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Speaker 1: Welcome to Decisions Decisions. I don't think you should say

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Speaker 1: decisions decisions.

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Speaker 2: It sounded like you was talking to you definitely say

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Speaker 2: to welcome, welcome to the new podcast. Oh you want

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Speaker 2: to say together the decisions decisions all y'all.

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Speaker 1: Well, we were just gonna jump right into this ship,

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Speaker 1: this show what best friends, baby Daddy. I ain't gonna

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Speaker 1: hold y'all.

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Speaker 3: This is probably crazy because I normally don't bring people

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Speaker 3: like that.

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Speaker 1: I know like this. I think the truth they be fighting.

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Speaker 1: Put the camera. We're not gonna do d y'all. We

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Speaker 1: have Jack Queis in the building today.

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Speaker 3: And I am really excited because, Yeah, I had a

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Speaker 3: prepro call with your fiance.

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Speaker 1: First Off, First off, I ain't gonna hold y'all.

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Speaker 3: Let me tell y'all how I'm sitting here, like letting

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Speaker 3: her know kind of the questions and conversations we're gonna

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Speaker 3: have on the pot.

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Speaker 1: Hey, here go John Queens and the background. Man, I

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Speaker 1: heard y'all. Ship, y'all better not make my episode boring.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, man, I don't give me all that other ship.

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Speaker 1: That's funny.

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Speaker 2: All right, you have, but see, we have to now

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Speaker 2: because now we can't dig into the hose, because if

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Speaker 2: we're the ones who dug into the past, we're gonna

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Speaker 2: be like, why the you put my medal?

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Speaker 3: Just know we're gonna get to the sexiness of it all,

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Speaker 3: the baby making of it all before we.

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Speaker 2: Get to the sexiness. Can I tell you, every time

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Speaker 2: I hear your name, I think of one thing. You know,

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Speaker 2: just as like a fan of listening to songs for yours,

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Speaker 2: My favorite song is a song that I would have

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Speaker 2: to go through hell and high water to listen to.

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Speaker 2: And I get so excited anytime I hear to beat

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Speaker 2: because all I want to say is.

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Speaker 1: I got a right on my gun. It will take it.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, Brady to me, I ain't gotta get made.

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Speaker 3: You said the gun off safety. Oh this is when

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Speaker 3: you like fucking Niggasho had guns under the pillow.

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Speaker 1: So I just said, I resonated with that's my ship.

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Speaker 1: I get so happy when the DJ just takes it

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Speaker 1: off track. Yeah, you know, I really hate reading this,

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Speaker 1: but fuck when he's better than this song, here we go.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 2: I love ELM too, but like honestly, I was really

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Speaker 2: upset like the DSPs.

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Speaker 1: It was killing me. Bro I on YouTube.

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Speaker 2: I bought YouTube premium for the day you swear Swear

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Speaker 2: to God. I love, love, love love your voice, and

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Speaker 2: that song was really fun to listen to, and it's like,

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Speaker 2: just it was such a good song.

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Speaker 1: You but yeah, like that a fun time, right.

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Speaker 3: And also you know what, I wanted to own and

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Speaker 3: you sold the thunder from her again not y'all having

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Speaker 3: babies around the same time.

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Speaker 1: She had her baby as well. Oh that's hard.

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Speaker 4: Congrats, hud. It used to be cool with me back

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Speaker 4: in the day.

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Speaker 1: Did you when you were singing that song?

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Speaker 2: Because the clip I remember, did you really the audios

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Speaker 2: from you singing in the car?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? Yeah, yeah not so that day I was out

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Speaker 4: the country. I was in London.

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Speaker 5: And it's crazy because her best friend used to run

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Speaker 5: around with me, you know what I'm saying in London,

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Speaker 5: like she had worked for like cash money and Republic

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Speaker 5: like out there. It was like they had like a

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Speaker 5: she used to run around with me whatever. So I

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Speaker 5: was like, man, one day, I was like, man, I'm

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Speaker 5: finna make this video to trip, you know what I'm saying, Like,

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Speaker 5: I'm finna make it in a car. My managers like, man,

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Speaker 5: don't do that. Whatever, you shouldn't do it, whatever, Like

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Speaker 5: I'm gonna do it. So I just recorded on the

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Speaker 5: phone and that's the clip. I was just lip singing

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Speaker 5: what I had already recorded, and I just threw it

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Speaker 5: on the ground. And when that went viral that same day,

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Speaker 5: I was already shooting a video.

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Speaker 4: To it, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 5: So I was like, you know, I always do quick

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Speaker 5: me because I didn't know it was gonna be that crazy.

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Speaker 5: When I put it on the ground, they had got

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Speaker 5: like they had got like ten thousand plays like in

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Speaker 1: I remember, cause we got the Hood version of the song.

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Speaker 1: That's why.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Like I remember, like I ain't even gonna cap

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Speaker 5: like I remember when I dropped that stuff, Like I

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Speaker 5: remember like like they are coming from Cali, like you

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Speaker 5: know what I'm saying, like playing it like like what

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Speaker 5: was this like two thy eighteen or something like this,

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Speaker 5: Like I remember that coming from California, like in the neighborhood,

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Speaker 5: like just everybody in the neighborhood of California just out

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Speaker 5: the windows playing trip like it was crazy.

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Speaker 3: Like that was a crazy we mix it still something,

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Speaker 3: especially like with everyone using samples or remixing and doing

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Speaker 3: all that shit, but also it not being money out

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Speaker 3: of it because shit ain't get cleared.

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Speaker 1: Is that something you still doing? Does it make sense

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Speaker 1: to do?

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Speaker 4: I mean, y'all still do it.

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Speaker 5: I just dropped the Queen's project at the top of

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Speaker 5: the you okay, you feel me? I did it because

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Speaker 5: I'm like, man, my fans be asking for it, and

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Speaker 5: that was what was going viral if you see, like

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Speaker 5: the little shit that was like a.

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Speaker 4: Damn ye, everybody was going to let dances.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah.

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Speaker 4: So it's like I always do something to end up

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Speaker 4: going viral.

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Speaker 1: I actually had a really interesting conversation about.

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Speaker 2: That moment in time with I was in this meeting

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Speaker 2: about it was a TV show that I was working

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Speaker 2: the EP and they wanted to hire this influencer who

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Speaker 2: was popular for copying something from another woman. And the

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Speaker 2: conversation was like, yo, but like this was kind of

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Speaker 2: fucked up. I'm like, yeah, but they're two black creators.

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Speaker 2: Like all TikTokers do the same thing, they just remix it.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, what.

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Speaker 2: About John Queens think about that moment it's time. Like

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Speaker 2: I feel like we all agreed that, Like, Okay, I

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Speaker 2: understand why you perform this.

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Speaker 1: It's not like people are paying the ticket to see

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Speaker 1: you do this. One thing. Can they not do this?

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Speaker 1: I will, I will say that.

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Speaker 3: That is another thing about I think our first time

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Speaker 3: meeting DeAndre and shit, I gotta share this.

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Speaker 1: I gotta share it.

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Speaker 3: So I find out that one of our best friends

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Speaker 3: is dating Jacquez and she calls me and it's like, listen,

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Speaker 3: Jack queens my friend. We talk about music and I

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Speaker 3: don't really know if she listens to your music that well.

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Speaker 1: And she say that she is not the king of

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Speaker 1: R and B. So when we come to New York,

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Speaker 1: swear to God.

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Speaker 3: When we come to New York, I'm gonna bring her

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Speaker 3: to your show, so so she could.

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Speaker 1: See how you get down. Baby.

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Speaker 3: And I went to the show and the visuals in

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Speaker 3: the bag, the dancers and literally he comes backstage and

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Speaker 3: he was like, I did that.

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Speaker 1: Shit didn't say that was like our first time meeting.

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Speaker 3: And I did want to want to get into so,

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Speaker 3: you know, decision decisions. You know, we talk relationships, we

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Speaker 3: talk sex. We're gonna get into baby making the new project.

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Speaker 3: But before getting into the project, I wanted to bring

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Speaker 3: up a just a very real topic about our interaction,

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Speaker 3: maybe something that people often go with or deal with.

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Speaker 1: And I'll be real with you because you.

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Speaker 3: Already know I wasn't a fan of you personally at first.

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Speaker 3: Of course, there was a lot around the pregnancy, the

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Speaker 3: announcement of it, what was going on with your previous

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Speaker 3: relationship as it intertwined with this previous with this current relationship.

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Speaker 3: And I will tell you, I don't know if you know.

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Speaker 3: There was a decision whether she was going to keep

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Speaker 3: the baby or not. And I sent her flowers that said, realize,

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Speaker 3: bit you give a fuck about a nigga. I support

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Speaker 3: whatever decision you make, but it happens, I'm not gonna

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Speaker 3: lie as a friend because that took place during your relationship.

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Speaker 3: I do want to commend you in having to go

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Speaker 3: because I think it's been a lot for y'all to

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Speaker 3: go through a high risk pregnancy, but also for you

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Speaker 3: as a man, a first time father, having to go

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Speaker 3: against everything and also really being excited about this moment

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Speaker 3: and I did want to commend you because I do think.

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Speaker 1: It's hard, like a lot of people out there have,

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Speaker 1: you know, get pregnant with eight shit. Nigga's not saying

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Speaker 1: that you are, but those men.

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Speaker 3: There is a battle in wanting to be excited because

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Speaker 3: in this relationship. And I do want to say from

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Speaker 3: you have done nothing but show up as a partner,

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Speaker 1: A little bit.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, real talk.

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Speaker 3: And I did want to ask you how how was

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Speaker 3: then also as the man trying to just give advice

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Speaker 3: let them know like I'm gonna be here and I'm

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Speaker 3: gonna be a good father and I'm gonna be a

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Speaker 5: Oh well, really, it's like it's just a decision a

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Speaker 5: what I'm saying, because like us as dudes like, it

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Speaker 5: come a time where it came a time in my life.

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Speaker 5: Well I'm like, man, I gotta stop really playing with fire,

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Speaker 5: you know what I'm saying. I was always the type

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Speaker 5: of dude to like play with fire. You dig what

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Speaker 5: I'm saying. I would always think I can have it

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Speaker 5: my way.

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Speaker 4: Period.

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Speaker 5: That's just how I was thinking. I was just like, man,

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Speaker 5: I'm jock Queeze, I can have shit my way, you

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Speaker 5: know what I'm saying. And it just came to a

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Speaker 5: halt because when I was thinking that, it's like everything

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Speaker 5: started to fumble, he did, know what I'm saying, Like other

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Speaker 5: places in my life started to fumble. And I'm like,

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Speaker 5: I ain't got no discipline nowhere, you know, And if

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Speaker 5: to fumble. So once I got disciplined with myself and

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Speaker 5: I stopped drinking.

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Speaker 1: And how that discipline happened, Yeah, Like my girl was

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Speaker 1: big on that.

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Speaker 4: You know, I was big on drinking. You know.

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Speaker 5: I was just really like a drinker, you feel me,

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Speaker 5: like a nigga that just like to drink, but it

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Speaker 5: I was like starting to lose myself in a way.

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Speaker 5: But then I had somebody like DeAndre that's right there,

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Speaker 5: that seeing me in such a light, that was seeing

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Speaker 5: me go down like that that she really just couldn't

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Speaker 5: Like I swear now that I started getting the mocktails

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Speaker 5: did you know what I'm saying? And then I was like,

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Speaker 5: But I be thinking like my whole my whole life,

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Speaker 4: But you know what, though, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: Everybody, somebody famous. Women feel so much pressure to not

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Speaker 5: But then but then the dude will let you know

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Speaker 2: But I don't think women are leading with that. I

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Speaker 4: I could believe that.

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Speaker 1: I think they being the woman that they think that you.

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Speaker 4: That's a fact. It's gonna take.

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Speaker 5: It probably takes the dude to break down or something

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Speaker 1: Make it serious.

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Speaker 3: Do you remember the moment that you were like, I'm

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Speaker 3: gonna go buy a ring and propose to DeAndre. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: we knew you had the gender reveal the baby shower,

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Speaker 3: which is where you proposed, But what was the exact

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Speaker 5: Like, well, you gotta think at a gender revillal, I

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Speaker 1: Like I was only two muths apart from each other.

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Speaker 1: Damn it.

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Speaker 5: Like I'm saying, I was just like now, just like

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Speaker 5: you know how niggas be like you know one day

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Speaker 5: always say it just come to you.

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, How long are dropping day?

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Speaker 5: Me and DeAnda, she came on the tour last year,

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Speaker 1: Had this up because we had a dating coach.

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Speaker 3: Now, man different because she was pregnant in three months.

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Speaker 1: But you don't have to marry a woman just because

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Speaker 4: Valance, That ain't That ain't why I married him. You

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Speaker 3: So gender revealed was April, you didn't know, and in

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Speaker 3: April you didn't want to propose, But the baby shower

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Speaker 5: Was like, really, we start going to church and stuff,

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Speaker 2: We gotta get we gotta get me.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we started going.

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Speaker 5: We started going to church, and then honestly I had started,

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Speaker 5: I'm like, Okay, I like waking up over here, making

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Speaker 5: You know, I'm just like adding it up. I'm trying

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 5: And I was talking to him and he was like, man,

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Speaker 1: Saying he was swagged up, you feel yeah, you know

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Speaker 1: You know, it wasn't the one Mary that was married

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Speaker 4: The church Atlanta said, let.

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Speaker 5: It wasn't him, So I remember he swaggy brot.

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Speaker 5: He was just basically in that talking about how people

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Speaker 5: this other white guy, super cool who'd been in the

442
00:18:13,520 --> 00:18:16,280
Speaker 5: gym with us and stuff. He always be like, hey

443
00:18:16,400 --> 00:18:19,920
Speaker 5: your cueees man, you dating? You know Sanders, you know

444
00:18:19,920 --> 00:18:22,040
Speaker 5: what I'm saying. I'd be like, yeah, man, you know

445
00:18:22,080 --> 00:18:23,920
Speaker 5: what I'm saying. Yeah, that my girl whatever. You know

446
00:18:23,920 --> 00:18:26,040
Speaker 5: what I'm saying, Like, Yo, man, it's dope, man, stay focused, man,

447
00:18:27,440 --> 00:18:28,479
Speaker 5: all right, you know what I'm saying.

448
00:18:28,920 --> 00:18:29,560
Speaker 1: So then.

449
00:18:30,920 --> 00:18:33,360
Speaker 5: That the pastor you know, the one we call doc

450
00:18:33,440 --> 00:18:36,199
Speaker 5: or whatever. He like, hey Doc, he just giving me

451
00:18:36,240 --> 00:18:38,480
Speaker 5: some game whatever. So I'm like, man, I might get married,

452
00:18:38,680 --> 00:18:40,920
Speaker 5: you know what, I'm saying. So he was like, oh,

453
00:18:40,960 --> 00:18:43,440
Speaker 5: for real, doc, giving me some little games. So I'm like, yeah,

454
00:18:43,600 --> 00:18:44,959
Speaker 5: I might do it. I'm just really throwing it out

455
00:18:44,960 --> 00:18:46,600
Speaker 5: there to see what the og gonna say for real,

456
00:18:47,080 --> 00:18:49,080
Speaker 5: say like, yeah, doctor, that'll be good for you. Know

457
00:18:49,119 --> 00:18:50,960
Speaker 5: I'm saying, don't number for real, they're telling me that'll

458
00:18:50,960 --> 00:18:53,280
Speaker 5: be good for you. So I like, okay, okay. So

459
00:18:53,320 --> 00:18:55,120
Speaker 5: I'm just sitting around, so I started writing this letter.

460
00:18:55,640 --> 00:18:56,159
Speaker 4: You feel me.

461
00:18:56,600 --> 00:18:58,199
Speaker 5: So I'm like, let me start writing this ladder. Let

462
00:18:58,240 --> 00:19:00,560
Speaker 5: me just see what's going down. So I start writing

463
00:19:00,560 --> 00:19:02,000
Speaker 5: a letter. Then I started writing it. Then I called

464
00:19:02,040 --> 00:19:04,440
Speaker 5: my mom. I'm like a letter to who DeAndre? You

465
00:19:04,480 --> 00:19:07,720
Speaker 5: know what I'm saying, the eight minute letter. Yeah yeah,

466
00:19:08,480 --> 00:19:09,920
Speaker 5: I was writing that letter for four days.

467
00:19:10,320 --> 00:19:11,480
Speaker 1: Shut up. Yeah.

468
00:19:11,480 --> 00:19:13,080
Speaker 4: And I remember when I was writing a letter.

469
00:19:13,600 --> 00:19:16,040
Speaker 5: I remember I would be on the balcony and this

470
00:19:16,119 --> 00:19:18,239
Speaker 5: when we was in the condo in the city, when

471
00:19:18,280 --> 00:19:22,360
Speaker 5: I was over that standing us spot, and she would

472
00:19:22,359 --> 00:19:24,040
Speaker 5: be on the sofa, you know, the sofa right here,

473
00:19:24,600 --> 00:19:26,840
Speaker 5: the balcony right here, and I'll be out there late

474
00:19:26,960 --> 00:19:29,000
Speaker 5: and she'll be like, I don't worry about you.

475
00:19:29,040 --> 00:19:30,040
Speaker 4: I'm like, what you worry? You know?

476
00:19:30,080 --> 00:19:32,360
Speaker 5: DeAndre like that. She was like, they don't worry about you.

477
00:19:32,720 --> 00:19:34,360
Speaker 5: I was like, I'm like, what you worry about? I'm

478
00:19:34,440 --> 00:19:35,960
Speaker 5: right here, you know what I'm saying.

479
00:19:36,040 --> 00:19:38,000
Speaker 1: But you were writing a lot in your but but

480
00:19:38,359 --> 00:19:40,600
Speaker 1: you know, I always write down stuff anyway, So I'm

481
00:19:40,600 --> 00:19:42,720
Speaker 1: making it seem like, yeah, I got a lot of ideas.

482
00:19:42,800 --> 00:19:44,679
Speaker 5: I'm making it seem like yeah, I got a lot

483
00:19:44,680 --> 00:19:46,639
Speaker 5: of ideas and stuff. Like I'm just writing some ideas

484
00:19:46,680 --> 00:19:48,760
Speaker 5: and stuff. I'm thinking about some lyrics and stuff. So

485
00:19:48,800 --> 00:19:50,280
Speaker 5: she's like okay. Then it went on for days. She

486
00:19:50,320 --> 00:19:51,920
Speaker 5: kept saying like, I'm just worried about you, you know what

487
00:19:51,920 --> 00:19:53,439
Speaker 5: I'm saying. So now I asked my mama, like, hey, Mom,

488
00:19:53,440 --> 00:19:56,680
Speaker 5: I think I'm married DeAndre. She's like, okay, cool. She like, well,

489
00:19:56,680 --> 00:19:58,720
Speaker 5: you need to ask her her short term goals and

490
00:19:58,800 --> 00:20:00,920
Speaker 5: her long term goals, you know what I'm saying.

491
00:20:00,960 --> 00:20:04,080
Speaker 3: She wasn't a conversation y'all had already, my mama, No,

492
00:20:04,320 --> 00:20:07,480
Speaker 3: you you and the short term and long term goal conversation.

493
00:20:08,320 --> 00:20:11,680
Speaker 1: Oh, I guess you just kind of get in and

494
00:20:11,720 --> 00:20:13,240
Speaker 1: know each other. You've got the new thing going on.

495
00:20:13,280 --> 00:20:15,680
Speaker 1: It's like, yeah, oh wow, we didn't.

496
00:20:15,800 --> 00:20:16,399
Speaker 4: It was Frisch.

497
00:20:16,480 --> 00:20:18,320
Speaker 5: So, uh, my mama like, make sure you know how

498
00:20:18,359 --> 00:20:20,040
Speaker 5: short term goes and a long term goes.

499
00:20:20,040 --> 00:20:21,480
Speaker 4: Because my mama had already told me she was the

500
00:20:21,480 --> 00:20:23,320
Speaker 4: one on tour. You know what I'm saying.

501
00:20:23,600 --> 00:20:27,199
Speaker 1: Really, I mean DeAndre had came on my tour. She

502
00:20:27,320 --> 00:20:29,679
Speaker 1: really snuck on tour with that came.

503
00:20:30,080 --> 00:20:31,960
Speaker 3: That's what I gotta do. I gotta sneak on to

504
00:20:32,160 --> 00:20:35,320
Speaker 3: and you gotta try to sneak on a tour. I

505
00:20:35,440 --> 00:20:37,080
Speaker 3: see ug, I'm finna do it too.

506
00:20:37,480 --> 00:20:40,359
Speaker 5: Came to a show. She brung up brothers to the

507
00:20:40,359 --> 00:20:42,879
Speaker 5: first show she came to. She brong your door and

508
00:20:42,960 --> 00:20:46,200
Speaker 5: Bucky and then uh, she was like, I want to

509
00:20:46,200 --> 00:20:47,520
Speaker 5: come to another show. I want my friends to see

510
00:20:47,560 --> 00:20:49,680
Speaker 5: you before you know what I'm saying, And.

511
00:20:49,640 --> 00:20:51,879
Speaker 1: She had us pull up every city. She was like

512
00:20:51,880 --> 00:20:53,000
Speaker 1: I got friends in this city.

513
00:20:53,119 --> 00:20:57,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, coming to the city and I was meeting and

514
00:20:57,119 --> 00:20:59,920
Speaker 5: then she was telling her mama for real, like I

515
00:21:00,119 --> 00:21:02,560
Speaker 5: think he'd won, Like I caught with for them saying like,

516
00:21:02,600 --> 00:21:04,359
Speaker 5: oh he don't want like you feel. I'm hearing that

517
00:21:04,840 --> 00:21:07,000
Speaker 5: you feel it, so like oh ship they think the

518
00:21:07,080 --> 00:21:07,760
Speaker 5: one like what there?

