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Speaker 1: Whatever you like. It's t I on one or two

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Speaker 1: point seven. You're on Kiss FM, Ryan Seacrats, Sissoning and

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Speaker 1: Tanya with you on this Friday morning. My coffee was

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Speaker 1: perfect this morning. I don't want to brag, but sometimes

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Speaker 1: I make it, you know, I like it really strong. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I drink it very strong in black. Sometimes I screw

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Speaker 1: up and it goes weak. I don't know what happens.

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Speaker 1: Or sometimes I make it, I do drip and it overflows.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what happened. Anyway, this morning it was

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Speaker 1: like so on. I wanted to tell y'all. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: can see it in your energy. Yeah, I feel I

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Speaker 1: have a little pep in my stuff. In the way

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Speaker 1: you did your hair this morning. Yeah, right, already spiked

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Speaker 1: it all up. Oh yeah, a lot of jail today.

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Speaker 1: I would have noticed if I were you to me,

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Speaker 1: I would have noticed that early. Taken. Now, I'm really

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Speaker 1: good about trying to notice stuff out of the game.

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Speaker 1: You guys take hours whatever I mean, right, but you

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Speaker 1: know when you come in camera ready, you like I

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Speaker 1: noticed right away, like you're camera ready. I'm not really

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Speaker 1: camera ready. So I noticed now not right away? Report here,

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Speaker 1: let's go. Yes, So if you guys had to pick one,

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Speaker 1: would you pick career or love? Depends on how old

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Speaker 1: I am right now, racks my answers in twenties, in

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Speaker 1: my thirties, easy in my early forties, and murky now

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Speaker 1: no interesting okay, And I do think age plays a

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Speaker 1: role in this. But I will tell you why I

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Speaker 1: bring it up. So, Jenna Ortego was on an interview

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Speaker 1: should interview with Armchair Expert podcast, which I love, shout

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Speaker 1: out to that podcast. So she said she isn't dating,

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Speaker 1: and it's for two reasons. One she said, I'm not

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Speaker 1: ready to be that vulnerable or trusting with someone. And

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Speaker 1: the second reason I found very interesting. She said, if

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Speaker 1: there's one thing I'm going to focus on, which is

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Speaker 1: probably something I need to change, it's going to be

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Speaker 1: my work. And this reminded me of an interview with

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Speaker 1: my loo vent Amilia that I read a few years back,

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Speaker 1: when he said the exact same thing. He said, everything

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Speaker 1: is second position to work everything. So first I was

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Speaker 1: going to say Jess that Jenna date Milo, but then

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Speaker 1: I realized she's twenty and he's forty five, so I

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Speaker 1: nixed that suggestion. But I do find it interesting and

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Speaker 1: especially when you're younger, because I feel like the mentality

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Speaker 1: is you have the rest of your life to focus

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Speaker 1: on love, and if your career is hot and booming

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Speaker 1: and you're like doing things, it's smart to focus on

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Speaker 1: that because you can always have love later in life.

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Speaker 1: But the Milo thing is so interesting because he said

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Speaker 1: this only a few years ago, so he's in his forties.

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Speaker 1: This is never fair because she's had a chance to

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Speaker 1: really debate all this in her head and go back

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Speaker 1: and think about it now. A couple of things that

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Speaker 1: I'm just gonna touch on the fact that you remember

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Speaker 1: a Milo podcast from three years ago. I don't know

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Speaker 1: if I could. Yeah. No, second of all, why in

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Speaker 1: the world would you start trying to set people up

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Speaker 1: you don't even know? Well? Because I so I heard this.

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Speaker 1: I heard Jenna Ortega say this, and I was like,

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Speaker 1: oh my gosh. It struck me because I remember so

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Speaker 1: vividly Milo Ventimilia saying the same thing, and so I

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Speaker 1: was like, Milo Ventimilia's single, and how is that possible?

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Speaker 1: I think he is. I don't know. There's my thing

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Speaker 1: on like social media that leads to body I don't know,

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Speaker 1: but I feel like in a dream or something I

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Speaker 1: was told he is not. I don't know. Yeah, he

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Speaker 1: was dating somebody for a bit and then I don't

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Speaker 1: know anymore. I think he's like one of the great Yeah,

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Speaker 1: he's a catch. He's a super catch, super catch. So anyway,

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Speaker 1: the fact you go through all that and then what's

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Speaker 1: the question. So then the question is maybe it is

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Speaker 1: an age thing. When you're younger, it's more important, or

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Speaker 1: it's better to focus on career because you can always

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Speaker 1: find love later in life. Yes, well that's kind of

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Speaker 1: what Sacy I were thinking. When you're starting, you're grinding, bro, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you're grinding everybody in the dusk too. Like bye, by

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Speaker 1: the way, did that tell like two years ago? I mean,

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Speaker 1: guys pay in my days. But what about for you

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Speaker 1: saying now now? Oh now it's tricky. Now I have

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Speaker 1: a lot more. It's not just a love like a

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Speaker 1: romantic love. Now I have a kid, kids and everything else.

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Speaker 1: So well, here let me help you with that, because

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Speaker 1: here's the way I look at it. Now. You don't

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Speaker 1: have to make a choice for one and the other.

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Speaker 1: You can have both. You do have both, you can

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Speaker 1: focus on both. It's about balancing both. And so you

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Speaker 1: love your job, and you want your career and yet

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Speaker 1: you love your kids. So guess what hours of career

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Speaker 1: thrive hours of home. Well, you know what it's. It's

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Speaker 1: what I built in my twenties. It's I got to

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Speaker 1: this point because I sacrificed. Now you're allowed to have

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Speaker 1: some boundaries, and now I'm allowed to have those baltaries.

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Speaker 1: Put this on us to make a choice, the one

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Speaker 1: that advocates all the boundaries. Anyway. It was just meant

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Speaker 1: to spark some thought, because I I spark some thought.

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Speaker 1: I truly believe I always thought I wanted to get

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Speaker 1: married at like twenty five, and I'm so glad that

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Speaker 1: I didn't, because I am that person when I'm in love,

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Speaker 1: I'm all in and I feel like it wouldn't have

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't do right now, what would you choose? I

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Speaker 1: would choose the balance. I don't think I could be able.

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Speaker 1: I don't think that wasn't the question. That wasn't the

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Speaker 1: question you posed to us. You hadn't answer it either.

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Speaker 1: I didn't make this part up. This was your bit,

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Speaker 1: this was your trending report, this was your thing. It

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Speaker 1: was meant to spark thought. Not necessarily. You want to

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Speaker 1: get me an answer, I would choose love. Wow, how

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Speaker 1: do we feel now? Truth is out? Interesting. I think

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Speaker 1: she was working to get to that the whole time. Guys,

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Speaker 1: I won't. Maybe love for Tanya is us No, she's

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Speaker 1: talking about him. I do know. I do love you, guys.

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Speaker 1: And here's the thing I do that you guys so much.

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Speaker 1: I think for her career is love. I do think

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Speaker 1: love is is important to have in all aspects of

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Speaker 1: your life. In your job, you should love what you're doing. Backpedal, backpedaled,

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Speaker 1: we get it. We heard you the first time. I

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Speaker 1: was trying to say the second. That's very fun. Tickets