WEBVTT - Ep. 399: Baby Makin (Ft. Jacquess)

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Decisions Decisions. I don't think you should say

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<v Speaker 1>decisions decisions.

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<v Speaker 2>It sounded like you was talking to you definitely say

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<v Speaker 2>to welcome, welcome to the new podcast. Oh you want

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<v Speaker 2>to say together the decisions decisions all y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, we were just gonna jump right into this ship,

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<v Speaker 1>this show what best friends, baby Daddy. I ain't gonna

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<v Speaker 1>hold y'all.

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<v Speaker 3>This is probably crazy because I normally don't bring people

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<v Speaker 3>like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I know like this. I think the truth they be fighting.

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<v Speaker 1>Put the camera. We're not gonna do d y'all. We

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<v Speaker 1>have Jack Queis in the building today.

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<v Speaker 3>And I am really excited because, Yeah, I had a

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<v Speaker 3>prepro call with your fiance.

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<v Speaker 1>First Off, First off, I ain't gonna hold y'all.

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<v Speaker 3>Let me tell y'all how I'm sitting here, like letting

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<v Speaker 3>her know kind of the questions and conversations we're gonna

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<v Speaker 3>have on the pot.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, here go John Queens and the background. Man, I

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<v Speaker 1>heard y'all. Ship, y'all better not make my episode boring.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm like, man, I don't give me all that other ship.

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<v Speaker 1>That's funny.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, you have, but see, we have to now

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<v Speaker 2>because now we can't dig into the hose, because if

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<v Speaker 2>we're the ones who dug into the past, we're gonna

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<v Speaker 2>be like, why the you put my medal?

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<v Speaker 3>Just know we're gonna get to the sexiness of it all,

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<v Speaker 3>the baby making of it all before we.

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<v Speaker 2>Get to the sexiness. Can I tell you, every time

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<v Speaker 2>I hear your name, I think of one thing. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>just as like a fan of listening to songs for yours,

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<v Speaker 2>My favorite song is a song that I would have

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<v Speaker 2>to go through hell and high water to listen to.

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<v Speaker 2>And I get so excited anytime I hear to beat

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<v Speaker 2>because all I want to say is.

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<v Speaker 1>I got a right on my gun. It will take it.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, yeah, Brady to me, I ain't gotta get made.

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<v Speaker 3>You said the gun off safety. Oh this is when

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<v Speaker 3>you like fucking Niggasho had guns under the pillow.

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<v Speaker 1>So I just said, I resonated with that's my ship.

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<v Speaker 1>I get so happy when the DJ just takes it

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<v Speaker 1>off track. Yeah, you know, I really hate reading this,

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<v Speaker 1>but fuck when he's better than this song, here we go.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 2>I love ELM too, but like honestly, I was really

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<v Speaker 2>upset like the DSPs.

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<v Speaker 1>It was killing me. Bro I on YouTube.

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<v Speaker 2>I bought YouTube premium for the day you swear Swear

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<v Speaker 2>to God. I love, love, love love your voice, and

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<v Speaker 2>that song was really fun to listen to, and it's like,

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<v Speaker 2>just it was such a good song.

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<v Speaker 1>You but yeah, like that a fun time, right.

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<v Speaker 3>And also you know what, I wanted to own and

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<v Speaker 3>you sold the thunder from her again not y'all having

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<v Speaker 3>babies around the same time.

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<v Speaker 1>She had her baby as well. Oh that's hard.

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<v Speaker 4>Congrats, hud. It used to be cool with me back

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<v Speaker 4>in the day.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you when you were singing that song?

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<v Speaker 2>Because the clip I remember, did you really the audios

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<v Speaker 2>from you singing in the car?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? Yeah, yeah not so that day I was out

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<v Speaker 4>the country. I was in London.

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<v Speaker 5>And it's crazy because her best friend used to run

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<v Speaker 5>around with me, you know what I'm saying in London,

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<v Speaker 5>like she had worked for like cash money and Republic

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<v Speaker 5>like out there. It was like they had like a

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<v Speaker 5>second part out there or whatever out the country and

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<v Speaker 5>she used to run around with me whatever. So I

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<v Speaker 5>was like, man, one day, I was like, man, I'm

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<v Speaker 5>finna make this video to trip, you know what I'm saying, Like,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm finna make it in a car. My managers like, man,

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<v Speaker 5>don't do that. Whatever, you shouldn't do it, whatever, Like

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<v Speaker 5>I'm gonna do it. So I just recorded on the

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<v Speaker 5>phone and that's the clip. I was just lip singing

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<v Speaker 5>what I had already recorded, and I just threw it

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<v Speaker 5>on the ground. And when that went viral that same day,

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<v Speaker 5>I was already shooting a video.

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<v Speaker 4>To it, you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 5>So I was like, you know, I always do quick

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<v Speaker 5>me because I didn't know it was gonna be that crazy.

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<v Speaker 5>When I put it on the ground, they had got

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<v Speaker 5>like they had got like ten thousand plays like in

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<v Speaker 5>a minute or something crazy, something, something ridiculous had happened

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<v Speaker 5>in like ten minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>I remember, cause we got the Hood version of the song.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, Like I remember, like I ain't even gonna cap

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<v Speaker 5>like I remember when I dropped that stuff, Like I

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<v Speaker 5>remember like like they are coming from Cali, like you

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<v Speaker 5>know what I'm saying, like playing it like like what

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<v Speaker 5>was this like two thy eighteen or something like this,

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<v Speaker 5>Like I remember that coming from California, like in the neighborhood,

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<v Speaker 5>like just everybody in the neighborhood of California just out

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<v Speaker 5>the windows playing trip like it was crazy.

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<v Speaker 3>Like that was a crazy we mix it still something,

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<v Speaker 3>especially like with everyone using samples or remixing and doing

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<v Speaker 3>all that shit, but also it not being money out

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<v Speaker 3>of it because shit ain't get cleared.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that something you still doing? Does it make sense

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<v Speaker 1>to do?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, y'all still do it.

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<v Speaker 5>I just dropped the Queen's project at the top of

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<v Speaker 5>the you okay, you feel me? I did it because

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<v Speaker 5>I'm like, man, my fans be asking for it, and

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<v Speaker 5>that was what was going viral if you see, like

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<v Speaker 5>the little shit that was like a.

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<v Speaker 4>Damn ye, everybody was going to let dances.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>So it's like I always do something to end up

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<v Speaker 4>going viral.

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<v Speaker 1>I actually had a really interesting conversation about.

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<v Speaker 2>That moment in time with I was in this meeting

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<v Speaker 2>about it was a TV show that I was working

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<v Speaker 2>the EP and they wanted to hire this influencer who

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<v Speaker 2>was popular for copying something from another woman. And the

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<v Speaker 2>conversation was like, yo, but like this was kind of

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<v Speaker 2>fucked up. I'm like, yeah, but they're two black creators.

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<v Speaker 2>Like all TikTokers do the same thing, they just remix it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, what.

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<v Speaker 2>About John Queens think about that moment it's time. Like

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like we all agreed that, Like, Okay, I

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<v Speaker 2>understand why you perform this.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not like people are paying the ticket to see

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<v Speaker 1>you do this. One thing. Can they not do this?

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<v Speaker 1>I will, I will say that.

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<v Speaker 3>That is another thing about I think our first time

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<v Speaker 3>meeting DeAndre and shit, I gotta share this.

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta share it.

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<v Speaker 3>So I find out that one of our best friends

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<v Speaker 3>is dating Jacquez and she calls me and it's like, listen,

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<v Speaker 3>Jack queens my friend. We talk about music and I

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<v Speaker 3>don't really know if she listens to your music that well.

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<v Speaker 1>And she say that she is not the king of

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<v Speaker 1>R and B. So when we come to New York,

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<v Speaker 1>swear to God.

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<v Speaker 3>When we come to New York, I'm gonna bring her

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<v Speaker 3>to your show, so so she could.

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<v Speaker 1>See how you get down. Baby.

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<v Speaker 3>And I went to the show and the visuals in

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<v Speaker 3>the bag, the dancers and literally he comes backstage and

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<v Speaker 3>he was like, I did that.

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<v Speaker 1>Shit didn't say that was like our first time meeting.

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<v Speaker 3>And I did want to want to get into so,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, decision decisions. You know, we talk relationships, we

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<v Speaker 3>talk sex. We're gonna get into baby making the new project.

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<v Speaker 3>But before getting into the project, I wanted to bring

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<v Speaker 3>up a just a very real topic about our interaction,

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<v Speaker 3>maybe something that people often go with or deal with.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'll be real with you because you.

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<v Speaker 3>Already know I wasn't a fan of you personally at first.

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<v Speaker 3>Of course, there was a lot around the pregnancy, the

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<v Speaker 3>announcement of it, what was going on with your previous

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<v Speaker 3>relationship as it intertwined with this previous with this current relationship.

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<v Speaker 3>And I will tell you, I don't know if you know.

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<v Speaker 3>There was a decision whether she was going to keep

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<v Speaker 3>the baby or not. And I sent her flowers that said, realize,

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<v Speaker 3>bit you give a fuck about a nigga. I support

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<v Speaker 3>whatever decision you make, but it happens, I'm not gonna

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<v Speaker 3>lie as a friend because that took place during your relationship.

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<v Speaker 3>I do want to commend you in having to go

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<v Speaker 3>against and earn the trust, the love from her family members,

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<v Speaker 3>her brothers, the mama, her best friends, and everything around,

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<v Speaker 3>because I think it's been a lot for y'all to

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<v Speaker 3>go through a high risk pregnancy, but also for you

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<v Speaker 3>as a man, a first time father, having to go

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<v Speaker 3>against everything and also really being excited about this moment

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<v Speaker 3>and I did want to commend you because I do think.

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<v Speaker 1>It's hard, like a lot of people out there have,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, get pregnant with eight shit. Nigga's not saying

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<v Speaker 1>that you are, but those men.

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<v Speaker 3>There is a battle in wanting to be excited because

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<v Speaker 3>this is a baby that's coming into the picture, wanting

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<v Speaker 3>to stay with this woman though there's been some ups

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<v Speaker 3>and downs, and then also fighting to prove that I'm

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<v Speaker 3>gonna be the man that I know I can be

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<v Speaker 3>in this relationship. And I do want to say from

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<v Speaker 3>a personal standpoint, y'all, every time I have seen you,

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<v Speaker 3>you have done nothing but show up as a partner,

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<v Speaker 3>as someone embracing the family, even though you knew we

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<v Speaker 3>hated you.

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<v Speaker 1>A little bit.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, real talk.

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<v Speaker 3>And I did want to ask you how how was

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<v Speaker 3>that moment of wanting to celebrate your first child and

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<v Speaker 3>then also as the man trying to just give advice

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<v Speaker 3>to maybe other men dealing with this, like how you

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<v Speaker 3>let them know like I'm gonna be here and I'm

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<v Speaker 3>gonna be a good father and I'm gonna be a

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<v Speaker 3>good partner to this woman.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh well, really, it's like it's just a decision a

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<v Speaker 5>man gotta make. Honestly, that's what I think. You know

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<v Speaker 5>what I'm saying, because like us as dudes like, it

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<v Speaker 5>come a time where it came a time in my life.

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<v Speaker 5>Well I'm like, man, I gotta stop really playing with fire,

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<v Speaker 5>you know what I'm saying. I was always the type

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<v Speaker 5>of dude to like play with fire. You dig what

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<v Speaker 5>I'm saying. I would always think I can have it

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<v Speaker 5>my way.

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<v Speaker 4>Period.

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<v Speaker 5>That's just how I was thinking. I was just like, man,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm jock Queeze, I can have shit my way, you

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<v Speaker 5>know what I'm saying. And it just came to a

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<v Speaker 5>halt because when I was thinking that, it's like everything

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<v Speaker 5>started to fumble, he did, know what I'm saying, Like other

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<v Speaker 5>places in my life started to fumble. And I'm like,

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<v Speaker 5>I ain't got no discipline nowhere, you know, And if

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<v Speaker 5>you ain't got no discipline nowhere, then everything goes started

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<v Speaker 5>to fumble. So once I got disciplined with myself and

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<v Speaker 5>I stopped drinking.

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<v Speaker 1>And how that discipline happened, Yeah, Like my girl was

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<v Speaker 1>big on that.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, I was big on drinking. You know.

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<v Speaker 5>I was just really like a drinker, you feel me,

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<v Speaker 5>like a nigga that just like to drink, but it

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<v Speaker 5>was taking me somewhere that I had never been, and

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<v Speaker 5>I was like starting to lose myself in a way.

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<v Speaker 5>But then I had somebody like DeAndre that's right there,

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<v Speaker 5>that seeing me in such a light, that was seeing

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<v Speaker 5>me go down like that that she really just couldn't

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<v Speaker 5>believe it type of things, you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, she couldn't drink during the propricity, so they kind

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<v Speaker 1>of went on that sobriety journey together, you.

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<v Speaker 4>Know what I'm saying. So it was like that.

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<v Speaker 5>But see, while she got pregnant, I was still turn

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<v Speaker 5>you know what I'm saying. So I didn't turn down

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<v Speaker 5>until like three months after.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think that.

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<v Speaker 2>Men need a moment of like I feel like to

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<v Speaker 2>any man that's ever dated me, there was a moment

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<v Speaker 2>where they had to almost lose me to be like

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<v Speaker 2>oh okay, And for you, I don't know if that

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<v Speaker 2>moment was just you know, drama online and X or whatever,

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<v Speaker 2>but do you think that it takes that Like do

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<v Speaker 2>you think if you didn't have that moment you could propose?

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<v Speaker 1>Like is there moment? Yeah? Yeah, without the moment, I

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<v Speaker 1>could have still proposed. Do you think that that really

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<v Speaker 1>showed you the value.

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<v Speaker 2>Though I'm not saying obviously this woman like the Futroy,

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<v Speaker 2>but it doesn't make you feel like, oh nah.

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<v Speaker 5>It's like all the BS did for me really was

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<v Speaker 5>just showed me that she believe in me to be

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<v Speaker 5>someone better. You know, she gave me an opportunity to

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<v Speaker 5>be better from forgiveness. Yeah, it's like it's like she's

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<v Speaker 5>she like you know when somebody know like, nah, that

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<v Speaker 5>ain't you. You know what I'm saying, they'd be like, nah,

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<v Speaker 5>I don't believe as you You know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 5>They could see the good and you like, like the

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<v Speaker 5>real greatness in you?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you also feel like the liquor was turning you

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<v Speaker 1>into someone that you weren't proud of.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, you know what I'm saying, Like, because I would

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<v Speaker 5>use it for like a coping mechanism for different things

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<v Speaker 5>that I was fighting myself, you know what I'm saying. Like,

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<v Speaker 5>So if I wanted to be at a certain place

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<v Speaker 5>in my career, like you feel me, if I done

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<v Speaker 5>got mad at motherfuckers for stuff I could control and

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<v Speaker 5>not knowing, I would just sit there and just drink.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I would just drink till I fall asleep.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying, wake.

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<v Speaker 5>Up the next day and just like drinking the day. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>I'll just wake up, you feel me go do something.

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<v Speaker 5>Then I'll figure out a way to be like, oh,

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<v Speaker 5>I got a flight, I'm gonna go to the bar,

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<v Speaker 5>sit down to the flight like, oh the flight, I

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<v Speaker 5>got two more men's the board. I'll run down there.

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<v Speaker 5>If you even get on the flight, Oh they got

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<v Speaker 5>some drinking. This like all right, I'll just drink, go

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<v Speaker 5>to sleep, wake up, then just do a show.

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<v Speaker 4>Then niggas be like, how the fuck did he kill

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<v Speaker 4>the show? Like this?

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<v Speaker 1>Nigga was just backstage like like.

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<v Speaker 5>Niggas thought I was crazy. Oh wow, I'll be fucked up.

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<v Speaker 5>But then I get on stage and be.

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<v Speaker 1>Like functioning alcoholic.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I'm not gonna lie straight up.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. I'm currently going through my socer journey right

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<v Speaker 1>now too, And it awakens you in so many of

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<v Speaker 1>your relationships how you show up with the dependency of

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<v Speaker 1>liquor to either ease stress anxiety, just being codependent, also

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<v Speaker 1>as being an artist. Yeah, you're constantly around drinking and

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<v Speaker 1>things like that.

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<v Speaker 5>But but it wasn't even like but you can't turn

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<v Speaker 5>the fuck up. I like when folks turn up, Like

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<v Speaker 5>I hate when folks come around me and they be

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<v Speaker 5>like like, if a motherfucker came around me that drinking,

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<v Speaker 5>don't drink, I'm gonna be mad.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I know, I ain't gonna lie.

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<v Speaker 3>I sneak to the to the bar now and be like,

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<v Speaker 3>give me your self to put a line in me

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<v Speaker 3>so it looked like it, or I get like the

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<v Speaker 3>zero percent because it's stilling a beer bottle, you know

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<v Speaker 3>what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>So I be looking like I'm drinking. It's like it's

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<v Speaker 1>just a vibe.

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<v Speaker 5>Like I swear now that I started getting the mocktails

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<v Speaker 5>and ship, I promise you sometimes I'll be feeling like

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<v Speaker 5>I'm drunk.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I'm like this ship might be in my

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<v Speaker 4>head for real.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm like I told my aunt the other day, I'm like, bro,

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<v Speaker 5>I don't think I like, I'm really the same, like regardless,

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<v Speaker 5>like you know what I'm saying. Then I had gotten

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<v Speaker 5>to a point where it's like liquor be fun. You

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<v Speaker 5>did you know what I'm saying? And then I was like,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, you being like some shit where it's like

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<v Speaker 5>you know, both of y'all do that shit.

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<v Speaker 4>You know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 5>I was in stuff like that, like where we both

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<v Speaker 5>I was in relationships where we both enjoyed drinking, and

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<v Speaker 5>then I was the one who couldn't like grasphold of it.

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<v Speaker 5>Like I even look back on like past situations now

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<v Speaker 5>and be like damn, Like you know, it was certain

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<v Speaker 5>things that people were trying to tell me the past

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<v Speaker 5>that I understand now, do you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>Like, God, make no mistakes, you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 5>But I be thinking like my whole my whole life,

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<v Speaker 5>like a lot of times in my twenties with different

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<v Speaker 5>relationships I was in, it was like a lot of

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<v Speaker 5>times liquor was always the downfall.

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<v Speaker 4>But you know what, though, you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 2>Everybody, somebody famous. Women feel so much pressure to not

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<v Speaker 2>be the fun girl. You want to be everything. You

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<v Speaker 2>want to be the fun girl. You want to do this,

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<v Speaker 2>you want to leok them you down, like like.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I.

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<v Speaker 5>But then but then the dude will let you know

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<v Speaker 5>you ain't got to be because yes, sometimes the nigga

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<v Speaker 5>will be like, no, I don't want that from you.

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<v Speaker 2>But I don't think women are leading with that. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't think that most women that famous men meet gin

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<v Speaker 2>or being the their real selves.

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<v Speaker 4>I could believe that.

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<v Speaker 1>I think they being the woman that they think that you.

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<v Speaker 4>That's a fact. It's gonna take.

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<v Speaker 5>It probably takes the dude to break down or something

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<v Speaker 5>to the form to show their real self for you.

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<v Speaker 3>I think I'm curious because we have this conversation. We've

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<v Speaker 3>had dating coaches on here, and they they say how

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<v Speaker 3>long someone should be with somebody before the question is popped,

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<v Speaker 3>before you.

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<v Speaker 1>Make it serious.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you remember the moment that you were like, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>gonna go buy a ring and propose to DeAndre. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>we knew you had the gender reveal the baby shower,

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<v Speaker 3>which is where you proposed, But what was the exact

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<v Speaker 3>moment where you were like, I'm gonna propose to this woman?

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<v Speaker 5>Like, well, you gotta think at a gender revillal, I

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<v Speaker 5>wouldn't even think about getting married, you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I was only two muths apart from each other.

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<v Speaker 1>Damn it.