519
00:21:14,400 --> 00:21:16,320
Speaker 1: What type of things do you think mean?

520
00:21:16,960 --> 00:21:21,160
Speaker 2: The one we had Bro Timmy on YEP and he

521
00:21:21,200 --> 00:21:23,080
Speaker 2: talked about in such specific things.

522
00:21:23,400 --> 00:21:26,320
Speaker 1: I'm just curious, like what did.

523
00:21:26,560 --> 00:21:28,840
Speaker 3: She pay herself to come on that tour? That's what

524
00:21:28,840 --> 00:21:30,640
Speaker 3: Bro Timmy said. Bro Timmy said he knew her.

525
00:21:31,080 --> 00:21:34,800
Speaker 1: This woman was the one she Africa Africa to l

526
00:21:34,840 --> 00:21:36,800
Speaker 1: A Yeah, because she wanted to see him.

527
00:21:36,800 --> 00:21:38,600
Speaker 4: And then now she was paying to get them.

528
00:21:39,640 --> 00:21:39,960
Speaker 1: Damn it.

529
00:21:40,040 --> 00:21:41,840
Speaker 5: We all got to pay to be with these niggas. No,

530
00:21:43,600 --> 00:21:45,440
Speaker 5: they got paid for to get that one probably one time.

531
00:21:45,480 --> 00:21:47,639
Speaker 5: But how the show she went to I need to

532
00:21:47,680 --> 00:21:51,560
Speaker 5: Knowdre started out on the one show and then she

533
00:21:51,720 --> 00:21:55,000
Speaker 5: finished the tour like after like before Halloween. DeAndre was

534
00:21:55,040 --> 00:21:57,040
Speaker 5: there with us on Halloween. We all had on costumes.

535
00:21:57,119 --> 00:21:59,960
Speaker 5: She had friends with us and costumes. Then she was

536
00:22:00,040 --> 00:22:01,359
Speaker 5: there with us the whole tour. She was on the

537
00:22:01,400 --> 00:22:03,240
Speaker 5: whole tour like she just popped up every city. She

538
00:22:03,280 --> 00:22:05,880
Speaker 5: brought herself. No, she stayed on the bus, She organized

539
00:22:05,880 --> 00:22:08,000
Speaker 5: my room, she had her her she said, I'm gonna

540
00:22:08,000 --> 00:22:11,879
Speaker 5: work at everything organized like she came and changed the

541
00:22:11,920 --> 00:22:12,360
Speaker 5: whole game.

542
00:22:12,520 --> 00:22:15,040
Speaker 2: Let me ask you this, somebody is going to watch

543
00:22:15,080 --> 00:22:19,040
Speaker 2: this and people are enjoy hating on what you have,

544
00:22:19,240 --> 00:22:22,399
Speaker 2: right or happy people whatever. It's like, even Deandra's post

545
00:22:22,480 --> 00:22:26,920
Speaker 2: about pregnancy, I have fibrays. I couldn't believe the comment

546
00:22:27,040 --> 00:22:28,879
Speaker 2: that shit really triggered me. And I don't even know

547
00:22:28,920 --> 00:22:30,480
Speaker 2: DeAndre like that. I know her through Mandy when she

548
00:22:30,480 --> 00:22:32,800
Speaker 2: comes to a show. I was fucked up reading this.

549
00:22:32,960 --> 00:22:35,480
Speaker 2: I'm like, bro, you can't even make a choice for

550
00:22:35,520 --> 00:22:36,880
Speaker 2: yourself because people just.

551
00:22:36,800 --> 00:22:38,800
Speaker 1: Want to be angry about the that she has.

552
00:22:39,840 --> 00:22:43,360
Speaker 2: So people, I feel like will be excited to hear

553
00:22:43,600 --> 00:22:46,879
Speaker 2: the DeAndre paid to come, because I really do.

554
00:22:46,960 --> 00:22:49,399
Speaker 1: I feel like this. Someone's gonna watch this and be like,

555
00:22:49,640 --> 00:22:52,440
Speaker 1: see to the side.

556
00:22:54,400 --> 00:22:59,680
Speaker 2: Tell me why Deandra doing this on her own ools

557
00:23:00,119 --> 00:23:02,840
Speaker 2: taught you that she was the one or spoke to you?

558
00:23:03,640 --> 00:23:05,120
Speaker 1: What did that show you? If anything?

559
00:23:06,440 --> 00:23:08,680
Speaker 4: I mean, you gotta think we was friends first anyway.

560
00:23:09,160 --> 00:23:11,840
Speaker 5: So DeAndre always being my birthday parties and all that

561
00:23:11,840 --> 00:23:12,359
Speaker 5: type of stuff.

562
00:23:12,359 --> 00:23:14,960
Speaker 1: Anyway, So it's like like I was with.

563
00:23:15,000 --> 00:23:16,840
Speaker 5: Her on her thirty third birthday. I remember she was

564
00:23:16,840 --> 00:23:18,399
Speaker 5: telling me when she turned thirty three. She was like, oh,

565
00:23:18,400 --> 00:23:20,200
Speaker 5: this is my Jesus year, you know what I'm saying.

566
00:23:20,240 --> 00:23:21,760
Speaker 5: Likes soon as she turned thirty three, I think that's

567
00:23:21,800 --> 00:23:23,800
Speaker 5: the same year she got pregnant it is you know

568
00:23:23,840 --> 00:23:25,840
Speaker 5: what I'm saying. And she was like, this is my Jesus.

569
00:23:25,840 --> 00:23:26,840
Speaker 5: I was like, what that means? She was like, you

570
00:23:26,920 --> 00:23:29,240
Speaker 5: know this just she was explaining it to me, and

571
00:23:30,359 --> 00:23:31,440
Speaker 5: I think I just got lost what.

572
00:23:31,440 --> 00:23:31,880
Speaker 4: You asked me.

573
00:23:32,119 --> 00:23:35,120
Speaker 2: I'm saying, like with her spending money to come, oh yeah,

574
00:23:35,119 --> 00:23:36,640
Speaker 2: I feel like saying what did it mean?

575
00:23:36,760 --> 00:23:37,840
Speaker 1: It was like did that mean something?

576
00:23:37,880 --> 00:23:39,840
Speaker 5: I mean, like I said, we was already friends and

577
00:23:40,080 --> 00:23:41,200
Speaker 5: just going back to her telling me it was a

578
00:23:41,280 --> 00:23:42,760
Speaker 5: Jez year and stuff like that, it was like we

579
00:23:42,800 --> 00:23:44,800
Speaker 5: already had like a special connect.

580
00:23:45,480 --> 00:23:46,760
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying. It was already connected.

581
00:23:46,800 --> 00:23:48,800
Speaker 5: So for her coming to my shows, it was really

582
00:23:48,920 --> 00:23:50,760
Speaker 5: like for her coming to see me, it's.

583
00:23:50,640 --> 00:23:52,399
Speaker 4: Like, yeah, my like DeAndre pulling up on me.

584
00:23:52,640 --> 00:23:54,160
Speaker 2: Okay, so hold on, how do you start fucking your friend?

585
00:23:54,160 --> 00:23:56,480
Speaker 2: Because I feel like nobody gonna let us wrong, nobody's

586
00:23:56,480 --> 00:23:57,680
Speaker 2: gonna let us have a whole point.

587
00:23:57,760 --> 00:24:03,639
Speaker 3: Ever again, I'm saying, what you want me to love her?

588
00:24:03,720 --> 00:24:04,120
Speaker 1: Not? No?

589
00:24:04,000 --> 00:24:04,040
Speaker 6: No?

590
00:24:04,200 --> 00:24:08,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, it really goes there. I feel like I feel

591
00:24:08,880 --> 00:24:12,080
Speaker 1: like when a nigga get, when a nigga get when

592
00:24:12,080 --> 00:24:14,560
Speaker 1: a nigga either got problems in its spot for real,

593
00:24:15,080 --> 00:24:16,600
Speaker 1: when a nigga got problems in his spy and a

594
00:24:16,680 --> 00:24:18,679
Speaker 1: nigga just tied of what he got, and a nigga

595
00:24:18,760 --> 00:24:21,280
Speaker 1: just ready to just explore, like when you're ready to risk,

596
00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:23,159
Speaker 1: were ready to jump, you gotta be ready to just

597
00:24:23,200 --> 00:24:29,280
Speaker 1: like like I mean, I mean, I mean, okay, well

598
00:24:29,359 --> 00:24:30,119
Speaker 1: let's rephrase it.

599
00:24:31,400 --> 00:24:32,200
Speaker 4: That's what it is.

600
00:24:32,840 --> 00:24:37,040
Speaker 1: Okay, I think we need to go back here rewinded.

601
00:24:37,160 --> 00:24:38,399
Speaker 1: Can I just tell you how that you made it

602
00:24:38,480 --> 00:24:40,800
Speaker 1: sound kind of just like made it seem like she's

603
00:24:40,800 --> 00:24:42,280
Speaker 1: a home record. No, you made it sound like she

604
00:24:42,320 --> 00:24:42,760
Speaker 1: was just there.

605
00:24:42,920 --> 00:24:44,760
Speaker 4: Oh no, I mean you got to think we were friends.

606
00:24:45,359 --> 00:24:47,520
Speaker 5: We met probably on one of those days, like not

607
00:24:47,520 --> 00:24:48,840
Speaker 5: not one of them days, like one of them times.

608
00:24:48,840 --> 00:24:50,600
Speaker 5: You know how you're in a relationship with someone, you

609
00:24:50,680 --> 00:24:52,399
Speaker 5: not with someone for some time, Like you might have

610
00:24:52,440 --> 00:24:54,760
Speaker 5: been dating somebody for years, right, but y'all might have

611
00:24:54,840 --> 00:24:56,960
Speaker 5: not been a relationship for like three months. You know

612
00:24:57,000 --> 00:24:58,600
Speaker 5: what I'm saying, You might have met someone that became

613
00:24:58,680 --> 00:25:00,840
Speaker 5: your friend. That's how you met somebody like I met

614
00:25:00,880 --> 00:25:02,560
Speaker 5: her in a period like that, Okay, you know what

615
00:25:02,560 --> 00:25:04,520
Speaker 5: I'm saying. I met her like when she turned thirty one,

616
00:25:04,680 --> 00:25:06,960
Speaker 5: like Pat Man Jones had called me the singer happy birthday.

617
00:25:07,000 --> 00:25:09,080
Speaker 5: I didn't know nothing about her, you feel me? He

618
00:25:09,160 --> 00:25:11,639
Speaker 5: was just like, man, I'm with I'm with DeAndre. I'm like,

619
00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:13,200
Speaker 5: who is that. He's like, man, it's the young daughter.

620
00:25:13,200 --> 00:25:15,159
Speaker 4: You feel me. It's like my little sister, it's her birthday.

621
00:25:15,240 --> 00:25:15,679
Speaker 4: Singing to her.

622
00:25:15,680 --> 00:25:18,000
Speaker 5: I'm like, what, don't be singing the folks on the phone.

623
00:25:18,080 --> 00:25:20,160
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying, y'all get crazy?

624
00:25:20,240 --> 00:25:20,720
Speaker 1: Yeah?

625
00:25:20,960 --> 00:25:22,720
Speaker 5: And he like and he like, brother, just saying, so

626
00:25:22,760 --> 00:25:24,320
Speaker 5: I'm gonna put on the phone. He put on the phone,

627
00:25:24,920 --> 00:25:26,800
Speaker 5: and when I sing it, I'm like, oh, she's super pretty.

628
00:25:26,840 --> 00:25:28,960
Speaker 5: I started singing. I ain't no never seen the people

629
00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:30,560
Speaker 5: on the phone, you know what I'm saying. I just

630
00:25:30,560 --> 00:25:32,640
Speaker 5: started singing. And she was just like, oh thank you.

631
00:25:32,760 --> 00:25:37,320
Speaker 5: And I was like, oh damn. I was like that, yeah,

632
00:25:38,880 --> 00:25:41,840
Speaker 5: shy bad. And I just started DM her and I

633
00:25:41,920 --> 00:25:45,960
Speaker 5: met her in Miami and then we just started kicking it,

634
00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:47,359
Speaker 5: like we was kicking it so hard.

635
00:25:47,359 --> 00:25:49,280
Speaker 1: I couldn't believe she was Deone Sander's daughter.

636
00:25:49,320 --> 00:25:49,760
Speaker 4: You feel me?

637
00:25:50,160 --> 00:25:52,040
Speaker 1: Like we was just kiding, gonna lie, that's a risk

638
00:25:52,160 --> 00:25:52,800
Speaker 1: to your life.

639
00:25:52,920 --> 00:25:55,760
Speaker 5: Like I was just like, I was just like dang

640
00:25:55,920 --> 00:25:58,840
Speaker 5: like shouty, really like cool as hell, like you feel me?

641
00:25:58,840 --> 00:26:00,240
Speaker 1: She was so real.

642
00:26:00,359 --> 00:26:03,919
Speaker 5: I was just like, damn, like this ship crazy you

643
00:26:03,920 --> 00:26:08,040
Speaker 5: feel me? I was really blown, like this don't make sense,

644
00:26:08,240 --> 00:26:09,359
Speaker 5: like shty too real.

645
00:26:09,720 --> 00:26:12,800
Speaker 1: I love that it's gotten into I haven't talked to

646
00:26:12,840 --> 00:26:22,919
Speaker 1: her name Atlanta so long. You heard yeah Joe buddy,

647
00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:26,719
Speaker 1: and don't do that crazy, that's crazy. I want it

648
00:26:26,720 --> 00:26:30,439
Speaker 1: because the holiday season is coming up and again digging

649
00:26:30,440 --> 00:26:32,720
Speaker 1: into relationships and how to navigate them. I have a

650
00:26:32,800 --> 00:26:34,720
Speaker 1: hypothetical that I want to throw at you.

651
00:26:35,760 --> 00:26:39,320
Speaker 3: Because we are in the season of gift giving, so

652
00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:43,120
Speaker 3: I want to see how you would react to this

653
00:26:43,160 --> 00:26:45,639
Speaker 3: incident happened and didn't feel free as well, because you

654
00:26:45,680 --> 00:26:48,040
Speaker 3: are dude, and so sometimes I know it could be

655
00:26:48,040 --> 00:26:50,960
Speaker 3: seeming like we're ganging up on ship. So if you

656
00:26:50,960 --> 00:26:52,680
Speaker 3: got to step in, you gotta step in shit.

657
00:26:53,080 --> 00:26:54,840
Speaker 1: So so, Queen.

658
00:26:55,520 --> 00:26:58,679
Speaker 3: You get your partner a gift for the holidays. Let's

659
00:26:58,680 --> 00:27:03,720
Speaker 3: say you buy her back. Then she absolutely hates the gift,

660
00:27:03,920 --> 00:27:08,200
Speaker 3: but doesn't tell you. Two months later, you see her

661
00:27:08,240 --> 00:27:11,240
Speaker 3: wrapping it to regift it to one of her close friends.

662
00:27:12,280 --> 00:27:14,840
Speaker 3: Don't you How do you respond to this?

663
00:27:15,920 --> 00:27:19,840
Speaker 4: Don't hurt. Adam met hurt before like like I'm like hurt.

664
00:27:19,920 --> 00:27:22,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, because you gave a gift to someone and they

665
00:27:22,320 --> 00:27:24,600
Speaker 1: didn't like it and you gifted it.

666
00:27:24,680 --> 00:27:25,040
Speaker 4: I mean.

667
00:27:26,640 --> 00:27:28,920
Speaker 5: It's like, yeah, like you regifted it. Now if it's

668
00:27:28,960 --> 00:27:31,639
Speaker 5: like you would have told me like all right, I

669
00:27:31,640 --> 00:27:32,479
Speaker 5: don't like these?

670
00:27:32,760 --> 00:27:34,800
Speaker 3: What is it now? Let's hold on. We got to

671
00:27:34,800 --> 00:27:38,040
Speaker 3: help the audience. It's the season of giving. I really

672
00:27:38,119 --> 00:27:42,119
Speaker 3: think men have an awful awful time getting gifts that

673
00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:44,520
Speaker 3: women actually like. Fact, Weezy and I have come on

674
00:27:44,600 --> 00:27:46,880
Speaker 3: here on Patreon and had to share how niggas spent

675
00:27:46,960 --> 00:27:47,840
Speaker 3: money and we ain't.

676
00:27:47,760 --> 00:27:50,760
Speaker 2: Like that ship and then oh I'll never forget money, bitch.

677
00:27:52,520 --> 00:27:53,800
Speaker 2: It was just as read as your pants.

678
00:27:55,560 --> 00:27:57,760
Speaker 1: She hated it. She had to come on and was like,

679
00:27:57,800 --> 00:27:58,440
Speaker 1: I know it's tough.

680
00:27:58,440 --> 00:28:00,560
Speaker 5: It's tough about women gifts. I tell you that all

681
00:28:00,600 --> 00:28:01,879
Speaker 5: the time. I come in the house with stuff.

682
00:28:02,280 --> 00:28:02,840
Speaker 1: She told me.

683
00:28:04,400 --> 00:28:06,200
Speaker 4: About her again, Yeah, I tell her because.

684
00:28:08,080 --> 00:28:10,439
Speaker 1: You know, I wanted to ask you something before, So

685
00:28:10,520 --> 00:28:12,480
Speaker 1: how did you pick up the ring? Oh?

686
00:28:12,680 --> 00:28:13,760
Speaker 4: So I had my sister's with.

687
00:28:13,760 --> 00:28:17,119
Speaker 1: Me, but did they know what shape? Because I realized

688
00:28:17,119 --> 00:28:19,800
Speaker 1: now I knew, I knew. I'm like I want to.

689
00:28:19,920 --> 00:28:21,919
Speaker 1: I want her like, I'm like, I want harringe to

690
00:28:21,960 --> 00:28:22,800
Speaker 1: be like my earrings.

691
00:28:23,280 --> 00:28:25,159
Speaker 3: Wait, you knew what you wanted her to wear, but

692
00:28:25,200 --> 00:28:27,000
Speaker 3: did you know what type of ring she wanted to want.

693
00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:28,399
Speaker 4: I don't know what she wanted, but I ended up

694
00:28:28,440 --> 00:28:31,199
Speaker 4: buying her dream ring. Oh god, you.

695
00:28:32,280 --> 00:28:33,919
Speaker 2: Got Look you know what I think about when I

696
00:28:33,920 --> 00:28:36,080
Speaker 2: think about a bad ring sex in the city when

697
00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:36,639
Speaker 2: she threw up.

698
00:28:36,720 --> 00:28:39,680
Speaker 1: You remember that moment? M m. She found the ring

699
00:28:39,800 --> 00:28:43,920
Speaker 1: reference in the closet and threw up, and everybody was like,

700
00:28:44,240 --> 00:28:45,520
Speaker 1: what made you throw She was like, it was a

701
00:28:45,560 --> 00:28:47,400
Speaker 1: pair of shaving. It just kind of man. It was

702
00:28:47,440 --> 00:28:49,360
Speaker 1: all sick to the stomach, and I'm like, yo, I

703
00:28:49,360 --> 00:28:51,200
Speaker 1: would be so happy. I would just live with it. Bro,

704
00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:55,280
Speaker 1: I feel like I want it. I wanted. I won't

705
00:28:55,280 --> 00:28:56,200
Speaker 1: want to in my handle.

706
00:28:56,520 --> 00:28:56,960
Speaker 4: You got it?

707
00:28:57,040 --> 00:28:57,480
Speaker 1: You got it?

708
00:28:57,520 --> 00:28:58,800
Speaker 4: Are you saying you seen shot ring?

709
00:28:59,240 --> 00:29:01,720
Speaker 1: Oh no, it's not. He that thing was listening. I

710
00:29:01,760 --> 00:29:02,640
Speaker 1: told my friend.

711
00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:05,120
Speaker 2: Girl, let me say put it like you know, I

712
00:29:05,120 --> 00:29:07,600
Speaker 2: will say this though. If I'm dating I mean your

713
00:29:07,760 --> 00:29:10,600
Speaker 2: RnB singer rapper Energy my Ring.

714
00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:11,040
Speaker 1: Can't be mad.

715
00:29:11,080 --> 00:29:13,160
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, No, can't be telling me my nigga can't

716
00:29:13,200 --> 00:29:16,080
Speaker 2: go through TSA without taking everything off and I have

717
00:29:16,160 --> 00:29:17,520
Speaker 2: to put your normal ring.

718
00:29:17,560 --> 00:29:19,479
Speaker 1: But to be fair, you also just brought up not

719
00:29:19,520 --> 00:29:24,000
Speaker 1: liking well my d don't go off in ts. No,

720
00:29:24,120 --> 00:29:25,800
Speaker 1: I'm saying like I just thought you have to take

721
00:29:25,800 --> 00:29:34,240
Speaker 1: off everything because he said you say metal bit. You

722
00:29:34,360 --> 00:29:43,640
Speaker 1: know what he said. I don't have to sorry, I

723
00:29:43,680 --> 00:29:45,200
Speaker 1: honestly and when I said it, it didn't come out of

724
00:29:45,240 --> 00:29:46,120
Speaker 1: my mother and something.

725
00:29:46,320 --> 00:29:49,960
Speaker 3: So then you so, as men who are thoughtful and

726
00:29:50,040 --> 00:29:53,040
Speaker 3: gift given, if your partner doesn't like it, it does

727
00:29:53,160 --> 00:29:55,640
Speaker 3: have an impact on you. But then how would you

728
00:29:55,680 --> 00:29:59,320
Speaker 3: want your partner to say, hey, babe, I don't.

729
00:29:59,040 --> 00:29:59,640
Speaker 1: Really like it.

