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Speaker 1: Belle on Steve Harvey FM, writes, a coworker whom I

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Speaker 1: consider a friend recently announced that she's taken a job

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Speaker 1: in another city and would be leaving us all soon.

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Speaker 1: I'm sad to see her go, but happy for what

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Speaker 1: seems to be an upward move for her and her husband.

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Speaker 1: The problem is that she's been leaving for about a

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Speaker 1: month now, and she's on her third going away party.

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Speaker 1: The first was at work, the second was a happy

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Speaker 1: hour thing, and the next one is at an event

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Speaker 1: party hall. I'm not sure if she's just making sure

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Speaker 1: she hits everyone before she goes, if she's just wanting

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Speaker 1: a free meal and attention, or if she's really trying

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Speaker 1: to get someone to convince her to stay. Either way,

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Speaker 1: it's excessive, even though we're friends. How many of these

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Speaker 1: things should I feel obligated to go to, especially since

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Speaker 1: I've heard rumblings of at least two more before she's

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Speaker 1: gone for good in two weeks while later, I'm not going.

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Speaker 2: All easy things. That's just to move. That's true.

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Speaker 3: When I'm gonna go to the first lie, I might

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Speaker 3: catch the lett happy all, but after that and I'm done.

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Speaker 3: I'm not here done to throw this like, like, what

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Speaker 3: what that's like? What's more than a baby?

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Speaker 2: You too much? Right? Yes? A lotay? We got it great?

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Speaker 4: Dang, you know what it sounds like she has different

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Speaker 4: po sound like to meet. Sure, it sounds like you

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Speaker 4: don't work there. What do you mean all these parties,

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Speaker 4: the free food have it? Sounds like you're gonna come

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Speaker 4: to work.

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Speaker 2: You've been leaving.

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Speaker 1: Different people, different groups have had a different places. She

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Speaker 1: had it at work, she had at a club, she

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Speaker 1: had it this place. You know people, different people want

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Speaker 1: to stay by to her her friends?

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Speaker 2: How many people work at this company?

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Speaker 1: Her friend sounds like a hater.

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Speaker 2: Let's say I'm leaving this show. How many parties y'all

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Speaker 2: will give me? Probably just one. We're gonna do this

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Speaker 2: right here on the.

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Speaker 1: Right chances, Yeah, pretty low.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we're gonna do.

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Speaker 4: It about five times, y'all ain't no way.

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Speaker 1: But you have other people coming. He won't even miss

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Speaker 1: us after about the third.

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Speaker 2: Y'all are the ones I work with.

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Speaker 1: It's the worst party. She's leaving town.

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Speaker 2: She's leaving town.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna get you does nice little charcoityy boy, were gonna.

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Speaker 2: Have that or eat that?

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Speaker 1: And we had she's leaving town. She's going to another city.

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Speaker 1: So she has friends all in the city that are

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Speaker 1: giving her party.

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Speaker 2: That's all all right, here to stop.

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Speaker 1: That's all.

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Speaker 2: She's used. We don't obligate to go to none of them.

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Speaker 2: You know. I had like baby shower. I thought, you're

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Speaker 2: supposed to buy a gift or something every time. You

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Speaker 2: don't have to bring a gift. Gift for those going

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Speaker 2: away party. No, maybe well wished drink off.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, they put in maybe a little office pool

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Speaker 1: or whatever.

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Speaker 2: But three parties. I'm just saying.

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Speaker 4: Bell the lady who wrote the email, the letters she tacked.

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Speaker 2: She just said he's gonna buil damn there. Oh yes,

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Speaker 2: all right.

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Speaker 1: This is from Caleb on Steve BRB FM. Caleb says,

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Speaker 1: I overheard my coworker talking about his transportation woes one day,

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Speaker 1: and I offered him a ride to work once, and

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Speaker 1: now he's asking for rides almost every day. It's totally

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Speaker 1: out of my way, and I feel he's taking advantage

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Speaker 1: of me. But I also don't want to come off

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Speaker 1: as a jerk and make our work relationship awkward. I

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Speaker 1: thought about telling him my car's in the shop and

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Speaker 1: taking ride shared work for a week to break the cycle.

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Speaker 1: Should I just come out and tell him I don't

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Speaker 1: have time to drive him to work.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's not true. That's not your responsibility to

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Speaker 2: get him at all. He gonna get used to that,

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Speaker 2: he goes. Just ain't nobody car pool. You can't call

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Speaker 2: pool with nobody that ain't got no call? Okay, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: keep wearing you can't you he'll call when you can't

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Speaker 2: do that.

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Speaker 3: If the other person don't have nothing, this person don't

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Speaker 3: have a vehicle, No, that's no. And then I got

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Speaker 3: to get up extra early to get over there to

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Speaker 3: yield so we can get to work on time.

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Speaker 2: That's too much on me, right, and we all know

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Speaker 2: I'm putting at the last second. I'm not coming up

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Speaker 2: in there like that.

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Speaker 3: No.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's saying he feels like he's taking advantage of you,

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Speaker 1: and he is.

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Speaker 2: Because you need to put a stop here.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, why are you writing enough asking us what we

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Speaker 4: think you are? Why are we scared of people that's walking?

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Speaker 4: Where have we gon as a society where people do

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Speaker 4: walk and dictate us?

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Speaker 2: What funny? Why it's the truth?

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Speaker 4: Five miles an hour passing.

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