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<v Speaker 5>Like I'm saying, I was just like now, just like

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<v Speaker 5>one day we'll get married. But I was just like,

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<v Speaker 5>you know how niggas be like you know one day

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<v Speaker 5>we'll get married, but you never really know when They

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<v Speaker 5>always say it just come to you.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying, How long are dropping day?

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<v Speaker 1>Even before you proposed, Let's see if right?

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<v Speaker 4>Uh?

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<v Speaker 5>Me and DeAnda, she came on the tour last year,

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<v Speaker 5>she came on my tour. We went on tour bout October.

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<v Speaker 1>Had this up because we had a dating coach.

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<v Speaker 3>Now, man different because she was pregnant in three months.

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<v Speaker 3>So now, yeah, she was pregnant in three months of dating. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>so she was pregnant in January. Yeah, facts, So it's

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<v Speaker 3>different here the timeline.

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<v Speaker 1>But you don't have to marry a woman just because

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<v Speaker 1>they're pregnant.

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<v Speaker 4>Valance, That ain't That ain't why I married him. You

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<v Speaker 4>gotta think.

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<v Speaker 3>So gender revealed was April, you didn't know, and in

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<v Speaker 3>April you didn't want to propose, But the baby shower

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<v Speaker 3>was in junior July. Between April and the summer, what

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<v Speaker 3>moment or what did she do or what happened to

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<v Speaker 3>where you were like this needs to be My wife.

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<v Speaker 5>Was like, really, we start going to church and stuff,

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<v Speaker 5>you know what I'm saying, So we start going to

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<v Speaker 5>change church.

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<v Speaker 2>We gotta get we gotta get me.

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<v Speaker 1>He can play it on he could play it on

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<v Speaker 1>the laptop.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, we started going.

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<v Speaker 1>We started.

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<v Speaker 5>We started going to church, and then honestly I had started,

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<v Speaker 5>like after the General revealing. You know, I'm watching them

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<v Speaker 5>seeing I go, like seeing what we're doing and stuff

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<v Speaker 5>like that. I'm at the crib, like I got a schedule.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm working out in the morning, you know, making my smoothies.

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<v Speaker 5>Won't come back then, and I'm doing what I'm doing out.

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<v Speaker 5>So I'm like okay, because I'm like, okay, I can,

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<v Speaker 5>Like you know, first you just try to see the

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<v Speaker 5>routine first, you'd be like, okay, can I do this

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<v Speaker 5>every day?

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<v Speaker 4>You know what I'm saying. Like, so I'm asking myself that.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm like, Okay, I like waking up over here, making

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<v Speaker 5>my smoothie, going to the gym, coming back, shout it

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<v Speaker 5>right here, I do this, I do that. Okay, I'm

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<v Speaker 5>waking up. Okay, now I'm doing this shit too much straight.

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<v Speaker 5>I still feel straight. Like you know what I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm like, okay, like okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Just like it feels easy.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, I'm just like adding it up. I'm trying

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<v Speaker 5>to see, like what I'm gonna be missing, you know

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<v Speaker 5>what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>Then I'm working he started thinking, Yeah, Then I'm working

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<v Speaker 1>out one day and I'm working out and I'm running

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<v Speaker 1>on the trail mill and I'm looking at this dude.

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<v Speaker 1>It's this black dude in the gym.

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<v Speaker 5>So every time it's like black people in the building,

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<v Speaker 5>I always be like, oh, this is dope, Like I'm

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<v Speaker 5>gonna have a conversation with.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying, you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was I was like, man, what's up? Man?

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<v Speaker 4>Like you know what I'm saying. What was in the jail?

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<v Speaker 4>He was like, man, what's up?

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<v Speaker 1>Whatever?

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<v Speaker 5>And I was talking to him and he was like, man,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm I'm a pastor. I couldn't believe he was a

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<v Speaker 5>pastor because he's swagged.

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<v Speaker 1>Was not pastor. You expect pastors not to be swagged.

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<v Speaker 1>Saying he was swagged up, you feel yeah, you know

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<v Speaker 1>you just are you.

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<v Speaker 5>Saying, but he's just had sauce, like you know, he

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<v Speaker 5>looked at like you just talked to it the crib

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<v Speaker 5>like the one that got some money or something.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, it wasn't the one Mary that was married

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<v Speaker 1>to Jasell Bryant wasn't he got the church? What what

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<v Speaker 1>the church?

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<v Speaker 4>The church Atlanta said, let.

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<v Speaker 1>Me Jamal Bryant. Looko m Bryan.

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<v Speaker 5>It wasn't him, So I remember he swaggy brot.

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<v Speaker 1>He look like, you know what I'm saying. You maybe

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<v Speaker 1>probably Victory, that's the other big church. It wasn't Victory.

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<v Speaker 4>It was a small church.

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<v Speaker 5>He was just basically in that talking about how people

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<v Speaker 5>talking about marriage just random, you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 4>And I was like, man, you know I just listening

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<v Speaker 4>to the first day, All okay.

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<v Speaker 5>Then he came back to the gym and uh, he's

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<v Speaker 5>this other white guy, super cool who'd been in the

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<v Speaker 5>gym with us and stuff. He always be like, hey

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<v Speaker 5>your cueees man, you dating? You know Sanders, you know

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<v Speaker 5>what I'm saying. I'd be like, yeah, man, you know

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<v Speaker 5>what I'm saying. Yeah, that my girl whatever. You know

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<v Speaker 5>what I'm saying, Like, Yo, man, it's dope, man, stay focused, man,

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<v Speaker 5>all right, you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>So then.

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<v Speaker 5>That the pastor you know, the one we call doc

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<v Speaker 5>or whatever. He like, hey Doc, he just giving me

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<v Speaker 5>some game whatever. So I'm like, man, I might get married,

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<v Speaker 5>you know what, I'm saying. So he was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 5>for real, doc, giving me some little games. So I'm like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>I might do it. I'm just really throwing it out

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<v Speaker 5>there to see what the og gonna say for real,

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<v Speaker 5>say like, yeah, doctor, that'll be good for you. Know

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<v Speaker 5>I'm saying, don't number for real, they're telling me that'll

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<v Speaker 5>be good for you. So I like, okay, okay. So

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<v Speaker 5>I'm just sitting around, so I started writing this letter.

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<v Speaker 4>You feel me.

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<v Speaker 5>So I'm like, let me start writing this ladder. Let

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<v Speaker 5>me just see what's going down. So I start writing

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<v Speaker 5>a letter. Then I started writing it. Then I called

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<v Speaker 5>my mom. I'm like a letter to who DeAndre? You

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<v Speaker 5>know what I'm saying, the eight minute letter. Yeah yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>I was writing that letter for four days.

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<v Speaker 1>Shut up. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>And I remember when I was writing a letter.

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<v Speaker 5>I remember I would be on the balcony and this

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<v Speaker 5>when we was in the condo in the city, when

0:19:18.280 --> 0:19:22.360
<v Speaker 5>I was over that standing us spot, and she would

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<v Speaker 5>be on the sofa, you know, the sofa right here,

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<v Speaker 5>the balcony right here, and I'll be out there late

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<v Speaker 5>and she'll be like, I don't worry about you.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm like, what you worry? You know?

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<v Speaker 5>DeAndre like that. She was like, they don't worry about you.

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<v Speaker 5>I was like, I'm like, what you worry about? I'm

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<v Speaker 5>right here, you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>But you were writing a lot in your but but

0:19:38.359 --> 0:19:40.600
<v Speaker 1>you know, I always write down stuff anyway, So I'm

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<v Speaker 1>making it seem like, yeah, I got a lot of ideas.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm making it seem like yeah, I got a lot

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<v Speaker 5>of ideas and stuff. Like I'm just writing some ideas

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<v Speaker 5>and stuff. I'm thinking about some lyrics and stuff. So

0:19:48.800 --> 0:19:50.280
<v Speaker 5>she's like okay. Then it went on for days. She

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<v Speaker 5>kept saying like, I'm just worried about you, you know what

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<v Speaker 5>I'm saying. So now I asked my mama, like, hey, Mom,

0:19:53.440 --> 0:19:56.680
<v Speaker 5>I think I'm married DeAndre. She's like, okay, cool. She like, well,

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<v Speaker 5>you need to ask her her short term goals and

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<v Speaker 5>her long term goals, you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 3>She wasn't a conversation y'all had already, my mama, No,

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<v Speaker 3>you you and the short term and long term goal conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, I guess you just kind of get in and

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<v Speaker 1>know each other. You've got the new thing going on.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, yeah, oh wow, we didn't.

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<v Speaker 4>It was Frisch.

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<v Speaker 5>So, uh, my mama like, make sure you know how

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<v Speaker 5>short term goes and a long term goes.

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<v Speaker 4>Because my mama had already told me she was the

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<v Speaker 4>one on tour. You know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>Really, I mean DeAndre had came on my tour. She

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<v Speaker 1>really snuck on tour with that came.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what I gotta do. I gotta sneak on to

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<v Speaker 3>and you gotta try to sneak on a tour. I

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<v Speaker 3>see ug, I'm finna do it too.

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<v Speaker 5>Came to a show. She brung up brothers to the

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<v Speaker 5>first show she came to. She brong your door and

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<v Speaker 5>Bucky and then uh, she was like, I want to

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<v Speaker 5>come to another show. I want my friends to see

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<v Speaker 5>you before you know what I'm saying, And.

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<v Speaker 1>She had us pull up every city. She was like

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<v Speaker 1>I got friends in this city.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, coming to the city and I was meeting and

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<v Speaker 5>then she was telling her mama for real, like I

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<v Speaker 5>think he'd won, Like I caught with for them saying like,

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<v Speaker 5>oh he don't want like you feel. I'm hearing that

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<v Speaker 5>you feel it, so like oh ship they think the

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<v Speaker 5>one like what there?

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<v Speaker 1>What type of things do you think mean?

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<v Speaker 2>The one we had Bro Timmy on YEP and he

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<v Speaker 2>talked about in such specific things.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just curious, like what did.

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<v Speaker 3>She pay herself to come on that tour? That's what

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<v Speaker 3>Bro Timmy said. Bro Timmy said he knew her.

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<v Speaker 1>This woman was the one she Africa Africa to l

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<v Speaker 1>A Yeah, because she wanted to see him.

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<v Speaker 4>And then now she was paying to get them.

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<v Speaker 1>Damn it.

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<v Speaker 5>We all got to pay to be with these niggas. No,

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<v Speaker 5>they got paid for to get that one probably one time.

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<v Speaker 5>But how the show she went to I need to

0:21:47.680 --> 0:21:51.560
<v Speaker 5>Knowdre started out on the one show and then she

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<v Speaker 5>finished the tour like after like before Halloween. DeAndre was

0:21:55.040 --> 0:21:57.040
<v Speaker 5>there with us on Halloween. We all had on costumes.

0:21:57.119 --> 0:21:59.960
<v Speaker 5>She had friends with us and costumes. Then she was

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<v Speaker 5>there with us the whole tour. She was on the

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<v Speaker 5>whole tour like she just popped up every city. She

0:22:03.280 --> 0:22:05.880
<v Speaker 5>brought herself. No, she stayed on the bus, She organized

0:22:05.880 --> 0:22:08.000
<v Speaker 5>my room, she had her her she said, I'm gonna

0:22:08.000 --> 0:22:11.879
<v Speaker 5>work at everything organized like she came and changed the

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<v Speaker 5>whole game.

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<v Speaker 2>Let me ask you this, somebody is going to watch

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<v Speaker 2>this and people are enjoy hating on what you have,

0:22:19.240 --> 0:22:22.399
<v Speaker 2>right or happy people whatever. It's like, even Deandra's post

0:22:22.480 --> 0:22:26.920
<v Speaker 2>about pregnancy, I have fibrays. I couldn't believe the comment

0:22:27.040 --> 0:22:28.879
<v Speaker 2>that shit really triggered me. And I don't even know

0:22:28.920 --> 0:22:30.480
<v Speaker 2>DeAndre like that. I know her through Mandy when she

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<v Speaker 2>comes to a show. I was fucked up reading this.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, bro, you can't even make a choice for

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<v Speaker 2>yourself because people just.

0:22:36.800 --> 0:22:38.800
<v Speaker 1>Want to be angry about the that she has.

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<v Speaker 2>So people, I feel like will be excited to hear

0:22:43.600 --> 0:22:46.879
<v Speaker 2>the DeAndre paid to come, because I really do.

0:22:46.960 --> 0:22:49.399
<v Speaker 1>I feel like this. Someone's gonna watch this and be like,

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<v Speaker 1>see to the side.

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<v Speaker 2>Tell me why Deandra doing this on her own ools

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<v Speaker 2>taught you that she was the one or spoke to you?

0:23:03.640 --> 0:23:05.120
<v Speaker 1>What did that show you? If anything?

0:23:06.440 --> 0:23:08.680
<v Speaker 4>I mean, you gotta think we was friends first anyway.

0:23:09.160 --> 0:23:11.840
<v Speaker 5>So DeAndre always being my birthday parties and all that

0:23:11.840 --> 0:23:12.359
<v Speaker 5>type of stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyway, So it's like like I was with.

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<v Speaker 5>Her on her thirty third birthday. I remember she was

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<v Speaker 5>telling me when she turned thirty three. She was like, oh,

0:23:18.400 --> 0:23:20.200
<v Speaker 5>this is my Jesus year, you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 5>Likes soon as she turned thirty three, I think that's

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<v Speaker 5>the same year she got pregnant it is you know

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<v Speaker 5>what I'm saying. And she was like, this is my Jesus.

0:23:25.840 --> 0:23:26.840
<v Speaker 5>I was like, what that means? She was like, you

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<v Speaker 5>know this just she was explaining it to me, and

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<v Speaker 5>I think I just got lost what.

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<v Speaker 4>You asked me.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm saying, like with her spending money to come, oh yeah,

0:23:35.119 --> 0:23:36.640
<v Speaker 2>I feel like saying what did it mean?

0:23:36.760 --> 0:23:37.840
<v Speaker 1>It was like did that mean something?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, like I said, we was already friends and

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<v Speaker 5>just going back to her telling me it was a

0:23:41.280 --> 0:23:42.760
<v Speaker 5>Jez year and stuff like that, it was like we

0:23:42.800 --> 0:23:44.800
<v Speaker 5>already had like a special connect.

0:23:45.480 --> 0:23:46.760
<v Speaker 4>You know what I'm saying. It was already connected.

0:23:46.800 --> 0:23:48.800
<v Speaker 5>So for her coming to my shows, it was really

0:23:48.920 --> 0:23:50.760
<v Speaker 5>like for her coming to see me, it's.

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<v Speaker 4>Like, yeah, my like DeAndre pulling up on me.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so hold on, how do you start fucking your friend?

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<v Speaker 2>Because I feel like nobody gonna let us wrong, nobody's

0:23:56.480 --> 0:23:57.680
<v Speaker 2>gonna let us have a whole point.

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<v Speaker 3>Ever again, I'm saying, what you want me to love her?

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<v Speaker 1>Not? No?

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<v Speaker 6>No?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it really goes there. I feel like I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like when a nigga get, when a nigga get when

0:24:12.080 --> 0:24:14.560
<v Speaker 1>a nigga either got problems in its spot for real,

0:24:15.080 --> 0:24:16.600
<v Speaker 1>when a nigga got problems in his spy and a

0:24:16.680 --> 0:24:18.679
<v Speaker 1>nigga just tied of what he got, and a nigga

0:24:18.760 --> 0:24:21.280
<v Speaker 1>just ready to just explore, like when you're ready to risk,

0:24:21.480 --> 0:24:23.159
<v Speaker 1>were ready to jump, you gotta be ready to just

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<v Speaker 1>like like I mean, I mean, I mean, okay, well

0:24:29.359 --> 0:24:30.119
<v Speaker 1>let's rephrase it.

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<v Speaker 4>That's what it is.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I think we need to go back here rewinded.

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<v Speaker 1>Can I just tell you how that you made it

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<v Speaker 1>sound kind of just like made it seem like she's

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<v Speaker 1>a home record. No, you made it sound like she

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<v Speaker 1>was just there.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh no, I mean you got to think we were friends.

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<v Speaker 5>We met probably on one of those days, like not

0:24:47.520 --> 0:24:48.840
<v Speaker 5>not one of them days, like one of them times.

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<v Speaker 5>You know how you're in a relationship with someone, you

0:24:50.680 --> 0:24:52.399
<v Speaker 5>not with someone for some time, Like you might have

0:24:52.440 --> 0:24:54.760
<v Speaker 5>been dating somebody for years, right, but y'all might have

0:24:54.840 --> 0:24:56.960
<v Speaker 5>not been a relationship for like three months. You know

0:24:57.000 --> 0:24:58.600
<v Speaker 5>what I'm saying, You might have met someone that became

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<v Speaker 5>your friend. That's how you met somebody like I met

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<v Speaker 5>her in a period like that, Okay, you know what

0:25:02.560 --> 0:25:04.520
<v Speaker 5>I'm saying. I met her like when she turned thirty one,

0:25:04.680 --> 0:25:06.960
<v Speaker 5>like Pat Man Jones had called me the singer happy birthday.

0:25:07.000 --> 0:25:09.080
<v Speaker 5>I didn't know nothing about her, you feel me? He

0:25:09.160 --> 0:25:11.639
<v Speaker 5>was just like, man, I'm with I'm with DeAndre. I'm like,

0:25:11.640 --> 0:25:13.200
<v Speaker 5>who is that. He's like, man, it's the young daughter.

0:25:13.200 --> 0:25:15.159
<v Speaker 4>You feel me. It's like my little sister, it's her birthday.

0:25:15.240 --> 0:25:15.679
<v Speaker 4>Singing to her.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm like, what, don't be singing the folks on the phone.

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<v Speaker 5>You know what I'm saying, y'all get crazy?

0:25:20.240 --> 0:25:20.720
<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>And he like and he like, brother, just saying, so

0:25:22.760 --> 0:25:24.320
<v Speaker 5>I'm gonna put on the phone. He put on the phone,

0:25:24.920 --> 0:25:26.800
<v Speaker 5>and when I sing it, I'm like, oh, she's super pretty.

0:25:26.840 --> 0:25:28.960
<v Speaker 5>I started singing. I ain't no never seen the people

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<v Speaker 5>on the phone, you know what I'm saying. I just

0:25:30.560 --> 0:25:32.640
<v Speaker 5>started singing. And she was just like, oh thank you.

0:25:32.760 --> 0:25:37.320
<v Speaker 5>And I was like, oh damn. I was like that, yeah,

0:25:38.880 --> 0:25:41.840
<v Speaker 5>shy bad. And I just started DM her and I

0:25:41.920 --> 0:25:45.960
<v Speaker 5>met her in Miami and then we just started kicking it,

0:25:46.000 --> 0:25:47.359
<v Speaker 5>like we was kicking it so hard.

0:25:47.359 --> 0:25:49.280
<v Speaker 1>I couldn't believe she was Deone Sander's daughter.

0:25:49.320 --> 0:25:49.760
<v Speaker 4>You feel me?

0:25:50.160 --> 0:25:52.040
<v Speaker 1>Like we was just kiding, gonna lie, that's a risk

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<v Speaker 1>to your life.

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<v Speaker 5>Like I was just like, I was just like dang

0:25:55.920 --> 0:25:58.840
<v Speaker 5>like shouty, really like cool as hell, like you feel me?

0:25:58.840 --> 0:26:00.240
<v Speaker 1>She was so real.

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<v Speaker 5>I was just like, damn, like this ship crazy you

0:26:03.920 --> 0:26:08.040
<v Speaker 5>feel me? I was really blown, like this don't make sense,

0:26:08.240 --> 0:26:09.359
<v Speaker 5>like shty too real.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that it's gotten into I haven't talked to

0:26:12.840 --> 0:26:22.919
<v Speaker 1>her name Atlanta so long. You heard yeah Joe buddy,

0:26:22.160 --> 0:26:26.719
<v Speaker 1>and don't do that crazy, that's crazy. I want it

0:26:26.720 --> 0:26:30.439
<v Speaker 1>because the holiday season is coming up and again digging

0:26:30.440 --> 0:26:32.720
<v Speaker 1>into relationships and how to navigate them. I have a

0:26:32.800 --> 0:26:34.720
<v Speaker 1>hypothetical that I want to throw at you.