730
00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:02,280
Speaker 5: Only got an impact on you by the reaction of

731
00:30:02,320 --> 00:30:03,760
Speaker 5: how they do when you give them a gift. Like

732
00:30:03,800 --> 00:30:06,760
Speaker 5: if I give somebody something they like thank you, but

733
00:30:06,840 --> 00:30:07,960
Speaker 5: I don't, it'll make.

734
00:30:07,840 --> 00:30:12,200
Speaker 3: You and then come to you like, hey babe.

735
00:30:12,040 --> 00:30:14,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think it because you could either be younger.

736
00:30:14,520 --> 00:30:17,000
Speaker 5: I it depends on how you said, Like if you

737
00:30:17,040 --> 00:30:18,840
Speaker 5: say it on some cool funny ship like that, I

738
00:30:18,920 --> 00:30:20,960
Speaker 5: might laugh and be like, you know, like, damn, what

739
00:30:21,040 --> 00:30:21,560
Speaker 5: the fuck I.

740
00:30:21,520 --> 00:30:23,120
Speaker 3: Gotta make a joke of the gift you gave me.

741
00:30:23,480 --> 00:30:25,520
Speaker 3: Tell me how to tell a nigga, I don't like

742
00:30:25,520 --> 00:30:27,200
Speaker 3: what they got because you never know how hard a

743
00:30:27,240 --> 00:30:28,120
Speaker 3: nigga went to get it.

744
00:30:28,200 --> 00:30:33,000
Speaker 1: Can okay, can you give her a gift real quick?

745
00:30:33,040 --> 00:30:38,040
Speaker 1: And then okay you respond wheezy, you don't like the gift?

746
00:30:40,760 --> 00:30:50,880
Speaker 1: Oh my god, you got me? Oh my god? Okay?

747
00:30:50,960 --> 00:30:54,840
Speaker 1: So wait, as a man, would this reaction be okay

748
00:30:55,040 --> 00:30:57,440
Speaker 1: even though it's even though you know it's a little

749
00:30:57,440 --> 00:30:58,080
Speaker 1: bit of a lie.

750
00:30:58,720 --> 00:31:00,000
Speaker 4: H Yeah, I would be a little sick.

751
00:31:03,120 --> 00:31:03,280
Speaker 6: You know.

752
00:31:03,360 --> 00:31:05,920
Speaker 2: My grandmother says to me one time, God rest, I

753
00:31:05,960 --> 00:31:07,760
Speaker 2: got her a fucking sweater I'll never forget.

754
00:31:08,400 --> 00:31:11,240
Speaker 1: She opened the box on Christmas that's like twenty fifteen,

755
00:31:12,200 --> 00:31:13,760
Speaker 1: and she went like this. Oh.

756
00:31:14,520 --> 00:31:16,200
Speaker 2: I was like, what's wrong with it? And she was like,

757
00:31:16,240 --> 00:31:17,880
Speaker 2: I don't think I like it. I said, Grandma's have

758
00:31:17,880 --> 00:31:22,160
Speaker 2: thought that count She said, don't think about me. I

759
00:31:22,200 --> 00:31:24,960
Speaker 2: was like, that was my life, that's real. Don't think

760
00:31:24,960 --> 00:31:27,600
Speaker 2: about it for real? So can we can we bring

761
00:31:27,640 --> 00:31:27,920
Speaker 2: that up?

762
00:31:27,920 --> 00:31:28,160
Speaker 1: Though?

763
00:31:28,720 --> 00:31:31,160
Speaker 3: Is there a moment where it actually is the thought

764
00:31:31,200 --> 00:31:33,600
Speaker 3: that counts? I think that the bulls a line.

765
00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:35,480
Speaker 1: I told you, it's like this, I feel like, what

766
00:31:35,520 --> 00:31:35,880
Speaker 1: a gift.

767
00:31:35,920 --> 00:31:37,480
Speaker 4: You should be thankful regardless.

768
00:31:37,480 --> 00:31:40,600
Speaker 3: So I disagree and let me bring up the phone.

769
00:31:40,880 --> 00:31:43,720
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna bring up the flowers, bitch, Dad shut up.

770
00:31:44,520 --> 00:31:46,800
Speaker 1: So my nigga and I argued over Mandy, I told

771
00:31:46,840 --> 00:31:48,040
Speaker 1: you he showed me.

772
00:31:48,040 --> 00:31:52,600
Speaker 3: Right, Okay, okay, So to me, the thought that counts

773
00:31:54,320 --> 00:31:56,680
Speaker 3: a brings it down to being something bare minimum.

774
00:31:56,760 --> 00:31:59,880
Speaker 1: We all have thoughts, we all and when holidays come around,

775
00:32:00,120 --> 00:32:01,400
Speaker 1: it's almost like second nature.

776
00:32:01,400 --> 00:32:03,720
Speaker 3: Fuck, I gotta get a gift when Valentine's they come around,

777
00:32:03,720 --> 00:32:06,480
Speaker 3: birthdays come around, when there's moments that come around where

778
00:32:06,520 --> 00:32:10,120
Speaker 3: technically gift giving is a part of it. The thought

779
00:32:10,120 --> 00:32:13,480
Speaker 3: that counts actually is the bare minimum because you already

780
00:32:13,520 --> 00:32:16,200
Speaker 3: know there's going to be an exchange of something. So to me,

781
00:32:17,040 --> 00:32:21,240
Speaker 3: being intentional with a listening to me or getting me

782
00:32:21,360 --> 00:32:25,640
Speaker 3: something that you know will enhance my whatever my life

783
00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:30,000
Speaker 3: in whatever way, or that I've actually asked for. So yes,

784
00:32:30,040 --> 00:32:31,480
Speaker 3: I'm okay, I'm not gonna bring up the flowers, but

785
00:32:31,520 --> 00:32:34,200
Speaker 3: I'm a bring I'm gonna bring up the surprise party.

786
00:32:35,200 --> 00:32:36,720
Speaker 1: So when I was.

787
00:32:38,880 --> 00:32:43,080
Speaker 3: So when I was in my previous relationship, I'm not

788
00:32:43,200 --> 00:32:46,040
Speaker 3: big on celebrating birthdays. I don't want to do birthday dinners.

789
00:32:46,120 --> 00:32:48,680
Speaker 3: I don't want everyone around and in the moment, I

790
00:32:48,840 --> 00:32:49,640
Speaker 3: just wanted.

791
00:32:49,360 --> 00:32:51,400
Speaker 1: A spa day with my nigga. That is it.

792
00:32:51,880 --> 00:32:53,880
Speaker 3: I was very adamant let all my friends know I

793
00:32:53,920 --> 00:32:55,960
Speaker 3: don't want I don't even want nothing but a spot day.

794
00:32:56,080 --> 00:32:59,320
Speaker 3: There was a lot going on with work my birthday.

795
00:33:00,040 --> 00:33:05,000
Speaker 3: He gives me a surprise party. All my friends are there,

796
00:33:05,320 --> 00:33:09,440
Speaker 3: there's a cake, there's food. I'm surprised with a surprise party.

797
00:33:12,560 --> 00:33:16,680
Speaker 1: I roast that nigga on a podcast the next week

798
00:33:17,360 --> 00:33:20,640
Speaker 1: and bring up how much I absolutely hated it because

799
00:33:20,680 --> 00:33:23,280
Speaker 1: I thought, you know what, this nigga didn't even listen

800
00:33:23,360 --> 00:33:26,080
Speaker 1: on what I wanted. No, I told him.

801
00:33:26,120 --> 00:33:28,560
Speaker 3: I told him that following week, and then we got

802
00:33:28,560 --> 00:33:29,920
Speaker 3: into an argument, which is why I brought it up

803
00:33:29,920 --> 00:33:31,880
Speaker 3: on the podcast. I brought it up on the other pot,

804
00:33:31,960 --> 00:33:35,760
Speaker 3: but I ended up being upset because in that moment

805
00:33:35,920 --> 00:33:38,800
Speaker 3: me telling him I didn't like it, he said, I've

806
00:33:38,840 --> 00:33:41,360
Speaker 3: never done that for anybody, and he made me feel

807
00:33:41,360 --> 00:33:44,400
Speaker 3: like I was ungrateful because he went out of his

808
00:33:44,440 --> 00:33:46,640
Speaker 3: way to get me something I didn't want.

809
00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:48,440
Speaker 1: There's a problem there.

810
00:33:48,480 --> 00:33:52,320
Speaker 3: There's an intentionality of you literally going out of the

811
00:33:52,320 --> 00:33:54,400
Speaker 3: way to give me something I don't want. And now

812
00:33:54,440 --> 00:33:57,120
Speaker 3: you're trying to make me seem ungrateful because you got

813
00:33:57,120 --> 00:33:58,840
Speaker 3: me the one thing I said I didn't want. You

814
00:33:58,880 --> 00:34:01,000
Speaker 3: don't get a pat on the back for the thought

815
00:34:01,320 --> 00:34:03,400
Speaker 3: of doing something that meant something to you and not

816
00:34:03,520 --> 00:34:05,560
Speaker 3: to me. And so I think it's the same thing.

817
00:34:05,640 --> 00:34:08,120
Speaker 3: Let's bring up the example. No, but don't do that.

818
00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:12,800
Speaker 1: Wait is that no? Do you know I want to

819
00:34:13,160 --> 00:34:15,759
Speaker 1: I want to bring up pop culture. I don't know.

820
00:34:15,840 --> 00:34:18,719
Speaker 1: Did y'all see this year? Even Swizz Beats went on

821
00:34:18,760 --> 00:34:23,400
Speaker 1: a on an interview and say, yo, I got I

822
00:34:23,400 --> 00:34:25,200
Speaker 1: got Alicia on one.

823
00:34:25,280 --> 00:34:27,920
Speaker 3: I think there was only seven cars made. Uh this

824
00:34:28,120 --> 00:34:29,680
Speaker 3: certain type of car. Look up the car at it

825
00:34:29,760 --> 00:34:32,200
Speaker 3: if you can. And he went on and he was like, man,

826
00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:35,319
Speaker 3: there was only like seven of these made. I got

827
00:34:35,320 --> 00:34:39,480
Speaker 3: it for her birthday. And that ship collecting does she

828
00:34:39,520 --> 00:34:42,279
Speaker 3: ain't even drove it. She don't like it. I spent

829
00:34:42,440 --> 00:34:43,520
Speaker 3: all this money on it.

830
00:34:44,320 --> 00:34:50,719
Speaker 1: Well it's a it's virgils three hundred thousand dollars. Yes. Yeah,

831
00:34:50,800 --> 00:34:52,719
Speaker 1: I'm not saying I hate rich people because they want.

832
00:34:52,600 --> 00:34:56,640
Speaker 3: To be on but literally and what he what he

833
00:34:56,920 --> 00:34:59,919
Speaker 3: even came to realize in that moment, was I bought

834
00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:01,280
Speaker 3: or something that I wanted myself.

835
00:35:01,400 --> 00:35:03,600
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, five five hundred thousand dollars car.

836
00:35:04,120 --> 00:35:07,120
Speaker 3: She hated it, didn't drive it, and he was like, damn,

837
00:35:07,280 --> 00:35:09,160
Speaker 3: I realized in that moment, that's not even what my

838
00:35:09,200 --> 00:35:12,800
Speaker 3: wife wanted. And he did feel like she was fucking

839
00:35:13,480 --> 00:35:14,160
Speaker 3: awful for.

840
00:35:14,200 --> 00:35:20,640
Speaker 1: Not being hold on what the only I ain't hard?

841
00:35:20,880 --> 00:35:21,560
Speaker 1: Give me what I like.

842
00:35:21,600 --> 00:35:23,480
Speaker 5: Nigga, Now I gotta say to somebody what you said?

843
00:35:23,560 --> 00:35:27,719
Speaker 5: So boom So you had told buddy like you were like,

844
00:35:30,560 --> 00:35:31,360
Speaker 5: you know what I'm saying.

845
00:35:32,640 --> 00:35:33,239
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying.

846
00:35:33,239 --> 00:35:38,120
Speaker 5: You all that you told buddy basically like damn, it's

847
00:35:38,120 --> 00:35:39,799
Speaker 5: my birthday. You know what I'm saying, Like I really

848
00:35:39,840 --> 00:35:41,399
Speaker 5: don't want to do nothing this year. I just want

849
00:35:41,440 --> 00:35:43,120
Speaker 5: to have a spot day, right, Bama, tell you something,

850
00:35:43,120 --> 00:35:46,480
Speaker 5: I dues think my niggas ain't right. Niggas ain't like

851
00:35:46,600 --> 00:35:50,080
Speaker 5: because then especially who you are, right, niggas think like damn. Okay,

852
00:35:50,800 --> 00:35:54,080
Speaker 5: Shotty said she didn't want to do nothing for her birthday. Okay,

853
00:35:54,360 --> 00:35:56,799
Speaker 5: I'm trying to wild shot it. Like whenever nigga here

854
00:35:56,840 --> 00:35:58,680
Speaker 5: girl say she don't want to do something for a birthday,

855
00:35:58,800 --> 00:36:00,799
Speaker 5: a nigga atually get to think like now we're doing

856
00:36:00,800 --> 00:36:02,319
Speaker 5: some for a birthday because I know she wanted to

857
00:36:02,320 --> 00:36:06,319
Speaker 5: do something for a birthday. Maybe maybe ain't got it

858
00:36:06,640 --> 00:36:09,080
Speaker 5: shot like or maybe shouty like trying to figure it out.

859
00:36:09,120 --> 00:36:10,839
Speaker 5: So I'm gonna figure it out for a boom. Hey,

860
00:36:10,880 --> 00:36:13,280
Speaker 5: you know, shy like, let's have a surprise party.

861
00:36:13,480 --> 00:36:13,880
Speaker 4: Boom.

862
00:36:14,160 --> 00:36:14,880
Speaker 1: You know what's crazy.

863
00:36:15,360 --> 00:36:18,480
Speaker 3: I'm not even fake reaches for my wallet to pay

864
00:36:18,520 --> 00:36:21,440
Speaker 3: for a date. You know exactly what you're getting with me,

865
00:36:21,800 --> 00:36:23,120
Speaker 3: So that me.

866
00:36:23,200 --> 00:36:27,799
Speaker 1: Saying what I wanted to do? What did you get

867
00:36:27,840 --> 00:36:31,040
Speaker 1: at the spots? Also? Oh, three breakups later because I

868
00:36:31,080 --> 00:36:34,680
Speaker 1: had a coupon Thank you Erica and meet Love for that. Okay, wait,

869
00:36:34,880 --> 00:36:36,160
Speaker 1: now let me just say this one thing from him.

870
00:36:37,200 --> 00:36:41,640
Speaker 1: I got it from my friends, but you.

871
00:36:41,719 --> 00:36:45,120
Speaker 3: Always been My friends got me a two hundred dollars

872
00:36:45,120 --> 00:36:47,480
Speaker 3: so Joe Spot gift card because my friends listen to

873
00:36:47,560 --> 00:36:48,000
Speaker 3: what I want.

874
00:36:48,960 --> 00:36:51,040
Speaker 1: But see he trying to go to the spot already

875
00:36:51,040 --> 00:36:53,480
Speaker 1: and do it right. This is I didn't really think

876
00:36:53,480 --> 00:36:54,799
Speaker 1: of it like this, But now that you said this,

877
00:36:56,000 --> 00:36:57,319
Speaker 1: a lot of niggas that date me.

878
00:36:57,280 --> 00:36:58,960
Speaker 2: Feel like it's hard to give me anything because I

879
00:36:59,000 --> 00:37:01,359
Speaker 2: always get it myself. My nigga said to my face,

880
00:37:01,400 --> 00:37:03,120
Speaker 2: like when you took me to so like, thank god

881
00:37:03,160 --> 00:37:04,040
Speaker 2: you ain't fucking been here.

882
00:37:04,080 --> 00:37:06,120
Speaker 1: You don't think I could have throw myself a surprise party. No,

883
00:37:06,160 --> 00:37:08,880
Speaker 1: I don't think you can throw yourself. It's an effort.

884
00:37:08,920 --> 00:37:11,560
Speaker 1: But that's the point. But see, so that's so this

885
00:37:11,640 --> 00:37:15,239
Speaker 1: is my point for men. It's the effort to me,

886
00:37:15,400 --> 00:37:18,600
Speaker 1: then the gift in what you do, the gesture becomes

887
00:37:18,600 --> 00:37:21,640
Speaker 1: about you, not about your partner. Why do you think that, though, Well,

888
00:37:21,680 --> 00:37:22,840
Speaker 1: that's because.

889
00:37:22,600 --> 00:37:25,759
Speaker 3: Because literally, yo, I'm going out of my way to

890
00:37:25,800 --> 00:37:27,719
Speaker 3: do this. He brought up that he'd never done it

891
00:37:27,760 --> 00:37:30,080
Speaker 3: for a woman before that he felt proud of that

892
00:37:30,120 --> 00:37:32,439
Speaker 3: moment and so it did something for him.

893
00:37:32,800 --> 00:37:34,239
Speaker 1: But you literally went out of your way.

894
00:37:34,320 --> 00:37:37,320
Speaker 5: But it's like you made him feel like that. Oh wow,

895
00:37:37,719 --> 00:37:39,560
Speaker 5: it's like you made It's like, yeah, you made him

896
00:37:39,560 --> 00:37:41,560
Speaker 5: want to go out of his way. Did know what

897
00:37:41,560 --> 00:37:43,759
Speaker 5: I'm saying? It's like you made a nig. It's like

898
00:37:43,880 --> 00:37:45,640
Speaker 5: it's like I like you so much. You make me

899
00:37:45,680 --> 00:37:47,680
Speaker 5: want to go call out your friends and go out

900
00:37:47,719 --> 00:37:50,239
Speaker 5: my way to celebrate you. Like I like you that much.

901
00:37:50,280 --> 00:37:51,960
Speaker 5: Like I heard you say that you ain't want to

902
00:37:51,960 --> 00:37:53,760
Speaker 5: do nothing for your birthday, but I know you Mandy

903
00:37:53,920 --> 00:37:56,120
Speaker 5: like it. So it's like I heard you say you

904
00:37:56,160 --> 00:37:58,520
Speaker 5: ain't like but but it's your birthday though, like if

905
00:37:58,520 --> 00:37:59,919
Speaker 5: we celebrate you like, that's how.

906
00:37:59,840 --> 00:38:01,719
Speaker 2: An you know, I did not think I was gonna

907
00:38:01,719 --> 00:38:05,000
Speaker 2: be team red Pants instead of that's crazy. But that's

908
00:38:05,000 --> 00:38:10,719
Speaker 2: how they So you'll say overall, because this is the

909
00:38:10,719 --> 00:38:13,280
Speaker 2: consensus I'm getting, are we saying?

910
00:38:13,320 --> 00:38:18,200
Speaker 3: Then in gift giving women should just literally it's the

911
00:38:18,239 --> 00:38:21,879
Speaker 3: thought that counts. And to not share whether they hate

912
00:38:21,920 --> 00:38:24,000
Speaker 3: something or not. Should should we eat that?

913
00:38:24,080 --> 00:38:25,440
Speaker 1: Then to not?

914
00:38:25,600 --> 00:38:27,799
Speaker 4: It just depends on hold on, we got we.

915
00:38:27,760 --> 00:38:29,719
Speaker 3: Got we got an audience to say she said no,

916
00:38:29,920 --> 00:38:32,480
Speaker 3: But that's what I'm hearing because of the effort that

917
00:38:32,520 --> 00:38:35,440
Speaker 3: the man puts in. So then how can we be

918
00:38:35,560 --> 00:38:38,040
Speaker 3: honest in a relationship? I think it was not involved

919
00:38:38,160 --> 00:38:40,520
Speaker 3: where we can share whether we dislike something.

920
00:38:40,560 --> 00:38:42,279
Speaker 5: Well, I mean it's like this, my girl can tell

921
00:38:42,320 --> 00:38:44,520
Speaker 5: me she don't like something. I'm not gonna just be heart.

922
00:38:45,080 --> 00:38:46,640
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying might be like you just

923
00:38:46,680 --> 00:38:48,120
Speaker 5: say I came in the house with something. I went

924
00:38:48,160 --> 00:38:49,520
Speaker 5: to Louis and I brought the yards or something in

925
00:38:49,560 --> 00:38:50,960
Speaker 5: this spect and then she.

926
00:38:51,000 --> 00:38:52,880
Speaker 4: Was like, oh, may I don't like that, I'll be like,

927
00:38:53,040 --> 00:38:54,879
Speaker 4: will let go return this ship? Right?

928
00:38:55,600 --> 00:38:58,040
Speaker 5: That's what I would say, No, cap, just like that,

929
00:38:58,080 --> 00:38:59,839
Speaker 5: I'd be like, well, let go turn this ship right?

930
00:39:00,080 --> 00:39:01,120
Speaker 4: Okay, that's me though.

931
00:39:01,160 --> 00:39:02,560
Speaker 2: I wish I would have told the truth about that

932
00:39:02,560 --> 00:39:05,200
Speaker 2: one gift that was bit you did you?

933
00:39:05,160 --> 00:39:06,880
Speaker 5: You the NF I see wrapping it up, trying to

934
00:39:06,920 --> 00:39:10,600
Speaker 5: give it a man, and I'll be like, what, let

935
00:39:10,640 --> 00:39:11,480
Speaker 5: me get this ship.

936
00:39:13,320 --> 00:39:13,520
Speaker 4: Like this?

937
00:39:13,960 --> 00:39:18,400
Speaker 1: That's why, God damn let it go to you. Somewhere.

