And she wasn't

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Speaker 1: I don't know. It's like I could have don't ask

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Speaker 1: I asked to move in? I didn't, Yeah, and you

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Speaker 1: I think you're the one in the wrong here, Joseph. Whatever, Look,

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Speaker 1: the point is I didn't want to move in with her,

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Speaker 1: What did you mean if you didn't mean I love you?

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Speaker 1: I mean, like I love you like I love the

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Speaker 1: way you just told that joke that was funny and

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Speaker 1: Like it's not a big deal. I'm just waiting for

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Speaker 1: So I understand how you could from all that make

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Speaker 1: I'm not like I'm not dead weight. Well, you just

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, you called her your girlfriend. I don't,

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Speaker 1: my god, what do you think, Stephanie, would you like

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Speaker 1: to go on a second date with Joseph? We will

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Speaker 1: pay for it. New roommate. He does the dishes. I

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Speaker 1: do you do laundry? Joseph? Yeah, and I know how

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Speaker 1: do you think, Stephanie, Will you go off on a

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Speaker 1: second date with Joseph? Will pay for it? No, I've

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Speaker 1: got roommates. No, thank you. Yeah, that is not shocking.

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Speaker 1: you're joking right now. I don't think he is. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't feel so forget about it. It It wasn't gonna

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Speaker 1: work anyway, Sorry, Bark, wasn't there got a couch to

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Speaker 1: I'm sure. God loves me and God loves you too.

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Speaker 1: The person listening that's the most sad to this is

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Speaker 1: the person he's living with currently. She thought, he's fine,

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