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<v Speaker 3>Because we are in the season of gift giving, so

0:26:39.400 --> 0:26:43.120
<v Speaker 3>I want to see how you would react to this

0:26:43.160 --> 0:26:45.639
<v Speaker 3>incident happened and didn't feel free as well, because you

0:26:45.680 --> 0:26:48.040
<v Speaker 3>are dude, and so sometimes I know it could be

0:26:48.040 --> 0:26:50.960
<v Speaker 3>seeming like we're ganging up on ship. So if you

0:26:50.960 --> 0:26:52.680
<v Speaker 3>got to step in, you gotta step in shit.

0:26:53.080 --> 0:26:54.840
<v Speaker 1>So so, Queen.

0:26:55.520 --> 0:26:58.679
<v Speaker 3>You get your partner a gift for the holidays. Let's

0:26:58.680 --> 0:27:03.720
<v Speaker 3>say you buy her back. Then she absolutely hates the gift,

0:27:03.920 --> 0:27:08.200
<v Speaker 3>but doesn't tell you. Two months later, you see her

0:27:08.240 --> 0:27:11.240
<v Speaker 3>wrapping it to regift it to one of her close friends.

0:27:12.280 --> 0:27:14.840
<v Speaker 3>Don't you How do you respond to this?

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<v Speaker 4>Don't hurt. Adam met hurt before like like I'm like hurt.

0:27:19.920 --> 0:27:22.280
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because you gave a gift to someone and they

0:27:22.320 --> 0:27:24.600
<v Speaker 1>didn't like it and you gifted it.

0:27:24.680 --> 0:27:25.040
<v Speaker 4>I mean.

0:27:26.640 --> 0:27:28.920
<v Speaker 5>It's like, yeah, like you regifted it. Now if it's

0:27:28.960 --> 0:27:31.639
<v Speaker 5>like you would have told me like all right, I

0:27:31.640 --> 0:27:32.479
<v Speaker 5>don't like these?

0:27:32.760 --> 0:27:34.800
<v Speaker 3>What is it now? Let's hold on. We got to

0:27:34.800 --> 0:27:38.040
<v Speaker 3>help the audience. It's the season of giving. I really

0:27:38.119 --> 0:27:42.119
<v Speaker 3>think men have an awful awful time getting gifts that

0:27:42.200 --> 0:27:44.520
<v Speaker 3>women actually like. Fact, Weezy and I have come on

0:27:44.600 --> 0:27:46.880
<v Speaker 3>here on Patreon and had to share how niggas spent

0:27:46.960 --> 0:27:47.840
<v Speaker 3>money and we ain't.

0:27:47.760 --> 0:27:50.760
<v Speaker 2>Like that ship and then oh I'll never forget money, bitch.

0:27:52.520 --> 0:27:53.800
<v Speaker 2>It was just as read as your pants.

0:27:55.560 --> 0:27:57.760
<v Speaker 1>She hated it. She had to come on and was like,

0:27:57.800 --> 0:27:58.440
<v Speaker 1>I know it's tough.

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<v Speaker 5>It's tough about women gifts. I tell you that all

0:28:00.600 --> 0:28:01.879
<v Speaker 5>the time. I come in the house with stuff.

0:28:02.280 --> 0:28:02.840
<v Speaker 1>She told me.

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<v Speaker 4>About her again, Yeah, I tell her because.

0:28:08.080 --> 0:28:10.439
<v Speaker 1>You know, I wanted to ask you something before, So

0:28:10.520 --> 0:28:12.480
<v Speaker 1>how did you pick up the ring? Oh?

0:28:12.680 --> 0:28:13.760
<v Speaker 4>So I had my sister's with.

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<v Speaker 1>Me, but did they know what shape? Because I realized

0:28:17.119 --> 0:28:19.800
<v Speaker 1>now I knew, I knew. I'm like I want to.

0:28:19.920 --> 0:28:21.919
<v Speaker 1>I want her like, I'm like, I want harringe to

0:28:21.960 --> 0:28:22.800
<v Speaker 1>be like my earrings.

0:28:23.280 --> 0:28:25.159
<v Speaker 3>Wait, you knew what you wanted her to wear, but

0:28:25.200 --> 0:28:27.000
<v Speaker 3>did you know what type of ring she wanted to want.

0:28:27.000 --> 0:28:28.399
<v Speaker 4>I don't know what she wanted, but I ended up

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<v Speaker 4>buying her dream ring. Oh god, you.

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<v Speaker 2>Got Look you know what I think about when I

0:28:33.920 --> 0:28:36.080
<v Speaker 2>think about a bad ring sex in the city when

0:28:36.119 --> 0:28:36.639
<v Speaker 2>she threw up.

0:28:36.720 --> 0:28:39.680
<v Speaker 1>You remember that moment? M m. She found the ring

0:28:39.800 --> 0:28:43.920
<v Speaker 1>reference in the closet and threw up, and everybody was like,

0:28:44.240 --> 0:28:45.520
<v Speaker 1>what made you throw She was like, it was a

0:28:45.560 --> 0:28:47.400
<v Speaker 1>pair of shaving. It just kind of man. It was

0:28:47.440 --> 0:28:49.360
<v Speaker 1>all sick to the stomach, and I'm like, yo, I

0:28:49.360 --> 0:28:51.200
<v Speaker 1>would be so happy. I would just live with it. Bro,

0:28:51.920 --> 0:28:55.280
<v Speaker 1>I feel like I want it. I wanted. I won't

0:28:55.280 --> 0:28:56.200
<v Speaker 1>want to in my handle.

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<v Speaker 4>You got it?

0:28:57.040 --> 0:28:57.480
<v Speaker 1>You got it?

0:28:57.520 --> 0:28:58.800
<v Speaker 4>Are you saying you seen shot ring?

0:28:59.240 --> 0:29:01.720
<v Speaker 1>Oh no, it's not. He that thing was listening. I

0:29:01.760 --> 0:29:02.640
<v Speaker 1>told my friend.

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<v Speaker 2>Girl, let me say put it like you know, I

0:29:05.120 --> 0:29:07.600
<v Speaker 2>will say this though. If I'm dating I mean your

0:29:07.760 --> 0:29:10.600
<v Speaker 2>RnB singer rapper Energy my Ring.

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<v Speaker 1>Can't be mad.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry, No, can't be telling me my nigga can't

0:29:13.200 --> 0:29:16.080
<v Speaker 2>go through TSA without taking everything off and I have

0:29:16.160 --> 0:29:17.520
<v Speaker 2>to put your normal ring.

0:29:17.560 --> 0:29:19.479
<v Speaker 1>But to be fair, you also just brought up not

0:29:19.520 --> 0:29:24.000
<v Speaker 1>liking well my d don't go off in ts. No,

0:29:24.120 --> 0:29:25.800
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying like I just thought you have to take

0:29:25.800 --> 0:29:34.240
<v Speaker 1>off everything because he said you say metal bit. You

0:29:34.360 --> 0:29:43.640
<v Speaker 1>know what he said. I don't have to sorry, I

0:29:43.680 --> 0:29:45.200
<v Speaker 1>honestly and when I said it, it didn't come out of

0:29:45.240 --> 0:29:46.120
<v Speaker 1>my mother and something.

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<v Speaker 3>So then you so, as men who are thoughtful and

0:29:50.040 --> 0:29:53.040
<v Speaker 3>gift given, if your partner doesn't like it, it does

0:29:53.160 --> 0:29:55.640
<v Speaker 3>have an impact on you. But then how would you

0:29:55.680 --> 0:29:59.320
<v Speaker 3>want your partner to say, hey, babe, I don't.

0:29:59.040 --> 0:29:59.640
<v Speaker 1>Really like it.

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<v Speaker 5>Only got an impact on you by the reaction of

0:30:02.320 --> 0:30:03.760
<v Speaker 5>how they do when you give them a gift. Like

0:30:03.800 --> 0:30:06.760
<v Speaker 5>if I give somebody something they like thank you, but

0:30:06.840 --> 0:30:07.960
<v Speaker 5>I don't, it'll make.

0:30:07.840 --> 0:30:12.200
<v Speaker 3>You and then come to you like, hey babe.

0:30:12.040 --> 0:30:14.640
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think it because you could either be younger.

0:30:14.520 --> 0:30:17.000
<v Speaker 5>I it depends on how you said, Like if you

0:30:17.040 --> 0:30:18.840
<v Speaker 5>say it on some cool funny ship like that, I

0:30:18.920 --> 0:30:20.960
<v Speaker 5>might laugh and be like, you know, like, damn, what

0:30:21.040 --> 0:30:21.560
<v Speaker 5>the fuck I.

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<v Speaker 3>Gotta make a joke of the gift you gave me.

0:30:23.480 --> 0:30:25.520
<v Speaker 3>Tell me how to tell a nigga, I don't like

0:30:25.520 --> 0:30:27.200
<v Speaker 3>what they got because you never know how hard a

0:30:27.240 --> 0:30:28.120
<v Speaker 3>nigga went to get it.

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<v Speaker 1>Can okay, can you give her a gift real quick?

0:30:33.040 --> 0:30:38.040
<v Speaker 1>And then okay you respond wheezy, you don't like the gift?

0:30:40.760 --> 0:30:50.880
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, you got me? Oh my god? Okay?

0:30:50.960 --> 0:30:54.840
<v Speaker 1>So wait, as a man, would this reaction be okay

0:30:55.040 --> 0:30:57.440
<v Speaker 1>even though it's even though you know it's a little

0:30:57.440 --> 0:30:58.080
<v Speaker 1>bit of a lie.

0:30:58.720 --> 0:31:00.000
<v Speaker 4>H Yeah, I would be a little sick.

0:31:03.120 --> 0:31:03.280
<v Speaker 6>You know.

0:31:03.360 --> 0:31:05.920
<v Speaker 2>My grandmother says to me one time, God rest, I

0:31:05.960 --> 0:31:07.760
<v Speaker 2>got her a fucking sweater I'll never forget.

0:31:08.400 --> 0:31:11.240
<v Speaker 1>She opened the box on Christmas that's like twenty fifteen,

0:31:12.200 --> 0:31:13.760
<v Speaker 1>and she went like this. Oh.

0:31:14.520 --> 0:31:16.200
<v Speaker 2>I was like, what's wrong with it? And she was like,

0:31:16.240 --> 0:31:17.880
<v Speaker 2>I don't think I like it. I said, Grandma's have

0:31:17.880 --> 0:31:22.160
<v Speaker 2>thought that count She said, don't think about me. I

0:31:22.200 --> 0:31:24.960
<v Speaker 2>was like, that was my life, that's real. Don't think

0:31:24.960 --> 0:31:27.600
<v Speaker 2>about it for real? So can we can we bring

0:31:27.640 --> 0:31:27.920
<v Speaker 2>that up?

0:31:27.920 --> 0:31:28.160
<v Speaker 1>Though?

0:31:28.720 --> 0:31:31.160
<v Speaker 3>Is there a moment where it actually is the thought

0:31:31.200 --> 0:31:33.600
<v Speaker 3>that counts? I think that the bulls a line.

0:31:33.640 --> 0:31:35.480
<v Speaker 1>I told you, it's like this, I feel like, what

0:31:35.520 --> 0:31:35.880
<v Speaker 1>a gift.

0:31:35.920 --> 0:31:37.480
<v Speaker 4>You should be thankful regardless.

0:31:37.480 --> 0:31:40.600
<v Speaker 3>So I disagree and let me bring up the phone.

0:31:40.880 --> 0:31:43.720
<v Speaker 3>I'm not gonna bring up the flowers, bitch, Dad shut up.

0:31:44.520 --> 0:31:46.800
<v Speaker 1>So my nigga and I argued over Mandy, I told

0:31:46.840 --> 0:31:48.040
<v Speaker 1>you he showed me.

0:31:48.040 --> 0:31:52.600
<v Speaker 3>Right, Okay, okay, So to me, the thought that counts

0:31:54.320 --> 0:31:56.680
<v Speaker 3>a brings it down to being something bare minimum.

0:31:56.760 --> 0:31:59.880
<v Speaker 1>We all have thoughts, we all and when holidays come around,

0:32:00.120 --> 0:32:01.400
<v Speaker 1>it's almost like second nature.

0:32:01.400 --> 0:32:03.720
<v Speaker 3>Fuck, I gotta get a gift when Valentine's they come around,

0:32:03.720 --> 0:32:06.480
<v Speaker 3>birthdays come around, when there's moments that come around where

0:32:06.520 --> 0:32:10.120
<v Speaker 3>technically gift giving is a part of it. The thought

0:32:10.120 --> 0:32:13.480
<v Speaker 3>that counts actually is the bare minimum because you already

0:32:13.520 --> 0:32:16.200
<v Speaker 3>know there's going to be an exchange of something. So to me,

0:32:17.040 --> 0:32:21.240
<v Speaker 3>being intentional with a listening to me or getting me

0:32:21.360 --> 0:32:25.640
<v Speaker 3>something that you know will enhance my whatever my life

0:32:25.640 --> 0:32:30.000
<v Speaker 3>in whatever way, or that I've actually asked for. So yes,

0:32:30.040 --> 0:32:31.480
<v Speaker 3>I'm okay, I'm not gonna bring up the flowers, but

0:32:31.520 --> 0:32:34.200
<v Speaker 3>I'm a bring I'm gonna bring up the surprise party.

0:32:35.200 --> 0:32:36.720
<v Speaker 1>So when I was.

0:32:38.880 --> 0:32:43.080
<v Speaker 3>So when I was in my previous relationship, I'm not

0:32:43.200 --> 0:32:46.040
<v Speaker 3>big on celebrating birthdays. I don't want to do birthday dinners.

0:32:46.120 --> 0:32:48.680
<v Speaker 3>I don't want everyone around and in the moment, I

0:32:48.840 --> 0:32:49.640
<v Speaker 3>just wanted.

0:32:49.360 --> 0:32:51.400
<v Speaker 1>A spa day with my nigga. That is it.

0:32:51.880 --> 0:32:53.880
<v Speaker 3>I was very adamant let all my friends know I

0:32:53.920 --> 0:32:55.960
<v Speaker 3>don't want I don't even want nothing but a spot day.

0:32:56.080 --> 0:32:59.320
<v Speaker 3>There was a lot going on with work my birthday.

0:33:00.040 --> 0:33:05.000
<v Speaker 3>He gives me a surprise party. All my friends are there,

0:33:05.320 --> 0:33:09.440
<v Speaker 3>there's a cake, there's food. I'm surprised with a surprise party.

0:33:12.560 --> 0:33:16.680
<v Speaker 1>I roast that nigga on a podcast the next week

0:33:17.360 --> 0:33:20.640
<v Speaker 1>and bring up how much I absolutely hated it because

0:33:20.680 --> 0:33:23.280
<v Speaker 1>I thought, you know what, this nigga didn't even listen

0:33:23.360 --> 0:33:26.080
<v Speaker 1>on what I wanted. No, I told him.

0:33:26.120 --> 0:33:28.560
<v Speaker 3>I told him that following week, and then we got

0:33:28.560 --> 0:33:29.920
<v Speaker 3>into an argument, which is why I brought it up

0:33:29.920 --> 0:33:31.880
<v Speaker 3>on the podcast. I brought it up on the other pot,

0:33:31.960 --> 0:33:35.760
<v Speaker 3>but I ended up being upset because in that moment

0:33:35.920 --> 0:33:38.800
<v Speaker 3>me telling him I didn't like it, he said, I've

0:33:38.840 --> 0:33:41.360
<v Speaker 3>never done that for anybody, and he made me feel

0:33:41.360 --> 0:33:44.400
<v Speaker 3>like I was ungrateful because he went out of his

0:33:44.440 --> 0:33:46.640
<v Speaker 3>way to get me something I didn't want.

0:33:47.400 --> 0:33:48.440
<v Speaker 1>There's a problem there.

0:33:48.480 --> 0:33:52.320
<v Speaker 3>There's an intentionality of you literally going out of the

0:33:52.320 --> 0:33:54.400
<v Speaker 3>way to give me something I don't want. And now

0:33:54.440 --> 0:33:57.120
<v Speaker 3>you're trying to make me seem ungrateful because you got

0:33:57.120 --> 0:33:58.840
<v Speaker 3>me the one thing I said I didn't want. You

0:33:58.880 --> 0:34:01.000
<v Speaker 3>don't get a pat on the back for the thought

0:34:01.320 --> 0:34:03.400
<v Speaker 3>of doing something that meant something to you and not

0:34:03.520 --> 0:34:05.560
<v Speaker 3>to me. And so I think it's the same thing.

0:34:05.640 --> 0:34:08.120
<v Speaker 3>Let's bring up the example. No, but don't do that.

0:34:08.280 --> 0:34:12.800
<v Speaker 1>Wait is that no? Do you know I want to

0:34:13.160 --> 0:34:15.759
<v Speaker 1>I want to bring up pop culture. I don't know.

0:34:15.840 --> 0:34:18.719
<v Speaker 1>Did y'all see this year? Even Swizz Beats went on

0:34:18.760 --> 0:34:23.400
<v Speaker 1>a on an interview and say, yo, I got I

0:34:23.400 --> 0:34:25.200
<v Speaker 1>got Alicia on one.

0:34:25.280 --> 0:34:27.920
<v Speaker 3>I think there was only seven cars made. Uh this

0:34:28.120 --> 0:34:29.680
<v Speaker 3>certain type of car. Look up the car at it

0:34:29.760 --> 0:34:32.200
<v Speaker 3>if you can. And he went on and he was like, man,

0:34:32.320 --> 0:34:35.319
<v Speaker 3>there was only like seven of these made. I got

0:34:35.320 --> 0:34:39.480
<v Speaker 3>it for her birthday. And that ship collecting does she

0:34:39.520 --> 0:34:42.279
<v Speaker 3>ain't even drove it. She don't like it. I spent

0:34:42.440 --> 0:34:43.520
<v Speaker 3>all this money on it.

0:34:44.320 --> 0:34:50.719
<v Speaker 1>Well it's a it's virgils three hundred thousand dollars. Yes. Yeah,

0:34:50.800 --> 0:34:52.719
<v Speaker 1>I'm not saying I hate rich people because they want.

0:34:52.600 --> 0:34:56.640
<v Speaker 3>To be on but literally and what he what he

0:34:56.920 --> 0:34:59.919
<v Speaker 3>even came to realize in that moment, was I bought

0:35:00.120 --> 0:35:01.280
<v Speaker 3>or something that I wanted myself.

0:35:01.400 --> 0:35:03.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, five five hundred thousand dollars car.

0:35:04.120 --> 0:35:07.120
<v Speaker 3>She hated it, didn't drive it, and he was like, damn,

0:35:07.280 --> 0:35:09.160
<v Speaker 3>I realized in that moment, that's not even what my

0:35:09.200 --> 0:35:12.800
<v Speaker 3>wife wanted. And he did feel like she was fucking

0:35:13.480 --> 0:35:14.160
<v Speaker 3>awful for.

0:35:14.200 --> 0:35:20.640
<v Speaker 1>Not being hold on what the only I ain't hard?

0:35:20.880 --> 0:35:21.560
<v Speaker 1>Give me what I like.

0:35:21.600 --> 0:35:23.480
<v Speaker 5>Nigga, Now I gotta say to somebody what you said?

0:35:23.560 --> 0:35:27.719
<v Speaker 5>So boom So you had told buddy like you were like,

0:35:30.560 --> 0:35:31.360
<v Speaker 5>you know what I'm saying.

0:35:32.640 --> 0:35:33.239
<v Speaker 4>You know what I'm saying.