938
00:39:18,800 --> 00:39:21,640
Speaker 2: I think there's there's a thin line of like letting

939
00:39:21,640 --> 00:39:24,600
Speaker 2: someone know that you're grateful. So, man, let me tell

940
00:39:24,640 --> 00:39:26,319
Speaker 2: you something. Mandy just said her homegirl did and I

941
00:39:26,360 --> 00:39:27,920
Speaker 2: was like, this bitch is insane.

942
00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:32,880
Speaker 1: So this episode comes out before hid so we know.

943
00:39:33,200 --> 00:39:35,480
Speaker 4: That's why I was gonna try to go whatever.

944
00:39:36,520 --> 00:39:39,320
Speaker 1: So because this is this isn't the same kind of family. Okay.

945
00:39:39,400 --> 00:39:43,080
Speaker 2: Her homegirl just started dating a nigga okay three four months,

946
00:39:43,160 --> 00:39:46,520
Speaker 2: asked him to get her a toe bag.

947
00:39:46,880 --> 00:39:50,040
Speaker 1: Sorry, she asked for one, Yes, she asked for bad.

948
00:39:50,160 --> 00:39:54,160
Speaker 1: She asked like, what was like, I need a bag?

949
00:39:54,200 --> 00:39:55,040
Speaker 4: Can you give me a bag?

950
00:39:55,480 --> 00:39:58,359
Speaker 1: I don't like how you work you praise that way.

951
00:39:58,960 --> 00:40:02,400
Speaker 1: I'm sure wasn't praised way. So the dude gets like that,

952
00:40:02,680 --> 00:40:05,160
Speaker 1: don't do that. And this is why we got to

953
00:40:05,160 --> 00:40:09,440
Speaker 1: buy a home up the ship that you said, I

954
00:40:09,480 --> 00:40:10,000
Speaker 1: really think.

955
00:40:09,840 --> 00:40:11,040
Speaker 4: It's Tates her real ship.

956
00:40:11,040 --> 00:40:13,360
Speaker 5: When I was first getting with DeAndre right like this,

957
00:40:13,480 --> 00:40:15,600
Speaker 5: before we was dating anything like like we was first

958
00:40:15,680 --> 00:40:17,719
Speaker 5: kind of like liking each other and know me, like,

959
00:40:17,920 --> 00:40:19,920
Speaker 5: I was always go in the Louis store, right, and

960
00:40:19,960 --> 00:40:22,480
Speaker 5: she would always be like, buy me something like I

961
00:40:22,560 --> 00:40:25,040
Speaker 5: never would you feel me? I just never would you

962
00:40:25,080 --> 00:40:26,360
Speaker 5: know what I'm saying. I remember she brought me a

963
00:40:26,440 --> 00:40:28,640
Speaker 5: Lowis hat, right. She would never give it to me,

964
00:40:31,280 --> 00:40:32,080
Speaker 5: that is, but.

965
00:40:33,920 --> 00:40:35,640
Speaker 3: So she just took a picture of it. It was like, God,

966
00:40:35,640 --> 00:40:36,759
Speaker 3: this way you baby, but never came it.

967
00:40:37,000 --> 00:40:39,960
Speaker 4: Got it, she rocked it. I never wore it. She

968
00:40:40,000 --> 00:40:41,640
Speaker 4: wore she said, I'm aware this, yo.

969
00:40:41,760 --> 00:40:45,239
Speaker 1: That's really funny that together. Have you ever seen that

970
00:40:45,280 --> 00:40:47,160
Speaker 1: little meme when a gift she was like, he's not

971
00:40:47,160 --> 00:40:51,920
Speaker 1: your nigga, your nigga, that's me. That is funny. Okay.

972
00:40:51,960 --> 00:40:55,480
Speaker 2: So the friend asked for the bag, right, he gives

973
00:40:55,520 --> 00:40:58,680
Speaker 2: her bag. That's our bag, it's Mark Jacobs. What was

974
00:40:58,680 --> 00:41:00,320
Speaker 2: her response, I don't.

975
00:41:01,040 --> 00:41:04,319
Speaker 3: Do you have Mark Jacobs in your closet? Why do

976
00:41:04,360 --> 00:41:06,799
Speaker 3: you think Mark Jacob? Look at the jaw drop.

977
00:41:06,960 --> 00:41:07,640
Speaker 4: I got Mark.

978
00:41:07,560 --> 00:41:11,160
Speaker 1: Jacobs, but he did it felt like, if you don't

979
00:41:11,160 --> 00:41:13,919
Speaker 1: have Mark Jacobs in your closet, you have go Yard,

980
00:41:13,920 --> 00:41:15,640
Speaker 1: you have Gucci, you have all these other things.

981
00:41:15,719 --> 00:41:16,759
Speaker 4: Why are you doing this for me?

982
00:41:17,560 --> 00:41:20,440
Speaker 1: Do you do you think I'm less than what you think?

983
00:41:20,440 --> 00:41:25,560
Speaker 5: It's just like, does this Does this bag show how

984
00:41:25,600 --> 00:41:26,520
Speaker 5: much I value you?

985
00:41:26,600 --> 00:41:28,040
Speaker 4: Does this bag show your value?

986
00:41:28,360 --> 00:41:29,279
Speaker 1: You asked for it.

987
00:41:30,120 --> 00:41:32,560
Speaker 5: If you wanted some specific I mean, yeah, you asked

988
00:41:32,560 --> 00:41:33,960
Speaker 5: for a new bag. I don't know it had to

989
00:41:34,000 --> 00:41:37,840
Speaker 5: be Gucci. She would have threw me off. Okay, I

990
00:41:38,880 --> 00:41:40,760
Speaker 5: would have been like, yeah, I'm straighted on you, you trimp,

991
00:41:40,880 --> 00:41:43,760
Speaker 5: because this ain't even about none of this ship you.

992
00:41:43,760 --> 00:41:45,640
Speaker 5: You asked for a bag like I could have brought

993
00:41:45,680 --> 00:41:50,600
Speaker 5: you a jan sport You feel I could have.

994
00:41:54,000 --> 00:41:55,680
Speaker 1: Sport is hold on, We're not gonna let you get that.

995
00:41:55,719 --> 00:41:56,399
Speaker 1: All you need?

996
00:41:59,360 --> 00:41:59,920
Speaker 4: What type of man?

997
00:42:00,080 --> 00:42:02,960
Speaker 1: We talked, Okay, you need something walk around with like

998
00:42:03,000 --> 00:42:05,320
Speaker 1: we got my song rock his sport.

999
00:42:06,040 --> 00:42:07,640
Speaker 4: I'm talking about how we coming you need something?

1000
00:42:07,680 --> 00:42:10,560
Speaker 1: Wrong? He said, you know this is real, This is

1001
00:42:10,600 --> 00:42:13,799
Speaker 1: I got you to make. But you're not all right.

1002
00:42:13,880 --> 00:42:14,760
Speaker 4: Let you one thousand.

1003
00:42:15,560 --> 00:42:17,239
Speaker 2: If I got you fruit of the loons, where you say, yo,

1004
00:42:17,280 --> 00:42:18,759
Speaker 2: I want some nice boxers, you'd be like you went

1005
00:42:18,840 --> 00:42:19,360
Speaker 2: to Walmart.

1006
00:42:19,600 --> 00:42:21,880
Speaker 5: You gottah, I promise you. All they gotta do for

1007
00:42:21,920 --> 00:42:24,359
Speaker 5: me is be all black. I don't even I don't

1008
00:42:24,360 --> 00:42:27,759
Speaker 5: even know what but this I but you know what,

1009
00:42:27,920 --> 00:42:29,240
Speaker 5: like I'm a different type of nigga.

1010
00:42:29,400 --> 00:42:31,680
Speaker 2: So I thought the toe bad comment was crazy. I

1011
00:42:31,760 --> 00:42:34,640
Speaker 2: honestly was like, Yo, this is some bird ship like.

1012
00:42:35,000 --> 00:42:36,120
Speaker 4: But for something else.

1013
00:42:36,239 --> 00:42:38,920
Speaker 1: But I think that what did I just say? But

1014
00:42:38,960 --> 00:42:40,759
Speaker 1: I think the main thing about it that's looking at

1015
00:42:40,760 --> 00:42:43,560
Speaker 1: that nigga bags like, Okay, if I get with him instantly,

1016
00:42:44,000 --> 00:42:45,919
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get what he gets. But you can't.

1017
00:42:46,080 --> 00:42:47,319
Speaker 4: You can't think you getting with a man.

1018
00:42:47,520 --> 00:42:51,440
Speaker 1: Get you said what you said. He's as broken he

1019
00:42:51,560 --> 00:42:53,400
Speaker 1: made like he just real estates. But it's like what

1020
00:42:54,080 --> 00:42:57,080
Speaker 1: don't got no problems?

1021
00:42:57,400 --> 00:42:59,239
Speaker 4: I mean, but what I make, like what a man make,

1022
00:42:59,280 --> 00:43:02,520
Speaker 4: don't got to do it a woman nothing.

1023
00:43:02,680 --> 00:43:04,920
Speaker 1: It's like I can a man. I just feel like

1024
00:43:04,960 --> 00:43:06,319
Speaker 1: I can have nothing to do with a woman.

1025
00:43:06,400 --> 00:43:06,440
Speaker 6: No.

1026
00:43:06,520 --> 00:43:08,480
Speaker 5: I feel like I could make a million dollars and

1027
00:43:08,520 --> 00:43:10,680
Speaker 5: you could work at Marshalls. I don't have to give

1028
00:43:10,719 --> 00:43:11,240
Speaker 5: you my money.

1029
00:43:11,320 --> 00:43:13,880
Speaker 1: We're not gonna break up. God that is, We're not

1030
00:43:13,880 --> 00:43:15,120
Speaker 1: gonna do it. We're not gonna do it. We're not

1031
00:43:15,120 --> 00:43:16,840
Speaker 1: gonna do We don't talked about the Marshall's story and

1032
00:43:16,880 --> 00:43:19,879
Speaker 1: that the audience knows about Mark. People did not believe it.

1033
00:43:20,360 --> 00:43:24,480
Speaker 2: He makes in the hundreds millions, right, This nigga started

1034
00:43:24,560 --> 00:43:26,200
Speaker 2: dating a girl was a TJ Max. It was TJ

1035
00:43:26,280 --> 00:43:29,319
Speaker 2: Max and literally he was like, she cut it off

1036
00:43:29,320 --> 00:43:31,000
Speaker 2: with him because he was trying to give her money

1037
00:43:31,040 --> 00:43:32,440
Speaker 2: to go to school do different shit, and she was like,

1038
00:43:32,480 --> 00:43:34,799
Speaker 2: I like managing in retail, Like I went in retail.

1039
00:43:34,680 --> 00:43:36,359
Speaker 1: So why I mean, why did they break up? He

1040
00:43:36,400 --> 00:43:37,560
Speaker 1: was trying to He was like, I'm not gonna do

1041
00:43:37,760 --> 00:43:38,200
Speaker 1: She said that.

1042
00:43:38,160 --> 00:43:40,440
Speaker 2: He wasn't happy with being with her. She believed it,

1043
00:43:40,480 --> 00:43:41,960
Speaker 2: and he literally he met her in the airport. She

1044
00:43:42,000 --> 00:43:43,480
Speaker 2: was going on some solo trip and when he called

1045
00:43:43,520 --> 00:43:45,120
Speaker 2: me about it, he's, Yo, this bitch so dope, like

1046
00:43:45,239 --> 00:43:47,360
Speaker 2: she's about to go back back into jungle by herself.

1047
00:43:47,760 --> 00:43:50,040
Speaker 2: And when he found out she managed TJ Max, he

1048
00:43:50,120 --> 00:43:52,920
Speaker 2: said it was slightly embarrassing, but like he was how.

1049
00:43:52,920 --> 00:43:54,640
Speaker 1: Was that embarrassing. That should have turned him on more.

1050
00:43:54,680 --> 00:43:56,919
Speaker 1: He not a real nigga. I think. I think it's

1051
00:43:56,920 --> 00:43:59,160
Speaker 1: more so like I want the woman i'm with.

1052
00:43:59,360 --> 00:44:00,360
Speaker 4: He not a real nigga.

1053
00:44:00,480 --> 00:44:03,680
Speaker 1: Hold on thicking up because that's your friend. But lamb

1054
00:44:03,680 --> 00:44:04,600
Speaker 1: talk lame getting it off.

1055
00:44:04,680 --> 00:44:07,080
Speaker 5: No, but how he's not a real nigga. This man

1056
00:44:07,200 --> 00:44:10,400
Speaker 5: just said Shoorty worked at TJ Max. I was embarrassed.

1057
00:44:10,680 --> 00:44:13,040
Speaker 5: Let me tell you some rich shiit DeAndre. That's my

1058
00:44:13,080 --> 00:44:15,399
Speaker 5: girl regardless. We're just talking out. Were just talking right

1059
00:44:15,440 --> 00:44:17,319
Speaker 5: If I was Jack Queeze and my girl worked at

1060
00:44:17,320 --> 00:44:19,359
Speaker 5: fucking TJ Max, but I would be.

1061
00:44:19,760 --> 00:44:21,719
Speaker 1: I was standing on that ship like, yeah, my girl,

1062
00:44:21,840 --> 00:44:22,600
Speaker 1: like she loved that ship.

1063
00:44:22,760 --> 00:44:24,200
Speaker 4: Was she the imaginer down there at TJ Max?

1064
00:44:24,239 --> 00:44:24,440
Speaker 1: And he?

1065
00:44:24,600 --> 00:44:26,440
Speaker 5: I ain't gonna tell you all which one, but Shorty

1066
00:44:26,480 --> 00:44:28,359
Speaker 5: love that ship. That ship would turn me on Mark, Okay,

1067
00:44:28,360 --> 00:44:30,000
Speaker 5: hold on, go buy shorty everything.

1068
00:44:30,640 --> 00:44:31,680
Speaker 1: I didn't think anything was wrong.

1069
00:44:32,880 --> 00:44:36,000
Speaker 5: No, No, I started to understand everything that she ever

1070
00:44:36,040 --> 00:44:38,480
Speaker 5: wanted because it's like she not looking for a nigga

1071
00:44:38,520 --> 00:44:38,799
Speaker 5: for nothing.

1072
00:44:38,840 --> 00:44:40,520
Speaker 1: He should have married her, you feel me?

1073
00:44:40,680 --> 00:44:43,040
Speaker 2: Well, she broke up with him because she he said

1074
00:44:43,040 --> 00:44:45,040
Speaker 2: he was making a lot of gestures to like start

1075
00:44:45,040 --> 00:44:48,200
Speaker 2: a business, give her money to her, and she was like, yo,

1076
00:44:48,239 --> 00:44:50,600
Speaker 2: you you really don't fuck with me and cut him off.

1077
00:44:51,520 --> 00:44:52,520
Speaker 4: He was trying to buy here.

1078
00:44:52,960 --> 00:44:54,920
Speaker 1: You want me to be?

1079
00:44:56,040 --> 00:44:59,760
Speaker 2: Are men not allowed to want women in a different bracket?

1080
00:45:00,840 --> 00:45:04,120
Speaker 1: Bracket? But is that what you want for yourself? That

1081
00:45:04,239 --> 00:45:07,760
Speaker 1: a serious question now, right? I gotta be honest.

1082
00:45:08,320 --> 00:45:11,000
Speaker 2: While I agree you make a hundred million dollars, really

1083
00:45:11,000 --> 00:45:12,959
Speaker 2: don't matter where your bitch work. There was a point

1084
00:45:13,000 --> 00:45:15,279
Speaker 2: in time where he started to be like, I don't

1085
00:45:15,280 --> 00:45:16,839
Speaker 2: know if I could be with someone that don't really

1086
00:45:16,840 --> 00:45:19,680
Speaker 2: want more than a tjal.

1087
00:45:18,760 --> 00:45:20,719
Speaker 1: But I'm not gonna that's wrong.

1088
00:45:20,840 --> 00:45:23,040
Speaker 4: Now, that's not wrong. That's not wrong, you thybe.

1089
00:45:23,080 --> 00:45:23,920
Speaker 1: He wasn't trying to buy her.

1090
00:45:23,960 --> 00:45:25,040
Speaker 4: Maybe he was a lot.

1091
00:45:25,160 --> 00:45:26,759
Speaker 5: The only part why I say they weren't real because

1092
00:45:26,760 --> 00:45:28,719
Speaker 5: he said he was embarrassed by a job. Now he

1093
00:45:28,800 --> 00:45:31,040
Speaker 5: wants a woman that wanted to think hired. Now that's cool.

1094
00:45:31,080 --> 00:45:33,240
Speaker 5: Ain't nothing wrong with that. He's just that type of nigga,

1095
00:45:33,560 --> 00:45:35,319
Speaker 5: you know what I'm saying. It's different types of guys.

1096
00:45:35,360 --> 00:45:37,280
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying. He just like, we'll showy.

1097
00:45:37,320 --> 00:45:38,760
Speaker 5: I want a girl that want to be the president

1098
00:45:38,880 --> 00:45:40,600
Speaker 5: of the United States. You do know what I'm saying.

1099
00:45:40,719 --> 00:45:41,920
Speaker 5: I don't want to go to just want to think

1100
00:45:41,920 --> 00:45:43,680
Speaker 5: at TJ MA. I want my girl to be the

1101
00:45:43,719 --> 00:45:45,879
Speaker 5: president you want. You know what I'm saying.

1102
00:45:45,960 --> 00:45:49,279
Speaker 1: I mean and honestly because back and forth with.

1103
00:45:49,400 --> 00:45:51,560
Speaker 5: Most niggas don't care about all that. Most niggas just

1104
00:45:51,600 --> 00:45:56,480
Speaker 5: want it's gonna be with them. You got my bangs teammates,

1105
00:45:56,480 --> 00:45:58,879
Speaker 5: he's a he's a man, little man. What I want

1106
00:45:59,080 --> 00:46:02,960
Speaker 5: is someone that got my back, someone I can depend on,

1107
00:46:03,120 --> 00:46:05,840
Speaker 5: someone who loves that goes back to confidence in me,

1108
00:46:06,200 --> 00:46:07,319
Speaker 5: and someone that I could deal with.

1109
00:46:07,360 --> 00:46:09,080
Speaker 2: Would you say that if you worked at TJ Max,

1110
00:46:10,160 --> 00:46:12,480
Speaker 2: would you be just okay with someone that just supports

1111
00:46:12,520 --> 00:46:13,399
Speaker 2: you if you.

1112
00:46:13,320 --> 00:46:14,120
Speaker 1: Worked at Max?

1113
00:46:14,120 --> 00:46:16,040
Speaker 4: If I worked at t Mex right now, hold.

1114
00:46:15,880 --> 00:46:18,200
Speaker 1: On, wait, you're already someone that can provided to me.

1115
00:46:18,280 --> 00:46:20,439
Speaker 1: If I worked at TJ Max asked me the question.

1116
00:46:20,760 --> 00:46:22,840
Speaker 2: What I'm saying is, I think it is very easy

1117
00:46:22,880 --> 00:46:25,440
Speaker 2: for successful man to say it doesn't matter.

1118
00:46:25,520 --> 00:46:27,000
Speaker 1: I don't want a question, that is it.

1119
00:46:27,120 --> 00:46:29,399
Speaker 2: I'm not asking a question. Before you said that, I said,

1120
00:46:29,440 --> 00:46:30,960
Speaker 2: rich niggas talk like that.

1121
00:46:31,480 --> 00:46:33,920
Speaker 3: She said, she said, if you worked at TJ Max,

1122
00:46:34,200 --> 00:46:37,240
Speaker 3: for maybe the men listening that have just the nine.

1123
00:46:37,080 --> 00:46:39,879
Speaker 1: To five you would need to know who you would

1124
00:46:39,920 --> 00:46:42,719
Speaker 1: care at one moment. I disagree with that too.

1125
00:46:44,000 --> 00:46:47,360
Speaker 3: The question is if you were not this super breadwinner

1126
00:46:47,440 --> 00:46:49,440
Speaker 3: or this famous person, then you were just a regular

1127
00:46:49,480 --> 00:46:50,160
Speaker 3: nine to five.

1128
00:46:50,000 --> 00:46:52,759
Speaker 1: Work would the woman you want?

1129
00:46:52,960 --> 00:46:55,880
Speaker 3: Would you also still just want her to be your

1130
00:46:56,280 --> 00:46:59,239
Speaker 3: your the person that supports you, that is there for you,

1131
00:46:59,360 --> 00:47:00,520
Speaker 3: or would you want to partner?

1132
00:47:00,560 --> 00:47:02,000
Speaker 4: It depends on what position I'm in.

1133
00:47:02,880 --> 00:47:05,919
Speaker 5: If I just got this million dollar plan and I'm like, baby,

1134
00:47:05,960 --> 00:47:07,160
Speaker 5: all I need you to do is ride with me.

1135
00:47:07,200 --> 00:47:08,759
Speaker 5: You ain't got to do nothing else. I just need

1136
00:47:08,800 --> 00:47:10,560
Speaker 5: a You just need to support me right now. I

1137
00:47:10,640 --> 00:47:13,200
Speaker 5: got everything else, then I don't need her for that.

1138
00:47:14,480 --> 00:47:17,520
Speaker 5: So so and then and then if I'm a nigga

1139
00:47:17,560 --> 00:47:19,600
Speaker 5: that's just sitting on my ass, you know, working at

1140
00:47:19,600 --> 00:47:22,000
Speaker 5: TJ Max, I'm like, shit, I do want a new house,

1141
00:47:22,280 --> 00:47:24,000
Speaker 5: but I don't feel like putting in that more work.

1142
00:47:24,040 --> 00:47:26,839
Speaker 5: I am going I ain't gonna need you know, because

1143
00:47:28,480 --> 00:47:29,960
Speaker 5: he ain't gonna have something to do to work at it,

1144
00:47:29,960 --> 00:47:32,239
Speaker 5: because a woman is just extra. But then whant a woman?

