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Speaker 1: Are Grande their brick freeing z on one on two

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Speaker 1: point seven Kiss FM, Los Angeles. We've got these Disneyland

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Speaker 1: tickets celebrating one hundred years at Disney at the Disneyland Resort.

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Speaker 1: You can listen all day for chances to win. So

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Speaker 1: siciny for SISFM.

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Speaker 2: What do we call it? Yeah, SISFM. When you're on

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Speaker 2: from ten to eleven? Do you have these? You know?

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Speaker 2: I have wild Rivers four packs.

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Speaker 1: That makes us want to tune in and then tune

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Speaker 1: in again for Disneyland tickets.

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Speaker 2: Times this Gabby's gonna have the Disneyland in the Disneyland

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Speaker 2: Resort tickets. I'm kind of glad you through and then

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Speaker 2: tease it, tease it. Yeah, all right, So this struck me.

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Speaker 2: And what did I do?

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Speaker 1: I text mark our producer immediately and said, don't let

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Speaker 1: me forget.

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Speaker 2: We got to talk about this true or false, and

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Speaker 2: then mark it notes.

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Speaker 3: You should see that it took me a while though

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Speaker 3: staring at this text, you said.

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Speaker 2: Read it. Oh, I can't wait to hear this.

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Speaker 3: Surgeon General says one and to our lonely new study

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Speaker 3: good for radio show?

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Speaker 2: W great? What's unclear about that?

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Speaker 3: It took me a minute, but I got I just

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Speaker 3: basically put those words into Google and it came up.

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Speaker 2: Chat GBT for the rescue.

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Speaker 1: I was doing something else as multitasking, and I saw

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Speaker 1: it on the screen, and as I was talking to

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Speaker 1: a person, I was texting Mark. So I didn't forget

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Speaker 1: and the W is just antyping. You should have replied,

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Speaker 1: Mark skillful.

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Speaker 2: Anyway.

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Speaker 1: The US certain General says that about one in every

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Speaker 1: two Americans is experiencing loneliness at any given time, and

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Speaker 1: it just made me step back.

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Speaker 2: One and two is half yes, sure.

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Speaker 1: Basically, Uh, if it were just toy night one of

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Speaker 1: us experienced on the lists right now in the moment,

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Speaker 1: it's like, you don't what, Yeah, it probably does, but

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Speaker 1: one and two at any given time, And it just

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Speaker 1: did make me think, you never know what somebody's going through.

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Speaker 2: If pit Bull said it too, everybody's going through something,

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Speaker 2: so true.

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Speaker 1: When someone reacts in a way or cuts you off

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Speaker 1: or flips you off, or whatever they do in traffic,

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Speaker 1: or when someone at works a little testy mm hmm,

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Speaker 1: you don't know what they're going through. And loneliness sounds

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Speaker 1: like it's right up there at the top of the list.

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Speaker 4: It's interesting because I feel like, you know, when you

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Speaker 4: read a lot of reports on celebrities, you think they're

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Speaker 4: surrounded by so many people, right, Like they have teams

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Speaker 4: and they have glam teams, and they have friends, they

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Speaker 4: have all this stuff, and yet they're still so lonely.

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Speaker 1: Well that's because those are people that work for them

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Speaker 1: and they're not necessarily they can become friends, right, but

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Speaker 1: there's always another layer to it because they're on payroll. Right.

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Speaker 1: But I think in relationships, you probably know somebody in

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Speaker 1: a relationship that would tell you they're lonely, Like they're married,

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Speaker 1: but lonely. Yeah, And I think that comes. We see

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Speaker 1: that with callers and with the rains roses. It comes

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Speaker 1: in ebbs and flows, and I just it's struck me that, Wow,

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Speaker 1: that's a lot. And what do we do to combat

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Speaker 1: the loneliness? Well, I don't love check in with your friends.

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Speaker 2: I guess that's a good point.

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Speaker 1: I don't like, I'm great to sit here and not

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Speaker 1: speak in real life, right like I would if we

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Speaker 1: just came together and like stare at each other, I'm good,

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Speaker 1: But I wouldn't want to come back here by myself.

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Speaker 2: That would give me anxiety. Like if you and I

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Speaker 2: were sitting in a room not talking. Oh, but that's

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Speaker 2: every relationship of mine. I know that I wouldn't like that.

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Speaker 2: I don't like being in a room with you and

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Speaker 2: not talking to you.

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Speaker 4: Okay, But you know what's interesting is I was.

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Speaker 1: In the romantic relationships. I think it's great that you can.

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Speaker 2: Be in af yeh yeah, yeah's different. I'm talk about

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Speaker 2: like actual life.

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Speaker 4: Well, but it does get to that point where you

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Speaker 4: were saying, I know married people who have been married

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Speaker 4: for multiple years and feel alone in their relationship. And

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Speaker 4: I was scrolling on Instagram and I found this therapist

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Speaker 4: post something and it was like, we all grow as individuals.

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Speaker 4: You have two options. You either grow with your partner

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Speaker 4: or you grow apart from your partner. And I was like, whoa,

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Speaker 4: that was like an interesting concept in it, and it

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Speaker 4: gave you kind of like a list of things to

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Speaker 4: do to make sure that you grow with your partner.

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Speaker 1: So one thing they say to do, and I thought

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Speaker 1: this was something we could all think about today and.

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Speaker 2: Take with us.

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Speaker 1: But one thing they say to do is when interacting

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Speaker 1: with anybody, give them your full attention. Mm hmmm.

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Speaker 2: That helps. So don't text Mark in the middle of

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Speaker 2: your conversation. I'm guilty.

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Speaker 1: I was talking to another person and I was texting

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Speaker 1: Mark about the show. Now guilty, But I'm also one

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Speaker 1: eye on the ball for.

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Speaker 4: The show, guys, please right, team player.

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Speaker 1: Team player, always trying to make it better, always trying

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Speaker 1: to contribute.

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Speaker 2: It's guilty of that, by the way. So I think

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Speaker 2: it's a wash on the guilt.

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Speaker 4: But sure, do you want me to tell you some

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Speaker 4: of the other suggestions I found?

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Speaker 2: Just one? Okay, I can't like it. I can't remember five,

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Speaker 2: you know.

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Speaker 4: Okay, sitting down together to identify individual and relationship goals.

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Speaker 2: Oh that sounds dressfuful. By the way, I prefer to

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Speaker 2: pay attention.

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Speaker 4: Look how long this list is. Can you see that?

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Speaker 2: That's the thing. You can't have a list like that,

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Speaker 2: then you can't get anything right.

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Speaker 4: I send it to Robbie and he goes, we do

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Speaker 4: most of these things already. I was like, I know,

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Speaker 4: just making sure.

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Speaker 2: Just please post this on the fridge on the bridge,

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Speaker 2: have it framed.

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Speaker 1: H yeah, just pay attention today, find somebody and just

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Speaker 1: put your phone down. Look at them, right, don't look down.

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Speaker 1: Maybe elevator like when someone gets into an elevator. Don't

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Speaker 1: just look at your phone automatically because it's uncomfortable just

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Speaker 1: right high. I mean, I fake look at my phone

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Speaker 1: all the time in an elevator, and it's obvious.

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Speaker 2: It's so weird too, isn't it all right?

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Speaker 1: Disneyland tickets for you in one minute, and then another

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Speaker 1: pair with Gabby apparently