0:35:33.239 --> 0:35:38.120
<v Speaker 5>You all that you told buddy basically like damn, it's

0:35:38.120 --> 0:35:39.799
<v Speaker 5>my birthday. You know what I'm saying, Like I really

0:35:39.840 --> 0:35:41.399
<v Speaker 5>don't want to do nothing this year. I just want

0:35:41.440 --> 0:35:43.120
<v Speaker 5>to have a spot day, right, Bama, tell you something,

0:35:43.120 --> 0:35:46.480
<v Speaker 5>I dues think my niggas ain't right. Niggas ain't like

0:35:46.600 --> 0:35:50.080
<v Speaker 5>because then especially who you are, right, niggas think like damn. Okay,

0:35:50.800 --> 0:35:54.080
<v Speaker 5>Shotty said she didn't want to do nothing for her birthday. Okay,

0:35:54.360 --> 0:35:56.799
<v Speaker 5>I'm trying to wild shot it. Like whenever nigga here

0:35:56.840 --> 0:35:58.680
<v Speaker 5>girl say she don't want to do something for a birthday,

0:35:58.800 --> 0:36:00.799
<v Speaker 5>a nigga atually get to think like now we're doing

0:36:00.800 --> 0:36:02.319
<v Speaker 5>some for a birthday because I know she wanted to

0:36:02.320 --> 0:36:06.319
<v Speaker 5>do something for a birthday. Maybe maybe ain't got it

0:36:06.640 --> 0:36:09.080
<v Speaker 5>shot like or maybe shouty like trying to figure it out.

0:36:09.120 --> 0:36:10.839
<v Speaker 5>So I'm gonna figure it out for a boom. Hey,

0:36:10.880 --> 0:36:13.280
<v Speaker 5>you know, shy like, let's have a surprise party.

0:36:13.480 --> 0:36:13.880
<v Speaker 4>Boom.

0:36:14.160 --> 0:36:14.880
<v Speaker 1>You know what's crazy.

0:36:15.360 --> 0:36:18.480
<v Speaker 3>I'm not even fake reaches for my wallet to pay

0:36:18.520 --> 0:36:21.440
<v Speaker 3>for a date. You know exactly what you're getting with me,

0:36:21.800 --> 0:36:23.120
<v Speaker 3>So that me.

0:36:23.200 --> 0:36:27.799
<v Speaker 1>Saying what I wanted to do? What did you get

0:36:27.840 --> 0:36:31.040
<v Speaker 1>at the spots? Also? Oh, three breakups later because I

0:36:31.080 --> 0:36:34.680
<v Speaker 1>had a coupon Thank you Erica and meet Love for that. Okay, wait,

0:36:34.880 --> 0:36:36.160
<v Speaker 1>now let me just say this one thing from him.

0:36:37.200 --> 0:36:41.640
<v Speaker 1>I got it from my friends, but you.

0:36:41.719 --> 0:36:45.120
<v Speaker 3>Always been My friends got me a two hundred dollars

0:36:45.120 --> 0:36:47.480
<v Speaker 3>so Joe Spot gift card because my friends listen to

0:36:47.560 --> 0:36:48.000
<v Speaker 3>what I want.

0:36:48.960 --> 0:36:51.040
<v Speaker 1>But see he trying to go to the spot already

0:36:51.040 --> 0:36:53.480
<v Speaker 1>and do it right. This is I didn't really think

0:36:53.480 --> 0:36:54.799
<v Speaker 1>of it like this, But now that you said this,

0:36:56.000 --> 0:36:57.319
<v Speaker 1>a lot of niggas that date me.

0:36:57.280 --> 0:36:58.960
<v Speaker 2>Feel like it's hard to give me anything because I

0:36:59.000 --> 0:37:01.359
<v Speaker 2>always get it myself. My nigga said to my face,

0:37:01.400 --> 0:37:03.120
<v Speaker 2>like when you took me to so like, thank god

0:37:03.160 --> 0:37:04.040
<v Speaker 2>you ain't fucking been here.

0:37:04.080 --> 0:37:06.120
<v Speaker 1>You don't think I could have throw myself a surprise party. No,

0:37:06.160 --> 0:37:08.880
<v Speaker 1>I don't think you can throw yourself. It's an effort.

0:37:08.920 --> 0:37:11.560
<v Speaker 1>But that's the point. But see, so that's so this

0:37:11.640 --> 0:37:15.239
<v Speaker 1>is my point for men. It's the effort to me,

0:37:15.400 --> 0:37:18.600
<v Speaker 1>then the gift in what you do, the gesture becomes

0:37:18.600 --> 0:37:21.640
<v Speaker 1>about you, not about your partner. Why do you think that, though, Well,

0:37:21.680 --> 0:37:22.840
<v Speaker 1>that's because.

0:37:22.600 --> 0:37:25.759
<v Speaker 3>Because literally, yo, I'm going out of my way to

0:37:25.800 --> 0:37:27.719
<v Speaker 3>do this. He brought up that he'd never done it

0:37:27.760 --> 0:37:30.080
<v Speaker 3>for a woman before that he felt proud of that

0:37:30.120 --> 0:37:32.439
<v Speaker 3>moment and so it did something for him.

0:37:32.800 --> 0:37:34.239
<v Speaker 1>But you literally went out of your way.

0:37:34.320 --> 0:37:37.320
<v Speaker 5>But it's like you made him feel like that. Oh wow,

0:37:37.719 --> 0:37:39.560
<v Speaker 5>it's like you made It's like, yeah, you made him

0:37:39.560 --> 0:37:41.560
<v Speaker 5>want to go out of his way. Did know what

0:37:41.560 --> 0:37:43.759
<v Speaker 5>I'm saying? It's like you made a nig. It's like

0:37:43.880 --> 0:37:45.640
<v Speaker 5>it's like I like you so much. You make me

0:37:45.680 --> 0:37:47.680
<v Speaker 5>want to go call out your friends and go out

0:37:47.719 --> 0:37:50.239
<v Speaker 5>my way to celebrate you. Like I like you that much.

0:37:50.280 --> 0:37:51.960
<v Speaker 5>Like I heard you say that you ain't want to

0:37:51.960 --> 0:37:53.760
<v Speaker 5>do nothing for your birthday, but I know you Mandy

0:37:53.920 --> 0:37:56.120
<v Speaker 5>like it. So it's like I heard you say you

0:37:56.160 --> 0:37:58.520
<v Speaker 5>ain't like but but it's your birthday though, like if

0:37:58.520 --> 0:37:59.919
<v Speaker 5>we celebrate you like, that's how.

0:37:59.840 --> 0:38:01.719
<v Speaker 2>An you know, I did not think I was gonna

0:38:01.719 --> 0:38:05.000
<v Speaker 2>be team red Pants instead of that's crazy. But that's

0:38:05.000 --> 0:38:10.719
<v Speaker 2>how they So you'll say overall, because this is the

0:38:10.719 --> 0:38:13.280
<v Speaker 2>consensus I'm getting, are we saying?

0:38:13.320 --> 0:38:18.200
<v Speaker 3>Then in gift giving women should just literally it's the

0:38:18.239 --> 0:38:21.879
<v Speaker 3>thought that counts. And to not share whether they hate

0:38:21.920 --> 0:38:24.000
<v Speaker 3>something or not. Should should we eat that?

0:38:24.080 --> 0:38:25.440
<v Speaker 1>Then to not?

0:38:25.600 --> 0:38:27.799
<v Speaker 4>It just depends on hold on, we got we.

0:38:27.760 --> 0:38:29.719
<v Speaker 3>Got we got an audience to say she said no,

0:38:29.920 --> 0:38:32.480
<v Speaker 3>But that's what I'm hearing because of the effort that

0:38:32.520 --> 0:38:35.440
<v Speaker 3>the man puts in. So then how can we be

0:38:35.560 --> 0:38:38.040
<v Speaker 3>honest in a relationship? I think it was not involved

0:38:38.160 --> 0:38:40.520
<v Speaker 3>where we can share whether we dislike something.

0:38:40.560 --> 0:38:42.279
<v Speaker 5>Well, I mean it's like this, my girl can tell

0:38:42.320 --> 0:38:44.520
<v Speaker 5>me she don't like something. I'm not gonna just be heart.

0:38:45.080 --> 0:38:46.640
<v Speaker 5>You know what I'm saying might be like you just

0:38:46.680 --> 0:38:48.120
<v Speaker 5>say I came in the house with something. I went

0:38:48.160 --> 0:38:49.520
<v Speaker 5>to Louis and I brought the yards or something in

0:38:49.560 --> 0:38:50.960
<v Speaker 5>this spect and then she.

0:38:51.000 --> 0:38:52.880
<v Speaker 4>Was like, oh, may I don't like that, I'll be like,

0:38:53.040 --> 0:38:54.879
<v Speaker 4>will let go return this ship? Right?

0:38:55.600 --> 0:38:58.040
<v Speaker 5>That's what I would say, No, cap, just like that,

0:38:58.080 --> 0:38:59.839
<v Speaker 5>I'd be like, well, let go turn this ship right?

0:39:00.080 --> 0:39:01.120
<v Speaker 4>Okay, that's me though.

0:39:01.160 --> 0:39:02.560
<v Speaker 2>I wish I would have told the truth about that

0:39:02.560 --> 0:39:05.200
<v Speaker 2>one gift that was bit you did you?

0:39:05.160 --> 0:39:06.880
<v Speaker 5>You the NF I see wrapping it up, trying to

0:39:06.920 --> 0:39:10.600
<v Speaker 5>give it a man, and I'll be like, what, let

0:39:10.640 --> 0:39:11.480
<v Speaker 5>me get this ship.

0:39:13.320 --> 0:39:13.520
<v Speaker 4>Like this?

0:39:13.960 --> 0:39:18.400
<v Speaker 1>That's why, God damn let it go to you. Somewhere.

0:39:18.800 --> 0:39:21.640
<v Speaker 2>I think there's there's a thin line of like letting

0:39:21.640 --> 0:39:24.600
<v Speaker 2>someone know that you're grateful. So, man, let me tell

0:39:24.640 --> 0:39:26.319
<v Speaker 2>you something. Mandy just said her homegirl did and I

0:39:26.360 --> 0:39:27.920
<v Speaker 2>was like, this bitch is insane.

0:39:29.000 --> 0:39:32.880
<v Speaker 1>So this episode comes out before hid so we know.

0:39:33.200 --> 0:39:35.480
<v Speaker 4>That's why I was gonna try to go whatever.

0:39:36.520 --> 0:39:39.320
<v Speaker 1>So because this is this isn't the same kind of family. Okay.

0:39:39.400 --> 0:39:43.080
<v Speaker 2>Her homegirl just started dating a nigga okay three four months,

0:39:43.160 --> 0:39:46.520
<v Speaker 2>asked him to get her a toe bag.

0:39:46.880 --> 0:39:50.040
<v Speaker 1>Sorry, she asked for one, Yes, she asked for bad.

0:39:50.160 --> 0:39:54.160
<v Speaker 1>She asked like, what was like, I need a bag?

0:39:54.200 --> 0:39:55.040
<v Speaker 4>Can you give me a bag?

0:39:55.480 --> 0:39:58.359
<v Speaker 1>I don't like how you work you praise that way.

0:39:58.960 --> 0:40:02.400
<v Speaker 1>I'm sure wasn't praised way. So the dude gets like that,

0:40:02.680 --> 0:40:05.160
<v Speaker 1>don't do that. And this is why we got to

0:40:05.160 --> 0:40:09.440
<v Speaker 1>buy a home up the ship that you said, I

0:40:09.480 --> 0:40:10.000
<v Speaker 1>really think.

0:40:09.840 --> 0:40:11.040
<v Speaker 4>It's Tates her real ship.

0:40:11.040 --> 0:40:13.360
<v Speaker 5>When I was first getting with DeAndre right like this,

0:40:13.480 --> 0:40:15.600
<v Speaker 5>before we was dating anything like like we was first

0:40:15.680 --> 0:40:17.719
<v Speaker 5>kind of like liking each other and know me, like,

0:40:17.920 --> 0:40:19.920
<v Speaker 5>I was always go in the Louis store, right, and

0:40:19.960 --> 0:40:22.480
<v Speaker 5>she would always be like, buy me something like I

0:40:22.560 --> 0:40:25.040
<v Speaker 5>never would you feel me? I just never would you

0:40:25.080 --> 0:40:26.360
<v Speaker 5>know what I'm saying. I remember she brought me a

0:40:26.440 --> 0:40:28.640
<v Speaker 5>Lowis hat, right. She would never give it to me,

0:40:31.280 --> 0:40:32.080
<v Speaker 5>that is, but.

0:40:33.920 --> 0:40:35.640
<v Speaker 3>So she just took a picture of it. It was like, God,

0:40:35.640 --> 0:40:36.759
<v Speaker 3>this way you baby, but never came it.

0:40:37.000 --> 0:40:39.960
<v Speaker 4>Got it, she rocked it. I never wore it. She

0:40:40.000 --> 0:40:41.640
<v Speaker 4>wore she said, I'm aware this, yo.

0:40:41.760 --> 0:40:45.239
<v Speaker 1>That's really funny that together. Have you ever seen that

0:40:45.280 --> 0:40:47.160
<v Speaker 1>little meme when a gift she was like, he's not

0:40:47.160 --> 0:40:51.920
<v Speaker 1>your nigga, your nigga, that's me. That is funny. Okay.

0:40:51.960 --> 0:40:55.480
<v Speaker 2>So the friend asked for the bag, right, he gives

0:40:55.520 --> 0:40:58.680
<v Speaker 2>her bag. That's our bag, it's Mark Jacobs. What was

0:40:58.680 --> 0:41:00.320
<v Speaker 2>her response, I don't.

0:41:01.040 --> 0:41:04.319
<v Speaker 3>Do you have Mark Jacobs in your closet? Why do

0:41:04.360 --> 0:41:06.799
<v Speaker 3>you think Mark Jacob? Look at the jaw drop.

0:41:06.960 --> 0:41:07.640
<v Speaker 4>I got Mark.

0:41:07.560 --> 0:41:11.160
<v Speaker 1>Jacobs, but he did it felt like, if you don't

0:41:11.160 --> 0:41:13.919
<v Speaker 1>have Mark Jacobs in your closet, you have go Yard,

0:41:13.920 --> 0:41:15.640
<v Speaker 1>you have Gucci, you have all these other things.

0:41:15.719 --> 0:41:16.759
<v Speaker 4>Why are you doing this for me?

0:41:17.560 --> 0:41:20.440
<v Speaker 1>Do you do you think I'm less than what you think?

0:41:20.440 --> 0:41:25.560
<v Speaker 5>It's just like, does this Does this bag show how

0:41:25.600 --> 0:41:26.520
<v Speaker 5>much I value you?

0:41:26.600 --> 0:41:28.040
<v Speaker 4>Does this bag show your value?

0:41:28.360 --> 0:41:29.279
<v Speaker 1>You asked for it.

0:41:30.120 --> 0:41:32.560
<v Speaker 5>If you wanted some specific I mean, yeah, you asked

0:41:32.560 --> 0:41:33.960
<v Speaker 5>for a new bag. I don't know it had to

0:41:34.000 --> 0:41:37.840
<v Speaker 5>be Gucci. She would have threw me off. Okay, I

0:41:38.880 --> 0:41:40.760
<v Speaker 5>would have been like, yeah, I'm straighted on you, you trimp,

0:41:40.880 --> 0:41:43.760
<v Speaker 5>because this ain't even about none of this ship you.

0:41:43.760 --> 0:41:45.640
<v Speaker 5>You asked for a bag like I could have brought

0:41:45.680 --> 0:41:50.600
<v Speaker 5>you a jan sport You feel I could have.

0:41:54.000 --> 0:41:55.680
<v Speaker 1>Sport is hold on, We're not gonna let you get that.

0:41:55.719 --> 0:41:56.399
<v Speaker 1>All you need?

0:41:59.360 --> 0:41:59.920
<v Speaker 4>What type of man?

0:42:00.080 --> 0:42:02.960
<v Speaker 1>We talked, Okay, you need something walk around with like

0:42:03.000 --> 0:42:05.320
<v Speaker 1>we got my song rock his sport.

0:42:06.040 --> 0:42:07.640
<v Speaker 4>I'm talking about how we coming you need something?

0:42:07.680 --> 0:42:10.560
<v Speaker 1>Wrong? He said, you know this is real, This is

0:42:10.600 --> 0:42:13.799
<v Speaker 1>I got you to make. But you're not all right.

0:42:13.880 --> 0:42:14.760
<v Speaker 4>Let you one thousand.

0:42:15.560 --> 0:42:17.239
<v Speaker 2>If I got you fruit of the loons, where you say, yo,

0:42:17.280 --> 0:42:18.759
<v Speaker 2>I want some nice boxers, you'd be like you went

0:42:18.840 --> 0:42:19.360
<v Speaker 2>to Walmart.

0:42:19.600 --> 0:42:21.880
<v Speaker 5>You gottah, I promise you. All they gotta do for

0:42:21.920 --> 0:42:24.359
<v Speaker 5>me is be all black. I don't even I don't

0:42:24.360 --> 0:42:27.759
<v Speaker 5>even know what but this I but you know what,

0:42:27.920 --> 0:42:29.240
<v Speaker 5>like I'm a different type of nigga.

0:42:29.400 --> 0:42:31.680
<v Speaker 2>So I thought the toe bad comment was crazy. I

0:42:31.760 --> 0:42:34.640
<v Speaker 2>honestly was like, Yo, this is some bird ship like.

0:42:35.000 --> 0:42:36.120
<v Speaker 4>But for something else.

0:42:36.239 --> 0:42:38.920
<v Speaker 1>But I think that what did I just say? But

0:42:38.960 --> 0:42:40.759
<v Speaker 1>I think the main thing about it that's looking at

0:42:40.760 --> 0:42:43.560
<v Speaker 1>that nigga bags like, Okay, if I get with him instantly,

0:42:44.000 --> 0:42:45.919
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna get what he gets. But you can't.

0:42:46.080 --> 0:42:47.319
<v Speaker 4>You can't think you getting with a man.

0:42:47.520 --> 0:42:51.440
<v Speaker 1>Get you said what you said. He's as broken he

0:42:51.560 --> 0:42:53.400
<v Speaker 1>made like he just real estates. But it's like what

0:42:54.080 --> 0:42:57.080
<v Speaker 1>don't got no problems?

0:42:57.400 --> 0:42:59.239
<v Speaker 4>I mean, but what I make, like what a man make,

0:42:59.280 --> 0:43:02.520
<v Speaker 4>don't got to do it a woman nothing.

0:43:02.680 --> 0:43:04.920
<v Speaker 1>It's like I can a man. I just feel like

0:43:04.960 --> 0:43:06.319
<v Speaker 1>I can have nothing to do with a woman.

0:43:06.400 --> 0:43:06.440
<v Speaker 6>No.

0:43:06.520 --> 0:43:08.480
<v Speaker 5>I feel like I could make a million dollars and

0:43:08.520 --> 0:43:10.680
<v Speaker 5>you could work at Marshalls. I don't have to give

0:43:10.719 --> 0:43:11.240
<v Speaker 5>you my money.

0:43:11.320 --> 0:43:13.880
<v Speaker 1>We're not gonna break up. God that is, We're not

0:43:13.880 --> 0:43:15.120
<v Speaker 1>gonna do it. We're not gonna do it. We're not

0:43:15.120 --> 0:43:16.840
<v Speaker 1>gonna do We don't talked about the Marshall's story and

0:43:16.880 --> 0:43:19.879
<v Speaker 1>that the audience knows about Mark. People did not believe it.

0:43:20.360 --> 0:43:24.480
<v Speaker 2>He makes in the hundreds millions, right, This nigga started

0:43:24.560 --> 0:43:26.200
<v Speaker 2>dating a girl was a TJ Max. It was TJ

0:43:26.280 --> 0:43:29.319
<v Speaker 2>Max and literally he was like, she cut it off

0:43:29.320 --> 0:43:31.000
<v Speaker 2>with him because he was trying to give her money

0:43:31.040 --> 0:43:32.440
<v Speaker 2>to go to school do different shit, and she was like,

0:43:32.480 --> 0:43:34.799
<v Speaker 2>I like managing in retail, Like I went in retail.