1145
00:47:32,280 --> 00:47:34,160
Speaker 5: When a man do get a woman, it does need

1146
00:47:34,239 --> 00:47:35,600
Speaker 5: to be a team. This is like my girl. I

1147
00:47:35,640 --> 00:47:37,239
Speaker 5: like to depend on her for certain stuff, you know

1148
00:47:37,280 --> 00:47:37,640
Speaker 5: what I'm saying.

1149
00:47:37,640 --> 00:47:38,120
Speaker 4: I told her.

1150
00:47:38,160 --> 00:47:39,879
Speaker 5: I told her that before we got married, Like I'm

1151
00:47:39,960 --> 00:47:41,919
Speaker 5: I mean, before we got engaged. I'm like, I'm gonna

1152
00:47:41,920 --> 00:47:43,520
Speaker 5: have to lean on you for certain stuff. You know,

1153
00:47:43,520 --> 00:47:44,800
Speaker 5: if I ever need you. You know what I'm saying, You

1154
00:47:44,840 --> 00:47:46,160
Speaker 5: gonta have to be there. I remember it was certain

1155
00:47:46,160 --> 00:47:47,640
Speaker 5: stuff we had to pay for for the baby shower.

1156
00:47:47,719 --> 00:47:48,759
Speaker 5: This one I knew I could marry.

1157
00:47:48,760 --> 00:47:50,600
Speaker 4: All right. We was going over the list.

1158
00:47:52,800 --> 00:47:53,760
Speaker 1: Of tenure.

1159
00:47:54,840 --> 00:47:57,000
Speaker 5: I'm looking at the expensive so I see some ship

1160
00:47:57,080 --> 00:48:00,160
Speaker 5: for like thirteen hundred and it's a paid so I'm like,

1161
00:48:00,200 --> 00:48:02,520
Speaker 5: oh shit, I'm thinking about but I'm thinking in my

1162
00:48:02,560 --> 00:48:04,759
Speaker 5: head like I didn't pay for this shit. But I'm

1163
00:48:04,760 --> 00:48:06,600
Speaker 5: thinking I'm like, okay, I'm like, ey, babe, this shit say.

1164
00:48:06,600 --> 00:48:08,279
Speaker 5: She was like, oh, yeah, pay for that. I was like,

1165
00:48:08,280 --> 00:48:09,879
Speaker 5: oh damn, thank you. But I was like that was dope.

1166
00:48:09,920 --> 00:48:11,560
Speaker 5: I was like, this this is the marriage conversation.

1167
00:48:11,560 --> 00:48:11,959
Speaker 1: Don't happen.

1168
00:48:11,960 --> 00:48:13,879
Speaker 4: But she don't know. I'm like, uh, I'm like, babe,

1169
00:48:13,880 --> 00:48:14,440
Speaker 4: that was dope.

1170
00:48:14,480 --> 00:48:16,560
Speaker 1: She was like, uh, I'm like, see, I'm gonna need

1171
00:48:16,600 --> 00:48:18,600
Speaker 1: you to I'm gonna need you to be doing.

1172
00:48:18,400 --> 00:48:19,040
Speaker 4: That type of stuff.

1173
00:48:19,040 --> 00:48:21,200
Speaker 5: She was like, I don't be paying for that because

1174
00:48:21,200 --> 00:48:23,200
Speaker 5: I knied he's gonna get back. I'm like, what you mean?

1175
00:48:23,239 --> 00:48:25,040
Speaker 5: She was like, oh, yeah, I'm not paying for nothing else, right.

1176
00:48:25,280 --> 00:48:27,279
Speaker 5: So that's when I was kind of scared. My heart dropped,

1177
00:48:27,320 --> 00:48:32,120
Speaker 5: like fuck. So then I'm like, uh, I'm like uh,

1178
00:48:32,360 --> 00:48:35,160
Speaker 5: I'm like, man, I'm like, nah, look, I ain't gonna

1179
00:48:35,200 --> 00:48:37,200
Speaker 5: be working hard for you to just like I'm not

1180
00:48:37,200 --> 00:48:39,600
Speaker 5: paying everything in the pot for you to just be

1181
00:48:39,640 --> 00:48:42,319
Speaker 5: pulling out of it. I'm like, just imagine if I

1182
00:48:42,360 --> 00:48:44,560
Speaker 5: put in the pot, you put in the pot, and

1183
00:48:44,560 --> 00:48:46,360
Speaker 5: then now we got ten thousand in the pot, we

1184
00:48:46,400 --> 00:48:48,160
Speaker 5: want to go to the mall, we take out five thousands.

1185
00:48:48,160 --> 00:48:49,880
Speaker 5: We got five thousand left. You know what I'm saying.

1186
00:48:50,200 --> 00:48:51,719
Speaker 5: I'm like, you know what I'm saying. You bring two

1187
00:48:51,719 --> 00:48:53,440
Speaker 5: thousands to the pot. I bring three thousand to the pot.

1188
00:48:53,480 --> 00:48:54,800
Speaker 5: We got five thousand in the pot, you know what

1189
00:48:54,800 --> 00:48:56,600
Speaker 5: I'm saying. She's sitting that list and I'm like, yeah,

1190
00:48:56,680 --> 00:48:58,920
Speaker 5: just imagine I gonna make fifteen, you're gonna make three thousand.

1191
00:48:58,960 --> 00:49:00,560
Speaker 5: We got eighteen thousand. You know what I'm saying we

1192
00:49:00,560 --> 00:49:02,120
Speaker 5: want to take our eight thousand. We got ten thousand

1193
00:49:02,239 --> 00:49:04,120
Speaker 5: the pot. She's like, yeah, I'm like, you know, we

1194
00:49:04,360 --> 00:49:06,560
Speaker 5: could just play like do it like that? She's like, oh, yeah,

1195
00:49:06,560 --> 00:49:08,400
Speaker 5: that may sound like yes, So I'm gonna be near you.

1196
00:49:08,400 --> 00:49:09,640
Speaker 5: You do what I'm saying, like, because I can't be

1197
00:49:09,680 --> 00:49:11,480
Speaker 5: out here hustling that heart and I'm making all my

1198
00:49:11,480 --> 00:49:12,839
Speaker 5: money and just take it from the pot.

1199
00:49:13,040 --> 00:49:14,600
Speaker 1: That's not gonna add up. We ain't gonna look in

1200
00:49:14,600 --> 00:49:14,839
Speaker 1: the pote.

1201
00:49:14,840 --> 00:49:16,200
Speaker 5: I ain't gonna have and we're gonna have a next

1202
00:49:16,239 --> 00:49:18,959
Speaker 5: She's like, oh, okay, that that makes sense. Okay, well okay,

1203
00:49:18,960 --> 00:49:20,560
Speaker 5: well you can keep that on that. You don't got

1204
00:49:20,560 --> 00:49:21,600
Speaker 5: to give me that bet. That's why I like, Oh

1205
00:49:21,640 --> 00:49:22,400
Speaker 5: I can marry thank you.

1206
00:49:24,200 --> 00:49:24,759
Speaker 1: I love that.

1207
00:49:31,000 --> 00:49:34,239
Speaker 3: I want to play a quick video we like reactionary.

1208
00:49:34,640 --> 00:49:37,839
Speaker 3: And then after this video and after this conversation, we're

1209
00:49:37,840 --> 00:49:41,160
Speaker 3: gonna get into the nasty talk. Okay, but for this one,

1210
00:49:41,360 --> 00:49:43,920
Speaker 3: this still has to do with a little bit of

1211
00:49:43,920 --> 00:49:46,640
Speaker 3: pop culture. Not sure if you saw a couple of

1212
00:49:46,680 --> 00:49:51,759
Speaker 3: weeks ago, uh, Nick Cannon, what a guest on The

1213
00:49:51,760 --> 00:49:55,240
Speaker 3: God Show. Shout out to Ray Daniels and Ray Daniels.

1214
00:49:55,280 --> 00:49:55,759
Speaker 4: That's my name.

1215
00:49:55,880 --> 00:49:57,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's my name, Charlatne the only person to have

1216
00:49:58,160 --> 00:50:01,359
Speaker 1: showed that name the Galls G A U d S.

1217
00:50:01,800 --> 00:50:02,520
Speaker 1: The God Show.

1218
00:50:03,600 --> 00:50:06,880
Speaker 3: And so he went on there and pretty much spoke

1219
00:50:06,920 --> 00:50:10,240
Speaker 3: about his relationship with Mariah Carey and how he felt

1220
00:50:10,280 --> 00:50:12,800
Speaker 3: as a man in that relationship. Uh, you want to

1221
00:50:12,800 --> 00:50:15,520
Speaker 3: go ahead and click that that video. I want you

1222
00:50:15,560 --> 00:50:17,120
Speaker 3: to listen to what you have to say, and then

1223
00:50:17,560 --> 00:50:19,080
Speaker 3: well we'll respond.

1224
00:50:19,200 --> 00:50:21,160
Speaker 6: Got married in my twenties, still, you know what I

1225
00:50:21,239 --> 00:50:24,359
Speaker 6: mean to the biggest star in the world. My trajectory

1226
00:50:24,480 --> 00:50:28,120
Speaker 6: was here and then hers, She's already in a different stratosphere.

1227
00:50:28,320 --> 00:50:31,920
Speaker 6: I would lay up at night thinking like, is this

1228
00:50:31,960 --> 00:50:34,919
Speaker 6: who I am? Yeah, I'm Mariah's man? Yeah?

1229
00:50:35,520 --> 00:50:37,719
Speaker 1: Is that what my life is supposed to be?

1230
00:50:39,360 --> 00:50:44,760
Speaker 6: But I'm like yourself. And then when you have children,

1231
00:50:45,080 --> 00:50:49,360
Speaker 6: your man ship is like, wait, I can't. I'm carrying

1232
00:50:49,400 --> 00:50:52,560
Speaker 6: a purse, the diaper bag. You know, I'm standing on

1233
00:50:52,600 --> 00:50:56,719
Speaker 6: the corner, you know, like she rocking being.

1234
00:50:56,719 --> 00:50:59,080
Speaker 1: All the alpha that well, by the way, she deserves it.

1235
00:50:59,520 --> 00:51:01,839
Speaker 4: I believe he needs dude like that.

1236
00:51:02,280 --> 00:51:05,200
Speaker 6: I'm just not that dude. Her and I never had problem,

1237
00:51:05,680 --> 00:51:09,080
Speaker 6: never argue, never even even with even with me struggling

1238
00:51:09,200 --> 00:51:12,880
Speaker 6: in this space. She's so understanding and so evolved and

1239
00:51:13,040 --> 00:51:14,960
Speaker 6: lives in her own world. That's the thing when someone

1240
00:51:14,960 --> 00:51:17,239
Speaker 6: has their own world, and you got to be a

1241
00:51:17,320 --> 00:51:19,920
Speaker 6: participant in that, you know what I mean, Like I'm

1242
00:51:20,680 --> 00:51:24,759
Speaker 6: I'm main character. It was like muscle Atrophy, I'm not

1243
00:51:24,920 --> 00:51:27,560
Speaker 6: being the dude that God put me on this earth

1244
00:51:27,560 --> 00:51:30,080
Speaker 6: to be. The love kept me there even, you know,

1245
00:51:30,239 --> 00:51:31,960
Speaker 6: made it work so well because I was like, Oh,

1246
00:51:32,080 --> 00:51:34,640
Speaker 6: you need somebody, you need a support system. You need

1247
00:51:34,680 --> 00:51:36,440
Speaker 6: somebody that don't want you for your money. You need

1248
00:51:36,480 --> 00:51:39,279
Speaker 6: somebody that's sincere. You need somebody that's willing to build

1249
00:51:39,320 --> 00:51:42,440
Speaker 6: a family, raise some you know, amazing kids together. And

1250
00:51:42,440 --> 00:51:44,920
Speaker 6: that was my goal. But then there was just something

1251
00:51:45,000 --> 00:51:45,840
Speaker 6: constantly in.

1252
00:51:45,719 --> 00:51:48,920
Speaker 4: Me, like I got it.

1253
00:51:48,280 --> 00:51:54,480
Speaker 1: I hated everything about this clip because a and also

1254
00:51:54,680 --> 00:51:56,799
Speaker 1: the fact that he left this relationship just to put

1255
00:51:56,800 --> 00:51:58,960
Speaker 1: babies and six other women. That's a whole other topic.

1256
00:52:00,480 --> 00:52:04,600
Speaker 1: But he was I mean, but he has yeah, he

1257
00:52:04,640 --> 00:52:06,439
Speaker 1: has twins. He has like two sets of twins.

1258
00:52:06,480 --> 00:52:07,600
Speaker 3: He got a whole bunch of I don't know, he

1259
00:52:07,640 --> 00:52:09,200
Speaker 3: got a lot nough. Yes, he got like twelve or

1260
00:52:09,280 --> 00:52:11,480
Speaker 3: nine of thirty five. I don't fucking know he got

1261
00:52:11,480 --> 00:52:14,560
Speaker 3: a lot though there was a few I would say

1262
00:52:14,600 --> 00:52:16,359
Speaker 3: red flags about this, And I do want to bring

1263
00:52:16,440 --> 00:52:18,920
Speaker 3: it up to you as someone who is now coming

1264
00:52:18,920 --> 00:52:22,719
Speaker 3: into a relationship as a father, but also with a

1265
00:52:22,760 --> 00:52:26,160
Speaker 3: woman who has her own life and you entered her world,

1266
00:52:26,239 --> 00:52:30,399
Speaker 3: right there was so well and I want to talk

1267
00:52:30,400 --> 00:52:33,480
Speaker 3: about it because I do think we all have our

1268
00:52:33,520 --> 00:52:35,319
Speaker 3: own worlds. I think she entered your world and going

1269
00:52:35,360 --> 00:52:37,960
Speaker 3: on tour, and I think you entered her world in

1270
00:52:39,200 --> 00:52:42,520
Speaker 3: the way her family moves, in the way they celebrate holidays,

1271
00:52:42,640 --> 00:52:45,319
Speaker 3: in her dad being on the pedestal that he's on,

1272
00:52:45,400 --> 00:52:46,560
Speaker 3: and her name caring.

1273
00:52:46,320 --> 00:52:46,839
Speaker 1: The way they did.

1274
00:52:46,960 --> 00:52:49,239
Speaker 3: I know there was a conversation even about the last

1275
00:52:49,320 --> 00:52:51,759
Speaker 3: name of the baby for a long time. Right, So

1276
00:52:52,520 --> 00:52:55,840
Speaker 3: in this in this thing, he talks about needing to

1277
00:52:55,920 --> 00:52:59,879
Speaker 3: feel alpha, needing to be the main character in a relationship.

1278
00:53:00,640 --> 00:53:04,960
Speaker 3: How do you think what is a healthy way for

1279
00:53:05,040 --> 00:53:07,560
Speaker 3: a man to show up in partnership without feeling like

1280
00:53:07,680 --> 00:53:10,120
Speaker 3: his manhood is attacked when maybe he has to carry

1281
00:53:10,200 --> 00:53:12,719
Speaker 3: the diaper bag, maybe he has to play the role

1282
00:53:12,880 --> 00:53:15,880
Speaker 3: of the quote unquote woman, Maybe he has to be

1283
00:53:15,920 --> 00:53:18,960
Speaker 3: more of the submissive. I think that's what Nick Cannon

1284
00:53:19,000 --> 00:53:22,440
Speaker 3: had the biggest problem with being with someone that was alpha.

1285
00:53:22,600 --> 00:53:25,879
Speaker 3: He mentioned that how does a man show up being

1286
00:53:25,920 --> 00:53:28,560
Speaker 3: a man while also leaning into his feminine in a

1287
00:53:28,640 --> 00:53:32,000
Speaker 3: relationship or not being the main character all the time.

1288
00:53:37,920 --> 00:53:40,120
Speaker 4: Like the main character in a relationship. I don't really

1289
00:53:40,160 --> 00:53:41,359
Speaker 4: know about that, you know what I'm saying.

1290
00:53:41,520 --> 00:53:43,200
Speaker 1: I didn't say you didn't like that. Yeah, I just

1291
00:53:43,239 --> 00:53:44,759
Speaker 1: don't know about that, you know what I'm saying.

1292
00:53:45,520 --> 00:53:45,840
Speaker 4: Watch it?

1293
00:53:45,880 --> 00:53:47,440
Speaker 1: Did you feel like I'm saying, he was? Now what

1294
00:53:47,520 --> 00:53:49,280
Speaker 1: I just took from it? And Nick Cannon, my nigga,

1295
00:53:49,320 --> 00:53:50,160
Speaker 1: you know we're just talking.

1296
00:53:50,239 --> 00:53:52,439
Speaker 5: I feel like, you know, just from watching that from

1297
00:53:52,440 --> 00:53:55,040
Speaker 5: a man's perspective of like just by me trying to

1298
00:53:55,040 --> 00:53:57,200
Speaker 5: get married or whatever. I'm just listening, you know what

1299
00:53:57,239 --> 00:53:59,359
Speaker 5: I'm saying, and I'm just thinking, like, Okay, Nick seem

1300
00:53:59,480 --> 00:54:02,719
Speaker 5: like Nick seemed like okay, Mariah Carey, Like he said,

1301
00:54:02,719 --> 00:54:04,160
Speaker 5: like she already who she is. You know what I'm saying,

1302
00:54:04,200 --> 00:54:05,840
Speaker 5: You got this woman, she already who she is. You know,

1303
00:54:05,880 --> 00:54:08,400
Speaker 5: he's already who he is. But like he said, he

1304
00:54:08,480 --> 00:54:08,960
Speaker 5: dealing with.

1305
00:54:08,920 --> 00:54:10,719
Speaker 4: Somebody up here. He's still trying to get up there,

1306
00:54:10,719 --> 00:54:11,279
Speaker 4: you know what I'm saying.

1307
00:54:11,320 --> 00:54:15,319
Speaker 5: So her world is automatically her system automatically bigger than

1308
00:54:15,360 --> 00:54:16,439
Speaker 5: his system, you know what I'm saying.

1309
00:54:16,480 --> 00:54:17,880
Speaker 4: So it's like he couldn't.

1310
00:54:18,800 --> 00:54:20,200
Speaker 5: It sounds like he like, man, I ain't all the

1311
00:54:20,200 --> 00:54:21,800
Speaker 5: way where I need to be in life, you know

1312
00:54:21,840 --> 00:54:22,279
Speaker 5: what I'm saying.

1313
00:54:22,400 --> 00:54:24,960
Speaker 1: Do you think it was him projecting his insecurities at the.

1314
00:54:24,920 --> 00:54:28,920
Speaker 5: Time, I mean, I don't know. Like from me listening,

1315
00:54:28,960 --> 00:54:30,560
Speaker 5: it just sounded like, damn. He felt like, Damn, I

1316
00:54:30,560 --> 00:54:33,400
Speaker 5: got this lady, I'm locking myself down. She already got

1317
00:54:33,480 --> 00:54:36,560
Speaker 5: her millions. I ain't got mine yet, Like I need

1318
00:54:36,600 --> 00:54:37,440
Speaker 5: to go get Momy.

1319
00:54:37,320 --> 00:54:38,319
Speaker 1: Definitely has them. Now.

1320
00:54:38,440 --> 00:54:41,800
Speaker 3: I want to ask you, is there a difficulty, and

1321
00:54:41,880 --> 00:54:45,400
Speaker 3: let's generalize this, is there a difficulty for men to

1322
00:54:45,480 --> 00:54:49,239
Speaker 3: be with women who are more successful or more accomplished

1323
00:54:49,280 --> 00:54:52,120
Speaker 3: than them that you know, even with your friends and

1324
00:54:52,719 --> 00:54:54,160
Speaker 3: what conversations are normally had.

1325
00:54:54,800 --> 00:54:55,239
Speaker 4: I don't know.

1326
00:54:55,320 --> 00:54:57,000
Speaker 1: I mean shout out to the ladies, you know what

1327
00:54:57,000 --> 00:54:57,279
Speaker 1: I'm saying.

1328
00:54:57,280 --> 00:54:58,879
Speaker 5: I love the women, but I don't think I've ever

1329
00:54:58,920 --> 00:55:00,640
Speaker 5: dated a woman that was more acomplished to me.

1330
00:55:01,280 --> 00:55:03,480
Speaker 4: Oh, that ain't no disrespect.

1331
00:55:03,600 --> 00:55:06,080
Speaker 5: Okay, women should want a man that's like doing any thing,

1332
00:55:06,160 --> 00:55:07,560
Speaker 5: you know what I mean. But I should want a

1333
00:55:07,640 --> 00:55:10,400
Speaker 5: man that is more accomplished than them. No, they should

1334
00:55:10,440 --> 00:55:13,000
Speaker 5: want a man that's that's accomplishing things period. But if

1335
00:55:13,000 --> 00:55:14,960
Speaker 5: it just so happened that your man is accomplishing more

1336
00:55:14,960 --> 00:55:17,280
Speaker 5: than you, shouldn't be jealous or anything. I'm just sitting

1337
00:55:17,280 --> 00:55:19,840
Speaker 5: down saying I've never known. I never had that experience.

1338
00:55:19,840 --> 00:55:22,080
Speaker 5: I've never dated a woman with more than me when

1339
00:55:22,120 --> 00:55:23,799
Speaker 5: I was young. Now, I do know how I feel

1340
00:55:23,800 --> 00:55:26,360
Speaker 5: to like somebody and be around somebody with more than me.

1341
00:55:26,480 --> 00:55:27,719
Speaker 5: Like when I was a young nigga, when I was

1342
00:55:27,760 --> 00:55:30,120
Speaker 5: coming in the game, I was around a lot of females.