0:43:34.680 --> 0:43:36.359
<v Speaker 1>So why I mean, why did they break up? He

0:43:36.400 --> 0:43:37.560
<v Speaker 1>was trying to He was like, I'm not gonna do

0:43:37.760 --> 0:43:38.200
<v Speaker 1>She said that.

0:43:38.160 --> 0:43:40.440
<v Speaker 2>He wasn't happy with being with her. She believed it,

0:43:40.480 --> 0:43:41.960
<v Speaker 2>and he literally he met her in the airport. She

0:43:42.000 --> 0:43:43.480
<v Speaker 2>was going on some solo trip and when he called

0:43:43.520 --> 0:43:45.120
<v Speaker 2>me about it, he's, Yo, this bitch so dope, like

0:43:45.239 --> 0:43:47.360
<v Speaker 2>she's about to go back back into jungle by herself.

0:43:47.760 --> 0:43:50.040
<v Speaker 2>And when he found out she managed TJ Max, he

0:43:50.120 --> 0:43:52.920
<v Speaker 2>said it was slightly embarrassing, but like he was how.

0:43:52.920 --> 0:43:54.640
<v Speaker 1>Was that embarrassing. That should have turned him on more.

0:43:54.680 --> 0:43:56.919
<v Speaker 1>He not a real nigga. I think. I think it's

0:43:56.920 --> 0:43:59.160
<v Speaker 1>more so like I want the woman i'm with.

0:43:59.360 --> 0:44:00.360
<v Speaker 4>He not a real nigga.

0:44:00.480 --> 0:44:03.680
<v Speaker 1>Hold on thicking up because that's your friend. But lamb

0:44:03.680 --> 0:44:04.600
<v Speaker 1>talk lame getting it off.

0:44:04.680 --> 0:44:07.080
<v Speaker 5>No, but how he's not a real nigga. This man

0:44:07.200 --> 0:44:10.400
<v Speaker 5>just said Shoorty worked at TJ Max. I was embarrassed.

0:44:10.680 --> 0:44:13.040
<v Speaker 5>Let me tell you some rich shiit DeAndre. That's my

0:44:13.080 --> 0:44:15.399
<v Speaker 5>girl regardless. We're just talking out. Were just talking right

0:44:15.440 --> 0:44:17.319
<v Speaker 5>If I was Jack Queeze and my girl worked at

0:44:17.320 --> 0:44:19.359
<v Speaker 5>fucking TJ Max, but I would be.

0:44:19.760 --> 0:44:21.719
<v Speaker 1>I was standing on that ship like, yeah, my girl,

0:44:21.840 --> 0:44:22.600
<v Speaker 1>like she loved that ship.

0:44:22.760 --> 0:44:24.200
<v Speaker 4>Was she the imaginer down there at TJ Max?

0:44:24.239 --> 0:44:24.440
<v Speaker 1>And he?

0:44:24.600 --> 0:44:26.440
<v Speaker 5>I ain't gonna tell you all which one, but Shorty

0:44:26.480 --> 0:44:28.359
<v Speaker 5>love that ship. That ship would turn me on Mark, Okay,

0:44:28.360 --> 0:44:30.000
<v Speaker 5>hold on, go buy shorty everything.

0:44:30.640 --> 0:44:31.680
<v Speaker 1>I didn't think anything was wrong.

0:44:32.880 --> 0:44:36.000
<v Speaker 5>No, No, I started to understand everything that she ever

0:44:36.040 --> 0:44:38.480
<v Speaker 5>wanted because it's like she not looking for a nigga

0:44:38.520 --> 0:44:38.799
<v Speaker 5>for nothing.

0:44:38.840 --> 0:44:40.520
<v Speaker 1>He should have married her, you feel me?

0:44:40.680 --> 0:44:43.040
<v Speaker 2>Well, she broke up with him because she he said

0:44:43.040 --> 0:44:45.040
<v Speaker 2>he was making a lot of gestures to like start

0:44:45.040 --> 0:44:48.200
<v Speaker 2>a business, give her money to her, and she was like, yo,

0:44:48.239 --> 0:44:50.600
<v Speaker 2>you you really don't fuck with me and cut him off.

0:44:51.520 --> 0:44:52.520
<v Speaker 4>He was trying to buy here.

0:44:52.960 --> 0:44:54.920
<v Speaker 1>You want me to be?

0:44:56.040 --> 0:44:59.760
<v Speaker 2>Are men not allowed to want women in a different bracket?

0:45:00.840 --> 0:45:04.120
<v Speaker 1>Bracket? But is that what you want for yourself? That

0:45:04.239 --> 0:45:07.760
<v Speaker 1>a serious question now, right? I gotta be honest.

0:45:08.320 --> 0:45:11.000
<v Speaker 2>While I agree you make a hundred million dollars, really

0:45:11.000 --> 0:45:12.959
<v Speaker 2>don't matter where your bitch work. There was a point

0:45:13.000 --> 0:45:15.279
<v Speaker 2>in time where he started to be like, I don't

0:45:15.280 --> 0:45:16.839
<v Speaker 2>know if I could be with someone that don't really

0:45:16.840 --> 0:45:19.680
<v Speaker 2>want more than a tjal.

0:45:18.760 --> 0:45:20.719
<v Speaker 1>But I'm not gonna that's wrong.

0:45:20.840 --> 0:45:23.040
<v Speaker 4>Now, that's not wrong. That's not wrong, you thybe.

0:45:23.080 --> 0:45:23.920
<v Speaker 1>He wasn't trying to buy her.

0:45:23.960 --> 0:45:25.040
<v Speaker 4>Maybe he was a lot.

0:45:25.160 --> 0:45:26.759
<v Speaker 5>The only part why I say they weren't real because

0:45:26.760 --> 0:45:28.719
<v Speaker 5>he said he was embarrassed by a job. Now he

0:45:28.800 --> 0:45:31.040
<v Speaker 5>wants a woman that wanted to think hired. Now that's cool.

0:45:31.080 --> 0:45:33.240
<v Speaker 5>Ain't nothing wrong with that. He's just that type of nigga,

0:45:33.560 --> 0:45:35.319
<v Speaker 5>you know what I'm saying. It's different types of guys.

0:45:35.360 --> 0:45:37.280
<v Speaker 5>You know what I'm saying. He just like, we'll showy.

0:45:37.320 --> 0:45:38.760
<v Speaker 5>I want a girl that want to be the president

0:45:38.880 --> 0:45:40.600
<v Speaker 5>of the United States. You do know what I'm saying.

0:45:40.719 --> 0:45:41.920
<v Speaker 5>I don't want to go to just want to think

0:45:41.920 --> 0:45:43.680
<v Speaker 5>at TJ MA. I want my girl to be the

0:45:43.719 --> 0:45:45.879
<v Speaker 5>president you want. You know what I'm saying.

0:45:45.960 --> 0:45:49.279
<v Speaker 1>I mean and honestly because back and forth with.

0:45:49.400 --> 0:45:51.560
<v Speaker 5>Most niggas don't care about all that. Most niggas just

0:45:51.600 --> 0:45:56.480
<v Speaker 5>want it's gonna be with them. You got my bangs teammates,

0:45:56.480 --> 0:45:58.879
<v Speaker 5>he's a he's a man, little man. What I want

0:45:59.080 --> 0:46:02.960
<v Speaker 5>is someone that got my back, someone I can depend on,

0:46:03.120 --> 0:46:05.840
<v Speaker 5>someone who loves that goes back to confidence in me,

0:46:06.200 --> 0:46:07.319
<v Speaker 5>and someone that I could deal with.

0:46:07.360 --> 0:46:09.080
<v Speaker 2>Would you say that if you worked at TJ Max,

0:46:10.160 --> 0:46:12.480
<v Speaker 2>would you be just okay with someone that just supports

0:46:12.520 --> 0:46:13.399
<v Speaker 2>you if you.

0:46:13.320 --> 0:46:14.120
<v Speaker 1>Worked at Max?

0:46:14.120 --> 0:46:16.040
<v Speaker 4>If I worked at t Mex right now, hold.

0:46:15.880 --> 0:46:18.200
<v Speaker 1>On, wait, you're already someone that can provided to me.

0:46:18.280 --> 0:46:20.439
<v Speaker 1>If I worked at TJ Max asked me the question.

0:46:20.760 --> 0:46:22.840
<v Speaker 2>What I'm saying is, I think it is very easy

0:46:22.880 --> 0:46:25.440
<v Speaker 2>for successful man to say it doesn't matter.

0:46:25.520 --> 0:46:27.000
<v Speaker 1>I don't want a question, that is it.

0:46:27.120 --> 0:46:29.399
<v Speaker 2>I'm not asking a question. Before you said that, I said,

0:46:29.440 --> 0:46:30.960
<v Speaker 2>rich niggas talk like that.

0:46:31.480 --> 0:46:33.920
<v Speaker 3>She said, she said, if you worked at TJ Max,

0:46:34.200 --> 0:46:37.240
<v Speaker 3>for maybe the men listening that have just the nine.

0:46:37.080 --> 0:46:39.879
<v Speaker 1>To five you would need to know who you would

0:46:39.920 --> 0:46:42.719
<v Speaker 1>care at one moment. I disagree with that too.

0:46:44.000 --> 0:46:47.360
<v Speaker 3>The question is if you were not this super breadwinner

0:46:47.440 --> 0:46:49.440
<v Speaker 3>or this famous person, then you were just a regular

0:46:49.480 --> 0:46:50.160
<v Speaker 3>nine to five.

0:46:50.000 --> 0:46:52.759
<v Speaker 1>Work would the woman you want?

0:46:52.960 --> 0:46:55.880
<v Speaker 3>Would you also still just want her to be your

0:46:56.280 --> 0:46:59.239
<v Speaker 3>your the person that supports you, that is there for you,

0:46:59.360 --> 0:47:00.520
<v Speaker 3>or would you want to partner?

0:47:00.560 --> 0:47:02.000
<v Speaker 4>It depends on what position I'm in.

0:47:02.880 --> 0:47:05.919
<v Speaker 5>If I just got this million dollar plan and I'm like, baby,

0:47:05.960 --> 0:47:07.160
<v Speaker 5>all I need you to do is ride with me.

0:47:07.200 --> 0:47:08.759
<v Speaker 5>You ain't got to do nothing else. I just need

0:47:08.800 --> 0:47:10.560
<v Speaker 5>a You just need to support me right now. I

0:47:10.640 --> 0:47:13.200
<v Speaker 5>got everything else, then I don't need her for that.

0:47:14.480 --> 0:47:17.520
<v Speaker 5>So so and then and then if I'm a nigga

0:47:17.560 --> 0:47:19.600
<v Speaker 5>that's just sitting on my ass, you know, working at

0:47:19.600 --> 0:47:22.000
<v Speaker 5>TJ Max, I'm like, shit, I do want a new house,

0:47:22.280 --> 0:47:24.000
<v Speaker 5>but I don't feel like putting in that more work.

0:47:24.040 --> 0:47:26.839
<v Speaker 5>I am going I ain't gonna need you know, because

0:47:28.480 --> 0:47:29.960
<v Speaker 5>he ain't gonna have something to do to work at it,

0:47:29.960 --> 0:47:32.239
<v Speaker 5>because a woman is just extra. But then whant a woman?

0:47:32.280 --> 0:47:34.160
<v Speaker 5>When a man do get a woman, it does need

0:47:34.239 --> 0:47:35.600
<v Speaker 5>to be a team. This is like my girl. I

0:47:35.640 --> 0:47:37.239
<v Speaker 5>like to depend on her for certain stuff, you know

0:47:37.280 --> 0:47:37.640
<v Speaker 5>what I'm saying.

0:47:37.640 --> 0:47:38.120
<v Speaker 4>I told her.

0:47:38.160 --> 0:47:39.879
<v Speaker 5>I told her that before we got married, Like I'm

0:47:39.960 --> 0:47:41.919
<v Speaker 5>I mean, before we got engaged. I'm like, I'm gonna

0:47:41.920 --> 0:47:43.520
<v Speaker 5>have to lean on you for certain stuff. You know,

0:47:43.520 --> 0:47:44.800
<v Speaker 5>if I ever need you. You know what I'm saying, You

0:47:44.840 --> 0:47:46.160
<v Speaker 5>gonta have to be there. I remember it was certain

0:47:46.160 --> 0:47:47.640
<v Speaker 5>stuff we had to pay for for the baby shower.

0:47:47.719 --> 0:47:48.759
<v Speaker 5>This one I knew I could marry.

0:47:48.760 --> 0:47:50.600
<v Speaker 4>All right. We was going over the list.

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<v Speaker 1>Of tenure.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm looking at the expensive so I see some ship

0:47:57.080 --> 0:48:00.160
<v Speaker 5>for like thirteen hundred and it's a paid so I'm like,

0:48:00.200 --> 0:48:02.520
<v Speaker 5>oh shit, I'm thinking about but I'm thinking in my

0:48:02.560 --> 0:48:04.759
<v Speaker 5>head like I didn't pay for this shit. But I'm

0:48:04.760 --> 0:48:06.600
<v Speaker 5>thinking I'm like, okay, I'm like, ey, babe, this shit say.

0:48:06.600 --> 0:48:08.279
<v Speaker 5>She was like, oh, yeah, pay for that. I was like,

0:48:08.280 --> 0:48:09.879
<v Speaker 5>oh damn, thank you. But I was like that was dope.

0:48:09.920 --> 0:48:11.560
<v Speaker 5>I was like, this this is the marriage conversation.

0:48:11.560 --> 0:48:11.959
<v Speaker 1>Don't happen.

0:48:11.960 --> 0:48:13.879
<v Speaker 4>But she don't know. I'm like, uh, I'm like, babe,

0:48:13.880 --> 0:48:14.440
<v Speaker 4>that was dope.

0:48:14.480 --> 0:48:16.560
<v Speaker 1>She was like, uh, I'm like, see, I'm gonna need

0:48:16.600 --> 0:48:18.600
<v Speaker 1>you to I'm gonna need you to be doing.

0:48:18.400 --> 0:48:19.040
<v Speaker 4>That type of stuff.

0:48:19.040 --> 0:48:21.200
<v Speaker 5>She was like, I don't be paying for that because

0:48:21.200 --> 0:48:23.200
<v Speaker 5>I knied he's gonna get back. I'm like, what you mean?

0:48:23.239 --> 0:48:25.040
<v Speaker 5>She was like, oh, yeah, I'm not paying for nothing else, right.

0:48:25.280 --> 0:48:27.279
<v Speaker 5>So that's when I was kind of scared. My heart dropped,

0:48:27.320 --> 0:48:32.120
<v Speaker 5>like fuck. So then I'm like, uh, I'm like uh,

0:48:32.360 --> 0:48:35.160
<v Speaker 5>I'm like, man, I'm like, nah, look, I ain't gonna

0:48:35.200 --> 0:48:37.200
<v Speaker 5>be working hard for you to just like I'm not

0:48:37.200 --> 0:48:39.600
<v Speaker 5>paying everything in the pot for you to just be

0:48:39.640 --> 0:48:42.319
<v Speaker 5>pulling out of it. I'm like, just imagine if I

0:48:42.360 --> 0:48:44.560
<v Speaker 5>put in the pot, you put in the pot, and

0:48:44.560 --> 0:48:46.360
<v Speaker 5>then now we got ten thousand in the pot, we

0:48:46.400 --> 0:48:48.160
<v Speaker 5>want to go to the mall, we take out five thousands.

0:48:48.160 --> 0:48:49.880
<v Speaker 5>We got five thousand left. You know what I'm saying.

0:48:50.200 --> 0:48:51.719
<v Speaker 5>I'm like, you know what I'm saying. You bring two

0:48:51.719 --> 0:48:53.440
<v Speaker 5>thousands to the pot. I bring three thousand to the pot.

0:48:53.480 --> 0:48:54.800
<v Speaker 5>We got five thousand in the pot, you know what

0:48:54.800 --> 0:48:56.600
<v Speaker 5>I'm saying. She's sitting that list and I'm like, yeah,

0:48:56.680 --> 0:48:58.920
<v Speaker 5>just imagine I gonna make fifteen, you're gonna make three thousand.

0:48:58.960 --> 0:49:00.560
<v Speaker 5>We got eighteen thousand. You know what I'm saying we

0:49:00.560 --> 0:49:02.120
<v Speaker 5>want to take our eight thousand. We got ten thousand

0:49:02.239 --> 0:49:04.120
<v Speaker 5>the pot. She's like, yeah, I'm like, you know, we

0:49:04.360 --> 0:49:06.560
<v Speaker 5>could just play like do it like that? She's like, oh, yeah,

0:49:06.560 --> 0:49:08.400
<v Speaker 5>that may sound like yes, So I'm gonna be near you.

0:49:08.400 --> 0:49:09.640
<v Speaker 5>You do what I'm saying, like, because I can't be

0:49:09.680 --> 0:49:11.480
<v Speaker 5>out here hustling that heart and I'm making all my

0:49:11.480 --> 0:49:12.839
<v Speaker 5>money and just take it from the pot.

0:49:13.040 --> 0:49:14.600
<v Speaker 1>That's not gonna add up. We ain't gonna look in

0:49:14.600 --> 0:49:14.839
<v Speaker 1>the pote.

0:49:14.840 --> 0:49:16.200
<v Speaker 5>I ain't gonna have and we're gonna have a next

0:49:16.239 --> 0:49:18.959
<v Speaker 5>She's like, oh, okay, that that makes sense. Okay, well okay,

0:49:18.960 --> 0:49:20.560
<v Speaker 5>well you can keep that on that. You don't got

0:49:20.560 --> 0:49:21.600
<v Speaker 5>to give me that bet. That's why I like, Oh

0:49:21.640 --> 0:49:22.400
<v Speaker 5>I can marry thank you.

0:49:24.200 --> 0:49:24.759
<v Speaker 1>I love that.

0:49:31.000 --> 0:49:34.239
<v Speaker 3>I want to play a quick video we like reactionary.

0:49:34.640 --> 0:49:37.839
<v Speaker 3>And then after this video and after this conversation, we're

0:49:37.840 --> 0:49:41.160
<v Speaker 3>gonna get into the nasty talk. Okay, but for this one,

0:49:41.360 --> 0:49:43.920
<v Speaker 3>this still has to do with a little bit of

0:49:43.920 --> 0:49:46.640
<v Speaker 3>pop culture. Not sure if you saw a couple of

0:49:46.680 --> 0:49:51.759
<v Speaker 3>weeks ago, uh, Nick Cannon, what a guest on The

0:49:51.760 --> 0:49:55.240
<v Speaker 3>God Show. Shout out to Ray Daniels and Ray Daniels.

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<v Speaker 4>That's my name.

0:49:55.880 --> 0:49:57.960
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's my name, Charlatne the only person to have

0:49:58.160 --> 0:50:01.359
<v Speaker 1>showed that name the Galls G A U d S.

0:50:01.800 --> 0:50:02.520
<v Speaker 1>The God Show.

0:50:03.600 --> 0:50:06.880
<v Speaker 3>And so he went on there and pretty much spoke

0:50:06.920 --> 0:50:10.240
<v Speaker 3>about his relationship with Mariah Carey and how he felt

0:50:10.280 --> 0:50:12.800
<v Speaker 3>as a man in that relationship. Uh, you want to

0:50:12.800 --> 0:50:15.520
<v Speaker 3>go ahead and click that that video. I want you

0:50:15.560 --> 0:50:17.120
<v Speaker 3>to listen to what you have to say, and then

0:50:17.560 --> 0:50:19.080
<v Speaker 3>well we'll respond.

0:50:19.200 --> 0:50:21.160
<v Speaker 6>Got married in my twenties, still, you know what I

0:50:21.239 --> 0:50:24.359
<v Speaker 6>mean to the biggest star in the world. My trajectory

0:50:24.480 --> 0:50:28.120
<v Speaker 6>was here and then hers, She's already in a different stratosphere.