1343
00:55:30,239 --> 00:55:31,719
Speaker 5: We had to have paper, you do you know what

1344
00:55:31,760 --> 00:55:33,880
Speaker 5: I'm saying, Like I used to be around females like

1345
00:55:33,920 --> 00:55:35,080
Speaker 5: thirty thousand in they pocket.

1346
00:55:35,080 --> 00:55:37,720
Speaker 4: I had a thousand, Like, I know how that feels.

1347
00:55:38,080 --> 00:55:40,239
Speaker 1: How did that feel? That just felt like I ain't

1348
00:55:40,239 --> 00:55:42,120
Speaker 1: made it. I'm like, damn shot at them falling.

1349
00:55:41,920 --> 00:55:42,239
Speaker 4: Like this.

1350
00:55:43,920 --> 00:55:46,920
Speaker 2: Because I think now it's making me wonder when you're

1351
00:55:46,960 --> 00:55:49,239
Speaker 2: around with men that I'm more accomplished than you or

1352
00:55:49,360 --> 00:55:51,440
Speaker 2: have more money than you, does that make you your

1353
00:55:51,480 --> 00:55:52,520
Speaker 2: man help feel?

1354
00:55:53,560 --> 00:55:56,120
Speaker 4: It just depends. It just depends. That's on real shit.

1355
00:55:56,480 --> 00:55:58,080
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying, like it just depends, so

1356
00:55:58,239 --> 00:56:00,120
Speaker 5: you have to, like you have to get yourself in

1357
00:56:00,200 --> 00:56:02,520
Speaker 5: a state where you don't give a fuck about that,

1358
00:56:02,560 --> 00:56:04,880
Speaker 5: like when you're a young nigga, like when you just

1359
00:56:05,000 --> 00:56:06,560
Speaker 5: in this shit like for real, Like you could come

1360
00:56:06,560 --> 00:56:09,120
Speaker 5: around some niggas and you like man like, you know

1361
00:56:09,120 --> 00:56:12,080
Speaker 5: what I'm saying, because either yo, who you done been

1362
00:56:12,120 --> 00:56:16,319
Speaker 5: with that made you feel insecure about something, or you know,

1363
00:56:16,400 --> 00:56:18,240
Speaker 5: you just don't feel like you ain't where you're supposed

1364
00:56:18,280 --> 00:56:19,719
Speaker 5: to be, Like you know what I'm saying, Like I

1365
00:56:19,760 --> 00:56:22,320
Speaker 5: feel like I ain't never been a hater, you know

1366
00:56:22,320 --> 00:56:24,280
Speaker 5: what I'm saying, So I never hated on what another

1367
00:56:24,360 --> 00:56:25,759
Speaker 5: nigga had, you know what I'm saying. But have I

1368
00:56:25,760 --> 00:56:27,640
Speaker 5: ever felt like it was places I was supposed to be?

1369
00:56:28,080 --> 00:56:29,640
Speaker 5: You know I wanted to be. Yeah, you know what

1370
00:56:29,680 --> 00:56:30,080
Speaker 5: I'm saying.

1371
00:56:30,120 --> 00:56:33,200
Speaker 1: But you know that's what you're saying. Though. It's interesting

1372
00:56:33,280 --> 00:56:36,759
Speaker 1: because it kind of shows whether you're you in a

1373
00:56:36,840 --> 00:56:40,440
Speaker 1: Canada cool how it is fucked up that when it

1374
00:56:40,440 --> 00:56:43,279
Speaker 1: comes to somebody you're with a woman, your masculinity is

1375
00:56:43,320 --> 00:56:48,120
Speaker 1: taken by their accomplishment, not what he said.

1376
00:56:48,200 --> 00:56:50,719
Speaker 5: Oh No, I love I love like I love like

1377
00:56:51,040 --> 00:56:53,000
Speaker 5: women that's accomplishing things Like I remember when I first

1378
00:56:53,040 --> 00:56:55,439
Speaker 5: started dating women that was in the industry, I thought

1379
00:56:55,480 --> 00:56:58,040
Speaker 5: it was I was fascinated because I was like, wow,

1380
00:56:58,160 --> 00:57:00,880
Speaker 5: like they like look how these people dressing them up,

1381
00:57:00,960 --> 00:57:02,880
Speaker 5: like they got to get it makeup, like get their

1382
00:57:02,880 --> 00:57:04,440
Speaker 5: hair downe somebody doing their hair and they make up

1383
00:57:04,440 --> 00:57:07,080
Speaker 5: at the same time. Like I was like blown away,

1384
00:57:07,160 --> 00:57:09,839
Speaker 5: like this shit, coolest fuck now you're being blown away

1385
00:57:09,840 --> 00:57:11,359
Speaker 5: by the hair and making. I was just I had

1386
00:57:11,400 --> 00:57:13,560
Speaker 5: never seen that ship, Like I was just a nigga,

1387
00:57:13,600 --> 00:57:15,879
Speaker 5: like coming from like all the camps I was within

1388
00:57:15,920 --> 00:57:18,040
Speaker 5: the industry. It's just been like real camps. So it

1389
00:57:18,120 --> 00:57:20,400
Speaker 5: was never like no females in our camps, you know

1390
00:57:20,440 --> 00:57:22,040
Speaker 5: what I'm saying. And even if it was females in

1391
00:57:22,080 --> 00:57:24,080
Speaker 5: our camps, they wouln't getting they makeup and hair done

1392
00:57:24,080 --> 00:57:25,640
Speaker 5: and ship, you know what I'm saying. So when I

1393
00:57:25,720 --> 00:57:28,320
Speaker 5: first seen that ship, I was just like, damn that

1394
00:57:28,360 --> 00:57:28,880
Speaker 5: shit dope.

1395
00:57:28,920 --> 00:57:31,400
Speaker 2: I will tell you this, watching somebody go through glam

1396
00:57:31,480 --> 00:57:34,560
Speaker 2: like when you know, like famous famous people, you're like,

1397
00:57:34,560 --> 00:57:40,240
Speaker 2: oh shit, like when the stylist is changing the clothes.

1398
00:57:40,320 --> 00:57:43,480
Speaker 5: Especially when you I was just coming up right, you know,

1399
00:57:43,520 --> 00:57:45,920
Speaker 5: what I'm saying. So it's like, but but just with anything,

1400
00:57:46,040 --> 00:57:49,000
Speaker 5: like even with d I'm happy for it. Like I'm

1401
00:57:49,000 --> 00:57:50,919
Speaker 5: trying to figure out a way to how to get

1402
00:57:50,920 --> 00:57:52,000
Speaker 5: in there to make some mod.

1403
00:57:51,920 --> 00:57:53,040
Speaker 1: You know, a question.

1404
00:57:53,280 --> 00:57:55,120
Speaker 3: And Eddon if you want to jump in on this too,

1405
00:57:55,400 --> 00:57:57,760
Speaker 3: and we the you two, I think we we use

1406
00:57:57,840 --> 00:58:01,280
Speaker 3: this word a lot. Jealousy is the human emotion, right,

1407
00:58:02,080 --> 00:58:06,280
Speaker 3: do you feel like it's healthy or natural or wrong

1408
00:58:07,360 --> 00:58:08,640
Speaker 3: to be jealous.

1409
00:58:08,400 --> 00:58:10,080
Speaker 1: Of your partner? Wrong?

1410
00:58:10,360 --> 00:58:11,080
Speaker 4: Wrong? Yeah?

1411
00:58:11,120 --> 00:58:14,480
Speaker 3: Okay, even though it okay because I know we talk

1412
00:58:14,520 --> 00:58:15,760
Speaker 3: about it in friendship.

1413
00:58:15,400 --> 00:58:17,400
Speaker 1: Like what would be an example of being jealous my partner?

1414
00:58:18,080 --> 00:58:21,280
Speaker 4: Maybe you make more money than you. Yeah, that's terrible.

1415
00:58:21,560 --> 00:58:24,160
Speaker 2: You know what, partnership. I think it's wrong in jealousy.

1416
00:58:24,160 --> 00:58:26,480
Speaker 2: We've been having an in friendship. We've been having this conversation.

1417
00:58:27,480 --> 00:58:30,760
Speaker 2: I think there's a malicious jealousy. And then yeah, for example,

1418
00:58:30,880 --> 00:58:34,240
Speaker 2: let's just say we sitting here, Mandy's like bitch fashion nova,

1419
00:58:34,280 --> 00:58:36,000
Speaker 2: just about to take mendnership to choice, and Keke.

1420
00:58:35,880 --> 00:58:36,720
Speaker 1: Goes, fuck you.

1421
00:58:37,240 --> 00:58:39,640
Speaker 2: I don't not want her to have this, but I'm

1422
00:58:39,640 --> 00:58:41,480
Speaker 2: gonna be a little jealous. I'm not on the beach

1423
00:58:42,000 --> 00:58:43,600
Speaker 2: or a little jealous that I didn't get chosen.

1424
00:58:43,680 --> 00:58:45,160
Speaker 5: But you ain't gotta be a little jealous. You could

1425
00:58:45,160 --> 00:58:46,919
Speaker 5: just be like, oh damn, like Dawn that she would

1426
00:58:46,920 --> 00:58:48,200
Speaker 5: have been five, I would have came. But you could

1427
00:58:48,200 --> 00:58:49,080
Speaker 5: really have no emotion.

1428
00:58:49,360 --> 00:58:51,959
Speaker 2: But that's the thing, that jealousy that I'm talking about

1429
00:58:51,960 --> 00:58:54,400
Speaker 2: for something like this. Yeah, I think that's a real

1430
00:58:54,440 --> 00:58:56,200
Speaker 2: emotion that can be naturally human.

1431
00:58:56,320 --> 00:58:58,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, like you would want that, but not the expense

1432
00:58:58,320 --> 00:58:59,600
Speaker 1: of her losing it exactly.

1433
00:59:00,000 --> 00:59:01,480
Speaker 2: I don't want you to not get it, but I

1434
00:59:01,480 --> 00:59:03,920
Speaker 2: wish I can get I wish. Yeah, Like on a

1435
00:59:03,960 --> 00:59:06,760
Speaker 2: peer level. The reason I think romantically it gets tough

1436
00:59:07,400 --> 00:59:11,080
Speaker 2: is because partnership is sharing a bit, and if you

1437
00:59:11,160 --> 00:59:14,320
Speaker 2: can't share in this pleasure, then I'm getting you can't

1438
00:59:14,320 --> 00:59:16,320
Speaker 2: be excited for me because you want this thing too

1439
00:59:16,400 --> 00:59:17,160
Speaker 2: when it gets there.

1440
00:59:17,600 --> 00:59:21,280
Speaker 5: That's yeah, that's that's very tough, and that happens in relationships,

1441
00:59:21,360 --> 00:59:22,840
Speaker 5: especially when y'all both do the same thing.

1442
00:59:23,480 --> 00:59:25,400
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying. You know what I'm saying.

1443
00:59:25,400 --> 00:59:27,960
Speaker 1: That's that's why I don't want no podcast, Like that's

1444
00:59:28,200 --> 00:59:30,760
Speaker 1: you know. I always used to think about Kim and Kanye.

1445
00:59:31,240 --> 00:59:33,280
Speaker 4: I mean, like when you yeah, that's.

1446
00:59:33,160 --> 00:59:35,919
Speaker 2: I always thought like you got the biggest of each thing, right,

1447
00:59:36,040 --> 00:59:38,480
Speaker 2: B and Jay, I don't know.

1448
00:59:38,520 --> 00:59:41,680
Speaker 1: I feel like Jay, they don't care, not E and J.

1449
00:59:41,920 --> 00:59:42,560
Speaker 2: No B and J.

1450
00:59:42,760 --> 00:59:45,520
Speaker 4: I'm saying, like, don't count.

1451
00:59:45,720 --> 00:59:49,560
Speaker 1: Why they don't count? They do the same ship but Ja.

1452
00:59:51,680 --> 00:59:53,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, but you know what it is, they're both really

1453
00:59:53,840 --> 00:59:55,200
Speaker 2: the best that they own artistry.

1454
00:59:56,040 --> 00:59:56,720
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1455
00:59:56,760 --> 00:59:58,680
Speaker 2: So I think with Kim and Kanye, it's like Kim's

1456
00:59:58,720 --> 01:00:00,200
Speaker 2: kind of famous for nothing. Not saying she's not a

1457
01:00:00,200 --> 01:00:03,160
Speaker 2: business woman, but it's like she's so fucking famous everybody's

1458
01:00:03,160 --> 01:00:05,760
Speaker 2: on her dick. Kanye literally makes art. I hate this nigga,

1459
01:00:05,960 --> 01:00:09,360
Speaker 2: but like literally I love him.

1460
01:00:09,480 --> 01:00:11,040
Speaker 1: Damn. Look at what he did.

1461
01:00:11,080 --> 01:00:16,800
Speaker 2: He didn't speaking of birth and ship, you had some

1462
01:00:16,960 --> 01:00:19,960
Speaker 2: baby making sex to become a father, and I want

1463
01:00:19,960 --> 01:00:22,600
Speaker 2: to get we gotta get into baby making.

1464
01:00:23,000 --> 01:00:25,000
Speaker 1: We gotta get into it. This is where y'all if

1465
01:00:25,040 --> 01:00:28,720
Speaker 1: you were ready to hear how nasty and freaky this

1466
01:00:28,800 --> 01:00:31,520
Speaker 1: motherfucker beginning in the back. He is not on the market, y'all,

1467
01:00:31,760 --> 01:00:34,080
Speaker 1: So just sit in your puddles at work.

1468
01:00:34,200 --> 01:00:37,520
Speaker 3: You cannot have this man. But uh, let's talk about

1469
01:00:37,560 --> 01:00:41,560
Speaker 3: baby making. Let's get into it. I just like to

1470
01:00:41,600 --> 01:00:44,880
Speaker 3: ask this question to all artists before we get into

1471
01:00:44,880 --> 01:00:48,400
Speaker 3: the music, do you fuck to your own music? Because

1472
01:00:49,360 --> 01:00:51,160
Speaker 3: I ain't gonna hold you. Deandro already told me she

1473
01:00:51,200 --> 01:00:52,960
Speaker 3: sneaks you into the playlist, and I'm like, bro, why

1474
01:00:52,960 --> 01:00:53,640
Speaker 3: would you do that?

1475
01:00:54,000 --> 01:00:57,120
Speaker 1: Why would you sneak your nigga into the playlist? Baby?

1476
01:00:57,160 --> 01:01:01,200
Speaker 1: He don't want to hear himself. What's the song that

1477
01:01:01,360 --> 01:01:02,040
Speaker 1: ends up coming on?

1478
01:01:02,160 --> 01:01:04,920
Speaker 4: It's a song called Always It's Me and my Cousins.

1479
01:01:04,960 --> 01:01:07,960
Speaker 1: She loved it and it's on the it's on thet

1480
01:01:08,000 --> 01:01:08,920
Speaker 1: it's on the playlist.

1481
01:01:09,000 --> 01:01:11,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, but I got like it. Play you feel.

1482
01:01:11,240 --> 01:01:13,480
Speaker 1: Fucking ad dick to the song to the song.

1483
01:01:13,320 --> 01:01:15,560
Speaker 4: That I made that ain't nothing. No, that's fine that

1484
01:01:15,800 --> 01:01:16,479
Speaker 4: you know what I'm saying.

1485
01:01:16,560 --> 01:01:20,240
Speaker 5: Like your music, Yeah, I mean you know you make

1486
01:01:20,280 --> 01:01:22,000
Speaker 5: it the funk to I mean yeah, like you know

1487
01:01:22,120 --> 01:01:22,760
Speaker 5: you put the use.

1488
01:01:23,680 --> 01:01:25,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's how you know it's that's how you know

1489
01:01:25,600 --> 01:01:27,840
Speaker 4: it's Oh wait.

1490
01:01:27,680 --> 01:01:29,280
Speaker 1: You're telling me when it don't randomly come on, you

1491
01:01:29,280 --> 01:01:30,280
Speaker 1: don't be like ship.

1492
01:01:30,120 --> 01:01:34,720
Speaker 4: What the fuck? Sometimes sometimes you be like damn, here

1493
01:01:34,800 --> 01:01:35,400
Speaker 4: I go y.

1494
01:01:36,920 --> 01:01:39,000
Speaker 2: You know, I mean I got a song come on

1495
01:01:39,200 --> 01:01:42,320
Speaker 2: to aig and I was fucking someone else and I

1496
01:01:42,360 --> 01:01:44,680
Speaker 2: was like, okay, no way, I do.

1497
01:01:44,800 --> 01:01:47,600
Speaker 1: Oh you heard a nigga? I do?

1498
01:01:47,800 --> 01:01:50,040
Speaker 3: I do have a question because I know you was working,

1499
01:01:50,120 --> 01:01:51,920
Speaker 3: Like I don't know how long you've been working on

1500
01:01:51,960 --> 01:01:55,400
Speaker 3: this project, but you know how they be talking about

1501
01:01:55,400 --> 01:01:57,960
Speaker 3: there ain't no baby making music now happening, and the

1502
01:01:58,080 --> 01:01:59,960
Speaker 3: R and B niggas is just toxic and they not

1503
01:02:00,080 --> 01:02:02,000
Speaker 3: making it to where you want to fucking love anymore.

1504
01:02:02,440 --> 01:02:05,840
Speaker 3: So is there a time where you go into the studio,

1505
01:02:06,040 --> 01:02:08,520
Speaker 3: you record a song and then you you put it

1506
01:02:08,560 --> 01:02:10,400
Speaker 3: to the test in the bedroom to see if it

1507
01:02:10,520 --> 01:02:12,680
Speaker 3: if it hits like it should in the bedroom.

1508
01:02:12,880 --> 01:02:13,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think.

1509
01:02:15,720 --> 01:02:20,280
Speaker 5: This baby making project really got put it put No

1510
01:02:20,360 --> 01:02:20,880
Speaker 5: way you.

1511
01:02:20,720 --> 01:02:22,880
Speaker 1: You tested it out in the bedroom already. Yeah.

1512
01:02:23,320 --> 01:02:26,000
Speaker 4: She loved this project. Okay, yeah, she loved this.

1513
01:02:26,520 --> 01:02:30,240
Speaker 1: And so what can what can we expect from it?

1514
01:02:30,280 --> 01:02:33,080
Speaker 5: And I do also it's one of them like it's

1515
01:02:33,160 --> 01:02:35,480
Speaker 5: like if you're talking sex like with your with your partner.

1516
01:02:35,520 --> 01:02:36,480
Speaker 4: With this album, we're about to.

1517
01:02:36,440 --> 01:02:37,520
Speaker 1: Have a baby boom in twenty twenty.

1518
01:02:37,600 --> 01:02:39,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, like because you can go for the ride, you

1519
01:02:39,440 --> 01:02:40,000
Speaker 4: know what I'm saying.

1520
01:02:40,040 --> 01:02:41,640
Speaker 5: It's like it can go for the ride, like you

1521
01:02:41,680 --> 01:02:44,600
Speaker 5: can go you got your ship like it gonna start

1522
01:02:44,600 --> 01:02:47,640
Speaker 5: off how you wanted to Like, that's just a like honestly,

1523
01:02:47,680 --> 01:02:49,520
Speaker 5: if you like I think this is me? This is

1524
01:02:49,760 --> 01:02:51,960
Speaker 5: me right if I'm if I'm doing this ship, I'm

1525
01:02:51,960 --> 01:02:54,160
Speaker 5: gonna already be in it before I press play.

1526
01:02:55,200 --> 01:02:57,000
Speaker 1: It's the first song toutdown.

1527
01:02:58,160 --> 01:02:59,560
Speaker 2: Saying that makes you want to play it and have

1528
01:02:59,600 --> 01:03:02,440
Speaker 2: a plan be right there not a player vat I

1529
01:03:02,600 --> 01:03:05,880
Speaker 2: mean to be already like have it on your tongue.

1530
01:03:07,040 --> 01:03:13,040
Speaker 1: Already, like you know what?

1531
01:03:13,320 --> 01:03:16,040
Speaker 3: Can I ask you a question in terms of you

1532
01:03:16,120 --> 01:03:18,040
Speaker 3: got baby making right? I want to ask you what

1533
01:03:18,160 --> 01:03:23,040
Speaker 3: is the difference between good sex and love making? Or

1534
01:03:23,080 --> 01:03:25,320
Speaker 3: do you feel like there's a difference. I know that's

1535
01:03:25,320 --> 01:03:25,919
Speaker 3: a real question.

1536
01:03:25,960 --> 01:03:29,720
Speaker 1: I know we talked about our good engineer Wolf. He

1537
01:03:29,760 --> 01:03:31,640
Speaker 1: don't even like eye contacts, so I don't think he's

1538
01:03:31,640 --> 01:03:36,080
Speaker 1: ever made love. But have you never made love? Have

1539
01:03:36,120 --> 01:03:43,000
Speaker 1: you ever made love? What is the difference to you

1540
01:03:43,080 --> 01:03:46,480
Speaker 1: between just a good round of sex and actually making

1541
01:03:46,520 --> 01:03:47,360
Speaker 1: love to somebody?

1542
01:03:47,560 --> 01:03:54,840
Speaker 4: I think like sex is like that ship could just

1543
01:03:54,880 --> 01:03:57,400
Speaker 4: like feel good. You know what I'm saying, Like sex

1544
01:03:57,560 --> 01:03:58,200
Speaker 4: just feel good?

1545
01:03:58,240 --> 01:03:59,440
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying, And there after you know

1546
01:03:59,600 --> 01:04:04,120
Speaker 5: it's like like you you.

1547
01:04:04,160 --> 01:04:06,880
Speaker 1: Like way too hard like you because I get it.

1548
01:04:07,760 --> 01:04:08,480
Speaker 1: We get that.