0:50:28.320 --> 0:50:31.920
<v Speaker 6>I would lay up at night thinking like, is this

0:50:31.960 --> 0:50:34.919
<v Speaker 6>who I am? Yeah, I'm Mariah's man? Yeah?

0:50:35.520 --> 0:50:37.719
<v Speaker 1>Is that what my life is supposed to be?

0:50:39.360 --> 0:50:44.760
<v Speaker 6>But I'm like yourself. And then when you have children,

0:50:45.080 --> 0:50:49.360
<v Speaker 6>your man ship is like, wait, I can't. I'm carrying

0:50:49.400 --> 0:50:52.560
<v Speaker 6>a purse, the diaper bag. You know, I'm standing on

0:50:52.600 --> 0:50:56.719
<v Speaker 6>the corner, you know, like she rocking being.

0:50:56.719 --> 0:50:59.080
<v Speaker 1>All the alpha that well, by the way, she deserves it.

0:50:59.520 --> 0:51:01.839
<v Speaker 4>I believe he needs dude like that.

0:51:02.280 --> 0:51:05.200
<v Speaker 6>I'm just not that dude. Her and I never had problem,

0:51:05.680 --> 0:51:09.080
<v Speaker 6>never argue, never even even with even with me struggling

0:51:09.200 --> 0:51:12.880
<v Speaker 6>in this space. She's so understanding and so evolved and

0:51:13.040 --> 0:51:14.960
<v Speaker 6>lives in her own world. That's the thing when someone

0:51:14.960 --> 0:51:17.239
<v Speaker 6>has their own world, and you got to be a

0:51:17.320 --> 0:51:19.920
<v Speaker 6>participant in that, you know what I mean, Like I'm

0:51:20.680 --> 0:51:24.759
<v Speaker 6>I'm main character. It was like muscle Atrophy, I'm not

0:51:24.920 --> 0:51:27.560
<v Speaker 6>being the dude that God put me on this earth

0:51:27.560 --> 0:51:30.080
<v Speaker 6>to be. The love kept me there even, you know,

0:51:30.239 --> 0:51:31.960
<v Speaker 6>made it work so well because I was like, Oh,

0:51:32.080 --> 0:51:34.640
<v Speaker 6>you need somebody, you need a support system. You need

0:51:34.680 --> 0:51:36.440
<v Speaker 6>somebody that don't want you for your money. You need

0:51:36.480 --> 0:51:39.279
<v Speaker 6>somebody that's sincere. You need somebody that's willing to build

0:51:39.320 --> 0:51:42.440
<v Speaker 6>a family, raise some you know, amazing kids together. And

0:51:42.440 --> 0:51:44.920
<v Speaker 6>that was my goal. But then there was just something

0:51:45.000 --> 0:51:45.840
<v Speaker 6>constantly in.

0:51:45.719 --> 0:51:48.920
<v Speaker 4>Me, like I got it.

0:51:48.280 --> 0:51:54.480
<v Speaker 1>I hated everything about this clip because a and also

0:51:54.680 --> 0:51:56.799
<v Speaker 1>the fact that he left this relationship just to put

0:51:56.800 --> 0:51:58.960
<v Speaker 1>babies and six other women. That's a whole other topic.

0:52:00.480 --> 0:52:04.600
<v Speaker 1>But he was I mean, but he has yeah, he

0:52:04.640 --> 0:52:06.439
<v Speaker 1>has twins. He has like two sets of twins.

0:52:06.480 --> 0:52:07.600
<v Speaker 3>He got a whole bunch of I don't know, he

0:52:07.640 --> 0:52:09.200
<v Speaker 3>got a lot nough. Yes, he got like twelve or

0:52:09.280 --> 0:52:11.480
<v Speaker 3>nine of thirty five. I don't fucking know he got

0:52:11.480 --> 0:52:14.560
<v Speaker 3>a lot though there was a few I would say

0:52:14.600 --> 0:52:16.359
<v Speaker 3>red flags about this, And I do want to bring

0:52:16.440 --> 0:52:18.920
<v Speaker 3>it up to you as someone who is now coming

0:52:18.920 --> 0:52:22.719
<v Speaker 3>into a relationship as a father, but also with a

0:52:22.760 --> 0:52:26.160
<v Speaker 3>woman who has her own life and you entered her world,

0:52:26.239 --> 0:52:30.399
<v Speaker 3>right there was so well and I want to talk

0:52:30.400 --> 0:52:33.480
<v Speaker 3>about it because I do think we all have our

0:52:33.520 --> 0:52:35.319
<v Speaker 3>own worlds. I think she entered your world and going

0:52:35.360 --> 0:52:37.960
<v Speaker 3>on tour, and I think you entered her world in

0:52:39.200 --> 0:52:42.520
<v Speaker 3>the way her family moves, in the way they celebrate holidays,

0:52:42.640 --> 0:52:45.319
<v Speaker 3>in her dad being on the pedestal that he's on,

0:52:45.400 --> 0:52:46.560
<v Speaker 3>and her name caring.

0:52:46.320 --> 0:52:46.839
<v Speaker 1>The way they did.

0:52:46.960 --> 0:52:49.239
<v Speaker 3>I know there was a conversation even about the last

0:52:49.320 --> 0:52:51.759
<v Speaker 3>name of the baby for a long time. Right, So

0:52:52.520 --> 0:52:55.840
<v Speaker 3>in this in this thing, he talks about needing to

0:52:55.920 --> 0:52:59.879
<v Speaker 3>feel alpha, needing to be the main character in a relationship.

0:53:00.640 --> 0:53:04.960
<v Speaker 3>How do you think what is a healthy way for

0:53:05.040 --> 0:53:07.560
<v Speaker 3>a man to show up in partnership without feeling like

0:53:07.680 --> 0:53:10.120
<v Speaker 3>his manhood is attacked when maybe he has to carry

0:53:10.200 --> 0:53:12.719
<v Speaker 3>the diaper bag, maybe he has to play the role

0:53:12.880 --> 0:53:15.880
<v Speaker 3>of the quote unquote woman, Maybe he has to be

0:53:15.920 --> 0:53:18.960
<v Speaker 3>more of the submissive. I think that's what Nick Cannon

0:53:19.000 --> 0:53:22.440
<v Speaker 3>had the biggest problem with being with someone that was alpha.

0:53:22.600 --> 0:53:25.879
<v Speaker 3>He mentioned that how does a man show up being

0:53:25.920 --> 0:53:28.560
<v Speaker 3>a man while also leaning into his feminine in a

0:53:28.640 --> 0:53:32.000
<v Speaker 3>relationship or not being the main character all the time.

0:53:37.920 --> 0:53:40.120
<v Speaker 4>Like the main character in a relationship. I don't really

0:53:40.160 --> 0:53:41.359
<v Speaker 4>know about that, you know what I'm saying.

0:53:41.520 --> 0:53:43.200
<v Speaker 1>I didn't say you didn't like that. Yeah, I just

0:53:43.239 --> 0:53:44.759
<v Speaker 1>don't know about that, you know what I'm saying.

0:53:45.520 --> 0:53:45.840
<v Speaker 4>Watch it?

0:53:45.880 --> 0:53:47.440
<v Speaker 1>Did you feel like I'm saying, he was? Now what

0:53:47.520 --> 0:53:49.280
<v Speaker 1>I just took from it? And Nick Cannon, my nigga,

0:53:49.320 --> 0:53:50.160
<v Speaker 1>you know we're just talking.

0:53:50.239 --> 0:53:52.439
<v Speaker 5>I feel like, you know, just from watching that from

0:53:52.440 --> 0:53:55.040
<v Speaker 5>a man's perspective of like just by me trying to

0:53:55.040 --> 0:53:57.200
<v Speaker 5>get married or whatever. I'm just listening, you know what

0:53:57.239 --> 0:53:59.359
<v Speaker 5>I'm saying, and I'm just thinking, like, Okay, Nick seem

0:53:59.480 --> 0:54:02.719
<v Speaker 5>like Nick seemed like okay, Mariah Carey, Like he said,

0:54:02.719 --> 0:54:04.160
<v Speaker 5>like she already who she is. You know what I'm saying,

0:54:04.200 --> 0:54:05.840
<v Speaker 5>You got this woman, she already who she is. You know,

0:54:05.880 --> 0:54:08.400
<v Speaker 5>he's already who he is. But like he said, he

0:54:08.480 --> 0:54:08.960
<v Speaker 5>dealing with.

0:54:08.920 --> 0:54:10.719
<v Speaker 4>Somebody up here. He's still trying to get up there,

0:54:10.719 --> 0:54:11.279
<v Speaker 4>you know what I'm saying.

0:54:11.320 --> 0:54:15.319
<v Speaker 5>So her world is automatically her system automatically bigger than

0:54:15.360 --> 0:54:16.439
<v Speaker 5>his system, you know what I'm saying.

0:54:16.480 --> 0:54:17.880
<v Speaker 4>So it's like he couldn't.

0:54:18.800 --> 0:54:20.200
<v Speaker 5>It sounds like he like, man, I ain't all the

0:54:20.200 --> 0:54:21.800
<v Speaker 5>way where I need to be in life, you know

0:54:21.840 --> 0:54:22.279
<v Speaker 5>what I'm saying.

0:54:22.400 --> 0:54:24.960
<v Speaker 1>Do you think it was him projecting his insecurities at the.

0:54:24.920 --> 0:54:28.920
<v Speaker 5>Time, I mean, I don't know. Like from me listening,

0:54:28.960 --> 0:54:30.560
<v Speaker 5>it just sounded like, damn. He felt like, Damn, I

0:54:30.560 --> 0:54:33.400
<v Speaker 5>got this lady, I'm locking myself down. She already got

0:54:33.480 --> 0:54:36.560
<v Speaker 5>her millions. I ain't got mine yet, Like I need

0:54:36.600 --> 0:54:37.440
<v Speaker 5>to go get Momy.

0:54:37.320 --> 0:54:38.319
<v Speaker 1>Definitely has them. Now.

0:54:38.440 --> 0:54:41.800
<v Speaker 3>I want to ask you, is there a difficulty, and

0:54:41.880 --> 0:54:45.400
<v Speaker 3>let's generalize this, is there a difficulty for men to

0:54:45.480 --> 0:54:49.239
<v Speaker 3>be with women who are more successful or more accomplished

0:54:49.280 --> 0:54:52.120
<v Speaker 3>than them that you know, even with your friends and

0:54:52.719 --> 0:54:54.160
<v Speaker 3>what conversations are normally had.

0:54:54.800 --> 0:54:55.239
<v Speaker 4>I don't know.

0:54:55.320 --> 0:54:57.000
<v Speaker 1>I mean shout out to the ladies, you know what

0:54:57.000 --> 0:54:57.279
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying.

0:54:57.280 --> 0:54:58.879
<v Speaker 5>I love the women, but I don't think I've ever

0:54:58.920 --> 0:55:00.640
<v Speaker 5>dated a woman that was more acomplished to me.

0:55:01.280 --> 0:55:03.480
<v Speaker 4>Oh, that ain't no disrespect.

0:55:03.600 --> 0:55:06.080
<v Speaker 5>Okay, women should want a man that's like doing any thing,

0:55:06.160 --> 0:55:07.560
<v Speaker 5>you know what I mean. But I should want a

0:55:07.640 --> 0:55:10.400
<v Speaker 5>man that is more accomplished than them. No, they should

0:55:10.440 --> 0:55:13.000
<v Speaker 5>want a man that's that's accomplishing things period. But if

0:55:13.000 --> 0:55:14.960
<v Speaker 5>it just so happened that your man is accomplishing more

0:55:14.960 --> 0:55:17.280
<v Speaker 5>than you, shouldn't be jealous or anything. I'm just sitting

0:55:17.280 --> 0:55:19.840
<v Speaker 5>down saying I've never known. I never had that experience.

0:55:19.840 --> 0:55:22.080
<v Speaker 5>I've never dated a woman with more than me when

0:55:22.120 --> 0:55:23.799
<v Speaker 5>I was young. Now, I do know how I feel

0:55:23.800 --> 0:55:26.360
<v Speaker 5>to like somebody and be around somebody with more than me.

0:55:26.480 --> 0:55:27.719
<v Speaker 5>Like when I was a young nigga, when I was

0:55:27.760 --> 0:55:30.120
<v Speaker 5>coming in the game, I was around a lot of females.

0:55:30.239 --> 0:55:31.719
<v Speaker 5>We had to have paper, you do you know what

0:55:31.760 --> 0:55:33.880
<v Speaker 5>I'm saying, Like I used to be around females like

0:55:33.920 --> 0:55:35.080
<v Speaker 5>thirty thousand in they pocket.

0:55:35.080 --> 0:55:37.720
<v Speaker 4>I had a thousand, Like, I know how that feels.

0:55:38.080 --> 0:55:40.239
<v Speaker 1>How did that feel? That just felt like I ain't

0:55:40.239 --> 0:55:42.120
<v Speaker 1>made it. I'm like, damn shot at them falling.

0:55:41.920 --> 0:55:42.239
<v Speaker 4>Like this.

0:55:43.920 --> 0:55:46.920
<v Speaker 2>Because I think now it's making me wonder when you're

0:55:46.960 --> 0:55:49.239
<v Speaker 2>around with men that I'm more accomplished than you or

0:55:49.360 --> 0:55:51.440
<v Speaker 2>have more money than you, does that make you your

0:55:51.480 --> 0:55:52.520
<v Speaker 2>man help feel?

0:55:53.560 --> 0:55:56.120
<v Speaker 4>It just depends. It just depends. That's on real shit.

0:55:56.480 --> 0:55:58.080
<v Speaker 5>You know what I'm saying, like it just depends, so

0:55:58.239 --> 0:56:00.120
<v Speaker 5>you have to, like you have to get yourself in

0:56:00.200 --> 0:56:02.520
<v Speaker 5>a state where you don't give a fuck about that,

0:56:02.560 --> 0:56:04.880
<v Speaker 5>like when you're a young nigga, like when you just

0:56:05.000 --> 0:56:06.560
<v Speaker 5>in this shit like for real, Like you could come

0:56:06.560 --> 0:56:09.120
<v Speaker 5>around some niggas and you like man like, you know

0:56:09.120 --> 0:56:12.080
<v Speaker 5>what I'm saying, because either yo, who you done been

0:56:12.120 --> 0:56:16.319
<v Speaker 5>with that made you feel insecure about something, or you know,

0:56:16.400 --> 0:56:18.240
<v Speaker 5>you just don't feel like you ain't where you're supposed

0:56:18.280 --> 0:56:19.719
<v Speaker 5>to be, Like you know what I'm saying, Like I

0:56:19.760 --> 0:56:22.320
<v Speaker 5>feel like I ain't never been a hater, you know

0:56:22.320 --> 0:56:24.280
<v Speaker 5>what I'm saying, So I never hated on what another

0:56:24.360 --> 0:56:25.759
<v Speaker 5>nigga had, you know what I'm saying. But have I

0:56:25.760 --> 0:56:27.640
<v Speaker 5>ever felt like it was places I was supposed to be?

0:56:28.080 --> 0:56:29.640
<v Speaker 5>You know I wanted to be. Yeah, you know what

0:56:29.680 --> 0:56:30.080
<v Speaker 5>I'm saying.

0:56:30.120 --> 0:56:33.200
<v Speaker 1>But you know that's what you're saying. Though. It's interesting

0:56:33.280 --> 0:56:36.759
<v Speaker 1>because it kind of shows whether you're you in a

0:56:36.840 --> 0:56:40.440
<v Speaker 1>Canada cool how it is fucked up that when it

0:56:40.440 --> 0:56:43.279
<v Speaker 1>comes to somebody you're with a woman, your masculinity is

0:56:43.320 --> 0:56:48.120
<v Speaker 1>taken by their accomplishment, not what he said.

0:56:48.200 --> 0:56:50.719
<v Speaker 5>Oh No, I love I love like I love like

0:56:51.040 --> 0:56:53.000
<v Speaker 5>women that's accomplishing things Like I remember when I first

0:56:53.040 --> 0:56:55.439
<v Speaker 5>started dating women that was in the industry, I thought

0:56:55.480 --> 0:56:58.040
<v Speaker 5>it was I was fascinated because I was like, wow,

0:56:58.160 --> 0:57:00.880
<v Speaker 5>like they like look how these people dressing them up,

0:57:00.960 --> 0:57:02.880
<v Speaker 5>like they got to get it makeup, like get their

0:57:02.880 --> 0:57:04.440
<v Speaker 5>hair downe somebody doing their hair and they make up

0:57:04.440 --> 0:57:07.080
<v Speaker 5>at the same time. Like I was like blown away,

0:57:07.160 --> 0:57:09.839
<v Speaker 5>like this shit, coolest fuck now you're being blown away

0:57:09.840 --> 0:57:11.359
<v Speaker 5>by the hair and making. I was just I had

0:57:11.400 --> 0:57:13.560
<v Speaker 5>never seen that ship, Like I was just a nigga,

0:57:13.600 --> 0:57:15.879
<v Speaker 5>like coming from like all the camps I was within

0:57:15.920 --> 0:57:18.040
<v Speaker 5>the industry. It's just been like real camps. So it

0:57:18.120 --> 0:57:20.400
<v Speaker 5>was never like no females in our camps, you know

0:57:20.440 --> 0:57:22.040
<v Speaker 5>what I'm saying. And even if it was females in

0:57:22.080 --> 0:57:24.080
<v Speaker 5>our camps, they wouln't getting they makeup and hair done

0:57:24.080 --> 0:57:25.640
<v Speaker 5>and ship, you know what I'm saying. So when I

0:57:25.720 --> 0:57:28.320
<v Speaker 5>first seen that ship, I was just like, damn that

0:57:28.360 --> 0:57:28.880
<v Speaker 5>shit dope.

0:57:28.920 --> 0:57:31.400
<v Speaker 2>I will tell you this, watching somebody go through glam

0:57:31.480 --> 0:57:34.560
<v Speaker 2>like when you know, like famous famous people, you're like,

0:57:34.560 --> 0:57:40.240
<v Speaker 2>oh shit, like when the stylist is changing the clothes.

0:57:40.320 --> 0:57:43.480
<v Speaker 5>Especially when you I was just coming up right, you know,

0:57:43.520 --> 0:57:45.920
<v Speaker 5>what I'm saying. So it's like, but but just with anything,

0:57:46.040 --> 0:57:49.000
<v Speaker 5>like even with d I'm happy for it. Like I'm

0:57:49.000 --> 0:57:50.919
<v Speaker 5>trying to figure out a way to how to get

0:57:50.920 --> 0:57:52.000
<v Speaker 5>in there to make some mod.

0:57:51.920 --> 0:57:53.040
<v Speaker 1>You know, a question.

0:57:53.280 --> 0:57:55.120
<v Speaker 3>And Eddon if you want to jump in on this too,

0:57:55.400 --> 0:57:57.760
<v Speaker 3>and we the you two, I think we we use

0:57:57.840 --> 0:58:01.280
<v Speaker 3>this word a lot. Jealousy is the human emotion, right,

0:58:02.080 --> 0:58:06.280
<v Speaker 3>do you feel like it's healthy or natural or wrong

0:58:07.360 --> 0:58:08.640
<v Speaker 3>to be jealous.

0:58:08.400 --> 0:58:10.080
<v Speaker 1>Of your partner? Wrong?

0:58:10.360 --> 0:58:11.080
<v Speaker 4>Wrong? Yeah?

0:58:11.120 --> 0:58:14.480
<v Speaker 3>Okay, even though it okay because I know we talk

0:58:14.520 --> 0:58:15.760
<v Speaker 3>about it in friendship.

0:58:15.400 --> 0:58:17.400
<v Speaker 1>Like what would be an example of being jealous my partner?

0:58:18.080 --> 0:58:21.280
<v Speaker 4>Maybe you make more money than you. Yeah, that's terrible.

0:58:21.560 --> 0:58:24.160
<v Speaker 2>You know what, partnership. I think it's wrong in jealousy.

0:58:24.160 --> 0:58:26.480
<v Speaker 2>We've been having an in friendship. We've been having this conversation.

0:58:27.480 --> 0:58:30.760
<v Speaker 2>I think there's a malicious jealousy. And then yeah, for example,

0:58:30.880 --> 0:58:34.240
<v Speaker 2>let's just say we sitting here, Mandy's like bitch fashion nova,

0:58:34.280 --> 0:58:36.000
<v Speaker 2>just about to take mendnership to choice, and Keke.

0:58:35.880 --> 0:58:36.720
<v Speaker 1>Goes, fuck you.

0:58:37.240 --> 0:58:39.640
<v Speaker 2>I don't not want her to have this, but I'm

0:58:39.640 --> 0:58:41.480
<v Speaker 2>gonna be a little jealous. I'm not on the beach

0:58:42.000 --> 0:58:43.600
<v Speaker 2>or a little jealous that I didn't get chosen.

0:58:43.680 --> 0:58:45.160
<v Speaker 5>But you ain't gotta be a little jealous. You could

0:58:45.160 --> 0:58:46.919
<v Speaker 5>just be like, oh damn, like Dawn that she would

0:58:46.920 --> 0:58:48.200
<v Speaker 5>have been five, I would have came. But you could

0:58:48.200 --> 0:58:49.080
<v Speaker 5>really have no emotion.

0:58:49.360 --> 0:58:51.959
<v Speaker 2>But that's the thing, that jealousy that I'm talking about

0:58:51.960 --> 0:58:54.400
<v Speaker 2>for something like this. Yeah, I think that's a real

0:58:54.440 --> 0:58:56.200
<v Speaker 2>emotion that can be naturally human.

0:58:56.320 --> 0:58:58.280
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, like you would want that, but not the expense

0:58:58.320 --> 0:58:59.600
<v Speaker 1>of her losing it exactly.

0:59:00.000 --> 0:59:01.480
<v Speaker 2>I don't want you to not get it, but I

0:59:01.480 --> 0:59:03.920
<v Speaker 2>wish I can get I wish. Yeah, Like on a

0:59:03.960 --> 0:59:06.760
<v Speaker 2>peer level. The reason I think romantically it gets tough

0:59:07.400 --> 0:59:11.080
<v Speaker 2>is because partnership is sharing a bit, and if you

0:59:11.160 --> 0:59:14.320
<v Speaker 2>can't share in this pleasure, then I'm getting you can't

0:59:14.320 --> 0:59:16.320
<v Speaker 2>be excited for me because you want this thing too

0:59:16.400 --> 0:59:17.160
<v Speaker 2>when it gets there.

0:59:17.600 --> 0:59:21.280
<v Speaker 5>That's yeah, that's that's very tough, and that happens in relationships,

0:59:21.360 --> 0:59:22.840
<v Speaker 5>especially when y'all both do the same thing.

0:59:23.480 --> 0:59:25.400
<v Speaker 4>You know what I'm saying. You know what I'm saying.

0:59:25.400 --> 0:59:27.960
<v Speaker 1>That's that's why I don't want no podcast, Like that's

0:59:28.200 --> 0:59:30.760
<v Speaker 1>you know. I always used to think about Kim and Kanye.

0:59:31.240 --> 0:59:33.280
<v Speaker 4>I mean, like when you yeah, that's.

0:59:33.160 --> 0:59:35.919
<v Speaker 2>I always thought like you got the biggest of each thing, right,

0:59:36.040 --> 0:59:38.480
<v Speaker 2>B and Jay, I don't know.

0:59:38.520 --> 0:59:41.680
<v Speaker 1>I feel like Jay, they don't care, not E and J.

0:59:41.920 --> 0:59:42.560
<v Speaker 2>No B and J.

0:59:42.760 --> 0:59:45.520
<v Speaker 4>I'm saying, like, don't count.

0:59:45.720 --> 0:59:49.560
<v Speaker 1>Why they don't count? They do the same ship but Ja.

0:59:51.680 --> 0:59:53.800
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but you know what it is, they're both really

0:59:53.840 --> 0:59:55.200
<v Speaker 2>the best that they own artistry.

0:59:56.040 --> 0:59:56.720
<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

0:59:56.760 --> 0:59:58.680
<v Speaker 2>So I think with Kim and Kanye, it's like Kim's

0:59:58.720 --> 1:00:00.200
<v Speaker 2>kind of famous for nothing. Not saying she's not a

1:00:00.200 --> 1:00:03.160
<v Speaker 2>business woman, but it's like she's so fucking famous everybody's

1:00:03.160 --> 1:00:05.760
<v Speaker 2>on her dick. Kanye literally makes art. I hate this nigga,

1:00:05.960 --> 1:00:09.360
<v Speaker 2>but like literally I love him.

1:00:09.480 --> 1:00:11.040
<v Speaker 1>Damn. Look at what he did.

1:00:11.080 --> 1:00:16.800
<v Speaker 2>He didn't speaking of birth and ship, you had some

1:00:16.960 --> 1:00:19.960
<v Speaker 2>baby making sex to become a father, and I want

1:00:19.960 --> 1:00:22.600
<v Speaker 2>to get we gotta get into baby making.

1:00:23.000 --> 1:00:25.000
<v Speaker 1>We gotta get into it. This is where y'all if

1:00:25.040 --> 1:00:28.720
<v Speaker 1>you were ready to hear how nasty and freaky this

1:00:28.800 --> 1:00:31.520
<v Speaker 1>motherfucker beginning in the back. He is not on the market, y'all,

1:00:31.760 --> 1:00:34.080
<v Speaker 1>So just sit in your puddles at work.

1:00:34.200 --> 1:00:37.520
<v Speaker 3>You cannot have this man. But uh, let's talk about

1:00:37.560 --> 1:00:41.560
<v Speaker 3>baby making. Let's get into it. I just like to

1:00:41.600 --> 1:00:44.880
<v Speaker 3>ask this question to all artists before we get into

1:00:44.880 --> 1:00:48.400
<v Speaker 3>the music, do you fuck to your own music? Because

1:00:49.360 --> 1:00:51.160
<v Speaker 3>I ain't gonna hold you. Deandro already told me she

1:00:51.200 --> 1:00:52.960
<v Speaker 3>sneaks you into the playlist, and I'm like, bro, why

1:00:52.960 --> 1:00:53.640
<v Speaker 3>would you do that?

1:00:54.000 --> 1:00:57.120
<v Speaker 1>Why would you sneak your nigga into the playlist? Baby?

1:00:57.160 --> 1:01:01.200
<v Speaker 1>He don't want to hear himself. What's the song that

1:01:01.360 --> 1:01:02.040
<v Speaker 1>ends up coming on?

1:01:02.160 --> 1:01:04.920
<v Speaker 4>It's a song called Always It's Me and my Cousins.

1:01:04.960 --> 1:01:07.960
<v Speaker 1>She loved it and it's on the it's on thet

1:01:08.000 --> 1:01:08.920
<v Speaker 1>it's on the playlist.

1:01:09.000 --> 1:01:11.360
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, but I got like it. Play you feel.

1:01:11.240 --> 1:01:13.480
<v Speaker 1>Fucking ad dick to the song to the song.

1:01:13.320 --> 1:01:15.560
<v Speaker 4>That I made that ain't nothing. No, that's fine that

1:01:15.800 --> 1:01:16.479
<v Speaker 4>you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 5>Like your music, Yeah, I mean you know you make

1:01:20.280 --> 1:01:22.000
<v Speaker 5>it the funk to I mean yeah, like you know

1:01:22.120 --> 1:01:22.760
<v Speaker 5>you put the use.

1:01:23.680 --> 1:01:25.560
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's how you know it's that's how you know

1:01:25.600 --> 1:01:27.840
<v Speaker 4>it's Oh wait.

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<v Speaker 1>You're telling me when it don't randomly come on, you

1:01:29.280 --> 1:01:30.280
<v Speaker 1>don't be like ship.

1:01:30.120 --> 1:01:34.720
<v Speaker 4>What the fuck? Sometimes sometimes you be like damn, here

1:01:34.800 --> 1:01:35.400
<v Speaker 4>I go y.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I mean I got a song come on

1:01:39.200 --> 1:01:42.320
<v Speaker 2>to aig and I was fucking someone else and I

1:01:42.360 --> 1:01:44.680
<v Speaker 2>was like, okay, no way, I do.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh you heard a nigga? I do?

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<v Speaker 3>I do have a question because I know you was working,

1:01:50.120 --> 1:01:51.920
<v Speaker 3>Like I don't know how long you've been working on

1:01:51.960 --> 1:01:55.400
<v Speaker 3>this project, but you know how they be talking about

1:01:55.400 --> 1:01:57.960
<v Speaker 3>there ain't no baby making music now happening, and the

1:01:58.080 --> 1:01:59.960
<v Speaker 3>R and B niggas is just toxic and they not

1:02:00.080 --> 1:02:02.000
<v Speaker 3>making it to where you want to fucking love anymore.

1:02:02.440 --> 1:02:05.840
<v Speaker 3>So is there a time where you go into the studio,

1:02:06.040 --> 1:02:08.520
<v Speaker 3>you record a song and then you you put it

1:02:08.560 --> 1:02:10.400
<v Speaker 3>to the test in the bedroom to see if it

1:02:10.520 --> 1:02:12.680
<v Speaker 3>if it hits like it should in the bedroom.

1:02:12.880 --> 1:02:13.680
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I think.

1:02:15.720 --> 1:02:20.280
<v Speaker 5>This baby making project really got put it put No

1:02:20.360 --> 1:02:20.880
<v Speaker 5>way you.

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<v Speaker 1>You tested it out in the bedroom already. Yeah.

1:02:23.320 --> 1:02:26.000
<v Speaker 4>She loved this project. Okay, yeah, she loved this.

1:02:26.520 --> 1:02:30.240
<v Speaker 1>And so what can what can we expect from it?

1:02:30.280 --> 1:02:33.080
<v Speaker 5>And I do also it's one of them like it's

1:02:33.160 --> 1:02:35.480
<v Speaker 5>like if you're talking sex like with your with your partner.

1:02:35.520 --> 1:02:36.480
<v Speaker 4>With this album, we're about to.

1:02:36.440 --> 1:02:37.520
<v Speaker 1>Have a baby boom in twenty twenty.

1:02:37.600 --> 1:02:39.400
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, like because you can go for the ride, you

1:02:39.440 --> 1:02:40.000
<v Speaker 4>know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 5>It's like it can go for the ride, like you

1:02:41.680 --> 1:02:44.600
<v Speaker 5>can go you got your ship like it gonna start

1:02:44.600 --> 1:02:47.640
<v Speaker 5>off how you wanted to Like, that's just a like honestly,

1:02:47.680 --> 1:02:49.520
<v Speaker 5>if you like I think this is me? This is

1:02:49.760 --> 1:02:51.960
<v Speaker 5>me right if I'm if I'm doing this ship, I'm

1:02:51.960 --> 1:02:54.160
<v Speaker 5>gonna already be in it before I press play.

1:02:55.200 --> 1:02:57.000
<v Speaker 1>It's the first song toutdown.

1:02:58.160 --> 1:02:59.560
<v Speaker 2>Saying that makes you want to play it and have

1:02:59.600 --> 1:03:02.440
<v Speaker 2>a plan be right there not a player vat I

1:03:02.600 --> 1:03:05.880
<v Speaker 2>mean to be already like have it on your tongue.

1:03:07.040 --> 1:03:13.040
<v Speaker 1>Already, like you know what?

1:03:13.320 --> 1:03:16.040
<v Speaker 3>Can I ask you a question in terms of you

1:03:16.120 --> 1:03:18.040
<v Speaker 3>got baby making right? I want to ask you what

1:03:18.160 --> 1:03:23.040
<v Speaker 3>is the difference between good sex and love making? Or

1:03:23.080 --> 1:03:25.320
<v Speaker 3>do you feel like there's a difference. I know that's

1:03:25.320 --> 1:03:25.919
<v Speaker 3>a real question.

1:03:25.960 --> 1:03:29.720
<v Speaker 1>I know we talked about our good engineer Wolf. He

1:03:29.760 --> 1:03:31.640
<v Speaker 1>don't even like eye contacts, so I don't think he's

1:03:31.640 --> 1:03:36.080
<v Speaker 1>ever made love. But have you never made love? Have

1:03:36.120 --> 1:03:43.000
<v Speaker 1>you ever made love? What is the difference to you

1:03:43.080 --> 1:03:46.480
<v Speaker 1>between just a good round of sex and actually making

1:03:46.520 --> 1:03:47.360
<v Speaker 1>love to somebody?

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<v Speaker 4>I think like sex is like that ship could just

1:03:54.880 --> 1:03:57.400
<v Speaker 4>like feel good. You know what I'm saying, Like sex

1:03:57.560 --> 1:03:58.200
<v Speaker 4>just feel good?

1:03:58.240 --> 1:03:59.440
<v Speaker 5>You know what I'm saying, And there after you know

1:03:59.600 --> 1:04:04.120
<v Speaker 5>it's like like you you.

1:04:04.160 --> 1:04:06.880
<v Speaker 1>Like way too hard like you because I get it.

1:04:07.760 --> 1:04:08.480
<v Speaker 1>We get that.

1:04:08.600 --> 1:04:11.479
<v Speaker 5>It's like so, but it's like when you making love,

1:04:11.520 --> 1:04:14.960
<v Speaker 5>it's like, damn, you know what I'm saying.

1:04:15.000 --> 1:04:16.400
<v Speaker 4>You might rollo sit in it.

1:04:17.480 --> 1:04:19.120
<v Speaker 2>I can't wait to get my foody in the morning

1:04:19.120 --> 1:04:19.320
<v Speaker 2>with you.

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<v Speaker 4>Now you have just got done looking in the sky.

1:04:21.400 --> 1:04:26.280
<v Speaker 1>You're like, we did that. That's how don't you looking

1:04:26.320 --> 1:04:26.760
<v Speaker 1>at the sky?

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<v Speaker 4>Then?

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<v Speaker 1>I always get to eat, honey, you want something to eat?

1:04:30.360 --> 1:04:33.880
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't know why feeding the dude after we

1:04:34.000 --> 1:04:36.720
<v Speaker 2>fun and it's specific to love Baker, it'd be like

1:04:36.760 --> 1:04:37.640
<v Speaker 2>the extra little lady.

1:04:38.000 --> 1:04:41.000
<v Speaker 1>Is that intimate? Do you do? You want food from somebody?

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<v Speaker 1>You just fun?

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<v Speaker 4>You see this stuff? I mean yeah, it's like I

1:04:43.640 --> 1:04:45.360
<v Speaker 4>mean yeah, for sure. It's like you got to have

1:04:45.400 --> 1:04:46.920
<v Speaker 4>the food. You hear me.

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<v Speaker 5>The food just a part of you either gonna eat

1:04:48.640 --> 1:04:51.800
<v Speaker 5>before you know what I'm saying. You've got to have

1:04:51.840 --> 1:04:55.520
<v Speaker 5>the food. It's a part of it. See what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 4>You gonna get a wet rag.

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<v Speaker 1>You know it's my favorite thing? After you it question

1:05:02.480 --> 1:05:06.480
<v Speaker 1>and a nigga just be like they can't move. I

1:05:06.480 --> 1:05:08.720
<v Speaker 1>love when a nigga. I love seeing a little weakness.

1:05:08.760 --> 1:05:11.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm not saying a dog or anything. But I love

1:05:11.240 --> 1:05:11.960
<v Speaker 1>when you see.

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<v Speaker 4>A body I say, you like an go to sleep.

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to know that. I want a nigga

1:05:16.160 --> 1:05:18.560
<v Speaker 1>to say his knees is out. Yeah, I want a

1:05:18.600 --> 1:05:20.840
<v Speaker 1>nigga he can't walk. He get off the bed and

1:05:20.840 --> 1:05:23.480
<v Speaker 1>he almost stumbled because he don't know how work. Legh.

1:05:24.040 --> 1:05:26.680
<v Speaker 1>That's my eager. I like that. I don't know if

1:05:26.720 --> 1:05:28.560
<v Speaker 1>I want to picture on my ass on Instagram and

1:05:28.600 --> 1:05:31.360
<v Speaker 1>get a million LIFs or that. That's It's the same feeling.

1:05:31.240 --> 1:05:35.040
<v Speaker 3>When when when a nigga like smiles after sex. I

1:05:35.240 --> 1:05:39.320
<v Speaker 3>feel empowered. But what is that for men? What can

1:05:39.360 --> 1:05:42.760
<v Speaker 3>a woman do that makes you know you just did jo?

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<v Speaker 3>Don't ask her did you come baby? No, no words?

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<v Speaker 1>What actions happened to let you know? You just laid

1:05:49.640 --> 1:05:50.880
<v Speaker 1>it down?

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, she can't move, it'sye.

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<v Speaker 1>The A C was off.

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<v Speaker 4>No, it's like either I think either I think either

1:06:02.520 --> 1:06:03.800
<v Speaker 4>she like go to sleep.

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<v Speaker 5>You know what I'm saying, she go to sleep, or

1:06:07.600 --> 1:06:11.200
<v Speaker 5>she like you know when she like look at you

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<v Speaker 5>and then like look at.

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<v Speaker 1>The yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>One of them look at you like it's them.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I mean? It's so bad, I'll start crying.

1:06:24.160 --> 1:06:27.000
<v Speaker 1>You cry, oh my god. But then literally if it's

1:06:27.720 --> 1:06:34.360
<v Speaker 1>ship you know, so you know what I'm It's not

1:06:34.400 --> 1:06:36.480
<v Speaker 1>even super emotional. It's just like this crazy.

1:06:36.520 --> 1:06:39.040
<v Speaker 2>I came so hard the first time I cried with

1:06:39.160 --> 1:06:41.000
<v Speaker 2>a dude that I wasn't like close to anything like that.

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<v Speaker 1>In the middle of crying, I was like, it's not you,

1:06:42.800 --> 1:06:47.880
<v Speaker 1>It's just a release, you know what I need.

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<v Speaker 3>I think I need to lead into my feminine because

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<v Speaker 3>I'll be like, you never cried, bitch.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll be when it's done.

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<v Speaker 3>This is how I hate be like you did that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's why you that's why you're talking about it.

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<v Speaker 4>You got to be a little bit more. I'll be

1:07:08.920 --> 1:07:10.640
<v Speaker 4>like you did that, all right.

1:07:11.840 --> 1:07:13.200
<v Speaker 1>I cried in that threesome y'all.

1:07:13.520 --> 1:07:14.840
<v Speaker 2>They don't know it because I was like, I can't

1:07:14.880 --> 1:07:16.560
<v Speaker 2>cry from this whole we just met, but I can't

1:07:16.560 --> 1:07:19.320
<v Speaker 2>even so hard I started crying four.

1:07:19.600 --> 1:07:20.960
<v Speaker 1>I tried to do one of these with the hair

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<v Speaker 1>so they ain't see the tears. I gave a Nigga

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<v Speaker 1>I high five one time.

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<v Speaker 6>You.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm market on it. I need to. I need to

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<v Speaker 1>be Maybe I gotta get you know what he just dropped.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe when you see, he said, Gagstu.

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<v Speaker 2>You said what the text that you were sharing on

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<v Speaker 2>the tour where you said gain is dicky about?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, no no, no, because so last tour, I said, okay,

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<v Speaker 3>hold on, so you know went to our podcast last year.

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<v Speaker 3>Last year we were on tour and we decided to

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<v Speaker 3>share text messages with what our booty calls look like

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<v Speaker 3>and my booty call.

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<v Speaker 1>I text this nigga like where you at? And he

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<v Speaker 1>was like or it was like, I said, what's the

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<v Speaker 1>and he said, what's up? Gang?

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, come gang, that dick in my mouth? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>kind of how we talk. And that was how we

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<v Speaker 3>set it up. And I don't show you feel me.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean that shows that's how you coming. That's your niggas.

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<v Speaker 1>Know, like maybe I could be more feminine and get these.