1549
01:04:08,600 --> 01:04:11,479
Speaker 5: It's like so, but it's like when you making love,

1550
01:04:11,520 --> 01:04:14,960
Speaker 5: it's like, damn, you know what I'm saying.

1551
01:04:15,000 --> 01:04:16,400
Speaker 4: You might rollo sit in it.

1552
01:04:17,480 --> 01:04:19,120
Speaker 2: I can't wait to get my foody in the morning

1553
01:04:19,120 --> 01:04:19,320
Speaker 2: with you.

1554
01:04:19,440 --> 01:04:21,280
Speaker 4: Now you have just got done looking in the sky.

1555
01:04:21,400 --> 01:04:26,280
Speaker 1: You're like, we did that. That's how don't you looking

1556
01:04:26,320 --> 01:04:26,760
Speaker 1: at the sky?

1557
01:04:27,120 --> 01:04:27,280
Speaker 4: Then?

1558
01:04:27,320 --> 01:04:29,320
Speaker 1: I always get to eat, honey, you want something to eat?

1559
01:04:30,360 --> 01:04:33,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know why feeding the dude after we

1560
01:04:34,000 --> 01:04:36,720
Speaker 2: fun and it's specific to love Baker, it'd be like

1561
01:04:36,760 --> 01:04:37,640
Speaker 2: the extra little lady.

1562
01:04:38,000 --> 01:04:41,000
Speaker 1: Is that intimate? Do you do? You want food from somebody?

1563
01:04:41,080 --> 01:04:41,560
Speaker 1: You just fun?

1564
01:04:41,960 --> 01:04:43,600
Speaker 4: You see this stuff? I mean yeah, it's like I

1565
01:04:43,640 --> 01:04:45,360
Speaker 4: mean yeah, for sure. It's like you got to have

1566
01:04:45,400 --> 01:04:46,920
Speaker 4: the food. You hear me.

1567
01:04:47,000 --> 01:04:48,600
Speaker 5: The food just a part of you either gonna eat

1568
01:04:48,640 --> 01:04:51,800
Speaker 5: before you know what I'm saying. You've got to have

1569
01:04:51,840 --> 01:04:55,520
Speaker 5: the food. It's a part of it. See what I'm saying.

1570
01:04:55,520 --> 01:04:56,560
Speaker 4: You gonna get a wet rag.

1571
01:04:58,040 --> 01:05:01,800
Speaker 1: You know it's my favorite thing? After you it question

1572
01:05:02,480 --> 01:05:06,480
Speaker 1: and a nigga just be like they can't move. I

1573
01:05:06,480 --> 01:05:08,720
Speaker 1: love when a nigga. I love seeing a little weakness.

1574
01:05:08,760 --> 01:05:11,200
Speaker 1: I'm not saying a dog or anything. But I love

1575
01:05:11,240 --> 01:05:11,960
Speaker 1: when you see.

1576
01:05:11,760 --> 01:05:13,720
Speaker 4: A body I say, you like an go to sleep.

1577
01:05:14,320 --> 01:05:16,120
Speaker 1: I just want to know that. I want a nigga

1578
01:05:16,160 --> 01:05:18,560
Speaker 1: to say his knees is out. Yeah, I want a

1579
01:05:18,600 --> 01:05:20,840
Speaker 1: nigga he can't walk. He get off the bed and

1580
01:05:20,840 --> 01:05:23,480
Speaker 1: he almost stumbled because he don't know how work. Legh.

1581
01:05:24,040 --> 01:05:26,680
Speaker 1: That's my eager. I like that. I don't know if

1582
01:05:26,720 --> 01:05:28,560
Speaker 1: I want to picture on my ass on Instagram and

1583
01:05:28,600 --> 01:05:31,360
Speaker 1: get a million LIFs or that. That's It's the same feeling.

1584
01:05:31,240 --> 01:05:35,040
Speaker 3: When when when a nigga like smiles after sex. I

1585
01:05:35,240 --> 01:05:39,320
Speaker 3: feel empowered. But what is that for men? What can

1586
01:05:39,360 --> 01:05:42,760
Speaker 3: a woman do that makes you know you just did jo?

1587
01:05:43,280 --> 01:05:45,720
Speaker 3: Don't ask her did you come baby? No, no words?

1588
01:05:46,240 --> 01:05:49,560
Speaker 1: What actions happened to let you know? You just laid

1589
01:05:49,640 --> 01:05:50,880
Speaker 1: it down?

1590
01:05:51,120 --> 01:05:55,640
Speaker 5: Yes, she can't move, it'sye.

1591
01:05:55,640 --> 01:05:56,440
Speaker 1: The A C was off.

1592
01:05:56,720 --> 01:06:00,480
Speaker 4: No, it's like either I think either I think either

1593
01:06:02,520 --> 01:06:03,800
Speaker 4: she like go to sleep.

1594
01:06:04,520 --> 01:06:07,160
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying, she go to sleep, or

1595
01:06:07,600 --> 01:06:11,200
Speaker 5: she like you know when she like look at you

1596
01:06:11,280 --> 01:06:13,160
Speaker 5: and then like look at.

1597
01:06:13,040 --> 01:06:14,280
Speaker 1: The yeah, yeah.

1598
01:06:17,600 --> 01:06:21,080
Speaker 4: One of them look at you like it's them.

1599
01:06:21,560 --> 01:06:23,720
Speaker 1: You know what I mean? It's so bad, I'll start crying.

1600
01:06:24,160 --> 01:06:27,000
Speaker 1: You cry, oh my god. But then literally if it's

1601
01:06:27,720 --> 01:06:34,360
Speaker 1: ship you know, so you know what I'm It's not

1602
01:06:34,400 --> 01:06:36,480
Speaker 1: even super emotional. It's just like this crazy.

1603
01:06:36,520 --> 01:06:39,040
Speaker 2: I came so hard the first time I cried with

1604
01:06:39,160 --> 01:06:41,000
Speaker 2: a dude that I wasn't like close to anything like that.

1605
01:06:41,080 --> 01:06:42,720
Speaker 1: In the middle of crying, I was like, it's not you,

1606
01:06:42,800 --> 01:06:47,880
Speaker 1: It's just a release, you know what I need.

1607
01:06:49,520 --> 01:06:52,440
Speaker 3: I think I need to lead into my feminine because

1608
01:06:52,480 --> 01:06:54,360
Speaker 3: I'll be like, you never cried, bitch.

1609
01:06:54,400 --> 01:06:56,600
Speaker 1: I'll be when it's done.

1610
01:06:57,040 --> 01:07:01,919
Speaker 3: This is how I hate be like you did that.

1611
01:07:04,960 --> 01:07:07,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's why you that's why you're talking about it.

1612
01:07:07,280 --> 01:07:08,880
Speaker 4: You got to be a little bit more. I'll be

1613
01:07:08,920 --> 01:07:10,640
Speaker 4: like you did that, all right.

1614
01:07:11,840 --> 01:07:13,200
Speaker 1: I cried in that threesome y'all.

1615
01:07:13,520 --> 01:07:14,840
Speaker 2: They don't know it because I was like, I can't

1616
01:07:14,880 --> 01:07:16,560
Speaker 2: cry from this whole we just met, but I can't

1617
01:07:16,560 --> 01:07:19,320
Speaker 2: even so hard I started crying four.

1618
01:07:19,600 --> 01:07:20,960
Speaker 1: I tried to do one of these with the hair

1619
01:07:21,000 --> 01:07:23,640
Speaker 1: so they ain't see the tears. I gave a Nigga

1620
01:07:23,640 --> 01:07:24,640
Speaker 1: I high five one time.

1621
01:07:27,480 --> 01:07:27,520
Speaker 6: You.

1622
01:07:29,080 --> 01:07:31,280
Speaker 1: I'm market on it. I need to. I need to

1623
01:07:31,320 --> 01:07:33,920
Speaker 1: be Maybe I gotta get you know what he just dropped.

1624
01:07:34,040 --> 01:07:35,560
Speaker 1: Maybe when you see, he said, Gagstu.

1625
01:07:35,720 --> 01:07:37,360
Speaker 2: You said what the text that you were sharing on

1626
01:07:37,360 --> 01:07:39,080
Speaker 2: the tour where you said gain is dicky about?

1627
01:07:39,240 --> 01:07:44,200
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, no no, no, because so last tour, I said, okay,

1628
01:07:44,200 --> 01:07:47,120
Speaker 3: hold on, so you know went to our podcast last year.

1629
01:07:47,200 --> 01:07:49,720
Speaker 3: Last year we were on tour and we decided to

1630
01:07:49,720 --> 01:07:52,240
Speaker 3: share text messages with what our booty calls look like

1631
01:07:52,840 --> 01:07:53,840
Speaker 3: and my booty call.

1632
01:07:54,440 --> 01:07:57,880
Speaker 1: I text this nigga like where you at? And he

1633
01:07:58,040 --> 01:07:59,880
Speaker 1: was like or it was like, I said, what's the

1634
01:08:00,320 --> 01:08:01,680
Speaker 1: and he said, what's up? Gang?

1635
01:08:02,040 --> 01:08:04,240
Speaker 3: I was like, come gang, that dick in my mouth? Yeah,

1636
01:08:04,440 --> 01:08:06,080
Speaker 3: kind of how we talk. And that was how we

1637
01:08:06,120 --> 01:08:12,800
Speaker 3: set it up. And I don't show you feel me.

1638
01:08:13,120 --> 01:08:15,840
Speaker 3: I mean that shows that's how you coming. That's your niggas.

1639
01:08:15,840 --> 01:08:18,000
Speaker 1: Know, like maybe I could be more feminine and get these.

1640
01:08:17,880 --> 01:08:21,519
Speaker 5: Niggas be like, but then your niggas. Ain't y'all gonna

1641
01:08:21,560 --> 01:08:23,240
Speaker 5: lose all funness. That's your thing?

1642
01:08:23,360 --> 01:08:27,519
Speaker 1: Okay? I like that. I love making moments. Don't do this.

1643
01:08:27,680 --> 01:08:33,200
Speaker 1: I'm serious. I'll make love. I did in my last relationship.

1644
01:08:33,240 --> 01:08:33,720
Speaker 1: We made love.

1645
01:08:33,840 --> 01:08:37,000
Speaker 3: We cried one time together, but we were on shrimps.

1646
01:08:37,000 --> 01:08:37,920
Speaker 3: So I don't know if that helps.

1647
01:08:38,360 --> 01:08:40,360
Speaker 5: I used to cry all the time. Wait when I

1648
01:08:40,360 --> 01:08:43,040
Speaker 5: first got with you, Wait, you cried just be out

1649
01:08:43,040 --> 01:08:46,040
Speaker 5: of town. So Ship, I'll probably just thinking about you.

1650
01:08:47,479 --> 01:08:49,080
Speaker 5: Have you ever how much you love me?

1651
01:08:49,120 --> 01:08:51,360
Speaker 1: Have you ever cried during Wait? Wait?

1652
01:08:52,840 --> 01:08:54,360
Speaker 4: I was just trying to say, I think the injury

1653
01:08:54,360 --> 01:08:55,360
Speaker 4: and everything one time.

1654
01:08:57,520 --> 01:09:00,479
Speaker 3: Pregnancy, hold on, hold on, you know, you know on trigger.

1655
01:09:00,520 --> 01:09:02,240
Speaker 3: The nigga sent me an old picture in the hospital.

1656
01:09:02,280 --> 01:09:03,559
Speaker 3: So what you mean you you faked it?

1657
01:09:03,680 --> 01:09:07,360
Speaker 5: Had the wheelchair and everything pushing me and everything. Wait

1658
01:09:07,439 --> 01:09:10,280
Speaker 5: then I just hopped out the wheelchair. Man, I ain't hurt.

1659
01:09:10,560 --> 01:09:11,800
Speaker 5: I didn't want to see you left.

1660
01:09:13,160 --> 01:09:17,960
Speaker 1: Okay, don't test me. You really in love? I'm telling

1661
01:09:18,000 --> 01:09:19,559
Speaker 1: you that you what is wrong? Would you?

1662
01:09:19,560 --> 01:09:21,000
Speaker 2: You know what when you get in love like that,

1663
01:09:21,040 --> 01:09:22,560
Speaker 2: you start doing dumb ship. Well, I might have to

1664
01:09:22,560 --> 01:09:22,920
Speaker 2: cut this.

1665
01:09:22,880 --> 01:09:23,000
Speaker 6: You know.

1666
01:09:23,080 --> 01:09:24,920
Speaker 1: I mean my nigga did the other day. Do you

1667
01:09:24,960 --> 01:09:26,479
Speaker 1: keep it in We edited? He wanted to.

1668
01:09:26,439 --> 01:09:28,960
Speaker 2: Answering the phone right, and I was like, oh my god,

1669
01:09:29,720 --> 01:09:30,960
Speaker 2: He's like damn, Barrel was in the toilet.

1670
01:09:30,960 --> 01:09:32,639
Speaker 1: I was like, I want to be in there with you.

1671
01:09:33,760 --> 01:09:34,600
Speaker 1: I want to be in there with you.

1672
01:09:35,240 --> 01:09:35,800
Speaker 4: Girls do that.

1673
01:09:35,840 --> 01:09:37,640
Speaker 1: I want to see it, girls like you want to

1674
01:09:37,680 --> 01:09:40,840
Speaker 1: be in the bathroom while he's I'm like, really, take

1675
01:09:40,880 --> 01:09:42,960
Speaker 1: the FaceTime, put it down. I want to say, wait,

1676
01:09:43,160 --> 01:09:45,960
Speaker 1: you wanted to You asked him, and you wanted to

1677
01:09:46,000 --> 01:09:47,280
Speaker 1: be in the bathroom while he was.

1678
01:09:47,240 --> 01:09:48,960
Speaker 4: Taking girls some crazy ship.

1679
01:09:49,680 --> 01:09:51,120
Speaker 1: Calm down, He'd be doing the same ship now. But

1680
01:09:51,320 --> 01:09:52,800
Speaker 1: I locked the door. He was like, you know, I

1681
01:09:52,800 --> 01:09:56,759
Speaker 1: want to see that. You want to see into the towilet.

1682
01:09:56,800 --> 01:09:57,679
Speaker 1: I'm fucking crazy.

1683
01:09:57,720 --> 01:09:59,479
Speaker 3: I'm look this okay. You know why I don't want

1684
01:09:59,479 --> 01:10:03,200
Speaker 3: to see that because I eat ass. I don't want

1685
01:10:03,240 --> 01:10:04,680
Speaker 3: to be in the bathroom. You should have seen me

1686
01:10:04,680 --> 01:10:05,200
Speaker 3: on my period.

1687
01:10:05,240 --> 01:10:08,200
Speaker 1: He yo, ship, I actually want to believe you never ship.

1688
01:10:08,320 --> 01:10:11,640
Speaker 1: I can't believe I'm here. I cannot wait to get

1689
01:10:12,080 --> 01:10:15,240
Speaker 1: He asked way too much to want to see you

1690
01:10:18,720 --> 01:10:23,759
Speaker 1: like I want to. I don't even want to imagine

1691
01:10:23,800 --> 01:10:25,880
Speaker 1: that a nigga sit on the city. I know that

1692
01:10:25,920 --> 01:10:28,800
Speaker 1: you use the bathroom standing up, sir. I want to

1693
01:10:29,080 --> 01:10:30,080
Speaker 1: keep that in my mother out.

1694
01:10:30,120 --> 01:10:32,320
Speaker 2: I'm be honest with you, my love, and gone too far.

1695
01:10:33,080 --> 01:10:36,720
Speaker 2: It went too far, like literally got ready to be bro.

1696
01:10:37,520 --> 01:10:39,400
Speaker 2: We were talking about doing some ship under the full moon.

1697
01:10:39,640 --> 01:10:41,439
Speaker 1: I was like, let's cut our hands into some blood.

1698
01:10:41,479 --> 01:10:47,240
Speaker 1: Brother ship. I love it. He got see, I got

1699
01:10:47,280 --> 01:10:49,720
Speaker 1: a different type of dread. He's a wolf type the

1700
01:10:49,760 --> 01:10:50,400
Speaker 1: whole TP nigga.

1701
01:10:50,479 --> 01:10:52,120
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, Like he wants to fast

1702
01:10:52,120 --> 01:10:54,120
Speaker 2: in the morning, only eat raw fruits and ship. So

1703
01:10:54,120 --> 01:10:57,559
Speaker 2: he already on that crazy ass Like you really connect

1704
01:10:57,600 --> 01:11:00,559
Speaker 2: with people when they're that spiritual, if feeling like they

1705
01:11:00,560 --> 01:11:02,760
Speaker 2: don't have a limit, like what we're gonna do next, Yes,

1706
01:11:02,840 --> 01:11:05,000
Speaker 2: let's talk to you a lot, like who's up there?

1707
01:11:05,040 --> 01:11:07,040
Speaker 1: Soon y'all gonna be sparing each other, ship on each

1708
01:11:07,040 --> 01:11:10,360
Speaker 1: other like sm that ship.

1709
01:11:10,720 --> 01:11:13,920
Speaker 2: Once we peede peed and the all, Like once we

1710
01:11:13,960 --> 01:11:17,080
Speaker 2: did the pee, then I knew, oh yeah on them

1711
01:11:17,640 --> 01:11:20,000
Speaker 2: he peede on you each other and what that means.

1712
01:11:20,840 --> 01:11:22,519
Speaker 1: I just felt like I marked my territory, Like that's

1713
01:11:22,560 --> 01:11:24,559
Speaker 1: my nigga. I really look like.

1714
01:11:26,479 --> 01:11:28,439
Speaker 4: Bro like drenched like real.

1715
01:11:28,840 --> 01:11:31,559
Speaker 1: We were into loom. It doesn't count, no wall because

1716
01:11:31,600 --> 01:11:33,160
Speaker 1: we were in another country, don't no, No, I did

1717
01:11:33,200 --> 01:11:35,360
Speaker 1: it during that Vegas trip like home on I gotta

1718
01:11:35,400 --> 01:11:39,800
Speaker 1: be you know, it's crazy. I used to think this

1719
01:11:39,880 --> 01:11:40,360
Speaker 1: was so white.

1720
01:11:40,400 --> 01:11:41,720
Speaker 2: I thought it was crazy, but then I was like,

1721
01:11:41,720 --> 01:11:43,120
Speaker 2: oh no, you really gotta love a niggas.

1722
01:11:43,120 --> 01:11:46,280
Speaker 1: So how you doing so we ask you questions like

1723
01:11:46,320 --> 01:11:48,680
Speaker 1: this too. We was in Vegas. We went to the

1724
01:11:48,680 --> 01:11:50,719
Speaker 1: Point of Wards. We were up for a podcast awards.

1725
01:11:51,160 --> 01:11:51,599
Speaker 1: We drunk.

1726
01:11:51,600 --> 01:11:55,519
Speaker 2: We went to Gez with Mandy whatever I I I'm

1727
01:11:55,520 --> 01:11:59,320
Speaker 2: in the bathroom. Don't do the whoop the wood. Yeah,

1728
01:12:00,840 --> 01:12:03,680
Speaker 2: so I'm in the bathtub. He ain't about to go

1729
01:12:03,680 --> 01:12:06,760
Speaker 2: to the bathroom. I was like, wait, wait, wait, because.

1730
01:12:06,479 --> 01:12:08,040
Speaker 1: He was in the such like do it on me,

1731
01:12:08,640 --> 01:12:10,160
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, each feet on your face.

1732
01:12:10,240 --> 01:12:12,439
Speaker 1: D wait, hold on, let me tell you what may

1733
01:12:12,520 --> 01:12:14,840
Speaker 1: be bad. So the first time, right, it was just

1734
01:12:14,880 --> 01:12:15,280
Speaker 1: a chance.

1735
01:12:15,479 --> 01:12:17,240
Speaker 2: But for some reason because I asked for it again,

1736
01:12:17,720 --> 01:12:18,960
Speaker 2: he was like, no, I hope your mouth.

1737
01:12:18,960 --> 01:12:25,559
Speaker 1: That's the whole I didn't do it. I'm not I'm celibate.

1738
01:12:26,000 --> 01:12:27,679
Speaker 1: I don't even have sex. I'm not ready to drink

1739
01:12:27,680 --> 01:12:30,800
Speaker 1: the brial, no liquor in those sex.

1740
01:12:30,960 --> 01:12:35,439
Speaker 4: For real? What happened to you?

1741
01:12:35,520 --> 01:12:35,560
Speaker 1: No?

1742
01:12:35,840 --> 01:12:36,280
Speaker 4: For real?

1743
01:12:37,360 --> 01:12:39,920
Speaker 1: What I'm going for ninety days?

1744
01:12:40,120 --> 01:12:40,439
Speaker 4: Okay?

1745
01:12:41,640 --> 01:12:43,280
Speaker 2: He was like, Yo, this shi ain't funny that that

1746
01:12:43,439 --> 01:12:46,360
Speaker 2: was really fun working because you know what, we all

1747
01:12:46,400 --> 01:12:50,280
Speaker 2: do this. Every time somebody that told me they haven't

1748
01:12:50,280 --> 01:12:51,800
Speaker 2: been drinking for four years, I'm like, they.

1749
01:12:51,800 --> 01:12:59,120
Speaker 1: Killed somebody you know, just going through sobriety and that's beautiful.

1750
01:12:59,120 --> 01:13:03,080
Speaker 3: Though it is you, it's it's it's tough, but you

1751
01:13:03,200 --> 01:13:07,400
Speaker 3: know I'm getting through it. Back to the album, what

1752
01:13:07,560 --> 01:13:08,640
Speaker 3: is your favorite?

1753
01:13:08,840 --> 01:13:14,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, back to the album people Love Love is not

1754
01:13:14,720 --> 01:13:15,599
Speaker 1: on the album, by the way.