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<v Speaker 5>Niggas be like, but then your niggas. Ain't y'all gonna

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<v Speaker 5>lose all funness. That's your thing?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay? I like that. I love making moments. Don't do this.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm serious. I'll make love. I did in my last relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>We made love.

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<v Speaker 3>We cried one time together, but we were on shrimps.

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<v Speaker 3>So I don't know if that helps.

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<v Speaker 5>I used to cry all the time. Wait when I

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<v Speaker 5>first got with you, Wait, you cried just be out

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<v Speaker 5>of town. So Ship, I'll probably just thinking about you.

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<v Speaker 5>Have you ever how much you love me?

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<v Speaker 1>Have you ever cried during Wait? Wait?

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<v Speaker 4>I was just trying to say, I think the injury

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<v Speaker 4>and everything one time.

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<v Speaker 3>Pregnancy, hold on, hold on, you know, you know on trigger.

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<v Speaker 3>The nigga sent me an old picture in the hospital.

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<v Speaker 3>So what you mean you you faked it?

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<v Speaker 5>Had the wheelchair and everything pushing me and everything. Wait

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<v Speaker 5>then I just hopped out the wheelchair. Man, I ain't hurt.

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<v Speaker 5>I didn't want to see you left.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, don't test me. You really in love? I'm telling

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<v Speaker 1>you that you what is wrong? Would you?

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<v Speaker 2>You know what when you get in love like that,

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<v Speaker 2>you start doing dumb ship. Well, I might have to

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<v Speaker 2>cut this.

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<v Speaker 6>You know.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean my nigga did the other day. Do you

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<v Speaker 1>keep it in We edited? He wanted to.

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<v Speaker 2>Answering the phone right, and I was like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 2>He's like damn, Barrel was in the toilet.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I want to be in there with you.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to be in there with you.

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<v Speaker 4>Girls do that.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to see it, girls like you want to

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<v Speaker 1>be in the bathroom while he's I'm like, really, take

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<v Speaker 1>the FaceTime, put it down. I want to say, wait,

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<v Speaker 1>you wanted to You asked him, and you wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>be in the bathroom while he was.

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<v Speaker 4>Taking girls some crazy ship.

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<v Speaker 1>Calm down, He'd be doing the same ship now. But

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<v Speaker 1>I locked the door. He was like, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>want to see that. You want to see into the towilet.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm fucking crazy.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm look this okay. You know why I don't want

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<v Speaker 3>to see that because I eat ass. I don't want

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<v Speaker 3>to be in the bathroom. You should have seen me

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<v Speaker 3>on my period.

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<v Speaker 1>He yo, ship, I actually want to believe you never ship.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't believe I'm here. I cannot wait to get

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<v Speaker 1>He asked way too much to want to see you

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<v Speaker 1>like I want to. I don't even want to imagine

1:10:23.800 --> 1:10:25.880
<v Speaker 1>that a nigga sit on the city. I know that

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<v Speaker 1>you use the bathroom standing up, sir. I want to

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<v Speaker 1>keep that in my mother out.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm be honest with you, my love, and gone too far.

1:10:33.080 --> 1:10:36.720
<v Speaker 2>It went too far, like literally got ready to be bro.

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<v Speaker 2>We were talking about doing some ship under the full moon.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, let's cut our hands into some blood.

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<v Speaker 1>Brother ship. I love it. He got see, I got

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<v Speaker 1>a different type of dread. He's a wolf type the

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<v Speaker 1>whole TP nigga.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what I'm saying, Like he wants to fast

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<v Speaker 2>in the morning, only eat raw fruits and ship. So

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<v Speaker 2>he already on that crazy ass Like you really connect

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<v Speaker 2>with people when they're that spiritual, if feeling like they

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<v Speaker 2>don't have a limit, like what we're gonna do next, Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>let's talk to you a lot, like who's up there?

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<v Speaker 1>Soon y'all gonna be sparing each other, ship on each

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<v Speaker 1>other like sm that ship.

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<v Speaker 2>Once we peede peed and the all, Like once we

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<v Speaker 2>did the pee, then I knew, oh yeah on them

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<v Speaker 2>he peede on you each other and what that means.

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<v Speaker 1>I just felt like I marked my territory, Like that's

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<v Speaker 1>my nigga. I really look like.

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<v Speaker 4>Bro like drenched like real.

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<v Speaker 1>We were into loom. It doesn't count, no wall because

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<v Speaker 1>we were in another country, don't no, No, I did

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<v Speaker 1>it during that Vegas trip like home on I gotta

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<v Speaker 1>be you know, it's crazy. I used to think this

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<v Speaker 1>was so white.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought it was crazy, but then I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh no, you really gotta love a niggas.

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<v Speaker 1>So how you doing so we ask you questions like

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<v Speaker 1>this too. We was in Vegas. We went to the

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<v Speaker 1>Point of Wards. We were up for a podcast awards.

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<v Speaker 1>We drunk.

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<v Speaker 2>We went to Gez with Mandy whatever I I I'm

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<v Speaker 2>in the bathroom. Don't do the whoop the wood. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>so I'm in the bathtub. He ain't about to go

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<v Speaker 2>to the bathroom. I was like, wait, wait, wait, because.

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<v Speaker 1>He was in the such like do it on me,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean, each feet on your face.

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<v Speaker 1>D wait, hold on, let me tell you what may

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<v Speaker 1>be bad. So the first time, right, it was just

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<v Speaker 1>a chance.

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<v Speaker 2>But for some reason because I asked for it again,

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<v Speaker 2>he was like, no, I hope your mouth.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the whole I didn't do it. I'm not I'm celibate.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even have sex. I'm not ready to drink

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<v Speaker 1>the brial, no liquor in those sex.

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<v Speaker 4>For real? What happened to you?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 4>For real?

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<v Speaker 1>What I'm going for ninety days?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay?

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<v Speaker 2>He was like, Yo, this shi ain't funny that that

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<v Speaker 2>was really fun working because you know what, we all

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<v Speaker 2>do this. Every time somebody that told me they haven't

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<v Speaker 2>been drinking for four years, I'm like, they.

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<v Speaker 1>Killed somebody you know, just going through sobriety and that's beautiful.

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<v Speaker 3>Though it is you, it's it's it's tough, but you

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<v Speaker 3>know I'm getting through it. Back to the album, what

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<v Speaker 3>is your favorite?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, back to the album people Love Love is not

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<v Speaker 1>on the album, by the way.

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<v Speaker 5>My favorite song probably, honestly to be real, probably middle

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<v Speaker 5>of the Night and sex like this.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, like this sounds good.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm like middle of the night.

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<v Speaker 5>Now we both with But I really love all of them.

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<v Speaker 5>It's like tomorrow I might have some more favorites. It's

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<v Speaker 5>one of them.

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<v Speaker 1>Typean just said her favorite was drip. Okay, Now I

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<v Speaker 1>know I like to be able to think of what

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<v Speaker 1>things are about. I assume it's about the dripping of

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<v Speaker 1>a pussy of course.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah. The whole song is like she got that drip,

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<v Speaker 5>not the Peter rip. It's like when it's like it's

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<v Speaker 5>like when they asked me, why fuck with you?

1:13:50.560 --> 1:13:51.599
<v Speaker 4>I said, it is what it is.

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<v Speaker 1>She got that drip was the pregnancy drip? Crazy?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it's like super crazy. Now it's extra crazy, Like

1:13:57.000 --> 1:13:58.519
<v Speaker 5>it's like I thought it was crazy, that it's crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>Make it better.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh, you ain't gonna get it neither of us. Oh man, God,

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<v Speaker 5>I gotta go hair one whoa whoa.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm gonna be honest with you.

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<v Speaker 2>I I started taking from my hair.

1:14:12.040 --> 1:14:12.920
<v Speaker 1>I wanted my hair to grow.

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<v Speaker 2>My pussy was so crazy and I literally thought, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>gonna get pregnant if I keep this up.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like I was peeing on myself. It was crazy.

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<v Speaker 4>So what your man say? He can't get you pregnant?

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<v Speaker 1>Bro? We had, we had, we had, We had to

1:14:25.120 --> 1:14:28.960
<v Speaker 1>take a home. Calm down, we have Jesus Christ want kid.

1:14:29.160 --> 1:14:31.719
<v Speaker 1>We have worked to do. Know we're we're planning on album.

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<v Speaker 4>You're gonna be You're gonna get pregnant.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm now gonna ban it from her home.

1:14:34.720 --> 1:14:38.840
<v Speaker 2>That's no, don't okay? Well do you know many met

1:14:38.840 --> 1:14:40.639
<v Speaker 2>my nigga. We all got drunk. We had to get time.

1:14:40.680 --> 1:14:43.040
<v Speaker 1>We went out and I said, I can hear her

1:14:43.080 --> 1:14:45.760
<v Speaker 1>telling him no, I'm lied at Happy and Ship. But

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<v Speaker 1>me and Ben's got a portage and I ain't got

1:14:48.360 --> 1:14:52.560
<v Speaker 1>had his whole pregnant like our family planning. Okay, but

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<v Speaker 1>you lucky to start. We got going on talk. Don't

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<v Speaker 1>take her out.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't want to get pregnant, I said.

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<v Speaker 2>He no, I'm gonna tell you why. The other day

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<v Speaker 2>we was out, We was dancing, We was out till

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<v Speaker 2>four in the morning. We just having fun. We love

1:15:06.560 --> 1:15:09.599
<v Speaker 2>going out to like piano ship and like afrobees parties.

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<v Speaker 4>Y'all different, fuy.

1:15:11.640 --> 1:15:14.439
<v Speaker 2>Like we love a dance party, disco party. Like he

1:15:14.640 --> 1:15:15.960
<v Speaker 2>loves soul train type ship.

1:15:16.720 --> 1:15:20.880
<v Speaker 4>Y'all like soul mats. Oh yeah, yeah, y'alling on each other. Ship.

1:15:23.000 --> 1:15:23.040
<v Speaker 1>No.

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<v Speaker 2>We woke up and he was like, bro, like, imagine

1:15:26.200 --> 1:15:28.800
<v Speaker 2>if we had a baby right now, whos to do that?

1:15:28.920 --> 1:15:30.760
<v Speaker 2>Because it hit like, yo, I just had a bad day.

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<v Speaker 2>We ended up, you know, it's New York. Ship though

1:15:32.360 --> 1:15:34.240
<v Speaker 2>five in the morning. He was like, I don't know.

1:15:34.240 --> 1:15:36.479
<v Speaker 2>We was saying two years, maybe three, And I think

1:15:36.520 --> 1:15:38.400
<v Speaker 2>there's a lot of things that get scary for y'all.

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<v Speaker 4>Y'all use a condom everything, y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>Fuck no, I'm on birth control. Not look like a girl.

1:15:43.640 --> 1:15:45.439
<v Speaker 4>You're on birth control. You gotta get off of that.

1:15:45.960 --> 1:15:47.760
<v Speaker 1>What what are your throwing? Wait? What are your thoughts

1:15:47.800 --> 1:15:50.960
<v Speaker 1>on birth control? I think y'all should have a baby. No, no, no, no,

1:15:50.960 --> 1:15:51.400
<v Speaker 1>come down.

1:15:51.600 --> 1:15:54.519
<v Speaker 3>Do you do you want to fly? Do you have

1:15:54.640 --> 1:15:56.280
<v Speaker 3>general thoughts on women being on birth care.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I just like heard it got like there's a

1:15:59.160 --> 1:16:01.120
<v Speaker 1>lot of bad Yeah, like you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like now it's like all right, everybody grown, Like

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<v Speaker 1>just tell your boy pull out. Yeah, you're grown. The

1:16:07.160 --> 1:16:08.760
<v Speaker 1>pull out does not work.

1:16:08.920 --> 1:16:09.800
<v Speaker 4>That ship it works.

1:16:10.280 --> 1:16:13.479
<v Speaker 1>Did you just hear this everybody telling them pull out?

1:16:13.560 --> 1:16:17.320
<v Speaker 1>I got the pull out method. I'm sad now when

1:16:17.320 --> 1:16:25.400
<v Speaker 1>you got that Dripney Bruh.

1:16:25.479 --> 1:16:27.800
<v Speaker 2>Let me tell you when we were in Atlanta for

1:16:27.920 --> 1:16:30.720
<v Speaker 2>the Black Effect Show, I wasn't on birth control, right,

1:16:31.720 --> 1:16:34.760
<v Speaker 2>he didn't pull out and he literally after he came

1:16:35.040 --> 1:16:36.800
<v Speaker 2>it's still inside of me. I said, are you about

1:16:36.800 --> 1:16:38.960
<v Speaker 2>to are you telling me you? He's like, I'm so sorry.

1:16:39.160 --> 1:16:40.400
<v Speaker 2>I know you don't want to hear this, but that

1:16:40.479 --> 1:16:41.759
<v Speaker 2>ship was so good, and I'm.

1:16:41.560 --> 1:16:44.479
<v Speaker 1>Like, no, I gotta be on motherfucking plan b No.

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<v Speaker 1>After that, that was when birth control started. You know

1:16:47.800 --> 1:16:48.120
<v Speaker 1>what it is.

1:16:48.120 --> 1:16:50.160
<v Speaker 2>It's the anxiety of not being able to plan. I

1:16:50.160 --> 1:16:52.680
<v Speaker 2>would love to have children with this person, but at

1:16:52.720 --> 1:16:54.840
<v Speaker 2>the end of the planet, yeah, I really want to play.

1:16:54.840 --> 1:16:57.519
<v Speaker 1>I know that. I was about to say, if you're

1:16:57.520 --> 1:17:00.000
<v Speaker 1>dealing with a nigga who believes the pull out method yeah,

1:17:00.120 --> 1:17:02.120
<v Speaker 1>not really. Yeah, we see how that baby happened.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean your pulling out though, Like that's the thing

1:17:06.320 --> 1:17:09.479
<v Speaker 5>about it, all right, Some niggas just no, like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not pulling out.

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<v Speaker 4>That was me.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Like and clearly your swimmer, swim my.

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<v Speaker 4>Niggas get up through that.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what I've always wanted to ask somebody in

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<v Speaker 2>this podcast, not you, I've always wanted to ask a man,

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<v Speaker 2>just like a whole as to come out, like how

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<v Speaker 2>many abortions have you had?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh? That's such a hard question to ask somebody, Like

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<v Speaker 1>we don't ask women that, but like, but a man

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<v Speaker 1>never had abortion, but you don't know how many paid

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<v Speaker 1>for a man never had he paid for eleven? Wow, whoa,

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<v Speaker 1>that's crazy nasty. Yep, you know what.

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<v Speaker 2>He looked good and rich and I bet every bitch

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<v Speaker 2>be waiting on it. He was like, yo, I'll be

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<v Speaker 2>at the deal. He's like I literally He's like, no,

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<v Speaker 2>that's a lot of men have entitlement and they don't.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, but he showed me nothing in them, knowing

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<v Speaker 4>that he don't want a baby.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I agree.

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<v Speaker 4>It's like it's like he putting her thoughs unnecessary ringer.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, my goodness. Hello.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's like the Internet.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't like you. Yeah, it's like, why the fuck you

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<v Speaker 1>blessing in a food?

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<v Speaker 2>You know what? I really appreciate you saying this because

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<v Speaker 2>the selfishness of men being so detached from her pregnancy

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<v Speaker 2>it exists.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, but it's like, why blessing her? Bro?

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<v Speaker 1>If you don't want a kid, that's the dumbest shit. Hello, Nick, Sorry, no,

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<v Speaker 1>he wanted fifty kids? Are not you? Hey? All of

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<v Speaker 1>our opinions are ones of our own, no whatnot?

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<v Speaker 2>Actually, I'm not even gonna say, Nick Cannon. He does

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<v Speaker 2>seem like he was intentionally having a bunch of kids.

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<v Speaker 2>Who's the little young nigga that got twenty five kids?

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<v Speaker 2>He's too, twenty two or.

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<v Speaker 1>Something, young boy who might be going to jail? NBA,

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<v Speaker 1>young boy? Is that it? And dirt for young boy? Sorry?

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<v Speaker 1>And dirt? Wait?

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<v Speaker 2>Is it?

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<v Speaker 1>Dirt? He said for everybody? But he got a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of kids. Both of them got a lot of keys. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I know one of them got it like ten and

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<v Speaker 1>twenty two.

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<v Speaker 5>Young boy has yeah, eleven at twenty three, damn, while

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<v Speaker 5>we got a long kid.

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<v Speaker 1>Bro.

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<v Speaker 4>He just welcome, yeah, he just welcome the new one.

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<v Speaker 4>Twenty three, welcome to Oh sorry, Oh yeah, I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah twelve, hold.

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<v Speaker 1>On wait, it's just a dude to be like. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to fuck me too, that's I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>the young nigs. You don't know NB A young boy.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes I get confused with the any chopper the young

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<v Speaker 1>boy than the other ones. Yeah, the letters a lot,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a lot, but I know the difference. Hold on eleven.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry when you twelve twelve, he's only twenty two. How

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<v Speaker 1>do you think he knows all their names? I mean

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<v Speaker 1>he just had one with may wether daughter. Oh yes,

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<v Speaker 1>right now, you know what we're talking about. Anyway, baby,

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<v Speaker 1>make it out now? Where can everybody listen?

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<v Speaker 3>By the way, I would like to say too, when

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<v Speaker 3>we have artists, if you really want to support your artists,

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<v Speaker 3>make sure you purchase, not just stream so you can

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<v Speaker 3>go into the app store.

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<v Speaker 1>How much is it?

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<v Speaker 3>Nine ten, nine twelve nine nine, baby, y'all pay that

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<v Speaker 3>ship Netflix, and y'all don't even like all the shows

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<v Speaker 3>on that bitch. If you want to support artists, make

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<v Speaker 3>sure you dropped that that nine let's just.

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<v Speaker 5>Say it cost fifty plan and you can go to

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<v Speaker 5>the store and by this album too. On November fifteenth,

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<v Speaker 5>it'll be in the stores. Okay, you go by physical.

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<v Speaker 5>That's out now November fifteen, y'all can go get it

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<v Speaker 5>in the stores, baby, making.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait for real. I'm not even trying to be funny. Yeah, wait,

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<v Speaker 1>where did you think go about albums? Now?

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<v Speaker 4>Like at Target?

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<v Speaker 1>Walmart?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I'm not sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Where they putting it in?

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<v Speaker 4>Like, yeah, you just look it up online.

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<v Speaker 5>You can find it ya now, But I ain't gonna lie

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<v Speaker 5>at your local stores that sell like CDs or probably

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<v Speaker 5>like selected like Walmarts and Targets, you can get it

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<v Speaker 5>like no, kids, Yeah, I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>Gonna buy this album. But where are we gonna put

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<v Speaker 1>what you mean gonna wait? What are you gonna wait?

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<v Speaker 1>What do you play a CD in?

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<v Speaker 4>Now?

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<v Speaker 5>I got? Well, I ain't gonna lie. I took, I

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<v Speaker 5>changed my seat, my cars I had. I had a

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<v Speaker 5>call with a CD player.

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<v Speaker 4>I changed. That's what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>Where did they play a CD?

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<v Speaker 4>Noway?

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<v Speaker 1>The card is you have with a CD player? You

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<v Speaker 1>gotta think, my lumbo when I'm has got it was

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<v Speaker 1>five ahead, my lambo. It was all a job.

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<v Speaker 3>Let everyone know where they could follow you. Support you, y'all, baby,

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<v Speaker 3>making is out.

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<v Speaker 4>It's tholes now, Yes, it's out.

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<v Speaker 5>Y'all can follow me at jock Queize if you haven't

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<v Speaker 5>already j A C q U E s at jock Queeze.

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<v Speaker 4>That's on everything, Uh love y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all know what it is, and y'all already know.

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<v Speaker 1>Sure, and yeah, y'all.

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<v Speaker 3>Make sure y'all have a good one and we'll see

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<v Speaker 3>y'all next week, Same time, baby,