1755
01:13:15,600 --> 01:13:19,320
Speaker 5: My favorite song probably, honestly to be real, probably middle

1756
01:13:19,320 --> 01:13:20,559
Speaker 5: of the Night and sex like this.

1757
01:13:21,080 --> 01:13:23,840
Speaker 1: Oh, like this sounds good.

1758
01:13:24,040 --> 01:13:25,000
Speaker 4: I'm like middle of the night.

1759
01:13:25,040 --> 01:13:27,200
Speaker 5: Now we both with But I really love all of them.

1760
01:13:27,200 --> 01:13:29,960
Speaker 5: It's like tomorrow I might have some more favorites. It's

1761
01:13:30,080 --> 01:13:30,400
Speaker 5: one of them.

1762
01:13:30,439 --> 01:13:35,880
Speaker 1: Typean just said her favorite was drip. Okay, Now I

1763
01:13:35,920 --> 01:13:37,800
Speaker 1: know I like to be able to think of what

1764
01:13:37,840 --> 01:13:40,240
Speaker 1: things are about. I assume it's about the dripping of

1765
01:13:40,240 --> 01:13:41,200
Speaker 1: a pussy of course.

1766
01:13:41,880 --> 01:13:44,400
Speaker 5: Yeah. The whole song is like she got that drip,

1767
01:13:44,520 --> 01:13:48,800
Speaker 5: not the Peter rip. It's like when it's like it's

1768
01:13:48,840 --> 01:13:50,479
Speaker 5: like when they asked me, why fuck with you?

1769
01:13:50,560 --> 01:13:51,599
Speaker 4: I said, it is what it is.

1770
01:13:51,600 --> 01:13:53,599
Speaker 1: She got that drip was the pregnancy drip? Crazy?

1771
01:13:54,360 --> 01:13:57,000
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's like super crazy. Now it's extra crazy, Like

1772
01:13:57,000 --> 01:13:58,519
Speaker 5: it's like I thought it was crazy, that it's crazy.

1773
01:13:59,479 --> 01:14:00,000
Speaker 1: Make it better.

1774
01:14:01,240 --> 01:14:05,479
Speaker 5: Oh, you ain't gonna get it neither of us. Oh man, God,

1775
01:14:05,479 --> 01:14:07,320
Speaker 5: I gotta go hair one whoa whoa.

1776
01:14:07,400 --> 01:14:08,559
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm gonna be honest with you.

1777
01:14:08,680 --> 01:14:11,320
Speaker 2: I I started taking from my hair.

1778
01:14:12,040 --> 01:14:12,920
Speaker 1: I wanted my hair to grow.

1779
01:14:13,760 --> 01:14:17,240
Speaker 2: My pussy was so crazy and I literally thought, I'm

1780
01:14:17,240 --> 01:14:18,680
Speaker 2: gonna get pregnant if I keep this up.

1781
01:14:19,320 --> 01:14:20,920
Speaker 1: It was like I was peeing on myself. It was crazy.

1782
01:14:21,200 --> 01:14:22,879
Speaker 4: So what your man say? He can't get you pregnant?

1783
01:14:23,200 --> 01:14:25,120
Speaker 1: Bro? We had, we had, we had, We had to

1784
01:14:25,120 --> 01:14:28,960
Speaker 1: take a home. Calm down, we have Jesus Christ want kid.

1785
01:14:29,160 --> 01:14:31,719
Speaker 1: We have worked to do. Know we're we're planning on album.

1786
01:14:31,720 --> 01:14:33,120
Speaker 4: You're gonna be You're gonna get pregnant.

1787
01:14:33,400 --> 01:14:34,640
Speaker 1: I'm now gonna ban it from her home.

1788
01:14:34,720 --> 01:14:38,840
Speaker 2: That's no, don't okay? Well do you know many met

1789
01:14:38,840 --> 01:14:40,639
Speaker 2: my nigga. We all got drunk. We had to get time.

1790
01:14:40,680 --> 01:14:43,040
Speaker 1: We went out and I said, I can hear her

1791
01:14:43,080 --> 01:14:45,760
Speaker 1: telling him no, I'm lied at Happy and Ship. But

1792
01:14:45,840 --> 01:14:48,320
Speaker 1: me and Ben's got a portage and I ain't got

1793
01:14:48,360 --> 01:14:52,560
Speaker 1: had his whole pregnant like our family planning. Okay, but

1794
01:14:52,680 --> 01:14:57,639
Speaker 1: you lucky to start. We got going on talk. Don't

1795
01:14:57,680 --> 01:14:58,160
Speaker 1: take her out.

1796
01:14:58,240 --> 01:14:59,840
Speaker 4: I don't want to get pregnant, I said.

1797
01:14:59,880 --> 01:15:03,200
Speaker 2: He no, I'm gonna tell you why. The other day

1798
01:15:03,240 --> 01:15:04,960
Speaker 2: we was out, We was dancing, We was out till

1799
01:15:05,000 --> 01:15:06,479
Speaker 2: four in the morning. We just having fun. We love

1800
01:15:06,560 --> 01:15:09,599
Speaker 2: going out to like piano ship and like afrobees parties.

1801
01:15:09,960 --> 01:15:11,520
Speaker 4: Y'all different, fuy.

1802
01:15:11,640 --> 01:15:14,439
Speaker 2: Like we love a dance party, disco party. Like he

1803
01:15:14,640 --> 01:15:15,960
Speaker 2: loves soul train type ship.

1804
01:15:16,720 --> 01:15:20,880
Speaker 4: Y'all like soul mats. Oh yeah, yeah, y'alling on each other. Ship.

1805
01:15:23,000 --> 01:15:23,040
Speaker 1: No.

1806
01:15:23,200 --> 01:15:26,200
Speaker 2: We woke up and he was like, bro, like, imagine

1807
01:15:26,200 --> 01:15:28,800
Speaker 2: if we had a baby right now, whos to do that?

1808
01:15:28,920 --> 01:15:30,760
Speaker 2: Because it hit like, yo, I just had a bad day.

1809
01:15:30,800 --> 01:15:32,320
Speaker 2: We ended up, you know, it's New York. Ship though

1810
01:15:32,360 --> 01:15:34,240
Speaker 2: five in the morning. He was like, I don't know.

1811
01:15:34,240 --> 01:15:36,479
Speaker 2: We was saying two years, maybe three, And I think

1812
01:15:36,520 --> 01:15:38,400
Speaker 2: there's a lot of things that get scary for y'all.

1813
01:15:38,479 --> 01:15:39,880
Speaker 4: Y'all use a condom everything, y'all.

1814
01:15:39,880 --> 01:15:43,160
Speaker 1: Fuck no, I'm on birth control. Not look like a girl.

1815
01:15:43,640 --> 01:15:45,439
Speaker 4: You're on birth control. You gotta get off of that.

1816
01:15:45,960 --> 01:15:47,760
Speaker 1: What what are your throwing? Wait? What are your thoughts

1817
01:15:47,800 --> 01:15:50,960
Speaker 1: on birth control? I think y'all should have a baby. No, no, no, no,

1818
01:15:50,960 --> 01:15:51,400
Speaker 1: come down.

1819
01:15:51,600 --> 01:15:54,519
Speaker 3: Do you do you want to fly? Do you have

1820
01:15:54,640 --> 01:15:56,280
Speaker 3: general thoughts on women being on birth care.

1821
01:15:56,400 --> 01:15:59,160
Speaker 1: No, I just like heard it got like there's a

1822
01:15:59,160 --> 01:16:01,120
Speaker 1: lot of bad Yeah, like you know what I'm saying.

1823
01:16:01,120 --> 01:16:03,320
Speaker 1: It's like now it's like all right, everybody grown, Like

1824
01:16:03,520 --> 01:16:07,120
Speaker 1: just tell your boy pull out. Yeah, you're grown. The

1825
01:16:07,160 --> 01:16:08,760
Speaker 1: pull out does not work.

1826
01:16:08,920 --> 01:16:09,800
Speaker 4: That ship it works.

1827
01:16:10,280 --> 01:16:13,479
Speaker 1: Did you just hear this everybody telling them pull out?

1828
01:16:13,560 --> 01:16:17,320
Speaker 1: I got the pull out method. I'm sad now when

1829
01:16:17,320 --> 01:16:25,400
Speaker 1: you got that Dripney Bruh.

1830
01:16:25,479 --> 01:16:27,800
Speaker 2: Let me tell you when we were in Atlanta for

1831
01:16:27,920 --> 01:16:30,720
Speaker 2: the Black Effect Show, I wasn't on birth control, right,

1832
01:16:31,720 --> 01:16:34,760
Speaker 2: he didn't pull out and he literally after he came

1833
01:16:35,040 --> 01:16:36,800
Speaker 2: it's still inside of me. I said, are you about

1834
01:16:36,800 --> 01:16:38,960
Speaker 2: to are you telling me you? He's like, I'm so sorry.

1835
01:16:39,160 --> 01:16:40,400
Speaker 2: I know you don't want to hear this, but that

1836
01:16:40,479 --> 01:16:41,759
Speaker 2: ship was so good, and I'm.

1837
01:16:41,560 --> 01:16:44,479
Speaker 1: Like, no, I gotta be on motherfucking plan b No.

1838
01:16:44,640 --> 01:16:47,760
Speaker 1: After that, that was when birth control started. You know

1839
01:16:47,800 --> 01:16:48,120
Speaker 1: what it is.

1840
01:16:48,120 --> 01:16:50,160
Speaker 2: It's the anxiety of not being able to plan. I

1841
01:16:50,160 --> 01:16:52,680
Speaker 2: would love to have children with this person, but at

1842
01:16:52,720 --> 01:16:54,840
Speaker 2: the end of the planet, yeah, I really want to play.

1843
01:16:54,840 --> 01:16:57,519
Speaker 1: I know that. I was about to say, if you're

1844
01:16:57,520 --> 01:17:00,000
Speaker 1: dealing with a nigga who believes the pull out method yeah,

1845
01:17:00,120 --> 01:17:02,120
Speaker 1: not really. Yeah, we see how that baby happened.

1846
01:17:02,320 --> 01:17:06,320
Speaker 5: I mean your pulling out though, Like that's the thing

1847
01:17:06,320 --> 01:17:09,479
Speaker 5: about it, all right, Some niggas just no, like, yeah,

1848
01:17:09,479 --> 01:17:10,240
Speaker 5: I'm not pulling out.

1849
01:17:11,920 --> 01:17:12,360
Speaker 4: That was me.

1850
01:17:13,840 --> 01:17:17,519
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like and clearly your swimmer, swim my.

1851
01:17:17,600 --> 01:17:18,479
Speaker 4: Niggas get up through that.

1852
01:17:20,520 --> 01:17:22,000
Speaker 2: You know what I've always wanted to ask somebody in

1853
01:17:22,000 --> 01:17:24,920
Speaker 2: this podcast, not you, I've always wanted to ask a man,

1854
01:17:25,280 --> 01:17:27,080
Speaker 2: just like a whole as to come out, like how

1855
01:17:27,080 --> 01:17:28,200
Speaker 2: many abortions have you had?

1856
01:17:28,760 --> 01:17:32,000
Speaker 1: Oh? That's such a hard question to ask somebody, Like

1857
01:17:32,000 --> 01:17:33,680
Speaker 1: we don't ask women that, but like, but a man

1858
01:17:33,760 --> 01:17:37,080
Speaker 1: never had abortion, but you don't know how many paid

1859
01:17:37,080 --> 01:17:41,280
Speaker 1: for a man never had he paid for eleven? Wow, whoa,

1860
01:17:42,200 --> 01:17:44,559
Speaker 1: that's crazy nasty. Yep, you know what.

1861
01:17:44,600 --> 01:17:46,760
Speaker 2: He looked good and rich and I bet every bitch

1862
01:17:46,880 --> 01:17:48,400
Speaker 2: be waiting on it. He was like, yo, I'll be

1863
01:17:48,479 --> 01:17:52,040
Speaker 2: at the deal. He's like I literally He's like, no,

1864
01:17:52,160 --> 01:17:56,000
Speaker 2: that's a lot of men have entitlement and they don't.

1865
01:17:56,640 --> 01:17:58,519
Speaker 4: I mean, but he showed me nothing in them, knowing

1866
01:17:58,560 --> 01:17:59,400
Speaker 4: that he don't want a baby.

1867
01:17:59,479 --> 01:18:00,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree.

1868
01:18:00,120 --> 01:18:02,599
Speaker 4: It's like it's like he putting her thoughs unnecessary ringer.

1869
01:18:02,680 --> 01:18:04,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, my goodness. Hello.

1870
01:18:04,600 --> 01:18:06,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's like the Internet.

1871
01:18:05,880 --> 01:18:08,439
Speaker 1: Don't like you. Yeah, it's like, why the fuck you

1872
01:18:08,720 --> 01:18:09,639
Speaker 1: blessing in a food?

1873
01:18:09,800 --> 01:18:12,400
Speaker 2: You know what? I really appreciate you saying this because

1874
01:18:12,560 --> 01:18:16,120
Speaker 2: the selfishness of men being so detached from her pregnancy

1875
01:18:16,479 --> 01:18:17,160
Speaker 2: it exists.

1876
01:18:17,240 --> 01:18:18,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, but it's like, why blessing her? Bro?

1877
01:18:18,880 --> 01:18:27,680
Speaker 1: If you don't want a kid, that's the dumbest shit. Hello, Nick, Sorry, no,

1878
01:18:27,720 --> 01:18:30,320
Speaker 1: he wanted fifty kids? Are not you? Hey? All of

1879
01:18:30,360 --> 01:18:33,200
Speaker 1: our opinions are ones of our own, no whatnot?

1880
01:18:33,400 --> 01:18:35,120
Speaker 2: Actually, I'm not even gonna say, Nick Cannon. He does

1881
01:18:35,160 --> 01:18:37,200
Speaker 2: seem like he was intentionally having a bunch of kids.

1882
01:18:37,200 --> 01:18:39,160
Speaker 2: Who's the little young nigga that got twenty five kids?

1883
01:18:39,200 --> 01:18:40,040
Speaker 2: He's too, twenty two or.

1884
01:18:40,040 --> 01:18:42,479
Speaker 1: Something, young boy who might be going to jail? NBA,

1885
01:18:42,560 --> 01:18:45,160
Speaker 1: young boy? Is that it? And dirt for young boy? Sorry?

1886
01:18:45,240 --> 01:18:46,240
Speaker 1: And dirt? Wait?

1887
01:18:46,320 --> 01:18:46,519
Speaker 2: Is it?

1888
01:18:46,960 --> 01:18:49,360
Speaker 1: Dirt? He said for everybody? But he got a lot

1889
01:18:49,360 --> 01:18:50,680
Speaker 1: of kids. Both of them got a lot of keys. No,

1890
01:18:50,720 --> 01:18:52,000
Speaker 1: I know one of them got it like ten and

1891
01:18:52,080 --> 01:18:52,559
Speaker 1: twenty two.

1892
01:18:52,840 --> 01:18:57,080
Speaker 5: Young boy has yeah, eleven at twenty three, damn, while

1893
01:18:57,080 --> 01:18:57,920
Speaker 5: we got a long kid.

1894
01:19:01,160 --> 01:19:01,280
Speaker 1: Bro.

1895
01:19:01,439 --> 01:19:03,720
Speaker 4: He just welcome, yeah, he just welcome the new one.

1896
01:19:04,040 --> 01:19:06,760
Speaker 4: Twenty three, welcome to Oh sorry, Oh yeah, I'm sorry.

1897
01:19:06,800 --> 01:19:08,040
Speaker 4: Yeah twelve, hold.

1898
01:19:07,800 --> 01:19:09,040
Speaker 1: On wait, it's just a dude to be like. I

1899
01:19:09,080 --> 01:19:13,000
Speaker 1: don't want to fuck me too, that's I don't know

1900
01:19:13,040 --> 01:19:15,760
Speaker 1: the young nigs. You don't know NB A young boy.

1901
01:19:16,640 --> 01:19:18,679
Speaker 1: Sometimes I get confused with the any chopper the young

1902
01:19:18,720 --> 01:19:20,880
Speaker 1: boy than the other ones. Yeah, the letters a lot,

1903
01:19:20,920 --> 01:19:23,959
Speaker 1: it's a lot, but I know the difference. Hold on eleven.

1904
01:19:24,800 --> 01:19:28,960
Speaker 1: Sorry when you twelve twelve, he's only twenty two. How

1905
01:19:30,600 --> 01:19:32,840
Speaker 1: do you think he knows all their names? I mean

1906
01:19:32,880 --> 01:19:35,639
Speaker 1: he just had one with may wether daughter. Oh yes,

1907
01:19:35,880 --> 01:19:39,960
Speaker 1: right now, you know what we're talking about. Anyway, baby,

1908
01:19:39,960 --> 01:19:43,000
Speaker 1: make it out now? Where can everybody listen?

1909
01:19:43,080 --> 01:19:44,840
Speaker 3: By the way, I would like to say too, when

1910
01:19:44,840 --> 01:19:47,760
Speaker 3: we have artists, if you really want to support your artists,

1911
01:19:47,760 --> 01:19:51,240
Speaker 3: make sure you purchase, not just stream so you can

1912
01:19:51,320 --> 01:19:52,400
Speaker 3: go into the app store.

1913
01:19:52,960 --> 01:19:53,639
Speaker 1: How much is it?

1914
01:19:54,200 --> 01:19:59,600
Speaker 3: Nine ten, nine twelve nine nine, baby, y'all pay that

1915
01:19:59,640 --> 01:20:01,759
Speaker 3: ship Netflix, and y'all don't even like all the shows

1916
01:20:01,760 --> 01:20:04,680
Speaker 3: on that bitch. If you want to support artists, make

1917
01:20:04,720 --> 01:20:08,040
Speaker 3: sure you dropped that that nine let's just.

1918
01:20:08,000 --> 01:20:11,960
Speaker 5: Say it cost fifty plan and you can go to

1919
01:20:12,040 --> 01:20:14,280
Speaker 5: the store and by this album too. On November fifteenth,

1920
01:20:14,320 --> 01:20:16,639
Speaker 5: it'll be in the stores. Okay, you go by physical.

1921
01:20:17,840 --> 01:20:20,280
Speaker 5: That's out now November fifteen, y'all can go get it

1922
01:20:20,560 --> 01:20:21,959
Speaker 5: in the stores, baby, making.

1923
01:20:21,960 --> 01:20:23,880
Speaker 1: Wait for real. I'm not even trying to be funny. Yeah, wait,

1924
01:20:24,120 --> 01:20:25,680
Speaker 1: where did you think go about albums? Now?

1925
01:20:25,920 --> 01:20:27,000
Speaker 4: Like at Target?

1926
01:20:27,120 --> 01:20:27,519
Speaker 1: Walmart?

1927
01:20:27,640 --> 01:20:28,559
Speaker 4: Well, I'm not sure.

1928
01:20:28,439 --> 01:20:29,320
Speaker 1: Where they putting it in?

1929
01:20:29,680 --> 01:20:31,280
Speaker 4: Like, yeah, you just look it up online.

1930
01:20:31,320 --> 01:20:34,640
Speaker 5: You can find it ya now, But I ain't gonna lie

1931
01:20:34,720 --> 01:20:37,639
Speaker 5: at your local stores that sell like CDs or probably

1932
01:20:37,680 --> 01:20:40,280
Speaker 5: like selected like Walmarts and Targets, you can get it

1933
01:20:40,400 --> 01:20:41,920
Speaker 5: like no, kids, Yeah, I'm.

1934
01:20:42,160 --> 01:20:44,599
Speaker 1: Gonna buy this album. But where are we gonna put

1935
01:20:45,080 --> 01:20:46,679
Speaker 1: what you mean gonna wait? What are you gonna wait?

1936
01:20:46,720 --> 01:20:47,800
Speaker 1: What do you play a CD in?

1937
01:20:47,920 --> 01:20:48,080
Speaker 4: Now?

1938
01:20:48,280 --> 01:20:49,880
Speaker 5: I got? Well, I ain't gonna lie. I took, I

1939
01:20:50,000 --> 01:20:52,400
Speaker 5: changed my seat, my cars I had. I had a

1940
01:20:52,439 --> 01:20:53,360
Speaker 5: call with a CD player.

1941
01:20:53,360 --> 01:20:55,000
Speaker 4: I changed. That's what I mean.

1942
01:20:55,040 --> 01:20:56,000
Speaker 1: Where did they play a CD?

1943
01:20:56,080 --> 01:20:56,519
Speaker 4: Noway?

1944
01:20:56,680 --> 01:20:58,800
Speaker 1: The card is you have with a CD player? You

1945
01:20:58,800 --> 01:21:00,640
Speaker 1: gotta think, my lumbo when I'm has got it was

1946
01:21:01,280 --> 01:21:05,639
Speaker 1: five ahead, my lambo. It was all a job.

1947
01:21:11,360 --> 01:21:14,160
Speaker 3: Let everyone know where they could follow you. Support you, y'all, baby,

1948
01:21:14,200 --> 01:21:15,240
Speaker 3: making is out.

1949
01:21:15,360 --> 01:21:17,320
Speaker 4: It's tholes now, Yes, it's out.

1950
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1951
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1952
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Speaker 4: That's on everything, Uh love y'all.

1953
01:21:25,479 --> 01:21:27,559
Speaker 1: Y'all know what it is, and y'all already know.

1954
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Speaker 3: If you want to support us to hear more horror stories,

1955
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1956
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Speaker 3: backslash Horrible.

1957
01:21:35,800 --> 01:21:39,559
Speaker 1: Sure, and yeah, y'all.

1958
01:21:39,560 --> 01:21:41,200
Speaker 3: Make sure y'all have a good one and we'll see

1959
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Speaker 3: y'all next week, Same time, baby,